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Bay State woman wins prize for enriching lives of foster kids By Brian Goslow enting) with a five-month-old on one hip and leverage people, dollars and and a 17-month-old on another hip,” she ideas to better serve children and udy Cockerton was happily running said. “I just opened that door (to foster youth places in the public foster her two “No Kidding!” toy stores in care) with two beautiful babies in my arms care system. JBrookline and Mattapoisett in 1998 that I cared deeply for and saw the reality It is the last initiative that led when her husband showed her an unset- of the public foster care system. And what to Cockerton being awarded a tling newspaper report. I saw missing, more than anything, were Purpose Prize. Cockerton’s honor “It was the story of a five-month-old ordinary citizens like myself.” was sponsored by AARP to honor baby boy from Worcester who had been Her own children were 12 and 18 at the Intergenerational Innovation. kidnapped from his crib in his foster home . “This is the second year AARP in the middle of the day,” she said. “His “They were delighted to be a part of it has sponsored a special Purpose foster mother had left him alone in the and delighted to welcome children into our Prize to recognize people who house and gone down to pick up her (own) home and delighted to go on to become bring generations together to ben- children at a junior high school in the adoptive siblings,” Cockerton said. efit society,” said Barb Quaintance, neighborhood. When she came back, he Bringing two foster children into her managing director of AARP was gone.” family’s life was only the beginning of Experience Corps. “Judy is an The missing boy, Marlon Devine Santos, Cockerton’s contribution. She sold her two excellent example of public service Cockerton was never found and his case remains unre- stores and became a full-time advocate for because of her steadfast commit- help us see that making the world a better solved, according to the Worcester Police foster children. ment and her ability to tackle a social issue place is a responsibility that belongs to all Department website. head on with passion, purpose of us.” When Cockerton fin- and determination. Judy has used Cockerton didn’t wait long to put her ished reading the article, a lifetime’s worth of experience to $100,000 prize to good use. disturbed at what might make a difference in the lives of “I have already invested it in the work have happened to the boy, others — young and old.” that I’m currently doing,” said Cockerton, she called her children and AARP CEO Barry Rand par- who said going from the world of busi- husband in for a family ticipated on the Purpose Prize for ness to the world of non-profits was an meeting. “We just talked Intergenerational Innovation judg- eye-opening experience. Instead of selling about the fact that we are ing panel that selected Cockerton. a product, she was selling an idea; she esti- all responsible for children “We were extremely moved by mates she spends 90 percent of her time when they’re removed Judy’s steadfast commitment to fundraising. from their homes and providing unique learning oppor- “In order to accomplish what the chil- placed in foster care,” she tunities for children in foster care dren need me to accomplish — and need said. by connecting them with older all of us to accomplish for them — means “We felt it would be mentors in their communities,” that I have to stay really focused, so getting much better if many, many Quaintance said. “She embod- a $100,000 Purpose Prize award is such a more people in their com- ies the very spirit of service that gift,” she said. munities were stepping up is part of AARP’s mission to lead While she has more than a full plate, to the plate and becoming Purpose Prize winner Judy Cockerton with Anna Evans and Aliana positive, multigenerational social Cockerton remains enthusiastic about all resources to kids and since Morales (from l to r). change.” of the Treehouse-related programs. “I love we had the resources, why Quaintance said it’s extremely it,” she said. “It’s my passion. I feel great didn’t we step up to the plate and help “I wanted to create this new compelling important to have people like Cockerton and have deep joy in doing this work. I them do that.” menu of engagement options so Americans lead by example. love collaborating with stellar people to Soon after reading about the kidnap- of all ages and backgrounds could become “Too often, we think, ‘Oh, the problem create solutions and receiving the Purpose ping, Cockerton called the Massachusetts resources to children in foster care,” she is too big. I’m just one person,’ but a story Prize has just given me the opportunity to Department of Children and Families to said. like Judy’s shines a light on the power of do more of that. For the past 10 years, I’ve find out how her family could assist with For the past 10 years, she has overseen just one person — and the ripple effect collaborated and partnered and invested in children in state foster care. That phone the Easthampton, Mass.-based Treehouse is huge,” she said. “Judy and her fellow innovation and there’s really nothing better call was the first step on Cockerton’s path Foundation; the foundation’s mission is to Purpose Prize winners inspire us all and for me.” to the $100,000 Purpose Prize she received help move children out of the public foster last month in San Francisco for her work to care system into lifetime families and com- Internet photo goes viral, showing true love despite adversity enrich the lives of foster children. munities that invest in their lives every day This is the seventh year Purpose Prizes of the week. By Sondra L. Shapiro that perpetuated the stereotype of cute have been awarded. Created by Encore.org Among the programs the foundation little old couples fumbling their way in 2005 (when the company was known supports are: ocial media meets flashcards is what through technology. as Civic Ventures) to put the spotlight on •The Suitcase Project, in which donated I thought while half-heartedly watch- So, when my peripheral vision caught the value of baby boomers’ life experiences empty duffle bags and suitcases are given Sing NBC news coverage of a photo the image of an elderly couple sitting and prove they have as much passion to to social workers at the Department of that had gone viral on the Internet. Just at a table at a Starbucks with a set of create new programs to better society as Children and Families to distribute to foster one more photo or film clip plucked from flashcards spread out on the table, I was younger citizens, it presents five $100,000 kids in their system so they have a place to YouTube or other Internet outlets by televi- underwhelmed. “What’s the big deal?” I awards annually to people over age 60 who keep their clothing and possessions; sion news programs to be used in an effort asked my husband. are serving in encore careers dedicated to •The creation of Birdsong Farm, a new to make news broadcasts hip and relevant But, then I caught the commentator’s developing new ways to solve social prob- farm-based education center in southeast- to a younger audience. words. “Eighty-two year-old John Allen lems. The John Templeton Foundation and ern Massachusetts, which will serve foster Usually the subject matter is some- patiently teaches his 70-year-old girl- The Atlantic Philanthropies fund the prize. children from newborns to age 18; and one’s child or baby dancing, singing or friend Linda Alexander how to read again Cockerton, now 61, and her husband, •The Re-envisioning Foster Care in reciting words beyond the child’s years. after her stroke,” reported NBC’s Kristen Arthur, now 62, of Sharon, entered the America Initiative, launched in 2010, in Or it’s a pet engaged in un-animal like Dahlgren. At the time of the newscast, world of child welfare knowing about as which Treehouse partners and collaborates behavior. Or it was last year’s film of the more than 2 million people had seen much as any typical American does: not with stakeholders throughout the entire elderly couple playing around with the much. “I entered (the world of foster par- western region to harness creative ideas camera on their computer — a scenario VIRAL page 7

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Now, in addition photo-of-the-day category to become a to difficulty with reading, she is partially real human-interest story that conveyed paralyzed on her right side. So, six days so much in and behind its composition. a week Allen shows up at her home to When news organizations picked up the get her ready for the day. He greets her story, we got to learn about the two peo- with “Good morning Sunshine.” Three ple behind the picture. days a week, Allen takes Alexander to the gym where he works with her to restore function. Just My Though Alexander is very different from the woman he fell in love with 11 Opinion year’s ago, Allen is still devoted to her. He is extremely patient with her and she is so The couple was dat- upbeat as she and Allen run through their ing when Alexander difficult and strenuous routine. All the suffered a stroke five years ago that while she tells him, “I love you.” robbed her of most of her speech and The fact that they also make sure ability to recognize letters. that it isn’t all work, managing to fit in Rather than abandoning the ailing romantic lunches, proves that even in a Alexander, Allen made it his mission care giving/care receiving relationship, to help her become intimacy and love whole again. has a place. And, Almost every day in fact, could keep the couple goes to that relationship a Starbucks where from becoming one- Allen uses flashcards dimensional where to help Alexander the caregiver views learn to read again. his or her charge as It was during one of just someone need- those sessions that ing care. The thought Matthew Ballestero, that true companion- a 20-something, ship can continue is was sitting with two inspirational to oth- friends when he hap- ers in the same kind pened to notice the (courtesy of matthew ballestero) of relationship. couple, pulled out To NBC’s his smart phone and took the picture, Dahlgren, Alexander said, “I really enjoy then posted it on Facebook and Reddit, my life. I’m not sad, I’m not angry.” both social media sites. Alexander looks ahead and wants to The action is very typical of today’s someday be able to drive again. This atti- online culture that takes and shares tude is encouraging to anyone suffering photos, thoughts and experiences of just from a debilitating condition and who about every moment of their day. What sees no light at the end of the tunnel. is different is the motivation behind the What does Allen get from this? He action. “We could feel the love emanating doesn’t say it, but from his actions it is off of them,” said Ballestero. “My friends safe to conclude he has found a profound and I were overwhelmed by the love that sense of purpose from caring for this these two had for each other and I knew woman who he clearly adores. This too, I wanted to let them know how much is an underreported bonus for individu- of an inspiration and a perfect example als who provide care to a loved one. of true love they were to me,” Ballestero This slice of life photo taken by a posted on his Facebook page. sensitive young man has had a rippling “This is definitely a moment I will effect on so many levels. It also proves remember forever — John’s unwaver- that I should be less cynical when it ing love, patience and understanding for comes to the social media’s infiltration of the woman he chose to give his life to. legitimate news organizations. Linda’s endless positive attitude, eager- And, for the couple at the center of it ness to (re)learn and mostly her uninhib- all … ited joy in expressing love to others. … “When I told them that the photo Thank you for your beautiful example, had gone viral they were overjoyed, con- Linda and John!” wrote Ballestero. fused and in shock — the good kind of It is heartening to hear of one so shock,” said Ballestero in an interview young exhibiting such sensitivity toward with Mashable, an online news source. the elderly, to see beyond the stereotype “John and Linda have so much love, to poignantly convey a portrait of love, respect and compassion for each other devotion and selflessness. It is so rare for and the people they meet, it’s inspiring the young to apply such human char- just to be in their presence.” acteristics to old people, let alone even notice them in a social setting. Sondra Shapiro is the executive editor Ballestero also inadvertently captured of the Fifty Plus Advocate. 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Fifty Plus Advocate March 1, 2013 www.fiftyplusadvocate.com 7 Viewpoint Home care waiting lists must end By Michael E. Festa commonwealth is weighted disproportionately toward Home care programs served 64,000 Bay State resi- institutional care, like nursing homes, leaving home care dents last year. Some pay privately for these services or his is not fiction: A 101-year-old Massachusetts under-funded, seniors under-served and caregivers over- through long-term care insurance; others receive help senior with a serious heart condition has the abil- stressed. This must change. from MassHealth, the commonwealth’s Medicaid pro- Tity to live independently in his home, with the Today, 10 million seniors nationwide rely on others gram. help of his daughter, but may be forced into a nursing for assistance with daily care. This number will grow Strengthening and rebalancing long-term care — that home because he cannot get the home care services he as boomers head into their 70s, 80s and beyond. And, includes high quality, affordable skilled nursing facili- needs. He is currently on a waiting list — for home long-term care is, indeed, an expensive proposition. ties, assisted living facilities, adult day health services, care. Medicare does not pay for most long-term care. And, senior housing and home and community based services Home care helps people stay indepen- most families have not yet planned for long-term care — for today’s seniors, and those who will need these dent in their own homes by providing needs. Instead, they make difficult decisions during an services in the next decades, should be a priority for all a variety of services, including home- unexpected crisis, without ample time to understand of us. After all, by 2030, the 65-plus population will maker and chore services, transporta- options and have grow to more than 20 percent in Massachusetts or an tion, protective services, respite care to frank conversa- estimated 1.5 million residents. relieve caregivers and information and AARP and You tions with their We must make available the long-term care services referral. loved ones; cer- that our older residents need, in a way that is fiscally Today, more than 1,000 tainly not the ideal situation. responsible for individuals, families and the common- Massachusetts seniors are not receiving the Long-term care insurance is available, but only a wealth. home care services for which they are eligible. Instead, small percentage of adults in the U.S. purchase these But, right now, we have an immediate priority. AARP they are put on waiting lists. Many are forced into pre- plans, mainly due to the cost and complexity. In is fighting to end home care waiting lists — and on mature nursing home care, which is more expensive for Massachusetts, AARP fought hard to get a law passed other issues that matter to you and your family. families and for the commonwealth. that will standardize long-term care insurance in the If, like me, you believe home care waiting lists must Others rely exclusively on their family caregivers, commonwealth — making it easier for consumers to end, once and for all, join me in raising your voice. Call giving these dedicated individuals no respite, at the cost understand and compare plans. your state legislators today at 888-259-9789: Urge them of their own personal health and sometimes their jobs. Not surprisingly, most Americans support the notion to fully fund home care in the Fiscal Year 2014 state Still others die while waiting. This is unacceptable. of helping out older family members in need. But, we budget — and end home care waiting lists. AARP believes: The time to end home care waiting also must provide support for family caregivers. lists is now — for our seniors, for their caregivers, for In Massachusetts, three major home care programs Michael E. Festa is the state director of AARP Massachusetts, our commonwealth. are available: a basic program, and two enhanced which represents more than 800,000 members age 50 and Time and time again, our research finds that the vast options that provide a higher level of service for those older in the Bay State. Connect with AARP Massachusetts majority of seniors want to stay in their own homes seniors who are medically eligible for a nursing home online at www.aarp.org/ma; www.facebook.com/AARPMA; and communities as they age. Yet, long-term care in the — including respite care to give caregivers a break. and www.twitter.com/AARPMA. Will the legislature end home care waiting lists? By Al Norman a major cost-savings for taxpayers. Over two-thirds of our MassHealth long-term lined home care programs. We have turned the past 12 years, nursing home days paid care dollars on institutions. to the General Court to add nearly $13 n September of 2012, a coalition of five for by MassHealth have fallen by roughly Since the governor took office six years million to the governor’s budget to help elder advocacy groups sent a letter to 32 percent. That’s more than 4.5 ago the elder services line items have lost us keep the elderly living independently IGov. Deval Patrick urging him to help million fewer nursing home $36.4 million in buying power. In June of at home, where they so passionately want end the home care waiting lists. Their letter days in 2012 compared to 2006, then candidate Deval Patrick said to be. That $13 million is a small price to was never answered. More than 100 activ- 2000. This has produced the following: pay as a down payment on the home care ists went to the State House and presented a savings to taxpayers of “The long-term dividend. the governor with a cell phone, hoping for more than $703 million Push care system in It’s about time that the governor and the “better reception” for their proposals. a year in avoided institu- Back Massachusetts General Court recognize that home care As of Jan. 15 there were 1,224 people on tional costs. We call this favors institu- programs have helped conquer one of the a home care waiting list — and the numbers “the home care dividend.” tional care over care in the community greatest “budget busters” facing this state: are rising. For a state that calls its elder- In 2010, the state’s Bureau and at home. This neither respects the the cost of nursing home care. Expenditures care policy “Community First,” the idea of of Health Care Safety and Quality wishes of most older adults, nor follows the on nursing homes in 2012 were $290 mil- people waiting to get community care is an projected that by 2015 we would have law of requiring care in the least restrictive lion less than in 2005. That’s a remarkable oxymoron. Ironically, we have a 12 percent 10,772 surplus nursing home beds in environment, nor spends public dollars turnaround. vacancy rate for nursing homes beds. Massachusetts. The private marketplace prudently … A large portion of older and “Can you hear us now, governor?” the We have proven that home care creates has been ‘rebalancing,’ but we still spend disabled adults see community care as the elder activists chanted in the State House. best choice. Massachusetts has made efforts The governor clearly did not hear the mes- and significant progress toward the rebal- sage. His budget was flat. 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A controversy erupted when sion for health officials who want us to eat Taco Bell started airing a TV ad for its vari- our vegetables. ety 12-pack of tacos, with a voiceover say- Laser cataract & refractive lens exchange surgery “Most meals are safe,” said Dr. Patricia ing that bringing a vegetable tray to a foot- By Dr. Jean Keamy matism with precise arcuate incisions on the Griffin, a government researcher and one ball party is “like punting on fourth-and-1.” cornea. Additionally, the laser can pre-soften of the study’s authors who said the finding It said that people secretly hate guests who he FDA recently approved the use of the lens. This enables the surgeon to use less shouldn’t discourage people from eating bring vegetables to parties. the femtosecond laser for performing ultrasound power during the removal of the produce. Experts repeated often- The fast-food chain pulled the Tsome steps in cataract surgery and lens. Using less energy during phacoemulsifi- heard advice: Be sure to wash those commercial after receiving com- refractive lens exchange (removal of a clear cation is desirable to prevent cornea damage. foods or cook them thoroughly. plaints that it discouraged people lens). It can also be used to make incisions There are a few disadvantages of laser While more people may have from eating vegetables. on the cornea to reduce astigmatism. cataract surgery. It does take longer than gotten sick from plants, more Without actually saying so, the The femtosecond laser provides many ben- traditional cataract surgery. The first step is died from contaminated poultry, CDC report suggests that the Food efits during cataract to have the laser make all its incisions and the study also found. The results were and Drug Administration (FDA) should surgery or refractive pre- soften the lens in released by the Centers for Disease Control devote more staff time and other resources lens exchange. During one location. Then the and Prevention (CDC). to inspection of fruits and vegetables, said traditional cataract Vision patient is brought to Each year roughly 1 in 6 Americans — Michael Doyle, director of the University of surgery, the surgeon the operating suite for or 48 million people — gets sick from food Georgia’s Center for Food Safety. manually makes inci- Quest the lens removal and poisoning. That includes 128,000 hospi- Meanwhile, CDC officials emphasized sions into the cor- intraocular lens implan- talizations and 3,000 deaths, according to that their report should not be seen as dis- nea. The surgeon uses a n tation. 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By Jamie Stengle revealed to still be alive. The story of his death PARKER, Texas — turned out to be part he white two- of a prolonged dream story home with sequence. Tstately pillars more people than any TV program in history up until that Around the house, overlooking a green Texas pasture where longhorns roam is time. the pool and patio have provided spots for countless shots. instantly recognizable: This is the power seat of television’s When the series first began filming at Southfork, the And while interior scenes for the home on the series were famous . family that built the house in 1970 still lived there. And never shot inside the 5,900-square-foot (548-square- Tourists from around the world have been flocking to while they hosted tourists as the show’s popularity grew, it meter), four-bedroom house, visitors can still walk through since the early years of the classic series didn’t become an official tourist attraction and event loca- and take in the rooms decorated in homage to the Ewings, Dallas, which ran from 1978 to 1991, and the ranch is tion until 1985 after they sold it. Forever Resorts bought with rooms reflecting the tastes of different characters. only getting more popu- Southfork in 1992. Sally Peavy, tourism sales manager at Southfork, said lar. With the premiere Most of the shoot- scenes from reunion shows have been filmed in the house last June of a new Dallas ing for the original and that a scene in the second season of the new show was series, the number of series was done in Los also filmed in one room, though details of the scene have visitors at Southfork has Angeles, though some of not been revealed. doubled from 150,000 it was filmed in Texas. There’s also a restaurant and two gift shops on the annually to more than But the new show is grounds. One sells items including hats and belts and 300,000, according to being filmed in the has as its centerpiece family patriarch ’s silver Jim Gomes, general man- Dallas area — with loca- Lincoln Continental, which features “trunk sales.” ager of the Southfork tions ranging from the , who plays John Ross, was born in Ranch & Hotel and vice flagship Neiman Marcus Dallas and spent much of his childhood here. Henderson president of Forever downtown to the gleam- said that when he got the part of J.R.’s son, his mother Resorts, which owns the ing Cowboys Stadium. informed him that he’d already been to Southfork once, at property. Cynthia Cidre, execu- age 3. “We are obviously tive producer of the “I don’t remember it but my mother definitely made thrilled the new fans love reboot, said she knew sure I had that information,” said Henderson. Southfork as much as the Around the house, the pool and patio have provided spots for when she started devel- Janice Johnstone of Vancouver visited Southfork in original fans of `Dallas,”’ countless shots. oping the new series that November while sightseeing in Dallas. An avid fan of the said Gomes. Southfork would again original series, she enjoyed hearing tidbits from the tour The new show just started its second season on the be an integral part of the plot. guides. TNT cable channel. The recent death of , “The ranch had been in the previous show, it was “I think just hearing the history of how people found who starred as conniving Texas oilman J.R. Ewing in both almost a character in the story. I knew that I wanted to use out that that’s where it was and they had all these people the original series and the new show, has also spurred fans that as something that the family was fighting over again,” driving by constantly, I thought that was kind of interest- to visit. she said. ing because those are things that you don’t The 340-acre (138-hectare) ranch is located about 25 The struggle over ownership of the ranch became hear,” she said. “I think it’s definitely worth- miles (40 kilometers) northeast of downtown Dallas in the the central plot point in the first season of while going, anybody who has watched suburb of Parker. Patrick Duffy, who has returned to the the new series, with J.R. telling the show I think would really appreciate role of J.R.’s brother Bobby, said that the biggest changes his son, John Ross: “Southfork it.” since he first filmed on the ranch are new tourist-related isn’t just a piece of dirt. It’s as Family When Larry White, who lives buildings and event facilities for weddings and meetings, much a part of me as my blood patriarch near Springfield, Mass., was in along with the buildup of the surrounding town, including and my bones and I’d pay a hell Jock Ewing’s Dallas in November, a friend drove housing additions and a high school. of a price for it.” silver Lincoln him by Southfork. Since he had a But any time he’s back at Southfork, it doesn’t take Visitors start their tour in a museum flight to catch, he didn’t have time long for the magic to take over. “You drive down that road featuring everything from the gun that “shot” J.R. to scripts for the tour, but did make a quick stop in a gift shop and and you look across this pasture and there’s the front of from the original series to the wedding dress of Lucy, the took a picture of the house complete with a longhorn. Southfork and it looks like the opening credits of the show niece of J.R. and Bobby, who was played by Charlene “It’s just clearly a piece of American history at this and I know why people love it so much,” Duffy said. Tilton. For those puzzled about the complicated relations point,” said White. — AP Duffy remembers a time when fans watching them film of the Ewing family, there’s a family tree to peruse. consisted of small groups of 20 to 30 people. 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Companies and individuals call- told me it was time to get on a plane.” She was nation among members of the family,” she which prescreens in-home caregivers and ing themselves advocates, care managers and at her mother’s deathbed, she said, because A said. “There’s emotional baggage, and if you matches them to customers over the Internet. advisers are willing to stand in for the family Dignified Life knew when to call. have children yourself you’re being pulled in The company recently announced a variety and deal with the maze of responsibilities that Barbara Newman Mannix, who runs the both directions.” of online tools through which a family can comes with the care of an elderly loved one. company, said “experience and empathy” are Judy Rappaport, who runs Preferred remotely monitor a caregiver’s attendance, With the aging of the baby boom genera- required to do the job well. She vets, hires Lifestyle Services in Jupiter, Fla., said most provide reminders about medications and tion, the 78 million Americans born between and monitors in-home caregivers, attorneys, elderly people resist moving to a son or appointments and exchange care plans and 1946 and 1964, calls for such businesses are nursing homes and more, guides a family daughter’s home. notes via email, texting or phone. expected to increase over the next 20 years. through the financial tangles and makes sure “Everybody wants to stay home,” Rap- The service would be included in the aver- Their service doesn’t come cheap and it’s an elderly person’s wishes are respected. She paport said. “Now we do what we can to make age $15 an hour fee paid for the caregiver, said generally not covered by insurance. But some can help arrange the sale of a house and pre- it possible for people to stay in their homes.” customers have found it’s worth the peace plan a funeral. 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Fifty Plus Advocate March 1, 2013 www.fiftyplusadvocate.com 17 ➤ Neglect wages. There have and that’s not true, drifted up a little bit with all the budget been proposals to either. But the statu- cuts in the last couple of years. But it’s Cont. from page 9 increase this threshold tory standard is you still about a year on average, and that’s a or even eliminate it, have to be unable to big improvement. that could be a huge economic drag. applying the tax to all do work that exists in Q: Are you getting enough resources Q: One of the few issues that the presi- wages. What do you the national economy from Congress to address these backlogs? dent and Republicans in Congress agree think of those ideas? for 12 months or A: No. on is changing the way the government A: I think there’s more. Q: The Association of Administrative measures inflation. As you know, this some historic inevita- Q: If your claim Law Judges says that in order to reduce would reduce the annual cost-of-living bility on at least some is denied, you can backlogs some judges are deciding more adjustment, or COLA, for Social Security lifting of the (payroll appeal to an admin- than 500 cases a year. Is that too many recipients. Advocates for seniors hate the tax) cap. I think that istrative law judge, cases to do a thorough job on each one? idea. They want bigger COLAs, not small- most politicians and but the process can A: No, not at all. We set, for the first er ones. What do you think? I think most econo- take a year or more. time, productivity standards in 2007. It A: As a general matter I do think mists I’ve talked to Astrue Tell me about your was actually done by the chief judge, and that the president and the Congress are generally think that efforts to reduce these it was done looking at best demonstrated right that before you start talking about that would have less of a negative impact backlogs. practices of existing judges. At that point increases in the retirement age and things on the economy than raising the rate A: We’ve done, I think, some yeoman’s in time about 40 percent of the judges like that, it’s appropriate to try to have a itself. work in reducing the backlogs. ... If you were doing 500 to 700 cases a year. 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18 Fifty Plus Advocate March 1, 2013 www.fiftyplusadvocate.com What is a Rest Home? Part 1 By Micha Shalev How does a rest home for the elderly better choice. charge of the facility. Most ombudsman differ from an assisted living facility? A rest home for the elderly may accept program representatives visit these facilities ost rest homes serve individuals From a licensing standpoint, there is a or house an individual with medical-care on a regular basis. 60 and older, though many rest big difference. Rest homes are regulated, needs depending on the type and severity Always think about the end game. Many Mhomes still serve younger adults licensed and inspected by the Massachusetts of the individual’s medical condition and seniors are moving into assisted living and suffering from mental disability. Department of Public Health (DPH) and whether the facility can obtain permission when money runs out, they are asked to Rest homes generally provide room, classified as Nursing Home Level IV. Most from the licensing agency to care for the leave the community. Make sure that the board, housekeeping, 24 hours day super- of the rules and regulations that apply to individual. State licensing does not permit facility has a plan in place to ensure that a vision and personal care assistance with nursing homes Level I and Level II (regular rest homes to accept residents with some loved one will be able to stay. This is very activities of daily living (ADL), such as nursing homes) apply to rest homes as well. prohibited health conditions, such as the important for individuals diagnosed with personal hygiene, dressing, eating and The Massachusetts Executive Office of Elder need for tube feeding, IV treatment or treat- dementia/Alzheimer’s disease. A move to walking. Rest homes that Affairs licenses assisted living facilities. ment of open bedsores that are classified as another facility for such sufferers can create have a nursing staff also In Massachusetts, most rest homes for the stage III or above. Rest homes can greatly a transfer trauma. provide basic nursing elderly have between 12 and 64 beds and benefit individuals who need help with Most rest home communities don’t services. In addition, are locally owned, incontinence and activities of daily living. charge a care fee; instead they provide an “all rest homes store and Caregiving home-like facilities A rest home can only care for individuals inclusive” pricing model. At a community distribute medications with shared and/ suffering from dementia if it has the appro- with all-inclusive pricing, a family can better to their residents in the Tips or private rooms. priate setting and staff training to provide plan a loved one’s financial exposure prior same manner as nursing Assisted living facili- such care. A consumer should review the to qualifying for state assistance. homes do. ties usually offer private apartments in larger, facility’s plan of operation to understand its Next installment: How to decide when a This type of facility is corporately owned facilities with different approach to dementia care, special demen- loved-one needs rest home care. referred to as a rest home (nursing home fee options depending on the level of care tia services, staff training and community level IV, residential care facility, etc.); but, needed. resources, as well as the qualifications of Micha Shalev, MHA, is the owner of Dodge just as in many other states, Massachusetts Assisted living facilities have more restric- the medical and advisory team members. Park Rest Home and The Adult Day Club at is following a trend to also use the term resi- tions on administration of medications. 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20 Fifty Plus Advocate March 1, 2013 www.fiftyplusadvocate.com Reports: Medicare paid $120M in illegal care he taxpayer-funded Medicare program Services already had a system in place to do so, paid more than $120 million from but the reports found that the system didn’t Do You Want to T2009 to 2011 for medical services for catch improper bills until they had already inmates and illegal immigrants, in violation been paid. The reports also noted that the of federal law, according to two reports issued agency didn’t instruct its contractors to try Save $4,000??? last month by federal health officials. to recoup the lost funds. Under federal law, Medicare generally The agency agreed in the report that the Social Security Extra Help Rules Have Changed!! does not pay for services for either group system needs to be improved, and in April, of patients. But the program was billed for Medicare is launching a process to help detect You May Be One of 5,000 Beneficiaries more than $33 million in inmate care and and recoup lost money. more than $91 million for illegal immigrant “For cases where Medicare is informed of Now Eligible for This Program. care over that period, according to the reports patients’ unlawful presence after claims have 1. Do you have Medicare from the Department of Health and Human been paid, we are working to implement a Services inspector general. process for quickly and completely recouping Prescription Drug Coverage? In 2011, Medicare expenditures were these improper payments,” the agency said 2. Is your monthly income at or $549 billion, making the figures a fraction of in a statement. the program’s annual budget. But the reports The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid below $1,373/individual, $1,841/ come as the Obama administration and Services has already been using a new, highly couple? Congress look for savings in a lean budget touted $77 million technology system since 3. Are your resources at or below year. Putting a dent in Medicare fraud, esti- 2011 designed to stop fraudulent payments mated at $60 billion a year, has the potential before they are paid. $12,510/individual, $25,010/ for major savings. But lawmakers have been skeptical about couple? The reports recommend that federal the effectiveness of the system, and federal health officials establish a better system to health officials have said they are still working If you answered yes to these three questions, automatically flag charges for inmates and out kinks. Still, initial reports in December you may save up to $4,000 in prescription drug costs this year. illegal immigrants to stop illegal payments showed that the system has saved about before they are made. $115 million and spurred more than 500 The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid investigations. — AP To find out if you qualify for Money fears vs. benefits in Medicaid choice this program, call your Regional SHINE Program at WASHINGTON — The repercussions go beyond their budgets, resident Barack Obama thinks his directly affecting the wellbeing of residents 1-800-AGE INFO health care law makes states an offer and the finances of critical hospitals. 1-800-243-4636 (Option #3) Pthey can’t refuse. Here’s the offer: Whether to expand Medicaid, the If states expand their Medicaid programs federal-state program for the poor and dis- to cover millions of low-income people now abled, could be the most important decision SHINE (Serving the Health Information Needs of Elders) is Administered by the Mass Executive Office of Elder Affairs In facing governors and legislatures this year. FEARS page 24 Partnership with the Friends of the Milford Senior Center, The Massachusetts Councils on Aging and other local agencies. Just How Well Prepared Are You? ❖ Elder Law ❖ Corp. Business Law *ULHI5HFRYHU\6HULHV ❖ ❖ Wills and Trusts Long-Term Care 2IIHUHGE\0LOHV)XQHUDO+RPH ❖ Living Wills Planning This Journey of Grief ❖ ❖ Guardianships Estate Planning )LQGLQJ

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By Ricardo Alonso-Zaldivar to pay $4,937, about 8 percent of their income, or about $410 a month. WASHINGTON — A lower-income family would get a bet- uying your own health insurance will ter deal from the government’s sliding-scale never be the same. subsidies. B This fall, new insurance markets But while the government assistance is called exchanges will open in each state, called a tax credit and computed through marking the long-awaited and much-debat- the income tax system, the money doesn’t ed debut of President Barack Obama’s health come to you in a refund. It goes directly care overhaul. to insurers. The goal is quality coverage for millions Obama’s law is the biggest thing that’s of uninsured people in the United States. happened to health care since Medicare What the reality will look like is anybody’s and Medicaid in the 1960s. But with open guess — from bureaucracy, confusion and enrollment for exchange plans less than 10 indifference to seamless service and satisfied months away, there’s a dearth of consumer customers. information. It’s as if the consumer angle got drowned out by the political world’s Most people will go online dispute over “Obamacare,” the dismissive label coined by Republican foes. to pick a plan when open Yet exchanges are coming to every state. enrollment starts Oct. 1. More than 20 states are objecting to the exchanges that will be operated by the Counselors will be available federal government. Health and Human at call centers and in local Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius has communities, too. pledged that every citizen will have access to an exchange come next Jan. 1, and few doubt her word. Exchanges will offer individuals and But what’s starting to dawn on Obama their families a choice of private health administration officials, activists and impor- plans resembling what workers at major tant players in the health care industry is companies already get. The government that the lack of consumer involvement, will help many middle-class households pay unless reversed, could turn the big health their premiums, while low-income people care launch into a dud. What if Obama cut will be referred to safety-net programs they the ribbon and nobody cared? might qualify for. “The people who stand to benefit the Most people will go online to pick a most are the least aware of the changes that plan when open enrollment starts Oct. 1. are coming,” said Rachel Klein, executive Counselors will be available at call centers director of Enroll America, a nonprofit that’s and in local communities, too. Some areas trying to generate consumer enthusiasm. will get a storefront operation or kiosks at Even the term “exchange” could be the mall. a stumbling block. It was invented by When you pick a plan, you’ll no longer policy nerds. Although the law calls them have to worry about getting turned down or “American Health Benefit Exchanges,” charged more because of a medical problem. Sebelius is starting to use the term “mar- If you’re a woman, you can’t be charged a ketplaces” instead. higher premium because of gender. Middle- Polls underscore the concerns. A national aged people and those nearing retirement survey last October found that only 37 will get a price break: They can’t be charged percent of the uninsured said they would more than three times what younger custom- personally be better off because of the ers pay, compared with six times or seven health care law. Twenty-three percent said times today. they would be worse off in the Kaiser poll, If all this sounds too good to be true, while 31 percent said it would make no remember that nothing in life is free and difference to them. change isn’t easy. Insurers, hospitals, drug companies and Starting Jan. 1, 2014, when coverage other businesses that stand to benefit from takes effect in the exchanges, virtually every- the hundreds of billions of dollars the gov- one in the country will be required by law ernment will pump in to subsidize coverage to have health insurance or face fines. The aren’t waiting for Washington to educate mandate is meant to get everybody paying the public. into the insurance pool. Only one state, Massachusetts, now Obama’s law is called the Affordable Care has an exchange resembling what the Act, but some people in the new markets administration wants to see around the might experience sticker shock over their country. With six years in business, the premiums. Smokers will face a financial Health Connector enrolls about 240,000 penalty. Massachusetts residents. It was created Many people, even if they get government under the health overhaul plan passed by help, will find that health insurance still former Republican Gov. Mitt Romney and doesn’t come cheaply. Monthly premiums has gotten generally positive reviews. will be less than the mortgage or rent, but The Connector’s executive director, Glen maybe more than a car loan. The coverage, Shor, said Massachusetts has proven the con- however, will be more robust than most cept works and he’s confident other states individual plans currently sold. can succeed on their own terms. Consider a hypothetical family of four “There is no backing away from all making $60,000 and headed by a 40-year- the challenges associated with expanding old. They’ll be eligible for a government coverage,” Shor said. “We are proud in tax credit of $7,193 toward their annual Massachusetts that we overcame what had premium of $12,130. But they’d still have been years of policy paralysis.” — AP Fifty Plus Advocate March 1, 2013 www.fiftyplusadvocate.com 23 ➤ Fears worry or wait. Roughly half the uninsured Republicans. Hospitals treating the unin- pays doctors and hospitals far less than pri- people gaining coverage under the law were sured are pressing for the expansion, as are vate insurance. He says the Obama admin- Cont. from page 21 expected to go into Medicaid. The middle- advocates for the poor and some chambers istration and Congress missed a chance to class uninsured would get taxpayer-sub- of commerce, which see an economic mul- overhaul Medicaid and give states a bigger left out, the federal government will pick up sidized private coverage in new insurance tiplier from the infusion of federal dollars. say in running the program. the full cost for the first three years and 90 markets called exchanges. Conservative foes of “Obamacare,” defeated “Decisions are made by fiat,” he said. percent over the long haul. But last year, the Supreme at the national level, want to “There is not any sense of a federal-state About 21 million uninsured people, Court gave states the right to hold the line. partnership, what this program was found- most of them adults, eventually would gain opt out of the Medicaid expan- The entire debate is overshad- ed on. I don’t feel in any way that I am a health coverage if all the states agree. sion. The court upheld the rest owed by some big misconcep- partner.” The Obama administration says it Adding up the Medicaid costs under the of the law, including insurance tions, including that the poor is doing its best to meet state demands for law, less than $100 billion in state spending exchanges and a mandate that already have Medicaid. flexibility. could trigger nearly $1 trillion in federal virtually everyone in the United Many of them do, but not But one thing the administration has dollars over a decade, according to the non- States have health coverage, or all. Medicaid generally covers been unwilling to do is allow states to partly partisan Urban Institute. face a fine. low-income disabled people, expand their Medicaid programs and still “It’s the biggest expansion of Medicaid in The health care law will go Obama children, pregnant women and get the generous matching funds provided a long time, and the biggest ever in terms of into full effect next Jan. 1, and some parents. Childless adults by the health care law. adults covered,” said Mark McClellan, who states are scrambling to crunch the numbers are left out in most states. That could have huge political implica- ran Medicare and Medicaid when George and understand the Medicaid trade-offs. The other misconception is that tions for states refusing the expansion. W. Bush was president. States can refuse the expansion outright Medicaid is so skimpy that people are better These numbers explain why: “Although the federal government is on or indefinitely postpone a decision. But if off being uninsured. Under the new law, people making up the hook for most of the cost, Medicaid on states think they’ll ultimately end up taking Two recent studies debunked that. to 138 percent of the federal poverty line, the whole is one of the biggest items in state the deal, there’s a big incentive to act now: One found a 6 percent drop in the about $15,400 for an individual, are eligible budgets and the fastest growing. So there The three years of full federal funding for adult death rate in states that already have to be covered by Medicaid. are some understandable concerns about newly eligible enrollees are only available expanded Medicaid along the lines of the But for most people below the poverty the financial implications and how imple- from 2014 through 2016. federal health care law. A second looked at line, about $11,200 for an individual, Medi- mentation would work,” McClellan said. So far, 17 states and the District of Oregonians who won a lottery for Medicaid caid would be the only option. They cannot A major worry for states is that deficit- Columbia have said they’ll take it. That and compared them with ones who weren’t get subsidized private coverage through the burdened Washington sooner or later will group includes three Republican-led states, picked and remained uninsured. The new health insurance exchanges. renege on the 90-percent deal. The regular Arizona, Nevada and New Mexico. Arizona Medicaid group had greater access to health So if a state turns down the Medicaid Medicaid match rate averages closer to 50 Gov. Jan Brewer was prominent among care, less likelihood of being saddled with expansion, some of its low-income people percent. That would represent a significant GOP leaders who had tried get the law medical bills, and felt better about their still can qualify for government-subsidized cost shift to the states. overturned. overall health. health insurance through the exchanges. Many Republicans also are unwilling An additional 11 states, all led by Skeptics remain unconvinced. But the poorest cannot. to keep expanding government programs, Republicans, say they want no part of it. Louisiana’s health secretary, Bruce D. Federal officials say their hands are tied, particularly one as complicated as Medicaid, Perry says it tramples states’ rights. Greenstein, is concerned that the Medicaid that Congress intended the generous federal which has a reputation for being inefficient The remaining states are considering expansion could replace private insurance matching rate solely for states undertaking and unwieldy. options. for many low-wage workers in his state, the full expansion. States doing a partial As Obama’s law was originally written, In some cases, GOP governors are try- dragging down quality throughout the expansion would have to shell out more of low-income people would not have had to ing to persuade balky legislatures led by health care system because the program their own money. — AP

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