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Christin and Ashley Kelly-Brown are owners and wife team of LunaBella Makeup and Hair in Santa Barbara, CA. Originally from Oakland, CA., they met there at 17 years of age and have been together for over 12 years. Legally married in California on October 3, 2008, their company has since taken off. They absolutely love not only what they do but also how uniquely they work together.

Dian Katz works a variety of arenas. With a background in Marriage Counseling and a history as a professional performer, she’s LN’s Entertainment Editor and Self Help columnist. Dian’s also authored a book entitled: Love Hurts - A Spiritual Journey to Wholeness. She sometimes works the motivational speaking circuit. Dian’s an award winning drummer with her own rock band. Out of all the many hats she wears, performing and writing are her biggest passions.

Dina Evan PhD., is a noted speaker and veteran activist for LGBT, Women’s and Human Rights. She is a professional counselor and spiritual coach working with individuals, couples and organizations from coast to coast. She has authored three books, Inspiration Cards, Calendars and Meditation CD’s. She provides tools for creating successful relationships which she believes are the path to consciousness. Dina feels the highest assignment today is simply waking up. (602) 997-1200 - www.DrDinaEvan.com

Gladi Adams, PhD is a native New Englander who was recruited in Boston by the Los Angeles Unifed School District to teach English in L.A. She studied at Boston University, Cal State Northridge, California Western and UCLA. She.retired as a secondary school principal after 35 years in the system. She is married to Ella Matthes, publisher, and they have been working on the LN together since 2005.

John Esther For nearly a dozen years, Movie Editor John Esther has been writing for Lesbian News. Over time, he has written more than 100 articles for LN on flm, music, theater, and culture. His monthlymovie column, Eye C, is currently the longest consecutive- running movie column in LN. John also contributes articles to numerous other publications, plus his own blog. John is currently a Board Member of the Gay and Lesbian Entertainment Critics Association(GALECA) Juno Parreñas, PhD has been a regular monthly columnist at the Lesbian News since 1997, when she was seventeen years old. Since then, she has lived in three continents, fve countries, ten cities, and has three degrees: a Bachelor’s from UC Santa Cruz, a Master’s from the University of Amsterdam, and a PhD from Harvard University. When she’s not writing about sexuality, politics, pleasure, culture, desire, and social relations, she works on her research involving orangutans. Mona de Crinis grew up in a world without Xbox or Netfix, when tweeting was something birds did and “Pinterest” was a bad typo. She relied on her fertile imagination for fun quickly discovering that words threaded together could create a vibrant tapestry of expression. This awareness sparked a passion and subsequent career. For more than 20 years, she has written for and edited regional and niche publications. She has authored over 100 published articles.Mona lives in Palm Springs with partner, Lori, and four furry kids.

Lynda Montgomery was born in Long Beach, a small town in Canada. She loves a pa- rade, so she moved to Long Beach California, a big town, so she didn’t have to be all alone in the Gay Pride parade! She is an activist for animal rights and gay rights, giving priority to gay animals! As a stand-up comic she has survived many dive bars, festivals, and comedy clubs. She is currently trying to get booked onto the “Olivia Cruises” because she heard it’s a great place to meet women!

Mona Elyaf has been writing celebrity magazine profles, entertainment news and lifestyle columns for two decades. She currently writes for the Hufngton Post, and serves as the West Coast correspondent for Diva Magazine (Dubai’s leading Women’s fashion magazine) writing pieces on Kim Kardashian, Kimora Lee Simmons and Denise Richards.Born in Beirut, Lebanon, raised in Paris, France, residing in Los Angeles, Elyaf has spent 20 years working in entertainment publicity, heading her own PR Company, ILDK Media. She holds a Master of Arts in journalism from New York University.

Morag Hillsinger is the Nom de Plume of R.J. Birmingham, a local attorney. Winner of an essay competition in 1993 “Trial by Media,” she also has a published case as co-counsel with Lambda Legal (2008) which beneftted gays and lesbians. She is a monthly contributor of Poetry for the LN. Ms. Birmingham practices Estate Planning and Serious Personal Injury at Long Beach Law, Inc. and is working on a book of essays about the practice.

Nat Burns is a professional writer and editor who retired from an editorial systems career in Virginia to relocate to New Mexico. She is an award-winning author and journalist and a book editor for several publishers. Burns has published eight novels to date and her work has appeared in more than thirty anthologies. She has worked for this magazine for six years and is a proud grandmother.

Carl Matthes is the current president of UGLA, Uptown Gay and Lesbian Alliance, an organization providing a support system for gay men, lesbians and education for individuals and the community He is a columnist on the Lesbian News, owned and published by his sister, Ella and her wife Gladi. He was editor of the GLAAD/newsletter, and a GLAAD/LA representative on the Board.In July, 2008, Carl was legally married to Carl Johnson, his partner of 48 years, by Los Angels City Councilmember Jose Huizar. It was a unique gay/ lesbian double ceremony as Carl’s sister Ella and her partner Gladi were also married by Jose.

Nikki McCauley was born in Pittsburgh, PA. She graduated from Robert Morris University and spent ten years with Warner Bros. Studios in Burbank, CA. Accomplishments: Pilot- Godless- 2010- 2012. CD- Spoken Word 2005. Warner Bros. Writer’s Workshop 2003/2004 .Poetry Book- Inditing Poetry 1999. Scripts- Law & Order, The Practice, Cold Case, CSI Las Vegas. Robin Tyler is a pioneer activist in the LGBT community. In the 1970’s, she became the frst ‘out’ lesbian or gay comic on television, albums and in concert.

In addition to 25 Women’s Music and Comedy Festivals , Robin produced the main stages for 3 od of the LGBT Marches on Washington.. Robin and her wife, Diane Olson, were the frst lesbian plaintiffs to fle the lawsuit that brought marriage equality to California and were the frst to marry in Los Angeles County.

Sally Sheklow came out in 1973 and has been with her Wifey for 25 years. They live in Eugene, Oregon with their two cats. Sally’s “Living Out” column frst appeared in Lesbian News in 1999, and twice won both the Houston Press Club’s Lone Star Award for best magazine column and Best of Eugene’s “Best Writer” award. Sally teaches Queer Studies at Portland State University, performs with the all-lesbian improv troupe WYMPROV! And makes art out of old buttons.

Shawn Ryan is a lot of things. He’s an Actor/Singer/Writer/Director and Camp Director but fancies himself a Dancer/Poet/Lyrical Savant/Brother/Son/and Terrifc Husband. His greatest wish is that someday Barbara Walters will come out of retirement and make him cry on ABC. He lives in a state of adoring bliss with his husband, actor John Ainsworth, and their furry children, Mr Kitty and Gazpacho the Chihuahua. It seems as though things couldn’t get much better, but day by day, they to do. Follow him on www.Shawn-Ryan.com

Sherron Mills, N.P. has been a lesbian health care practitioner and activist for many years. In 1980 she co-founded Lyon-Martin Women’s Health Services, the country’s frst non-proft clinic to serve the lesbian community. She then went on in 1984 to launch Pacifc Reproductive Services to provide sperm bank, fertility and insemination services primarily to lesbians. Knowing that many of her clients would greatly value the opportunity for their children to meet their sperm donors, should they wish to do so, she was an early pioneer in recruiting men who would contractually agree to meet a child at least once after he or she reaches 18. As a result, PRS today has more “willing to be known” sperm donors than any other U.S. sperm bank.

Stephanie Papadakis is originally from southern California. Stephanie knew she wanted to live in San Francisco from the age of 10 (but had no clue she liked women). When she’s not working at a lesbian travel company in SF, she spends her time cooking delicious paleo meals, climbing rugged mountains, exercising daily, researching random trivia knowledge, making “dream lists” on Airbnb and planning day-, weekend- and week- long dates with her partner, Sara.

Sweet Baby J’ai is a writer, singer, composer, arranger, educator, and the Artistic Director of the Palm Springs Women’s Jazz Festival. A creative force on the music scene for over two decades, she tours the world with her genre-defying work, which both embraces and expands jazz tradition. She has worked in various capacities, including talent buyer for major music events throughout the country. She also serves as Creative Managing Director for the Educational Theatre Institute. Teresa DeCrescenzo is a social worker, activist, teacher, and writer. After 25 years of advocating for LGBT youth through her work at GLASS, Teresa is adjunct professor at CSUN where she has taught Sociology of LGBT communities, Social Policy, Social Work Practice, and other courses designed to inspire and prepare future generations of social work activists. She is also the Director of Social Services at one of the largest acute care hospitals in California. As Arts & Culture Editor and Book Reviewer, Teresa brings the best of lesbian writing and cultural events to the community-at-large.

Toni Hart has had many careers, including her favorite – freelance writing. Early on she was a child actress and after college, became a designer of women’s & children’s fashions. After a pause to have three children, she turned to Mortgage Banking, retiring years later as VP/Administrator of the mortgage Dept. She’s become a hard working volunteer for many venues. To support her wonderful gay daughter, her attention is now zestfully supporting the LGBT cause.

Victoria Bearden has practiced astrology for over 30 years, with clients across the country and abroad. To set up a personal consultation you can call her at 760-634-1028 or visit her web site at www.astrologervic.com February 2016

CONTENTS

LESBIAN NEWS COVER STORY ALL ELLE (THE) KING! The singer is slated to bring her chart- busting, foot-stompin’, bad girl anthem featured on her debut album love stuff to the dinah... By Michel Khordoc

INSIDE LN FEATURES HOTSPOTS Moments Matter Little hearts, chocolates Remembering Jeanne Cordova and Hotspots - the month of February... By Dr. Dina Evan PhD BOOKS Politically Speaking A New Your For 2016 Remaining vigilant in our support with our allied POETRY communities who are fighting for their lived equality and Dancing With Drag Queens dignity FEMASTROLOGY By Beth Shipp February begins with a big “Green Light” as Mercury is direct now. Earth Talk Elephants are teetering on the brink of extinction. LOL New Year’s Eve In Palm By Roddy Scheer and Doug Moss Springs, Red Carpet Palm Springs Film Festival 2016 Last Word Lesbian Pioneer Jeanne Cordova Dies at 67 By Robin Tyler

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Comic Of The Month Follow Us Online Resolving one more item on my “hate to do” list. By Linda Montgomery

LESBIANNEWS.COM Movies Eye C More reviews on some of the better films around the globe. Let us know what By John Esther you think. Notes from Nat Soaring Successes Prove Miracles Do Happen By Nat Burns

Travel So you want to visit San Francisco but you only have a limited amount of time in which to be there. By Stephanie Papadakis

Sex Is About Union! Want to make this Valentine’s Day one of the most memorable ever? By Michel Khordoc COLUMNS Words That Make Sense Did you know...February’s chock full of holidays and special celebrations? By Toni Hart

Living Out It’s time for a new cat. By Sally Sheklow

Positive Refections Is it time for you to let go or keep going. By Dian Katz, MS

Queerly Questioning I thank that girl with an ironic mullet for giving me a glimpse of warm impermanence By Juno Parrenas, PhD

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| By Michel Khordoc he’s dominating Asked what she learned from on Spotify. the airwaves and working with such a wide and The Brooklyn-based rock, ruling the Billboard accomplished range of producers blues-pop singer made history charts with her foot- and musicians, she has an instant when her infectiously catchy stompin’ hit single answer. “Never shut out an idea -- rockabilly single hit the #1 spot “Exs & Ohs” but you always have to try anything, on Billboard’s Alternative Chart Elle King’s world domination has twice! I kept an open mind and S – making her the second woman only just begun. She just received then not only got to work with in two decades to achieve that her frst Grammy Nominations geniuses and get incredible feat (the other artist being Lorde in not one but two categories songs but I also got great role with her 2013 tune “Royals”). “Best Rock Performance” and models and friends. And through “Best Rock Song.” The platinum laughing, jumping for joy, blonde with the free-spirited kicking, screaming, I feel like I personality, loads of rad tattoos fnally found my sound.” and the perfect rebel attitude to The results, as heard on “LOVE go with it has already become a STUFF,” display King’s household name. grounding in rock, blues, country Now the self-described soulful and pop styles and a sweeping rock ’n’ roll artist who plays lots emotional road map -- the stomp of banjo and a mean guitar is set to of “Where the Devil Don’t Go,” conquer the largest lesbian event the sexy sweetness of “Make You in the world with a headlining Smile,” the swagger of “America’s performance at the epic Dinah Sweetheart.” She notes Shore Weekend in Palm Springs, “Sweetheart” as a breakthrough, CA. Tickets on sale now at: saying that producer/co-writer thedinah.com. Martin Johnson (who she calls “an insane pop genius”) pushed her Elle King is having more than harder than any other collaborator. a breakout year. A force to “Faster, higher, louder -- I was be reckoned with, her sound Raised on everyone from AC/ singing so hard I had to sit down shook up the music scene with DC to Elvis Presley and Dolly between takes. That’s the fastest her bluesy pop/rock anthem to Parton, the sexy sassy blonde I’ve ever played banjo; I have no ‘badass bitches’ (her words), “Exs with that raspy voice a la Janis idea how I’ll do that onstage.” & Ohs,” the lead single off of her Joplin, blends blues, country, 2015 debut album “Love Stuff.” “Ex’s & Oh’s” was recently rock, soul and honky-tonk into a certifed platinum by the RIAA sound that’s uniquely Elle. Frank and fearless, tender and and has topped the radio charts rowdy, Elle King’s debut album, She’s arrived and is defnitely at #1 at 3 formats - Alternative, “LOVE STUFF” marks the here to stay. But King’s music AAA and Hot AC. “Ex’s & Oh’s” true arrival of the young singer/ reign didn’t happen overnight, has been Top 10 on the Billboard songwriter/guitarist/banjoist. “I and she’s certainly paid her dues! Digital Songs Chart for the always thought I knew who I was,” last 10 weeks, #1 on the iTunes After years of playing small gigs in says King, “but now I’m really Alternative Songs Chart for 13 New York City when she was only learning what kind of person I weeks, #1 on the Billboard Hot sixteen, the Ohio-raised singer want to be. And with that comes Rock Songs chart for 8 weeks fnally landed a major record deal who I am as an artist, because the and #4 most viral track of 2015 with RCA in 2012. She released songs come from who I am and the critically acclaimed “The what I go through.” Elle King EP,” which produced the single “Playing for Keeps” that was picked up as the theme to VH1’s “Mob Wives Chicago” and made her broadcast television debut on the “Late Show with David Letterman.” Entertainment Weekly just named Elle King “Rock’s New Badass” and she has been described by The New York Times as “a sassy, hard-drinking, love-’em-and- leave-’em hellion with bad tattoos and a broad pedigree across rock, pop and country. She has Adele’s determination and Joan Jett’s stomp, Brenda Lee’s high-voiced bite and some AC/DC shriek” and she has been featured by The Wall Street Journal, Entertainment Weekly, Teen Vogue, People Magazine, Cosmopolitan, USA Today and many more. She debuted “Ex’s & Oh’s” on Late Night with Seth Meyers and has also performed on the season fnale of Dancing with The Stars, The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon, Late Night with Seth Meyers, Today Show, Late Late Show with James Corden, Live with Kelly and Michael, Jimmy Kimmel Live, The Talk and VH1 Big Morning Buzz Live and VH1 Big in 2015, in support of her She’s toured with James Bay conquered, there’s already every debut LOVE STUFF which has and Ed Sheeran, appeared at indication that 2016 will be the received overwhelming critical festivals like Lollapalooza and year King will rule the music acclaim. Bonnaroo and sold out her frst world! two headlining tours. Who else names her debut album For more information and/or to after a sex shop in Florida (true Elle King oozes the kind of raw buy tickets go to: thedinah.com story), picks up the banjo (of all talent that is charismatic and Visit: www.elleking.com instruments) after seeing a cute leaves you wanting more; it’s #thedinah #dinah2016 boy in Philly play it and then electrifying and undeniably best writes her frst real song on it, experienced live! which got her signed? If 2015 was the year she

The Last Word Lesbian Pioneer Jeanne Cordova Dies at 67 A force of nature and pioneering voice for LGBT civil rights has been stilled.

| By Robin Tyler

iery lesbian feminist of them. Loss is so hard and I am loved and thought highly of her activist/author/ overwhelmed with sadness. before she died. publisher Jeanne Cordova died peacefully at around F4:30am at her home in Los Angeles on January 10. Her spouse Lynn Ballen and friends Jenny Pizer, Doreena Wong and Dina Evan from Arizona were with Jeanne when she passed. Jeanne was 67. Close friend Ivy Bottini posted this on her Facebook page: As Jeanne said: Our community has lost a guard at the gate of hatred and I have From the age of 18 to 21, I Jenny Pizer said: lost my Best Butch Bud of over painfully looked everywhere 40 years. There will never be “Jeanne left us gently early this for Lesbian Nation. On October another Lesbian Activist like morning, having stayed, as she 3, 1970, a day I celebrate as my Jeanne. She was one of a kind. promised, into this new year. The political birthday, I found Her A true innovator. And a hell of a last while was hard work for her. in a small DOB (Daughters of business woman. But right now I And yet she continued to be the Bilitis) meeting. That’s when am grieving her lost presence, her engaged, playful, brilliant friend my life’s work became clear. laughter, her grit and the love we whose absence many will feel for Shortly thereafter I became a both had for each other. Here’s to a very long time. A while ago, core organizer for two national you, Jeanne, you will always live she named us siblings of choice, lesbian conferences, one of which in my heart. which was perfect. It was one of re-directed my path to create The the countless ways she fashioned Lesbian Tide news magazine, a Close friend Robin Tyler posted her life and relationships into national paper of record, as the this photo on her Facebook page, good, new, enduring forms. historians say, for the lesbian showing from left to right, Ivy Sometimes, before you know it, a feminist generation. And on it went Bottini, Jean O’Leary, Jeanne person becomes part of you. I’m for multiple decades of marches Cordova and Robin Tyler: grateful for that. And for the time and later online organizing–this we had. And the laughter shared. time intersectionally, to include And now we’ll hold her spirit all of me and my Latina identity. close, with so much love.” Jeanne was known for being Last September, Jeanne sent headstrong—but she was also me an open letter to post to the spiritual, which enabled her to community about the fact that she manage the dying process the was dying. Thanks to such outlets way she wanted. “She was home as Facebook and blogging on the with loved ones and her close Internet, we can now tell our own friend Dina Evans was on the stories. But there is no substitute phone with her. She is a spiritual This picture was taken in the for telling a loved one or a friend teacher and therapist and helped 1980’s. Jeanne Cordova (next to or even an acquaintance with Jeanne during the dying process me) has just passed away. Next whom you enjoyed working on a friend,” says Jenny Pizer. to her, Jean O’Leary, my other project that you appreciate them. dear butch friend, passed away Thanks to her essay, Jeanne was years ago. I am older then both able to hear from friends who Living Out PUSSY REPLACEMENT | By Sally Sheklow

t’s time for a new cat. We’ve inaugurated, Bella, a sweet brown and I loved our evenings and always had two, except for tabby, had moved in and having weekends at home cuddled on brief stretches between one’s been henpecked by peacocks, the homosectional with our pair departure and the next one’s allowed Light to live out her years of happy, snuggly cats. Alas, dear arrival. This is one of those as a benevolent dominatrix. Mimi wasn’t blessed with long life Iawkward interims. and tragically, her golden years Light’s ascension to kitty heaven were cut short by cancer. When Wifey and I frst connected, left Wifey bereft. And Bella was back during the reign of Bush the left to rule as the lone cat long Wifey still isn’t over losing her First, we each had our own cat. enough to get used to it. By the beloved Mimi but she knows Chica My calico, Kitty Rose and Wifey’s time Wifey came out of mourning is lonesome. Since Mimi’s demise Russian blue, Light, were both for her darling Light, W was in the last fall, Chica’s become clingy accustomed to ruling their one- White House and all of us needed and dependent beyond the normal cat domains. But the unstoppable all the kitty comfort we could bounds of cat dignity. She runs force of lesbian merging won get. Bella was in no mood for cat to meet us when we come home, out, coercing our kitties into company. She was more than weaves our legs until we pick her nonconsensual cohabitation. miffed when we came home from up and sandwich her on our chests the shelter with Mimi, a gentle in a group hug. As soon as we set Wifey and I had a period of tuxedo girl who wanted nothing her down she’ll pace and cry until adjustment, too. While we adapted more than to make friends. Sadly, we’re all settled in the same room to sharing a home, the cats settled for most of Mimi’s time with us, and she can curl up with us. She into their new relationship -- she cowered in fear of Bella’s needs a friend. mutual indifference. wrath. I’ve been looking at cats on the These things take time. Eventually It wasn’t until the second term local animal shelter website, Wifey and I sold off all our of President Obama’s blessedly perusing profles for a good redundant furniture, dishes and queer-friendly presidency that the playmate for Chica -- young, power tools, fgured out our fearsome Bella fnally succumbed easy-going, playful, socialized balance of sharing and giving to old age. The soil on her backyard to other cats. Wifey, skeptical of space and our cats learned to grave had barely settled before online dating, prefers picking out tolerate each other. By then Kitty good-natured little Chica joined pets in person but she’s not ready Rose was in her dotage. After our household. After a brief puffy- yet. It’ll be her cat, so I have to a good long life, my cat left this tailed introduction, Chica and give her room to choose in her plane for the great catnip patch in Mimi became best buds. They had own time. I just hope it’s before the sky. Before Light had a chance no end of fun racing each other the presidential primaries. We’ll to regain her solo queendom, a co- up and down the stairs, boxing defnitely be needing the comfort worker of mine announced fnding through the draperies and playing of two contented pussies then. a stray who had wandered onto sniffy butt. A good match. their peacock farm and needed a home. When Bill Clinton was Our marriage legal at last, Wifey © Crazy80frog | Dreamstime.com - Attractive woman with cat outdoors

Transgender Michaela

Mendelsohn Becomes The First Conference. She has spoken to over 100 groups including Museum Transgender Board Member Of of Tolerance, UCLA, Keck USC Medical Center, Pepperdine and The Trevor Project Santa Monica College. Her autobiographical play, “Making Michaela” was produced by Los Angeles’s Celebration lready known as Initiative to study how best to Theater as a staged reading and the frst transgender introduce Trevor in the South will be ‘work shopped’ for a full contestant in the Ms. where the cultural and religious production in 2017. Senior California divide is widest. To better serve Michaela was born in New York Pageant and a Trevor’s mission she has enrolled City and moved to Southern Aconsultant to Jenji Kohan in in it’s 40 hour crisis training California as a child, where she the development of Laverne starting February 2016. has lived since. She was married Cox’s character on Netfix’s Hit A transgender activist, public for over 30 years and is the proud drama series “Orange is the New speaker and businesswoman with parent of three, grown children. Black”, Michaela Mendelsohn over 40 years of entrepreneurial In 2008, she legally changed her is now adding another new leadership experience, Michaela name to Michaela Irvi Mendelsohn groundbreaking title to her resume. is currently the CEO of Pollo West and her gender to female. She now She has just been named the frst Corp, one of the largest franchisees lives with her partner, Carmel and transgender board member of the for El Pollo Loco restaurant in their two-year old son. Trevor Project. the Western Region of the United She is honored and proud to be States. As a Board Member of The the frst transwoman on the board Trevor Project Michaela provides She founded the California of the Trevor Project and looks strategic direction and ensures Transgender Workplace Program forward to contributing in every the organization has the resources to promote trans-friendly job way she can, supporting the to fulfll its mission. She uses conditions. She passionately LGBT community in California her expertise in public speaking, advocates for working transwomen and around the country. advocacy, business development through her efforts with various “It’s important that we all celebrate and LGBT issues to serve as an California trade associations. our uniqueness,” said Mendelsohn, Ambassador for the organization. Her personal mission is to help 63. “My struggles have made me Michaela is focused on outreach to transwomen fnd employment, stronger and happier — that’s the youth, speaking on issues specifc social acceptance and a path to message.” to the transgender community and raise families of their own. informing the community about Michaela works tirelessly to make As a writer and public speaker, the work of The Trevor Project. a difference in the community and Michaela speaks all over California the world around her. She serves on three standing on LGBT issues ranging from committees: Finance, bullying to homophobia and Watch her YouTube sizzle reel: Programming and Board transphobia. She was the Keynote https://youtu.be/7d2RbnL-GM4 Development. She will also be Speaker at the Transgender an important part of it’s Southern Employment Empowerment SEX IS ABOUT UNION!

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| By John Esther More foreign film at PSIFF 2016

s we reported in last Labyrinth of Lies; Hungary’s Son runs the place, although her old month’s issue of LN, of Saul; Ireland’s Viva; and Jordan’s cousin, Benni (Artur Gorishti) owns no flm festival in the Theeb. the place. Benni is carrying on world screens as many an extramarital affair with Bota’s In previous issues, LN reviewed The Oscar submissions other waitress, Nora (Fioralba Brand New Testament, Mustang and Afor Best Film in a Foreign Language Kryemadhi), who seems to be Juli’s Viva. Here are a few more reviews as the Palm Springs International best, if only, friend. Although the on some of the better flms around Film Festival. titular bar seems to be rather low- the globe. key, drama soon raises its head, The 2016 edition, which ran Jan. Bota (Albania) –Set mostly at a resulting in a local tough guy (Pjeter 1-11 screened 40 of the 80 Foreign place called “Bota” (meaning “The Logoreci) calling in a marker on Oscar submissions (I have seen 20+ World”), a bar on the swampy Benni and Nora getting unexpectedly of them), including all nine flms that outskirts of town where no bar pregnant, again, with Benni, while made the short list: Belgium’s The should really exist, three characters Juli cannot seem to get a guy or Brand New Testament; Columbia’s try to get on with their daily lives but keep her great-aunt Noje (Tinka Embrace of the Serpent; Denmark’s events keep disturbing their plans. Kurti) from quickly deteriorating. A War; Finland’s The Fencer; Juli (Flonja Kodheli) essentially Add to the mix, Benni’s corruption France’s Mustang; Germany’s with the family’s settlement money, the weight of the country’s recent garner an Oscar nomination for Best fnd the mysterious Yakruna plant, past and the characters’ negotiations Foreign Language Film, co-writer he is highly reluctant to help. But with modernization and you get a lot and director Ciro Guerra leaves if he does not help, less scrupled of narrative during the 108-minute a trail of awards in its wake as it guides may do so instead. And running time. Fortunately, co- makes its way to the February 28 thus an exploration commences, directors Iris Elezi and Thomas Oscars ceremony. The frst flm shot which spans some of the most Logoreci’s flm keeps Bota from in the Amazonian forest in 30 years wild, beautiful and damned places spiraling into histrionics, instead and based on real events, the flm on earth. Shot in what could be maintaining a gentle balance of focuses on Karamakate (played by argued as an unnecessary black and pathos and affrmation. Worth your Nilbio Torres and Antonio Bolívar white, Embrace of the Serpent is watch, the flm plays well to foreign Salvado). The ultimate outsider and quite an experience into the deep audiences, using tropes and signifers tour guide into this heart of darkness, sad, shameful past of colonialism. to offer a sort of introduction to the Karamakate is Amazonian shaman Unfortunately, the ending is a bit Southeast European country. On and the last of his tribe. He mistrusts hokey. a side note and I do usually do not everyone, including the white men A War (Denmark) – Oscar nominated suggest this, you may as well leave who have exploited his country and for Best Film in a Foreign Language, when the credits roll. Nora dancing people for its materials, primarily writer-director Tobias Linholm’s A in the swamp is corny. rubber. So when a German scientist War offers another glimpse into its (Theodor Kock-Grünberg) comes Embrace of the Serpent (Columbia) titular subject. Claus (Pilou Asbaek) to Karamakate, asking him to help – One of the fnal fve flms to is one of those “compassionate commanders” who just happens to increasingly diffcult, if not beneath Theeb (Jordan) – It is not too often be occupying another country; in this Nelis’ character. A charming flm a flm from Western Asia (other case, contemporary Afghanistan. for youth and adult alike, The After one of his soldiers blows up Fencer reminds us that one must on a scouting mission, Claus thinks necessarily advance, lunge, beat, it would be good for morale if he engage, encounter, thrust and parry went along on further excursions. in life, too and that the only thing Those excursions include killing disreputable is not to defend one’s what they perceive to be the enemy self. (no trial or attack necessary). 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The feature flm Nazis in the ritual extermination of war crimes, Claus must fght off by writer-director Naji Abu Nowar, fellow Jews (Europeans) only to be what is, essentially, a paltry prison Theeb is set in 1916 where a young eventually exterminated themselves. sentence for mass murder and remain orphan, Theeb (Jacir Eid) and his older During one regular mass slaughter, free to protect his wife, Maria (Tuva brother, Hussein (Hussein Salameh) one of the Sonderkommando, Saul Novotny) and their three children. A are guides in the western Arabia (Géza Röhrig), sees a boy who has tense thriller taking a serious look at desert. Their latest job is helping a survived the gas chamber -- only do a judicial system paying lip service British explorer (Jack Fox) whose be murdered anyway. In response, to international law, A War spreads intentions would be particularly Saul seeks out a Rabbi who can give the guilt around aplenty -- all the disruptive to the locals. After being the Jewish boy a proper religious way to those viewers who approve attacked, Theeb is forced to use his burial. During the quest we witness of such belligerent endeavors. wits to stay alive and get back home. chaos and atrocity mingling under But he is just a little kid and the The Fencer (Finland) – Similar to the vast systematic machine of death. world is not very forgiving for young France’s Mustang (set in Turkey) Like a vortex of madness, Saul and Bedouin boys. Filled with marvelous and Ireland’s Viva (set in Cuba), all those around him are swept up in scenery (shot in Jordan) and hoisted Finnish director Klaus Haro’s flm is a mass hysteria of slaughter. Nobody by an endearing performance by set in Estonia. Based on the story of survives as themselves under such newcomer Eid, Theeb is one of the Estonian fencing master Endel Nelis conditions. Highly reminiscent of more original flms out this year. It and his trouble with the Stalin regime the excellent 2001 flm, The Grey may be speaking about systematic in the early 1950s, The Fencer tells Zone, Son of Saul has its merits but corruption like so many other flms how Nelis (Mart Avandi) inspired after you have seen hundreds of flms of 2015, but this time the corruption a group of kids to take up fencing about the WWII Holocaust, they all extends beyond the anthropocentric while trying to hide from the bear seem to bleed into one horrifc grand and into the existential. to the east. Unfortunately, trying narrative. to juggle these two goals becomes

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If you’re feeling with iconic California cuisine, If you want to eat with a view, ambitious, continue up the hill it will be a dinner to remember walk a block up to Alamo Square, and onto the bridge, where you’ll for you and your date. If you’re where one of the best views of get a great view of the city, Angel looking for something on the the city await (and the Full House Island, Alcatraz, Marin and the less pricey end, check out Super houses). East Bay. Duper Burgers, also in the Castro, which has one of the best burgers After coffee, walk down to the Once you return your bikes, walk in the city (and you can eat a full corner of Fell Street and Pierce back toward Ghirardelli Square meal for under $10). After dinner, Street to catch the Hop On/ to pick up the Hyde Street cable there are numerous places in the Hop Off Bus, which will pretty car, which will take you up the Castro to visit. Dancers, check much take you wherever you hill to Lombard Street. 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Take by Hog Island Oyster Co. for a Napa Farms Market, chalk full of a stroll through the Japanese quick dozen or if you feel like artisanal products from Napa and Gardens or perhaps stop by the having a glass of wine, stop by beyond. Academy of Sciences or the the Ferry Plaza Wine Merchant There’s so much to do and see in de Young Museum. There’s no for great local wine and a cheese this amazing city. Hopefully, this shortage of sights to see here. and charcuterie plate. is a good taste of the frst of many After you’ve walked off brunch, Once you’ve taken in the beautiful weekend getaways! get ready to eat again. No trip to view of the Bay Bridge and the SF is complete without a visit to bay beyond, it’ll be time for you the Ferry Building, so head back to head to the airport. If you’ve Notes From Nat Let’s Hear It For The Music Boys | By Nat Burns

new year is in full he’s had some remarkable together. The song was a big hit swing and though supporters along the way, including and soon featured in a Bud Light the future feels Elton John and Taylor Swift. He commercial during the 2014 Super really murky, I can’t was nominated as Best New Artist Bowl. help grooving to the at the 2014 Grammy Awards but Wrabel’s frst EP album Sideways Aawesome music that’s available it wasn’t his year. Then. There’s has four songs, the title song, “Ten now. We’re returning more to truly still time; he’s only twenty four. Feet Tall”, “Give it Time” and meaningful music and two artists He did win Favorite Male Artist “Into the Wild”. The frst single, prove this. - Pop/Rock at the 2015 American “Sideways”, was downloaded Music Awards, among many other Let’s talk about Ed Sheeran and nearly half a million times. His awards that year. his phenomenal success since latest single, “I Want You”, a new, 2005. I just love this ginger-haired In March 2015, Sheeran released previously unreleased song, is now performer and I’m glad his talent the news that he was setting up available to download for free on has lifted him to the pinnacle he his own record label, Gingerbread his website. occupies today. He’s one of those Man Records, which is part of the Wrabel has performed widely on artists who genuinely gives back. Warner Music Group shows such as Good Morning He often raises money to support Beautiful song and video, America, VH1’s Fashion Rocks worthy causes like helping street “Thinking Out Loud”. and at the Ultra Music Festival in sex workers, children’s hospices, Miami alongside Afrojack, who the Ebola fght in West Africa and The song “Lego House” is an spun the remixed “Ten Feet Tall” the homeless. interesting departure, featuring at his shows and helped make another ginger, Rupert Grint from He was born in the UK in 1991 and Wrabel an overnight sensation. the Harry Potter movies. fell into music almost immediately, Wrabel has also penned songs for even dropping out of school to This video for “Don’t is pretty artists such as Adam Lambert and focus on it solely. In 2005, he amazing. Prince Royce while continuing to independently released an EP © 2015 Asylum Records (Warner write for his next record. album called The Orange Room Music UK) http://www. This is Wrabel. and played in small venues around edsheeran.com/ London. Then, in 2011, he released This is a “Ten Feet Tall” the EP No.5 Collaborations Project Here’s a name for you to performance with Afrojack. remember—Wrabel. It’s actually which became popular almost And one more. “I Want You” immediately. He then released the stage name of a new up and his frst album + (Plus) which has coming singer/musician, Stephen © 2016 Island Records http:// since hit six times platinum in Wrabel, who captivated a crowd www.wrabelmusic.com/ the UK. The hauntingly beautiful of more than 42,000 Pridefest “The A-Team” won half a dozen attendees in Los Angeles this year. awards that set up Sheeran as an He’s a beautiful man, wraithlike Here’s a little something just for unstoppable force. His next album and his voice is beautiful too, fun—the Who Is Fancy’s “Boys X (Multiply), released in 2014 was stirring heartstrings much like Like You” single, featuring received in much the same way, Sam Smith’s music does. He Meghan Trainor and Ariana winning several album of the year came to prominence when invited Grande. awards, internationally. by a Dutch DJ named Afrojack to ‘Til next month— perform his song “Ten Feet Tall” Though he is immensely talented, Nat

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(310) 566-7980 (310) 566-7980 fax (310) 566-7981 also knew she was right. I told her she was so loved and that she could breathe through the pores in her body now and rest her Thelungs. Last I told her Word to hold Lynn’s hand and go check out the other side and then come back. I told her when she was ready to stay there, that her mom, whom I had prayed to the night before, would come and get her and walk her home. Within about thirty minutes the moaning and the pain in the fearful resistance that death creates stopped and there was peace in Jeanne and in the room. “She’s stopped breathing,” Lynn said tearfully. Jeanne was gone, leaving behind only a cancer torn body that was no longer of use to a mighty spirit. This is not meant to be a sad story! I write about it this month, because it is the month of Valentines and love and because it is about the most meaningful connections in our lives. They are MOMENTS the ones with depth and angst and ups and downs and sometimes years between. They provide MATTER meaning and truth and realness. | By Dina Evan, Ph.D. They are the ones that permeate our hearts with commitments beyond human understanding y Saturday deeper exploring the spirit of my and never let go, no matter what. evening was soul in metaphysical teaching They are the relationships of quiet. There was and energy magic. We shared our recognition through space and a gentle energy of discoveries late at night wrapped time that change the very tapestry discomfort in my up in quilts and blankets on the of our soul. They crack our hearts Mbody and discontent in the air that foor as we taught each other, open and demand integrity and I couldn’t shake. My friend Jeanne laughed at each other and cried presence from our spirit. They Cordova was somehow with me. I together. So this night, I sat with are amazing and a true gift of knew she was leaving, dying and I her in spirit as we had before and love from the Universe. Jeanne could not release that knowing to I knew. I asked the Universe to with all her edges, just like each focus on anything else. We have clothe her in peace and safety and of us with ours, was a gift from known each other for more than eventually I went to bed. the Universe to my life. And 30 years and life had happened in At quarter to fve in the morning today and in each tomorrow, I the last ten years, separating us in my phone rang with a text message will celebrate her. time and distance. She was in L.A. from Lynn. “Jeanne was dying… with her partner Lynn Ballen and Don’t miss the gifts of love in would I call?” I did and for the I was in Phoenix. However, only your life. Sometimes they come next two hours Lynn, Jeanne’s moments matter…the moments in the form of a child, a boss, a beloved partner of more than we created in the thirty years kept teacher, an ex-partner, a friend, twenty-six years and I walked rising in my memory, bubbling a beloved partner, a grandchild our precious Jeanne home. Lynn up from my heart, creating smiles or even a stranger in a single was in agony, hearing the painful and tears and a sense that I wanted moment whom you see and who moans of her partner and could to be with her. Friendships of truly sees you. These are the no longer bear it. I asked her to that length and texture are gold, real blessings of life. Hold them put the phone next to Jeanne’s ear not to be dismissed by earthly close. Nurture them. Respect and we began our talk gently… limitations. They are of the them and give them their due. just as we had for so many years Beloved. They deserve to be the priority before. I reminded her that she in your life. They deserve your I smiled remembering the times had done what she came here to commitment, your presence and we bumped heads over my do. Jeanne was an activist for your integrity for as long as you metaphysical beliefs and her gay rights, women’s rights and have them. Love doesn’t always Catholic up bringing. Eventually the right to free speech. She had have to be romantic, or sexual. It we began to vibrate somewhere riled people’s ire from one coast only has to be real, because these in the middle where she began to the other until people gave in relationships are the ones that collecting the symbols of her just to get rid of her. They also last a lifetime and beyond. Here’s heritage in large Mexican gave in because in their secret, to you Jeanne. I will see you on blankets, pots and Indian statues politically no-so-correct hidden the other side and we’ll catch up with wondrous stories and I dug places in their character, they creating new moments wrapped in blankets and love. Politically Speaking

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n our victories the last few this attack to reaffrm our support million patients annually – most years, we have celebrated and solidarity with Planned of them women. with (and because of) some Parenthood. Not only has the Health care is an equality of our strongest allies and organization been a long-time issue! As a community staunchest supporters. Our friend to our movement but we committed to ensuring equality Iallies -- labor unions, civil rights in the LGBTQ community have and basic human rights for all activists and the pro-choice faced the same opponents and Americans, notably the lesbian, community -- have stood on the the same tactics that were used gay, bisexual, transgender and front lines with us in solidarity to attack Planned Parenthood -- queer community, we must for equality. false and misleading propaganda demand that our leaders and our which paints us as immoral. These As we consider the future of our candidates for elective offce zealots must be countered in the movement and the direction of abandon ideologically-driven fght against LGBTQ equality, our politics, the intersectionality efforts focused on undermining the fght against women’s rights of LGBT rights, women’s women’s access to health care and every other battlefeld where equality and social justice -- and AND women’s access to our they wage their ideological the confuence of various threats constitutional right to abortion crusades. to our rights as LBTQ women services. living in America – we must One need look no further than the This fght is not just about remain vigilant in our support current Republican presidential Planned Parenthood or Texas with our allied communities feld to see what America would HB2 (the case in the Supreme who are fghting for their lived look like if these attacks are Court). It is not simply about equality and dignity. As many not countered by all of us who protecting the tattered remains of of us know, January 22nd care about women, equality and Roe v. Wade. Underneath these marked the 43rd anniversary social justice. That’s why LPAC battles is the fght for women’s of the Supreme Court’s Roe has endorsed Hillary Clinton for sovereignty over our own lives, v. Wade decision. This year’s President of the United States. decisions, bodies and privacy. anniversary coincided with the We know that with Hillary in These fundamental rights are date the Court required briefs the Oval Offce, the attacks will one in the same with our rights be submitted in opposition to meet a frewall that cannot be to love who we love. And, these the Texas laws which restrict dismantled. are the rights which, beyond the women’s access to health care On the larger electoral front and current courtroom, will continue and abortion services. In addition just as important, the potential to be threatened by politicians to all of this, the last week of defunding of Planned Parenthood and the regressive followers who January was capped off with a being debated in Congress off- support them. Grand Jury indictment in Texas and-on since well before the of the anti-choice extremists The LGBTQ community, and latest smear campaign, has a real who launched a smear campaign specifcally LGBTQ women, must and harmful impact on the health against Planned Parenthood. continue to fght these efforts. of America – straight and lesbian, The chipping away of a woman’s It is no surprise to those of us woman and man, all ethnicities, right to choose also chips away who have literally spent years ages but particularly the poor at our LGBTQ equality. And – as fghting for equality for every and marginalized who most lesbians who live squarely in the LGBTQ American that our need the health services Planned cross-hairs of both the LGBTQ opponents will stop at nothing. Parenthood provides. These and women’s movements, we are And, it should come as no dangerous discussions to defund most threatened and must be the surprise to any of us that our Planned Parenthood threaten most motivated to win. Join us in anti-choice, anti-LGBT and services like contraceptive the battle at www.teamlpac.com! anti-social justice opponents are care, PAP smears and breast incredibly organized. Last year’s cancer screenings, well-woman smear campaign against Planned exams, HIV and STI testing and Parenthood should alarm us all sex education / birth control but not surprise any of us. But that programs. Planned Parenthood doesn’t mean we shouldn’t use has over 700 centers treating 2.7 © Andy Katz | Dreamstime.com - Hillary and Bill Clinton Home Ownership Financial= Freedom REFINANCE OR PURCHASES FHA / FHA 203K LOANS Put your CONVENTIONAL LOANS Let me help money to REVERSE MORTGAGES you get into work for you! the home you Stop renting! JUMBO LOANS deserve VA LOANS

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rowing up with Velvet Goldmine. Glitter, lipstick when David Bowie on an interview MTV in the and gender-bending fabulosity criticized the lack of black artists 1980s, David spoke to my queer, gender- getting broadcasted, which then Bowie was part bending experimentations and spurred MTV’s executives to of my childhood pleasures. The depth of the lyrics action. Watching interviews with Gsoundscape. He did not have as stirred my imagination. The 2013 him, especially in the 1970s, I get intense an impact on my latent video for “The Stars (Are Out glimpses of the genius that he was sexuality as Annie Lennox in the Tonight)” with Tilda Swinton and the sincerity he had. Talking Eurythmics did. It was only later reconnected me to a sexy-freaky with Dinah Shore in 1976, he did I get the chance to listen to the past and present, with present-day says he’s not afraid of losing a queer worlds of Ziggy Stardust. I reincarnations of the Glam Rock fckle public because, “there’s an was introduced to early Bowie in era in which gender could be a sex emotional point at which the public the late 1990s by an Australian girl toy. How divine! can be touched: the spiritual level with whom I had a quickly feeting and the gut level.” It was only at David Bowie’s death relationship. She sported red hair could I appreciate his work from He got me both ways. Many feel and an ironic mullet—all of which the early 1980s. I had no idea that the same as I do. Others, however, was a nod to Aladdin Sane. In the “Let’s Dance” was a critique about look back with a critical eye. 1990s, the newest music of the ongoing Australian colonization, They question David Bowie’s day sounded like it was twenty- that aboriginal integration into choices in sexual partners during fve years old: Placebo, Pulp and racist Australian society meant the early 70s, particularly when it names of short-lived bands I can’t menial labor, ecological damage, came to young teenagers. Instead remember because they were nuclear-powered annihilation of thinking of such encounters simply forgettable. Being nineteen, or--for the very privileged few, as mutually exploratory sexual I didn’t know this. I didn’t have an imperialist nostalgia for adventures, they see it as abuses a grasp of what came before me Australian art to be consumed by of power. Had such critics not and what worlds those that came the Western art world. Nor was had sex as teenagers or sexual before me made possible. I thank I able to grasp the parody of the desire for older sexual partners? that girl, whose name I can’t recall song, “China Girl,” which had Such an understanding ignores but whom I nevertheless vividly left me feeling icky well into my the power of sexual discovery and remember, for giving me a glimpse adulthood because of its Asian awakening. It can be spiritual and of “warm impermanence.” fetishism. The song was about it takes guts. Albums like Space Oddity, Hunky British colonial fascination with Dory and Ziggy Stardust got me China, which was revived in the nostalgic for a time that I myself immediate aftermath of Mao’s never experienced. I credit that downfall. I wasn’t watching MTV feeling to the Todd Haynes flm, ID 62364384 © Marcin Wos | Dreamstime.com Comic Of The Month: Money Changes Everything

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very New Year, as part This theory worked for a game had earlier seemed like a lot of of my resolutions, I or two but my mind kept drifting effort for just one point, now resolve to try things off. The game did not keep my made sense since that one kick that are normally on attention. My living room was could win or lose the game. No my “hate to do” list. never cleaner; I vacuumed and wonder the guy who held the EMy frst activity was to watch dusted, just to stay in the same ball for the kicker, never pulled a football game. Hockey was room with my fat screen blaring it away, like Lucy always did to familiar being a Canadian but the game! Charlie Brown. Half time, when football had never made any I usually got my clothes out of My dogs loved football! As sense. My frst step was to fgure the dryer was now important. another distraction I tossed out the rules. This was trickier The guys in the suits had some squeaky football toys for them; than I imagined, football rules good opinions about who might plus for team spirit they each seem to be, up to translation. win this game and other games got new team doggy sweaters. Referees toss rags onto the feld, coming up. I was glued to their Each of my fve Chihuahuas had then meet up for little chats, at every word, hoping to get some a different team t-shirt! Still least a thousand times a game tips on where to put my next bet. the game could not keep my and then let the fans know the Winning was personal, I became attention. When I complained good or sometimes bad news! a Monday morning quarterback! about this to a co-worker, he Picking a favorite team was suggested we have a little bet Finally I could watch the game my next goal. At frst I went on the games and this changed and care what was going on! I with the home team. My theory everything! This was the missing stopped picking my favorite team was that a win would make the link. When you personally have for the color of their uniforms! most people happy. These fans something at stake, you pay Never again would I be sent to the deserved some happiness for the attention. Suddenly it mattered kitchen for more chips and beer cost of the ticket, the parking, to me, if the quarterback (the one during a good replay. This year the concession snacks, totaling who throws the ball) got hurt, I am actually looking forward to no doubt, more than the price he was the most important guy. the Super Bowl! I am as excited of an economy car. Devoted Without a good quarterback all about the actual game , as the fans may have driven for hours you had was a bunch of overpaid commercials. So, with a little to sit on hard bleachers in the bullies with no one to pounce knowledge and a little bet I am pouring rain, under trash bags! on, or “sack”! Field goals which no longer a football “hater”!

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ow that the New does, that means there will be six Sweetheart favorite, It’s also Year’s celebration more weeks of winter. The whole “Ferris Wheel Day” AND “Organ is over and the frst east coast waits expectedly for Donor Day.” Feb.15 salutes month of 2016 has the news. It’s actually broadcast Presidents with their very own quickly come and nationwide! day and is also “Gum Drop Day” Ngone, we are beginning the and....”Single Awareness Day.” Oh my... there are events for shortest month of our calendar every single day, sometimes 2 The 17th of Feb. calls attention with little anticipation of or 3 but I’m only reporting the to something we should do anything exciting in store. Oh more important or interesting everyday... It’s “Random Act of February...ho hum! However, a ones like Feb. 3rd...known as Kindness Day.” Try it....you will little research shows this is not the “Day the Music Died.” On feel good doing something good a sleeper month...not by a long that night in 1959, a plane crash for someone else. The 20th is shot! February usually contains took the lives of three music “Love Your Pet Day,” “Hoodie only 28 days... however, since legends,,Buddy Holly, Frankie Hoo Day” and... “Cherry Pie this is Leap Year, we fnd lil’ Valens and The Big Bopper. Day,” oh YUM!!!!! February adding another day to her list and lighting up the February 4th is “Thank your The 22nd of February honors calendar!!!! Mailman Day.” Your Mailman our frst President, George or Mail-lady works hard and Washington. It is also “Be The frst day we come to is an deserves your appreciation! Humble Day” and “Walk Your important one - Feb.1st - “Nat’l Dog Day” (don’t wait until this Freedom Day,” signed into law Here’s one of my fav’s...”Eat day to do that). If Tortilla Chips by President Harry S. Truman in Ice Cream for breakfast” on the are your fav, the 24th is the day 1948 to remind us what America 6th! Now..For all you football for you. Oscar night ...the 28th... Stands for...Freedom from fans, Feb. 7th is “Super Bowl presents awards for the Best in Slavery. The roots of this special Sunday.” The 8th is “Boy Scout Movies. Now.... the extra day - day come directly from the end Day” AND “Chinese New Year!” Feb. 29th is reserved for Leap of slavery and the signing of The 9th is “Mardi Gras/ Year which comes once every the 13th amendment outlawing Fat Tuesday”...heralding the four years. It’s also “Tooth Fairy slavery. beginning of Lent. (It’s also Day.” Poor kid, she can’t make Feb.2nd is a holiday known all “Toothache Day”...OUCH! enough money once in every over the USA! It’s “Ground While the 11th is “Don’t Cry four years.....? Hogs’ Day,” the day when over Spilled Milk Day” it’s also So..there you have it...February Punxsutawney Phil from “Make a Friend Day.” Feb.12th is in a nutshell...Remember some Pennsylvania- that cute lil reserved for our great American of the events may change days of groundhog goes out to check if President, Abe Lincoln. (It’s also the week to ft into their schedule, he can see his shadow. As you “Plum Pudding Day.”) Now.... go and have fun!!!! probably already know.... if he Wow! Not only is Feb.14th our © Vasya Mazyra | Dreamstime.com - Hearts background POETRY Dancing With Drag Queens | By Morag Hillsinger

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ike the eagle spreads his wings- I touch She is the open sky and I am the eagle fying across the clouds her vast expanse- neither of us landing low, we have crossed the line and some would say we’ve lost it Smiling, imagining the heights at hand but we are in likeness – one body, unison. We are I touch her and trace her face starting at in images-with out frames. We are photographed Lthe jawbone- pronouncing the curves constantly free from vain. We’ve found ourselves in The sun bares its strength across my skin the refection of one another; and I see me for the frst time… she is my amazing… she is my saving… I am sedated and I am warm she is my moment of possibility once lost in youth… She sighs ever so slightly- melting into my palm- She is my indispensable beautiful… she is always safe and inviting my truth I smell the green from the trees beneath – mixed with Tonight we dance and not to our favorite song and jasmine and myrh not to a familiar melody. But tonight we dance a new step to a new single; taking me out of my As I free fall for miles before turning over and comfort zone; and thus we struggle to sing the lyrics allowing the wind to catch me and speak – delivering because we don’t the words but we are unashamed messages of love from the lips of she that is between as we imperfectly perform. Free form as the free waves and frequencies are born to we experience them enjoying our frst I eagerly listen to the promises I’ve imagined; so, time and laughing as we fuck them up royally… no I’ve witnessed jurisprudence, just open waters like rivers, streams The blessing of the vision in sight- we are kindred and lakes- I stake my honor with these eyes-the distance I see to the my love and to my heart there is She is the frst time I’ve experienced true love-minds no demarcation of break- nonexistent is the horizon eye… So, the decent has become an ascent and it flls me with joy - I feel ceaseless in her presence- Like I I see my face like it’s the frst time- lights on or lights have the joy of the world… off - in her eyes I see no injustice and for the frst time- I am aware again- I am alive- No longer winging it. No We rejoice in song and I can not hold a note but she longer afraid of commitment. No longer full of fear is kindness- she loves that I try- that she might not fnd me that interesting. Bravely, She loves that we can do this together…united. We daring to love fearlessly, knowing I am everything rise above judgment. I capable of being- I found my bride the moment I shed… my false identity. We’ve escaped the criticisms and though our distance is inches we are not co-dependent.

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Make sure Cupid cuisine, education booths and of The lodging packages include gets a prenup LMAO!!! Oh I’m course entertainment, mate! Yes, lodging.. I’d probably be taking a joking! Don’t get your bandanas even down under, they have dance nice little snooze under some heavy all in a bunch! Moving on... tents and fabulous people dancing quilts and sipping my hot cocoa.. together. But they also want YOU Oh sorry, sorry. This is about YOU If you ARE looking for some to join them. So if you are in this not me.. It also includes a Lift romantic love spots, I have a part of the world, mates, head over Ticket, Ski Lessons and breakfast. few. Guess what happens in to Fair Day. For more info, type: Breakfast??? Did somebody say AUSTRALIA this month on breakfast??? I’d like my eggs over February 19th? Give up? The easy, my coffee black.. oh I am really SO sorry! I just can’t seem Museum and the LGF Centre.” NATIONAL ASSOCIATION to help myself! Annnnyway, this Well that’s a lot of history! One OF MUSIC MERCHANTS Hotspots sounds like a cooool can never know too much, right? (NAMM) trade show. I attended one. Sno kidding! For more info, I think I have to track down these NAMM’s Winter Show and as ski over: www.sundayriver.com. Europeans and have them educate always, it was exciting! You see, me on a lot of things about the the convention brings out buyers, Now you know how I try to have community. I need to know!!!! Oh sellers and music industry folk Hotspots for everyone. Out in my bad. So sorry to be thinking who get to take a look at companies Williamsburg, New York, NY, of myself again! Dian, STOP the new product lines and so forth. BiFemme Parties is hosting its madness!!! For more information It also brings out educators who RED VELVET event on February of UK’s LGBT History Month, will all work together to build a 26 at 10pm until 2am. It’s said to be type: lgbthistorymonth.org.uk. better world of music. As a singer, an evening you won’t forget. “Our drummer and educator myself, I Lounge exudes sophistication and Howdy Texans! On February especially enjoy the show because elegance. Join us for a cocktail 13th, you can attend the AUSTIN I get to see what’s new in the area with friends at the bar or sit back LESBIAN PROM 2016 at the of sound equipment and drums and relax in our newly renovated, Shoal Crossing Event Center. and what’s on the horizon in the luxurious lounge space. Premium Ladies, cowgirls, this is a area of education. NAMM is not selection of spirits, wine, beer, Valentine’s Eve event. They just the show itself. NAMM does small plates, cigar menu, as well as would love to see couples AND so much for our youth in the area an intimate, laid back atmosphere. singles. There will be dancing, of music education. “Throughout Also, DJ and dancing!” say BF and drinks, and partying until you the year, the NAMM Foundation promoters. Couples are $30 but graduate they said. I’m not exactly works toward a world in which single ladies are freeeeee! Ya hear sure what you are graduating from every child has a deep desire to that you bi-femmes!!! I told you by heck, why not! It’s a Prom for learn music and a recognized right I had something for all of you!!! gawd sakes Dian!! Oh yeah, a to be taught,” says the NAMM You get to have your own special Prom! “Enjoy dancing the night Foundation. If you are a musician, party and it sounds delightful! away with a group of your best educator or have an interest in For more information,: www. girlfriends and hang out with the music, head over to NAMM online eventbrite.com/e/bf-parties- awesome lesbians of Austin,” say to see the extraordinary things presents-red-velvet-tickets- promoters. So tell me Texan gals.. they do: www.namm.org. 20482670218?aff=ebrowse. do you just go eat a big steak and then hitch up your horse? Gotta go. Enjoy this lovely month In the UK, February is LGBT Hey now! What do I know! I of love. 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Give Up Or Give In? | By Dian Katz, MS

ow many times do we have faith? Or how many failures sense into us. And for some, that think we are getting do we experience until we are still doesn’t work. In these cases, ahead and BAM, destroyed and there isn’t a shred we DO need to get out and move something knocks us of hope left? forward. Still, how do we know if down? So we get up, a relationship should end? We can These are the struggles that many Hshake ourselves off and start over ask, are we being true to ourselves? of us probably deal with when only to be knocked down again Is the person we are involved with dreams and goals are challenged. and again. Sound familiar? (in whatever capacity) destroying It’s two steps forward, one step the person we are? In other words, When is it enough? When do we back. The key is to determine what are we betraying our own nature? say this isn’t working, time to IS worth fghting for and what give up and move on? And if we is something we must let go. In It’s so important for all of us to do were to quit, what if we learned regard to relationships, some of us the inner work of understanding that a successful outcome was just hang on for dear life with a person and knowing who we are and what around the corner had we hung in who may not be the best for us. It makes us happy. It’s also important there a while longer. How many can take an emotional 2x4 to knock to discover where we need to failures can we endure and still makes changes within ourselves. It’s not always the “other person” have to detour us. mind, we are much more likely to that needs to change. Sometimes be successful. What does this all mean, that we it’s us. won’t let circumstances defne us? Another way to look at things is Still, how do we fgure this out? In a nutshell, it means, “don’t give saying bumps in the road rather In regard to a relationship, look up.” Maybe you are experiencing than roadblocks. Doesn’t saying for patterns for the source of the some really diffcult times right bumps make it sound much more problem or pain. Who and what now and don’t see a way out. Many easier to fnd a solution? The word is causing these issues? Usually, have come before you and HAVE roadblock means one can’t go it takes two people to make found a way out. Many have hit any further. The words bumps in a relationship succeed or die. rock bottom time and time again the road means the ride may be Knowing that, are we willing to but believed that anything was uncomfortable but we can still fx the problem and clean up our possible and made that become a keep driving. So in short, it’s side of the street, so to speak? Are reality. not just our attitude but what we we willing to take responsibility actually think and say out loud. When I think about some of these in the areas where we caused The more we say something over folks who have beat the odds part of the problem? This could and over, we begin to believe what or those who just keep going no be communication, putting effort we are telling ourselves. If we are matter how many times life beats in and working as a union rather telling ourselves this is awful, this them down, I wonder if I too, than two separate people on two is horrible, this sucks, we are going can possess that quality. Maybe different teams. Is the other person to start seeing the world as being many of us feel this way. So what willing to do his/her part in the an awful, horrible and sucky place do we do to make this a reality same way? These simple questions to live. When we tell ourselves for ourselves? Believing things will most likely lead to some we can keep going, we can do are going to unfold beautifully deeper paths and get to the core of this, we can achieve anything, we is not enough. “Preparing” for the relationship dysfunction. The feel good. Feeling good leads to opportunities is what’s going to bottom line is to never give up moving and taking more action. help make it so. Taking massive on ourselves. This will determine action is what is going to help. So it’s still basically the beginning whether a relationship is worthy Using a strategy of changing our of the year. It’s a great time of our involvement or not. approach when something doesn’t to think about some short and In the career department, it might work will help. We can think or longterm goals. It’s the perfect be an entirely different situation. our circumstances as a research time to change our attitudes to Many of us give up far too early. project. If one desired outcome one of gratitude and become a go Most of the successful people in does not appear, we tweak the getter. Remember, no matter how the world have failed time and time approach over and over until we bad things look, others have dealt again. There is something different fnally get the outcome we want. with much worse and succeeded. about these people. They don’t let This is how the winners in life live. Maybe we are thinking, “who circumstances defne them. They They just keep fnding ways to get cares, I have it hard and knowing don’t let hard times destroy them. around their diffcult situations. that, doesn’t help!” Again, this And they never seem to give up. type of thinking will probably lead Attitude is also vital. Seeing They continue until they reach their to nowhere. So let’s act as if, fake things as challenges rather than desired outcomes. Last month, it till we make it and go after the horrible things happening, can a movie came out entitled “Joy.” outcome we have dreamed about... change the game altogether. Why? The premise was about a young Because challenges make us look woman going through hard times for ways to win. Challenges are trying to make it in this world. I a great reframe. 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ebruary begins with opportunity on the morning of the holiday, right? a big “Green Light” 8th, which is favorable for tackling Opportunity Days: February 1, as Mercury is direct important tasks. Positive vibes 6, 10, 14, 15, 16, 18, 19 and 23. now. This is good this week will defnitely make for These days will have a little more news, as January was a nicer Valentine’s Day. of the “luck” factor of everyone, Fa complicated and challenging The energy shifts by mid-month, so take advantage of it. month for many of us. This will with Mercury and Venus in be wonderful for getting work and Femastrology Horoscopes for unconventional Aquarius and other projects moving. It’s almost February 2016 the Sun moving into creative, like starting the New Year all over emotional Pisces by February 19. For all the Signs: It’s a New Year again. But there is also a buildup of This is an interesting combination and now that Mercury is direct tension planetary tension around and could help us maintain the we can feel the energy moving February 6th and 7th which could Spirit of Compassion (Pisces) forward. Take advantage of the escalate conficts and bring up as we communicate clearly new vibrations to get things some strange surprises. This will and logically (Aquarius) about moving, particularly things that certainly make the Super Bowl a important relationship issues. went haywire back in January. wild and exciting one! Cardinal Signs Aries, Cancer, There’s a Full Moon in Virgo Chinese New Year arrives with Libra and Capricorn born around on Monday, February 22, 2016. the New Moon in Aquarius on the 7, 8 and 9 of their respective The Pisces/Virgo polarity of this February 8, 2016. The Year of months, are feeling the powerful Moon can help us to understand the Fire Monkey will spark lots infuences of Uranus and Pluto the true connections between our of change and innovation. Fire pushing them towards big, big Psyche and our Physical Body. Energy always tends to make change. If this is YOU, time to dig And don’t forget, 2016 is a Leap people more motivated to take deep and embrace transformation Year, so February 29, 2016 will be risks and forge ahead. Sometimes and true, liberating change. that “extra day” that balances out it makes people a bit hotheaded as the calendar. I think it should be a well. There is a nice window of

Aries (March 21-April 19) Put some effort into Libra (September 23-October 22) Fun and reaching out to friends and co-workers. Aries romance are the order of the day, so if you natives can be loners but much can be gained now aren’t having any, please, get out of your own way from your important associations. People will be and let the sunshine in! Attend to any unresolved more likely to lend a helping hand or simply bring issues with home and family. You may need to solve more fun into your life right now, so take advantage a few problems there but you can do it! Then go out of it. and have a good time.

Taurus (April 20-May 20) Earthy planetary Scorpio (October 23-November 21) Let Mars placements are giving you quite an advantage in your sign motivate you to do some things as this year unfolds. Career success and advancement YOU really want to do. Don’t bottle up this energy, is in the offng. Any educational pursuits can be use if for good. Otherwise you’ll just get aggravated. rewarding, too. Legal issues, if there are any should Home is where the heart is, so make sure everything be favorable. And if you can keep the balance right, is on even keel and just the way you want it. Your you’ll still have time to play. Single Taureans may creative energy may be high, so use it. even fnd a great match now. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) Direct Gemini (May 21-June 20) Opportunities arise your attention to important communication this that could include some travel. And as the month. Avoid the tendency to scatter your energy. month progresses Aquarius vibrations open up great Focus and commitment will help you make great new connections with helpful people. Still, Saturn in headway that could help you advance your career or Sagittarius is “keeping it real,” demanding that some enhance ongoing projects. Less is more right now. Gemini natives make peace with relationship issues that have become diffcult. Sometimes it is worth Capricorn (December 22-January 19) Make making compromises with an intimate or business sense of all matters relating to your income partner but only if they can hold up their end of the and possessions. Take advantage of opportunities bargain. that can generate wealth. You are beginning to make important changes that will move your life forward. Cancer (June 21-July 21) This month’s theme At this time it really IS up to you, so be decisive and is “Who’s got your back?” You’ll be exploring move ahead. your most important relationships and connections. The key is determining your true allies and making a Aquarius (January 20-February 18) You have deeper commitment to working with them. You will an opportunity to reinvent yourself now. Love be tuning in to many aspects of your inner self. Don’t and creativity abound. It’s time to be supremely be afraid to end connections that don’t ft anymore. conscious of who you are and what you want. Break free from past patterns and embrace the new. Single Leo (July 23-August 22) This is a good time to Aquarians may in heading for a serious relationship. put energy into your most important business and personal relationships. And if you fnd that certain Pisces (February 19-March 20) Your intuition relationships have become exhausting or restrictive is off the hook but make sure you can separate it might be time for a change. This could be a very fact from fantasy. Pay attention to your body, mind positive month for you, so don’t let personal drama and spirit connection. Make sure to take some time go unchecked as it will most certainly distract you. to recharge your batteries. Music, creativity, healing and spiritual pursuits will bring joy and beneft now. Virgo (August 23-September 22) You have a Clarify your intentions. unique opportunity to mix business and pleasure this month. Put your best foot forward at work and accept social invites, as they could be quite valuable. And have some fun! Single Virgos may fnd a sexy new romance in the offng.

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Happy New Year! Well we are offcially into the New Year and that means a fresh new start, with new goals and expectations of what is ahead of us this year. Well the vineyards of Twisted Roots are no different, we too are eagerly awaiting a new start to our growing season. Currently the vineyard is pretty bare, so much so that one might not see the future as too bright, given the almost dead look to the vines. This time of year, the vines are completely dormant and bare, with all the leaves falling off and the canes all over the place. That being said, this is a very important time of the year, a time that can determine the production and quality of the grapes that will ultimately become our 2015 vintages. Even though our family has been at this for three generations now and almost 100 years, it is still the time of year that causes us concern. Pruning is an art of delicate balance; too much will cause small, uneconomical crops; too little will cause over-cropping and low-quality fruit. Pruning also facilitates cultivation, disease control and harvesting, when the vines are trained to a grow in a particular shape. It is a skill that requires experience and judgment and cannot be done by machine. Ross, who spent his entire life on the vineyard and learned from his father on how to properly prune our vines, so that just the right amount of grapes would be produced and the best quality would be achieved. If we leave too many buds, which means lots of grapes will be produced, then our wine will be light and fabby, too few buds and we lose tonnage and don’t have enough great wine to go around. When it comes to our “1918” Old Vine Zinfandel vineyard, the entire situation of pruning changes. As you can see from the picture here, these vines are wild and twisted by their very nature, so pruning becomes very diffcult. The key to our rich, bold, yet soft favors in our “1918” Old Vine Zinfandel wines, is pruning these vines so that they don’t over produce and over work these old vines. With most of the wood on these vines being dead and hollow, if we leave the same number of buds as the rest of our vines, we would end up over working the vines and end up killing the old vines. While only 4 acres remain of the original vineyard from 1918, we always struggle with wanting to maximize the number of bottles each year, we always want to protect our family history and want to make sure that the vines are going to be around for the future as well. So next time you are out and about, and happen by a vineyard, remember that while it might look like nothing but twigs, there is a lot more going on out there. Someone, somewhere is focused and concerned about how to handle this mess of twigs. Cheers Josh Ruiz Co-Owner/Winemaker

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