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FIFTY SHADES OF SEXY HOW TO BRING 50 SHADES OF SEXY TO THE BOUDOIR

Variety is the spice of life, especially when it comes to excitement and thrills in the boudoir. If you’re feeling extra frisky this evening, take a cue from the erotica thriller Fifty Shades of Grey, the best selling phenomenon based on the books by E.L James, and be prepared for a night of mind-blowing passion and lust. Armed with a collection of fantasy , discover the kinky world of BDSM and unleash your wild side with fetishes that are sure to drive your lover wild. 1 WHAT IS A FETISH?

According to sexperts, a fetish is a broad term Discipline, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism. that refers to many types of sexual fixations that Because of the element of violence, especially occur outside of what is considered normal sexual towards women, BDSM has received its share of activity. This includes an obsession with high negative press by women advocacy groups who heels, nongential body parts, and lingerie. When openly denounce the popular erotica franchise. both partners are understanding and open to While the BDSM lifestyle isn’t for everyone, it can adding a bit of kink to their sexual repertoire, the be an exciting way to spice up your love life. In opportunities are seemingly endless for new thrills fact, a 2013 study found that couples involved in the between the sheets. in some type of BDSM report longer-lasting relationships, a more satisfying sex life, and a In Fifty Shades of Grey, erotica author E.L. healthier mental state. So into a sexy fantasy James helped usher in the BDSM lifestyle to the outfit and strap in for a wild ride filled with mind- mainstream. The acronym stands for Bondage, blowing ecstasies inspired by the hit erotica thriller.

“The acronym stands for Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism”

2 BONDAGE This fetish involves a power dynamic of dominance recommended for beginners. In this fetish, one and submission where one partner takes control possible scenario involves the dominant partner while the other submits to their every desire. Taking tying up their submissive lover with a inspiration from Fifty Shades of Grey, spice things and then tantalizing them to the breaking point up in the bedroom with a thrilling tie-me-up/tie-me- with a feather tickler. A seductive way to spice up down scenario. The bondage fetish heightens the this fetish is with a leather designed with anticipation and excitement even more because strappy detailing, which gives your lover a glimpse of the element of surprise and the submissive not of sumptuous bare skin. knowing their lover’s next move. After a few rounds of dominant and submissive First, set the mood by slipping into a kinky fetish foreplay with restraints and feathers, take things outfit made with decadent vinyl or sheer mesh. up a notch with that sexperts call “hard bondage.” Another provocative look is the with With any fetish, it all starts with a vampy outfit strappy detailing or an open bust that made of leather, which is perfect for bringing out shows off ravishing décolletage. The lace-up your inner dominatrix. Slipping into an ultra sexy is another provocative style to include in and kinky lingerie ensemble is perfect for a night your collection of naughty accouterment. Made of sinful pleasures, especially when the naughty with decadent black leather, this classic style of teddy and finally come off. Relive the lingerie supports the breasts with acrylic boning passion and lust between Anastasia and Christian while accentuating sexy . Adding fantasy by ramping things up with the submissive hanging lingerie to this ultra sexy bedroom situation is from the ceiling in rope restraints. As the dominant essential because it instantly takes you and your begins to undress their lover, the excitement will lover out of the everyday and into a fantasy world continue to build with each touch. In this fantasy, where anything is possible. intensify the passion even more by incorporating the thrilling contrast of soft, sensual caresses and In the world of BDSM, there are two types of rough intensity. bondage, including the soft kind, which is 3 THE DOMINATRIX In Fifty Shades Darker, the sequel to the erotica franchise, we finally meet the notorious Elena Lincoln (Michelle Pfeiffer), Christian’s former lover who introduced him to the BDSM lifestyle. Called Mrs. Robinson by Anastasia because of the age difference, Elena was his dominatrix, which refers to the dominant woman in a /bottom relationship. In this arrangement, the submissive male or female is under complete control of the mistress and must do everything she asks, including sexual activities. If the submissive fails to perform or disobeys the dominatrix, they might be punished to varying degrees. Like many fetishes, fantasy lingerie is a key ingredient for this erotic scenario. A classic dominatrix ensemble is the black corset made with faux leather and paired with matching garters and a sexy . Little details like fishnet , a , and stiletto heels also add a kinky touch for the ultimate vampy bedroom outfit. Naughty accouterments are also in order for this wild game of seduction. These include leather whips, ropes and for bondage, and blindfolds. Another must-have for this fetish is handcuffs, which are perfect for creating excitement in the boudoir with the power dynamic of dominant and submissive lovers. Another essential outfit for the Dominatrix’s intimate apparel drawer is the open bust teddy. Choose a design with sheer mesh and strappy detailing for a night full of sinful pleasures. Like many fetishes, “ fantasy lingerie is a key “ingredient for this erotic scenario.

4 SPANKING A sexy way to get in the mood for this sinful fetish is with a collection of fantasy lingerie classics, such as a skimpy, barely-there and panty set, a fun and flirty way to show your lover that you’ve been extra naughty and need a little spanking. If the submissive lover wants more or less, all it takes is a simple yes or no. But either way, the power dynamic excites each partner when the dominant is in complete control. A little bit of spanking is a sexy way to spice things up in between the sheets. For masochists, spanking adds an element of excitement to lovemaking that comes from their desire for pain and its culmination into pleasure in this dark and twisted game of seduction.

MASTER-SLAVE

In this fantasy, the submissive partner submits submissive is the thrill of not knowing what the to every whim of their dominant lover. While the dominant is going to do next, whether it’s a soft dominant has their way with the other partner, the caress or a bit of spanking. Add a dangerously submissive has the naughty opportunity to explore sexy arsenal of leather lingerie to your intimate their sexuality and push the boundaries of sexual apparel drawer and make this fantasy the ultimate desire. This fetish also involves blindfolds and experience in high octane sexy. restraints. Channeling Christian Grey, a thrilling scenario involves the dominant tying up their lover to the bedpost and covering their eyes with a blindfold. Then, the dominant takes off their lover’s clothing and drives them wild with an ice cube that is slowly caressed across bare skin. Following in the footsteps of Christian and Anastasia, excite your lover by re-enacting scenes from the hit erotic thriller. If the sex slave bites their lip, that’s a definitive sign that they’re turned on by the delicate dance of seduction that involves complete control and surrender in the boudoir. With this fetish, the submissive might also be required to call their dominant lover ‘sir’ while submitting to their every sexual desire and whim. What makes this fantasy exciting for the

5 FLEXIBLE/VERSATILE In the world of BDSM, this category is one of the most popular fetishes, especially among married couples. In this arrangement, both partners take turns being dominant and submissive, depending on their sexual preferences of the moment. A fun way to spice up this fetish is with a kinky collection of fantasy lingerie, such as skimpy with ultra naughty strap detailing, crotchless , and open bust .

LOSS OF INNOCENCE

Just like the sexy scene in the movie where woman who stole his virginity and also introduced Christian takes Anastasia’s virginity, this fetish him to the BDSM lifestyle. Ruefully called Mrs. focuses on the thrill of someone losing their Robinson by Anastasia Steele (Dakota Johnson), innocence and submitting to their lover’s deep she dusts off her satin and lace couture for a desire to be whisked away to the bedroom while dramatic entrance at the and surrendering completely. This fantasy calls for another chance to steal away her favorite lover lingerie designed with classic details like lace trim from her past. Stunning and detailed accouterment and shimmery satin. Add a dash of naughtiness to such as masks are essential to this fantasy the outfit with a leather , a negligee that because gives you and your lover the element combines a romantic and feminine silhouette with of intrigue and mystery. The icing on the cake is edgy, come-hither leather. lingerie, which adds another layer of sexiness for your lover to take off. Each layer of luxurious fabric In Fifty Shades Darker, we discover the backstory has the potential to push each lover to the brink as of Christian Grey and his life-changing experience

innocence is lost and new sexual experiences are with his own loss of innocence. Portrayed by

explored in between the sheets. Michelle Pfeiffer, Elena Lincoln was the older this fetish focuses on the thrill of someone losing their “ “innocence and submitting to their lover’s deep desire

6 POLYAMORY

In Fifty Shades Darker, the sequel to the erotic thriller franchise, Christian Grey continues to struggle with dark inner demons in the boudoir. “In other words, As his love affair with Anastasia Steele intensifies, he struggles with the temptation to explore his they can have sexual desires with lovers from his past. In the world of kinky fantasies, this scenario is referred to as polyamory, a popular fetish that involves sinful their cake and ‘sexcapades’ with more than one lover. Keep in mind that this fetish isn’t the same as promiscuity, which involves sexual activities with multiple eat it too.” partners in a short-term, non-monogamous situation. In contrast, polyamory typically involves a man or woman who engage in sexual activities with two or more lovers but in a long-term arrangement. A common type of polyamorous behavior is called “couple-swapping,” a practice that entered the mainstream after World War II thanks to men in the air force who would share wives with their friends. Today, many couples have an “open marriage” or “open relationship” arrangement, which allows freedom between partners to have additional lovers outside the relationship. One kinky arrangement is known as the “polyamorous family,” a fetish where the couple swapping happens in the same household and the husbands and wives are shared among each other. This situation usually involves elements of the BDSM lifestyle. Called the “Bull-Cuckold-Hotwife,” this fantasy has been rated by sex researchers as the fasted growing alternative sexual arrangement in the U.S. One possible reason for this phenomenon is because it allows both partners to fulfill all their sexual desires. In other words, they can have their cake and eat it too. In this erotic scenario, the “hotwife” is the woman involved in a long- term relationship with her “cuckold,” who is only permitted to perform sexual activities when she allows it. Meanwhile, the “hotwife” has the freedom to sleep with “bulls,” which are dominant partners outside the relationship. 7 When it comes to the world of fetishes and the “In other words, BDSM lifestyle, there are endless opportunities they can have for exploring all your sexual desires. And because fetishes often involve erotic fixations on inanimate objects like lingerie or heels, a collection of kinky is their cake and essential if you and your partner are interested in adding elements of BDSM to your bedroom activities. Slip into something ultra sexy and kinky, the perfect way to get you and your lover in the mood for eat it too.” naughty adventures in the boudoir. For consenting adults ready for sexy exploits, get ready for a night of mind-blowing exhilaration.

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