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21 City Parks Summer Stage features 24 Chappaqua Children’s Book 10 New Castle Board Addresses Gun Festival Violence BY KIRAN SHETH cover story 35 HHREC Annual Gala & William Raveis Ride+Walk 12 Helping Women in Ethiopia BY AMY KELLEY 31| CSSP Graduates 40 Chilli Cookoff Recipe Winner & Armonk Cider and Donut Festival and Alumni 14 Creating a Bronx Lacrosse Celebrating 50! Program 42 Chappaqua Schools Recognize BY AMY KELLEY BY STACEY PFEFFER 90 Years

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Editor’s Note: 28 New Castle United on Substance etcetera Abuse Issues In our last edition of the magazine, BY DEBORAH NOTIS My School Days as a Twin in an article titled “Learning from 48 Experience: Local Young Entrepre- BY JULIA BIALEK neurs Rack up Life Lessons,” we 36 The Great Chappaqua Bake Sale omitted the phone number for the BY BETTINA PROBER Paint Can Kid. It is 914-200-3344. We regret the omission.

SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 03 just us between The Glorious Possibilities of ‘I Can’

hen you are Empty Nest and single, but still however each day plays out! I can volunteer. I can get living in the suburbs, ‘Back to School’ feels more politically involved, as fraught with ‘issues’ that W more like an experience from the sidelines— sometimes feels. I can binge on a hot TV series, wrack I admit to being more observer, than parti- up movies at the Burns, and I can cook more or I can cipant. It’s also easy to fall into ‘missing my treat myself to lovely meals. I can hop Metro North more kids’ mode, and I so do. However, this year, to take advantage of the amazing city we live a stone’s I plan to celebrate their wings by approa- throw from. I can make a bucket list travel wish come ching life with a hefty dose of joie de vivre. true. One certainty: I can keep soaking up precious time spent with my 96-year-old Poppy. Indeed, the possibilities are rather glorious. While I consider others’ September I can... I can... scramble for book supplies and finding out teacher assignments, and while I certainly Fortunately, anytime I feel like stepping up Community wish our Chappaqua Schools a very happy 90th birt- life, I can do that, too. I’m ultimately blessed to live in hday at Greeley’s homecoming, in truth, my mind wan- an area where, in truth, fun opportunities abound at any ders a bit as I plot multiple ways to fill more ‘me time.’ life stage–our ‘Happenings’ section makes that clear– whether its stopping by Community Day, the Chappa- Two words I’m saying more: ‘I can.’ I can get to the gym qua’s Children Book Festival or Armonk’s Outdoor Art more. I can go to karaoke or a favorite musician’s gig (if I Show and Cider and Donut Festival–these are all on my can take a nap first, that is). I can take more walks in our I Can calendar too. Ultimately, I plan to do it my way, in amazing ‘hoods and parks. I can sleep longer. I can me- Can Do…the world is my oyster…mode. ditate or schedule an occasional massage. I can write a novel or a movie, or start a new publication…yes, I think about that, if I can simply pull myself from social media a bit more! Or I can get over myself and accept PleasSyna_ad-halfpg2018_v1.qxd:Layout 1 7/27/18 2:17 PM Page 1

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hen my colleague, Grace Bennett, the richment program. The teens and the host families Publisher and Editor-in-Chief of this mag- had a blast. Greeley grad James Rosenberg took a W azine, mentioned that this issue’s theme cross-country bike trip to raise money for the wom- is “Happy Days and Back to School, I let out a groan. en of Kore, Ethiopia and local couple The Roses I’m sorry but “back to school” and “happy” don’t travelled to McAllen, Texas to help migrant families. really go together like peanut butter and jelly, at least in my house. You see this past summer If you are looking for fulfilling opportunities in town was the most relaxing one I’ve had in a this fall, be sure to mark your calendar for Com- good decade. munity Day on September 15. There are many non-profits here that are in need of volunteers. Com- With my older two in sleepaway camp munity Day is a great way to get introduced to all of and my youngest in full day at her summer them. camp, I was living on “easy street” as I like to say. Less laundry, dishwashing, chauf- As much as I’ve enjoyed my summer, it is not all feuring and cooking left me with a whole doom and gloom when fall arrives. I’m happy to lot of time for summer fun. I made it a point have my whole family back and I’m excited (and to do something for myself everyday that made me sad!) for my youngest to start kindergarten and my happy–whether meeting a friend for lunch, catching oldest to start middle school. I’m not quite sure how an indie film at Jacob Burns or running with my dog. that happened so fast but maybe it’s because time And I did just that. I felt fulfilled. flies when you are having fun. Here’s to a fun and fulfilling fall for all! Turns out that I wasn’t the only one that had a fulfilling summer. Read through these pages to see a whole slew of Chappaqua residents doing excit- Enjoy, ing things this summer that are not only fulfilling but also altruistic. Our cover story celebrates a 50-year program, the Chappaqua Summer Scholarship Program, where teens from underperforming high schools in the Bronx are invited to live with local host families in July as they participate in an academic en-

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BY KIRAN SHETH applicants. New Castle Town Supervisor, tion program to reimburse school districts Robert Greenstein stated: “We are firmly outside of New York City and $50,000 for committed to advocating for stronger the hiring of a SRO. In addition, Senator n the aftermath of the tragic shooting and more effective gun control laws. This Murphy also proposed Bill S7813 which at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High requires the assistance and cooperation of makes school shootings an act of domes- ISchool, which left 17 people dead, New our state representatives, which is why we tic terrorism and Bill S7790 that provides Castle Town Board members sent two wrote the letter.” state education aid for school district that separate letters to New York State Senator, expend resources to improve security Terrence Murphy (R-NY, District 40) seeking According to a February, 2018 NBC News and safety technology. However, Council his support on a slate of gun control poll, 66% of people favor stricter gun laws Member Pool stated that while Senator measures. The letters dated February 16, in the country, with nine out of 10 Ame- Murphy’s office acknowledged receipt of 2018 and March 28, 2018 make specific ricans agreeing for universal background the February 16th letter, there were no references to proposed bills currently checks. As cited by the Brady Campaign to specific responses to the Town Board’s under consideration in the New York State Prevent Gun Violence, from 2012-2016, an requests. “It was unclear whether Sena- Senate. average of 116,255 people are shot every tor Murphy supported the gun violence year due to guns, while 96 fatalities result prevention legislation for which we were In the letter dated February 16, the Town from gun violence every day. advocating,” Pool stated. Board cited three examples of how gun violence has impacted the Chappaqua New Castle Council Member Ivy Pool noted As well as seeking support from the New community over a span of approximately that at least three public meetings addres- York State Senate for the slate of gun 20 years. The letter went on to request sing gun violence have been held since control bills, the Town Board has been wor- Senator Murphy’s support for certain February and that the town has also held king on local measures to strengthen gun measures, such as legislation that keeps events to raise awareness. For example, control in New Castle. Pool has presented firearms out of the hands of those who on March 3rd, Mom’s Demand Action her fellow Council Members with a pac- have been convicted of domestic violence gathered at Chappaqua Station to discuss kage of local legislative proposals and laws charges and the surrender of shotguns and opportunities for local area residents to get that they can pass to promote gun safety rifles when an order of protection is issued involved in the efforts to end gun violence within the community. “We are currently in a domestic violence case. on the local, State, and Federal level. Over researching these ideas, and determining 50 people attended. their legality and applicability for our town. In a follow-up letter dated March 28, the The first proposal we are tackling is the re- Town Board sought Senator Murphy’s When asked to comment about his stance gulation of gun shops, which might include support of nine proposed bills that would on combatting gun violence, Senator Mur- both the location of FFL (Federal Firearms strengthen the SAFE Act (New York Secure phy’s Director of Communication, Michael License) dealers as well as local licensing.” Ammunition and Firearms Enforcement Act Jefferson stated: “Senator Murphy will of 2013). The SAFE Act prevents crimi- continue building productive partnerships Greenstein stated, “The Town Board firmly nals and the mentally ill from purchasing with schools, community organizations, believes that gun control, and making sure firearms, requires a universal background and his fellow legislators to ensure every our schools remain safe, are local issues… check on gun purchases and imposes child who enters the doors of a school can we will continue to lobby for legislative the toughest assault weapons ban in the do so with the peace of mind that they are changes on the state level that will make country. Some examples of the proposed and will remain safe.” Jefferson outlined a New Castle safer.” bills to bolster the SAFE Act include a ban multitude of bills that Murphy is sponsoring of bump stocks, stronger background in order to combat gun violence. Kiran Sheth, a rising junior at Horace checks and allowing the state government Greeley High School, is the Forum Sec- to access mental health record from the For example, Bill S7811, would establish tion Editor of the Greeley Tribune. home state of non-resident gun license a School Resource Officer (SRO) educa- 10 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 Dutchess Manor 263 Route 9d

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On April 29 of this year Rosenberg began his journey. Unlike most road bikers in our area, his bike is laden with four pan- niers (“they're basically saddlebags like a motorcyclist or a horseback rider would have,” he said), a sleeping mat, a tent and a place to view maps up front. That's Greeley Grad how he navigates–with maps provided by the Adventure Cycling Association. He pitches his tent in parks where allowed, or Raises Money in other more rustic locations, and occa- sionally sleeps in the basements of certain for Women in Kore, Ethiopia churches that are open to all.

on Cross-Country Enjoying the Ride Rosenberg generally rides six to seven Bike Trip hours a day. “It sounds a bit boring but it's incredible. You are powering yourself so every inch you go is up to you. I didn't realize how much I would enjoy each ride,” BY AMY KELLEY MBA. “About two to two-and-a-half years he said. “I thought that what would get me ago I started the process of applying to through would be music or podcasts but business school and to keep myself sane, mostly I just listen to the sounds of nature.” n a sweltering Thursday in July, Ho- I planned a big trip,” Rosenberg said. He When he does turn to technology for a O race Greeley ’10 grad James Rosen- cast about for ideas and just kept coming little entertainment, Rosenberg’s favorites berg missed a phone call from a reporter. back to consider a bike trip. “I was not a include NPR, classic rock and Jack “I ended yesterday in Hell’s Canyon,” he ex- bike rider–I had to buy the bike to do this,” Reacher novels. plained later. “They say it's named that due he added. to the heat but I suspect it's due to lack of Besides the ride, Rosenberg also said he cell signal.” Ultimately though, Rosenberg So Rosenberg began talking to friends enjoyed meeting so many friendly people proved pretty reachable for a guy on the about it and was put in touch with a friend’s from all across the land. “I have become last two weeks of a cross-country bike trip. cousin who had done an earlier ride to be- such a big fan of this country, not that I nefit the women of Kore. The idea felt right. wasn't before,” he said. “Once you get out Rosenberg was close to achieving his “To me, it made a lot of sense to do the here everyone is incredibly friendly and so goals: the completion of a ride from York- Ride for Kore,” Rosenberg said. 'The Ride many people have gone out of their way town, VA to Astoria, OR and his fundraising for Kore' helps set up individual Ethiopian to help me” with advice, dinners and even aim of $20,000 to benefit Ethiopian women women with the security, training and finan- places to stay. “I'm very thankful,” Rosen- in the community of Kore, Ethiopia, through cing they need to start small businesses berg added. a charity called 'I Pour Life.' Kore is a and be self-supporting. The business-trai- community located on a garbage dump on ning aspect particularly resonated with But while he's enjoyed seeing the country, the outskirts of Ethiopia’s capital city, Addis Rosenberg as he headed toward business Rosenberg is clear about the main bene- Ababa and has 100,000 residents. Many of school. “It was such a perfect parallel for fit of his voyage. “This ride is for Kore,” these marginalized residents are widows, me I knew I had to do it,” he said. he said. “That's the stated mission.” orphans and HIV/AIDS victims. Rosenberg will be accepting donations at rideforkore.com for a while following the The Training Process completion of his journey, which is schedu- A Novice Biker led to end on or around July 27. At press In March of 2017 Rosenberg bought the time, he had raised more than $15,000 After attending Emory University in Georgia bike and began to train in his New York City toward his goal. and working in corporate strategy first for apartment for an hour each morning. “I was Dollar Tree and then, back in New York, for more or less sitting on my bike watching Amy Kelley is a freelance writer and JP Morgan, Rosenberg decided to get his Netflix,” he said. editor living in Mount Kisco. 12| INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 #2 Fine Art & Design Show in the Nation! (2018 Sunshine Artist) ARMONK OUTDOOR ART SHOW September 29 & 30 Saturday & Sunday 10am–5pm RAIN OR SHINE • NO DOGS

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SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 13 Bronx Lacrosse Greeley Alumn's Efforts to Empower Students In the Classroom & On the Field

BY AMY KELLEY

orace Greeley grad Dan Leventhal H (‘10) loves lacrosse. He played it in high school and continued on at Tufts University, where he won a national championship and majored in PHOTOS COURTESY OF DAN LEVENTHAL sociology. Now, he’s brought his favorite sport to the South Bronx, where he says it has the power to change the lives of local kids compared with that end, Bronx Lacrosse has two full-time for the better, both on the playing other students program coordinators besides Leventhal. field and in the classroom. at Highbridge Green. In order to Anyone interested in the initiative can Leventhal spent some time in Israel participate in the watch Highbridge: A Bronx Lacrosse Story after graduating from college and from program, a certain on YouTube and check out the program’s there, he joined Teach for America and grade point average website at bronxlacrosse.org. was assigned to The Highbridge Green is required, Leventhal said. School, a middle school in the South “I don’t think that’s a coincidence,” the This past year, besides growing his Bronx. He just finished his third year there principal of The Highbridge Green School organization and teaching math, Leven- teaching math to eighth graders. has said of the achievements of the Bronx thal played in the World Lacrosse Cham- Lacrosse scholars. pionship as a midfielder for Israel’s team, In 2015, Leventhal decided to start a which placed 7th of 45. “Some of our lacrosse program at the school, and Last spring and fall, a girls’ program was games were on ESPN so it was exciting for he launched it in the spring of 2016, at added at The Highbridge Green School and the kids to watch me,” Leventhal said. “And Highbridge Green, a school he says is there’s also a Bronx Lacrosse program now make fun of me.” located in the poorest congressional at another local middle school. district in America. Most funding for the program currently While lacrosse is a spring sport, Bronx comes from money distributed from each “The kids all love lacrosse,” Leventhal said. Lacrosse has the student athletes training school’s principal as well as from NYC’s “In the South Bronx, everyone’s playing in the fall also, Leventhal said, and even after-school program, Leventhal said, but basketball. It gives them uniqueness and during the summer. “What we’ve done this as he transitions to full-time with Bronx a chance to differentiate themselves. It’s a summer is gotten our kids scholarships Lacrosse he will be focusing on developing fast-paced sport, combinging basketball, at different lacrosse camps. It’s a great other fundraising sources. football and soccer,” Leventhal added. opportunity for them,” he said, adding that next year Bronx Lacrosse will be looking Of his latest plans, Leventhal said “Fun- “These kids have so much going on at for even more camp opportunities and also draising is a major priority. We’re going home,” he added. “This gives them a aiming to find sponsors to help foot the to have a big fundraiser, probably next release.” And that’s what Leventhal’s aim is: bill for the kids to go on fall trips to play spring.” Leventhal said his desire to give to help the lacrosse scholars, as they are lacrosse with teams from other programs. back is motivated in part by his upbringing called, deal with their lives successfully. Bronx Lacrosse has already traveled to in Chappaqua. “I had a lot of opportunity Connecticut and to Chappaqua. growing up,” he said. “My parents always And Leventhal said so far, outcomes of got me whatever I needed for sports. That’s program participation have shown positive “It is a lacrosse organization, but the mis- our goal here–to make these things acces- results, including better attendance, punc- sion is to keep kids out of the streets and sible to these kids.” tuality and higher achievement in various create positive outcomes,” Leventhal said. markers of reading and math learning on “It’s an organization that aims to empower Amy Kelley is a writer and editor based average when Bronx Lacrosse scholars are youth in the classroom and on the field.” To in Mount Kisco. 14 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 Looking for a synagogue to call your own?

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(L-R) David Meyers and Sophia Tuohy, a music student from Armonk School PHOTO COURTESY OF DAVID MEYERS BY SHAUNA LEVY few months saw his new student develop appealing to kids. They learn the lyrics right confidence through music. That experience away. After David leaves, Sophia as well avid Meyers found his passion for shaped Meyers’ music school. He says, as my two sons and even my husband Dteaching music to children with di- “I made a personal commitment to cater are still singing! I’ve seen my daughter’s sabilities quite accidentally. Having spent to this audience. These children have a speech and fine motor skills develop as a most of his career in real estate, music was tremendous need for recreational opportu- result. She speaks slower and clearer and relegated to a side pursuit that he relished nities and are such an underserved com- is always singing in the house.” when afforded the time. In 2008, however, munity. Music provides them with a creative that all changed when he began teaching a and social outlet, while building self-es- Music is known to have therapeutic quali- youth music program at New York’s Patter- teem, fine motor and language skills.” ties and Meyers agrees, explaining, “Music son Recreation Center. Playing and writing has a natural timing and rhythm that serves music moved to the forefront of his focus Meyers now teaches music lessons to encourage children to use their voice as his career took an unanticipated turn. through organizations such as SPARC in response to appropriate cues. Songs (Special Programs and Resources Connec- have a built-in conversational script that A New Beat tions) of Westchester County as well as is valuable for children who have social through his RockOnMusicSchool, providing challenges. Students learn to manage As Meyers became acquainted with the one-on-one sessions at students’ homes. frustration, gaining the understanding that learning style of today’s children, he saw “Conducting lessons in a child’s home is so it’s okay to mess up and that they will that to resonate with his audience, he beneficial to those with physical disabilities eventually advance. It’s all in their control. would need to devise his own curriculum. that may make it challenging to get out or These are skills they will take with them into He explains, “I quickly found that kids no those who thrive within the comforts of their adulthood.” longer absorb music in the same way as own environment,” Meyers says. Lessons when I was a student. Modern music is are fine-tuned based on each child’s unique heavily electronic and lyrics are oftentimes A Satisfying abilities. As Meyers points out, “Depending not age appropriate.” As a result, Meyer’s Crescendo on the child’s circumstances, we might unique “RockOnMusicSchool” technique select strings, drums or keyboard.” He Today, that first client that inspired RockOn- was born. He created original music and also modifies lessons by focusing on spe- MusicSchool’s mission is now proficient in developed a learning method that began cific skills such as developing eye contact, keyboards, bass, drums and guitar and has with simple lyrics, accompanied by the sounds or social cues. To engage the kids, developed a love of The Beatles. Meyers most basic guitar string work that gradually he often writes “silly, personalized songs” proudly reports that this student has also advanced to intricate songs with chords to get them excited and motivated for integrated into a mainstream music class. requiring increasingly complex finger work. playing music. “Each child already feels the music inside of them–some just need guidance to get it Serving the Marilyn Tuohy of Armonk has become out,” he adds as we wrap up our conversa- Underserved accustomed to hearing Meyers’ fun lyrics tion. And, it seems that Meyers has map- throughout the hallways of her home. “My ped the path as he continues to encourage In teaching, Meyers found a renewed sense daughter Sophia has Down Syndrome and all children to find a love of music in their of gratification, saying, “It’s the first job I’ve loves music, which led a friend to recom- own unique way. had that isn’t just about the dollar and that mend David to us. He really knows how is so personally fulfilling.” The role soon to interact with her and gets her engaged Shauna Levy is a writer, communica- became even more meaningful when a no matter what her mood. He brings all tions professional and stay-at-home friend approached him to give lessons to instruments including drums, shakes, the mom. She is currently raising her three his son who has autism. Meyers adapted keyboard and guitar and always comes boys, ages 9, 6 and 5 alongside her his mainstream curriculum and within a up with new songs that are so alive and husband in Chappaqua. SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 17 Local Author Tackles Tough Topic in Latest Children’s Book: Repeating Kindergarten

BY JULIA BIALEK kindergarten, she searched for a children’s book to help explain the transition to her t is always inspiring to meet people who son; disappointed to have found no such are guided by their passion, especially publication, Eisenberg decided to write Iwhen that passion is helping others. her own. “As a speech pathologist and Rebecca Eisenberg who goes by “Becca,” mother, I have always looked for children’s a speech language pathologist, author, literature to help explain difficult transitions instructor, parent, and Armonk resident or complex issues, and when I was looking epitomizes that sentiment. A proponent for a book about repeating a grade, there of children’s literature, Eisenberg recently was no book at all! I decided I was going self-published a children’s book entitled to write my own. I tend to create my own My Second Year of Kindergarten aimed work when I can’t find it. I read the draft to at providing parents and teachers with my son, and he loved it. The more I thought a resource on the topic of repeating about it, the more I was devoted to putting kindergarten. The inspiration for the book? it out there,” says Eisenberg. Her own experience.

Becca Eisenberg, book author They say necessity is the mother of in- Inspiring a Growth Mindset vention and Eisenberg can attest to that. For over two years Eisenberg worked hard When she and her husband made the to create a book with which all children and difficult decision to have their son repeat

Kindergarten Skills Potential Reasons to Repeat

Deciding whether or not to repeat kindergarten can be a very hard decision for Kindergarten families. Dawn Lorenz, a kindergarten teacher at World Cup Nursery School in Chappaqua for 24 years, notes that children entering kindergarten should have • Social or emotional immaturity the following skills: • A slower developmental timeline • Any reason that leads you to suspect that • The ability to listen attentively your child may need just a bit of extra time • Follow multi-step directions Lorenz says that she has never had parents who • Stay on task for increasing periods of time came back to her regretting their decision to have • Work cooperatively their child repeat kindergarten, but there are many • Resolve conflicts socially parents who wish they did make that decision • Function independently (put on shoes, use bathroom independently, etc.) because their child just was not ready yet. “We • Transition between tasks or locations have to make the decision based on our individual children after taking into consideration advice from • Follow classroom rules the “experts” in our lives (whether that be teachers, • Ask for help when needed school districts, preschool directors, etc.).”

Lorenz warns parents against having their child repeat kindergarten so they can “There should not be any embarrassment or gain an advantgae in academics or sports. “There needs to be a clear reason stigma at all if you are making the decision for the to repeat the grade. It isn’t about being the oldest, fastest, best, or smartest, it appropriate reasons for your individual child. You is about that individual child and how they will feel during that kindergarten year. want to set the stage for the rest of their career in Childhood is a journey, not a race; the social-emotional skills are a foundation education–you want them to be happy and love for academics, now and in the future, so we should not rush our kids to attain learning!” sums up Lorenz. skills. We need to respect that five-year-old year and how important it is to a child’s life and development,” she explains.

18 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 parents could identify. My Second Year of that. By starting meaningful and honest downloadable worksheets for children and Kindergarten is about a boy named Peter, conversations through literature, she is well podcasts it offers valauble information so named for a student she worked with who on her way. that children repeating a grade can view it defied all odds and learned to spell, write, as an empowering and positive experience. and communicate beyond expectations, Although Eisenberg believes that repeating In addition to the website for the book, who is repeating kindergarten. The book kindergarten does indeed have benefits, she writes an impressive blog called www. follows Peter’s progress from “last year” she does not advocate it for every child. gravitybread.com that forms the foundation to “this year,” highlighting the skills Peter “If a child is repeating kindergarten, there for all of her work and emphasizes learning gains from repeating the grade. With this is a reason for it; either social or acade- during mealtimes. Since 2012, she has up- book, and the reading guide for educators mic delays,” explains Eisenberg. “When dated her blog with language tips, special and parents she created to accompany it, parents and their ‘team’(their school and needs resources, book and app reviews, Eisenberg hopes to inspire a growth mind- other individuals involved in the decision) her interpretations of research articles, and set for children by changing the default make the decision to repeat kindergarten, other information with the goal of sharing attitude from “I can’t do it,” to “I’m learning it is about making the best decision for her passion of connecting with children how to do it.” the child.” Eisenberg stressed that she did through storytelling with other parents. not write the book to promote the idea of Eisenberg draws from her own personal repeating kindergarten for all children, but Hearing her talk about her book, her blog, experience to offer advice to parents who rather to provide a resource for the families and the other resources she has created are considering having their child repeat who decide that their child will benefit from with such pride, Eisenberg’s profound com- kindergarten. Tips such as, “Be honest! it. Some benefits she cites of repeating the mitment to others shines through. Explain the reasons why you have made grade include social closeness with peers “I have always been passionate about hel- the decision to have your child repeat and more time to understand information, ping other people, for work and in my life. kindergarten,” and “Connect with other which can increase a child’s confidence and Ever since I was little I have felt the desire parents whose children already repeated happiness at school. to help people with different abilities and kindergarten” are compiled in the back of needs. It is just a part of who I am.” She her book. Although Eisenberg had what truly embodies what it means to put your she described as an “ideal experience” with Web Resources for Parents, heart into your work. repeating kindergarten (due to a supportive Children and Educators school and family), Eisenberg knows that Julia Bialek is an Inside Press intern some people still treat the topic as so- As a web savvy author, she also created and a senior at Horace Greeley High mething shameful and not to be discussed. a website www.mysecondyearofkinder- School. She is also the Managing Edi- Through her book, she hopes to change garten.com to serve as a resource. With tor of the Greeley Tribune.

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KAHAN , CFP® YourYour Child’sChild’s As September rolls around and school begins, no matter what age you are, it always feels like it is the beginning of a new year. It’s also a good time to review your finances and make HealthHealth atat SchoolSchool any changes before the end of the year. Here are a few year- end things to consider: BY AMY KELLEY • College Planning – Make sure to fund your 529 plan before year end. You can deduct up to s summer comes to a close, local Keeping Lice at Bay $10,000 if married or $5,000 if single on your New York State tax return. Even if you will need parents can be found buying the money to pay college tuition in January, A notebooks, pencils and clothes and As far as lice goes, Lestz said that while you can fund the 529 plan, get the deduction, getting ready for the changes in routines probably more common at camp, it can and then withdraw it to pay the tuition. Make and activities that a new school year brings. be a problem at school as well. Besides sure you are funding the New York plan at But what about safeguarding the health of the usual admonitions not to share hats or NYSAVES.ORG. Go to NYSAVES.org to get combs and to keep long hair back, Lestz started. children returning to school? said there’s not a lot of evidence that over- For those who have children in college or who Along with new challenges and commit- the-counter products advertised to repel will be starting college in 2019, you can com- lice actually work. plete the FAFSA forms beginning October 1st. ments can come new exposure to all kinds If you looking for financial aid, schools often of viruses, not to mention that plague of have limited resources so it’s best to get them camps and classrooms alike: lice. Accor- But when a kid does have lice, Lestz said done early. ding to Dr. Ellen Lestz, a pediatrician with it can be a good idea to call on a lice White Plains Hospital Physicians Asso- professional. Besides great combouts, • Retirement Plans – Are you fully funding these lice-eradication experts are good at your 401K, 403b and other work-related retire- ciates in Armonk, weather changes such ment plans? Review your current contributions as those experienced in our area in the fall communicating to parents and children the to make sure you are getting the full benefit of cause viruses to be more prevalent, and steps they need to take in order to prevent the tax deduction and deferment that you can. “your standard communicable things” are recurrence. “They’re so, so thorough,” In most cases you can fund $18,500 in 2018. Lestz said. If you are age 50 or older, you can add an addi- the most common at back-to-school time: tional $6,000 to your contributions. Viruses that cause maladies such as colds, coughs and gastrointestinal problems. The National Association of School Nurses • Tax Withholding – There has been much (NASN) also recommends that parents re- confusion regarding the new tax laws. With view proper hygiene to prevent the spread homeowners losing much of their property tax Handwashing Is Key of infections before school starts, and deductions starting this year, many may find that the lower tax rates are not having much of parents should know their school’s policy an impact. In fact, some taxpayers may actually Dr. Lestz said handwashing is the “most regarding when to keep sick kids home. have to pay more taxes than the prior year. Re- important” defense. Noting that many view your withholding and estimated taxes paid classrooms have hand sanitizer available, Parents should also have child care plans to date. If you need to make a change you can either pay an estimated tax payment or change she stressed that children should clean for sick children if needed, and in addi- your tax withholding. Now is a good time to their hands before lunch or a snack. “It’s tion to required up-to-date vaccines, the review this with your accountant. good when teachers reinforce this at the NASN Back-to-School family checklist also beginning of the year,” she said, “and when recommends flu vaccinations. Of course, • Medicare Surcharge – If you are 65 or older they teach children how to cough and and on Medicare, make sure to look at your parents should communicate any health income to see if you will be hit with higher sneeze appropriately.” concerns or issues their children have with Medicare Surcharges in the next year. IRMAA school nurses. (Income Related Monthly Adjustment Amount) Kids and adults alike should sneeze or often is a big shock for many retirees each year. cough into their elbows, not their hands, Other ways of preparing for optimal mental There are income limits that you should be aware of to help reduce this surcharge. Now is and if a hand is accidentally used to stifle and emotional health may include get- the time to look at your income and see how a cough or a sneeze, handwashing should ting youngsters back in touch with sch- you can lessen the impact of IRMAA. follow right away. ool friends after a summer apart. Lestz suggested arranging a few playdates. And With tax deductions being reduced, now is the time to make sure you are taking full advantage Lestz also pointed out that students need to avoid anxiety, make sure all summer of the available deductions you have. A “Back to a nutritious diet and enough sleep to assignments are completed, if possible, School” review of the above areas can make sure remain healthy, and she recommended that with time to spare. “If your child’s nervous, your year-end planning goes smoothly! parents work on changing sleep schedules understand their feelings and have open

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All changes must be provided via email or scanned, or contact the publisher. Diversity: A Key Focus at the 2018 New authors include: Chappaqua Dan Yaccarino, adored by children the world over for his work on the animated TV Children’s Book series Oswald and The Bac- kyardigans. Favorite books like Doug Unplugged and Every Festival Friday will be available.

The sixth annual Chappaqua Children’s Book Festival comes to town on Saturday, September 29th with more of everything–new authors, food trucks, activities and special attractions like the Bubble Bus. John Parra, an illustrator and Food trucks will include Mobile Pie, Walter’s Hot Dogs, The Melt fine artist who will be featuring Mobile and Three Little Pigs. Dessert will be available at the Great his latest picture book Frida Chappaqua Bake Sale and also at Penny Lick Ice Cream’s cart Kahlo and Her Animalitos which will feature a custom CCBF flavor in homage to author Ber- which was named a 2017 NY nard Most: If the Dinosaurs Came Back for Ice Cream. The Mike Times Best Illustrated Child- Risko Band and the Random Farms Kids’ Theater will provide ren’s Book of the Year. entertainment.

Ninety-four authors including favorites like Victoria Kann, Rosema- ry Wells, Nick Bruel, Jane Yolen and Mark Teague will sign books and chat with their fans. Books are available through Best Book Fairs (cash or credit cards accepted). The festival, an all-volunteer effort, will also feature 18 new authors. A focus for the festival’s or- Veera Hiranandani whose ganizers was bringing books to a more diverse audience in 2018. book The Night Diary was recently featured on NPR’s Dawn Greenberg, founder and executive director of the festival, Weekend Edition and is a NY noted: "Each year the author selection committee attempts to Times Editor’s Choice Pick. find books that will offer our visiting families the opportunity to be Veera teaches creative writing transported by our authors to different and diverse worlds, giving at Sarah Lawrence College. them a window on all kinds of characters and experiences–real and fictional. We are thrilled to bring in a wide selection of authors and genres this year who are getting great buzz in the children's publishing world for their riveting stories and fresh voices.” sept. 29th, 2018 | 10-4 pm | bell school | chappaqua Author Book Signings And Readings. Great Food. Fun Family Activities And Entertainment. Michael Northrop is best known for his eleven novels 2018 authors & illustrators for young readers including Tony Abbott Tommy Greenwald Anna Raff Melissa Walker the multi-platform adventure Sarah Albee Dean Hacohen James Ransome Anya Wallach series TombQuest. His new Lori Adams Chris Healy Lesa Ransome Laurie Wallmark middle grade novel Polaris is Tracey Baptiste James Howe Susanna Reich Joyce Wan Ron Barrett Veera Hiranandini Michael Rex Rosemary Wells a swashbuckling tale drawing Nora Raleigh Baskin Melissa Iwai Sujean Rim Carol Weston rave reviews. Artie Bennett Victoria Kann Lizzy Rockwell Howard Whitehouse Samantha Berger Alan Katz Lori Richmond Dan Yaccarino Jennifer Berne Jodi Kendall Jennifer Rolli Jane Yolen Bob Bianchini Leslie Kimmelman Lena Roy Phil Bildner Peter Lerangis Marisabino Russo Elise Broach Gail Levine Stephen Savage Nick Bruel Kevin Lewis Liz Scanlon Torrey Maldonado was named Mackenzie Cadenhead Torrey Maldonado Pat Schories both a Top 10 Latino Author Laurie Calkhoven Fran Manushkin Roni Schotter and a top teacher in NYC’s Alyssa Capucilli Denis Markell Steve Sheinkin Nancy Castaldo Richard Michelson Natasha Sinel schools. His acclaimed novel Vicki Cobb Florence Minor Heidi Stemple Secret Saturdays is joined by Sally Cook Wendell Minor Todd Strasser his new novel, Tight, both exa- Jerry Craft Bernard Most Hudson Talbott mining bullying and friendships Barbara Dee Roxie Munro Nancy Tafuri Bruce Degen Matt Myklush Mark Teague and based on his real life work Jason Eaton Michael Northrop Mara Van Fleet in NYC schools. Annabelle Fisher Ammi Paquette Matt Van Fleet Alison Formento John Parra Jean Van Leeuwen ILLUSTRATION BY ERIC VELASQUEZ Nancy Furstinger Helen Perelman Eric Velasquez Michael Garland Gae Polisner Audrey Vernick Gary Golio James Preller Charlotte Voiklis ccbfestival.org

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SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 25 PHOTO COURTESY OF TRACY STEIN environmental and conservation efforts, all with an eye on cost savings measures. While broad emission reductions require Federal and State leadership, SAB has promoted and been the driving force behind implementing a number of actions, empowering a local commitment to reducing New Castle's carbon footprint.

Composting Pilot Program

The SAB is currently spearheading a voluntary recycling program to reduce food waste, one of the largest components of our trash. A win-win as the town’s food scraps are turned into compost at a commercial facility becoming something useful, rather than a contributor to waste and pollution. The Town’s food scrap recycling program provides an alternative to those residents who don’t compost at home. Participants in the pilot program purchase kits (comprised of two collection bins and compostable liners) for $25. These kits are available at the New Castle Recycling center where the food scraps, stored in approved compostable liners, can be dropped off during regular business hours.

Barbara Cardone, a Chappaqua resident recently purchased a compost kit for her four-generation household. She is glad she did because her garbage disposal now will hardly be used so the impact on her septic tank will be less. She keeps How New Castle Is both the small container and the large container in her kitchen. “There is absolutely no odor with either of them. Disposing of the food waste at the recycle Leading the Way center is quick and easy,” Cardone said. The program also provides an opportunity for To a Sustainable residents who compost to recycle food waste like bones, shells, meat, napkins and even junk food that are unsuitable for home composting. As com- Westchester mercial composting becomes more widespread and efficient, New Castle may ultimately be able to offer curbside pick up. The Town’s food scrap recycling program will pay for itself and is predicted to even save New Castle money through reduced waste and hauling fees, which is becoming increasingly important as rules on recycling plastic and BY KATHY SCHREIBER AND metals become more restrictive. TRACY STEIN he Town of New Castle is leading the way in promoting a Possible Ordinance sustainable Westchester. Galvanized by the United States T withdrawal from the UN Paris Climate Agreement, the Town on Leaf Blowers joined hundreds of cities and states pledging to uphold the Paris Climate Accord’s commitment to reduce carbon emissions, an The Town is also considering a measure that would important step in the fight against the consequences of climate have a large impact on emissions reductions–res- change. The Town of New Castle is working to define and implement trictions on leaf blowers. A SAB-recommended measurable goals to reduce emissions 26% by 2025 (based on 2005 leaf blower reduction ordinance would be similar levels) as part of its action plan. to laws already in effect in 17 other Westchester towns and counting. Most people are unaware that Guiding the Town’s initiative is the New Castle Sustainability Advisory in addition to creating noxious noise and blowing Board (“SAB”). This group, comprised of eleven dedicated Town hazardous dust particles and other pollutants into appointed members and many additional volunteers, works behind the air, gas leaf blowers emit large amounts of car- the scenes to advise the Town on best practices for leading local bon emissions. One study estimates that a single

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SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 27 New Castle United for Youth: Educating the Community on Substance Abuse Issues

BY DEBORAH NOTIS

niting the community and making our younger residents feel that Uthey have a safe place to turn can be challenging, even in our welcoming town. Enter New Castle United for Youth (NCUFY). Formed in 2016 as an outgrowth of the Coalition for Youth (CFY), NCUFY is a supportive, encouraging resource that uses youth-focused strategies to promote a safe School. Sells discussed the importance of supportive of NCUFY’s initiatives. The town and healthy community. developing positive relationships, and the raised age restrictions for buying vaping value of open conversations between pa- equipment and cigarettes to 21; smoking is The committee’s founding members, Stee- rents and children about drugs and alcohol. prohibited in town parks; and the town has ring Committee Chairperson Lea Barth and Dr. Steven Dewey, a NYU Medical School prevented vaping stores from renting space Steering Committee members Leslie Kuhn neuroscientist and researcher was another near Chappaqua schools. “Rob Greenstein and Victoria Goodman, were originally guest that NCUFY invited to speak at Gree- is a doer. He is consistently supportive and members of the Chappaqua Central School ley’s iLab and science research classes this responsive. So is Jill Shapiro,” notes Kuhn. District’s R21K PTA Committee. They spring. He helped elucidate the science started attending the monthly meetings behind the impact of drugs and alcohol on And NCUFY is growing. “When we applied of the Westchester Coalition for Drug and a teenager’s brain. for our initial grant, our objective was to Alcohol Free Youth and soon realized they change people’s perceptions about teen could re-invent the Town of New Castle’s In addition to participating in Community alcohol use, hopefully reducing the amount drug prevention committees following Day, with a hard-to-miss, enormous “blow of teenage drinking,” notes Barth. Now, this model. Working with members of the up” brain, and hosting a booth at the sum- they are working to increase their social community, CFY applied for the federal mer concerts, NCUFY funds a prevention media traffic, to continue increasing part- Drug Free Communities grant which was specialist who splits time between Bell nerships within the community, and to get awarded to CFY in 2016. This grant gives Middle School and Seven Bridges Middle across their consistent, positive message the Coalition $125,000 a year, renewable School and hosts after school clubs and of preventing substance use and abuse. annually for up to ten years, to fund preven- presentations. Goodman hopes this spe- Long-term, the Steering Committee hopes tion work in the Town of New Castle. cialist will promote a “good culture shift and to build something that is sustainable; great prevention programs.” they want to build something that can “Our goal is to promote a positive mes- be passed down to a new generation of sage and help students and teens feel Summer Interns Guide New Castle’s parents, administrators, and empowered to make positive choices. We influencers who can support this communi- want them to feel confident making social Future Programming ty’s youth. choices that are right for them,” says Barth. To achieve this, NCUFY brings together This summer, NCUFY hired two young pro- While the Coalition has yet to determine parents, youth, the Chappaqua School Dis- fessionals, a social worker and a counselor whether they have encouraged a subs- trict, the Town of New Castle, police, local to run a summer teen internship program. tantive behavioral change in New Castle’s businesses, medical professionals, local With over 20 students participating, this youth, Goodman says, “All of this started media, religious organizations, and others group was charged with researching poten- a great conversation.” Hopefully, this to work together to apply data-based tial initiatives and information, as well as de- conversation will resonate throughout the approaches to influence the way kids make veloping positive prevention messages that community. social decisions. appeal to an audience of their peers. Barth enthusiastically notes that the “kids have Deborah Notis is the co-owner of “We are fortunate to live in an open and been great.” Kuhn adds, “We have smart gamechangernow.com, a free referral accepting community. Our kids have the kids in this community, when you give them service connecting families to highly capacity to accept the choices of others,” the information, they can process it and qualified, competitively priced aca- states Kuhn, who has helped to spearhead draw their own conclusions.” demic, sports, music, and art tutors. several initiatives to engage local teens. She is a frequent contributor to Inside Last October, NCUFY partnered with the The NCUFY Steering Committee lauds the Chappaqua. school district to bring the motivational efforts of the Town of New Castle, which speaker, Ty Sells, to Horace Greeley High they find to be exceptionally helpful to and 28 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 ATTENTION! Is Back Pain Limiting Your Daily Activities or Exercise? 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30 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 CSSP students this summer at Boscobel PHOTO BY BILL LINDELOF Chappaqua Summer Scholarship Program Celebrates 50th Anniversary and Leaves a Lasting Impact on Participants & Host Families

BY STACEY PFEFFER Currently students in the program make been insistent that the classes that the a three-year commitment to participate in children take introduce them to something it each summer during the month of July. new that they otherwise wouldn’t have ifty years ago a group of concerned They are hosted by New Castle families experienced.” New Castle residents launched the who provide housing during the week while F Chappaqua Summer Scholarship the students participate in an academic en- Program (CSSP). They were passionate richment program that includes classes in Shaping the CSSP Program believers in civil rights and following the diverse subjects such as Shakespeare with aftermath of the Martin Luther King Jr. and actors from the Hudson Valley Shakespeare Fran Alexander, a board member and Robert Kennedy assassinations they were Festival at Boscobel to digital storytelling creative writing instructor with CSSP, and a hoping to do something on a local level at the Jacob Burns Film Center located in 30-year resident of Chappaqua was one of to help academically motivated students Pleasantville. the people involved with the program when in New York City who didn’t have access it was undergoing its transformation ten to the same opportunities as students in Originally the program took place at Horace years ago. Although it was a lot more “labor Chappaqua. They wanted to share New Greeley High School during the school’s intensive” for the CSSP board members, Castle’s good schools and tranquil subur- summer school program, where both it also gave them a chance to shape the ban setting with these students to offer CSSP and Chappaqua students attended program and reach out to local institutions them a path to academic success which classes taught by Greeley teachers. When such as the Jacob Burns Film Center which would hopefully lead to subsequent careers the Board of Education decided to disband resulted in a partnership with them. at a time when New York City schools were the summer school program in 2008, facing an educational crisis. due to declining enrollment, CSSP had to Swimming and tennis lessons have always overhaul the program. Curriculum changes been a mainstay of the program since its were implemented along with sourcing their inception. “These are social sports and From Shakespeare to own instructors, under the leadership of we have had many students come back Digital Storytelling then chairperson Diane Albert. to us and say how glad they were to learn tennis. Many of the CSSP students have Little did they know that when they set Nancy Stein, a Chappaqua resident who not had much exposure to swimming,” out to create this program, it would still be has been involved with CSSP for more explained Stein. They take swim lessons at in existence five decades later and now than 40 years and is currently an ex-officio the Saw Mill Club and tennis lessons at the thriving as a non-profit that has hosted CSSP board member has seen the pro- Seven Bridges Field Club. To help round more than 400 students since its inception. gram morph over the years. “We’ve always out the experience this summer, they also SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 31 Melissa Labelson young people at our home impacts all of us Levine, a Millwood and never grows old. While driving on July resident has hosted 4th, one of the students that we hosted Vera for the past had never seen fireworks before and was three years. Although amazed by the beauty of seeing something hosting the same so incredible for the first time. We take student each summer so much for granted. Everyone says we is not typical, Vera change lives giving these kids a wonderful and the Levine family summer for three years but the power of share a special bond. this program is far greater for all of us who “It has been amazing live in Chappaqua.” and she is part of our family. This program This year, Mortlock was charged with has really helped her recruiting additional host families. Although blossom. When she she has two young children of her own first came to us she (ages 5 ½ and 7), she reached out to was very introverted several families in her daughter’s class and but this year she is was able to secure additional host families. much more out- “Many had never heard of the program. going and she has I think the default is when you have young (L-R): Raimatou Abdouloye, Javaughn Headley, Stefan Laroche, Ellen mentored and taken Adnopoz, Nancy Stein, Nancy Silver, Vera Abrafi Kyeremeh, Joshua Op- kids, you think you can’t add any more to pong-Peprah the first year CSSP your plate. But it really is only two weeks students under her and a minor inconvenience relative to wing.” Levine stays in the amount that you are giving to these participated in additional activities such as touch with Vera throughout the school year students and what your family will get out mini-golf and bowling. and she has come up for the Chappaqua of it.” Children’s Book Festival and other events. Although the program only lasts four weeks Even the youngest children involved with with the students rotating between host Samantha Mortlock has also provided her CSSP gain benefits by being part of a host families for two week sessions, its impact home as a host family for two years and family. Reese Gilvar, an incoming third is long lasting for both the CSSP students now serves as a CSSP board member. grader at Roaring Brook Elementary has and their host families. Many keep in touch “I was absolutely drawn to CSSP because enjoyed hosting Raimatou and playing Mo- throughout the year and even through of the opportunity to expose my family to nopoly with her. “My mom is teaching me college and beyond. Ellen Adnopoz, a people who don’t come from the same to be kind and open to other people and to CSSP co-chair, points out how much the background. To be able to welcome these not go on devices when you have guests.” alumni are still dedicated to the program. students into our home is a very great gift Ten alumni spoke at this year’s orienta- for my family. It has helped open our eyes Ket Hollingsworth, a first year CSSP tion and several showed up to cheer the to what is going on only 20 miles away student feels that living with a host family students on and participate in another from us.” was a great experience. “It was scary at summer ritual, the softball game. “We just first but it taught me some important things can’t seem to separate from CSSP partici- Many of the students don’t feel supported pants and that’s exactly the way we like it.” or safe in their schools. The issue of school Some alums have even gone on to serve safety was apparent in a recent film scree- on the board. ning that the CSSP students unveiled at the culmination of their film class that they took at the Jacob Burns Film Center. The A Formative Experience students were asked to develop films that for All Involved focused on various topics and one was people’s perceptions of the Bronx. In the Vera Abrafi Kyeremeh is a third year CSSP short film, the CSSP students addressed student who attends Collegiate Institute for the positives and negatives of their Math and Science, one of two Bronx high neighborhoods. schools that the majority of CSSP students attend. She recently emigrated from Ghana “To give the CSSP students an opportunity and was reunited with her mother after 13 where they are completely supported and years apart. “CSSP is a huge opportunity completely safe for a month and have all for me. It opened my eyes and made me the resources to just be able to learn and realize that there is more to life than just diversify their experience is amazing. It is going to school. The host families care so great for the students but it also is a really much. Two weeks may seem like nothing great and eye opening experience for the but getting a place to sleep and waking up families,” explained Mortlock. and seeing their faces and getting picked up by your family–that builds a connection. Nancy Silver has been a CSSP board Left CSSP graduate Vera Abrafi Kyeremeh with They interact with you and ask how your member for more than two decades and is host family member Meri Levine on right day went and that’s where the connections a co-chair of the program. “This summer PHOTO COURTESY OF MELISSA LABELSON are made.” I realized that the magic of having these LEVINE 32 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 like how to conduct yourself and make What CSSP Means to Me: Alumni Perspectives social connections. It also taught me that impressions count. I can’t leave my room a Inside Chappaqua asked CSSP alumni what the program means to mess for my host family but I do at home,” them. It is clear from their responses that this four-week program has a he laughed. long-lasting impact and was a formative experience for them. The host families play a crucial role in the Mary Diaz success of the program. “Every one of the J.D. Candidate, Fordham University School of Law kids that comes to the program is just as bright as the kids in Chappaqua. I think CSSP Student: 2005-2008 the big difference for them is family. Sitting down to a table and eating dinner with the Diaz is currently a rising second year law student at expectation of you participating, that’s what Fordham University School of Law where she is a Stein the host families are all about,” explains Scholar and involved with the Fordham Environmental Law Stein who will soon be honored in a 50th Review, Moot Court, and the Latin American Law Student anniversary celebration for CSSP at the Association. Before law school, she was a paralegal with Mount Kisco Country Club on November the United States Attorney’s Office in the Southern District 4th. Tickets are available at www.chappa- of New York for three years in the Securities and Commo- quasummerscholarship.com/50th-anniver- dities Fraud unit. sary It has been 10 years since I have graduated from the program and the Chappaqua Sum- Stein, who organized housing for the stu- mer Scholarship Program continues to be a second family and home away from home. dents for many years recounts how she still CSSP has been with me every step of the way and through every stage of my life from my keeps in touch with some of the students teenage days to my college days to study abroad days, relationships, my first job out of she hosted more than thirty years ago. college, through adulting, and the law school application process. As the first person in my Some of them have become engineers, family to graduate from college having CSSP as a resource has been invaluable. I know lawyers, technology consultants and that I can always count on CSSP and I am forever grateful for all that CSSP has done. educators. In fact, students from the CSSP program have attended wonderful colleges The Chappaqua Summer Scholarship Program is an invaluable program that truly changes such as Babson, Brandeis, City College, lives. It determined where I went to college thanks to a host brother who spoke to me Dartmouth, Fordham, Howard, Hunter, about a fantastic liberal arts university I had never heard of, which ended up giving me the RPI, SUNY Albany, Binghamton and Stony best four years of my life. CSSP is a reflection of the power of access to information and Brook, Trinity, UVM, Vassar and Wesleyan. knowledge for the underprivileged. It provided and continues to provide a network that does not exist for people of my means. CSSP welcomed me, a stranger, with open arms, and has offered nothing but love, acceptance, support, inspiration, and guidance. I truly What’s on the Horizon for CSSP do not know where I would be without the program.

As the program looks toward the future, CSSP is looking at ways to ensure a suc- Taralyn R. Frasqueri-Molina cessful college admissions process. This Senior Product Portfolio Manager - Legendary Digital year Alexander and Young Adult author Networks Phyllis Shalant, who co-teach the creative writing class planned a personal essay Molina leads teams who build things in the geek and gamer session utilizing the top five college essays digital streaming space for this California-based company. published by The New York Times. “Our class analyzed why they were chosen.” CSSP Student: 1992-1994 Alexander finds it very rewarding to work with the students over a three-year period CSSP taught me there was much more in the world than “Not only do I see them grow up but also what was in my own hometown. For some of us attending their writing matures.” Alexander hopes the program, it may have been the furthest away from that the class is preparing them to write a home we’d ever gone, and it encouraged us to go even great college essay. further. CSSP showed me that you never know where you are going to find the things you are going to fall in love with–in three years of summer school, in the homes of strangers, In recent years, the program has made a in the faces of new friends, in your own backyard with a new set of eyes. You go, and you concerted effort to offer more college coun- return forever changed. seling. Students are offered college essay help, SAT preparation and tours of local I’d like to think that 24 years later I’m not exaggerating till things become mythic, but colleges such as Manhattanville and once CSSP was a profound experience for me. I attribute a lot of that to Mrs. Stein. It was ac- admitted, a generous book stipend. “Some cidental we even met in the first place, as I remember it. My assigned host family became of our CSSP students are the first genera- unexpectedly unavailable. And in that coincidental moment, the golden thread that would tion in their families to attend college and stretch between us over decades, was designed. I didn’t know it then, I wonder if she did, we want to help them succeed in college but Mrs. Stein would become a singularity in my life, a catalyst for irreversible change. Her and ensure their graduation,” explains Ad- absolute belief in the strength I already had inside, her unwavering trust that I could make nopoz. “To that end, we are making college the right decisions and figure out my own path, became part of the foundation, started by success more of a focus.” my mother, that I continue to use (even in my 40s!) to grow through struggle into illumi- continued on page 39 nated understanding and compassionate action. SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 33 Dr. Peter Mercredi, PhD. Senior Scientist in the Department of Therapeutics Products and Quality at St. Jude Children's Research Hospital's Good Manufacturing Practice (GMP) Facility

CSSP Student: 2000-2002

Dr. Mercredi obtained his Bachelor's degree from CCNY and his doctoral degree in Biochemistry from the University of Maryland, Baltimore County. Outside of the lab, Peter enjoys biking, hiking, running and spending time with his wife and daughter.

As a 2002 CSSP alum, Dr. Mercredi always reflects on the opportunities he was afforded that otherwise would not be possible. "I had met so many wonderful families and friends during my summer escapes from the Big Apple. These adventurers were filled with learning and new experiences that contributed to my success in a very competitive world. I loved all my host families and enjoyed learning from the many teachers, especially Mr. Furey. One of the many things I will always remember is the welcoming smiling faces from all the organizers as we unloaded from the MetroNorth each Sunday evening. The leadership from people like Mrs. Linda Peterson, Mrs. Nancy Stein, to current board chairs Mrs. Ellen Adnopoz and Mrs. Nancy Silver, are what make this program so successful after a half century.

Alan Salas Environmental Engineer, Arcadis

A graduate of Dartmouth College, Salas has been working as a water resources engineer at Arcadis for five years supporting coastal resiliency efforts in NYC.

CSSP Student: 2006-2008

One of my greatest accomplishments as an engineer was being part of a team that helped to build a floodwall and levee at a wastewater treatment plant deeply affected by Superstorm Sandy. In my personal life, I recently moved to the DC metro area and married my college sweetheart this past spring.

CSSP means family to me. I’m still in touch with my host parents, some of whom have become friends and mentors. I would not be where I am today if it wasn’t for the program. They have helped me achieve significant milestones and continue to provide support to this day.

Josee Vedrine-Pauléus Professor of Engineering at University of Puerto Rico-Humacao

CSSP Student: 1992-1994 and current Board Member

There’s so much emotion and good memories that CSSP brings to mind. CSSP has marked me for life. Host families taught me the importance of family time, especially around the dinner table. Mrs. Stein, the late Mrs. Peterson, and others provided me with compassionate feedback and encouragement to be my very best; the outdoor/recreational activities opened my world beyond academics and all this with my fellow CSSP classmates to cheer me along during those tough teenage years, WOW!

Recently our family returned home to Puerto Rico, after seven months of being uprooted as a result of Hurricane Maria. Our 6-year-old son never felt at home when we lived in Providence, RI, and constantly prayed for us to return. Upon opening our doors, I realized that ‘There’s really no place like home.” As cliché as that saying may be, I want to parallel it to what CSSP meant to me. CSSP was an academic program but was also “home” during those three summers. The real gem and cornerstone of CSSP is the realization that an unknown could be welcomed into the home of an equally unknown and form a type of lifetime bond that is found only in a loving family setting. Once I understood that I was at “home,” the academic took care of its self, and I was able to thrive in every aspect, along with my fellow classmates, to exceed all expectations.

CSSP’s founders are true visionaries in the holistic approach taken to design an academically enriching program where the home and host families are at its core; yet I don’t think even they had an idea of the profound impact CSSP would have 50 years later on in so many lives.

I am blessed to have been a part, and grateful for so many who welcomed me “home” week after week, after week.

34 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 happenings William Raveis Ride + Walk

The William Raveis Charitable Fund will host the fourth annual William Raveis Ride + Walk benefiting the Damon Runyon Cancer Research Foundation on Sunday, September 30, 2018, at Calf Pasture Beach in Norwalk, CT, from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. This family and community fundraising event includes a 5K walk, a 12-mile, 25-mile and 50-mile bike ride, and a children’s 100-yard dash. Following the walk, rides and dash, there will be food, music and kids’ activities. 100% of all donations raised by participants benefit the Damon Runyon Cancer Research Foundation.

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SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 35 The Great Chappaqua Bake Sale Passes the Rolling Pin to a New The new Great Chappaqua Bake Sale Co-Chairs. (L -R) Rebecca Blum, Charlotte Spiegel, Sophia Spiegel Generation PHOTO COURTESY OF ALLISON SPIEGEL

BY BETTINA PROBER fighting childhood hunger. The Chappaqua when they are hungry; so many kids do not sale has also received $50,000 in matching have that privilege. he Great Chappaqua Bake Sale, a donations from Domino Sugar, making delicious annual tradition since 2010, the total raised for the organization almost “We started this endeavor to show our T has announced that incoming Horace $200,000. children what charity is all about,” said Greeley freshmen Rebecca Blum, 13, and Spiegel. “Yes, it’s wonderful to donate Charlotte and Sophia Spiegel, both 14, will Founded by Chappaqua residents Holly money to good causes, but getting invol- take over leadership roles in 2018. Blum, Allison Spiegel and Jessica Rein- ved and creating something bigger than mann, the Great Chappaqua Bake Sale yourself to help others is so rewarding.” “We’ve all been involved since the very has always had a two-fold mission: to beginning,” said Rebecca. “It’s a very raise money for kids in need, and to impart While Rebecca, Charlotte and Sophia have rewarding feeling to know that we are social responsibility to the organizers’ own always been involved with the event, 2018 making a difference in so many kids’ lives.” children and the community at large. will mark the first year they are truly Since its inception in 2010, the bake sale in charge. has raised $146,000 for the No Kid Hungry “We started The Great Chappaqua Bake program of Share Our Strength, which is a Sale as a way to teach our kids the true “Holly and I are working closely with them leading national organization dedicated to meaning of charity,” said Blum. “As our this year to show them the ins and outs daughters have grown up with the bake of leading such a large-scale event,” said Inside Chappaqua asked Re- sale in their lives, they’ve been taking on Spiegel. “They are learning the ropes qui- becca, Sophia and Charlotte to more and more responsibility each year.” ckly and have already come up with some great ideas.” share a favorite recipe. Here’s Share Our Strength and the Bake Sale for one for peanut butter balls, which No Kid Hungry program were always the The girls are particularly excited about are so popular they often sell out! driving force behind the Chappaqua effort, getting more kids involved, and spreading noted Blum. The program encourages local the word that philanthropy is an important communities to host bake sales to sup- activity. Peanut Butter Balls port the organization’s mission of ending childhood hunger. After hearing about the “Trying to get other teens involved is a huge Ingredients: program from an infomercial, the founders goal for us,” said Sophia. “If we can do this 1 Cup of Chunky Peanut Butter contacted the organization. with only three of us, imagine if 1,000 teens 1 Cup of Confectioners’ Sugar get involved.” To that end, they have also 1/2 Cup of instant non-fat dry milk “After learning some very sobering statistics started a new social media campaign, with 3 Tablespoons of water about childhood hunger, such as how one Facebook and Instagram accounts for the 1 Cup of chocolate chips in six children face hunger in this country, bake sale. Graham Cracker Crumbs we were more determined than ever” to start our Chappaqua version, said Spiegel. “Every Friday we post ‘Hunger Fact Friday’ Directions: “Over the past eight years, we’ve seen the on our Instagram feed so kids get a real- Mix the first five ingredients together incredible impact No Kid Hungry has had world picture of what’s going on” said in a bowl. Shape them into 1 inch on the childhood hunger crisis in America.” Charlotte. “So far, we have 150 followers round balls. Coat with graham cracker and we are definitely aiming for more!” The crumbs. Let chill in the refrigerator for at The bake sale serves as a concrete girls have also been busy soliciting raffle least 1/2 hour. reminder for the kids that not all children prizes, organizing bakers, and scheduling are lucky enough to be able to grab a treat volunteers for the day of the event. 36 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 The Great Chappaqua Bake Sale has been hosted in De nitely not your run of the mill children's music class... conjunction with the Chappaqua Children’s Book Festival since 2012, when the festival organizers asked the Bake Sale to be its exclusive dessert providers.

“We were thrilled at the possibility of reaching exponen- tially more people,” says Blum. In the past, the sale has attracted thousands of visitors. In order to supply enough baked goods, the organizers recruit between 80 and 100 Music For Aardvarks is in Chappaqua! individual volunteer bakers, plus local businesses, to make and donate the treats. Get ready to start rockin’ with Music for Aardvarks It’s a jingle-jammin’ foot stompin’ hulaballo “One of the best things about the bake sale has been the your kids will love. See our website for a ongoing support from Chappaqua and from all our sur- complete schedule and register online today! rounding communities,” said Blum. “So many businesses and individuals volunteer their time, donate goods and services to our raffle, and support the event year after year. Our goal is to continue to nourish this community support and have our kids uncover new ways of bringing the community together.”

“It’s always such a special day for our town and a great Featuring the music of way to celebrate children,” added Spiegel. David Weinstone as seen on The Great Chappaqua Bake Sale will take place at the Nick Jr! Children’s Book Festival in Chappaqua on September 29 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.

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SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 37 Open house with free classes Sept 9th Come and Join us

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38 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 Snapshots from CSSP Graduation

CSSP celebrates 50th anniversary with cake Graduation guest speaker, Carlos Lejnieks, CEO Sheptin Tutoring Services recieves thanks of Big Brother Big Sisters (Essex, Husdon, & Union Counties) with students

CSSP graduate Vera Abrafi Kyeremeh with her Graditude for creative writing teachers Phyllis famliy and host family members Shalant and Fran Alexander Host family Kristin Miles with her PHOTOS BY CAROLYN SIMPSON/ daughter and student, Adamaris Lopez DOUBLEVISION PHOTOGRAPHY continued from page 33 This past August, CSSP organized its first annual college transition are the only community in Westchester doing this type of program.” day for students entering college this fall and rising sophomores. Fellow board member Stein agrees and is hoping that the program The half-day workshop featured a facilitator from the Posse continues to thrive. “It would be very sad if CSSP didn’t exist any- Foundation, a national preeminent college success program. The more in Chappaqua.” workshop focused on topics such as high school versus college expectations, navigating imposter syndrome, understanding Myers CSSP is at its heart a grassroots initiative, financially supported Briggs types and work styles, selecting courses, time manage- through contributions from the Chappaqua community and ment, managing stress and navigating campus resources and beyond, primarily from two annual appeal letters. The November financial aid. 4th event will be the first time the CSSP board has organized a fundraising event of this magnitude. The goal is to help CSSP continue In the coming months, CSSP hopes to begin a formal mentoring thriving for another 50 years. program and also a Young Leadership Circle in New York City where CSSP alumni can brainstorm about professional develop- For more information, visit chappaquasummerscholarship.com ment, network and potentially advise college students on careers. Stacey Pfeffer is the Editor of Inside Chappaqua. Adnopoz is proud of her involvement with the program. “It’s one of the best things about living in Chappaqua. As far as we know, we

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SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 39 happenings Third Thursday, Winning Chili Recipe

Every Third Thursday this summer, Turkey Chili Armonk residents and visitors enjoyed a summer of early evening activities galore in and around Ingredients Armonk Square and Downtown–a ‘Chii Cookoff’ set the tone early on 4 pounds ground turkey 1 tablespoon dried oregano for some truly delicious fun. This 4 cups diced onions 6 cups canned tomatoes, seeded and chopped year had a 40% increase in the 2 cups diced red and green bell peppers 1 15 oz can of red kidney beans, drained 2 cups diced celery 1 15 oz can of roman beans, drained chili makers from local chamber 6 tablespoons chopped garlic 1 15 oz can of black beans, drained member restaurants. “The chili 2 jalapeno peppers, seeded and diced 6 cups of chicken stock contest has become our premier 6 tablespoons chili powder olive oil Third Thursday event,” said Neal 1 tablespoon ground cumin salt and black pepper Schwartz, Armonk Chamber Pre- 1 tablespoon ground coriander 1 bunch chopped cilantro sident. “This year we raised money 1 tablespoon Spanish paprika 1 bunch diced scallions to contribute to our 2019 student scholarship fund.“ Here: first place Procedure winner Moderne Barn’s turkey chili

recipe–just in time for us to share Heat oil in a large heavy pot and heat ground turkey until well browned. Remove ground for back to school. Tauk Restaurant turkey with a slotted spoon and set aside. claimed the second prize! Add onions, bell peppers, jalapeno, celery and garlic and reduce heat. Sweat out vegetables approximately five minutes. Add chili powder, cumin, coriander, paprika and oregano and continue to cook out for another two minutes. Add tomatoes, chicken stock and ground turkey. Bring to a boil and reduce to a simmer approximately 15 minutes. Add drained beans and continue to cook another 10 minutes. Season with salt and black pepper to taste. Garnish with cilantro and scallions.

Upcoming Cider & Donut Festival: September 23

The Armonk Chamber’s winning formula for a fun-filled day: Jamie’s Run for Love, Byram Hills Preschool Association Children’s Carnival, and an old fashioned Cider and Donut festival. Based in Wampus Brook Park, the annual festival is a perfect setting for all of the activities. Making fresh cider and donuts in the park brings back parent’s memories and has already begun creating new memories for generations. “But after the band, the food, the run, the most fun still goes to those brave kids and parents who will throw away their inhibitions and diets and go full throttle into the pie eating contest,” said the Chamber's Schwartz. For more information, visit www. armonkchamberofcommerce.com

40 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 LIFESTYLES WITH OUR SPONSORS Tauk Brings a Taste of the Beach to Armonk

BY MARLENE KERN FISCHER

If you are feeling a little sad that the days are starting to get shorter and cooler, there is something you can do about it. A visit to Tauk, a new restaurant in Armonk Square, may be just what without chowder? Tauk’s salmon chowder is bar menu and vibe reflect that desire. There’s a you need to help extend your summer and make prepared to perfection. There are also a variety television so that customers can watch the Food you feel as if you’re still at the beach. of tacos on the menu, including braised beef, Channel or whatever sports game is on. chicken, and crispy or grilled cod which are available in flour tortillas or corn shells. Dietary Restrictions Armonk Native Best Seller The restaurant is more than happy to accom- Francis Leone, an Armonk native, has brought modate dietary restrictions–for example both the best of Montauk to his new restaurant, The number one best seller at Tauk is the the tacos and the fish and chips can be made which boasts fresh off the boat fish delivered dai- Montauk lobster roll, which can be ordered gluten-free, while the brussel sprouts can be ly. Born into a restaurant family (his uncle owns warmed and buttered or chilled with tartar made in a vegetarian preparation without bacon. the Emilio’s of Morris Park the famous pizzeria sauce. Paired with a glass of cold Montauk beer, Poiarkoff and his crew are also happy to make and Italian restaurant in the Bronx), Leone cred- you will swear you can almost hear the surf roll modifications on their menu items whenever its his uncle for teaching him “everything I know on and off the shore and feel an ocean breeze. possible; just speak to your server about any about the business.” And after eating at Tauk a Other sumptuous entrees include the cod fish special requests. You will find the staff at Tauk few times, I would say he knows a lot. and chips, lobster mac and cheese, steak frites knowledgeable, friendly, attentive and eager and seared wild salmon. Leone also recommends to please. Casual & Relaxed Atmosphere the burger with special Tauk sauce, which is prepared with organic meat and always fresh Open Hours The atmosphere at Tauk is relaxed and casu- local ingredients. One of my family members, al, with the focus on food and fun. Montauk who is the pickiest of eaters, was thrilled with Tauk opens daily for lunch at 11 a.m.; dinner is themed artwork adorns the walls inside the the crispy, fresh nachos and perfectly prepared served until 11 p.m. Monday through Thursday bright and inviting interior. There is outdoor Buffalo chicken wings. and 9 p.m. on Sundays. (The kitchen is closed seating available, as well. In fact, Tauk boasts one between lunch and dinner from 3:00-5:00 p.m.) of the largest outdoor seating areas in Armonk. Seasonal Offerings It’s important to note that Tauk is open until The outdoor patio, designed by Leone himself, midnight Friday and Saturday, which is perfect will remain open into Fall; outdoor heaters will For the fall, Tauk will add the Tuna-Wich, a for those who prefer to dine on the later side keep you warm on the cooler Fall evenings. thick tuna sandwich prepared by Chef John and enjoy a leisurely meal. Reservations are The outdoor area includes couches that make Poiarkoff, formerly of Restaurant North. Leone accepted, and take-out is also available. hanging out with friends even more comfortable reminisced that “When I was a kid, tuna sand- and inviting. wiches were stuffed thick and every restaurant So, don’t put away your summer whites just out in Montauk had its own version of it.” He yet. If you want to feel as if you’re in Montauk Varied Menu wanted to recreate that memory with his own (without the beach traffic) or just looking for a version here in Armonk. unique dining experience check out Tauk. You The varied menu includes small plates like crispy won’t be disappointed. brussel sprouts (the best I’ve ever had), a deli- Local Brews cious yellow fin poke bowl served with tortilla Marlene Kern Fischer, a 20-year resident chips and pico de gallo and a wild gulf shrimp If you want to hang out at the bar, Tauk’s is of Armonk and long-time freelance writer, cocktail served with the house cocktail sauce. well-stocked with a variety of Montauk craft recently debuted a column, A Day in My Life Among their farm fresh salads, the golden and beers, ale and liquor which complement their Shopping Locally with The Inside Press. red beets salad is the most popular. And what many other selections. Leone said he “wanted Marlene also publishes her own site, Thoughts beach themed restaurant would be complete to bring a piece of Manhattan to town” and the from Aisle Four. SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 41 happenings

orace Greeley High School will recognize the Chappaqua Central School district’s 90th HAnniversary during ‘Homecoming’ weekend Friday, September 14th through Saturday, September 15th. In September 1928, Chappaqua School District opened on the site of Robert E. Bell Middle School, serving grades K-12. In 1957, grades 9-12 were relocated Horace to its present site, in its current configuration.

The weekend will kick-off with the Varsity Volleyball Team playing Arlington in the Main Gym at 4:30 p.m. Food trucks, a Spirit Walk including decades worth of Greeley memora- Greeley bilia and spirited activities organized by student clubs will open to the community at 5 p.m. There are rumblings that the ever-popular dunk tank may return to add to the excitement. The evening will cap off with Friday Night Lights as Greeley Varsity Football faces Walter Panas High School on the Greeley Competition Field at 7 p.m. This year the team welco- High mes Joe Kearns, Varsity head coach. Be on the lookout for future Quakers taking the field at halftime. The band, cheerleaders and vocal group (tba) will bring on the school spirit throughout the evening. School Homecoming Weekend Game Schedule (subject to change) Friday 9/14 4:30 p.m. Varsity Volleyball vs. Arlington Recognizes 7 p.m. Varsity Football vs. Walter Panas

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42 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 Untold Stories from the Border: the supplies they purchased. Debbie des- cribes one young girl crying on her father’s Local Couple Helps shoulder, saying, “I simply gave her an Etch A Sketch and she didn’t shed a tear for the rest of her time there. Not only was this Migrant Families in wonderful for the child, but it also provided relief for the parents who had just gone through this ordeal.” Similarly, Larry engaged with teenage boys by playing Jenga. McAllen, Texas He recounts the experience, “It started with

BY SHAUNA LEVY and shelter to sleep as they await their futures. Larry elaborates, “We learned happaqua residents Larry and Debbie that these families had crossed the Rose are not self-proclaimed huma- border, arrived at the detention center, Cnitarians. Their actions, however tell and gained access to the respite cen- a different story. As news of families in ter because they had a sponsor in this crisis at the U.S.-Mexico border reached country. A volunteer would attempt a crescendo, the couple reconsidered contact with the sponsor. If contact their summer vacation plans. Instead, they was made and that sponsor could booked tickets to McAllen, Texas, the town provide bus fare, that family could that’s gained notoriety for being home to leave that afternoon.” the migrant detention center that has been separating families. Gathering Provisions The decision to choose volunteerism was a simple one. Debbie explains, “We’ve had The Roses wasted no time assessing many passionate conversations about this how they could add the most value, topic and realized that while our children mingling and conversing with families PHOTO COURTESY OF DEBBIE ROSE were at sleepaway camp, we have an and volunteers alike. “They desperately one boy, but soon we had a serious Jenga opportunity. It sounds cliché, but we just needed sneakers,” reports Debbie, explai- tournament with several teams that lasted wanted to make a difference. We went for ning, “Everyone gets a new pair because hours. During this time, one well-dressed it.” They identified the Catholic Charities they have literally walked from their starting boy reported, in perfect English, that his Humanitarian Respite Center, located a few point to the border.” Fortuitously, the Roses favorite toy at home was a remote control miles from the detention center in McAllen encountered a volunteer who pointed out helicopter. It hit me that while these kids as a place where they could help migrant the many teenage boys slumped over have nothing now, it wasn’t always that families. “It was one of the few places ac- around the room. It was an eye-opening way. These are all families who had enough cepting volunteers who were not attorneys moment as Debbie says, “It was a situation means to get out of their country. For them or fluent in Spanish,” according to Larry. that never crossed our minds and it was to have abandoned their lives with only the then that we decided to target teenagers in clothes on their back, things had to have our efforts.” Families in Crisis been really bad.” With this knowledge, Debbie and Larry The couple touched down in Texas and got began the first of four visits to various su- The American Spirit acquainted with the respite center imme- permarkets where they purchased items in diately after checking into their hotel. They bulk including toys, sneakers, pants and at In only four days, the Roses were able were astounded by the scene that met least 100 loaves of bread. In the meantime, to reorganize the center’s food storage them. Debbie recalls their first impressions, on Facebook, a grassroots movement was system, upgrade toys in the playroom and “We opened the door and found ourselves evolving at home. Of the phenomenon touch the lives of families in dire straits. in the midst of a large, hot room, reminis- Debbie says, “Our goal was to directly help Debbie says, “With the reputation of this cent of the DMV brimming with families. families at the border through our own country being unwelcoming, I wanted to Within only ten minutes, a little boy about volunteer efforts and monetary donations. be welcoming.” And, they weren’t alone as four years old took my hand and began This was not a fundraising effort, but many Larry explains, “Part of the untold story is rapidly speaking Spanish. I made out the of our friends who couldn’t join us wanted the American spirit. It was truly a na- word ‘agua’ and offered him water. In that to get involved. Then, their friends wanted tionwide effort, with people from all over the moment it became real.” to help and suddenly it was a domino country pitching in.” effect. I ultimately posted my Venmo ID and With a tour of the facility, the Roses gained we raised $6,300 in just a few days.” Shauna Levy is a writer, communica- clarity over what they were witnessing. The tions professional and stay-at-home respite center is pivotal to asylum seekers, While providing basic necessities was mom. She is currently raising her three providing each individual with a set of fulfilling, the Roses were most impacted by boys, ages 9, 6 and 5 alongside her clothes including shoes, food, a shower the children they met as they handed out husband in Chappaqua. SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 43 Gotta Have Arts I love the Armonk Outdoor Art Show and how it supports the immediate community and welcomes all to attend from near and far. The show is a study in sheer creativity and professionalism. So come 57th Annual Armonk check out ‘what’s new and exciting this year’ among the works created using so many different artistic mediums. The artists themselves are always so Outdoor Art Show engaging and informative. With delicious food and drink from assorted eateries (always exciting given Armonk’s wonderful dining scene, too) and activities for kids too, hosted by generous sponsors. So come one, come all for a day of appreciating art and maybe picking up something really special, too. Rain or no rain, this show will “Shine." – Grace Bennett

Caroline Christie Saturday & Sunday, September 29-30 Colrain, MA 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. Rain or Shine Photography 205 Business Park Drive, Armonk, NY

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It’s About Art…

The show features 185 juried artists from 28 states, Israel and Canada, including 38 new artists this year. A broad range of art in every medium and price point will be on display, including painting, mixed mediums, printmaking/drawing/ pastels, sculpture, photography/digital art, wearable art, and fine crafts. Free personal consultants, trained in fine art and home design, are available to assist visitors in selecting art that best fits their taste and decor.

…And Entertainment! Ummarid Eitharong Musical Performance by Saul Rivers, accomplished singer-songwriter Orlando, FL “Hands-on-Art Activities” for All Ages, including Clay Sculpting, Collage Making and Painting: Oils & Acrylics Silk Scarf Dyeing

Family Activities Tent – Free Fun-Filled Activities under a Big-Top Tent, sponsored by: Robert Hessler The Harvey School - Interactive programs, appropriate for children ages 5-12. Kingston, NY First Five – Hands on projects, appropriate for children ages 1-5 with adult participation Clay And, an Engaging Alliance of Arts Organizations: Neuberger Museum of Art, Katonah Museum of Art, Clay Arts Center, and Rye Arts Center

Food, Craft Beer and Wine: Diverse Vendors and New Additions! Including: Luke’s Lobster, Captain Lawrence Brewing, Fortina and BBQ by Taylored Menus

Corporate Sponsors: Boies Schiller Flexner, Eagle Ridge Armonk, Equinox, Northern Westchester Hospital, William Raveis, Rosen & Company Inc., Toll Brothers, White Plains Hospital Medical & Wellness

The Art Show is sponsored by Friends of the North Castle Public Library, Inc. Admission price: $12, $10 for seniors or with coupon, children under 18 free. Ample free parking. Sorry, no dogs allowed. For discount coupon: armonkoutdoorartshow.org

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SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 45 Friends say Deborah always prioritized the feelings, interests and desires of others above her own.

A few years ago, when Deborah found out that one of her friends, Rosie Battista, planned to spend her birthday alone, Debo- rah “dropped everything,” Rosie recalled, and drove two hours to meet her for dinner in New Jersey.

“She was the epitome of what a friend should be,” Rosie said. “She always wanted to be happy and to make sure people around her were doing the things that would make them happy. Even as her illness progressed, she kept asking how I was doing. It was just who she was.”

Throughout her life, Deborah found ways to direct her personal passions toward entre- preneurial endeavors.

First, Deborah turned her attention to nutrition. She attended the Institute of Inte- grative Nutrition in New York City in 1999 and then started her own business, Food & Balance, to help people adopt healthier eating habits.

But as time progressed, Deborah came to see her mission in broader terms, and to view food as just one component of guiding In Remembrance of clients toward more fulfilling lives. In 2013, Deborah rebranded her business “Desire on Fire” and formally broadened her focus to life coaching. “Her aim was to Deborah Shimer help her clients lead their best lives, from relationships to parenting to work,” Sam Deborah moved to Chappaqua in 1989 explained. “It was all encompassing for her.” In Loving Memoriam with her first husband, Robert Fischman. Together, they raised three children: Josh, Through Desire on Fire, Deborah led small BY DAVID SHIMER Zachary and Leandra. support groups—referred to as “Desire on Fire Circles”—consisting of a half dozen “She always encouraged me and my women each. Under Deborah’s leadership, emembered as insightful, selfless and siblings to do what felt right for us, without participants pushed each other to pursue supportive, Deborah Shimer–a profes- judgment, and we were so lucky for that,” their passions. R sional life coach and a decades-long Zachary said. “Above all, she taught us to Chappaqua resident–died of cancer on keep an open mind and to do what made “She spoke her truth during these circles. June 29, 2018. She was 54 years old. us happy.” She was able to tell people what they wouldn’t or couldn’t see for themselves, Deborah was born in London to Geoffrey Deborah and Robert later divorced, and, always in a loving way, but not stopping and Barbara Nelson on October 2, 1963. In in 2013, she married Sam Shimer, also a until she was heard,” said Joy Perlow, one 1979, she moved to New Jersey with her Chappaqua resident. The couple moved to of Deborah’s’ closest friends and a Circle mother and sisters, Margaret and Hilary, St. Petersburg, Florida last year. participant. “That was a key part of the eventually becoming a United States citizen. Circles: being heard.” “She was the kindest, most caring and After graduating from West Windsor High most loving person I have ever known,” In recent weeks, Joy said that Desire on Fire School in 1981, Deborah attended the Sam said. “She never compromised—not clients have discussed ways to honor Debo- Katherine Gibbs School in New York and in our relationship, or in any of her rela- rah’s memory, first and foremost by leading went on to work for Tishman Brothers, a tionships. She always worked to make their lives as she led hers. “Deborah lived and Manhattan-based real estate company, her life, and our life, better, and she truly breathed her business: It’s what she tried to first as executive secretary and then as an wanted everyone she cared about to be do in her life, find happiness and help other assistant project manager. happy and fulfilled.” people do the same,” Rosie added.

46 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | SEPT/OCT 2018 Deborah’s Top Ten Wisdoms

Deborah’s husband Sam gave a loving tribute at her memorial service on July 22nd in Naples, FL. A highlight for those who knew Deborah is excerpted below:

Based on my years of conversations with Deborah, what I heard her say to others countless times, as well as my pers- pective about what she might want me to say, I am going to share the Top Ten things that Deborah would want conveyed to you on her behalf as we are here to remember her today. Of course, it will be without her beautiful accent, which you can imagine as I go through the list. I am sure that you heard many of these from her over the years. 1 Love each other. All of you. Just love each other and the people who matter to you. And not quietly or stoically. Tell Deborah and Sam each other how you feel and show it with a fierce hug. 2 Speak your truth. Holding things in doesn’t help. If you can 7 Food is your fuel–would you put lousy gas in your car? say it in a gentle and loving way, try to do so. But speak up. Eat well and take care of yourself. And, of course, don’t drink No matter what. diet soda! Spend time outside, breathe deeply, watch the birds, 3 8 Be generous–if you have money be generous with it. And watch the butterflies. Appreciate nature…without your smart we all can be generous with our time. Help people, listen, and phone! care. 4 Don’t settle; settling takes the air out of your life. It might 9 Don’t wait for tomorrow to do something that you want be the easy choice–but don’t do it. to do today or some time soon. Trust me. Take that trip; launch that business; tell someone how you feel. You can run 5 Laugh about good things; laugh bad things off; just laugh. out of time. And let go of anger; be forgiving. 10 Think about me from time to time. I am still here, in your 6 Believe in yourself. You are more powerful than you un- hearts and minds. If I can help you with a memory or insight, derstand; and if you don’t believe it, no one else will either. reach out for me. Listen quietly, and I will answer you.

Deborah’s giving nature extended beyond her business: over the past decade, she supported a school for orphans in Kenya called the Green Olive Children’s Home, raising tens of thousands of dollars for the organization and bringing supplies when she visited it each year.

On July 22, family and friends gathered in Naples, Florida to celebrate Deborah. Speakers included her sister, stepbrother, and husband Sam.

“Honey, you were amazingly impactful, powerful beyond words, and most certainly successful in ways that cannot be measured,” Sam said in the closing remarks of the service. “You will be missed, remembered and quoted by so many people, which is the truest measure of what you accomplished both in your work, and in how you lived your life.”

Deborah is survived by her father, Geoffrey Nelson of Momba- sa, Kenya; her mother, Barbara Cohen of Naples, Florida; her sister, Margaret Islin of Essex, England; her children, Joshua of New York City, Zachary of Asheville, North Carolina and Leandra of South Salem, New York; and her husband, Sam Deborah Shimer at the Green Olive Children’s Home, Shimer of St. Petersburg, Florida. Mombasa, Kenya – November 2017 David Shimer is one of Deborah’s three stepchildren. SEPT/OCT 2018 | INSIDE CHAPPAQUA | 47 etcetera That time apart, that time to explore who we are without the influence of the other twin, has been essential in shaping the people we have become. For my sister and me, being twins has always meant My School Days going through life as our own people, just doing it next to each other. But as college approaches and my sister and I face being separated by a greater distance than just as a Twin our bedroom wall, we are confronted with the reality that we must continue our lives BY JULIA BIALEK ming bat mitzvahs and getting our driver’s as our own people, but not side-by-side. licenses. In many cases, the memories I lay For the first time in our entire lives, not only claim to also belong to her, with our shared will our educational careers be separate, have a twin sister, but we were born experiences outnumbering our individual but our entire lives will be separate. on different days. Throughout our lives, ones. But when it comes to school, most I our parents worked hard to ensure that of my memories belong solely to me, as For the first time in our entire lives, we will we were not grouped as a unit; in their our separate educational paths have rarely not be together. minds, the fact that we shared a womb collided. We always had different teachers, had no bearing on our ability to act and be we were always in different classes, and As we tour colleges, write applications, and treated as individual people. And it doesn’t. we were always happy that way. As twins, begin our last year of living together in the Whether it was pure luck same home, I cannot help or my mom’s greatest but wonder how different intentional gift to us (as our lives are going to be wi- she will claim), the fact thout having the other twin that my sister was born a shouting distance away. before midnight and I was Even though Rebecca and born after has profoundly I have very different perso- impacted the course of nalities and interests, even our lives. Our separate though we were happy to birthdays have infused a be in separate classes, even sense of individuality into though we are both ready both of us from the very for this change, it is going beginning, allowing us to to be a shock to live without retain our own identities. her. I have never known life Yes, we are twins, but we without my twin sister, and I aren’t “the twins.” We are know that I will have to cope Julia and Rebecca. It only with a Rebecca-shaped hole made sense that when in my life. It feels like yester- the first days of school day that we were walking off approached, my parents of the bus together after our continued this arrange- first day of kindergarten, and ment. now we are seniors in high school preparing to live our Parents of twins have a (L-R): Rebecca and Julia Bialek on the first day of kindergarten lives as independent people choice: place their twins PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA BIALEK in college. While it feels sur- in the same classes or real that time has passed so separate them. Natu- quickly, I am eased by the rally, my parents elected to separate us, we have spent nearly 18 full years side- knowledge that my twin sister is experien- placing us in different classrooms in which by-side, growing up in rooms next to each cing these changes with me, even if she is to grow and learn independently of the other, spending the summers in the same not residing in the bedroom next door. other. Although one of the built-in perks bunk at camp, coming home to the same of having a twin is never needing to face a house, and so on. Despite our love for each As we approach this new and exciting time new situation alone, our parents wanted to other, that is a lot of time to spend with one in our lives, I realize that this is the first provide us with the space to become our person. Going to school each day allowed chapter of my story that will not feature my own people. I am so grateful for that. As us to spend healthy time apart, providing twin sister as a main character. But Rebec- we enter our senior year and reflect on our us with a place to be our own people (albeit ca, as we continue to write our narratives time as students, people, and twin sisters, in the same building). In fact, school is the and live our lives, I want you to know that I it has never been more apparent how much only place where our individual memories, am me because of you. You will always be of a gift that decision has been. Thank you experiences, and stories outnumber our an important part of my story, because you mom and dad. shared ones. are an important part of me.

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