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Memphis, Tennessee May 1990 Volume 11, Number 6 George's�GDI On The River Ends 20 Year History byvincent Astor George's, Memphis' oldest firstbought the business in 1969, South Baths and the Georgetown and most famous Gay bar, it was called The Famous Door Inn. The hotel and baths was closed suddenly the week of but common practice of refer­ "the grandest thing I ever did," April 8. The reason given was ring to it as "George's" coined said George much later. the great expense to be incurred the name it was to keep for In 1984, the partnership dis­ by replacement of a damaged nearly 20 years. solved and the bar, with its lower level sprinkler system. One of the early bastions of famous name, was sold to Steve Rumors had circulated that drag shows, it was raided in and Frank Cooper. In 1987, the business had decreased signifi­ 1971 by police for violating a Marshall St. locationwas closed cantly but two full page ads in city ordinance against cross­ and in the spring of 1988, GDI Looking for a Spri'!g or Summer get-away vacation? See our Travel page the April issue of Gaze did not dressing. John T. "Buddy" (George's Disco Incorporated) for some nifty_ opt1ons. - foreshadow the closing of the Dwyer represented the five was opened at 287 South Front. bar. performers and the owner and Touted as the most lavish Gay Known as the Twilight obtained dismissal of all charges bar ever to be seen in Memphis, Privacy Ruling a Boon for Lounge as early as 1960, the by Judge Ray Churchill. Drag it opened with a fireworks of original locationat 1786 Madi­ was legal and became the hall­ sequins, production numbers Gay Rights Fight son grew into an institution mark of George's Theatre and high tech special effects. by Sandy Nelson Amendment claim is valid, the whichplayed amajor role in the. Lounge. Much non-Gay presence in the Seattl�. W A-Though the awarding of the case to Snedi­ ea y gh r a d bian Under the co-ownership of employees and some reports of governm nt is now in the busi­ gar by default, without a trial, freedoms in Memphis. George Wilson and Don Ros­ strange attitudesin m anagement ness of collecting urine sampies was out of line, thejustices held. The owners were numerous, signol, the bar expanded until it caused some Gay people to and peeking through bedroom Their decision has enormous including several Lesbians re­ had exhausted the available distrust the bar, but it passed its keyholes to monitor sex and drug implications not only for the membered -by only their first space at the Madison address 20th anniversary in December behavior, counteiVailing winds socialist feminist FSP, but also - names-Blanche & Cookie, and then moved to a1arger, multi of 1989. are also blowing vigorously. for other organizations and Kay & Sarah-and more no­ purpose location at 600 It was written about in the Those who value privacy can movements that rely on privacy table women such as Sharon Marshall. This included large Commercia/Appeal, Gaiety, the breathe a little easier because of to suiVive. Wray. Mike (Michelle) Rollins, dance spaces, a showbar and a Memphis Flyer, thePressScimi­ a recent Washington State Su­ "The Lesbian and Gay move­ owned it when it first made the restaurant. Peripheral bars such tar, Gaze, and Memphis maga­ preme Court decision uphold­ ment wouldn't exist if organiz­ papers when "Twilight Kiss as the Townehouse, the Psych­ zine. It was referred to as the ing the right of organizations to ers couldn't protect the privacy Closes Twilight Lounge"; an . Out II, Sam's, and Club Peaches Queen Mother of Memphis Gay keep meeting minutes and other of men and women who risk innocent peck across the bar bacame part of the effort to Bars. It was called Fantasyland internaldocuments confidential� their jobs, homes, and families between a bartender anda sailor provide something for every­ and Hell in the same evening. In what is known as the Free­ to fight for basic civil rights," <;aused the first public contro­ one, an effortwhich culminated Above all, it was always way Hall Case, the court unani­ said George Bakan, editor of versy. When George Wilson with the opening of the Club George's. And now, it has gone. · mously overturned a lower Seattle Gay News. court's 1987 ruling against the "Even today, people in the Court to Block Amendment on Phone Sex Freedom Socialist Party for its Lesbian and Gay community unbending refusal to disclose hesitate to put their names on In a court order issued in Lawyers for Individual Freedom mer Legal Director for National minutes. Nine justices agreed lists," Bakan said. 'The fear of response to a suit challenging to (BALIF) fl.led a joint amici cu­ Gay Rights Advocates, argued that FSP ex-member Richard having membership lists or government's most recent at- riae (friend of the court) in that "sexuallyexpli<;i t telephone Snedigar hadn't sufficiently minutes made public is real tempt to control dial-a-porn supportof the injunction. Plain­ communications may play a explained why the party should within the labormovement, the companies, U.S. District Judge tiff in the cases are Ramrod positiverole in curbing the AIDS be forced to divulge constitu­ Gay movement, and any con­ Fern Smith declared tliatphone Enterprises, Syncronet Inc., and epidemic... sexually explicit tionally protected information. troversial movement." sex is constitutionally protected Westpac Audiotext. -telephone communications de­ Snedigar sued the party and nine MSU Charters speech. The Helms Amen(lmentcalls seiVe first amendment protec­ individuals for the return of a The suit, filed by three Cali- for FCC regulationsthat would tion if they may help save lives donation he helped make 11 New Gay Group forniacompanies offeringsexu- ' reqUireusers of sex phone seiV­ by deterring or replacing life­ years ago to secure a headquar­ Memphis State Universityhas allyoriented telephone seiVices, ices to be subscribers of these threatening behavior." ters. He then demanded privi­ awarded a charter to GALA (Gay seeks a preliminary injunction seiVices. Because of billing According to the plaintiff's leged information, including and Lesbian Awareness) a new against the Helms Amendment tech!llcalities, such an arrange­ attorney,William Turner,Smith names of members and contribu­ student group.Some funding has to the Communications Act of ment would effectively elimi- is the first judge in the country tors, knowing that his former been secured·through the school. 1934. National Gay Rights Ad- nate dial-a-porn companies. to rule on the issue. Judges have comrades would never surren­ A fullschedule is being planned vocates, the San Francisco AIDS In his brief filedon behalfof yet to rule in similar suits fl.led der the information. for the fall semester, with some Foundation, and Bay Area the amici, Leonard Graff, for- in Texas and New York. Because the party's First events this summer. Th�re are, as some of you have I prefer to express my sexuality withher. Say something to her. noticed,several leather clubs in is. certainly my business, and I There's a Gay personin there­ our area. These usually are try not to force it on anyone just like you. fanned and are peopledby men else .... but the very second I Ladies and gentlemen of and women who have an inter­ condemn someone else fordoing leather-when you see some­ est in leather in common. There it the way theywant to I lose my one come into your club bar are some in Memphis, Nash­ own credibility, and can't begin wearing a polo shirt and a pair ville andLittleRock,andproba­ to call anyone brother of sister. of Adidas, please don't ignore bly more I haven't heard about. This is a time in the history of them, or make them feel they Mr. Tennessee Leather Speaks These clubs usually are not our nation, and the rest of the don't belong there. Try talking exclusively social-they do a world, when the Gay popula­ to them. Explain your leather to great amount of fundraising and tion is being listened to-and them. There's a Gay person in Let me begin by introducing there is much, much more be­ community service work. Clubs heard-but we lose our credi­ there-just like you. myself-my name is Vance hind this new title than you might aren't always right for every­ bility and validity when per­ If we can practice the broth­ Reger. I live in Memphis, Ten­ suppose. one, a greatmany of us are inde­ sonal opinions and actions cre­ erhood and sisterhoodwe all so nessee, and have recently ob­ I won this title not by stand­ pendents, attending club func­ ate barriersbetween one another. highly and readily tout-per­ tained a new title-Mr.Leather ing and modeling (though there tions and events but keeping our We'resoquickto judge theJesse haps add to it tolerance of each Tennessee, 1990. I have lived was some skin shown) but individualities. Helms' and Anita Bryants of other and try some honest com­ in Memphis for six years, and mainly by voicing my thoughts, Those are the basics. My the world and then tum around munication-maybe this could prior to that in Winston-Salem, opinions, and quite a bit of phi­ title implies that I am now to as quickly to ostracize drag help us to function as a true North Carolina, for seven years. losphy for about twenty-five ·represent the leather communi­ queens and leather persons,not community of Gay people. That I suppose you might say I am a minutes; first in front of seven ties of the state of Tennessee at to mention being overly critical sure would be a positive state­ bride of the South by common­ of my peersand later on, briefly, the upcoming International Mr. of those in our own circles. It is ment to those non-Gay organi­ law. I have been a person of in front ·of several hundred LeathercontestinChicago. This. time to end this behavior. I cer­ zations apd people who would leather for about seventeen people. I would like to share is quite a compliment for me, tainly wouldn't suggest that criticize us. years, and am no stranger to its someofthese thoughts with you. but it is one that I bear uneasily. utopia is around the comer, but These are the thoughts be­ traditions and behavior. I did not enter this contest for I have seen and personally I can suggest a good dose of hind what won me this title. I Your first reaction might be the purpose of winning instant experienced a severe problem tolerance is in order. try to practice what I believe to exclaim, "Oh no, another fame, some money, and a bunch in our community here in . When you see someone and wish to make myself avail­ pageant, another beautyqueen! " of prettyclothes. I enteredit for Memphis, and know it exists in dressed in leather, don't auto­ able to any organization in any My reaction is to tell you that what I hope are the right rea­ quite a few others-and I am matically assume they want to way I can help, in Memphis or sons-the most important of not talking about the dreadful tie you down and beat the crap anywhere else in Tennessee, as which is to try to make a posi­ health epidemic. The problem, out of you. Don't point and my schedule will allow. tive change in our Gay commu­ as I see it, is discrimination. whisper and ostracize them I cannot solve the problems nity. Discrimination, prejudice because they're dressed in skins. of a divided Gay community by I "came· out" in the early and intolerance are being prac­ Try talking to them. There's a myself-we can. The past is 1970's in a leather bar in Los ticed within our communities. I Gay person in there-just like done, however, and the future Angeles, and discovered that see is almost every time I go out. you. always holds possibilities. Box 3038, Memphis, Tennes­ these darkly-clad men and We so easily speakof how badly if you should see a drag queen Thanks to those involved for see 38173-0038. Phone (901) women were some of the most we Gay people are being treated come into a bar dressed in her allowing me to guest this edito­ 454-1411 (evenings). well-educated, well-spoken and by the non-Gaysociety, butlook Saturday fmest, don't laugh at rial. sexually together people I had at how we treat each other! How !'J.er, and wonder what's wrong Gaze is non-profit and produced by met. There areexceptions, there

volunteers. We assume no liability for always are. On this subject I Letters to the Editor are en­ claims made by advertisers. Appear­ would like to pass on a thought couraged. Letters over 500 ance in this publication is not an indica­ words maybe edited for length. tion of sexual orientation or identity. We I learned very early in my Gay Send them to Gaze, Box 3038, welcome materials subrl}itted by read­ education. Never assume. Take ers, but reserve the right to edit or reject a risk and find out for yourself. Memphis, TN 38173-0038. such materials. Subscriptions are avail­ I'd like to begin by explain­ able at $8a year to cover mailing costs. refused to book an entertainer ing to those of you who may not And I'm E vii? bruntof the abuse from a homo­ Gaze is published 11 times a year by because they were prettier, or understand what people of phobic world. We who were out the Memphis Gay Coalition. tinier, or do the same type of leather are about. When I put on in the 70's and earlier had a The entertainers, directors, music, or do different drugs,or my leather to go anywhere(even standing chance for a night in Co-Editors and owners of Memphis are think or behave differently... or a leather coat!) I feel different. jail, simply for dressing as girls. Allen Cook • John Stilwell killing drag. The most common any of the other reasons the Usually it puts me in a good It's sad to see us throwing abuse and best attended events in the people currently in power use. ourselves, mood-leatherhas a unique feel among these days, Staff Writers city are getting on beer busts to They're too busy hurting feel­ on my bodyand I recommendit and simultaneously listen to all Vincent Astor • Ken Horton see a show. There we can watch ings to perform their own num­ highly. The leather, I mean. the talk about the good old days. Becky Caperton a clique of snow-queens wan­ bers. Are they afraid of compe­ First,and most important: not These could become the good der around and throw what they tition? A mature adult can put everyone who wears leather is old days if we could just get it think is a grand attitude, and the B.S. aside and confront situ­ together. Every day I meet more into SM. I can't quote percent­ Typesetting And Layout listen to some old "never-was­ ations head on, in a private ages to you-but trust me on andmore sisters,but seesomuch Allen Cook enough-to-become-a-has-been'' manner. this. Some people are-abso­ less family, and I just don't John Stilwel l • Vincent Astor trash peopleon the microphone. It's no wonder people are understand it. lutely true-but the way you That's entertainment!?!? Please getting over drag shows. The Be proud and happy to be findout is to ask the individual. Circulation Blanche, if that's all you can only show I've seen in a month yourself but allow others that People of leather are usually Cecil Mcleod. John Stilwell say, try putting that microphone where this ugliness didn't take same right without fear of ridi­ more responsible when it comes to a different orifice. place was at Barbara's. Whether cule. We are supposed to be a to sexual behavior-we have to Advertising I know, I know ... This bitch you agree with B. J. or not, you community of specialpeople, if be. Generally, we findout about Vincent Astor isn't known for being nice or have to admit she stands up for you can't love your neighbors at . . a potential partner before a quiet. I admit that I have a sharp what she says, and does so quite least refrain from taking cheap Copyright © 1990 by MGC. Reprint decision is made to get together . tongue, a short temper, and a nicely. I guess it's true pretty is, shots at their backs. The only permission on non-syndicated matenal and play. Preferences and limits good right jab. However, I have as pretty does. thing stopping us is ourselves. granted to Gay publications only pro- are discussed aheadoftime.This never been evil with somebody I have never beenand I never vided proper credit is given. Micro- is not only a good idea, it's The one they call the filmed by Southern Gay Archives, Boca merely because I wanted to, or will be ashamed of doing drag. "Bitch of Midtown", safer-you know what you both Raton, FL. Gaze is the registered trade- · was insecure, or simply had the Let's not forget that quite often Miss Renee Greene expe t, and thi s can sumu1 ate mark of the Memphis Gay Coalition. All � power to do it. I have never it was the queens who took the yo r . . rights e ____ ...... _ ���!p����?�: . c .s,ery�q. _ � - . __.. . }.. "'*-�' .. •;�_�:!- . � ..I!--��"'- �"!-- • • -- _...... a• �- � � 7 � -:::,� � � -� ����"":'of�.. �� ... �...� ...... • �..,. .._ • •-• ""'· • • • 3-Gaze-May 1990

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ACT UP Boycotting that directly affect Lesbians, Gay men, and people with Marlboro Man AIDS. He has voted against Gays each time. Due to - his Washington -The AIDS Gays, Lesbians, and their sup­ pathological obsession with the Coalition to Unleash Power porters by boycotting Marlboro private lives of American citi­ UP) (ACT has announced a cigarettes until Philip Morris zens, Helms has, time and time boycott of Marlboro cigarettes, agrees to the following de­ again, aggressively hindered the Family Partnership Case owned by Philip Morrisbecause mands: passage of legislation intended ·of their contributions to Sen. 1. Cease all corporate dona­ to save lives through AIDS Goes to Court Jesse Helms. According to ACT tions to Helms education and prevents. UP, the Philip Morris Co. is the 2. Renounce its past support Contacted at Philip Morris' National Gay Rights Advo­ nition,no "eligible dependents," largest corporate contributor to of Helms corporate headquarters and its cates has filed suit against the she may not be covered under 'Helms who is considered the 3. Meet with ACT UP/DC DC lobbying office, requesting State of Wisconsin Personnel the family coverage option and Senate's most venomous oppo­ representativesto discuss Philip a meeting to discuss their con­ Commission, for denying Jerri is therefore eligible only for the nent of effective responses to Morris' corporate responsibil­ cerns, Philip Morris officials Linn Phillips, an employee of "single coverage optionfor other stem the AIDS epidemic. ity to the Gay and ·Lesbian denied the request for a meeting the Dept: of Health and Social eligible persons." Helms is up for reelection community and to people with and indicated it was impossible Services, the right to obtain The decision was upheld by this year. ACT UP/DC intends AIDS. to considerthe group's demands. health insurance for her spouse the Wisconsin Personnel Com­ to make Philip Morris feel the Helms has had 29 opportuni- - equivalent and domestic part­ mission following NGRA' s fJl­ collective economic power of · ties since 1986 to vote on issues ner, Lorri J. Tommerup. ing of an administrative com­ The State of Wisconsin is plaint in 1987. one of the few states with a Paul Di Donato, NORA's Anti-Gay statute banning employment incoming Staff Attorney,com­ discriminationbased on marital menting on the suit, stated: "The Foster Care MEMPHIS status and sexual orientation. importance of this case is clear. AT PlAY On Oct. 20, 1986, Phillips Family partnerships in the Gay Policy AFTER HOURS filedan application with her em­ and Lesbian community must 1 ployer department,DHSS, dur­ be legally protected and recog­ Reversed ing the open enrollment period, nized for us to truly obtain equal­ Boston, MA- Massachu­ to change her health insurance ity. The State of Wisconsin has setts Gov. Michael Dukakis an­ coverage from individual to demonstrated through legisla­ nounced April 4 that the state family coverage, for the pur­ tive means its intent to protect policy which effectivelybanned pose of adding Tommerup be­ all its citizens from discrimina­ Gays from becoming foster 1987. ginning in January tion b_ased upon sex, marital parents would be reversed. The 1986, In November her ap­ status or sexual orientation. Our new state policy which will no 1268 Madison Ave. (901) 725-1909 plication was denied based on suit seeks to enforce this in­ longer include sexual orienta­ the rationale that "Since Ms. tent." · tion as a factor in placement of Phillips has, according to defi- children in foster homes. Shows Mondays A lawsuit initiated by Gay

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Washington, D.C.- Pres. and sit down. But a few minutes crimination against peoplewith George Bush's first major ad­ later, Vaid again stood to ad­ AIDS and HIV. dress on the AIDS health crisis dress the President, who up to "It is commendable that the was interrupted today by Ur­ that point in his speech had not President mentioned anti-dis­ vashi Vaid, executive director revealed any new substantive crimination protections," said search, prevention and care Lambda Legal Defense and of the National Gay and Les­ Administration initiatives for Vaid after the speech. "And his programs. Affordable health Education Fund represents Ali­ bian Task Force (NGLTF), who fightingthe epidemic. V aid was rhetoric was certainly more care for all Americans. Access son D., who became involved stood up during the presenta­ then escorted out of the hotel compassionate than anything to promising drug therapies. ina romantic relationship with tion and urged the President to and told if she reentered she former President Reagan ever 1977. Acknowledgement that the Gay Virginia M. in The two do more for people with AIDS. would be arrested. said. But one speech does not 1980 community, which comprises women decided in that they Bush spoke to a gathering of Bush paused during this equal leadership. Photo oppor­ more than 65 percent of total wanted to raise children to­ about 400 business and labor speech to address V aid, saying, tunities and soundbites on AIDS cases, continues to suffer gether. Virginia was insemi­ leaders at a conference spon­ "Let me say something about compassion are not substitutes discrimination, stigmatization, nated with the sperm of an un­ sored by the National Leader­ this. I can understand the con­ for public health policy and and government negligence. known donor, and gave birth to ship Coalition on AIDS held at cern that these people feel. And political courage. 1981. And a real action plan for fight­ their son in July Three the Crystal City Gateway Mar­ I hope if we do nothing else by The day before the Presi­ ing the nation's health crisis." years later, Alison gave birth to riott Hotel just outside Wash­ coming here, I can help them dent's address, NGLTF's Vaid a girl, whom they also intended ington. The speech was exten­ understand that not only you testified before the Senate to raise together. However, the sively covered by major national care, but we care too." Appropriations committee in Court Refuses to couple separated shortly after and international media. During his speech, Bush support of increased federal Recognize the birth of their daughter. Duringthe speech, Vaid, who urged compassion for people AIDS funding. V�id, on behalf "This ruling is a tragic re­ sat in front of the President, with AIDS. He mentioned edu­ of the National Organizations Lesbian Parent minder to all Lesbian mothers, stood and held up a sign that cation, "AIDS babies," "confi­ Responding to AIDS (NORA) New York- A New York particularly those with no bio­ $2.8 read, "Talk is Cheap - AIDS dentiality, the "war on drugs," asked for billion to meet appellate court has ruled that a logical link with their children, Funding Is Not" and "Remem­ and praised Allstate Company, anticipated HIV prevention, Lesbian who had parented a of our vulnerability as parents

· 1991. ber Gay People With AIDS." Fortune Magazine and General care, and research needs in child with her ex-lover has no in a world which refusesto vali­ She then challenged Bush Motors for fighting the disease. The NORA proposal empha­ legal right to see visitation after date our familes," said Paula directly, saying, "Mr. President, Among other things, Bush sized immediate impact aid to the couple split up. In a 3-1 Ettelbrick, Legal Director of you don't understand. We need touted the Administration's relive those communities hard­ opinion, the court held that a LLDEF. "though we know we your leadership. We need more response to AIDS. est hit by the epidemic. prior decision of New York's are charting new legal territory 14 than one speech every "The epidemic is having a "What is missing from the highest court, where a non-bio­ with this case, I am amazed that months. We need more funding major impact on our health care President's picture of AIDS?" logical father lost his claim for the court never attempted to for AIDS education, research, system," said Bush. "The Fed­ asked Vaid. "An end to punitive visitation, bound them to rule consider the child's well-being and prevention. ·we need you to eral response is unprecedented." and harmful_ immigration, visi­ against the Lesbian non-biologi­ and interest in retaining contact end the discriminatory immi­ Bush renewed his support for tation, and permanent residency cal parent. A strong dissent to with his other mother, but ruled gration policy." the Americans With Disabili­ laws that discriminate against the court's ruling was filedby a coldly as a matter of law that if with AIDS Secret Service agents in­ ties Act, which he said must be foreigners and HIV. fourth judge. there is no biological relation­ structed V aid to remove the sign immediately passed to ban dis- Increased funding of AIDS re- ship, visitation is not allowed."

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The Gay and Lesbian Task among those sponsors are Ten­ to spokespersonJason Starr. Force in Memphis has an­ nessee's Senators and Repre­ The MGLTF is dedicated to nounced their open support for sentatives. The Memphis or­ building a movement to pro­ the NGLTF Congressional Post ganization has targeted Senator mote freedom, and fullequality GayRap To Explore Gay Card Campaign. Their goal is to Albert Gore, Jr. (D) and Repre­ for Lesbians and Gay men. The cause increased support for the sentatives Don Sundquist (R) task force exists to eradicate Heritage Civil Rights Bill of 1989 (S47 and Harold Ford (D), all of prejudice, discrimination, and and HR655), a bill to amend the whom are due to run for re­ violence based on sexual orien­ The Memphis Gay Coali­ Gay or Lesbian should miss. Civil Rights Act of 1964 to election this year. Also listed tation. Any person(s) interested tion's GayRap subject for April The purpose of this rap will be include discrimination on the are Senator Jim Sasser (D) and in volunteering to help this cause was volunteering for the Gay to instill a sense of pride and basis of sexual orientation. Representative John Tanner. should .call 272-3663. We have Switchboard. My thanks to activism. We owe a great deal As of January 11, 1990, the The Task Force vows to have a the power to do this if we stand everyone who is helping out with to those who sacrificed in the bills had 74 co-sponsors in the strong voice in the political up for ourselves. If we don't this essential service. Working generation before us so that we House and 8 in the Senate. Not campaigns this year, according fight for our rights, who will? the Switchboard from my own could have a better life, and we home a few hours a month has have a responsibility to genera� been the easiest and one of the tions after us so they will have Basic Alternative States most rewarding volunteer ef­ things better still. In forts which I have undertaken. GayRap is held on the third Basic Alternative States We were also able to answer all simple practice of an experi­ For those of us who have been Monday of every month at 7:00 Consciousness as the Basic questions that were brought up. ence. With practice this experi­ out for a few years and have a at the Memphis Gay and Les- Meditation Group will be meet­ The teaching of techniques is ence becomes wisdom and knowledge of what is going on . bian Community Center, except ing every Sunday from 7-9 at really an awakening or a rebirth understanding of one's self. in town, the Switchboard is a June and December. It is an the Memphis Gay and Lesbian to the mind, body, and soul. What better way toward under­ great way to help out. informal discussion on a pre­ Community Center. Techniques will be revealed standing others too. The May GayRap will be the selected topic and one can be as Our first meeting, held on only after dialogue sessions to A whole realm of new reali­ Earth last one before Gay Pride month vocal or anonymous as one Day, got underway on those who ask for it. zations can be shared with this in June. The rap subject willbe wishes. Gay Rap is a good place time with the firsthour in direct Practice of these techniques new kind of energy. the life of the late San Francisco to hear an intellectual discus­ dialogue about the meditation can bring peace of mind and So come share the feeling of politician Harvey Milk, a mar­ sion on Gay or Lesbian topics , techniques. We then opened relaxation or an alert mind with a true love that is ancient-old tyr and role model among Gays and is a great way to meet new discussion on the poetic descrip­ new energies to get you through with us. and Lesbians. A video about his people, especially during the tion of the techniques and where the day. life will be shown- one that no social hour which follows. they could be found written. As a basic beginning, this is a

1• ... · 7 -Gaze- 1990 Gay & Lesbian Community Center Continues to Serve TH EXCLUSIVE BISEXUAL LINE by Ken Horton, MGLCC President or received in the mail. that allows you to stay on as long as you want The center wishes to broaden its serv­ Your Memphis Gay and Lesbiari Com­ ices further. If you have a way in which Your choice munity Center is working for the day you feel you could use the space, please when being Gay or Lesbian carries with come to our board meetings on the third LIVE ONE ON ONE REMATCH it no possibility of threat, discrimination Saturday of each month at 11 :30. These OR BULLETIN BOARD or automatic hatred. This center and our meetings are open and all are welcome. other fine Gay and Lesbian organiza­ We are also still short of finding the tions are giving us visibility, helping three-hundred and sixty-five people in many of us to "come out" to ourselves this area willing to donate one day's sup­ first, and then to all those around us. port of $35.00, though the list is grow­ That is, of course, the first step in over­ ing. This center works for the good of coming the barriers to fullequality, bar­ every person in Memphis and the sur­ riers which have been created both by rounding area. Please drop by! our enemies from outside and by us My thanks to the Mystic Krewe of among ourselves. Aphrodite and the Lollipop Guild who The community center is going to be presented very nice checks to us this past one of the main locations for the upcom­ month. Individual donations have been ing 1990Gay Pride week events in June. very helpful also. A strong and concerned Pride Week Anenormous amount of interestin our committee is coordinating a list of events center was recently created at the South­ which will help stimulate pride in our­ eastern Conference of Lesbians and Gay selves, our diversity, and our unique­ Men which I attended as the delegate for ness. These events are involving almost the Memphis Gay Coalition. We hope every Gay and Lesbian group in town, that both Charlotte, and Asheville, North and the activities will be listed in the Carolina will soon join the ranks of those June i':;sue of this newspaper. cities in the South which have centers. In The community center is continuing an effort to serve our center better, one to play a \4tal and useful role in our of our board members recently visited community, being used often as a meet­ the Atlanta Gay Community Center, and ing place and gathering space. Business I visited the Dallas Gay Community a .99 per minute charge will appear on your phone bill people are leaving their cards here for Center. Both of these places have ex­ those who prefer to do business within panded to include full time. employees the community, flyers for events are on while ours is still all volunteer, but at our bulletin board, and it is the best place least we have the seed sown to grow and open to better »R in town to find out what is happening. flourish. We are always Our library is growing every month not ways to run our operation, and your only through donations of books, but input wouldbe greatly appreciated. Hope REFLECTIONS also with periodicals being dropped off, to see you soon. Dance & Showbar

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"Men of Memphis" Head for Pensacola

Nobody knows why it hap­ pens or when it started,but each yeargrowingmultitudes ofGays andLesbians head for Pensacola Florida for the Memorial Day weekend. An estimated 7,000 (mostly men) made the annual migration last year, and enjoyed perfect Florida sunshine for the entire weekend. The Gay beach in Pensacola is approximately ten miles Southeast of Pensacola Beech to wear to the parties on Satur­ on Santa Rosa Island. There are day night. M.O.M. , consisting no markers to indicate tat such a of fortyto fiftymen, has already beach exists, other than the two had one pre-pre-Florida party mile stretch of cars parked on and had another pre-party sched­ the side of the highway. The uled for April. May is startingto beach is hidden from the high­ fill up with party plans leading way by huge sand dunes, caus­ up to the grand holiday. The ing the occasional hetero to gang is also planlling on hosting sometimes wander aimlessly one of the big post-bar parties over the dunes to see what is so on the Saturday night ofMemo­ "hot" about this section of the rial weekend. beach. "Men of Memphis" has al­ The group is hoping to come in Pyramid, plans for the return bring as many Gays from other The crowds start to arrive on ready received a personal invi­ contact with other social groups next year are being reconsid- cities to Memphis for the Great Friday, with the main thrust of tation from the main disco bar, in some of the other cities. Since ered. The "Men of Memphis" Pyramid's opening. people hitting on Saturday and "The Office. " The bar wrote Memorial Day Weekend 1991 are trying to come up with a Sunday. The island has several M.O.M. to inform them of the is the grand opening of the Great major party attraction that will hotels and condos that book up improvements and plans for the as early as March. The crowds weekend. The bar has purchased have traditionally been from the building next door( doubling RSVP Announces Gay Cruises Atlanta, Birmingham, and New the size) and now also sports a RSVPTravelProductions has Orleans, but a recent surge by swimming pool with cabana bar announced its new 1990.191 the Memphis community is in the back. The office men­ cruise vacations. The ports of starting to take control of the tioned the fun from the Mem­ c.all are �YOtic.andexcitiBg�e holiday. The number of Mem­ prus group back on Labor Day entertainment is always top pruansiravelfutg to the extrava­ and looks forward to the return shelf, and the staterooms are ganza this year will almost of M.O.M. fluffed and waiting. double the number of last year. The groups is basically based The latest addition to RSVP's After sleeping in, the rest of in Memphis, but will be joined 1990 program is a new concept the day is spent on the beautiful by men fromDallas to Atlanta in cruising-the adventure SandyGulfBeach. Afterdinner and even from Connecticut. The cruise. This Caribbean sailing and a short disco nap, the island majority of the group has made is aptly named since the ship is rises again. The bars on the plans to depart on Thursday, equippedwith hundredsof scuba mainland soon fill to capacity, May 24. They will depart tanks, sailboards, kayaks, sail­ and the night begins. Early cur­ Memphis around 6:00PM and boats, water skis, and snorkel­ fews close the bars at 2:00A.M. , roadtrip to Birmingham for a ing gear. With stops in Belize, but that doesn't stop the party. night of southern hospitality. Guanaja, Roatan, and Cozumel Several groups from different From there they will continue aboard a 320 passenger ship, cities host "Post-bar" parties at south arriving atPensacola early adventure is all but certain. It the condos or houses they have Friday morning. Most of the will sail out of St. Petersburg, rented. So now your back on the group plans to return to Mem­ Florida onOct. 28. island, party-hoppinguntil sun­ phis on Monday, May 28, but RSVP has pulled out all the rise, at which time the whole some won't straggle home until stops for its 1991 program. A scenario starts again. Tuesday, with a few disappear­ total on nine itineraries (seven This year, early planning was ing 'til sometime in June. of which are new) are available made for the "Men of Mem­ Even though the trip is still to the Gay/Lesbian community. phis" (simply a cliche with a over a month away, plans are In 1991 RSVP will sail to en­ name). M.O.M. has had reser­ alreadyin the works for the next gaging ports of call in the West­ vations on at least six of the M.O.M. trip - back to ernCaribbean, Deep Caribbean, large condos on the island since Pensacola forLaborDayWeek­ Mexican Riviera, and French February: . '!Jle. gr�u.P _has de- . end. �Why· not finish the sum­ Canada. Call your travel agent signs in the works for tank tops mer the way you start� it?). for details. Vance Reger Wins 1st Mr. TN. Leather by Vincent Astor

A crowd estimated at over 250 attended the firstMr. Ten­ nessee Leather contest on April 7. Vance Reger ofMemphis was chosen thewinner; Tim Brokaw, first alternate; John J. Poole, I second alternate. The Officers Club of Little Rock began the festivities with a cocktail party at the Pipeline onFriday night. Two meals were served during the day on Satur­ day and several vendors held a Leather Market all afternoon. On exhibition was a show en­ titled Titleholder II by erotic artist, Cirby. Saturday night .began with a fine Italian dinner, courtesy of Jere Douglas, followed by the contest with entertainment by J. T. Fredericks, specializing in country and western music, and Born Divas, two singers of var­ ied contemporary and classic pop repertoire. The contest sparked many favorable com­ ments and much enjoyment despite a mix-up about the shuttle buses which leftsome of those attending dependent on friends for rides back to Mid­ town. This was rectified on Sunday. A lavish Southernbuffet took place at the Pipeline Sunday af­ ternoon. The live entertainment was repeatedSunday evening at a send-off dance for the new ti­ tleholder. Guy Baldwin, International Mr. Leather 1989 and a judge, gave a talk in the middle of the event which addressed the is­ sues of tolerance and accep­ tance, not of Gay people by non­ Gay people but of the different facets of the Gay lifestyle by one another. He was very seri­ ous about this and about laying petty bickering and personal opinions aside in favor of unit­ ing for the common good. He also encouraged activism and promoted the power of the 25¢ piece, the cost of a stamp which gets a letter to Washington DC.

COMMENTARY: This reporter was given a bit of inter­ esting insight into the judging process. It seems that the pri­ mary criteria for judging in this case was the ability to be a sically tell them why you have a the same time in front of There has been a resurgence "The need for someone to be spokesperson and the attitude right to be there. And to put it as enormousstress. They werevery of the popularity of leather in articulate and believeable in an individual has toward his/her quickly and succinctly as pos­ interested in how you felt. You recentyears with the addition of front of a mass of people is very lifestyle, i.e. leather. sible. Someone who's articulate, will have to appear in front of leather people becoming more important. It's now 'What can Vance described the pre­ comfortable with a leather life­ the press; it has grown past a active, firstin AIDS related is­ you do for the Gay community': judging as "rigorous":"You ba: style, and is able to be calm at body beautiful contest." sues and now political issuy� .. it's n9t Miss Am.erica." . '' ' . .. ' 'I 10-Gaze-May 1990 Other cruising areas during the 1970's included Riverside Park PIPELINE'S and that perennial favorite, . 4th ANNUAL Court Square. A few adventure­ some Gays also tried their luck in the bars and streets around BEACH PARTY Overton Square. Sat. June 2nd. 12 Noon-Til Though the area has perhaps Pa�:es From the Past Anyone in bathing suits from 12-Spm shifted, the park is still very TWO for one Domestic Beer cruisyduring weekdays.People 8 TO 11 P.M. Stroh's 75 cents Black Gays in the '.70's and Day closings on weekends have the Gaying of Midtown. slowed things down to nothing Tickets are on Sale $4.00 by day, but the lighted area includes all around the Memphis College of Written by Fred Harris for Poplar and Peabody became a activities Art can be cruisy at night, until Gaiety Newspaper in 1976, regular Gay playground. the park is closed at around 11. and edited by Gary Poe, compiled While much Memphis Gay The prostitution problem with asides by Vincent Astor. life during the 1970's centered fooct - around the pavilion, however, During the 1970's the public areound the bars and clubs, other is agreed by many Gay parkgo­ SWIM SUIT CONTEST accommodation laws had their locales attracted Gays as well. ers to be getting out of hand. MOST ORIGINAL, BEST effect on the bar scene and more As more of the city's Gay activ­ There are continuing reports of LIFEGUARD TYPE· FOR $20.00 and more blacks frequented the ity moved to the Midtown area, police harassment and entrap­ BAR TAB largely white Gay establish­ Overton Parkbecame a popu1ar ment of Gaysin the park. River­ ments. Some white Gays wel­ cruising area. The Doughboy side Park is' recommended by comed this development and ra­ statue and the woods in the . ' some as being cruisy but it is a cially mixed couples on and off northeast comer were especially really old settler who thinks of the dance floor became a not popu1ar. They were sometimes Court Square of Confederate uncommon sight. Other white dangerous as well. In addition Park as a possible meeting place homosexuals, including a couple ot the ever-present possibility nowadays. It was said, during of bar owners, were unhappy of a confrontation with police, theSecondWorldWar when the with this tum of events and the park attracted hoodlums and Millington Naval Air Station didn't hesitate to voice their "queer baiters." Several homo­ was at peak capacity, that all feelings. sexuals have been assau1ted by one had to do was drive down Meanwhile, black Gays who straights in the park and at least Main and up Second pnce or didn't go to the largely white one Gay related murder is twice around to find a trick. Midtown bars patronized the thought to have occurred there. Mirage Underground Club and the Music Box. Both on Elvis P.S. Don't forget a towel Presley boulevard, these bars memp/J/5 were "mixed" in that they at­ tracted straights as well as Gays, BLACK& WHITE ME:MPI+IS but each featured regular drag MEN TOGETHER shows and related entertanment. An InterracialGay OrganizationtOr All People CE:NTE:R fOR Finally, beginning in Octo- statement or Purpose RE:PRODUCTI\JE: her of 1972)._ the black female

sa G_ ay 1nte · · 1 I+E:ALTI+ -� Inc. � impersonator and entertamer-:--- -;- c; ;;;,.j,.,_,,"_iiiji'; ; �- Men Together of Memphisl , ����� Miss Peaches gave regular organization committed to fostering supportive enwonmeriiS wherein racial and cuijural barriers can be overcomeand the goal of Wednesday night shows at the human equality realized. To these ends, we engage in edu�ation�l, Club Paradise, a prominent polijical, cu.ttural, and soc�al activities .as m�.an� of dealing w�th straight black nighclub in racism, sex1sm, homophobia, and other meqwtles m our community Non-profitFeminist Health Clinic Memphis. and in our lives. Offeringa A Full Range Of GynecologicalCare In November of 1975, the "mixed" black bar, the Mirage 1462 Poplarat McNeil Underground, closed and an­ MAY CALENDAR OF EVENTS other bar, the New Club Mi­ Memphis,Tennessee 38104 rage, opened. This new bar was Monday, May 7 CR/Discussion, lrwin's,7:30 (901) 274-3550 the first all-Gay-black bar in Monday, May 13 Board Meeting, Ed's 1 :30 Memphis and featured dancing, Monday, May 21 CR/Discussion, Irwin's 7:30 sources reported. Memphis Gay and Lesbian· By the early 1970's, the Gay Memphis in May move fromthe downtown busi­ Community Center 8th Anniversary ness area was virtually com­ 1291 Madison Avenue plete. With the exception of the Weekend Celebration­ Hours: Friday 7:00 PM to 12:00 AM Closet and the black "mixed" Friday, May 25- Monday, May 28 bars, all of the city's homosex­ Saturday 10:00 AM to ·Midnight ual establishments were located . Sunday 2:00 PM to 7:00 PM there. Many Gays also bought Activities will include CR's, Brunch, Outdoor Some Exceptions - Ca/1276-4651 houses and rented apartmentsin Barbecue, Guest Speaker and More! Informa­ • Video Nights: Second & Fourth Thursdays thesurrounding Midtown neigh­ 8:00 Gay and Lesbian Subjects. Call 276-4651 borhoods, making it the city's tion on events available on request. "Gayest" .residential area. • Dance Lessons: First & Thitd Thursdays 7:30 • Meditation Group, Sundays, 7-9 PM With four or fiveGay bars on For details and a copy of our newsletter: Call or near its borders, 'Cleveland • Center Potluck- First Saturday 7:00PM Ed (452-5894), Irwin(726-1461) or write BWMT/ St. became the "Main Street"of Monthly Meetings, Third Saturday 11:30 AM this developing Gay ghetto. On Memphis, P.O. Box41773, Memphis, TN 38174- All Welcome weekends, the stretch between 177.3 ' '?' e ecfYour eXt t Your Call ·Brings, You· All This Action!�-

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______Phone______12-Gaze-May 1990 AGLTF Offering ,------� Gay Youth I I Workshop I I I I The Arkansas Gay and Les­ �I I bian Task Force will offer a one-day conference on Lesbian I and- Gay youth on June 15. The I conference has targeted educa­ I tors, counselors, the medical I This month, we're going to that walking provides an excel­ profession, law enforcement, talk about how to relax better. I lent opportunity to mull over Gays, Lesbians, parents, and recommend these four relaxa- problems, experts say you're other involved persons. tion techriiques. They will rein- betteroff leaving your concerns . Conference organizers said, li force your feeling of control at home if you're trying to "We have to acknowledge that becauseyou'll seethat you have counteract stres� 10% of all these young people t:ne ability to do something. But How do you leave those prob­ are Gay or Lesbian, others are there is also physiological ra- lems behind when you step out bisexual,that heterosexual kids tionale for doing t:Pem. They the door? That's where medita­ experiment with homosexual literally loosen your muscles, tion techniques come to the acts, and that many more homo­ slow yuur heart rate, and con- rescue. The beneficial effectsof sexual kids experiment with 1 Feel Like A Baby... trol your blood pressure. meditation as a stress-reducer heterosexual acts... With the I The most widely prescribed and immune-system booster, advent of AIDS, it is even more I relaxation technique is progres- have been well documented. crucial that we address these Trying to use your VCR to its fullest potential? _ sive muscle relaxation. You do Adding some meditation tech­ I · issues and relieve the isolation • 1 Does VCR mean 'to you: Very Crummy Reception? this by systematically tensing niques to your walk may take of these young people." and relaxing various muscle you another step away fromthe Among the faculty for the Is your TV connected to your stereo? groups in your body to generate negative effectsof stress. While conference will be Andrew J. : a sense of total body relaxation. there are no scientifically con-. Humm, Director of Education Are you receiving the best reception possible? Deep, regular, diaphragmatic trolled studies examining the at the Hetrick-Martin Institute : breathing can also help you re- combined activity ofmeditation which serves Lesbian and Gay I lax. The shallow chest breath- and walking,many stress-reduc­ Would the Fire Marshall have a heartattack if he youth in New York City and a 1 looked behind your TV set? ing wedo mostofthe timeseems tion specialists feel it's a win­ member of the AIDS Advisory to go along with the anxiety. ning combination. Committee to the Board of : Can you record one channel while watching How to breathe diaphragmati- You should recognize that Education of the City of New another? cally: anxiety is a part of life. That's York. Other faculty members 1 Inhale slowly through your much less upsetting than having include Dr. Joycelyn Elders, I Can you record while away from home? nose, expanding your belly and the attitude thatit's terrible and 1 director of the Arkansas Dept. • not your chest. Exhale by pull- you shouldn't have to feel it. In of Health; Shirley Herndon of 1 Need help with any or all of the above? ing in your stomach, lettering fact, you may even be able to the Little Rock chapter of Par­ I the air flow out of your nose. put that anxiety to good use. Up ents and Friends of Lesbians I Call Another good relaxation to a point, anxiety can really and Gays; and local doctors, I technique is called positive help people. If we realize that, psychologists, and social work­ The Correct Cable Connection imagery. That's where you we can use it to our advantage. ers. : ProfessionalAssistance is just a phone call away. imagine a relaxing scene, using Many actors and actresses say Sessions will include: as many scenes as possible. A that they get nervous, but it Not affiliatedwith Memphis Cablevision • Youth and AIDS 1 beachtheme works well for me. helps them get up for the per­ • Counseling and Therapeutic I 375-1570 I I imagine being alone on a · formance.If you accept the nor­ Issues beach,-watching the waves rip- malcy of the anxiety and har­ • Programs on Sexuality in the L ___0�� ��J������--J m pling, hearing the sound of the ness the energy a positive Schools waves breaking on the shore, way, it can help you. If not, it • Dealing With Religious Issues tastiri.g a hint of salt in the air, can drain you. This Month at • Growing Up Gay or Lesbian and feeling the warm sun and One final word of advice: a There will also be a panel on sand. Whatever yQur scene is, good laugh - the kind that Gay and Lesbian Youth. GtMJ�a? the more elaborate and detailed makes your eyes tear and your Continuing education cred­ youmake it, the more relaxing it stomach hurt- can de-stress its have been applied for from - Monday, May 21, 7 PM will be. you just as well as relaxation theAmerican Medical Associa­ Have you ever gone for a can. In a study done by the tion, the American Academy of Gay Pride and Gay Heritage: walk when you were angry or Laughter Project at the Univer­ Family Physicians, .and the Twenty-one Years of the upset? Then you know first hand sity of California,it was learned Universityof ArkansasCollege the soothing effectthat walking that people who spend an hour of Nursing. CEU's are avail­ Gay Movement

can have on your emotions. participating in a laughter able from the State of Arkansas Video: · Exercise is a great tension re- workshop dealt with psycho- . Social Work Licensing Board. "The Times of Harvey Milk" ducer,and walkinghastheadded logical stress as well as another Fee for the conference will benefi:tof getting you out in the group that just relaxed. It was be $2 0 if registered by June 1 freshair and distracting youwith learned that if you don't value and $30 thereafter. ·For more Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center changing scenery. And distrac- laughter, you may just stop informationwriteAGLTF,P.O. 1291 Madison tion may be just what you need. doing it. Life is a lot lighter if Box 45053, Little Rock, AR A Program of the Memphis Gay Coalition While many people report you can laugh. 72214 or call501-375-8525.

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.. Brothers & Sisters Bowling League Standings The Brothers and Sisters Gay Mixed Bowling League bowls at Big Daddy's Poplar Plaza Lanes on Friday evenings at 9:15 PM. The league has 14 teams with four members on each team. While new teams cannot be added this season, substitute bowlers are accepted every Fri­ day night except positionnights. Five lanes are set aside for open bowling, so stop by and substi­ tute, open bowl, or just watch. We're sure you'll have fun!

Standings as of April27, 1990 Team Won Lost 1. Stiff Competition 43.5 16.5 2. WKRBowlers 39 21 3. Up 'N Comin' 36.5 23.) 4. Lois Laners 36 24 5. King Pins 34.5 25.5 6. Simply Delicious 31.5 28.5 7. Half Nuts 30 30 8. Just Fer Fun, Hun 30 30 9. Travelin' Trojans 27.5 32.5 10. Hallelujah Hooters 27 33 11. Goodwinners 25.5 34.5 12. Lucky 13 21.5 38.5 13. The Orphans 18.5 41.5 14. Nads 16 44

For more information on the Brothers & Sisters Bowling League, call Tony or Mark at 726-4890.

Out And About Summer Calendar A new outdoor activities group has been formed espe­ cially for those in the Memphis area who complain that there is little for Gay people to do here. Out And About has already sponsored two funoutings. The first outing, which took place last March, was a fascinating visit to the Memphis Zoo. After feeding the bears and enjoying the greatweather, everyone went to John Wills Bar-B-Que Pit for a delicious lunch. In April, Shelby Forest was the spot for the first Out And

About picnic. If you're into ©COPYRIGHT 1990 REAL PEOPLE, LTD. volleyball, frisbee, biking, hik­ ·YOU MUST BE 18 OR OLDER· •PRICES SUBJECT TO CHANGE WITHOUT NOTICE• ing, and good food then the Out And About picnic was the place to be. Out And About is basically no "leader" per se, each mem- University . of Tennessee, on A fun run is planned for Sat­ Saturday of every month there- · differentfrom most Gay organi­ ber is responsible for planning Sunday May 20 beginning at 2 urday, May 12th. The run will after. zations in the Mid-South in that an event, if he or she wishes to. and running till 4 PM. Volley­ cover about 2 miles and will Would you like to plan an events are planned and executed Future eventsforOutAndAbout ball games will take place at the start at the Crump statue in event? For more on Out And by individual members of the will be a volleyball game at park on the first and third Sun­ Overton Park at 8 AM. Runs About call (901) 274-1847 or group. Our outdoor group has Forrest Park, across from the days of every month. will take place the 2nd and 4th 276-0275. 14-Gaze-May 1990 are better reached through the The, Wagettes raised over ment. Military Uniform Night mainstream media. Then too, $600 at theirJ-Wag's benefit for will be held on the 19th and why not publicize in the main- PWA services. ATEAC re- their annual Pool Party will re- . stream media? Our money is as ceived the donation. turn on June 2. . good as anyone elses. In excess of $800 was raised WKRB will present Connie R.I.P.-GDI-George's, to benefit the Gay Pride · and the Little Rock Ladies on 1969-1990 (and a tradition from Committee at the benefit hosted May 13. 1960). ' by B. J. Hefner at WKRB. Don't forget to purchase your Aphrodite's next benefit, tickets early for the lOth annual We were pleased, during our Question and Answer Out and About Eudora Blast from the Past, will take Gay River Ride, scheduled for coverage of the Mr. Leather Department We must say, that we once place May 27 at WKRB. June 23. Joyce Cobb will-once Tennessee contest, to meet a Men of Memphis-Who are again enjoyed our brief visit to Out and About Memphis, again help us celebrate Gay pride gentleman of leather who made they? Who were they? Who do the Radical Faeries at Short for those outdoor activities en­ in Memphis. a lasting impression on us. Guy they hope to be? Mountain Sanctuary. We will thusiasts amongst us, is a small GayFest, with perforniances Baldwin, Mr. International Will there actually be a spend an hour or two telling and growing group which plans by Harmony Gold and the. Leather for 1989, was not only Memphis chapter ofthe National you,gentlereaders,who the hell sporting events and other ac­ Lambda Men's Chorus will handsome and charming but he Gay and Lesbian Task Force? these people are over tea just tivties outdoors. Memphis has be held at Mud Island on Sun­ took time to speak to the crowd How big a part will drag-activ­ about anytime, we wrote an so many possibilities for such day,June 24. It is free; ticket if!­ about a touchy subject: accep­ ism play (Oh Mary, don't ask.)? article about them a couple of that we should really use them formation will follow. tance of Gay people by other Is Tommy Stewart speaking years ago. Suffice it to say that as much as possible. GALA (Gay and Lesbian Gay people. He particularly to us or what? if there are any·other would-be A Positive Atmosphere Awareness), the new student touched upon those who make Faeries in disyere fayah city we · will hold another Pot Luck at grm�p at Memphis State, re­ light or fun of the glitter set, Public Service Announce­ would be delighted to be in the MGLCC Qn May 19 at 4 cently receivedits officialchar­ very similar to. those who d!sh ment Department touch. It is truly next door to PM. ter fromthe school. Some fund­ the leather set. He advised that - Check out the guest editorial, Nirvana to visit a place where Speaking of tea time, when ing has been realized. Some this wis a lot of horse shit (in there are some very interesting affectionis as natural as _speech. was the last time you went to a summer-events will be followed different words) and exhorted views coming from some fresh good old fasioned white gloves by a larger fall semester sched­ us all to have a little more toler­ quarters. The leather people and Woman on the Street and picture hats High. Tea? Just ule. Write GALA at 295 N. ance and respe"ct. If we don't the drag queens are having ac­ Department such a · fundraiser is being McNeil St. (rear), 38112. come together, he said, the hets tivist symptoms. Where is eve­ Chaps, home of Mr. South­ planned for the -Quilt to Mem­ The Pipeline won its third will pick us off, hospital bed by rybody else? ern Leather, will host an phis project set tentavely for pool tournament of the year on hospital bed. Think about it, Would you believe that the ATEAC Benefit June 2 to be­ earlyJune. More as it happens the last day of April. The final gentle readers. Gay Switchboard-had received given by the Wagettes. The Mr. so bleach those gloves, girls. score was 98-83 in the continu-­ Another Titleholder in a large increase in calls due to Tennessee Leather contest (as The Pipeline will once again ing contest between them and our Midst an ad placed by the Coalition in opposed to the Mr.. Leather welcome J. T. Fredericks on WKRB. CongratulationsVance! You the Memphis Flyer? Seems that Tennessee Contest) has been May 11th and 12th for more know who you are. Ta, ta. some Gay and Lesbian people cancelled. - � high caliber C&W entertain- Lady A.

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days at 8 PM at Memphis ing - 327-9758. , LambdaCenter. Beth Causey, M.Div.: Pastoral Tickets are available at Star Search Video, 1264· Madisqn, Memphis,TN (Visa, Master Card, Kinship: Seventh Day· Adventist counseling - 454-0108. and American Express accepted) or by mail. Send $15 money order for each ticket (no cash or checks please) to MGC, P.O. Box 3038, Memphis, TN 38173-0038. Money orders . Gay religious group· - Box Bob Hughes, MS: Counseling, · : . , should be made payable to MGC-River Ride. Tickets are non-refundable. 171135, Memphis 38187-1135 Codependency/ACOA,Howlis­ -754-6160. tic Helathcare Services, 5583 • MGC members may obtain a $3 discount on one ticket ifpurchased from an MGC Board Memphis Center for Reproduc­ . Murray Road, Memphis 38119 - . member. . tive Health: 1462 Poplar Ave, 767-6351.

Memphis 38104 � 274-3550. Kim A. Moss MS: Midtown Coun­ MemphisGay Coalition (MGC): seling Service, 1835 Union, Pleasemail _ tickets @ $15 each for thisyear's River Ride. I have encloseda $_ money order (No personal Orders received will be Box 3038, Memphis 38173- Suite 101, Memphis 38104 - checks, please). afterJune 10 not mailed. Please include.telephone number, ifordering late. Paid ticketswill be held for pickup and confirmedby telephone. 0038 - 324-GAYS. (901) 726-4586. -. Memphis Gay & Lesbian Com- . Carole Taylor, MS: CounSeling

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ing place for 12-step recovery Law: 208 S. Heard Street,Sena · Box3038 Expires programs - 241 N. Cleveland tobia, MS. 38668 - (601) 562 Memphis, TN 38173-0038 (above United Paint Store), 8738. · Signature Memphis - 276-7379. Susan Mackenzie, Attorney A

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