' There's No Such Thing As Harmless Naughty Fun Lisa Nolland Ma Mcs Phd Convenor, the Msc, Anglican Mainstream
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‘ THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS HARMLESS NAUGHTY FUN LISA NOLLAND MA MCS PHD CONVENOR, THE MSC, ANGLICAN MAINSTREAM [email protected] ADDRESSING ISSUES AND DOING CAT: COUNTER ARGUMENT TRAINING 22 FEB 2020 WIMBLEDON INTRO • Huge topics but will start you off • Just make it work for you • Goal: To reclaim the Good Sex label. God made sex and it is GOOD! We unnecessarily concede the territory to Kinsey’s Opposition by allowing them to label us as the ‘Anti-sexers’: sad, sour, repressed, boring. AND WHO WANTS THAT REPUTATION? INTRO II • We start with psychological analysis of ‘harmless naughty fun’ and how we are influenced; followed by an exposé of Dr Alfred Kinsey, Father of the Sex Revolution • We then look at porn, CSE*, sex and Queer/Kink: some examples of ‘harmless naughty fun’ • Finally adults: protest this madness---ParentPower: https://parentpower.family/ is good---but also give your young the best, most accurate and scientific advice! WHY ARE WE HERE TODAY? A KEY REASON IS UK LEADERSHIP FACTORS HERE INCLUDE: • Worry of a ‘Kill-Joy’ reputation: ‘Puritanism - The haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy.’ Powerfully effective (and false) caricature by HL Mencken • Past moral failure • Despairing capitulation • Not wanting to make things worse • Embarrassment: ‘Don’t ask, Don’t tell’ • Fear others will think one secretly relishes it! J. Butler A RELATED REASON: IGNORANCE OF BASIC CHILD DEVELOPMENT • ‘Children are like wet cement, whatever falls on them makes an impression’, H Ginott, child psychologist. Some sex ‘ed’ is pornographic, and yet parents don’t fuss! OR WE CAN UP OUR GAME, REALIZING THAT, WITH DOROTHY AND TOTO, ‘WE’RE NOT IN KANSAS ANYMORE!’ UPPING OUR GAME: NOTE HOW SEX IS SOLD TO A GULLIBLE PUBLIC BY MSM AND THE ESTABLISHMENT • Sex is infantilized: ‘Playboy’; ‘sex toys’; etc • Sex is shrunk: No big deal • By presenting it as a slightly mischievous, light-hearted ‘bit of fun’ • By minimizing/ignoring the massive short/long term damages and costs • By ignoring the more extreme sexual minorities waiting in the wings: ‘We’ve only just begun’. Stonewall does NOT include ‘all’ but gets away with it. Their claim to the moral high ground is a lie. UPPING OUR GAME: IDENTIFY THE HOOKS II • We all are manipulated by these myths. They include: ‘Everything interesting in life is illegal, immoral or fattening.’ Also see right: UPPING OUR GAME: IDENTIFY THE HOOKS III • ‘Imaginary evil is romantic and varied; real evil is gloomy, monotonous, barren, boring. Imaginary good is boring; real good is always new, marvellous, intoxicating’. S Weil I KNEW YOU WERE TROUBLE HTTPS://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/WATCH?V=VNOKGUSDY4Y 1.55-3.20*** I KNEW YOU WERE TROUBLE • And he's long gone When he's next to me • Once upon a time And I realize the blame is on me A few mistakes ago • 'Cause I knew you were trouble when you walked in I was in your sights So shame on me now You got me alone Flew me to places I'd never been You found me X3 ‘Til you put me down, oh I guess you didn't care I knew you were trouble when you walked in And I guess I liked that So, shame on me now And when I fell hard Flew me to places I'd never been You took a step back Now I'm lyin' on the cold hard ground Oh, oh Without me X3 Trouble, trouble, trouble… IDENTIFY OUR HOOKS AND TRIGGERS AND LEARN TO RESPOND IN DIFFERENT, HEALTHY WAYS • ‘All sins are attempts to fill voids’, Simone Weil. How can we avoid our pitfalls? How can we fill our empty internal spaces in healthy ways? How do we learn to stop self-saboutaging? • How can we help our young do the same? • NB: ‘We can ignore reality but we cannot ignore the consequences of ignoring reality’, A Rand WHAT IS DRIVING OUR PRESENT SEX OBSESSED CULTURE…. GREAT RESOURCE ON KINSEY JUDITH REISMAN, ‘SEXUAL SABOTAGE: HOW ONE MAD SCIENTIST UNLEASHED A PLAGUE…’ HTTP://WWW.DRJUDITHREISMAN.COM • Father of the Sex Revolution, d. 1956 • Kinsey’s programme: The ‘liberation’ of sex from its ignorant, guilt-ridden past through ‘science’ and the promotion of happy, healthy, inhibition-free sexuality. What’s not to like?!? • Kinsey’s ideology: Spread via Playboy, sexual ‘health’ organisations and some sex ‘education’ LOOKING CLOSER: KINSEY’S IDEOLOGY… OH DEAR • ‘Fornicate early; fornicate often; fornicate in every possible way’ • For Kinsey, ‘all types of sexual activity---sex with the opposite sex, sex with the same sex, sex with both sexes, sex with children, sex with whips and chains, fisting sex, sex with animals---any kind of sex was normal and common [and good]’, Dr Charles Socarides • Pornography is vital as the gateway to actual sex, and tutors, grooms and grants permission AND STILL MORE • Kinsey was an entomologist who collected millions of wasps; he knew little about human biology or psychology. He was a sadomasochist who experienced orgasm by inserting soft and later hard objects up his urethra while masturbating: pipecleaners, pencils and toothbrushes (brush end first). He had hundreds+ male partners. He and his ‘research’ team were filmed having sex in his sound-proof attic studio. His marriage and family life were largely shams. He later struggled with impotence and died an early death from self-inflicted sexual wounds. AND YET MORE • Kinsey was a sex addict whose PR spin (AKA ‘research’), aided by MSM, duped a gullible public. ‘Liberating’ sex à la Kinsey has contributed to massive increases in STIs, illegitimacy, rape, child sex abuse and family breakdown. His ‘research’ on child sexuality---children are sexual beings---was obtained from close contact with several pedophiles. It has not been replicated elsewhere: e.g. Table 34. KINSEY EXAMPLES OF MULTIPLE ORGASM IN PREADOLESCENT MALES (MALE REPORT, TABLE 34. P. 180; ABBREVIATED) Age No. of Orgasms Time Involved Age No. of Orgasms Time Involved 5 mon 3 ? 7 yr 7 3 hr 11 mon 10 1 hr 8 yr 8 2 hr 11 mon 14 38 min. 9 yr 7 68 min 2 yr 7 9 min. 10 yr 9 52 min 2 yr 11 65 min. 10 yr 14 24 hr 2.5 yr 4 2 min. 11 yr 11 1 hr 4 yr 6 5 min. 11 yr 19 1 hr 4 yr 17 10 hr. 12 yr 7 3 hr 4 yr 26 24 hr. 12 yr 3 3 min THE WAR ON CHILDREN • ***On Alfred Kinsey: https://www.mercatornet.com/mobile/view/robbing- children-of-their-innocence CLIP 27:23- 29:04 MORE ON KINSEY: DVD KINSEY: 49.20-52.33*** • Kinsey DVD: Why did he label children’s responses as orgasms? BC of his own sadomasochism • Kinsey DVD: Look at his face and those of the children’s • Also, using this ‘data’ is like using rapists’ descriptions to research women’s sexuality • No child psychologist or educational theorist in the 20th C. except Kinsey has advocated sex for children DANGERS TO CHILDREN THROUGH CSE/PORN • Children are physically, mentally, psychologically and sexually immature. They have not gone through puberty and thus have only an incipient sexuality, the makings of it • CSE/porn foregrounds and amplifies sex and sexual pleasure to children: all wrong! They have far more important developmental tasks; focusing their mind on sex now is child abuse. We were spared such insidious propaganda when small. HTTPS://EVERACCOUNTABLE.COM/BLOG/ HOW-PORNOGRAPHY-AFFECTS- TEENAGERS-AND-CHILDREN/ • More than anything, the pornographic worldview creates a culture of recreational sex. It destroys the basis for intimacy and promotes infidelity for both sexes. The only way to overcome these effects is to address these responses to pornography with your child, in a healthy way that does not promote shame TUTORING CHILDREN IN HAVING SEX: ‘SPRING FEVER’ FOR 8-9 YO CHILDREN. ***TO 1.00 HTTPS://SPRINGFEVER.ORG.UK/CLIPS/YEAR4_LESSON2.3 ‘ALL ABOUT ME’, CSE PROGRAMME, WAS IN 241 WARWICKSHIRE SCHOOLS. FOR 4YO CHILDREN. HTTPS://APPS.WARW ICKSHIRE.GOV.UK/API /DOCUMENTS/WCCC -630-1591 PROBLEMS WITH THIS SEX EDUCATION • How paedophiles groom vulnerable children. • ‘Mirror mechanism’: Show & Tell leading to Go & Do. ***War on Children 4.00-4.47, which helps to explain high rates of child-on- child sexual assaults • The PSHE Association warned (2015) against ‘too much detail’ when teaching about self harm, as it could ‘trigger unhealthy responses’, but what about here? ‘THE WAR ON CHILDREN’, FAMILY WATCH INTERNATIONAL • Sexualizes children • Threatens their health • Promotes a dangerous gender ideology • Undermines the parent-child relationship DANGERS TO TEENS THROUGH CSE/PORN/SEX • Even teenagers are not properly equipped to weigh up the risks. Their limbic system (the reward/pleasure centre of the brain) appears to be developed by their mid teens, but not their PFC, with its executive functions of reasoning, judgment, controlling impulses and moderating social behaviour. Desires---Just Do It!-- -tend to win. Note also the role of hormones and the vulnerablility of teen girls’ genitalia, which is why so many get STIs. See Miriam Grossman below. • The Age of Consent in the UK: legally 16, but 13 or increasingly down to 11 or lower if the VERY sex is ‘consensual’ and involving minimal age POPULAR differentials. • According to Brook’s ‘traffic light tool’, for BROOK, UK 13- to 17-year-olds, ‘normal’ behaviour YOUTH includes pornography and consensual oral or SEXUAL penetrative vaginal and/or anal sex with ‘HEALTH’ same or opposite sex partners. CHARITY MORE HARMLESS NAUGHTY FUN: QUEER EVERYTHING! AUSTIN TX NOV 2017, DRAG FESTIVAL TABOOS ARE MEANT TO BE BROKEN! DR ELLY BARNES HTTPS://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/WATCH?V=7G1YNH_CD W0 •End goal: Queering kids/ Smashing Hetero- normativity PART OF QUEER KINK KINKSTERS • Though various terms are used to describe it, kink is sometimes spoken of as a sexual ‘orientation’.