Biographies of the Authors of the Stories in the Big Book
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Biographies of the Authors of the Stories in the Big Book Biographies of the Authors of the Stories in the Big Book Compiled by Nancy Moyer Olson (the moderator of the AA History Lovers web group) and her co-workers Assembled and organized by Al Welch Edited by Glenn Chesnut San Francisco & South Bend 2019 http://hindsfoot.org The Hindsfoot Foundation is a not-for-profit organization founded in 1993 for the publication of materials on the history and theory of alcoholism treatment and the moral and spiritual dimensions of recovery. Mailing address at: 4141 Deep Creek Rd., Lot 216, Fremont, California 94555. E-mail address at: [email protected] Copyright © 2019 by the Hindsfoot Foundation All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced, scanned, or distributed in any printed or electronic form without permission. First Edition: [Month Year] Printed in the United States of America ISBN: [ISBN number with hyphens] TABLE OF CONTENTS 1. item number 1 ## 2. item number 2 ## 3. item number 3 ## This table of contents is still in the process of being organized. The stories themselves are listed alphabetically by title (Page Numbers in editions listed as #123 etc.) v vi THE STORIES IN THE BIG BOOK 1 A.A. Taught Him To Handle Sobriety Bob Pearson (Connecticut) p. 554 3rd edition “God willing, we may never again have to deal with drinking, but we have to deal with sobriety every day.” Bob joined A.A. in New York City in 1961, probably never dreaming one day he would be the manager of A.A.’s General Service Office. Bob was born in Houston, Texas, but raised in Kansas, the only child of loving parents. His parents drank only socially, and his father gave him his first drink — a tiny glass of sherry to celebrate the New York — when he was thirteen. He immediately saw the effect it had on him and prayed he wouldn’t drink any more. But in college he began to drink at fraternity parties and beer busts. The family moved frequently and Bob found himself in a different school every year until high school, where he was always the new kid who had to prove himself. He retreated into a fantasy world. He became the classic over-achiever and sold his first article to a national magazine while still an undergraduate. After graduation from college he moved to New York to pursue a writing career and landed a good job. He was soon regarded as a “boy wonder.” But by age twenty-two he was a daily drinker. He then had difficulty in every aspect of his life. His service in the Navy was marred when he was given a “Captain’s Mast,” i.e., discipline for trouble he got into while drinking. His marriage suffered, his values became distorted, and by forty his health was severely damaged. 2 BIOGRAPHIES OF THE AUTHORS When the doctor told him he would have to stop drinking he did, for ten months, with no apparent difficulty, but he did not enjoy life without drinking, and soon he was drinking again and his physical condition deteriorated further. He developed cirrhosis of the liver, had frequent blackouts, severe nosebleeds, angry bruises which appeared mysteriously all over his body. Despite three episodes of losing large quantities of blood by vomiting and from his rectum, he drank again. His doctor finally gave up on him and referred him to a psychiatrist in the same suite of offices. “He happened to be, by the grace of God,” Bob wrote, “Dr. Harry Tiebout, the psychiatrist who probably knew more about alcoholism than any other in the world.” At that time Dr. Tiebout was serving as a nonalcoholic trustee on the General Service Board. Dr. Tiebout sent him to High Watch to dry out. There he read the Big Book and began his slow road back to health and sanity. When Bob had been in A.A. only a short time, an oldtimer told him that A.A. does not teach us how to handle our drinking, but it teaches us how to handle sobriety. Not only did his health recover, so did his marriage, his relationship with his children, his performance on his job. All these things A.A. gave him, but most of all it taught him how to handle sobriety, how to relate to people, how to deal with disappointments and problems. He learned that “the name of the game is not so much to stop drinking as to stay sober.” “God willing, we members of Alcoholics Anonymous may never again have to deal with drinking, but we have to deal with sobriety every day. How do we do it? By learning — through practicing the Twelve Steps and through sharing at meetings — how to cope with the problems that we looked to booze to solve, back in our drinking days.” Bob has served A.A. in many ways. He worked for G.S.O. for twelve and a half years. He was a director and trustee of the THE STORIES IN THE BIG BOOK 3 General Service Board for six years and office general manager for a decade. Upon retirement from G.S.O. in 1986, he took on the task for G.S.O. of writing an update of A.A.’s history covering the period from the publication of “Alcoholics Anonymous Comes to Age,” through its fiftieth year. Unfortunately, this manuscript was never published. At the 1986 General Service Conference, Bob gave what the 1986 Final Report called “a powerful and inspiring closing talk” titled “Our greatest danger: rigidity.” He said: “If you were to ask me what is the greatest danger facing A.A. today, I would have to answer the growing rigidity - the increasing demand for absolute answers to nit-picking questions; pressure for G.S.O. to ‘enforce’ our Traditions, screening alcoholics at closed meetings, prohibiting non- Conference approved literature, i.e., ‘banning books,’ laying more and more rules on groups and members. And in this trend toward rigidity, we are drifting farther and farther away from our co- founders. Bill, in particular, must be spinning in his grave, for he was perhaps the most permissive person I ever met. One of his favorite sayings was ‘Every group has the right to be wrong.’” Bob continues to give his service to A.A. in many ways. At the International Convention in Minneapolis in 2000, he appeared to be handling many jobs. He filled in to lead at least one of the small meetings, “Pioneers in A.A.” The program does not list him as the Moderator. He was probably filling in for someone else at the last minute. 4 BIOGRAPHIES OF THE AUTHORS A Close Shave Henry J. Zoeller (Aron, Ohio) (Harry Zollers? Boelen? Harry S.?) Original Manuscript, p. 348 in 1st edition Harry found sobriety in March of 1937, but he may have entered the fellowship as early a January 1937. He was born in 1890, the youngest of five sons to a “fine Christian mother, and a hard working blacksmith father.” At the age of eight he began tasting his father’s beer, and by fourteen, when he quit school, he was drinking wine and hard cider. He worked as a barber, and acquired several lucrative shops, some with poolrooms and restaurants attached. He married in 1910, during the time he was running his own shops, and fathered ten children. But the time came when he could no longer finance his own business, so he began to float about the country, working at various jobs, but invariably getting fired in a short time because of his unreliability. His children were usually desperately in need because he spent his money for drinking instead of providing for them. He finally secured a job in a shop in a small town near Akron. His reputation for drinking soon became more or less generally known, and he was irritated by a deacon and the pastor of a church who when they were in the shop constantly invited him to church and Bible classes. He earnestly wished they would mind their own THE STORIES IN THE BIG BOOK 5 business. But he became friendly with these men, and at last they persuaded him to go to Akron and talk with Dr. Bob. He listened to Dr. Bob for two hours, and although his mind was quite foggy, he retained a good deal of what was said. He felt that the combined effort of these three Christian gentlemen made it possible for him to have a vital spiritual experience. That was in March 1937. At the time he wrote his story, he had not had a drink since. He had regained the love of his family and the respect of the community, and said the past few years had been the happiest of my life, spent helping others who were afflicted with alcoholism. 6 BIOGRAPHIES OF THE AUTHORS A Different Slant Harry Brick (New York) Original Manuscript, p. 252 in 1st edition His date of sobriety was probably June 1938. It is said that he sued to get the money he had loaned A.A. to get the Big Book published refunded. Harry was probably an accountant. He is believed to be “Fred, a partner in a well known accounting firm” whose story is told on pages 39 through 43 of the Big Book. He was happily married with fine children, sufficient income to indulge his whims and future financial security. He was known as a conservative, sound businessman. To all appearances he was a stable, well-balanced individual, with an attractive personality who made friends easily.