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[email protected] 101 E Main St., Stevensville MD 21666 6 Single Parent 101 • Sept /Oct 09 SingleParent101mag.com 7 bus stop in the mom sometimes.” We assured him that he could see explained that morning and, as her everyday if he wanted and so began this new I could be his a result, Mookie chapter in all of our lives. friend, his missed a lot of Kerrie is blond and Irish Catholic, I’m Jewish big brother, camp time. and Mook is African American. We obviously did his uncle, I asked Mook’s not look like a “typical family” and outsiders had his dad or I’d even be By Steve Gross, Founder & Director, Project Joy mom if he questions—questions that could be awkward for a could stay at young kid to answer. Once I walked into Mookie’s cool with my house on room while he was talking to one of his girlfriends being called I’m not a parent but I certainly have experienced certain evenings at school when I could tell by the flow of the “some guy.” Steve and Corey, 2008 the joy of being one, thanks to a boy who goes by the so that we could Mookie and Steve on a Roller Coaster conversation that she had asked, “Who’s that?” Mook Mookie thought about it for strange name of “Mookie.” commute to camp together.