DECEMBER 2019 Kislev/Tevet 5780

VOLUME 77 NUMBER 4

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UPCOMING Men's Club Sports Night UPCOMING See page 18.

Let Us Build a World of Kindness Ps. 89:3 HAG HANUKKAH SAMEAH! Mitzvah Day FROM YOUR B’NAI ISRAEL FAMILY

Hanukkah Candles Sunday, December 22 through Sunday, December 8 Sunday, December 29 Projects | Blood Drive | Collections See page 15 for details. Hanukkah Celebration & Dinner Thursday, December 26 See page 18 for details. Havdalah Have-Deli Inside B’nai Mitzvah ...... 2 A Congregational Saturday Evening Program Rabbi's Message ...... 3 Notes by Cantor Bolts ...... 4 HINEINI ...... 4 Saturday, December 14 Leadership Message ...... 5 Shabbat Magic...... 6 Lessans Adult Learning Institute...... 7 Featuring: HAZAK...... 7 • Pajama Havdalah Program Early Childhood ...... 8 Shabbat Magic Youth Services ...... 9 • Community Havdalah Service Youth & Education ...... 10 Israel Corner ...... 11 • Community Deli Dinner Social Action ...... 14 • Cantor Josh & Friends Variety Show Mitzvah Day ...... 15 Blumberg-Zalis Family Library ...... 16 • Kadima & USY Programs Sisterhood ...... 17 Sisterhood Judaica Shop ...... 17 See page 6 for information. Men's Club ...... 18 Mazal Tovim ...... 19 Members in Mourning ...... 20 Donations ...... 21 Morocco Jewish Heritage Trip ...... 23 B’NAI MITZVAH devn ipa Ari Jordan Fine Lily Cayla Rulnick December 7 | 9:00 AM December 21 | 9:00 AM Ari Fine, son of Elana Lily Rulnick, daughter of WINNE R and Sandy Fine, grandson Alisa and Aaron Rulnick, of Judi Fine and Neal granddaughter of Dr. Fine, and Marilyn Smith Adrienne and Rabbi Arthur and Barry Smith, is a Rulnick, and Marsha and 7th grade student at Julius West Middle Sidney Tishler, is a seventh-grade student Thank you to the readers of School. For his mitzvah project, Ari is at Charles E. Smith Jewish Day School. Washington Jewish Week supporting Amman Imman: Water is Life, For her mitzvah project, Lily volunteers for for choosing an organization that raises awareness of Friendship Circle, where she participates water scarcity in Africa and raises funds to in monthly birthday parties with children B’nai Israel build wells. Ari is leading read alouds of who have developmental disabilities. Lily Congregation the children’s book, Nya’s Long Walk, for also participates in the Sunflower Bakery as the best elementary school students and is running a B’nai Mitzvah Program, a program that fundraiser for their Wells of Love program. trains maintainable and transferable skills to adults with learning differences. • Preschool Julia Hannah Fine • Event Venue December 7 | 9:00 AM Alex Lev Kandel • Judaica Shop Julia Fine, daughter of January 4 | 9:00 AM Elana and Sandy Fine, Alex Kandel, son of • Continuing Education granddaughter of Judi Fine Melanie and Rami Kandel, Program and Neal Fine, and Marilyn grandson of Zehavit and • Alternative Shabbat Smith and Barry Smith, is Emmanuel Kandel, and a 7th grade student at Julius West Middle Service/Programming Nancy Savage and Ronald School. For her mitzvah project, Julia is Savage (z”l), is a seventh- • Family-Friendly participating in Sunflower Bakery’s B’nai grade student at Cabin John Middle School. Mitzvah Seeds Program. Sunflower Bakery Shabbat Service For his mitzvah project, Alex volunteers is a local bakery dedicated to providing • Kiddush weekly at the Bender Jewish Community skilled job training and employment for Center sports program mentoring children adults with learning differences. She is also in the DC metropolitan area! coordinating a neighborhood food drive for with special needs. His family has an Manna Food Center. endowment fund, The David Lev Kandel Memorial Endowment Fund that supports Amanda Jayne children with special needs attend Camp Gershoni JCC. December 14 | 9:00 AM Amanda Gershoni, DUES REMINDER daughter of Jodi and Yoav Gershoni, granddaughter January is around the corner! A of Harriet Fishel and Alan HAZAK friendly reminder that B’nai Israel Kent, Janet and Jerry Slusky, and Denise policy is to pay the full balance and Amnon Gershoni, is a seventh-grade Shabbat of yearly membership dues by student at Julius West Middle School. For Saturday, December 28 December 31st or be on a payment her mitzvah project, Amanda is collecting plan with the synagogue. Payments and assembling birthday bags for children Join members of HAZAK can be made by check, credit card, who are celebrating their birthdays at for this special Shabbat service or stock transfer. Children’s National Medical Center in as we celebrate the accomplishments Washington, DC. Amanda believes sick of our chapter and its For more information, please children’s birthdays should feel festive and dedicated leaders. contact Hal Ossman, Executive special. Director (hossman@bnaiisraelcong. org, 301-816-5563).

2 DECEMBER 2019 offered an opportunity to do something for themselves, by themselves. Faith and Welcome to the Newest Family is designed for parents to be with each other—without their children in the Members of Our room—in order to allow for a real deep B’nai Israel Family conversation about our lives as parents (October 5–November 5, 2019) raising Jewish children.

This program offers you the opportunity New Member . . . to think intentionally about the future and your family’s Jewish identity. Faith and AARON GOLDBERG Family can help you be a better parent by drawing upon the wisdom of our tradition, Brukhim habaim! The entire congregation and linking everyday moments to Jewish shares our joy in welcoming you into our RABBI'S MESSAGE practices that bring greater meaning, depth, B’nai Israel family. by RABBI MITCHELL BERKOWITZ and joy to our lives. Each of the five sessions provides opportunities to learn blessings and songs, engage in meaningful text study, As new parents, Rebecca and I are figuring and explore with peers how to manage the out what it means to establish a family, to competing values of the world in which care for and raise another human being, we live. to love and educate our daughter, and to determine how best to help her become a Typically, I shy away from thinking about strong, compassionate, and kind woman, Hanukkah as time of gift-giving. This Inclement dedicated to the values that we too hold year, however, I encourage the parents of dear. Of course, we want her to see the young children in our community to give Weather value in living a committed Jewish life, and themselves a precious gift: the gift of time Information recognize all of the joys that are manifest in carved out for themselves, time to learn and a Jewish home. explore for themselves, time to have fun In the event of inclement weather, with their partner and grow closer to their we will make every effort that we can In speaking with other parents of young peers. This year, give yourself the gift of to communicate to our membership children, I know that they too wonder how participating in Faith and Family. and school communities via email. to integrate Judaism into their homes and into their daily lives. How can Jewish rituals I am thrilled to be offering this opportunity to Please be aware that separate punctuate the day, the week, the month, in the B’nai Israel community, and I hope that decisions are made for our schools, a way that adds value, meaning, and joy to you will consider participating in it. I have synagogue offices, synagogue our family? What are the Jewish values that not yet set a schedule for the course because programs, and daily minyan. In we apply to everyday happenings? How can I want to hear from those who are interested all cases, the most up-to-date Judaism make us better parents? about their schedules and availability. If information will be posted on our you are interested in participating, please website at www.bnaiisraelcong. These questions are at the core of a new reach out and let me know (301-816-5575, org. If events are not listed as curriculum that we are piloting here at B’nai [email protected]). canceled on our website, it is safe Israel. Over the summer, we applied and to assume that they are proceeding were accepted into a cohort of synagogues Wishing you all a hag Hanukkah sameach, as scheduled. that will offer a new USCJ curriculum, a festive Hanukkah celebration. Faith and Family. This five-session program is designed specifically for parents of young children (defined rather loosely as Support B’nai Israel newborns through nursery school, but open to all who are interested). The sessions are by Shopping in Your B'NAI ISRAEL CONGREGATION designed to expose parents to Jewish values Sisterhood Judaica Shop! 6301 Montrose Road and teachings that relate to parenting and We have all that you need for your Rockville, Maryland 20852 building a Jewish identity for your family. holiday shopping as well as your other 301-881-6550 gift-giving needs. www.bnaiisraelcong.org For those who are or who have been parents Thank you in advance Affiliated with The United Synagogue of young children, you know that time is of Conservative Judaism a precious commodity. We are constantly for your support! running between work, nursery school, B’nai Israel Congregation See page 17 for details. errands, and the everyday tasks of the is an accessible building. home. Rarely are parents of young children DECEMBER 2019 3 You can talk to either of us about: • Shabbat or holiday services • Learning to read Torah or lead services • Individual b’nai mitzvah students MICHAEL J. SAFRA • Visiting the sick or other pastoral needs Senior Rabbi • Minyanim, including shiva minyanim MITCHELL H. BERKOWITZ Assistant Rabbi • Educational or musical programs JONATHAN A. SCHNITZER Rabbi Emeritus I hope this helps to clarify how each of your MATTHEW H. SIMON, DD, DHL Rabbi Emeritus cantors spends their time! Please feel free to JOSH C. PERLMAN get in touch with either of us if you have any Hazzan other questions or ideas, or if you just want SARAH BOLTS Associate Hazzan/Music Director to say hello. Our doors are always open. ROBERT KIEVAL Hazzan Emeritus HAL OSSMAN Executive Director NOTES MOSHE BEN-LEV by CANTOR SARAH BOLTS Education Director RABBI PENINA ALEXANDER Assistant Principal You may or may not have noticed, but KAREN GERTON the title that appears under my name in Early Childhood Director the Scroll and on my office door is a little NANCY GOLDBERG Schilit Nursery School Assistant Director different from the one that appeared under SARAH JARVIS Cantor Wolpert. Her title was Associate Director of Youth Engagement Hazzan/Ritual Director; mine is Associate ARIELLE KATZEL HINEINI Family Engagement Coordinator Hazzan/Music Director. This means that Annual Campaign JILL GENDELMAN while Cantor Wolpert supervised all things Librarian NETTA ASNER ritual—aliyot, Torah readings, rolling Torah 2019–2020 Congregational Shlicha scrolls, coordinating holiday celebrations— AVERY SUDOW my role is more specifically music-focused. Communications and Development Director There is one month left JOSE (PEPE) STRAUSS I am responsible for the big-picture thinking Facilities Director about music at B’nai Israel, both within and in this year's Hineini PATRICIA SIMITAKOS Events Manager outside of services. I still manage Torah Campaign. Please reading assignments, but many of the other make your gift today OFFICERS ritual duties are now being administered by STEVEN ROTHENBERG and help us reach this President Cantor Josh. SCOTT HODES year's goal. Vice President Administration What does this mean in terms of details? It DAVID STEIN Vice President Development means that you should talk to me if: Our community’s generous support DANA LANDE • You want to sign up to read Torah, for last year’s record-breaking Vice President Membership Haftarah, or Megillah Hineini annual campaign allowed DOUGLAS SUNSHINE Vice President Religious Affairs • You have a question about Hebrew names us to do so much to foster Jewish FONDA LOWE • You have a question or idea about special identity and grow our entire B’nai Vice President Youth and Education Israel community. Thanks to your DINA COHEN GRUBER musical programming, including our Secretary ongoing conversation about music and support, we successfully met our ROB LOEWY prayer or our Artist-in-Residence visits goal of asking less and saying Treasurer “thank you” more. New families APRIL KAPLAN from Eliana Light Assistant Treasurer are joining our congregation every MARC LEVINE And you should talk to Cantor Josh if: day, and we are engaging the Parliamentarian MARLA SCHULMAN • You want an aliyah for a yahrzeit, simcha, community in new and creative Immediate Past President or other reason ways. This is the time to support CHERYL ROD Jewish life. This is the time to build Sisterhood President • You have a baby naming, aufruf, or other WAYNE BERMAN | LEWIS GERTZ simcha to celebrate at services on our success. This is the time to Men’s Club Co-Presidents • You want to make sure a Torah scroll is raise your hand to say “Hineini/ JUDITH ALTNEU Here I am.” Make your gift today United Synagogue Youth President rolled to the right place STEVEN COHEN • You have a question about the B’nai by returning the pledge card, DR. PATRICIA GREENWEL-ROJKIND Mitzvah program contacting our Executive Director, DR. STEVEN HAUSMAN DR. FRED MESSING Hal Ossman, (301-816-5563, DR. STEPHEN B. ROBBINS [email protected]), or JOEL SHANKMAN online at www.bnaiisraelcong.org/ JAY WECHSLER Gabbaim hineini.

4 DECEMBER 2019 clergy, facilities) to help develop budgets gift via check, through your Chaverware for the coming fiscal year. The Board of account, or contact our Executive Director, Governors votes to adopt that budget (or Hal Ossman, at 301-881-6550. not—they may have questions for the committee). I invite you to reach out to me with any questions or comments about this column Our many committees are where most or anything else at B’nai (rkloewy@gmail. of the work and direction-setting for the com). congregation originate. But for matters of a Halachic nature which are the purview of the clergy (though our Religious Affairs committee is influential as well), committees are where the foundation of B’nai policy and practice are made. What knowledge WELCOME LEADERSHIP and skills can you contribute—financial, legal, organizational improvement and MESSAGE vision, policy, governance, development/ by ROB LOEWY fundraising, construction? Please come Treasurer forward —simply reach out to me—and we’ll find a place for you. Hello, friends. When I last wrote this column, I told you a bit about myself and It took some time for me to fully understand tried to explain why and how our nearly 100 the appeal of B’nai Israel; in a word, it is year old B’nai Israel community became community. All of us are part of communities: so important to me. That journey began our neighborhoods, workplaces, gyms, our with a congregational trip to Israel with the children’s sports teams and dance classes. Schnitzers in 2000; and in April of 2020 B’nai has become an important one for me Susan and I will accompany Rabbi Safra, as well; as much a social outlet as a faith Sharon, and many others on what promises foundation. Each year, I chair or co-chair be an extraordinary trip to Morocco. several activities each year such as the We are excited to announce the addition Mitzvah Day blood drive and Yom Hashoah of Avery Sudow to the B'nai Israel As your treasurer for more than a year, I’ve yellow candle packing. I’ve found that the family as the new Communications and come to better know B’nai from a number of more I give of myself, the more I get out of it. Development Director. Avery will focus perspectives. We are a complex organization on the congregation's brand, messaging, with over 1,100 member units and more I encourage each of you to find a way to get and fundraising strategies. Please feel than 100 employees, staff, teachers, and involved in our remarkable congregation. free to reach out to Avery (301-816- contractors. We are truly fortunate to have Come to services once a month. Attend a 5569, [email protected]) to dedicated and talented clergy, staff, and lay Men’s Club or Sisterhood event. Find a introduce yourself and share ideas! leadership, and in the case of the latter, I Mitzvah Day activity that appeals to you. thought I’d share some inside B’nai baseball If you’re in the building on Mitzvah Day, with you: stop by the blood drive in Bimblich Hall and introduce yourself. If you start in a small Each year, a 10 to 12 person Nominating way you may find a renewed energy in your Committee is appointed by the president Judaism and in turn, find yourself with a new community. It happened to me. and chaired by someone with significant The synagogue offices B’nai leadership experience. The will be closed on committee identifies candidates for our Finally, you probably know that Hineini, Board of Governors for the coming year. our annual major development campaign, Wednesday, December 25, The nominating committee seeks diverse is underway. Funds raised by the campaign and enable us to support our programs and candidates from across our membership, Wednesday, January 1. ideally those who show leadership potential maintain the outstanding clergy, educators, and a demonstrated interest in our future, and staff that are among our hallmarks. I Morning minyan will take which is exactly why their work is so view Hineini as not unlike other things I important. support—WAMU, Wikipedia, the University place at 9:00 AM of Maryland—B’nai grows and can do more on these days. Another critical activity is that of our only with the support of our members, and Evening minyan will be the amount of your gift is less important than Budget Committee. Again, a dozen or so at 8:00 PM. congregants are appointed, and they meet the fact that you participate at some level. with department heads (Talmud Torah, If you have already responded to this year’s Schilit Nursery School, house and grounds, campaign, thank you. You can make your DECEMBER 2019 5 SHABBAT MAGIC WINN Shabbat Afternoon Shabbat Morning E R Talmud Study Alternative Sessions with Rabbi Mitchell Berkowitz Join us as we introduce Saturdays, 4:30–5:45 PM* new and exciting sessions Havdalah Have-Deli Blumberg-Zalis Family Library on Shabbat mornings, We will continue our exploration of the which will run parallel to our traditional A Congregational Saturday talmudic tractate Beitzah. Newcomers are prayer services. Evening Program more than welcome to join us. No prior knowledge is necessary. Contact Rabbi Jewish Yoga with Saturday, December 14 Berkowitz to RSVP (mhberkowitz@bnaiis- Jeremy Jacobsohn raelcong.org). Saturday, December 14 Pajama Havdalah Program 10:30–11:30 AM for Nursery School Aged Families *No class on December 21 and 28. Jewish-inspired yoga blends 5:15 PM gentle flow movements, Nursery school aged children are invited centering meditation, and to wear their pajamas, bring their favorite Shabbat Morning Torah Study breath work with spiritual stuffed animal, and enjoy a snack, followed December 7 (Vayetze) guidance from Mussar and other Jewish by Havdalah themed crafts and story time. with Danny Siegel texts. This class is accessible to all. December 14 (Vayishlach) We hope you will join us in saying goodbye with Cantor Sarah Bolts to Shabbat and welcome to the new week. 9:00–10:00 AM If you have kids (grades 3–6), drop them off Everyone is invited to stay for the Havdalah/ Engage with the weekly parsha during at the all new Kids Club service in Hayman Have-Deli dinner starting at 6pm. Questions? these interactive discussions, led by Chapel, 10:30–11:40 AM. (See p. 12). Contact Arielle Katzel, Family Engagement community members and by clergy. Coordinator ([email protected], Contact Laurie Weker-Lipton with Space is limited. Register Online at 301-816-5567). Register online (www. questions ([email protected]) or to www.bnaiisraelcong.org/shma. bnaiisraelcong.org/havdalah). volunteer to lead a session. Contact Rachel Hyman, Program Associate Community Havdalah Service with questions (301-816-5562, rachel@ 6:00 PM Sharp GRADE SHABBATOT bnaiisraelcong.org). Join us for a beautiful Havdalah as we say goodbye to Shabbat. 4th Grade Saturday, December 7 Community Deli Dinner 10:00 AM Brunch Shabbat Wine & Cheese Reception 6:15 PM 10:30 AM Junior Congregation Enjoy a delicious deli dinner with your Service Friday, December 20 family and friends. Vegetarian options 5:45 PM available. Cost is $5 per person for ages 13 2nd Grade Spend time with your and up; no cost for children 12 and under. Saturday, December 14 B’nai Israel family Register online (www.bnaiisraelcong.org/ 10:00 AM Brunch enjoying wine, cheese, and kid-friendly havdalah). 10:30 AM Mini Minyan Service snacks in the Teitel Atrium before Kabbalat Shabbat services. We will gather Cantor Josh & Friends Variety for a moment of kavanah (intentionality) Show Teen Minyan before moving into Hayman Chapel for Saturday, December 14 7:00 PM our services. 10:30–11:45 AM Stick around for a special jam session and This special service is led by and for Family Minyan Melave Malka with Cantor Josh and friends! teens. Contact Sarah Jarvis, Director Saturday, December 21 NEW of Youth Engagement (240-221-2515, 10:00 AM this year! Pre-Hanukkah Celebration [email protected]) to get Gather as a family for this for Kadima and USY (grades 6–12) involved. special Shabbat morning service with 7:00 PM meaningful learning, spirited prayer, and Hang out with friends and get ready for engaging Torah reading. All are welcome Hanukkah with hanukiyah and candle SHABBAT MAGIC to attend. making, and of course, candy dreidels! Register online (www.bnaiisraelcong.org/ YOUTH SERVICES If you would like to participate in the service, youthdept) or to Sarah Jarvis, Director of contact Rabbi Berkowitz (mhberkowitz@ Youth Engagement (sarahj@bnaiisraelcong. See page 12 for the schedule. bnaiisraelcong.org). org). 6 DECEMBER 2019 SARA & SAMUEL J. LESSANS ADULT LEARNING INSTITUTE

The Torah and Exploring Adult B’nai WINNE Beyond: Lunch Authentic Jewish Mitzvah Class R and Learn Values Beginning January with Rabbi Jonathan with Danny Siegel 2020 A. Schnitzer Tuesday, December It’s never too late! Join us Monday, December 2 17 and Wednesday, for a journey of Jewish and the first Monday of December 18 exploration which will all other months 7:00–9:00 PM include meaningful 12:30–1:30 PM Authentic Jewish values engagement with prayer, We will soon complete our study of the emerge from studying our unique texts— inspiring study of our Book of Deuteronomy and then continue Bible, Talmud, Rambam, etc. Danny’s sacred texts, and skill- with excerpts from the Book of Joshua. specialty includes little-known or little- building. This journey Comments Elie Wiesel: “(Joshua) is taught texts, which we will discuss in depth. will begin in January 2020 with Cantor These sessions are not lectures. Rather, they the narrative of a stunning adventure, Sarah Bolts and Cantor Josh Perlman’s are give-and-take two-way discussions, so the echoes of which reverberate in our class, Pathways to Prayer. See below for everyone benefits from the insights offered. consciousness—and in our newspapers— class details. to this day: a nation still exuberant and No text background required, and the sessions are independent of each other. young, still homeless, is about to take The Adult B’nai Mitzvah journey will take possession of a territory, still inhabited by about one year to complete. Interested other tribes and other entities, in the name in participating? Not sure if you are a of an ancient promise, on the authority of candidate for this program? Contact Rabbi a higher inscrutable will.” Newcomers are HAZAK Mitchell Berkowitz with any questions or always warmly welcomed. Latkes vs. concerns (mhberkowitz@bnaiisraelcong. Hamantashen org, 301-816-5575). with Jewish Eating: Francie Kranzberg, Supermarket Barry Nussbaum, Jason Pathways to Sweep with a Samenow and Avi West Prayer Kosher Twist Wednesday, December 18 with Thursday, December 12 11:30 AM–2:00 PM Cantor Sarah Bolts 7:00 PM Program followed by and lunch You’ll never believe how Cantor Josh The latke or the many products in the Perlman hamantashen? Which is average supermarket are Sunday, January 5, the superior Jewish food? A distinguished kosher! Keeping kosher is the Jewish way and continuing 5 more panel of renowned professionals will to engage in mindful eating. Join us for an Sundays delight you with convincing arguments of interactive experience in a local supermarket 9:15–10:30 AM which specialty they prefer. The audience as we learn together about the value of $36/members, $50/ is invited to join the panel afterwards for kashrut and how you too can make this nonmembers mouthwatering hands-on research. This mitzvah part of your life. Contact Rabbi Explore the meaning of program is cosponsored by Sisterhood. Berkowitz (301-816-5575, mhberkowitz@ the essential prayers of bnaiisraelcong.org) with questions. the siddur. Learn the This program is free of charge, but tunes so that you too can reservations are requested to Rachel Hyman, sing along and pray with the congregation. Program Associate (301-816-5562, rachel@ This class will also serve as the first To REGISTER or for more bnaiisraelcong.org). information on any of our component of the Adult B’nai Mitzvah process. Contact Rabbi Berkowitz (301- learning opportunities, HAZAK is our group for individuals 55 816-5575, mhberkowitz@bnaiisraelcong. go to www.bnaiisraelcong.org/ or older who want to share in interesting org) for more details. adulteducation. experiences. It's never too late to make new friends! QUESTIONS? Contact Rabbi Mitchell Berkowitz (301-816-5575, [email protected]).

DECEMBER 2019 7 Before the children leave the synagogue community. On Sukkot the the table, Trice brings out a children attended the Hoshanah Rabbah bag with a surprise inside. “I service and joined in circling the sanctuary found these on the ground,” with the lulavs and etrogs. They were invited she tells her students. “What to the reading table to lead Ein Kelohainu do you think they are?” Using and Ashrei with the cantor. And, they ate reasoning skills, one child snacks in the Sukkah. On Simhat Torah, excitedly exclaims, “Leaves!” the children again attended congregational At the art table there are services in the sanctuary. Dancing with the glue bottles and paper for Torah was a favorite activity! the children to make a fall picture with the leaves. They are excited about the colors they see. “This one is yellow and this one is EARLY red,” observes one child. All the children at the table are learning to “squeeze and stop” CHILDHOOD as they glue their leaves on the paper. by KAREN GERTON Director

When it was observed that the door of One of the biggest WINNE R Gan Shemesh was missing the classroom changes for the mezuzah this became a learning opportunity Nursery School this for the children. They read the book, The year was to make our After Care program Shema in the Mezuzah to the children. our own! Taking this over allows for a Through this book the children to learned program that is in alignment with our core that Shema means listen. They were exposed program values and goals. We have four to the word “compromise”. And, because it amazing teachers who work very hard not is their room, the children got to choose the only to provide for the needs of children who In Gan Shemesh, there are also many new mezuzah that adorns their door! stay all day, but to also embed many learning opportunities for the children to develop opportunities into their daily structure. independence skills. These three- and four- year olds love to help wash the tables and prepare and serve snack to their friends. They are learning to notice their peers needs and to help one another. “Would you like a pepper?” we hear asked. The children converse as they enjoy their healthy food.

As with every new program, we take notes, evaluate, collaborate and find innovative If you were to visit Gan ha’Aretz you might ways to make sure that our children are see the children waking up from their naps given the best we can offer. We know and gathering at the table for snack. With they are not only well cared for, but in a our two- and three-year olds, Trice Kersner loving environment that provides many gives the children their Cheerios, pointing opportunities for growth. out the heart shape on the box. The children are also eating penguin crackers. “One, two, The children are being exposed to Jewish three, four, five!” one child recites as she values and experiences. Having the children counts her pieces of snack. Conversation at our school during the first two days abounds and the atmosphere is full of of Sukkot and then during Simhat Torah laughter, warmth and joy. Children share and Shemini Atzeret provided many about their home experiences as the teachers opportunities for the children to be a part sit with them during snack time. Those who of the holiday celebrations. With their are just waking up are encouraged by Sherri enthusiasm for the sharing the traditions Finkel to put their nap items in their bag, an of Jewish life, Glenda Koby and Monique important part of learning to be independent Israel, incorporated experiences within and responsible. 8 DECEMBER 2019 It strikes me that there is a similarity in theme to Purim: reveal or conceal. In the Megillah, Esther hides her true identity out DECEMBER of fear of rejection or worse, death, until her uncle Mordechai encourages her to reveal Shabbat Magic it in order to prevent the destruction of the people at the hands of Haman. He tells her: Youth Programs who knows that if for a time such as this you 3 were chosen for the monarchy? Exposing SATURDAY, DECEMBER 7 her identity is crucial in this story. December Birthday Shabbat 10:00 AM 4th Grade Family Brunch The tension between revealing and 10:15 AM Gold Kippah Prayer Practice concealing the lights of Hanukkah can be 10:30 AM Junior Congregation deeply personal. The Hasidic master, the (grades K–6) and 4th Grade Shabbat YOUTH & Sefat Emet, (Yehudah Aryeh Leib Alter, 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 and 1847–1905), circumvents this by teaching under with parent) EDUCATION that the light of the hanukkiah is actually a by RABBI PENINA ALEXANDER metaphor for something else. “In this season, Assistant Principal when lights were miraculously lit for Israel, SATURDAY, DECEMBER 14 even though they did not have enough oil, 10:00 AM 2nd Grade Family Brunch there remains light, even now, to help us, Hanukkah is a spectacular holiday. There is 10:15 AM Gold Kippah Prayer Practice with the aid of the Hanukkah candles, to so much to love about it: twinkling lights, 10:30 AM Mini Minyan (grades K–2) find the hidden light within.”4 The light that delicious foods, time with family and and 2nd Grade Shabbat came from the original miracle still makes friends, and for many, gifts of gelt or toys, 10:30 AM Kids Club Junior its way to us and helps us to bring out our pjs or socks. It is a holiday with both public Congregation (grades 3–6 without own special brightness. The flames that and private aspects, some of which may be a parent) come from the candles are small so they can surprising. 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 and shine more directly like a flashlight into our under with parent) dark spaces to reveal what makes us special. The Talmud in Tractate Shabbat elucidates for us a reason for celebrating this holiday So, while the main message of Hanukkah is SATURDAY, DECEMBER 21 and instructs us on how to do it. The Greeks to publicize the miracles, perhaps it can also 10:00 AM Family Minyan had desecrated the holy Temple to the point be a reminder to us not to keep our own light 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 where they could not find enough pure oil hidden from others, to be bold and share our and under with parent) to light the entire menorah for longer than radiance with the world. one day. But by a miracle, it lasted for eight days, and we celebrate with feasting Hag Urim Sameach! Happy festival of and songs of praise. When we light, adding lights! SATURDAY, DECEMBER 28 another candle each night, the Rabbis teach, 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 and we should place the hannukiah where the under with parent) light can be visible from the street, like in a doorway or window.1 However, the Jewish people throughout our history have experienced discrimination and outward NEW this hatred and have therefore felt at times that year! publicizing the miracle, and, by extension, SHABBAT one’s Jewishness, out into the world could SHENANIGANS be dangerous. Therefore, the Rabbis gave permission to light the candles on a table, Saturday, December 14 out of plain view.2 This was the case last year 12:15–1:15 PM* for some friends out of town who found anti- Jewish graffiti in their neighborhood. Each HANUKKAH Games and fun for grades K–12 students year provides an additional opportunity to on the second Saturday of each month. display our Hanukkah pride or perhaps to CELEBRATION Sports, activities, board games, crafts, conceal it from possible threats from those and more for you and your friends. around us. & DINNER Contact Sarah Jarvis, Director of Youth Thursday, December 26 Engagement, for more information. 6:30 PM 1 3 BT Shabbat 21a Esther 4:14 *Please note new time. 2 BT Shabbat 21b 4 Sefat Emet on Hanukkah 1:198 See page 18 for details.

DECEMBER 2019 9 the kids, with a service led by our amazing teens and supervised by our staff. This Carl & Doris Lane allows the kids to shine and be themselves without “adults” in the room, and for teens YOUTH to develop their skills leading, planning, and DEPARTMENT executing a service of their own creation. Although it is not a new initiative, our Teen Minyan (post B’nai Mitzvah–12th Grade) EVENTS is also evolving and growing. It is one of our best attended programs for teens! We changed the format last year to include a KADIMA (6–8) teen-led discussion about the parsha, which Hanukkah Program allows the teens to talk amongst their peers Saturday, December 7 and learn with each other in a fun way. 6:00-8:30 PM YOUTH EVENTS Make your own hanukiyah and candles by SARAH JARVIS We are always working with staff, lay so that you will think about Kadima all Director of Youth Engagement leaders, and our youth to continuously throughout the holiday! improve and evolve our youth programs at B’nai Israel. Wishing everyone a happy USY (9–12) One of the things I like most about my new year and can’t wait to see you all at Hanukkah Program job is that it is always evolving. The B’nai one of our many exciting events this year! Saturday, December 7 Israel Carl & Doris Lane Youth Department 6:00-8:30 PM is always finding new ways to engage our Decorate yummy cookies and make youth populations by adapting to best meet your own hanukiyah and candles to their needs. We want every child and teen use during the holiday. to feel comfortable, welcome, and happy to be at B’nai. My favorite memories of my Teen Minyan childhood revolve around my synagogue Saturday, December 14 and the youth groups in which I was 10:30-11:45 AM involved. I want to create those memories for others. Register Online for We aim to be inviting and inclusive to YOUTH GROUPS all those who walk through the door. The youth department is not just about our four RAMAH DAY www.bnaiisraelcong.org/ youthdeptregistration youth groups. It is also about the larger CAMP OPEN goal of building a home at B’nai for all of HOUSE our youth, so that they feel a sense of pride when they walk into the building. Ramah Day Camp invites all prospective camp families to an Open We have many new initiatives this year, House on Sunday, December 15 from designed to reach more members of the 2:00–4:00 PM at the summer camp community. One of our new programs site, the Wellspring Conference Center is Shabbat Shenanigans, an exciting (11411 Neelsville Church Road, new event that takes place on the second Germantown, MD 20876). Ramah COLLEGE Saturday of each month in Goodman Hall Day Camp is open to current Pre-K after the congregational kiddush. This through 4th grade students. CONNECTION! program (Grades K–12) provides a place to hang out, play board games, and spend time Families are welcome to come for If you are a college student or the with other kids here on Shabbat afternoons. a short time or stay for a while. A parent of one, sign up for College Some of our teen leaders are planning formal welcome by Rabbi Jill Levy, Connection today. Packages have activities to incorporate into Shabbat Camp Director, will take place at included Starbucks gift cards, holidays Shenanigans such as craft projects, new 2:45 p.m. RSVP’s are appreciated gifts, candy, and more. games, and even hevrutah-style learning. (tinyurl.com/yyas9zro). Please contact (If you don’t know what that is, call me at Assistant Director Sharon Rosenberg Don't miss out! 240-221-2515 and I’d love to explain!) Safra with questions (sharons@ www.bnaiisraelcong.org/college campramahne.org, 301-658-6627). We also have a few new service initiatives For more information, go to www. this year including Kids Club, a Junior ramahdcdaycamp.org. Congregation service designed only for

10 DECEMBER 2019 I find it poetic that our wedding will take place on Hanukkah. Not only as a symbol to how special the last two have been for our relationship, but also because the values of the holiday connect so much to us as well. We are planning to light Hanukkah candles as part of the ceremony and when we see that light, I know that it will be a full circle for the past two years.

I wish you all that your Hanukkah will be as 20s & 30s NEW meaningful and beautiful as mine have been this Shabbat year! for me the past few years. May it be filled with strength, courage, light and winning MEET N’ EAT against all odds, embracing the true and israel corner beautiful holiday of Hanukkah. Join our shlicha (Israeli emissary) and by NETTA ASNER other peers in their 20s and 30s from the Congregational Shlicha greater DC area for an intimate Friday night Shabbat dinner once a month! Despite the fact that I hate winter, I absolutely The congregational shlicha program is Contact Netta Asner, Congregational love Hanukkah. Hanukkah does not have made possible by a partnership with the Shlicha ([email protected], 240- halakhic restrictions, it is an excuse to eat Jewish Federation of Greater Washington. doughnuts, and it symbolizes beautiful 388-8077) if you would like to join her! things such as light, courage, strength, and winning against all odds. This Hanukkah is extra special to me personally, since I will be getting married on December 29th, the NOSH last night of Hanukkah.

The past few celebrations of Hanukkah have been special for me. Two years ago on Shabbat Hanukkah I walked two hours with to be part of an Israeli student panel for a Netta delegation from DePaul University who were on a trip to learn more about the Choose an Israeli dish to cook together Israeli-Palestinian conflict. I was in a small POLICY with me. I’ll bring the ingredients to discussion group with this guy, John Minster, your home, we’ll cook it together, and and that is where our connection began. CONFERENCE I’ll share about the origin of the dish. It’s free food, it’s Israeli, and it’s with me! About eight months later John and I began March 1–3, 2020 our long-distance relationship, and John For more information and to schedule, Washington, DC began his conversion to Judaism. From this contact me ([email protected], point on he showed courage and strength 240-388-8077). to learn new practices and terms. He had Join Rabbi Michael Safra, Rabbi the courage and strength to learn a new Mitchell Berkowitz, and fellow language, and slowly commit himself to members of B’nai Israel Congregation various new practices. in our nation’s capital for the largest Celebrate the marriage of annual gathering of America’s pro- Last year on Hanukkah, John visited me for Israel movement. the first time during our relationship, met my NETTA ASNER family for the first time, and started wearing Special Offer! $399 to Join the B’nai a kippah for the first time as well, showing & Israel Delegation strength and courage. JOHN MINSTER Register online About ten months after that, John completed with a traditional Sheva Berachot at www.bnaiisraelcong.org/AIPAC his conversion and we got engaged, showing celebration during the congregational the strength of our relationship, the courage kiddush on January 4. For more information, please contact to make it work despite the many difficulties Rabbi Berkowitz (301-816-5575, and challenges, and creating a feeling that All are invited to attend. [email protected]). we won against the odds. DECEMBER 2019 11 DECEMBER 2019 SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY 1 2 3 4 10:00 AM Men's Club: Open Board Meeting p. 18 10:00 AM Sisterhood: Drop-in 10:00 AM Sisterhood: Mah Jongg p. 17 Bingo at the Hebrew 12:30 PM The Torah and Home (Wasserman) p. 17 Beyond: Lunch and Learn p. 7

8 9 10 11 Mitzvah Day 10:00 AM Sisterhood: Drop- 8:00 AM Mitzvah Day Blood Drive p. 15 in Mah Jongg p. 17 9:15 AM Aleph Isn't Tough 7:30 PM Monday Night at 10:00 AM Mitzvah Day Projects begin p. 15 the Movies: In Search of Israeli Cuisine p. 16

15 16 17 18

9:15 AM Aleph Isn't Tough 10:00 AM Sisterhood: Drop- 10:00 AM Sisterhood: 11:30 AM HAZAK: Latkes 10:00 AM Sisterhood: Chicks Who Stitch p. 17 in Mah Jongg p. 17 Bingo at the Hebrew Home vs. Hamantashen p. 7 10:30 AM Men's Club: Hearing Men's Voices p. 7:15 PM Board of (Smith-Kogod) p. 17 7:00 PM Exploring Authentic 18 Governors Meeting 7:00 PM Exploring Jewish Values p. 7 12:15 PM Social Action: Snowflake Project p. 14 Authentic Jewish Values 2:00 PM Ramah Day Camp Open House p. 10 p. 7 22 23 24 25 10:00 AM Sisterhood: Drop-in Administrative Offices Closed Mah Jongg p. 17 9:00 AM Morning Minyan

1st Night of Hanukkah 2nd Night of Hanukkah 3rd Night of Hanukkah 4th Night of Hanukkah 29 30 31 1 11:30 AM Social Action: Prepare and Serve 10:00 AM Sisterhood: Drop-in Administrative Offices Closed Lunch at the Interfaith Works Women's Shelter Mah Jongg p. 17 9:00 AM Morning Minyan p. 14

Rosh Hodesh/8th Night of Hanukkah

12 DECEMBER 2019 Sunday 9:00 AM | 8:00 PM Friday 7:15 AM | 6:15 PM DAILY Monday–Thursday 7:15 AM | 8:00 PM Saturday 9:00 AM | 12:30 PM MINYAN *Please note: Minyan times vary on holidays; changes are noted on the calendar.

THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY

5 6 7 Vayetze 6:30 PM Men's Club: Sports Night B'nai Mitzvah of Ari Fine and Julia Fine p. 18 December Birthday Shabbat 9:00 AM Torah Study p. 6 10:00 AM 4th Grade Family Brunch 10:15 AM Gold Kippah Prayer Practice 10:30 AM Junior Congregation (grades K–6) and 4th Grade Shabbat 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 and under with parent) 4:00 PM Talmud Study p. 6 4:28 PM Candlelighting 5:05 PM Havdalah

12 13 14 Vayishlach 6:30 PM Men's Club: Men's Night Out Bat Mitzvah of Amanda Gershoni (ROMEO) Dinner p. 18 9:00 AM Torah Study p. 6 7:00 PM Jewish Eating: Supermarket 10:00 AM 2nd Grade Family Brunch Sweep with a Kosher Twist p. 7 10:15 AM Gold Kippah Prayer Practice 10:30 AM Mini Minyan (grades K–2) and 2nd Grade Shabbat 10:30 AM Kids Club Jr. Congregation (grades 3–6 without parent) p. 6 10:30 AM Teen Minyan p. 6 10:30 ShMA: Jewish Yoga p. 6 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 and under with parent) 12:15 PM Shabbat Shenanigans p. 9 4:00 PM Talmud Study p. 6 5:15 PM Pajama Havdalah p. 6 6:00 PM Community Havdalah Service p. 6 6:15 PM Community Deli Dinner p. 6 6:00 PM Kadima & USY Pre-Hanukkah Celebration p. 6 7:00 PM Cantor Josh & Friends Variety Show p. 6 4:28 PM Candlelighting 5:06 PM Havdalah

19 20 21 Vayeshev 5:45 PM Shabbat Wine & Cheese Bat Mitzvah of Lily Rulnick Reception p. 6 10:00 AM Family Minyan 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 and under with parent)

4:31 PM Candlelighting 5:08 PM Havdalah

26 27 28 Miketz 6:30 PM Hanukkah Celebration & HAZAK Shabbat Dinner p. 18 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 and under with parent)

4:35 PM Candlelighting 5:12 PM Havdalah 5th Night of Hanukkah 6th Night of Hanukkah Rosh Hodesh/7th Night of Hanukkah

2 3 4 Vayigash Bar Mitzvah of Alex Kandel January Birthday Shabbat 10:15 AM Gold Kippah Prayer Practice 10:30 AM Kids Club Jr. Congregation (grades 3–6 without parent) p. 6 11:00 AM Tot Shabbat (ages 5 and under with parent) 12:00 PM Sheva Berachot for Netta Asner & John Minster 4:00 PM Talmud Study p. 6 4:40 PM Candlelighting 5:18 PM Havdalah

DECEMBER 2019 13 SOCIAL ACTION Families Volunteering Together B’nai Prepares & Serves Brunch to the Residents of the Interfaith Holiday Snowflake Works Women’s Shelter Gift Project

November 4–December 11

This year, once again, we will be helping to make holiday wishes come true for children identified by the Linkages for Learning On the afternoon of October 6th, 26 B’nai Coordinator at the Weller Road Elementary Israel members—ranging from age five School and children of refugee families. to over 75—joined together to support On Nov 3, members of the B’nai Israel We receive a “wish list” along with relevant A Wider Circle, a nonprofit in Silver Men’s Club and Sisterhood prepared and information about the child (age, sex, size, Spring whose mission is to end poverty. served brunch to over 40 residents of the etc). We than ask individuals to sign up Volunteers met at the 38,000-square-foot Interfaith Works Womens Shelter. Many for one of the items on the child's wish list. center to sort donations of clothes, toys, thanks to Alice Harris, Marcia Levine, Sue This is a wonderful way to do a mitzvah and books and other household items that will Edwards, Lisa Isenberg, Nancy Eig, Debbie help make the holidays brighter for those be distributed to our neighbors seeking to Anolik, Esther Teller, Elise Kleinwaks, children who otherwise may not receive rise out of poverty. B’nai members learned Signe Wetrogan, Nazzie Shirazi, Dottie holiday gifts. about the great needs in our community Cohen, and Jeff Reisner for their work in and also saw firsthand how joining forces the preparation and/or serving of food at the Your donations go a long way toward together can make a significant impact. shelter. A special thanks to Wayne Berman helping us to fulfill the wishes of those for his participation and organizing the children who are not otherwise selected, entire activity. and if possible, to provide hats and gloves for these children as well. You may drop Snowflake Project off your unwrapped purchases with child Sunday, December 15 and gift identification, or gift cards to 12:15–2:30 PM Candace or Rachel in the clergy suite on or Do a mitzvah with your family! Please join Prepare and Serve Lunch at before Wednesday, December 11. Families Volunteering Together as we sort the Interfaith Works Women’s donated gifts for B’nai Israel’s Snowflake For questions, contact Signe Wetrogan Shelter (301-384-2994, [email protected]). Project. We will join together for a casual Sunday, December 29 lunch after Talmud Torah (bring a bagged, 11:30 AM–1:30 PM Sign up to donate a gift for a family in nut-free, dairy or pareve lunch) followed by The Men’s Club, Sisterhood and Social need (www.bnaiisraelcong.org/snowflake). sorting donated gifts and making Hanukkah Action Committee will be preparing and Please note that we are also asking for cards for seniors. Please RSVP to Michelle serving lunch on this day at the Interfaith donations of Target gifts cards. Finkel ([email protected]). Works Women's Shelter, 2 Taft Court in Rockville. This is a great opportunity for adults and kids to work together. There will be various options to participate including preparing part of the meal in your home, and/ or helping to serve the meal at the shelter. If you are interested in participating, please contact Wayne ([email protected]) or Signe Wetrogan ([email protected]).

14 DECEMBER 2019 Let Us Build a World of Kindness (Ps. 89:3) Mitzvah Day Sunday, December 8 Register now! Start this special day of tikkun olam (repairing the world) with morning minyan at 9:00 AM and projects beginning at 10:00 AM. • Pre-school Thoughtful Treasures • Talmud Torah Grade-specific Projects • Day School Project • Clothing & Shoes Drive (Interfaith Works) • Cooking Projects for local shelters • Peanut Butter & Jelly Sandwiches for local shelters • Phoenix Computers • Red Cross Blood Drive www.bnaiisraelcong.org/mitzvahday BLOOD DRIVE TZEDAKAH 8:00 AM–1:30 PM OPPORTUNITY Most people ages 16 or older are eligible to donate. There is a special need for power red donations from type O, A negative or Donate to the Refugee Aid Fund and support B negative donors. For eligibility requirements, and to schedule a refugee family resettling in our area. Go to an appointment, go to www.bnaiisraelcong.org/mitzvahday. For www.bnaiisraelcong.org/mitzvahday to donate more information, contact Rob Loewy ([email protected]). or bring donations on Mitzvah Day.

These items may be dropped off at B'nai Israel prior to MItzvah Day. Bins are located across from the Blumberg-Zalis Family COLLECTIONS Library.

New & Gently-used Children's Books Nourish Now Snack Bags Thoughtful Treasures Nut-free Granola Bars (only new items) Gently-used Clothing & Coats Nut-free Snacks Small Puzzles Raisin Boxes Small Beanie Babies Jars of Jelly Travel Games must be kosher with hekhsher, kosher Gently-used T-Shirts of all Sizes symbol to make dog chew toys for the Refugee and Immigration Aid Humane Society Committee for HIAS Bethesda Cares Blessing Bags Maseca Flour (instant yellow corn (only new items) Montgomery County Humane Society flour) Socks Dog Food (unopened) Boxes of Pasta Packets of Laundry Detergent Clean Towels (okay if gently used) Bags of Dried Beans Deodorant AA Batteries Razors

([email protected]) Yvonne Klinger Mitzvah Day is made possible by the generous support of the Mildred Abigail Kopstein ([email protected]) and William Kaplan Social Action Endowment. Chairs

DECEMBER 2019 15 Suggested Reading A Danger to Herself and Others by Alyssa Sheinmel Adults Hannah knows there’s been a mistake. She To Catch a Traitor by D.B. Shuster shouldn’t have been institutionalized. When Every family has its secrets. As the Cold Lucy Arrives, she may be the only person War escalates, the Soviet Union’s Jewish who can get Hannah to confront the secrets community finds itself caught in a tug-of- she’s avoiding and the dangerous games she war between their allies abroad who want to has been playing. open the doors to emigration and a country that hates them but won’t let them leave … Searching for Lottie by Susan Ross and so begins Sofia’s story. A long-lost cousin, a mysterious locket, a visit to Nana Rose in Florida, a diary written The Age of Light by Whitney Scharer in German and a very special Violin, all BLUMBERG-ZALIS A novel set in the 1930’s in Paris about the lead 12 yr. old Charlie to the truth about love story between Vogue model turned her great-aunt Lottie in this intriguing, FAMILY LIBRARY photographer, Lee Miller and artist, Man multigenerational mystery. by JILL GENDELMAN Ray. Librarian The Narcissist’s Daughter: A Happy Hanukkah! I love December, Meshugenah Love Story by Mindy because, for me, Winter Break is a great Pollack time to catch up on my reading. See my With suspense, humor, romance, a compelling suggestions below from our Blumberg -Zalis plot, and a Yiddish glossary, this novel grips Library. Stop in during library hours or send the reader from start to finish—whether they me an email and I can leave the book(s) for understand the challenges that the daughter Help Needed to Find you at the guard’s desk. of a narcissistic mother, and cheating Missing Library Books husband must overcome in order to become Upcoming Programs her own person. Your help is needed in locating and returning books which the B’nai Monday Night at the Movies Savage News by Jessica Yellin Israel Blumberg-Zalis Family Library In Search of Israeli A fast-paced entertaining and timely debut generously loaned to the Family Health Cuisine novel about the (not so) glamorous cable & Fitness Expos in 2018 and 2019. Monday, December 9 news business by former Chief White Please help the Men’s Club and the 7:30 PM House Correspondent for CNN, Jessica Library recover the following books: Award-winning chef Michael Yellin, forced to navigate rating wars, sexual Solomonov goes on a journey harassment in the work place, ridiculous news Jacob’s Legacy: A Genetic View of In Search of Israeli Cuisine. standards and an international diplomatic and Jewish History by David B. Goldstein Profiling chefs, home cooks, farmers, political situation in the White House. vintners, and cheese makers drawn from the What to Eat When: A Strategic Plan to multitude of cultures that make up Israel The Restless Hungarian by Tom Improve Your Health and Life Through today—Jewish, Arab, Muslim, Christian, Weidlinger Food by Michael Roizen, M.D. and Druze—a rich, complex and human story His hidden Jewish identity propelled him to Michael Crupain, M.D., M.P.H emerges. (94 minutes, English) write this story about his father, architect- engineer Paul Weidlinger whose colleagues If you find these books or know of called him “the Wizard.” The story spans the someone who has them, please see that Looking for a good book or rise of modern architecture, the Holocaust they are returned to the B’nai Israel DVD? Check out our online catalog at and the Cold War. Library as soon as possible. www.bnaiisraelcong.org/ onlinelibrarycatalog. Words that Hurt, Words that Heal by Thanks for your assistance. Joseph Telushkin Wayne Berman and Bram Hass LIBRARY HOURS This invaluable guide to choosing the right Co-Chairs Sunday 9:00 AM–12:30 PM words, can enrich our relationships and give Family Health & Fitness Expo Monday 9:00 AM–1:00 PM us insight to improve every facet of our lives. Tuesday 9:00 AM–1:00 PM 4:30–8:30 PM Teens/ Tweens Fiction Closed Shabbat and Holidays What the Night Sings by Vesper Stamper A teen Holocaust survivor must come to 301-881-6550, ext. 524 terms with who she is in order to rebuild [email protected] her life. www.bnaiisraelcong.org/library

16 DECEMBER 2019 SISTERHOOD Bingo at the Hebrew Home SISTERHOOD Tuesdays, 10:00–11:30 AM Wasserman: December 3 & January 7 JUDAICA SHOP Smith/Kogod: December 17 & January 14 301-770-7577 Contact Dottie Cohen (301-881-7115, Hanukkah begins [email protected]). on December 22nd

this year. Are you WINN Chicks Who Stitch E R ready to shop for Sunday, December 15 10:00 AM–12:00 PM wonderful holiday Bring your knitting, crocheting, Needlepoint items? Your Judaica Shop has project or any handicraft that you are everything you need to make your working on and join us as we create, talk and holiday special. These are just a few help each other, and have a fun time doing of the items we carry: it. We'll provide the noshes, you provide the friendship. For questions, contact Harriet Jewish Genealogy • Menorahs and Drip Trays Levi (301-589-3957). Sunday January 26 10:00 AM • Children’s Menorahs Hanukkah Celebration with Want to learn how to research genealogy? • Latke and HAZAK: Latkes vs. Hamentaschen Learn which resources to use freom mem- Sufganiyot Wednesday, December 18 bers of the Jewish Genealogy Society of Platters and 11:30 AM Greater Washington. Serving Pieces See page 7 for details. • Children’s Books, Drop-in Mah Jongg Games, Puzzles and Toys Gifts for Hanukkah Celebration & Dinner Mondays, 10:00 AM–12:00 PM all ages and price ranges Thursday, December 26 Every Monday when B’nai Israel offices • Candles and Decorations 6:30 PM are open. • Hanukkah Cards, Gift Bags and Families of all ages are invited to join Wrapping Paper the Men’s Club and Sisterhood to light Torah Fund “CHESED” the candles and celebrate the 5th night of 2019–2020 To special order personalized kippot and benchers for your simcha, Contact Hanukkah, with dinner, movies, and games. Support JTS with a donation to Suzy Levy (301-460-9636). A nominal fee for food and beverages will Torah Fund. This year’s pin is CHESED be charged. For more information and to (kindness). Contact Debra Fredman, Torah SHOP HOURS RSVP, please contact Juliann Goldman Fund Chair ([email protected]) or Cheryl Sunday ([email protected]). Rod ([email protected]) with questions. 9:00 AM–12:30 PM Monday–Friday Mah Jongg Tournament 2020 Mah Jongg Card Orders 10:00 AM–12:30 PM Sunday, January 12 Now taking orders for 2020 Mah Jongg Tuesday (all day) 9:15 AM–3:00 PM Cards. Standard card is still $8.00 and the 10:00 AM–6:30 PM Meet, play and socialize during this spir- large card is still $9.00. January 26, 2020 ited tournament. Contact Joan Barr (301- For special appointments outside of is the final date to order to have the cards 340-8940, [email protected]) to RSVP normal business hours, contact Dottie mailed directly to your home in late March. or with questions. (301-881-7115), Miriam (301-649-3770) Checks should be made payable to B’nai or Debbie (240-686-6727). Israel Sisterhood and marked Mah Jongg Education Program with Rabbi Cards on the envelope. Questions? Harriet We accept all Penina Alexander credit cards, Wednesday, January 15 Levi (301-598-3957). cash and checks. 9:30 AM–12:00 PM Enjoy a morning of learning with Rabbi Washington Jewish Week Penina Alexander, Assistant Principal of To renew or start a subscription, contact B’nai Israel’s Talmud Torah. Linda Reisner ([email protected]). FOR ALL YOUR www.bnaiisraelcong.org/sisterhood JUDAICA NEEDS!

DECEMBER 2019 17 MEN’S CLUB

Service to B’nai Israel & Community Upcoming Events Strengthening Jewish Values Building Friendships Open Board Meeting Sunday, December 1 10:00 AM Our Board Meetings are open and you are welcome to join us to help guide the programs of the Men’s Club.

Sports Night Thursday, December 5 6:30 PM Join the Men’s Club HANUKKAH and the Sisterhood for CELEBRATION & DINNER the annual Sports Night Thursday, December 26 B’nai Israel has a vibrant, active, and Program. This year, our Sports Night 6:30 PM enthusiastic Men’s Club that truly touches showcases representatives of Israel’s the lives of every family in this synagogue National Sports Program, a member of Families of all ages are invited to join in some way. the Israeli National Women’s Softball the Men’s Club and Sisterhood to light team and the National Women's Lacross the candles and celebrate the 5th night November was a very busy month for team. A light Dinner will be served. of Hanukkah, with dinner, movies, and our Men’s Club. Thanks to all the Men’s The program will feature Arik Kaplan, games. A nominal fee for food and Club members who support and attend President of AYELET (The Federation of beverages will be charged. For more our programs. Thanks to Eric Luftman Non Olympic Sport in Israel), Ami Baran, information and to RSVP, contact for coordinating the ROMEO dinner at Executive Director of the Israel Softball Wayne Berman (wayneb4me@aol. Mykonos Grill on November 7. In addition, Association, Tamara Statman representing com). thanks to Signe Wetrogran and members Israel’s National Women’s Softball team of the Social Action Committee and the and Jenna Baverman representing Israel’s Sisterhood for helping us prepare and serve National Women’s Lacrosse team. For Preparing Lunch at the Interfaith food at the Interfaith Works Homeless more information and to RSVP, contact Works Women’s Shelter Shelter on November 3. Steve Goldberg ([email protected]). Sunday, December 29 11:30 AM Thanks go to Jonathan Salant for the superb Men’s Night-Out (ROMEO) Dinner Help the Men's Club, Social Action work that he did in arranging and moderating Thursday, December 12 Committee, and Sisterhood prepare our Town Hall with Congressman Jamie 6:30 PM and serve a meal to the residents of the Raskin on November 10. As usual, Jonathan Yekta Kabobi Restaurant Interfaith Works Women's Shelter located did a great job moderating this important 1488 Rockville Pike, Rockville at 2 Taft Court, Rockville, MD. There event that attracted over 80 people. Contact Eric Luftman (luftmankleinwaks@ are various opportunities to participate yahoo.com) for more information and/or to including preparing parts of the meal in A special thank you goes to Rabbi Matthew register. your home, helping to prepare some items Simon for taking time in his busy schedule at the synagogue that morning, and/or to be part of our Jews and Brews event Hearing Men’s Voices helping to serve the meal at the shelter. For on November 21. He led a fascinating Sunday, December 15 more information contact Wayne Berman discussion and one that everyone in 10:30 AM ([email protected]) or Signe Wetrogan attendance appreciated. Thanks as always Join this innovative program featuring ([email protected], 301-384-2994). go to the B’nai Israel Sisterhood who small group conversations that enables men supports us in many of these programs. It is to give their perspectives on interesting, Please join us and invite a B'nai always a pleasure to work together with our contemporary, and often personal topics friend to join you! For more information Sisterhood. led by Jeff Moss. For more information on these programs, the Men’s Club, and and to RSVP, contact Wayne Berman how to get involved, contact Wayne Berman Finally, thanks go to our terrific Food ([email protected]). ([email protected]) or Lewis Gertz Committee for the great job that they always ([email protected]). do to prepare the food for our events.

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18 DECEMBER 2019 mazal tov aeh lfn December Anniversaries and Mazal Tov to... SHANA Matthew and Laura Gittleson – 2 Judy and Steve Kerbel on the birth of FRENKEL, Marc and Meg Gold – 2 their grandson, Benjamin Avi Barkan. LCSW-C Jonathan and Wendy Schiff – 2 Synagogue Liaison Alex Amdur and Gabriela Rosenberg – 4 Lisa and Alan Isenberg on the birth of their granddaughter, Elana Sharon Dan and Lisa Miller – 5 Isenberg. The JSSA Synagogue Liaison program Adam and Michelle Shapourian – 8 is a partnership between JSSA and Lorin and Arleen Luchs – 10 Sherry and Lawrence Wachtel on the local congregations as an additional Don and Carol Vogel – 10 birth of their grandson, Jayden Theo support to families. Shana Frenkel, Robin Wind-Faillace and Wachtel. LCSW-C, is available to discuss a whole Walter Faillace – 10 range of issues—from parenting to aging, communicating to stress-relief. Joseph and Rina Gelman – 14 If Shana is not the right person to help, Jonathan and Amanda Stein – 15 she will make the connection to other Steven and Gail Niedelman – 16 professionals from JSSA and beyond. Eli and Helain Dicker – 17 Raymond and Adelle Friedman – 18 Before you head south for Shana can be reached at (sfrenkel@jssa. Karen and Manny Gerton – 18 the winter . . . org, 301-610-8396). Harry and Judy Lapping – 18 Please contact Candace in the synagogue Mort and Matlee Yadin – 18 office (301-881-6550, candace@ Jason and Heather Eig – 20 bnaiisraelcong.org) to let her know Danny and Debbie Glazer – 20 the date you will be heading south and Richard and Carolyn Hayman – 21 the date you plan to return, so that you Alan and Robin Schulman – 21 will continue to receive our synagogue Support B’nai Israel’s Craig and Bonnie Dickman – 22 mailings. Steve and Eleanor Kahan – 22 PROJECT Ira and Harriet Platt – 22 Larry and Sherry Wachtel – 22 MANNA Leonard and Ruth Binn – 23 Urgently Needed Food Manny and Joan Eisenfeld – 23 Items (though we take all Michael and Patti Goldman – 23 nonperishable food items) David and Natalie Zatz – 23 • Instant Oatmeal Packets Bob and Bonnie Chernikoff – 24 (Original Flavor) Irv and Nancy Shapiro – 24 AmazonSmile is a simple and automatic • Brown Rice Martin and Elaine Book – 25 way for you to support B'NAI ISRAEL • Whole Grain Pasta • Tuna/Salmon/Chicken (in Stanley and Madelene Brager – 26 CONGREGATION every time you Water) Martin and Susan Kneller – 26 shop, at no cost to you. When you shop • Dry/Canned Beans (Low Sodium) Arthur and Patricia Neustadt – 26 at www.smile.amazon.com, Amazon will • Natural Nut Butters Larry and Susan Schor – 26 donate a portion of the purchase price • Canned Vegetables (Low Sodium) to your favorite charitable organization. Steven and Margie Hofberg – 27 • Canned Fruit (in Juice) • Fruit Cups Helio and Leslie Zwi – 27 On your first visit towww.smile.amazon. • Shelf-stable Individual Milk Boxes Nathan and Marlene Cheney – 28 com, select B'nai Israel Congregation • Cooking Oils & Spices Michael and Heather Jacobsohn – 28 in Rockville to receive donations Stanley and Emily Kotler – 28 from eligible purchases before you Thank you for your commitment to this life-giving mitzvah! Adam and Stephanie Lenkin – 30 begin shopping. Your selection will be remembered, and every eligible purchase All food items will be directed to Jason and Jennifer Schwartz – 30 you make will result in a donation. the Manna Food Center. Bruce and Judy Shapiro – 30 Dan and Jamie Susskind – 30 Brandon and Dana Hirsch – 31

DECEMBER 2019 19 IN SYMPATHY dkxal mpexkf Join Us by Telephone When You Cannot Be   B'nai Israel Congregation mourns at Services the loss of our beloved members: Open your siddur or humash at home  DOROTHY DWORKIN or away from home and participate in our Shabbat, festival, and High Holy TRUDY ISENBERG Day services. Follow the reading of the Torah, study the parasha together We are all touched by with the congregation, listen to the B’nai Israel. It makes a difference We extend our sincerest sympathy to comments of the rabbis on the many our members who have experienced concerns of Jewish life, offer personal in our lives. And it is our endeavor to recent losses: prayers, and sing familiar melodies ensure that it makes a difference in our along with the hazzan and our B’nai community for many years to come. Rene Kozloff on the loss of her brother, Israel community. Jack Chalfin. Participants will be able to call into As our parents planted for us, let us sow Buzzy and Debbie Cohn on the loss of the B’nai Israel phone system between the seeds that will make a difference for their daughter, Suzanne Cohn. 9:00 AM–12:00 PM and listen to the our children and grandchildren. live audio of our service in the Dweck –Talmud Ta’anit 23a Michelle Bandes on the loss of her Sanctuary. grandmother, Maria Luisa de la Haba. DIAL-IN CREATE YOUR JEWISH Dorie Ravick on the loss of her 1. Dial 1-929-436-2866 grandmother, Sybil Haberman. 2. Enter meeting ID: 788 352 437 # LEGACY 3. You will be connected to the live www.jewishlegacygw.org Steven Hofberg on the loss of his father, Dweck Sanctuary audio. Joseph Hofberg. As we celebrate our successes, we Barbara Mulitz on the loss of her father, NEW are grateful for the commitment and Benjamin Mulitz. VIDEO LIVESTREAM generosity of those who came before https://zoom.us/j/788352437 Phil Gvinter on the loss of his us. Dues and annual donations do not grandmother, Klara Nadoynova. provide sufficient resources for all we must do to sustain Jewish life at B’nai Herb Jacobson on the loss of his sister, Israel. And so we invite and encourage Frances Saturn. you to create your own legacy.

Danny Siegel on the loss of his brother, Stanley Siegel. B’NAI ISRAEL It is so easy to make a planned gift or bequest through B’nai Israel’s Create a Sheri Steisel Weiss on the loss of her CEMETERIES Jewish Legacy Program. Simply include father, Dr. Jerald Steisel. B’nai Israel Congregation B’nai Israel in your estate planning as a beneficiary in your will, under your Dr. Sam Zaremba and the late maintains three attractive Hazzan Deborah Togut on the loss cemetery locations. retirement plan or life insurance policy. of their father-in-law and father, Dr. It carries no financial obligation in the Alan John Togut. For information about present, but it will have a huge and the B'nai Israel Oxon Hill Cemetery, lasting impact on our future. or our sections at Judean Memorial Gardens or Garden of Remembrance, please contact Executive Director Hal Hal Ossman Ossman (301-816-5563, hossman@ Executive Director bnaiisraelcong.org). 301-816-5563 [email protected]

20 DECEMBER 2019 B’nai Israel Congregation deeply appreciates all contributions directed to the various funds of our congregation.

Please note: DONATIONSDue to increased printing and labor costs: Etz Hayim Humash 1. Each contribution will be acknowledged by mail to one designated recipient. dedication: $60, 2. Only contributions of $18 or more will be printed in the Scroll. Siddur Sim Shalom 3. Donor acknowledgements will be sent by email and will also appear on year-end statements. dedication: $30

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Diane Lipson Schilit Youth Endowment Mandel and Stein Prayer Book Fund Endowments In Memory Of: In Honor Of: Jack Chalfin by Susan and Milton Koch My High Holiday honor by Howard Metro Bess and Irving Kamins Lecture Fund Rabbi Jonathan and Beverly Schnitzer becoming The following have made donations in memory of Dr. Mitchell and Thelma Goldfarb Rubinow grandparents by Sherry and Lawrence Wachtel Bess Kamins: Endowment for Special Needs In Memory Of: Audrey and Barry Suskind In Memory Of: Isidor Spilka by Chet, Rita, Jonathan, Amanda, Emma Jim Rosenberg My beloved father, Dr. Mitchell Jay Rubinow, on his Goldie, and Benjamin Stein Larry Mizel Yahrzeit by Sara Rubinow Simon Lolly Shapero and Mike Chernikoff Mary and Israel Shulman Student Community Madona, Bill and Kylie Newberry, and Michael Ethan Ross Alperstein Sanctuary Garden Service Endowment Fund Phyllis Baylin Endowment Fund In Honor Of: Rita and Chet Stein In Memory Of: Rabbi and Mrs. Jonathan Schnitzer becoming Ross and Bobbi Dymond Our beloved son and brother Ethan Alperstein by Lois, grandparents by Marlyn and Michael Heiserman Sylvia Wagner Les, Alex, and Lauren Alperstein Wilma and Ron Lenkin Dr. Lewis H. Biben, beloved father and grandfather Miriam Tommer Endowment for the Judaica Shop of Candice Scherer and sons by Lois, Les, Alex, and In Honor Of: Beverly G. Schnitzer Tikun Olam Endowment Lauren Alperstein Leah and Allan Zendel on the birth of their granddaughter In Appreciation Of: Claire Zendel Gendreau by Dorothy Cohen Rabbi Schnitzer’s support after the passing of Barry’s Goldie and Henry Stein Endowment for Special The Tommer Family on their great-grandson Brody mother by Audrey and Barry Suskind Education Elliot Cines’ wedding by Dorothy Cohen The following have made donations in honor of the In Honor Of: Sheldon and Miriam Tommer’s 60th wedding birth of Benjamin Noah Bergeron Schnitzer, grandson The birth of our granddaughter, Claire Zendel Gendreau anniversary by Dorothy Cohen of Beverly and Rabbi Jonathan Schnitzer: by Leah and Allan Zendel Susan and Brett Lazerus’ new grandson, Luca Scott by Arthur and Carol Besner In Memory Of: Lisa and Alan Isenberg Bernice and Donald Fingeret Stanley Siegel by Rita and Chet Stein Debbie and Jeff Moss Rabbi Jeshaia and Hilde M. Schnitzer Israel and Dr. Herschel Cutler Hazzan Deborah Togut Memorial Endowment Fund Camp Ramah Scholarship Endowment Fund Ernst and Dr. Nancy Scher Billig In Honor Of: In Honor Of: Harriet and Ira Platt Jan Lobatz’s beautiful chanting of the Haftorah on Rosh The birth of Rabbi Jonathan and Beverly Howard Metro Hashanah by Jeff Goodman Schnitzer’s grandson, Benjamin Noah Bergeron Moshe Ben-Lev and Vivian Levi and Family In Memory Of: Schnitzer Sheila Chodorov Hazzan Deborah Togut by Nanci and Jay Wechsler In Memory Of: Rabbi Joshua Rubinow Simon Memorial Charlotte “CJ” Simon, beloved mother of Barry Jonathan A. Schnitzer Rabbinic Chair Endowment Endowment for Camp Ramah Tikvah Program Suskind by Edward and Bonnie Belkin In Honor Of: In Memory Of: Stanley Siegel by Jeffrey and Fonda Lowe Rabbi Jonathan Schnitzer by Amy Rosselle Our beloved son, Rabbi Joshua Simon, on his yahrzeit Mason Goldman, father of Juliann Goldman by Laura The following have made donations in honor of the by Sara Rubinow and Rabbi Matthew Simon and Vincent Wallace birth of Benjamin Noah Bergeron Schnitzer, grandson David Sokoloff, beloved brother of Carol Kevy by of Beverly and Rabbi Jonathan Schnitzer: Rabbi Matthew and Sara Rubinow Simon Laura and Vincent Wallace Carol and Gary Berman Endowment for Childhood Programming Alan Katzman, brother of Suzy Levy by Sheila Cheryl and Bernie Rod In Appreciation Of: Chodorov Phil and Abby Rogers My honor by Mike Chernikoff Alice Harris In Honor Of: Bruce R. Saypol Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund Philip and Elizabeth Weintraub The birth of Rabbi Jonathan and Beverly Schnitzer’s In Appreciation Of: Wendi, Danny, Marli and Josh Abramowitz grandson, Benjamin Noah Bergeron Schnitzer by Sara High Holiday service hospitality by Susan Rubin Rubinow and Rabbi Matthew Simon Louis and Helyn Fanaroff Sustaining Endowment Comer‑Ritwo Elevator Endowment Fund In Memory Of: Rabbi Michael Safra Adult Programming Fund In Appreciation Of: The Gittleson family’s loving father and grandfather, In Appreciation Of: My High Holiday honor by Andrew Ritwo Edward Witten by Debby and Gary Bortnick and Family Rabbi Safra giving a beautiful Hebrew name to our new In Honor Of: granddaughter by Cathi and Michael Kletz The marriage of our son Joel to Jordan Richardson by Leah and Allan Zendel CONTINUED ON NEXT PAGE. DECEMBER 2019 21 The congregation’s welcoming us and allowing us My aliyah by Marshall Lewis In Honor Of: to join our family for Rosh Hashanah by Linda and Our Rosh Hashanah honor by Michael and Lisa Fisher Our daughter, Sarah’s graduation from NYU by Rene Barry Rosenberg Michael Kurman’s Yom Kippur aliyah by Patricia Hoff Schecker Rabbi Safra’s help and participation with the unveiling My recent aliyot by Richard Rose The wonderful job done by the congregants helping for my mother, Sylvia Eisner Danovitch by Linda Our High Holiday aliyot by Robert Kaplan and Mona to lead High Holiday services in Hayman Chapel by Danovitch Bicks Chase Jennifer and Jonathan Wenk Rabbi Safra for conducting prayers at the reinterment service for our grandparents by Mark Lerner and Family Cantor Ilana Wolpert Music Enrichment Fund Kiddush Fund B’nai Israel’s hospitality over the High Holidays by In Appreciation Of: In Memory Of: Scott and Shelley Kaplan Cantor Bolts’ participation and support after the passing Sylvia Kolker by Gerald and Brenda Wolf In Honor Of: of Barry’s mom by Audrey and Barry Suskind Amanda Stein’s grandmother, Ruth Levine by Joey Rabbi Michael Safra by Amy Rosselle Cantor Josh’s participation and support after the passing Franco My High holiday aliyah by Asher Gendelman of Barry’s mother by Audrey and Barry Suskind Rabbi Safra’s participation, caring, and support after In Honor Of: L.I.F.E. Lecture Fund Barry’s mother’s passing by Audrey and Barry Susskind Cantor Ilana Wolpert by Amy Rosselle In Memory Of: In Memory Of: Alan Katzman by Abby and Phil Rogers Ruth Kerbel by Sol and Suzy Levy General Fund Alan Katzman by Bernice and Donald Fingeret In Appreciation Of: Alan Katzman, beloved brother of Suzy Levy by Cheryl Rabbi Ralph and Kelsey Hoffer Simon Endowment Being able to attend the Yizkor service by Anton Weiss and Bernie Rod for the Enrichment of the Holidays The Bingo Ladies by Dorothy Cohen In Appreciation Of: The following have made donations in honor of the Morning Minyan Fund Rabbi Simon’s kindness during the High Holidays by birth of Benjamin Noah Bergeron Schnitzer, grandson In Memory Of: Sue and Richie Taffet of Beverly and Rabbi Jonathan Schnitzer: Claire Rosoff and Shirley Samet by Janice Raffel and Adele and Roy Igersheim Robert Samet Rose and Frank David Epstein Educational Elaine and Steven Keller and Family Doris and Bernard Raffel by Janice Raffel and Robert Endowment Harriet and Greg Friedman Samet In Honor Of: Elaine and Martin Book Ruthjoy Leventhal by Janice Raffel and Jaye Greenfest Gail and Ron Minsk’s 25th wedding anniversary by Susan and Martin Kneller Art Rayman by Joan Silver Barbara and Richard Daumit In Honor Of: Richard Daumit’s Rosh Hashanah honor by Barbara The birth of Judy and Steve Kerbel’s grandson by Beth Sisterhood Donations and Richard Daumit and Elihu Zimet In Memory Of: Jay Wechsler for his recitation of the Haftorah for Rosh Carolyn Gross by Joan Barr Rachmill Schlafstein Memorial Bar and Bat Mitzvah Hashanah by Elaine and Martin Book Arthur Rayman by Miriam Novak Tzedakah Box Endowment The new year by the Kitay family In Appreciation Of: Rob Loewy’s retirement by Shelly Berman and Steve, Talmud Torah Fund Cantor Josh officiating at our daughter and son in law Lisa and Michael, Marian and Binny, Karen and Doug In Memory Of: Alyssa and Josh’s wedding and lending his voice to Jay Wechsler leading Shacharit on Yom Kippur by Edward Witten, father of Laura Gittleson by Lara and help make it a warm and special day by Sheri and Dr. Nanci and Jay Wechsler Kenneth Kaufmann Steven Schlafstein Jay Wechsler chanting Haftarah on 1st day of Rosh Rabbi Safra officiating at our daughter and son in law Hashanah by Nanci and Jay Wechsler Yahrzeit and Yizkor Fund Alyssa and Josh’s wedding and helping to make it a Jay and Nanci Wechsler by Allen Farrar In Appreciation Of: very warm and special day by Sheri and Dr. Steven Jay Wechsler’s special birthday by Rachelle Bernstecker Rabbi Berkowitz leading the Shiva service in memory Schlafstein and Bob Abramson of our father, Jack Rosenthal by Alan Rosenthal Shira Kaplan’s engagement to David Sotsky by Robert In Memory Of: Toby Herman Memorial Educational Endowment Salaman Isadore Engel by Aaron Engel Fund In Memory Of: Mary Temkin by Aaron Temkin In Honor Of: Alan Katzman, Suzy Levy’s brother by Adele and Jeanette Ceppos by Alan Pollin Robert Keats’ birthday by Michael and Judith Herman Roy Igersheim Jennie Pollin by Alan Pollin Alan Katzman by Stephen Westerman Jacob and Norma Fleishman by Albert and Sharlene Wachtel Family Senior Programming Endowment Alan Katzman by Arlene S. Newman Klotz A donation has been made by the Arthur B. Wein Laura Gittleson’s father, Edward Witten by Debi William and Rose Klotz by Albert and Sharlene Klotz Charitable Foundation Himelfarb Bernard Arrow by Andrea and Melvyn Kopstein Dr. Benjamin Avrunin by Don and Dale Yablonowitz My beloved father by Anita Ratain Wayne Bernstein by Dr. Steve Hoffman and Dr. Kim Bernard Cohen by Ann Eden Funds Lee Sim Edna Turkenitch by Arleen and Lorin Luchs and family Aunt Celia by Harriet and Greg Friedman Samuel Wolf by Barbara Wolf Herrington Adult Education Fund Muriel Durbin by Marlene and Mark Frankel Irving Penan by Barrett and Frances Penan In Memory Of: Muriel Durbin by Susan and Lawrence Lesser Adeline Schneller by Bonnie and John Harte Herman Iskow by Sheldon and Denise Iskow Muriel Mandon by Carol and Stan Sachar Ruth Kerbel, mother of Steve Kerbel by Laura and HAZAK Jennifer Lynn Seidel by Carole and Jerry Cohen Vincent Wallace In Memory Of: Ruth Bernstein by Carolyn and Jay Bernstein Muriel Durbin by Harriet and Ted Fredman Irving Streidel by Charlotte Streidel Aliyot and Honors Fund Stanley Siegel by Harriet and Ted Fredman Isidor Spilka by Chet, Rita, Jonathan, Amanda, Emma In Appreciation Of: Muriel Durbin by Marcia and Jules Levine Goldie, and Benjamin Sidney Stein My Kol Nidre honor by Gary Bortnick Joseph Rothenstein by David and Pam Rothenstein Our High Holiday honor by Joseph and Amy Musher HINEINI Campaign Theresa Epter Bortnick by Debby and Gary Bortnick My aliyah on Yom Kippur by Milton Koch In Appreciation Of: Jack Koenigsberg by Diane Edwards In Honor Of: Edith Black for her dedication and love for the Irvin Wolfson by Dr. and Mrs. David H. Goodman Our Yom Kippur aliyah by Cynthia and Morton Zetlin synagogue, our family and community by Jamie and Sally Zeviner by Dr. Nancy Scher Billig Our aliyot by Gerald and Leslie Solomon Jared Maier Jack Black by Edith Black and Kenneth Black Our High Holiday honors by Lesley and Robert Matthew Herbst by Elaine and Martin Book Gasperow Edith Reznick by Elaine and Steven Keller and Family

22 DECEMBER 2019 Morton Friedman by Emily Kotler Annette Mintz by Sylvan Mintz Esther Sokolsky by Felix Sokolsky Manuel Fredman by Ted Fredman Miriam Broida by Fern and Burt Abrams Dorothy Zingeser by the Zingeser Family Exotic Morocco Jewish Samuel Yaphet by Flora and Amin Lichaa William Fisher by Thelma Fisher Heritage Adventure Daniel Blackman by Florence Blackman Samuel Fisher by Thelma Fisher Rose and Joseph Abensohn by Florence Blackman Katie Fisher by Thelma Fisher with Lillian Ezrin by Fred, Stefanie, and Samara Langsam Sophie Nathanson by Toby Kullback Rabbi Michael & Sharon Edith Simat by Fred, Stefanie, and Samara Langsam Gustave and Gussie Berman by Vicki Berman Safra Chaya Zolotar by Frima Gorbach Edward Witten by Victor Schneider Sam Greenbaum by Geri and Paul Stein Rita Hawkins by Wilma and Ron Lenkin Bessie Kamins by Greg and Liz Sembler Steven Edeiken by Wilma and Ron Lenkin Madeleine Siegel by Herb and Brenda Jacobson Abram Khavtan by Yakov Khavtan Irving Saginor by Hortensia R. Saginor Stella Emsellem by Irene Kaplan Youth Activities Fund Eva Rothmel by Jacob Rothmel In Honor Of: Beatrice Sills by Jerrie Gittleson Bobby Cohen by Dorothy Cohen Elsie Schaefer by Judy (Schaefer) and Dick Freeman Leah Weinstock’s bat mitzvah by Margie Vera Frankel by Judy and Evan Novenstein Hanerfeld Dr. Benjamin Stamell by Judy Grosberg Ida Cahan by Jules I. Cahan, MD April 19–29, 2020 Rachel Mannheimer by June and Stuart Graff Edith Pitler by Kay and Barry Greenberg Tour includes: Casablanca, Marsha Kotz by Kay and Sam Kotz Marrakesh, Fes, Rabat, Meknes, Rose Perilstein by Kim and Steve Cohen Ruth Schor by Larry and Susan Schor and Family and El Jadida. Ann Morse by Lewis and Erica Morse The Fine Arts Committee Charles Morse by Lewis and Erica Morse Needs Your Historic View and download the Sylvia Danovitch by Linda Danovitch Bicks B'nai Israel Photos! itinerary and application at Stuart Danovitch by Linda Danovitch Bicks www.bnaiisraelcong.org/morocco Eva Sidlin by Madelene Brager Susan Weiss by Marcy Schechter The Fine Arts Committee is working Paul Hanerfeld by Margie Hanerfeld on a project to display the history For more information, Mae Hanerfeld by Margie Hanerfeld of B'nai Israel through photographs. contact Rabbi Safra Bea Lawrence by Margy and Gary Lawrence We are in need of the following: (301-881-6550, Esther Skaist by Marjorie and Stephen Goldberg [email protected]). Phillip Lewis by Marshall Lewis Confirmation Class Stanley M. Selis by Michael and Adrienne Selis photos for the following years: Matthew Herbst by Mike and Debbi Herbst Any photos prior to 1960; and, Dora Wartska by Mila Sobel Bernice Ritwo by Mindy and Larry Nadel 1963, 1967, 1972–2013. Dorothy Z. Cohen by Morris Cohen Munish Sukenik by Mort and Matlee Yadin Historical photos David Sukenik by Mort and Matlee Yadin of B'nai Israel synagogue and/ Dora Rappaport by Herschel Cutler or events that have taken place Isidore Brill by Murray J. Brill throughout it's long history— Fannette Po Kempner by Murray J. Brill weddings, bar mitzvahs, programs, Irving Grossman by Nanci and Jay Wechsler graduations, class photos, etc. Miriam Wechsler by Nanci and Jay Wechsler Sheldon Levine by Nancy Paul If you have any of these photos, Samuel W. Fishkin by Nancy Politzer There is ALWAYS Jacob Melman by Neli Melman please consider sending them something happening Evelyn Rubin by Norman and Fern Rubin to us to reproduce. Your original Samuel Levine by Paula Pascal Levine photographs will be returned once at B’nai Israel! Arthur Post by Paula Post they are copied. Henry Goldman by Philip Goldman Louis Lipsky by Philip Goldman Please contact Randy Sager STAY CONNECTED Rachel Marcus by Renee M. Kuff ([email protected]) Eva Weisbrod by Rabbi Matthew Simon for more information. If you are not receiving our Ida Hoffer by Rabbi Matthew Simon electronic Community Connections, Isaac Simon by Rabbi Matthew Simon Jenny Hatwell by Rita Hatwell please send your email address to My grandparents Aaron and Riva by Riva Sokolsky [email protected]. Florence Gertner by Robert and Marjorie Gertner Gilbert “Babe” Tebeleff by Robert Tebeleff and Wendelin Lipp Theresa Bortnick by Robin and Bruce Bortnick Katherine Horenstein by Ruth Modlin Esther Rankin by Sandra and Kenneth Ullman Sheldon Grosberg by Sharon and Howard Metro Bertha Kligman by Sherry and Larry Wachtel Martin Zitomer by Signe and Leon Wetrogan Khalifa Ohayon by Simon Ohayon

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