JUNE 2001 Come Listen to a Prophet’s Voice “BEHOLD YOUR LITTLE ONES”
Fear not, little children, for you are mine (Doctrine and Covenants 50:41). Said Isaiah of old, “All thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace Heavenly Father loves children. So of thy children” (Isaiah 54:13). does His Son, Jesus Christ. Prophets I humbly pray for that peace in behalf of all often speak of that love, including children. our prophet today, President Gordon When you learn about Heavenly Father and Jesus B. Hinckley. In a message to par- Christ, it brings peace to your heart. It helps you to ents, President Hinckley talked about how much you know that you can keep the commandments and do are loved and how much he wants you to learn about what is right. Remember to think of Them often, and Heavenly Father and Jesus. Here are some of the remember that They love you. things he said: (See Ensign, June 2001, pages 2–5.) y wife and I once took some of our grandchildren to the circus. I was Mmore interested in watching them and many others of their age than in watching the man on the flying trapeze. I looked at them in wonder as they alter- nately laughed and stared wide-eyed at the exciting things before them. I thought of the miracle of children, for it is children who become the world’s constant renewal of life and purpose. Observing them, . . . my mind reverted to the beautiful and touching scene recorded in the book of 3 Nephi when the resurrected Lord took little children in His arms and wept as He blessed them and said to the people, “Behold your little ones” (3 Nephi 17:23). . . . The story is told that in ancient Rome a group of women were, with vanity, showing their jewels one to another. Among them was Cornelia, the mother of two boys. One of the women said to her, “And where are your jewels?” to which Cornelia responded, pointing to her sons, “These are my jewels.” Under her tutelage, and walking after the virtues of her life, they grew to become [great men] Gaius and Tiberius Gracchus . . . two of the most persuasive and effective reformers in Roman history. . . . Volume 31 Number 6 June 2001 A children’s magazine published by The First Presidency The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Gordon B. Hinckley Thomas S. Monson James E. Faust The Council of the Twelve Boyd K. Packer L. Tom Perry David B. Haight Neal A. Maxwell Russell M. Nelson Stories and Features Dallin H. Oaks M. Russell Ballard Joseph B. Wirthlin IFC Come Listen to a Prophet’s Voice: “Behold Your Little Ones” / Richard G. Scott Robert D. Hales President Gordon B. Hinckley Jeffrey R. Holland Henry B. Eyring 2 A Lesson for Mother Editor Dennis B. Neuenschwander 4 Conference Report Advisers L. Lionel Kendrick 5 From Latter-day Prophets: George Albert Smith Yoshihiko Kikuchi John M. Madsen 6 Friend to Friend: Every Step of the Way / Elder Ray H. Wood Curriculum Department Administrators 8 Claire In-Line Managing Director Ronald L. Knighton 10 New Testament Stories: Jesus Teaches About Prayer; Planning and Editorial Director Richard M. Romney Jairus’s Daughter Is Raised from the Dead Graphics Director Allan R. Loyborg 15 Friends in the News Magazine Staff Managing Editor 16 Our Creative Friends Vivian Paulsen Assistant Managing Editor 18 The Errand Julie Wardell Associate Editors 27 Making Friends: The Honda Family of Tokyo, Japan Carol J. Mullan Melvin Leavitt 34 From the Lives of the Church Presidents: Wilford Woodruff, Fisherman of the Lord Assistant Editor Corliss Clayton 36 Trying to Be Like Jesus Christ Design Staff Magazine Graphics Manager 38 Sharing Time: Blessings Come When We Follow the Prophet M.M. 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By Carolee H. Smith
A TRUE STORY
[On] Saturday . . . we shop at the store, So we won’t have to work until Monday (Children’s Songbook, page 196).
ight-year-old Stewart was feeling happy. He had already been to church with his family. They had a big family, and this was a spe- E cial day. Lots of friends and relatives were coming to eat dinner with them. Stewart was glad, because he loved being with all his cousins. When his mother asked him if he’d like to go with her in the car, he quickly climbed in. As they drove around the corner, she told him that they were going to the store to get a few things that she needed for the dinner. Stewart didn’t feel so happy anymore. When the car pulled into the store parking lot, Mother climbed out and looked for Stewart. Where was he? She looked and looked. Finally she saw
2 THE FRIEND him crouched down in the backseat. “Aren’t you shouldn’t shop on the Sabbath, even this one time, coming in with me, sweetheart?” when it had seemed so important. Stewart taught “No,” he mumbled miserably. her a lesson that she never forgot. “OK. I’ll hurry.” Stewart is all grown up now, and his mother is It wasn’t long until Mother came back carrying a a grandma. Both of them remember that sunny bag. She put it into the backseat. As she drove Sunday afternoon and the lesson he taught her home, she reached over and patted Stewart’s hand. about keeping the Sabbath Day. “Why don’t you tell me what you are upset about.” “I didn’t know that you were going to the store.
I don’t ever want to go to the store on Heavenly Modern-day prophets have Father’s special day.” encouraged us not to shop on Sunday.
“Oh, Stewart, I’m so sorry! I will never go to the Elder Dallin H. Oaks of the store on Heavenly Father’s day again.” Quorum of the Twelve Apostles Mother knew that her little boy had made a (Ensign, February 2000, page 54.) better choice than she had. She knew that she
ILLUSTRATED BY AMY DAVIS JUNE 2001 3 TheyThey SpokeSpoke toto UsUs Report from the 171st Annual General Conference, March 31 – April 1, 2001
President Gordon B. Hinckley: Let us be good Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the people. Let us be friendly people. Let us be neigh- Twelve Apostles: Today I make you a promise. It’s borly people. Let us be what members of The Church a simple one, but it is true. If you will listen to the of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints ought to be. living prophet and the apostles and heed our coun- President Thomas S. Monson, First Counselor sel, you will not go astray. in the First Presidency: A Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin of friend is more concerned about the Quorum of the Twelve helping people than getting Apostles: Fasting, coupled credit. A friend cares. A friend with mighty prayer, is powerful. loves. A friend listens. And a It can fill our minds with the friend reaches out. revelations of the Spirit. It can President James E. Faust, strengthen us against times of Second Counselor in the First temptation. Presidency: Our first birth takes Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the place when we are born into Quorum of the Twelve Apos- mortality. Our second birth be- tles: Surely there is no more gins when we are baptized by powerful missionary message water by one holding the priest- we can send to this world than hood of God and is completed the example of a loving and when we are confirmed, and happy Latter-day Saint life. “then cometh a remission of Elder John H. Groberg of the [our] sins by fire and by the Holy Seventy: When we are humble, Ghost” (2 Nephi 31:17). clean, and pure of hand, heart, President Boyd K. Packer, and mind, nothing righteous is Acting President of the Quo- impossible. An ancient Oriental rum of the Twelve Apostles: saying declares, “If a man lives a We all make mistakes. Some- pure life, nothing can destroy times we harm ourselves and se- him.” riously injure others in ways that we alone cannot Elder L. Lionel Kendrick of the Seventy: To repair. We break things that we alone cannot fix. . . . be reverent is not just to be quiet. It involves That is when the healing power of the Atonement an awareness of what is taking place. It involves will help. a divine desire to learn and to be receptive to the The Lord said, “Behold, I, God, have suffered promptings of the Spirit. It involves a striving to these things for all, that they might not suffer if they seek added light and knowledge. would repent” (Doctrine and Covenants 19:16). Sister Sydney S. Reynolds, First Counselor in Elder Neal A. Maxwell of the Quorum of the the Primary General Presidency: God did part Twelve Apostles: The more we know of Jesus, the the Red Sea, and He did give us the Book of Mor- more we will love Him. The more we know of Je- mon. He can heal us of our sins, and He can and sus, the more we will trust Him. The more we will bless us, His children, in our daily lives. I know know of Jesus, the more we will want to be like that He lives and loves us and is today a God of Him and to be with Him. miracles.
4 THE FRIEND PHOTO BY WELDEN ANDERSEN A prophet of the Lord, Bringing forth his precious word, Cheers the Saints as anciently (Hymns, no. 25).
From Latter-day Prophets: George Albert How beautiful it is to realize that men who are worthy may receive that priesthood, and in Smith the authority that is given them, do so many things that are a blessing to our Father’s other Many years ago, while George Albert Smith was the children. . . . eighth President of the Church, he promised that Within the week, I listened to one of the people would be blessed with testimonies and happi- brethren who has just returned from the mission ness as they followed the commandments Heavenly field. He has been out nearly five years, and he Father gives through His prophets. That counsel is still told of some of the experiences in the field. true. We are blessed as we follow the prophet. He told of people that had illness and the doc- had a man say to me one day after I had tors did everything they could for them, but they taught the gospel to him for an hour or so could not heal them. But the humble missionar- I on a train, “I’d give a lot to have the assur- ies, the humble men who held the priesthood, ance that you have.” And I replied: “You do not placed their hands upon the heads of those who have to give anything to have the assurance that were afflicted and rebuked their ailments, and I have except to keep the commandments of the they were healed. Lord. If you do that, you will know that the That would not occur without faith, and our gospel of Jesus Christ is on earth. You will know faith is conditioned upon our righteous lives. that the authority of the priesthood is on earth.” We cannot live improperly and have faith as we should, but if we keep the commandments of the Lord, we can have faith, and it will grow and increase as our righteousness increases. . . . Our duty is to keep the command- ments of God, and he has promised that if we will do that we will enjoy blessings that we cannot enjoy in any other way. I am happy to be with you today. . . . Now are you happy? If you are keeping the command- ments of God, I am sure you are happy. (Conference Report, September 1950 and October 1950, pages 6 and 159.)
ILLUSTRATED BY CYNTHIA W. CLARK JUNE 2001 5 Friend to Friend The Lord will go before you (Isaiah 52:12).
From an interview with Elder Ray H. Wood of the Seventy, that moment, the stirrings of the Spirit and the currently serving as President of the Africa Southeast strength of my testimony became evident to me, Area; by Jan Pinborough and those feelings have stayed with me all my life. Because of that talk, I recognized what I had—a was born in July 1931 in Salt Lake City. The testimony of the gospel. home I grew up in was right across the street I believe that the Lord knows the experiences from the Utah State Capitol. My friends and I and trials that each of I With his parents, Ray and knew that building like the backs of our hands. us needs in life and Mary Wood, at age 5 We knew every tunnel and stairway in it. We used that He will guide us to climb to the dome on the little steel ladder that if we do what we went all the way to the top inside of it. We also should. I had always played golf, football, and baseball on the big lawns planned to go on a surrounding the mission. In the spring capitol. Playing in the snow at age 2 of 1950, I was eigh- When I was teen and finishing my about eight years sophomore year at the old, I attended University of Utah. I Lafayette School, was studying for my which was very final tests when my close to Temple father, who was also Square. One day my bishop, came into at lunchtime, my mother took me STEP my room and asked me, “Are you ready to go on your mission?” EVERY I said, “Yes, Dad, I am.” out for lunch at the Lion House, which is a house He asked, “Is your life in order?” where President Brigham Young used to live. While I said, “Yes, it is.” we were there, she noticed President Heber J. “Good,” he said. “You’ll leave in two months.” Grant eating lunch. Taking me over, she introduced I immediately submitted my papers and soon re- me to him, and he shook my hand. I knew he was ceived my call from President George Albert Smith. different from other men. Since that time, I have Before I reached the British Isles Mission two shaken hands with the next eight Presidents of the months later, the Korean War had started and there Church. Each time, I could feel the honor and dig- were restrictions on the number of young men nity of the prophet. who could serve missions. If I had waited to go, I One Sunday when I was twelve years old, I was might not have been able to serve a mission. sitting on the front row with the deacons at the An experience that I had on my mission shows missionary farewell of President Benjamin J. Bow- how Heavenly Father watches over us. My com- ering. In his talk, President Bowering said, “There panion and I had just taught and baptized a family has never been a time in my life when I have not in Leeds, England. Then we were transferred to known that the gospel is true.” The minute I heard Bradford, about a half-hour bus trip away. One him say that, I realized that I felt the same way. At day, my companion and I were getting ready to
6 THE FRIEND Elder Wood and his wife, Ann
As a missionary in 1950 visit some missionaries in our district, but it seemed like we just could With his best friend, Werner Widtsoe Kiepe, not get at age 6 out the door. Each time we left, we realized that we had for- gotten something. WAY when we went on a date, Ann popped a bag of popcorn and we THE drove downtown in our old car to a After returning three movie theater. We didn’t have enough money to OF times, we thought, buy tickets, so we sat in our car and ate our pop- Maybe there’s some reason we should stay here. corn while we watched the interesting people go- We sat down, and within a few minutes, the phone ing into the theater! While I was getting my law rang. It was the mother of the family we had bap- degree, I drove an oil truck to earn money to sup- tized in Leeds. She was very ill, and she needed us port our family. Our first three children—twins and to come give her a blessing. We immediately left another daughter—were born in one year! for the bus stop, where the bus was just about to There is a story about a little girl whose father leave. When we changed buses, we again caught worked digging wells. Every day the little girl our bus very quickly. When we arrived, the woman took a sack lunch to her father. Looking down was so sick that she was shivering badly, and we into the dark hole, she couldn’t see her father couldn’t even understand her words. My compan- working at the bottom, but he could see her ion and I gave her a blessing, and as I said the standing in the light. Every day, she called out to words, we both felt so much strength leave us that her father. He told her to drop the sack down to we had to sit down for almost ten minutes. During him, and he would catch it. One day, her father that time, she was able to stand, go to her kitchen, said, “Why don’t you come down and join me and prepare something for the three of us to drink. for lunch today? If you’ll just jump into the hole, When we left half an hour later, she was complete- I’ll catch you.” ly healed and waved to us at the door. Not all “But, Daddy, I can’t see you.” priesthood blessings are answered so quickly and “I can see you, and I will catch you.” happily, but we were overjoyed for it to happen to Trusting, the little girl jumped. Her father caught this good sister. her, and they enjoyed their lunch together. I met my wife, Ann, when we were both singing We do not always know what the Lord has in in choirs at the University of Utah. For a short time store for us or why certain things happen. But if after we married, we lived in the same area where our lives are in order, the Lord will guard us and I grew up. We had very little money. Sometimes guide us and bless us every step of the way.
JUNE 2001 7 Amanda, and Whitney had decided to skate once a week at the Recreation Center downtown. After school on Fridays was Claire’s favorite time of the whole week. And today she even had a cute new outfit on—a red plaid button shirt over a cream tank top. At the Center, Claire sat by Jessica as they put on their skates. “Let’s try the jump today,” she said. “And let’s work on our turns,” Jessica said. “Everybody ready?” The girls hopped off the wooden bench and sailed onto the floor. Claire threw out her arms and caught her balance, teetering around like a listing sailboat. Halfway around the room, she felt suddenly at ease, her feet relaxing inside her skates, her body gliding effortlessly along the glistening sea of wooden floor as if pushed by a wind. “Hey, Claire, that’s a cute shirt,” said Jessica. “Is it new?” “Do you really like it? My mom found it on sale.” I will therefore that . . . women adorn themselves in It wasn’t long before the girls were ready for the modest apparel (1 Timothy 2:8–9). jump. A wooden ramp was set up in the middle of the skating rink, reminding Claire of an ocean BASED ON A TRUE INCIDENT wave. The four girls lined up behind her and sped By Janice Barrett Graham around the rink, building up speed for the jump. laire’s friends were here. She grabbed her Claire hit the ramp and for a split second floated on in-line skates from the shelf in the hallway. air a few inches above the floor. “Whee!” The oth- “Bye, Mom!” she called to her mother, who ers followed with squeals of delight. was sewing in the other room. After several jumps, Claire wiped her forehead. “Bye, Claire! I know you’ll be good and have a “I’m hot. Let’s work on our turns, Jessica.” good time, too!” The two friends went over to a quiet corner of Mom always said that same thing whenever the rink. Full 360° turns required patience Claire went off with her friends. She was and a lot of slow practice. eleven, about to turn twelve. A few “I did it!” Jessica weeks back, Claire, Jessica, exulted. “Now you.”
8 Claire took one glide forward and twisted her body, her skates making a half circle. Around she went in a shaky, slow-motion twirl. “I did it, too! But it needs work.” “You get better every time,” Jessica called over her shoulder, in the middle of another turn. “Is that a tank top you’re wearing underneath your new shirt? Is it new, too?”
“Yes, I got it just to wear under my shirts. I think the layers look cool.” “They look cool, but it’s hot skating and you’re wearing two shirts,” Jessica pointed out, skating around Claire. “Why don’t you take off your shirt and skate in your tank top?” Claire finished a turn and looked straight at Jessica. “I promised my mom—” She stopped when she noticed that Jessica had taken off her sweater and was skating in a thin-strapped tank top herself. Her bare arms and shoulders looked cool. Still, she remembered her mother’s words as she left the house. “I know you’ll be good and have a good time, too.” Claire also remembered what her mother was sewing—a prom dress for Claire’s big sister because there weren’t any modest ones in the stores. “Come on, Claire,” said Jessica. “Look at Whitney Be Clean. and Amanda. They’re wear- How truly beautiful is a well-groomed young woman ing tank tops, too.” who is clean in body and Claire braked and stood mind. She is a daughter of God in whom her Eternal up straight. “I promised my Father can take pride. mom I would only wear the President Gordon B. Hinckley tank top if I wore it under (Friend, Feb. 2001, page 25.) other shirts. Besides I like my outfit just like this. Let’s do some more jumps.” Jessica shrugged. Claire led the way, sailing around the rink, building up speed for the jump. She hit the wave and flew, her new red plaid shirttails flapping in the breeze.
ILLUSTRATED BY SHAUNA MOONEY KAWASAKI JUNE 2001 9 JESUS TEACHES ABOUT
ChapterPRAYER 21
Jesus taught His disciples (followers) how to pray. He said that some people want others to see them praying. Jesus taught that people should say their personal prayers where they can be alone, if possible. Matthew 6:5–6
He said that some people say the same words over and over when they pray. They do not really think about what they are saying. But people should think about what they say. They should pray sincerely for what they need. Matthew 6:7–8
10 THE FRIEND ILLUSTRATED BY PAUL MANN The Savior said a prayer as an example for His disciples. He began by saying, “Our Father . . . in heaven.” He thanked Heavenly Father. He asked Heavenly Father for help. He said “amen” at the end of His prayer. Later, Jesus told His disciples to pray in His name. He promised that Heavenly Father would answer their prayers and bless them. Matthew 6:9–13; Matthew 21:22; John 16:23
JUNE 2001 11 JAIRUS’S DAUGHTER IS RAISED FROM
ChapterTHE 22 DEAD
Jesus left a ship and was surrounded by many people. Jairus, a ruler of the synagogue, fell at the Savior’s feet. Mark 5:21–22
Jairus said that his twelve-year-old daughter was very ill. He begged Jesus to come and bless her that she would get better and not die. Mark 5:23
12 THE FRIEND ILLUSTRATED BY PAUL MANN As Jesus started to follow Jairus home, other peo- Hearing what was said, Jesus told Jairus to not ple crowded around, asking Him for blessings. be sad but to believe in Him. The Savior stopped to heal a woman. As He was Mark 5:36 talking to her, someone came to tell Jairus that it was too late—his daughter was dead. Mark 5:24–35
Then He and Peter, James, and John went to Jesus asked why they were making so much Jairus’s house. The house was filled with people noise. He said that the girl was not dead but was weeping and wailing because of the little girl’s sleeping. The people laughed at Him for saying death. that. They were sure that the girl was dead. Mark 5:37–38 Mark 5:39–40
JUNE 2001 13 The Savior had everyone leave the house except Jairus, his wife, and the disciples. They went to the room where the little girl was lying. Mark 5:40
Taking the girl by the hand, Jesus told her to arise. She got up and walked. Her parents were amazed. Jesus told them to not tell anyone what had happened and said that they should give the girl something to eat. Mark 5:41–43
14 THE FRIEND FRIENDS IN THE Christine Code, 9, Aber- Andrew Cook, 8, Syra- Claralyn Ann Miller, 7, Born on Pioneer Day, feldy, Victoria, Australia, cuse, Utah, likes basket- Savage, Minnesota, is Robert Stephen McKen- likes to play three instru- ball and playing with his looking forward to being zie Lynch, 3, Port Char- ments, read books, and cousins. He has a big baptized. She likes to lotte, Florida, likes to prac- play with her little brother, smile for everyone. This swim and can stand on tice his “missionary hand- Ian. She always tries to do is a surprise from his her head. She enjoys shake.” He looks forward her best and likes to give sister, Katie. Primary and is a good to Sundays and singing talks in Primary. NEWS friend. his favorite song, “Pop- corn Popping,” in Primary.
Caitlin Schille, 7, Federal Franklin Earl Wheat, 10, Lane Munson, 5, Meridi- Jared Norton, 6, Tucson, Cassie Cronin, 10, Alma, The favorite part of the Way, Washington, likes to Indianapolis, Indiana, loves an, Idaho, likes to sing Arizona, enjoys Primary Arkansas, likes to read, day for Iaan Hunt, 8, St. go to school, travel, and the gospel and his family. “I Lived in Heaven.” She and having the missionar- shop, and make necklaces. Croix Falls, Wisconsin, is draw. She enjoys Primary, He has earned his Faith in takes good care of her lit- ies over to dinner. He likes She enjoys the story of reading with his mom or especially singing time. God and Gospel in Action tle brother, Reed, and her working with his dad, Alma the Younger in the dad. He likes basketball She sang a solo in sacra- awards. He has a brown family’s roses and straw- swimming, riding his bike, Book of Mormon, and she and playing with his dog, ment meeting and is on belt in karate, likes to play berries. She likes to swim and helping with his attended the Oklahoma Joey. He works hard on a swim team. electronic games, and has a and jump off the diving brother and sisters. City Oklahoma Temple his reading, writing, and wonderful sense of humor. board. dedication with her family. math.
Josie Cook, 11, Afton, Christian Tadje, 3, Char- Nadia Marie Fale, 7, Andrew Pokora, 5, Church, Primary, and Bryce Shepherd, 6, Wyoming, likes to play lottesville, Virginia, is Laie, Hawaii, likes school, Breckenridge, Missouri, Achievement Day activities Henderson, Nevada, likes the violin and the piano. learning an article of faith playing the piano, roller- enjoys playing computer are favorites of Melissa to ride his bike and his She enjoys sports and ani- each month with his ward blading, and going to the games and tossing rocks Medaris, 10, Omaha, Ne- four-wheeler. He enjoys mals. She has 4-H projects Primary. He loves the beach to swim. She loves into his grandpa’s pond. He braska. She plays computer dirt bikes, collecting in sewing, cooking, pigs, Book of Mormon, family her Primary class and likes to visit the Church his- games with her brothers bugs, and reading and horses. She wants to home evening, and play- teacher. tory sites of Adam-ondi- and sisters and likes to stories. go on a mission when she ing outside with his Ahman and Liberty Jail, swim, sing, play the piano, grows up. younger brother, Jacob. which are both in Missouri. and twirl the baton.
Please send submissions to Friends in the News, 24th Floor, 50 East North Temple, Salt Lake City, Utah 84150-3226. For scheduling reasons, sub- missions selected may not appear in the magazine for at least six months. Ages shown are those at Hannah Stoehr, 6, Arva- Donnie Winter, 11, Yorba Megan Foster, 7, Trevor Cashmore, 5, Adriana Turley, 8, the time of submission. da, Colorado, enjoys read- Linda, California, skate- Huntsville, Texas, likes Phoenix, Arizona, enjoys Levan, Utah, knows how Due to the number of ing the Book of Mormon. boards, snowboards, and to swim, play the piano, building things. He likes to play the piano and the submissions received, She is especially close to wrestles. He has played and go to dance class. science, and he loves his violin. She enjoys singing they cannot all be pub- her oldest brother, Tyler, on championship base- She has a sister, Rachel, brother and sisters and and is happy that she was lished. Upon request, ma- who is serving a mission ball and football teams. and a brother, Ryan. the people in his ward. baptized and confirmed terial not published will in Korea. He wants to earn his Ea- by her dad. be returned to sender if a gle in Scouting, serve a self-addressed, stamped mission, and go to college. envelope is enclosed. 15 our creative friends
Follow the Prophet Chelsey Bush, age 9 Montpelier, Vermont Follow the prophet every day. Do it in every single way. Follow the prophet when you’re dreary. Follow the prophet when you’re weary. Following the prophet is the thing to do— Following the prophet, me and you! Follow the prophet at home and at school. Following the prophet is the perfect tool. Alyssa Brady, age 10 Grace, Idaho Emily Lowe, age 8 Vancouver, Washington
Michael Disney Luke, age 8 Kaysville, Utah
Mandy Johnson, age 11 Hurricane, Utah
Found Lost. I have no light. I can’t see anything. Where am I going? I fall. . . . I can’t find my way. The first sadness is awful. I can’t find the light. All the lights are out. No candles—no lamps—just like a cave when you Are stuck in it and don’t know where the end is. Taylar VanTassell, age 5 Filer, Idaho A mist is coming over me. . . . I’m trying to hold on. Hans Jenson, age 5 Galway, Ireland I need someone to guide me. I’m scared of the dark! Can I come out? A man, in the mist, Walks and talks with God And then walks and talks with me. Found. The light is clear now. I will walk toward it. I walk out of the mist. I am comforted by the sight of this man . . . A prophet of God. Emily Anna Thornton, age 7 Naperville, Illinois
Zachary Howe, age 11 Parker Taggart, age 5 Lone Pine, California Farmington, Utah
16 THE FRIEND (Almost every year President Gordon B. Hinckley plants a tree. One year he planted a black walnut tree. After thirty-six years, it died. It is now the pulpit in the new Conference Center.) Strong and True I started out a little sprig; not tall, not big, not strong, but true. One of the sons had a great idea for a tree that was He loved me, and I loved him, too! strong and true. Using good, strong, faithful hands, I was cut in half, put in a kiln to dry, he placed me in the ground, and with the feel of soil loaded on a truck, and I said with a sigh, my joy flourished all around. “This is the final step of my journey. I wished that I could thank him for the joy he’d given me. I will stop someplace to rest. Of course I couldn’t talk because I was a tree. My limbs are tired, my joints are, too. I watched his children throughout the years play and grow, But oh, my trunk is strong and true!” so free. At the shop I was cut and planed I also was becoming a bigger, stronger tree—yippee! and they took off rough spots that still remained. Soon I grew big enough for them to climb my trunk. Then one morning, to my surprise, It tickles! I saw a huge room before my eyes! (That’s why some trees sway Thousands of people came to see when you climb them in a certain way.) the prophet of God as he placed hands on me. Did I laugh or giggle or shout? No—I couldn’t, I have I knew that touch, no doubt. it was those hands that filled my soul. When his children grew up and left, They were strong and true and faithful hands. I was tall and big and strong and true. And now I must tell you that my heart is full But then one day I ached and pained. My trunk was killing me. for this man born years ago. My leaves fell off, and yes, I died. At last I could finally see He was sad for me, so he called up a friend and his I had thanked the hands that planted me! friends’ sons, too. Ruth Duersch, age 10 Orem, Utah
Our Prophet President Hinckley travels all day. He teaches us how to read the scriptures and pray. He sets an example to all of us. We should listen to his words, not make a fuss.
At conference he speaks with a great big smile. Sometimes he speaks for quite a long while. We should keep the commandments like he wants us to— Do what’s right and always be true. Danielle Stanford, age 9 Jacob Smith, age 6 Calgary, Alberta, Canada Wigston, Leicester, England
Alex Dutton, age 6 Riverton, Utah
Katie Bowns, age 7 Nyssa, Oregon
Erin Ray Emmett, age 7 Charleston, Illinois
JUNE 2001 17 The I seek not mine own will, but the will of the Father (John 5:30).
ERRANDFICTION ERRANDBy Craig Thompson
Michael, I need you to do something for me.
18 h no,” Michael moaned to himself. “Not turn twelve. There would be few presents and no another errand!” He knew that he should- party with his friends. His mother and father had OOn’t feel this way. He loved his father. But said that they were sorry—they didn’t have the time ever since his father’s accident, it seemed like all he or the money this year for a friend party. It would ever did was ask Michael to run errands for him. have to be a family-only party. “I’m coming.” Michael could hear the irritation in Life before the accident seemed like a distant his words and guiltily hoped that his father would dream. Money had not been a real problem then. hear it, too, and respond with a “Never mind.” But Now Michael worried more and more about what there was no reply, so Michael slowly made his way would happen to him and his family. His mother to his parents’ bedroom. had taken a part-time job at a bakery to help make ends meet. Michael knew that as the oldest child in ven though it had been over four months his family, he had a responsibility to help as much since the car accident, it still seemed strange as he could. Lately, though, that responsibility EEto see his father in bed during the daytime seemed to weigh more and more, even though he hours. Michael knew that it was difficult for his fa- did the same things: caring for his younger siblings, ther to lie there day after day, but it was difficult for mowing the lawn, vacuuming the carpet, washing him, too. He had been eager to run errands for his clothes and dishes, helping prepare meals when father during the first few weeks. But lately it was Mom worked late, and running errands for Dad. getting harder to give up what he wanted to do. Again today he had had to tell his best friend, Brad, s Michael went into his parents’ bedroom, that he couldn’t come over after school because he the afternoon sun spilled through the win- was needed at home. AA dow and across the multicolored quilt It didn’t help that in a few days Michael would tucked around his father. His father turned the quilt
ILLUSTRATED BY SCOTT GREER THE FRIEND 19 back and slowly pushed himself up against the pil- Do you know what that means?” lows behind him. “Michael, come here a minute, “I’ll be able to pass the sacrament, and I’ll go to please.” Even though his face showed the strain of priesthood meeting instead of Primary.” sitting up, he smiled at Michael. “I have an errand “That’s right. But it means much more than that. for you.” It also means that you will be on the Lord’s errand. Michael could feel the irritation building again. If you always do what He asks of you, even if it He didn’t want to run any more errands. means giving up everything you have, what you “Please get my scriptures for me. They’re on top receive in return will be far more valuable than any of the dresser.” Michael’s father pointed toward the earthly possession or entertainment.” far end of the room. Michael left the room with a completely different Michael had always liked the smell and feel of feeling than he’d had when he had entered. Pon- the leather cover of his father’s worn scriptures. He dering what his father had said, he realized that not handed them to his father and was about to leave, all the changes in his life had been too hard—not if when his father said, “Hold on a minute. I want to they made him a better person. say something to you. I know that these past four From downstairs, he heard his mother call, months have not been easy for you. You’ve given “Michael, can you run an errand for me?” up a lot to help take care of me and the rest of the This time, he responded quickly and with joy. family. I want you to know how much I appreciate what you have done and how much I love you.” As Michael felt his irrita- tion begin to seep away, his father contin- Coming, ued. “There’s something else I want you to know. Even though you’ve given up Mom! many things, I’ve noticed that you’ve ac- quired others that are more important.” “Huh?” Michael could think of several things that he’d given up, but nothing that he had gained during the past four months. “What things?” “Well, every time you run an errand for me, you come back with something for both of us.” None of what his father was saying made any sense to Michael. Maybe the accident caused some brain damage, he thought with concern. Michael’s father saw his look of bewilder- ment and laughed softly. “Let me explain. I’ve seen you grow more these past four months than at any other time in your life. Every time you went on an errand, you came back with more maturity, more talents, and more skills.” He held up the scriptures. “The Savior taught that He only did the things His Father sent Him to do. His whole life was an errand for His Father. He willingly gave up His will to do the will of His Father. Because of that, He received everything His Father has.* In a few days, you’ll receive the Aaronic Priesthood and will be ordained a deacon.
*See 3 Nephi 11:11, 27:13–14, Doctrine and Covenants 84:38. 20 THE FRIEND By Barbara Werrett Nielsen
When my father kneels to hold me, His strength and love enfold me. I feel his kind protection That keeps me safe from harm.
In his voice, I hear God’s message. His hands hold priesthood blessings. And when I’m with my father, I feel safe and warm.
His life is as a beacon, Reflecting righteous teachings; He inspires my soul to seek That God of which he speaks.
Through my life, he weaves the story Of God’s unending glory. His goodness binds our family; Eternal are we.
ILLUSTRATED BY BRAD TEARE JUNE 2001 21 kitchen krafts
You can show your love and appreciation for your father by cooking him a meal. With your mother’s help, or another older person’s help, you can Potato Boats prepare these recipes for Peanut Butter Smiles By Paula Weed By Heidi H. Bentley 3 large baking potatoes, scrubbed a lunch or dinner. Any of 1 cup sugar 1/2 cup grated cheddar cheese these recipes would be 1/2 cup brown sugar 4 tablespoons butter 1 cup shortening 4 tablespoons milk fun to make for a family 2 eggs 1 1/2 tablespoons chopped green 1 teaspoon soda onions home evening treat. 1/2 teaspoon salt 6 slices mild, semisoft cheese, 2 teaspoons vanilla individually wrapped 3 cups flour 6 wooden skewers 1/3 cup peanut butter 18 pitted olives Bacon Cheddar 1/2 cup raisins or chocolate chips 18 round carrot slices 1. In a large bowl, cream to- 1. With a fork, prick the Muffins 2 cups flour gether the sugars and shortening. potatoes several times and place 1 tablespoon baking powder Mix in the eggs, soda, salt, and them in a 375° F (190° C) oven 1/2 teaspoon baking soda vanilla. Stir in the flour. and bake them for 1–1 1/2 hours 1/2 teaspoon salt 2. Place the dough on a lightly or until done. 1 cup milk floured surface or a piece of 2. Let the potatoes cool slight- 1/2 cup mayonnaise waxed paper. With a floured ly, then cut each in half length- 8 bacon slices, cooked rolling pin, roll the dough into a and crumbled wise. Without breaking the skin, rectangle about 1/2” (1.3 cm) 1/2 cup shredded cheddar cheese carefully scoop out the potato thick. 1. In a medium bowl, com- pulp and put it into a bowl. Mash 3. Spread the peanut butter in bine the flour, baking powder, the pulp, then stir in the cheese, a 3” (7.6 cm) wide strip length- baking soda, and salt. Add the butter, milk, and chopped green wise down the center of the milk and mayonnaise and stir onions. dough leaving 2” (5 cm) or more until just moistened. Gently fold 3. Fill the potato skins with the uncovered on each side. in the bacon and cheese. pulp mixture, place them on a 4. Starting with a lengthwise 2. Fill greased or paper-lined cookie sheet, return to the oven, edge (without peanut butter), roll muffin cups 2/3 full. and bake for 15 minutes. the dough into a log. 3. Bake at 425° F (220° C) for 4. To make each sail, poke a 5. Cut the log into 1/2” (1.3 cm) 15–18 minutes or until golden skewer diagonally through the slices and place them on a brown. top and bottom corners of a greased cookie sheet. wrapped slice of cheese (see 6. Look for the “smile” on illustration). Push one end of the each cookie, then add the raisin skewer into the potato to stand or chocolate chip eyes and nose the sail up (see illustration). on each cookie. For the people, place three olives, hole side up, on each 7. Bake at 350° F (175° C) for potato boat. Top each olive 12 minutes or until done. Wait with a carrot slice for a hat (see one minute, then use a spatula to illustration). Makes 6 servings. place cookies on a wire rack to cool.
22 THE FRIEND PHOTOS BY KELLY LARSEN FATHERS ARE SPECIAL By Charlotte G. Lindstrom
To discover a line from a song that tells us something fathers do for us, write the answer to each addition problem above its letter. Then place that letter on each blank in the code that has that number below it. (See answers on page 26.) ______A B C D E G H I K 13+22 9+15 9+7 19+24 21+34 13+23 41+25 9+16 42+21
______M N O R S T U V Y 37+17 11+15 29+36 18+15 16+18 22+34 28+17 18+28 33+31
“______56 66 55 64 36 45 25 43 55 45 34 35 26 43
______43 25 33 55 16 56 45 34 24 35 16 63 56 65
______.” 65 45 33 66 65 54 55 35 24 65 46 55
PEBBLE PICTURES By A. Coleman Stones with unusual hollows or ridges, but with a smooth surface on which to paint, make wonderful pebble pictures. If you need a gift idea, a pebble picture makes a nice pa- perweight. Pebbles can be found on the beach, by the riverside, or maybe in your neighborhood or yard. To make pebble pictures and/or a paperweight, you will need: pebbles, a pencil, paper, newspaper, paintbrushes, a variety of colors of acrylic paints (including white), and clear varnish. 1. Finding the stones is part of the fun. Ask an older person or adult to go with you to find your just-right pebbles. 2. Wash and dry the pebbles. 3. Select one to paint, then study it carefully. Can you see a shape or pattern or an animal’s face in the stone? After you have an idea for your picture, sketch it out on the paper. 4. Cover your work area with newspaper. Paint the entire stone white; let dry. 5. Follow the sketch that you have made to paint your picture on the stone; let dry. 6. Paint the finished stone with a thin coat of clear varnish; let dry.
23 Please smile with favor upon them. Please listen to them as they lift their voices in prayer unto Thee. Please lead them gently by the hand in the direction they should follow. (From President Gordon B. Hinckley’s prayer for youth, Ensign, January 2001, page 11.) Be a Standard- Bearer
A standard-bearer is someone who holds a standard high for all to see and follow. Each member of the First Presidency has recently talked about the standards we should live by as members of the Church. Carefully remove these pages from the magazine and put them where you will see them often. Then follow the advice of our prophets, and be a standard-bearer! residency . y changes, nity orgiveness is aust F Wickedness . “ need to change Happiness e “ W 7.) . – need to repent. As Al- President James E. F Second Counselor in the First P ” ten be neces- e As President If we really want . W vice. It will of ” ee once said: rest of your life but all eter Give ser , March 2001, pages 2 choices will affect not only the y for all of us to choose between to feel better about ourselves, we orgive ourselves and others ou are now beginning to make im- our bad behavior ma said to his son Corianton, never was happiness. F does not depend on what happens outside of you but on what happens inside of you. It is measured by the spirit with which you meet the prob- lems of life. sar having a good time and leading good life. Change bad behavior an important part of putting bad behavior be- hind us. As we make the necessar we need to forgive ourselves. Gain confidence by making good choices. Y portant choices. Choices have conse- quences. In some measure these (Ensign should do deeds of kindness. Choose happiness. Harold B. L u o tend e residency aith F W ou are Y - 7.) – a President Thomas S. Monson First Counselor in the P to live, a contribution have a destiny to fulfill, life make, a goal to achieve. y 2001, pages 2 ame your life with faith. r F ebruar , F sons and daughters of Almighty God. Y becomes an anchor to our lives. . Wherever we may be, our Heavenly F ther can hear and answer the prayer offered in faith. (Ensign Choose your friends with caution. to become like those whom we admire . and they are usually our friends. Plan your future with purpose. ork ord . ch. . 15.) – President Gordon B. Hinckley ou cannot do t a spirit of thanksgiving ou need [the e Y L [Be] willing to listen y 2001, pages 4 ou need all the Y Avoid evil talk. . Be loyal to the Chur ugs. . They will destroy , Januar s] help, and you know that t waste your time in de- ue to your own convictions. ’ nography] . and from ’ uctive entertainment. . ord ou know what is right, and you New Era it alone. L you need His help. Y Y know what is wrong. Be humble. the whisperings of still, small voice. Be prayerful. Don Be tr at it. Be smart. education you can get. Be clean. Choose your friends carefully has given you. Stay away from [por illicit dr you. Be true. str [Respect] the body which L Be grateful. ( guide and bless your days nights. W
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26 Making Friends
Written and photographed by Melvin Leavitt
ow many children nowadays live anywhere near a palace where a real live emperor lives? Satoru (11), Masashi (10),Tacumi (9), Motoi (6), Izumi (5), and Megumi (2) Honda do. Their city also has sumo wrestlers, baseball teams, kabuki* theaters, skyscrapers, and companies that make a lot of the world’s cars and elec- gave birth to Megumi, Satoru cooked the fami- tronics. They live in Tokyo, Japan’s capital and ly’s dinners by himself for a whole month. largest city. Satoru enjoys crossword The Hondas are a large family by puzzles and anything else that Japanese standards, and a happy gives his brain a good workout. one by any standard. They look out He is always eager to learn for one another. Each child takes re- new things. sponsibility for all those who are He will become a deacon younger. This is a great help to their soon, and Brother Honda has mother, Mihato, and father, Takaharu. been giving him lessons about The children all have talents that the Aaronic Priesthood. As part make family life go more smoothly. of these lessons, they went to Satoru is an excellent cook. Chinese a cemetery to do family history food is his favorite, but he can also research. Satoru, who is a cook Japanese, Italian, American—you name quick learner, had to master an old form of it—following a recipe or using whatever he writing to read the names and dates. He plans finds in the refrigerator. When Sister Honda to be baptized in the Tokyo Japan Temple for ama with . nal dr colorf ting ILLUSTRATED BY BRAD TEARE itio ul co of ac JUNE 2001 27 * Trad stumes and an exaggerated style his ancestors when he turns twelve. Masashi enjoys sports. He plays forward on a soccer team that took second place in its league. He refuses to play in Sunday matches, although his coach Satoru and T and teammates want him to. a bamboo grove.acumi in He is also good at skiing and baseball. He is the first one in the family to start playing any game and Megumi and Izumi play the last one to stop. with their toys. Masashi is kind to his little brothers and sisters and has a special knack for getting them to bed in the summertime. He likes giving them piggyback was, he answered, “Everyone!” rides, too. At school he is Motoi has one of the world’s cutest smiles. He a peacemaker who sees smiled earlier than anyone else in the family, and the good in others. he’s smiled often ever since. Although he is a little When one boy didn’t cautious, he’s always willing to follow his big get along with his brothers’ examples and grow stronger. It was hard classmates, Masashi for him to learn to swim because he didn’t like helped him fit in. putting his face into the water. He worked on the Tacumi is a natu- task a whole summer until he could swim just fine. ral handyman and Motoi is looking forward to his baptism, and he likes to build studies the scriptures to prepare himself. He has a things. An enthusi- strong spirit. Hospitalized twice for painful condi- astic recycler, he tions, he faced his suffering with patience and acumi . uses worn-out or courage. Masashi, Motoi, and T playing soccer discarded items Izumi is energetic. She’s not afraid to tell her to make toys for his young sis- four big brothers what to do and what not to do, ters. He concentrates intensely on the task at and they actually listen to her! She likes to help hand and doesn’t give up until he has mas- her mother. Whatever she sees Sister Honda tered it. He was the weakest skier and swim- doing, she mer of the three older brothers, but he worked must do, too. so hard to improve that he became the best. Once Izu- Being a loyal friend is another of Tacumi’s mi wanted to talents. His schoolteacher noticed that when plant flowers, she asked students to divide into groups, so Sister Hon- Tacumi would make a group with any da got her children who were left out. When his some seeds. mother asked him who his best friend When the
28 THE FRIEND Motoi holding a frog. flowers bloomed, Izumi gave a bouquet to her kindergarten teacher. This, she explained, was why she had wanted to plant flowers in the first place. Megumi loves animals. She goes right up to even the biggest dogs, which makes her mother nervous. “Megumi is the mood-maker in the fami- ly and a great talker,” Sister Honda adds. On the kitchen wall is a paper wheel showing each child’s family home evening assignment. Satoru doing his homework. Commuting takes a long time in Tokyo, and like most men, Dad gets home late from his job in Reading Japanese downtown Tokyo. So Sister Honda usually starts earning to read Japanese is much family home evening until he arrives. The children more difficult than learning to read do their parts eagerly. LEnglish. English is largely phonetic. When their ward is on an early schedule, the That is, each of its letters represents a Hondas follow a unique family tradition. On the sound or sounds, so d-o-g can be sounded out to get dog. Japanese has first Sunday of the month, Brother Honda fixes four different writing systems. The most dinner by himself. On the second Sunday, Satoru important one, kanji, is not phonetic. helps him. On the It uses some two thousand Chinese third Sunday, it’s characters that represent concepts, Masashi’s turn to not sounds. These can be combined to make thousands of other concepts. help him, and so These characters and combinations on. After each cannot be sounded out but must simply meal, the children be memorized. Each Japanese child also play paper, rocks, learns two phonetic systems—hiragana and scissors to see (phonetic symbols made from simplified who will clean up. kanji characters) and katakana (used mostly for writing foreign words or Izumi always wants names so that they can be pronounced to lose because correctly). Many also learn Romaji (Ro- she enjoys cleaning man letters such as we use in English. and washing. People’s names in this article are written Each summer, the family goes camping in the in Romaji.). Mastering this complex system helps develop excellent concen- mountains or by a river. In wintertime, they enjoy tration and memory skills. Here is skiing trips. They love one another’s company. In President Hinckley’s name written in spite of their very busy lives, they can always be Kanji, and Katakana: found together for Church meetings, prayer, [Gordon] [B.] [Hinckley] [President] scripture study, dinner, and fun. A song in the Children’s Songbook† describes the Honda home perfectly. Love truly is spoken Katakana Kanji here.
† See pages 190–191. JUNE 2001 29