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THE SON OF GOD BECAME MAN — This Nativity at St. Thomas More Church in Baton Rouge depicts the traditional images of Jesus, Mary, Joseph, the angel, shepherds and Magi. The figures prominently placed in churches on Christmas Day present a visual reminder that God sent his only son to become the savior of the world. Photo by Laura Deavers | The Catholic Commentator Christmas message from Bishop Robert W. Muench

Dear Sisters and Brothers born to be the savior, to be our redeemer. migration services and the defense of human life – in Christ, As Catholic Christians, we are called — correction: second only to the government, which we also finan- commanded — to not only respect every other human cially support. “Our religious beliefs compel us to do “Glory to God in the being, believer or not, but to love every neighbor. We it, and our religious liberty guarantees us the right to highest, and on earth acknowledge others’ beliefs and demonstrate our own do it” (Most Rev. Timothy Dolan, Archbishop of New peace to those on whom by our commitment to serve others. We stand up for York). his favor rests” (Luke whom we believe, but do not impose our beliefs on This Christmas, may we be instruments in glorify- 2:14). others. We defend our God-given rights and Bill of ing God and seeking to bring peace – in our homes, Rights — protected right to express our beliefs and to neighborhoods, communities, workplaces, schools, These words of the an- practice them according to our conscience. We pro- state, nation and world. gels to the shepherds at the tect our right to religious freedom by not taking it for Merry Christmas, everyone! Prayers and blessings birth of Jesus provide once again the hope of a world granted, for speaking up when appropriate to let all to you and yours. that has become ever more divided and threatened. know that our Christian beliefs are not to be taken for We live in a pluralistic society. We are in this secu- granted, or worse, shoved aside in the interest of not In the Child Jesus, lar world but we must live for a higher world, one that offending non-believers. sets us apart because we do not focus only on the ma- We are proud of our tradition to be the second- terialistic elements of this world. We are called to do largest provider of services for the poor and the needy Robert W. Muench more, to be more, since we believe that Christ was – through health care, education, poverty relief, im- Bishop of Baton Rouge 2 The Catholic Commentator December 14, 2011

| IN THIS ISSUE | DID YOU KNOW 25 YEARS AFTER THE BISHOPS’ PAS- building that was once the church rectory. TORAL LETTER on economic justice was Page 19 Use of incense harks back to Exodus published, it still generates debate over whether the United States bishops were | Even before the Magi brought gifts naïve or knowledgeable about the topic. de in x of gold, frankincense and myrrh to the Page 4 Classified Ads 18 Christ Child, incense played a major role Coming Events 18 in Israelites’ worship. IN HIS HOMILY FOR THE GOLDEN JUBI- Entertainment 14 In the Book of Exodus, God instructs LEE Mass of the Diocese of Baton Rouge, Family Life 5 Moses to build a golden altar for burn- Archbishop Alfred C. Hughes speaks of INTERNATIONAL/NATIONAL NEWS 4 ing incense. In 1 Chronicles, Christians the many accomplishments of this local hear that the Levites were appointed to LETTER TO THE EDITOR 17 church. Page 10 take care of the “sacred vessels as well Spirituality 7 as the fine flour wine, oil, frankincense A DEC. 11 FIRE AT STS. ANTHONY AND Viewpoint 16 and spices.” LE VAN PHUNG CHURCH destroys a Youth 12 And in the Psalms, the Jews prayed, “Let my prayer be counted as incense be- – At the Gospel procession and the fore thee, and the lifting up of my hands proclamation of the Gospel itself; Corrections as an evening sacrifice!” (Psalm 141:2) – After the bread and chalice have In the Nov. 2 issue, the caption for the picture on page 10 should have read: Today, the use of incense during the been placed upon the altar, to incense Bishop Robert E. Tracy, third from left, looks over a copy of The Catholic Mass and certain devotions can invoke the offerings, the cross and the altar as Commentator with staff member Jim Falkner, left, Gary Hebert and Joyce an image of prayers that rise to heaven well as the priest and the people; Hebert. Bishop Tracy took great interest in the diocesan newspaper, knowing with a fragrance pleasing to God and – At the showing of the host and the the impact it could have on parishioners. File photo | The Catholic Commen- can add an aura of solemnity and mys- chalice after the consecration. tator tery to the Mass. The incense is kept in a covered liturgi- In the Nov. 16 issue, the story on page 7, “Hospice helps dying to prepare for The General Instruction to the Roman cal vessel called a boat because its shape new, eternal life,” contained incorrect information about Pam Folse, pastoral Missal, which outlines how to celebrate resembles that of a boat. The boat is associate at Our Lady of Peace Church in Vacherie. Folse did not work at St. Mass, states incense may be used if de- made of bronze or brass and comes with Joseph Hospice or any hospice in the Baton Rouge area. She is not a licensed sired in any form at several times in a spoon that is used to scatter the incense hospice chaplain. Also, the daughter of Lloyd Cancienne Sr. is Judy David of Mass: over charcoal that has been lit in another Thibodaux. – During the entrance procession; bowl-shaped container called a thurible The Catholic Commentator regrets these errors. – At the beginning of Mass, to incense or censer. The thurible hangs on chains the cross and the altar; see incense page 3

| Pray for those who pray for us Coming in January Please pray for the priests, deacons and religious women and men in the Baton Rouge Diocese. Dec. 18 Rev. Boby M. Alex Dec. 25 Rev. M. Jeffery Bayhi the CatholiC Dcn. Willie M. Berthelo Sr. Dcn. Barry G. Campeaux Sr. Kathleen Babin CSJ Sr. Judith Brun CSJ Dec. 19 Rev. Vincent Alexius SVD Dec. 26 Rev. Mark B. Beard Dcn. William B. Blair Jr. Dcn. Michael T. Chiappetta Commentatorserving the diocese o f baton rouge since 1962 Br. Donnan Berry SC Sr. Helen Cahill OSF Dec. 20 Rev. David E. Allen Dec. 27 Rev. Gary Belsome Dcn. Daniel S. Borné Dcn. Norman Christophe January 11: Vocations Sr. Sandra Blanchard CSJ Sr. Kathleen Cain OSF Dec. 21 Rev. Joey F. Angeles Dec. 28 Rev. Msgr. Robert H. Berggreen Dcn. Claude H. Bourgeois Dcn. Randall A. Clement Br. Maurus Bordelon SC Sr. Nicetas Bermido Cambiado DM Dec. 22 Rev. Joseph Suresh Arogyasami IMS Dec. 29 Rev. Donald V. Blanchard Dcn. Eugene F. Brady Dcn. Samuel C. Collura Sr. Fides Bourgeois SSND Sr. Carla Marie Candella SSND Dec. 23 Rev. J. Cary Bani Dec. 30 Rev. John Boll OP January 25: Dcn. Jerry W. Braud Dcn. Peter Ai Dang Sr. Carolyn Brady CSJ Sr. Joseph Charles SSF Dec. 24 Rev. Frank B. Bass Dec. 31 Rev. Jules A. Brunet Catholic Schools Week Dcn. Patrick Broussard Dcn. Al Davidson Sr. Patricia Brandner CSJ Sr. Maria Christy MC

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December 14, 2011 The Catholic Commentator 3 Tureau cooks food for family members and feeds those in need By Barbara Chenevert ing now, because more people are children were still at home. After Staff Writer out of work,” she said as she pulls they graduated from high school out handwritten pages of names and went to college, she lived Ronie Tureau cooks every Sun- of those in need of food. alone. “I stayed busy, working in day for any of her six children, “I do it all by hand. I don’t use the yard and cleaning house, but 15 grandchildren or eight great- computers,” she said. God was calling me, and I just grandchildren who happen to And if that is not enough, couldn’t tell him no.” stop by. But she also feeds hun- Tureau also serves as an extraor- She said her activities are now dreds of other people living in the dinary minister of Holy Commu- restricted by her children, who St. Amant community. nion, participates in the church’s won’t let her drive except back and Tureau is the coordinator of the prayer line and schedules the forth to church, which is only a Holy Rosary Church food pan- volunteers from Holy Rosary who few blocks from her house. “When try — a volunteer position she work at the Fellowship Center in my children were young, I was the has held since 1976. For 35 years, Gonzales, an interdenomination- boss of them. Now they are the she has collected, organized and al center that sells low-cost cloth- boss of me,” she said. distributed food to those most in ing and household items. Holy Work is not new to Tureau, who need. Rosary is one of the participating said she grew up working on her fa- And at the age of 93, Tureau churches and sends volunteers to ther’s farm, only a few miles from says she’s the lucky one. “It’s won- work at the store each Monday. Ninety-three-year-old Ronie Tureau, center, represented her parish of where she lives now. “I worked in derful that I am able to do this. I The people of Holy Rosary are Holy Rosary in St. Amant at the Mass of Thanksgiving for the 50th An- the field. I had to walk two to three thank God every day that I can wonderful and generous, Tureau niversary of the Diocese of Baton Rouge. Photo by Laura Deavers | The Catholic miles to school. I never had to go to help those who are less fortunate said. Once a month, food collec- Commentator a gym or someplace for exercise,” than I am,” she said. tion barrels fill up as parishioners she added. Tureau said she left “God is just pushing me. He bring groceries while others send means so much to me.” I could play Pokeno or something school in 10th grade to take care of wants me to do this. My health is cash to help the less fortunate. Always active in ministries at like that, but this is more reward- her mother, who was ill and bed- good. It’s my mind that is not that “We seldom run out of food,” she Holy Rosary, Tureau said she was ing,” she said. ridden. She married in 1945 and sharp,” she said with a laugh. said. appointed to head the newly cre- She has also served as presi- she and her husband raised six Tureau is also handling Holy Tureau organizes the food in ated social responsibility com- dent of her church’s altar society, children, all of whom have gradu- Rosary’s Adopt-a-Family-for- the church pantry and uses the mittee in 1976, when the Diocese coordinated the senior citizens ated from college, she said. Christmas program, in which cash to order needed supplies of Baton Rouge asked each church outreach luncheons and taught “The Good Lord always gave me families in need are matched from area groceries. parish to start an outreach com- first-grade religion. She has twice energy. As long as I wear my ‘maw- with families willing to donate “It’s so rewarding to see that mittee. been named Ascension Civil Par- maw shoes,’ I have no trouble food baskets. everybody has food,” she said. “I “I’ve been chairman ever since. ish volunteer of the year. walking,” she said pointing to the “There is a larger demand at sometimes get hugs from people I guess nobody else wants it,” she Tureau said her husband passed soft, black leather, flat shoes on Christmas. People are really call- when they get their food. That said. “It keeps me out of trouble. away in 1961 while two of her six her feet. Golden opportunity available to those who want to help By Laura Deavers cause it is broken or no longer “This is what Vincent de Paul explained that this local jeweler, Because the current economy Editor used can be donated, and the did,” said Acaldo. “He asked who has much experience in pre- has created a double challenge owner can receive the value of wealthy people in France to give cious metals and gems, will de- on the Society of St. Vincent de People have a golden opportu- the gold as a tax credit for the their jewels and coins to him so termine the value of the gold and Paul – more people are in need nity to help the Society of St. Vin- charitable contribution. he could help the poor. Vincent will give each person donating of its services, and people are not cent de Paul provide shelter, food Michael Acaldo, executive di- realized if you don’t have finan- an item a receipt for the value of donating to it as much as they and medication to those who are rector of the Society of St. Vin- cial resources to buy food, you their charitable donation to the have in the past – Acaldo said in need in our community. Those cent de Paul, said a member of can’t help the poor.” Society of St. Vincent de Paul. he and his board of directors are who have gold are now able to his board of directors made the Those who are interested in Because it is a donation, that always looking for new ways to donate it to the society, which suggestion of letting people do- donating their gold to the Soci- amount can be used as a tax de- raise money. Years ago the idea has as its primary mission help- nate their gold jewelry when the ety of St. Vincent de Paul should duction on the person’s income of having people donate old cars ing the poor in this area. price of gold was rising to record call the office, 225-383-7837 taxes. that they no longer needed or With the current value of values and people in the jewelry to arrange a time that they can Acaldo added that if a piece wanted was tried as a new rev- gold at approximately $1600 an business were offering to pay meet with the jeweler who has of jewelry is of greater value be- enue source. Acaldo said many ounce, gold jewelry that is no for gold jewelry, coins and other agreed to handle this program cause of its design or age, it will other charitable organizations longer of value to the owner be- items made of gold. for the charitable agency. Acaldo not be melted to extract the gold now use this same idea because but will be kept intact to pre- of its successful implentation in serve the value of the piece. Baton Rouge. in cense: Thurible swung numerous times Fromg pa e 2 the priest and the people. Put us on your shopping list! that allow it to be swung releasing the smoke of the Relics and images of saints, exposed for public ...for unique & inspirational items – Advent wreaths & incense in several directions. veneration, are incensed with two swings of the candles, Christmas gifts; crosses; medals; crucifixes; Bibles; The number of swings given to the thurible de- thurible. books; sacramental items; home decor; jewelry and more! pends on the dignity of the person or thing that is The altar is incensed with a single swing of the being incensed. thurible. 40497 Black Bayou Ext., Ste. 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By Patricia Zapor periment” and a “Partnership for as constructive in some ways, and bishops themselves might say. For instance, she said, “what Catholic News Service the Common Good”; and laid out applicable to current time, for in- Coming to the defense of the if, instead, they set up an institute a commitment for the future. stance in the observations about document, E.J. Dionne, syndi- for Catholics and the economy? WASHINGTON ­— When the It was the product of several the concept of a moral economy cated newspaper columnist, a That still could be a wonderful pastoral letter “Economic Justice years’ work, including “town and how the economy has be- senior fellow at Brookings and a way of activating” the document. for All” was published by the U.S. hall” type discussions around the come depersonalized. professor at Georgetown’s Public Asked by a member of the bishops in November 1986, its re- country, which resulted in mul- Father Robert Sirico, co- Policy Institute, observed that “if audience how the bishops might lease was both the culmination of tiple drafts that were reviewed by founder and president of the the bishops had laid out a bunch regain the moral authority in so- years of work and the beginning of the bishops before the final letter Acton Institute for the Study of of economic principles and noth- ciety that they appear to have lost a sometimes heated public debate. was released. Religion and Liberty and a pro- ing else they would be criticized since the time of “Economic Jus- That debate continues today, In the Dec. 6 discussion, Ross ponent of free-market econom- for not being specific.” tice for All,” Douthat was quick as proved during a panel discus- Douthat, an op-ed columnist for ics grounded in Judeo-Christian The fourth panelist, Christine to say, to applause from the audi- sion Dec. 6 marking the publica- The New York Times, said his morality, agreed with Douthat’s Firer Hinze, a professor of Chris- ence: “The easiest way to reclaim tion’s 25th anniversary. “right-wing take” on the docu- assessment that the letter is one tian ethics at Fordham Univer- their moral authority is for some In a round-table discussion ment was fresh, as he’d just read example of the U.S. bishops “ex- sity, said the process the bishops of them who have been (some- convened by Georgetown Univer- it for the first time. ceeding their authority in an area went through to produce the pas- how) implicated in the sexual sity’s Berkley Center for Religion, He said he was particularly where they lack competency,” and toral letter was itself important. abuse scandal to resign.” Peace and World Affairs and the struck by the “naivete” with contended that such endeavors Town hall meetings were held Father Sirico said the bishops Governance Studies Program at which the bishops addressed the have “cost the bishops greatly in around the country at which need to be “men of prayer and Brookings Institution, self-de- economy of the Reagan era. He big and small ways.” people were invited to talk about pastoral concern in their dio- scribed conservatives and liber- said the letter paid “insufficient He said the bishops would be poverty and their troubles with ceses,” staying out of the public als squared off over the merits of attention to the imperative of better off spending their time and everyday life. She said produc- arena in areas that are not part of the pastoral letter, much as peo- economic growth,” and generally money on the salvation of souls ing drafts of the letter and put- their expertise. ple did in 1986. misfiredn i the places where the rather than in making public ting them out for public comment Dionne added that “The public The five-part letter looked at bishops sought to address spe- policy statements that he said are amounted to an amazing way of voice of the church has been so the church’s vision of economic cific economy aspects such as ag- “frankly embarrassing.” sharing the church’s teaching and narrowed for a lot of people who life, beginning with a discussion riculture policy. Father Sirico criticized the for the bishops to learn about think the church is only about of Christian principles and their He decried “a maddening staff of the U.S. Conference of people’s concerns. abortion and condemning” same- role in economic matters. It of- specificity by people who didn’t Catholic Bishops who managed Hinze also said she found the sex marriage and other sexuality- fered proposals for employment, have the policy chops to be so the writing of documents includ- document’s specific recommen- based issues. He said the church’s poverty, food and agriculture, specific,” saying their recommen- ing “Economic Justice for All,” dations to be its weakest element, public image is much more fo- and international development; dations were “naively liberal.” saying they were “liberal Demo- but said a greater problem is that cused on abortion and sexuality outlined a “New American Ex- But Douthat also saw the letter crats” who produce statements it wasn’t given the means of ful- and as a consequence the breadth that don’t represent what the filling its potential. of its rich social teaching is lost. Terry W. Bennett, E.A. Bennett’s Bookkeeping, Inc. • Income Taxes Archbishop Dolan identifies human dignity • Monthly Bookkeeping • Payroll Preparation as ‘primary doctrine’ of church 3752 North Blvd., Baton Rouge, LA 70806 NOTRE DAME, Ind. (CNS) — Dolan said. “Nor does my identity prise of defending human rights,” Ph. 225-343-4715, FAX 225-343-4726 Calling the dignity of the human depend upon whom I am sexually Archbishop Dolan said the Cath- [email protected] person “a primary doctrine” of attracted to, or to race, religion, olic doctrine of the dignity of the the Catholic Church, Archbishop gender, social status, bank ac- human person “startled the bru- Timothy M. Dolan of New York count, passport or health insur- tality of the Roman world with told an audience at the Univer- ance, but on my essence as a child its emphasis on the protection of Holy Gifts for the Season sity of Notre Dame Dec. 6 that it of God.” life, respect for the person, care must prompt Catholics “to treat The talk quoted from a wide for the vulnerable, (and) defense ourselves and others only with variety of sources – from Blessed of women, babies, children, fami- respect, love, honor and care.” John Paul II to a formerly drug- lies, elders and even slaves.” That doctrine also means peo- addicted Vietnam veteran, from “It gave rise to the greatest ple must not be identified “with Voltaire to a 20-year-old ex-pros- system of health care, education our urges, our flaws, our status, titute who came to World Youth and charity the world has ever our possessions, our utility,” but Day in Toronto on a dare in 2002 known,” he added. each seen as “a child of God, his and said it saved her life. The church that proclaims this creation, modeled in his own “When we mention Catholic doctrine “is not a shrill, crabby, image, destined for eternity,” he doctrines, we usually mention naysaying nag, but a warm, ten- said. the Trinity, the Incarnation, the der, gracious mother who invites, The archbishop, president of redemption, the Eucharist,” the embraces and nurtures her chil- the U.S. Conference of Catholic archbishop said. “I wonder why dren, calling forth from within Bishops, was delivering the inau- we never include the doctrine of the truth, beauty and goodness gural lecture in the university’s the dignity of the human person? she knows is within them,” the Beautiful Boxed Christmas Cards new Project on Human Dignity. It’s pivotal; it’s way up there; it’s archbishop said. “My identity, my personhood normative.” The doctrine of human digni- The little book store with a big ... does not depend on whether or Despite what he called the ty dictates the church’s position St. Mary's heart and a thirsting desire to Books & Gifts spread the Good News not I have a green card, a stock “caricature of the church ... that on abortion, immigration and 11232 Florida Blvd. • Baton Rouge, La. • (225) 272-4030 portfolio, a job, a home or even it had to be dragged kicking and the death penalty, among other a college diploma,” Archbishop screaming into the noble enter- topics, he said. December 14, 2011 FAMILY LIFE The Catholic Commentator 5 Video games offer challenges, opportunities for Catholic families

By Thomas L. McDonald age 50. Though gaming numbers action thus unfolds within a mor- Catholic News Service had skewed heavily male for most ally consistent world. of the industry’s existence, by The decision to let a game NEW YORK – Since Nintendo 2010, 48 percent of its audience machine enter the household is first captured the hearts, minds was female. one to be carefully considered and thumbs of a generation of Although impressive in them- by parents with young children. children in the 1980s, the video selves, these statistics don’t speak “We allowed the Xbox in our game industry has steadily in- to the issues underlying such a home when my oldest son saved creased in size, revenue, cultural rapid and widespread penetra- up enough money to purchase influence and sophistication. tion by a new medium into the it himself,” says Catholic author A form of entertainment that American home. Just as print, ra- and blogger Danielle Bean. “We began in the 1970s with the crude dio, movies, TV and the Internet saw it as a way to reward his re- dots and lines of “Pong” has have transformed society, so, too, sponsibility, and he has contin- evolved into a complex creative will games. ued to be responsible with it. ... form whose impact now ranks Many people associate the term When managed reasonably, the with that of movies, TV and pop- “games” with harmless pastimes Members of the Jimenez family play Wii video games at their home in Brighton, games can be a fun way for kids ular music. or childish diversions, yet mod- N.Y. Photo Mike Crupi | CNS to connect and socialize.” According to the Entertain- ern interactive entertainment can Cheryl K. Olson, co-author of ment Software Association, 72 be every bit as mature, and even trast, have positioned themselves This kind of ultraviolence sells: “Grand Theft Childhood,” the percent of American households sophisticated, as its cinematic as machines for teens and adults. “Modern Warfare 2” was the seminal Harvard University have a video game machine. Con- counterpart. The challenge lies Their lineups are dominated most successful media launch study on video games and vio- sumers spent $25.1 billion on in sorting out the diverse types of by violent games and advanced – across all genres – in history, lence, found that children who games in 2010, with those num- games and machines that char- sports titles, although both are earning $310 million in 24 hours, don’t play games have lost out on bers projected to hit $48 billion acterize the industry’s output, so trying to reach Nintendo’s family with final sales in excess of $1 bil- a vital element of socialization. for 2011 and $70 billion by 2012. parents and consumers can make audience as well. lion. “There’s a potential for games By comparison, worldwide mo- informed choices. The violent content of games Yet gratuitous mayhem is cer- to promote important school and tion picture ticket sales for 2010 The most family-friendly op- has been increasing for years, tainly not the whole story. Many life skills,” she explains, “such as were approximately $31 billion. tion is the Nintendo Wii. The driven by improved graphics and games are either free of graphic solving problems and anticipat- In studies of children ages 12- intuitive approach of its unique the perceived need to be more violence, or place it in a moral ing consequences. I remember 17, 99 percent of boys – and 94 motion-control system – which outrageous than the competition. context. watching my son play games such percent of girls – play video or allows people to get off their Once a teen-friendly World War “Bioshock,” for example, tells as ‘Legend of Zelda’ when he was computer games, with no vari- couches and make real move- II action game, the “Call of Duty” the complex story of a libertarian a young teen. He had to search, ables for race or ethnicity. And it’s ments – is matched by inoffen- series radically ratcheted up the dystopia, exploring issues of bio- plan, and try different approach- not just the kids who are playing: sive content. level of explicit gore on display ethics, morality, responsibility, es to advance. You don’t get those The average gamer is 37 years The Microsoft Xbox 360 and with last year’s “Modern Warfare politics, and the limits of person- kinds of benefits from watching old, with 29 percent of them over the Sony PlayStation 3, by con- 2.” al freedom; its sometimes violent cartoons or sitcoms on TV.” Celebrating Christmas with your ‘imperfect’ family t’s not your fault, thinking all Christmases, isn’t going to made pies, and on and on.) word and some help cleaning that Christmas, even Christ- be a total disaster just because 6. Because you’re imperfect, it up the roasted turkey, stuffing Imas with your family, should the lights on the house refuse makes great sense to move “get and platter shards that cover the be perfect. We humans tend to to twinkle as they should, to confession” to the top of your kitchen floor. romanticize the past, remember- “the” gift of the year is out of get-ready-for-Christmas list. 8. Rest assured that, years ing the good and forgetting what stock, the dinner rolls burn or Preparing spiritually can’t be from now, you’ll better see the was less than pleasant. a snowstorm keeps you stuck at overstressed. grace, the blessings, the love and Then, too, Christmas carols home for the day or stuck at your 7. And, speaking of stress, the funny moments of Christmas speak only of silent, holy nights parents’ home for three days. there’s no way around it. Even 2011 that, by then, really will and holly, jolly Christmases. 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I am a senior citizen on a fixed guilt for not finding a use for them. Both organ dona- that neither parents income. My kitchen table is now As for devotional articles – rosaries, tion and the gift nor grandparents could Qfull of what I call “mission mail,” medals, statues, etc. – if you were sure Aof a body to medi- be sponsors. I don’t all of it asking for donations. I have no that they had been blessed, the tradi- cal research at death understand this, since I idea what to do with all of the religious tional practice would be to dispose of are not only permitted was the sponsor for this prayer cards, address labels, greeting them by burning or burying them. but encouraged by the child’s sister only four cards, Mass cards, etc., that have been But when such objects are sent unso- Catholic Church. years ago. sent to me. It must be that some of these licited through the mail, they are almost The Catechism of the Could you please charities are selling my contact informa- never blessed beforehand; indeed, it Catholic Church (No. explain? (Floyds Knobs, tion to other ones, which I consider an would be irresponsible for an organiza- 2296) says that “organ Ind.) invasion of my privacy. tion to mail blessed objects without any donation after death is a Most of the requests are for $25, $50 assurance as to their proper use. noble and meritorious act What you heard or even $100; I contribute already to a So relax and do whatever you would and is to be encouraged is incorrect. number of Catholic organizations, but like with any of this “mission mail.” As as an expression of gener- AIt is true that I cannot give to every charity, and my for monetary donations, I feel certain ous solidarity.” Question Corner a parent cannot be a Social Security check only goes so far. that you are already doing more than In 1995, Blessed Pope confirmation sponsor, I am very discouraged. Please tell your share. These gifts are put to good John Paul II, in his encyc- Father Kenneth Doyle but grandparents are me what I should do with all this mail. use – missionary activity, medical clin- lical “The Gospel of Life,” certainly permitted to be (Coldwater, Ohio) ics, soup kitchens, etc. – but your own called organ donation “a and often are. resources are clearly limited, and your particularly praiseworthy example” of The Church’s Code of Canon Law Throw it away. These articles are first responsibility is to take care of your “everyday heroism” that offers “a chance (No. 893) stipulates that, with refer- not blessed; they are not devo- own basic needs. of health and even of life itself to the sick ence to sponsors, the same rules apply Ational objects but simply pictures, who sometimes have no other hope” (No. to confirmation as to baptism, and one and you may dispose of them in any Please comment on the church’s 86). of those rules (No. 874) clearly states manner that you see fit. position on organ donation. The necessary prerequisites are: the that a sponsor may “not be the father If you want to, and there is a conve- Q(West Windsor, N.J.) full, free and informed consent of the or mother of the one to be baptized.” nient way to see to their reuse, you might donor or those responsible for his care; No mention at all is made of grandpar- pass them on to someone else, but there Upon death, can Catholics do- and, in the case of organs harvested ents. is no obligation for you to do this. You nate their bodies to science: for from a deceased person, moral certitude The reason for excluding parents did not ask to receive these items, and it Qexample, to a medical school? of death by the use of cardiopulmonary is evident: The role of the sponsor is would be unfair to burden you with any (Edisto Island, S.C.) or neurological criteria accepted by the to assist the parents in the religious church. upbringing of their child. In explaining its anatomical donor Parents, in the Ritual of Baptism, program, Georgetown University’s are called “the first teachers of their Office of Evangelization & Catechesis School of Medicine explains that “dissec- child in the ways of faith,” and they will is offering “short courses” on tion of a human body by every medical nearly always be the primary influ- student is nothing less than an indis- ence on the religious outlook of their Catholic Sexual Morality pensable part of a first-rate medical children; but the church provides addi- education and of medical research in tional guidance in the person of spon- February 2, 9 & 16, 2012 (three consecutive Thursdays) general,” with the result that “the Catho- sors, so that the child will have an even from 6 to 9 p.m. at lic Church considers the donation of one’s greater likelihood of developing into a St. John the Baptist Church, Zachary body to science to be a formal expression true witness to the Christian faith. of love and concern for one’s fellow hu- A sponsor must be a Catholic who man beings.” has already received the sacraments of February 11 & 18, 2012 (two consecutive Saturdays) My own diocesan cemetery donates baptism, first Communion and confir- from 9:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. at grave sites and burial services for the mation, and who “leads a life of faith in St. Francis of Assisi, Donaldsonville internment of the cremated remains of keeping with the function to be taken those who had donated their bodies to on” (No. 874), and many grandparents The course is designed specifically for those who teach science. are well-qualified. sexual morality catechesis to students in In the past, I have been privi- FATHER DOYLE is a priest of the Diocese Parish Schools of Religion, Catholic Schools, Retreats or a leged to be the confirmation of Albany, N.Y., and has served as the Youth Ministry setting. Qsponsor for two of my grandchil- Rome bureau chief for Catholic News For more information, call 225-336-8760. dren, one in Kentucky and the other in Service. Readers may submit questions Indiana. Another grandchild is sched- to him at [email protected]. uled to be confirmed soon and was told and 40 Hopewell St., Albany, NY 12208. Catholic Sexual Morality Name To find an article, picture or information Church Parish/School that has appeared in a past issue of The Catho- Home Address lic Commentator, go to our website and type Phone Numbers what you are looking for in the find box. E-mail Not there, look in ISSUES (top bar) for Course Cost $45 (books included) complete issues that have run in the past. Please submit payment with registration to: Office of Evangelization & Catechesis P. O. Box 2028, Baton Rouge, LA 70821-2028 thecatholcicommentator.org Duplicate registration form as needed. December 14, 2011 SPIRITUALITY The Catholic Commentator 7 Remembering God’s love fuels love while waiting for his coming

By Debbie Shelley Assistant Editor Sometimes people have trouble moving forward

When people remember God’s faithful- with their lives because they are afraid to remember, ness, they can celebrate his presence now and joyfully anticipate what he will do in they experience pain when thinking about the past, the future, Sister Lucy Silvio CSJ said at a Dec. 3 Advent retreat, “We remember. or they lead busy lives. We celebrate. We believe.” The retreat, sponsored by the St. Jo- Sr. Lucy Silvo CSJ Associate director, St. Joseph Spirituality Center seph Spirituality Center, began with participants singing the hymn, “We re- member” to reinforce the message of the She commented that when Christ came, to bring Christ’s love into the world, said event. people had been expecting “just the right Sister Lucy. Remembering pulls people from their Sr. Lucy Silvo CSJ discusses the impor- person” to come and save the day. She She compared the anticipation of Ad- forgetfulness about what God has done tance of remembering God’s goodness stated that the people of Jesus’ time were vent to the germination of a seed. She in the past, stated Sister Lucy, pro vicar during an Advent retreat at the St. Joseph looking for someone who would lead the said although seeds are small and dry, for religious for the Diocese of Baton Spirituality Center on Dec. 3. Photo by Debbie overthrow of the rule of the Romans and they produce great plants. Rouge and associate director of the St. Shelley | The Catholic Commentator establish the perfect kingdom of heaven Sister Lucy added that planting seeds Joseph Spirituality Center. on Earth. They were looking for someone is risky because the seeds can fail. Some Sister Lucy said when people move Scripture passages: Abraham and Sar- who would solve their immediate prob- seeds also take a long time to grow. away from loved ones and familiar sur- ah’s hearing God’s promise that Abra- lems. Sowing and cultivating seeds of peace roundings, they may become disconnect- ham would be the father of many na- What Jesus did, however, was much is a process that involves the following ed from them. She gave an example of a tions; Abraham’s offering up of his only more important: he brought salvation for steps: living mindfully, or in the pres- man who returns to his hometown after son, Isaac; and Jacob’s dream in which mankind, Sister Lucy explained. ent moment; speaking the language of a long absence and finds he has forgotten God promises him that he and his de- She challenged the attendees to think peace; forming a community; working much about the people and geography of scendants would become a great nation about their own expectations concerning for justice; and prayer. his town. and be taken out of Egypt. Advent and the coming of Christ and to Participants ended the retreat by in- Sometimes people have trouble mov- Sister Lucy encouraged the retreatants accept him in whatever form he mani- voking the image of sowing seeds recit- ing forward with their lives because they to be like Abraham, Sarah, Isaac and Ja- fests himself. ing, “A Creed for the Sowing of the Seeds” are afraid to remember, they experience cob, and to remember God’s promises The retreat leader invited people to do from “Fresh Bread” by Joyce Rupp. They pain when thinking about the past or as well as their offerings, sacrifices and away with checklists concerning the type concluded with an anticipatory prayer they lead busy lives, noted Sister Lucy. dreams. Remembering helps people wait of savior they are looking for and develop asking God to bless them and strengthen Reading Scripture is a way to remem- with hope for the coming of Christ. Peo- a sense of waiting for a loved one’s arriv- their compassion to allow them to “let ber God’s goodness, according to Sister ple who have a relationship with him will al. Advent is not just about Mary, Joseph the wheat grow with the weeds until the Lucy. She focused on stories from three recognize him, stated Sister Lucy. and Jesus, but an invitation for people harvest of your love.” Christmas and the divinity of Jesus Christ

he church has a grave re- get there. human being; he is the Mes- When you say “Merry sponsibility to insist that 2. We do need God’s help to siah, the Christ, the incarnation Christmas” this year, remember Tthe purity of revelation be come home to heaven. of God. that the Divine Infant is the upheld. 3. Jesus is truly divine, and We need Jesus – and the incarnation of the holiness of Why? he teaches his followers to see church that he founded – to God. Because, in our pop culture, God’s face in everyone. teach us the truth of divine the divinity of Christ is con- 4. Jesus alone is the Christ; revelation. stantly being challenged. we are all invited to share in his There is a growing discon- FATHER CATOIR is chaplain of an One of the best-selling divine life. nection between pop culture emergency assistance program books in recent years was “A In a section of the book and the truth of Christianity. and writes on spirituality for Course in Miracles,” which entitled “Walking With Christ,” Jesus is Lord. Catholic News Service. has spawned dozens of other we read, “And what of him self-help books. It teaches pi- (Jesus)? What does he want of Tax-Deferred Annuities • IRA • Rollovers ous platitudes – and promotes you? ... If he be the leader or the theological errors! Spirituality follower to you, it matters not. Tired of Watching Here are just a few errors ... The voice you hear in him is Your Retirement % APY that I found in it: For Today but your own ... voice request- Funds Vanish in 3.75 1. “There is no need for help ing what you want.” the Stock Market? Includes Current Yield + to enter heaven, for you have Father John Catoir This is rubbish, pure heresy. 1% Bonus never left.” The ideas in this book will Don’t kiss your hard-earned retirement dollars goodbye. Instead, roll 2. God does not help because confuse and disquiet a person them over to Catholic Life Insurance and watch them grow! Because our there is no need for such help. It is possible to read his mes- of faith. They contain a denial fixed annuities are not tied to the ups and downs of the stock market, we guarantee that you’ll have more in our IRA or Annuity tomorrow than 3. Jesus was merely a man sage and benefit from it without of the divinity of Jesus, and a you have today. who saw the face of God in all accepting him into your life. rejection of his unique role in his brothers and sisters. The five preceding proposi- salvation history. They disre- 4. Jesus became identified tions are false. What is true is gard the essential idea that our with the Christ; this is what all the following: surrender to the objective will of you must become. 1. God is in heaven, we are of God is what Jesus demanded Call now: Frank Lamulle 5. Jesus is a carrier of a in the far country, and the wise of us. 504-458-0957 single message, the love of God. ones among us are striving to Jesus is not merely a gifted *Interest rates are subject to change & vary by plan. Rate guaranteed for 1st year. Minimum guarantee is 2.00% 8 The Catholic Commentator December 14, 2011 Our Lady of the Lake College, BRCC sign articulation agreement

To achieve the goal of better an associate of science degree in lege President Dr. Sandra S. care for patients, Our Lady of nursing from BRCC to enroll in Harper and BRCC Interim the Lake College has entered the bachelor of science in nurs- Chancellor Dr. James F. Horton into an agreement with Baton ing program at OLOL College. at a ceremony at OLOL College Rouge Community College to al- The articulation agreement on Dec. 9. Also present at the low students who have received was formalized by OLOL Col- signing of the agreement were Jim Purcell, commissioner of higher education, who oversees exterior shutters the operations of the Louisiana Custom Made New Orleans Style Exterior Shutters, View Carre Commission Approved. State Board of Regents and rep- resents the state’s postsecond- ary education committee; Mary Ann Coleman, president of the Louisiana Association of Inde- pendent Colleges and Universi- ties; and Jennifer Beck, dean of Mary Ann Coleman, left, president of the Louisiana Association of In- the Our Lady of the Lake School dependent Colleges and Universities, watches as Dr. Sandra Harper, of Nursing. president of Our Lady of the Lake College, and Dr. James Jr. Horton Trends in healthcare show Jr., interim chancellor of the Baton Rouge Community College, sign that medical facilities are in- the articulation agreement. Photo by Laura Deavers | The Catholic Commentator creasingly interested in hiring registered nurses who hold a nurses need to attain requisite lation agreement,” said Harper. bachelor of science in nursing. competencies to deliver high- “It has always been our prior- According to a 2008 Robert quality care.” OLOL College of- ity to offer greater educational Wood Johnson Foundation/ fers a wide spectrum of nursing resources for the community. Institute of Medicine report, programs, including a bachelor We believe working with these Visit our “Nurses should achieve higher of science in nursing and a mas- BRCC graduates will support showroom at levels of education and train- ter of science in nursing degree. those who wish to further their 6032 Crestmount Dr. ing to respond to increasing “It has been our pleasure to education and will ultimately Baton Rouge, LA demands. … Patient needs have work with Baton Rouge Com- make for better trained nurses become more complicated, and munity College on this articu- throughout the region.” Ministry and theology Each class is held on Saturdays from 8:30 AM to 4:30 PM at the Bishop Robert E. Tracy Center, 1800 S. Acadian Thruway, Baton 5500 St. Mary St. Metairie, LA 70006 Rouge. A Bible and the Catechism of the Catholic Church are to be www.cenaclesisters.org/metairie brought to each class. (504) 887-1420 (800) 699-4095 For more information, contact Office of Evangelization & Catechesis at (225) 336-8760 or e-mail: [email protected]. 2012 Spiritual Retreats MAT I MAT II January 6-8 – Recovery, Spirituality and Communication Baton Rouge Classes Only Baton Rouge Classes Only Presenter: Therese Griffin, MA, LISAC, ICADC  Creed  Luke/Acts January 13-15 – The Beatitudes: Key to Peace & Healing in the Worst of Times January 7 January 7 Presenter: Rev. Matt Linn, SJ  Christology  Pauline Literature January 28 January 28 January 20-22 – All for Me or Me for All?  Sacraments  Johannine Literature Presenter: Rev. Donald Blanchard February 25 February 25 January 21 – Young Adult Ministry – Morning of Reflection  Morality  Sacraments of Initiation Contact: Vince Liberto (504) 250-9697 March 24 March 24   January 27-29 – Women’s Ways of Knowing: Exploring the Feminine Path Evangelization, Catechesis, Mission Sacraments of Healing and Service to Holy Wisdom April 14 April 14 Presenter: Rev. Whitney Miller, PhD, LPC To register, please complete this form and mail both to: February 3-5 – Stitching the Spiritual Into Our Winter Hearts: Nurturing Office of Evangelization & Catechesis, Diocese of Baton Rouge, the Seeds of Our Gifts Presenters: Marlene Ortego & Mary Taylor P. O. Box 2028, Baton Rouge, LA 70821-2028  Enclosed is my $20.00 for each class checked on MAT Class Form; February 10-12 – If God is Good….Pain and Suffering in God’s World (Check one) MAT  I  II Presenters: Bonnie Chase, Charlene Rovira & Sr. Kathy Scott, r.c. February 24-26 – Daring the Dream: Faith, Friendship & Forgiveness NAME Presenter: Rev. Joseph Nassal, CPPS ADDRESS February 25 – Young Adult Ministry – Morning of Reflection Contact: Vince Liberto (504) 250-9697 CITY ZIP February 29-March 2 – The Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius Loyola Presenter: Rev. Peter Callery, SJ CHURCH PARISH/SCHOOL Ongoing Programs DAYTIME PHONE Call the Ministry Office: (504) 887-1420, ext. 225 for information. Cenacle Prayer Enrollment • Office Hours: 8:30 a.m. – 4:00 p.m. E-MAIL ADDRESS Phone: (504) 887-1810 | Fax: (504) 887-6624 | E-mail: [email protected] December 14, 2011 The Catholic Commentator 9

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Catholic youth from through- Joe Skibinski, Agent out the diocese focused on the 1953 Perkins Rd Baton Rouge, LA 70808 true spirit of Advent by looking Bus: 225-387-0201 Toll Free: 888-281-0201 to Christ as their role model for [email protected] serving others during a Music, Prayer and Play/Pizza (MP3) P045151 4/04 rally, “Emmanuel – Christ Is Coming,” on Saturday, Dec. 10, http://www.bumbabella.com at St. Michael High School. Following opening icebreak- Custom Made, Hand Smocked ers, games and music, the youth heard from Joe Bass, religion Dresses, Gowns & Bonnets: coordinator, campus ministry Christening, director and assistant football coach at Catholic High School of Flower Girl, Christmas, Pointe Coupée. First Communion, Easter Bass shared a favorite tradi- 2415 Dogwood Ave. tional Advent story about a ten- Youth move to “Just Dance” videos during an MP3 rally Dec. 10 at St. (225) 284-1098 Baton Rouge, LA 70808-2123 der-hearted boy from Lutcher Michael High School. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator told to him by his father. Bass said the boy was assigned Christ away, even when pretend- Next, the youth ate pizza, the part of the innkeeper in the ing, said Bass. played on inflatables and moved Christmas play. His one line was While reflecting on that story to “Just Dance” videos. to tell Mary and Joseph that Bass said he discovered that to Following the recreational he was sorry, but there was no say yes to Christ means that we time, Bishop Robert W. Muench room in the inn for them. But he allow him to teach us how to talked to the youth about God’s couldn’t say it. serve others rather than treating love for them. When it came time for the him as a maid service. Through Acknowledging that the youth boy to say his one line during such humble obedience, Christ may feel pressure to be perfect, the bishop told the attendees that their worth is not based on their striving for perfection. Rather, it is based on their sin- cere efforts to accept God’s love, and to follow the way of love TOYS and to receive all the graces that come from it. While people like to receive NEEDED! and give gifts at Christmas, Bishop Muench said, the most Help us share the Christmas important thing about Dec. 25 spirit! Bishop Robert Muench will be at the St. Vincent de is that Jesus, love himself, is Paul Dining Room to distribute gifts to homeless and here. While they may not be needy children. TOYS ARE NEEDED! able to see love, they know it is there, the same way they cannot The Needy of Greater Baton Rouge, has Bishop Robert W. Muench leads eucharistic adoration at an MP3 rally see oxygen but know it is there teamed up with St. Vincent de Paul for “The Dec. 10 at St. Michael High School. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator because their lungs crave it. St. Nicholas Challenge.” For every new gift Some people may feel that you donate, they will match it with a new gift rehearsals, he always said “yes” will take us on the road to where God loves everyone but them of equal value. Recognizing that our effort instead of “no.” he wants us to be. He empha- because they don’t deserve his follows the tradition of St. Nicholas himself, the Needy of The day of the play came, and sized that, like the magi, who love. Bishop Muench reminded Greater Baton Rouge wants to challenge people to ensure the nervous organizers told the were told in a dream not to re- the youth that accepting his boy he would have to tell Mary turn on the same road they took love has to do with his gracious- that we have enough gifts for all the children who will be and Joseph no or they wouldn’t to see the Christ Child, the youth ness. He encouraged the youth coming to us in need. be able to go to the stable so Je- would not be able to go back on to accept themselves as they are The children served at this event are some of the most sus could be born and save the the same road they had traveled. and cooperate with God’s love vulnerable in our community: children from our world. Bass said the same child who and grace. homeless shelter that won’t have a chance to sit on Santa’s Bass said the play was going was born in a manger is the God One way of cooperating with beautifully when it came time for of heaven and earth who stretch- God’s love is through the sacra- lap; kids that eat at our Dining Room and depend on our the boy to say his line. Shaking, es out his mighty hands to them. ment of reconciliation, said the food services for their well being; boys and girls that the boy said, “I’m sorry but there He will ask whether they want to bishop. He invited the youth to won’t receive a Christmas present. is no room in the inn for you.” As follow him on the road he wants participate in the sacrament, We are collecting new toys for this effort and need your Mary and Joseph were leaving them to be on or take the road which was made available to he said, “While you are here, why that the world wants them to go them by several priests from support. You can make a financial gift (financial gifts are don’t you stay and have some- down. Bass stated he hopes the the diocese who were present. also matched) by sending your contribution to St. Vincent thing to drink.” attendees, like the tender-heart- The rally ended with eucha- de Paul-Toy Drive, P. O. Box 127, Baton Rouge, LA 70821 People should be like that ed boy from Lutcher, will not be ristic adoration led by Bishop or give online at svdpbr.org. If you are interested in young boy, who could not turn able to say no to him. Muench. donating a toy, call (225) 383-7837, ext. 201, for more info.

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BISHOPS AT 50th ANNIVERSARY MASS — The bishops who attended the Mass of Thanksgiving celebrating the 50th Anniversary of the Diocese of Baton Rouge are, from left, Bishop C. Michael Jarrell of Lafayette, Bishop Glen John Provost of Lake Charles, Bishop Sam G. Jacobs of Houma-Thibodaux, Bishop Ronald P. Herzog of Alexandria, Abbot Justin Brown OSB of St. Joseph Abbey in Covington, Archbishop Alfred C. Hughes of New Orleans, Bishop Robert W. Muench of Baton Rouge, Archbishop Gregory M. Aymond of New Orleans, Bishop Shelton J. Fabre of New Orleans, Bishop Terry Steib SVD of Memphis and Bishop Michael A. Duca of Shreveport. Photo by John Ballance Homily given by Archbishop Alfred C. Hughes at the Golden Jubilee Mass of the Diocese of Baton Rouge: Nov. 6, 2011

It is good to return to Tiger town! To the town of the Today, we rejoice in the 50 years of grace, offered and the farms, the Hungarians who came to work the railroad, No. 1 Tigers! received. the Irish who built so many canals in south Louisiana, the What a joyous moment for the Church in Baton Rouge! Thanks be to God for the multitude who have realized Eastern Europeans who fled first Nazi and then Commu- I consider it a great privilege, Bishop Muench, to be in- their destiny, joyfully and victoriously ... and we pray for nist domination, in recent years Asians, especially those vited to preach at the Eucharist marking the Golden Ju- those who may need further purification before seeing who escaped Vietnam after the fall of Saigon. bilee of the founding of the Diocese of Baton Rouge. I join the face of God. I suspect that no diocese in Louisiana, including New with your and my brother bishops who have made the We can view the history of 50 years through multiple Orleans, has been more successful in bringing together special effort to participate in this impressive Eucharist. lenses. For instance, each diocese is partially impacted people of such diverse racial or ethnic backgrounds into In a special way, I bring warmest congratulations in the by the bishops who have served. Each decade of the his- one body, God’s Church; under one head, in one faith, name of Archbishop Aymond and your Mother diocese, tory of this diocese has been marked by the service of through one baptism, in worship of the one Father, by New Orleans. In 1961 you became the 37th daughter di- a different bishop. Bishop Tracy founded the diocese the power of the one Holy Spirit. I suspect no city in the ocese of New Orleans in a family that now includes 48 and brought an enthusiastic vision for the implemen- United States has belonged to so many distinct coun- daughter dioceses. You were indeed “born in the spirit of tation of the Second Vatican Council; Bishop Sullivan tries: France, England, Spain, the Republic of West faith,” as the theme you have chosen for this year’s jubilee brought a concern for orthodoxy in Church faith; Bishop Florida, the USA, the Republic of Louisiana, the Confed- observance expresses. Ott brought the personal witness of holiness of life as he eracy, and then the USA again. Yet the Church, under all As the Church moves toward the final weeks of the li- gave himself to a graced work of promoting unity and of these governments, has emerged remarkably free to turgical year, she presents to us scriptural readings re- reconciliation; I attempted to give a special focus to the engage public officials and impact public policy here in lated both to our sojourn in this world and the need for implementation of the new Catechism of the Catholic the state capital. readiness for our eternal destiny in the world to come. Church and the spiritual formation of the faithful; Bish- Our second reading today, then, offers us an inspired The Book of Wisdom urges us to recognize the unique op Muench is currently engaged in a spiritual evangeliza- description of this local church: There are different kinds gift that wisdom is. Today’s reading portrays wisdom as tion of the whole diocese, especially of the young. of spiritual gifts, but the same Spirit; there are different an image of God, personally seeking out those who are We can also document the history of the diocese forms of service, but the same Lord; there are different receptive and revealing himself to those who truly seek. through those who offered other forms of leadership. workings, but the same God who produces all of them in Wisdom places earthly events in a divine perspective Priests in the parishes, religious in schools and special everyone.” Yes, the Diocese of Baton Rouge is one body and thus diminishes anxiety in this life. The gift of wis- ministries, and lay collaborators have helped shape the with many parts working together for the saving mission dom thus becomes an image, foreshadowing the divine life and services of so many. of the Lord Jesus Christ. gift of the Holy Spirit, which God was to pour out on his But the real story in the Diocese of Baton Rouge, I sub- This diocese takes seriously listening to the Word of God Church at Pentecost. We can say today, God has sought mit, is the laity. From the beginning you have played a and celebrating the mysteries of faith in sacrament. This out the members of this local church and forged them foundational role in shaping the life of this Church. Let diocese has a remarkable record of outreach to those in into one body, one spirit. us never forget that the name, Baton Rouge, which Pierre need. I want to express in a special way my personal in- The Gospel parable of the 10 bridesmaids is one of the LeMoyne d’Iberville gave to this area as he mapped the debtedness and that of the Archdiocese of New Orleans parables Jesus uttered toward the end of his human life. Mississippi River and the original French colonial terri- to the self-sacrificial efforts of this diocese in our hour of The obvious message urges us to be prepared for the com- tory, derived from the Red Pole which marked an agree- need after Hurricane Katrina. Your welcome to me and to ing of the Divine Bridegroom, whenever he may come at ment on how two Native American tribes would respect so many New Orleanians, your magnanimous financial the end of our personal lives and at the end of time. We one another and their hunting grounds. This symbol of support, your enabling us to mount first a rescue and then are reminded that our opportunity to help one another co-existence and mutual respect has become a symbol a recovery effort, in the first months, from Baton Rouge ... will come to an end on that day and at that hour. We will and a catalyst for the welcome of multiple people into all contributed to an historic collaborative effort between no longer be able to share from our flasks of oil, our faith, one Church: not only the original Native Americans but two dioceses in the face of tragedy. hope and love. Each will meet the Lord as she or he is. also the French, the Africans who came mostly as slaves, May this present moment of celebration be the occasion These scriptural passages from the Sunday liturgy apt- the English, the Cajuns who escaped the derangement in for gratitude to God for his grace in the past and a recom- ly focus on the mission of any local church: to help pre- Acadia, the Spanish who received custody of the French mitment to renewal and evangelizing zeal for the future. pare her members to welcome the Lord when he comes colony after the French and Indian War, the Germans who May God bless abundantly this Diocese of Baton Rouge to call them to participate in the eternal wedding feast. escaped the Kulturkamp, the Italians who came to work and, through this local Church, the wider Church as well. December 14, 2011 The Catholic Commentator 11 How do Catholics celebrate Christmas in a multifaith society?

Taking a cue from the culture wars, the Christmas war someone of another faith can be a great opening for friend- is upon us again. This edition of Viewpoints looks at how ship and interfaith understanding — and even evangeliza- Catholics celebrate Christmas in a multifaith society. Tom tion. Liz Quirin says that by being Christ to others, we can Sheridan says that proclaiming “Merry Christmas” to be more of a catholic Catholic than we knew was possible. Being more of a catholic Catholic

By Liz Quirin It doesn’t matter if they’re Catholic or Protestant or Jewish or nothing at all. We are not the “religion police,” s it me, or do those bell-ringers outside the grocery nor are we the arbiters of gracious behavior. and big-box stores seem like they’re starting earlier But we can be understanding of people who may not Iand earlier? The Scouts already snagged the bag of be accustomed to being on the receiving end of someone food from the front porch, and I need to make another else’s largesse. It might just be tough to be unable to pro- trip to the store to replenish my own shelves. The other vide for one’s family, to accept instead of to give. day I heard someone on NPR say we should give money So when that bell rings or that opportunity presents instead of food to banks and pantries because we could itself to provide food or volunteer to deliver a meal here get more “bang for our buck” in the food giveaway de- or there, we ought to be grateful if we can give. partment. That “cup of kindness” has no denomination stamped I feel like I’m being beaten down with requests for on it, and by being Christ to someone else, we can be almost everything I own – food, furniture, clothes, ap- more of a catholic Catholic than we knew was possible. A young woman and man dressed as Mary and Joseph pliances. I’ve counted the request envelopes on my table, process down a street in 2008 in Chicago as part of the and it’s disheartening both because so many need help Quirin is editor of The Messenger, newspaper of the annual “posada,” a traditional Christmas festivity in the and because I don’t have a store full of food or a bank full Diocese of Belleville, Ill. Spanish culture. CNS Photo by Karen Callaway | Catholic New World of cash to give away. However, people of many faiths donate not only their material goods but also their time as volunteers in com- Christmas and culture: What should Catholics do? munity food pantries. While these places are not always necessarily Catholic, so many of the people stocking the By Tom Sheridan Not necessarily. Being determined might be a better shelves and filling the orders are people of faith, includ- option. Christmas has long had a secular component. ing Catholics. Everybody just wants to help, to give back huge billboard in rural and deeply Christian Today, though, it’s threatening our rich Christian if they are able. The same is true for shelters, especially Florida promotes Sikhism, touting the India- roots. Nevertheless, commerce and Santa won’t push crisis shelters. Acentered religion as the world’s fifth largest. But out Christmas and the Christ Child – unless you let it In one community in our diocese, the parish donates you can bet they won’t be hanging Christmas lights happen. a portion of its proceeds from a fundraiser to the local from it. That was the point made in November by New York women’s crisis center. The center is not Catholic, but that The roadside advertisement highlights America’s Archbishop Timothy M. Dolan, addressing the general doesn’t really matter to that parish or to the center staff. struggle with its faith identity. Even as the Christmas assembly of the U.S. bishops in Baltimore. He said: In the giving and receiving, everyone has an opportu- season marks the high point of our public celebration “It is always a risk for the world to hear the church, nity to connect on a very personal, human level. In that as a Christian nation, many Americans fear diversity for she dares the world to ... foster and protect the invio- instance, everybody wins. and rampant commercialism are rotting the roots of lable dignity of the human person and human life; ... to In another small community, the parish will be the holiday. protect marriage and family; to embrace those suffering presenting its Advent evensong for everyone, not just That two-pronged paradox – celebrating the Sav- and struggling; to prefer service to selfishness.” Catholics. The candlelight service draws people in to hear ior’s birth in an increasingly secular and multifaith In other words, if we want to keep Christ in Christ- Scripture readings in English and German. It warms the culture – is America’s challenge and opportunity. That mas, we must publicly challenge the very non-Gospel heart and crosses denominational lines. is especially true for Catholics. ways in which our society, Christian and otherwise, Establishing a connection through prayer at this time Even whether the United States is – or was sup- conducts itself. of year can succeed in fostering ecumenism more than posed to be – a “Christian” nation remains at the core And what of celebrating the birth of Jesus in a any number of meetings and discussions, although they of a lively cultural and political debate. Despite the multifaith culture? In this diverse nation, while we have are important, too. rhetoric, however, our nation wasn’t as Christian when no right to expect universal adherence to the true spirit We do need to know more about our Jewish friends founded as the political right would like to believe. we feel, we should, instead, work to be the people who and the traditions that they bring to the table at this time Many Founding Fathers, including Thomas Jefferson, make Christ present in the midst of the tinsel and lights. of year. Hanukkah mystifies some folks, but that mystery were deists who honored Jesus’ words while often That means treating our non-Christian neighbors would be solved with some research and information. discounting his divinity. with respect. Not to do so would be, well, un-Chris- This year, the eight-day Festival of Lights begins Dec. Of course, it surely is Christian, at least culturally, tian. For centuries, society placed Catholics on the 20. Some parishes reach out to Jewish neighbors and since most of its inhabitants were – and are – believ- margins of society; in colonial times Maryland (Mary’s ask them to share their traditions. Maybe a few spins of ers. But even within that reality, there are serious Land) was a de facto Catholic ghetto. the dreidel or Adam Sandler’s “Hanukkah Song” would splits. Some Protestant groups don’t consider Catholics True Christians will not likewise marginalize oth- enlighten everyone. to be Christians and are suspect of others. Witness the ers for their beliefs, especially in a nation that can be As we careen toward Christmas with our praying and darts being tossed at former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt stronger and more united when it embraces its diver- our shopping, our baking and our decorating, our donat- Romney’s Mormon faith. sity. Sure, toss a buck into the Salvation Army kettle. ing and our gifting, we need to remember the reason for That’s not even mentioning Jews — whose New That’s a religion, too, you know. our celebration. With Christ in mind, we will always reach World traditions run as deep as anyone else’s — or To be Christian is to be welcoming. “Catholic,” of out to others, especially those who need our help. newcomers such as Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists, course, means “universal.” So go ahead, proclaim And this year, more than years past, we see so many Jains, Sikhs and so many more. “Merry Christmas” to a Sikh. Or a Hindu. It’ll be a people in need. The question isn’t whether we help them And yes, despite the carols blaring from stores and great opening for some friendship and interfaith shar- but how much help we can give them. lighted trees in town squares, our nation’s Christmas ing. Or even evangelization. We need to accept that people in need are not always celebrations, the public ones at least, have become ever polite or grateful. Sometimes they’re pushy and loud; more secular. Blame that on rampant commercialism Sheridan is a former editor of the Catholic New World, sometimes they look ungrateful; sometimes we can’t be- and the growing muscle of corporations who revere newspaper of the Archdiocese of Chicago, and a deacon lieve how disgraceful their behavior is when we’re trying the almighty dollar rather than the Almighty. ordained for the Diocese of Joliet, Ill. He writes from to help them. It’s a sad reality, but do we need to be upset by it? Ocala, Fla. 12 The Catholic Commentator YOUTH December 14, 2011 Students nominated for Herff Jones Principal’s Award Three students from the Dio- broadcast journalism or elemen- cese of Baton Rouge have been tary education. As a student nominated by their schools for council officer and now presi- the National Herff Jones Princi- dent, Daugherty helped engineer pal’s Award. and debut the school’s weekly Alex Matte, a senior at Catholic Web pod cast. High School of Pointe Coupée, is Brian Primeaux, a senior at a member of Key Club, Beta Club Catholic High School, is a mem- and Fellowship of Christian Ath- ber of student ministry, National letes. He also participates on Honor Society, soccer team, the varsity soccer and quiz bowl Bears Against Destructive Deci- teams. Matte is an Eagle Scout. sions (BADD) and the following Working on a Habitat for Humanity project are St. Michael High School Lady Warrior basketball team mem- state championship teams: cross bers, from left, Katie Palmer, Celia Crifasi, Glynn O’Neill and Molly Kelly. Photo provided by St. Michael High School country, track and swimming. As president of the CHS choir, Primeaux has made all-district St. Michael students respond to community’s needs and all-state honor choir for four consecutive years. He cantors at St. Michael the Archangel High combined 20,000 plus hours an- women while encouraging bond- school and church Masses and School ministers to its school nually throughout the commu- ing among her team. plays in a band. family and the community year- nity,” said Taylor Morrison, a ju- The group served the women round through its Christian Ser- nior shooting guard for the Lady and children of the St. Vincent vice Program. Warrior basketball team. “The de Paul Society’s Women’s Shel- “We strive to give back to our basketball service program, in ter. greater community simulta- particular, is a way for us as “We played with the children neously while also building a teammates to get to know one as well as packed and served sense of community within our another and grow closer all while lunches in the dining room,” school,” said Tami Reynolds, feeling happy and grateful that said senior shooting guard Vic- athletic director. “In athletics, we can help others.” toria Harrison. “The most fun, Alex Matte we take this idea one step further This “to those who have been though, was when we broke up and create that sense of commu- given much, much is expected” in teams within our basketball Shelby Daugherty is the St. Mi- nity on our teams by giving back attitude Reynolds and her coach- team and actually created a chael the Archangel High School to others in need. While serv- es instill helps give student ath- menu of lasagna, macaroni, sal- student body president. She is ing others, we are also building letes life-long lessons on how to ad and dessert, cooked the meal also a member of Spirit Club, a rapport amongst our teammates help and make a positive impact specifically for the women and school ambassador and a mem- whom we will need to know and on others. children the shelter serves, and ber of Beta Club. Daugherty trust on the court or field.” “When I leave the dining room then served them that evening.” volunteers at the Greater Baton Brian Primeaux Reynolds, her fellow War- at St. Vincent de Paul or a Habi- The Habitat Women’s-Only Rouge Food Bank. Her senior rior coaches and their student tat build, I don’t feel like I have build was another project the service project is to study the Primeaux is an All-American athletes do this through service worked or ‘done service hours for Lady Warriors took on. topic, “What right does a St. Mi- triathlete and nationally ranked projects specific to their sport the school.’ I feel fortunate, ful- “We installed insulation and chael High School student have in USA Triathlon. which are part of the larger filled and thrilled to have helped siding on more than half of the to waste food when so many chil- Additionally, Primeaux and SMHS Christian Service Pro- others,” said Morrison. four-bedroom home, all while dren in the Baton Rouge area go a few other teens founded Meet gram. Reynolds led Morrison and building team camaraderie, but hungry?” The Challenge, a nonprofit or- “The Christian Service Pro- the rest of the Lady Warrior bas- more importantly, we gave smiles ganization that funds educa- gram is the mechanism through ketball team on two pre-season and ownership to a very deserv- tion abroad, which recently sent which we as students volunteer a service projects, which benefited ing family,” said Harrison. $6,700 to a school run by the Brothers of the Sacred Heart in Mozambique. JOURNEY BACK IN TIME – St. Primeaux has participated in Peter Chanel School’s fourth- a mission trip to an Indian res- and fifth-graders attended the ervation in Klagetoh, Ariz. He Louisiana Renaissance Festival taught swimming lessons to in Hammond on Nov. 17. The underprivileged children. He re- students encountered magi- ceived the Greater Baton Rouge cians, jesters, ogres and the State Fair Volunteer Award as a Pickle Man, who sang as he junior at CHS for outstanding sold pickles. Entertainment service in the community. included a comedy duo with The Herff Jones Award is dogs, a glass blower and joust- presented to students based on ing. The students also saw birds Shelby Daugherty leadership qualities, participa- of prey. With a medieval knight tion in community and campus re-enactor are, from left, Codi Daughtery has received honors service organizations and clubs. Dicharry, Isabella Bodin, Dray for her excellence in academics, Winners will be announced in Louque, Caitlyn Cullen, Chase and plans to attend LSU to study the near future. Bodin, Kate Kliebert, Logan Holley, Alex Beier, Jessica Dick- Check out youth news on our website: et and Brynn Lundy. 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Many younger students want to be like high school juniors and seniors; therefore, student minis- ters tap into the rapport many of them have with younger students to mold their faith life by leading them in retreats. At Catholic High School, stu- dent ministers learned to lead retreats by attending a three-day training session at St. Stanislaus Redemptorist High School student ministry members hosted a fifth- College in Bay St. Louis with stu- grade retreat at Holy Family School on Oct. 21. With RHS students Al- dents from Brother Martin High lison Rachal and Deno Mullens are, from left, front row, Devin Romig, School in New Orleans, St. Stan- Peter Anderson, Delaney Langlois; middle row, Adam Budd; back islaus College and St. Scholastica row, Brendan Dunbar. Photo provided by Holy Family School High School in Covington. The CHS students said the opportu- member, had lost his sister in a from St. Joseph’s Academy said nity to meet new people, share car accident a couple of years ago. when they were underclassmen, Beautiful gift items for a blessed giving season! faith, exchange ideas and develop During a fifth-grade retreat he they looked up to the senior stu- Wishing everyone a Holy Christmas Season decision-making and leadership helped lead at Holy Family School dent ministers, who appeared to skills at the training session is a on Oct. 21, a girl whose grand- them to be “really cool.” Catholic Art & Gifts™ highlight of the year. They said mother died was assigned to Mill- Because the underclassmen A Retail Division of F.C. Ziegler Co. Church Supply their peers reinforce them in their er’s small group. Miller helped her see the student ministry mem- 6184 Florida Blvd. • Baton Rouge, LA 70806 ministry. process her struggles concerning bers around campus, they watch 225-926-1216 • 1-800-331-4117 • FAX 225-926-1244 The CHS high school ministry her grandmother’s death. them to see if they live out the www.zieglers.com • M-F: 9-5, Sat: 9:30-4:30 students enjoy going back to the Allison Rachal, a RHS senior faith they profess, according to Catholic elementary schools they student ministry team member, Stephanie Toups, a senior stu- attended and finding the students said some of students recognize dent ministry member at SJA. One Family In Mission are just like themselves when them from the retreats. Rachal, She said many freshmen re- (Alternate photo) they were younger. who is also a member of Holy treat attendees feel uncomfort- BeBe an ‘angel’ like Sister Margaret… “I think it helps us to see how Family Church in Port Allen, able opening up, so the leaders far we’ve come from where we said students who attended that ask questions of the quiet group Sister Margaret Mweshi is an were at their age,” said Quentin Holy Family retreat tell her they members and encourage them to Virgets, a senior CHS campus recognize her when they see her talk about their lives. “angel” to some 40 children in ministry member. at work in a grocery store in Port Toups added the student min- northern Zambia — revealing Brady Sperier, also a senior Allen. istry members learn to work as a to each one, every day, the CHS campus minister, said small Victoria Mercer, a sophomore team to minister to the students. “Good News” of God’s love, group discussions, icebreakers, RHS student ministry member, “If you don’t work together as a just like the angel did that group mixer activities, prayer and said it is important to engage the group, it doesn’t work,” she said. first Christmas. faith sharing help participants re- younger students at the retreats According to SJA senior retreat late to each other and the retreat through interactive activities. “If team member Mary Rolfsen, as leaders. you get them interested in what the retreat team members work Sister Margaret runs a Redemptorist High School stu- they are doing, they will get a lot together, they build friendships home where these little ones receive dent ministers discovered that more out of it,” Mercer said. and learn about themselves. treatment and physical therapy for their divine providence places some of The student ministers also lead “It’s cool to see how close we’ve disabilities. “I know that I have to do the students in their small group. retreats for the underclassmen at come together as a class, espe- more than provide medical help,” she Bryan Miller, a RHS junior their respective schools. cially during our senior retreat,” campus ministry retreat team Senior retreat team members Rolfsen said. says. “I have to be a mother to them.”

This Christmas, will you be an “angel” for the Missions? Will ST. NICHOLAS RETREAT – St. Thomas More you support the work and witness of local Sisters School held a retreat focusing on St. Nicho- through the Society for the Propagation of the Faith? las on his feast day, Dec. 6. Students made bishop hats and gifts for their parents, prayed with their prayer partners and drew pictures for the prisoners at Angola. Father The Society for THE PROPAGATION OF THE FAITH Jerry Martin, pastor of St. Patrick Church in …a Pontifi cal Mission Society Baton Rouge, spoke with the children about Diocese of Baton Rouge

how St. Nicholas helped other people. He Attn: Column; Dept. C explained to the students that St. Nicholas P.O. Box 2028 was a bishop who helped write the Nicene Baton Rouge, LA 70821-2028 Enclosed is my Christmas gift for the Missions of $______Creed. STM first-grade teacher Suzie Cronan helps Mary Frances Hosea pin her star on the Name ______first-grade retreat Nativity scene banner. Address ______Photo provided by St. Thomas More School City______State______Zip______

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210 222 If I Die Young Refrain: There’s a boy here in town, says he’ll love 243 2 If I die young, bury me in satin; Lay me me forever; Who would have thought forev- 265 2728292 down on a bed of roses; Sink me in the river er could be severed by; at dawn; Send me away with the words of a The sharp knife of a short life, well; I’ve had 31320 333435363 love song just enough time 387 39304 Uh oh, uh oh So put on your best, boys, and I’ll wear my 421 43444 pearls; What I never did is done; 465 47484 Lord, make me a rainbow, I’ll shine down A penny for my thoughts, oh no, I’ll sell ‘em on my mother; She’ll know I’m safe with for a dollar; They’re worth so much more 409 5152535 you when she stands under my colors; Oh, after I’m a goner; And maybe then you’ll 55564 575 and life ain’t always what you think it ought hear the words I been singing; Funny when to be, no; Ain’t even gray, but she buries you’re dead how people start listening 598 506 her baby 621 636 (Repeat refrain.) The sharp knife of a short life, well; I’ve had 654 666 just enough time Uh oh (uh oh) moc.scilohtacrofsemagdrow.www (Repeat refrain.) The ballad of the dove; Go with peace and ACROSS 2 Diciembre follower love; Gather up your tears, keep ‘em in your 1 Close 3 Pains 5 Cyberauction site 4 Dried grape The sharp knife of a short life, well; I’ve had pocket; Save ‘em for a time when you’re re- 9 Hicks 5 Restriction on commerce just enough time ally gonna need ‘em, oh; 14 South American Indian 6 Domineering The sharp knife of a short life, well; I’ve had 15 Underground mammal 7 Charity 16 Make real 8 Nevertheless And I’ll be wearing white when I come into just enough time 17 Pop classic 9 Outcome your kingdom; I’m as green as the ring on 18 Cellar (abbr.) 10 Clown ride my little, cold finger; I’ve never known the So put on your best, boys, and I’ll wear my 19 From that time 11 Financial institution 20 “…as we forgive those who 12 “___ homo” loving of a man; But it sure felt nice when pearls ___…” 13 Mob follower? he was holding my hand 22 Constrict 21 Mass sign 23 Socks 22 There were 3 popes with this Sung by The Band Perry | Copyright © 2010 by Republic Nashville 24 ___ of the Mohawks name in the 20th century 25 Annoy by persistent faultfind- 24 Capital of Tibet ing 27 “He is seated at the right ___ 26 Cupboards of the Father.” 30 Payment due letters 28 Islamic chieftain reader from Holy Ghost there is no right time to die. Because 33 Partner of Damian 29 Foretell Church in Hammond, of this fact, we should not be focus- 36 Sanctuary ___ 30 Heroic La., who reads this ing on when we will die, but how we 37 Catholic horror actor 31 Book containing calendar of A column in The Catholic Com- should live this day. 39 Carol contraction Masses 40 City in Ohio 32 Demeanor mentator, asked me to review To do this living, focus on what 41 Notion 34 Steps for scaling a fence “If I Die Young” by The Band you love. Each of us has been 42 ___ of the Sacred Heart 35 East coast engineering sch. Perry. This group is made up given by God the chance to give and 44 A parish position (abbr.) 38 “…one, holy, ___ and apos- 45 Regulate tolic…” of siblings Kimberly, Reid and receive bunches of love. So what 47 Maximum (abbr.) 40 Compound tissue in vascular Neil Perry. counts is not how many years we live 49 In this place plants As far as I know, they but how well we love. 50 United States 42 “___ have mercy” 54 Catholic actor-governor 43 Some codes are not related to megastar Many times, life presents us with Schwarzenegger 46 Articles of clothing or bones pop recording artist Katy situations and people that are easy 57 Incinerates of saints Perry. However, they are doing to love. We move easily into appre- 58 “Regina ___” 48 Went along the lines quite well in their own right. ciating and enjoying such moments. 59 “I will ___ no evil for thou art 50 Middle Easterners On The Record with me.” (Ps 23:4) 51 Where Vatican City is Their basic sound is country, In fact, the love involved in such mo- 60 Metal containers 52 Perfume the altar perhaps tinged with a bit of Charlie Martin ments is likely to take us completely 61 Shenanigan 53 Biblical animals bluegrass. out of time. We forget time’s pass- 62 Urbi et ___ (papal speech) 54 Preparatory sch. 63 Otherwise 55 Wife of a rajah “If I Die Young” was first ing. We are filled with the goodness 64 Frisbees, say 56 Tools of trade for Peter and a best-selling country hit, but it got a pop remix found in the present “now.” 65 Pear Andrew and has steadily climbed Billboard’s Top 100. As Other occasions seem far removed from love’s 66 Stains 57 King mackerel with many country artists, their ability to cross joy. We find that we must engage others who are DOWN 59 Watch pocket 1 A non-coveting command- over to other charts has led to expanded success. difficult for us to accept, or we are forced to live ment Solution on page 18 The song is a ballad that invites us to consider through circumstances that leave us hurt and the meaning for our lives in this day. The song’s angry. character reflects on what would happen if she Still, throughout both types of realities, we get dies while still young. If this were to happen, she a choice: Will we choose love or get lost in other, wants others to “bury me in satin, lay me down less helpful feelings? on a bed of roses ... send me away with the words Posing this question is much easier than actu- of a love song.” She understands that her death ally making the choice. Many times, if you want would be difficult for others to accept, especially to keep dwelling in love, you have to walk away her mother. Yet the song’s character believes that, from the people or difficult circumstances that even though she will feel the pain of “the sharp offer you no love. In such a decision, do not judge. knife of short life,” still “I’ve had just enough Rather, just turn away, realizing that the current time.” situation does not fill you with love. Make the The song brings us face-to-face with our conscious choice to avoid filling your soul with mortality. None of us know when we will die, and SEE MARTIN PAGE 15 December 14, 2011 ENTERTAINMENT The Catholic Commentator 15

trust for generations. Director and co- out for adventure, and Zac Efron as Motion Picture Association of America writer Alexander Payne’s astringent the bike messenger she enlists to help ratings: MOVIE adaptation of Kaui Hart Hemmings’ her find it. Reuniting for a follow-up G – General audiences; all ages admitted PG – Parental guidance suggested; some novel is neither hostile to religion nor to 2010’s “Valentine’s Day,” direc- REVIEWS material may not be suitable for children to people of faith. But belief of any sort tor Garry Marshall and screenwriter USCCB Office for Film & Broadcasting PG-13 – Parents are strongly cautioned is conspicuously absent as characters Katherine Fugate weave a web of love classifications: to give special guidance for attendance grapple with fundamental questions stories largely free of the moral tangles A-I – General patronage of children under 13; some material may and emotions. Mature themes, includ- that marred their earlier collabora- A-II – Adults and adolescents be inappropriate for young children ing end-of-life issues and adultery; fre- tion. A few one-liners aside, though, A-III – Adults R – Restricted; under 17 requires accom- quent rough and crude language; and the humor falls flat, while the script’s A-IV – Adults, with reservations panying parent or adult guardian fleeting profanity. L; R strained effort to transform Dec. 31 L – Limited adult audience NC-17 – No one under 17 admitted into a kind of secular High Holy Day O – Morally offensive New Year’s Eve is simply irritating. Some sexual refer- (Warner Bros.) ences and humor, at least one use of Painfully forced romantic comedy the F-word, occasional crude language My Week with Marilyn comes the unlikely baby sitter for tracking the sometimes intersecting and crass slang. A-III; PG-13 (Weinstein) three troubled children (Max Records, paths of, among others, the executive This behind-the-scenes look at the Landry Bender and Kevin Hernandez). (Hilary Swank) in charge of the titu- making of 1956’s “The Prince and the With the kids in tow, he visits a drug lar holiday’s iconic celebration in New Layaway Now! Showgirl” — one of Marilyn Monroe’s dealer to buy cocaine. But the deal goes York’s Times Square, the rock star (Jon Sun bicycles, adult tricycles, least successful films — offers a fasci- awry, and he spends the rest of the Bon Jovi) headlining the evening’s en- nating study of her tortured soul and night hurtling around New York City tertainment there, the up-and-coming recumbent bicycles. of a clash of cultures in 1950s Brit- trying to make things right and “solv- caterer (Katherine Heigl) to whom the ain. The young assistant (Eddie Red- ing” problems for the kids with a series rocker was once engaged, and one of Selected Bikes on SALE! mayne) to the movie’s distinguished of oversimplified lectures. Amid these his backup singers (Lea Michele), who Accessories 20% OFF director and leading man, Laurence supposedly humorous adventures, finds herself trapped in an elevator for when you mention this ad. Olivier (Kenneth Branagh), is smitten director David Gordon Green’s film hours with a New Year’s-averse slacker by Monroe (Michelle Williams) and runs the gamut of degradation while (Ashton Kutcher). Also thrown into the Dave’s Bicycle eager to protect her from the sniping attempting to pass off felony child en- ensemble are Robert De Niro as a dy- Repair & Sales establishment, who resent her beauty dangerment as comedy. An explicit ing hospital patient, Halle Berry as his 225-924-4337 and lack of classical training. Monroe, nonmarital sex act; fleeting profan- faithful nurse, Michelle Pfeiffer as an www.davesbicyclerepair.com on the other hand, is desperate to be ity; acceptance of homosexual activity; inhibited middle- aged office worker taken seriously as an actress but ham- pervasive rough, crude and crass lan- pered by her dependence on pills and guage; frequent references to drug use; alcohol. When the set becomes a bat- body functions and pedophilia, racial tleground of titans, Monroe retreats to stereotyping. O; R the country with her newfound friend in tow. Directed by newcomer Simon The Descendants Curtis, this screen version of Colin (Fox Searchlight) Clark’s 1995 memoir is, for the most Spiritually bereft dark comedy in part, surprisingly chaste and free of which, with his wife (Patricia Hastie) exploitative intent. Fleeting rear fe- left brain-dead by an accident, a griev- male nudity, brief adulterous kissing, ing Hawaii law yer (George Clooney) and a few profane expressions, some rough previously neglectful father is forced to language. A-III; R deal with the impact of her loss on their two daughters (Shailene Woodley and The Sitter Amara Miller) as well as with a fam- (Fox) ily crisis involving the planned sale of A college student (Jonah Hill) be- a pristine beachfront property held in

MARTIN: Choose to do what you love FROM PAGE 14 if this is true, but surely the statement ongoing hurt and anger. is a reminder that today is the time to Doing so does not mean that you won’t genuinely listen to all those who are struggle with immediate, difficult feel- important your life. Practice love by put- ings. You can acknowledge these feelings, ting aside your own agenda and carefully but then begin to put your focus back on listening to others. love. One way to do this is to purposefully By doing this and other acts of love, start doing something that you love: for your life takes on real and lasting mean- example, listening to favorite music or ing. We may not know if we will die engaging in an exercise that you enjoy. young, old or somewhere in between, but Making the choice to do something without doubt, today is the time for love. that you love affirms what you re- ally want in life. Feelings come quickly, MARTIN is an Indiana pastoral counselor almost automatically, but moods are a who reviews current music for Catholic choice. If you find yourself in a bad and News Service. negative mood, change your focus. Start doing something you love. Your comments are always welcome. The song’s character comments with Please write to me at chmartin@swin irony that it is “funny when you’re dead diana.net or at 7125 West Country Road how people start listening.” I am unsure 200 South, Rockport, IN 47635. 16 The Catholic Commentator VIEWPOINT December 14, 2011 Praying so as not to lose heart

ne of the reasons we so as not to lose heart in the it; and he feels utterly alone, “a rich and blessed our lives may need to pray is so that prophet Elijah, when he is being stone’s throw away from every- be, it is impossible to go through Owe don’t lose heart. We threatened because of his pro- one.” So as not to lose heart, he life without, at times, feeling bit- all do sometimes. We lose heart phetic message. Elijah had been drops to his knees in prayer, a terly misunderstood, becoming whenever frustration, tiredness, a true and courageous prophet, prayer so intense that he “sweats deeply disconsolate, succumb- fear and helplessness in the but at one point in his ministry blood,” but that prayer eventu- ing to a paralyzing tiredness, face of life’s humiliations con- he became dangerously dis- ally ends in consolation, with and simply losing heart. We are spire together to paralyze our consolate. His own people had “an angel from heaven coming human and, like Jesus, we will energies, deaden our resiliency, ceased listening to his message, down to strengthen him.” He have days when we feel “a stone’s drain our courage and leave us he had witnessed some of his brings his beaten-down, misun- throw away from everyone.” And feeling weak in depression. fellow prophets being martyred, derstood, fearful and painfully what’s paralyzed inside of us is Poet Jill Alexander Essbaum and his message had deeply isolated heart to prayer, and he what’s highest in us: our capac- gives us a poignant example upset Jezebel, the most pow- is strengthened, given all the ity to forgive, our capacity to of this in her poem “Easter.” erful woman in the kingdom, sustenance he needs to regain radiate huge, generous hearts, Reflecting on the joy that Easter who had now sent out men to In Exile his courage. our capacity for empathy and should bring into our lives, she kill him. To flee Jezebel, Elijah And, in that, Jesus is con- understanding, our capacity for shares that Easter can instead climbed up Mount Horeb. How- Father Ron Rolheiser trasted with his apostles. At joy, and our capacity for courage. be a season of defeat for us be- ever, as he retreated into a cave, that very moment, they, too, are Frightened and discouraged, like cause its celebration of joy can he was confronted by God’s dangers with renewed energy discouraged, lonely and fear- Elijah, we retreat into the inner highlight the shortcomings of voice, asking him what he was and courage. ful. But they are asleep while darkness of a cave. our own lives and leave us with doing there. Elijah confessed his When all of his own strength he prays, and their sleep, as But in moments like this, we the feeling that: Everyone I’ve discouragement, his fear of los- had dried up, Elijah approached the Gospels hint, is something might understand ourselves this ever loved lives happily just past ing his life, and his loss of heart. God with his weaknesses and more than physical. They are, way: Like Elijah, we are in the my able reach. Having confessed his fears, that movement renewed his we are told, “asleep out of sheer darkness of a cave, paralyzed And this feeling can drive Elijah retreated into the dark- heart. sorrow.” In essence, they are too by loss of heart; but God is at us to our knees, in bitterness or ness of the cave, to sit paralyzed We see the same thing in Je- depressed to be awake to the full the mouth of the cave, a gentle prayer; hopefully prayer. in his own fear and depression. sus when, facing his passion and strength of their own lives. This breeze, luring us back out where There are many examples in But God, through the sound of death, he prays in the Garden of loss of heart has them paralyzed everyone we love will be back Scripture of men and women a gentle breeze, lured him to the Gethsemane. It’s the low-point in fear; and when they finally within our reach. being driven to mountaintops or mouth of the cave, where Elijah of Jesus’ life and ministry: The do act they act, in ways contrary to their knees in prayer because again confessed his depression people have stopped listening to to what Jesus had taught them. OBLATE FATHER ROLHEISER, theolo- they are paralyzed by fear, and fear, but this time in the him; the religious authorities are They attempt violence and then gian, teacher, and award-win- discouragement or loneliness. form of a prayer. And, through conspiring with the civil authori- flee. They couldn’t face im- ning author, is president of the For our purposes, I will high- that prayer, he regained his ties to have him killed; those pending suffering as Jesus did Oblate School of Theology in light two, highly illustrative, strength of heart and came few, his inner circle of disciples, because they didn’t pray as he San Antonio, Texas. He can be examples of this. down the mountain ready to who are still listening to his did. They lost heart. contacted through his website We see an example of praying face his ministry and all its message are not understanding No matter who we are or how ronrolheiser.com. From one church musician to another – with love n Christmas Eve in 1818 in Austria, church have many other obligations. Yet, dur- ated by that focus on music as prayer! organist Franz Xaver Gruber discovered that ing the busiest time of the year, these – Mistakes happen. Even the most Ohis church’s organ was broken. Without that marvelously giving people are asked to beautiful piece of silk has rough spots crucial instrument, it wouldn’t be possible to play spend even more of their time partici- or snags somewhere. Rehearsal is any of the music that the choir and its director had pating in extra hours of rehearsal. vital to being as prepared as possible, practiced. The repertoire would have to be redone in There might be, for example, sing- but we should never be so afraid of less than 24 hours! ers who have been given solos for the making a mistake that we lose sight of But how? very first time, and who suddenly de- God’s presence. Gruber’s nightmare became his blessing when he velop stage fright. There might even be – Words convey powerful feelings took the words to a poem written by the parish’s assis- singers who feel slighted because they and ideas. By focusing on what the tant pastor, Father Josef Mohr, and wrote a melody for were not given solos. Their sour notes song is saying, mastering difficult it that could be performed with guitar instead of organ can negatively affect everyone. passages (and “hitting” really high – a melody that many of us will lift up this year and for Equally as contagious, colds and flu notes) becomes easier, and it lasts. years to come whenever we sing “Silent Night.” are beginning to go around. So it’s not I still regularly cantor and sur- Church choir directors throughout the world from unusual for church musicians, espe- round myself with as much music Advent to the end of December may be living their cially key soloists, to be struck down Living Well as possible, especially at this time own “night before Christmas” nightmare since, no with laryngitis or worse, leading up to Maureen Pratt of year. It is a privilege to help the matter how abundant the budget or other resources midnight Mass. church community worship and for music, there’s never enough time to plan, rehearse For 13 years, I conducted a Catholic to feel connected with my fellow and perfect all of the special songs that are presented choir. I remember well the frenzy of preparation, the musicians throughout the world. And we, too, are during the time surrounding Christmas. extra energy needed and the patience that we all had connected to those musicians who went before us – Christmas music, whether it is all contemporary or to have as new songs had to be mastered. (There were musicians such as organist Gruber. a mixture of traditional and contemporary, is unique, the unexpected bumps in the road to Bethlehem, May your Christmas music be graced with joy, sometimes complex, and often deceptively difficult. too.) splendor and blessed miracles! And if the choir director is also planning a Christmas Through it all, I think that what brought us to re- pageant or concert, well, the worry takes on a height- ally meaningful celebrations was the realization that: PRATT, a playwright, journalist, author, speaker and ened sense of urgency. – Liturgical music was never meant to be perfor- patient advocate, lives in Los Angeles and writes on Right about now, somewhere, choirs are fretting. mance but was first and always to be prayer. Myriad health and spirituality for Catholic News Service. E- At most churches, choir members are volunteers who personal conflicts, anxieties and foibles can be allevi- mail Pratt at [email protected]. December 14, 2011 VIEWPOINT The Catholic Commentator 17 The Christmas present that God gives us

Jesuit author well known today, named Father most horrible death, doctrine was proclaimed. The message is simple. It is James Martin, wrote about a trip he made to crucifixion. first that the great God who created the heavens and Athe Holy Land. During his visit, he bought a When Jesus came the earth is our loving father. Secondly, it is that we Nativity set carved from olive wood with all of the into the world, he are called to share in his creative work by being loving figures of Jesus, Mary, Joseph and the shepherds. wasn't welcomed by brothers and sisters to one another. When Father Martin arrived at the airport in Tel Aviv its leaders, nor by God’s gift of Jesus gives us the power to share in his to board his return flight to the United States, the generals, nor by ce- creation. In the words of an unknown poet we find the customs official examined each figure, even the baby lebrities. His welcome challenge of Christmas: Jesus. “We cannot take any risks,” he told Father Mar- came from smelly tin. “We must make sure that there are no explosives shepherds. That was When the singing of the angels is over, in this crib set.” Afterward Father Martin thought to an omen, for he later when the star from heaven has gone, himself, “If the customs official truly knew! That crib would identify with when the kings and the princes are home, set contained the most explosive power in the world.” the poor, the suffer- when the shepherds are again with their flocks, The power that Father Martin talks about is the ing, the powerless, and the work of the Nativity begins: power that Jesus brought with him when he came even with sinners. Another into the world that first Christmas night. It is a power In truth, the power to recover the lost, different from every other power the world has ever that Jesus brought Perspective to heal the broken, known. The uniqueness of this power is shown through into the world is the to feed the hungry, the manner in which Jesus came into the world. power contained in Father John Carville to free the prisoners, Jesus did not come as a weathly figure, living in a his marvelous mes- to rebuild the nations, great mansion in the most powerful nation on earth. sage. It is a double message. First, it is the good news to bring peace among brothers, He came into the world as a child of a poor carpenter, that God loves us, each and every one of us. God loves to make music for the heart. bedded in a dirty manger in one of the weakest nations us without exception and without reservation. As St. in the world of his time. He made his entrance just Paul wrote, “God so loved the world that he sent his Merry Christmas! like you and I — naked, powerless, weak and vulner- only son ...” This message has changed the outlook of able. As any one of us, he had to depend on the help of the world. No age has fully understood the stupendous FATHER CARVILLE is a retired priest in the Diocese of Baton others. He experienced hunger, thirst and pain. Later, challenge that the message of Jesus brought. Neverthe- Rouge and writes on spiritual matters for The Catholic he would experience rejection, ridicule, and even the less, the world began to be different from the day that Commentator.

| LETTER TO THE EDITOR Money goes to Living the true Christmas spirit Planned Parenthood ave you noticed how we have stepped time they celebrate the Eucharist. up the Christmas season? a friend The kingdom of heaven is present wherever Hasked me recently. In October, stores there is vital faith, commitment and devotion The Nov. 2, 2011, issue of The Cath- were already selling Christmas items. And to God; whenever hope is encouraged; and olic Commentator contains a story on now, instead of Black Friday and the mad dash every time that love is poured out. It is in heart- page 44 about how Most Blessed Sac- to capitalize on sales, stores have pushed it up felt forgiveness and in a desire for reconcilia- rament students raised lots of money to Thanksgiving.” tion and unity. It is generated by those who are for cancer. The Susan B. Komen’s My friend’s comments raise some very unset- forever seeking peace and giving of their means “Race for the Cure” sends a portion of tling questions. to those who are less fortunate. their monies to Planned Parenthood. “Do we know anymore what the true spirit St. Gregory the Great states that humility is I think it would be worth check- of Christmas is?” I asked. “Has it been dimin- the mistress and mother of all the virtues. The ing into because very few people ishing, and could this loss be one reason many kingdom of heaven is present, therefore, when are aware of this. I know the school people are finding it difficult to achieve peace of exercising power is seen as humble service would not want to support its cause. mind and happiness during Christmas?” to another and is modeled on the humility of Where do we turn for answers? Christ. Anne LaRose St. Luke gives us an answer in his Gospel and The Human Side To enjoy the true Christmas spirit, all we Labadieville, La. in the Acts of the Apostles. Father Eugene Hemrick need do is to see the kingdom of heaven alive After the death of Christ, Christians were in our everyday life. For example, it’s present in expecting the Lord to return during their time. teachers who are dedicated to helping children Luke reminds them that the kingdom of heaven has come and grow and learn. can be experienced in the good works they are performing. It is found in those whose life is consumed taking care of a Letters to The kingdom of God exists in their service to the poor, to shut-in or a parent with Alzheimer’s disease. widows, and in their prayer gatherings. It is present in living the It is discovered in caring parents who are forever sacrificing the Editor beatitudes, when they do the corporal works of mercy and each themselves for their children and who are especially concerned Letters to the Editor should be about their children’s spiritual welfare. typed and limited to 350 words It is ministering to the homeless, who often are psychologi- and should contain the name Mission Statement cally damaged, or to people suffering from depression or disil- and address of the writer, lusionment. though the address will not be The mission of The Catholic Commentator is to provide It is contributing to a parish or neighborhood food pantry. printed. We reserve the right news, information and commentary to the people of the When we summarize the essence of the true Christmas to edit all letters. Send to: Let- Diocese of Baton Rouge, Catholics and their neighbors spirit, it is giving of ourselves from the heart while receiving ters to the Editor, The Catholic alike. In doing so, The Catholic Commentator strives to others into our hearts. Commentator, P. O. Box 14746, further the wider mission of the Church: to evangelize, Baton Rouge, LA 70898-4746, to communicate, to educate and to give the Catholic FATHER HEMRICK, a research associate with the Life Cycle Re- or to [email protected]. viewpoint on important issues of the present day. search Institute at The Catholic University of America, writes on issues pertinent to the church and the human spirit for Catholic News Service. 18 The Catholic Commentator COMING EVENTS December 14, 2011

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By Barbara Chenevert cumseh St. is across from Sts. faith in God,” said Father Joseph Father Nyugen said the interi- Father Nyugen said the order Staff Writer Anthony of Padua and Le Van Hung Viet Nyugen ICM, superior or of the building was 85 percent has not yet found a place for the Phung Church in Baton Rouge. of the order. to 100 percent destroyed by fire priests and brothers to live, but A Dec. 11 fire caused about The building once served as the The fire apparently started in or water and smoke damage. he hopes they will be able to stay $300,000 in damages and dis- rectory for St. Anthony, but was one of the second-story dorm Four men were inside the in Baton Rouge. placed four priests and four purchased from the church par- rooms, possibly in the air-con- building at the time of the fire, Baton Rouge Fire Department religious brothers living at the ish several years ago to serve ditioning/heater window unit, which broke out shortly after 7 spokesman Curt Monte said the headquarters of Incarnatio Con- as the local headquarters of the said Alice Reine, a volunteer who p.m., but were able to get out, Fa- official cause of the fire was still secratio Missio religious order in Vietnamese order of priests and works at the church office. The ther Nyugen said. under investigation as of Dec. 12. Baton Rouge. religious brothers and sisters. dorm rooms sustained heavy No one was hurt in the two- “Advent is a season of joy, but damage while the remainder of alarm blaze, although one of the now we are homeless. But every- the building sustained smoke brothers jumped from a second- thing is in God’s hands. When and water damages. Reine said Anthony’s Italian Deli story window to escape injury. something happens that is bad, a first-floor chapel was not dam- Panettone Cakes! The building at 2580 Te- we know we are OK if we have aged. Baton Rouge’s only TRUE ITALIAN Deli Since 1978 10248 Florida Blvd. (BON AMI shopping center) (225) 272-6817 Mon. - Sat. 9:30 am - 6 pm Fire swept through the upstairs dorm rooms of the Incarnatio Consecratio Missio religious order on Dec. 11, causing extensive damage. Four priests and four re- ligious brothers were living in the building located across the street from Sts. Anthony of Padua and Le Van Phung Church. Photo by Bar- bara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator Christmas Party Trays don’t forget about our Italian Desserts! Classifieds Work!! Sandwiches, and Cold Cuts, Muffolettas,

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Every day at St. Vincent de Paul, we see mothers and children who are living the nightmare of homelessness and poverty. The family in this photo is just one Wishing all of example of the women and children who come to us in need. Kasey’s husband went to Texas to find a job, but in today’s economy, that’s not always easy. When the rent came due, this young mother and You Many her children, Preston and Liberty, were evicted. Homeless for the first time in their lives, they came to St. Vincent de Paul for help. Like most kids, Preston and Liberty miss their dad when he’s away, but they feel safe with Mom at their side. For now, they are home. Blessings This year, our shelters will be home for over 1,200 homeless men, women and children, but we will also help the poor by serving over 200,000 meals at our dining room and filling over 32,000 for Christmas prescriptions at our charitable pharmacy. This Christmas, we really need your help!

One dollar will provide a hot meal; $10 will provide shelter and 2012! for Kasey and her family each night; and $28 will fill a life- sustaining prescription; so you can imagine what a difference The Catholic Commentator Staff a larger gift can make. Any gift, no matter how small, will Laura, Wanda, Penny, Lisa, Debbie, bring the Christmas spirit to someone in need. Make a difference by sending your financial gift to Barbara and Donna St. Vincent de Paul Christmas Campaign, P.O. Box 127, Baton Rouge, LA 70821 or by giving online at svdpbr.org. 20 The Catholic Commentator December 14, 2011 St. Joseph’s Academy names new president

Jan Rhorer Breen has been High School, a position she has seph have been a part of my life pare young women to be respon- named the next president of St. held for 27 years. The marketing, since I entered the academy in sible and unifying members of the Joseph’s Academy. She will as- recruitment and public relations 1957. I will work to ensure that world community.” sume the position when President program she developed at CHS this charism is alive in the school Sister Adele became the first Sister Adele Lambert CSJ retires is a model for schools around the community and to focus on fur- president in the academy’s history at the end of the 2011-2012 aca- country. thering the vision and mission of in 2004, when the school moved demic year. “I am humbled by the oppor- SJA. The administration, faculty to the president-principal model of Breen, a 1969 graduate of the tunity to serve St. Joseph’s Acad- and staff are outstanding, and I administration. She said she is de- Jan Breen academy, is currently the direc- emy,” Breen said. “The spirit and want to ensure that they continue lighted with the choice of Breen as tor of communications at Catholic charism of the Sisters of St. Jo- to have excellent resources to pre- the academy’s next president. “Jan lecting Sister Adele’s successor. has a long history of commitment “After a thorough search for the to the Sisters of St. Joseph and to academy’s next president, we are the education of young women for confident that we have chosen the sake of the world,” Sister Adele the best candidate for the job,” said. “She will bring her skills in she said. “Jan brings a wealth of public relations, her administra- knowledge and experience to the tive experience as well as her love table.” for the academy to the office of Breen attended St. Joseph’s the president. We look forward Academy for grades 1-12. She is to working with Jan to ensure a a 1973 honor graduate from LSU. seamless transition for the admin- She is active in the Baton Rouge istration of the academy.” community, having served in Linda Fryoux Harvison, who various leadership capacities with became SJA’s first lay principal Young Leader’s Academy, the in 2004, will continue as princi- Junior League of Baton Rouge, pal. She said she looks forward Association of Junior Leagues to a collaborative working rela- International Board of Directors, tionship with Breen. “Jan under- Public Relations Association of stands the charism of our Sis- Louisiana, Public Relations Soci- ters, having lived it all her life,” ety of America, Leadership Baton Harvison said. “I look forward to Rouge, Baton Rouge Chamber of partnering with her as we work to Commerce and the YMCA. She continue our mission.” has been active at SJA, serving CSJ Ministries Board of Direc- as a member of the Public Affairs tors Chair Sister Lucy Silvio CSJ Committee and Alumnae Asso- led the search committee in se- ciation’s Board of Directors.

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