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Love & Intimacy SYLLABUS LOVE & INTIMACY: THE COUPEES CONFERENCE JUNE 12 -14, 2003 Holiday hm Nob Hill San Francisco, California Ellyn Bader • Lonnie Barbach • David Geisinger Marty Klein • Pat Love • Cloe Madanes Bennet Wong &Jock McKeen • Peter Pearson Ayala Pines • Terry Real • Janis A. Spring • Jeffrey Zeig LAWS & ETHICS Workshop A. Steven Frankel, PhD,JD Sponsored by THE :MILTON H. ERICKSON FOUNDATION, INC., Phoenix, AZ with Organization by THE COUPLES INSTITUTE, Menlo Park, CA 8:15-8:30 AM Opening Remarks Emerald Ballroom 8:30-9:30 AM Keynote Address 1 - Ayala Pines - How We Choose the Lovers We Emerald Ballroom Choose and Why This Question is Important for Couples Therapists 9:45 AM-12:45 PM Workshops WS 1 - Getting Off to a Powerful Start- Ellyn Bader Gold Rush Ballroom WS 2 - Relationships Make Me Sick- Jock McKeen & Bennet Wong Redwood Room WS 3- The Silent Divorce: Anxiety, Depression and Relationships- Pat Love Emerald Ballroom 2:00-5:00 PM Workshops WS 4 - Existential Issues in Sexuality- Marty Klein Gold Rush Ballroom WS 5 - Keeping the Spark Alive: How to Prevent Burnout in Love and Marriage - Ayala Pines Redwood Room WS 6 - Twelve Strategies for Solving Marital Problems - Cloe Madanes Emerald Ballroom 5:15-6:15 PM Conversation Hour CH 1 - Viagra- Part of the Solution or Part of the Problem - Marty Klein Gold Rush Ballroom FRIDAY, JUNE 13, 2003 8:00 AM-12:00 N Laws & Ethics Workshop, Part 1- Steven Frankel Redwood Room Laws & Ethics Update for Clinicians Working with Families & Children 9:00 AM-12:00 N Workshops WS 7 -After the Affair: Sexual Intimacy and Forgiveness- Janis Spring Gold Rush A WS 8 - Loving Dangerously: Pathways to Intimacy- Lonnie Barbach & David Geisinger Gold Rush B WS 9 - Reconnecting Men and Women : The Crisis in Intimacy - Terry Real Emerald Ballroom 1:30-3:30 PM Laws & Ethics Workshop, Part 2- Steven Frankel Redwood Room 1:30-2:30 PM Topical Panels & Conversation Hour TP 1- Working with Your Partner - Wong & McKeen, Barbach & Geisinger, Bader & Pearson Gold Rush B TP 2 - Relationship Renewal- Pat Love, Cloe Madanes, Terry Real Emerald Ballroom CH 2 - Lies and Secrets- Janis Spring Gold Rush A 2:45-3:45 PM Topical Panels & Conversation Hour TP 3 - Different Kinds of Sexual Excitement- Wong & McKeen, Barbach & Geisinger, Marty Klein Gold Rush B TP 4 - Crises Between Men and Women - Terry Real, Ayala Pines Emerald Ballroom CH 3 - Working with a Passive Aggressive Partner - Peter Pearson Gold Rush A 4:00-5:00 PM Keynote Address 2 - Janis Spring -After the Affair: Trauma and Emerald Ballroom Reconciliation 5:15-6:15 PM Reception and Authors' Hour Convention Foyer SATURDAY, JUNE 14, 2003 8:30-9:30 AM Keynote Address 3 - Cloe Madanes - Dilemmas of Marriage Emerald Ballroom 9:45 AM-12:45 PM Workshops WS 10 - Ericksonian Methods to Empower Couples- Jeffrey Zeig Redwood Room WS 11 - Using Neuro-Affective TherapyTM to Help Couples - Pat Love Emerald Ballroom WS 12- A Typology of Couples - Problems and Solutions - Cloe Madanes Gold Rush Ballroom 2:00-5:00 PM Workshops WS 13- Experiential Approaches to Couples Therapy - Jeffrey Zeig Redwood Room WS 14 - The "Gentle/Tough" Art of Confrontation in Couples Therapy - Ellyn Bader Emerald Ballroom WS 15 - Love That Binds vs. The Love That Finds - Bennet Wong and Jock McKeen Gold Rush Ballroom 5:15-5:30 PM Closing Remarks Emerald Ballroom 5:15-6:15 PM Continuing Education Validation Convention Foyer LOVE & INTIMACY: TilE COUPLES CONFERENCE JUNE 12-14,2003 • SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA The Couples Conferences have become a leading vehicle for CONTINUING EDUCATION ACCREDITATION learning the applications of the latest research on facilitating treatment with couples. AMA - The Milton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc. is accredited At this Conference, you will learn from leading-edge theorists by the Accreditation Council for Continuing Medical Education and practitioners as they define, describe and discuss differing to provide continuing medical education for physicians. The approaches that initially promote closeness and those that Milton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc. takes responsibility for the move toward managing difference and facilitating differentiation. content, quality and scientific integrity of this CME activity. By the end of this Conference, you will have advanced and The Milton H. Erickson Foundation designates this refined your own thinking about how to approach the challenge educational activity for a maximum of 22* hours in Category 1 of facilitating intimacy. credit toward the AMA Physician's Recognition Award. Each physician should claim only those hours of credit that s/he actually spent in the educational activity. PROGRAM OBJECTIVES APA - The Milton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc. is approved 1. In working with couples, be able to directly address issues by the American Psychological Association to offer continuing of love and intimacy. education for psychologists. The Erickson Foundation 2. To compare and contrast clinical/theoretical perspectives maintains responsibility for the program. Credit is provided on and translate these into specific interventions. an hour-by-hour basis. (22* hours maximum) NBCC - The Milton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc., is WORKSHOP ON ETHICS recognized by the National Board for Certified Counselors A six-hour Laws & Ethics program, entitled Update for (Provider #5056) to offer continuing education for national Clinicians Working with Families and Children, will be included certified counselors. We adhere to the NBCC Continuing in the Conference and will run concurrently with the Couples Education Guidelines. This program provides a maximum of Conference sessions. You may elect to register for this 22* hours. workshop only. BBS - The Erickson Foundation is a board-approved The course is divided into a four-hour segment with an provider (PCE #398). This course meets the qualifications for additional two-hour segment for those who need six hours of 22.0 hours of continuing education credit for MFTs and/or Laws & Ethics for licensure. The course covers the necessary LCSWs as required by the Calif. Board of Behavioral topics for professional license renewal. Sciences. This special program will be presented by A. Stephen BRN - The Milton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc. is approved Frankel, PhD, JD, Friday, June 13, 8:00AM - 12:00 Noon and by the Board of Registered Nursing in Calif. to offer continuing 1 :30 - 3:30 PM. education for nurses (Provider No. CEP 9376). This program is eligible for a maximum of 22.0* hours. ELIGIBILITY The Conference is open to professionals in health-related Licensed California Psychologists fields including physicians, doctoral-level psychologists and APA Sponsor credit is accepted for MCEP credit in dentists who are qualified for membership in, or are members California. CE credit only will be granted under the Milton H. of, their respective professional organizations (i.e. AMA, APA, Erickson Foundation APA Sponsor Approval. ADA) and to professionals with mental health-related graduate Psychologists will have to report their own attendance degrees (i.e. MSW, MA, MS, MSN) from accredited institutions. using the appropriate form and paying the required filing fee to Applications also will be accepted from full-time graduate the MCEP Accrediting Agency. Reporting forms will be students in accredited programs in the above fields who supply available at the Erickson Foundation Desk during the a letter from their department certifying their full-time student Conference. status as of June 2003. SPONSORSHIP FINANCIAL DISPOSITION The Couples Conference is sponsored by the Milton H. Profits from the Conference will be used by the Milton H. Erickson Foundation, Inc., a federal nonprofit corporation Erickson Foundation to support its educational and scientific formed to promote and advance the contributions made to the efforts. health sciences by the late Milton H. Erickson, MD. Organizational assistance has been provided by The Couples Institute, Menlo Park, Calif., directed by Ellyn Bader, PhD and Onsite Registration Fees Peter Pearson, PhD. The Board of Directors of the Milton H. Erickson Foundation $450 for the entire Conference are Jeffrey K. Zeig, PhD, Roxanna Erickson Klein, RN, PhD, Camillo Loriedo, MD, J. Charles Theisen, MA, MBA, JD and $175 per day (can include the Laws & Ethics Bernhard Trenkle, Dipl. Psych. Workshop on Friday) The Erickson Foundation does not discriminate on the basis $100 for the Laws and Ethics Workshop only of race, sex, color, national or ethnic origin. CONTINUING EDUCATION VALIDATION LITERATURE TABLES Literature tables are located in the registration area and Look for your Continuing Education forms other Conference areas. There is a charge to display in your on-site registration packet materials. Please ask the Erickson Foundation for permission Completed individual Workshop Evaluation forms will be to display literature on take-one tables. Unauthorized material submitted immediately following each workshop attended by will be removed . placing the completed form in drop-off boxes located at each workshop room. SITE AND ACCOMMODATIONS The Couples Conference will be held entirely within the Completed Application for Continuing Education Credit and Holiday Inn Nob Hill. The conference hotel and meeting General Evaluation forms may be validated at the Erickson rooms are accessible to people with disabilities. Desk when you are ready to leave the Conference. At the close of the Conference, there will be special check-out tables to PARKING expedite the CE validation process. You will receive your Parking for hotel guests is $15 per night with unlimited in Certificate of Attendance at that time. The Certificate will and out privileges. Day parking for commuters is $12 per day. validate the total number of credit hours earned. The Continuing Education Validation Desk will be open BOOKSTORE until 6:00 PM, Saturday, June 14 The bookstore at the Couples Conference features books You also may mail your paper work. Please do so prior to by the presenters, as well as related titles.
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