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Features columns 6 The science of moms 10 FabuLYSS Finds Six surprising things you may not know by Lyss Stern about mothers By KiKi Bochi 18 Just Write Mom by Danielle Sullivan 8 Lessons in volunteering 14 20 Dear Dr. Karyn from mom By Dr. Karyn Gordon By Tammy Scileppi 21 Divorce & Separation 12 Circle of friends By Lee Chabin, Esq. Thirty days to a healthier social life By Christa Melnyk Hines 21 The Book Worm 14 Take note By terri schlichenmeyer How to tell when your child is ready for 26 Ask an Attorney music lessons By Alison Arden Besunder, Esq. By Leila Viss 33 Lions and Tigers and Teens 16 Three ways to nurture By myrna beth haskell creativity Ignite their imaginations with these 34 Good Sense Eating by Christine M. Palumbo, RD helpful tips By Michele Ranard 22 Safe in the water calendar Tips to help prevent drowning 28 May Events 24 The missing Renew your commitment to safety this special sections Missing Kids Awareness Month By Jamie Lober 17 Arts Directory 28 33 The Marketplace
May 2014 • BRONX/RIVERDALE Family 3 Letter from the publisher Mother’s Day musings
’ve been watch- emerged after an ex- that matures out of the adolescent miracle that changed our lives for- ing this wonderful hausting 13 hours. that drove you crazy and wouldn’t ever. I, for one, can honestly say that I series on PBS that Being a Mother is not listen anymore and the mutual bond it was the best thing that has every airs on Sunday nights always fun. In the early of adults who happen to be parents happened to me. with the title “Call the weeks after birth there and their children. Wishing all of you the Happy Midwife.” It takes place are the every few hours It’s an amazing miracle and Mother’s Day you most likely gener- in the east end of Lon- wake-ups, feedings and whether you’re a natural Mom or ously deserve. Enjoy all the memo- don in the 1950s and a baby sometimes cry- an adoptive Mom or a Step-Mom, ries and all the milestones, those reflects the changing ing and you don’t know the miracle is the same. To watch that have passed, and those yet to experience of birthing why. There is the frus- the development of another human come. Let someone pamper you a and parenting as the tration of the teen years being is truly awesome. To have a bit this Mother’s Day if it comes your war years dimmed into the past. and the loss of control over the child major role in that development is a way, and enjoy the best part of all, It’s one of the most socially relevant you had that is now often taller than privilege and a gift and it’s hard to the fact that there is someone in this shows I’ve ever seen about being a you and more influenced by friends imagine a role in life that could be world who calls you Mother. Mother and birthing a child and the and the media than by you. quite as satisfying, quite as fulfilling Thanks for reading. network of community. But most of it is sheer bliss. The over a lifetime. Reliving all the pregnancies and tiny infant that suddenly develops The celebration of Mother’s Day the births every week has rekindled a personality; the first steps; the offers an opportunity for our chil- my own maternal experience from first time you hear your child say dren to make us a breakfast or buy the first fluttering I felt in the bath Mama; the first day of preschool; the us a meal in a restaurant or at the one night, to the hours of labor and graduations; the growth spurts that very least to recognize our constant Susan Weiss-Voskidis, birth, to the 23 years since that make yesterdays clothes and shoes love in their lives and say thank you. Publisher/Excutive Editor moment when my daughter at last a thing of the past; the young adult For us, it’s a day to be grateful for a [email protected]
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