MURA Newsletter 2018 [Pdf]
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McGill University Retiree Association In this issue: • Retiree Reflections │2 • Book Club │5 • Bike Group │5 • Restaurant Group │7 • Volunteering Experiences │7 • Cognitive & Physical Fitness │10 • Travel │13 We look forward to your feedback and contributions to this newsletter. MURA now has a permanent office located in a To view information on all MURA Events & beautiful Victorian building on Pine Avenue on the Activities, please go to our website at: McGill campus. http://mura-arum.association.mcgill.ca/index.html Our first newsletters were designed to to write the newsletter by contributing your transmit information on current MURA experiences. events and activities. Regular “Communiqués” now inform you of these. I Earlier this year Gregg Blachford and I therefore needed to rethink the frequency assisted at several pre-retirement of our newsletter and I decided it should workshops for McGill staff, and this perhaps be an annual production of greater opportunity made me look at the retirement length. Most importantly I had to rethink the experience in a systematic way. Staying content. I decided I would encourage you healthy and active both physically and cognitively featured large in the literature. A new, very readable, book by Antoine Many MURA members I encounter are Hakim “Save your Mind: Seven Rules to busy and engaged in a variety of activities Avoid Dementia” emphasizes how which fit this bill of health. One of MURA's important activities which keep us principal objectives is to provide cognitively and physically fit are, and gives opportunities for members to remain good suggestions for the sort of activities actively involved. I hope you will find it that are most desirable to develop and interesting to hear what some of your maintain what he terms “cognitive fellow members are doing both within and resilience.” Challenge and change in outside of MURA, and I sincerely thank all activities are important. Remaining socially those who contributed. If you would like to engaged is essential. submit your own information for the next newsletter, please send a contribution to me at: [email protected]. and was now struggling to understand it all. I was also very lucky to have a great wife, family, and personnel support structure. Even so, my wife was more than curious to It’s not easy trying to summarize what its know exactly how we were going to pay the like to retire from McGill, especially since I bills once my salary cheques stopped had worked there for over 40 years. Much coming in. Little did she know that I was of my life and friends revolved around the wondering the same thing! university and there is a natural unease as you realize that your life will now be very It was amazing how quickly the deadline different, but you’re not sure exactly how. I approached, and before I knew it, I was was one of those lucky ones who knew cleaning out my desk and wrapping up well in advance exactly when I was going projects, for others to take over. My to retire…June 1, 2017…which was department was very supportive, and several years past my 65th birthday. I was organized a great send-off for me, and therefore well versed in the new several colleagues, who were all retiring at ‘vocabulary of retirement’…RIF’s, LIF’s, the same time. It was difficult to say annuities, RAMQ, QPP, OAS, medical goodbye to the many colleagues from benefits, personnel Outlook software, around the University who I had sometimes Morneau Shepell! I was grateful for the worked with on projects. In my case, this many university/staff association staff who was a very large number, and I felt badly gave group seminars on retirement issues, that I was not able to touch base with many as well as those individuals/units who of them before I left. It was disappointing providing counselling to impending retirees that the University itself was not more on specific issues, like emails, telephones, proactive in this area. Hopefully, in future, computers, medical/dental benefits, the University will at least get all the new government drug plans etc. It was retirees together and have a wider social comforting to sit at sessions where the gathering for them. Unfortunately, almost quizzical looks on the faces of other future all my interaction with the University in the retirees confirmed that I wasn’t the only last months was with HR, dealing with one who had not been particularly benefit/pension stuff – not the most exciting interested in this stuff while I was working, 2 way to finish your career. As usual, the Honora Shaughnessy: Easing into computer ‘help desk’ staff were very helpful Retirement in ensuring a smooth transition exiting the McGill computer network, except for email I always thought I would ease into of course. retirement and have no trouble filling my days, given that there was never time to do So, after my first six months, I can honestly all I wanted when I was working. Two years say that retirement is great, and my advice in I can honestly say it has been a journey to everyone is to not stress about the figuring out how I want to spend my time. uncertainties, but to cherish the new Lessons I learned along the way are that I freedom. High on my list of things that I need structure, and some kind of a don’t miss: those never ending incoming schedule. Much to my surprise, I don’t do emails, time consuming meetings, fighting well with too much free time. In my case, rush hour, rushing to the gym at lunch time, tennis is a lifelong passion and I have thus eating lunch at your desk, and of course, spent many, many hours on the tennis we all have those ‘special’ clients who we courts, daily in the summer months, and are now glad that we no longer have to be during the indoor season I play at least nice to. These things have been replaced three times a week. I also take courses at by sleeping in, deciding spontaneously Concordia and volunteer (see below). what the day’s agenda will be (doing When not doing all this, I babysit for my nothing is always a viable option!), enjoying nieces two young children, something I being outside when the weather is good, thoroughly enjoy. Retirement has been a and finally having time to do favourite journey and really it keeps changing. I feel hobbies. My wife would add to this list all fortunate at the freedom I have to choose the household projects that I have put off how to spend my time. for the past 20 years, but I digress! Kate le Maistre: A Busy Of course, the hardest things I miss are the Retirement people, not only those colleagues who became part of my campus family, but especially the students, who supplied Before I retired, someone asked me what I endless supplies of energy, optimism, and was planning to do next. I thought that after enthusiasm. One of the most difficult 40 years of planning, I’d done enough of challenges will be keeping in touch with that, so it comes as something of a this McGill world. I still go to the McGill gym surprise to me that I’m still the Chair of the often, and lunch with close colleagues as province’s Advisory Board on English much as I can, but its not easy, and I can Education. Started by the late Gretta see it will get more difficult as time goes Chambers, the Board comes from all over on. I think MURA will be a great asset for the province and all levels of the education this, although I have not yet been able to system and we advise the Minister of attend many of their events. They have Education on anything that relates to the already saved me several hundred dollars English school system. This, combined by negotiating a reduced retiree staff with quilting, including making crib quilts to membership to the gym. I will be looking donate to the Children’s Hospital; helping forward to getting more involved. I’m still to organize an annual trip to the Stratford not sure that all my bills will get paid, but I’ll Festival, and seeing six productions in let you know next year, or my wife will! three days; The NYT crossword; grandchildren; and some river cruises 3 mean that the days (and weeks and I have learned Italian mostly through the months) are full and enjoyable. internet program called “Rosetta Stone”. The program is interesting, easy to use, Sharon Bezeau: Keeping mentally and intuitive. I had taken a grammar course and physically active in my beforehand, which was helpful, but I was unable to speak until I started learning retirement Italian with this program. Now I have found a few buddies in Italy with whom I My husband claims that we should focus exchange Italian-English conversation. I on five upkeeps every day. I keep happy found them through the Conversation and active and achieve this in the following Exchange website. ways: https://www.conversationexchange.com/ http://www.rosettastone.com House Upkeep: We don’t have a cleaning lady, nor have we ever hired an interior Another retirement project has been to get decorator, much as I have regretted that on back to learning the piano. It is amazing occasion! But I do get exercise and how much focus is required to play a piano satisfaction from cleaning and decorating piece correctly.