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My Life Story Loan Vu Nigh Ethnic Life Stories 2003 1 Loan Vu Nigh Loyd Nigh, Story Keeper Ethnic Life Stories 2003 2 Loan Vu Nigh The Bamboo Tree Under the trust of Mary's hands, have a happy peaceful life in war. After the storms, stand up, and be straight To the narrow hope, the way to God. Loan Vu Nigh, Artist Vietnam Voice TheEthnicLifeStoriesProject Springfield, Missouri Class of 2003 Ethnic Life Stories 2003 3 Loan Vu Nigh Acknowledgement As we near the consummation of the Ethnic Life Stories Project, there is a flood of memories going back to the concept of the endeavor. The awareness was there that the project would lead to golden treasures. But I never imagined the treasures would overflow the storehouse. With every Story Teller, every Story Keeper, every visionary, every contributor, every reader, the influence and impact of the project has multiplied in riches. The growth continues to spill onward. As its outreach progresses, "boundaries" will continue to move forward into the lives of countless witnesses. Very few of us are "Native Americans." People from around the world, who came seeking freedom and a new life for themselves and their families, have built up our country and communities. We are all individuals, the product of both our genetic makeup and our environment. We are indeed a nation of diversity. Many of us are far removed from our ancestors who left behind the familiar to learn a new language, new customs, new political and social relationships. We take our status as Americans for granted. We sometimes forget to welcome the newcomer. We bypass the opportunity to ask about their origins and their own journey of courage. But, wouldn't it be sad if we all spoke the same language, ate the same food, and there was no cultural diversity. This project has left me with a tremendous debt of gratitude for so many. The almost overwhelming task the Story Keeper has, and the many hours of work and frustration to bring forth a story to be printed. I salute you. To the Story Tellers, thank you for letting us share in your heart and soul. It is my prayer that some or many of the stories will influence many young persons to another level, to be enmeshed in the pursuit of learning of other cultures that make up our community and the world. This has, indeed, been a project of "Many" for the Community. Thanks to the following who have played a role in helping to achieve the goal. The list is practically endless, first names only. You know who you are and what you did...sincerethankstoeach of you: Caroline, Charity, Charlotte, Bob, Dana, De Ann, Ed, Eric, Erman, Jim, Joha Oke, John K, John M, June, Kay, Kendall, Maria, Mark, Michelle, Myra, Norma, Pat, Rachel, Rob, Starr, Susan, Valerie, and special recognition to Jim Coombs, SMSU, Map Department. Jim Mauldin Coordinator Ethnic Life Stories '01 '02 '03 Ethnic Life Stories 2003 4 Loan Vu Nigh G 012 3 $ 012 ) )012 042 !"# 5 012 $ - $ "% 63 "%- &&'( )*+,)( (-'% 7 8 - 8 ! # 3092 ./% #- , Ethnic Life Stories 2003 5 Loan Vu Nigh Ethnic Life Stories 2003 6 Loan Vu Nigh Ethnic Life Stories 2003 7 Loan Vu Nigh ACKNOWLEDGMENTS Thank God for he has created a simple little Bamboo Tree like me. He is a wonderful artist. He has put up my life with all kind of material hurt, pain, sad, sorrow, happy, joy, as all colors, and the thickness piece, which I do not want miss a stroke on it. When I look back, from the little small pox to my trip to U.S. on Oceans with many, many gifts as my ancestors, grandparents, parents, relatives, husband, son, friends, art works, writings, treatments, tea... and special let I know you as The Way, The Truth, and The Life. Thank you to Mary, mother of God, my spirit Mother, my best friend. She is always on my side and leads me to choose the right way to go the right step to walk the right work to start the right thinking about God. Thank for chose me to consecrate to you to be training under your hands so could be useful for glory to God, The Almighty Father. From God, I would like to - Thank you to my ancient wisdom, and ancestors had transfer to me all the rich culture, and religions to form a “me” today. Thank for all of courage to keep my country stand up for more 4,000 years of civilization, which I could proud of to be a Vietnamese, today. - Thank you to my grandpa, who had loved and taught me while I was a little. I did not understand any of his words but it was stored in my mind as a little yeast. This yeast kept growing on me and built up a part of my characteristic on the society. - Thank you to my father, he was my teacher from read, write... to life. Special, he is my example of put all the trust on God. From him, I learn go to church daily, love the nature, like working hard as farmer, enjoy the simple life, and the taste of art. - Thank you to my mother, she taught me know the value of education. She learned to read and write, which she wrote letters to my fathers, while I was little. It makes me never stop to learn something new, and used it in life. Ethnic Life Stories 2003 8 Loan Vu Nigh - Thank you to my relative and friends. I could not tell the stories without you. You are among the gifts God gives to me. You had made my life more interesting and easier to going on. - Thank you to my husband Boyd Nigh, he is the one show me how love is trust, care, and accept... He forgives me when I neglect on the role of the wife. He encouraged in my art life, The “my life stories in painting - Vietnam Voice”. He helps me to finish any writing work, which I have started. He is my special tutor in what ever I need. - Thank you to my son John Vu Nigh, the special gift from God. He gave me a chance to learn how to be a good mother. From him, I had finished and published my first baby book in Vietnamese for Vietnamese parents. With him, I learn about all kind of sports, social life, and richer my life. His talent about art, helped me finished my painting with more detail. His strong mind helped me to control my temper to more patients in any of my project. - Thank you for Jim Mauldin, and all, involves with this project. You give me a chance, to write about myself to the community. - Thank you for The United States has taken me as one of your people as help, teach, and give me a chance to become citizen of the country. Now I can proud to say God blesses American and I am one of them. - Thank you for the Community of Springfield, Missouri has accept me as a member of the Community, while accept me in any public place as schools, churches, libraries, markets, stores... Thank for many letters from students and people to me, while my paintings shows as my Videotape “Vietnam Voice” on libraries in town. - Thank you for SMSU, special teachers had given me all knowledge they could. Especial Dr. Hill had encouraged me on the graduate Project, and the Videotape of “Vietnam Voice”, while he was the head of art department. - Thank you for Mrs. Pat Peterson, who helped me in many writing and with her daughter took me to New Hampshire to speak about my “Vietnam Voice” - Thank you for the Congregation of the Mother Coredemptrix has guided me in every year retreat, to see thing under the God way, the narrow way. Help me to consecrate to Mary. - I also sorry about any mistake I had done to any in my life. Please forgive me. Ethnic Life Stories 2003 9 Loan Vu Nigh CONTENTS CHAPTER ONE: FAMILY HISTORY What is your full name? What special significance or history does your name have? Were there any unusual circumstances surrounding your birth? Tell about your homeland when you were a child Personal memories Tell about your family. My parents personalities Are your parents still living? How many siblings do you have? What are their names and where are they now? If they are deceased, where, when and how did they die? Did other fiends or relatives also live in your home? Who in your family do you most admire and why? Did your family move a lot? CHAPTER TWO: EARLIEST MEMORIES AND CHILDHOOD Nickname A typical day as a child The day involve with religious What did you eat? The first home The “rules” in my house Share room Pets Start school How did I get to school. Teachers Musical instrument Special occasions celebrated National holidays Recall a fond childhood experience Recall a sad, frightening or unhappy experience ... as a child Best friend First present to my father CHAPTER THREE: THE TEEN YEARS The school system The guidelines for dating Teenagers do for entertainment Ethnic Life Stories 2003 10 Loan Vu Nigh My closest buddies Friends reunion Work as a teenager Transportation stories Favorite book, radio, actress or movie People, who influenced CHAPTER FOUR: ADULTHOOD What did I want to be after finish school Goal change External circumstances that interfered make it difficult to reach goal Leave my parents’ home When and how did I meet my spouse? Wedding day My child Some unexpected turns in my life Spiritual experience Where have you lived as an adult and how did you come to be there? Types of jobs Present job CHAPTER FIVE: LIFE MISSION Life mission The lowest point The most rewarding aspect The profound influence on my life CHAPTER SIX: LATER YEARS Are you presently employed or retired? Special role or unique responsibilities as an elder in my community My time Published works For future generations CHAPTER SEVEN: YOUR SPRINGFIELD EXPERIENCE How and why did you come to live in Springfield? Did you feel welcomed when you came to live here? Have people expressed an interest in your cultural background What opportunities have you had to share your unique perspective? Message Ethnic Life Stories 2003 11 Loan Vu Nigh CHAPTER ONE – FAMILY HISTORY What is your full name? My full name is Loan Thi Vu Nigh.