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ARAB TIMES, TUESDAY, JUNE 22, 2021 NEWS/FEATURES 13 People & Places People Lifestyle ‘Live Your Life’ Father’s Day gift Kloots hopes people do Father gives girl not forget ‘COVID loss’ a life-saving gift NEW YORK, June 21, (AP): As COVID-19 restric- CARRIERE, Miss., June 21, (AP): tions lift in the US, many are reacquainting with Sitting poolside with his wife and friends and loved ones, attending parties, booking two daughters, Rhett Shaffette says vacations and celebrating a return to normal. he’s already received the best gift But for Amanda Kloots, 39, a fi tness instructor this Father’s Day. and TV personality, it’s not a return to the life she His 12-year-old daughter is thriv- had before the pandemic, and it never will be. Her ing, eight months after getting a por- husband, Nick Cordero, died from complications of tion of his liver. She received the the virus after more than 90 days in the hospital. He transplant after nearly losing her life was 41 and had no prior health problems. to internal bleeding. Cordero was an actor and singer, best-known for “It was a very close call,” Rhett his work on Broadway in musicals “A Bronx Tale”, said. His daughter Cecilia, 11 at the “Waitress” and “ Bullets Over Broadway,” where time, had spent years in frustration he met Kloots. They married in 2017. on the transplant list, and was twice “I hope people don’t forget what our world was called to be a back-up recipient, only a year ago, said Kloots in an to be sent home interview over Zoom from again in disap- pointment. Los Angeles. “Because of After Cecil- what I went through and how ia’s near-fatal traumatic it was... I will never bleed last year, forget what that was. And the family de- because of that, I’m taking a cided to look slow roll back into society. instead for a It’s a little harder for me to be partial trans- back in huge, big groups. I’m plant from a not there yet.” living donor. Kloots has become a face Kloots And they Cecilia of COVID-19’s devastation. didn’t have to While Cordero was hospitalized, Kloots posted up- This cover image released by Harmonic Alliance shows ‘Devil in the Hills: Coal Country Reckoning’ by Mary Hott with the look far: Tests and scans revealed dates on her social media. It led to a daily virtual Carpenter Ants. (AP) that Rhett’s liver was an ideal dance party to Cordero’s song “Live Your Life” match. A few weeks later, both were as a battle cry to wake him up. The well-wishes prepped for surgery. spread to celebrities including Sylvester Stallone “It was a godsend,” Rhett said. and Priscilla Presley, plus people across the globe “That’s the only way to explain it.” whom had never even met Cordero or Kloots, but Cecilia had been suffering since felt emotionally invested. birth with biliary atresia. That’s Kloots says “it means the world” if her story has when bile ducts in the liver don’t helped others who also went through their own loss form normally, preventing the or- from COVID-19, or just felt moved to appreciate gan from functioning properly. It’s life and loved ones. one of the most common reasons In this rollercoaster year, Kloots says she’s gotten why children in the US require liver used to experiencing highs as well as lows. A major transplants, said John Seal, one of win came in January when she was named one of the surgeons on the family’s trans- the hosts of CBS’ “ The Talk.” plant team at Ochsner Hospital for Kloots has also released a new book called “Live Children in New Orleans. Your Life: My Story of Loving and Losing Nick Quality Cordero.” She wrote the book with the help of her younger sister, Anna, who along with their older Having a biological parent as a brother, Todd, dropped everything and moved in to living donor helps with immunity help care for the couple’s infant son, Elvis, while and lowers the chance of organ re- Cordero was hospitalized. Kloots writes that they jection. But some kids awaiting transplants are in foster care or helped create order and a sense of calm in her time situations where a biological parent of crisis. isn’t available or willing to donate. AP: You really had to fi nd your voice in becom- So now there’s a movement among ing an advocate for Nick while he was being treated, pediatric surgeons and programs at a really intimidating time. Would you advise peo- across the country to push for more ple to do the same? anonymous living donors, Seal said. Kloots: Personally, for me, the minute I walk into Organs from living donors have a hospital, I’m just intimidated. So imagine. Yes, been found to be superior in qual- being in the ICU in the midst of a pandemic and you ity to those harvested from deceased have four ICU doctors at the top of their game tell- donors, he said. And because the liv- ing you, based on their experience, based on their er regenerates quickly, children and education, which is a lot, what they think should Cecilia Shaffette relaxes in the backyard with her father Rhett Shaffette, at their home in Carriere, Miss., June 16. The small adults typically only need a happen, what they believe should be going on. It 12-year-old is thriving, eight months after getting a portion of her father’s liver. She received the transplant after nearly losing her life to internal bleeding. (AP) part of a healthy donor’s liver. Both was very hard at times to hold my ground and to say patients can typically expect their “No,” or, “I have a crazy idea.” It was tough. But livers to return to normal size within I encourage people to do it, I really do. And in the a few months to a year, Seal said. end, even the times I felt like so silly offering any “No kid should die waiting for a suggestion that was coming my way via what I was Music liver,” he said. “The biggest risk is Googling or what my Instagram army was telling that time waiting for an organ, and me to ask. In the end, David Ng, Nick’s doctor, said that wait time is getting longer and to me, “It was the Wild Wild West and because you longer throughout the country.” were offering so many suggestions and you were Album of exploration from Lage Living donors made possible 491 being so strong, we did things that we maybe never of the 8,906 liver transplants per- would have done.” And so I think it’s a testament to formed in the United States last year, being as strong as you possibly can. It is hard and according to the United Network for it is intimidating. But you are the best advocate for Hott brings wrongs to light Organ Sharing, the nonprofi t that ad- your person. And when you know your person like ministers the nation’s procurement a husband and a wife does, I wasn’t going to give up By Steven Wine rootsy rock with echoes of Appala- and transplant process. on him until I knew that I had to. chia that perfectly suits Hott’s ap- More than 500 of last year’s liver AP: You speak of signs sometimes on social me- ary Hott with the Carpenter pealing alto and honors a singular transplants were performed on chil- dia. Have you had any signs you believe were from MAnts, “Devil in the Hills: Coal genre: history matters. dren, but only 66 were from living Nick recently? Country Reckoning” (Harmonic Al- ❑ ❑ ❑ donors. And of those, only 22 do- Kloots: liance) nors were the child’s biological par- So many. The other day I was in the car This is grim history beautifully Julian Lage, “Squint” (Blue Note after doing a couple of book interviews and after ent, according to UNOS. told. Records) “We still don’t have enough qual- talking about Nick, you kind of instantly feel sad Mary Hott has put to music the In the right hands, 12 notes multi- and lonely. So I got in the car and I said, “Nick, ity donors to take care of all the kids tragic tale of West Virginia’s mine plied by six strings can produce end- on the wait list,” Seal said. will you send me a sign, please? I really miss you, wars. They ended 100 years ago this less variety. Here’s proof. honey.” And one of the songs that comes on the ra- This cover image released by Harper summer, but her songs show the re- Jazz guitarist Julian Lage’s Blue Transplant dio all the time since he’s passed is “Every Breath shows ‘Live Your Life: My Story of sulting emotional damage still lingers Note Records debut is an exuberant, More than 300 children remain on You Take” by The Police. I turned on the radio and Loving and Losing Nick Cordero’ by in the region. engaging, endlessly inventive ex- the waiting list for a liver transplant it came right on. It fi nished, I turned the station and Amanda Kloots with Anna Kloots. (AP) No wonder: In Hott’s telling, the ploration of styles. Fronting his trio, in the US, along with more than it was on again.