Focus on the Family’s Hope Restored Follow up Resource HopeRestored.com HopeRestored.com FocusontheFamily.com ALL RIGHTS RESERVED For more information on Producing a Blockbuster Marriage: Writing Our Love Story, call Focus on the Family, at 1-800-A-Family. Or e-mail us at:
[email protected]. Our mailing address is: 2175 Sunset Inn Rd., Branson, MO 65616. ©2008 by Focus on the Family No part of this material may be reproduced or photocopied, except as provided by USA copyright law. All Scripture quotations are taken from HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION. Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House. All rights reserved. The “NIV” and “New International Version” trademarks are registered in the Use of either trademark requires the permission of International Bible Society. 2 Table of Contents (click on title to jump to page) PROLOGUE, INTRODUCTION 5 PRE PRODUCTION 8 Review of the Focus on the Family Relationship Model 9 How to Get the Most Out of the “Writing Our Love Story” Follow Up 11 Program Direction from the Executive Producer 11 Taking in the Horizon 12 Two Questions 13 Pacing Your Progress Following the Intensive 14 PART 1: Growing Awareness and Insight 15 EPISODE 1: Now about that Reactive Cycle... 16 EPISODE 2: Safety 21 EPISODE 3: Letting Go of Trying to Manage What Isn’t Mine 27 EPISODE 4: Communicating Matters of the Heart 32 EPISODE 5: Music and Marriage 39 44 PART 2: Developing Relationship Skills 45 EPISODE 6: Care of Self 51 EPISODE 7: The Blessing