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O CHRISTIAN MEDITATIONChristian NEWSLETTER, VOL. 34, N 3; OCTOBER 2010 Meditation1 NEWSLETTER OF THE WORLD COMMUNITY FOR CHRISTIAN MEDITATION www.wccm.org Registered Charity No. 327173 INTERNATIONAL EDITION, VOL. 34, NO 3; OCTOBER 2010 Meditation with Children Experience and Promise A Day Seminar Date: 7 December 2010 9.00 am to 5.30 pm Cost: £95 (includes lunch and refreshments) A Resource Pack will be given to each participant. Venue: Regents College, Inner Circle, Regents Park London NW1 4NS Children have a natural capacity for meditation. They enjoy it and show the benefits. How can we make this spiritual practice and universal life-skill more available promoting growth of the whole child? Meditatio – the outreach of The World Community for Christian Meditation – presents a seminar to teachers, parents and all those involved in the faith dimension of education for children. The presenters will address the spiritual, psychological and practical aspects of introducing Christian Meditation to children and teachers. PRESENTERS Dr Cathy Day is the Director of Townsville Catholic Education Office and under her leadership has created and implemented a world-first Christian Meditation program for all Catholic Schools in the Diocese. Ernie Christie Deputy Director in Townsville is the author of Coming Home: A Guide to Teaching Christian Meditation to Children. Jonathan Campion a consultant psychiatrist is helping to develop national mental health policy and evaluate the school meditation program. Fr Laurence Freeman is a Benedictine monk and Director of The World Community for Christian Meditation involved in inter-religious dialogue and the contemplative aspect of education. REGIONAL SEMINARS For details about venue and costs Cathy Day, Ernie Christie, and Laurence Freeman will be leading workshops presenting of these workshops please contact us: the themes of the Meditatio Seminar addressing local audiences and concerns www.wccm.org 8 December Killarney www.wccmmeditatio.org 10 December Belfast Further Information from 13 December Milton Keynes Briji Waterfield T: 07980 581351 E: [email protected] 14 December Brentwood For booking queries please contact 15 December Birmingham Pat Nash T: 01794 512006 E: [email protected] SOME KEY EVENTS IN 2011 April 17-24 Holy Week Retreat, Bere Island, Ireland August 11-14 John Main Seminar, Ireland May 5-6 Meditatio Seminar on Meditation and Mental September 3-9 School Retreat, Italy Health, London September 14-24 Ten Day Silent Retreat, Bere Island, June 18-25 Monte Oliveto Retreat, Italy Ireland 2 CHRISTIAN MEDITATION NEWSLETTER, VOL. 34, NO 3; OCTOBER 2010 A letter from Laurence Freeman OSB DIRECTOR OF THE WORLD COMMUNITY FOR CHRISTIAN MEDITATION said in a clear, quiet voice how she had just discovered something new about forgiveness that would change her life. Ten years before, she and husband had been watching television together at home when the doorbell rang. He went to answer it and was shot in the chest at pointblank range by a hooded figure in the doorway and died instantly. As time passed and the physical grief – the kind that can even block Some moments stay with us for ever and can be repeatedly your breathing – subsided she was able to reflect on the horror recalled by grace to help us grow in wisdom. So they are and tragedy that had blighted her life. As a Christian she knew themselves moments of grace – memories that become more she ‘should’ forgive. But she felt blocked from doing so for present the better we understand them. As this happens over two reasons. Firstly, that the murderers had not asked for time we see how little we have understood and how much has forgiveness and secondly, that the idea of forgiveness seemed yet to be learned. It’s only the very young, the insecure or the to be a betrayal of her husband. She was stuck and for ten prejudiced who think they know it all for certain. This is why years had not had a good night’s sleep. we are always learning to meditate and how we come to see * that meditation is a way of unlearning. The Truth and Reconciliation Commission in S Africa after An example. During the 2000 John Main Seminar in N. apartheid has generally been acclaimed as a social success. This Ireland I went with the Dalai Lama to a meeting with victims means that it has significantly helped the citizens move on of violence from both sides of the religious divide. As we without lying to themselves or each other. We lie to ourselves entered the room it was like walking into a freezer. Each group from a desperation to survive what we are enduring and think sat on either side of the room with what seemed like an iceberg could destroy us. We can indeed be destroyed by many things dividing them. Intuitively assessing the mood and problem, including our memories, as victims of abuse discover as they the Dalai Lama did not wait for a formal opening but dived grow older. Yet the S African Commission - which offered straight into his own sharing. He spoke about his pain and amnesty to those who fully confessed their crimes and gave an grief at what had happened to Tibet and asked ‘if I chose to opportunity for the victims to describe what they endured hate the enemy, who would be hurt more, them or myself?’ and even to confront their torturers – could not be a forum We can be lifted up and out of the narrow, circular corridors for every memory of abuse over the previous 46 years of state of memory and the feelings that we compulsively pace around, apartheid. In the end only 849 people were given amnesty. when someone speaks like this with authenticity, from their But the sacramental, symbolically representative, encounters heart. They are sacrificing something, offering a part of their had brought healing to many thousands, including those who self, risking themselves. Truth-telling like this acts as a stimulus, had only witnessed the proceedings from a distance. It was awakens us to a larger perspective and, at least for a while, restorative justice that worked. seems to empower us to give of ourselves as well. After he had It was not ‘victor’s justice’ that allows no forgiveness to spoken, we invited the people present to share their memories flow, but a personal, and therefore statistically incomplete, and feelings of how violence had touched and changed their process of forgiveness in action. To forgive we have to discover lives. Slowly, as people began to risk communicating their what forgiveness really means, as the woman in the victims’ memories and actual pain, the iceberg in the room started group in N Ireland unexpectedly came to do. We have also to melting. The temperature rose with the human warmth of be truthful with ourselves, to confront the pain, anger and people trusting each other. Without such human warmth and dark feelings generated by the hurt we have undergone. trust there is no common bond, no community and no Eventually we have to risk touching the cause of our pain, the forgiveness. violent other, from whom we have probably distanced ourselves From early on I had noticed a woman in the front row who by flight or fight. was following everything very intensely and who often seemed The woman I mentioned said that she had just then about to speak but stopped herself. As we drew the session to understood that forgiveness was not pronouncing a verdict of a close she suddenly raised her hand and asked to speak. She acquittal but, first of all, facing and healing her own inner CHRISTIAN MEDITATION NEWSLETTER, VOL. 34, NO 3; OCTOBER 2010 3 battle-scarred landscape of soul. When we are hurt by someone and then the honest answer may be, ‘no we do not deeply – or by some impersonal thing that happens to us – it is as if want to change’. But, when we do want to change, perhaps we are poisoned by betrayal and infidelity if our trust in after the poison has become unendurable, we learn what loving another, or life as a whole, has been trounced; or, if it is an our enemies means. Of course, it doesn’t mean exonerating or accident that we can blame on no one, (although we often try just pardoning them to avoid conflict. Justice always needs to to, to make things feel easier for ourselves), it is as if we have be seen to be done for the right reason. It means simply paying been run over in a hit and run by a passing truck. We lie on attention to the source, human or natural, from which the the ground prostrate and shattered trying to see how much hurt came and then asking ourselves ‘why did they do it?’ At damage has been done. the end of this hard questioning we may conclude that really Suffering, from whatever source, has a frightening otherness ‘they did not know what they were doing’, as Jesus understood to it. Our innate expectation that we will be fairly treated by from the Cross. His insight and detachment enabled him to others and by life – our sense of justice - suddenly appears forgive them – or rather not to say “I forgive them”, but to very naïve. Even if we cannot blame a particular enemy or a draw on the impartial, ever non-condemnatory love of the false friend we may try to blame God. At first we instinctively ‘Father’. To say ‘I’ would have been an assertion of the ego try to refuse admission to what has happened and press the and so, even in his case, a dramatization of the other.