The VISION of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County is successful mentoring relationships for all children who need and want them, contributing to brighter futures, better schools, and Our Vision strong communities for all. The MISSION of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County is to help children reach their potential through professionally Mission & supported mentoring relationships. Dear Friends,

When I founded the program as a university student in 1971, It’s the letter from a former Little who can look back at a difficult I had hoped, but never imagined that over 35 years later childhood and remember someone who gave them a few hours this small program would grow into the premier mentoring a week to just be a kid, it’s the youth who stays in school because organization in WNY. they have someone who believes they can do it, the child that is inspired to use his talents to write, sing or help others, or the It’s inspiring to know that there are so many individuals who teenage girl or boy that says no to a risky behavior because they share and support the vision that we can make a difference have a strong sense of self worth. for our youth by creating opportunities that lead to brighter futures and a better community. Through the countless stories told by Bigs & Littles and the success we see through our outcome-based evaluations, the Our Big Brothers and Big Sisters share all sorts of simple, true impact of our work has been validated. We are helping everyday moments with the youth they mentor...playing our youth reach their potential and thus, providing brighter board games, singing in the car, taking their Little to play futures and hope for a better community. We owe a great deal mini-golf or visit an art museum for the first time. As you’ll of gratitude to our donors and supporters who help us make read in this report, there are thousands of these simple, possible the relationships that create those small, yet ever everyday experiences between our Bigs & Littles. However, important and powerful experiences, that change lives! it’s the power that these moments create that is so inspiring.

With Gratitude,

Robert F. Moss Founder & C.E.O. 2009 board of directors

David T. Hore, President Rich Jureller PCB Group, Inc. Buffalo Sabres

Kevin Paris, Vice President Joseph Marusak ProScan Imaging Paul William Beltz, PC

Vincent F. Mitchell, Treasurer Mark McNamara V.F. Mitchell Agency Hiscock & Barclay

Marie McCrea, Secretary Brain Murphy David’s Bridal Lawley Benefits Group

Mark Ferm Alan S. Korman Tronconi Segarra & Associates LLP Ivoclar Vivadent, Inc

Christopher Hill Gust Pullman Buffalo Bisons Damon Morey LLP

Edward Jackson David Resetarits Community Action Organization Resetarits Construction of Erie County Corporation

Kenneth A. Richmond Erie County Medical Center Dear Benefactor, 2009 President’s Council On behalf of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County’s Board of Directors, it is my great honor to present our agency’s first Annual Report. Throughout this publication we provide The President’s Council represents supporters of Big you with brief stories regarding our Bigs and Littles, summaries of major fundraisers, Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County who have made a descriptions of agency activities and our 2009 fiscal report. This report also allows us personal or organizational commitment or have secured the opportunity to formally recognize our individual and corporate donors. Simply put, annual contributions of $5,000+. This prestigious group without their contributions our important work would not be possible. has made an investment in the belief that all children should be given the chance to succeed, and through the 2009 was a tremendously rewarding year for our agency. Despite the harsh economic power of mentoring, they will! conditions that existed during 2009, our agency managed to successfully run our first ever Gala, sell-out our third consecutive golf outing, dramatically increase individual giving An anonymous donor Amherst Community Foundation and end the year with our strongest balance sheet ever. Much of the credit for those Amherst Diamond Exchange accomplishments must be given to a very hard working and dedicated Board of Directors Bank of America Charitable Foundation and Development Department. The balance of the credit must once again be given to BlueCross BlueShield of WNY you, our benefactors, who have consistently come through for our agency. Thank you! Buffalo Bills Youth Foundation Buffalo Bisons, Inc. During my nearly twenty years of involvement with Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County, Buffalo Sabres Foundation I am continually amazed by the willingness of others to give of their time and resources. Community Foundation for Greater Buffalo Therefore, I would be remiss if I did not mention and thank the many devoted Big Brothers First Niagara Bank Foundation and Big Sisters that give so generously of their most valuable possession – their time. General Mills Foundation David & Shari Hore My heart is deeply touched every time I personally witness Big and Little relationships KeyBank Foundation at work. Whether it’s a high five, or a pat on the back, or a verbal “great job” or any of Josephine Goodyear Foundation another “million” verbal positive reinforcements, I can see the impact on that child, who Mr. Alan Korman & Dr. Karmen Jensen so desperately is looking for validation of their importance in this world. The brief stories Lamar Advertising of Bigs and Littles that are highlighted in this report will hopefully give each of you that M&T Charitable Foundation same great feeling by demonstrating the power of mentoring and the positive impact Vincent & Lisa Mitchell that it can have on the life of a child.And please remember that your generosity made it Robert & De Moss all possible. Brian & Laura Murphy National Grid Kevin & Nora Paris Your continued support will help us strive to realize our goal of providing a successful Parkview Health Services mentoring relationship for every child in need - contributing to better schools, brighter PCB Piezotronics, Inc. futures and stronger communities for all of us. Mr. Gust Pullman Resetarits Construction Kenneth & Lyne Richmond With Deepest Gratitude, The Buffalo Sabres Tim Horton’s Children’s Foundation Try-it Distributing, Inc. United Way of Buffalo & Erie County Upstate Pharmacy, LTD Mr. Thomas Vanek David Hore WGR-550 / Entercom Board President WGRZ - TV Channel 2 Community-Based Mentoring Program

The relationships built in the Community-Based Mentoring 2009 Program Highlights Program are all about one-on-one time spent between the volunteer and the youth doing things they enjoy like going to ball • 562 children participated in this program throughout the year games, fishing, making crafts, visiting local attractions or baking cookies. It is also about the time spent listening to stories about • 94% of the matches lasted longer than six-months the Little’s day and providing guidance with schoolwork and “life- situations” they might be facing. • 87% of matches lasted longer than twelve-months

The schedule is flexible to meet the needs of busy Bigs and Littles. Some Bigs meet their Littles on the weekend or in the evening. And in the most recent evaluation conducted by the program: Others get together with their Littles after school. Everyone can find a way to fit in a few hours a month! • 91.2% of clients were not truant from school during their involvement with the program Prior to a Big & Little match meeting, the agency will assign an agency professional to work closely with the volunteer, the child • 80.2% of clients were not suspended from school during their and their family to assure everyone gets the most they can out involvement with the program of the relationship. Once the match is underway, a case manager will maintain regular contact with everyone involved to help • 88.3% of clients showed improvement in their ability to express the relationship along, keep the volunteer up to date on agency their feelings through discussions events and to provide any additional support or consultation.

“During one of my match support calls, Big Sister Amy was very excited to me tell me about all the fun activities she and her Little Brother had been participating in together. They had started to make a match scrapbook to document all of the memories they had made. Amy bragged about her Little’s accomplishments and school performance. Just recently he had been picked to choose from the prize chest due to his excellent behavior and academic performance. However, Amy was most excited to tell me about a call she had gotten from her Little.

Her Little had called her with “a very important question” to ask. Startled by the seriousness in his voice and the endless possibilities about what the question to follow would be pertaining to, Amy became very intrigued and serious about the conversation. He told her that he had put a lot of time and thought into his question. He had even spoken with his grandmother about it and had gotten her approval to ask the question. By then, Amy was bursting with anticipation, and he finally asked his important question. “Would it be okay if I call your mom and dad Grandma and Papa?” Immediately Amy was relieved and very touched by the question. She told him that it would be just fine for him to call them Grandma and Papa, as long as he and his family were comfortable with it. The next day, I had an opportunity to speak with him about his relationship with his Big Sister Amy. told me that he looked forward to seeing her and he always had fun on their outings. When I asked him if he liked having a Big Sister, he responded, “Of course I do! I love all of my family!” – Emily Lantzy, Case Manager, Community Based Mentoring. “Everything was a new and exciting experience for Tina, from day outings in my Dodge Daytona with 100,000 miles on it to our recent trip to Myrtle Beach”

“I always wanted children in my life and being Tina’s Big Sister has added purpose to mine,” Patty Huttenlocker jubilantly shares with those who ask. Patty became a Big Sister in the early 90’s while she was a college student studying to become a teacher.

“I wanted to be in a long-term relationship with my Little Sister and I am happy to say it has been 16 years since our first meeting, and we still remain in touch,” shares Patty. Over those years, she and her Little Sister Tina have enjoyed many adventures together. Patty has kept a photo album of her time spent with Tina including Science Museum trips, sunny days at the beach and photos from Tina’s prom. They have spent over a decade together; learning, sharing and becoming sisters (Big and Little!)

“I have been able to enjoy many of Tina’s precious-life-moments like when she graduated from high school, her first job and first time on an airplane. Being Tina’s Big Sister means the world to me.”

being a Big Sister “I like having someone who looks out for me that I can have fun with. Someone who cares about me and treats me like a little brother but talks to me like I’m not just a little kid.”

Four years ago, Big Brother Patrick and Little Brother Joey met through our Site-Based Mentoring Program and now Joey’s almost in high school. “It has gone by so fast with so many changes,” shared Big Brother Patrick. One such change was Patrick and Joey graduating their match, after more than a year, from the Site-Based Program into the Community-Based Program. This change allowed them to experience new opportunities as their friendship grew.

Big Brother Patrick made the decision to become a Big Brother because he wanted to give someone the opportunity he did not have as a child -- the opportunity to have someone listen to what he was feeling and to look out for him. Joey was looking for someone to hang out with and he thought it would be fun. And fun it has been! From simple things like playing board games to going to Sabres games, Patrick and Joey have found they can have fun doing anything, even homework.

Patrick and Joey both agree they have learned along the way as well. “Having a role model, I’ve actually learned a lot of things. Kindness, patience, respect for others and how to care about other people too,” states Joey. Patrick adds, “I’ve learned about accountability and stability, seeing and hearing the things Joey goes through adds perspective to my own life and reminds me that there’s a lot of important things that get overlooked.” becoming a Big Brother Site-Based Mentoring Program

Site-Based Mentoring is one-to-one mentoring that takes place 2009 Program Highlights in a structured setting at a local school or community center. Matches meet once a week for 90 minutes during after school • 121 children participated in this program throughout the year hours. Site-Based Mentoring is not a classroom program and it’s not tutoring. Although students may talk with their mentors • 85% of the matches lasted longer than six-months about class, complete homework or read together, the focus is on friendship and guidance. Matches may play board games, shoot hoops, participate in a group activity or simply talk about their day. And in the most recent evaluation conducted by the program:

A Big Brothers Big Sisters Site Coordinator is present at each • 76.1% of clients were not truant from school during their visit to help these relationships grow through guidance and involvement with the program various planned recreational, educational and cultural activities. In 2009, we operated Site Based Mentoring Programs at the Belle • 100% of clients were not involved in the juvenile justice system Community Center and The Enterprise Charter School (in the during their involvement with the program Buffalo Public School District.) • 90% of clients showed improvement in their self-confidence and had a greater sense of being able to do or accomplish something.

It is always a great experience to watch the kids in our program discover things on their own. At the Enterprise Charter School Site, matches had the opportunity to make these discoveries during one of our recent activities. Bigs and Littles gathered to work together and learn a little bit about the fall season. The activity involved researching different types of leaves, and why they change colors.

Each match braved the cold weather long enough to collect different types of leaves that they found on the ground. Once each pair had collected several leaves, they came back inside to look at pictures of leaves and identify what they had collected. It was great to see the kids trying to match their leaves with the pictures and to see how excited they got once they actually found a match. As a team, Bigs and Littles then researched the process of leaves changing colors. The room was filled with excitement as the matches learned about what happens in trees to actually make the leaves change and fall to the ground. The Littles and Bigs both enjoyed learning about something that they witness every day in the fall but did not know exactly why it happened. – Kelly Giallella, Site Coordinator, Enterprise Charter School. A Partnership for Youth Program

A Partnership for Youth Program provides clients with the full support of 2009 Program Highlights an agency case manager and a mentor advocate. The program provides mentoring and advocacy for the agency’s most “at-risk” clients between • 33 children participated in this program throughout the year the ages of 15 and 21. The focus of this program is the convergence of several influences a youth may experience. The roles of social worker, And in the most recent evaluation conducted by the program: family member, friend and guidance counselor are combined into one position, a Mentor/Advocate. • 75% of clients were not truant from school during their involvement with the program (the goal was 50%) The role of the Mentor/Advocate includes, but is not limited to, assuring that the clients: • 92.3% of clients showed improvement with their ability to make decisions and thought before they acted; being mindful of the • attend counseling sessions consequences of their behavior • fulfill all educational commitments • secure or maintain employment • 92.3% of clients showed improvement in their relationships with • work to improve family relationships adults other than family members • participate in athletic and recreational activities • participate in educational field trips, community service activities and vocational visits

Recently, a group of ‘Littles’ and I traveled to the Amberleigh Retirement Home in Williamsville, where we were invited to participate in a Mardi Gras theme celebration with the residents and staff. The boys were a little hesitant about the activity initially, as they were unsure of how to act around a much older crowd. More importantly, they wanted to know what our role would be for the night’s festivities.

Once we arrived, an Amberleigh staff member ushered us into the facility with a warm welcome and inviting spirit, which made the group feel comfortable. Our first task was to pass beads and other knick-knacks out to the residents as they enjoyed some music from a guest piano player. We were also encouraged to do whatever we could to “keep the party going.” The boys found the ragtime dancer very odd, and watched as she entertained the residents while the music played. However, before long, I was able to convince several of the boys to dance with residents, getting them more involved in the show. Later, the boys turned the tables and I was the one dancing with residents as they watched.

We all left Amberleigh feeling like we had gained something. The boys came to give their time and complete community service however, they felt as though they were “paid in full” for their work. – LaGuan Rodgers, Case Manager, A Partnership for Youth Program. “Having a Big Sister means having someone I can trust, talk and share my thoughts with. Beverly supports me in my decision making.”

having a Big Sister

Little Sister Jazmine, Buffalo Bill Chris Draft, Big Sister Beverly

Jazmine was looking for a Big Sister to have fun with, to share things Learning from each other has been a big part of their relationship. with and to place her trust in. Beverly was looking for an opportunity Together, they have visited places they have never been, both learning to share her time, knowledge and experiences. Enter the card game and experiencing new things. A mother of two grown girls, Beverly has UNO. At Big Sister Beverly and Little Sister Jazmine’s first meeting, gained a new perspective on the challenges and opportunities Jazmine’s Jazmine won a spirited game of UNO. Big Sister Beverly called for a generation faces. Jazmine remembers fondly Beverly taking her to get a rematch and from that UNO game, a two and a half year relationship makeover from MaryKay. There she learned about skin care and as Jazmine was born. recalls, “it made me realize I was a beautiful lady.”

“When we get together, we talk about everything under the sun, what’s been going on since our last visit, school, relationships, movies and food,” shares Beverly. We have all seen children hanging out late at night and have wondered where their parents are. January 2010 Program Outcome Evalution We read that Buffalo has the 2nd highest percentage in the state of youth aged 16-19 years old who are high school drop Executive Summary outs and think, why isn’t someone making sure homework is done? CBM - Community-Based | SBM - Site-Based | PFY - Partnership for Youth We hear Erie County has the 2nd highest rate of youth firearm crimes in the state making us speculate about the troubled times children are growing up in. % of clients served CBM SBM PFY

We can not understand why Buffalo continues to have one of not involved in any serious physical fights 86.8% 73.3% 75.0% the highest teen pregnancy rates in the state. during their involvement in the program

We at Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County have had the same thoughts and concerns. not truant from school (illegally absent) 91.2% 76.1% 75.0% during their involvement in the program The good news is we have a solution. It is the impact a Big Brother or Big Sister has in the experienced no school suspensions or 80.2% 73.3% 41.6% life of a child. expulsions from school during their involvement in the program We have seen the teenager who stays in school and is able to walk across the stage in their cap and gown because they had did not consume alcohol during their 100% 95.5% 75.0% someone in their life who believed they could do it. involvement in the program

We know the child inspired to use his talents to write, sing or did not use illegal drugs during their 97.8% 97.3% 75.0% help others. involvement in the program

We have met the girl and boy who gets their first “A” in reading because someone took the time to read with them. no involvement with the juvenile justice 98.9% 100% 75.0% system during their involvement in the program We have heard from the child who looks you square in the eye and tells you that you saved their life by just being there and listening. had no gang affiliation during their 100% 100% 83.3% involvement in the program We are proud and excited to share our program results with you. Through the time commitment of our volunteers and the did not use a firearm during their 100% 100% 100% generosity of our donors; children are becoming empowered. involvement in the program Program Based Outcome Evaluation (% of youth served that showed improvement in each area)

For the area of Confidence, the results were as follows: CBM SBM PFY

Self-Confidence - a sense of being able to do or accomplish something. 86.5% 90.0% 92.3% Ability to Express Feelings - is able to reveal, talk about, or discuss feelings. 88.3% 100% 84.6% Ability to Make Decisions - thinks before acting and is aware of consequences of behavior. 81.1% 95.0% 92.3% Interests or Hobbies - pursues activities such as reading, sports, music, computers, etc. 75.7% 80.0% 84.6% Personal Hygiene - dresses appropriately & keeps self neat & clean. 55.0% 49.0% 62.9% Sense of the Future - knows about educational and career opportunities. 78.4% 69.0% 84.6%

For the area of Competence, the results were as follows:

Use of Community Resources - partakes in service activities, libraries, recreation, church or other faith-based activities. 72.1% 49.0% 76.9% Use of School Resources - uses the library, guidance counselors, tutorial centers. 66.7% 49.0% 69.2% School Performance - makes good grades or improves grades. 75.7% 87.0% 76.9% Attitude toward School - is positive about going to school and what can be learned. 67.6% 95.0% 76.9% School Preparedness - completes homework and other assignments. 66.7% 92.0% 46.1% Class Participation - actively takes part & responds to questions. 61.3% 77.0 % 46.1% Classroom Behavior - pays attention in class; isn’t disruptive. 66.7% 80.0% 53.8% Ability to Avoid Delinquency - refrains from behaviors that are illegal for a person his or her age. 66.7% 74.0% 92.3% Ability to Avoid Substance Abuse - doesn’t use illegal or harmful substances (drugs, alcohol, tobacco.) 57.7% 62.0% 92.3% Ability to Avoid Early Parenting - doesn’t engage in sexual behavior likely to result in early parenting. 60.4% 62.0% 84.6%

For the area of Caring, the results were as follows:

Show of Trust - isn’t reluctant to confide in you, or to accept your suggestions. 69.4% 100% 76.9% Respectfulness of Other Cultures - doesn’t stereotype or put down other ethnic, racial, language, or national groups. 57.7% 97.0% 61.5% Relationship with Family - interacts well with other family members. 55.9% 82.0% 76.9% Relationship with Peers - interacts well with persons of own age. 68.5% 100% 76.9% Relationship with Other Adults - has good interactions with other adults who are not family members. 73.9% 95.0% 92.3%

In November, 350 guests dressed in their finest gathered at the work towards achieving those goals... I know she would be proud Seneca Niagara Casino & Hotel for Big Brothers Big Sisters of to know that I am now the Eligibility Coordinator for the Niagara Erie County’s First Annual Magical Moments Gala. This beautiful Frontier Transportation Authority, a Big Sister myself and soon you evening of dinner and dancing also focused on raising awareness can call me Dr. Christine Farrow when I receive my doctorate degree and funds for the agency’s programs. in counselor education from the University at Buffalo.”

During several special presentations, guests learned how the The funds raised at the First Annual Magical Moments Gala because friendship and magical moments created through a relationship of the generosity of our guests and event sponsors will help to with a strong positive role model can make a difference in a match 136 children with a Big Brother or Big Sister. A special thank child’s life. Keynote speaker and former Little Sister Christine you to our Platinum Sponsors- PCB Piezotronics and Seneca Niagara Farrow shared, “My Big Sister Stephanie helped me set goals and Casino & Hotel. Tim Horton’s Camp Experience

Ginger Kids

As part of our National Mentoring Month activities in January, several Big & Little matches were chosen through an agency drawing for a special “Thank Your Mentor Day” mini-cooking experience activity with Ginger Kids. Ginger Kids provides fun products and multicultural activities for children, cooking programs and cookbooks to encourage adults and children to spend quality time cooking and eating together! With their Bigs looking on, our Littles made delicious chocolate dipped treats including strawberries, bananas and pretzels in the kitchen at DK Benson Interiors in the Village of Williamsville.

Tim Horton’s Camp Experience

BBBSEC has developed a wonderful relationship with the Tim Horton Children’s Foundation, who over the years have sent hundreds of our children to their 10-day summer camps in Kentucky and throughout Canada.

In 2009, Tim Horton’s provided the opportunity for 25 children to attend their summer camp located in Cambellsville, Kentucky. While at the camp, youth Harvest Festival develop interpersonal skills through meeting a wide variety of youth from all over North America. In addition, Tim Horton’s camps incorporate the use of adventure based activities such as rock climbing, high ropes courses and games focused on instilling leadership, team work and problem solving skills.

In February, the foundation gave thirty-five of our Little Brothers and Sisters a wonderful first-time opportunity to experience their Onondaga Farms camp, located in St. George, Ontario, during the winter months. The “tech- free” weekend camp featured environmental, agricultural, recreational and creative arts activities.

Harvest Festival

A large number of matches took advantage of a wonderful Saturday afternoon of fun in October at our first Harvest Festival at Broadway Hope in Lancaster. Our Bigs & Littles enjoyed sack races, hikes, roasting marshmallows and face painting. Matches had a great time participating in activities at the event, and all children left with a free pumpkin to decorate on their next outing with their mentor. Buffalo Bills Holiday Party

Buffalo Bills Holiday Party

The Buffalo Bills created holiday magic for our Littles invited to the Annual Toyota Rookie Club Holiday Party. The Jim Kelly Club at Ralph Wilson Stadium was transformed into a winter wonderland complete with holiday displays, decorated trees and even a toy train for the children to ride! Prior to the party, each child was asked to provide a wish list addressed to Santa. The night of the party, several Buffalo Bills players and the Buffalo Jills acted as Santa’s helpers, personally handing out gifts to each of the children. The kids also enjoyed an incredible dinner along with personal time to talk with each of the Bills, Jills and Santa.

Holiday Donations

Each year, thanks to the generosity of Western New Yorkers, BBBSEC is able to provide the families and children we serve with an opportunity to experience a brighter and more festive holiday season. In 2009, 12 families involved in our program were “adopted” by several donors for the holidays and received gifts, clothing and household items. In addition, donors fulfilled winter wish lists for the agency that included items like hats, gloves, chapstick, tissues, board games and school supplies. Without the help of organizations such as the Wayside Presbyterian Church, Renovation Church, DiDonato and Associates, Buffalo Bills Player Josh Reed, Meritain Health, Pricewaterhouse Coopers and M&T Bank, BBBSEC could not positively effect the lives of so many families this winter.

The opportunity to provide families in Western New York with a positive holiday experience is considered a privilege amongst BBBSEC staff members. Every year, the office is abuzz with wonderful stories, born from collecting and distributing holiday donations. The gratitude expressed by each and every family that receives donations fuels the staff’s passion for positively impacting the lives of youth as a new year begins. Bowl for Kids’ Sake Special Events

Because of Western New York’s generous support, our 2009 events raised enough money to positively impact the lives of over 200 children. It is because of our donors that these kids now know what it’s like to have a Big Brother or Big Sister … someone who cares about them and will show them the way.

Bowl for Kids’ Sake

140 people jammed Voelkers Bowling Lanes, in April, to participate in the longest Night at the Ballpark running BBBS fundraising event. Bowlers enjoyed a party atmosphere, while snacking on food & beverages provided by Tim Hortons and Pizza Hut. Thank you to all those that participated, especially our lead sponsors Try-It Distributing and Voelkers Bowling Lanes. You helped make this event a success!

Night at the Ballpark

What’s a summer without a baseball game? We hosted our annual Night at the Ballpark event at Coca-Cola Field in June. Participants took in a baseball game and enjoyed food and drinks. The night was even capped off with a fireworks display! Thanks to the Buffalo Bisons, Capital Management, and Try-It Distributing for sponsoring the night’s activities.

Fore the Children

Fore the Children

For the 3rd straight year, the sun shone at Orchard Park Country Club as 128 golfers took to the golf course in support of Big Brothers Big Sisters. While no one took home the hole-in-one car, Upstate Pharmacy was named first place foursome for the day! After the day of golf, participants enjoyed dinner along with silent and live auctions. The big hits of the night were the Cleveland Cavalier Package, which included 4 tickets to a Cavs game and a Sabres package that offered the winner a chance to golf with Lindy Ruff. A BIG thanks to our sponsors: Parkview Health Services, PCB Piezotronics, and Try-It Distributing. being a Big Brother

Being a Big Brother has done immeasurable good for me. When I heard No, the most meaningful part of being a Big Brother is getting that phone about the program, it seemed like a win-win situation that would be a call that he had a bad report card, because for once he had somewhere to major commitment. I did worry it may be too major of a commitment. turn. Being able to “prop him up” and tell him how smart he is, watch him Could I possibly help a kid in a tough spot when I’m a 28-year-old guy commit to stay after school with his teachers five-days-a-week -- totally who sometimes doesn’t notice that his socks don’t match until late in unprovoked -- and call me with the news of an improved five-week report the day? made me happy.

I have to joke a little, because thinking about my friendship with Tim Then, I told him I was proud of him. He cut me off and said, “I can do better.” can get me pretty emotional. He’s a great kid who has come out of his shell more and more each time we hang out. Sharing my love of What does being a Big Brother mean to me? It’s means watching a kid grow sports and local small restaurants has been great, but those aren’t the as a person; becoming a young adult, and even better a friend. moments that resonate. Being told by his basketball coach that I’m having an effect on him was nice, but that wasn’t it either. 2009 Donation List

John & Linda Van Heel Mr. Gregory Kozerski Dennis & Kristen Williams Ms. Beverly Warren John & Geraldine Lehner Ms. Patricia Wirth Individuals Mr. Nathan Wilson Ms. Ellis Levine Ms. Deborah Wydysh Mr. Brian Levy Mrs. Linda Zilgme Serrie & Jennifer Lico Mr. & Mrs. Fred Zwierlein This list contains the names of individuals, who through their Mr. Jerry Linder support of our annual appeal, a special event or United Way $100 - $499 Mr. Michael Lyons designation, have made a gift in support of our BBBSEC’s vision that One anonymous donor Ms. Ashley Maguder successful mentoring relationships for all children who need and Joseph & Ismahan Abdallah Mr. Richard Majewski Gifts of merchandise or Services want them, will contribute to brighter futures, better schools, and Ms. Alicia Albee Ms. Linda Maraszek strong communities for all. Mr. Martin Anderson Mr. James McMahon Mrs. Beverly Angelo Mr. Daniel McNamara Mr. & Mrs. Richard Argentieri Mr. Brian Mendler $10,000+ $200,000+ Mr. David Askey One anonymous donor Mark and Michele Mercer Amherst Diamond Exchange Mr. Richard Atwater Mr. Ryan Micklus Cleveland Cavaliers Mr. Michael Barnes Mr. Pete Miranda Lamar Advertising $2,500 - $4,999 Ms. Krista Bauer Mrs. Jeanette Moss Tim Horton’s Children’s Foundation David & Shari Hore Mr. Matthew Beck Ms. Linda Mueller Mr. Thomas Vanek Vincent & Lisa Mitchell Mr. Howard Bell Mr. Bill Myers WGR-550 / Entercom Robert & De Moss James & Diane Black Ms. Jean Neal Mr. Timothy Tepas David & Lauren Bobeck Mr. Kyle Nelson Mr. & Mrs. Donald White Mr. Michael Bordonaro, Jr. $1,000 - $9,999 Mr. Kevin Neumaier Mr. Scott Bryer Buffalo Bills Mrs. Tammy Oswald Ms. Nancy Burgasser Buffalo Bisons $1,000 - $2,499 Mr. Mike Pallaci Mr. & Mrs. Ted Butler Buffalo Sabres Mr. & Mrs. Victor Anastasia Kevin & Nora Paris Ms. Ellen Carl Buffalo Advertising Anthony & Donna Angiolillo Ms. Robin Parkinson Mr. Henry Cartagena Mr. Bob Davis / Sellbound David & Gail Carroll Mr. Kalpesh Patel Dr. Corinne Coen Stephen Gielowski Mr. John Deluca Dave & Cindy Pecynski John & Ellen Cogan Goal Line Management Joseph & Carol Guagliardo Brian & Jennifer Perelstein Ms. LuAnne Costrino The Hore Family Robert & Daylan Jellinick Mr. Bentley Pierce Ms. Susan Courtney ICE Mr. Alan Korman & Dr. Karmen Jensen Daniel & Theresa Quider Mr. Jeffrey Danahy The Lally Family Mr. Kenneth Kota Mr. Paul Renzoni Mr. Joshua Dean Mr. Leslie Lenhard Mr. & Mrs. John Lally Mr. Marc Robertson Mr. Sean Depue Mr. Toni Lydman Mr. Joseph Marusak Steven & Susan Rubenstein Mr. & Mrs Michael Dolan Madison Square Garden Mr. Paul Miller Mr. Gregory Russell Ms. Rae Dolyk Mader Construction Ms. Nicole Moss Mr. Juan Santiago Mr. Dennis Donovan Mr. Terrence McGee Mr. Steven Moss Mr. David F. Schneeweiss Mr. Kevin Dunwoodie Moondance Ridge Brian & Laura Murphy James & Ann Segarra Mr. Paul Durr Northtowns Lexus Mr. & Mrs. Kevin O’Leary Ms. Kirsten Shelly Nicholas & Patricia Fabozzi Tickets for Kids Charities Mr. Stephen O’Neill Michael & Rita Simon Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Fayad Tronconi Segarra & Associates Phil & Jenn Petoniak Ms. Camille Sinatra Mr. Chris Fiorello Ron Thomas Mr. Michael Robertson Anthony & Katherine Siresi Maurice & Michele Flannery VF Mitchell Agency, LLC Mr. & Mrs. Charles Sauers Dr. & Mrs. James Slough Mr. Fred Fross Paul & Amy Vukelic Ms. Anne Smith Mr. David Garcia Mr. Thomas Sollitto $100 - $999 Mr. Tom Gaspari Ms. Loretta Buczek Mr. & Mrs. Timothy Sopko $500 - $999 Mr. James Gormley Buffalo Museum of Science Mr. & Mrs. Benedetto Sperandeo Mr. Eric Armenat Mr. Gerald Grace, Jr. Mr. Raymond Carlini Ms. Shana Stegner Michael & Julie Benzin Alan & Renee Gracie Kevin Cichocki Mrs. Eleanor Stiller, * deceased Mr. & Mrs. Kevin Biddle Mr. James Grasso Coca-Cola Bottling Of Buffalo Mr. James Swinnerton Dr. & Mrs. Edward Boyczuk Thomas & Dana Guagliardo Corvette Cleaners Mr. & Mrs. James Talty Mark & Michele Ferm Mr. Peter Gutowski Bob Costrino Mr. Kevin Thelen Mr. Thomas Kaiser Mary & Brian Haley Mr. Tom Dowd John & Mary Thompson Mr. & Mrs. James Lally Ms. Cheryl Hall Ms. Frances Doyle Mr. Peter Tiutiunnyk Joseph & Maureen Marris Mrs. Elyse Hulse Mark Ferm Ms. Claudia Tripi Ms. Priscilla Marsh Mr. & Mrs. Wayne Jurgielewicz Jamie Franz Patrick Tronconi Mr. Gust Pullman Julian and Sima Kahn Freddoso Family Mr. Thomas Waring Ms. Mary Kelly Rehab Ms. Kartrina Karas Insty Prints Mrs. Elizabeth Warren Mr. & Mrs. Salvatore Sedita Michael & Donna King Ismailia Shrine Temple Mr. & Mrs. Jeffery Wik Mr. Mark Stahlka Mr. Tom Kirst Jan’s Smoke Shop Mr. Mark Wilerzbicki Mr. Stephen Kolly Mr. Gerald Kayser BIG BROTHERS BIG SISTERS OF ERIE COUNTY’S LEGACY SOCIETY

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County mourned the loss between a Big and Little in the history of the agency of two individuals whose commitment to our organization through his 37-year friendship with his Little Brother Tony. made an immeasurable difference in the lives of children Our program was part of his mission in life and he fulfilled in need; Stephen C. Moss; the brother of the agency’s that mission very well! Founder & CEO, Robert Moss and Vincent F. Mitchell; a Big Brothers Big Sisters Board Member. In recognition of their lifetime commitments to helping others, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County is proud Stephen’s humble generosity to the agency allowed to introduce, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County’s children he never met the opportunity to learn from and Legacy Society. share life experiences with a caring adult mentor. The impact of his incredible generosity to our agency, not to Legacy Society Members have included Big Brothers Big mention the numerous others he supported, will be felt Sisters of Erie County in their estate plans by naming us as for generations. a beneficiary of their will, trust, retirement account or as beneficiary or owner of an insurance policy. Through these Vince was a great friend and supporter of BBBSEC. Not commitments future generations of children will be given only was he the agency’s longest tenured Board Member, the opportunity to have an adult mentor in their lives. he also had the longest standing on-going relationship Mr. Andrew Mackmin $2,500 - $4,999 $500 - $999 Hills Trucking Majestic Steel USA American Swiss Products Admar Supply Company Inc. Homespace Sally & Barry Mason Buffalo Renaissance Foundation American Stainless Corporation Huron Plumbing & Heating McMillan Corporation Cobham Mission Systems Automatic Data Processing Inc. Insight Health Corporation Ms. Lorelee Messenger Coffee Culture New York, Inc. Battaglia & Associates International League of Professional Baseball Clubs, Inc. Mr. Steven Montador Damon Morey, LLP Beancounters, Inc. Intrinsic Devices, Inc. National Labor Relations Board Region #3 Erie County Medical Center BJ’s Wholesale Club, Inc. Jaeckle Fleischmann & Mugel, LLP New York Rangers Farm Family Insurance Company Citigroup Foundation Jim Ball Auto Group Inc., Charitable Foundation Ms. Amanda Patrick First Niagara Financial Group Ciurczak & Company Inc. John P. Whitty Company, P.C. David Pfalzgraf HSBC Bank-Commercial Bank Eastside Machine Kelkenberg Homes, Inc. Gust Pullman Independent Health Association, Inc. Ecology & Environment, Inc. Kenmore Development Mr. Josh Reed Mader Construction Co., Inc. Employee Benefit Concepts LMS North America Mr. Chris Saunders Nixon Peabody G.W. Ehrhart, Inc. Locust Street Art Studio Shaw Festival Phillips Lytle LLP IKM Incorporated Meritain Health Stikboys Proskauer Rose Inergex Merrill Lynch - The Nicholson Group Tantalo Photography Tronconi, Segarra & Associates Kelton Enterprises/Tim Hortons Morris Masonry Restoration LLC Tickets.Com Wendt Propane & Oil Kideney Architects Murak & Associates, LLC Travers Collins & Co. Lakeshore Primary Care Nappo Financial Services Uncle Bob’s Self Storage National Fuel Gas Co. Foundation $1,000 - $2,499 Laughlin’s Mr. Nathan Wilson Linear Integrated System Proforma Total Business Avox Systems WNY MRI LPCiminelli Robo Enterprises, Inc. BlackRock Financial Management, Inc. M&T Bank Russell Bond & Co. Inc. BOCES, Cattaraugus, Alleghany, Wyoming MacSolutions Plus, Inc. Sevenson Environmental Services Bond, Schoeneck & King, PLLC Monro Muffler Brake & Service Steven J. Baum, P.C. Corporations and Foundations Brown Chiari, LLP MPL Incorporated Stovroff Taylor Realtors Buffalo State College NextPoint LLC Strate Welding Supply Co. Inc. Capital Management Service Systems Personnel, Inc. This list contains the names of corporations and Roberts-Gordon LLC Children’s Foundation of Erie County, Inc. Terry Hines & Associates foundations, who through the awarding of a grant Schmitt Sales, Inc. Computer Task Group The Travel Team Inc or through their support of our special events, have Sensor Manufacturing Company DreamCatcher Foundation Towne BMW Mini made a gift in support of BBBSEC’s mission to help Sysco Food Services Enterprise Holdings Foundation Travers Collins & Co. children reach their potential through professionally Waterford Advisors, LLC FCS Administrators, Inc Underberg & Kessler LLP supported mentoring relationships. First Niagara Bank Foundation Uniland Development Corporation Gannett Foundation, WGRZ-TV $100 - $499 University Pediatric Dentistry $10,000+ Gielowski, Federice & Caligiuri LLP Aakron Rule Corp Veracity Benefit Designs Amherst Community Foundation Grider Dental Services, PLLC Absolute Marketing Waring Financial Group Bank of America Charitable Foundation HSBC Bank, USA American Coaster Ad-Mat Zisek-Kraftwerks, Inc. Big Brothers Big Sisters of America National Office Kelly for Kids Foundation Apollo Drywall Co. Inc. Buffalo Sabres Foundation Keltic Financial Bison Bluegrass First Niagara Bank Foundation Key Resource Group BTC Electronic Components, Inc. General Mills Foundation Kiwanis Club of Ken-Ton Buffalo General, Kaleida Health Government Funding M&T Charitable Foundation Matric Buffalo Office Interiors, Inc. PCB Piezotronics, Inc. McGuire Development Business Lab, LLC Erie County Department of Social Services United Way of Buffalo & Erie County Merrill Lynch Matching Gift Program Campus Linc, Inc. Millennium Funding D’Youville College Erie County Department of Youth Services Nice Ash Cigars & Lounge Empire Building Diagnostics NY State Office of Children & Family Services $5,000-$9,999 Paroz Family Foundation Employer Services Corporation Town of Amherst, Youth Bureau BlueCross BlueShield of WNY People Inc. Entercom Buffalo, LLC US Department of Health & Human Services, Buffalo Bills Youth Foundation Proscan Imaging of Buffalo, LLC Erie County Industrial Development Agency Administration of Children & Families Buffalo Bisons, Inc. Saturn Radiology PLLC Erie Plating Company Community Foundation for Greater Buffalo Summer Street Capital Partner Fancher Sales, Co. Inc. KeyBank Foundation Task Micro-Electronics Inc. GDH Construction, Inc. Josephine Goodyear Foundation Terrence Greiner, PC Grand Island Sales & Service Lawley Benefits Group The JS Ten Trust Great Lake Industries National Grid The Penn Schoellkopf Fund Greenwood Group, LLC Parkview Health Services TRS Technologies Guard Unlimited Resetarits Construction United Insurance Agency Gugino Insurance Agency Try-it Distributing, Inc. University at Buffalo Hammerl Amusements Upstate Pharmacy, LTD Variety - The Children’s Charity of Buffalo & WNY Hanes Supply, Inc. Walsh, Roberts & Grace Financial Statement January 1, 2009 – December 31, 2009

2009 Income: $1,274,385 2008 Income: $943,708

Other United Way $8,804 Corporate & Foundation Grants $52,000 Other Special Events $50,000 $184,466 $19,020 special events Government Grants $506,956 United Way corporate $45,000 Contributions contributions $151,765

government grants Government Grants $550,284united way Corporate & Foundation Grants Other $149,550 Contributions $435,831 Special Events $64,417

2009 Expenses: $1,107,365 2008 Expenses: $1,111,114

Fundrasing Management & General Management & General $5,161 $164,558 $203,343

Programs $907,771

Programs $937,646

John P. Whitty and Company prepared the 2009 audit. A full copy of the annual audit can be obtained from Be-A-Friend Program Inc. / Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County. The audit report is filed with the New York State Office of the Attorney General, Charities Bureau, located at 120 Broadway, New York, NY 10271. Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County Be-A-Friend Program, Inc. 85 River Rock Drive, Suite 107 Buffalo, NY 14207

(716) 873-5833 www.beafriend.org

*Affiliate of Big Brothers Big Sisters of America