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PAGE 5 PAGE 11 PAGE 25 Michael Sutilatila Down East Masonic Receives Pierpontont Table Travels in Edwards Medaldal Lodge Israel TABLE OF CONTENTS CConnecticutonnecticut FFREEMASONSREEMASONS Grand Lodge Insurance Programs ...... 4 How to Make Something Work ...... 18 Michael Sutila Receives Pierpont Edwards Medal ...... 5 GWMM Holiday Ornament ...... 18 Volume 7 - Number 7 Grand Chaplain’s Pulpit ...... 6 Police Raise Five New Brothers ...... 18 Publisher Masonicare Experience ...... 7 Union Lodge Serves Breakfast ...... 19 THE GRAND LODGE Grand Historian’s Corner ...... 8 St. Peter’s Visits Manhatten ...... 19 OF CONNECTICUT AF & AM Report on Grand Representative Program ...... 9 PSMC’s Confer Fellowcraft Degree ...... 19 Editor-in-Chief Holiday Arts and Crafts Fair ...... 9 Geriatric Ministry Volunteers ...... 20 SIMON R. LAPLACE DeMolay Home Run ...... 9 Hiram No. 18 “Steps Up” ...... 21 From the Desk of Steve McPherson ...... 10 Open House Opens Some Eyes ...... 21 Associate Editor Festival of Trees ...... 10 A Rainbow Who Rocks ...... 22 CARL G. EK Help for the “Holiday Blues” ...... 11 Scottish and York Rites Provide Scholarships ...... 22 Correspondent Down East Table Lodge ...... 11 “Meet the Knights Templar” ...... 23 MICHAEL L. CASTROLL News from the Valley of Hartford ...... 12 Tax Deductions for Donations ...... 23 Design Masonicare and the IRS ...... 12 Our Departed Brothers ...... 24 GWEN M. ROCHETTE Two Brothers in Disguise ...... 12 York Rite College Hosts New England ...... 24 CHARLENE D. ROWE News from the Valley of New Haven ...... 13 Masonic Travels in Israel ...... 25 Congratulations...... 13 RW Memmott Named Chair ...... 26 Contributors Questions for a Traveling Man ...... 14 Visitor to New London Chapter No. 58 ...... 26 BRUCE R. BELLMORE Oktoberfest Table Lodge ...... 14 York Rite Opportunities ...... 27 DAVID R. BLYTHE, SR. BILL BREED Auvergne Initiation Set ...... 14 Craft at Labor...... 28 AL BROWN Masonicare Trustees Re-elected ...... 15 Craft at Refreshment ...... 28 CHRIS BUCK Welcome New Brothers ...... 15 Boosters ...... 30 THOMAS A. BURKE Long Service Begets Long Travels ...... 15 It’s Diffi cult to Know Where to Start ...... 31 PAUL CHELLO Ski Jump Dedicated in Salisbury ...... 16 MARJE CHICK BRAD COONEY MICHAEL B. DODGE CREIGHTON ENGLISH Grand Lodge of Connecticut, AF & AM ROBERT G. FITZGERALD CHARLES B. FOWLER 69 Masonic Avenue • P.O. Box 250 • Wallingford, Connecticut 06492 TONY GIUNTA Offi ce hours: 8:00 a.m. – 12:30 p.m., 1:15 p.m. to 4:30 p.m.; Monday through Friday BILL HILLMAN First Saturday of the month: 8:00 a.m. to 12:00 noon PAUL KACHEVSKY 203-679-5903 • 800-529-4161 (in-state only) • Fax: 203-679-5996 PAT KALINAUSKAS e-mail: [email protected] • www.ctfreemasons.net DR. RICHARD KULL GARY A. LITTLEFIELD STEPHEN B. MCPHERSON JAMES T. MCWAIN DANIEL W. NICHOLS PENNY O’NEILL GRAND MASTER’S EDWARD PAGE ADAM RAIDER MARSHALL ROBINSON TRESTLE BOARD MAX ROSENBERG JOHN-JAMES SARGENT Connecticut Freemasons is the offi cial James T. McWain - December 2011 publication of the Grand Lodge of Connecticut AF & AM. All original articles are subject to editing. All checks DATE EVENT PUBLIC DINNER ATTIRE for payments and donations should be made out to Grand Lodge Publications Thursday, December 1, 1:00 p.m. Offi ce hours, Grand Lodge offi ce, Wallingford Y N C and mailed to the Grand Lodge offi ce at Thursday, December 1, 4:00 p.m. Audit committee, Wallingford N N C PO Box 250, Wallingford, CT 06492. Saturday, December 3, 10:00 a.m. Putnam Lodge No. 46, South Woodstock N Y F Connecticut Freemasons (USPS 025-514) Sunday, December 4, 4:00 p.m. Grand Lodge holiday party, Ashlar Village Volume 7 Number 7 December 2011 is published monthly except August by The Wallingford Y Y S Grand Lodge AF & AM of Connecticut, 69 Thursday, December 8, 1:00 p.m. Offi ce hours, Grand Lodge offi ce, Wallingford Y N C Masonic Avenue, P.O. Box 250, Wallingford, CT 06492-0250. Periodicals Postage paid Thursday, December 8, 4:00 p.m. Masonicare Trustees, Wallingford N N S at Wallingford, CT and additional mailing Friday, December 9 Grand Lodge of Washington, D. C. offi ces. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to Connecticut Freemasons, Tuesday, December 13 1st District Permanent members meeting N N F c/o The Grand Lodge AF & AM of Connecticut, Friday, December 16, 8:00 p.m. New Haven Commandery N N F P.O. Box 250, Wallingford, CT 06492-0250.

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Page 2 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Grand Master’s Message

As the year winds to a close, it seems that time is fl ying. As Connecticut Masonry and we Christmas approaches, I’m sure that many of you take time to need every brother’s input. We refl ect on Christmas seasons in your past. also included the opportunity For me, Christmas always had a magical quality. Growing to donate to the Organ Donor up in Vermont, winter and all things to do with snow certainly Program and the other charities were a major ingredient of the season. Christmas was family, we have traditionally supported. church, large family dinners and, as a child, the anticipation Response to the appeal has of Christmas morning. Our ritual called for opening presents been heartwarming. As I sign letters on Christmas morning, but only after my father had “cleaned of thanks, I am able to see many notes up” which meant shaving and dressing with a shirt and tie, and ranging from, “Why have we not heard of this laboratory sooner?” retrieving the eggnog from the porch where it had been cooling to ones from widows thanking me for all that we do and “... here from the night before. Although my sister and I had already been are a few dollars to help cover postage.” up very early and scouted, very silently, the tree and stockings, we Recently Bonnie and I attended the Masonicare “Autumn had to wait for all this preparation. Gathering.” This is an occasion to support the residents of As I refl ect back I realize that we always had an exciting our healthcare facility and thank the volunteers who give so Christmas — it was a good feeling of home, family, and happiness. generously of their time. Volunteers donate literally thousands When I left home for college, I remember that I still anticipated of hours supporting Masonicare at Newtown and Masonicare “being home” for Christmas. Health Center at Wallingford. This year we honored two groups Later, in the Army, I was stationed in Germany on the East/ of volunteers who are so very supportive. West German border and I will not forget the loneliness of my The fi rst group was the Quality of Life Committee. This fi rst Christmas away from home. Luckily, there was much to do committee is responsible for assisting the staff in ensuring that and not much time for “feeling sorry” at being away. every resident’s quality of life is maintained at the level consistent During my Army service, I learned that “Christmas as I with our standards, regardless of their circumstances. The second perceived it in Vermont” was not the same the world over. I group was the Train Room volunteers who maintain the trains, learned that European Christmas’ were not the same in Bavaria layouts, mechanical, and electrical mechanisms necessary for the as in Austria or Switzerland, and all were certainly different than entire system. They provide residents and anyone visiting the those experienced in Panama. “Train Room” an opportunity to think back to their youth or to In my travels in the Army, we were able to get back to Vermont Christmases past when they were amazed to see a model train for Christmas with my parents seven times in thirty or so years. under a tree. This experience taught me the value of one’s family. I learned All of this thinking of Christmas past and present has reminded that no matter how often we spoke on the phone or wrote letters me of how fortunate we are as Masons and Americans. My belief and sent pictures, there was nothing that compared to the feeling in “who we are” is as strong as ever because I continually see the of driving into one’s hometown and anticipating seeing family positive effect of the good works we do. after an absence of three or four years. Although we were away I am confi dent that we have the ability to move Masonry in from home, we considered ourselves “lucky.” We had many gifts Connecticut decisively forward in this century. — good health, the ability to travel, see interesting places, meet Bonnie and I wish you a very Merry Christmas and the fascinating people, and the knowledge that we could overcome Happiest of Holidays. the diffi culty of frequent moves, different homes, and many school systems. As I refl ect on the past year, I have similar thoughts. I have welcomed the opportunity to lead this great fraternity and have discovered that I am still “lucky.” We have been blessed with many gifts — the great group of leaders who have volunteered James T. McWain to assist in furthering the goals of Freemasonry, the opportunity Grand Master to start new programs, the understanding and acceptance of the new focus of the District Deputies and Grand Lodge offi cers, the work being done by the committees of education, community action, ritual, and others, and the craft’s continued support of the many charities that Masonry supports. Our Cover… This year’s Grand Master’s Appeal was a bit different with a At the 2010 Festival of Trees at the Masonic Healthcare strategic planning survey and information about the Masonic Cemter’s lobby, then Deputy Grand Master James T. McWain Medical Research Laboratory (MMRL) included with the appeal selected his favorite ornament. Come choose your favorite tree letter. The MMRL is on the leading edge of research aimed at starting this year on December 2. many cardiac-related problems. The survey is important to

December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 3 Grand Lodge Insurance Programs - Summary for 2011 (Presented to the Lodge Secretaries on October 29, 2011) by Robert G. Fitzgerald, Grand Secretary • A Primary Property/General Liability The Primary Policy also provides “General There are a number of insurance policies policy and an Excess General Liability Liability Coverage” for those Masonic building in place. Some of these are of concern Policy, some parts of which apply to both corporations which found it advantageous to primarily to the Grand Lodge, its offi cers, and the Grand Lodge and the constituent do so and chose to place their coverage in employees. These include Lodges, and may, for General Liability the new program offered over the summer in • Workers Compensation coverage for the coverage only, if they so elect, apply to 2011. This would cover such things as “slip & 3 employees; Grand Secretary, Grand Masonic Building Corporations. fall” accidents or other loss or injury resulting Treasurer and Grand Secretary Emeritus from use of the premises. (who does the printing in our offi ce.) The Primary Property portion covers the An “Excess General Liability Policy” • A Travel Accident Policy (AD&D) which machinery and equipment and stock which provides $4,000,000 excess of the $1,000,000 covers the Grand Lodge offi cers, District is located in the Grand Lodge offi ce building Primary Policy for the Grand Lodge and the Deputies and Assoc. Grand Marshals and a small remote storage area, both in constituent lodges. This limit was increased while traveling on Grand Lodge business. Wallingford. from $1,000,000 to $4,000,000 in September This Primary Policy also provides 2011. It also applies to those Masonic building the “Paraphernalia Coverage” for both corporations that took advantage of the the Grand Lodge and the constituent alternative program developed in the summer lodges. Coverage is afforded on the same of 2011. basis as the “Paraphernalia Inventory” The alternative program offered this submitted by the lodges from time to summer was a development to eliminate time. The limit of liability for the Grand what in some respects was duplicate general Lodge is $140,000. The limit of liability liability coverage between the Masonic for the constituent lodge is $25,000, building corporations and the Grand Lodge/ unless an individual lodge elects to Constituent Lodge insurance program. We purchase a higher limit. Some do, requested property underwriting information based on their inventory. This coverage from those lodges that we knew or thought can also apply to reported “Fine Arts” we knew operated the Masonic building property. It is important that these corporations. Of the approximately 75 such inventories be periodically updated. buildings in Connecticut, about 45 were The Primary Policy provides insured by policies placed by our Agent “Crime Coverage” for loss or damage Dorry Watkins with Ahrens, Fuller, St. John to “money”, “securities”, or “other & Vincent in Suffi eld. The balance are placed property” for theft committed by an in other markets chosen by the individual “employee” An “employee” is anyone Masonic building corporation management. acting in any capacity, whether paid We offered the opportunity for competitive or volunteer, for the Grand Lodge or a quotes to all of the approximately 75 Masonic constituent lodge. The limit applying building corporations. We received responses to the Grand Lodge is $250,000. The from about 15 of them. Some of the property limit applying to Constituent Lodges is coverage proposals were attractive and some $25,000. were not, as was expected. So far, two temple An “Excess Crime Policy” covers the corporations have chosen to change to this Grand Lodge only for $250,000 excess program. We expect others may change in of the above Primary Policy. This is to the future in view of the increase in General satisfy the bonding requirements of Liability Limit now offered. Section 2120 of the Grand Lodge Rules If there are any questions regarding the and Regulations. coverage afforded by these programs, please The Primary Policy also provides call me. If I cannot answer myself, I will refer “General Liability Coverage” for the you to the Committee on Legal Affairs or to Grand Lodge and the constituent lodges one of our insurance agents. in the amount of $1,000,000. This The total cost of these insurance products coverage protects the lodge in the event comprise nearly 11% of the Grand Lodge of loss or injury (such as might result annual expense budget. We make every effort from food poisoning or during degree to get the most coverage we can at reasonable work) arising out of lodge sponsored cost, but we must try to be sure that the activities, whether at the location of membership, the lodges and the Masonic their stated communications or at some building corporations get the most they can other location. for the money.

Page 4 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Pierpont Edwards Medal Awarded to Dr. Michael Sutila by Michael L. Castroll also “Brother” Washington, he began to seek Michael Sutila started life as Michael Masonic light. Pointed in the right direction, Brady, born to Barbara and Richard Brady on Mike received the thrice given light in Fidelity- February 21, 1957, in Atlantic City, New Jersey. St. John’s Lodge No. 3, Fairfi eld, in 1993. While Mike was still an infant his parents Joining the offi cer corps in 1994, he went divorced and Mike went to Fairfi eld, with his through the chairs. The lodge got more than mother. Eventually, Mike would legally change they bargained for. Mike was fi rst installed in his surname to that of his mother’s maiden the Oriental Chair in 1998. With the lodge name, Sutila. struggling to keep everything together, Mike During his freshman year in high school, continued as Worshipful Master in 1999 and he was awarded an athletic scholarship 2000. Mike was not hesitant about serving the to Suffi eld Academy, a top-ranked private lodge again in 2005 and 2007. boarding school once under the leadership of To wake everybody up, he invited the MW Conrad Hahn. Mike would be named to Royal Canadian Mounted Police Degree the Prep-School All American Football Team, Team to Fairfi eld. They played to a packed and rank third in New England in his weight house. That got the ball rolling again. When class in wrestling. he resumed the East, it was not without Michael J. Sutila went on to Ithaca College fanfare. Mike invited the Oklahoma Indian as a biology major, earning his varsity letters Degree Team to Fairfi eld, held a public dinner in football and wrestling. In his junior year, featuring the Oklahoma Indian Tribal Dance Mike discovered rugby (or rugby discovered and an Entered Apprentice Degree. Later in Connecticut to recently honor Mike with Mike). Mike moved back to Connecticut after the year, Mike organized a trip to perform the Pierpont Edwards Medal in Bronze for three years at Cayuga Lake, but his focus was an Entered Apprentice Degree at Alexandria- Distinguished Masonic Service. clearer. Mike worked at the Fairfi eld Lumber Washington Lodge No. 22, where Brother Ever congenial, Mike took his charge to Company by day and enrolled at Charter Oak George Washington was the charter Master. converse with well informed brethren very College by night. Meanwhile, he continued to Brother Mike Sutila served the Grand Lodge as seriously. He continued to refer to that point play rugby. Right Worshipful District Deputy for District in each of his terms as Worshipful Master, Mike was approached by the coach from 1B for 2006-7. trying to provide extra knowledge and Life Chiropractic College in Marietta, Georgia Mike’s search for further light continues. A enjoyment by bringing in a degree team from to join the team with a full scholarship; he member of the Scottish and York Rite bodies, a foreign jurisdiction, or traveling to exhibit readily accepted. While at Life College, Mike he is a member of Mohawk Council No. 28, Connecticut work. was named to the United States rugby team, Knight Masons, Connecticut York Rite College Mike’s varied career has also shown him to representing the United States against Canada No. 17, and Pyramid Shriners, where he is most be operative, and not just a speculative man and Argentina. Mike graduated Life College active in the Motor Patrol. He is a life-member and Mason. He gives the same answer each with the degree of Doctor of Chiropractic. of the George Washington National Masonic time: “I want to be able to provide a little extra Dr. Sutila moved back to Connecticut Memorial and Alexandria-Washington Lodge for those who are just coming through the and passed state chiropractic exams in No. 22, Alexandria, Virginia. ranks. When others pitch in it’s even better. Massachusetts, New York, and Connecticut. Mike Sutila always seems to have a fresh I’m not a one man show. If it wasn’t fun I Mike has worked in various practices since that way to rejuvenate an old event. His brothers wouldn’t do it.” time. When the infamous 9/11 attack occurred at Fidelity-St. John’s at the Twin Towers, Dr. Mike Sutila was Lodge No. 3 showed found in New York City as a volunteer, giving their appreciation by chiropractic care to the police, fi remen, and engraving a tile that workers who were cleaning up the destroyed sits in the northeast buildings at Ground Zero. corner by the altar, In 2003, Mike joined a large medical offi ce which reads: “One is in Danbury; and in 2007, Mike and wife Sandy led down a path in opened the Lumberyard Pub, a sports bar in which he may come nearby Redding. With the pub occupying his across a man who time, Mike left the practice in Danbury and greatly impacts his life. joined a smaller chiropractic offi ce in Norwalk. A man who embodies Mike was then able to employ some spare the true tenants of time on the battlefi elds of the American Friendship, Morality, Revolution as a colonial re-enactor with the 5th and Brotherly Love. Connecticut Regiment. The more Mike read Dedicated to Michael about our fl edgling days, the more light was Sutila, PM, PDD, shed about people such as Mike’s personal Worshipful Master, hero, General (later President) George Brother, and Friend.” Washington. It was natural for When Mike learned that his hero was the Grand Lodge of December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 5 Grand Chaplain’s Pulpit RW Bro. Bruce R. Bellmore, Grand Chaplain “A Time of Miracles and Wonder”

When I was in elementary school, one of of the trappings of Christmas, including it sometime my best friends was Joel Friedlander. In our elaborate gift-giving and even Chanukkah between 7BC class of thirty, only Joel, myself, and Calvin stockings, was originally a celebration of and 2BC) this White did not attend Wednesday Catechism a Jewish revolution against assimilation observance in taught by the nuns from St. Paul’s Church. I was and the repression of the Jewish religion. December is an Episcopalian, Calvin an African Methodist We read on the website, www.jewfaq.org. believed to have Episcopalian, and Joel was Jewish. It caused a “The story of Chanukkah begins in the reign been chosen to lot of pain for the three of us as the nuns would of Alexander the Great. Alexander conquered coincide with the tell the other children to avoid us and would Syria, Egypt, and Palestine, but allowed the Roman Winter Solstice repeatedly bless themselves and cross to the lands under his control to continue observing or other pagan winter festivals. While the other side of the hall when we approached (I their own religions and retain a certain holiday has been secularized to the point wonder what the nuns would think to learn degree of autonomy. Under this relatively of overwhelming greed and avarice, the I had become an Anglican Catholic priest!). benevolent rule, many Jews assimilated much holiday was set aside by the early Church While it caused us pain dealing with the of Hellenistic culture, adopting the language, to commemorate the miracle of the birth nuns and the other children, it helped the the customs, and the dress of the Greeks, in of the messiah foretold by the Jewish three of us bond together and to acquire an much the same way that Jews in America prophets — a birth of one who would appreciation of each other’s culture and faith. today blend into the secular American society. bring peace and goodwill to all the earth. During this time period, we always More than a century later, a successor of Unfortunately, unscrupulous men celebrated Christmas in our school but we Alexander, Antiochus IV was in control of the throughout the ages have used this belief as paid very little attention to Chanukkah. region. He began to oppress the Jews severely, an excuse to attack their fellow men and to Among the dozens of decorations depicting placing a Hellenistic priest in the Temple, achieve personal gain, proclaiming it was Santa Claus, the manger scene, and angels, massacring Jews, prohibiting the practice “the will of God” to oppress those who did we had only one small picture of a menorah. of the Jewish religion, and desecrating the not share in their beliefs. There is nothing We didn’t even discuss it and the only thing Temple by requiring the sacrifi ce of pigs on in the Gospels of Jesus or the writings of my fi rst grade teacher, Miss Boyle, told us the altar. Two groups opposed Antiochus: a the Apostles that calls for the oppression was that it was a Jewish religious “thing.” basically nationalistic group led by Mattathias of those who do not believe as Christians. My friend Joel’s parents had decided by the Hasmonean and his son Judah Maccabee, The holiday commemorates the gift of the time we reached 3rd grade that he should and a religious traditionalist group known salvation – it is not a call to war or aggression. attend a Hebrew School in the city and he as the Chasidim, the forerunners of the Most of the problems we face in the world and I lost touch. I was sorry that he moved Pharisees (no direct connection to the modern and in our communities are based on ignorance but happy that he could go to a school where movement known as Chasidism). They joined and intolerance. We fear and reject that which he would be appreciated for who he was forces in a revolt against both the assimilation we don’t understand and attack people and and not be bullied and rejected for his faith. of the Hellenistic Jews and oppression by the ideas that are foreign to us. I think that one of Chanukkah is a minor Jewish celebration Seleucid Greek government. The revolution the reasons I appreciate our Masonic teachings of rededication, also known as the festival of succeeded and the Temple was rededicated. so much is the early education I received lights, and is an eight-day festival beginning on According to tradition as recorded in fi rst hand regarding hate and suspicion. the 25th day of the Jewish month of Kislev. Its the Talmud, at the time of the rededication, Freemasonry teaches the “universal occurrence coincides during the same period there was very little oil left that had not been brotherhood of man under the Fatherhood as the Christian observance of Christmas, defi led by the Greeks. Oil was needed for of God.” Yes, we have different faiths and which unfortunately causes many non-Jews the menorah (candelabrum) in the Temple, beliefs but we can meet together in spite to think of it as a sort of “Jewish Christmas”. which was supposed to burn throughout the of our differences and work together for It is ironic that this celebration, which in our night every night. There was only enough our mutual benefi t and for the betterment country has been commercialized with many oil to burn for one day, yet miraculously, it of our world. Freemasonry teaches us burned for eight days, the time needed to focus upon those things we can agree to prepare a fresh supply of oil for the on and to set aside our differences. DEE’S ANTIQUES menorah. 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Page 6 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Masonicare, Masonry and Making a Difference

It’s easy to see why Bro. Theodore J. (Ted) Nelson was a natural people on these boards, many of on radio. The Right Worshipful Grand Marshal of the Grand Lodge whom have been extremely successful of Connecticut likes to talk, and it doesn’t matter if the topic of in business and in their communities, conversation is Masonicare or the best method to prevent basement and they let a hammerhead (Nelson’s fl ooding. term for a contractor) like me speak Nelson is the owner and founder of New London-based T.J. Nelson and offer opinions. I don’t always Home Improvements and, for nearly a decade, he hosted a Saturday speak, but I do care. And I think that morning home improvement show on a 1000-watt AM station in has value.” Groton. He concedes that, initially, his listenership was small. Raised at Brainard Lodge No. 102, “The fi rst guy who called in to my show wanted to know when Niantic, where he served seven terms the sports program was going to be on,” Nelson remembers, smiling as Worshipful Master, Bro. Nelson broadly. “I told him, ‘Just hang in there for another 20 minutes.’” is also a Scottish Rite Mason who Behind an often self-deprecating sense of humor is an earnest has had an awareness of Masonicare belief in the mission of Masonicare – a mission Nelson has supported virtually from the moment he joined as a loyal donor to the Masonicare Annual Appeal, as a benefactor of the fraternity 24 years ago. The Masonic Charity Foundation of Connecticut, and as a member of “I was told right out of the gate, the Masonicare Home Health & Hospice Board of Directors and the during the initiation process, about R.W. Theodore J. Nelson Masonicare at Ashlar Village Board of Directors. Masonicare and the wonderful “All of us come to these board meetings from a different point of philanthropic work going on in Wallingford and around the state,” view, shaped by our life experiences,” Nelson says. “I sit among these he recalls. “I consider myself to be an advocate of Masonicare. It’s a pleasure for me to be able to talk about what they do.” What Masonicare does, every day, is provide outstanding care to a population that may or may not always have the ability to pay. Happy 100th! Providing this service comes at signifi cant cost to Masonicare, which is why the generosity of Foundation donors like Ted Nelson is so essential, and so appreciated. Nelson is a member of the Masonicare Society, a giving society whose members donate $520 or more within a 12-month period. His support of the Masonicare Annual Appeal continued in 2011. “But then Ted sent us a second, one-time gift to the Annual Appeal,” said Patricia L. Morgan, director of development for The Masonic Charity Foundation. “It was an unusual amount and I wasn’t quite sure what to do with the check so I called Ted to ask about it. He shared that he had taken a collection from Masons in the 8th District to build a wheelchair ramp for Bro. Walter Kornacki. Unfortunately, Walter died before the ramp was could be installed. Ted and his fellow Masons had decided to donate the money to the Annual Appeal in honor of Walter and his wife, Norma.” “I’m passionate about the mission and about what Masonicare is doing for humanity,” says Nelson, who also lists Habitat for Humanity, On August 21, Hejaz Grotto, M.O.V.P.E.R. hosted a picnic at Ashlar Toys for Tots, and the March of Dimes among other charities he has Village to honor its centennial. This social and charitable group’s fi rst supported. “Just to be a cog in that is a great honor for me. Masonicare meeting was held exactly 100 years earlier – August 21, 1911 – and is doing great things for Connecticut and for the elderly. That’s one of special souvenirs were given to all in attendance to mark the event. the things that attracted me to Masonry to begin with. So many seniors Holding the celebratory cake are Past Monarch David E. Berger, were involved in it, and I’ve always had an affi nity for seniors. For the president of Club Associates, Inc., the fi nancial holding company fi rst 15 years of my business, my demographic was mostly working for for Hejaz, and 2011 Monarch Bruce R. Bellmore. Throughout its seniors. It’s only in the last ten years or so that I’ve started to work with century, Hejaz Grotto has been a generous contributor to the Grottoes people younger than me … but that’s only because I got old.” of North America Humanitarian Foundation; The Masonic Charity Foundation of Connecticut; the Connecticut DeMolay Foundation, Your gifts to The Masonic Charity Foundation of Connecticut will help create Inc.; Gaylord Hospital; and the United Cerebral Palsy Association of “Masonicare Experiences” for others. To fi nd out how you can support The Southern Connecticut, among many other causes. Foundation or to make a gift, please call 203-679-5555 or 800-562-3952. You can also donate online at www.masonicare.org/mcf. December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 7 Grand Historian’s Corner RW Bro. Gary A. Littlefi eld, Grand Historian

Near Cracow, Poland, in the little forces in the Revolutionary War. Redding is named in his honor. village of Czarnowicz, lies an American Wolcott eventually became Two of his poetic works include patriot, diplomat, Mason, and poet. Joel an assistant to his father, “Hasty Pudding” and “Visions of Barlow (1755-1812) was an emissary to who was in charge of the Columbus.” France on his way to visit Napoleon, who commissary. Barlow served ✦ ✦ ✦ was campaigning through Russia during as chaplain. He was present Joseph Wheeler, who was the winter of 1812. Barlow, a member of when the British spy Andre Grand Secretary in 1888, St John Lodge No. 4, Hartford, was taken was executed. wrote the reviews of various ill and succumbed to an undisclosed Barlow studied law and jurisdictions that regularly illness, probably pneumonia. Some tried was admitted to the bar. appeared in Grand Lodge to move his remains to American soil but With Wolcott he was made a proceedings. In Alabama, the were not successful. Brother Barlow began Mason at the lodge at Hartford. Grand Master wrote that “It is his college education at Dartmouth but Wolcott stuck to the practice of charged that some subordinate transferred to Yale, where he graduated law and Barlow became a literary lodges within our jurisdiction with Oliver Wolcott in 1777. Both Wolcott writer in Hartford. He married Ruth, (Alabama), retain members who profane and Barlow gave service to the patriot a sister of Abraham Baldwin, who later the name the Deity, and who blaspheme the became a United States Senator name of that God in whom we are taught from Georgia. in the most solemn manner to ‘put our When he traveled to Paris trust’. The lodge that tolerates such conduct in 1789 as an agent for a land is at variance with the very fundamental company, he tried to sell land in principles and doctrines of the order. No Ohio (sight unseen) to prospective Mason who properly regards his Masonic immigrants. He loved the politics character will so far forget himself as to of France and their skilled literary speak lightly of that Devine Being of whom men and women. He built a we are reminded when within the walls of considerable fortune by trading a Masonic Hall. Profanity is wrong in any government securities. When man, but in a Mason it is a crime.” Louis XVI was removed by a ✦ ✦ ✦ more democratic government, In Connecticut, it was in 1851, or 160 Barlow was made an honorary years ago, that the proposal originated We thank our Masonic citizen and even ran as a to erect a suitable monument for Brother candidate for the National and General David Wooster. Union Lodge family for their Assembly. After his defeat, he No. 40, Danbury, urged the participation toured the British Isles and of the Grand Lodge in that endeavor. continued support. Scandinavia. This coming spring, as we do every fi ve Joel Barlow helped to years, we will assemble for a memorial to negotiate the ransom of Brother Wooster. More information will be seamen held captive in the announced in the coming months. Barbary Coast states. He was At the semi-annual communication in appointed counsel to Algiers October, a Worshipful Master asked me and worked on treaties with who David Wooster was. He had heard the Tripoli and Tunis. He returned name but knew nothing about the man or to America for ten years but Mason. While I could have spoken for 20 then was recalled to France minutes, I gave him a short explanation. to patch up relations with David Wooster was a general in the Napoleon. Revolutionary Army who was shot in the He sailed across on defense of Danbury on a fork in the road “Old Ironsides” but found in Ridgefi eld. He was the fi rst Master of Napoleon was on his way to the fi rst Masonic lodge in Connecticut in Moscow. The cold and snow 1750, and thus known as the “Father of was too much for him in his Freemasonry in Connecticut.” He is buried horse drawn sleigh and he was in Danbury. He was a hero. 500 Boston Post Rd. buried in Poland in a shallow The Master’s response was “Wow!” Orange, CT 06477 grave. Every Connecticut Mason should know Little is known about who David Wooster was and I hope all (203) 799-7999 his Masonic pursuits but who read this article will at least know some have insisted that he something about this hero and Mason. www.dia-designs.com attended lodges in France. The high school in his native Happy Holidays to all. Page 8 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Report on the Grand Representative Program by Brad Cooney, Grand Junior Steward Several Grand Jurisdictions have terminated their Grand Representative The Grand Master, as part of his program to assign responsibilities to programs because of similar apathy. But my recommendation to the his Grand line offi cers, assigned me to look into the effectiveness of our Grand Master is that our Grand Representative program continue. Grand Representative program. Strictly speaking, Grand Representatives One of the primary focuses of our Grand Master and the Grand Lodge who are members of the Grand Lodge of Connecticut are the “Grand offi cers this year has been to encourage Masonic travel among brethren Representative of (insert state or country) living in or near Connecticut.” at every station of our fraternity. New brothers receive points for traveling They are recommended by our Grand Master, but actually appointed to other lodges in their area as part of the Perfect Ashlar program. More to serve by the Grand Master of the jurisdiction they represent. This experienced Master Masons can now receive recognition for traveling to suggests some obligation on their part: fi rst, to become familiar with the other lodges both within and without our Grand Jurisdiction as part of jurisdiction they represent; and, second, to share that information with the Traveling Man – Masonic Passport program. Lodges are encouraged our brothers here. to visit other lodges as part of the Honor Lodge program. Also, our Grand There are one hundred and fourteen Grand Representatives in Lodge offi cers — throughout the entire line — are encouraged to travel to Connecticut, representing numerous countries, portions of countries, and other Grand Jurisdictions and attend their annual sessions. states. I wrote to each of the Grand Representatives in Connecticut asking It simply follows that we should expect this same spirit of travel and the name of their principal contact in the state or country to which they fellowship from our Grand Representatives. Our Grand Representatives serve as the Grand Representative; the date of their last communication should have an even greater duty to travel to those Grand Jurisdictions with that contact; and requested some details of the extent and nature of which they represent, and to share with us the fruits of their travels and their contacts and communications. received fellowship. The results were disappointing. Of the one hundred and fourteen Perhaps the only truly successful Grand Representatives are those Grand Representatives I contacted, only thirty six replied. Of those: who have actually been to their respective Grand Jurisdiction and who • Two were not even aware of their appointment; have developed individual, personal contacts with those brothers. • Five asked to be removed from their position immediately; The benefi ts of these personal contacts and fi rst-hand experiences are • Eleven had not had any communication with their corresponding obvious. Our brothers return to Connecticut with increased knowledge representative within the past ten years; and understanding of the Grand Jurisdiction they represent. More • Ten had made or received only perfunctory contacts with their importantly, they bring us the direct experience of that fellowship that is corresponding representative throughout their terms; and an essential part of being a Mason. • Only eight reported regular, ongoing, personal contacts with their It will be my recommendation to the Grand Master that we seek out corresponding representative during the course of their terms. Grand Representatives who are both willing and able to “travel to foreign Signifi cantly, this last group of eight brothers had also actually visited lands” to work and receive these “wages.” Anyone interested in serving in the Grand Jurisdiction that they represent one or more times during the this capacity as a Grand Representative should contact me. We need active, course of their terms. interested brethren to represent our sister jurisdictions, just as we need to Given these disappointing responses, you might ask: “Should this be represented in other jurisdictions by similarly interested brethren. program continue?” After all, can’t we get much of the same information now provided by our Grand Representatives through the Internet? Holiday Arts & Crafts Fair – Saturday, December 10 Masonicare at Ashlar Village We all know what can happen if we wait until the last minute to do our holiday shopping. Crowds, stress – you name it. You can make it much easier on yourself by taking advantage of a great opportunity to buy the perfect gift for that special person, and for just about everyone on your gift list. Come to Masonicare at Ashlar Village’s Holiday Arts & Crafts Fair, which is open to the community and the Masonic family. The event will be held in the Knapp Auditorium at the continuing care retirement community on Cheshire Road in Wallingford on Saturday, December 10, from 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Several area vendors will be offering a wide variety of beautiful gift It sounded simple enough – hold a DeMolay home run derby in a Little items for purchase, including purses, scarves, handmade jewelry, sports League fi eld using tennis balls and metal bats. Most over the 12 foot memorabilia, candles, homemade candy, and much more. In addition high fence would win. State Master Councilor Paul Evangelista didn’t to shopping, coffee, donuts, and a delicious, reasonably priced lunch fi gure on steady incoming 15-20 mph winds on Labor Day weekend, will be available. making it impossible for anyone to put a ball out. Batting is contest For additional information, please call Alyssa Pagan at 203-679- winner and State Junior Councilor James Cavanaugh, whose best effort 6015 or Noreen Caffrey at 203-679-6402 or [email protected] or of the day hit the fence two feet below the top rail. [email protected]. December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 9 FROM THE DESK OF: Bro. Stephen B. McPherson President & CEO of Masonicare It’s hard to believe that at this time a lengths to complete their visits – making Even if you’re year ago, I was refl ecting on what those their way through barely passable streets not in a position who were newly elected in Hartford and and even tracking patients down in to make a bid, Washington might bring to future of shelters to check on them. stop in anyway and healthcare, especially as it relates to the • Our campus in Newtown opened treat yourself to this visual delight. vulnerable population we care for. I even its doors – for the second time in • At both our facilities, many holiday was so optimistic as to suggest there might two months – to Newtown residents parties and special programs, many be cooperation that would benefi t the wishing to take a hot shower as the town of them spiritual, will take place to populations served by Masonicare. struggled with another week-long power make sure our patients and residents Unfortunately, the situation seems to be outage. More than 500 people gratefully experience the fullness of the season. at an impasse, and no one knows how it will availed themselves of the offer. Thanks And, speaking of parties, appreciation turn out. to our back-up generator, many lingered parties were held throughout our continuum So – as we head into the holiday season in our facility just to keep warm. in late November to thank our employees – you may wonder, where are the glimmers • Over the next few weeks, if you stop in for going “over and above” during and after of hope? Well, here are some I’d like to tell the lobby at Masonicare Health Center the October 30 storm. you about. in Wallingford, you will be greeted by a So, wherever the holidays fi nd you this • Despite the unprecedented “nor’easter” dazzling array of holiday trees — each year, may you and those you hold dear fi nd that knocked out power to most of individually decorated by Masonicare glimmers of hope and faith around you. our state, Masonicare employees employees. These will be auctioned From all us at Masonicare, thank you for came through with fl ying colors. They off and the proceeds donated to The helping us deliver our Masonic mission to didn’t miss a beat – caring for patients, Masonic Charity Foundation’s “Holiday “help, aid and assist.” covering their shifts, making home visits Appeal” which underwrites the cost of as needed. Our home health workers at gifts and holiday festivities for the long- Sincerely and fraternally, Masonicare Home Health & Hospice term care residents at Masonicare Health and Masonicare Partners went to great Center and Masonicare at Newtown.

Annual Silent Auction Features One-of-a-Kind Christmas Trees Trees on Display December 2 through December 20 The Twenty-Third Annual tree. Winners will be notifi ed if Festival of Trees began December they can’t be present on that date. 2 at Masonicare Health Center in All proceeds from the auction will Wallingford. This very popular and be used to support a host of great highly anticipated event features programs and activities for the a silent auction of 60 unique, residents of Masonicare Health beautifully decorated tabletop trees. Center. The lighted trees are designed As always, this year’s Festival and trimmed by teams of features a wide range of trees with Masonicare employees, volunteers, unique and imaginative decorations and residents, and the Eastern and a variety of themes that will Star Charity Foundation is also appeal to every taste and delight participating. adults and children of all ages. The trees will be on display in One of the trees may be just what the lobby of Masonicare Health you’re looking for to complete your Center until Tuesday, December 20. holiday decorating or the perfect Although many bidders receive their lovely holiday trees for well Everyone is welcome to visit the gift for that very special person. Be under $100, the “Sports Center” tree, created by staff in the in- Center any day between 8:00 a.m. sure to stop by and place your bid! patient rehab department at Masonicare Health Center, received and 9:00 p.m. to view the trees and For additional information, the highest bid last year, raising a record-setting $1,000 for place a bid. Bids will be closed at contact the volunteer services Masonicare Health Center’s resident activities fund! Along with 2:30 p.m. on December 20, when the offi ce, Masonicare Health Center, the tree, the winning bidder received two sets of UConn women’s highest bidders will be announced at 203-679-5980 or the Masonicare basketball tickets and an 8” x 10” signed photo of Mickey Mantle – and winners can claim their holiday HelpLine at 888-679-9997. which came with a certifi cate of authenticity – valued at $1,800. Page 10 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Help for the “Holiday Blues” Dr. Richard Kull, a highly vulnerable to its shorter days they arrive. Once identifi ed, it regarded and well-liked psychiatrist and longer periods of darkness. can become easier to appreciate with Masonicare’s behavioral This condition may be Seasonal that negative thinking so often health practice, has been evaluating Affective Disorder, known as associated with the holidays is and treating adults and individuals SAD, which is experienced as itself non-productive and self- with a variety of behavioral health fatigue, lack of energy, decreased defeating. When this thinking and psychiatric conditions for many concentration, increased need is acknowledged, it is possible years. As an expert in the fi eld, Dr. for sleep, and weight gain. to reframe the experience of Kull explains that for many, the Others have diffi culties with the holidays and not allow holiday season often brings sadness the holidays because of their toxic thinking to dominate the and depression, not the joy and individual life circumstances, holiday experience. happiness that is expected, and which may be at odds with the This can be done in many offers advice on how to cope during idyllic picture of family, friends, ways. Finding a bit of joy in the upcoming holidays. and good times that are so often small things around us, helping depicted at this time of year. For others in need, or even saying Dr. Richard Kull Contrary to the view that many, there is a stark difference a friendly hello to neighbors, the holiday season is a time between the ideal Hallmark card helps to boost positive feelings to a treatment plan that is of joy and good cheer, many or Norman Rockwell painting and combat the negative ones. individualized and targeted to people fi nd that the holidays and the actual experience of Reaching out to old friends and rectify underlying problems. are anything but. A condition hectic days, exhaustion, and wishing them the best is a small The upcoming holidays can that can affl ict adults of any age, the effort needed when making gesture that can go a long way be a diffi cult challenge for some, often referred to as the ‘holiday holiday preparations. For others, toward feeling connected and but help is available for those blues,’ is more common than you the holidays only underscore less lonely. Giving to others, in who need it. Therapy can be might think. This condition can what is absent in their lives and whatever way we can, actually directed at helping to reframe be emotionally painful, causing can bring on heightened feelings helps to fi ll us with good the experience of the individual people to experience anxiety, a of loneliness or isolation. Others feelings, not to mention to be into healthier ways of thinking lack of energy, an absence of joy, may fi nd the holidays diffi cult in synch with the spirit of the and feeling. Medications can or worse – a clinical episode of because they brings back season. sometimes be used to address depression. recollections of happy times Simply by exposing ourselves stubborn symptoms that are How can it be that this time, gone by, of loved ones lost, or of to natural sunlight for an extra outside of one’s control. so designed to lift the spirits, ends opportunities forsaken. half hour a day, or by putting If you or a loved one up being a low point for some? Regardless of the personal the shades up and fl ooding our experiences depression during It is likely that a combination of situation underlying the “holiday homes with natural light, we the holidays, remember – there’s one or more factors plays a role blues,” a few recommendations can resist the winter blues. no need to suffer in silence. in making this such a diffi cult can be offered. To the extent one For those with more serious Understanding and treatment time of year. The winter months can, the fi rst step is to recognize symptoms of depression, are readily available, but it’s up themselves can infl uence those the negative feelings if and when clinical evaluation can lead to you to take advantage of it! Moriah holds “Down East” Table Lodge

by Edward Page Special events included a Moriah Lodge Lodge No. 15, presentation to the Grand Master of Brooklyn, embarked on its fi rst Table his toast beverage, “Oban” Scotch, Lodge in over 20 years on October 15. The that was met with much laughter. theme was “Down East Maine Lobster Later, WB Dean Bunnell was honored and Steak.” The theme for the lodge this with several choice cigars. Moriah year is God-Unity-Service, or “Gus” in Lodge’s own Bronick Wlaszkiewicz honor of WB Edward’s late father. was also honored as the 9th District’s After the open house earlier that first recipient of the Perfect Ashlar morning, the lodge room upstairs was Award. quickly converted. The guests were treated The menu included Vermont to songs of WB Edward’s father’s favorite cheese, corn chowda’, lobster and musical selections, mainly country steak, and wild Maine blueberry. music. In the center of the lodge, Worshipful Master Edward remarked, Bronick Wlaszkiewicz received the Ninth District’s fi rst substituting for an altar, was an authentic “I could not have been any prouder of Perfect Ashlar award at Moriah Lodge’s Table Lodge. Making lobster trap with the Page family bible, the excellent work and commitment. the presentation were from left, MW James T. McWain, and Ed’s grandfather’s architectural I owe a great deal of thanks to the fine Bronick, RW Michael B. Dodge and WM Edward Page. compasses. brothers and significant others.” December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 11 Valley of Hartford, A.A.S.R. From the desk of David R. Blythe, Sr., Valley Secretary

After a successful Scottish Rite our rolls: Allen Beaver, Wyllys-St. The Scottish Rite degrees are 0712. Current members, should a fall, we enter a holiday season, John’s No. 4; Joseph E. Paulick, portrayed in a theatrical format, Mason ask you what the Scottish a time to gather with family Jr., Ashlar No. 332; and Daniel often in period costume. Master Rite is all about, please invite him and friends. Remember that the Ward, Unity No. 148. Masons interested in learning to the open house. happiest moments in life are What to look for in 2012? The more should ask a member Enjoy the holidays, keep safe, those spent with family. Yet many Scottish Rite spring season will about the Scottish Rite, or contact and relish every minute of it until of our brethren are alone, having kick off on Thursday, February 3, the Valley secretary at 860-666- we meet in 2012. either lost their spouse or having 2012 at 7:30 p.m. with our open no family near. As we spend time house. Interested Master Masons with our own families, let us and their families are invited to reach out to those brethren, even come to the Valley of Hartford, if just by telephone, to let them 207 Deming Street, Newington, know they are not forgotten. As to meet the brethren, tour our members of our greater Masonic facilities, and learn more about family, we are all brothers. what the Scottish Rite has to offer. The Valley of Hartford The schedule for spring 2012 welcomed the following brothers (all Thursdays except for April in the 2011 fall class: Steven 21) is: February 9, 4° and 13°; Damon, Xavier DiMorra, and February 23, Secret Master and Mark Fancher, all Meridian No. 14°; March 8, 15° and 16° 77; Raymond Fricano, Uriel No. vignette; March 22, 17°; March 24; Michael Reiner, Evening Star 29, 18°; (Saturday) April 21, No. 101; Anthony Starkowski, 23°, 31° and 32°. All Thursday Village No. 29; Russell Todd, evening degrees start at 7:30 p.m. FROM THE MEMBERS OF THE VALLEY OF HARTFORD Estuary No. 43; and Sterling Veits, with an “all you can eat” buffet If at you would like more information about becoming a member of the Ancient Accepted Scottish Rite, or would like a copy of Scottish Rite Informational DVD Washington No. 70. Additionally, dinner at 6:00 p.m. The Saturday Contact David Blythe Sr., 330, Valley Secretary, at the Valley of Hartford Offi ce 860-666-0712, the Valley welcomed the degrees start at 9:00 a.m. and are or [email protected] or visit our Valley Website: www.valleyofhartford.org following affi liating brothers to followed by a prime rib luncheon. to obtain an application, or to obtain more information about the Valley of Hartford. Masonicare and the IRS Need Your Help! The IRS Volunteer Income Tax The IRS will provide the training whenever you’re available. Any interested in becoming a volunteer Assistance Program (VITA) will be required to qualify you as an help you can give will be most for the VITA program, please call the available at Masonicare during the income tax preparer. appreciated! program coordinator, Bill Morrow, 2011 tax season. VITA offers free The 2010 tax season at the If you have questions or are at the IRS at 860-756-4652. assistance to households earning Masonicare VITA site was very $49,000 or less or to those who successful, with $123,848 in cannot prepare their own tax refunds brought back to the Two Brothers in Disguise returns. greater Masonicare community The VITA program site, by our volunteers. A total of 114 located on the fi rst fl oor at Federal returns were fi led, and Masonicare Health Center in most included a Connecticut Wallingford, is open to the public income tax return as well. Clients by appointment. We are currently and family members ranged in looking for volunteers to staff the age from 1 to 97. program on Fridays and Saturdays Substantial benefi ts were from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. provided to the community in 2010 at no charge, but the IRS needs volunteers to staff the program and make it a success again MWPGM George Greytak and MPPGM Randy Stevens, were enjoying this year. Since a little brotherhood of their own at the Connecticut Renaissance Faire it’s a volunteer in Hebron. One of the Faire’s owner/operators is Brother Eric Tetreault program, of Friendship Lodge No. 33, Southington. you can work Page 12 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Valley of New Haven, A.A.S.R. by Michael L. Castroll The Fall Reunion is nearly over. Haven entered the fray, leaving us New Haven up to drum up the membership in the craft. Ill. The class commencement is on to deploy our numbers at home degree teams, while supporting Brothers from Arthur C. Bristol, Monday, December 5 as they pay to keep the minds sharp and the the war efforts by promoting War Bob Sherrick, and Charles Tirrell heed to being Knight Aspirants fi re warm. During both of the Bonds. have kept the applications coming when the curtain goes up for the “wars to end all wars,” the Valley It seems that our camps in, and, lately, the numbers have 31°. They will then join the army of New Haven instituted special are always being darkened by been climbing. Our charities are of Sublime Princes of the Royal degree teams of all kinds. Some those who would like nothing also major benefi ciaries. Secret as the 32° is conferred were deployed to confer specifi c more than to destroy our basic Now is the time to get those upon the class. Two days hence, degrees in full form, while others freedoms and our way of life. applications in! Answer the call of on December 7 – “a day that were designated to assist the Let us take heed to remember all the Blue Envelope! shall remain in infamy” – let us Blue Lodges, especially when the of our servicemen and women Lastly, whether it is Merry all remember the sacrifi ces of so boys came home and there was around the globe who continue Christmas, Happy Chanukah, many on that terrible morning at a great infl ux of interest in the to defend our way of life. The Good KWANZAA, or a pleasant Pearl Harbor. It seems we are still Masonic fraternity. The Valley of return of our servicemen after Saturnalia on Ode to Jove, have fi ghting for freedom. New Haven is still carrying this these wars has always produced a wonderful and safe holiday Last month, the 23° was banner. It has become one of an insurgence in membership season. Keep the spirit of it in portrayed for the class. The revised our hallmarks, which has been to Masonry. The Valley of New your heart and have a safe and “Prince of the Tabernacle” tells effi ciently managed over the years Haven is a benefi ciary of increased Happy New Year, one and all! the poignant story of the Four by Ill. Brothers Albert H. Ruwet, Chaplains. This modern version C. Arthur Bristol, Archibald Prick, demonstrates how four ordained and Charles N. Baxter; while men paid the ultimate sacrifi ce in Brothers Harry F. Brown, Edward the North Atlantic during World A. Williams, and others served War II. Ill. Carleton V. Erickson, double terms picking up the 33°, directed this moving slack from the loss of personnel portrayal of courage and bravery. in wartime. From Donald E. Many of our Scottish Rite Blakeslee to Don Robinson, Cohn brothers went off to war. A goodly Colvin to John B. Freysinger, and number from the Valley of New Walter Downs kept the Valley of MMonday,onday, DecemberDecember 5   331°1° aandnd 332°2° FForor ffurtherurther iinformation,nformation, ppleaselease ccontactontact CONGRATULATIONS VValleyalley SecretarySecretary Ill.Ill. VernonVernon K.K. Cleaves,Cleaves, 33°33° atat 203-269-0336203-269-0336 We congratulate these brothers oorr aanyny mmemberember ooff tthehe VValley.alley. who have achieved 50 years of Masonic membership. Kenneth B. Hawkins Sr ...... Ansantawae 89 Frank E. Hokunson ...... Ansantawae 89 DeForest W. Smith ...... Ansantawae 89 Winthrop S. Smith Sr ...... Ansantawae 89 Arnold Manwaring ...... Bay View 120 Conrad W. Ladd ...... Composite 28 Sydney White ...... Hiram 1 Cyril W. Mellette ...... King Solomons 7 Alan S. Baumgartner ...... Liberty-Continental 76 Irving Toplitz ...... St. Andrew’s 64 Gilbert S. Geiger ...... Temple 16 Gordon S. Young ...... Temple 16 Donald W. Goodrich ...... Warren 51 Timothy A. Johnson ...... Washington 81 Elmer Havelin Jr ...... Wooster 10

December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 13 Questions for a Traveling Man

by Michael B. Dodge, Grand Junior Deacon to resell to their members, and some District have your passport stamped. The ability to travel and visit lodges is Deputies have passports on consignment to What if the lodge seal isn’t at the one of the true joys of being a Mason. Many sell in their districts. meeting? The lodge secretary can write “Seal brothers travel, but few keep a record of where Why do you want my email address? We Not Available” in your passport. they have been. The Grand Lodge has a new are working on a website where you can track What do I do when I fi ll my passport? The program to help change that: the Traveling your travels online. Once it is operational, we Grand Lodge is printing a second generation Man Masonic Passport. Here is some basic will let you know via email. of passports with a different color cover that information. Can I visit the same lodge twice? You can will be available for $15 (the entire amount How does it work? First, buy a passport visit lodges as often as you would like, but will benefi t the Masonic Medical Research for $20. Then, when you visit a lodge, ask only the fi rst visit counts towards your 3,5,7, Laboratories). After you visit 25 lodges, you the secretary to emboss your passport with and 9 visits. will be eligible for a special certifi cate from the lodge seal; the Master and secretary then Do visits to out of state lodges count? the Grand Lodge. sign below the seal. Your District Deputy Absolutely! A visit to any lawfully constituted What do I get out of this? Other than will give you a sticker that adheres to your lodge in any recognized Masonic jurisdiction the certifi cates, lapel pin, and record of passport after visiting three, fi ve, and then in the world counts. your travels, you get to help the Masonic seven lodges. After visiting your ninth lodge, Does it have to be a stated communication? Medical Research Laboratories fi nd a cure you will receive a pin. No, visiting special communications counts for heart disease. You also have an incentive Why does it cost $20 to buy the passport? as long as it is a tiled meeting and you are to visit new lodges, meet new brothers, and The cost to administer the program is fi ve present for the opening or closing. experience new ideas and new traditions! dollars; the remaining $15 goes to support Two lodges meet in the same building. Who do I contact if I have a question? RW the Masonic Medical Research Laboratories. If I visit one, can my passport be stamped Mike Dodge, [email protected], Where do I get a passport? Passports for both? No, you must attend a tiled is administering the program. can be bought or ordered from the Grand communication and you must be present for Lodge offi ce. Lodges can purchase passports at least the opening or closing of the lodge to Auvergne Initiation Oktoberfest Table Lodge Set for December 3 by John-James Sargent, Creighton The successful event attracted knockwurst, bratwurst, rotkohl English, and Paul Kachevsky brothers from Hiram Lodge No. (red cabbage with apples), and Union Lodge No. 40, 18, Sandy Hook; Ark Lodge No. spaetzel. Danbury, and St. Peter’s Lodge 39, Danbury; and Washington The brothers are planning a No. 21, New Milford, hosted a Lodge No. 19, Monroe, as well as joint Christmas party with their joint Oktoberfest Table Lodge several New York state lodges. families. Rumor has it that Santa, The second initiation on Tuesday, October 25. St. The Oktoberfest meal affi liated with the Connecticut of the Auvergne Honorary Peter’s Worshipful Master Rafael consisted of authentic German Masons, will make a cameo DeMolay Chapter is set for Figueroa related how this was a beverages and cuisine for appearance. To coincide with Saturday, December 3, 2011 tradition that was being revived. refreshment: weiner schnitzel, the festivities, Union Lodge has at 5:00 p.m. in the New two charitable initiatives, both Haven Masonic Temple, 285 managed by Brother Christian Whitney Avenue. Soderquist. Auvrgne membership is The fi rst is “The Angel Tree,” open to Master Masons who helping children in need of a gift were not DeMolay members for the holidays: because they in their youth. Connecticut have a parent who is incarcerated DeMolay state offi cers will in a correctional facility over exemplify both degrees on the holidays. An “angel card” is the class, and dinner will be provided for the parent to send served between degrees. to their son or daughter, who A petition for will also receive a $20 gift from membership is available on- their mom or dad. line at www.ctdemolay.org. The lodge’s food drive will Life membership is $100, collect boxes of non-perishable which includes a framed food to be donated to the certifi cate of membership and Episcopal Church in Newtown, specially designed pin. Prior which distributes food to registration is encouraged, families in need. On December but walk-in Master Masons St. Peter’s Worshipful Master Rafael Figueroa, standing on left, leads a 4, the lodge will deliver the food will be welcome. toast at the joint Oktoberfest Table Lodge. collected. Page 14 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Board Members Re-elected to Serve on the Masonicare Board of Trustees Masonicare is pleased to announce that of Masonicare Health Center and Masonicare at at Delhi. He has been at the Semi-Annual Communication of the Newtown, in addition to his duties as a trustee. president of William R. Grand Lodge of Connecticut held October 22 His radiology group performs outpatient Deickler Contracting, Inc. at Masonicare at Ashlar Village, Bro. Sherwin radiology services for Masonicare Health Center since 1984, vice president M. Borsuk, M.D., Meridian Lodge No. 77, in Wallingford. At its 2011 annual meeting last of Deickler Construction, Meriden; Bro. Donald Dean, Friendship Tuscan month, Bro. Borsuk received Inc., from 1977–1997, and Lodge No. 145, Manchester; and Bro. William Midstate Medical Center’s was also a licensed Realtor® R. Deickler, Jerusalem Lodge No. 49, Ridgefi eld; prestigious Obelisk for several years. He is a were re-elected to serve on the Masonicare Board Award for outstanding past member of the Home of Trustees. Their terms will expire in 2014. contributions to healthcare. Builders’ Association of New Bro. William R. Bro. Borsuk, a Meriden Bro. Dean of Manchester, York and a parish advisor Deickler resident, is a graduate of a graduate of the University and confi dential counselor Columbia University and of Hartford, retired from for St. John’s Episcopal Church, South Salem, Upstate (NY) Medical Pratt & Whitney Aircraft New York. In addition to serving as a trustee, Bro. Center. He is a well-known in 2004 after 35 years. In Deickler is vice chair of the board of directors of radiologist in Wallingford, addition to his current Bro. Donald Masonicare Health Center and Masonicare at Meriden, and surrounding service on the Masonicare Dean Newtown. His numerous fraternal affi liations communities and is president Board of Trustees, Bro. Dean include Scottish Rite, York Rite, and Shriners. of Radiology Associates, Inc. was also a previous member of the Board Bro. Howard W. Orr, chairman of the of Wallingford. A member of Directors of Masonicare at Ashlar Village, board of trustees, said Masonicare is fortunate of numerous professional Bro. Sherwin M. Masonicare at Newtown, and Connecticut VNA to have these outstanding individuals serving associations, including Borsuk, M.D. – now Masonicare Home Health & Hospice. He on the board and in many other capacities the American College of has been very active with the fraternity, serving for Masonicare. “These capable, hardworking Radiology, American Medical Association, in various capacities in his lodge, on numerous members of the Masonic family deserve our Radiological Society of North America, and the Grand Lodge committees, and is the current sincere thanks and appreciation for their Connecticut State Medical Society, Bro. Borsuk RW Grand Senior Deacon of the Grand Lodge commitment to the cause of Masonry. Their is also affi liated with MidState Medical Center of Connecticut. dedication supports Masonicare’s mission as we and active in several civic organizations in A Ridgefi eld resident, Bro. Deickler is a continue to provide quality care to our residents Meriden. He serves on the Board of Directors graduate of the State University of New York and patients each day.” Long Service Begets We welcome our new brothers to the fraternity. Long Travels by Al Brown Charles A. Seagrave III ...... Anchor 112 On October 13, brothers from Wooster Lodge No. 79, New Harold R. Sisken ...... Cosmopolitan 125 Haven, and Ansantawae Lodge No. 89, Milford, met at Orange Hills Christopher D. Fasano ...... Hiram 1 Country Club to present a 60 year service pin to Walter (Bud) Smith, John M. Klesyk III ...... Hiram 1 who was raised on April 27, 1951 along with MW Herb Emanuelson Edward S. Noble III ...... Hiram 1 in Wooster Lodge. Also present were Bud’s two children, Jud Smith Daniel R. Richards Sr ...... Montgomery 13 and Judy Smith Morgan. The pin was presented at the club as Bud is Brian W. Wilkinson ...... St. Andrew’s 64 the owner. Jud is the greenskeeper and Judy is the club manager. William F. Henning II ...... Temple 65 Connor T. Lahiff ...... Temple 65 At the presentation of the 60 year pin are, from left, SW Marc Ciociola, Adam J. Plotnick ...... Temple 65 Wooster Lodge; MW Ken Hawkins, Ansantawae Lodge; WM Ralph Stephen M. Monroe Jr ...... Union 31 Colon, Wooster Jacob M. Phillips ...... Union 31 Lodge; recipient Robert G. Dunbar ...... Washington 19 Bud Smith; Thomas A. Keegan ...... Washington 19 Dick Hosking, Lee A. Gerstenhaber ...... Widow’s Son 66 WB Ray Brooks, Christopher B. Hauman ...... Widow’s Son 66 Ansantawae Ernest L. Johnson ...... Widow’s Son 66 Lodge; and Jeffrey M. Knapp ...... Widow’s Son 66 RW Al Brown, Wooster and Robert W. Stanley ...... Widow’s Son 66 Ansantawae Lodges. December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 15 Ski Jump Dedicated in Salisbury

The cornerston The Grand Lodge offi cer’s limousine.

The fl ag fl ies high. View from the top by RW Dodge.

GRAND MASTER’S APPEAL

Brand new ski jump. Grand Master McWain presides. Support the Connecticut Freemasons Foundation Th anks to your generous donations the Connecticut The implements are ready. Deputy Grand Master Arseneau pours the corn. Freemasons Foundation has donated to the Masonic Medical Research Laboratory, doing productive and infl uential research in the fi eld of experimental cardiology. MMRL is rapidly becoming an international center for genetic screening of cardiac diseases, especially those At the Conference of Grand Masters of North America in Denver in Februry 2011, tehn Deputy involving cardiac arrhythmias. Grand Master McWain joined the Grand Master of Florida and other Florida Grand Lodge offi cers in supporting the Masonic Medical Research Laboratory and its director of development and communications Bro. Ronald P. Kamp. WM Thompson as an operative mason. Salisbury Winter Sports Association gives thanks.

Page 16 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 17 How to Make Something Work! by Michael B. Dodge Negative attitudes affect then ask the question, “what advertising? Somebody willing to On Saturday, November 5, failure and success, and Bro. would it take to make this work?” be in charge? the Grand Lodge Committee Henry Ford said it best, “Whether If 100 balloons aren’t enough Only after deciding on the on Masonic Education held its you think you can or can’t, you’re to carry a man aloft, how many purpose of a function, and assess annual Wardens’ seminar. The right.” Approaching new ideas would it take? I think this is a what it would take to make it seminar is part “nuts and bolts” believing they will fail usually valuable approach for us when successful, can you do a real cost- and part break-out session where ensures they do. Each lodge has looking at ideas and events. benefi t analysis. You might fi nd attendees are taught planning its own personality; sometimes The fi rst step in all planning that spending $500 to advertise and prioritization, and discuss brothers are 100% correct when is to determine the purpose of an event may be worth it if you ideas for program development. they say an event wouldn’t work an event and assign it a value. could realize an additional Of all the seminars, I like the at their lodge. This might be The purpose of a fundraiser may $1,500 in profi ts! If the purpose Wardens’ seminar the best. There a realistic assessment of their be to add to the lodge coffers, of the event is just to raise money, are fantastic questions asked; the known abilities and environment. but it may have additional value and there might be more effi cient brothers have generally thought This got me thinking, though, by exposing the lodge to the fundraisers available. Instead of long and hard about their about how to approach ideas community and introducing non- dwelling on the possibility of upcoming positions, and they that we think we “can’t” do, Masons (prospective candidates?) failure, focus instead on what it are very interested in learning and how that relates to the to the lodge. If we contemplate takes to succeed. the nuances of the Wardens’ Discovery Channel television a program and dismiss it as Michael Jordan illustrated this positions. Many are looking for program Mythbusters. The show impractical, we should then ask, idea perfectly when he said, “I ideas and encouragement as they documents a group who use “What would it take to make this can accept failure, everyone fails continue their path to the East. In science to prove or disapprove successful?” If a lodge needs to at something. But I can’t accept this atmosphere of enthusiasm, the viability of many urban run a turkey dinner fundraiser, not trying.” He also said, “I never the occasional negative comment legends or Hollywood stunts in they shouldn’t just say, “That looked at the consequences of will really stick out. While the real world. For example, a will never work,” but ask instead, missing a big shot … when you listening to conversations about show might examine whether or “What would we have to do to think about the consequences planning, I was impressed with not a man in a lawn chair could make this successful?” Would you you always think of a negative the ideas and creative solutions be carried aloft with 100 helium need more people to cook? More result.” I heard. Occasionally, though, balloons tied to it. there were the comments; “that The interesting part of the will never work,” or, “my lodge program is when after they prove can’t do that.” something is impossible, they Police Raise Five George Washington Masonic New Brothers Memorial 2011 Holiday Ornament The George Washington Masonic Memorial announced that the Three Great Lights in Masonry is the 2011 holiday ornament. The Holy Bible, square and compasses were selected by the fraternity in its formative period as the fi rst and most important symbols presented to a new Mason, and are called the Three Great Lights in Masonry. The Holy Bible represents the rule and guide of a Mason’s faith, the square symbolizes virtue, and the compasses by Chris Buck allude to the importance of On October 28, Ansantawae Lodge No. 89, Milford, was self-mastery in moral and the safest lodge in Connecticut. Eighteen brothers, all police intellectual progress. offi cers, led by RW Marshall Robinson, conferred the Master The 2011 holiday Mason degree on of fi ve Fellowcrafts, three of whom are ornament can be purchased by members of the Bridgeport Police Department. Eleven different contacting the Memorial Gift police departments were represented from Avon, Bridgeport, Shop at 703-549-9234 (item Hartford, Madison, Milford, Naugatuck, New Haven, Norwalk, George Washington Masonic Memorial 561, $25.00), or giftshop@ Simsbury, and Waterbury,, as well as Connecticut State Police. 2011 Holiday Ornament gwmemorial.org/shopping.

Page 18 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Union Lodge No. 5 serves Breakfast by Thomas A. Burke Coffee, juice, eggs, and toast, On Sunday, November 13 all cooked to order, were the the brothers of Union Lodge No. highlight of the morning. Several 5, Stamford, prepared breakfast brothers labored together in for the Pyramid Shriners Motor the kitchen and took care of Patrol, who were in Stamford all the arrangements, service to participate in the annual and cleanup. “We have several Veterans Day parade. This was brothers who are very active in the the second consecutive year the community and in organizations lodge hosted the breakfast. WB such as the Motor Patrol, so we Digger Odell, a member of the are always happy to assist in Motor Patrol, noted “The Motor any way we can—and breakfasts Patrol is proud to participate in are a lot of fun for everyone,” the Veteran’s Day parade here in stated Worshipful Master Jon town, and our lodge is equally Ringel. The Motor Patrol was sent proud to give them a hearty off to the parade with a round of Brothers of Union Lodge No. 5 and the Pyramid Shriners Motor Patrol just breakfast as they prepare for the applause and grateful wave for before they departed for the Stamford Veterans Day parade. parade.” the brothers of Union Lodge. DeMolay PSMC’s Confer St.Peter’s visits Fellowcraft Degree by Carl G. Ek Ansantawae Lodge No. 89, Milford, rarely invites non-members to Manhattan perform degree work. However, 2011 Worshipful Master Christopher by Daniel W. Nichols J. Buck chose to do so for a very special Fellowcraft Degree in May. On November 3, fi ve brothers of St Peter’s Lodge No. 21, New WM Buck served as State Master Councilor of Connecticut DeMolay Milford, traveled to the 8th Manhattan District of the Grand Lodge of in 1998-99, so he invited a team of Past State Master Councilors to New York. The occasion was a special one. A dear friend and brother join him for the conferral. A dozen of his fellow PSMC’s turned out. was becoming the assistant grand lecturer. Harry S Truman Lodge The team included a Past Grand Master, four members of the No. 1066 held the ceremony for the night. Grand Master Vincent Supreme Council of DeMolay International, and fi ve youthful Libone of the Grand Lodge of New York was in attendance. He made Masons not Past Masters. The Middle Chamber was offered by Bro. the event fun with his “cheese hat” and lively jokes. Chris Werner, who learned the lecture less than 6 months after being Two appointments were given: the assistant grand lecturer to VW raised a Master Mason – just because he liked it. Frank L Parker and the Grand Lodge representative to the Grand The team was composed of: WM Christopher J. Buck (1998- Lodge of Wisconsin near New York to RW Abraham Fichtenbaum. 99); RWB Christopher J. Earle (1975-76); MW Arthur H. Carlstrom Both brothers have long Masonic careers. (1956-57); Bro. James C. Peters (2005-06); Bro. Christopher J. Harry S Truman Werner (2007-08); Bro. J. Andrew Birdsall (1991-92); WB Harry E. Lodge was especially Needham, III (Honorary 2005); Gregory M. Goto (2009-10); RW Carl welcoming and G. Ek (1971-72); Bro. Harry E. ‘Jake’ Needham, IV, (2006-07); Bro. accomodating to Edward L. Lawson, Jr. (1960-61); WB Russell W. George (Honorary all brethren and the 1976); and WB Roger R. Cole (1966-67). awards ceremony went off without a hitch. The brothers of St. Peter’s know that when you are a traveling Mason you are able to experience everything our great fraternity has to offer.

MWGM Vincent Libone (cheese hat) is escorted by his Grand Marshal RW Robert J. Servidio at Harry S Truman Lodge No. 1066, Manhattan, Thirteen Past State Master Councilors of Connecticut DeMolay conferred New York. the Fellowcraft Degree at Ansantawae Lodge No. 89, Milford. December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 19 Geriatric Ministry Volunteers at MHC Bring Compassion, Comfort, and Spiritual Care

Rev. Anne Baltzell, chaplain wanted to give back. In prayer I asked and director of spiritual services for the Lord to lead me to where I could Masonicare, is currently training do the most good. Ironically, in July fi ve individuals as lay volunteers for I opened the Advisor and read about Masonicare Health Center’s “geriatric “Lay Training in Geriatric Ministry,” ministry” program. When the training but was uncertain. A couple of days program is completed, each chaplain later, I opened the Post-Chronicle and volunteer will be assigned at least 10 read the same article. I’ve learned that resident rooms as her/his “parish.” God’s plan for me is often revealed in Their role will be to provide individual many ways. My hope for our residents spiritual care for a minimum of four is to be present to whatever their hours per week for the coming year. needs may be – to listen to, share As Rev. Anne explains, “Our with, grieve with, celebrate with, and chaplain volunteers play a vital role also pray with them.” in helping us provide the spiritual Laura Curran – “I am a Hamden comfort and support needed by so resident. I have been a social worker many of our residents. We are fortunate for the state of Connecticut for the to have such dedicated and talented past 15 years, providing services that people willing to participate in the Chaplain volunteers, seated, from left, Helen Albert and include housing, parenting education, program.” Rev. Anne also noted that Cynthia Holland-Toftness, and standing, from left, WB Gary substance abuse treatment, and many previous volunteers had chosen Merwede, Laura Curren, and Maureen Christian. counseling. I am looking forward to stay longer than a year because they to the privilege of working with felt they had truly found their niche Helen Albert – “I was born in the residents at Masonicare. I enjoy for ministry. Moonbeam, Ontario, Canada. At age ten, reading, book clubs, traveling, arts and crafts, The volunteers prepared personal we moved to Malartic, Quebec, where my bike riding, and hiking. I also love animals introductions so that residents and staff father and six brothers were able to fi nd and would like to pursue pet therapy work would be familiar with them when they work. At 19, I decided to join a Secular in the future.” began their visits. The descriptions, along Institute and worked with them for 11 years. Cynthia Holland-Toftness – “I have been with their photos, were published in the That brought me to Wallagrass, Maine. After a resident of Wallingford for the past 33 Center’s November newsletter for residents, college, I came to Connecticut. I worked in years. I am married and have two adult sons. employees, and families. education, got married and had two kids. My career is in the health care fi eld. In my In 2007, I retired to be with my spare time, I like to cook, especially to try husband, who was diagnosed with new recipes. I love fl owers, gardening, and lung cancer. During his illness, crafts. I have been a member of First Baptist we met several caring, giving, Church for 30 years and am looking forward and compassionate caregivers. to becoming a chaplain volunteer.” Following several months of grief, Gary Merwede – Gary joined the searching, denial, etc.... I decided I volunteer chaplains at Masonicare after was going to support others in the having been affi liated with Connecticut same or comparable situation. A Masonry for 22 years as a member and Past friend already in the “Lay Training Master of Cosmopolitan Lodge No. 125, in Geriatric Ministry” program New Haven. Gary is an 18-year veteran of the insisted I apply for it. I am thankful Hamden Fire Department, and is serving as I was accepted into the program. a lieutenant in Squad One. Gary is married, With this training, the grace of father and stepfather of fi ve children ages God, and the support of my fellow 20-12, and resides in Hamden with his wife, chaplain volunteers, I will do my Cheryl. “As a person of deep faith, I look best to live as a Christian caregiver forward to working with the Masonicare for the elderly.” staff and residents in this new role.” Maureen Christian – “I have If you would like to learn more about the lived in Wallingford for 16 years. In “Geriatric Training in Lay Ministry” program June 2010, I retired after 32 years of at Masonicare Health Center or Masonicare teaching elementary school grades at Newtown, please call Chaplain Anne at 1 and 2, a profession that I loved. 203-679-6257. As many current and past Having this gift of time has given volunteers will quickly tell you, being part me the opportunity to refl ect on of the program was a truly positive and the many blessings in my life, and I rewarding experience. Page 20 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Hiram Lodge No. 18 “Steps Up” to MAN by Bill Hillman to the widespread power outages Ross Burke from Housatonic Valley of Kings in Egypt to the Hiram Lodge No. 18, Sandy following the weekend storm. Lodge No. 61, North Canaan, on establishment of the Grand Hook, held its “Step-up Night” Hot showers were available to the topic of the relationship of Lodge of London in 1717. on November 2 at Masonicare of those in need. Twenty brothers the military with Freemasonry. MW George Greytak was Newtown by dispensation due were present for a lecture by WB His lecture ranged from the present, with WM Bill Hillman relating, “if George can’t come to the lodge, we’ll bring the lodge to Brother George.” SW Marty Schertzer ran the evening’s business to become certifi ed by District Deputy RW John Lutter. “We had hoped to have our second joint communication with King Solomon’s Lodge No. 7 this fall,” Hillman said, but mother nature had other plans. That joint communication will be rescheduled. As power returned to “Step-up Night” for Hiram Lodge No. 18 was held at Masonicare at Newtown. Brothers present were, front from Newtown, Masonicare of left, WB Bill Holmes, Bro. Phil Jennings, WB Lou Kaufmann, WB George Perry, and WB Ross Burke, and, Newtown was thanked for back from left, WB Marvin Self, Bro Hans Frohlich, Bro Melvin Stimmel, Bro Jason Swan, RW John Lutter, their hospitality shown to the RW Richard Hubert, Bro. Martin Schertzer, RW Tom Maxwell, WM William Hillman, WB Sean Hughes, Bro community in making showers William Barna, Bro Peter Barna, WB Martin Maciag, and MW George S. Greytak (seated). photo by Bro. August Molitano available for all in need. St. Peter’s Open House Opens Some Eyes by Daniel W. Nichols St Peter’s before. Hot When the July open house dogs and burgers, seminar took place, several some nice tacos, brothers from St. Peter’s Lodge chips and desserts No. 21, New Milford, thought, was the meal. “Will this work?” RW Michael When the time Dodge talked about how his came brothers lodge is in the northeast corner showed up to show of the state, and was familiar with their support. Even material from Massachusetts some of our new and Rhode Island. He said in Entered Apprentice’s the past his lodge would have stopped by to see an open house at the same time what it was all about. to benefi t from their advertising Some Widows Sons and promotion. motorcycle riders The rest of the seminar was also stopped by to about how to get the word out show support. through Internet and media Then the Brothers of St. Peter’s Lodge No. 21, New Milford, were joined at their open house sources. The tools and banner moment of truth by members of the Widows Son motorcycle association, who traveled between lodges supplied by the Grand Lodge came and some throughout the day. were nice, but the brothers kept people walked in. wondering, “Will this work?” One gentleman and curious about what charities were thanked them for their time, but After the seminar Worshipful his wife were given a tour of our served. Masonicare, organ and before leaving he commented, “I Master Rafael Figueroa and lodge. He was interested but tissue donation, cardiac research, knew little of Masonry, but after Senior Warden Daniel Nichols said he knew very little about and the lodge’s scholarship today I can say I feel comfortable discussed how to prepare for the Masonry. He was given the usual were discussed and he seemed with who you are and what you event. They decided to make it talking points about history, impressed. do.” with a picnic style atmosphere, famous Masons, and the lodge As the tour ended the couple In the end the question of and not at all threatening to today. Then conversation went were lead down the stairs back “Will this work?” turned into an someone who had never been to in another direction. He was to Fellowship Hall. They were “It absolutely did!” December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 21 Milford’s Brigitte Curcio: a Rainbow who Rocks! by Carl G. Ek The Supreme Assembly of the International Order of Rainbow for Girls made it offi cial: on their website (www. gorainbow.org), they posted the story of Sister Brigitte Curcio under the banner “Rainbow Girls who ROCK!” As Milford Assembly No. 4’s sister of Charity, she organized a fund-raiser to benefi t the Masonic Learning Center in Waterbury. This Scottish Rite charity assists children with dyslexia in learning how to read. Brigitte, her assembly, family, and advisors put together a multi-part activity with the theme “Racing for Learning.” Central to the event was a day of go-kart racing at the Stratford Speedway. The Speedway donated half of the proceeds of all tickets sold by Rainbow to the cause, and donated advertising signs that 13 local businesses purchased to support the event. Additionally, the Milford Masonic family allowed Rainbow to sell pencils and sponsorship signs before meetings of the various bodies in the building. After the smoke had cleared, Brigitte’s activity raised $2,500 (!), which was given to Masonic Learning Center Sister Brigitte Curcio is at the wheel as members of Milford Assembly No. 4 prepare for director Cheryl Sharkis at a Milford Assembly meeting. And the Racing for Learning fundraiser at Stratford Speedway. Brigitte’s multi-part event the Supreme Assembly had its latest example of a Rainbow earned $2,500 for the Masonic Learning Center in Waterbury and her Supreme Girl who Rocks! Assembly recognition as a a Rainbow Girl who Rocks! Scottish, York Rites Provide Scholarship Aid by Carl G. Ek College; Marianne E. Wilkins, University of Texas Medical College; Masonry at all levels works hard to assist those furthering their and Timothy A. Schwink, Central Connecticut State University. education by offering scholarships – some based on geography, some At its annual convocation in June, outgoing Grand High to relatives of their members, some to active or majority members of Priest Paul L. Chello of the Grand Chapter of Royal Arch Masons Rainbow and DeMolay, and some to all three. announced the presentation of nine college awards to: Micheline The Ancient Accepted Scottish Rite, Valley of New Haven, used its C. Bellmore, Brandeis University; Nicholas E. Flynn, University of summer picnic to distribute scholarships to eleven scholars. They are: Hartford; Amy A. Fontanez, University of Connecticut; Catharine E. Erika Bodin, Saint Michael’s College; Christopher R. Bushy, Middlesex LaFlamme, Northern Arizona University; Sarah A. Mallory, Southern Community College; Ashley M. Chello, Suffolk University; Sarah Connecticut State University; Kathy A. Mallory, Hartford Seminary; E. Eppler, Slippery Rock University; Megan E. Meuser, University Alyssa M. Merrill, Southern Connecticut State University; Matthew O. of Vermont; Matthew O. Montano, Naugatuck Valley Community Montano, Naugatuck Valley Community College; and College; Matthew J. Poppa, Worcester Polytechnic Institute; Stephen Megan E. Meuser, University of Vermont. Poppa, Worcester Polytechnic Institute; Christopher J. Rompe, Mitchell Parents of high school and college students are urged to visit the web site of the Grand Lodge of Connecticut (http://www. ctfreemasons.net) and then follow the links to the appendant and concordant bodies of Connecticut to learn about scholarships that are offered statewide.

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Master of ceremonies Ill. Randy S. Stevens, 33°, (center) offers words of wisdom (?) along with a scholarship check to recipient Ashley M. Chello, For details, e-mail a Guilford sophomore at Suffolk College in Boston, at the AASR Valley of New Haven summer picnic. Enjoying the byplay is Scottish Rite Deputy [email protected]. Ill. David L. Sharkis, 33°. Page 22 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 “Meet the Knights Templar” A Rousing Success by Carl G. Ek The two-dozen empty pizza boxes in the kitchen and the fi lled lodge room attested to the interest of Connecticut’s DeMolays and their families in learning more about the organization once led by their namesake, Jacques DeMolay – the crusading Knights Templar of the 11th through 14th centuries. On October 21, young men from around the state came to 285 Whitney Avenue, New Haven at the invitation of New Haven Commandery No. 2 and the Grand Commandery of Knights Templar of the State of Connecticut. Eminent Commander Bradley K. Cooney and Right Eminent Grand Commander Leonard H. Bucher, supported by PGC and Northeast Department Commander Vincent Cowie, greeted their guests and introduced the program of the evening. Commandery members in period costume explained some of the workings of ancient Templary, and SK Martin Ede offered historical information about one of the world’s most diverse organizations. In addition to being warriors and monks dedicated to wresting control of the Holy Land from “infi del Saracens,” the Templars developed modern banking methods, managed real estate holdings, and were DeMolay state offi cers and Commandery leaders assembly prior to the skilled sailors. October 21 “Meet the Knights Templar” program in New Haven. From Another well-received part of the evening featured SK the Rev. left, DeMolays James Cavanaugh, State Junior Councilor; Mario Scherer, Dr. Craig McClellan, an Ohio Senior DeMolay and Chevalier. SK State Chaplain; Lorenzo Cardoso, State Senior Councilor; Andrew Birdsall, McClelland offered a narrated slide tour of Scotland’s Rosslyn State Scribe; Leonard H. Bucher, Right Eminent Grand Commander, Chapel, a site long associated with Templar history. The decorations who originated the event; Eminent Commander Bradley K. Cooney of of the chapel strongly suggest Templar and Masonic infl uence, but host New Haven Commandery No. 2; SK Charles D. O’Neill, Deputy owners of the site have never allowed excavation to learn what may Grand Commander; DeMolay Deputy State Master Councilor Matthew be beneath the chapel. Thus, only speculation and the artifacts in the Lingenfelter; and SK Vincent Cowie, PGC, Northeast Department chapel itself offer a connection to the ancient Templars. Commander. Tax Deductions for Donations to Lodges by Robert G. Fitzgerald, Grand Secretary The donation must be used exclusively IRS Publication 1771 which describes these The following is advice for our lodges and for religious, charitable, scientifi c, literary, or requirements and can be downloaded from the brethren provided by Brother Newton educational purposes, or for the prevention of the website: www.irs.gov . Buckner, Chairman of the Committee on cruelty to children or animals. Thus the donor A Masonic Temple corporation, exempt Legal Matters. must tell the lodge the donation can only pursuant to IRC 501(c)(2), would not be a The lodge is tax-exempt by virtue of the be used for those purposes; the donor must qualifi ed charity and should not be receiving tax-exemption IRS granted to Grand Lodge have a legally enforceable right to ensure the donations. pursuant Internal Revenue Code Section lodge complies with the restriction, and the IRS Rev. Rul. 56-329 and a listing of cases 501(c)(10). Both the IRS exemption letter lodge must agree to that restriction. Failure to and rulings concerning Fraternal Lodges as issued by the IRS and the statute allow an comply with these requirements means there a qualifi ed charity in certain cases subject to individual, or their estate, to make a donation is no income or estate tax deduction for the conditions is available on the Grand Lodge to the lodge and claim a deduction for the donor. website. donation provided both the donor and lodge The lodge as the recipient, must follow the Please note it is the responsibility of the agree to specifi cally restrict the use of the IRS compliance rules which include issuing to donor to consult with their personal advisor donation. the donor an appropriate charitable receipt. regarding the tax deductibility of donations to a lodge and the IRS compliance/reporting requirements. The lodge should not be providing tax advice. Keep in mind, the receipt of the donation is a “receipt” for purposes of determining the receipt threshold and whether the lodge fi les Form 990; 990-EZ or 990-N. You can also contact the Grand Secretary for information as well. Depending on the amount of the donation, the donor may request a copy of the IRS exemption letter that covers Grand Lodge and the individual lodges. December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 23 Called to the Celestial Lodge We off er our condolences to the families and friends of these brothers who have been called by the Grand Architect of the Universe. John H. Goodrich Sr ...... Adelphi-Momauguin 63 Robert H. St. John ...... Silas Deane 147 Richard M. Sherman ...... America-St. John’s 8 William R. Pitkin ...... St. Alban’s 38 John J. Wishart ...... America-St. John’s 8 Paul E. Roberts...... St. John’s 2 James J. Jukonski ...... Anchor 112 Gary L. Booth ...... St. Paul’s 11 Roger E. Downs ...... Ansantawae 89 William M. Herpich ...... St. Paul’s 11 Arthur H. Burnett ...... Bay View 120 Anthony J. Salcito Sr ...... St. Paul’s 11 Roland H. Wright ...... Bay View 120 Gerard C. Fatscher ...... St. Peter’s 21 Knud B. Knudsen ...... Center 97 Robert M. Spatola ...... St. Peter’s 21 Robert S. Gartside ...... Coastal 57 Kenneth D. Hamilton ...... Union 5 Sidney C. Keeney ...... Coastal 57 Clifford L. Hayden ...... Union 5 Andrew L. Ohr Jr ...... Compass 9 Jesse R. Kough ...... Union 5 Robert G. McLean ...... Estuary 43 Charles G. Nichols ...... Union 5 Leonard H. Roos ...... Estuary 43 H. Theodore Olson Jr ...... Union 5 Henry F. Leichner ...... Evening Star 101 James M. Pappas...... Union 5 Russell A. Perry ...... Federal 17 Morris Teig ...... Union 5 Vincent Vida ...... Fidelity-St. John’s 3 Lloyd A. Wyatt ...... Unity 148 George Kelaita ...... Frederick Franklin 14 Elmer R. Jacobs Jr ...... Uriel 24 Averitt E. Schilling ...... Frederick Franklin 14 Henry E. Lockwood ...... Uriel 24 Harry R. Choolgian ...... Friendship Tuscan 145 Eugene E. Magette ...... Valley 36 Charles O. Standow ...... Friendship Tuscan 145 Howard R. Clark ...... Washington 19 Leonard Gold ...... Hiram 1 Kenneth F. Downing ...... Widow’s Son 66 James D. Poulmas ...... Hiram 1 John A. Meneely ...... Widow’s Son 66 Bruce L. Lichti ...... King Hiram 12 Richard Mott ...... Widow’s Son 66 Morton I. Schpero ...... King Hiram 12 Ralph F. Brannen ...... Wooster 79 Frederick S. Phinney Sr ...... Madison 87 Gordon W. Stevens ...... Wooster 79 William G. Bryce ...... Manchester 73 Robert Livingston ...... Wyllys-St. John’s 4 George E. Allis ...... Meridian 77 Alexander K. McDonald Jr ...... Wyllys-St. John’s 4 Salvatore L. Bonuomo ...... Seneca 55 Relma D. Orrell ...... Wyllys-St. John’s 4 Harry I. Fisher Jr ...... Silas Deane 147 Louis D. Vercelli ...... Wyllys-St. John’s 4 York Rite College Hosts New England by Paul L. Chello On September 17, Connecticut York Rite College No. 17 hosted the annual Northeastern Regional York Rite College Assembly at the Masonic Temple in Meriden. Companion Knights from the New England States and Eastern Canada attended the event. Bro. Joe R. Manning, Most Preeminently Distinguished Governor General of the York Rite Sovereign College of North America flew in from Oklahoma for the event. Bro. Manning, a Past Grand Master of Oklahoma and of the Order of DeMolay, was greeted by Bro. James T. McWain, Most Worshipful Grand Master of Connecticut, and Grand Governors and Deputy Grand Governors from Connecticut, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, New Hampshire, Vermont and Maine. Additionally, 72 Companion Knights, including several current Grand High Priests and Most Illustrious Grand Masters, attended. Governor Robert J. Knowles and the officers of Connecticut York Rite College No. 17 opened and closed the assembly. Some of the dignitaries hosted by Connecticut York Rite College No. The Order of the Knight of York was conferred upon a class of 17 in September included, from left, Grand Herald Richard A. Eppler, eight by a degree team of Companion Knights from the York Rite Grand Governors Mark C. Mueller (MA), Paul L. Chello (CT), Douglas Colleges of New England. A reception for the Governor General E. Connell (RI), Governor General Joe R. Manning, MWGM James T. followed the conferral of the Order. McWain, Grand Governor John Geas (NH), Connecticut Governor Robert J. Knowles, and Grand Governor Howard C. Weymouth (ME). Page 24 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Masonic Travels in Israel by Max Rosenberg Several months ago, my family took a My son graduated from preschool trip to Israel to visit my wife’s relatives and today and I have never been so proud. I took the opportunity to make a Masonic As part of the ceremony, each child drew pilgrimage. My fi rst stop was in Yaffo or a picture of themselves as they hope Jaffa, the fi shing port where our Masonic to be when they grow up. A caption forefathers fl oated the material to build King was lettered above each drawing Solomon’s Holy Temple. Today it is still a large which read, “when I grow up, I want fi shing port with an artistscolony nearby. to be ______.” My son’s teacher My family walked through the labyrinth had written “lawyer” on my son’s self of ancient stairs and alleys as I explained portrait and when I inquired of her how the signifi cance of Jaffa to my sons. I never my son had decided lawyer, she said, would have dreamed that they were paying Max Rosenberg “He said he wanted to be like you.” such close attention. I was swept away in the Later the children were lined up ideas and the antiquity of everything around by foot. When we fi nally reached the resort on stage and one by one they told the me. All of our ritual was alive and thriving in town of Eilat, we came to a rotary punctuated audience what they wanted to be. the stones surrounding me. by a pyramid in the center. My youngest My son was last and he shouted, “ I In Acco or Acre we visited the ruins of son, three years old, shouted, “Look daddy! want to be a Mason!” and though the Templar Knight strongholds. Acco is now Square and compasses!” My older son, even teacher tried to help correct him, he very an Arabic town fi lled with cats and cobbled more impressed, asked quietly, “What does it confi dently said, “No. I want to be a streets but their is a dark sense of intrigue mean?” Mason.” My eyes immediately fi lled up and mystery hidden in every corner. There “Masonry is everywhere, Zohar.” I said. and I wondered what I had done that are shadows down every corridor, and people In the historic valley of Jezreel my family my four year old son could see that I am appearing and disappearing with ease. and I came to the ruins of Megido on top of not what I do, but how I try to live: as a With a little fi nesse I discovered one of the a mountain. Mountain in Hebrew is “har.” Mason. original secret passage tunnels under the city Har-Megido is Armageddon, where the last belonging to the Templars. I held both of my battle between good and evil will be fought. children’s hands as we traipsed over a narrow Nearby is the ruins of King Solomon’s Palace Still, I felt home as soon as I was bridge lit by small candles through the dark or Temple. One can still see where the altar surrounded by brothers and was surprised tunnel. My son asked me why there was a was erected and where the book of law once to fi nd that other than some very minor tunnel underground over the water. I told sat. I’d like to say that I was transfi xed, that differences, a few extra offi cers wearing him there was a time when Masons fought to I underwent some transformative revelation, unusual jewels, everything was as it was at preserve the relics of Israel. but in reality it was a week later, sitting in home. There is something purifying about lodge, that I realized the enormity of what In the Scottish Rite temple, the entire traveling through the desert, even if it was I had seen. I had stood at the altar of King 16° was performed in Hebrew. And though only four hours by car rather than forty years Solomon’s lodge. my understanding would normally be My trip through the Holy Land took somewhat limited, again the ritual was me through many ancient and Masonically identical to what I had done in Connecticut signifi cant historic ruins and sites, from the a world away. Now my brothers, you may Templars meeting places at the Hippodrome not know, but almost all of our passwords in ancient Ceasaria to the certain Masonic are in ancient Hebrew, though mangled by buildings in the hills of Nazareth. However, our American pronunciation. I suddenly it was living Masonry in the lodges of Israel grew very excited realizing I would be fi nally that struck a unique chord in me. hearing these beautiful words in their native I had the opportunity and privilege to tongue. Imagine my surprise when our Israeli visit two Masonic bodies in my sojourn, brothers mispronounced our words exactly Sharon Star of Israel Lodge and a Scottish as we have. When I asked my brothers why, Rite temple. At Sharon Star I watched an they laughed and asked me how they could installation carried out in more than eight possibly disrespect their Western brothers languages ranging from Arabic and Hebrew who had originated these rituals. I felt my to French, Russian and Spanish. It occurred mind spun around. I will never cringe at what to me that the Master was not wearing a I had think of as mispronunciation again. hat. On refl ection, I realized many of the Flash back to my son’s graduation, I Jewish and Muslim brothers in lodge were looked at my son’s self portrait again and religiously required to have their heads asked him what the square in the middle of covered. Similarly certain signs, were not used what looked like people sitting down was. in opening or closing. For Jews kneeling in He said, “That’s the window of the lodge!” prayer is rare and often forbidden, therefore “And what is all that yellow stuff around making certain signs less than applicable to the window?” I asked. their working the craft. “Light, Daddy. That’s Light!”

December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 25 RW Richard Memmott Named Chair of Connecticut Commission on Aging

RW Richard C. Memmott, citizens, and numerous complexities of the rules and Sr., a member of Connecticut’s statewide public/private regulations relating to senior Commission on Aging since sector coalitions. Already the care. 2005, has been elected to serve nation’s seventh “oldest” state, Bro. Stephen B. McPherson, as the Commission’s chair. Connecticut’s population of Masonicare’s president and Bro. Dick, who had been vice- residents 65 and older will soar CEO, praised the appointment. chair of the Commission since to 64% by 2030. “As director of Masonicare 2010, is director of Masonicare Commission executive Community Services, Dick’s Community Services, director Julia Evans Starr extensive experience helping Masonicare’s outreach program said, “Dick Memmott’s deep seniors has been a worthy that assists seniors and families experience and leadership skills demonstration of Masonicare’s throughout Connecticut. help ensure that our priorities mission. We are proud and The Commission on Aging, remain highly focused, results- pleased that he has been named a non-partisan state agency oriented, fi scally responsible, to this prestigious role with the of the Connecticut General achievable, and in the best Commission.” Assembly, was established in interest of Connecticut’s Bro. Dick is a member RW Richard C. Memmott, Sr., 1993 to advocate on behalf of residents.” of the Advisory Council and Connecticut’s senior population. As director of Masonicare Professional Assessment member of Ashlar Lodge No. The Commission fi lls a unique Community Services, Bro. Committee of the Western 332, Wallingford. He is the RW role within state government by Dick works with seniors and Connecticut Area Agency on Grand Tiler of the Grand Lodge providing objective information their families throughout the Aging and a statewide CHOICES Connecticut, a member of the and counsel on issues affecting state, helping them understand counselor. He also serves as York Rite, and a 33° Scottish older adults and persons with and access the many services chairperson of the Interagency Rite Mason. disabilities to the legislative and programs available to Council of the Agency on Aging Dick is a recipient of the and executive branches of state them. For example, he assists of South Central Connecticut. Pierpont Edwards Medal in government, local government, with Medicare applications, Bro. Dick is a member and Bronze for Distinguished the business community, counsels on insurance issues, Past Master of Annawon Lodge Masonic Service from the Grand organizations serving older and guides families through the No. 115, West Haven, and Lodge of Connecticut. Visitors to New London Chapter No. 58 by Bill Breed On October 17, the brothers of New London Chapter No. 58 were joined by representatives of Hartford Chapter No. 56 and Narragansett Bay Chapter No. 14 to welcome National Sojourner President William G. L. Turner and Lady Patti and National Heroes of ’76 Commander Andrew F. Hirst and Lady Dorothy. At 1900 hours, Chapter No. 58 President Jim Chianese welcomed everyone and called the meeting to order on the knife and fork degree. After dinner at Groton Inn and Suites, President Turner outlined his “Blueprint for the Future” which contains his goals and objectives. His Motto is: “Aim High — Make a Difference,” and is the focus of his president’s pin. The Propeller Club award is a personal achievement incentive, which may be earned by any member in good standing during the 2011-2012 Sojourner year. This year’s pin ihas a thin red border and the propeller is also colored red. National President Hirst presented Area Representative Charles Maxson with a certificate representing the Memphis Cup. The Memphis Cup is awarded to the area or regional representative who has been outstanding in his accomplishments to further the development and National President Turner having presented the Memphis Cup growth, along with retention of membership and dynamic activities, of Award to Brother Maxson, comments about his wearing the Aim the chapters in his area. High Pin. Page 26 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 (ME) Most Excellent Grand High Priest Connecticut York Rite Opportunities (MP) Most Puissant Grand Master Information to be included in York Rite Opportunities must be submitted by (RE) Right Eminent the 10th of the preceding month to the Grand Secretary/Recorder, Charles B. Grand Commander Fowler, 525 Stillwater, Windsor, CT 06095-3842 or [email protected]. (U) Uniform NOTE: All dates and visitations are subject to change without notice. (F) Formal (S) Semi-formal (C) Casual

Friday, December 2, (ME) Columbia Chapter No. 31, Collinsville, potluck supper with ladies program Sunday, December 4, (RE) (U) Palestine Commandery No. 6 and St. John’s Commandery No. 11, Christmas observance, Stonington, 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, December 6, (ME) (F) Keystone Chapter No. 27, Meriden, Table Chapter, 6:30 p.m. Tuesday, December 6, (MP) Harmony Council No. 8 and Franklin Chapter No. 2, New Haven, combined Christmas dinner Wednesday, December 7-8, (ME) (F) Grand Chapter Royal Arch Masons of Pennsylvania Thursday, December 8, (F) Rittenhouse Chapter No. 11, Darien, Past Master and Most Excellent Master degree Friday, December 9, (ME) (F) Baldwin Chapter No. 13, Stratford, Most Excellent Master degree Friday, December 9, (MP) (RE) (U) New Haven Commandery No. 2 at Masonicare Health Center, Christmas observance, 7:00 p.m. Friday, December 9, (U) Palestine Commandery No. 6, Stonington, Order of Temple, inspection Saturday, December 10, (ME) (MP) (RE) (U) Trinity Commandery No. 3, Darien. Christmas observance, 3:00 p.m. Sunday, December 11, (ME) (MP) (RE) (U) St. Elmo No. 9 and Cyrene No. 8, Commandery Christmas observance, Meriden, 5:00 p.m. Monday, December 12, (MP) (F) Cushing Council No. 4, North Stonington Tuesday, December 13, (MP) Franklin Chapter No. 2, New Haven Wednesday, December 14, (ME) (RE) Pulaski Chapter No. 26 and Crawford Council No. 19, Branford Thursday, December 15, (ME) (F) Cyrus-Meridian Chapter No. 15, Torrington Thursday, December 15, (RE) (U) Hamilton Commandery No. 5, Stratford Friday, December 16, (ME) (MP) (RE) (U) New Haven Commandery No. 2, New Haven, Christmas observance, 8:00 p.m. Sunday, December 18, (ME) (MP) (RE) (U) Hamilton Commandery No. 5, Stratford, Christmas observance, 3:00 p.m. buffet supper Monday, December 19, (ME) (MP) (RE) (S) Milford Chapter No. 49, Milford, annual Christmas sing-along, 6:00 p.m. dinner Tuesday, December 20, (ME), (MP) (RE) (U) York Rite of East Hartford. Christmas observance, 6:30 p.m. dinner Tuesday, December 20, (U) St Elmo Commandery No. 9, Meriden, open at 5:30 p.m., travel to East Hartford Thursday, December 22, (ME) (RE) (U) Trinity Commandery No. 3, Darien Wednesday, December 28, (F) Pythagoras Chapter No. 17, East Hartford, Royal Arch Mason degree

Coming Up Saturday, January 6, Columbia Chapter No. 31, Collinsville, Royal Arch Mason degree Wednesday, January 10, Wolcott Chapter No. 1, East Hartford, Royal Arch Mason degree Wednesday, January 17, Washington Commandery No. 1, East Hartford, Order of Temple, inspection Thursday, February 1, Lee Council No. 25, Collinsville, Royal Master degree Friday, February 9, Rittenhouse Chapter No. Chapter No. 11 Wednesday, February 14, Wolcott Council No. 1, East Hartford, Valentine program for ladies, program by Horizon Raptors Wednesday, February 21, Washington Commandery No. 1, East Hartford, installation of offi cers Thursday, February 22, Pythagoras Chapter 17, East Hartford, Mark Master Mason degree Friday, February 23, Trinity Commandery No. 3, Darien, annual meeting and installation Sunday, February 25, Grand Chapter Royal Arch Masons, Capitular Festival

Holiday Greetings from the Grand High Priest As we head into the holiday season, I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a happy, healthy, and prosperous New Year. “Tis the season to be jolly” as the song goes, but more than that it is a season to be thankful to God for blessing each of us with another day of life and an opportunity to do his will. Remember to be kind to everyone you meet: you never know when our Heavenly Father has placed an angel or fellow human being in need in our midst to see if we are practicing the tenets of brotherly love, relief and truth. May our Father, YAHWEH, and our Brother, Lord, and Savior Jesus bless you always. -Danny A. Camp

Thank you from the Most Puissant Grand Master Most Puissant Grand Master Bruce R. Bellmore thanks the many Companions who extended their good wishes to him during his recent illness.

York Rite Websites Grand Chapter Royal Arch Masons of Connecticut: http://yorkrite.org/gcramct/ Grand Council Royal and Select Masters of Connecticut: http://yorkrite.org/gcrsmct/ Grand Commandery Knights Templar of Connecticut: http://knightstemplar.org/gckt/ct These sites contain useful information including offi cer listings, constituent Chapter/Council/Commandery listings, “Opportunities”, the More Light pamphlet and the York Rite petition. The 2011 Proceedings of the Grand Chapter and Grand Council are also available on the websites.

December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 27 Craft at Labor…

Entered Apprentice Degrees Master Masons Degrees Friday, December 9, Temple No. 16, Friday, December 2, Temple No. 16, Friday, December 2, Ansantawae No. 89, Cheshire Cheshire, 6:30 p.m. dinner Milford, 6:30 p.m. dinner, SW Rob Thomas Tuesday, December 13, Shepherd-Salem Saturday, December 10, Hiram No. 1, in the East No. 78, Naugatuck, 6:30 p.m. dinner New Haven, 6:00 p.m. dinner, help from Saturday, December 3, Friendship No. 33, Monday, December 19, Meridian No. 77, Quinta Essentia U.D., degree and festive Southington Meriden, 6:30 p.m. dinner Past Masters board at the Graduate Club of New Haven Saturday, December 3, Moosup No. 113, night Monday, December 26, Washington No. Moosup, 5:00 p.m., dinner at the break Wednesday, December 21, Columbia No. 70, Windsor, 6:30 p.m. dinner Tuesday, December 6, St. Alban’s No. 38, 25, South Glastonbury, 6:30 p.m. dinner Branford, 6:15 p.m. dinner Wednesday, December 21, Estuary No. 43, Fellowcraft Degrees Wednesday, December 7, Somerset-St. Old Saybrook, 6:30 p.m. dinner Wednesday, December 21, Cosmopolitan James No. 34, Preston, 6:30 p.m. dinner No. 125, New Haven, SW Stephen Smith in the East Craft at Refreshment… Thursday, December 1, St. John’s No. 6, Monday, December 5, St. John’s No. 2, Wednesday, December 7, Hiram No. 18, Norwalk, 6:45 p.m. dinner, annual meeting Middletown, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual Sandy Hook, 7:30 PM, annual meeting Thursday, December 1, Temple No. 16, meeting Wednesday, December 7, Columbia No. Cheshire, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting Monday, December 5, Wyllys-St. John’s 25, South Glastonbury, 6:30 p.m. dinner, Thursday, December 1, Trumbull No. No. 4, West Hartford, annual meeting annual meeting 22, New Haven, 6:15 p.m. dinner, annual Monday, December 5, Compass No. 9, Wednesday, December 7, Day Spring No. meeting Wallingford, 6:15 p.m. dinner, annual 30, Hamden, annual meeting Thursday, December 1, Union No. 31, meeting and awards night Wednesday, December 7, Estuary No. 43, Niantic, annual meeting Monday, December 5, Federal No. 17, Old Saybrook, annual meeting Thursday, December 1, Somerset-St. James Watertown, 6:30 p.m. potluck dinner, Wednesday, December 7, Center No. 97, No. 34, Preston, 9:00 a.m., 8th District annual meeting Meriden, lodge of instruction and rehearsal breakfast at Groton Townhouse Restaurant Monday, December 5, Jerusalem No. 49, Wednesday, December 7, Corinthian No. Thursday, December 1, Harmony No. Ridgefi eld, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting 103, North Haven, 7:30 p.m. dinner, annual 42, Waterbury, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual Monday, December 5, Meridian No. 77, meeting meeting Meriden, 7:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting Wednesday, December 7, Cosmopolitan Thursday, December 1, Warren No. 51, Tuesday, December 6, America-St. John’s No. 125, New Haven, annual meeting Portland, annual meeting No. 8, Stratford, annual meeting Wednesday, December 7, Unity No. 148, Thursday, December 1, Wolcott No. 60, Tuesday, December 6, St. Peter’s No. 21, New Britain, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual Stafford, 7:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting New Milford, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting Thursday, December 1, Sequin-Level No. meeting Thursday, December 8, Hiram No. 1, New 140, Newington, 6:15 p.m. dinner, annual Tuesday, December 6, Seneca No. 55, Haven, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting meeting Torrington, annual meeting Thursday, December 8, Temple No. 65, Thursday, December 1, Friendship Tuscan Tuesday, December 6, Coastal No. 57, Westport, 8:00 p.m. dinner, annual meeting No. 145, Manchester, 6:30 p.m., annual Stonington, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual Friday, December 9, Corner Stone- meeting meeting Quinebaug No. 122, Thompson, annual Saturday, December 3, Wyllys-St. John’s Tuesday, December 6, Harmony No. 67, meeting No. 4, West Hartford, 4:00 p.m. dinner, New Canaan, annual meeting Saturday, December 10, Union No. 5, holiday party and toy drive Tuesday, December 6, Shepherd-Salem No. Stamford, 12:00 noon holiday party Saturday, December 3, Putnam No. 46, 78, Naugatuck, annual meeting Saturday, December 10, America-St. John’s South Woodstock, 10:00 a.m., annual Tuesday, December 6, Moosup No. 113, No. 8, Stratford, 8:00 a.m. breakfast with meeting and “Fumigation” Moosup, annual meeting Santa Saturday, December 3, Morning Star No. Tuesday, December 6, Unity No. 148, New Saturday, December 10, America-St. 47, Seymour, annual meeting Britain, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting John’s No. 8, Stratford, 5:30 p.m. dinner, Saturday, December 3, Sequin-Level No. Wednesday, December 7, Union No. 5, installation of offi cers 140, Newington, 11:00 a.m., ladies tea, Stamford, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting Saturday, December 10, Compass No. 9, Governor’s mansion Wednesday, December 7, King Solomon’s Wallingford, 1:00 p.m. dinner, installation Sunday, December 4, Friendship No. 33, No. 7, Woodbury, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual of offi cers Southington, 7:30 a.m. pancake breakfast meeting Saturday, December 10, Federal No. 17, Sunday, December 4, Jeptha No. 95, Wednesday, December 7, St. Paul’s No. 11, Watertown, 2:00 PM, Christmas party Clinton, 2:00 PM, open house Litchfi eld, annual meeting, potluck dinner Page 28 Connecticut Freemasons December 2011 Craft at Refreshment…

Saturday, December 10, Day Spring No. Tuesday, December 13, Manchester No. Saturday, December 17, Friendship 30, Hamden, 1:00 p.m. lodge holiday party 73, Manchester, annual meeting No. 33, Southington, 3:00 p.m. dinner, Saturday, December 10, Harmony No. 42, Tuesday, December 13, Acacia No. 85, installation of offi cers Waterbury, 4:00 p.m. dinner, installation of Greenwich, 8:00 p.m. dinner, annual Saturday, December 17, Sequin-Level No. offi cers meeting 140, Newington, 6:15 p.m. dinner, Hartford Saturday, December 10, Putnam No. 46, Tuesday, December 13, Madison No. 87, County Association of Past Masters South Woodstock, 8:00 a.m. breakfast with Madison, annual meeting Saturday, December 17, Unity No. 148, Santa Tuesday, December 13, Brainard No. 102, New Britain, 6:00 p.m. annual Christmas Saturday, December 10, Coastal No. 57, Niantic, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting dinner and party Stonington, 4:00 p.m. dinner, installation of Wednesday, December 14, Moriah No. 15, Sunday, December 18, Washington No. 19, offi cers Brooklyn, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting Monroe, 8:00 a.m. country breakfast Saturday, December 10, Wolcott No. 60, Wednesday, December 14, Composite Sunday, December 18, Jeptha No. 95, Stafford, 1:00 p.m. children’s Christmas No. 28, Suffi eld, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual Clinton, 9:45 AM, , Saint Johns Sunday, First party meeting Church of Christ Congregation, Clinton Saturday, December 10, Washington No. Wednesday, December 14, Ark No. 39, Monday, December 19, Friendship No. 70, Windsor, 8:00 a.m., poinsettias delivery Danbury, annual meeting 33, Southington, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual Saturday, December 10, Meridian No. 77, Wednesday, December 14, Center No. 97, meeting Meriden, 5:00 p.m. dinner, installation of Meriden, 7:00 p.m. dinner, annual meeting Monday, December 19, Jerusalem No. 49, offi cers Wednesday, December 14, Granite No. Ridgefi eld, installation of offi cers Saturday, December 10, Sequin-Level 119, Haddam, annual meeting Monday, December 19, Oxoboxo No. 116, No. 140, Newington, 1:00 p.m. dinner, Wednesday, December 14, Ashlar- Montville, 7:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting installation of offi cers Aspetuck No. 142, Easton, 6:30 p.m. dinner, Tuesday, December 20, St. Peter’s No. Saturday, December 10, Friendship Hiram’s Café, pot luck feast 21, New Milford, 6:00 p.m. dinner, joint Tuscan No. 145, Manchester, 12:00 noon, Thursday, December 15, St. John’s No. 6, holiday party installation of offi cers Norwalk, 6:45 p.m. dinner, installation of Tuesday, December 20, St. Alban’s No. 38, Sunday, December 11, Moriah No. 15, offi cers Branford, annual meeting Brooklyn, 8:00 a.m. breakfast with Santa Thursday, December 15, Temple No. 16, Tuesday, December 20, Seneca No. 55, Sunday, December 11, St. Peter’s No. 21, Cheshire, 6:30 p.m. dinner, step up night Torrington, installation of offi cers New Milford, 2:00 p.m., installation of Thursday, December 15, Trumbull No. 22, Tuesday, December 20, Harmony No. 67, offi cers, “Kilwinning Club” from Boston New Haven, holiday party New Canaan, 7:00 p.m. dinner, holiday Sunday, December 11, St. Alban’s No. Thursday, December 15, Union No. 31, party 38, Branford, 1:00 p.m., Master’s holiday Niantic, 6:00 p.m. dinner, installation of Tuesday, December 20, Manchester No. reception offi cers 73, Manchester, installation of offi cers Sunday, December 11, Estuary No. 43, Old Thursday, December 15, Putnam No. 46, Wednesday, December 21, Union No. 5, Saybrook, 4:00 p.m. dinner, joint holiday South Woodstock, 6:30 p.m. dinner, 9th Stamford, 6:30 p.m. dinner, end of year party, District Lodge of Actual Past Masters Table Lodge Sunday, December 11, Temple No. 65, Thursday, December 15, Warren No. 51, Wednesday, December 21, St. Paul’s No. Westport, 11:30 a.m. lodge Christmas party Portland, step up night 11, Litchfi eld, installation of offi cers Monday, December 12, Washington No. Friday, December 16, Wooster No. 10, Wednesday, December 21, Somerset-St. 19, Monroe, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual Colchester, 7:00 p.m. potluck dinner James No. 34, Preston, annual meeting meeting, and Christmas party Wednesday, December 21, Center No. 97, Monday, December 12, Washington No. Friday, December 16, Ansantawae No. 89, Meriden, lodge of instruction and rehearsal 70, Windsor, 7:30 p.m. dinner, annual Milford, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual meeting Thursday, December 22, Hiram No. 1, meeting, Steward’s auction to follow Friday, December 16, Philosophic Lodge New Haven, 7:30 p.m. holiday party Monday, December 12, Jeptha No. 95, of Research, Cromwell, 6:30 p.m. dinner, Tuesday, December 27, King Solomon’s Clinton, annual meeting annual meeting No. 7, Woodbury, 6:30 p.m. dinner, Monday, December 12, Evening Star No. Saturday, December 17, Wyllys-St. John’s Fellowcraft dinner, bring a guest to learn 101, Unionville, 6:30 p.m. dinner, annual No. 4, West Hartford, 6:00 p.m. dinner, about Masonry meeting installation of offi cers Tuesday, December 27, Frederick-Franklin Monday, December 12, Anchor No. 112, Saturday, December 17, Hiram No. 18, No. 14, Plainville, 7:30 p.m. dinner, travel to East Hampton, annual meeting Sandy Hook, 1:00 p.m. installation of J Timothy’s Monday, December 12, Silas Deane No. offi cers Saturday, December 31, Union No. 5, 147, Newington, annual meeting Saturday, December 17, Washington No. Stamford, 10:00 a.m., installation of offi cers Tuesday, December 13, Frederick-Franklin 19, Monroe, 1:00 p.m. dinner, installation No. 14, Plainville, annual meeting of offi cers Tuesday, December 13, Village No. 29, Saturday, December 17, Columbia No. Collinsville, 7:30 p.m. venison dinner, 25, South Glastonbury, 11:00 p.m. brunch, annual meeting installation of offi cers

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That was FAT LADY SANG. Whether it was meaningful for she lives on in spirit within me. it. No singing. We left for home was my state of mind, or an Again, for that fact, I gratefully thank you.” feeling low in spirits. actually sense of well being, I — Tony Giunta Again, on the evening don’t know. All I know is I felt of December 5, 2010, the good. And ever since then I That was the beginning of my letter to the transplant center called. Again have been feeling good again. family of the kidney donor who saved my life. they told me to come to the Today, I have renewed I have been trained to both deliver tragic news hospital immediately. As we Tony Giunta energy and I’m trying to catch and support families who have experienced were heading out the door, the up on things left unfi nished losses, but, by far, this was the most diffi cult phone rang again. The transplant center told from four years ago. My attitude has changed. letter I had ever written. I have always given me there was a recipient ahead of me on the I’m excited about life again. It’s wonderful support to others, so I’m not accustomed to list and I would have to wait. Wow, what a to feel the way I do. I never realized just how speaking about myself. But, here is my story. rollercoaster ride! far down my mental attitude and my physical I retired after 35 years as a police offi cer So we waited. I was beginning to think that ability dropped over the prior sick years until in 2006. I hoped to enjoy retirement with my my opportunities had passed me by. Then on now. I have rejoined the living and embrace life family, but within a year, I learned that I was June 4, 2011, the excitement began again. It was so strongly. What a difference it has made to facing a future of dialysis. After enrolling to Saturday night and we were Skyping with my me. I only wish others who have the ability to be a recipient at the Yale New Haven Hospital daughter in Australia. My cell phone rang but donate an organ would realize how much of a Transplant Center, I encountered my fi rst bit not wanting to be disturbed while we talked I difference it makes to individuals like me. And of negative information. My blood is O+, and allowed it to ring through to voice mail. even more to those who are desperately in need although I had given many gallons of blood Thirty minutes passed before I checked of a transplant. as a donor, I would join the longest list of any the message and learned the transplant center I have become more active in my lodge. I other blood type recipients. had a kidney for me and to call them back am doing more with the Boy Scouts again. Dialysis began on August 17, 2007 and I immediately. They were so anxious they had I can give more energy to the Key Club and immediately started to lose hope. It was truly the Westport Police Department coming to Kiwanis and most importantly I can participate depressing for me although I tried to keep my home. The coordinator explained this just more fully with my family without draining an upbeat perspective just to get through the as a police car pulled into my driveway. The their energies and attention. I will be eternally treatments. The treatments were 6 hours long. patrolman was one of my guys who I supervised thankful to the family of my donor. In doing Although I received a great amount of support before I retired. I was on my way. so, they gave a recipient a new outlook and one from my family and friends, I felt myself At 9:00 p.m. my preparations began again. of the most precious gifts one person could give slowly spiraling downward in both health and At 11:00 p.m. we were told the surgery wouldn’t another. attitude. To fi ght the depression, I would make begin until 4:00 a.m. I sent my family home. At I did write to my donor’s family. I explained jokes about dialysis. “It’s a pain in the arm.” It 3:00 a.m. the nurse woke me and told me that to them how grateful I was for their decision was important for my staying alive, but I didn’t the surgery had been delayed until 6:00 a.m. I and how much it meant to me and my family. see myself living past 70. tried to go back to sleep. I tried to keep from I was not looking for a response, I wanted to As the years of dialysis passed, I divested getting anxious. I didn’t want to be told the thank them for my gift. myself of many activities that were of lower transplant had been called priority. I made my lodge meetings, but limited off. At 6:00 a.m. the doctor my work as the Eagle Scout coordinator for came in, which I thought my troop. I missed most of my Kiwanis Club was a good indication, but I meetings, but tried to attend the Kiwanis Key was wrong. He told me that HEJAZ Club at the high school where I have been an the surgery was delayed to advisor for over 25 years. probably between 8:00 a.m. GROTTO, In October of 2010, the call came from and 10:00 a.m. I called my the Yale New Haven Hospital Transplant family. At 10:30 a.m. a team M.O.V.P.E.R. Center. They told me to get up to the hospital came to get me, and I was immediately as they had a kidney for me. My on my way, fi nally. I was OD FELLOWSHIP GOODGO FELLOWSHIPGE Dinner Meetings wife rushed home from the school where she ushered into pre-surgery for T ASHLAR VILLA Second Wednesdays, ATA ASHLAR VILLAGE 6:30 PM teaches, and we left for the hospital. Arriving 30 minutes of last minute at 9:30 in the morning, they prepared me for preparations. Finally, they the pending surgery. My son arrived from work, brought me to the operating Celebrating 100 Years and my support team was present. I was told room. I had a brief joking to wait with patience. We waited. It wasn’t conversation with the surgeon For information contact Secretary Gary Matican, until 5:00 p.m. that the nurse announced the and the anesthesiologist then Membership Chairman at 203 410-9733 operating room was calling. We were all getting I was out. December 2011 Connecticut Freemasons Page 31 B est wishes for a joyful holiday season from the Masonicare family.

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