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Leaven photo by Elaina Cochran From left, Donnelly trustee Bill Dunn Jr. (with ribbon) is joined by Henry W. Bloch and trustee and alum George Breidenthal in cutting the ceremonial ribbon on Donnelly College’s new community event center on April 5, as Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann, Donnelly trustees and community leaders look on. The three men co-chaired Donnelly’s Transformations campaign. Donnelly gives back to KCK future of Kansas City, Kan. — that site when it was a hospital, and her The center speaks to a bright fu- n Community event had its grand opening on April 5, cousin was the medical chief of ture, he told the crowd, not only for and she was among the first stu- staff. Donnelly but for Kansas City, Kan., center the first of dents to step inside. “This event center has always and beyond. many new projects “I’m very excited,” Oseguera said been an event center. It was an The college will use the new of the now-complete 3,196-square- event center for life,” he said. “A lot event center for campus events and By Jessica Langdon foot community event center that of good things happened. People meetings, and Donnelly will also al- Leaven staff was dedicated and blessed in an were born here. People were taken low rental of the facility on a first- outdoor ceremony. care of here.” come, first-served basis for private ANSAS CITY, Kan. To her, the new center demon- And good things continue to and nonprofit events, thus adding — Karla Oseguera’s strates that Donnelly is growing. It happen here through the Catholic another connection between the course schedule is building on its rich history and education students receive at Don- college and the community. might not have in- planning for a strong future. nelly College. “This is so exciting,” said Don- cluded the study of Donnelly, which was established A series of speakers — intro- nelly president Steve LaNasa, a new structure be- in 1949, has been operating in its duced by Daniel Haake, chairman noting that the college has been King built from the ground up. current location — the former site of Donnelly’s board of trustees — working toward this day for several But the Donnelly College stu- of Providence Hospital — since echoed that idea. years. “It’s an outward sign of our dent — who happens to be mapping 1982. commitment to the community.” out a future in civil engineering — Crews tore down the building Donnelly has plans for more still landed the perfect window to that once served as the hospital Instrument of good projects in the coming years, but watch the activity on the north side laundry facility to make room for decided to start with this $1.5 mil- of the main tower over the past sev- Donnelly’s new event center. “Donnelly College is very much lion center, an example of “our eral months. This is sacred ground, Bill Dunn at the heart of the church’s mission, commitment to be an anchor here From where she worked on the Jr. told the crowd at the dedication. and we’re so delighted that this col- in the urban core,” LaNasa said. sixth floor of Donnelly’s main build- Dunn is a Donnelly trustee and lege has been such an instrument of He recognized supporters and ing each day, Oseguera tracked the co-chairman of the Transforma- good for so many years in this com- emphasized the support Donnelly construction of a new community tions campaign committee. munity,” said Archbishop Joseph F. event center — a bright spot in the Dunn’s mother was born at this Naumann. >> See “Center” on page 2 2 archbishop theleaven.com | April 12, 2013 april 12, 2013 | theleaven.com second front page 3

Life will be victorious Redefining marriage would be a service to no one o apply sexual condition; for most of al page for the Easter edition them it is a trial. They must of The Kansas City Star. calendar Breaking bread basketball be accepted with respect, One of the Star’s regular terminology, compassion, and sensitivity. editorial contributors labeled archbishop T Every sign of unjust discrim- as “bigots” Kansas Gov. Sam Naumann the full-court press ination in their regard should Brownback, in particular, leads to breaking down barriers Panelists be avoided. These persons and anyone else who upheld April 12 Vespers, Mass and dinner By Jill Ragar Esfeld is on in an effort to are called to fulfill God’s will the definition of marriage as with Apostles of the Inte- [email protected] encourage influence the Supreme Court archbishop in their lives and, if they are it has been understood for rior Life to redefine marriage much in Joseph F. Naumann Christians, to unite to the millennia by a wide variety ood, like faith, is a common de- common-sense the same way that the court sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross of cultures and civilizations. April 14 nominator. Any group, no mat- in 1973 invented a legal ra- the difficulties they may Amazingly, under the banner Pastoral visit — St. ter how diverse, enjoys prepar- tionale to allow a mother to At the same time, there encounter from their condi- of tolerance, there is an Michael the Archangel, ing and sharing food. solutions authorize the killing of her are some positive develop- tion” (No. 2358). orchestrated effort to shout Leawood FThat’s the philosophy behind re- By Julie Holthaus unborn child. The 1973 abor- ments in American culture Most of those sympa- down and silence anyone gional Immigration Roundtable Work- [email protected] tion decisions by the court ig- that are contributing to thetic to the legalization of who dares to question the April 15 shops — a faith initiative cosponsored nored the best science of the the public policy debate so-called same-sex marriage societal wisdom of abandon- Curia meeting by the archdiocesan offices of Hispanic ANSAS CITY, Kan. time, which affirmed the hu- regarding the definition are motivated by a desire for ing the definition of marriage ministry and social justice. — Immigration re- manity of the unborn child, in of marriage. Actually, the happiness for those experi- that has been a foundation “Shepherd’s Voice” taping The two-hour workshops seek to form was the topic order to accommodate what support by many Ameri- encing a same-sex attraction. for strong and healthy fami- bring immigrants and non-immigrants under discussion at a was perceived as a growing cans for so-called same-sex We all need to love and be lies for millennia. Confirmation — St. Paul, together in different regions of the round-tableK presented at Savior societal acceptance of legal- marriage emanates from a loved. Most Americans want Similarly, good science is Olathe archdiocese to break down barriers Pastoral Center here on April 2. ized abortion. quite commendable, though those who experience same- being suppressed as illustrat- through the common bond of faith and The panel was sponsored by the April 17 The disastrous abortion misdirected, compassion for sex attractions to experience ed by the firestorm of criti- food. national network, Bibles, Badges decisions of 40 years ago those who experience same- the joy of friendship and cism directed last summer at Confirmation — St. Jo- and Business. seph, Shawnee And so far, they’ve been a gastro- have resulted in the killing of sex attraction. Some reading love. Frankly, so do I. the New Family Structures nomical success. Bible, Badges and Business is more than 50 million Amer- this article experience or Yet, the desire for those Study conducted by Uni- an alliance of conservative faith, April 18 “Food is an automatic icebreaker,” ican children, the emotional have experienced same-sex with a homosexual orienta- versity of Texas sociologist Kenrick Seminary board said Father Pat Murphy, CS, who only law enforcement and business and spiritual scarring of attractions and all of us tion to experience love and Mark Regnerus. Although it meeting recently left his position as animator leaders formed in 2011, work- more than 50 million parents, know a relative, neighbor, friendship will not be served is perfectly normal academic for the archdiocesan Hispanic minis- Leaven photo by Jill Ragar Esfeld ing to build a new consensus and the polarization of our co-worker or friend who has by redefining marriage. It sport to critique a study’s April 19 try office. “People always ask, ‘What is Good Shepherd. Shawnee, parishioner Mary Mueller (right) reads an icebreaker question she’s around the issue of immigrants nation. If you are wearied a homosexual orientation. will mislead individuals methodology, the shrill Region IX Stewardship that?’ ‘How do you make it?’” drawn at the immigration round table as Hoseop Cha, a member of the Korean Catholic Church at in America. Its goal is to foster by how the abortion issue One of the positive results with same-sex attractions to critics of the New Family Conference Three parishes sponsored round Holy Trinity in Lenexa, waits his turn. common-sense immigration solu- continues to divide deeply of the drumbeat in the pop- believe the prevalent cultur- Structure Study called for tables within the last year — Blessed tions by way of open discussions our nation, then you should ular culture to normalize the al lie that love and genital the University of Texas to Sacrament in Kansas City, Kan.; Holy the workshop. Once group members among state leaders and Con- be praying that the court perception of homosexual sexual activity are identical. discipline Regnerus. Why? archbishop Trinity in Lenexa; and Our Lady of had gotten to know each other, partic- Sponsor an immigration gress. does not repeat its autocratic activity has been to reduce It will encourage same-sex Not because the methodol- keleher Guadalupe in Topeka. ipants were invited to fill their plates. “There are people on the very behavior of four decades ago the ridicule of individu- couples to go down a path ogy was flawed, but because The experience has yielded even It was a fun and adventurous expe- round table far left and very far right of this by attempting to cut short als experiencing same-sex that is actually harmful to the study’s findings chal- April 17 more than expected. rience. Father Pat Murphy’s successor in issue,” said Angela Adams, Bible the public debate on such a attractions. In our Catholic their physical, emotional and, lenged the prevailing cul- St. James auction dinner “I thought it was a very nice expe- “I ate Korean food,” Figueroa an- the archdiocesan Hispanic minis- Badges and Business Midwest co- fundamental moral issue as understanding, every human most especially, their spiritual tural assumptions about the rience,” said Holy Trinity parishioner nounced proudly. “It was very differ- try office, Father Livio Stella, CS, is ordinator, “We want to highlight the definition of marriage. person is made in the divine good. The legal recognition of impact upon children raised April 18 Martin Figueroa, a native of Mexico, ent, but very good.” continuing the regional Immigration the middle, with a right leaning, Those who are so eager image and every human so-called same-sex marriage by same-sex partners serving Confirmation — Holy who attended his parish round table. While participants enjoyed the as- Roundtable Workshops. If you are the voice that is missing in the Name, Kansas City, Kan. to push our nation over yet being is of such inestimable will also further undermine as parents. The efforts to “I felt,” he continued, “like I was sorted foods, they watched a portion interested in hosting a workshop at debate. BBB is bringing it to the another ethical cliff are the worth that Jesus gave his and weaken family life in the punish professor Regnerus with my family — with Koreans, with of a documentary called “Welcome to your parish, contact Father Livio by center.” faithful remnants of the life on Calvary. Our innate United States. for his findings were in part Americans, with Salvadorians, with Shelbyville.” email at: [email protected]. The panel discussed the need true believers in the so- human dignity is in no way I realize by merely ques- to send a message to other their biological parents. The Mexicans mixed in. The video documents the experi- for reform at the national level, called “sexual revolution,” diminished by our sexual tioning the advisability of researchers of what they can principal reason the state “It was a very nice experience to ence of immigrants working at a meat and U.S. immigration historically. which gave us the current orientation. redefining marriage that I expect if their conclusions should care about marriage me.” packing plant in Shelbyville, Tenn., as Figueroa related to the movie and “We are a nation of immi- cultural, moral chaos result- The Catechism of the will be branded by some as a are not politically correct. is because of its importance The Holy Trinity workshop began they struggled to adjust to their new was inspired by the conversation that grants,” said Mike O’Neil, presi- ing in more than a million Catholic Church is crys- bigot and a homophobe. This Why is this debate so im- for the formation and rearing with participants seated around differ- home — and as Shelbyville natives followed. dent of the Kansas Chamber and abortions each year and tal clear on this matter. It is part of the bullying and in- portant and so intense? The of its future citizens. I will ent tables, each representing an even struggled to adjust to their new neigh- “I learned we can do whatever we former speaker of the Kansas an alarming percentage of states: “The number of men timidation that is being used understanding of marriage be devoting the next couple mix of nationalities. bors. want,” he said. “We can do it together. House of Representatives. “We American children born and women who have deep- to silence critics of same- is pivotal to the family and of columns to examining this Each table also had a jar in the mid- “The entire movie is quite well “We can share whatever we have seem to have lost sight of the out of wedlock with single seated homosexual tenden- sex marriage, an example of the well-being of children. crucial cultural and moral dle filled with general questions to done,” said Father Pat. “I wanted to use and give to one another — that’s what past.” parenting as the new normal, cies is not negligible. They which appeared as the lead Children have a desire and issue. Stay tuned. share and discuss. a snippet just to give people a taste of I learned.” Today, there are 11-20 million particularly for the poor. do not choose their homo- item at the top of the editori- right to be connected to Language was no barrier, as par- what we’re talking about — of what After the discussion, representatives undocumented immigrants in ticipants helped one another share happens when new people move in and from each table shared thoughts . . . and this country. thoughts and feelings about everything how that affects us.” again a common theme emerged — no “As soon as many of our ances- from favorite foods, to what they like After the movie, the group was giv- matter where we are, we are brothers tors came to America, we forgot about the United States, to how they en questions to encourage discussion and sisters in the same God. We are one to offer that blessing to others,” stay in touch with family and friends at each table. in the body of Christ. O’Neil said. “We must be who Center represents Donnelly’s commitment to community back home. The resulting conversations were The workshop ended with a prayer America is, welcoming the bright- from St. Juan Diego, imploring his in- >> Continued from page 1 experience and connections she built “If you keep believing in yourself and the blessing of the center and a crucifix “Normally we would not be togeth- heartfelt, revealing, and often emotion- est of many nations and continu- tercession to help immigrants. during her semesters at Donnelly. your students, Donnelly will be the spir- to be displayed. Msgr. Gary Applegate er,” said Father Pat. “Yet in five min- al. ing to extend the invitation.” Planners felt the round-table experi- has received along the way. As an ambassador, she helps new stu- it of life in our community for countless served as master of ceremonies. utes, answering some simple ques- “We had different views at our ta- Joining O’Neil on the panel ence served to break down some of the To him, facilities play an important dents learn about Donnelly and how the years to come,” he said. Following the blessing and a rib- tions, we find out how much we have ble,” said Mariana Ramirez, a Good were Father Mark Mertes, pastor barriers they had targeted. Participants part in providing a quality learning en- college is involved in the community. Some recent remarks of Pope Fran- bon cutting, the crowd toured the cen- in common.” Shepherd, Shawnee, parishioner who of Christ the King, Blessed Sacra- agreed. vironment that will foster success and “The community gives a lot to Don- cis, said Archbishop Naumann, seemed ter; Donnelly already has a number of Participants soon discovered that, attended the Holy Trinity round table. ment, and our Lady and St. Rose “I would like to talk with these high expectations. nelly,” said Oseguera. pertinent to the occasion. events scheduled to take place there. no matter where they came from, they “It was a choice [to come to the parishes in Kansas City, Kan.; people more, just like a friend,” said “Education is so important today,” She sees the center as another way “One of the things he said is that we Donnelly will take a “breather” from all had a common faith, hopes for their United States],” she said. “For some, former Kansas Attorney Gener- Figueroa after the workshop. “It’s good. said Henry W. Bloch, who, along with for Donnelly to give back. often envision Jesus at the door of our physical construction over the next few children, favorite restaurants for native that choice was more painful. We left al Bob Stephan; Allie Devine of “I would like to do that more than William H. Dunn Sr., served as an hon- And she likes the modern feel it gives hearts knocking for us to let him in,” months, but plans to turn its attention foods, gratitude for being in this coun- family and culture that is still a pain in Devine & Donley, LLC, and for- once a year.” orary Transformations co-chairman. the campus. Archbishop Naumann said. “That’s a to several projects in the main tower. try, and pride in their heritage. our heart.” mer Kansas Secretary of Agricul- Obviously, we’re not solving the The best retirement gift he received, The center has its own entrance and beautiful image and true image. The comprehensive plan will focus And then, of course, there was the “There were some tears shed — not ture; and the Rev. Jason Schoff of entire issue of immigration,” said Fa- he said, was the scholarship program at includes a catering kitchen, outdoor “But Pope Francis said sometimes he on projects like the chapel, library and most common theme. necessarily something we planned for,” Mission Adelante in Kansas City, ther Pat. “But we’re beginning a dia- Donnelly through the H&R Block Foun- courtyard, and state-of-the-art technol- thinks Jesus is on the other side of the resource space, and the front entrance. “We all like to eat,” said Father Pat. said Father Pat, “but sometimes the Kan. logue.” dation. ogy, including a sound system and mul- door knocking and saying, ‘Let me out. “We’re not done,” said George Each round-table participant Spirit works in different ways than we >> See “Don’t” on page 6 “Many of the students are the first timedia screen, among other features. Let me out into the community.’” Breidenthal, trustee, Transformations brought a native dish to share during imagine.” ones in their family to ever go to col- To the archbishop, that idea of Jesus campaign co-chairman and 1969 Don- lege,” he noted. wanting to share God’s love fit this cele- nelly graduate. “This is only the first Donnelly’s commitment to the com- Belief in the future bration at Donnelly in a special way. piece of the puzzle to make Donnelly Editor Production Manager Reporter Published weekly September through May, excepting the Friday the munity — and to its students — isn’t “That’s what I believe Donnelly tries a great place for the students who are Reverend Mark Goldasich, stl Todd Habiger Jessica Langdon week after Thanksgiving, and the Friday after Christmas; biweekly June [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] through August. Address communications to: The Leaven, 12615 Parallel lost on the people it serves. 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Joseph H. and Beatrice (Sylvia) Pond, members of Holy REbeL with a cause Dead man talking Rosary Parish, By Jill Ragar Esfeld n Speaking engagements Wea, will [email protected] DNA freed man from celebrate Walk to REbeL Death penalty update Exonerated death row inmate Kirk Blood- death row; now he their 60th verland Park — When Walk to REbeL is a three-mile During this session, the Kansas sworth will be speaking at five events. wedding their daughter Madison was awareness walk on April 27, but the speaks for the innocent Legislature saw two bills that would anniver- a sophomore in high school, day is more about having a good replace the death penalty with life April 14 sary on April 20. An 8:30 a.m. Mass will time than completing a distance. By Joe Bollig sentence without the possibility of pa- 9:15 a.m. – Grace Gathering Room at Grace be celebrated on April 21. The couple Ascension parishioners Lea role. House Bill 2397 was introduced UMC, 11485 S. Ridgeview Rd., Olathe (free to Oand Bob Daum noticed a change in her Walk participants and their fami- [email protected] was married at St. Joseph Church, Fair- by Rep. Steven Becker, R-Buhler, and the public) lies and friends will be treated to a haven, Mass. Their children and their attitude. Senate Bill 126 was introduced by Sen. The change seemed to coincide with group warm-up, prize drawings, re- ANSAS CITY, Kan. — It Carolyn McGinn, R-Sedgwick. Both 6:30 p.m. – “An Evening with Kirk Bloods- spouses are: Stephen and Kathie Pond, her involvement in a group called REbeL. freshments, DJ entertainment, face could have happened to any- bills are stalled. Since they are in ex- worth” dinner event, St. David’s Episcopal Crestwood, Ky.; Michael and Diane Pond, Knowing nothing about REbeL, Lea painting, a photo booth, and lots of one. Unfortunately for Kirk empt committees, however, they will Church, 3916 S.W. 17th St., Topeka ($25 per Phoenix; Jeffery and Maureen Pond, Au- Daum accepted her daughter’s invita- positive, uplifting messages. Bloodsworth, it happened to remain alive until next year’s session, person. To purchase tickets, contact Maria burn, Mass.; Christopher and Heidi Pond, For more information about the him.K when they can be heard. Cuevas at (785) 235-2237, or by email at: Fairhaven, Mass; Joseph Jr., and Robin tion to attend a meeting at her school, Walk to REbeL, visit the website at: Pond, Prairie Village; Cynthia and Glenn Blue Valley Northwest in Overland He was accused, arrested, convicted [email protected].) www.rebelks.com/walk-to-rebel. Sobek, Olathe; and Susan and William Park. and sentenced to death for a horrible To learn more about REbeL, visit crime. skinned, was missing a front tooth, and April 15 Rockley, Cleveland, Mo. They also have There she heard fellow parishioner 13 grandchildren and one great-grand- the website at: www.rebelks.com. He never wa- at the time had long sideburns and hair 7 p.m. – Big 12 Room, Kansas Union, Level Dr. Laura Eickman speak, and every- 5, University of Kansas, 1301 Jayhawk Blvd., daughter. “as red as the stripe on the American thing made sense. vered in pro- Lawrence (free to the public) claiming his inno- flag.” “I got what REbeL was,” she said. “And within the school, it creates a JoAnn (Glissman) and Clarence cence. “After two trials and two convic- “And I realized the changes I’d seen in culture of kindness.” April 16 Meyer, mem- For two years, tions, I was sentenced to death once Madison were coming from this group.” Emily’s mother, Kerri Baranowski, 7 p.m. – Dugan-Gorges Conf. Ctr., Dugan Li- bers of St. Pat- he lived on death and double life the second time,” said “She was more confident in herself,” said it reminds her of the Bible teaching brary & Campus Ctr., Newman University, rick Parish, Leaven photo by Jill Ragar Esfeld row, in a claustro- Bloodsworth. 3100 McCormick, Wichita (free to the public) said Lea Daum. “She was more accept- that we are many parts, but one body. Corning, will It wasn’t all work at the REbeL pancake breakfast fundraiser. Sharing a laugh are seniors Abby phobic cell a floor That was in 1985. The reality of be- ing of others. “I think this program really promotes celebrate their Schmitz (left), Olathe East, and Shane Smith, Blue Valley Northwest in Overland Park. Both students above Maryland’s ing in a maximum-security prison un- April 17 “She made friends with kids for what that,” she said. “Celebrate the part that 50th wedding they were like on the inside, not what are members of REbeL chapters at their high schools. gas chamber. der a death sentence as an innocent 7 p.m. – FHSU Beach/Schmidt Performing anniversary on you are, because your part is important. Arts Center, 600 Park St., Hays (free to the “It was in 1984,” was pretty rough. In prison culture, April 21 at the they looked like on the outside.” “I think when [the students] look at it public) working toward her doctorate in clin- word out to the entire school. said Bloodsworth, there is no one more loathed than a Corning Com- Madison’s mom was so impressed from that perspective, it helps them see ical psychology, saw a great need for “For instance, to send a very visual now 52. “I was 22, sexual predator who hurts children. munity Center. with the program, she signed up to be a not just the good in themselves, but the Kirk Bloodsworth such a program and was eager to help. and positive message,” said Bob Daum, and honorably “Some might call me crazy, but I Kimberly Shay Ruffner pled guilty to There will be a parent volunteer. good in others, too.” Eickman began her research by con- “they have fat-free week where they’ll go discharged from the U. S. Marines. My went out in the [prison] population the murder in 2004. dinner, followed Her dad also became an ardent fan. Her daughter agrees. ducting a series of focus groups with into the schools at night and cover up all life was beginning in earnest.” and stood against it all,” he said. “I skir- Bloodsworth became the first per- by a reception and open house from “I think it’s one of the most positive “It’s been a good year for REbeL at our local high school students, asking what the mirrors in the bathrooms.” He was also newly married. He mished here and there but, in the end, son to be exonerated from death row 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. The couple was mar- programs I’ve ever been associated school,” she said. “I’ve had girls come issues they struggle with most. The REbeL program provides re- moved up to Baltimore, but went to the I prevailed.” through post-conviction DNA testing. ried April 20, 1963, at St. Bede Church, with,” he said. up to me as say, ‘We’re so glad for what “It became very clear to me,” she sources, including meeting topics and little town of Essex that Fourth of July Bloodsworth had been raised a He left prison a free man with no crim- Kelly. Their children and spouses are: He’s not alone. you’re doing here.’ They’re so grateful.” said. “It wasn’t a question of if body im- discussion questions, as well as a bind- weekend and was staying with a cous- Methodist, but while in prison learned inal record on June 6, 1993. Gary and Lisa Meyer, Onaga; Brenda and Started just five years ago by -Eick It’s no surprise that Eickman is over- age was an issue — it was to what ex- er of the fliers and handouts created by in. about the Catholic faith. It gave him It was wonderful — and sad. His Dan Hasenkamp, Centralia; Ed Meyer, man, a licensed clinical psychologist, whelmed by requests for the program at tent.” students. “I was an honest Joe,” he said. “I hope, so he became a Catholic while mother died five months before he Solder; and Karen Meyer, Topeka. They the REbeL program is now thriving in other schools. also have seven grandchildren and one Breithaupt wasn’t surprised by the grew up working hard and had a work incarcerated. got out, and before the DNA evidence eight area schools and has been invited “We would love to be able to say yes great-grandchild. results. ethic. The next thing I knew, I was “I didn’t want to separate from the proved he could not possibly have into 26 more schools in six states. to all the requests,” she said. “We hope to “I would say every single one of my Student-driven success fighting for my life.” Methodist Church as much as I want- committed the terrible crime he was be able to add some more for next year. Maureen (Rossiter) and Jim Lane, friends struggles with some self-esteem On July 25, nine-year-old Dawn Ven- ed sanctuary, and the Catholic Church accused of. Bloodsworth takes solace “It’s a peer-to-peer student organi- “But the key really is, as with most members of What it’s all about issue related to their image,” she said. ice Hamilton of Rosedale, Md., was seemed to offer the only service at the in the fact that she always believed he zation,” said Bob Daum, “that’s pretty things, money. We’re actively trying to Mater Dei Par- “And you notice that in high school a found raped and murdered at a local time that I felt comfortable with,” he said. was innocent. REbeL is a student-driven educa- much run by the students.” raise enough funds to support the non- ish, Topeka, lot. pond. Police interviewed people who “They didn’t care who I was or anything. Bloodsworth found new purpose in tion and prevention program that helps Indeed one of the most successful as- profit so we can hire somebody to man- will celebrate “It can develop into an eating dis- were in the area at the time and came They accepted me for who I was.” work to prevent other innocent people teenagers by educating them on eat- order, which is what we don’t want to pects of REbeL is its student-driven for- age the organization.” their 50th wed- up with a suspect description and a He also became an advocate for his from ending up on death row. He now ding anniver- ing issues, body image problems, self- see.” mat. sketch, which they circulated. own innocence in prison. One day, he serves as advocacy director of Witness sary on April esteem, bullying, and peer pressure. That’s why REbeL is focused on edu- “It’s different from any other program A neighbor of Bloodsworth’s cousin found a book by Joseph Wambaugh, ti- to Innocence and advocates against the 20 with family And it’s aptly named, because the because the students talk about what cating students before a poor self-image Hope for the future thought that the ex-Marine might be tled “The Blooding.” In the story about death penalty. and friends at students who flock to its meetings are they want to change within their own causes them to risk their health. the man. Police were eager to make an another crime, Bloodsworth learned He travels to death penalty states 5 p.m. Mass rebelling against media stereotypes of school,” said Breithaupt. To that end, students from all partic- And the philosophy behind that edu- arrest. The crime left people outraged about a revolutionary new crime sci- like Kansas to talk about his experi- at Holy Name beauty, fitness and health. For this reason, REbeL might look dif- ipating schools collaborated this winter cation is rooted in Eickman’s faith. and afraid. ence that involved testing DNA. He ences. The Kansas Coalition Against Church, Topeka, “They’re starting a revolution in ferent in each school. Students identify to host a successful pancake breakfast “God gave us these incredible gifts of “It was all based on a witness ID, and found help thorough pro bono attorney the Death Penalty is sponsoring his ap- followed by a family dinner. The couple terms of trying to help people be more what they think their peers are strug- fundraiser at a local Applebee’s restau- our bodies and our personalities,” she a faulty one at that,” said Bloodsworth. Robert Morin and others. They tracked pearances this month. was married on April 20, 1963, at Holy positive, healthy and self-confident,” gling with — in one school that might rant. said. “If we can learn to respect the gifts “They said this person was six-foot- down evidence from the crime and test- “I always go back to Abraham [in the Name. Their children and their spouses said Eickman. be bullying, and in another it might be And REbeL members, families and God gave us, we realize we all do have five, curly blond hair, bushy mustache, ed the evidence. Book of Genesis],” said Bloodsworth. are: Laurie and Brian McPeck; Jim and Ju- The revolution is spreading fast. eating disorders. friends are looking forward to the big- weaknesses. But we also have amazing tanned and skinny.” The evidence didn’t match Bloods- “He asked God not to destroy Sodom lie Lane; Susan and Jon Valesano; Colleen In the words of Ascension parishio- “So the kids will talk and they’ll come gest REbeL event of the year — The strengths and talents. That didn’t fit Bloodsworth at all, worth, but did match another man who and Gomorrah if there were innocents and Steve Toliver; Dennis Lane; Trish and ner Lauren Breithaupt, who assisted up with posters or videos or activities Walk to REbeL (see sidebar above). “And those are what we should focus who has a short, stocky build, was fair- was already in prison for other crimes. there, and [God] agreed.” Randy LaRue; and Bill and Stacey Lane. in starting the program, “it has just ex- on.” they want to try within their schools to Eickman hopes the walk will raise They also have 17 grandchildren. ploded.” address their issues,” said Eickman. enough awareness and funds to help her Eickman, whose specialty area is Emily Baranowski, an Ascension pa- bring REbeL to more schools and em- working with eating disorders and body Starting a revolution rishioner and sophomore REbeL mem- power more teenagers. images, developed the program through ber at Notre Dame de Sion, works hard “I’ve seen when these kids really start a combination of her clinical experi- Many of the students in REbeL’s ini- to make her chapter a success. to focus on what makes them a beauti- Archdiocese investigating allegation against international priest ence and research. tial focus group attended Blue Valley “We have Laura and the counselors ful person,” she said. “They become so On April 2, the Safe Environment ginning graduate studies in September ough investigation. However, it is im- Breithaupt, a former Blue Valley Northwest, so Eickman chose that high helping us out,” she said. “But it’s really much happier and more peaceful, and Coordinator for the Archdiocese of 2005 and at St. Michael the Archangel portant to remember that all accused Northwest student who is currently school to approach with a pilot program. the students who step up and do it.” such great examples of what we can do Kansas City in Kansas received a re- Parish, Leawood, in summer 2007. persons should be presumed innocent Contact Information: The pilot was so successful that, with- REbeL also has a leadership team with our lives.” port alleging abuse of a minor by Fa- In September unless evidence proves otherwise. Rose Hammes in the next few years, a REbeL chapter comprised of two members from each Breithaupt has experienced that first- ther Anthony Putti, a priest of the 2010, Father Putti While serving in the archdiocese, Fa- Director of Communications Why REbeL? was started in all five Blue Valley high school. hand. Diocese of Guntur, India, where he resigned his pas- ther Putti participated in safe environ- (913) 948-3996 schools, Notre Dame de Sion High “I meet with those kids monthly,” “Working with REbeL has made me [email protected] When I named it, I wanted to currently resides. toral duties and ment training and had a clear back- School in Missouri and Olathe East High said Eickman. “And so they get to inter- less conscious about my image,” she said. Archdiocese of Kansas City emphasize the word “be” because The archdiocese has never received was recalled to ground check on file as required by the School. act and hear what the other schools are “So I can put more of my time and efforts in Kansas we’re encouraging kids to be them- any other allegation of sexual miscon- his home diocese child protection policy. into something else that’s going to make 12615 Parallel Parkway selves. The name is REbeL because In addition, a middle school pilot pro- doing and take those ideas back to their duct with a minor against Father Put- after admitting to In accord with archdiocesan pol- a difference in someone else’s life. Kansas City, KS 66109 we want them to rebel against the gram is currently in Prairie Sun Middle own chapters.” ti. Father Putti denies the allegation. sexual relations icies, local law enforcement and the unrealistic standards of beauty in School in Leawood. “And it’s strengthened my faith. I feel His bishop has also been informed. He with an adult who Kansas Department for Children and Each school has its own chapter, and like I’m doing something purposeful at our society; rebel against peer pres- served in the archdiocese before and had requested pri- Families have been contacted and the dinator at (913) 647-0324, the Confiden- then the school itself has teachers or all times. I’m doing exactly what I feel sure and conformity; and then also Positive change while pursuing graduate studies in the- vacy in the matter. chairman of the Independent Review tial Report Line at (913) 647-3051, or to school counselors who are sponsors. I’m called to do.” rebel against the practice of sacrific- ology at the University of St. Mary of Archdiocesan Board has been notified. The archdi- contact local law enforcement. “I train [students and sponsors] and Like the Daums, many parents are Eickman wants that experience for ing your health for your appearance. the Lake, Mundelein, Ill. Father Anthony Putti policies place the ocese encourages any person who be- Anyone having information perti- I get the whole program started,” ex- seeing a change in their REbeL teens. every young person. We want them to rebel in a positive Upon completing his studies, Father protection of chil- lieves they have been sexually abused nent to this investigation is encouraged plained Eickman. “And then the spon- “They get this attitude that they real- “If you use the talents you were giv- way and be positive examples. Putti was assigned in July 2008 as pas- dren as the first priority. Furthermore, by any cleric, employee or volunteer to contact the archdiocesan Safe Envi- sors of the school interact with the stu- ly can make a positive impact on a large en for good,” she said, “you can do such tor of St. Gregory Parish, Marysville, the archdiocese respects the sincere of any archdiocesan parish, school or ronment Coordinator and/or local law ~ Laura Eickman, PsyD, founder dents on a weekly basis.” group of people,” said Breithaupt. “So we amazing things.” and St. Malachy Parish, Beattie. He was concerns of all individuals who bring agency, regardless of when such abuse enforcement. and executive director of REbeL Students meet weekly to discuss is- see this theme of empowerment devel- assigned to assist at Prince of Peace forth allegations of misconduct and is may have occurred, to contact the sues and plan activities, then get the op. Parish, Olathe, from June 2003 until be- thus committed to conducting a thor- archdiocesan Safe Environment Coor- 6 local news theleaven.com | april 12, 2013 Don’t call with complaints, say panelists, but with solutions >> Continued from page 3

Father Mertes said that his own work with migrants has been very af- firming. “Working with migrants has revital- ized who I am as a priest, as an Ameri- can, and as a child of God,” he said. And besides the moral imperative for reform, he added, we need to bring immigrants out of the shadows for practical reasons. “I want immigrants to be able to get a home mortgage, to have a driver’s li- cense, go to work without worry,” said Father Mertes. “Immigrants are shar- ing in the American dream, but are be- ing veiled, in a sense.” In her remarks, Devine emphasized the difficulty immigrants face in their efforts to become U.S. citizens. “New immigrants come because they believe in the American dream,” said Devine. “The hardest thing to tell Leaven photo by Todd Habiger them is that ‘I’m sorry there is no line The Bibles, Badges, and Business panel consisted of, from left, moderator Angela Adams, Bible Badges and Business Midwest coordinator; Allie Devine, to get into.’” of Devine & Donley, LLC, and former Kansas Secretary of Agriculture; Bob Stephan, former Kansas attorney general; Father Mark Mertes, pastor of “People have the right to find op- Christ the King, Blessed Sacrament, and Our Lady and St. Rose parishes in Kansas City, Kan.; Mike O’Neil, president of the Kansas Chamber and former portunity,” Father Mertes said. “People speaker of the Kansas House of Representatives; and the Rev. Jason Schoff of Mission Adelante in Kansas City, Kan. have the right to migrate, sovereign nations have the right to control bor- we speed economic recovery? I think the more knowledgeable they will be,” ther Mertes. “When you start to live ders, and refugees should be afforded of looking to immigration as a source said Stephan. and work with immigrants, it’s not an protection. We should be together on of how we can encourage econom- The panel also urged those in atten- issue. this journey of hope.” ic growth. Immigration reform will dance to get to know their neighbors. “These are our brothers and sisters.” The panel also discussed the posi- strengthen our competitiveness.” “Get involved in the community,” For more information on the Bible, tive impact immigration reform would The panel suggested contacting said Stephan. “That assimilation is so Badges and Business network, visit have on the economy. state Legislatures, not with complaints, important to mobilize communities.” the website at: www.bbbimmigration. “How do we attract the best and but with common-sense solutions. “Neighborhood, community and org. 4/13 the brightest?” asked Devine. “How do “The more people they hear from, faith-building are important,” said Fa-

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Story by Jessica Langdon | Photos by Susan McSpadden Cari Hillyer and Luke Tjaden, right, study a Gospel reading — from St. Luke — to learn about Jesus’ baptism during a January CARE and Worship class at St. Michael the Archangel Parish.

EAWOOD — Gerry Boeck- taking Luke’s older brother Harry with mann marvels at how far them. something to do — whether it’s making “I think he’s very much more aware his 11-year-old son Noah has Hillyer sympathized with their situa- a craft or embarking on a scavenger hunt of what goes on in church,” Talbot said. come in just a few years every tion. for crosses in the hallways. “Cari’s just been a blessing for us be- time he receives Communion An active parishioner and a mother Circle time emphasizes elements they cause she wants everybody to get as Lat St. Michael the Archangel Parish here. herself of a young daughter with special would find on the altar — complete with much out of everything as they can.” “He comes back and he kneels and he needs, Hillyer was invited several years a plush Mass kit. Soft, stuffed versions Tjaden agrees. points up to the mural with the eye of ago to serve on a special needs commit- of the thurible (the censer in which in- “They’re just fabulous people — so God,” Boeckmann said of Noah, who has tee at St. Michael the Archangel. cense is burned), a chalice and other el- giving and loving,” she said. Down syndrome. “It’s incredible.” When committee members learned ements of the Mass help the kids match “Cari” is Luke’s favorite word. He gives a lot of credit for Noah’s of the need for some sort of program for the words with the objects. blossoming Catholic faith to the people children with special needs, the idea for And at the end, they say a five-finger Enriching lives behind a special Sunday-morning class CARE and Worship took off — with a prayer, with each finger representing people like family, friends, doctors, lead- at the parish. lot of support from The young volunteers — like 13-year- ers and others for whom the children Noah has at- pastor Father Bill old Chloe Kallsen and 14-year-old Grace want to pray. tended the CARE Porter and Denise Gearon, who both worked with the class and Worship pro- Ogilvie, director of on a recent Sunday with their mothers gram, which takes religious education Preparing for sacraments — get as much from working with this place during the and liturgy. Sam Chambers, left, plays a fishing game whileK eegan Burns and CARE and Worship teacher Kristin Brokaw complete a puzzle as they get ready for their Sunday morning class to start at St. Michael the program as they give to it. 10:30 a.m. Mass, Instead of sim- Archangel Parish in Leawood. Two CARE and Worship students And Father Porter sees the program since it was creat- ply providing happy child, another characteristic of have now received the sacrament of truly filling a need in the parish. ed. someone to watch the syndrome. reconciliation and have made their first “[The instructors] really, I think, un- CARE and Wor- the children while He “absolutely loves” music, said Communion, and the program is work- derstand how to teach in a way these ship — in which their families went Burns, so the songs interspersed ing with more who are interested in sac- children understand,” he said. CARE stands for to Mass, “we said throughout the class are a hit. ramental preparation. He knows from his own years in the Catholic Alterna- this should be a “The very first thing we do is music,” Teachers work with the kids on Sun- priesthood that people who have special tive Religious Ed- meaningful expe- explained Hillyer. “They all love music days, and families do a lot of prepara- needs truly grasp the faith they’re learn- ucation — is teach- rience for them at and that sort of gets the wiggles out.” tion at home, with ing. He has seen ing the basics of the whatever level they The group then settles down for the help of sacra- that in the confes- faith each week to are,” said Hillyer. prayer at the table, with teachers and ment kits. For more information sional, and even five students with And it has adult and youth helpers working one- Noah insisted he Any families at St. Michael the during an emo- special needs and turned into what on-one with each student. wanted to receive Archangel Parish that are interest- tional moment preparing some of Tjaden thinks of The class sings an alleluia, and then both the body and ed in this program for their children, when Archbishop them for receiving as a liturgy expe- the leaders share a reading, which is the blood at his first or parishes that would like to know Joseph F. Nau- the sacraments. rience designed usually the week’s Gospel, but some- Communion, so his more about starting a program of mann knelt in the As it happens, especially for Luke times might be the first or second read- d a d — a f o u r t h - their own, can reach Cari Hillyer by aisle to confirm all of the current Sam Chambers shows off a children’s Bible and his classmates ing if the Gospel is too abstract. degree Knight email at: [email protected]. a young man. He students are boys during a January CARE and Worship session. — and she feels this “We typically paraphrase it into a of Columbus at sees God at work and range from kin- Each session includes a Gospel geared toward has finally given way that would engage them, that they the parish — re- there. dergarten through the children in the class, from which the teach- Luke his own place would understand, and then we have searched the wine the church uses. “It’s also a nice thing,” he said, “for the sixth grade in ers pull out a message to emphasize. in his church. some reflection questions that we ask,” Noah touched the cup to his lips at parents to know they aren’t alone — that school. Each class com- said Hillyer. home ahead of time so he would be pre- the church cares for them and there is Under the direction of parishioner bines cognitive and physical activities Next, they bring out the “Bible bag,” pared for what he would taste at church. opportunity for their children to be pre- Cari Hillyer and her devoted staff of that engage the children in learning which always holds some familiar object It’s important, Hillyer said, for the pared for the sacraments.” teachers and helpers, the program de- about their faith. that relates to the main concept. kids who are preparing for the Eucha- Every parish, he feels, could benefit livers the liturgy in concrete ways that Since the program is organized “We try to employ some visual and rist to practice with unconsecrated from having a program like CARE and are individually tailored to each child’s around the liturgical year, Hillyer ex- tactile elements into what we’re doing hosts just like the hosts they will receive Worship — and St. Michael’s is happy to abilities and needs. plained, “they’re hearing the same because it means more to them when during Mass. help where it can. “It turned into so much more than we things that Mom and Dad are hearing in they can touch it, feel it, see it,” said There weren’t many dry eyes when “My files are open to them if they thought it was going to be,” said Nancy the Mass. Hillyer. the big day arrived. want to take the lesson plans that we’ve Tjaden, mother of nine-year-old Luke, “And then we’re pulling out one lit- CARE and Worship classes engage the students in their faith in physical ways, and teachers often send the students — like Noah Boeckmann, seen When the kids studied St. John the “I was bawling, of course,” said Hillyer. done,” said Hillyer, noting that the par- who has autism and has also attended tle nugget for them to focus on, so then here — to the board to match words with lessons they’re learning. Picture icons on the board also remind the students of the schedule for the day. Baptist announcing the coming of Je- Boeckmann’s mother watched as her ish has a curriculum for all three litur- CARE and Worship since it began. when Mom and Dad see them again, sus, for example, they used a mega- grandson received his first Communion. gical years. they can talk about the same thing.” Hannah loved music and cherished all,’” said Hillyer. “There’s not anything Prepare ye the way phone. It was an opportunity her brother, who “You could adapt these for whatever Meaningful experience going to Mass with her mom, her dad new that’s going to surprise me or fright- Brokaw got chills seeing that lesson had Down syndrome, didn’t have years your specific needs are,” she added. “It’s really click with Luke. ago, Boeckmann said. Noah waved to an open door.” Making connections Chris and her brother William. en me.” And it’s paying off. Before this class was created, Luke’s “People felt this connection with her,” She and one of the other teachers of “He would take the megaphone and her as he walked back to his seat. It’s a door that parents of St. Michael’s “You say, ‘You’re going to church he was going around the room saying, And soon he will start preparing for CARE and Worship kids encourage oth- family had a hard time taking him to When families first approach Hillyer Father Porter said. the class, Kristin Brokaw, an occupation- school,’ and once we hit those front Mass, which he had difficulty under- about enrolling their children in the class, And families find it easy to connect al therapist, meet with new families first ‘Jesus is coming! Jesus is coming!’” Bro- confirmation. ers to walk through. doors, he’s gone,” said Heidi Burns of kaw said. “It’s neat. It makes your heart “It brings tears,” said Boeckmann. “I just feel like all children need the standing, as well as sitting through. At she often asks such technical questions with Hillyer, as well. at home, so they can get to know the her seven-year-old son Keegan, who the same time, he was aging out of the that many people ask if she’s a nurse. Many friends see Hillyer’s presence child and his or her abilities in a com- feel good.” “It’s so enriching.” opportunity to experience God, regard- can’t wait to get to CARE and Worship. The kids know about the Old Testa- Noah now attends the first half of less of what their abilities are,” agreed church’s Our Little Ones Worship pro- “No,” she answers, “I have a daughter every Sunday and dedication to this pro- fortable setting. His two-year-old twin siblings tear after gram. with significant needs.” gram as a way to honor Hannah. Each teacher and helper brings his or ment and the New Testament, and about CARE and Worship and then rejoins his Burns. “And any way that we can reach him, knowing he has fun there. the four Gospel writers. family for the rest of Mass. them is only going to make us, as par- As a result, Tjaden and her husband Hillyer’s daughter Hannah died at age Often, families hear her story and feel her own unique perspective and expertise Keegan has a rare genetic condition Greg felt they were kept from fully 10 in 2009, but many people in the parish that she understands their experiences to the classroom, and they maintain con- Most importantly, Brokaw said, they Noah’s mother, Kim Talbot, loves ents and educators, better people.” called Angelman syndrome, which re- know God loves them. peeking in and seeing Noah helping his participating in Mass as well, and that still remember her bright smile and wel- and concerns. stant contact with the families to teach sults in global delays; he is also a very meant going separately — one of them coming spirit, said Father Porter. “They have a sense of ‘you’ve heard it the children in the best ways they can. Each class also gives the youngsters younger classmates.

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For a free consul- pair of all types of masonry work — brick, stone, tile and and mail to Terri Peterson, 7620 Bell Rd., to-thermal method of natural family seminars will present authentic, objec- school with 122 students enrolled and 16 staff employed. of Advice and Aid’s mission, vision, and financial objective. tation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@ flat work. 19 years of residential/commercial experience. Shawnee, KS 66217. For more information, planning are offered at the Topeka and tive, and scientific approaches to women’s Xavier Elementary serves 212 students in grades K-8 and First Communion dress and veil - for 18” dolls such In addition, the executive director plays a leadership role in kc.rr.com; or visit the website at: www.bankruptcylawin Free quote – KC metro area – small and large jobs ac- as American girl. handmade. A variety of other doll send an email to Sandy Cannon at: csan- Shawnee County Public Library, 1515 reproductive health as compared to the 115 students in preschool, employs 18 full-time teachers implementing the strategic goals of the organization. The kansascity.com. cepted. Call (913) 485-4307. Yes, we renovate kitchen/ [email protected]. S.W. 10th Ave., beginning on April 21 at 1 dominant approach used as the standard and 11 part-time teachers. The schools are accredited by the clothes, accessories, shoes, sleeping bags and paja- executive director is responsible for conducting himself with bathroom cabinets and install new floor tile. mas available. call (913) 642-1836 for appointment. p.m. Call Dana or Eric Runnebaum at (785) today. Details and online registration can Kansas State Department of Education and the AdvancEd the utmost integrity and for seeking God’s will and direction Piano lessons - Give your child the gift of music! Qual- international accreditation agency. The new president will Queen of the Holy Rosary Parish, 71st and 380-0062 or the Couple to Couple League be found at: www.prolifekc.com or contact for the organization. The ideal candidate will meet the follow- ity piano lessons with a positive, caring and motivating Adept Home Improvements Max’s rosaries - custom-made locally for all oc- be expected to be a person of great faith and a registered ing criteria: committed Christian and pro-life advocate; full teacher. Excellent piano method, and children excel quick- Where quality still counts! Metcalf, Overland Park, will host its annual of Kansas City at (913) 894-3558 for more the archdiocesan pro-life office at (913) and active member of his or her parish, in order to lead the casions – first communion, confirmation, baptism, agreement with statement of faith and principles; bachelor’s ly. 15 years of teaching experience. Call (913) 338-3022. Basement finishing, graduation. rosary bracelets and beaded earrings dinner dance at 6:30 p.m. on April 13. The information. Registration is required on 647-0350 or by email at: prolife@archkck. schools’ faith initiatives. In addition, the new president must degree (preferred); experience in a leadership role involving Kitchens and baths, theme is denim and diamonds. The cost to the website at: www.ccli.org. org. Advance registration through April 24 be skilled in financial management, strategic planning, and too! i also do repairs. member of the church of the managing a team, managing a budget, and communicating Rodman Lawn Care - Mowing, leaf removal, mulch and Electrical and plumbing, Ascension, overland park. call (913) 400-3236. attend is $22 per person, which includes a is $15 and includes lunch. development. Compensation for this position will be com- with constituents; experience in a position of leadership in more. Call John Rodman, member of Holy Cross Parish, Licensed and insured. (913) 599-7998 petitive. Interested individuals should send cover letter a nonprofit Christian organization (preferred); dynamic and Overland Park, at (913) 548-3002 or send an email to him barbecue dinner, drinks, and music from Hope to Shalom Walk will be held from 1 - and resumé, along with a pastor recommendation to: Dr. Residential lifts - Buy/sell/trade. stair lifts, porch Complete Music. Attendees must be 21 3 p.m. on April 21. Join Father Dennis Wait Our Lady of Unity Church and visionary leader with demonstrated ability to motivate and at: [email protected]. lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. recycled and new Kathleen O’Hara, Superintendent of Schools, Archdiocese of mentor a team in a sometimes stressful environment; strong and over. Call Patty Miller at (913) 384- and others to pray for an end to violence on School will host its inaugural car, Kansas City in Kansas, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS equipment. member of st. michael the Archangel written and verbal communication skills; and experience and CLUTTER GETTING YOU DOWN? Organize, fix, assem- Caregiving parish, leawood. call silver cross Kc at (913) 327- 4644 for tickets or further information. a three-mile walk, beginning at Sanctuary truck and cycle show on April 27 66109. (913) 721-1570. Documents may be sent by email to: comfort in public speaking and presentations are essential. ble, install! “Kevin Of All Trades” your professional orga- 27 [email protected]. 5557. Reservations are required by April 9. of Hope, 2601 Ridge Ave., Kansas City, Kan. from 8 a.m. - 3 p.m. at Our Lady Advice and Aid Pregnancy Centers, Inc., is a faith-based, nizer and “HONEY-DO-LIST” specialist. Call today for a Summer nanny - I am a college sophomore who would The walk will end at Shalom House in prayer of Unity Church, 2646 S. 34th, Kansas City, 501(c)3 organization headquartered in Overland Park with free consultation at (913) 271-5055. Insured. References. like to nanny this summer. I have nanny experience and School principal - Xavier Elementary, Leavenworth, is an additional office in Shawnee. Advice and Aid Pregnancy Visit our website at: www.KOATINDUSTRIES.com. have had first-aid training. I enjoy children and love to Sacred Heart Variety Store and More, with the men at the shelter. Transportation Kan. Each car, truck and cycle entry is $20. seeking a dynamic, experienced Catholic school principal Centers has been in operation since 1983 with the objective be active. If interested, please contact (913) 481-3644 or wAnted to Buy Atchison, recently moved to a new loca- will be provided to return to Sanctuary of There will be food booths and assorted for the 2013-2014 academic year, who embraces the Cath- of providing emotional, practical and spiritual support to MEDICATION SETUP & MANAGEMENT - RN support send an email to: [email protected]. tion, 5th and the Mall, Atchison. A grand Hope. For more information, send an email vendors. There is no cost to attend. Con- olic faith and possesses spiritual leadership skills blended Antiques wanted women and families facing an unplanned pregnancy. Quali- visits for filling weekly pill boxes & managing medi- i buy old pocket & wristwatches; sets of silver- opening will be held April 13. Enjoy a free to: [email protected]. tact Sherry at (913) 207-0900. with strong instructional leadership and managerial skills, fied applicants may submit cover letter, resume and salary cation. Affordable and convenient. To learn more, call Caregiving - Catholic woman with 30 years experience as well as excellent interpersonal skills. In addition, signif- ware; souvenir spoons; advertising signs; coins; hot dog and cold drink from 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. expectations by sending an email to Bethany Beaver at: Home Connect Health Services at (913) 627-9222. is available to care for your loved one in their home. and native American turquoise jewelry, arrow- icant experience with implementing current best practic- [email protected]. Only applicants meeting the Spent the past 3 years exclusively caring for one client. Donations of clothing, furniture, linens and Annunciation Parish, Frankfort, will host New respite volunteer training will be es (MTSS, PBS, DI, Common Core) in schools is expected. heads & rugs. call chris at (913) 593-7507 or (913) miscellaneous items are appreciated. a fundraiser luncheon and country store on April 27 from 9 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. at St. above qualifications will be considered. No phone calls or ALL AREA CATHOLICS WELCOME Excellent references available. Prefer part time. Call 642-8269. Xavier serves 212 students in grades K-8 and 115 students employment agencies. EOC. Christ the King Parish Federal Credit Union (913) 579-8914. on April 21. A fried chicken dinner with all Joseph Health Center, 1000 Carondelet in preschool, employs 18 full-time teachers and 11 part-time 5417 Leavenworth Rd., Kansas City, Kan. The Holy Spirit Knights of Co- the fixings will be served from 11 a.m. - Dr., Kansas City, Mo. Respite is a rewarding teachers, and is looking for a leader who possesses the Will buy firearms and related accessories - one Principal - St James Parish School in St. Joseph, Mo., seeks Good Car Loan and Share Loan Rates Have a loved one with Alzheimer’s disease? Inquire or a whole collection. honest evaluation and top lumbus are hosting their world- 1:30 p.m. The cost is $9 for adults; $4 for ministry giving companionship and care to skills to manage the strategic plan for the school. Principal a principal committed to Catholic education with strong (913) 287-8448 or (913) 980-2192 about our fresh, unique approach to care. At Comfort- applicants must be practicing Catholics and hold (or be el- prices paid. contact tom at (913) 238-2473. mem- 14 famous pancake breakfast on children ages 10 and under. Takeout meals homebound persons, while allowing their leadership, communication and motivational skills. St. Hours: 7 - 9 p.m., Mon., Wed., Fri. Care Homes of Kansas City, we provide a calm, stress- ber of sacred heart parish, shawnee. igible for) an administrative license from the Kansas State James is a parish school serving approximately 200 pre-K free and well-structured home environment for five to April 14 from 8:15 a.m. - noon at will be available by calling on April 21 to caregiver some much needed time away. Department of Education. Interested individuals should the Cigna Center at (785) 292-4351 or the Men and women are needed to become to 8th-grade students with a staff of approximately 15. The eight residents living with Alzheimer’s disease. A Com- *** Wanted to buy *** Holy Spirit Church, 11300 W. 103rd St., complete the principal application available online at: www. qualified candidate must be an active practicing Catholic Home Improvement fortCare home is not “homelike” but rather it is a real Overland Park. The breakfast is all-you- parish office during the morning at (785) volunteers. Volunteers serve in their own archkckcs.org. Applications are due by April 17. Questions Antique/vintage jewelry, paintings, in good standing with the Catholic Church (magisterium), home in a real neighborhood — there are no signs in the pottery, prints, sterling, etc. can-eat. The cost is: $7 for adults; $3 for 292-4462. parish. For more information or to make a may be directed to Dr. Kathleen O’Hara, superintendent of have a master’s degree in educational administration, Helping Hand Handy Man - Home maintenance up- yard, no restaurant-style dining and no long, imperson- schools, Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas at (913) 721- renee maderak (913) 631-7179 children ages 4 - 10; and free for children reservation, call Pat Scheibel at (913) 897- teaching experience and preferably three years administra- grades and chores available by the hour. Special rate for al halls lined with patients. To tour and learn more, call st. Joseph parish, shawnee 1570 or send an email to: [email protected]. tive experience. Applications may be made to the Catholic senior and single-parent households. Electrical, painting, Courtney Minter at (913) 609-1891 or visit the website under 4 years of age. 6589. schools office on the website at: http://jobs.diocese-kcsj. wood refinishing, deck repair, yardwork, small to medi- at: www. ComfortCareKC.com. The Knights of Columbus and Ser- Part-time development coordinator - St. Ann Parish is org/?cid=4&lid=118. All applications must be received by um tree trimming, gutter cleaning, shelving and orga- entertAinment Keeler Women’s Center, 2220 ra Club members of Holy Cross The St. Joseph Spring Festival seeking a self-motivated individual to coordinate all develop- April 26. nizing. Most home problems and needs solved. Member Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, com- Church, Overland Park, are spon- will be held on April 28 at St. Jo- ment activities for the school and church, including: directing Central Ave., Kansas City, Kan., 22 of Prince of Peace, Olathe. Call Mark Coleman at (913) panionship, care management, and transportation to Zepster DJ Kansas City - weddings, anniversaries, is offering a program specifically soring a Holy Hour of prayer for seph School, 307 Iowa St., Olpe. the establishment of an annual fund for the school, preparing 526-4490. the elderly and disabled in home, assisted living and 17 28 materials to update parishioners on the status of the ongoing class reunions, birthday parties, school dances, designed for young professional vocations. The church is in need of priests The dinner and children’s games Services nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main corporate events, picnics and pool parties, sound capital campaign and building project, and working with the Tim the Handyman - Small jobs, faucets, garbage dis- caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters women, “Networking 101: Making Your and religious who will be Christ’s servants will be held from 3 - 6:30 p.m. Bingo be- endowment committee to promote planned gifts. The indi- and lighting. over 20 years experience. member of Lawn Mowing posals, toilets, ceiling fans, light fixtures, painting, wall & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, our lady of good counsel. www.zepster.com. (816) Contacts Count” on April 17 from 9:30. – in the many capacities that have evolved gins at 6:45 p.m. at the Knights of Colum- vidual will also be responsible for coordinating the annual Spring Cleanups/Landscaping ceiling repair, wood rot, siding, desks, doors, windows, Debbie or Gary. 11 a.m. Call (913) 906-8990 to register. over the years. The Holy Hour begins at bus Hall. Ham, roast beef and the fixings stewardship and Archbishop’s Call to Share appeals. The job 741-4777. Local Parishoner and gutter cleaning. Call (913) 526-1844. 7 p.m. on April 22. Refreshments will be will be served. The cost is $8 for adults; is estimated to be a 20-to-25-hour-per-week position. Appli- Insured/References Caregiver - Former practical nurse and massage thera- cants should have 5-8 years of demonstrated success in the Free Estimates Call Tony (913) 620-6063 Swalms Organizing Service - Reducing Clutter - En- pist with 20 years experience with same family available Christ’s Peace House of Prayer in served following the prayer service. $3 for children age 10 and under. Carryout development field and possess excellent interpersonal, writ- joy an Organized Home! Basement, garage, attic, shop, to give superior, personalized care to you or your loved Buying A clAssified Ad Easton will host a contemplative meals will be available. Raffle tickets may ten and verbal communication skills. Individuals interested Garage door and opener sales and service - 24-hour, storage rooms - any room organized! Belongings sorted, one. Have passport and will travel. $15 per hour. (913) cost to advertise is: 20 prayer retreat day from 9 a.m. - “Planned Overs: Cooking Once, be purchased from any St. Joseph School in the position should email their resume with cover letter to: 7-day-a-week service on all types of doors. Replace bro- boxed and labeled, items hauled or taken for recycling, 384-2119. Excellent references. $17.50 for five lines or less 4 p.m. on April 20. Instruction will Eating Twice,” a nutrition presen- student, the Chicken House in Olpe, or on [email protected]. ken springs, cables, hinges, rollers, gate openers, entry trash bagged. For before and after photos, visit: www. $1.50 each additional line be provided on request. Full- or half-day 25 tation by Pat Callaghan, master the day of the festival. and patio doors, and more. Over 32 years of experience. swalmsorganizing.com. Over 20 years of organizing ex- Looking for high quality home care? - Whether you’re email: [email protected] Principal - Thomas More Prep-Marian Junior/Senior High Call (913) 227-4902. perience; insured. Call Tillar at (913) 375-9115. looking to introduce care for your family or simply look- options are available, with a noon meal in- food volunteer with K-State Ex- School, Hays, is seeking a principal to begin July 1. Qualifi- ing to improve your current home care quality, we can phone: (913) 647-0327 cluded. The cost is $25 per participant. The tension Services, will be offered at Keeler cations include demonstrating commitment to the develop- Tree service - Pruning trees for optimal growth and House painting - Interior and exterior; wall paper re- help. Our unique approach to home care has earned us retreat may be extended for an overnight Women’s Center, 2220 Central Ave., Kan- ment of Christian spirit and a Catholic community of faith beauty and removal of hazardous limbs or problem trees. moval. 20 years experience. Reasonable rates. Call Joe a 99% client satisfaction rating among the 1,000-plus within the school environment. The qualified applicant also Free consultation and bid. Safe, insured, professional. at (913) 620-5776. families we have assisted. We are family-owned, with needs to have current Kansas administrative certification Cristofer Estrada, Green Solutions of KC, (913) 378-5872. offices in Lenexa and Lawrence. Call Benefits of Home - and must be a faith-filled and practicing Catholic. Salary and www.GreenSolutionsKC.com. Spring is here! I do decks, fences, siding, windows, Senior Care, Lenexa: (913) 422-1591 or Lawrence: (785) benefits commensurate with experience. Deadline is April doors, roofing, exterior house painting and can cover 727-1816 or visit our website at: www.benefitsofhome. 30. Send resume to Father Daryl Olmstead, Thomas More Cleaning lady - Reasonable rates; references provided. all your landscaping needs. I bid and do the work, and com. Prep-Marian, 1701 Hall St., Hays, KS 67601. Call (913) 940-2959. am fully insured. Serving the Leaven parishioners for 12 years. Call Joshua Doherty at (913)-709-7230. Executive director - The St. Lawrence Catholic Campus Lawn mowing - Catholic young man with small mow- Center in Lawrence is seeking an executive director to lead ing business saving for college wants to add clients. STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement fin- vacation its fund development programs and manage the related Mowing, trimming, blowing and leaf clean up. Member ish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: processes for the center. The executive director is respon- of Queen of the Holy Rosary. Serving northeast Johnson painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window Lake of the Ozarks - 2 BR, 2 BA house with a large dock. sible for raising funds for the advancement of the ministry County. Call Collin at (913) 648-5903 for an estimate. glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 491-5837 or (913) 579- Gravois Arm P-Road. Rent for the summer season, May at the center, which serves the University of Kansas com- 1835. Email: [email protected]. Member of 1 - November 1. Call (816) 223-3244 or send an email to: munity. Applicants must be practicing Catholics and have Heating and cooling repair and replacement. Holy Trinity, Lenexa. john [email protected]. a bachelor’s degree. The right candidate will have executive Call Joe with JB Design and Service. Licensed and level leadership experience, polished marketing and pre- insured with 20 years experience. Member of Divine Perfect Roof - Free estimates; roofing repairs if needed. Ski cabin in Winter Park, Colo. - 2 BR, 1 BA, fully fur- sentation skills and be very organized. Applicants will have Mercy Parish. Call Joe at (913) 915-6887. Hail and wind damage inspections. Insured and reason- nished; sleeps four. View of Continental Divide from experience in planning and forecasting, work as a team able. Call (816) 288-1693. deck. Close to points of interest and activities. $115/ player, and have the ability to communicate effectively and T-shirt Quilts! Graduation Quilts! Quilted Memories night. Call (913) 642-3027. For pictures, visit the website compassionately. They must be computer literate and be fa- is now accepting graduation quilt orders. Let’s work to- Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 at: www.tillmancabin.com. miliar with grant writing. Interested individuals should send gether to design a unique memory quilt for your grad! days. Cambria, granite, and solid surface. Competitive an email with cover letter and resume to: dev@st-lawrence. 7913 Santa Fe Dr., Overland Park. (913) 649-2704 or (913) prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., at (913) org. Applications deadline is May 3. 492-8877. Full service long arm quilting shop! 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee. classifieds continue on the next page

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mark my words Building the culture of Life Scripture Readings To still be fully human, be still Women deserve better than typical reproductive care THIRD WEEK OF EASTER ow, wonder bath by “being still” for a While she knew what the e hear founder of the world-re- deserve better. and is designed for clergy nowned Pope Paul VI Fortunately, there is a and medical professionals. April 14 what that cool change, God manages to get monk had said was true, the much in Institute in Omaha, Neb. He better approach to women’s The second seminar is on THIRD SUNDAY OF EASTER song is? a word in edgewise. God next day she returned the The music helps to re-channel our pri- sword, muttering, “How can states that in the last 40 to reproductive health care. Sat., April 27, and is de- Acts 5: 27-32, 40b-41 the na- Wwas playing in the back- orities, and lets us regroup, I live without my excuses?” W 50 years we have accepted a The Pope Paul VI Institute signed for the general pub- Ps 30: 2, 4-6 ground as the show “Crim- recharge and be refreshed. (Adapted from “Excuses” in tional media about standard for the practice of is internationally recognized lic, including women and Rv 5: 11-14 inal Minds” was winding But maybe we’re hesi- “More Sower’s Seeds,” by women’s “sexual reproductive medicine that for its outstanding achieve- men, mothers and fathers, Jn 21: 1-19 up. Naturally, my iPhone Father tant to be still, seeing it as Brian Cavanaugh, TOR.) Ron Kelsey “is an approach to medical ments in the field of natu- grandmothers and grand- was nowhere nearby, so I a waste of valuable time. When was the last time and reproductive care which is based upon ral fertility regulation and fathers, and young women, April 15 couldn’t “Shazam it.” (Sha- Listen to this cautionary tale you truly kept the Sabbath? Ron Kelsey is the archdiocesan treating symptoms but not reproductive medicine — 30 age 13 and older. Mark Goldasich health.” consultant for the pro-life office. You Monday zam is an incredible music from Theophane the Monk: (At this point, feel free to the disease.” years of scientific research This is a wonderful Father Mark Goldasich is the pastor of can email him at: prolife@archkck. app. If you’re curious about A woman went to a mon- begin your litany of excus- Planned Parenthood is It would be like treating and educational program opportunity to become Acts 6: 8-15 Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He org or call (913) 647-0350. Ps 119: 23-24, 26-27, 29-30 it, ask your children or astery for her first weekend es.) Now take that monk’s the leader in the charge of a broken arm with aspirin development; allied health exposed to a countercul- has been editor of The Leaven since 1989. this mantra, which it pro- and physical therapy rath- professional education pro- tural approach to women’s Jn 6: 22-29 grandchildren to explain!) retreat in many years. When sword and cut through any However, I zipped to the she arrived at the guest- objections to being still and motes very aggressively and children of God, but rather er than setting the broken grams for couples and pro- reproductive health that is with taxpayer funding. But as objects to be used. Wom- arm and putting it in a cast. fessionals; and professional, reproductive and healthy. April 16 Internet Movie Data Base that I am with you . . . know house, a monk surprised her spending time with God. app on my iPad, found the that I am here . . . know I with a brusque question: Treat yourself this Sun- what is really being pro- en deserve better. Additionally, fertility and caring, and morally accept- Your family deserves this. Tuesday song and the artist, and then am.” “Why not?” day to some real Sabbath moted is the sexual license Tragically, this attitude pregnancy, which are nor- able patient services. Arch- The cost for early reg- Acts 7:51 – 8:1a bought it on iTunes. I wish that I’d heard the “Although he had never time. Start small. After to engage in unrestricted has altered even the domi- mal and healthy conditions, bishop Naumann serves on istrations is only $15 and Ps 31: 3cd-4, 6ab, 7b, 8a, 17, 21ab The tune, “Be Still,” is song during Lent. I would seen me before,” the wom- church, set aside a half-hour sexual activity with the nant approach to women’s are treated as diseases with the advisory board of the includes lunch. For seminar Jn 6: 30-35 sung by Isaac Slade of The have given listening to it an said, “I knew he had me for quiet. Take a timeout deceptive assumption of no reproductive health care cancer-causing artificial institute. details and online registra- Fray. It was written for as a penance! In the many pegged. I brought up ex- from the computer, smart- consequences. by the medical profession, hormones as the predomi- Now the good news. The tion, go to: www.ProLifeKC. April 17 Slade’s little brother when confessions that I heard, a cuses for my absence from phone and TV. Sit with the Of course, as we know, although not by all medical nant medicines prescribed. archdiocese is bringing the com; contact Ron Kelsey at Wednesday he couldn’t sleep and called terribly common sin is im- making a retreat: ‘It was a Scriptures, a spiritual book, there are many very dam- practitioners. This domi- Surely, this defies common Pope Paul VI Institute to the archdiocesan pro-life nant approach is “neither Acts 8: 1b-8 at four in the morning. It’s patience. We’re always busy long trip . . . I’m tired . . . the a journal or a favorite prayer aging consequences asso- sense and is self-deception Savior Pastoral Center in office by email at: prolife@ ciated with this attitude, an reproductive (usually) nor at an unbelievably strato- Kansas City, Kan., to con- archkck.org; or call (913) Ps 66: 1-3a, 4-7a a very soothing, simple rushing from one commit- kids . . . my stressful job . . . for half the time. Use the attitude whereby women healthy (often)” accord- spheric level. We must come duct two seminars. The first 647-0350. Jn 6: 35-40 lullaby. ment to another, leaving no not enough time.’” other 15 minutes to leisure- Although not specifically time to “be still.” Eventually, The retreat master took a ly peruse the newspaper, are not treated and loved as ing to Dr. Thomas Hilgers, back to our senses. Women seminar is on Fri., April 26, Christian, the lyrics sound long sword off the wall and read a novel, take a walk or April 18 we become depleted — like something God might physically, emotionally and gave it to the woman, saying, pursue a hobby. Gradually Thursday sing to each of us. In a spiritually — and not only “Here, with this sword, you increase your Sabbath time. do unto others Acts 8: 26-40 nutshell, the song reassures lose patience, but perspec- can cut through any barriers Give yourself permission Ps 66: 8-9, 16-17, 20 anyone who is caught in tive. I suspect that’s one of you have.” to quiet down and hear Jn 6: 44-51 fear, shame, darkness, terror the reasons for the Third The woman took the God’s lullaby in your heart: and shadow, that they not Commandment. When we sword and slipped away. “Be still and know that I’m Honor Pope Francis by remembering the poor April 19 alone. If they can simply “be keep holy the Lord’s Day, In her room, alone, she sat with you/And I will say your ed. And he gave me a hug which is poor and for the mer will be upon us in no Friday still,” then they will “know when we respect the Sab- and looked at the sword. name.” hen and a kiss, and said: ‘Don’t poor!” time, and hungry children Acts 9: 1-20 asked forget the poor!’ And those This is social justice in a will be out of school and Ps 117: 1-2 why he words came to me: the nutshell, isn’t it? We don’t needing protein. Jn 6: 52-59 In the beginning W poor, the poor. Then, right forget the poor and, in doing Buy a warm weather baby chose the name away, thinking of the poor, I so, we work for peace, each outfit and some diapers for April 20 Francis, our new thought of Francis of Assisi. according to our gifts. We a new baby at Wyandotte Saturday Risen Christ ‘filled Jerusalem’ through apostles’ teaching bill scholl Then I thought of all the work in our station in life: in Pregnancy Clinic. Make Acts 9: 31-42 pope shared this wars, as the votes were our families, in our parishes, a meal to be taken to the nly a few weeks own: “For if this endeavor by an angel, the apostles Bill Scholl is the archdiocesan consul- Ps 116: 12-17 story: still being counted, till the in our archdiocese, to bring Willa Gill Food Kitchen or Jn 6: 60-69 ago, the Gospel or this activity is of human resume their preaching. Even tant for social justice. You can email end. Francis is also the man this about, with the inter- volunteer to serve it — most reading for Palm origin, it will destroy itself. the charge of the Sanhedrin “Some people wanted him at: [email protected]. of peace. That is how the cession of Mary, our Blessed parishes have a recipe in Sunday showed But if it comes from God, against the apostles acknowl- to know why the bishop of name came into my heart: Mother, and Jesus — and we the bulletin and a day of the OJesus facing trial for his life you will not be able to de- edges the effectiveness of Rome wished to be called Francis of Assisi. For me, he look to the saints and our month they’re scheduled. Find The Leaven because of his teachings. stroy them.” their teaching: “Yet you have Francis. 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[email protected] do them! By the way, congratulations on practicing this new skill. This For example, I might see a coffee cup left in the TV room. Rath- column took only about a minute to read, you overachiever! Advertising er than making a note to do something about it, I now go over, pick — M.G. [email protected] 16 Pope Francis theleaven.com | april 12, 2013 Homebody, soccer fan, tango-lover — Pope wants some papal pastimes revealed decisive action By Carol Glatz Catholic News Service against clergy ATICAN CITY (CNS) — sex abuse Here are a few of Pope By Carol Glatz Francis’ favorite things, Catholic News Service which he revealed in a se- riesV of interviews granted while he ATICAN CITY (CNS) — was archbishop of Buenos Aires. Pope Francis reaffirmed the The interviews are in the book, importance of responding “Pope Francis: Conversations with decisively to the problem of Jorge Bergoglio” by Sergio Rubin and theV sexual abuse of minors by members Francesca Ambrogetti, which was of the clergy and called on the Vatican originally published in 2010 under the office dealing with suspected cases to title “El Jesuita” (“The Jesuit”). It is continue carrying out its mandate. not yet available in English. During an April 5 meeting with • Favorite sports: When he was Archbishop Gerhard L. Muller, prefect young, the future pope played bas- of the Congregation for the Doctrine ketball, but he loved going to the sta- of the Faith, the pope discussed the of- dium to watch fice’s various responsibilities. soccer with his However, he made a particular point whole family to of highlighting its work to counter see their favorite clerical sexual abuse, telling Archbish- team, San Loren- op Muller he wanted the congregation zo. He lament- to continue with the policies of retired ed that the fan Pope Benedict XVI wanted and “to act scene is not what decisively concerning cases of sexual it used to be. At abuse,” the Vatican said in a written the worst, “peo- statement released after the meeting. ple would yell at The pope, the statement said, asked the referee that the congregation to continue: “pro- Pope Francis said that he was a bum, a moting measures that protect minors, St. Thérèse of Lisieux scoundrel, a sell- above all; help for those who have suf- is the saint he turns to out ... nothing in fered such violence in the past; neces- in time of need. comparison to sary procedures against those found the epithets they guilty; [and] the commitment of bish- use today,” he said. ops’ conferences in formulating and • Favorite city: “I love where I live. implementing the necessary directives I love Buenos Aires.” He has traveled in this is area that is so important for in Latin America and parts of Europe, the church’s witness and credibility.” including Ireland “to improve my En- The pope also assured victims that glish.” However, he said, “I always try they had a special place in his heart to avoid traveling . . . because I’m a and prayers. homebody” and got homesick easily. As archbishop of Buenos Aires, the • Favorite way to stay informed: future pope had said his archdiocese Newspapers. He said he turned on the CNS photo/Paul Haring had been very attentive to the prob- radio only to listen to classical music. Argentina’s flag is seen as Pope Francis arrives to lead his general audience in St. Peter’s Square lem and “rigorous” in its screening and He had thought he’d probably start us- at the Vatican April 3. Pope Francis has said the Buenos Aires in his native Argentina was his selection of candidates for the priest- ing the Internet like his predecessor, favorite city. hood and religious life. the late-Cardinal Juan Carlos Aram- Sex abusers suffer from a “perver- the milonga,” which is an older form repulses me most is pride” and think- buru of Buenos Aires, did — “when he sion of a psychological kind” that is of tango with a faster rhythm. ing of oneself as a big shot. He said retired at 75.” not caused by or directly linked to cel- • Favorite movie: “Babette’s Feast” when it has happened to him, “I have • Favorite mode of transport as car- ibacy, he said in a book-length series of because it shows the transformation felt great embarrassment and I ask dinal archbishop of Buenos Aires: The interviews. of a group of people who took deni- God for forgiveness because nobody subway, which he would always take “If a priest is a pedophile, he is so be- al too far and didn’t know what hap- has the right to behave like this.” to get around “because it’s fast; but if I cause he brought that perversion with piness was, he said. The sumptuous • Typical reaction to unexpected can, I prefer the bus because that way him from before his ordination,” and meal helps free them from their fear announcements: He freezes. When I can look outside.” not even priestly celibacy would be of love, he said. He also likes Italian Pope Francis was elected pope and • Favorite pastime: As a boy, he able to “cure it,” the future pope said in neorealism films, which often con- appeared at the central balcony, many liked to collect stamps. Today, “I real- the book, “Pope Francis: Conversations fronted the social, economic and mor- noticed he looked rather stiff. Turns ly like reading and listening to music.” with Jorge Bergoglio” by Sergio Rubin al consequence of World War II, but out that’s how he reacted when he • Favorite authors and books: “I and Francesca Ambrogetti. added that as archbishop he didn’t was named auxiliary bishop in 1992 adore poetry by (Friedrich) Holder- Because such a perversion already have much time to go to the movies. and how he reacts “to anything unex- lin,” a 19th-century lyric poet; Ales- would be present in a candidate, he • Favorite painting: “The White pected, good or bad, it’s like I’m para- sandro Manzoni’s “The Betrothed” said, “it’s necessary to pay lots of atten- Crucifixion” by Marc Chagall. The lyzed,” he said. (“I Promessi Sposi”), which he said tion to the choice of candidates to the scene “isn’t cruel, rather it’s full of • Things he would rescue in event he has read at least four times; Dante priesthood.” hope. It shows pain full of serenity. of a fire: His breviary and appoint- Alighieri’s “The Divine Comedy”; and He said the archdiocese of Bue- I think it’s one of the most beautiful ment book, which also contains all of anything by Fyodor Dostoevsky and nos Aires had been very “rigorous for things Chagall ever painted.” his contacts, addresses and telephone Argentine writer Jorge Luis Borges. many years already,” noting how only • Favorite person: His grandmother numbers. “It would be a real disaster The pope recalled that even though about 40 percent of candidates were Rosa, who helped raise him when he to lose them.” Borges was an agnostic, “he’d recite actually admitted into the priesthood. was little, taught him his first words “I’m very attached to my breviary; the ‘Our Father’ every evening be- He also described how candidates of Italian and passed on her deep reli- it’s the first thing I open in the morn- cause he had promised his mother he undergo in-depth psychiatric tests to gious sensibility. ing and the last thing I close when I would, and died with a sense of ‘reli- look for different forms of deviant ten- • Favorite saint he turns to in time go to sleep.” gious comfort.’” dencies, including “megalomaniacal, of need: St. Therese of Lisieux. He He also keeps tucked safe between • Favorite music: “Leonore” Over- dishonest and criminal” tendencies. kept a photo of her on his library shelf its pages his grandmother’s letters and ture No. 3 by Ludwig van Beethoven In “On Heaven and Earth,” a 2010 with a vase of white roses in front of her last words to her grandkids before conducted by the late-Wilhelm Furt- book of conversations with a Buenos it. “When I have a problem I ask the she died. She said that in times of sad- wangler, “who, in my opinion, is the Aires rabbi, the then-Cardinal Jorge saint, not to solve it, but to take it in ness, trouble or loss, to look to the best conductor of some of (Beetho- Mario Bergoglio said, when it is dis- her hands and help me accept it.” tabernacle, “where the greatest and ven’s) symphonies and works by Wag- covered that a priest has engaged in • Favorite virtue: “The virtue of noblest martyr is kept,” and to Mary at ner.” such behavior, it is imperative that no love, to make room for others with a the foot of the cross so that they may • Favorite dance style: tango, which one “look the other way.” gentle approach. Meekness entices “let fall a drop of salve on the deepest he said he loves “very much. It’s “One cannot be in a position of pow- me enormously! I always ask God to and most painful wounds.” something that comes from within.” er and destroy the life of another per- grant me a meek heart,” he said. He said he danced the tango when he son,” he said. was young “even though I preferred • Worst vice to avoid: “The sin that