The Birds and the Bees Talking About the Human Body with Your Kids

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The Birds and The Bees Talking about the human body with your kids. As a parent, you want to help your kids stay safe and healthy. Be a source of information and support. All kids explore the human body; help them learn from you what is appropriate. Talk with your kids openly, honestly and often. Start now. The earlier you start, the easier it is. You don’t have to be an expert, just relax and teach your child the basics. Connection & discovery 0-2 years Role Model healthy relationships -- your child is learning about love safety and how to trust others. Positively acknowledge your child’s exploration of their body. Discuss that this is a private, not public, behavior. Always use correct terms to refer to your child’s body parts. Curiosity & exploring differences 3-5 years As your child’s gender identity develops, encourage them to respect themselves and others. Let them know they can talk to you or other trusted adults about anything. Teach them about appropriate touch and how to say no to unwanted touch. Be ready to give a simple description of where babies come from. Reproduction and privacy 6-8 years Be prepared to answer more mature questions about reproduction. As children become more independent, reinforce the importance of open communication in your family. Explain puberty and what to expect. Share resources early and often. Promote healthy body image. For more information visit thecapcenter.org or call 916-244-1906 See more at: http://www.talkwithyourkids.org/. Talk With Your Kids is a project of California Family Health Council. .

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