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$2 January 2014 Men in A fresh church S.C. redesigns what it means to be a United Grace UMC runs for start mission to Bolivia – Page 17 Methodist man By Jessica Connor

Concerned that men’s ministry groups in S.C. are becoming little more than meet-and-eat fellowship “clubs,” United Methodist Men across the state are launching a massive men’s movement to re-ignite and re- invigorate discipleship—all for the glory of Jesus. “I want men’s ministry to be Three from S.C. serve as about discipleship and less about long-term missionaries a group of men who meet at the – Page 3 church and cut grass and bar- becue chickens, but these men are also vital to the church,” Index said Herman Lightsey, president Classifieds...... 30 Education & Youth...... 14-16 of the conference UMM. “It’s Health & Fitness...... 20 about putting godly men back History...... 25 into the church and doing what Local & District News...... 22-24 God intended us to do.” Ministries & Missions...... 17-19 Global news stories are citing Obituaries...... 27 Poverty Awareness...... 10-11 what is termed the “feminization Seniors...... 28-29 of the church,” where given that Photo by Jessica Connor Upcoming Events...... 30 The Rev. Mark Williams stands in front of the newly framed sanctuary of Lebanon UMC, which had to there are generally more women be razed. The experience prompted the church to turn outward instead of inward, generating new zeal. than men in church, and thus the church’s music, décor and min- Lebanon thrives after termites force demolition istries often appeal to women more than men, many Christian By Jessica Connor its sanctuary in August after learning it had men are coming to view church- massive termite infestation because of long- es as “women’s clubs” and don’t EASTOVER—Some churches get dealt a term water damage. With 400 members and go—or go just to please their blow and sink to their knees, frozen. Some an average worship attendance of 165, the wives. Men’s church attendance tuck into their shells until the storm passes. country church is situated downslope in an is declining rapidly. @AdvocateSC | AdvocateSC.org But one United Methodist church in S.C. area with few trees, so it was fully exposed But while what women and has allowed what could have been a crippling to the elements. women’s groups do is critically experience to become an utterly transforming The Rev. Mark Williams said the 89-year- important to the church, Light- one. And two years later, they are achieving old church “got clobbered anytime it rained.” sey said Christianity cannot the kind of membership, missions and out- Structural engineers told the congregation afford to lose its men, who are reach growth they’d always prayed for. just as vital. Lebanon UMC, Eastover, had to demolish See “Lebanon’s Fresh Start,” Page 8 See “Men,” Page 9 Apportionment payments climb toward 92% goal By Jessica Connor get to 92,” said Conference Treasurer United Methodist programs and agencies Tony Prestipino. across South Carolina, from campus min- S.C. United Methodist churches are in As of Dec. 17, churches had paid nearly istries to clergy development to ministries the homestretch when it comes to paying 75 percent of the $17.6 million total S.C. such as Salkehatchie, youth Revolution apportionments, and as of press time, the Conference budget—about 4 percent more and the Summit on the Black Church. If conference appears poised to come close than they had paid this time last year. they pay 89.75 percent, that translates to to its 92 percent goal for 2013. Churches have until Jan. 10 to pay their about $15.8 million. “I’m projecting 89.75 percent for 2013, 2013 apportionments. If churches pay 92 but I’m still hopeful we can 90 and even percent, that translates to $16.2 million for See “Apportionments,” Page 7 Page 2, January 2014 Advocate Advocate January 2014, Page 3 Generation Transformation S.C. young adults among many serving in long-term mission across globe Anonymous Angels Next deadline Jan. 15 First UMC adopts elderly ‘lambs’ through good-cheer ministry By Jessica Connor By Jessica Connor

South Carolina young adults are part of EASLEY—A few years ago, Sandra Hours/Location Open Monday through Friday a growing movement of passionate, glob- Bandy’s elderly mother turned to her 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. ally minded United Methodist mission- and sighed. S.C. United Methodist Conference aries, and they’re hoping more of their “Oh, you know, I never get any kind Center 4908 Colonial Drive, Suite 207 peers will join them. of mail except bills and junk mail,” Columbia, SC 29203 At least three from S.C. are doing Bandy’s late mother said. Deadlines: 10th of each month. hands-on mission work in destinations That one innocent statement worldwide: Hillary Taylor is serving launched a large-scale ministry at First Contacting Us in South Africa, Erica Oliveira in the United Methodist Church, Easley, that Telephone: 888-678-6272 or 803-786- Ukraine and Jay Knudsen in the Philip- now shines light, love and good cheer “Angel” Judy Daughtvidge gives a gift to her 9486 “lamb,” Wayne McCracken. Fax: 803-735-8168 pines. into the lives of dozens of homebound E-mail: [email protected] They encourage any young adult feel- elderly year-round. to know you’re helping someone else ing the call to oversees mission to visit Now called Anonymous Angels, the to have a better day and let them know Submissions The Advocate encourages readers to The United Methodist Church’s Genera- ministry pairs an older or ill person— the people at the church are thinking of submit for publication items of interest tion Transformation website, www.umc- dubbed a “lamb”—with an “angel” who them and they’re not forgotten.” to South Carolina United Methodists. mission.org/GT. There, seekers can find commits to send thoughtful, handwrit- First UMC’s pastor the Rev. Rod There is no charge for running items Ophelia involving activities or announcements. information on the UMC’s programs for ten notes from January to December, Brewer, one Powell said he is proud of his congrega- United Methodist missionary Hillary Taylor (center, holding the baby) goes on a home visit as Items should be submitted as far as global mission fellows (long-term mis- effectively “adopting” them for a full of the tion’s love and concern for all people. field education and ministry coordinator for Seth Mokitimi Methodist Seminary in SouthAfrica. possible in advance of the event’s date “Anonymous sion, ages 20-30), global justice volun- Taylor is one of three S.C. young adults doing long-term mission work through the UMC. year. Some of the angels spoil their “I appreciate most of all their inten- or the date of requested publication. Angels” at Since there is no charge for these teers (short-term mission, ages 18-30) and lamb, buying gifts and other surprises, tionality,” Powell said. “They are mak- First UMC, items, they appear in the newspaper on wakes you up, that connects you to other ing that intentional effort to make sure individual mission volunteers (ages 18+). while others stick to sweet cards and Easley, a space-available basis. Deadlines are people, that reminds you of what really the 10th of each month for the following Those interested in immediate consid- heartfelt letters. Some stay anonymous, writes a that no one is left out—that the care and month’s paper. eration need to act fast; the deadline for matters most, and that’s relationship.” while others choose to reveal them- note to her ministry of the church reaches those the next phase of global mission fellows Taylor, who is from Columbia and selves. “lamb.” who are all too often ‘out of sight and Advertising and global justice volunteers is Jan. 15. graduated from Furman in 2012, grew When she first was inspired to start out of mind.’” Display ads, classifieds and inserts can Knudsen, who grew up in Columbia at up on Salkehatchie and thinks mission- the ministry, Bandy was doing all the Bandy said the recipients really ap- “It’s a small thing that we can do to Bandy said it’s important to remem- be ordered by contacting us at 888- 678-6272 or 803-786-9486, ext. 338, or Shandon UMC and then attended Furman minded young adults like herself should card-sending herself. She asked her preciate the simple cheer they get in brighten someone else’s day,” Dean ber all people in the church and reach [email protected]. Deadlines are University, now serves in Davao City, strongly consider the UMC program. church for a list of all members who receiving some unexpected sunshine in said. “These are shut-in people who out in sisterly care. the 10th of each month for the following Philippines, working with an organization “I became a missionary because I was were in nursing homes or couldn’t get the mail—particularly in this fast-paced don’t get out, lots of times they don’t “I think God works in mysterious month’s paper. called INPEACE Mindanao (Initiatives so burnt out on college,” Taylor said, “I out of the home, and she started sending era of email, phone calls and texts. have much family left and don’t get ways and you just never know what for Peace in Mindanao). They work on knew exactly what I wanted to do, but if a little card to everyone. “People delight, especially at that much mail, and it’s not anything hard you’re going to do that affects someone Subscriptions I went straight to divinity school, I knew The Advocate is delivered to mailboxes peace and justice issues facing the people UM missionary Jay Knudsen (back center) “I didn’t sign my name, just said, age, in getting a letter,” Bandy said. to do at all. It gives you a good feeling in a positive way,” she added. via U.S. mail every month prior to the on the island of Mindanao, such as illegal I’d burn out.” enjoys some downtime at a Filipino festival. ‘Hope you have a great day,’” Bandy “Even though I use technology, I still first Sunday of the month. Subscrip- For her, long-term mission through the tions are $15/year for the print and government programs, relief services after said. “I sent one to my mother, too, and enjoy getting a card and something online version, and $8/year for the natural disasters or conflict and helping UMC was the perfect answer. she never knew!” handwritten.” online-only edition. Church plans are areas organize to deter government land “There’s no place better to find Jesus in the mission of God in this way was But after awhile, the workload got The angels say they get as much if available for as low as $1/member (online version) or $10/member (print grabbing for large-scale mining or oil than in service,” Taylor said, citing a unfathomable.” to be too much, especially after her not more out of the ministry. version with 10+ subscribers per production. Frederick Buechner quote in “Wishful But the global mission fellow program husband took ill. So she solicited help Carol Dean, who has been an Anony- church). To start your subscription, visit Knudsen thinks young people inter- Thinking: A Theological ABC” as spot- breaks some of those boundaries for some from friends at church. Eventu- mous Angel with her husband, Bob, for www.advocatesc. org, call with credit card to 888-678-6272 or 803-786-9486, ested in missionary work should definitely on: “The place God calls you to is the young adults, she said, enabling people ally, the ministry blossomed into a the last two years, said being involved ext. 335, or send a check to Advocate, consider serving as a global mission fel- place where your deep gladness and the of all ethnicities, social status, nationality full team who yearly reviews a Tender with the ministry is an easy way to rep- 4908 Colonial Drive, Columbia, SC world’s deep hunger meet.” 29203. low. He said the UMC program seeks to and economic class to be a vital and ac- Loving Care list and then is assigned a resent Christian love to someone who change the definition of a missionary and And you don’t need to be feeding the tive part of God’s mission in the world. “lamb” to adopt and love. can use a little care. homeless under a bridge or repairing Photographs is appealing to young adults who truly “We are not the future of the church, Photographs can be submitted to the want to transform the world through ac- homes in South America to answer God’s we don’t have to wait to take part in this newspaper for publication. High- tion and advocacy. call, Taylor said—so many people all over mission till we’re older, we are the church UMC’s new Florence choir resolution digital images are preferred. Photographs should be in focus and “Instead of being seen as ‘converters,’ the world are doing long-term mission in right now, and if God is calling you right should have proper exposure. Color or we are showing that we are here to be communication and advocacy, which can now, then we as a church have to open up explores African-American black and white photographs are ac- with the people and work with them on be just as important. avenues for that to happen,” Oliveira said. cepted. People in photographs should be identified with names and ages, and the issues that face them,” Knudsen said. “Becoming a global mission fellow is “In my opinion, that is exactly what this a contact person with a phone number “Simply put, we are showing the love one more way we can open hearts, minds program is about.” perspective in music should be included in the information. of Christ through actions and living out and doors to a wider church and a bigger Knudsen said being a global mission By Carrie Townsend perspective of music. the word to be a blessing and inspiration. embodiment of Christ,” Taylor said. fellow is an opportunity to be in a place “Hymns tell a historic story of our Accuracy Policy It’s not about saving souls or converting Oliveira, who hails from Rock Hill and you never thought you would see and to The Advocate strives to produce error- A new genre of choir education, with faith. The workshop will incorporate Be a stronger free news reports. When mistakes non-Christians to Christianity anymore. was an active member of the Winthrop be the hands and feet of Christ all at the a focus on worship and music arts from these into the modern world, by bring- occur, it is our policy to correct them There are places all over the world that Wesley Foundation and St. John’s UMC, same time. an African-American perspective, is in ing new expression and making wor- as soon as they are brought to our United Methodist. attention. To request a correction, call are building the Kingdom on Earth, and is service and outreach coordinator at “I’ve found myself growing every the works in the Florence District. ship relevant to the pain and joy we Jessica Connor at 888-678-6272 or we go to assist.” Youth to Jesus, a university student min- week in Christ during this program,” Designed for United Methodists experience day-to-day,” said Nelson, 803-786-9486, ext. 338, or email jcon- Subscribe to Taylor agrees. A field education and istry in L’viv, Ukraine. Her responsibili- Knudsen said. “Even more, you have the regardless of race, the ongoing work- congregational specialist for African- Scan this [email protected]. In the event of errors QR code in advertisements, the Advocate will be ministry coordinator for Seth Mokitimi ties include everything from scheduling opportunity to really build the Kingdom shop encompasses popular forms of American ministries. with your responsible only for the space occu- Methodist Seminary in South Africa, fellowship activities to organizing interna- and advance the love of Christ to people music such as jazz, spiritual, Gospel In order to incorporate these stories the Advocate. smartphone! pied by the actual error. The publisher tional mission groups to preaching. assumes no financial responsibility for Taylor journeys with seminarians as they you would never meet in your life by not and blues. into local churches, members of the Name: omissions. do their fieldwork with any of 16 different She said the global mission fellow taking part. Young people really are the These forms of music have “indel- choir are hard at work. Rehearsal began agencies in the Pietermaritzburg area of program enables young adults to engage future of the Methodist church world- ibly stamped the character of American in October and is scheduled tentatively Mailing Address: Back Issues South Africa. She has had the opportunity in the work of God all over the world in a wide. It is in our hands to really be the music and made it a world-wide cul- on a two-week cycle. Participation is The Advocate maintains copies of back to work in community gardens, HIV/ way they might otherwise not be able to building blocks of the Kingdom on Earth, tural force,” said the Rev. Bill Dargan, open to everyone age 12 or older, of City State ZIP issues for sale for up to one year, as AIDS awareness programs, children’s do. and the global mission fellows program is pastor of Mount Beulah UMC, Lake any race or church. Workshop choir E-mail address: long as the supply lasts. When request- Church Name: ing by mail, back copies are $2 each, homes, orphanages and more, all designed “Before I began this program, I re- a unique way to take part.” City, and a member of the workshop members are provided the opportunity Pastor: District: to cover postage and handling. To to help seminarians learn how to become member that I thought that mission work Taylor and Knudsen said anyone who research or review articles published choir planning committee. to focus on their singing and on the This is a: more than one year ago, bound copies the change they wish to be. was only for well-to-do older people— wishes to speak with them directly about The Rev. Ken Nelson conceived the rhythms of Gospel, jazz, spiritual and New Subscription ($15) Please make checks payable to: The Advocate of the newspaper are available for “Very often, globally, it is easy for folks who could afford to travel and not their experience should feel free to email idea more than a year ago with a goal contemporary music. One-Year Renewal ($13) and return to: 4908 Colonial Dr., Suite 207, review at the Advocate office, Wofford have a ‘real job,’” Oliveira said. “For a Two-Year Subscription ($24) Columbia, SC 29203-6070 College in Spartanburg and the South preachers to become pulpit stewards— them: Taylor at [email protected], to provide choirs the training to obtain For more information about the choir Caroliniana Library in Columbia. words instead of action,” Taylor said. 25-year-old with student loans that was Knudsen at [email protected], knowledge and create a new standard workshop, call Dargan at 843-374- “But there’s something about service that trying to make it on her own, engaging or visit www.umcmission.org/GT. of excellence in an African-American 3554. 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Editorial Bishop’s Corner Effective Oct. 6, 2013: Marion District: Sara Branyon (PD), Ad-interim by Jessica Connor by Bishop Jonathan Holston appointment to Director of the Chil- dren’s Resource Center at North Myrtle Beach Primary School Voices of poverty: life on the margins This year will be different Effective Nov. 1, 2013: Marion hen our eyes are opened, we can see them clearly: our friends, “Put me to the test, says The Lord gregation together to make or renew District: Jo Anna Fallaw, Ad-interim neighbors, brothers and sisters on the fringes of life. Sometimes of hosts; see if I will not open up the their “covenant” with God was in his incapacity leave they don’t have enough to eat. Sometimes they don’t have a home window of heaven for you and pour words “a means of increasing serious Effective Nov. 27, 2013: Rock Hill of their own and stay with family members or live out of their car. down for you an overflowing blessing.” religion. ... To serve God with all our District: Emily Scales Sutton, Maternity WOr in a shelter. Or on a park bench. Whatever they can do to survive and get by —Malachi 3:10 heart and with all our soul.” Registration under way for Granville Hicks academy Leave until they can catch a break. The heart of the service requires us ORANGEBURG— Learn about “Reclaiming the Art of Saturday, Jan. 31 and Feb. 1) is $100. Effective Jan. 1: Anderson District: These neighbors might not walk right up to you and voice the words “I’m hun- t’s that time of year again. That to commit ourselves anew to God as Preaching” during the Granville Hicks Leadership Acad- Registration will be held from 5 to 6:45 p.m. Jan. 31, Grace, Pickens, Pastor of Discipleship – gry” or “I need someplace warm to sleep,” but if you listen closely to their words, special time when we make we share in the following Prayer of In- emy for Laity and Clergy 2014 at Claflin University. followed by the keynote address by Holmes at 7 p.m. in Ashley McCoy-Bruce (1/2) if you look deep into their eyes, you can see the need. resolutions to consider in the new vitation: “Commit yourselves to Christ This 21st annual event will feature presentations by Dr. the chapel. A morning worship service will begin at 9:30 Florence District: Pamplico Charge – But all too often, we don’t open our ears, eyes or hearts enough to notice. It’s year. as his servants. Give yourselves to him, Zan W. Holmes Jr., pastor emeritus of St. Luke Communi- a.m. Feb. 1, followed by a panel discussion. A luncheon Thomas Pietila (RSY) understandable—we are so caught up in our jobs, families, activities and, ironi- ISo let’s recite some of them togeth- that you may belong to him. Christ has ty United Methodist Church in Dallas, Texas; Dr. William and lecture will be held at 12:30 p.m. Workshops will be at Hartsville District: East Camden cally, our church duties that we’re just too plain busy to hear their cries. We are er: We’re going to lose weight, exercise many services to be done. Some are Bobby McClain, Wesley Theological Seminary in Wash- 1:45, and the closing lecture is set for 3 p.m. Charge – Daniel Hembree (SY) so consumed by ourselves and the busy-ness of our own daily struggles that we more, get out of debt, stick to a budget, more easy and honorable, others are ington, D.C.; Claflin University President Dr. Henry N. Continued education units are available upon request. Effective Feb. 10: Columbia District: fail to recognize there are people right in our path who live daily on the margins save for the future and spend more more difficult and disgraceful. Some Tisdale; and Dr. Rosetta Ross, Spelman College in Atlanta. For more information: 803-535-5186 or tawashington@ Susan Henry-Crowe, General Secretary of life; people for whom we can be Jesus. time with family. Many of these resolu- are suitable to our inclinations and The registration fee for the academy (set for Friday and claflin.edu. of the General Board of Church and By helping them, we are walking deeper with Jesus. By seeing them, we are tions are specific promises that revolve interests, others are contrary to both. In Society cracking open the emptiness of our own existence and doing right by God. around the things that pull our strings; some we may please Christ and please We are being love when we serve those in need. namely, money, health and family. Be- ourselves. But then there are other And there is so much need: children who look forward to school primarily cause we make our own decisions, do works where we cannot please Christ Letters to the Editor because they know they can eat and be safe and warm for seven straight hours. our own thing and nobody tells us what except by denying ourselves. It is nec- Elderly who are one medical emergency away from destitution. Men and women we will do or not do, we would like to essary, therefore, that we consider what new beginnings, a time to put the past make disciples.” We are doing the work the exact way Keith [sic] said them and who have to rely on payday lenders, pawnshops and other institutions just to keep think that we are completely free of all it means to be a servant of Christ.” The medical wilderness behind us, and then walk forth in a new of the Lord one person at a time. I feel an editor went behind me and changed a roof over their heads. the stuff that pulls our strings. In fact, In order for this year to be different, The call today from Christ is to give life. Many celebrate by seeing how God will bless us, and in reality, he the wording, which ultimately altered I’m convinced that if we open ourselves to real relationships with those who we make these resolutions because we we pray this prayer of covenant: pastoral care to the sick that are in a much they can party and drink and then already has blessed us by being able to the story.” struggle from poverty, hunger, illiteracy and other issues, then we can better see want a clean slate to bring change to “I am no longer my own, but thine. medical wilderness. Health care has start the New Year with a huge head- make new friends. Taking our lead from Matthew 5:39, the woes of the world—and better meet those needs through Christian love and bear on our own circumstances and Put me to what thou wilt, rank me with changed. Health care is no longer based ache. Or they may make myriad reso- Rev. Terry Mitchell, pastor we turned the other cheek. service. What the Greenville District is doing with their new relationship-based improve ourselves as well as our qual- whom thou wilt on the moral thing to do, but is based lutions, which they break within two Chiquola UMC, Honea Path We do, however, want the members Methodist Family Partnering with Families initiative is spot-on, as is what the ity of life. Put me to doing, put me to suffering. on if the person meets the criteria or weeks. They keep looking for peace and of the annual conference to know the conference is doing with the Children in Poverty Task Force. Friends, it’s that time of year where Let me be employed for thee or the rules of Medicare and the insurance change in the wrong places. It is kind of whole story. Inspired by those efforts, this edition of the Advocate begins what I pray will the phrase “this year will be different” brought low for thee. companies. These are the determinators Clarifying SMC’s like repeatedly putting money in a Coke We thank you for your prayers and become a new series, “Life on the Margins,” where the very people who experi- will be said more than we can count. Let me be full, let be empty. of medical care. machine you have already discovered alcohol policy continued support. ence these devastating needs can voice their struggles and discuss, in an honest For me, the new year is an appropri- Let me have all things, let me have How do we make it possible that Have you ever scratched your head is empty and wondering why you don’t Dr. Colleen Perry Keith, president way, how the church helps them—or perhaps sometimes even fails them. This ate time to take an inventory of our nothing. everyone is treated fairly and justly? in wonder at something? get what you were looking for. Spartanburg Methodist College series is something God put squarely on my heart, and I hope you will help this lives and think about how we want to I freely and heartily yield all things Health care will be very selective in the Well, I did on Sunday, Dec. 8, when We serve a God who is the au- newspaper give voice to the people who live on the margins of life so we can see, live and act in a more excellent way. To thy pleasure and disposal. treatment of the sick in the future, and I opened up the Spartanburg Herald Outstanding job many will be rejected. It is going to get thor of new beginnings. Jesus paid the hear and know them in a way we might not otherwise. As we celebrate, we have opportuni- And now, O glorious and blessed God, Journal and saw “SMC Reconsiders its Congratulations to you on the Ad- worse. price; we get the forgiveness and peace. It’s time to start hearing the voices of poverty and focusing on how we can be ties to reaffirm our faith. Many of us Father, Son and Holy Spirit, Alcohol Policy” as a headline. vocate winning “best newspaper” and The pastors need to know the people Jesus is calling us to turn away from helpful. will take time to share in a Wesley Thou art mine, and I am thine, So be it. In November, we responded to email other awards! This is a tribute to your of their churches and have a responsi- the things that are not working for us, Covenant Renewal Service. Our par- And the covenant which I have made questions from a reporter at the Spar- dedication and leadership in Christian bility to be there when they are sick. from the pain, from the despair, from ticipation in such a service reaffirms on earth, tanburg Herald Journal about religious- journalism. This patient is a person of Christ and the darkness. Jesus is calling us to walk our willingness and intention to again Let it be ratified in heaven. based colleges relaxing their rules on You and your staff have done an out- more than facts on a medical chart. in the light of a daily relationship with say we are ready to live in a covenant Amen. alcohol. standing job of not only keeping South There is a human history that the pas- Him. He wants us to lay all the junk in relationship of faith in the Body of Yes, it is that time of year again. Our emailed response: “Spartanburg Carolina United Methodists updated on tor knows, and the pastor becomes our lives at the foot of the cross and let Christ. This is powerful good news to That special time when resolutions are Methodist has looked at its alcohol Annual Conference news, but also so an advocate in crisis situation for the Him take it from us as far as the east share with one another at the beginning made. Yet this year can be different policy in the past, and will continue to well informed about what other church- 4908 Colonial Drive, Suite 207, Columbia, SC 29203 moral treatment of this person. Ethi- is from the west. God will then plant 888-678-6272 or 803-786-9486 of the year. if we move into a deeper relationship do so going forward. ... The current, in- es are doing throughout the state. These [email protected] | www.advocatesc.org cal decisions are to be made from the seeds of love and peace in our hearts. It was in 1755 that John Wesley with Christ and discover a more excel- force policy is that we are a ‘dry,’ or no stories share many innovative ideas/ perspective of a Christian believer such Our attitudes change and with that, our Publisher came to believe that gathering a con- lent way. alcohol, campus. This stance is really projects and are incentives for churches as the type of treatment, living wills or lives and relationships begin to change. The S.C. United Methodist Advocate Trustees for two reasons: 1) the overwhelming to emulate within their own ministries. The Rev. Angela Nelson, chairperson; the Rev. Audrey Boozer, vice chairperson long-term care. “The biggest room in the whole wide majority of our students are not of legal Thank you for all your good efforts. the Rev. Carleathea Benson, secretary; Carmen Faulkner, treasurer; Has the church withdrawn from world is the room for improvement. “ Dyron V. Anderson; the Rev. David Caughman; Bill Click; Deena Flessas; the Rev. Jerry Gadsden; drinking age and 2) as an institution Carroll Player, DDS, member the Rev. Dean Lollis; Skyler Nimmons; Dr. Ralph Ostrom; Dr. Phillip Stone; Diane Wilson; Correction this medical wilderness? Have pastors (Quotes from Dr. Herbert Bailey.) affiliated with the United Method- Central UMC, Florence the Rev. William Wrighten; and the Rev. Kathy James, ex officio Rev. Judy C Hames, pastor become less involved with the sick? ist Church, we comport with United Matthew 25:43 says, “I was sick … and St Paul UMC, Saluda Editors emeritus In the United Against Hunger article (Advocate, December 2013), under the Methodist policy, practice and belief on A superb publication Maryneal Jones, Willie S. Teague, Allison Askins, Karl F. Davie Burgdorf, Emily L. Cooper you did not look after me.” section on Spann UMC Kangaroo Kids Backpack Ministry, Ward, we mistakenly such. …We aren’t actively considering I want to thank Jessica Connor and Rev. John Wesley Culp Staff identified Joe Cal Watson as a pastor by listing “the Rev.” before his name. It Another great hunger changing it at this time.” Allison Trussell for their excellent Virginia Wingard Memorial UMC, West Editor: Jessica Connor, [email protected] should have listed him simply as Joe Cal Watson. ministry So imagine me on Sunday morning execution of our United Methodist Assistant Editor: Allison K. 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January 2014 • Volume 178 • No. 1 fully at the New Year as a time for command, “Go into all the world and lished,” but rather “worded sentences St. Mark UMC, Charleston Page 6, January 2014 Features Advocate Advocate Page 1 Jump Page 7, January 2014 Rocky Swamp Native American ministry: a true journey APPORTIONMENTS: Funds help locally and globally By Zan Tracy Pender stole the stove. The stove was vital, as From Page 1 it cooked meals for the congregation on Church, and it is important to us to do NEESES—I write about an incredible, Sunday. The 92 percent goal for 2013 is far the things we should do to be (connec- challenging journey that I have been on. Thanks to the Rev. Mary Green and more than the conference has seen in tional).” This journey has made me grow as a her older adults group, they adopted decades. Last year, S.C. UMCs paid Likewise, in the Columbia District, person, in my faith, in my commitment, Rocky Swamp as a project. They were 87.02 percent of apportionments for churches are so committed to connec- in my ability to help others and in my able to replace the stove and broken 2012—the best numbers since 2003 and tionalism that they are teaming up to knowledge. In December 2009, I was refrigerator along with other repairs almost 3 percent higher than the 84.2 pay extra so even struggling churches asked by the bishop and Connectional and painting. With tears in their eyes, percent they paid in 2011. in the district can pay 100 percent. Last Ministries to become the supply pastor Rocky Swamp members recounted the The Rev. David C. Surrett, presi- year, the district’s churches discovered for Rocky Swamp, an outreach Native arrival of the stove and fridge. They dent of the S.C. Conference Council they were just two churches shy of pay- American ministry located in Neeses. said nobody had ever done such a thing on Finance & Administration, said the ing 100 percent of apportionments. This Rocky Swamp is a Native American like this for them before. They were conference might come up a bit short on year, Columbia District Superintendent outreach ministry where a congregation brand new and not previously used. the 92 percent goal, but “stretching is Dr. Tim McClendon reports those two meets on Sunday reflecting American The congregation is not a congrega- always important for any congregation churches have already paid 100 percent Indians from various heritage descents. tion of unlimited means. The days that and the conference. It shows that we on their own this year—one of them for Many will call themselves “mixed the older adult group spent with Rocky are trying to meet higher and more vital the first time in decades, “all out of a bloods.” Their Indian heritage includes Swamp were an incredible relationship- goals for God’s work. Bishop Holston’s shared sense of mission and gratitude Cherokee, Muskogean Creek, Lakota building experience for all. The project encouragement has been most helpful.” Centenary UMC, Conway, sold more than 3,000 pumpkins this fall to help the church pay its for how others helped them last year,” and others. Their normal attendance ended with a meal and a traditional Na- Across the state, many churches are apportionments. They have a goal to pay 100 percent next year. McClendon said. ranges from 10 to 30. tive worship service. indeed upping their level of support, cit- “We will make 100 percent again this Keith Hiott is the group’s Native Recently, Pinopolis UMC partnered ing a fervent belief in the connectional Using the United Methodist resource Linda Vaughan, steering commit- year because the Columbia District is a Photos by Jessica Connor spiritual leader, like a medicine man, with Rocky Swamp. Rocky Swamp had nature of the UMC. “Let’s Go Fishing,” Devorick has tee chair for the event, said the church witness to its motto, ‘Together We Can and he leads them in the Lakota tradi- United Methodist older adults fixed up the Leslie Knapp sweeps the back porch ramp a definite need for an industrial weed Dennis Devorick, pastor of Cen- been trying to teach his flock about the goes all-out with the tea room because Do More!’ This is United Methodist ministry in April. at Rocky Swamp. tions that were taught to him reflecting eater to maintain the cemetery; they had tenary UMC, Conway, has gotten on importance of apportionments within they now fully understand why paying connectionalism at work,” McClendon Lakota sacred ceremonies. They are Service is never rushed. but took many trials and tribulations damaged three lawnmowers. However, board with a wide array of special the greater connectional system. For apportionments is critical to the full said. all Christians, but come from many After the discussion, they may take to build their trust. Their greatest fear they did not have the money to pur- projects to help the church pay its ap- the pumpkin patch sale, members of the church. McClendon said he will reassess denominational backgrounds such as a short break. Then they gather at the was that The United Methodist Church chase one. Pinopolis wanted to expe- portionments, including a very effective church volunteered all month long to “(Years ago), when we discovered where the district stands as Jan. 1 nears, Pentecostal, Baptist, Catholic, non- drum. The male drummers take their would simply come in and take over, rience a Native drum as part of their pumpkin patch, which sold more than make the event a success. we didn’t meet our apportionments, and encourage churches to pay every- denominational and more. There are place at the drum, and the drum is forcing them to change their Native Native American Ministries Sunday 3,000 gourds to pay those funds. De- “Centenary is growing and giving,” we became very concerned,” Vaughan thing by the end of the year so they can people who just pass through and visit blessed with prayer. Women gather ways without even taking the opportu- celebration. As a result, Rocky Swamp vorick said last year the church paid 12 Devorick said. explained. “We soon found lots in start off 2014 with a clean slate. He said for a Sunday or two. There have been around the drum to sing or rattle. Yet nity to learn who they are and how they agreed to drum, and Pinopolis made a percent, this year they expect to pay 50 Further south, North Charleston church didn’t understand what appor- many of the district’s churches have pastors and ministers from other faiths one can remain in a pew seated if de- do things. Yes, it is a reflection on the significant contribution towards the pur- percent, and in 2014 they are commit- UMC in North Charleston hosts an an- tionments did, and we did some dig- embraced a monthly payment of their that have come and participated from sired. old “missionary-style” approach. It is chase of the weed eater. Pinopolis said ted to paying 100 percent. nual tea room and silent auction to help ging and learned apportionments pay connectional giving fair share. time to time. It is unique to watch this The Native drum is the centerpiece one of the reasons that we call Rocky they are adopting this as their efforts in “We believe it is important to pay pay its apportionments. Members work for things like mission projects that a For up-to-date information on the occur. of Native worship. It represents Mother Swamp an outreach ministry instead working with Rocky Swamp. our fair share of the first-mile appor- year-round to make the event profitable single church couldn’t do alone, train- current apportionment percentage, or The church itself is United Method- Earth, and the circular shape represents of a mission. However, rest assured For the Rocky Swamp people, it tionments,” Devorick said. “If we do for the benefit of the global UMC; the ing of ministers, development of new for more information on conference ist property. The church was part of the our connection to the Great Spirit and that nothing they do violates any of our was their first time participating in a not do our part, ministry somewhere is next tea room is scheduled for Feb. 7-8 programs, etc. finances, visit www.umcsc.org/home/ Springfield Charge and in discontinued Christ. Its voice calls for the Holy of principles as United Methodists. worship service within the UMC. They suffering.” from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. “We’re part of The United Methodist offices-2/treasurer. status. As a result, repairs were needed Holies to join the worship, lifts our I learned more about my faith and felt warmly welcomed and appreci- in order to reopen. Ironically, when prayers to Creator and then offers a United Methodism than I would have ated. You can be Indian and Christian initially opened, one of the walls was thank you for time and consideration of ever imagined there. I have been United inside of the church with Native music, literally flowing with honey, as there all that was done during the service. Methodist all my life. Now I faced a prayers and focus being honored by all. was a large bee’s nest in the wall. The drum music usually starts with challenge of how to explain what it We asked that all of our brothers and A typical Sunday morning at Rocky Christian praise songs. Then Hiott leads means to be Methodist to a group of sisters, regardless of race, join us in the Swamp requires explanation. The con- the congregation in the sacred ceremo- people who have never been Method- sacred circle. The church valued the gregation does worship in a very Native nial Lakota songs. ist. What are our practices, principals, experience as well. manner. You can find a large cross After, the congregation usually eats rituals and routines? Are we rigid or In November, Conference Congrega- As United Methodist Christians, mounted at the front of the church with together most days, but not always. flexible? Is tithing mandatory? Do you tional Development Director the Rev. we are connected to one a sacred circle reflecting the four colors This includes someone cooking at the receive a bill in the mail for this? What Sara White and the Native American another through a common The Advocate of the medicine wheel. The Native church, or some bringing dishes. After does it mean when we say, as Method- Committee members were invited heritage, shared beliefs and drum is in the center of the church, with eating, there is more time for fellow- ists, that we treasure our “connectional- to participate in a worship service at mutual mission. The Advocate the pews arranged in a circle around the ship among the members. Again, time ism” as a denomination? Why do you Rocky Swamp. strengthens our connection drum. is never an issue. When it is over, it is say “holy catholic church” in your Thanks to all of these efforts, the to the larger story of God’s The congregation begins to arrive over. Apostle’s Creed—I didn’t think you willingness to continue regardless of presence and work among United is changing lives Methodists in South Carolina and usually around 11:30. The person with I admit that my wife and I are usu- were Catholic. And the list goes on. the circumstances and the determination across the world. the shortest drive is at least 20 minutes ally some of the first to leave, around I found myself having to do research to overcome our barriers, we are mov- —Retired Bishop Ken Carder away. Thus, they communicate with 3 or 3:30 p.m. Yet nobody looks down and exploring my own faith and denom- ing forward with our relationship. We As you plan your year-end tax-deductible giving, we hope you will each via cell phone about when ev- on anyone if they need to leave early ination. I read the Book of Discipline are in discussions about how to move consider a contribution to the 501(c)3 nonprofit newspaper eryone will arrive. As a result, service or only can stay 30 minutes. They are more than ever. I was surprised Hiott forward with Rocky Swamp becoming The Advocate has raised the bar may start somewhere between 11:45 thankful that they simply made it to had already read that book, had a great a true United Methodist Native Ameri- for Christian newspapers. ministry of the S.C. United Methodist Advocate. and 12:30. There is a definite social church. understanding of it and approved of can Ministry (Mission) Church. We are —Herman Lightsey, president, exchange with members as they arrive Additionally, their motto is, “Come what was written in it. talking about long-term plans, including S.C. UMMen and wait for everyone, much like an as you are.” They live by that. It was The key to building the relation- a local pastor. Every story, every photograph, every calendar item, every advertisement—every single thing that goes extended passing of the peace. an adjustment for me to wear jeans to ship was trust. I was open and honest. After everything that has happened, in the Advocate is designed to inform, engage, inspire, uplift and transform readers, all for the glory of Once everyone is called to gather for church. Regardless, everyone is wel- I didn’t always agree with either side. I cannot tell you how well it does my The S.C. Conference United God’s Kingdom. In the last three years, we have won more than 45 awards for newspaper excellence, writ- worship, service is started with a dis- come. Yes, at times I felt stuck in the middle heart to see where we are today. The Methodist Women feel strongly ing and photography. Readership is steadily climbing. A great wave of momentum is building as church- cussion involving a spiritual topic, the This journey has had some incredible between the conference and the congre- progress has moved forward on a level that having a monthly presence es, ministries and Christian leaders embrace our newspaper ministry and help move us to the next level. Bible, a Bible verse, a Christian act, a lows and some even more incredible gation. Over time, I learned to resolve that has never occurred before. It is just in the Advocate has increased Native issue, etc. It is similar to having highs. Yes, it has been difficult and not and balance this position. so great to see. awareness about our programs Please help us continue our momentum with a year-end tax-deductible gift to the Advocate. Sunday school and the pastor’s mes- easy at times. At first, my wife and I Today, the relationship between Although I had my doubts initially, I and our commitment to sage rolled into one. Yet nobody stands were outsiders. We represented “them” Rocky Swamp and the conference is now feel am very privileged to be a part missions throughout the annual up to preach per se; it is formal and in the “them vs. us” mentality. Today, I stronger than ever. We are on the right of this effort. conference. Make your donation online at AdvocateSC.org structured, but everyone is free to share am very pleased to say that my wife and path, the good Red road in walking I’ll say this again and again: When it — Linda DuRant, president, and jump into the conversation. Again, I are accepted as part of their family—a together as two peoples learning from comes to the UMC and Native peoples, S.C. UMW or mail a check to Advocate | 4908 Colonial Drive | Columbia, SC 29203. this would reflect traditional Native tiyospaye (extended family). one another and becoming one—a there have truly been open hearts and culture, with each person listening to One of the unique things about this tiyospaye. open minds leading to new open doors. what another one is sharing and waiting congregation is that you become part The church has been broken into sev- You can be Indian and Christian at the to add their thoughts if desired. To me, of their tiyospaye. There are hugs and eral times. Even after placing a dead- same time. it embraces the “talking stick.” Time is welcomes every single Sunday. This bolt on the back door, someone kicked Pender is chair of the S.C. UMC Na- not an issue. When it is done, it is done. acceptance did not occur overnight, in the door. On one occasion, someone tive American Committee. Page 8, January 2014 Page 1 Jump Advocate Advocate Page 1 Jump Page 9, January 2014 LEBANON’S FRESH START: ‘Almost like a rebirth’ MEN: ‘It’s all about discipleship,’ men’s ministry advocates say From Page 1 From Page 1 they needed to tear it down and start And it all boils down to discipleship, ‘Taking the plunge’ over—they would need to find new of- say men’s ministry advocates. UMMen retreat fice space and a different place to wor- “God intended men to be leaders and Deepening discipleship is the ship, not to mention raise hundreds of in church,” Lightsey said, noting that focus of the 2014 United Methodist thousands of dollars to plan and build a “ outreach to men must adapt to the times Men’s spiritual retreat. Men’s new sanctuary. I wouldn’t wish and meet men where they are, instead ministry advocates feel passionately It would be enough to make some of appealing to the antiquated notion that if men grow as disciples, they will be transformed, and that termites on any that men need an exclusive “club.” people throw up their hands and sur- transformation will impact their render, Williams said, but not Lebanon. church, but the hid- To that end, Lightsey, S.C. Bishop churches, families, communities and The church decided to kick into full Jonathan Holston and a handful of the world. For more, or to register, gear, committing on faith to the new den blessings have key pastors from the Upstate to the visit www.ummsc.org. building and upping its commitment to outweighed all of it. Lowcountry are embarking on a new Lebanon’s host of missional projects, discipleship thrust of the UMM move- from partnering with Killingsworth to ment, hoping that if men go deeper for designed to kick off a new wave of helping Epworth Children’s Home and – The Rev. Mark Williams God, they will transform their families, men’s discipleship that organizers hope Salkehatchie Summer Service. This churches and communities. Photo by Jessica Connor will fan out conference-wide. Bishop coming summer they will even host “I believe that a more excellent way Men’s ministry advocates are re-examining what it means to be a United Methodist man, Holston and others will lead sessions on Photo by Jessica Connor re-igniting a men’s discipleship movement. Enabling a deeper walk with God is critical to a Salkehatchie camp for the first time The Rev. Mark Williams and church treasurer Leslie Fields say the church has raised about involves the active pursuit of men in discipling men, as these men experience at past United Methodist Men spiritual retreats. the whys and hows of growing men›s ever. ” $315,000 and paid for all work on the sanctuary out of pocket. Williams and Fields estimate order to connect them to God, His Word ministry in churches, sharing ideas and “We’ll literally be building houses the total project cost at $1.05 million—hefty particularly for a church that only has a yearly and other men for the purposes of win- bringing to Covenant so many men into “They are involved in each church’s af- programs they have used to grow men’s operating budget of $223,000. for the poor while we’re rebuilding our ning, growing and training God’s men active service for Jesus. He said, ‘It is ter-school program (Canaan Academic ministry and explaining what intention- church,” Williams said. “That speaks Leslie Fields, the church treasurer strong missional nature of the church mission work since the infestation and in Christ,” Holston said. because of leadership. … Men want to Rural Endeavor and Sand Hill Academ- al men’s ministry means to their church. volumes about what God is doing at and a lifelong member, said Lebanon’s to the fore, enabling it to understand in demolition, and now more and more But this will require change—not be challenged, men want to hear a clear, ic Rural Endeavor). Two hundred men “It has been my experience that an Lebanon.” journey has been invigorating for her bold new ways that it makes no dif- people are drawn to its doors each in the message, but in the method and concise message from the pulpit, and from Canaan and Sand Hill have also overwhelming majority of women also Instead of turning their focus inward, and the other members. ference whether you worship in a big week. approach with which we do men’s deep down, men want to be leaders.’” built a solid foundation for a mentor- want their husbands and sons to be ac- Williams and his flock said the experi- “It’s almost like a rebirth,” Fields sanctuary or crammed shoulder-to- “We’re not a big church, but we’ve ministry. ing program for high school males. It is tively engaged in the life of a church,” ence has brought out the best in God’s said, noting the children of the church shoulder in a tighter space—the church been blessed with some people who are Men are needed our hope to provide our youth and the Hook said. people at Lebanon. feel extremely invested in the new is the people. wiling to give their time, talents and Discipleship=transformation Men in church is part of God’s plan, youth of the community their own place Whether being engaged happens “At first, we felt we all got punched sanctuary. Her son, 8, asks for weekly “Since all this happened and we’ve resources without question,” he said. One way to bring about that change said the Rev. James Friday, Cabinet rep- for ministry while also providing a safe through retreats and personal invita- in the gut, but then we learned some updates on the building status. had to live in our kitchen and sit close “We’ve just learned we don’t need all is at the upcoming UMM spiritual resentative for the UMM. But too often, haven for other activities.” tions or small group Bible studies, like hidden blessings in what God brought “He’s always asking, ‘Mom, did we to each other we’ve found out we are all that pomp and circumstance to do what retreat, set for Feb. 28 to March 2 in we don’t have men who really get into the one Lightsey attends at a Lizard’s before us,” Williams said. “This sort get enough money for the church this very much on the same page,” Caugh- we know we’re supposed to be doing.” Myrtle Beach. With a theme of “Tak- the Word, or have mixed messages A contagious ministry Thicket restaurant, “If you can get men of thing pushes people outside their week?’” Fields said, laughing. “It’s man said. “If anything, the benefit was As for Williams, he expects great ing the Plunge: Deeper Prayer, Passion, about what a man is. L.W. Smith, part of the conference connected, you can make big things comfort zones and causes them to rally uplifting.” that, by circumstances, we were more things for Lebanon, which is gifted with Purpose and Power,” the retreat aims to “We are made in the very image of UMM and who attends Rehoboth UMC happen,” Lightsey said. “I’ve never together in ways they wouldn’t if it was It’s also a vivid real-life example of or less forced to work even closer to people who fully understand that amaz- help men deepen their walk with God God, and oftentimes we are not even in Columbia, said men’s ministry is been more excited about ministry to just life as usual. how when you trust God, He delivers. each other than we had been, and yet ing, unexpected things happen when and increase their level of discipleship. aware of what God has expected of us contagious. men as right now. Together as clergy “I wouldn’t wish termites on any “We’ve been displaced two years, yet we’ve had zero conflict. We didn’t have you allow God to work through you in As organizers say, if men become stron- as men, and it is so important for us “When a man is growing spiritu- and laity we can be change agents for church, but the hidden blessings have we’ve grown new members, done more to argue for two years about what to spite of so-called setbacks. ger disciples, they will be transformed, who have identified with God’s call ally and attending church regularly, his the church.” outweighed all of it.” benevolence projects and more mission do. … Right from the get-go we were “When a church gets out of its and will thus transform their churches, in our lives to help other men (do the whole family will follow him to church Lightsey said that from the retreat, When they weren’t upping their mis- projects,” Fields said, shaking her head together.” comfort zones and gels together, God families and the world beyond. same),” Friday said. “It’s important for 93 percent of the time,” Smith said. the newly impassioned disciples will sion zeal, the congregation was spend- at the irony. “The old saying is true: Caughman said the community has can work,” Williams said. “God doesn’t Pastors of some of the biggest UMCs our families, for our communities, for “Men communicate well with other come off their “mountaintop experi- ing the last two years raising startup When God closes one door, He opens become much more aware of Lebanon’s need a lot to be God.” in the state are urging men in their our churches and for our world if we’re men. When a man is growing in Christ, ence” directly to a next step that will money and developing architectural another. We’d been talking 10 years churches to attend the retreat, commit- to live out God’s plan for humanity and other men are more likely to know keep them engaged and growing. The plans for the new building, then go- about how to grow our congregation, ting to bringing five or 10 men with a all creation.” Christ. Our denomination is losing UMM is rolling out a three-year plan ing through the permitting process. In and now here we are.” goal of seeing 500 men there come Feb- The Rev. Mack C. McClam, senior men and our young people. The above of teaching churches, which is how August, they demolished the church and The rebirth comes at no small price. ruary. Many of these pastors say that if pastor of the Canaan-Sand Hill Charge, statistic alone should encourage pastors they plan to disciple men, families then broke ground on the new sanctuary Williams and Fields estimate the total we operate as usual, we will continue to Ridgeville, said men are desperately and laity to attend the men›s retreat at and churches as part of a progressive in September. project cost at $1.05 million—hefty lose men until there are none left. needed in church. Springmaid and learn about important movement to discipleship, a “God-sized Now, as of the Advocate’s press time, particularly for a church that only has Dr. Bob Howell, senior pastor of “It must become clear to the Chris- ways to reach men and involving them dream.” the foundation and framing are up, and a yearly operating budget of $223,000. Bethany UMC, Summerville, is one of tian church that the making of disciples into the ministry.” For more about the 2014 UMM they expect to be worshipping in the But somehow, they’re making it. While those urging his congregation to attend for Christ is an urgent matter in today’s The men’s retreat in February is Spiritual Retreat, visit www.ummsc.org. new sanctuary by summer. They are they are approved for a construction the retreat. Howell said the UMM and world. Men are needed in every phase keeping just two things from their old loan, so far they haven’t had to borrow the church in general need to change of ministry to help bring the food of the building: the steeple and the stained against it. They’ve even been able to their paradigm to ignite passionate dis- Gospel to a spiritually malnourished glass windows. pay 100 percent of their apportionments ciples for Christ. While men’s fellow- global community,” McClam said, cit- “To see a sanctuary coming up from every year. ship groups are good for some, today’s ing how other men helped ease Moses’ the ground is so powerful, and as you Nancy Frierson and her husband, men are often seeking something more weary hands in Exodus 17:12. “We are can imagine, folks are so excited,” Wil- Roy, joined Lebanon after the infesta- meaningful. bound to become weary in this way of Is proud to announce its new affiliation with liams said. tion and have only known the church in “Unfortunately, for generations life, and we cannot make this journey In addition to the increased member- its present state. They consider it to be below the age of 60, most men’s groups by ourselves. …To miss the fact that ship and commitment to mission, Leba- a welcoming, big-hearted church that are answering the questions that young- men, even great leaders like Moses, non is also seeing other surprise perks somehow has “a different, refreshing er men are not asking,” Howell said, needed the help of other men is a griev- from their ordeal: the new facility will feel” from other churches they have noting the church must meet men where ous tragedy.” have updated technology, better acous- attended. they are. “Adding new dimensions to Recently during worship, McClam tics for their choir and instrumentalists, Frierson is excited about being able our ministry with men is absolutely spontaneously was called by God to in- significantly better seating (now able to to worship this summer in the new essential to growing men in their walk vite all men to remain after the service accommodate 298 instead of 185), and Lebanon sanctuary: “I see it growing with God in the 21st century.” to discuss the need for male mentors in the building is also physically closer even more.” The Rev. Darren Hook, senior pas- homes where men are predominantly to the road, which Williams said is a Lonnie Caughman, lay delegate and tor of Covenant UMC, Greer, is also absent. To his surprise, 125 men at Sand For all your church bus needs, call Dan metaphor for how the church is moving Lebanon member since the 1980s, said encouraging his church’s men to attend Hill UMC and 75 men at Canaan UMC closer to the community in all ways. the experience brought the already and intensify their discipleship. gathered after the service. 1-800-922-5826 ext. 257 “In too many cases, men have de- Seeing such a response was hearten- or email [email protected] termined that church is for women and ing for McClam, who is convinced that Native American rep training is Feb. 1 kids,” Hook said. “When we connect men given responsibility to serve God The S.C. Conference of The United lumbia, the training costs $10. Registra- our message from the pulpit and the will step up and serve. 1122 4th Ave., Conway, SC 29526 Methodist Church will hold training tion begins at 9 a.m., and the training message of the Gospel of Jesus Christ “As the needs of our church, com- “Serving the community for 74 years!” for Native American representatives will be held from 9:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. to men, our churches are stronger and munity and world change, the ministries Buy local, service local, support your local business Saturday, Feb. 1. For more information, call 803-983- healthier. I asked one of our members of the men of the Canaan-Sand Hill Ask about the Advocate discount Held at Platt Springs UMC, West Co- 0139. recently why he felt that God was Charge have changed,” McClam said. Page 10, January 2014 Poverty Awareness Advocate Advocate Poverty Awareness Page 11, January 2014

Life on the Margins Children in Poverty Guest Commentary Children in Poverty: a Devotion From Mark 9:36-37 and Matthew 18:5

By “George” by Bishop Kenneth L. Carder (retired) by Martha F. Thompson In my job with the Department of Social Services, I have constant interaction with children and poverty. By going into the biological and foster homes of children in our state, I have seen the needs of children that are not being met. Do you even care? Bethlehem’s other children Reflections on an ordinary daytrip This is especially evident during the holidays when children do not have anyone to share a meal with or anyone to share a special holiday tradition with. Editor’s note: This month’s begins Editor’s note: As Carder is the And, we must remember that the dressed warmly that morning, as I Fork, Trinity UMC in Bamburg, Cope, Seeing and hearing the stories of how children are treated breaks my Submissions wanted what we hope is a new series in the primary author of the foundation one who escaped execution as a child knew it was to be one of the first Branchville, Neeses, Crocketville, Toby heart. But what gets me the most is what could have been done to prevent The Advocate welcomes submis- cold days of fall. The snowflake Friendship UMC, Hampton UMC and some of these things from happening. What if someone had stepped up or Advocate that gives voice to people sions from people who struggle with document of the Episcopal Initiative was crucified as an adult. who live “on the margins” because on Children and Poverty, the S.C. Task Severing Christmas from the slaugh- icon on my temperature gauge Varnville UMC. These churches were advocated for these children? What if these children hadn’t gone through poverty, hunger, and other issues, what they did? What if someone from the church showed these children God’s of poverty, illiteracy and other wide- as well as from those who work with Force on the Pan-Methodist Campaign ter of innocent children, the plight of Iconfirmed it was indeed cold! identified as places of energy, where this population. Specific references to As I drove to meet the Rev. Sara members want to “do something” but love and grace? What if someone showed this family what reconciliation looks spread calamities of society, and how for Children in Poverty asked him to the homeless, the abuse of power, and like? they are experiencing church—whether name, church and location might be write a series of articles on the biblical the prevalence of suffering and death is White for our road trip, my thoughts could not financially sustain new pro- changed to protect the privacy and turned to young children who lack grams for very long. In this job, I have had to learn quickly about what it means to give grace to good or bad. Submissions are wel- and theological foundation for engage- the real war on Christmas. In Beth- others as God has given me grace. dignity of those involved. Email sub- warm homes and clothing. It was these In Hampton School District 1, we come; see box at right. missions to [email protected]; mail ment in ministry with children and the lehem’s Holy Child, God enters the If we as a church are going to be Christians and live into our calling, then I to 4908 Colonial Drive, Columbia, SC poor. This is next in a series. plight of children victimized by vio- children, who live in the area known as had the opportunity to meet with the want to challenge you to live in a way that shows others the love that God has go to a place for people of all 29203 or fax to 803-735-8168. Also, if lence, homelessness and oppression. the Corridor of Shame, who prompted school superintendent and discuss the shown to you. What are you personally doing to welcome the children in your writing, mailing or fax/computer access walks of life that need a little he Christmas decorations In Jesus Christ, God offers an alterna- our road trip. Sara and I serve on the struggles of his seven schools, such as community in as if you were welcoming God into your church? are an obstacle, please call us toll-free Pan-Methodist Campaign for Children lack of job opportunities, unemploy- In this Scripture, we are called to welcome the children as if we were wel- help. A warm meal that helps at 888-678-6272, ext. 338, and dictate have been put away. Carols tive to violence, exploitation and the coming God. We are to see God in the faces of children. So what is it that you you keep going. Fellowship with your thoughts to Advocate Editor Jes- no longer provide background illusion of worldly power. Violence is in Poverty Task Force and the S.C. ment, homelessness and not enough are doing for the children in your community? Ione another, ’cause a lot of us are in sica Connor over the phone. We are music for shopping or hymns replaced with compassion, vengeance Children in Poverty Initiative. We local tax base to adequately support happy to help. wanted to see this different world that is education for the children. There are It is not just about what you are doing around the holidays for these chil- the same boat, so to speak. Always a Tfor congregations. The heightened with forgiveness, exploitation with dren. It’s not about dropping off gifts and supplies to these children. After all, robust welcome from someone at the excitement of holiday festivities has service and the love of power with the so much a part of South Carolina. more than 43 children and families in It wasn’t long after leaving the vi- the district who have no place to call is that how you would treat God? If you are called to welcome these children door or a “hello” from the kitchen. only one that knew. The young people, subsided, and routine tasks dominate power of love. and see God in their faces, then you must do more than just give material brant downtown of Columbia and I-26 home. Many are cared for by “kinship People from other churches helping as well as the rest of us, had no Sun- our schedules. The world continues to slaughter gifts. You must learn to live with these children and learn to be in relationship with food and the serving thereof. day school to go to. And even though How quickly Christmas fades into the innocent. Gunfire kills more than that something began to emerge on the care,” where 15 to 25 relatives live in with these children. A helpful smile perks the soul, to a volunteer came forth, it was not the background! 2,500 children and youth in the U.S. back roads. We passed small farms and the same small house; we observed Children need the church to teach them the story of God and help them think someone really cares. A little going to happen. They thought that if Perhaps we have left Bethlehem each year. More children than soldiers beautiful farmland, but obviously agri- these houses at the end of some of the understand they are valued children of God. These children need the church noisy at times till all dig in. Still, one they did nothing, we would all leave prematurely. The picturesque images are killed in warfare. Thousands of the culture was in decline because no one long dirt roads. to empower them and give them a voice. doesn’t have to look far to see the pain, and the majority did. I resigned my of an innocent baby in a manger sur- world’s children die needlessly each was working these farms. There were In Hampton, we learned it is ex- We are all called to engage in God’s grace, renewal and new creation in this broken world. The most important way to do this, in my opinion, is by loneliness and heartache of several membership to the UMC. And to this rounded by a loving mother and father, day from poverty and preventable many “for sale” signs on farms and tremely difficult to attract and retain homes. We traveled through Lexington, talented teaching staff. Currently, there helping children know they are a blessing of God and that no matter what they of the folks round and about. Trials, very day, there is great division in that adored by peaceful shepherds and diseases. go through, God’s love remains steadfast. tribulation and affliction are a constant church. watched over by docile cattle doesn’t South Carolina has one of the high- Calhoun, Orangeburg, Bamburg, Col- are six 4-Year-Old Child Development leton, Allendale and Hampton counties. classes serving 20 children in each The gift of God’s love and grace is better than any material gift you can matter for the poor. One can see all So what is the cause of it? I believe tell the whole story. est rates in the country of children who give the children in need and in poverty. Meeting the needs of children in- Eventually, we were on Hwy. 301/ class, but there are many children not types of poverty if one is looking. it is a great lack of love. There is another scene far less se- live in poverty with no access to health cludes building and maintaining relationships with the children in our commu- The minister blesses the food, The other thing that I don’t un- rene and much more troubling than the insurance, partly the result of the gov- 601 south, which parallels I-95. These being served. Last year one school, nities, especially those in need. of which we are most thankful for. derstand is that everything happens one portrayed in the beautiful hymn, ernment’s failure to participate fully in are counties where poverty rules in with the approval of the school board, Go and be the presence and love of God in the lives of children. There are also ones that are what I within the four walls of the church, but “O Little Town of Bethlehem.” It is the Medicaid and a cut in food stamps. small towns and illiteracy passes to stopped giving homework because it —Martha Nichols Timmons, Bethel UMC, Spartanburg call “snakes in the grass,” which are outside of it. Nobody cares. Maybe brutal and bloody images of Herod’s The disparity in access to food, children like a dreaded disease. In one was too stressful for the parents and the people that aren’t really poor but want it is that they aren’t being led by the army slaughtering the innocent chil- shelter, medical care and education is town, the Main Street was boarded up children. Most of the students are on the a free handout. And that’s OK, ’cause Holy Spirit but rather doing this for the dren. Instead of the heavenly angelic a modern form of slaughter of the in- with no businesses or little shops giving free or reduced lunch program. they can’t fool everybody and it’s to be Lord. It’s a mystery! choruses, we hear the desperate cries nocents. life to the community. Even the Piggly The biggest challenge for these com- expected. And it is also strange that if a poor of little boys and the wailing of their As we join in the Epiphany celebra- Wiggly was boarded up, and the park- munities is the stability of the schools, There’s a time before service where person is helping in some way, they are grieving mothers and fathers. tion of the Visit of the Magi to the ing lot was vacant with weeds growing where poverty will remain a challenge the women flock to get clothes and always doing whatever alone, unless We miss the radical revelation of Holy Child of Bethlehem, let us keep in the cracks of the pavement. When we for South Carolina’s public education shoes or whatever they think they need someone wants to give their advice of Christmas if we do not remember in mind the continuing suffering of the asked about the grocery store, we were system. Studies show children of pover- or can sell to get what they really want. how to do things, and then walk off. Bethlehem’s other children, those who innocent children in our midst. Jesus told another food chain was coming but ty generally achieve at lower levels than But every now and then, someone has The church has a huge problem, were innocent victims of a politi- still lives among them! not until the first of the year. Residents children from high-income families. a real need for something, and hope- but I’m at a point of where I don’t cal system sustained by violence and As the Magi brought their gifts to must travel to a larger town for grocer- After a short trip to Walterboro, we fully they find it. care anymore. Favoritism should not exploitation. Bethlehem’s manger-child, may we ies and to the local gas station for bread met with the Rev. Genova McFadden, Then there is a very lively service exist in the church. And neither should Let us remember that Jesus was bring our gifts of aid and advocacy to and milk if they ran out. I wondered congregational specialist for Walterboro of joy and praise with a couple of guys people talk nor put down poor people. born among the homeless because the One who declared, “Inasmuch as about those families without transporta- and Charleston districts of the UMC, leading with their guitar and bongos. I am poor! I’ve been on disability his parents were forced out of their you do to one of the least of these, you tion. and shared our trip with her. As we left, Sure ’nuff, there’s a time of sharing for a long time and the first part of house in Nazareth in compliance with do unto me.” We travelled the long highway I noted the motto for these two districts: where one has seen God that week and this year I got a raise per the govern- a royal taxation mandate. Further, the Carder is a retired UMC bishop and without passing many cars and observ- “Helping Congregations Fulfill Their always prayer for any one that voiced ment. Now make $711 a month and get holy child of Bethlehem escaped the a member of the S.C. Task Force on the ing long dirt roads with small framed Potential.” it. Then a great blessing of hearing $47 in food stamps, of which am very slaughter by becoming an immigrant in Pan-Methodist Campaign for Children houses at the end. The few businesses Let’s modify that: “With children as the breath of Jesus being spoken by thankful. Folks on welfare make twice Egypt. in Poverty. that advertised were for deer processing our richest resource, we can fulfill our the spirit-filled minister and, at times, this amount if not more. But quite a and hunt clubs, and a few signs adver- greatest potential.” knowing that He is near and seeing the few are like me, just trying to make it. tised free GEDs. The United Method- Thompson is chair of the S.C. UMC light shine forth. Then all get a bag of Are there poor people in your ist Church was visible in each of the Initiative of the Pan-Methodist Cam- food to go home with. church? If there are, love ’em as Christ counties: Orange Grove UMC, Edisto paign for Children in Poverty. To me, it is a time of bittersweet. loves you. I’m a human being just like Oh, you heard me! There were a bunch you. Why can’t you love me, too? of us poor folks that joined the church I am a born-again Spirit-filled over a period of time. Didn’t take very Christian! Throughout this life, there long for me to realize that they really has been a continued problem between didn’t want us to join. the church and the poor. Do you even It was obvious, and I wasn’t the care?

Small church, big heart, doing big things The winter means snow, sledding, holidays and curling up by the fire with family while drinking hot chocolate. But for those children who are less fortunate, it means bone-chilling aches, empty stomachs and no overcoat protection. Enoch Chapel UMC, North Charleston, is not only a church, but also a community built on compassion, care and, most importantly, love. The youth of Enoch Chapel (above) are one of the main highlights of those elements. Having to deal with some of the everyday challenges in their own life, they understand the need for lending a hand and like to help those kids who are less fortunate. Page 12, January 2014 More Viewpoints Advocate Advocate More Viewpoints Page 13, January 2014 Guest Commentary Deadline Guest Commentary Guest Commentary set for EYA by the Rev. Keith D. Ray II by the Rev. Richard Reams By the Revs. Wiley B. Cooper, Carl D. Evans, John D. summer Evans, Kenneth W. Prill and Thomas A. Summers, S.C. On trial: The United Methodist Church and dissenters Immigration: How can we help? United Methodist clergy members of Openings, and Julia internship Prater and Michael W. Haigler, co-chairs of Openings y beloved United Method- breaking point when he saw the need for ing fully the sacred worth of sisters and father wanting nothing more and decisions. Our story is rooted in ist Church is in the news ordained clergy in the American colo- brothers who are LGBT, but what are we applications than the protection of his the caring for the orphans, widows, quite a lot these days. nies. His sense of pastoral response and to do in the meantime? wife and child; a mother and aliens; remembering the stranger May justice roll like a river CNN, MSBNC, FOX duty led him to choose between the law The United Methodist Church was in WASHINGTON, D.C.—Dead- who longs for nothing among us; even the Holy Family MNews, USA Today. We are everywhere. of the church and the mission of forming the news Thanksgiving week as the story lines have been announced for the Aexcept the safety and well-being of became political refugees and perhaps n light of the controversy sur- these particular denominations have Sadly, it’s not because of our relief ef- disciples. So writes Methodist scholar of Rev. Frank Schaefer was convicted 2014 Ethnic Young Adult Summer her new child; a family willing to flee even undocumented immigrants, but rounding a United Methodist already systemically embraced sexual forts in the Philippines or the growth of Ted Campbell: “John Wesley tried … to in a church trial of violating our Book Internship in social justice place- under the still of night, crossing unfor- my guess is that didn’t make into the bishop’s prophetically conducting equality and inclusiveness: Presbyte- our church amongst Millennials. We are secure ordained clergy through normal of Discipline. He presided at the wed- ments in the U.S. capital. giving lands, waters and even borders sermon on the flight to Egypt. a ceremony that celebrated the rian Church, USA; Alliance of Bap- in the news because of our church trials. processes of the Church of England, but ding of his son, a homosexual person of The EYA program is for per- trying to do nothing but survive; an Why not? Why are we uninterested Imarriage of a same-gender couple and tists; Evangelical Lutheran Church of And 2014 promises to be a banner year he was not satisfied. … Having his own sacred worth, who was married several sons, ages 18-22 from United oppressive government bent on hunt- in engaging in the immigration discus- other similar issues about homosexu- America; Unitarian-Universalist; Epis- for more church trials related to clergy theological justification, he proceeded in years ago. The son asked his father to Methodist racial/ethnic minority ing them down. sion at best, and so vehemently against ality, an ever-growing interreligious copal Church, U.S.; the United Church officiating same-sex marriages. early September of 1784 to ordain clergy preside at the service, and Schaefer caucuses and Central Conferences, Behold the lectionary text for the all things migrant at worst? Perhaps it group—named Openings—holds of Christ and others. Many members of Church trials are not uncommon in for North America. … Since he was not agreed to do so. And once again, The who have interest in exploring last Sunday of the 2013, a year in is because many of us do not know a profound dismay. Openings belong to these communions. The United Methodist Church. I once himself a bishop, his ordinations violated United Methodist Church has become public policy, social justice advo- which Comprehensive Immigration person affected by the brokenness of It is difficult for us to comprehend Numerous institutions (like the mili- served on a jury of a church trial. In the canons of his own Church.” known as a church that punishes clergy cacy and social change. Reform has been debated and argued our system. Maybe we’ve never seen how The United Methodist Church tary, professional groups, educational many instances, clergypersons are Wesley’s violation of the order of his for presiding at their children’s same-sex Applications are due Feb. 1 for and voted upon and tabled. It was a the pain of a child separated from a can continue showing its oppressive systems and municipalities) also have charged with some kind of moral lapse: church did not come easy. He wrangled unions. applicants within the U.S. and Jan. year when more than 1,400 United parent. How many of us could call a actions toward the community of fault- adopted non-discrimination policies adultery, dishonesty and the like. But the over his sense of obedience to the All of this press coverage has raised 11 for applicants outside the U.S. Methodists from across the country first-generation immigrant a friend or less lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans- concerning sexual orientation. news accounts today are highlighting a Church of England and his understand- questions in my own soul as I’ve con- Applicants must be full members came together to petition the House to even call them by name? gender persons. This broadened affirmation of growing trend of clergy trials where the ing of his call from God. His sense of sidered what my response will be when in The United Methodist Church. repeal the SAFE Act and pass com- Maybe that should be our goal in Three years ago, Openings was LGBT persons growing in both our defendant has made a decision to preside mission, dare we say to make disciples someone I love asks me to preside at Sponsored by the General prehensiveimmigration reform. It took 2014. Last year was a great year with formed by LGBT persons and straight religious and social environment stands at a same-sex union, something prohib- of Jesus and transform the world, was their marriage. Actually, it’s caused me Board of Church & Society and less than two weeks to gather that successes and challenges, but 2014 allies coming from diverse spiritual in stark contrast to the UMC. Instead, ited by our Book of Discipline. what drove him ultimately to veer be- to reflect on the people at the church I the denomination’s Inter-Ethnic many names. Two weeks—that in and provides us a new opportunity to par- traditions. As a supportive and wel- it is continuing to drive itself away Even among the ranks of the episco- yond the accepted polity. We are, there- now serve. We are blessed with a strong Strategy Development Group, the of itself is an incredible feat. ticipate in God’s growing Kingdom on coming network in our state’s mid- from a longstanding heritage of social pacy, Bishop Melvin Talbert presided fore, a church born out of dissent. And and vibrant youth and college ministry. internship, May 29-Aug. 2, is for Twice last year United Methodists Earth. lands, its main purpose is that of aiding holiness in this regard. at such a service in Alabama. And the that practice has continued in our history. I’ve gotten to know these young people young adults representing the five joined with denominational leaders How can you, or your small group, in the inclusion of LGBT persons into In considering the spiritual journeys Council of Bishops, in a formal state- Consider the prohibition of the during my years of service. What will ethnic minority caucuses of The from across the country in Washington, or your church be more informed and the fuller life of our various religious of LGBT persons, there is just too ment, are recommending he be brought Methodist Episcopal Church, South, my response be when one of them comes United Methodist Church: Native D.C., to meet with senators about CIR become more involved? denominations. much at stake in allowing any exclu- up on charges in order to maintain the with respect to preaching in favor of the to me and asks, “Will you preside at our Americans, Pacific-Islanders, His- and members of the Senate Judiciary On Jan. 26, from 2-5 p.m. at St. At a recent monthly meeting of our sionary and insensitive atmosphere to standards of our church’s polity. The abolitionist movement. Or the pastors wedding?” When one of my members panic/Latinos, African Americans Committee during the amendment John’s UMC, Rock Hill, the Rock Hill Openings network, the approximately intrude into their souls. bishops write, “We respectfully request who knowingly violated the Book of Dis- asks, what will I say to her? and Asian Americans. process of S.744, and House Members District will be hosting their “Church 60 persons present voted to commu- For example, an alarming statistic is that Bishop Wenner, President of the cipline’s prohibition against women serv- I could say, “I’m sorry. I can’t. Our For more information: nchristie about H.R.15 to put CIR back on the in 3-D” training event. One of the ses- nicate this statement to S.C. United that young gay teens take their lives by Council of Bishops, and Bishop Wallace- ing in clergy roles. It’s true, some simply Book of Discipline says your lifestyle is @umc-gbcs.org. table over against a half-hearted piece- sions will focus on how to engage in Methodists: suicide four times more than their other Padgett, Resident Bishop of the North left their denomination as the ground incompatible with Christian teaching. meal approach to reform. the immigration conversation. Openings stands in solidarity peers. Alabama Conference, address the action shifted: “The first challenge to Method- Your marriage is a sin.” In the S.C. Conference of The Or perhaps you would like to be- with those United Methodists work- And a sad irony is seen when per- of Bishop Talbert and file a complaint ism came in 1880 when two Methodist Another option: “I’m sorry. I can’t. #GivingTuesday United Methodist Church, prayer vigils come an “Immigrant Welcoming Com- ing to transform their denomination mission is given for UMC clergy to under the provisions of Paragraph 413 women, Anna Oliver and Anna Howard Our Book of Discipline won’t allow me were held at senators’ and house mem- munity.” This is a four-month process into one that celebrates sexual and offer a service of blessing and celebra- for undermining the ministry of a col- Shaw, came before the General Confer- to officiate your wedding. The United record-breaking bers’ offices across the state. Bill Mef- that equips people to move from mercy gender diversity as a blessing that tion for a fleet of boats, buildings or league (Para. 2702.1f) and conducting ence of the Methodist Episcopal Church, Church of Christ pastor down the street ford, the director for civil and human to justice, from service-only relation- enriches all. Loving, just commu- pet animals. a ceremony to celebrate the marriage of North, seeking ordination … Unfortu- might help us out. You don’t know her, day for mission rights at the General Board of Church ships to incarnational relationships, nities embrace everyone; they are But there remains yet an inhumane a same gender couple (Para. 2702.1b) nately, not only was the request for ordi- but she can do it.” and Society, traveled across South and from ministering to immigrants strengthened when all people are disciplinary restriction for clergy to Thanks to the generosity of within the bounds of the North Alabama nation denied, but the conference voted Or I might say simply, “You know Carolina to provide five nights of train- to being transformed alongside of our able to live fully and express their provide a ceremony of blessing the United Methodists around the Conference.” to rescind the existing rule that allowed I will. You are one of my people and, ing and education in how to engage in immigrant sisters and brothers. How gender and sexuality with holiness committed love and companionship of world, more than 880 projects and The request from our bishops comes women to have a local license to preach. more than that, you are one of God’s social justice and immigration reform. much transformation could happen if and integrity. There should be no two same-gender persons as a devoted missionaries will receive a finan- from a conviction of the call to give Soon thereafter, Anna Howard Shaw left people. I am honored to be a part of your We were even able to make a brief we have one welcoming community in turning back from the goal of the couple. cial boost to help them meet their appropriate oversight to the church. As the Methodist Episcopal Church, North.” special day.” presentation during Annual Conference every district? full participation of lesbian, gay, We hope and pray that, as the UMC mission goals. the bishops say, “The purpose of the Leaving was not the only option, Which response really seems rooted highlighting our ministries and pushing Could we offer education or train- bisexual, and transgender people in deals with its difficult struggles and The denomination’s General Council of Bishops is to lead the church however, as others remained and pushed in our mission of making disciples of for a major call-in to the Senate offices. ing in your church or district? Could our faith traditions and communi- decisions, those oppressive walls that Board of Global Ministries an- in its mission of making disciples of against the restrictions of polity, re- Jesus Christ for the transformation of the The question for 2014 and the first we organize an educational trip to our ties. play their part in shutting doors on nounced that the first-ever UMC Jesus Christ for the transformation of strictions that ultimately squelched the world? Advocate of the year is simple: What’s southern border or another Methodist the precious spiritual lives of LGBT #GivingTuesday generated a the world. To that end, bishops are also church’s ability to remain aligned with Our tradition teaches us that some- next? How will you and your church conference to learn from their minis- Because of the UMC’s lingering persons may begin to tumble and let record $6.5 million online on Dec. required to ‘uphold the discipline and its mission when it came to women. Be- times we must be willing to push the or small group get involved? And how tries? policies that display discrimination and compassion through. 3. Nearly 11,000 donors in 34 order of the Church … and to share with cause of the resistance to the polity and, boundaries of our polity. Because God can we, as the conference’s Rapid Each of us has an opportunity to unfairness when it comes to homo- The prophet Amos (5:24) echoes countries gave more than 16,300 other bishops in the oversight of the with the help of the Spirit, the inclusion continues to work with us, just as God Response and Immigration Ministry answer anew for the coming year. Let sexuality, it is heartbreaking to see this the same sentiment: “Let justice roll gifts through The Advance to mis- whole church.’ (Para 403.1.f) When there of women began. did in the Book of Acts, to extend grace Team, help? us all live 2014 in a way that reflects cherished church yet remain on the on like a river and righteousness like a sion and ministries they believe in. are violations of the Book of Discipline, Like so many things in life, the issue and love to all of humanity. It was in that Too many of our churches and doing justice, loving mercy and walk- sidelines as so many other sister and never-ending stream.” Global Ministries matched the first a response is required.” of obedience to the Book of Discipline early New Testament community of Acts pastors have been silent for too long ing humbly with our God. brother denominations officially march For further information about Open- $500,000 received. And yet, the situation may not be is not always as clear as the bishops’ that many argued against expanding the while our brothers and sisters suffer Reams pastors St. Luke UMC, Wal- down the field of justice and mercy. ings, its website is www.openingssc. Building on the recent U.S. quite as clear as their announcement sug- statement suggests. In matters of race, reach of the church to the uncircumcised. injustices caused by our own policies halla. For instance, the highest bodies of org. shopping traditions of Black gests. The implication of the statement is women’s rights and other issues, we But some dared to break the norm and Friday, Local Business Saturday that since we have rules, and bishops are have a history of the church being trans- discipline of the early church. And that’s and Cyber Monday, UMC #Giv- charged with upholding these rules (as formed by the shifting culture toward when God affirmed their disobedience as ingTuesday offered an opportunity Hands and Feet UMVIM to train team leaders are all elders), it is appropriate and right inclusion. Indeed, the church has been the Spirit descended upon the outsiders, to start the holiday season by giv- Weekend at United Methodist Volunteers in Spartanburg. that the rules be enforced so as to keep impacted positively when her leaders the ones declared unclean by some of the ing instead of getting. Mission-S.C. will hold a team leader The time is from 9:45 a.m. to 2:45 us aligned with our mission of making have stood against those positions that religious. I believe that same Spirit of Asbury Hills The Advance is The United training Saturday, Jan. 4. p.m., with a lunch break. disciples of Jesus Christ for the transfor- failed to recognize the equality and dissent is still moving today. Asbury Hills is gearing up for Methodist Church’s giving chan- its Hands and Feet Week- If you would like to become an The cost is $35, which includes a mation of the world. blessedness of all. So when I now consider a person nel that ensures that 100 percent of end, set for March 7-9. This UMVIM-SC team leader, the require- $20 Handbook. Lunch will be ordered, Consider, however, the very founda- And so here we are, a people who I’ve watched grow up in the love of the weekend is an opportunity each gift supports the project des- ments are that you 1) have been on an or we will take a lunch break (pay on tions of the Methodist community as proclaim that in Jesus the world is church coming and asking for a blessing for youth groups to learn ignated by the donor; it is a link UMVIM-SC mission trip; 2) receive the your own). a reluctant reform movement within transformed. But when it comes to as she and her beloved offer themselves how to be the hands and that connects the church in mis- feet of Christ while worship- endorsement of your team leader; and To pre-register, email Nick Elliott at the Church of England. John Wesley recognizing the sacred worth of persons in a holy covenant, who am I to prohibit sion. The Advance encompasses ing and enjoying fellowship 3) successfully complete team leader [email protected]. If there are less sought to abide by canon law within his in the LGBT community, we are see- them from the blessing of the church? I more than 850 Methodist-related together. Cost is $35 per training. than six participants or there is inclem- ecclesial tradition as he formed a people ing transformation take place outside of cannot. I will not. person. For more informa- projects, and 300+ missionaries. The training will be held at The ent weather, the class may cancelled, called Methodist. Our history reminds the church. Over the years perhaps we And that’s a trial I’m willing to bear. tion: www.asburyhills.org or Learn more: www.umcmission. Church of the Covenant United Meth- so organizers urge those interested to us, however, that he finally reached a will catch up with the culture in realiz- Ray pastors Clemson UMC, Clemson. 864-836-3711. org/give. odist Church, 9020 Asheville Hwy., pre-register. Page 14, January 2014 Education & Youth Advocate Advocate Education & Youth Page 15, January 2014 SMC and Epworth ‘Keeping Winthrop Wesley Foundation teams up with Rock Hill UMW ROCK HILL—It started with a simple the residents of Rock Hill’s Children’s vision meant not only increasing the house, as well as numerous games and MLK’s Dream Alive’ desire. Attention Home (a refuge for abused, scope of the event but also recruiting a activities for the Children’s Attention “I wanted us as a campus ministry abandoned, and/or neglected children). larger number of supporters. Home’s 45 children. The Rock Hill SPARTANBURG—Spartanburg Meth- to be more connectional,” said the Rev. However, as Howell started sharing “My hope was to overwhelm the kids District UMW cooked and served food odist College will be joining the nation Ricky Howell, director/campus minister his vision with his students and piecing with the number of fun things we had for the children and their supervisors. and pausing to remember and celebrate of the Wesley Foundation at Winthrop the event together, it quickly became for them to do,” he said. “I wanted them Howell said the event was a tremendous Martin Luther King Jr. on Monday, University. “Plenty of churches, groups, apparent that something grander than to be floored by the idea that a bunch success and has already considered Jan. 20—and in particular, one specific and individuals do stuff for us, but it’s the original plan was possible. of college students would take time to making it an annual tradition. quote from Dr. King: “Whatever affects not often that they do stuff with us. I “It began as a hope to do something do something special just for them. We “The kids loved it,” he said. “The one directly, affects all indirectly. I can wanted our college students to work special for a group of kids that needed needed more than just Winthrop Wesley volunteers loved it. Winthrop’s presi- never be what I ought to be until you are alongside other United Methodists to do to have some fun,” Howell said. “But students to make that happen, though.” dent came out to the event and she what you ought to be. This is the inter- something special for our community.” then I realized that I wanted it to be Howell began reaching out to other loved it, too. More importantly, though, related structure of reality.” After a conversation with the Rock more than that; I wanted it to be a student groups and encouraged his stu- God showed up in a big way. The King (1929-1968), a Baptist minis- Hill District United Methodist Women chance for those kids to experience the dents to make use of their connections smiles and laughter of the children, ter, was the best-known leader of the President Clara Horton, that simple love of God, and for college students to to bring other students and organiza- the hands that prepared and served the U.S. civil rights movement. The above The Big C Tour desire grew into a simple plan: for Win- experience being the communicators of tions on board. In the end, more 100 food, the busy students that gave of words from King echo SMC’s motto Landrum UMC, Landrum, hosted a youth event called the Big C Tour Oct. 20. Youth throp Wesley and the Rock Hill District that love.” student volunteers from 15 different their time and resources; God was easy “To Be! & To Do!” and are in in perfect from churches throughout this area participated. They were challenged to put their beliefs into action. The message for the evening was “Good Enough is not Good Enough.” UMW to jointly host a fall festival for According to Howell, achieving that student groups provided a bounce to see that day.” alignment with SMC’s partnership with Following the service, everyone moved to the Family Life Center for a time of fellow- Epworth Children’s Home, Columbia, ship. More events are in the planning stages. and their college-bound students. Some current Epworth/SMC students: Since 1896, Epworth Children’s Darien, Kassiem, Brittany and Brianna. Eagle Scout Court Home has been a place for children to of Honor grow, learn and be loved, without regard wouldn’t be as confident, prepared and Claflin University to begin First UMC, Clover, was the site to race, religion, national origin or abil- excited about life as I am,” said the for the Eagle Scout Court of ity to pay. Children across S.C., ages 59-year-old Ward, who is known to cart- Honor Ceremony held Oct. 19 online courses this summer for William Loren Gallien (Billy) 4 to 18, come to Epworth from broken wheel and do backflips spontaneously of Troop 37. Here, Billy stands family systems, and Epworth’s goal is down the halls of the Walker Building ORANGEBURG—Claflin University, Claflin professors.” with his two ministers, the Rev. to nurture and love them by providing where he teaches. one of four United Methodist colleges The 35 online summer courses, Drew Martin and the Rev. Tommy Wilkes. Eagle Scout Billy is an education, counseling, medical care and Epworth alumni Reisha Alston, class in this state, will launch online courses ranging from freshman English to an of 2008, received two degrees from active member of the A2J Youth spiritual enrichment by breaking the in summer 2014, and three degree pro- introduction to forensic science, are the Fellowship, a member of the destructive cycle of abuse, neglect and SMC, an Associate in Science and an grams will go fully online in the fall. culmination of years of planning and Youth Council, a member of the shame and replacing it with an opportu- Associate in Arts and currently works This gives students the opportunity to work by the university to move into the senior high Sunday school class, nity for each child to live a life of self- for Palmetto Health Children’s Hospital receive the Claflin academic experience online learning arena, said Dr. Anisah on the Salkehatchie Mission Team, a sound technician for the respect, responsibility and productivity. in Columbia. from anywhere at any time. Bagasra, co-chair of Claflin’s Distance Youth stock food pantry 11 a.m. worship service, a part of The United Methodist Youth Fellowship from Landrum UMC help maintain and stock the “Before arriving at Epworth, most “I’m 100 percent thankful to SMC,” Claflin University Provost Dr. Karl Education Committee and assistant pro- the Men’s Prayer Breakfast and Alston said. “Initially I did not want to church’s food pantry. Here, Emmalee, Skyler, Kaitlyn, Kailey, Ben, Rebecca and Jacob students did not expect to have the op- S. Wright said the online courses are in fessor of psychology at the University. a crucifer. stand with two Wal-Mart tellers who assisted with this month’s haul. The group shopped, portunity to attend college, for they did attend college, simply because I was response to the demand from current The online effort’s initial focus is on then stocked the shelves with everything they purchased. not grow up with a support system that 18 and wanted to ‘figure things out students. general courses, Claflin’s MBA program expected them to attend college,” said myself’; however, once I was an SMC “Entering the online education space and two degrees— criminal justice and Get dressed already! Grace North Augusta holds Youth Sunday Laurie Brandes, Epworth’s director of student, all the pieces fell into place. is consistent with our mission of being organizational management—through independent living. “Since the college Being at SMC was like leaving home to a student-oriented institution,” Wright the university’s Center for Professional By Karen Denny hey, I’m a youth director; I’m used to these aspects of our lives. formed a skit titled “Cover to Cover,” admission process is new to them, SMC stay with relatives—the family environ- said. “Beginning this summer, our stu- and Continuing Studies. strange looks! Our focus of the lesson This became our theme for our Youth explaining how useful the Bible can provides Kelly Tilllinghast as our very ment and love were real!” dents will have the flexibility of staying A complete list of online summer NORTH AUGUSTA—The youth of was Colossians 3:12, “Therefore as Sunday service. be in all areas of our lives. The youth own admission counselor; she holds Tameka Massey, also an Epworth at home, studying abroad or working on courses is available on the Claflin web- Grace United Methodist Church led the God’s chosen people, holy and dearly All aspects of the service were con- praise band, Seventh Day, led music. our students’ hands during the entire alum, graduated from SMC in 2007 an internship while taking courses by site at www.claflin.edu/cuonline. congregation in worship Nov. 10 during loved, clothe yourselves with compas- ducted by the youth, from greeters to Our church is blessed with talented process, making it a smooth transition. with an Associate in Arts with an em- the contemporary Lifesong Service. sion, kindness, humility, gentleness and sermon speakers to communion servers. and faithful youth; it was a great day to And every summer when I to come to phasis on social science, and went on At the United Methodist Youth Fel- patience.” After having the youth look Our sermons based on Colossians 3:12 see them serve the Lord and the church. orientation, it’s like a family reunion as to receive her bachelor’s degree from Wofford senior student-curates lowship meeting a couple weeks prior, at their strengths and weaknesses in were given by two of our senior girls, Denny is Director of Youth Ministries I introduce our new Epworth students to Columbia College and her MSW from I asked the youth to get dressed. This these five qualities, it became very clear Bronwyn Bigger and Alaina Miller. The at Grace. the SMC staff.” USC. Today she is a licensing coordina- ‘Sacred Spaces’ exhibition got me some really strange looks, but that, as Christians, we need to examine Grace UMC Youth Drama team per- Brandes noted Epworth is grateful tor with the Resource Family Program for the circle of support SMC gives to at the South Carolina Youth Advocate SPARTANBURG—Wofford College The South Carolina United Methodist Foundation’s Epworth students, saying SMC goes Program. senior Laura Levy has served as a the extra mile to make students suc- “When I look back at my life and student curator for the Johnson Collec- General Endowment Fund cessful and improve their quality of life where I’ve come from, I would have tion in Spartanburg for an exhibit called Benefits Eight United Methodist Institutions in South Carolina by providing unlimited meal plans and never imagined that I would be the “Sacred Spaces and Gathering Places.” Through One Channel of Giving! free laundry, since Epworth students are person that I am today,” Massey said. The exhibit will be open in down- Student honor society without transportation and have limited “Epworth Children’s Home and Spar- town Spartanburg through February. On Nov. 14, Harriett Clark, a member of Wesley The South Carolina United Methodist Foundation, Inc. financial resources. tanburg Methodist College will always Levy combined her work in a class UMC, Columbia, was one of 65 students inducted P.O. Box 5087 “There are more than 500,000 chil- hold a special place in my heart, and I on Religion in the American South into the Alpha Eta Kappa Chapter of Phi Theta Columbia, South Carolina 29250-5087 am forever grateful for the numerous taught by Dr. Ron Robinson, Perkins- Kapa Honor Society. Clark is a student at Midlands dren in foster care daily in the United Technical College in Columbia. In order to be invited States, yet less than 3 percent graduate opportunities that have been afforded to Prothro chaplain and professor of into the society you must have at least a 3.5 grade Enclosed is my/our gift of $______for the Foundation’s General Endowment college,” said SMC President Colleen me.” religion at Wofford. point average, and be nominated by the school or a Fund to benefit eight United Methodist institutions in South Carolina (Wofford Perry Keith. “It is the collective mis- Candice Sloan, SMC chaplain, said Levy, a Wofford student from faculty member. Clark has a 3.7 average. College, Columbia College, Claflin University, Spartanburg Methodist College, sion of SMC and Epworth Children’s currently SMC is home to five students Montgomery, Ala., who happens to Epworth Children’s Home, The Methodist Oaks, Wesley Commons, and The Home to change the life opportunity for from Epworth, four freshmen and one be Jewish, explained that the exhibit United Methodist Manor of the Pee Dee). students in these situations, one college sophomore, all of which are active on explores places where men and women We’re thankful degree at a time.” campus, participating in sports, drama can find connections with deepest This gift “in honor of” or “in memory of” (circle one): ______SMC’s Epworth students defy the and leadership organizations. spiritual connections in a wide variety for you! ______“It is exciting to watch these young of settings and practices. Paintings of odds. SMC Professor of Health and Your support has allowed Notify: ______Physical Education Barry Ward, was men and women who have received a churches and religious sites are obvious the Alston Wilkes Society to give ______fortunate to call Epworth home. Ward strong foundation at Epworth continue and abundant, but renderings of natural Your Name ______the gift of hope to so many needy earned his A.A. degree from SMC, his to grow and mature as they become beauty and human interaction can also Your Address ______B.S. from the University of South Caro- involved in the academic and social life communicate an artist’s sense of the families over the past 51 years, City ______State ______Zip ______lina, and his M.A. from Gardner Webb at SMC,” Sloan said. divine. helping them rebuild their lives. University. “We at Epworth are so grateful for Dr. David Erfurd and Johnson Col- The Foundation’s General Endowment Fund Represents “I was fortunate to be able to draw SMC and they are to be congratulated lection Internship Coordinator Sarah Wofford’s Laura Levy stands in front of one of the paintings in the exhibit she student- Connectional Giving At Its Best For The Present And The Future upon my experiences at Epworth and for the way in which they carry out the Tignor directed Levy’s work in the art curated: Wilson Henry Irvine (1869-1936), (Make checks payable to the Foundation.) build upon that foundation to motivate mission of Spartanburg Methodist Col- arena. Townscape (Charleston, South Carolina), www.alstonwilkessociety.org me academically and professionally. lege,” said Dr. John E. Holler, Epworth “My experience would not have been n.d., oil on canvas, 32 x 26 inches, The (803) 799-2490 Without Epworth and SMC I probably president. the same without their encouragement Johnson Collection, Spartanburg, S.C. 3519 Medical Drive, Columbia, SC 29203 You Are Invited To Leave A Legacy Through The Foundation. Page 16, January 2014 Education & Youth Advocate Advocate Ministries & Mission Page 17, January 2014 Mission Guatemala becomes the mission of Grace’s Bolivia Benefit Run helps missions

NORTH AUGUSTA—A 16-year-old- a little healthy competition at the same local high school students event organized by Grace United Meth- time. odist Church, the Bolivia Benefit Run/ This run is distinguished from others By Leigh Randall the children had prepared a celebration Walk provides a variety of important because it has personality. Seasoned in our honor. Flowers and decorations opportunities and is held in a scenic trail runners have talked about the unique- SIMPSONVILLE—Advent United were everywhere. It was humbling to in North Augusta each October. ness of the run, not only because of the Methodist Church embarked on its first- sit as guests of honor as children shared Two years after being a part of a prizes brought all the way back from ever international mission opportunity cultural dances and songs with us. mission group to Bolivia and seeing the Bolivia, but cheerleaders from local el- for high school seniors this summer; While in Tocache, we felt the love need there, missioners formed a group ementary, middle and high schools line Guatemala was the place we felt God’s of Christ in ways we never expected. to organize a benefit run. Not only did the trail to encourage the runners on. call to serve. One such way was through the sound of they feel it was important to support Jazzercise leaders warm up the children The Advent UMC Mission Guate- running water when the hand-washing the work financially, but they wanted to for the one-mile fun run with music mala Team of 14 began the journey by station was completed. Words cannot make the community aware of the mis- playing throughout the morning. flying from Atlanta to Guatemala City, describe the way God’s love moved sion project. Volunteers cheer on participants; they then boarded vans to travel the three- through the simple sound of water! What also happened was the run stuff bags, register runners on race day hour journey to Panajachel. Panajachel We felt Christ’s love most often from became a wonderful family activity. or work on the finish lines. A volunteer is a quaint city with cobblestone streets, the children of Tocache. One of the stu- Healthy lifestyles are promoted, and team member heads each work area of Tuk-Tuk taxis and shops that open onto dents said, “When the kids come up to athletes have a can-do attitude, which the run. Those areas include sponsors, the street. The city of Panajachel is Team members measure tiles as they work at Mission Guatemala. you and want to hug you, you can really is desired in service to others. Teaching registration, publicity, race logistics, located on the banks of Lake Atitlan. see God in their faces. They just want to children about helping others through T-shirts and race bags, refreshments and Mission Guatemala facility houses a In addition, we provided an after- Surrounding the lake are three non- love you, no matter what.” running serves a dual purpose: teaching awards. Many volunteers of all ages medical clinic with a doctor, a dental noon Bible school for the children of active volcanoes. The impact of our time serving in how to take care of your own body and look forward to the annual tradition and office and a preschool. Mission Guate- the village. We acted out stories from The beauty of God’s creation is Guatemala will have a lasting impact the importance of helping others. In ad- they call to offer their service before evident; the lake is more than 1,100 feet mala also provides a nutritional school the Bible, made crafts together, played on our team. One of our team members The Bolivia Benefit Run/Walk helps Grace’s mission to Bolivia. dition, they are experiencing the joy of lists are made. deep, and many Mayan villages and feeding system in a few of the schools soccer and other games and also wor- summed it up by saying, “This trip has towns rest nearby. The Mayan people in the region and is also working to shiped together. The children loved the really given me a heart for international are known for their incredible crafts- provide clean, constant water source for song “Cristo Me Ama” (Jesus Loves missions. It showed me that this life is Idea Exchange manship from creating tortillas to their schools. In addition, Mission Guate- Me), and the sound of their voices so much more than going to church in UMVIM worship service to feature Holston weaving of brightly colored scarves, mala is leading a healthy homes project blended with the voices of our team and the United States and so much more skirts, shirts, dresses, tapestries, head- to help provide a safe stove and a clean the accompaniment of a guitar could be than something that you keep to your- COLUMBIA—Missioners, save the Carolina mission-minded individuals. Shady Grove United Methodist bands and bracelets. There is an abun- water supply. heard throughout the village of To- self. This trip has encouraged me to date: United Methodist Volunteers in The service will be held at Virginia dance of agriculture found in the region. In the words of some of the students cache. share my faith and it’s inspired me to Mission-South Carolina is gearing up Wingard United Methodist Church, Co- Corn, beans and avocado are some of who served on this mission trip, “Mis- Our team of missionaries went to help others around the world.” for a worship service led by S.C. Resi- lumbia, at 3 p.m. April 13. A reception Church Food Bank, St. George the many crops that have grown well in sion Guatemala is newfound hope. It’s share the love of Christ with the people Advent’s senior class of 2014 is dent Bishop Jonathan Holston. honoring Holston will follow. I thank God for awakening me to His Words when He said, “When I was Guatemala. Agriculture and textiles are God on earth today. It’s a place you can of Guatemala, but the people of Guate- planning a second senior class trip to Holston was active in the North All UMVIM members, UMVIM hungry you fed me, when I was thirsty, you gave me drink.” It was this impetus in the main sources of income for the Ma- come to show God’s tangible love to mala shared the radical love of Christ Guatemala to serve with Mission Gua- Georgia Conference’s UMVIM and ERT members, Salkehatchie members the Book of Matthew that prompted me to start a food bank at our church for the yan people who live on approximately others. Mission Guatemala is the Lord’s with us. We felt it many times dur- temala in the summer of 2014. Early Response Team groups and is and all members of church outreach needy. $1 per day. love in action.” ing the week, especially on our final Randall is director of Student Minis- interested in getting to know all South committees are encouraged to attend. It wasn’t difficult to solicit the assistance of 13 other willing volunteers who Our group worked with the United Our team worked in the village of workday when we arrived to find that tries at Advent UMC, Simpsonville. Methodist Volunteers in Mission site Tocache to help provide a constant, caught the vision and saw the need of the hunger in our community. They, too, un- called Mission Guatemala. Founded clean water supply by completing a derstood that God wanted us to be our brother’s keepers, and that He did not help in the spring of 2009 by the Rev. Tom tower water tank and filtration system us for us not to help others. Heaton, Mission Guatemala exists and hand-washing station with eight Therefore, with avid planning, hard work and pooling of our individual re- to help the poor of Guatemala. The faucets. sources, we organized the Shady Grove United Methodist Church Food Bank in February 2013. Proudly, we have distributed food to 130-plus families on the fourth Saturday of each month. Our goal going forward is to extend this to twice a month on an emergency basis, as we have witnessed an ever-increasing need for this service. My heart is full when I recall a comment from one of my volunteers who said that being a part of the food bank has given her a closeness with God that she could not have ever envisioned. I truly think James 2:14-18 sums it all up when it says, “What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace, be warmed and filled,’ without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not works, is dead. But someone will say, ‘You have faith and I have works.’ Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works.” —Jestine Stephens Page 18, January 2014 Ministries & Mission Advocate Advocate Ministries & Mission Page 19, January 2014 Trinity Bamberg UMWomen: Turning faith, hope, love into action Winthrop Wesley CROP Walk combats hunger hosts reception The Winthrop Wesley Foundation, quarter of a century. The York County Brought to the Rock Hill area by the and the communities surrounding Rock the United Methodist campus ministry CROP Walk, now in its 36th year, has late Rev. Risher Brabham (longtime Hill and York,” said the Rev. Ricky by Mary Agnes Jenkins for Watson’s at Winthrop University in Rock Hill, raised close to $700,000 and is the old- director of the Winthrop Wesley Foun- Howell, current director/campus minis- recently sponsored a CROP Walk aimed est CROP Hunger Walk in S.C. dation), both York County CROP Walks ter of the Winthrop Wesley Foundation. UMW Legislative Day memoirs at combating hunger in the Rock Hill York County sponsors the original have been coordinated by Winthrop “Winthrop students, faculty, and staff community and around the world. walk in Rock Hill and a walk in York. Wesley directors since their inceptions. are joined by local churches, school BAMBERG— Described by parent organization Money and canned food collected at “The York County CROP Walks are groups and individuals, all for the n Tuesday, Feb. 18, United overview of children’s education. There than Holston who will speak on “What The home Church World Service as “a charitable the events support the hunger-fighting important Winthrop Wesley traditions purpose of doing something bigger than Methodist Women from will be three workshops for participants the Church is and Should Be Doing to church of Dr. walking event,” CROP Hunger Walk efforts of local agencies, as well as and key components of our ministry, ourselves. A lot of people come together across South Carolina will to choose from: “Building Education Educate Our Children.” Mike Watson, has been part of the Winthrop Wesley Church World Service’s efforts to com- but they have also helped to establish to make the events successful; Winthrop gather in Columbia for their Resources Using the Assets of Disad- The day will end with tours of Ep- founder of Oannual Legislative Day on the campus vantaged Communities,” with Rev. Bill worth for anyone who wishes to do so. Foundation’s ministry for more than a bat hunger and poverty globally. bridges between our ministry, Winthrop Wesley is proud to be a part of them.” United Meth- of Epworth Children’s Home. We have Stansfield, chairperson of Metanoia, a The registration fee is $20 (includes odist Volun- also extended invitations to all the faith-based education outreach pro- materials, lunch and parking) with a teers in Mis- member of the S.C. House of Represen- gram in Chicora neighborhood, North postmark deadline of Feb. 8; there will sion, will host Grace Pickens confirms 20 young people tatives and the Senate. Charleston; “Educational Advocacy,” be a $10 fee for late registration after a reception By Phyllis Mann A variety of meaningful events infused with fun— pated as “friends in faith” mentors. The church setting Our focus this year is “Educating led by Craig Stine, public policy and this date. There will be no on-site reg- to celebrate and opportunities to build valuable relationships—in- provided a time for serious prayer and reflection in the All of our Children.” Epworth Chil- research manager for Public Education istration; space is limited to 400 attend- publication of PICKENS—Twenty young people confirmed their cluded a trip to Lake Junaluska, N.C., which provided sanctuary that evening. dren’s Home is the perfect setting for Partners, Greenville; and “Mentoring: ees. The registration form is available in his memoirs upon the occasion of his faith in Jesus Christ and were joyfully welcomed into a serene place to experience prayerful study and learn The girls made a nest in the Adult Fellowship such an undertaking. We are please to Making a Difference in the Classroom,” each district or at www.umcsc.org/umw. 88th birthday. membership at Grace United Methodist Church Nov. about John Wesley and Methodism,” said the Rev. classroom while the boys enjoyed camping in the again have the American Association of facilitated by Michelle Major, from This event is just another avenue for The reception will be held at Trin- 24. James McCoy-Bruce. “It not only contains artifacts fellowship hall. The next morning they ended with University Women of South Carolina Richland/Lexington School District 5. the UMW to put into practice the mean- ity United Methodist Church, Bam- The Revs. James McCoy-Bruce and Ashley Mc- from the early years of Methodism but also contains the service of Holy Communion, with the pastors and Church Women United for being During the working lunch, Ellie ing of faith, hope and love in action. berg, Jan. 19 from 3-4 p.m. Coy-Bruce led this unusually large group of young Biblical artifacts and other items relevant to our explaining the meaning and the different parts of the co-sponsors with us. Setser of the American Association Save the date, Feb. 18, and meet us at Watson’s memoirs are published people in a thorough exploration of faith, worship, Christian tradition.” service, specifically about worship and the sacraments The day begins with registration of University Women of South Caro- Epworth Children’s Home, Columbia. in two volumes. “The Cloud Chaser: prayer, Baptism, Bible study and United Methodism. The confirmands also meandered through the out- of Baptism and Communion. from 9 to 9:30 a.m. The Rev. John Hol- lina will give a legislative update. The Jenkins is the Social Action Coordi- A Physician’s Early Adventures” The class met on Sunday mornings for three months. door prayer labyrinth. On the way home they stopped These young people grew in their faith during this ler, president of Epworth, will give an keynote speaker will be Bishop Jona- nator for the UMW. focuses on his early childhood dur- An overnight lock-in at the church and a field trip at Justus Orchards in Hendersonville to enjoy apple once-in-a-lifetime time of study and reflection about ing the Great Depression, military allowed even more time for fun and fellowship while cider and apple donuts, along with their petting zoo. God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. They strengthened re- life as a Marine and medical train- learning all about Christian faith and the church. The The overnight lock-in provided a healthy balance lationships with each other and with church members ing, including a very personal view pastors’ two children were members of the confirma- of fun and interaction while learning about faith, of all ages. of the polio epidemic. “Catching the tion class and confirmed their faith along with the prayer, journaling and many different ways to experi- An adult membership class was also held, resulting Clouds, A Physician’s Purpose Filled others. ence God. About a dozen church members partici- in several parents, siblings and other adults joining. Life” captures his experiences as a physician and missionary both in his local county of Bamberg and reach- New program helps Lake Junaluska ‘make friends’ ing beyond through the founding of UMVIM. By Tita Parham The Friends of the Lake program just really wanted to be part of that and lieve in supporting this community and As an advocate for the rural poor launched last year to raise money for have Champion Supply associated with (programs) like Friends of the Lake that and a tireless promoter of equality of LAKE JUNALUSKA, N.C.—When maintenance of Lake Junaluska’s recre- the lake.” work to maintain our beautiful area.” education and desegregation, Watson Bruce Johnson moved to Lake Junalus- ational facilities, said Melissa Aldridge, So did Champion Credit Union, and That support, Grindstaff says, is a is an avid United Methodist, a nation- ka 17 years ago, it didn’t take long for a Lake Junaluska staff member. That this year, it sponsored the Friends of the way the credit union can help sustain ally honored visionary and one of him and his family to discover the lake. includes areas like the walking trail Lake Golf Tournament. “a vital piece of the community” for the Palmetto State’s most celebrated “We jog the paths and ride our bikes and tennis, shuffleboard and volleyball “We have been part of this communi- local merchants, who benefit from an Photo by Jessica Connor physicians. and go fishing there,” he said. “I think courts. ty for 81 years and consider our mem- increase in visitors attending Lake Ju- Conference staffers trim trees for shut-ins The books will be available at the (for) my kids, when they look back, “The total cost of maintaining the bers and the citizens of Western North naluska’s camps and retreats, and area Staffers at the S.C. UMC Conference Center use their annual Christmas luncheon as an opportunity to do some good for its neighbors. reception and are sold by Trinity, the lake will be a big part of what they grounds …is more than $250,000 annu- Carolina our family,” said Noralynn residents. At their party Dec. 10, staffers decorated miniature Christmas trees with festive ornaments and candy, then sent them to College Place which benefits from the proceeds. For remember about their childhood.” ally,” Aldridge said. “The program will Grindstaff, the credit union’s marketing For more on sponsoring: www.lake UMC, Columbia, for delivery to homebound ill and elderly members of the church. Here, the Rev. Sara White and the Rev. Millie Nelson Johnson says a highlight for him help Lake Junaluska remain a beautiful and communications manager. “We be- junaluska.com/friends-of-the-lake. Smith (left) and Tammy Fulmer and Veronica Williams (right) trim their trees. more information: trinity.bamberg@ umcsc.org or 803-245-4275. is the annual Easter run. “That replace for people to come and recreate.” ally represents what (Lake Junaluska) Johnson, who attends First United is about,” he said. “(It’s) celebrating Methodist Church in Waynesville, says Easter, but it also means gathering as a he wanted his business to be part of Celebrating Local Church Missions family and doing things together.” that. The Advocate That’s one reason Johnson has made “The lake is known regionally for Editor’s note: At Annual Conference 2013, the inaugural Celebrating Local Church Mission Luncheon recognized ministry and missions that local churches his business, Champion Supply in the character of what it stands for in Legacy Society nearby Asheville, a Friends of the Lake support of community,” he said. “And I are actively involved in. From the 24 churches responding, the conference’s Lay Leadership group learned of approximately 100 ways S.C. UMC brothers and Assuring Christian journalism for tomorrow sisters are spreading the Gospel and love of Christ through reaching out to address the needs of others. The next few issues of the Advocate share more informa- corporate sponsor. tion about these ministries. This month, we showcase St. Andrew By-The-Sea United Methodist Church, Hilton Head Island, and Trinity UMC, York. St. Andrew By-The-Sea UMC, Hilton Head Island In June 1837, 176 years ago, the Advocate began inspiring St. Andrew By-The-Sea supports multiple mission projects. The church sent and informing Christians United Methodist Volunteers in Mission teams to Panama, to UMCOR’s Sager throughout the South. Brown and to North Carolina to help in the aftermath of Hurricane Irene. The church’s United Methodist Women made an Ubuntu Journey to Hong Today, the award-winning, Laurel Greif, St. Andrew youth Kong and China. minister Dan Griswold and highly respected newspaper Locally, the church is involved with the Etill School Tutoring Program Rhett Thompson perform a continues its mission of (where kids come to Hilton Head and the beach), Back Pack Buddies (an ecu- Bible school skit for the chil- connecting United Methodists menical mission project on Hilton Head), Salkehatchie Summer Service and dren of Cientaguta, Panama. A return trip this past summer by independently reporting their every-Friday St. Andrew’s Soup Kitchen. involved working with the They also host an annual Community Thanksgiving Dinner. Ngobe Indians of Panama. news, engaging readers and providing a forum for dialogue Trinity UMC, York – both in print and online. Trinity UMC has sent seven mission teams to Sager Brown in Baldwin, La., Trinity missioners carried 500 school bags, 150 health kits and 15 hand- since 2004. knitted baby sweaters and baby blankets. Team members worked hard and also For the trips, the women of the church sewed more than 2,000 school bags had time for some fun excursions. They also had the opportunity to pack a huge Consider including the Advocate during the past three years, not counting this year’s 400 bags sewed prior An- container that was going to the Ukraine, something they had never done before. in your will or other estate planning. nual Conference 2013. They actually ended up with 500 school bags that were They said it was a moving experience, taking about two hours to load with four taken on the 2013 Sager Brown visit, which included 19 persons who made the teams taking turns. At the conclusion, missioners held hands, blessed the ship- 803-786-9486 | [email protected] | AdvocateSC.org trip. ment and sang the Doxology. Page 20, January 2014 Health & Fitness Advocate Advocate Other News Page 21, January 2014 The Congregational The Journey UM youth basketball What If? Development Question Resource

by the Rev. David L. Anderson tourney is this month by the Rev. Sara White Center

Don’t be overwhelmed NORTH AUGUSTA—Youth ballplay- The Worship Team includes Holston, by Betty Stalnaker ers are gearing up for the annual S.C. Greenwood District Superintendent the Difficulties do not define the future Editor’s note: S.C. Conference Ben- are things I find surprising: loneliness, Conference Youth Basketball Tourna- Rev. James Friday and the Revs. Jim hat if a long hard look It was helpful that the meeting place the community in the way the group efits Officer Anderson attended Pfei- tiredness, boredom, stress, social situa- ment, set for Jan. 24-26. Dennis, Alice Deal and Tyler Strange. presents first potential was a high school, for when you look envisioned. Top 7 in 2013 ffer’s Clergy Health Institute at Lake tions and anxiety. There are others that Registration continues for the event, The tournament will be held in 10 and possibilities, then around the gathering on Sunday morn- What made it difficult? Did they re- Junaluska and made a commitment to do not apply to me, such as depression, to be held at Grace United Methodist gyms in North Augusta. The champion- challenges? ing, there is a distinct feel of energy and ally need more space? They were close special thank you to all our improve himself through healthy eating, but I think understanding what causes Church, North Augusta, with support ship games on Sunday afternoon will be WA few months ago, I shared the anticipation that feels very young adult. to the 80 percent rule—when newcom- members of the Resource exercise and other lifestyle changes. us to eat helps us manage our eating from Belvedere UMC. at Riverview Park Recreational Facility stories of Good Samaritan and Ashley The potential for numerical growth is ers enter a space that is more than 80 Center. We hope these This is the next installment in his ongo- habits. The tournament will honor retired in North Augusta. Ridge new church plants. That particu- very strong for this new church plant. percent full, they feel there is no room and other resources have ing health journey. What I am referring to is things United Methodist pastor the Rev. Bob Churches wishing to enter a team lar article focused on the Good Samari- The first ministries of the young for them. So more space would be Abeen helpful in your church ministry was thinking yesterday about like changing where we eat. I know I Stillwell who, with Mitch Milford, (senior girls, senior boys, junior girls tan history as a “reboot” and those church plant were mission in the lo- good, but you don’t build a building or throughout the year. what is happening here. I thought, used to eat while sitting at my desk. helped in 1977 to shepherd today’s or junior boys) should visit www. implications as the congregation moved cal community and student ministries add a service just to add numbers. If you would like your church to “What was I thinking? What made I changed my work environment and tournament. S.C. Resident Bishop scmethodistbasketball.org for more forward as a conference project. Both across the educational age range spec- And that’s what made it difficult: become a member and have access to me think I could do all that I have made my computer a standing worksta- Jonathan Holston will be the Sunday information, or call Doris Seals at 803- Good Samaritan and Ashley Ridge were trum. The group still meets in the high You have to have an overriding rea- these resources, give me a call, I’ll be Ischeduled?” tion. This helps me get a little more morning worship speaker. 786-9486, ext. 317. in the process of starting second wor- school, but they have long rented space son that makes it possible to embrace glad to assist you. I have all the Christmas activities exercise, plus I do not have room on ship services and that was the shared for a student center to house the smaller adding more work to volunteers; that Listed below are the most used at the church, the enrollment of all the the station for things such as a snack. dynamic for the congregations. gatherings of teenagers and younger makes it possible to consider the adjust- resources in 2013. “The Journey” by Medicare-eligible retirees into the new This is using the energy I used to spend I promised a fuller word on Ashley students. The pastor of Ashley Ridge, ments that will be necessary if you fill Adam Hamilton has been #1 for three retiree health plan, the enrollment of all snacking into a more healthful alterna- Ridge, and I’d like to fulfill that prom- the Rev. Jenn Williams, describes the up another service with the same num- years. Seven other titles have remained the part-time clergy and their churches tive. ise. Ashley Ridge began as a “mother- plan for the student ministries as “big ber as the first. After all, there is a big in the top 9 for several years. Check out in the new pension plan, the input of I also found I was snacking when I daughter” project of Bethany UMC in to small”—basically calling for larger difference in how you do ministry with our website for all available titles. all new salaries for all the clergy in the watched television. This created a more Summerville. It’s located in the Ashley gatherings that break into smaller, more 260 and 550. Annual Conference, planning Christmas problematic situation. First, I started Ridge High School and literally is in intense opportunities for connection. What changes will happen naturally Resource Center’s top 7 DVD re- with my family, singing in the Palmetto journaling when I was having those the middle of the piney woods—that The possibilities for making a differ- and what changes will be planned is a sources used in 2013: Mastersingers with at least four Christ- cravings for snacks. I looked at those is, if the piney woods had scattered ence in the community are huge when huge question for groups working with 1. “The Journey” (#1 for three years) mas/Epiphany concerts and attending journal entries and found that when the neighborhoods and the infrastructure in you connect teenagers and then offer growth issues. Ultimately for Ashley 2. “24 Hours That Changed the the BMW Performance Driving School cravings were the strongest was when I place to support many others. The area them the chance to go deeper. Ridge and other congregations, the final World” (top three for 3 years) and in Greer (something from my bucket was watching shows or football games will probably reach full growth in the This fall Ashley Ridge, after a long answer seems to be that a new place “The Way: Walking in the Footsteps of list). that were boring. So I changed what next few years, but the faith community period of prayer and discernment, must be created for the people who are Jesus” Now, do not get me wrong, I love I watched, and the cravings were not of Ashley Ridge has taken the church moved to two worship services a new to Jesus or the neighborhood. 3. “A Different Kind of Christmas” each and every one of these activi- there. to the new residents rather than wait Sunday. It was not an easy decision to White is the director of congrega- (top five for two years) ties, but when we look at them in their I also changed how I responded to for the new residents to find its doors. make but was necessary for reaching tional development for the conference. 4. “Forgiveness: Finding Peace entirety, they can seem overwhelming. those cravings. Rather than eat an entire through Letting Go” (top four for two This creates stress, and one of the ways bag of snacks, I would set out a portion years) and “What Does it Mean to be I have traditionally dealt with stress is in accordance with the portion size on United Methodist?” (top four for four St. Paul health screening years) to overeat. the nutrition label. St. Paul UMC sponsored a Community Health Screening on Nov. 15, in partnership with I did make it through Thanksgiving Also, in social situations, I found that Williamsburg County Regional Hospital. Twenty students led by Dr. Petra Warren and Sena 5. “A Christmas Carol Bible Study” with all the goodies and cooking, and the hosts are almost always understand- Mazzoleni from the VCOM Medical School, Spartanburg, came to the church to provide free (top five for two years) only gained one pound. (I really think ing of dietary needs and are accommo- medical screenings for the community. More than 40 persons were screened for body mass 6. “Not a Fan: Becoming a Com- index, high blood pressure, vision, cholesterol, skin and musculoskeletal issues. Free flu pletely Committed Follower of Jesus,” that may have been water retention.) I dating. shots were also given to all participants. even cooked (smoked the turkey and Sometimes when we say we cannot “Christianity and World Religions” (top a pork loin) for the extended family. I avoid the bad foods, the problem is us seven for three years) or “When Chris- plan to cook for our family Christmas rather than the situation. The old saying tians Get it Wrong” meal also. I think I have turned the goes, “Know thyself.” 7. “Gideon,” “If You Want to Walk corner and can resist the temptation of I will address some of the other on Water, You’ve Got to Get Out of the the food while preparing it. reasons in future columns, but remem- Boat” (top nine for four years), “Mak- And I have come to realize why I ber the quote from Jack Ewing, CEO of ing Love Last a Lifetime” and “The eat is not always because I am hungry. Lake Junaluska, when he said, “Eat for Christmas Experience” There are certain triggers that I respond your health and not just for your own The S.C. Conference Resource Cen- to by eating. Some of those triggers enjoyment!” ter is your connection to VHS tapes, DVDs and seasonal musicals. We are here to serve your church family. To reserve resources, call 888-678-6272 $1 or visit www.umcsc.org/resourcecenter. 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Columbia District were the featured guests of Trinity The Music Ministry of Union UMC, UMC, Darlington, Dec. 22. The con- St. Paul’s UMMen dedicate public pavilion Irmo, presented “A Joyful Sight” Dec. cert, open and free to the community, encompassed traditional Christmas car- 19. The concert of holiday music fea- By Bill Barnier were times we didn’t have what we needed to move ols, as well as seasonal favorites. tured both familiar carols and new piec- forward. But He never failed us.” es for today’s foremost composers of RIDGELAND—On Oct. 27, the St. Paul’s United Ed Baron, construction boss and overall recipi- sacred choral work and was performed Marion District Methodist Men’s Club dedicated and opened their ent of tons of good-natured abuse from his volunteer by a 45-member choir and guest musi- First UMC, Conway, presented new picnic pavilion after more than three years of work force, said, “When club funds ran short and we cians from the S.C. Philharmonic. Candlelight Advent Concerts with construction. needed materials, we would raise a few bucks selling Bethel UMC, Winnsboro, partici- members of Long Bay Symphony on Following the Sunday service, Dr. Alan Shifflett, spaghetti dinners. Soon someone would offer sheet- pated in a Christmas cantata with the Sundays in Advent. The concerts were pastor of St. Paul’s, dedicated the kitchen and covered rock or wire, a used stove or a dishwasher. We all Greenbrier Fellowship of Churches offered free to the community as a time picnic area saying that the project reflects what a few found construction items at home too. Someone gave Dec. 22. The cantata was hosted by St. to set ourselves apart from the rush of good men can do when they put God in their hearts us a full set of nice kitchen cabinets and one even Luke Missionary Baptist Church, and the secular world. and their backs to the task. showed up with a crew and a concrete truck to pour Rev. Terry Roof was the guest preacher. “Everything we have in this world belongs to concrete for the outdoor seating area.” Rev. John Thompson was guest Orangeburg District God,” Shifflett said. “He wants us to use His gifts in Though ready for use, there are a few items re- preacher for a service at Bethel UMC, First in Clover celebrates Homecoming His service and this facility will serve this church and maining to be completed before the pavilion is ready The Williston UMC, Williston, Winnsboro, Christmas Eve. First UMC, Clover, celebrated their Homecoming Sept. 29. The sanctuary was the Ridgeland community as a reflection of God’s On Oct. 27, the St. Paul’s United Methodist Men’s Club for community use. overflowing. In addition to the sanctuary, the service was shown in the Missions and council voted that one of its four Christ- dedicated and opened their new picnic pavilion after more Washington Street UMC, Colum- love.” “We tested it today with a shrimp boil for the con- Fellowship Center. Former ministers, including the Rev. Don Cavin, the Rev. Irvin mas financial gifts should be designated than three years of construction. bia, joined other Columbia churches in The picnic pavilion was an idea the men’s club gregation,” said Malphrus. “We still have a few items Plowden and the Rev. Dick Gibson, were invited to be part of the service. A covered for UMCOR disaster relief, and the ringing their bells 26 times Dec. 14 in dish meal was shared after the service. came up with more than four years ago when the commercial cooler and icemaker and a covered out- to be finished over the next few weeks, and we will be church treasurer was asked to send the remembrance of the children and teach- group decided that the area of land next to the church door picnic seating for 60 people. cooking nearly 130 Boston Butts near Christmas. The $2,000 gift on UMC #GivingTuesday ers killed in Newtown, Conn. hall was not being used to benefit the many missions Men’s club president Bobby Dale Malphrus Methodist cross and Methodist Men’s club banner Dec. 3, thus doubling the church’s Rebecca Neal Tompkins, wife of the warm meals to those in need. At this The church continues to minister to the of the church. They envisioned a place outdoors thanked the many supporters who gave money to will be painted above the door so folks will remember gift. He did, and thus the congregation Rev. Jonathan Tompkins, has been hired time more than 35 free coats and blan- Presbyterian College School of Phar- where people could gather for fellowship or church start the project and gave special thanks to the men they’re still at church.” ultimately gave $4,000 to UMCOR di- at Forest Acres Payroll, a firm special- kets were distributed as well. The Coat macy students. United Methodist Men events and not overflow into the sanctuary, or a place who gave hundreds of hours of labor and construction Once the “punch list” is completed, the pavilion saster. izing in church payroll services. Tomp- and Blanket Giveaway is open every hosted a “Pancake Study Break” sup- where neighbors could sit to watch kids play basket- experience to make the idea a reality. In presenting will be available to the community for family gath- kins is the pastor of Travelers Rest Sunday afternoon through the month per just before semester exams. More ball or use the playground. It soon developed into a plaques to hang on the Men’s club wall, Malphrus erings, casual meetings or as overflow seating for UMC, Travelers Rest. of December. Knitted hats made by than 40 students attended. Additionally, Rock Hill District full commercial size kitchen, restroom, prep table, said, “We didn’t always agree on everything and there church activities. Langston House residents are included the UMW has provided light breakfast Congratulations to the Rev. Emily Greenwood District in the giveaway. Project W.A.R.M. foods for the weekly early morning and Marc Sutton on the birth of their Willimon to preach at Advent in Jan. On Thanksgiving Day Broad Street workdays were Dec. 27- 28. This is the Bible study at the school. daughter. Isabella Kaye Sutton was Buncombe St. to host Jack Jezreel UMC, Clinton, hosted the eighth an- Weatherization And Repair Mission that born Nov. 27. Rev. Sutton is the pastor SIMPSONVILLE—Advent United tion: The Surprising Overlap of Heaven GREENVILLE— Jack Jezreel, founder buffet dinner and Jezreel’s first presen- nual community Thanksgiving dinner. last year made repairs on 20 homes. Hartsville District of Bethel-Philadelphia Charge, Rock Methodist Church will host retired and Earth.” On Jan. 13 at 9:30 a.m., and president of JustFaith Ministries, tation on perhaps the single best-known More than 50 volunteers serve 450 This year 18 homes have been selected. The Market Street Brass ensemble Hill. Bishop William Willimon in January. Willimon will present “Preaching as will give two provocative presentations hymn in the Christian lexicon, “Amaz- Willimon will preach all three ser- Epiphany: The Miracle of Preaching.” on what a vibrant local church might ing Grace,” and how it speaks to faith, vices Sunday, Jan. 12 (8:30, 9:55, and A Greenville native, Willimon served look like in the 21st century when Bun- spirituality and compassion. Bethel UMC holds groundbreaking for new church 11:15 a.m.). Then on Sunday at 6 p.m., as pastor of churches in Georgia and combe Street United Methodist Church Saturday starts at 8:30 a.m. with cof- he will lecture on “Incarnation: God South Carolina and has authored more hosts him Jan. 17-18. fee, doughnuts, Jezreel’s presentation SMOAKS—There was excitement in After, Dr. George Watson offered an with Us,” offering thoughts and discus- than 70 books. Cost is $10. and a Q&A. the air Nov. 17 as the members, visitors invocation to all. sion around his latest book, “Incarna- For information: 864-288-8217. Friday evening opens at 5:30 with a For more: [email protected]. and friends of Bethel United Methodist Walterboro District Superintendent Church gathered for a groundbreaking the Rev. Thomas Pearson Jr. read a ceremony for their new church. scripture from Genesis 28:10-22 and The Rev. Jimmy Washington, pastor gave a message on Jacob’s dream and of Bethel UMC, opened the ceremony belief that he was in the House of God, stating, “God has brought us to this which Jacob named Bethel. time and place. As we break ground to- In addition to Washington, Pearson day, we take this first step in the actual and Watson, program participants in- construction of a new building for the cluded Lamont Hodges, Robert Jenkins, worship of God and the study of His James Evans, Marvin Brown and Shar- Word. He has led us to this site, heard lene Hodges. The program culminated Official Board President Lamont Hodges (from left), Walterboro District Superintendent the our prayers, blessed our gifts, guided with expressions of commitment and Rev. Thomas Pearson Jr., Dr. George Watson, Bethel pastor the Rev. Jimmy Washington, our plans and will provide needed wis- prayer for everyone, the new church Building Committee Chair Robert Jenkins and Architect/Contractor James Evans gather at dom to complete this facility.” and its location. Bethel’s groundbreaking. Dancing the night away First UMC, Cheraw, held a fun-filled fundraiser recently that raised more than $450 for the pastor’s discretionary fund. Organized by the Ezer Sunday school class, more than 50 people of all ages danced away the night. “It was a good event that will help many St. Paul’s to EMS: people in our community,” said the Rev. Kurt McPherson.

Thanksgiving dinner is on us CUMC’s By Bill Barnier Praise Dancers mesmerize eBook now available! RIDEGLAND—The members of St. worshipers Paul’s United Methodist Church once as they again recognized the service and sacri- perform fice of their Jasper County Emergency “Take Me only $7.99 to the Service, fire, EMS and law enforce- King.” ment personnel who were on duty this Thanksgiving by providing a complete Cumberland hosts homecoming hot turkey dinner. Order hard copy and As in the past, 30 hot meals, com- FLORENCE—Cumberland United was a spirit-filled Sunday morning plete with dressing, green beans, sweet Methodist Church celebrated its inau- worship service with singing, praise eBook online potatoes and dessert, were prepared by gural Homecoming Nov. 29 to Dec. 1 dancing and preaching by a dynamic at AdvocateSC.org or church members, while turkey was pro- with a special “Reconnect, Recommit, guest speaker, Dr. John W. Heyward. call vide by a local restaurant. Meals were Remember” celebration. Heyward is a son of Cumberland and a 888-678-6272x335 picked up at the church activity hall Emergency Services members take a mo- The celebration started Friday eve- former S.C. district superintendent. An by firefighters in emergency vehicles ment with St. Paul’s youth member Sofia ning Nov. 29 with a “mix and mingle” Air Force chaplain who retired at the Davis during the Thanksgiving meal pick-up. and taken to the firehouse and dispatch of church family and friends. The next rank of colonel, he is also a retired elder center for those manning radios. our best,” said St. Paul’s Pastor Dr. Al day, Cumberland continued its celebra- from the Missouri Annual Conference Ridgeland City Police joined servers Shifflett in a letter to the departments. tion with games, a silent auction, photo of the UMC. at the church Thanksgiving table. “By offering aid, service, compassion, opportunities, line dancing and a meal Cumberland’s homecoming celebra- “Public safety workers often see advice or direction you reflect the very of barbequed meats and trimmings. tion was held under the leadership of its or hear from us when we are not at virtues that God asks of all of us.” The homecoming celebration finale pastor, the Rev. Anthony Hodge. Page 24, January 2014 District & Local News Advocate Advocate History Page 25, January 2014 Church of the Palms selected as VBS training host church Methodism Revisited OKATIE—Church of the Palms United Methodist any denomination. Group Publishing who share hands-on-training that From the Archives Church has been selected by Group Publishing as The “Wilderness Escape” theme uses the story of gives practical pointers on everything from fundrais- one of 21 churches across the U.S. to host a Vaca- the Exodus to help children learn that God guides and ing to recruiting. Registration for the training event Rev. Bob Huggins tion Bible School Funshop training event. The event provides. Kids caravan through the wilderness with starts in Jan. 2014. Dr. Phillip Stone, conference archivist will be held on March 22 at Church of the Palms to Moses and the Israelites in a one-of-a-kind Bible- For more on the event, call 843-379-1888. Learn provide training for the “Wilderness Escape” theme. times experience. more about Group VBS and the Wilderness Escape at One of the best in the world This workshop is open to all interested churches of The training event features VBS veterans from www.group.com/vbs/wilderness-escape. Putting the archives online bel Stevens writes in his 2, 1785, at Lovely Lane Chapel in Balti- book, “History of the Meth- more, Md., along with Richard Allen. He t’s not unusual to get a call or Some smaller books and pam- odist Episcopal Church in the and Allen were permitted to observe but email message from a Meth- phlets have gone online, with more St. Paul UMW pay tribute to outstanding members United States,” “Those who not vote on any of the items before the odist history researcher who to come. And we’ve got a series of Aheard (Harry) Hosier preach found him conference. wants to know if all of the about 40 historical addresses pre- ELLIOTT—The St. Paul United his students and teachers was perfect hard to forget.” Like most preachers of his era, Hosier Iarchives are online. The rise of sented at the Conference Historical Methodist Women paid special tribute attendance. He maintained perfect Dr. Benjamin Rush (1745-1813), a appealed directly to the heart in an at- Ancestry.com and other geneal- Society available, as well. We’re and recognition to two persons who attendance from elementary school signer of the Declaration of Indepen- tempt to convince his listeners of their ogy websites have certainly raised gradually working on getting several have given and continue to give of throughout his career to retirement. dence from the state of Pennsylvania, a sins and persuade them that they needed expectations that researchers will other books about South Carolina their service, time, talents and re- Special mission recognition was physician, writer, educator and humani- to repent. He was especially famous for be able to find anything they like Methodism online. sources to the church and community. also presented to Dorothy James tarian, as well as the founder of Dickson his ability to bring his audience to a cli- with a quick Internet search from the Our index of obituaries published The UMW donated a monetary McFadden, who serves the UMW as College in Carlisle, Pa., acknowledged mactic pitch of emotional tension. Many comfort of their own home. in the Advocate since 1837 has gift to mission in honor of Alfred chairperson of membership, nurture “making allowances for his illiteracy he preachers, both black and white, lacked Of course, the truth is, getting proven to be one of our most-used S. McFadden. McFadden was born, and outreach. She is also the outreach was the greatest orator in America.” formal education in those days, so Ho- records online can be a time-con- databases. reared and received his formal educa- chairperson for the church. It is just Better known as “Black Harry” during sier’s illiteracy probably did not hinder suming and expensive undertaking. Ultimately, we want to get as tion in the Elliott community. He is a a part of her nature to reach out to his lifetime, Harry Hosier’s early life his success. According to one observer, Today, we as a society and a church much of our collection online as we graduate of Virginia State University. others and give a helping hand to Recognizing Gadsden is not well-documented; he was prob- “Harry could remember passages of produce a lot more records than can. We want to save researchers McFadden spent 34 years educating those who are in need of God’s love On Nov. 8, Wesley UMC, Columbia, rec- ably born to two African slaves in North scripture and quote them accurately; and we did decades ago. For example, a trip to Spartanburg whenever we the young men and women of South and God’s care. She received a special ognized Richard Gadsden, noting he has Carolina and gained his freedom around hymns, also, which he had heard read, he the 1831 Conference Journal ran can—and often we’ll scan pages and Carolina, as both a teacher and an mission pin and certificate signed by shown great leadership and courage to this the end of the Revolutionary War. could repeat or sing.” about 28 pages. The 1914 journal email materials when it is possible. administrator. He retired from Marion Harriet Olsen, secretary and CEO of church, and has shown to be capable of The St. Paul-Elliott UMW and the Rev. He met Bishop Francis Asbury When Asbury tried to teach him to was about 120. This year’s jour- Sometimes we are able to digitize County in June. A key to his success the United Methodist Women Na- serving as the president of the United Meth- Blondell Miller recognizes Alfred S. Mc- odist Men, as lay leader and as the church around 1780, a meeting Asbury consid- read, Hoosier lost the girt of preaching, nal is more than 650 pages. While a small collection or a booklet on and what he tried to impress upon tional Office. Fadden and Dorothy James McFadden. treasurer. Members called him a devoted ered “providentially arranged.” Hosier so he gave up trying to learn to read. As today’s journals are already digital, demand. family man and faithful Christian. worked as Asbury’s carriage driver and he explained his talent, “I sing by faith, getting the previous 180 years’ We’ve also tried to help a few servant. Finding that his illiterate guide pray by faith, preach by faith, and do worth scanned, optimized and churches make preservation scans of College Place to celebrate century of Christian ministry could memorize long passages verbatim everything by faith.” made searchable will take time and some of their older membership reg- and warm up the crowds for his sermons, Hosier relied on his memory and money, and those are not unlimited isters and the like. I hope we’ll have COLUMBIA—College Place United nual Conference’s most successful and passion for ministry to children has led death in the local church setting,” the Asbury began to read the Bible aloud imagination to produce flowery figures resources. enough student help to continue Methodist Church will celebrate 100 lasting cross-racial appointments. to partnerships with VCM’s Children’s church said in a statement. “Our first during their travels and to train Hosier as of speech and delivered them with an The same can be said for the helping churches with their records years of ministry Jan. 26. Church members said community Garden, the Clubhouse Afterschool Pro- 100 years have been a mighty river a preacher in his own right. impressive voice and bold gesture. He older issues of the Advocate—we’ve over the next few years. That century has provided a pulpit programs, such as the North Columbia gram and the EEIC at Epworth. Their of live-giving water to the Eau Claire The first reference to Hosier in As- dramatized biblical stories in order to got more than 150 years of weekly In other news from the Archives, for the prophetic ministries of elders Al-Anon and the We Care Community passion for justice and shalom has led community through ministry and wit- bury’s journals observes, “If I had Harry impress upon his listeners the urgency of newspapers and almost 20 years of The Commission on Archives and like the Rev. Eben Taylor and Dr. Assistance Program, have made sig- to providing a home for the Midlands ness to Jesus Christ. to go with me and meet the colored God’s offer of salvation. He once stayed monthly papers, which adds up to a History will once again present Her- McKay Brabham, and currently the nificant differences in the lives of the Mediation Center. “Our second 100 years hopes to be a people, it would be attended with a in a house where his hostess declared lot of pages to get online. These are bert Hucks awards to local churches Rev. Tiffany Knowlin in one of the An- church’s neighbors. The congregation’s “We refuse the image of decline and flood.” blessing.” In 1781, in Fairfax County, “she would not hear the black.” Ho- tremendous resources, but making and individuals at Annual Confer- Va., speaking after Asbury to a black sier heard the remark and retired to the them available is a great challenge. ence in June. Methodist congregation at Adam’s Cha- garden for prayer. At the service later And we’ve got other collections If your church has done signifi- Christmas music at pel, Hosier delivered his first sermon, that day, he spoke “in the most humble beyond those that researchers would cant work in preserving and promot- Tabernacle “The Barren Fig Tree,” concerning the manner” of how all people suffer from like to see online: books, diaries, ing its history this year, you may Tabernacle UMC, Lancaster, hosted Gospel of Luke 13:6-9. sin like a disease and how God has sent sermon collections, circuit and local qualify for the award. We’re looking a Recital of Music for Advent and “The white people looked on with a physician to heal sinners. He then church records. to recognize churches that have cel- Christmas Dec. 1. The recitalists attention” even at the first performance, lamented the possibility that some might There are many other items that ebrated Methodist history, acquired were Barbara Couch Dickson, re- one day might be digitized with the new materials, presented programs cently retired as organist and director quoted Asbury subsequently; they reject the physician God had sent to of music at First Presbyterian Church would often be moved to tears. Dr. Rush them that day because his hands were right funding. or have undertaken other work to in Cheraw; Debbie Plyler Jaillette, declared it to be the greatest sermon black. The prayer at the end of his ser- However, we’ve been able to promote their history. organist and director of music at he’d ever heard. Although Asbury had mon was described as “awful, powerful, make some things available. On the For more information on applying Good Shepherd UMC, Lancaster; originally intended to use Hosier to and overwhelming.” The woman was archives website (www.wofford.edu/ for the award or making a nomina- and Margaret Walsh Monroe, organ- library/archives/methodist.aspx), tion, please see our website: www. ist and director of music ministries at minister among blacks and they “came a made aware of her prejudices, as were First UMC, Lancaster. Each musician great distance to hear him,” his delivery many others gathered that day. we’ve been able to put the photo- wofford.edu/library/archives/hucks- played several pieces, some sacred was so effective and affecting that his Freeborn Garrettson provided ear- graphs from the various clergy picto- award.aspx. and some more festive. A reception primary audience seems to have been witness accounts of Hosier. Garrettson’s rial directories online. That’s well Stone is the archivist for the S.C. to meet the recitalists was held after- white. His sermons called on Methodists narrative helps us place Hosier within more than 1,000 clergy photos that Conference of The United Method- ward in the social hall. local church historians and genealo- ist Church, as well as archivist for Festive fun Photo by Rev. Heather Humphries to reject slavery and champion the com- America’s race-conscious culture. Gar- gists may download for use in their Wofford College. Read his blog at The children of Canaan UMC, Smyrna, paint Christmas plates at their party. mon working man. At the same time, he rettson, following his conversion, found told his black audiences “that they must himself dejected. Then one Sunday as he research or to build displays of their http://blogs.wofford.edu/from_the_ be holy,” which criticism displeased no led family prayers, a thought penetrated former pastors. archives/ small number of them. his melancholy gloom: “It is not right As with most early Methodist preach- for you to keep your fellow creatures ers, he was a circuit-rider and traveled in bondage.” Whereupon he told his from Cainhoy, S.C., to Boston, Mass., slaves they were free. Later, Hosier, a usually in attendance with Asbury. Hav- former slave, and Garrettson, a former Parker addresses ing grown used to the relative freedom owner of slaves, ministered together. Trinity Eagles Club in the North, he was at first unwilling to Hosier was on intimate terms with return south to Virginia and the Caro- members of the Methodist leadership, Brenda Parker, director of clinical services for children and fam- linas. Asbury was generally anxious but in many ways he remained on the ily services at Catawba Family to have him come, though, as Hosier’s periphery of the church because of his Center, Rock Hill, talks with Betty reputation preceded him and news of his race. He was, thus, both an insider and Fent following her address to the coming would draw larger crowds than an outsider. Eagles Club at Trinity UMC, Aiken. Photo courtesy of Kathy Leaphart the bishop alone. He saw Methodism undergo a sig- Parker is the wife of Dr. Larry Sharing the fruits of the altar Parker, minister at Trinity. Parker’s Bishop Thomas Coke wrote in his nificant transformation. His influence The Gilbert UMC, Gilbert, Thanksgiving Service, Nov. 24, was taken a step further organization has more than 1,600 journal that Hosier was “one of the best was one of the most important factors than usual: they shared the fruits of their altar with others. The congregation gave clients in a three-county area. She preachers in the world” and yet “one in the early spread of the Methodist fresh produce, initially to beautify the altar. Following the service, produce was deliv- recounted how many clients suffer of the humblest creatures I ever saw.” Episcopal Church in America. from alcohol and drug addictions. ered to families who needed it. Even after the produce was gone, the smell lingered in Hosier was present at the Christmas Huggins pastors St. John UMC, the sanctuary, just like the love of Jesus lingers in our hearts when we help others. From left are Betty Maier, Parker, Fent and Rick Brokman. Conference from Dec. 24, 1784, to Jan. Sumter. Page 26, January 2014 Other News Advocate Advocate Obituaries Page 27, January 2014

Rev. George Ashford Sr. Church, Batesburg. Holston fund BMCR gala Obituary Policy A memorial service was held Dec. 5 New Life makes lap COLUMBIA—Rev. George Ashford Rev. Melvin Lee Short Sr., father of the Dr. George Ashford The Advocate prints death notices of at Casey Creek Baptist Church. quilts as Older Adults clergy and their immediate families MANHATTAN, Kan.—The Rev. Mel- to honor Jr., died Nov. 26, 2013. Dr. Ashford is Mrs. Lawter is survived by her hus- established and laypersons who have served on vin Lee Short, a retired United Method- Christmas Project the pastor of Journey United Methodist band, Gary Dale Lawter, her parents, conference boards and agencies or ist pastor and grandfather of the Rev. The Older Adult Ministry at New Life Church. who work for the S.C. Conference of daughter and son. The South Carolina United Method- Bishop Holston Megan Gray, died Dec. 3, 2013. Rev. UMC, Walterboro, has completed Funeral services were held Dec. 2 The United Methodist Church. ist Foundation Inc. has announced the this year’s Christmas project: lap Gray is the pastor of Cokesbury United at Bethel AME Church, with burial in establishment of the L. Jonathan and quilts. Past projects have included COLUMBIA—S.C. Black Methodists Robert Glenn McConnell Methodist Church, Charleston. Memorial Gardens of Columbia. Felecia B. Holston Endowment Fund. hats and caps with matching for Church Renewal will hold a Black Jenkins works in the conference Office ANDERSON—Robert Glenn McCon- Funeral services were held Dec. 6 at scarves for patients experienc- Rev. Ashford is survived by his two With the foundation, the fund is a History Gala honoring Bishop Jonathan of Pensions and Health Benefits. nell, father of Martha Houston, died East Heights UMC, Wichita, with burial ing the effects of chemotherapy, Holston this winter. daughters and son. Prior to his retirement in 1990, Rev. permanent fund. Mother’s Day corsages, lap quilts Nov. 2, 2013. Mrs. Houston is the wife in White Chapel Cemetery, Wichita. The income will be distributed to for nursing home residents, and The gala will be held Feb. 22 at Dunn served the Bluffton, Scranton, of the Rev. Mitch Houston, pastor of Memorials may be made to South- benefit charitable interests of the Hol- their most popular project, fleece 4 p.m. at Journey United Methodist Jean McGee Bryant Coward, Shiloh Station, Lockhart- Salem United Methodist Church, Bal- western College, 100 College St., Win- blankets for dialysis patients. The stons. Church, Columbia. ANDERSON—Jean McGee Bryant, Wesley Chapel, Lancaster-Hopewell, lentine. field, KS 67156-2499; or to Westcliffe Contributions to the fund may be ministry concentrated on lap quilts Tickets are $25/single or $35/couple. Pisgah-Mount Pleasant, St. James and again this year in hopes of reaching sister of Daisy Brunson, died Nov. 27, Funeral services were held Nov. 5 in United Methodist Church, 204 S. 6th For tickets or information: Loretta Edgefield charges. He also served on mailed to the S.C. United Method- more persons in a variety of set- 2013. Mrs. Brunson is the wife of the the Chapel of the McDougald Funeral St., Westcliffe, CO 81252. ist Foundation Inc., P. O. Box 5087, tings. The Rev. Dwight Nelson Sr. Taylor, S.C. BMCR coordinator, 803- Rev. Ashley Brunson, a retired member conference staff. Home, with burial in New Silver Brook Rev. Short is survived by his two Columbia, S.C. 29250-5087. Indicate serves as pastor. 682-3928 or [email protected], or of the S.C. Annual Conference of The Funeral services were held Dec. 4 at Cemetery. sons and two daughters. the Rev. Pattie Gordon, secretary, 404- St. James UMC, with burial in Green- the gift is for “The Holston Endowment Submitted by Jacquelyn F. Williams United Methodist Church serving the Memorials may be made to the Va- 387-9514 or [email protected]. lawn Memorial Park. Fund.” Hebron-Cades Charge, Cades. rennes Heights Baptist Church Building Mary Denise Smalls A memorial service was held Nov. 30 Memorials may be made to St. James Fund, 411 Visage Drive, Anderson, SC NORTH CHARLESTON—Mary De- in Belton First Baptist Church. UMC, 3390 Pine Belt Road, Columbia, UMs among those rallying in S.C. Truthful Tuesday 29626. nise Smalls, sister of the Rev. Geneva Memorials may be made to Belton SC 29204. Mr. McConnell is survived by his Stafford, died Nov. 30, 2013. Rev. Staf- COLUMBIA—Some United Meth- expand Medicaid, protect voting rights tion funding is 40 percent less than in of the rally as a symbol of mourning for First Baptist Church, 105 Brown Road, Rev. Dunn is survived by his wife, wife, Ruth Gilstrap McConnell, and ford is the pastor of St. Mark United odists are among those organizing a and better fund education. Coalition 2002 and tuition at our state colleges is those who could die or suffer because Belton, SC 29627; or to Hospice of the Joanna Comer Dunn, three daughters two daughters. Methodist Church, Sumter. Truthful Tuesday rally at the S.C. State members noted that in 2013, K-12 among the nation’s highest. of the above issues. Upstate, 1835 Rogers Road, Anderson, and son. Funeral services were held Dec. 7 at House at noon Jan. 14. funding was nearly $500 million below Those participating in Truthful Tues- To join the rally or learn more: 803- SC 29621. Ruby Jeanne Wright Minton Life Change Covenant Ministries, with The rally hopes to urge legislators to what is required by law, higher educa- day are asked to wear black on the day 808-3384 or [email protected]. Mrs. Bryant is survived by her Rev. Ernest Marvin Heape CAMDEN—Ruby Jeanne Wright burial in Sunset Memorial Gardens. daughter and two sons. ORANGEBURG— Minton, mother of the Rev. Wyatt C. Mrs. Smalls is survived by her hus- Tips on The Rev. Ernest Mar- Minton, died Nov. 17, 2013. Rev. Min- band, Jerry Smalls and two daughters. Why a United Methodist College? Hoyt Catledge vin Heape, a retired ton is the pastor of the Oswego Circuit, effectively dealing ROCK HILL—Hoyt Catledge, brother member of the S.C. Oswego. Barbara Jo Greene Suddreth Annual Conference of By Palmer Cantler evidenced at a United Methodist related encourages connectional relationships, of the Rev. Linda Jenkins, died Nov. 24, Funeral services were held Nov 23 at VALDESE, N.C.—Barbara Jo Green The United Methodist with management college, being connectional goes beyond informed understanding, and a lifelong 2013. Rev. Jenkins is the pastor of the Camden First United Methodist Church, Suddreth, mother of Mary Ribelin, died Church, died Dec. 5, During my junior year of high school, that to connecting people from all walks love of learning. That is why I chose a Richburg-Pleasant Grove Charge. with burial in Greenlawn Cemetery. Dec. 1, 2013. Mrs. Ribelin is the wife in the church 2013. I began the college search, knowing of life with a common goal of getting an United Methodist affiliated college. But Funeral services were held Nov. 26 Mrs. Minton is survived by her son of the Rev. Glenn Ribelin, pastor of the Prior to his retirement in 1986, Rev. Pastors who have come straight out that I wanted liberal arts education; education. don’t just take my word for it. Go see at Pleasant Grove United Methodist and daughter. Kelton Charge, Jonesville. I began looking at similar schools. It Heape served the Valley Falls, Bethel- of seminary into a church most often Church, Richburg. Funeral services were held Dec. 4 at quickly became clear, that a United Ben Avon, Pendleton, Central, Rocky know little to zip about management— Greer-McElveen Funeral Home Chapel, Methodist college was something I was Mount, Columbia-St. John, St. Mat- Dorothy Peach Reese and that can include district, confer- Rev. Dorothy Nell Cobb Culp with burial in Woodlawn Memorial searching for. For me, finding the right thews, Florence-St. Paul and Cherokee COLUMBIA—Dorothy Peach Reese, ence, jurisdictional and global church CAMPOBELLO—The Gardens of Lenoir. school meant walking on campus and Place charges. He also served as the wife of the Rev. Fred M. Reese, died leaders, too. feeling like I was home. Because of its Rev. Dorothy Nell Mrs. Suddreth is survived by her son Hartsville District superintendent, as a Nov. 28, 2013. Rev. Reese is a retired Some basic tips adapted from the relationship with the United Methodist Cobb Culp, a retired and two daughters. associate administrator of the Office of member of the S.C. Annual Conference Harvard Business School: Church, Wofford has this atmosphere. member of the S.C. Ministerial Affairs and the Director of of The United Methodist Church. Learn what your church leader Why? Annual Conference of the Methodist Home, Orangeburg. A memorial service was held Dec. 7 Doris Tooke Wofford wants. As examples, if she is especially The United Method- Funeral services were held Dec. 7 at Virginia Wingard UMC. SPARTANBURG—Doris Tooke Wof- eager to get forms in on time, send The United Methodist Church ist Church and wife of is connectional. in the Nancy Freeman Stringer Memo- Memorials may be made to the ford, wife of the Rev. Robert Morris them early. If apportionments payments the Rev. Wayne A. Culp, died Nov. 23, One of the fears that students have rial Chapel at The Oaks, with burial in Reese Scholarship, Africa University Wofford, died Nov. 25, 2013. Rev. are his hot button, make sure the report 2013. Rev. Wayne Culp is also a retired when they enter college is that they will Memorial Park Cemetery. Development Office, P.O. Box 340007, Wofford is a retired member of the S.C. is there or he knows what to expect and member of the S.C. Annual Conference. not find friends and be accepted. It is Memorials may be made to The Nashville, TN 37203-0007; or to the Al- Annual Conference of the UMC. when to expect it. Prior to her retirement in 1993, Rev. that need for acceptance that makes the Oaks, P.O. Box 327, Orangeburg, zheimer’s Association, Midlands Area Funeral services were held Nov. 30 Never, ever surprise your superior, culture shock of the first year of college Culp served Golightly-Tabernacle, Bath SC 29116; to Cherokee Place UMC Office, 3223 Sunset Blvd., Suite 100, at Floyd’s Greenlawn Chapel, with especially if it’s a negative. If some- so difficult. -Clearwater and Aldersgate charges. General Fund, P.O. Box 70396, North West Columbia, SC 29169. burial in Greenlawn Memorial Gardens. thing goes wrong, talk with a wise and I have found that at a United Funeral services were held Nov. 25 Charleston, SC 29405; or to Alzheim- Mrs. Reese is survived by her hus- Mrs. Wofford is survived by her trusted elder to assure you’re not giving Methodist affiliated college this was not at Gramling UMC, with burial in the er’s Research and Clinical Programs, band, three sons and two daughters. husband, son and daughter. the your superior details he wouldn’t a problem. While not every student is church cemetery. MUSC, 5900 Core Road, Suite 203, want to know but would have to share Methodist, it is easy to find people with The United Methodist Church for yourself. You may just find your new Memorials may be made to the common experiences. I have friends who encourages education. home. Charleston, SC 29406. if charges were brought against you. If Wayne A. and Dorothy N. Culp Student grew up similarly to myself and share my There is plenty of debate about Rev. Heape is survived by his wife, charges are not involved, then tell him Scholarships, Spartanburg Methodist about the problem rather than have him values, especially the ones that I learned whether college is really worth the Palmer Cantler, a junior religion major at Wofford College, Linda Gladden Heape, and three sons. is from Johnson City, Tenn., where she has been involved in College, 1000 Powell Mill Road, Spar- hear it secondhand. at church. However, just like every college price of tuition and books. However, campus, diversity is widespread. the United Methodist Church puts a several leadership and internship positions within different tanburg, SC 29301; to Asbury Univer- Learn what form of communica- ministerial settings. She is a worship leader at the Melting Pot Donald Woodrow Houston Read it. The United Methodist Book great emphasis on education and a sity, 1 Macklem Drive, Wilmore, KY Feeding Program, which is a worship service catering to the low tion your superior prefers, and use it: of Resolutions calls for “better lifelong pursuit of knowledge. I receive 40390; to Asbury Theological Semi- EASLEY—Donald Woodrow Houston, bullets, long epistles or a condensed income community of Johnson City; she has served, and still relationships . . . on the basis of informed scholarship support from my local currently serves, as an at-Large Delegate for the Holston Annual nary, 204 N. Lexington Ave., Wilmore, father of the Rev. Mitch Houston, died version you could deliver during an understanding, critical appreciation, and church, college and the General Board Conference to represent the youth and young adults of her area; KY 40390; to Protestant University of Nov. 23, 2013. Rev. Houston is the pas- elevator ride. Does she prefer an ap- balanced perspective of one another’s of Higher Education and Ministry, which was a part of the design team for the two week Resurrection Congo, Dr. Ben C. Hobgood, North tor of Salem United Methodist Church, Use it. pointment or a short talk delivered at a basic beliefs.” This emphasis on “informed tells me that my education is worth it. Conference held in Gatlinburg, TN; and has served as President American Liaison Bureau, P.O. Box Ballentine. gathering of pastors? understanding, critical appreciation, At a United Methodist affiliated college, for the Holston United Methodist Conference Council. Funeral services were held Nov. 26 At Wofford, Cantler is a member of the Goldtones A cappella 545, Penney Farms, FL 32079; or to If there’s a choice, think about when and [a] balanced perspective” is highly there is no doubt that the student and at Robinson Funeral Home Chapel, valued on a United Methodist college their future accomplishments are valued ensemble, which consists of eight Wofford women singers. She Spartanburg Regional Hospice, Spar- is the best time to contact your superior. with burial at Greenlawn Memorial campus between people of all different and important. Through the availability of has also participated in a summer excavation trip to Horvat Kur tanburg Regional Foundation, 101 E. Connect. Is she in the office early in the morning in Galilee, Israel, where students volunteered to work with Wof- backgrounds. scholarships and willingness of mentors, Wood St., Spartanburg, SC 29303. Park. or are you most likely to find her ready ford professors and students, along with professors and students Memorials may be made to Arial 1. Participate in the “Five for $25 Subscrip- member to come speak at your church. When a person says that the United United Methodist institutions promote Rev. Culp is survived by her hus- tions” program. 6. Steer people to the Advocate’s website to talk in the later afternoon? from other Universities to uncover Byzantine synagogues north UMC, 839 Gentry Memorial Hwy., Methodist Church is connectional, learning and an informed perception of of the Sea of Galilee. band, three sons and daughter. 2. Participate in “Free Advocate for New (www.advocatesc.org) or to the Advocate’s If your church is doing something they often are only pointing to the the world. After graduation, she plans to get her Master of Divinity Easley, SC 29640. Members.” Facebook or Twitter page (@advocatesc) out of the ordinary, share the good relationships between districts, So what does this all add up to? An and then pursue ordination as an elder in The United Methodist Rev. Charles Loney Dunn Mr. Houston is survived by his wife, 3. Enroll your congregation in an online or 7. Advertise a job opening, church service, news, and share it in a brief note. If he conferences, and the local church. But, as institution of higher education that Church. Betty Fortner Houston, and three sons. COLUMBIA—The print “Advocate Church Plan” and receive business or event in our pages. wants to know more, he’ll be in touch. discounted pricing. 8. Send the Advocate your church’s news, Rev. Charles Loney If you have a difficult problem in your Carolyn King Hammond 4. Encourage your members to buy an events or high-res photos. Deadline is the church, you may want to ask your supe- Dunn, a retired mem- individual subscription to the Advocate. 10th of every month for the next month’s rior for ideas for fixing it. ber of the S.C. An- Lawter 5. Invite the Advocate editor or a board edition. Email [email protected]. For more on church management, For more information, contact: nual Conference of CHESNEE—Carolyn King Hammond and other church communication issues, The Office of Admission, Wofford College, Spartanburg, S.C. The United Methodist Lawter, sister of the Rev. Steven King, visit www.umcom.org. www.wofford.edu/admission | 864-597-4130 | [email protected] Church and father of died Dec. 2, 2013. Rev. King is the www.advocatesc.org | [email protected] | 888-678-6272 Lynn Jenkins, died Nov. 30, 2013. Mrs. pastor of St. John’s United Methodist Page 28, January 2014 Seniors Advocate Advocate Seniors Page 29, January 2014 Wrinkles in Paradise ‘Mr. Jackie’ celebrated for 50+ years as head usher By Jessica Connor back in 1950. “If it wasn’t for him getting me in the by Wanda Lane NORTH CHARLESTON—Jackie Methodist church, I don’t know where Bowdoin has had his share of golden I’d be,” Bowdoin said. Time in Rose’s Folie (Sic) anniversaries—51 years in the grocery Since the beginning, Bowdoin dove business before he retired. Fifty consec- right into service. wo years ago, I was a partici- the ‘my time is my own’ concept will utive years at Lake Junaluska’s United “When I started here as usher, it kept pant in a weeklong writer’s infuse the next 24 hours and every 24- Methodist Laity Convocation. And me going,” Bowdoin told the Advocate. retreat on Tybee Island and hour period beyond that. most recently, 52 years as head usher “I missed only one Sunday a year, and was assigned to a cottage Residing in the solitude and quiet of at North Charleston United Methodist that was because of the lay conference. Tcalled Rose’s Folie (sic). Jennifer’s cottage, gazing at the clocks Church. “I estimate I’ve walked from here (in I brought with me a draft about the and sensing Rose’s presence as Every- His beloved church family came to- the pew) to the altar 10,000 miles over multiple facets of time, which I hoped woman preoccupied by the dilemma gether Dec. 15 to celebrate his lifetime 50 years.” to complete during my stay. of time, a new understanding of time of service as Bowdoin, 78, formally And the man is dearly loved, by his Photo courtesy of the Rev. Kenny Burr Exploring my new surroundings, I began to form. I realized that time is stepped down as head usher. peers as well as by the countless chil- learned that the cottage was bought by essentially an issue of trust. Celebrating 100 years of life “Jackie is a man who has given his dren who like to hug on his neck and Jennifer in 2006 and that she named In the Book of Ecclesiastes, God Bea Myers (above) celebrated her 100th birthday at Spring Hill UMC, Ridgeville. The life in service to this church,” said fel- share some time. it Rose’s Folie for the Everywoman explains time to us in simple, but celebration included Myers and her sisters, Nada, 98, and Shellie, 90. They are all low NCUMC member Carlyle Single- “He’s got a zillion stories,” Single- who is at last free to fling conven- profound statements. “There is a right members of Spring Hill and have been all their lives. tary. “Weddings? Jackie was here. tary said. tion aside and seek new beginnings. time for everything: a time to be born; Funerals? Jackie was here. Always here, Others, like worship design team Bowdoin gets a hug from Recovering as she was from serious a time to die;…a time to cry;…a time always present for duty.” chair Linda Vaughan, point out special one of the children of the illness, the pressure of time must also to dance;…a time to love;…a time to Bowdoin, who has been struggling “Jackie places” in the sanctuary—like church. have weighed heavily on her and could hate.” with cancer, decided it was time to “Jackie’s chair” stationed at the back Photo by Jessica Connor explain the odd assortment of clocks Paraphrased in the vernacular of retire as head usher. He said serving of the church, where friends and kids and clock mechanisms decorating the today this could read: a time to commit, his church has meant so much to him. would seek him out to sit and talk about “Jackie has contributed to trans- 25 years, even purchasing a house at the cottage. a time to back away, a time to care for A late friend brought him to NCUMC God and life. forming the lives of countless people,” United Methodist retreat. In this milieu, my mind returned to others, a time to care for self, a time said NCUMC pastor the Rev. Wendy Others remarked on Bowdoin’s con- my ponderings about time and its influ- to be wired, a time to unplug. In either Hudson-Jacoby, lifting up Bowdoin stant storytelling, Christian wisdom and ence in life. Although not tangible, it version, the meaning is clear. There is in prayer and Christian love before a heartfelt care. is nonetheless a propelling, ubiquitous time. Time for everything life requires. packed sanctuary. “He’s genuinely touched our family force. I understood, too, like the man in “Rain or shine, Jackie has been and so many people,” said Janice King, Mathematically, time is divided into Lewis’s scenario, I had succumbed in here every Sunday to serve,” said Ted speaking at the recognition service. years, months, days, hours, minutes, my arrogance to the perception that Singletary, noting Bowdoin personally The celebration culminated with a seconds and infinite fractions of sec- my time is my own. I could parrot that encouraged him and his wife, Ruth, to big group hug from the congregation’s onds. We plot our lives on calendars. God controlled time, but my attempts attend the Laity Convocation at Lake children, who also presented him with We organize. We make lists and time to manage it, to squeeze every fleeting Junaluska, which Bowdoin dubbed “the a handmade sign praising the many at- lines. We check and re-check for dead- moment from it, spoke to the contrary. Lake J.” Thanks to Bowdoin’s gentle tributes of a man of God who inspired lines we may have forgotten. Through study and reflection in the nudges, they faithfully attended the and loved them. We ask what time it is and whether solitude of the Jennifer’s cottage, I convocation from then on for the next “He is loved by all,” King said. it’s the right time. We struggle to be on came to realize that time belongs ir- time. We wonder if we have enough revocably to God, and because relin- and how best to use it if we should find quishing control of time is hard, a very (praise God!) extra time. We are told to hard thing to do, the only option is to stop, take five, to visualize peace. But, trust God more. Seniors treated really, where’s the time? Answers to prayers or part of to Christmas play Time. Time. Time. Surely, Jennifer, prayers, even whispers of my heart, The children of Mount Vernon like all of us, felt the pressure of time may be in place and evolving long UMC, Hickory Grove, present as she lived her life. But maybe, by the before I, of restricted vision and under- their Christmas puppet play to time she purchased Rose’s Folie, she standing, can discern them. Patience residents and guests at White had uncovered what many of us have becomes an integral part of trust. Oak Manor, York, Dec. 14. not, the greatest irony and reality of A third concept of time is that of sac- all—that despite our efforts, we can’t rificial time, an idea new to me. Since control time. It races, creeps or moseys God alone gives us time, we give time along, but there is, quite simply, noth- back to Him as a sacrificial gift when Methodist Manor ing we can do about it. Each moment we spend time with Him in prayer and lived is an unrepeatable gift. There are tend to His needs here on earth. A Senior Living Community no exchanges and no guarantees. As I searched with open heart in Independent Living – Assisted Living – Alzheimer’s Memory Care Healthcare C.S. Lewis, the brilliant Christian the silence of Rose’s Folie, God clari- writer of the 20th century, reinforces fied my understanding of time. I will this concept. In “The Screwtape Let- continue to struggle with time as the ters,” Lewis declares that man, under mere mortal I am, but these basic the tutelage of the Evil One, has made concepts, which had alluded me before, the curious and altogether erroneous will guide my path: 1) Trust God more; assumption that “My time is my own.” 2) Time belongs to God. This neces- Happy New Arising each morning, he is convinced sitates trusting God that there is time that the coming 24 hours are his law- and fosters patience; 3) Out of gratitude ful possession, but “Man can neither and love, I will sacrifice by giving time Year! make, nor retain, one moment of time; back to God. it all comes by pure gift,” writes Lewis. Should these thoughts be kept in The irrefutable bottom line is that our mind as we face a new year full of frantic and finagling attempts to control time? time are futile. Lane is a member of Church of the Realizing the staggering impact of Palms UMC in Bluffton, where she Hundreds of people just like you have traded the hassles of home ownership for a Lewis’s truth, yet failing to internalize serves as worship chair. She also writes secure future at Methodist Manor. Our full service retirement community is exactly it, we rail against this “injustice” and a senior life style column, “Wrinkles what you’ve been waiting for. fight back. We take time-management in Paradise,” for The Island Packet in courses, buy date books and venture Hilton Head and has published a book Call Today for more information into iPads and iPhones with digital by the same title. She can be reached at 2100 Twin Church Road Florence, S.C. 29501 calendars. We sigh with the effort, the [email protected], www.facebook. 843-664-0700 www: methodist-manor.com exasperation of it all, but plod forever com/WrinklesinParadise or www.twit- onward convinced if we just do it right, ter.com/wrinklesthebook. Page 30, January 2014 Upcoming Events Advocate Advocate International Bible School Lessons Page 31, January 2014

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Dec. 31—Watch Night Feb. 8—Connectional Ministries meet- Honor, compassion and relationships ing, Trinity UMC, Blythewood, 10 a.m. by the Rev. Audrey Boozer January Feb. 14-16—Revolution! Jan. 6 addressed to such. Disciples are not citi- to be plagued by patriarchalism, eth- living requires a mind set on eternal Jan. 1—New Year’s Day, UM Center Feb. 22—Black History Gala honor- zens of the nation of Israel or any other nocentrism, sexism and even tribalism. riches, which always requires concern closed Honoring the Sabbath ing Bishop Jonathan Holston, Lesson Scripture: Luke 6:1-11 nation distinct according to ethnicity, Seats of power are reserved for persons for the “least of these.” S.C. Black Methodists for Church Key Verse: Luke 6:9 “Then Jesus said religion, geography or any redeeming approved by standards “unwritten” by Jesus’ concern for the poor is evi- Jan. 5—Epiphany Sunday Renewal, Journey UMC, Colum- to them, “I ask you, is it lawful to characteristic pronounced by mankind. those who, rather than striving for in- dent in the simple yet profound act of bia, 4 p.m. Tickets are $25 or $35. Jan. 5—A Gathering of Wise Men do good or to do harm on the Sab- Disciples do not submit to the norms clusion, seek to prop up their privileged naming the poor man, Lazarus, which Loretta Taylor, 803-682-3928 or and values of a moral majority, but are positions. means “God helps.” This debunks the Epiphany Celebration, Church of [email protected]; or Rev. bath, to save life or to destroy it?” empowered by the Spirit of God, driven The marginalized are not necessarily popular statement that “God helps those the Palms, Okatie, 9:15 a.m. Pattie Gordon, 404-387-9514 or [email protected] It was the first Sabbath day after the counter to culture from age to age. the poor, crippled, lame and the blind as who help themselves,” which is not Jan. 6—Epiphany of the Lord second day of the Feast of Unleavened Disciples are citizens of the King- understood in Jesus’ day, but instead are found in Scripture. I imagine this state- We’ll miss you, Bonnie Speas March Bread when Jesus and his disciples dom of God, ushered in at the advent those who simply are not willing to play ment to reflect the attitude of the un- Jan. 8-15—Africa University trip, spon- Friends, family and coworkers from across South Carolina gathered at the conference were walking through a grain field. of Christ, a very present reality in the the game of musical chairs. named rich man who never knew what sored by Columbia District. jculp@ center Dec. 18 to wish a hearty farewell and good luck to Bonnie Speas, longtime March 7-9—Hands and Feet Service The text says that they plucked heads hearts and minds of those who have At the heart of Jesus’ parable is the it was like to be hungry, to be homeless virginiawingardumc.com clergy services administrative assistant who is retiring at the end of this year. Here, Weekend, Asbury Hills, 864-836- ears to hear. The Kingdom of God is not message that as God has welcomed you, and to suffer a debilitating illness—and Speas (center) shares a laugh during her retirement party with Conference Secretary of grain, rubbed them between their 3711 or [email protected]. limited to an age, but is when and wher- therefore you should welcome others. who certainly knew nothing about being Jan. 11—Human Trafficking Awareness the Rev. Karen Radcliffe (left) and Martha Liles, who will be taking Speas’ place. hands and ate. This simple act with the Day fundamental purpose of eating was con- ever the presence of God is manifest; The parable also carries the message helpless. March 15—Spirit Singers performance, manifesting wonders beyond the scope that a day of reckoning is certain. A day Everyone wants to go to heaven, but First UMC, Clover, 7 p.m. troversial from the perspective of the Jan. 11—Spirit Singers performance, Jan. 19—Human Relations Day (offer- 40 while keeping people over 60,” Pharisees who sought to condemn Jesus of human abilities. is coming when your connections, affili- no one wants to die. For some, what Beulah UMC, Gaston, 7 p.m. ing) Epworth by the Sea, Ga. March 16—Spirit Singers performance, and his followers. Love for one’s enemies is without ations and loyalties will be devoid of all makes the prospect of death so disturb- St. John’s UMC, Fort Mill, morning Was it possible that the disciples question a wonder beyond the scope of power; a day when your seat at the table ing is the unknown. Nowhere else in the Jan. 12—Baptism of the Lord Jan. 20—Martin Luther King Jr.’s worship. were unaware of the day of the week? human abilities and is in fact a work of is not certified by unholy alliances. Bible are readers given a mental picture

Birthday Observance, UM Center February Not likely. Matthew’s version tells us God in the heart of believers who have A seat in the Kingdom of God can of the misery and suffering awaiting Jan. 18-25—Week of Prayer for Chris- closed August that they were hungry (Matthew 12:1). been filled with the Holy Spirit. only be certain for those who humble those in death who have not lived a tian Unity Feb. 8—Annual WISH workshop, Tran- It is too easy to reject Jesus’ eth- themselves under the mighty hand of righteous life. It warns that the “good quil UMC, Greenwood, 8:30 a.m. Aug. 23—Connectional Ministries, Trin- It appears that Jesus and his disciples Jan. 21-24—2014 SEJ Cabinet Consul- ics as an ideal reserved for a future God in practice, letting go of privilege life” can be experienced as “righteous,” Jan. 19—Ecumenical Sunday tation “Reaching people under $15 registration. Joy Brown will be ity UMC, Blythewood, 10 a.m. were more preoccupied with their hunger than the calendar. Luke’s Gospel age or even more ridiculous, an ideal in order to take hold of salvation. or in other words, what one deserves stresses the humanity of Christ, and his only expected of religious leaders. In How often do you initiate and or because of their ancestry, socio-eco- hunger reminds Luke’s readers of that communion with the risen Christ, the maintain genuine relationships without nomic status or even hard work, but can fact. practice of agape is achievable now for a thought to what the person can do for be judged by God as unrighteous. Hunger reveals humanity’s basic all believers who yield themselves to you? Do you think that says more about The Gospels reveal that an indi- Classified Advertisements need for food and Jesus gave priority the work of the Spirit. Jesus’ ethics are the “other” or more about you? vidual’s righteousness is not deter- to feeding thousands with two fish and an impossibility for Christians in name mined apart from community. In fact, five loaves of bread before proclaiming only; those who apply “works righ- Jan. 26 righteous living is judged on how one himself to be the “Bread of Life.” This teousness” to life rather than grace. relates to those that are often ignored. To place your ad, contact Allison today Jesus teaches compassion for Church Furnishings Positions Open title identified Jesus as the one who Have you tried and failed to exempli- Therefore when the Lord calls on the at 888-678-6272 or [email protected]. could not only satisfy physical hunger fy the virtues of a disciple? If so, have the poor Day of Judgment, “Then the righteous Lesson Scripture: Luke 16:10, 19-31 Pew Upholstering – Reversible Cushions Wanted – Bethel UMC in Forest Acres (Columbia, but also as the one able to satisfy the you considered that it is not a matter of will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we Key Verse: Luke 16:10 “Whoever New Pews – Pew Refinishing Classifed ads start at $19 per inch tall. SC) is seeking a part-time Music Director/Minister deepest yearning of the human heart. doing, but being? see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty Audio/Video Systems is faithful in very little is faith- Website ads are also available of Music. Qualifications: Bachelor’s Degree in Music, Jesus’ intention was not to dishonor and give you something to drink?’ ( www.churchinteriors.com ful also in much; and whoever is (www.advocatesc.org). Music Education/Performance, or any equivalent the Sabbath. The Sabbath controversies Jan. 19 Matthew 25:37) … Jesus will reply, dishonest in very little is dishonest combination of education and experience that would sought to shift the Pharisaic focus to Jesus teaches about relation- ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not in much.” do for one of the least of these, you did Deadlines are the 10th of the month enable an individual to satisfactorily perform the the true intent of the observance and ships duties of this position. Must have a strong Christian away from the practice of the law that not do for me”’ (Matthew 25:45). High Point, North Carolina for the following month’s paper. Lesson Scripture: Luke 14:7-18a, The Parable of the Rich Man and faith and be self-directing. Must have strong written neglected mercy. Have you identified “Lazarus” in 1-800-289-7397 22-24 Lazarus follows a series of caveats and verbal communication skills, and excellent people Jesus challenged the Pharisees’ inter- your community? If not, are you look- Key Verse: Luke 14: 11 “For all who warning of greed or the love of money, Free Estimates Positions Open skills. Will be responsible for planning, organizing, pretation and practice of the Sabbath, ing for him? exalt themselves will be humbled, which is an idolatrous attitude in direct directing, and evaluating a comprehensive music which according to tradition was proof Boozer is pastor of the Greer Circuit, and those who humble themselves opposition to God’s will. Righteous NEW Steeple cleaning service of whether Jesus was from God. The Greer. Grace UMC, Union, SC is seeking an individual as program including choirs, vocal and/or instrumental will be exalted.” Sabbath was a gift from God to Israel New Pews • Pew Upholstering • Pew Refinishing • Pulpit Director of Music, Organist and Choir Director. ensembles. Applications will be accepted until the and was for human welfare. As the Furniture • Carpet • Steeples/Baptistries • Chime Systems Our church enjoys the music from our Casavant position is filled. Please send a letter of application In this pericope, the act of assum- agent of God’s redemptive rule, it was • Stained Glass • Classroom Furniture • Office Furniture • organ, baby grand piano, senior choir, youth choir and resume to: [email protected]. ing a seat of honor without a proper Social Hall Furniture • Budget & Project Analysis • Project within Jesus’ authority to lift Sabbath and handbell/chime choirs. The director of music Or, by mail to: John Mathis, PPRC Chairman, c/o invitation is linked by the Parable of the Management restrictions for mercy’s sake, therefore is responsible for providing and coordinating ap- Bethel UMC, 4600 Daniel Drive, Columbia, SC 29206 Great Supper to the practice of extend- Jesus said, “The Son of Man is also propriate liturgical organ, choir and other music in – Visit www.bethelmethodistcolumbia.com. ing invitations only to persons who are Nu-Idea Lord of the Sabbath (v. 5).” support of worship. The director will also work with able to reciprocate in some way. Both Have your Sabbath practices become Church Furnishings the pastor, choirs and congregation to support Wanted – Bethel UMC in Forest Acres (Columbia, involve the practice of discrimination, Sumter, South Carolina routine rather than restorative? Consid- worship, fellowship and musical opportunity. The SC) is seeking a part time Organist/Pianist. which by definition is making a distinc- 1-800-922-0424 er giving more attention to the purpose choir director will lead our 25-member senior choir Qualifications: Bachelor’s Degree in Music, Music tion between self and or “like” indi- www.nu-idea.com rather than the practice. during service and weekly rehearsals along with Education/Performance, or any equivalent viduals and the “other.”

“Serving South Carolina’s churches since 1921” our youth choir and handbell/chime choirs. In ad- combination of education and experience that Table fellowship in ancient Israel dition to the weekly 11 AM Sunday service, organ would enable an individual to satisfactorily Jan. 12 was an intimate affair and involved and choir music is provided for special services perform the duties of this position. Must have a How to live as God’s people inviting persons who were a reflection Positions Open such as Lent/Easter, Advent/Christmas Eve and two strong Christian faith and be self-directing. Must Lesson Scripture: Luke 6:17-31 of the host or, in other words, alike in or three cantatas annually. Wedding and funeral have strong written and verbal communication Key Verse: Luke 6:27 “But I say to you some way. music will also be provided as needed. This is a Church Musician skills, and excellent people skills. Will be supervised who are willing to hear: Love your In secular organizations and, yes permanent part-time position and offers a region- Experienced in organ, piano, and directing by Music Director and provide assistance in the enemies. Do good to those who even in the church, there are circles, ally competitive salary. Please send resumes and * Part-time position Music Ministry for worship, weddings, funerals, hate you.” societies, boards and commissions that references by email to [email protected] or * 1977 3-manual 43-rank Casavant pipe organ rehearsals and other duties as assigned by Music remain homogeneous in nature despite mail to 201 South Church Street, Union, SC 29379. * Duties include: Planning worship and special Director. Applications will be accepted until the The Beatitudes immediately follow the demographics of the community. programs; Adult & children’s choirs & instrumental position is filled. Please send a letter of application the calling of the 12 disciples and is This suggests that our culture continues ensembles. and resume to: todd@bethelmethodistcolumbia. Charleston Wesley Foundation is seeking a minister Submit resumes to com. Or, by mail to: John Mathis, PPRC Chairman, to serve beginning with the 2014 Conference Year. First United Methodist Church c/o Bethel UMC, 4600 Daniel Drive, Columbia, SC The position serves 4 local colleges. For a complete P.O. Box 456, Bennettsville, SC 29512 29206 – Visit www.bethelmethodistcolumbia.com. job description and application information, please ADVERTISE HERE! Or email to: [email protected] email [email protected]. Deadline for receipt [email protected] | 803-786-9486 ext. 338 For more information, call (843) 479-3231 of applications is January 6, 2014. Subscribe today! Equal Opportunity Employer go online to www.advocatesc.com Page 32, January 2014 District & Local News Advocate 2014

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2014 Camps Start Date Camp Director/Contact Person Start Date Camp Director/Contact Person Start Date Camp Director/Contact Person May 17 Golden Strip (Simpsonville) Young Adults Joel Jones June 14 Swamp Fox (Re-Open) Henry Altman July 12 Calhoun Sherry Smith June 7 Lancaster David & Susan Hagins June 14 Two Rivers (Eastover Area) Amy Ray July 12 Circuit Rider (Johnsonville) Richard Jayroe June 7 New Hope (Chesterfield) Carmen Wilks June 14 Union Don Brown July 12 Clover Evelyn Cameron June 7 Walterboro Jason & Jessica Bryan June 14 Winyah Bay (Georgetown) Russell Jeffcoat July 12 Fairfield Frank Gravely June 7 Golden Corner (Oconee-Seneca) Richard Reams June 21 Bishopville Tommy Wilkes July 12 Lexington County Terry & Elaine Taylor June 14 Baker Creek (McCormick) Kellie Owans June 21 Jenkinsville Katie Shearouse July 12 Moncks Corner Frances Wright June 14 Blythewood John Covert June 21 Lake City Kent Daniels July 12 North Augusta James Dennis June 14 Catawba (Fort Mill) Tony Carnes June 21 Piedmont Jo Hood July 12 Rock Hill Chuck & Tammy Hailey June 14 Chester Dan Bilderback June 21 Sandriver (Aiken) Bobby Coker July 12 Santee (Clarendon County) Joe Long June 14 Horry (Loris) Sammy & Susan Johnson June 21 Summerville Marty Gunter July 12 Upstate Steve McGahee June 14 J.E.T. (Johnston-Edgefield-Trenton) June 21 Wateree (Camden) Richard Hagins July 19 Creekfront (Murrells Inlet) Debbie Leonard Dan & Deborah Henderson June 21 West Metro (West Columbia) Jason Barrs July 19 Columbia Shaun Zarandi June 14 Laurens Emil Finley June 28 Pee Dee (Bennettsville) Neil Flowers July 19 Lake Murray Monica Crodian June 14 Lowcountry (Jasper County) Marie Wells June 28 Foothills Shawn Crews July 19 Newberry Steve & Joyce Barrow June 14 Peachtree Rock (Pelion Area) Patty Mayfield July 5 Bamberg Gray Pregnall July 26 Shaw - Dalzell Kevin Booth June 14 Penn Center Steven Brown July 5 Edisto Fork Hayes T. Gainey June 14 Rivertown (Conway) Jeff Davis July 5 Harvest (Dillon) Kathy Hart International Mission June 14 Spartanburg Chris Snelgrove July 5 Middle Tyger (Lyman) Brian Gilmer July 26 Leon, Nicaragua Kathy Hart June 14 Sumter Fran Marshall July 12 Black Swamp (Hampton) Mimbee Ray This year’s brochure and additional information may be found at www.salkehatchie.org. ALL registration will be done online beginning in late January.