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InSight Books Catalog Featuring Products by Doug Manning

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The Back Nine Please Take Me Life Beyond Retirement Home Before Dark 2nd Edition By Doug Manning One Family’s Journey with Aging is inevitable—getting Alzheimer’s Disease old is a choice. Doug conducted By Billie Pate with a series of meetings for seniors The Gifts You Bring Mary Pate Yarnell at a local church. He learned Published by Hillsboro Press that everyone in that room was Series By Doug Manning Please Take Me Home Before scared, confused and angry How to become a team of care Dark provides inspiration, at the limitations that they felt with the professionals at a care information, and support to from growing old. From those facility, how to communicate family members and caring presentations and questions with your loved one and how professionals of Alzheimer's from the group this book was to have a positive and healthy patients (and other forms of born. relationship after a care dementia). Using a writing style His premise is that everyone placement has been made. that is warm, yet instructive; can make choices as to how to Your Gift of Participation serious, though sometimes face living the final years of life, Outlines ways for the family to humorous; and highly personal, and he provides practical and work in concert with the staff yet medically reliable, the personal suggestions for taking and become part of the team of authors share their mother's charge and living with intention, care progression through Alzheimer's no matter the age. Your Gift of Peace to benefit others facing the Suggested Uses: Identifies sources of caregiver same situation. • Individuals facing and outlines ways to Suggested Uses: retirement recognize and deal with issues. • Care givers • Families trying to be a A valuable resource to alleviate • Senior ministries support and turmoil brought on by • Lay ministry teams • Group discussions in senior unresolved guilt. • Home Health centers Your Gift of Presence • Hospice • Senior ministries Innovative ideas for families on • Anyone helping a family • Giving for those who how to be active participants in caring for someone with think their best days are the resident's life. dementia behind them 24 pg ea $4.00 each 84 pages $12.95 each 104 pages $12.95 each Use individually or as a set eBook also available from your Envelopes available .07 favorite vendor Quantity discounts available Quantity discounts available

2 Front cover: Lake Overholser Dam in Oklahoma City, iStock Photos Funeral Planning Sacred Moments A Minister Speaks About Funerals By Doug Manning Doug discusses the importance of a meaningful, personalized and individualized funeral service. It is his belief that people in need sacred moments and they need compassionate and caring professionals who are willing to provide Building Memories those moments for them. Planning a Meaningful Funeral Suggested Uses: 3rd Edition / By Doug Manning • For clergy This Planner is full of the • Anyone called upon to help families provide a information you need to make funeral or memorial service for their loved one decisions on how to honor and memorialize a loved one Sacred Moments whether choosing cremation or 1 - 99 $4.00 each 400 - 799 $3.50 each burial. 100 - 399 $3.75 each 800 & up $3.25 each This planner is perfect for family meetings as a source of discussion and options. It is also an excellent resource for pre- planning a funeral. Suggested Uses: • Individuals recording Alternatives their for their own funerals • Families eBooks & Print on Demand • Hospice • Churches eBooks • Lay Ministry These books are available as eBooks at your favorite vendor: • Funeral professionals • Anyone present with Elder Care Grief families as they plan a final Aging is a Family Affair Don’t Take My Grief Away tribute for a loved one The Back Nine From Me The Empty Chair The Funeral 48 pages Share My Lonesome Valley Grief’s Second Mile 1 - 99 books $4.00 each When Gets Tough Lean on Me Gently 100 - 399 $3.75 each Memories Too Few 400 - 799 $3.50 each Thoughts for the Holidays 800 & up $3.25 each Print on Demand These books are available as Print on Demand, allow 2 to 3weeks for delivery. Quantity discounts are available. See full descriptions at www.InSightBooks.com The Empty Share My When Love Chair Lonesome Gets Tough The Journey Valley The Nursing of Grief After The Slow Grief Home Decision Suicide of Long-term By Doug Manning By Beryl S. Glover Care 128 pages 104 pages By Doug Manning $14.00 each $14.00 each 118 pages $14.00 each

3 Hospice Introduction to Targeted Support Hospice �tart o� �are

Hospice Notes By Doug Manning A Journal for the Every patient and family present unique challenges in care as the hospice staff accompanies their path. Some families will need Journey support and guidance in specific areas, depending upon the situation By Doug Manning or history. Our Hospice Notes are perfect for providing targeted One of the hurdles in hospice information and support for each family. care is establishing that relationship with the patient Never Alone is written for the Complicated Grief addresses and the family so that they truly patient, giving compassionate those families who present embrace and understand the explanations about what they with previous losses or other scope and mission of hospice might be experiencing and what factors which may create a more care. Doug’s latest book to expect. challenging hospice and grieving addresses those needs. experience. Presenting this book as part It Takes a Family to Grieve of the introduction at the start a Loss provides guidance to Why Have a Funeral? can of care gives the family an families who are struggling to answer those questions that opportunity to understand that figure out how to incorporate hospice professionals receive. this is not just about the patient, children or other family Doug is a dedicated proponent that their hospice is there to members into the caring routine. of the healing power of care for the family and to attend gathering & ceremony and to their journey as well. With provides the family with reasons short chapters covering some for beginning their grief journey of the questions and concerns in a healthy and holistic way. that families might have, and pages to journal or keep track of changes or observations, this book can accompany the family through the entire care A Journal for the Journey Hospice Notes Brochures experience. 48 pages / Envelopes available .07 ea Individual Pricing: Suggested Uses: 1 - 99 books $4.00 each any quantity $1.10 each 100 - 399 $3.75 each • Stand alone hospice Bulk Pricing: 400 - 799 $3.50 each resource or part of InSight Order each brochure in 50s 800 & up $3.25 each program of care 50 $50.00 • Individuals 100 $95.00 500 $450.00 1000 $850.00

4 www.InSightBooks.com . 800.658.9262 . 405.810.9501 . [email protected] After Care The First Year following a loss The Second Year

Grief's Second Mile Beyond The First Year Special Care Series By Doug Manning By Doug Manning Most bereavement materials This unique series consists of four books designed to be sent/read are focused on the first year of during the first year of grief. They are written for the 3rd week, 3rd grief. However, we have often month, 6th month and 11th month following a death. been asked, "What do you have The four books come packaged together with mailing envelopes and for after the first anniversary?" a date card for recording when the books are to be sent. In response to this need, Doug Suggested Uses: wrote Grief's Second Mile: Life • Bereavement follow-up program for hospices, churches, and Beyond the First Year. care facilities, Suggested Uses: • Support groups • Hospices • Individuals • Churches • Hospitals Special Care Series 4 Book Set / 24 pages each / Single books out of the set are also • Lay ministry groups available / Spanish available starting at $16.00/set 1 - 24 sets $12.00 each 300 - 499 $10.00 each • Compassionate Friends 25 - 49 sets $11.50 each 500 - 999 $9.50 each • Health Care Facilities 50 - 99 sets $11.00 each 1000 & up $9.00 each • Individuals 100 - 299 $10.50 each 48 pages / Envelopes for mailing available .07 ea / Also available as an eBook from your favorite vendor. Extend care to the 12th month Anniversary 1 - 99 $4.00 each 100 - 399 $3.75 each Journey Comfort Card 400 - 799 $3.50 each Outside: Grief is a Journey. We move from seeing 800 & up $3.25 each the person by sight to seeing them in Memories. Inside Upper Panel: At first they are too painful, and every memory breaks our hearts. Gradually they Journey Comfort Card help us establish the significance of our loss...In time, 5” x 7” Quality Comfort Card with our memories become our most precious possessions. envelope The memories wrap themselves around our being, 1 - 49 $3.00 each and our loved one is reborn inside of our hearts. That is called...the journey of grief. 50 - 99 $2.75 each —Doug Manning 100 - 199 $2.50 each 200 & up $2.25 each Inside Lower Panel: Thinking of you at the anniversary of your loss.

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The Way Men Heal Memories Too Few What to Do When the By Tom Golden A Letter to Parents About Published by GH Publishing LLC Police Leave Pregnancy Loss A Guide to the First Days of • A male positive book for men and By Kathy Manning Burns Traumatic Loss women • Grief following miscarriage, stillbirth or By Bill Jenkins • Uncovers the secrets of the way men newborn death Published by WBJ Press heal • Personal message to parents • Simple, frank, useful advice • A section on how to help men in grief experiencing pregnancy loss • Helpful resources • Also available in eBook from your 58 pages $7.99 each • De-mystifies legal and medical jargon favorite vendor • Hope in the midst of tragedy 32 pages / Envelopes available .07 ea 160 pages $12.95 each Quantity discounts available $3.25 each

Helping Parents Grieve Partnered Grief Finding Your Way After With Khris Ford & Paula D’Arcy When Gay and Lesbian Partners Paraclete Press Your Parent Dies Grieve Hope for Grieving Adults • DVD By Harold Ivan Smith & Johnson By Richard Gilbert • For any parent mourning the Published by Centering Corp Published by Ave Maria Press death of a child • Advice on expressing grief • Compassionate guide • For those helping someone who • Comfort and support for partners is grieving. • Relating to surviving parent 24 pages $3.50 each • Healing old emotional wounds 60 min $39.95 each 124 pages $13.95 each

6 www.InSightBooks.com . 800.658.9262 . 405.810.9501 . [email protected] DVD Book/Journals Grief A Favorite for over 40 Years

New Look The Journey of Grief DVD By Doug Manning Doug's presentation about the grief journey on camera. Doug discusses the elements of the grief experience, the Thoughts for the Lonely important aspects of a healthy Nights or approach to grieving and what Thoughts for the grief companions can do to be a helpful part of the journey. Grieving Christian Don't Take My Grief Suggested Uses: By Doug Manning • Individuals For a person in grief, the Away From Me How to Walk Through Grief and • Grief Seminars night rarely brings rest and Learn to Live Again • Community presentations relief. Often that is when all the questions, hurts and tears find a 4th edition By Doug Manning • Grief groups Doug's hope is that Don't • Staff training way to come out. Doug calls that being "lonely to the bone". Take My Grief Away From Me Seven Tracks / See a preview at Doug calls these book/ will provide gems of truth, and www.InSightBooks.com journals a conversation about honest discussions about the Also available streaming on Amazon grief. Blank pages follow each universal experience of grief. or at Vimeo.com Suggested Uses: Total time 66 min $29.95 each segment for writing, journaling and responding. • Individuals Suggested Uses: • Churches • Individuals or gifts • Hospices • Conversation starters for • Hospitals support groups 128 pages / eBook also available from your favorite vendor Thoughts for the Lonely Nights 3rd ed 128 pages 1 - 24 $12.00 each Thoughts for the Grieving Christian 25 - 49 $11.75 each 50 - 99 $11.50 each 2nd ed 146 pages Holiday Quantity discounts available 100 - 299 $11.25 each $18.00 each 300 & up $11.00 each

Thoughts for the Holidays Fourth Edition Finding Permission to Grieve By Doug Manning Doug gives the reader permission to find their own special way to cope, to remember and to survive the hurdles that the holiday season can present. Suggested Uses: • Holiday Memorial Services • Churches 1 - 99 books $4.00 each • Individuals 100 - 399 $3.75 each 400 - 799 $3.50 each Also available as an eBook from your favorite vendor 800 & up $3.25 each envelopes for mailing available .07 each / 24 pages 7 Children & Grief

I Know Someone Who Reactions A Workbook to A Child Remembers By Allison Salloum Died 3rd Edition Help Young People Who Are Experiencing Trauma & Grief Centering Corporation By Connie Manning Remember... A Child The friendly butterfly in the By Allison Salloum Centering Corporation Remembers is a write-in book gently discusses loss and This excellent workbook can memory book for bereaved grief in ways that the 3 to 8 year help children cope with grief and children age 8-12. This journal is old can understand. The pages loss, especially in traumatic or a unique tool for children who invite children to draw and color violent situations. It can be used are grieving over the death of as they express their . by family members, therapists, someone they love, and helps to 24 pages teachers or support group cope with the loss of a special 1 - 24 $5.00 each leaders to encourage children relationship and keep the 25 - 49 $4.75 each ages 6 to 14 to express their memories safely preserved. 50 - 124 $4.50 each feelings and find ways to cope. 125 & up $4.25 each 24 pages $7.95 each 40 pages $8.95 each Teens Fire in My Heart Ice In My Veins A Journal for Teenagers Experiencing a Loss By Enid Traisman Centering Corporation A guided journal for teenagers that allows them to write letters, copy meaningful song lyrics, write poems or verses in order to communicate how they are about their loss. This journal provides a safe and creative outlet for teens to express themselves while working through their own grief. 68 pages $11.95 each

Weird is Normal When Teenagers Grieve By Jenny Lee Wheeler Quality of Life Publishing Teens grieve differently from adults and often get lost in the shuffle after the death of a loved one. Weird Is Normal is unique because it is a self-help book for grieving teens written by an actively grieving teen. Author Jenny Lee Wheeler validates for her peers that they have the right to grieve in their own way and according to their own timetable, their grief might be different from those of adults around them, and they aren't going crazy. 110 pages $9.95 each

8 www.InSightBooks.com . 800.658.9262 . 405.810.9501 . [email protected] Helping Children For the Adults Helping Children in Grief

Understanding Suicide, What Do We Tell the Lean On Me Gently Supporting Children Children? Helping the Grieving Child The Dougy Center Talking to Kids About Death & 2nd Edition By Doug Manning This DVD provides insight on Dying By Joseph M. Primo When a death happens in the the and experiences Abingdon Press family, our first thoughts are that children, teens and families Supporting grieving children requires often of the children. However, affected by a suicide death often intentionality, open communication, we feel at a loss for ways to help go through, and offers ways to and patience. Rather than avoid all children deal with death and help. conversations on death or pretend like with their own feelings. 24 min $39.95 each it never happened, normalizing grief This book provides answers and offering support requires us to be and assurances for anyone who in tune with kids through dialogue as is concerned about a child in they grapple with questions of “how” grief. Doug looks at the grieving and “why.” When listening to children family, the grieving child and the in grief, we often have to embrace the red flags to watch for. He also mystery, offer love and , discusses providing a safe place and stick with the basics. for children to grieve and being 129 pages $17.99 each a safe person for them to grieve with. A section of tools and resources is also included. Suggested Uses: • Children’s ministries • Hospice Helping Children Grieve • Individuals With Khris Ford & Paula D’Arcy • Compassionate friends Paraclete Press This profound video resource 32 pages /Also available as an eBook offers helpful information to from your favorite vendor / Envelopes adults on how to help children for mailing available .07 each of all ages grieve with hope and 1 - 99 $4.00 each heart. 100 - 399 $3.75 each 55 min $39.95 each 400 - 799 $3.50 each 800 & up $3.25 each

Look Inside and see our complete collection at www.InSightBooks.com 9 Comfort Cards Birthday Send at the anniversary �or �i� �icult �imes of the loved one's birthday. Outside: Birthday Memories Hearts Journey Inside: Thinking of Outside: To live in hearts we leave behind is Send this card at the you on this special day not to die. —Thomas Campbell anniversary of the loss. See text Inside: May your heart be comforted by the on page 5. Butterfly memories of a special life. Outside: What we call death… Holiday Inside: God calls a Outside: new beginning Thoughts for the Holidays Inside left: The special days that usually bring so much joy and Light can Outside: Dear Lord, Be good to me. Your also be difficult sea is so wide and my boat is so small. for those who are —The Mariner’s grieving the loss of a loved one. Inside: Amidst the challenges of life, may Inside right: Thinking of you during this you find some calm waters. holiday season. Long Life Outside: A Edge long life shared Outside: When I walk to the edge of all the together holds light I have and take that step into the many memories. darkness of the unknown, I believe one Inside: May those of two things will happen. There will be memories keep something solid for me to stand on, or I you company during the lonely will be taught to fly. —S. Martin Edges Holy Ground Inside: Thinking of you times. Outside: Where there is there is holy ground. —Oscar Wilde Love’s Extra Inside: Thinking of you during this time of Large sorrow. Flame Outside: Grief Outside: Love’s only comes in one flame may flicker size...Extra Large but it never dies. Inside: My love Comfort Cards Inside: May and concern come 5” x 7” Comfort Card with envelope this flame be a in that same size. 1 - 49 $3.00 each memorial to the 50 - 99 $2.75 each life and love you 100 - 199 $2.50 each shared, a symbol 200 & up $2.25 each of life beyond life, and a reminder that you are in my thoughts each day.

10 See our complete collection of Comfort Cards & Lapel Pins at www.InSightBooks.com Comfort Cards Pet Inside left: Wonderful things Serve/Sunset happen when Inside Upper Panel: Lives are a dog greets us commemorated, hearts are touched and with unbridled memories are made tangible, because Wave and every life is worth remembering. Outside: Grieving is as natural as crying joy, or when a Inside Lower Panel: Thank you for the when you are hurt, sleeping when you are cat allows our privilege of serving you. tired, or eating when you are hungry… lap to be a pillow Inside: It is nature’s way of healing a for its royal-self and purrs contentment broken heart. as reward. Each lets us experience the rare gift of unreserved and undeserved Spanish Anniversary love. But when we love them in return Outside: El Duelo es un Viaje...Pasamos de ver a la persona something healing happens to our spirit. con los ojos A verla en los recuerdos... Our hearts learn to set love free and let it Inside top: En el principio, son demasiado dolorosos y cada unobstructed outward. And when recuerdo nos parte el corazón. Poco a poco, nos ayudan a a pet is gone, we feel hollow and empty establecer el significado de nuestra pérdida... Con el paso inside. The loss of a companion and del tiempo, nuestros recuerdos se convierten en nuestras más preciosas posesiones. Los friend leaves a hole in our hearts. recuerdos se entrelazan con nuestro ser, Y nuestro ser querido renace dentro de nuestros Inside right: Thinking of You corazones. Eso se llama...El Viaje del Duelo. —Doug Manning Inside bottom: Pensando en usted en el Aniversario de su pérdida. Lapel Pins

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The Power of Presence Helping People Help People DVD or Book 3rd Edition Training By Doug Manning The most The Funeral important skill that a A Chance to Touch, A professional or a lay Chance to Serve, A Chance caregiver can possess to Heal is knowing how to be DVD or Book 3rd Edition present for people By Doug Manning Funeral Service is at in ; how to be a crossroads—trying comfortable with to maintain the history their experience; how and tradition of the to “get in another past while facing a person’s bucket.” public that demands Doug takes the services that are reader on a journey through each of the difficult special, unique and transitions in life: aging, dying, grief, care giving, personalized. Doug and outlines how to be a solid and unwavering outlines the issues and offers comfort for those people in your world. suggestions and solutions that can transform your Suggested Uses: funerals. • Use the book alone or in combination with the DVD to provide a wonderful training Suggested Uses: • Use the book alone or in combination with experience. the DVD to provide a wonderful training • Provide training for staff, ministry teams, experience. volunteers • Provide training for clergy, staff, ministry • Anyone interested in helping others through teams, volunteers the tough transitions • Anyone involved in planning funerals Power of Presence Book / 120 pages / facilitators guide included at back of book The Funeral Book / 120 pages / facilitators guide included 1 - 24 $12.00 ea 100 - 299 $11.25 ea at back of book 25 - 49 $11.75 ea 300 & up $11.00 ea 1 - 24 $12.00 ea 100 - 299 $11.25 ea 50 - 99 $11.50 ea 25 - 49 $11.75 ea 300 & up $11.00 ea Power of Presence DVD / 130 min / $39.95 50 - 99 $11.50 ea The Funeral DVD / 156 min / $39.95