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OldOld LesbiansLesbians OrganizingOrganizing forfor ChangeChange Da-Da-Da-DAH! We Bring You the 2011 Regional Gathering By Gloria Stancich, 1935, and Mary Henry, 1939 The Portland and Puget Sound Chapters of OLOC are happy to announce that they will be hosting the 2011 Regional Gathering in Tacoma, Washington, July 28–31. Please mark your calendars now. In fact, we suggest being proactive and telling all your friends and family right now that that weekend is off limits for weddings, reunions, big birthday celebrations or any other events that might require your attention! We'll keep you posted as plans develop for program and enter- tainment at the Regional Gathering, but you can already plan on having a good time while you are in the area. We suggest looking into other sightseeing or vacation opportunities before and after our dates so you can have double the fun. Seattle, with its Space Needle, aquarium, zoo, Pike Street Market, and the original Starbucks isn't very far from Tacoma. In addition to all the City has to offer, it's also a major cruise port for trips to Alaska. Portland, Oregon, located along the gorgeous Columbia River, is less than three hours south and is an incredibly vibrant city, chock full of museums, parks, and Powell Books (which you’ve got to see to believe). "Hope we see you there!" say With any luck, you’ll be in the Tacoma area long enough to learn Deirdre Knowles and Gloria the lingo, such as saying “the mountain is out today” as you catch Stancich, two of the 2011 sight of the nearby glacier-covered Mt. Rainier, whose head is often Regional Gathering planners. in the clouds. Also, you can visit the Tacoma Museum of Glass. If you'd like to be on a mailing list for updates about this event and ideas for what else you can do in the area, drop us an e-mail request at [email protected] . Arcus Foundation Grant Carpenter OLOC has just received a grant of $25,000 from the Foundation Grant Arcus Foundation, based in Kalamazoo, Michigan, for general The E. Rhodes and Leona B. operating support for education and advocacy with and by Carpenter Foundation recently Old Lesbians and to increase cross-sector work on issues awarded OLOC an $8,000 grant such as class, race, age, gender, and sexual orientation. We for our organizing and outreach are honored by their generous support for the work we love work. OLOC is honored. doing: to be out and proud and sharpening the radical edge. TheThe ReporterReporter … A quarterly publication of OLOC December 2010 Volume 20 Issue 4 OLOC is a nonprofit 501(c)3 tax-exempt organization. The OLOC Reporter Silver and Gold New Resource Center The Silver Threads annual celebration for Lesbian for LGBT Seniors singles and couples 50 and over will be held January 13–17, 2011, in St. Pete Beach, Florida. For more information: In February, 2010, the U.S. www.silverthreadscelebration.org . Department of Health and Human Services awarded a landmark grant Golden Threads is a discreet, quarterly contact to Services & Advocacy for GLBT publication with a focus on Lesbians 50 and over. Elders (SAGE)—in partnership with 706-776-3959 Sample copy $5, PO Box 1688, Demorest GA ten organizations from around the 30535. [email protected] . country—to establish the country’s first and only technical assistance resource center aimed at improving the quality of services and supports offered to Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender older adults. SAGE is proud to announce the launch of the National Resource Center on LGBT Aging. For more information, visit: www.lgbtagingcenter.org . Pat Patton, Rachel Plevin, and Judith Fine share a game of dominos. Photo by Cathy Cade Lesbophobia: An Old Lesbian’s Experience in a Hospital By Mina K. Meyer, 1940 Eight months ago, after a heart attack, spouse asked the nurse about the Foley bag, the I ended up in the intensive care unit of a nurse replied, “Yes, it is close to bursting,” and kept major hospital. I was receiving excellent care on walking past the room. I had to call in the charge until I realized one nurse, on a particular nurse, complain about the Lesbophobia, and tell him shift, was not giving me the attention that I not to allow that nurse near me again. I also empha- needed. My Foley bag was not being emptied sized the need to educate the nurses on that floor in a timely way, my call button was not about Lesbians and gay men. being answered, and I was not being turned Communicating this information was very dif- at regular intervals. I felt very helpless, because ficult for me because of my feeling vulnerable and I had also broken two bones in my ankle when not knowing how the hospital staff would react. On the heart attack happened, so I couldn’t move the other hand, I felt my life was endangered by this myself around in the hospital bed. I was also nurse’s lack of respect for me. As it turned out, the heavily sedated with morphine. charge nurse profusely apologized for the actions My Lesbian spouse of 39 years came to of the Lesbophobic nurse and made sure I received see me every day and concurred that there excellent care for the rest of my stay. I never saw was Lesbophobia going on with that nurse. the Lesbophobic nurse again. I can only hope she The nurse also ignored my spouse’s attempts was educated so that her behavior will not be to get the situation corrected. When my repeated ever again. OLOC provides Old Lesbians with the chance to meet like-minded women in our common struggle to confront ageism, to share mutual interests, and to experience the joy and warmth of playing and working together. The OLOC Reporter Budgets Are Moral Documents By H. Patricia Hynes, 1943 The Pentagon budget is likely to Introduction. Here are five compelling points from top $700 billion in 2011, sustaining the Women and the U.S. Budget that address defense growth in defense spending which has spending. averaged a rate of seven percent per • The pieces of the federal budget pie that fund year over the past decade. Moreover, the education, energy, environment, social services, defense budget is ironclad and untouch- housing, and new job creation, taken together, able, while federal spending on survival receive less funding than the military/defense issues pits one vital domestic security budget. program against another. On Tuesday, • Over the past decade, domestic program budgets August 12, 2010, President Obama have grown at a lower rate each year, while the signed a $26-billion emergency bill to military budget continues to grow at a higher rate. help local and state governments make • The majority of military spending is “corporate Medicaid payments and reduce layoffs welfare,” funding high-profit defense contractors of teachers and public employees. The who are mainly white males. bill had been whittled down from $50 • Conversion of military jobs to non-defense sectors, billion and nearly half of the $26-billion such as clean energy, healthcare, and education, emergency fund was poached from the would result in a larger number of jobs overall. food-stamp program. This at a time when • A key survey of women’s priorities for federal the participation in the food-stamp pro- spending found that women ranked healthcare, gram has increased to one in every seven retirement security, job opportunities, good Americans (or approximately 41 million schools, and housing above homeland security people) due to the Great Recession, and spending. when a new and more realistic poverty measure will increase the number of A valuable companion to this primer people who are recognized as poor, is the National Priorities Project or NPP especially among older Americans. (www.nationalpriorities.org/), a website database that “Budgets are moral documents,” offers up-to-date information on government spend- states Congresswoman Barbara Lee; ing on military defense overall and on the wars in but “they don’t lend themselves to a Afghanistan and Iraq specifically. moral reading.” She adds that increases A growing movement, “Bring Our War Dollars in military spending are made at the Home,” uses the National Priorities Project data to expense of federal investment in afford- make the case for ending the wars in Afghanistan able housing, homecare, childcare, and and Iraq and redirecting defense spending to local education; yet no budget documentation social, health, and economic programs, including acknowledges this trade-off. veterans’ health services programs. Consider writing The best resource I have read on the a letter to the editor or an opinion piece for your local impact of the U.S. budget on women, with paper, using the NPP data for your town or city, to emphasis on defense spending, is Women inform readers about the unethical trade-off in social and the U.S. Budget by Jane Midgley, for spending that our government continues to make. which Congresswoman Lee wrote the OLOC is supported in part by grants from the Arcus Foundation, the Carpenter Foundation, the Astraea Lesbian Foundation for Justice, and Mary’s Pence. December 2010 Page 3 Subject www.oloc.org toll free 888-706-7506 Page 3 The OLOC Reporter Movie Review: Hannah Free Puget Sound OLOC Reporting In By Jennice Thomas, 1940 By Gloria Stancich, 1935, and Mary Henry, 1939 I saw Hannah Free at the OLOC We don’t know who it was that said life slowed Gathering in Cleveland last summer with down as you got older, but those of us in the Puget an audience of Old Lesbians, and I think it’s Sound OLOC chapter can testify that whoever it was fair to say that we could all see ourselves in got it all wrong! We were already busy with our ongo- the love story of Hannah and Rachel.