Strength and Growth from Hate?

L’ www.JewishFederationLCC.org Vol. 41, No. 10 n June 2019 / 5779 INSIDE THIS ISSUE: Strength and growth from hate? 6 Our Community By Brian Simon, Federation President 8 Jewish Interest grew up in a golden age for Jew- as they’ve learned, I don’t know that that his attack will motivate others. He ish people in the U.S. I’m sure they have solved the issue. is seeking attention as much as any- 12 Israel & the Jewish World I anti-Semitism existed when I was Historian Yuval Noah Harari, an thing else. 14 Commentary a kid, but I didn’t experience much of Israeli himself, writes that a terrorist is Here is Harari’s advice: “Above it. Henry Winkler was the coolest man like a fly trying to destroy a china shop. all, if we want to fight terrorism - ef 15 Marketplace in America. Most of the top comedians “The fly is so weak it cannot even fectively, we must realise that nothing 16 From the Bimah – Buddy Hackett, Robert Klein, Gary budge a single teacup. So it finds a bull, terrorists do can defeat us. We are the Shandling, Howie Mandel – were Jew- gets inside its ear and starts buzzing. only ones who can defeat ourselves, if 18 Focus on Youth ish. Years later, The bull goes wild with fear and anger, we overreact in a misguided way to ter- 20 Community Directory comedian Adam and destroys the china shop.” rorist provocations.” Sandler (who is In Harari’s view, terrorism is the- So we become more vigilant. We 20 Organizations only three years ater. The attack in Poway killed one hire security guards, and we try to deny 22 Temple News older than me) person and injured three others. If a car the terrorists the terror they seek to cre- would put our accident resulted in one death and three ate. Jewish pride into injuries, it would hardly be considered I don’t have the answers to my words by listing newsworthy. As a hate crime, it regis- children’s question, but here’s what 19 pop culture ters 12 million results on Google and I know: I can’t explain hatred. I just  Brian heroes for his Ha- its own Wikipedia page. know it exists. And we deal with it the Simon nukkah song. The Poway murderer was moti- best we can. As I grew older, I heard the stories vated (or inspired?) by the attacks in Rabbi Ben Sendrow used to tell of the prejudice that the generations Pittsburgh and Christchurch. He hopes continued on page 2 5 before me faced – being physically Federation’s Senior Lunch attacked by other kids, having rocks Bunch update thrown at them, being called a “dirty Jew,” – and that was in America, not Nazi Germany. They wore their expe- Senior Outreach Program riences like badges of honor. But these were people much older than me, my grandparents’ generation. I think about this in the wake of two attacks on synagogues. I’m con- 10 cerned that my children have a different experience of anti-Semitism than I Israeli cheesecake enshrouded did at their age. I asked them for their by knafeh – recipe by Chef Dalia perspectives on being Jewish today. My son made an interesting point. Come out for lunch, see familiar He saw the attacks in Pittsburgh and faces and meet new friends at San Diego as no different from the at- our free monthly senior lunches tacks on a church in Sri Lanka and a Thursday, June 13th mosque in Christchurch, New Zealand. 12:00 PM My daughter was upset that the San Temple Beth Shalom Diego killer had posted a manifesto 702 SE 24th Ave., Cape Coral 12 online just before he attacked the syna- RSVP by Friday, June 7th ISRAEL21c’s 14 must-read gogue in Poway. Why didn’t someone books about Israel see the posting and stop him before he Thursday, July 18th went to kill Jews? 12:30 PM The common concern for both my Amavida Senior Living kids is that they just can’t understand 7650 Gladiolus Dr. Fort Myers the hate. How could someone believe RSVP by Friday, July 12th they’re justified to kill a group of people based on religion? I don’t have any answers for them. 18 After Pittsburgh, our synagogue elected to hire armed police officers Let us know if you will be PJ Library Passover as guards for every event. Our doors driving or if you would like puppet show and luncheon a volunteer to pick you up. are locked all the time. Someone has to man the door, even during servic- RSVP—Jodi Cohen es, to let the right people in and keep 239-481-4449, ext. 2 or Have an item you’d the wrong people out. Did we have a [email protected] choice? like to share? For a long time, even before Pitts- burgh, I would sit in services and run Need to reach the through scenarios of how I would react if a gunman came into the sanctuary. editor of L’CHAYIM? Could I hide from the initial attack and surprise him from behind? Could I get Send an email to to the emergency exit? I guess I always LChayim36@ knew it was a possibility. So, this is the new normal for Jews gmail.com. in America. Israelis have lived with security concerns for 70 years. As much

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social service philanthropy culture L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 2 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties OUR FEDERATION Program notes To donate to By Debbie Sanford, Program Director By Jodi Cohen, Senior Outreach & Food Pantry Coordinator n April, our newest social group, JFED Hits the kugel, stuffed cabbage and Passover chocolate lolli- here are several topics to cover Road, traveled by luxury charter bus to Miami pops I bought. in this month’s JFS update, as the Federation’s IBeach. We had a great lunch at a kosher deli and Everyone had a great time and we are alreadyT there is “amazement in every sushi restaurant on Lincoln Road on our way to the planning our next bus trip during the winter months.corner,” as a former theatre director of Florida Jewish Museum. We Join us as we head to the Dali Museum, Acropolismine used to say. Annual Campaign, had a private docent tour of the Greek Restaurant and the Chihuly Museum. First, I want beautiful museum and spent JFED Hits the Road are fun and engaging road to reiterate that the some time in the gift shop. trips for people who want to see great places and meet Jewish Federa- call 239.481.4449 On our way home we new faces. So, join us on our next trip. For more in- tion provides food stopped at Kosher Kingdom formation, please contact me at 239.481.4449 x4 or and assistance to – a fitting name for this awe- [email protected]. those in need in or visit some place as it was indeed a Photos courtesy Jerry Wadro Lee and Charlotte kingdom and everything was counties regard-  Debbie kosher. We loaded the bus with less of religion or JewishFederationLCC.org Sanford some coolers and numerous background. Not bags of Israeli food products and kosher for Passover everyone understands this, so I think it foods to bring home with us. I personally enjoyed the bears repeating. About one-half of the Federation’s regular food pantry clients are Jewish. The Federation is getting at least o strengthen and enrih the ewish two new food pantry clients a month. onit roiding and sorting With new clients, I try to find out a hilanthroi edational and soial little about their situation to see if I serie rogras loall in srael and can recommend other resources or in- throghot the world formation that might be helpful. One family was about to have their electric- ity cut off, so through the Marcia Can Help Fund, the Federation was able to ewish onit that is ased on ensure that the lights and air condition- ewish ales sh as edakah ing stayed on. Two of the new clients (eneolene) ikkn la (reairing are receiving medical treatments near the world) and K’lal Yisrael (taking the Federation. One of these clients, resonsiilit or one another) let’s call him Shlomo, wasn’t aware of other food pantries in Fort Myers. We spent time in my office so I could show him how to access the Harry Chapin Food Bank (HCFB) map of pantries as well as the mobile food pantry schedule so he could get fresh food when the L’ truck would be in his area. Jewish news published monthly by The Federation has several food Jewish Federation of Lee & Charlotte Counties pantry clients who come from Lehigh 9701 Commerce Center Court, Fort Myers, FL 33908 Acres; many with three generations (239) 481-4449 • Fax: (239) 481-0139 Online at www.JewishFederationLCC.org living under one roof. Since Federa-  tion clients can only receive food here June 2019 • Volume 41, Number 10  once a month, I created flyers with the President: Brian Simon HCFB website along with the address- Board: Paul Bartrop • Karen Fine • Carolyn Gora es and distribution times for five food Jerry Greenfield • Andi Horowitz Linda Idelson • Marsha Kistler • Sara Krivisky pantries in Lehigh. Michele Laboda • Rozzi Osterman • Barbara Siegel The Federation received a grant Sylvia Simko • Robert Thomas • Sherri Zucker from an imprint company and received Executive Director: Alan Isaacs Program Director: Debbie Sanford over 400 canvas bags to use for pack- Executive Assistant: Lori Ramos ing groceries. Food pantry volunteer Jewish Family Services: Jodi Cohen  extraordinaire Donna Cotler suggested Editor/Designer: Ted Epstein (239) 249-0699 that we ask people to bring their bags Advertising: Jim Lewin (239) 634-6923 back the next month so we can use the  bags forever and a day. L’CHAYIM invites correspondence on subjects of interest to Jewish people. Partisan political opinions will not be published, Fifty-nine people from 16 house- but opinions on subjects affecting the Jewish community are holds received food and toiletries from welcome. All inquiries regarding copy for L’CHAYIM should be the Federation pantry in April. Your re- directed to the editor. All news material must be very clearly printed or typed (not in all-capital letters) and double-spaced. sponse to the weekly e-blast announce- Electronic submissions encouraged. The editor reserves the Brian Simon...continued from previous page right to edit for space and content. me, “There are no coincidences.” The weird thing is, ally, that great suffering or trauma can actually lead Photographs should be clear, black-and-white or color prints. If you wish a photograph returned, include a stamped, right before I finished this column, two unrelated ex- to a great positive change across a wide range of ex- self-addressed envelope of appropriate size. periences occurred just two days apart and reminded periences. After the March 11, 2004, train bombings The Jewish Federation of Lee & Charlotte Counties disclaims me of a very important lesson. in Madrid, for example, psychologists found many responsibility or endorsement of the views expressed by the writers and claims by advertisers. The first was a line from a song by Jewish rap residents experienced positive psychological growth. artist Ari Lesser. Concluding a Friday night service So too do the majority of women diagnosed with at Temple Judea, he sang, “Give thanks for the pain breast cancer… Increases in spirituality, compassion JULY ISSUE that keeps us strong.” It reminded me that my grand- for others, openness, and even, eventually, overall life EDITORIAL DEADLINE: parents’ generation of Jews were tough and became satisfaction.” remarkably accomplished. Their success probably led This is not to say that I welcome a new genera- Wednesday, June 5 to the acceptance in mainstream America that later tion of Jew-haters. And I am more than a little angry generations of Jews enjoyed. at having to hire armed guards for our gatherings. It is Then, on Sunday morning, I was reading The to say that we can grow from this crisis. That we must Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor. He wrote use this as an opportunity to strengthen our relation- Grow your business about the psychological concept called “Post-Trau- ships with the non-Jewish community and emerge matic Growth.” more resilient ourselves. with L’CHAYIM. “Today, we can say for certain, not just anecdot- Reach 5,000 local Stay in touch throughout the month. Jewish residents Sign up for the Federation’s e-blasts. through this paper. Get the latest information on upcoming For more information community events and cultural activities, or to place an ad, call Jim breaking news items, updates from Israel at 239.634.6923 and lots more. or send an email to Send an email to [email protected]. [email protected] L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 OUR FEDERATION Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 3 Program notes Jewish Family Services update By Jodi Cohen, Senior Outreach & Food Pantry Coordinator here are several topics to cover ment of food pantry needs is nothing combination of awe and bewilderment I would like to thank the tireless in this month’s JFS update, as short of amazing. Call and response! that I would offer to help him. It was a food pantry volunteers who keep the Tthere is “amazement in every I never know what I’m going to powerful moment. For me it was un- momentum going: Carolyn Gora, Bar- corner,” as a former theatre director of find on the shelves when I go to the derstanding how something as simple bara Gribin, Judith Yevick, Suzanne mine used to say. Midwest Food Bank (MFB) each as a phone call could enable this per- Orkin, Karen Whitman, Randi and First, I want month, so every single item that you son to get food to eat, and for the cli- Payton Wolf, Phyllis Boyar, Donna to reiterate that the donate matters and makes a difference. ent it was relief to realize that someone Cotler, Laurie McConville and Larry Jewish Federa- Our new food pantry clients have been would be willing to help him. Epstein. tion provides food surprised and grateful that we have and assistance to soap, toothpaste, toothbrushes, toilet Federation Food Pantry Coordinator Jodi Cohen hosted a pizza party at her home those in need in paper and feminine hygiene supplies in May to thank the food pantry volunteers for their service. “We have a physi- Lee and Charlotte to offer. cally small, but active pantry with more and more new clients every month. Each counties regard- By the way, the Federation provid- and every volunteer contribution keeps it all running smoothly,” said Cohen. less of religion or ed lunch on the first Tuesday in May – Pictured (L-R): Laurie McConville, Donna Cotler, Phyllis Boyar, Judith Yevick,  Jodi Cohen background. Not our regular pick-up day – for 35 MFB Carolyn Gora, Randi Wolf, Karen Whitman, Suzanne Orkin, Barbara Gribin everyone understands this, so I think it volunteers. Many churches send volun- bears repeating. About one-half of the teers to help lift, load, shlep and pack Federation’s regular food pantry cli- the food that each organization gets for ents are Jewish. free each month at MFB. Because the The Federation is getting at least Federation doesn’t send volunteers, we two new food pantry clients a month. provide lunch twice a year. From the With new clients, I try to find out a moment I showed up with the lunch, little about their situation to see if I word spread throughout the warehouse can recommend other resources or in- faster than a game of “telephone” that formation that might be helpful. One I was the woman providing lunch, and family was about to have their electric- people could not have been kinder. ity cut off, so through the Marcia Can We had requests for wheelchairs Help Fund, the Federation was able to from two clients who could not afford ensure that the lights and air condition- to buy them. Debbie Sanford did some ing stayed on. Two of the new clients immediate networking and got a very are receiving medical treatments near high-end wheelchair. I reached out to the Federation. One of these clients, Lisa Armstrong from our community Teachers Wanted let’s call him Shlomo, wasn’t aware of partner, Comfort Keepers, and Lisa other food pantries in Fort Myers. We brought over a wheelchair, a shower Temple Judea is seeking passionate and energetic spent time in my office so I could show chair, a commode chair and inconti- him how to access the Harry Chapin nence supplies for the other client in teachers for the 2019-2020 school year. Food Bank (HCFB) map of pantries as need. The turnaround time of both re- well as the mobile food pantry sched- quests to fulfillment was less than one Teaching experience, Jewish commitment ule so he could get fresh food when the week. and Hebrew skills are a plus. truck would be in his area. Through the Marcia Can Help The Federation has several food Fund, the Federation was able to help pantry clients who come from Lehigh clients: who have been struggling since For more details, call Tab at 239.433.0201 Acres; many with three generations hurricane Irma get caught up on their or email [email protected]. living under one roof. Since Federa- bills; buy new car tires; stay in their tion clients can only receive food here house as the family recovers from once a month, I created flyers with the medical situations that prevented both HCFB website along with the address- parents from working for awhile. es and distribution times for five food The calls for assistance increase pantries in Lehigh. each week. While people need infor- The Federation received a grant mation and resources, sometimes they from an imprint company and received also need an ally. One client said he over 400 canvas bags to use for pack- wasn’t able to stand in the food pan- ing groceries. Food pantry volunteer try line near where he lives because extraordinaire Donna Cotler suggested he is disabled and the line is so long. I that we ask people to bring their bags asked him if he had spoken to anyone back the next month so we can use the at the pantry about his situation and he bags forever and a day. said, “I doubt that it would make a dif- Fifty-nine people from 16 house- ference.” I then asked him if I might holds received food and toiletries from call on his behalf, using my title and the Federation pantry in April. Your re- the agency name to make the request sponse to the weekly e-blast announce- for assistance. He looked at me with a ally, that great suffering or trauma can actually lead to a great positive change across a wide range of experiences. After the March 11, 2004, train bombings in Madrid, for example, psychologists found many residents experienced positive psychological growth. So too do the majority of women diagnosed with breast cancer… Increases in spirituality, compassion for others, openness, and even, eventually, overall life satisfaction.” This is not to say that I welcome a new generation of Jew-haters. And I am more than a little angry at having to hire armed guards for our gatherings. It is to say that we can grow from this crisis. That we must use this as an opportunity to strengthen our relation- ships with the non-Jewish community and emerge more resilient ourselves. L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 4 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties OUR FEDERATION

The Jewish Federation Annual Campaign provides the resources to strengthen and enrich our Jewish community locally, in Israel and around the world. By Jodi Cohen, Senior Outreach & Food Pantry Coordinator

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FOOD PANTRY Temple Beth El Bonnie Pearlstein Temple Judea Jerry Wadro Israeli Folk Dancers Don Komito Mellow Mah Jongg Eva Kamish Sara Krivisky Betty & Jim Rubenstein Cheryl Fulmer Victor Gold Betteann Sherman Howard Silverman Harry Cotton Marsha Kistler Mae Folb Ruth Lefberg Lory Kirby Nancy Armocida Contact Neil Henry Brian Simon Paula Agranove Mike & Cheryl Goldstein Alan Isaacs 239.481.4449 x-6 [email protected] L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 OUR FEDERATION Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 5 Senior Lunch Bunch update Photos courtesy Helene Glocer By Jodi Cohen, Senior Outreach & Food Pantry Coordinator he Federation was welcomed The free monthly senior luncheon back by our generous commu- program continues to grow because Tnity partner, The Palms of Fort delight and joy are contagious. Our Myers, for what is becoming an annual volunteers are dedicated to doing the spring senior luncheon event. Laura big and small tasks that make the lun- Davis and Diana Hernandez, sales cheon run smoothly. The Senior Lunch and move-in coordinators respective- Bunch provides an opportunity for ly, and the entire Jewish seniors to staff at The Palms gather together and could not have been eat, kibbitz, learn friendlier or kinder a little something, to the Federation make friends and participants. Chef strengthen estab- Steve schmoozed lished friendships. with everyone dur- It always feels like �� L�� C�� C�� S�� ing the delicious lunch, thus avoiding a simcha and there is always a place at a group cheer. Many prizes were given the table for YOU! out for answers to the trivia questions, If you’d like to volunteer, please be Local �e�is� E�uca�on an� Culture and only one person attempted to con- in touch with me. Let us know if you Community‐wide Jewish Educa�on and Culture Programs for all ages including the Jewish Film Fes�val, Jewish Author sult with Siri for some of the answers. need a volunteer to pick you up. Events, Israel Celebra�on, Jewish genealogy, Israeli folk dancing, social groups, etc. NEXT SENIOR LUNCH BUNCH: L’CHAYIM published monthly to keep the Jewish community informed about local, na�onal and interna�onal Jewish issues. Thursday, June 13 at noon Community Rela�ons ac�vi�es include monitoring an�‐ Temple Beth Shalom, 702 SE 24th Ave., Cape Coral Semi�sm and issues of separa�on of church and state in the community. RSVP by Friday, June 7 to Israel Advocacy and Ini�a�ves to strengthen local Jewish Jodi Cohen at 239.481.4449 x2 or [email protected] community �es with Israel. Holocaust Educa�on through the Holocaust Museum of Southwest Florida to middle and high school students in the community.

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BIRTH Shalom Dancers Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center update Welcome Lilah Zekanoski, daughter of Carly and By Susan Suarez, President & CEO Mike Zekanoski, born April 27. Mazel Tov to grand- on the road again parents Rich and Susan Talbott, and great-bubbie By Marsha Kistler Natalie Fulton, coordinator of The Community Free pril 14 found the Shalom and a few brave souls took us up on the Synagogue. Dancers at Temple Shalom challenge! Ain Naples participating in the Thank you to our sponsor, the Jew- Jewish Federation of Greater Naples’ ish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Celebrate Israel event. Counties, for our new t-shirts sporting The event began with a concert by the Federation logo. And thank you to Jewish rock celebrity Rick Recht. After Jewish Federation of Greater Naples the concert, the audience filed into the for inviting us to participate and for its social hall to visit the many booths set kind donation to our Federation’s In- BAT MITZVAH up around the room, nosh on Dalia’s digent Fund on behalf of the Shalom falafels and watch some folk dancing. Dancers. Aliza Litvak, eldest daughter of Angela and We invited the audience to participate Stanley Litvak, sibling to Ella and Jacoby, was called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Sat- urday, April 27 at Temple Beth El. Aliza is a seventh-grader at Lexington Middle School, where she is on the dance team and in the Na- tional Junior Honor Society. She was born in Fort Lauderdale and spent most of her childhood in Melbourne, and recently moved to Fort Myers. However, Aliza enjoys the cold weather much better! Aliza loves her dog Rocky and claims to love him maybe even more than her parents. Aliza plans to become a veterinarian or medical doctor. Whatever is easiest. Avital Peres, Betsy Douglas, Bonnie Kasdan, Morty Dougatz, Lily Raider, daughter of Dr. Andrew and Marsha Kistler, JoAnn Lewin, Lynn Jaffe, Aki Klein Brooke Raider, will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, June 15. A seventh- grade honor student at Charlotte Preparatory School, Lily loves traveling, photography, MAKE A TRIBUTE GIFT

adventures, swimming and hanging out with friends. Lily has earned MVP on her school’s A tribute is a thoughtful gift honoring a track team for the past two years. Her other special occasion , including birthdays, interests include performing in school singing anniversary's, promotions, bar/bat ensembles and in summer theatre camp. Lily’s mitzvah, or to express sympathy. parents commend her on her commitment to her Jewish education. She has traveled from Punta Gorda to Temple Beth El for many years, and most often with a smile on her face. She would like to thank Dale Cohen for being an incredible teacher Honoring a special person

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This award is proof of the con- crimes of the Holocaust and the hate- ing guest speakers, amazing exhibits, Museum & Cohen Education tinuing growth of public recognition and filled actions in today’s headlines, most events, films, local and international GCenter! Hard to believe, but awareness of the value of our education recently the synagogue attack only three dignitaries. We have benefitted from moving day is almost here! In just one programs and our contribution to the days before their visit to the Museum. countless hours of volunteer time and month’s time, our new Museum will quality of life in our SWFL community. As we transition to the new Mu- generous financial support of our mis- open at its new location – 975 Impe- Pick up a copy of the May “Best of the seum, we look back on the memories sion. Over 200,000 students and visi- rial Golf Course Blvd., Naples, FL Gulfshore” issue to see the winners and made in our current home. It was the tors from all over the world have been 34110. Please note finalists for a large variety of categories. scene of many firsts – survivors finding impacted by their participation in our our phone number Triumph 2019 speaker Christian the courage to step inside and confront education programs and visits to the (239.263.9200), Picciolini recently visited the Museum the past; others who finally opened up Museum. We look forward to the impact e-mail address to participate in the filming of a docu- and decided to share their experiences our new Museum will have upon future (info@Holocaust mentary about his work as a peace advo- publicly for the first time with total students and visitors. We hope you will MuseumSWFL. cate, set to air in June or July 2019. Our strangers. We hosted many interest- join us on the journey. org) and website current exhibit, “Marching in America,” (www.Holocaust will be included in the film. The exhibit MuseumSWFL. traces the early 20th century rise in the  Susan org) will remain U.S. of fascist and Nazi movements, Suarez the same. and contains personal items loaned by We anticipate closing our current Christian from his years as a member FORT MYERS/ SANIBEL GATEWAY location (4760 Tamiami Trail North, and leader of a Chicago skinhead group. Suite 7, Naples) to the public around In addition to his speaking engagements Newly Renovated! FREE Parking the second week in June in order to get around the world, Christian assists FREE High- Speed Internet everything ready for the big move. If people in rebuilding their lives as they Complimentary Laundry Facility MENTION THIS you are planning a Museum visit, please escape white supremacist environments. 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They urged the to attend. students to carefully consider the deci- More exciting news of a big honor sions on who their role models should for the Museum! The readers of Gulf- be and to always realize the impact that shore Life magazine voted our Museum words and actions can have on others. “Best Museum – Collier County” in its After they spoke, there was a Q&A ses- 2019 Readers’ Choice Annual Awards! sion with students and several survivors It is the second time in three years that who were in attendance. This discussion the Museum has been honored with this brought into sharp focus for the students designation, and we thank all who voted the connection between the hate-driven

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Converts years of doing his celebrity column, and he has expert friends who can help to Judaism, of course, are also identified as Jewish. when called on. Most family history experts charge $1,000 or more to do a full family-tree search. However, Bloom knows that most people want to start The Tribe Goes to the Tonys: for his score (music & lyrics). Yazbek’s with a limited search of one family line. 2019 Edition mother is Jewish. The Tony Awards, for excellence in the He competes in this category with So here’s the deal: Broadway theater, will be presented his old friend ADAM GUETTEL, Write Bloom at [email protected] and enclose a phone number. on Sunday, June 9 at 8:00 p.m. (CBS). 54, who wrote the score for To Kill a Here are the confirmed Jewish nominees Mockingbird. Years ago, Guettel and Nate will then contact you about starting a limited search. If that in all but the technical categories. This Yazbek played in a band together. In goes well, additional and more extensive searches are possible. is an atypical year in that no Jewish 2000, Guettel declined an offer to write The first search fee is no more than $100. No upfront cost. Also, playwrights were nominated for best the score for The Full Monty and gave (new) play. Yazbek his big career break when Yaz- several of this newspaper’s readers have asked Bloom to locate Acting: ELAINE MAY, 87, lead- bek got the job because Guettel recom- friends and family members from their past, and that’s worked out ing actress in a play. She co-stars in a mended him. Guettel is the grandson great for them. So contact him about this as well. revival of the 2001 play The Waverly of the late great composer RICHARD Gallery by Oscar-winner KENNETH RODGERS. His mother, the late LONERGAN, 56 (whose mother was MARY RODGERS, also composed Jewish). May plays the Jewish owner of (Once upon a Mattress) and wrote (the a Manhattan art gallery who is gradu- original Freaky Friday movie). Guettel ally declining due to Alzheimer’s. May won the best score Tony in 2005 for The became famous in the late ’50s as the Light in the Piazza. A musical co-written partner of the late MIKE NICHOLS in by his grandfather in 1943, Oklahoma!, the brilliant comedy team of Nichols and is Tony-nominated this year in the best May. Later, she wrote and directed the musical (revival) category. Oklahoma! hit filmThe New Leaf and directed The vies with just one other revival for the Heartbreak Kid. Her life partner of 20 Tony, Kiss Me, Kate. Honest, caring and years, the great director/choreographer LARRY HOCHMAN, 65, is nomi- knowledgable advice STANLEY DONEN (Singin’ in the Rain; nated for his orchestration for Kiss Me, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers) died Kate. He’s won four Emmys for his about assisted in February at age 94. 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Laugh-In special was filmed live at Los Chavkin won best director of a musical Angeles’ Dolby Theater. The tape of the Tony in 2015. special premiered on Netflix on May 14. Best director, play: SAM MEN- It’s hosted by original Laugh-In cast DES, 53, Ferryman. Mendes is British member Lily Tomlin, who appears as and his mother is Jewish. He won an two of her famous Laugh-In characters. Oscar for directing American Beauty, Jewish stars appearing include BILLY and he directed the James Bond films CRYSTAL, 71, TIFFANY HADDISH, Skyfall and Spectre. 39, BRAD GARRETT, 59, JON Composers: DAVID YAZBEK, LOVITZ, 61, JEFF ROSS, 53, 57, is nominated for writing the score NATASHA LEGGERO, 45, and MI- for the stage musical version of the hit CHAEL DOUGLAS, 74. Also appear- filmTootsie . 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There was no way that the the U.S., trying to come up with the taste hotel breakfasts and served on Shabbat heavy syrup-drizzled baked monstros- and texture he remembered. Long after, mornings in Israeli homes. It’s one of ity was the local version of my favorite he told me that the cheesecake was the the two to three cakes that most every confectionary creation. I felt sorry for reason he decided to marry me! homemaker knows by heart and has in others, for not knowing what a joy In this fusion incarnation of the regular rotation. eating a cold piece of chilled Israeli classic Israeli treat, I created my favorite This ubiquitous dessert is the sub- cheesecake could be. Israeli cheesecake – a traditional Is- ject of many a Jewish argument as to The big difference between Israeli raeli cheesecake enshrouded by knafeh its origins, about which there are lots and American cheesecakes is the cheese. (ka-nee-fah) syrup-soaked strands of of different opinions and very little American cheesecakes are made mostly dough which form the base and topping consensus. with cream cheese. The famous New for this soft, white Shavuot treat. That cheesecake was one of the first York cheesecake features mounds of I’ve replaced the crumb base and foods that Jews assimilated from their that goodness, resulting in a dense, topping with a baklava-inspired knafeh. heavy cake. Sweet and incredibly delicious, our The Israeli cheesecake cul- cheese knafeh is a family favorite from ture was born from the European Jerusalem that features shredded phyllo Personal Chef Dalia Hemed bakery culture, in addition to dough and cheese filling to create a can be reached at being reliant upon the products fascinating dessert swimming in orange- [email protected]. that are readily available in Israel, blossom/lemon syrup and crushed mostly soft white cheese, Gvina pistachios. I use Gvina Levana, an minutes until thickened to syrup. Levana, which is 5%-9% fat. exceptionally soft and creamy cheese, Remove from heat and set aside. The most loved and com- which ensures a delicate cake. For those XX Meanwhile, combine the shredded mon cheesecakes in Israel are unable to find this Israeli treasure, Quark dough with the melted butter. Toss variations of a baked cheesecake, cheese is similar in texture and is readily well to coat. using cheese, sugar, cornstarch or available in most stores. XX Spread the shredded dough on the instant pudding, eggs and vanilla During preparation, the frozen cookie sheet and bake in the pre- extract. Sometimes with a crust, dough is shredded and doused in but- heated oven for about 20 minutes, sometimes topped with sour ter, slowly cooked in the oven, and stirring every five minutes or so to cream, you will find it in most then drenched with spiced, sugar-based ensure the dough turns uniformly every home. syrup. The flavor combination and brown. The other all-time favorite texture produce an absolutely divine XX Remove from oven and pour the Israeli cheesecake is a crumb dessert, a perfect finish to any dairy syrup over the shredded dough; toss cheesecake, Gvina Perurim. It meal. Knafeh is a popular Israeli dairy to coat completely. Then remove the Central European neighbors. The fa- has a crust (either baked or crushed dessert that is a rich, filling golden-pie shredded dough from the baking mous New York-style baked cheesecake Petit Beurre mixed with melted but- indulgence that will put other Shavuot sheet and place in a fine mesh sieve may be popular among many cheese- ter) topped with a very thick layer of desserts to shame. over a bowl or directly over the sink. cake fans, but the lesser-known Israeli cake (an unbaked mixture of soft white Knafeh ingredients: Let all the excess liquid drain off. version is something quite spectacular. cheese, whipped cream, sugar) and • 1 package frozen shredded phyllo XX Press one-third of the knafeh into Some of you may think you know topped with crispy crumbs. dough the bottom of the greased spring- cheesecake. Well, my friends, I’m here My husband is literally obsessed • 1 cup melted, unsalted butter form pan, then set the rest aside. Sugar syrup ingredients: XX Now prepare the cheese: In a stand • 2 cups white sugar mixer using the whisk attachment, • 1 cup water beat egg whites until soft peaks • Juice of half a lemon or quarter of form. Slowly add sugar and con- an orange tinue beating until stiff. Remove • ½ tsp ground cinnamon from bowl and set aside. • ¼ tsp ground cardamom XX Wash bowl and dry, then place in • 2 tablespoons shelled pistachios freezer for 10 minutes. Add whip- and/or hazelnuts ping cream to the bowl and whip Cheesecake ingredients: until thick. Add pudding powder, • 3 large egg whites mix until combined. Fold white • ½ cup sugar cheese into whipped cream. Gently • 1 container whipping cream fold egg whites into the mixture • 3 tbsp vanilla pudding powder and pour into the prepared knafeh • 500 gram container soft white base. cheese, 5% or 9% XX Refrigerate for one hour until the XX Preheat oven to 325°. Line a cookie cheesecake feels firm to the touch. sheet with parchment paper. Grease XX Take the remaining knafeh and spring-form pan with butter or oil. crumble it on top of the cheesecake, XX In a small saucepan, combine all piling it high in the middle. Return the ingredients for the sugar syrup. to refrigerator and chill overnight. Bring to a boil, and then lower to XX Before serving, sprinkle crushed a simmer, cooking for around 10 nuts on the top of the cake. L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 JEWISH INTEREST Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 11 Virginia is for (wine) lovers By The Wine Whisperer few weeks ago, a friend a few years ago I sampled an offer- etals. There is no characteristic grape, nounced flavors of cherries and nuts on stopped by the house carrying ing from Barboursville Vineyards, lo- like Cabernet Sauvignon in Napa. the palate. This wine can age for de- A two bottles of Cabernet Franc. cated just north of Charlottesville, and They are producing Italian wines like cades. WW 94 He had driven to Southwest Florida I never forgot it. So this past October, Nebbiolo, French varietals such as Barboursville Vermentino Re- from New York, I contacted the winery and arranged Cabernet Franc, and many others. This serve Virginia 2016 ($23) – Even and while pass- an interview with winemaker Luca is partly due to the wide range of soils though this grape is native to places ing through Vir- Paschina, during the most recent Wine and climates enjoyed by producers like Corsica and Sardinia, Virginia is ginia took a de- Experience. all over the state, although the “sweet giving it a new twist. Stainless steel tour to the state’s “Our wines have to be very high spot” is on the eastern slope of the Blue fermentation and aging gives it citrus wine country. quality,” says Paschina, “or they won’t Ridge Mountains, where the vines bask aromas and bracing acidity. WW 89 Wait a sec- impact the market.” He notes that the in early morning sun. Ask the Wine Whisperer ond, you might region doesn’t have the high profile or “Most Virginia wines are sold lo- I’ve heard people talk about “micro- say. Virginia? It consumer awareness of more tradition- cally,” notes Paschina. That’s due to biology” in wines. Does wine actually  Jerry isn’t exactly Cali- al regions, so he and other winemakers the increased wine tourism we just not- have bacteria growing in it? – Caro- Greenfield fornia, Oregon or in Virginia had their work cut out for ed. “But,” he says, “more of our wines line L., Port St. Lucie Washington State, so what’s the sto- them. are attracting national attention.” He’s Wine is a product of fermentation, ry? As it happens Virginia is one of According to Paschina, “The ter- right about that. His winery wasn’t the just like cheese and yogurt, so there America’s original winegrowing re- roir and climate in the area are com- only Virginia producer invited to pour are all kinds of bacteria that work with gions – perhaps THE original. Think parable to the Piedmont or Maremma at the Wine Experience; others are at- yeast as it turns sugar into alcohol. Thomas Jefferson, Ben Franklin and in Italy. I’ve been with the winery 29 tracting well-deserved attention as Lactic and acetic acid bacteria are the other residents of the area who traveled years and have never seen a consistent well. most characteristic, and very benefi- regularly to France in the late 1700s, weather pattern. So we have a long his- For starters, we sampled a range cial. In fact, there is some research that Personal Chef Dalia Hemed bringing back the best the country had tory of trial and error.” of varietals from Barboursville, and indicates the live bacteria in wine may can be reached at to offer. Plus, Washington and -Jeffer It has finally paid off. The Barbo- they’re reviewed below. As we dive be good for us. [email protected]. son were eager to get the wine industry ursville wines, and those we’ve sam- into offerings from other producers, Jerry Greenfield is The Wine Whisper- going. Being independence-minded, pled from other Virginia wineries, can we’ll bring you up to date. er. He is Creative Director of Green- they didn’t want to have to depend on be excellent. In fact, the interest in the Barboursville Octagon Virginia field Media & Marketing, and Wine European sources. Although the ini- area has grown so quickly that tourists 2014 ($55) – A rich blend of Bordeaux Director of the international Direct tial results were disappointing (to say are swarming, and many natives are up varietals, it’s mostly Merlot and Cab- Cellars wine club. His new book, Ask the least), today they’re doing great in arms about the crowds and traffic. ernet Franc. Dark purple-violet, the the Wine Whisperer, has just been pub- things with an astonishing variety of The most surprising and intrigu- aromas hit you with berries, coffee and lished. Read his other writings at www. grapes. ing part is that Paschina and others are chocolate thanks to the 12 months it winewhisperer.com. I wasn’t all that surprised, because cultivating an enormous range of vari- spends in French oak. There are pro- Symphony of the Heart and World Doctors Orchestra By Arlene Stolnitz ecently, I had an appointment Heart, an international pediatric cardiac is represented by musicians from around The recent February concerts in with my physician, Dr. Robert center at the Wolfson Medical Center in the world. Israel featured a program of music that RFelman, a gastroenterologist Israel, which serves as a children’s hos- The World Doctors Orchestra is included Antonin Dvorak’s “Symphony who practices in Venice. pital for the local Israeli population. To driven by the spirit of its players. The No. 8,” George Gershwin’s “Rhapsody I knew that Bob is a musician date, Save a Child’s Heart has provided participants cover their own travel ex- in Blue,” and a selection of popular who plays clari- care for 5,000 children from nearly 58 penses, and local costs are kept low. All works with Ester Rada, an Ethiopian-Is- net around town developing countries and trained more participants are medical professionals raeli jazz singer. (Check out her innova- in various local than 120 medical team members from and, at the same time, enthusiastic and tive video, Life Happens, on YouTube.) groups includ- these countries. active musicians, many of them with Dr. Felman told me his next gig with ing The Venice The World Doctors Orchestra is a professional musical backgrounds. A the group will be in Houston in August Concert Band and registered nonprofit organization that great variety of medical specialties are in conjunction with the Texas Medical Klezmania on the combines the pleasure of music with represented. Specialists in internal med- Center Orchestra. Gulf. What I did charity. It made its debut in Berlin Phil- icine, general medicine, and child and Arlene Stolnitz, founder of the Sarasota not know was that harmonic Hall in May 2008. Its U.S. youth medicine take the lead. There is Jewish Chorale, has sung in choral he is a member of premiere took place in Cleveland, with a wide variety of specialization in diag- groups for over 25 years. A retired edu- Arlene Stolnitz the World Doctors concerts following in countries around nostic and therapeutic areas, as well as cator, she is a graduate of the Gulf Coast Orchestra, whose program I picked up the world. The founder and conductor in pharmacology. About 100 musicians Community Leadership Foundation. A as I was checking out. of the orchestra is Prof. Dr. Stefan Wil- participate in each concert, depending member of the Jewish Congregation So what is this orchestra I had never lich, a highly regarded cardiologist and on the instruments needed. The Board of Venice, the Venice Chorale and the known anything about? I was surprised researcher with an extensive musical of Trustees includes such well known Sarasota Jewish Chorale, her interest to find out that over 1,200 physicians background in violin, chamber music musicians as Martin Hoffman, General in choral music has led to this series from about 50 nations “trade their white and conducting. As artistic director, his Manager Berliner Philharmoniker, and of articles on Jewish Folk Music in the coats for evening attire and perform experience has taken him to places such Honorary Member Maestro Zubin Diaspora. benefit concerts for those in need of as Stuttgart, Berlin, Paris, and Tangle- Mehta. health care.” wood in the U.S. On February 6, 2019, the orchestra, Looking through the program, under the direction of Prof. Dr. Stefan names from nearly every country in the Willich, presented a concert entitled world appear. Violinists from Germany, Jewish Federation of Lee & Charlotte Counties Symphony of the Heart in the Jerusalem Spain, Australia, Switzerland, South Theater, Jerusalem. On the following Africa; violists from the UK, U.S., Seeking night they played in the Charles Bron- Italy, Israel; double bass players from fman Auditorium, Tel Aviv. 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Contact Alan Isaacs 239.481.4449 x-6 lcc.org a@jfed [email protected] ypadill l to am n emai SenSendd a an email to [email protected] L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 12 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties ISRAEL & THE JEWISH WORLD The Night of 14 must-read books the Long Knives about Israel By Paul R. Bartrop, PhD To help you get to grips with this fascinating country, we’ve ighty-five years ago this month, and the Army. Röhm, who saw himself put together a reading list of the 14 best books to help you on June 30, 1934, an event that gaining steadily in both power and im- understand Israel’s history, culture and technology. Ebecame known as the Night of portance, had high expectations for the By Jessica Halfin, ISRAEL21c.org the Long Knives took place through- SA, and made demands of Hitler that n this advanced digital age some- volume contains over 600 photographs, out Germany. The ultimately caused an irreparable rift times it’s still nice to receive a good maps and other sources that will turn event saw a series between the two old friends. Röhm and Ibook that can be held in your hands, your coffee table into an informative of extrajudicial ex- many of the SA members expected that flipped through and used as a learning museum-like experience. ecutions carried out Hitler would lead a political revolution tool in your household. The Story of the Holy Land: A Visual that were intended to that would lean more heavily on social- The following 14 English-language History by Peter Walker consolidate the hold ism than on capitalism. This was of great books, all from the last decade, are The story of Israel through modern on power of Adolf concern to Germany’s business leaders, excellent representations of Israel in photographs, Hitler and the Nazi including – much to Hitler’s disquiet – food, culture, history, technology and drawings and  Dr. Paul Party. the major financial contributors to the children’s literature, written by leading explanations Bartrop Hitler, together Nazi Party. authors, illustrators and photographers by a profes- with Hermann Göring and Heinrich Even as Hitler was shifting some of from Israel and the English-speaking sor of bibli- Himmler, sought to bring the head of the the Stormtroopers’ former responsibili- world. cal studies at Sturmabteilung, Ernst Röhm, to heel, as ties – such as protecting party leaders – Each one would make a stellar gift Trinity School it was feared that this huge paramilitary to Heinrich Himmler and his SS, Röhm for family or friends with a broad range for Ministry in organization numbering nearly four mil- continued to insist that he and the SA of interests, or would do as just a little Pennsylvania, lion might be about to launch a coup of should play a larger role in the Party. something for yourself to learn about this book ex- its own against Hitler. Perhaps of greater concern was Röhm’s one of the most fascinating countries amines Israel and the many conquests Ernst Röhm was one of the first demand, made in early 1934, that the SA in the world. of its land from biblical to modern members of the Nazi Party, and was per- would form the core of a new Germany Nonfiction times. Filled with history explained in haps Hitler’s oldest and closest friend. military. This was anathema to the pro- Israel: A Concise History of a Nation Walker’s compelling style of factual The son of a railway official, he was fessional officer corps that viewed the Reborn by Daniel Gordis storytelling, it should have a spot in your born on November 28, 1887, in Munich. SA as a group of undisciplined thugs. This refresher course on Israel’s short library or on your coffee table. Joining the Army, he was commissioned Hitler, recognizing his need for the yet complex history, written by an au- Food in 1908 and was wounded three times Army’s support, was unwilling to agree thor and columnist Israeli Soul by Michael Solomonov during World War I, including a serious to Röhm’s demands. for the Jerusalem This new bible of Israeli food by the wound to his face that left him perma- In addition to rejecting his play for Post and Bloom- unofficial ambassador of Israeli cuisine, nently disfigured. He was awarded the power, the Army’s officer corps also berg View, is a American chef Michael Solomonov, is Iron Cross First Class in 1916, and by rejected Röhm’s personal habits, finding good book to read the culmination of his personal travels 1918 had been promoted to the rank of them to be offensive to the standards of before passing it and experiences in Israel and in running captain. the professional military. Specifically, on to your friends his Jewish- and Israeli-themed Ameri- After the war he remained in the Röhm was homosexual and made no and family. can restaurants. military but soon revealed an interest in efforts to hide the fact. When combined From his You’ll be delighted to find Israeli politics. Among other things, he helped with the image of the SA as little other home base in Je- flavors infused into paletta popsicles; to put down left-wing movements in than thugs and drunks, the military’s rusalem, Daniel Gordis delves into more recipes that are lesser known outside April and May of 1919 that sought to opposition to Röhm and the SA was than just what’s written in the history of Israel, such as mafroum; and Solo- replace the newly installed Weimar complete. books, writing about Israel’s political, monov’s famous hummus and quick Republic with a communist government Hitler increasingly saw Röhm and social and economic developments and tahini sauce. in Munich. the SA as a threat, and became con- other cultural achievements, while ask- Jerusalem by Yotam Ottolenghi and Of greater importance, it was short- cerned about the possibility of a coup ing questions like: “Why does such a Sami Tamimi ly after the war that Röhm first met attempt. Tasking Göring and Himmler to small country speak to so many global More than just a cookbook, Jerusalem – Hitler. In 1919 he joined the German draw up a list of SA leaders who should concerns?” and “Why does Israel make by Israeli-Jewish culinary legend Yotam Workers’ Party, a tiny right-wing fringe be killed in order to dismantle the SA the decisions it does?” It’s a reminder Ottolenghi and his former restaurant party that would soon change its name to and integrate it into the German military, of the facts and triumphs we all need to partner Sami Tamimi, an Israeli-Arab the National Socialist German Workers’ Hitler contacted Röhm and ordered him brush up on now and again. who grew up on Party – the Nazi Party. Röhm recognized to call all senior SA leaders to a confer- No Room for Small Dreams: Courage, the other side of Hitler’s oratorical and leadership skills, ence that would be held on June 30, Imagination and the Making of Mod- the city from Ot- and they became fast friends. Even after 1934. Hitler supervised his arrest and ern Israel by Shimon Peres tolenghi – is a Hitler rose to power in Germany, Röhm imprisonment, as many SA men were A personal account from the man who book of cultural was one of the very few people who killed outright. Reluctant to kill his old had a front-row seat for it all, this inspi- evaluation, in- called him by his first name. friend, Hitler nonetheless bowed to pres- rational autobiography by Israel’s late sight and food. It was Röhm who protected Hitler sure from Göring and Himmler, and on ninth prime minister is filled with all the Including in his Beer Hall Putsch in November July 1, 1934, had Röhm shot. wisdom Peres soaked up during his 70- traditional Jew- 1923 that rebelled against the Weimar The purge, codenamed Operation year stint in Israeli politics. Readers get ish and Arab Republic. It was a stunning failure, Hummingbird, solidified the Army’s a deeper look into what went on behind recipes, a plethora of information and with Hitler and Röhm (among oth- support of Hitler, and greatly increased the scenes during Israel’s greatest trying stories about the city, and beautiful pho- ers) arrested and convicted of treason. Himmler’s power within the regime. moments and moral dilemmas. tographs, this is one book that should be Although Röhm did not actually serve At least 85 people (and perhaps many History/Coffee-Table Books on the shelf of every Israel supporter and time (instead, he resigned from the more) died during the purge, including Israel Rising: Ancient Prophecy/Mod- culinary enthusiast. military), he nonetheless had earned former Chancellor Kurt von Schleicher ern Lens by Doug Hershey Innovation his place in Hitler’s inner circle as and leading Nazi Gregor Strasser. More Drawing upon biblical prophecy regard- Thou Shalt Innovate: How Israeli an “Old Fighter” who had shown his than a thousand others were arrested. ing the future blossoming of the land of Ingenuity Repairs the World by Avi unquestioning loyalty to the future The purge also provided a legal Israel, this coffee-table book compares Jorisch Führer. grounding for Hitler’s regime, as Ger- pictures from the 1880s to 1940s with An updated guide to Israel’s innovative During the 1920s and 1930s, street man judges hastened to demonstrate modern views of Israel, to show how spirit and global goodwill that piggy- brawls took place between competing their loyalty to Hitler. The Night of far the country has come: sandy deserts backs off the famous Start-Up Nation German political parties, making it nec- the Long Knives was a turning point turned into booming metropolises, fer- (2009) but with a different angle, Thou essary to have groups of men on hand to for the German government, establish- tile agriculture, and a society that has Shalt Innovate not only discusses state- protect speakers and officials and intimi- ing Hitler as the supreme authority in grown to become one of the world’s of-the-art Israeli medicine, agriculture, date the opposition. For the Nazis, this Germany. Hitler then had his actions leaders in technology. water and defense technologies and task fell to a paramilitary unit founded retroactively legalized with the passage Israel Rising is a fascinating re- the developers behind them, but also by Hitler in 1921, the Sturmabteilung of the Law Regarding Measures of State minder that Israel’s achievements of the takes a look at why Israeli culture is so (SA, also known as the Stormtroopers Self-Defense, explaining his actions by modern era were built up from scratch compatible with the spirit of innovation, or Brownshirts). reference to the need to protect the state on the backs of pioneers. and how the contributions in each field Röhm became the leader of the SA against treason. With this, the Nazi dic- A History of Israel: From the Bronze can continue to change the world for the in early 1930. By late 1933, due in part tatorship was almost complete. Age through the Jewish Wars by Wal- better in the future. to his popularity, the organization had Dr. Paul Bartrop is Professor of History ter C. Kaiser Jr. and Paul D. Wegner Let There Be Water: Israel’s Solution become a force of awe-inspiring size, and the Dir. of the Center for Judaic, Reviewers have called this a “personal for a Water-Starved World by Seth M. dwarfing the German military. Holocaust, and Genocide Studies at library” going back thousands of years Siegel The SA’s growth eventually became Florida Gulf Coast University. He can to explain the history of Israel from the Leading the field in water processing a problem for Hitler, the Nazi Party be reached at [email protected]. very beginning. An encyclopedia of and conservation, Israelis are known history from a biblical, historical and ConneCt archaeological perspective, this large continued on next page with your Jewish Community Changing your address? Keep www.facebook.com/ L’CHAYIM coming to your home. facebook.com/jfedsrqJewishFederationLCC Email [email protected]. L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 ISRAEL & THE JEWISH WORLD Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 13 14 must-read books FIDF supporters heading to Poland and Israel about Israel with Holocaust survivors and Israeli military officers To help you get to grips with this fascinating country, we’ve EW YORK, April 15 – More later brought to Auschwitz, where she The entire delegation will then fly we must do to protect our country and put together a reading list of the 14 best books to help you than 40 Friends of the Israel and her sister were separated from their to Israel on an Israeli Air Force (IAF) our people to guarantee – Never Again.” understand Israel’s history, culture and technology. NDefense Forces (FIDF) sup- family. Gita was later sep- airplane, after the IDF “This mission serves as one of the porters from across the country will em- arated from her sister and Chief of the General last opportunities for survivors to return volume contains over 600 photographs,bark on a mission to Poland and Israel, sent to Germany, where Staff granted the FIDF to Auschwitz and share its dreadful maps and other sources that will turnMay 2-10, with Holocaust survivors she worked for most of the delegation exclusive stories,” said Cohen. “We will walk your coffee table into an informativeand alongside 45 soldiers and officers war. After narrowly escap- access, and land at an through the gates of hell, where count- museum-like experience. representing all branches of the Israel ing death, she was taken to IAF base. The group less Jews suffered and perished at the The Story of the Holy Land: A Visual Defense Forces (IDF). Sweden and stayed there will visit IDF bases hands of the Nazis. We will ensure the History by Peter Walker Joining the delegation will be Ho- until 1946. She returned and meet soldiers stories of survivors live on, safeguarded The story of Israel through modern locaust survivor Sophie Tajch Klisman, to Hungary after the war serving on Israel’s by those brave soldiers who defend and photographs, 89, of Detroit. Klisman, along with her and reunited with her sis- front lines, commem- protect the State of Israel, and Jewish drawings andsister Felicia survived the Auschwitz, ter and three brothers. In orate Yom HaZikaron people around the world.” explanationsBergen-Belsen and Salzwedel concen- 1948, she moved with – Israel’s Memorial About Friends of the Israel Defense by a profes-tration camps. The youngest of four her then-fiancé to Israel, Day for fallen soldiers Forces (FIDF): sor of bibli-children, she was only 10 years old where she stayed until and victims of terror – FIDF was established in 1981 by a cal studies atwhen Nazi Germany occupied Lodz, emigrating to the U.S. in Gizella “Gita” Mann and celebrate Israel’s group of Holocaust survivors as a 501(c) Trinity Schoolforcing the family into the Lodz ghetto 1964, and finally returning to Israel five 71st Independence Day. (3) not-for-profit organization with for Ministry inof 68,000 Jews. Both sisters were liber- years ago. Mann has two children who “This historic mission will survey the mission of offering educational, Pennsylvania,ated from Salzwedel in April 1945, and live in New Jersey, and she currently Jewish modern history through the eyes cultural, recreational and social pro- this book ex-immigrated to the U.S. in 1949, settling lives in Jerusalem. of those who survived the horrors of the grams and facilities that provide hope, amines Israel and the many conquestsin the Detroit area. The Led by FIDF Na- Holocaust and those who risk their lives purpose and life-changing support for of its land from biblical to modernremainder of their family tional President Bobby to defend the Jewish homeland,” said the soldiers who protect Israel and Jews times. Filled with history explained inperished. Cohen and FIDF Na- Klifi-Amir. “We’ll celebrate our story worldwide. Today, FIDF has more than Walker’s compelling style of factual “If I look at the tional Director and CEO of heroism – from near annihilation, to 150,000 loyal supporters and 20 chap- storytelling, it should have a spot in your rest of the family, they Maj. Gen. (Res.) Meir the triumph of establishing the State of ters throughout the United States and library or on your coffee table. were already adults and Klifi-Amir, the nine- Israel. When we march tall and proud Panama. FIDF proudly supports IDF Food grown-ups and here was day “From Holocaust through the gates of the Auschwitz- soldiers, families of fallen soldiers, and Israeli Soul by Michael Solomonov this child; that was just a to Independence” mis- Birkenau camps, together with Holo- wounded veterans through a variety of This new bible of Israeli food by themiracle that I survived; sion will span Jewish caust survivors, FIDF supporters and innovative programs that reinforce the unofficial ambassador of Israeli cuisine,it was meant for me to history, from its darkest 45 Israeli officers in uniform, gratefully vital bond between the communities in American chef Michael Solomonov, issurvive,” Klisman said. moments to its most flying the Israeli flag, we will send a the United States, the soldiers of the the culmination of his personal travels“I just hope in conclu- triumphant. Israeli sol- clear message: that we are here, we will IDF and the State of Israel. For more and experiences in Israel and in runningsion, that nobody, no- diers and Holocaust sur- never forget, and we will do whatever information, visit www.fidf.org. his Jewish- and Israeli-themed Ameri-body should have to live vivors will accompany can restaurants. through such terrors, Sophie Tajch Klisman, a Holocaust the FIDF supporters survivor from Detroit, in 2012 You’ll be delighted to find Israelisuch horrible conditions on a trip across Poland, flavors infused into paletta popsicles;at such a young age, or at any age. It was starting in Krakow, once home to more BRIEFS recipes that are lesser known outside a horrible experience, but I’m glad that than 60,000 Jews, and tracing the com- of Israel, such as mafroum; and Solo-I finally was able to tell it.” munity’s steps from the city’s ghetto ISRAEL’S POPULATION they choose.” monov’s famous hummus and quick Also joining the mission will be Ho- to the Buczyna forest, where the Nazis REACHES 9 MILLION “The U.S. always chooses to have tahini sauce. locaust survivor Gizella “Gita” Mann, executed more than 800 children, and The Central Bureau of Statistics on its embassy in the capital. Jerusalem Jerusalem by Yotam Ottolenghi and89, of Israel. Mann’s community in then to the Auschwitz-Birkenau concen- Thursday, May 2, reported that the is the capital of Israel. The rest of the Sami Tamimi Hungary was forced into a ghetto and tration and extermination camps. number of residents in Israel stood at world can’t hide what we know as More than just a cookbook, Jerusalem – 9,009,000 in March. The number of fact.” by Israeli-Jewish culinary legend Yotam Jews is 6,738,500, or 74.8%. (Zeev She noted, “If you actually go Ottolenghi and his former restaurant 14 must-read books about Israel...continued from previous page Klein, Israel Hayom) into the quiet corners of the UN, most partner Sami Tamimi, an Israeli-Arab around the world trator Rachel Mintz – for the modern countries don’t hate Israel, most envy who grew up on for creating agri- Jewish child or teen. Inside, the stuffy 539 MULTINATIONALS Israel.” the other side of culture and life on pictures of yesteryear are replaced with OPERATE IN ISRAEL She said of UN resolutions, “I the city from Ot- the very little wa- 70 modern scenes of Tel Aviv, Israel’s There are 539 multinational corpora- don’t think they matter.” Member tolenghi – is a ter that they have. leaders, Jewish holy sites, and of course tions (MNC) from 35 countries oper- states are not actually required to abide book of cultural In Let There the beach, waiting to be brought to life ating in Israel’s tech ecosystem, ac- by UN resolutions. (Charles Duncan, evaluation, in- Be Water, Siegel with the colors of your choice. cording to a report by Start-Up Nation Kansas City Star) sight and food. breaks down the A Year in the Garden (Shana BaGina) Central (SNC) and PwC Israel. ANTI-SEMITIC ATTACKS Including science behind Gardening Calendar by Ilana Stein 55% of these MNCs are head- traditional Jew- Israel’s greatest A calendar that is a beautiful and in- quartered in the U.S., 27% in Europe SPIKE, KILLING MOST ish and Arabwater technology discoveries, and the valuable resource for beginning home- and 15% in the Asia-Pacific, including JEWS IN DECADES recipes, a plethora of information andimpact this knowledge can and will steaders or gardeners in Israel, this China. Israeli researchers reported Wednes- stories about the city, and beautiful pho-have around the world as water short- calendar – written and illustrated by There are more than 6,600 startups day, May 1, that violent attacks against tographs, this is one book that should beages and crises are steadily becoming a forager, master gardener and illustrator in Israel, 14 times the concentration of Jews spiked significantly last year, on the shelf of every Israel supporter anddaily reality. Ilana Stein – is a must-have for anyone startups per capita in Europe. with the largest reported number of culinary enthusiast. Children’s Books who aspires to grow their own fresh While Israel has just 1% of the Jews killed in anti-Semitic acts in de- Innovation Fast Asleep in a Little Village in Israel fruits, vegetables and herbs according world’s population, it attracts 19% of cades, leading to an “increasing sense Thou Shalt Innovate: How Israeliby Jennifer Tzivia MacLeod to the Israeli seasons. It’s filled with global investment in cybersecurity, of emergency” among Jewish com- Ingenuity Repairs the World by Avi Ever wonder what sound a rooster information pertaining to each month ranks number one in R&D expendi- munities worldwide. Assaults targeting Jorisch makes in Hebrew? You’ll find out in such as what to plant, when and how, tures per GDP, and attracts the highest Jews rose 13% in 2018, according to An updated guide to Israel’s innovativethis touching children’s book that takes as well as fun facts, bonus recipes rate of venture capital funding per cap- Tel Aviv University researchers. They spirit and global goodwill that piggy-place in a small village in Israel. and markers for Jewish holidays and ita in the world. (Shoshanna Solomon, recorded nearly 400 cases worldwide, backs off the famous Start-Up Nation With an infusion of Hebrew words moon-phases. Times of Israel) with more than a quarter of the major (2009) but with a different angle, Thou and Israeli cultural nuances, and with DIY Tel Aviv – Your Alternative City violent cases taking place in the U.S. Shalt Innovate not only discusses state-soft watercolor illustrations by Tiphanie Guide by Shimrit Elisar NIKKI HALEY: “MOST In Germany, there was a 70% inof-the-art Israeli medicine, agriculture,Beeke, this book will help you hear the An underground city guide that gets COUNTRIES ENVY ISRAEL” crease in anti-Semitic violence. “There water and defense technologies and sounds of rural Israel and help your updated once a year, this DIY guide to Former UN Ambassador Nikki Haley, is an increasing sense of emergency the developers behind them, but also youngster get a peek at everyday life Tel Aviv is one way to gain inside info speaking at the Shaar Hashamayim among Jews in many countries around takes a look at why Israeli culture is so here – noisy as it can be. on the city’s alternative non-touristy synagogue in Montreal on Wednes- the world,” said Moshe Kantor, presi- compatible with the spirit of innovation,The Colors of Israel by Rachel Raz scene, includ- day, April 10, called her veto vote that dent of the European Jewish Congress. and how the contributions in each fieldEncourage your children to learn their ing all the “se- paved the way for the U.S. Embassy in “It is now clear that anti-Semitism is can continue to change the world for the colors through the vibrant scenes cret” clubs, Israel to move to Jerusalem “one of my no longer limited to the far-left, far- better in the future. of Israeli cafés, clothing proudest moments.” right and radical Islamist’s triangle. It Let There Be Water: Israel’s Solution cities and boutiques and “I felt like I was fighting for the has become mainstream and often ac- for a Water-Starved World by Seth M. sites in this more. truth and for what was right. And I was cepted by civil society.” (Aron Heller, Siegel beautiful Get this mad. Every country has the sovereign AP-Miami Herald) Leading the field in water processing children’s book for your right to put their embassy wherever and conservation, Israelis are known book. From family mem- the striking ber planning continued on next page orange of the big move the fruit bundles at a Tel Aviv juice to Israel, or just to brush up for your For daily news stories related stand to the red of the Israeli mail van, next visit to the Holy Land’s modern this book is a fun gift of Israeli culture cultural center. to Israel & the Jewish world, and learning for all. Jessica Halfin is an American immi- Coloring books, calendars and guides grant who arrived in Israel in 2006. Israel 70 Year Independence Coloring She is an Israeli-trained baker, gourmet visit the Federation’s website Book by Rachel Mintz cook, food and culture writer, and gives Buy this – or any of the many other foodie tours to tourists in Haifa City. Israel-themed coloring books of illus- at JewishFederationLCC.org. L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 14 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties COMMENTARY

Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Connecting the dots atch television for an hour bad medicine. Why would we want to would be less than eager to take it. or Lipitor or whatever medicine you or so and you will see plen- take a medication when there are all of Our thoughts are important. If we need, say this little prayer. Four out of Wty of commercials. Some of these negative side effects? think a medicine will help, we are al- five rabbis recommend it. And I can these ads will be for drugs of all sorts. Allow me to cite one example from ready on the path to healing. And if we promise you – there will be no bad side We may not learn our tradition. In Numbers 12, Aaron think this drug is probably not going to effects. what condition this and Miriam complain about Moses help, we are right there too. Fortunate- On a personal note: If, G-d forbid, medicine treats, or having all the power. Hashem (G-d) ly, our tradition has provided us with a you need to come to one of our Lee even which special- reprimands them both and then afflicts means to purify our thinking and put Health hospitals, please be sure to reg- ist to visit to get this Miriam with leprosy (and why Aaron us right with any medication. There is ister as Jewish. I can’t promise to visit drug, but one thing didn’t get similarly punished is a re- a prayer for us to recite before we take each and every one of you, but we do table Different mfor is for certain. Be- ally good question!). Aaron humbles any medicine or undergo any proce- need for our numbers to be accurately Co ish Syl d Moore fore the commercial himself before his brother and asks dure. In its short form, we say: “Yehi reflected. on an  ashi Rabbi ends, we will hear Moses to pray for her. Moses responds Ratzon Sheh-yi-he-yeh L’refuah.” In Rabbi Dr. Michael J. Schorin, MAPC, Art of F The Art of Fashion and Moore Michael J. all about the poten- with the shortest prayer in the Torah: English, “May it be Your will that this BCC is a Chaplain in Lee Health’s (in the Arcade in historic Schorin tial side effects. Of “El Na Refah Na La,” meaning “Dear medicine will bring healing.” Department of Spiritual Services, and downtown Ft. Myers) course, these will range from mildly G-d Please Heal Her.” Moses doesn’t How beautiful! Rebbe Nachman ministers at the Gulf Coast Medical Teri Moore, Owner (239) 204-9759 annoying to totally gross. say to Miriam this prayer will work, but of Bratzlav says, “The essence of any Center. 2267 1st. St., Suite 12 [email protected] There are many reasons to oppose it might also cause gout, halitosis and prayer (or medicine) is the belief we Ft. Myers, FL 33901 www.artoffashionandmoore.com these commercials but, for today, just stomach upset. If we are given nega- have in its power and efficacy.” So one will suffice. Simply put, they are tive warnings with any medication, we the next time you take some Tylenol Suggestion: A Museum of Jewish Accomplishment By Paul H. Rubin here are about 70 Holocaust First would be intellectual ac- pictures of stars and perhaps clips of state of the land before 1948 and what museums and memorials in the complishments based on Nobel Prizes. songs or movies would be included. it is like now. TUnited States, located in 26 Twenty-three percent of Nobel Prizes Another set of galleries could deal Three important points: First, the states and the District of Columbia. have been awarded to Jews – 203 Jews with business. In retailing, Gimbels, museum would have to be very careful There are six in Florida. While the Ho- of 902 total prizes. Each Prize area could Macy’s, Filene’s, I Magnin, Neiman- not to stress or imply that Jews are in locaust was the major event in recent have its own gallery. The gallery would Marcus, Bloomingdales, Bergdorf any sense better or more productive than Jewish history, it is also the low point of list all the winners, with pictures and Goodman, Rich’s of Atlanta, Kauff- other groups; rather, it would stress the Jewish history. It is important to remem- biographies. Then in each gallery there man’s of Pittsburgh, Lazarus of Colum- absolute contributions of Jews toward ber the Holocaust, but there are enough could be a special exhibit of those whose bus, Levi Strauss and, more recently, our civilization. Second, in many cases, museums documenting this disaster. work is most understandable and most Home Depot were all established by biographies could stress that many suc- I propose that someone build a mu- closely related to modern life or most Jews, often beginning as small pack cessful and famous American Jews were seum showing the accomplishments of famous. For example, Einstein in phys- peddlers. Sears Roebuck was largely first- or second-generation descendants the Jewish people, a “Museum of Jewish ics and Friedman in economics. run by Julius Rosenwald, who was also of refugees, so that no one could claim Accomplishments.” The next division could deal with a great philanthropist. that Jewish success is due to “privilege.” Such a museum would provide a entertainment. Obvious candidates are In technology, Sergey Brin and Third, the museum should be positive, view of Jews as something other than movies, TV, music and theater. The very Larry Page, founders of Google; Steve and should avoid any discussion of anti- victims. It could also serve as a source foundations of the movie industry came Balmer of Microsoft; Mark Zucker- Semitism. of pride for young Jews who may not from Jews: Warner Brothers and MGM, berg of Facebook; Lawrence Ellison I am not rich enough to fund such understand what the Jewish people have for example. William Paley was an im- of Oracle; Andrew Grove of Intel; and a museum, and I am not an expert on accomplished. It might lead some non- portant developer of radio and TV. Of Michael Dell of Dell, among others, are museums, so this sketch is just a sug- Jews and perhaps even anti-Semites to course, winners of Oscars (actors, direc- all Jewish. gestion. But I feel strongly that we Jews understand the extent to which modern tors, producers) and other awards have Jews in finance (Rothschilds, Gold- have spent enough money documenting life depends on Jewish contributions. been heavily Jewish. Jews have been man-Sachs, Lehman Brothers, Janet our failure, and it is now time to cel- The elements of such a museum are important in the theater; most of the hit Yellen, Larry Summers, Alan Greens- ebrate our achievements. not hard to visualize. I would suggest musicals had Jewish authors. (Recall pan) are also important. Paul H. Rubin is Dobbs Professor of five major parts to the Museum, each the song in Spamalot which says, “You A major gallery could deal with Economics Emeritus at Emory Univer- with separate galleries. Gotta Have Jews.”) In these galleries, philanthropy, including the Jewish role sity in Atlanta, now living in Sarasota. in the NAACP and other civil rights He had several senior positions during organizations. This could focus both on the Reagan Administration and has major donors such as Rosenwald and on written several books and academic The pogroms: prelude the role of philanthropy among every- articles, as well as numerous op-eds day Jews, including the famous “little in The Wall Street Journal and other to the Holocaust blue box” that many Jews grew up with. leading publications. He was president By Jerrold L. Sobel, ZOA of SWFL President The final gallery could deal with of the Southern Economic Association ost people have no idea of the XX Natural Disasters: The plague Israel. It could show, for example, the in 2013. run-up to the Holocaust or the which broke out in 1348 (The Black Mantecedent cultural, religious Death). and socio-economic circumstances The Month of April, when Easter which the Jewish people have suffered and Passover are typically celebrated, Letter to the Editor for centuries. Most have heard of anti- have been a particularly vexing time Semitism but few, if any, even amongst for Jews. Religious passions ran par- A country in shock – and attacks have increased by 60% in Jews themselves, recognize that the ticularly high during this time of year. a local organization in mourning the United States in the last year alone. Holocaust did not occur in a vacuum But despite the massacres, looting The tragic shooting at the Chabad of This shocking escalation in hate, or that European anti-Semitism wasn’t and general deprivation Jews have suf- Poway County in San Diego shocked both at home and abroad, requires swift invented in Germany. fered throughout the centuries, none had not only Jewish people but Americans and broad action by our local, state and Over the centuries, for Jews liv- matched the hatred and ferocity wreaked across the country. national leaders. ing in Europe, during good times they upon them particularly in Russia and Those of us who are members of A part of Hadassah’s policy priori- were tolerated and, in some cases, even Ukraine. Between 1881 and 1922, more Collier/Lee Hadassah mourn the loss of ties includes our efforts to combat hate, allowed to rise to positions of power. Jews were slaughtered and brought low Hadassah member Lori Gilbert-Kaye, the awful actions and acts that follow, But rarely if ever were they accepted as during this four-decade period of time who was a member of Hadassah San and focuses on supporting and encour- equal citizens in a host country. than all the prior centuries combined. Diego. aging all of us, including our legislators, Amid times of woe, which were The pogroms of this period set the stage Our Hadassah sister, one of 330,000 to support and pass the Never Again more often than not, they became vic- for the Holocaust two decades later by across the country, was fatally shot Education Act. This bill would expand tims of persecution and, in many cases, convincing rulers and subjects alike, while saving the rabbi at Sabbath morn- Holocaust education and anti-hate cur- mass murder. Stateless people from time that there were no consequences for ing services. Others were wounded, ricula in schools across America. As immemorial, Jews have been quarry spilling Jewish blood. Voltaire summed including Rabbi Yisroel Goldstein. members of Hadassah, we reaffirm our for xenophobic populations throughout it best: “It is forbidden to kill; therefore, We express our condolences to the commitment to fighting anti-Semitism Europe. Often these riots or pogroms, as all murderers are punished unless they Gilbert and Kaye families, and we of- and hate wherever they are present. they became known, were precipitated kill in large numbers and to the sound fer prayers for a speedy recovery to the All lives are affected when one for a myriad of reasons: of trumpets.” wounded victims. is taken, and persecution or violence XX Economic: Christians forbidden Within the aforementioned peri- We express our grief to others of based on religious beliefs has no place to take part in lending industries ods of incessant anti-Jewish rioting in different faiths around the country and in America. early in the Middle Ages turned to Ukraine and Russia, none exceeded the around the world who are victims of Now joined in common grief, we Jews for such practices. Often there savagery and intensity of the year 1919. violence and hate. believe that education is the answer to was resentment when settlement of In his seminal work “The Slaughter Sadly, the shooting in San Diego religious bias, hate and racism. Join us loans came do. of the Jews in the Ukraine in 1919, Elias follows six months to the day after 11 in supporting the Never Again Educa- XX Religious: Accusations of deicide. Heifetz states, “The terrible massacres people were killed in the shooting at the tion Act. Encourage your Congressional XX Blood Libel: Jews used Christian in the Ukraine in the year 1919 set the Tree of Life synagogue in Pittsburgh. representatives and senators to support blood for ceremonial practices. whole land aflame and cannot compare Collier/Lee Hadassah stands against it as well. XX Scapegoating: Monarchs and no- with the pogroms in the eighties or dur- the virulent anti-Semitism gripping so If not now, when? bility blamed Jews during times of ing the first decade of the 20th century.” many areas of our country. According – Diane Schwartz, President, national and local deprivation. continued on page 21 to the ACLU, anti-Semitic incidents Collier/Lee Hadassah L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 MARKETPLACE Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 15

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Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Summer reading Local Jews by hroughout the spring – really Habit of Rivers by Ted Leeson. About the minute the High Holidays it, Lehmann-Haupt wrote, “The won- the numbers are over – I start looking for der of these dozen pieces is that they hen I arrived here in 1997, holds out of the total 3,600 means that T the Lee County’s full- only around 25% of Lee County house- new books to read. While I always have offer a lesson in the art of living. Or, a book with me, most of my reading more exactly, in the art of getting out- Wtime population was about holds “belong” to local synagogues! gets done over the side yourself, which is essential to sane 386,000. Now it has about doubled to This includes the hundreds of local summer, when things living.” On the fantasy that I might try nearly 740,000 year-round residents, Jewish households that are “involved” are a little slower in fly fishing, I picked up the book. The with a steady annual growth rate aver- with local congregations that don’t Southwest Florida. I best-written book I have read. Writ- aging around 2.5%. (Of course, during require formal dues-paying member- read to learn, to get ing about the experiences of fly fish- “season” the popula- ships. new ideas and under- ing, Ted Leeson wrote, “A life lived tion can almost dou- That’s really low, since, as a rule, standings that I can recollecting or creating or anticipating ble!) Lee is the fast- the smaller the Jewish community, the teach my congrega- such moments, enjoying and appreci- est growing county higher the percentage of active Jewish  Rabbi tion. I think that’s a ating their value, may not possess the in Florida, also con- participation, since we smaller Jewish Marc big part of my job. seamless continuity that we expect of taining three of the populations tend to huddle a lot closer. Sack Here is some of my something like ‘truth,’ but it does have fastest growing mu- I’ve served a couple of smaller, rela- reading for this summer. the feel of some truthlike substance.  Rabbi nicipal areas in the tively isolated Jewish populations in David Brooks, New York Times col- And I’ll settle for that.” In reading The Bruce entire United States: Oregon and New Hampshire, and the umnist, is probably my favorite general Habit of Rivers, I learned that fly fish- Diamond Cape Coral, Lehigh Jews who did not “join” in some way thinker. He is concerned about modern ing is more complicated than being Acres and the city of Fort Myers. were the exceptions, not the rules. In society and what each of us can do to Jewish! But I fell in love with the writ- So where are all the Jews? We Jews our area it’s flipped completely around. make it, and our personal lives, better. ing and the thinking. A River Runs make up about 1.5% of America’s pop- Looking down the road at Collier His new book is The Second Mountain, Through It by Norman Maclean is a ulation. Using that number, we would County, there’s a bit above 4,500 Jews, about the four commitments that make classic and a good way to follow up have over 11,000 Jews in Lee County! or around 2,000 Jewish households. our lives most meaningful: marriage this escapism to freshwater streams. Of course, using a really mixed meta- Around 1,400 households, or roughly and family; vocation – whether work It’s on my list for this summer. phor, Lee county may not be a Mecca 70% (compared to Lee’s 25%), are af- or volunteer; faith; and community. A recent scholar-in-residence at my for Jews on the move, so let’s lower the filiated with their local synagogues, Brooks brings a lot of anecdotes and congregation reminded me of the book number to a conservative 9,000. But it and the number of individuals who theory to his books. His style, while Be Here Now, Be Now Here by Ram sure doesn’t feel that way when you contribute to the Jewish Federation somewhat thick with material, is very Dass (formerly Richard Alpert and look at who is participating in Jewish of Greater Naples’ campaign, ap- readable. formerly Jewish). This work is worth communal activities, be it at our syna- proximately 1,200, also shows a much My congregation is increasingly rereading. All of us, myself included, gogues, Federation activities and relat- greater involvement than here in Lee getting involved in interfaith study and struggle to put down our cell phones ed events. We both know that it’s a lot County. activity. (On the holidays, you will hear and the constant flow of messages and of the same faces wherever you turn! “Aha!” you say. “The Jews of of an Interfaith Day of Action, sched- news we get on them. Our heads are Of course it’s easy to blame this on Naples are typically a lot richer than uled for October 27, the first anniver- pulled in too many directions at a time. the Millennials who tend to not engage we Jews in Fort Myers, so they can sary of the massacre at the Pittsburgh Ram Dass reminds us that life can only in organized Jewish events, but let me more easily afford to join synagogues. synagogue. Six congregations – Center be appreciated slowly and deeply when stick my neck out just a bit by saying There you have it!” Maybe that’s par- for Islam and Cultural Awareness; Cy- we learn how to focus ourselves and be they are not the problem in our area. tially true, but I know for a fact that no press Lake United Methodist; Cypress present where we are. While there is a tremendous influx of Lee County congregation turns people Lake Presbyterian; Iona Hope Episco- For quick reading, I am hooked on younger Hispanic families, my educat- away over money, and almost anybody pal; Temple Beth El and Temple Judea Daniel Silva’s Gabriel Allon spy nov- ed guess is that most of the Jews who can afford to send a little something to – will participate in this day of action els. A new one comes out soon and I are moving here are “empty nesters” the Federation, but not that many do and unity.) I think this activity is es- am anxiously awaiting it. closer to retirement age and beyond. compared to those who could! sential for the Jewish community – we In rabbinical school, my senior So where are they, especially so many So if it’s not the money, how do we make friends, and it is essential for a homiletics (sermon-giving) instruc- of the newer arrivals over the last 5-10 explain all the “hidden Yidden” of Lee sense of greater community. In order to tor, Rabbi Al Lewis, told us that we years? County? Why are they not interested think about the place of interfaith en- must never stop reading and learning. Let’s run some more numbers. in us? Why are we not interesting to WR – Newark Airport. It is a gagement, I am reading Elliot Dorff’s It is how we kept our minds fresh and Although it’s impossible to know for them? beautiful modern place, and I To Do the Right and the Good. Dorff, gained new ideas to teach our congre- sure, my informed total for Lee County I think I know the answer, but I’d marvel at its opulence. It is also a professor of Talmud and Philosophy gation. I never forgot that lesson. But I households that “belong” to Lee syna- rather not say. You figure it out! E a place with vivid memories for me. at the American Jewish University, is think that keeping our minds fresh and gogues comes to approximately 900. Rabbi Bruce Diamond serves at The Newark was the first airport to the foremost writer on modern Jewish learning is good for all of us. Whatev- (You can do the research yourself!) Community Free Synagogue in Fortwhich I ever flew. As an 18-year-old ethics. er your pleasure, I hope you do some These roughly 900 affiliated house- Myers. freshman at Hamil- Back in November, I read the obit- good reading this summer. ton College, my first uary for Christopher Lehmann Haupt, Rabbi Marc Sack serves at Temple flight was home for New York Times Book Review editor. Judea in Fort Myers. What do you think? Thanksgiving break In that article, I found the book The – Utica, New York, to Newark, New

L’CHAYIM wants to know! Jersey, a one-hour Send your letters & comments to [email protected]. flight. It was such a  Rabbi special moment for Letters must include the writer’s full name, full address and daytime phone. Letters Stephen me that I put on a suit should be no longer than 300 words. We reserve the right to edit for length and/ Fuchs or accuracy. Letters do not necessarily reflect the viewpoint of L’CHAYIM nor its for the occasion. Dad advertisers. We cannot acknowledge or publish every letter received. and Mom picked me up. Newark Airport is also the last place I saw my father alive. I was a 24-year-old rabbinical student off to Center for Judaic, Holocaust, spend my third year of graduate studies in Israel. Mom and Dad drove me and Genocide Studies to the airport. These memories coursed through NEEDED TO LABEL ’CHAYIM Dedicated to educating all sectors of society about my mind recently as I landed at EWR Jewish civilization, the Holocaust, and genocide through: from Miami en route to Tel Aviv. Pas- JOIN US for coffee, bagels and the simple satisfaction tor John Danner of Sanibel Congrega- that comes from meeting and making friends with • scholarship tional UCC and I are leading a joint 10- other volunteers, as we help keep thousands of local • outreach day trip to Israel of Christians and Jews readers informed about local, national and interna- • inquiry from our two congregations. After the tour, my wife Vickie and tional Jewish news. • sharing knowledge • preserving the record I will stay on a few extra days to spend time with our son Leo, named after • helping teachers Call Debbie Sanford 481.4449 ext. 4 to add my father. On May 13 we shall fly to your name to the phone list. Each month we • encouraging students Hamburg to spend five weeks in Ger- will call to confirm the mailing date and you many teaching about the Holocaust in can let us know if you are available to help schools. I will also teach in synagogues in Kiel and Friedrichstadt, and at the label L’CHAYIM. Abraham Geiger Rabbinical Seminary Time: 9:30 A.M. in Berlin. I shall also speak and teach in several German churches. Monday, June 24, 2019 An emotional highlight will occur Monday, July 22, 2019 Visit www.fgcu.edu/hc/ when I preach at the famous Thom- askirche in Leipzig. Thomaskirche is Dr. Paul Bartrop, Director the church where Johann Sebastian Bach was cantor for the last 20 years of his life until 1750. The church will Read the current and previous editions of L’CHAYIM online at www.JewishFederationLCC.org. be packed, not to hear me, but for the L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 FROM THE BIMAH Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 17

Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Local Jews by Three different types of fear in Judaism he Jewish community is still but is really the surprising and, at times, Jewish community, our sacred syna- So how do we live after Pittsburgh the numbers grieving from the attack in Pow- unsettling feeling when you realize you gogues. Synagogue is where we are and Poway? We confront our pachad, Tay, coming on the six-month an- are not alone, you have been noticed, inspired to live more meaningful lives, our real fears, with real, sensible mea- niversary of the shooting at the Tree of someone is watching you. You are seen synagogue is where we are reminded sures to ensure our safety. We confront Life synagogue, and just a few days be- so you act differently, a healthy fear of there is something greater than our- our aimah, our worry, by being here this fore Yom HaShoah. awe and awareness. selves, synagogue is where we grapple evening, by living full Jewish lives, by Following any death, So how do we live with this with what it means to be a fragile hu- coming to synagogue, our well of spiri- whether a personal pachad, aimah and yirah? We face man being in this broken world, syna- tual nourishment and hope. Then may loss, a communal loss our pachad, our real fears, with action. gogue is where we attempt to make we experience yirah, the wondrous of precious individu- Temple Beth El held two active shooter a difference to heal it, synagogue is awe of being seen, of being part of a als in a synagogue, or training programs this past month. We where we come together to support and community and noticed by others, and the communal loss of face our pachad with measured, appro- uplift each other, synagogue is where ultimately, we pray, by God. six million, we face priate steps to ensure our security. we proudly proclaim and live out our Rabbi Nicole Luna serves at Temple  Rabbi the question, what But what about our aimah, our Jewish identity. Beth El in Fort Myers. Nicole do we do next? How general anxiety, sense of unease, our Luna do we live? How do worry over entering our synagogue we live today with a growing sense of buildings? A story from the Talmud Here and now fear? We worry about how secure we gives us insight. In our story, Rabbi he Ten Commandments are longs in a synagogue or a church. We are in our sanctuary. Friends and fam- Akiva continues to teach Torah de- very lovely and very lofty, call this institution a House of God, ily express concern for our safety com- spite a Roman ban. His colleague asks Tyet they are couched in gen- but isn’t a home where morality is ing to synagogue. And we live with the him, Akiva, are you not afraid? Akiva eral terms. But, Judaism in its method practiced also a House of God? Isn’t a haunting and disturbing realization that responds with this parable: A fox was and its wisdom ap- hospital where people are healed and tragedy can happen anywhere. How do walking along a riverbank and sees plies these ideals in compassion is practiced also a House we live with these feelings of fear and fish fleeing from place to place. The specific ways. The of God? Isn’t a school where we ad- apprehension? fox said to them, “From what are you Torah portion each vance knowledge and teach respon- Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi, fleeing?” They said to him, “We are week leaves the lofty sibility also a House of God? In fact, a 21st century leader in Jewish spiri- fleeing from the nets that people cast heights of Sinai and we might very well ask, isn’t wherever tuality, explained three different types upon us.” The fox then suggests the brings the moral law people dwell in decency also a House of fear in Judaism. The first is pachad, fish come up to dry land. The fish re- down to the valley of of God? which is fear over real danger facing ply: “If we are afraid in the water, our  Rabbi daily decision. Religion will serve its true func- us. The Hebrew pachad can be read natural habitat which gives us life, then Solomon For example, the tion when it enters the experience of po chad, meaning here it is sharp. Un- in a habitat that causes our death, all Agin Bible gives us a de- our daily lives. We tend to associate re- fortunately, we know all too well how the more so.” The Talmud continues, tailed analysis of the laws of interest, a ligious thought with heaven, when we real shootings at houses of worship or so too, we Jews, if we are afraid as we specific description of what constitutes really should understand that morality at schools are. The second is aimah, a sit and engage in Torah, how much the false testimony and gossip, and even belongs to the here and now. deep anxiety. The threat is unknown. more so, if we separate ourselves from the laws on responsibility for property If religion is to have meaning in The Hebrew aimah can be read ayeh, that which gives us life. loss through fire, neglect and so on. All our time, it must be concerned about where is it, mah, what is it? We don’t Aimah, anxiety, worry and fear of these indicate that religion is not just all the practical problems people face know but we’re scared. Scared of ris- may make us retract, withdraw from a vague sentiment but rather a specific here and now. ing anti-Semitism, scared of the dis- others, and isolate ourselves in a pre- ethical guide. Rabbi Solomon Agin serves at Temple integration of society, scared for our tend cocoon of safety. But that will not We tend to think that religion be- Shalom in Port Charlotte. future. And finally,yirah , coming from sustain us or give us hope. The way to the word roeh, to see. The phrase yirat respond to our worry is to engage fully Stay connected at Adonai is translated as the fear of God in that which gives us life – Torah, the www.JewishFederationLCC.org EWR WR – Newark Airport. It is a Motets, the famed choir-sung musical beautiful modern place, and I selections that are a major European Emarvel at its opulence. It is also tourist attraction. It will be the third a place with vivid memories for me. time I have preached in the famous ca- Newark was the first airport to thedral, but my emotions will be like which I ever flew. As an 18-year-old the first. freshman at Hamil- You see, Leipzig is the city where ton College, my first my father was born and grew up. He flight was home for was a happy, popular youth, I was told, Thanksgiving break enjoying tennis and really excelling at – Utica, New York, ping-pong. He won the citywide men’s to Newark, New doubles championship at age 15. Jersey, a one-hour But he stayed too long, and I’ll FINEMARK NATIONAL BANK & TRUST IS PROUD flight. It was such a never know why.  Rabbi special moment for He was one of 500 Jewish men TO CONSISTENTLY EARN A 5-STAR RATING Stephen me that I put on a suit in Leipzig arrested on the infamous Fuchs for the occasion. Dad “Night of Broken Glass,” November FROM BAUER FINANCIAL, THE NATION’S and Mom picked me up. 9, 1938. But Dad was so fortunate to * Newark Airport is also the last have an uncle and older brother in the LEADING INDEPENDENT BANK RATING FIRM . place I saw my father alive. I was a United States who somehow got him 24-year-old rabbinical student off to out of Dachau and safely to New York. We attribute our success to delivering unparalleled spend my third year of graduate stud- I never knew the details. Center for Judaic, Holocaust, service and putting our clients fi rst. ies in Israel. Mom and Dad drove me And so, when I climb the many and Genocide Studies to the airport. stairs to the lofty pulpit in the Thom- These memories coursed through askirche for the third time, the ques- Dedicated to educating all sectors of society about my mind recently as I landed at EWR tions I would love to ask my father will Jewish civilization, the Holocaust, and genocide through: from Miami en route to Tel Aviv. Pas- swirl in my mind. Among them: tor John Danner of Sanibel Congrega- Why didn’t you leave earlier? • scholarship tional UCC and I are leading a joint 10- Did you ever have your heart bro- • outreach day trip to Israel of Christians and Jews ken? • inquiry from our two congregations. What exactly happened to you on • sharing knowledge After the tour, my wife Vickie and November 9, 1938, and the days fol- • preserving the record I will stay on a few extra days to spend lowing? time with our son Leo, named after Are you pleased that Vickie and I • helping teachers my father. On May 13 we shall fly to do what we do in Germany? • encouraging students Hamburg to spend five weeks in Ger- Like the Thomaskirche in Leipzig, many teaching about the Holocaust in Newark Airport brings memories and schools. I will also teach in synagogues these questions to mind. in Kiel and Friedrichstadt, and at the I yearn to hear my father’s voice Abraham Geiger Rabbinical Seminary answering my questions. But I do not. in Berlin. I shall also speak and teach Nevertheless, Vickie and I go for- in several German churches. ward. We urge Germans today to learn An emotional highlight will occur from the past in order to make the fu- Visit www.fgcu.edu/hc/ when I preach at the famous Thom- ture better for our children, grandchil- askirche in Leipzig. Thomaskirche is dren and all those who will follow. Dr. Paul Bartrop, Director the church where Johann Sebastian Rabbi Stephen Lewis Fuchs serves at Fort Myers • Bonita Springs • Charleston • Estero • Naples • Palm Beach • Scottsdale Bach was cantor for the last 20 years Bat Yam Temple of the Islands on Sani- www.fi nemarkbank.com • 239-461-5900 • Member FDIC • Equal Housing Lender of his life until 1750. The church will bel Island. 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and bring greater mean- WELL-BEING. here and in Israel. HADASSAH ing to our own lives. We say, Hadassah is the power of Volunteer to assist on a program, Collier/Lee Chapter Our Vision leads our women who DO. project or fundraiser. A brief period of (732) 539-4011 aspirations for a world Surely, there is some part of what time can bring rewards for you: friend- where our Jewish Values we do that has meaning for you; a con- ships, a sense of accomplishment for a What do you do for others? in Action create strong community and nection to a higher purpose. larger purpose, and the satisfaction of Diane Schwartz an enduring Israel. It’s an aspirational call to reach knowing you are making a difference. As individuals we are limited in what Our Mission inspires a passion for higher, farther and wider than where Hadassah welcomes you with we can do to make an impact on the and commitment to the land, the peo- we stand or where we sit. open arms to join a group of women world, but as a visionary organization, ple and the future of Israel. Through Volunteer your time, your energy and men (Thank you Hadassah Associ- Hadassah does just that! education, advocacy and youth de- and your intellect to create programs ates!) who support the Mission, Vision, Individually, we can’t cure cancer velopment, and its support of medical and projects that fulfill both you - per Programs and Values of this fine orga- or study neurological diseases like Al- care and research at Hadassah Medical sonally and the needs we address. nization. zheimer’s, MS and more as we research Organization, we enhance the health Work with our membership com- For those who live in Southwest the depths and heights of medicine and and lives of people in Israel, the United mittee to reach out to others and en- Florida year-round, the events don’t healing. All of which impacts us in States and worldwide. courage them to join and become ac- stop with the end of season. If you America as well as patients in Israel. Our Promise is the promise we tive with our close to 900 members. would like to meet new friends or cel- No, I can’t do that and neither can make good on every day, by connect- Gather with our program and edu- ebrate the summer with friends, fam- you, but we can support those who do! ing and empowering Jewish women to cation committee to plan interesting ily and guests, save Sunday, August Collier/Lee Hadassah is more than effect change. and meaningful activities and events. 18 for Hadassah’s Summer Fun, a Pot friends and fun, though we have both. Our Action Areas are the ways We can learn, enjoy and support Ha- Luck Dinner at Autumn Woods. For As volunteers in an organization that we deliver on our promise to empow- dassah’s work all at the same time. information, contact Susan Falken- inspires a passion through our Vision, er women to ADVOCATE; BUILD Meet with our fundraising com- stein at [email protected] or Mission and focus, we can build the COMMUNITY in the U.S. and Is- mittee to help raise the vital monies 203.257.8598. world with Jewish values, save lives rael; and ADVANCE HEALTH AND needed to carry on Hadassah’s work

media. When speaking dent and CEO of the Holocaust Muse- name, but please know that all help and GENERATIONS OF THE SHOAH with Rabbi Telushkin um; Steve Brazina, the program chair support is greatly appreciated. HAZAK 55+ CHAPTER SOUTHWEST FLORIDA last year, he told me he and “movie maven” for GenShoah; Exciting programs are currently at Temple Judea (239) 963-9347 knew the book should Joan Hogan of the Holocaust Museum being planned for next season, so be updated but did not for designing and sending the newslet- watch future articles and our newslet- (239) 433-0201 Time to say thank you for the know when he would have the time. ters; Shelley Lieb, Rene and Sam Geist, ter for announcements about speak- season and to plan for next year Interestingly enough, I just discovered Alex and Linda Wertheim, Shirley and ers, films and very special programs to Ida Margolis that an updated edition has Marshall Besikof, Stuart commemorate the 75th anniversary of Last year, I wrote about one of my fa- just been published, with the Mest, Jeff Margolis, Sam the Liberation of the Nazi Concentra- vorite books, Words That Hurt, Words new subtitle, How the Words Versano, Monica Good- tion Camps. Meanwhile please save the That Heal by Joseph Telushkin. The You Choose Shape Your Des- win, Renee’ Bialek, Hank date for the Grand Opening and Dedi- 1996 edition with the subtitle How to tiny. I am looking forward to Bitterman and so many cation of the new Holocaust Museum: Choose Words Wisely and Well, through reading the new edition, and others for attending and Sunday, November 10 in the afternoon. JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY examples and anecdotes, explained the am certain Rabbi Telushkin helping with programs If you would like information OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA harm in spreading gossip, rumors or still includes the importance and events including about GenShoah SWFL or to receive (239) 566-1771 others’ secrets; and how unfair anger, of saying “Thank You.” Movies that Matter, film the monthly GenShoah e-newsletter, excessive criticism or lying undermine And as the 2018-19 pro- screenings and speaker please email me at genshoahswfl@The tolerant intolerance true communication. And while the gramming season ends, I programs and Yom Ha- gmail.com. If you are not already a Marina Berkovich book was written over 20 years ago, certainly have many people Shoah; and thanks to Ted member of the Museum, please be-The early Jewish visitors and settlers it is certainly relevant and important, to thank. Thank you to those Epstein and the Jewish come one now by emailing info@of Southwest Florida experienced a va- but contained nothing about gossip and who worked to help make programs Federation of Lee and Charlotte Coun- HolocaustMuseumswfl.org. riety of oddities they would have, no hurtful language spread through social happen, including Susan Suarez, Presi- ties. Please forgive me if I omitted your doubt, shared with their successor generations, had the society they lived in tolerated Jews. Or tolerated us better. TEMPLE BETH EL CHABAD OF CHARLOTTE COUNTY REFORM ORTHODOX As it was, most of them stopped being 16225 Winkler Road, Fort Myers, FL 33908 204 E Mckenzie St Unit B, Punta Gorda, FL 33950 Jews. Rabbi Nicole Luna Rabbi Simon Jacobson Tolerance is such an odd concept E-mail: [email protected] Phone: (941) 833-3381 Preschool director: Jesyca Virnig E-mail: [email protected] with many gradations and stages. On President: Governance Committee IN LEE & CHARLOTTE COUNTIES Web site: www.chabadofcharlottecounty.com the surface, it defines the ability or Email: [email protected] Services: Saturday at 10 a.m. followed by Phone: 433-0018 • Fax: 433-3235 a kiddush willingness to tolerate something, in Web site: www.templebethel.com Torah study: Wednesday at 8 p.m. particular the existence of opinions or Shabbat services: 7:30 p.m. Friday; Torah study behavior that one does not necessarily 9:00 a.m. Saturday; B’nai Mitzah 10:30 a.m. Saturday CHABAD LUBAVITCH agree with. On the deeper side, it is that Religious & Hebrew School: 9:00 a.m.-12:30 Sunday COMMUNITY FREE SYNAGOGUE OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA Judaica Gift Gallery REFORM ORTHODOX physical capacity to endure continued Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism 10868 Metro Parkway, South Fort Myers 5620 Winkler Road subjection to something, like drugs (The Southwest Florida Masonic Center) Fort Myers, FL 33919 or other potential irritants, without TEMPLE BETH SHALOM P.O. Box 07144, Fort Myers, FL 33919 Rabbi Yitzchok Minkowicz REFORM Rabbi Bruce Diamond Phone: 433-7708 • Fax: 481-9109 adverse reaction. Because tolerance 702 S.E. 24th Ave., Cape Coral, FL 33990 ([email protected]) E-mail: [email protected] gets all the way under one’s skin, it Rabbi Devora Buchen Coordinator: Natalie Fulton Web site: www.chabadswf.org President: Harvey Wolfson Adult Educator: Jessica Evers Services: Friday 5:15 p.m.; Saturday Kabbalah occupies body and mind. Intolerance, Phone: 772-4555 • Fax: 772-4625 Phone: (239) 466-6671 class 9 a.m.; Shacharit 10 a.m.; Kiddush at noon henceforth, is the unwillingness to ac- E-mail: [email protected] E-mail: [email protected] Minyan: Monday & Thursday 7:00 a.m. cept views, beliefs or behaviors that Web site: www.templebethshalomcc.org Web site: www.fortmyerssynagogue.com Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday Community Sabbath eve dinner each Friday at 6:30 p.m. CHABAD JEWISH CENTER Religious School: Thursday 4:00 - 6:30 p.m. OF CAPE CORAL Torah study with Rabbi Buchen: Shabbat 10:30 a.m. Sabbath eve worship every Friday at 7:30 p.m. Light breakfast and Torah study with the rabbi ORTHODOX Organizations: Brotherhood, Sisterhood, 1716 Cape Coral Pkwy. W., Cape Coral, FL 33914 Family Service (1st Friday of the month at 7:30 p.m.) every Saturday morning from 9:30 - 11:30 a.m. Rabbi Yossi Labkowski Phone: 963-4770 BAT YAM TEMPLE OF THE ISLANDS TEMPLE JUDEA E-mail: [email protected] REFORM CONSERVATIVE Web site: www.chabadcape.com 14486 A&W Bulb Road, Fort Myers, FL 33908 Meets at Sanibel Congregational Church Services: Friday Evening 7:30 p.m. 2050 Periwinkle Way, Sanibel Island Rabbi Marc Sack E-mail: [email protected] Saturday morning 9:30 a.m. followed by Rabbi Stephen L. Fuchs Kiddush luncheon President: Barry Fulmer President: Dan Fox Director of Congregational Learning: Sunday morning 8:00 a.m. Phone: 732-780-2016 Monday-Friday morning 7:00 a.m. Email: [email protected] Tab Scribner Preschool Director: Joann Goldman JLI Courses: Monday evening at 7:00 p.m. Cantor: Murray Simon Weekly Torah Study: Tuesday evening 7:30 p.m. Web site: www.batyam.org [email protected] Hebrew School: Sunday 10:00 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday (Oct-Apr) Phone: 433-0201 • Fax: 433-3371 E-mail: [email protected] Jgirls: Tuesday 6:00-7:00 p.m. 7:00 p.m. Friday (May-Sept) Adult Education: Web site: www.tjswfl.org Saturday, 9:00 - 11:30 a.m. (Nov-Apr) Services: 6:15 p.m. Friday and 9:30 a.m. COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS Jewish Current Events: Saturday, 11:30 a.m. Saturday Minyan: 9:00 a.m. Monday  Shalom Life Center to 12:15 p.m. (Nov-Apr) Religious School: Sun. 9:30 a.m.-noon; Lawrence Dermer, Spiritual Leader - 218-3433 Write: P.O. Box 84, Sanibel, FL 33957 Wed. 4:30-6 p.m. • AIPAC (American Israel Public Affairs Committee): Early childhood education: Jacki Waksman - (954) 653-9053 Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism • AJC (American Jewish Committee): Preschool, M-F, ages 18 months-5 years; “Mommy & Me,” 12 months-2 years Brian Lipton - (941) 365-4955 TEMPLE SHALOM CHARLOTTE Affiliated: United Synagogue of Conservative • Anti-Defamation League: (561) 988-2900 HARBOR AND THE GULF ISLANDS Judaism • B’Nai B’rith International: (941) 302-4500 REFORM • Chevra Kadisha: 23190 Utica Ave., P.O. Box 494675 Gene Sipe - 841-4615 CHABAD OF BONITA SPRINGS/ • Generations of the Shoah SWFL: 963-9347 Port Charlotte, FL 33949-4675 ESTERO • Hadassah - Collier/Lee Chapter: Rabbi Solomon Agin Lynn Weiner - 598-1009 President: Gary Wein ORTHODOX 24850 Old 41 Road, Suite 20 (in the Bernwood • Hadassah - Sharon Chapter (Charlotte County): Phone: (941) 625-2116 Odette Port - (941) 505-1409 E-mail: [email protected] Centre) Bonita Springs, FL 34135-7024 • Hazak 55+ Chapter: Web site: templeshalomfl.com Joyce Rosinger - 437-1566 Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday Rabbi Mendy Greenberg Phone: 949-6900 • Humanistic Jewish Havurah: Religious school: Sunday 10 a.m. Paula Creed - 495-8484 Beginning Hebrew: Tuesday 4:15 - 5:15 p.m. Web site: www.JewishBonita.com • Israel Bonds: Regional Headquarters: (800) 622-8017 Advanced Hebrew: Thursday 4:15 - 5:15 p.m. Services: Saturday at 10 a.m., followed by • Jewish Community Services: 481-4449 Organizations: Sisterhood a kiddush • Jewish National Fund: (727) 536-5263 Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism Memorial Tree Planting in Israel - 1-800-542-8733 • Jewish War Veterans: Post 400: Commander Harvey Charter - 246-3151 • Mikvah Bashka of Southwest Florida: Nechamie Minkowicz - 822-2784 • ORT - Gulf Beaches Chapter Marina Berkovich - 566-1771 L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 ORGANIZATIONS Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 21

people of faith are be- to await us just a few short years later. faith and not fear, holding our heads SHALOM LIFE CENTER ing targeted in the places History is cyclical and we must work to up high with great pride in who we Fort Myers they gather to find peace, see that this cycle of persecution comes are and in what we have contributed to (239) 218-3433 serenity, sanctuary and a to an end by shouting down any and all this country and to the whole world as connection to all that is voices of hate before they turn into ac- B’nei Yisrael, the Jewish people. Lawrence & Robin Dermer holy and Divine. The hatred that drives tion. Especially the voices that come Our love and prayers and our deep- Standing together at our Holocaust these perpetrators is universal, and from our own Congress in the form of est condolences go out to the family memorial service we once again found we’ve seen these horrible and violent Ilhan Omar and Rashida Tlaib. Words of Lori Gilbert-Kaye, and our prayers ourselves not only praying for the vic- acts on churches, mosques and syna- have consequences in the real world, of refuah to those who were injured. tims of past anti-Semitic attacks, but gogues alike. and we must take every possible action Reform, Conservative, Orthodox or current ones as well. It was incred- The shooter was motivated by the to stem this tide of rising anti-Semitism Chabad, an attack on one of us is an ibly difficult to add the name of Lori idea that Jews are responsible for the by gathering, speaking out, writing let- attack on us all. May our Torah values, Gilbert-Kaye, who sacrificed her own problems in the world. Consequently, ters to Congress and being very aware our covenant with the almighty, and life protecting Rabbi Yisroel Goldstein we must continue to protect ourselves of what our elected officials stand for. our shared history and traditions bring during the attack on Chabad of Poway, with increased security measures, but we Our ancestors in Europe had to honor and comfort to the bereaved, to California. This tragedy, which took must also protect ourselves with words. keep their heads down and walk si- all our brothers and sisters at Chabad place on Shabbat and the last day of Joseph Goebbels, the Nazi’s min- lently toward their own destruction. of Poway. Pesach, struck exactly six months to the ister of propaganda, prepared the Ger- Those days are over, thank G-d. Never Darkness will always be defeated day after the worst attack on the Jewish man people to accept genocide of the again. Today, after 1,900 years in ex- by one spark of light. Love, tolerance people in American history at the Tree Jews by portraying them in the media ile, we have returned to Israel and have and understanding will ultimately of Life synagogue in Pittsburgh. as bloodsucking, money lending, dan- the blessing of celebrating Israel’s 71st obliterate all hatred and violence. Only From Charleston to Pittsburgh, gerous disease carrying invaders. His birthday this month! Today we must with an Emunah Shleymah, a complete New Zealand, Sri Lanka and now Po- efforts were a precursor to the Nurem- continue to be strong when faced with and unwavering faith, are we promised way, we are witnessing a turbulent and berg laws, ghettos, slave labor, gas forces that wish to annihilate us. Now by G-d that this will be so. Anachnu dangerous time in our world where chambers and crematoriums that were more than ever, we must be guided by Chazakim. We Are Strong.

Our regular programs address below. meet and socialize with each other. HAZAK 55+ CHAPTER will begin again in the Temple Judea’s active HAZAK Our monthly programs vary in na- at Temple Judea fall. We are also planning Chapter is a chartered member of the ture. Members of the community are (239) 433-0201 to add movie programs in United Synagogue of Conservative Ju- always welcome to attend any of our addition to other activi- daism. Membership in the organization programs. We look forward to meet- Joyce Rosinger ties each month. is open to the community. Join HAZAK ing you. For more information, email HAZAK members who are still here On Sunday, June 23, join us for and meet new friends. HAZAK Chap- Joyce or George Rosinger at tjhazak@ from June to October will gather for lunch at Olive Garden on US 41 in ters are for singles or couples. It’s an gmail.com. lunches or dinners at local restaurants. Fort Myers. RSVP to HAZAK’s email organization that enables members to

differ from one’s own. one agrees with, over time made for Southwest Florida Jewish History. JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY It too, gets under one’s the wonderful progress that the Jew- Membership in The Jewish His- OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA skin, and mixes there ish communities on the West Coast of torical Society of Southwest Florida is (239) 566-1771 with anger and fear. Florida now enjoy. open to anyone who is interested in our Gargantuan divides Isolated instances of intolerance mission of local Jewish history preser- The tolerant intolerance led from intolerance to hatred, and ul- toward Jews happen at various his- vation. Marina Berkovich timately ignited unfathomable destruc- toric junctions. We address that in the Here’s how to reach us: The early Jewish visitors and settlers tions, previously unknown to history. Southwest Florida Jewish Pioneers The Jewish Historical Society of Southwest Florida experienced a va- Thus, the early Jewish settlers in SWFL Film Series and in Timeline of SWFL of Southwest Florida riety of oddities they would have, no were tolerated during the times of the Jewish History presentations. 8805 Tamiami Trail North, doubt, shared with their successor gen- Seminole Wars. “Tolerate” is a word * * * Suite # 255, Naples FL 34108 erations, had the society they lived in not too pleasant to our intellectual di- Chief Richard Plager, the star of Film 833.547.7935 (833.JHS.SWFL) tolerated Jews. Or tolerated us better. gestion, since “tolerated” accentuates 10 of the Southwest Florida Jewish www.jhsswf.org ~ [email protected] As it was, most of them stopped being that acceptance as equal members of Pioneers series that debuted on April Virtual Museum of SWFL Jews. the community is not present. Known 14, delivered an impactful speech af- Jewish History http:// Tolerance is such an odd concept Jews in SWFL were “barely tolerated” ter this presentation, demonstrating jewishhistorysouthwestflorida.org/ with many gradations and stages. On in the 1970s, then gradually moved to his profound knowledge and respect the surface, it defines the ability or being “tolerated” and “accepted,” and of Florida’s history willingness to tolerate something, in are now embraced as equals by the and Jewish legacy particular the existence of opinions or predominantly Christian Midwestern of its Confederate behavior that one does not necessarily population of the region. officers. agree with. On the deeper side, it is that There are anecdotal stories of At the Jewish physical capacity to endure continued scary, funny and ridiculous incidents, Historical Society subjection to something, like drugs perseverance and determination of the of Southwest Flori- or other potential irritants, without SWFL Jewish Pioneers who made their da, we strive to pre- adverse reaction. Because tolerance homes amid a community quite differ- serve the eyewit- gets all the way under one’s skin, it ent from their own. Most importantly, ness accounts. The occupies body and mind. Intolerance, tolerance that includes the willingness Eyewitness Stories henceforth, is the unwillingness to ac- to accept the very existence of opin- are featured at the Richard Plager (at left) and his wife listen to the Timeline of cept views, beliefs or behaviors that ions and behaviors different from those Virtual Museum of SWFL Jewish History presentation at the Federation office

Jerrold Sobel...continued from page 14 Whereas the earlier epoch of anti- that town; genocide, a word the world Jews as the “eternal enemies” of the between 1917-1922 and particularly Jewish violence and debauchery were would become all too familiar with two Ukrainian people, Semosenko ordered Proskurov in 1919, was a wakeup call limited to robberies, destruction of decades hence. The pogrom itself began his troops to exterminate as many Jews to many Jews in Eastern Europe. It property and assault, 1919 ushered in in January 1919 and waxed and waned as possible but forbade them to touch was time to leave. Those who saw the mass violence hereto unheard of. By until August of that year. property belonging to them. This was handwriting on the wall heeded the 1919, full-fledged massacres of Jews As background, following the fall no doubt a message of hate to surviving Zionist calls of Theodore Herzl and embraced not only the cities but spiraled of Tsar Nicholas II of Russia, a dual Jews: the massacre wasn’t about prop- later Ze’ev Jabotinsky and headed for from one village to another. Robbery set of revolutions took place both erty and pillage. Within a few hours, Palestine. Others found their way to the and property destruction gave way to there and in Ukraine. A nationalist, Semosenko’s troops murdered some United States where anti-Semitism was wanton killings for killing sake alone. Provisional government took the reins 1,500 Jews. likewise widespread but personal safety Large cities such as Odessa and Kiev of state power and wished to continue From there, they went on to a nearby was protected by law and they were free were overwhelmed by Jews being in- fighting the Germans prior to the end of town, Filshtein, where they killed an- from fear of genocide. Unfortunately, discriminately murdered. Reportedly, World War I. They were opposed by a other 600 of the town’s 1,900 Jews, this for the vast majority who didn’t leave over 1,326 pogroms took place during compendium of Soviet Socialists known time without any restrictions on robbery, Europe, their fate would be sealed 20 this year across Ukraine alone with an as Bolsheviks led by Vladimir Lenin, rape or looting. years thereafter. estimated 30,000 to 70,000 Jews being whose main support came mainly from This entire period of pogroms, butchered. On February 15 this year, the the village peasants and workers. Add- Jewish people memorialized the 100- ing to the tumult, within each side there year anniversary of possibly the most were revolutionary gangs of marauding macabre massacre in Jewish history armies vying for control of state and lo- Like us on Facebook! precedent the Holocaust, the Proskurov cal power as well. Seemingly, the only Pogrom. thing each side had in common was their According to Stanislav Tunis, in hatred for the defenseless Jewish popu- ConneCt his book Pogroms in Ukraine 1919, the lation that was scapegoated for every Proskurov Pogrom set a new phase in respective setback either had. So it was with your Jewish Community the way these anti-Semitic riots were on the eve of the Proskurov Pogrom. On conducted. Whereas Jews had become February 15, 1919, a nationalist group accustomed to limited violence and of Cossacks led by General Ataman www.facebook.com/ destruction of property, Proskurov was Semosenko got word that Bolsheviks facebook.com/jfedsrq new. Its intended goal was the entire were planning a coup against the local JewishFederationLCC destruction of the Jewish population in government in Proskurov. Describing L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 22 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties TEMPLE NEWS

Lunch will continue. and Dani to Roz Shraiar for her price- teen girls, Girls Going Places teaches TEMPLE BETH EL Thank you, Sisterhood, less assistance in the shop. Says Dani, young women to take control of their Fort Myers for our wonderful second “We could not do this without Roz.” financial futures through entrepreneur- (239) 433-0018 night Passover Seder at Community Shabbat dinners, such ship. Grandezza. Sisterhood as the one held in May, will continue Anonymous donors supplied the www.templebethel.com has reserved Grandezza periodically. means to have multiple tears in our for 2020’s second night Seasons change, but basic needs main Torah repaired by Sofer Men- Ah, summer. More heat, less traffic. Seder, for our third time in a row at do not take vacations. Please remem- achem Bialo from Miami. Rabbi Bi- More rain, less lawn watering. Kids at- that lovely venue. Sisterhood’s ongo- ber our year-round food drive. A cart alo’s company, Sofer On Site, sends tend TBE’s Learning Tree day camp, or ing used sneakers collection (use the is parked in the Dubin Center for your out master scribes to restore Torah sleep away camp, or visit their grand- donation box outside the Dubin Center donations. Shelf-stable food items and/ scrolls to their original glory. Traveling parents here. Some TBE activities wind doors) has already shipped over 100 or Publix gift cards can be deposited in Sofrim will be required in the future to down temporarily; many continue. pairs of sneakers to impoverished na- the cart. The need is always there. So is complete the cleaning process of our The Current Events discussion tions abroad. the constant need for feminine hygiene main Torah. group smashed attendance records Sisterhood has resumed leader- products. Four words for you: Israel Scouts when our guest speaker, Joe Bord, ship of the TBE Gift Gallery. You may Would you want your daughter Friendship Caravan. This joyous free presented an interactive talk about the have noticed renewed activity there. or granddaughter to miss school due program, a touring celebration of Is- confounding Brexit situation. Many It’s looking great and enjoying a fresh to the lack of feminine products? The rael in song and dance starring high- complicated topics have been debated start under the management of Dani Mitzvah Committee’s Cycle Forward spirited Israeli teens, rolls into TBE on during the year, with respect for di- and Louise Weiner. Dani is busily cre- project helps girls stay in school by dis- Monday, June 10 at 7:30 p.m. Catch verse opinions. We have learned to ating Jewish-themed jewelry, featur- tributing products to girls via non-prof- Israel Scouts fever at israelscouts.org value disparate points of view. Cur- ing Dani’s latest obsession: hamsas. it organizations in Lee County. Please and then join us at the event. rent Events will take a summer break, Louise stocks those special somethings deposit products and/or gift cards in Talmud & Life, Erev Shabbat as will Mike Kashi’s thriving Hebrew you didn’t know you needed until you the hamper next to the shopping cart in services, Tot Shabbat, Jewish Franco- class for adults. Mike makes learning see them, not to mention Judaica for the Dubin Center. Cycle Forward de- phone group, Torah study, and Lunch Hebrew fun. During class there’s al- holidays, simchas and every day. Stop livered a donation of 50 backpacks to & Learn all continue throughout the ways time for laughs. in often; merchandise changes all the girls in need, thanks to Alliance Finan- year. Worship with us, study with us, Sisterhood’s special events take time. Expanded Gift Gallery hours are cial Group and their Girls Going Places have fun with us at TBE. a hiatus but Sisterhood’s Ladies Who forthcoming. A shout-out from Louise conference. Celebrating and educating

that day, from 8:30 a.m. designed tour of Israel’s holy sites and or dessert are welcome to do so while COMMUNITY FREE SYNAGOGUE to 1:30 p.m., Community places of historic and cultural signifi- avoiding dairy foods. Worship con- Fort Myers Free Holiday Camp will cance. Daily photos will be posted on tinues at 7:30 p.m., conducted by our (239) 466-6671 serve a hot breakfast, tell the C.F.S. website at www.fortmy- remarkable congregational hazzanim, Sukkot stories and learn erssynagogue.com. Thanks to C.F.S. gifted musician Joseph Brauer, and www.fortmyerssynagogue.com songs, have the kids “concierge” Arnie Harris for organiz- with a thought-provoking, educational build their own sukkah, ing the registration. message from Rabbi Diamond. A so- Heartfelt thanks to C.F.S. puppeteers take them “harvesting” to decorate C.F.S. provides free Hebrew tutor- cial hour follows. Samantha Gallentine, Tiffany Bague their sukkah, and then enjoy a festive ing and enriched Jewish education to Sabbath morning Torah Study and Abigayl Burnikel for their artistry home-cooked lunch. Watch L’CHAYIM all Jewish young people ages 8 and Breakfast with the Rabbi each week operating Rosalyn Thomson’s hand and the weekly Federation above in our area, is 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. in our Commu- puppets for The Passover Puppet The- email blasts for details. often culminating nity Hall, 10868 Metro Parkway, Fort atre during the C.F.S-Jewish Federa- The congregation is in joyous Bat and Myers. A breakfast nosh is always tion Community Young People’s Pass- grateful to Jonah Rioux Bar Mitzvah cel- welcome. over gathering; to Miss Vicki and her who, as part of his Bar ebrations in a warm Now in its 15th year, The Com- family for bringing the surprise baby Mitzvah education, hand supportive congre- munity Free Synagogue continues to goats Had and Gadya all the way from lettered Zakhor (remem- gational setting, also grow and prosper as a new and exciting Labelle; and to new great-grandmother ber) on the Remembrance free. For more infor- model for the 21st century, contempo- Natalie Fulton for cooking the matzah Stones distributed during mation, email syn rary Jewish congregation. It thrives on ball soup for the kids. And welcome the May 1 Yom Hashoah [email protected] or its active volunteers, deeply committed Lilah! Eve Memorial gathering. call Rabbi Diamond leaders and on the great generosity of Building on the success of this new A kpheetsat haderekh at 239.466.6671. its many hundreds of participants. Ev- program, C.F.S.’s next young people’s (shortening of the way) to Friday evening ery C.F.S. activity and program is free Jewish holiday day camp will be dur- the participants in C.F.S.’s Jonah Rioux dinners start each and open to all. ing Sukkot, Monday, October 14 (Co- June 4-15 Israel Pilgrimage. Every two week at 6:30 p.m. There is no charge. lumbus Day). Since there is no school years, Rabbi Diamond leads a custom- Those who wish to bring a dish, salad

and comments about the Board of Officers and Directors. Due to Hebrew word that literally means “jus- BAT YAM TEMPLE OF THE ISLANDS Torah portion or current author error, Treasurer Barry Epstein tice” or “righteousness.” In Judaism, Sanibel events. was not included in the listing. As a tzedakah refers to the religious obliga- (732) 780-2016 There was a special key person for the financial well-being tion to do what is right and just. Unlike treat for those who came of the congregation, Barry deserves voluntary philanthropy, tzedakah is www.batyam.org to Shabbat services on our congratulations and appreciation. seen as a religious obligation that must Friday, May 3 because Whether in Beachwood, Ohio, or Fort be performed regardless of one’s finan- Summer Shabbat services at Bat Yam Cantor Murray Simon conducted the Myers, Barry nimbly handles the as- cial standing, and is considered manda- are every Friday evening at 7:00 p.m. entire Shabbat service, including the sorted responsibilities of the treasurer. tory even for those of limited financial until mid-September in Fellowship chanting of the Torah portion. The oth- The Bat Yam Tzedakah Commit- means. Hall at the SCUCC. It is a devoted er volunteer service leaders for Shab- tee, composed of Salessa Berk, Vickie Just as some of us were wonder- and congenial group of area Jews who bat services in May were Ben Yokel, Fuchs, Ellen Feingold, Shirley Frank, ing if it was really necessary to have gather together for dinner at a local Mel Bleiberg, Marcia and Rabbi Jim Arlen Stein and Sally Sacks, deter- the Sanibel Police present during the restaurant prior to services. Whoever Rudin, and Michael and Tanya Hoch- mined local and Israeli non-profit -or shortened summer Friday Shabbat ser- leads the Shabbat service determines schild. In June, the Friday Shabbat ser- ganizations worthy of receiving grants vices, the answer came forcefully from the restaurant as well as the order and vice leaders are Marcia and Rabbi Jim for 2019 from funds donated by con- the shooting at the Chabad synagogue content of the service. Each service is Rudin, Becky Kon, Myra Klahr, Ellen gregants and visitors. Five groups were near San Diego. Religious hatred of the different due to the choices of the lead- and Michael Feingold. Many thanks to selected that met the Committee crite- other sadly is with us in the U.S. and er as to the prayers, whether in Eng- Tanya Hochschild, chair of the Ritual ria of efficient and effective use of the around the world. lish or Hebrew, the selected readings Committee, for organizing the summer funds. By reviewing financial docu- The Jewish High Holy Days begin schedule. Many thanks to Becky Kon mentation and making decisions, the late this year with Erev Rosh Hashanah Guidelines for coordinating the dinner gatherings members of the Committee fulfill an on Sunday, September 29. Once again, prior to services. important aspect of Jewish life to help Rabbi Stephen and Vickie Fuchs are for publication Last month’s issue of L’CHAYIM those less fortunate. opening their home on Saturday, Sep- DEADLINES: highlighted the newly elected Bat Yam From Wikipedia, tzedakah is the tember 21 at 7:30 p.m. for Selichot re- 5 p.m. on the 5th of each month for all flection and discussion. For those who articles and photos. If the 5th falls on Stay in touch throughout the month. come to Bat Yam for Rosh Hashanah a weekend or holiday, the deadline is and Yom Kippur, there will be new the following business day. Sign up for the Federation’s e-blasts. prayer books that provide egalitarian WORD LIMITS: language for the English translations 600 words for temples and organiza- Get the latest information and added readings on more current tions providing materials for their on upcoming community topics, thanks to the efforts of Lois respective sections. Those exceeding Lorsch. these limits will be edited to fit. events and cultural activities, Come to worship and learn at our SUBMISSIONS: breaking news, updates from meeting place located on the campus Email: [email protected] of the Sanibel Congregational UCC Articles should be sent as text files, Israel and lots more. at 2050 Periwinkle Way on Sanibel. Word files, or Rich Text Format files. Members of the community, guests Receipt will be acknowledged if and visitors are always welcome to join requested. Photos may be submitted Send an email to with congregants. electronically; high-resolution JPG or Best wishes to all of our snowbirds TIF formats preferred. [email protected] for a healthy and relaxing summer! L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 TEMPLE NEWS Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 23

have been incredibly from June to October will gather for on Monday evenings and volunteers TEMPLE JUDEA busy this past year. Rabbi lunches or dinners at local restaurants. are needed for June and July. To help, Fort Myers Sack continues to bring Regular programming will begin again email Linda Idelson at lindaidelson@ (239) 433-0201 new ideas for enhanc- in the fall. gmail.com. ing the spiritual life of The next Tot Shabbat is on Friday, Regular scheduled events: www.tjswfl.org the congregation. A par- June 14 from 5:00 to 5:45 p.m. Watch • Friday evening Shabbat services ticular highlight was the your children take a leading role in the at 6:30 p.m., preceded each week This article is being written a week be- interfaith study program that brought family service. Also scheduled in June with a wine and cheese reception fore the Temple Judea trip to Israel be- together over 200 Jews, Christians and is a monthly Musical Shabbat on Fri- starting at 6:15 p.m. gins. Led by Rabbi Sack, the trip is de- Muslims to discuss faith. Three inter- day, June 21. • Saturday morning Shabbat servic- signed for those who have already been faith sessions were held, one of which Rabbi Sack’s lunchtime Torah es at 9:30 a.m. followed by a Kid- to Israel at least once, and for most of was at our synagogue. The program study will resume in September. dush luncheon the participants, more than once. In- was so successful, more programs are Our monthly service of meals at • Morning minyan every Monday at stead of seeing the typical “tourist” planned for next year. the Salvation Army’s Meals with Com- 9:00 a.m. sights, the trip includes visits to cities, Our Director of Congregational passion continues. Meals are served historical sites, restaurants and enter- Learning, Tab Scribner, has “wowed” tainment venues not typically part of a our children and parents with her cre- first-timer’s itinerary. Our trip will also ativity and her attention to detail. Jan include presentations at an Israeli soft- Klein and Ronnie Lamm chaired a very ware company and a children’s heart successful breakfast to feed the hungry hospital. By the time you read this, the on Christmas morning, sponsored and group will have returned from a fun- staffed by Temple Judea volunteers. filled, exciting two-week Israel experi- Plans are already underway to sponsor ence. the breakfast again next year. Bar / Bat Mitzvah Specialist Luckily, the group will be back Chaverot, the Temple Judea Sister- to attend Shavuot services at Temple hood, continues to find new ways to Choosing the right photographer is an important decision. Judea on Sunday, June 9 beginning at engage the women of the congregation. Michael Shapiro has more than 30 years experience in media 9:30 a.m. Temple Judea follows the Is- Its monthly Rosh Chodesh program and journalism. He is able to capture images that are unique, raeli calendar for holidays; Yizkor will was a great success and will continue unexpected and spontaneous. be said during services on the 9th. again in the fall. The group will also be back in Our fundraising committee held or dessert are welcome to do so whiletime to enjoy the singing and danc- a very successful fundraiser that also avoiding dairy foods. Worship con-ing of the Israel Scouts on Monday, honored two of our most valued mem- tinues at 7:30 p.m., conducted by ourJune 10 at 7:30 p.m. at Temple Beth bers. remarkable congregational hazzanim,El. This annual event, sponsored by Shabbats were highlighted during gifted musician Joseph Brauer, andTemple Judea, Temple Beth El and the year with the addition of a monthly with a thought-provoking, educationalthe Jewish Federation, brings Israeli “Musical Shabbat” and a monthly Tot message from Rabbi Diamond. A so-teenagers to our community to enter- Shabbat service for young families, cial hour follows. tain us with a spirited and lively mu- along with some interesting Shab- Sabbath morning Torah Study sical program. The teens who perform bat evening speakers. A recent special Breakfast with the Rabbi each weekrepresent the best of Israel, and it is al- event was the Musician-in-Residence is 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. in our Commu-ways a great evening. The program is Shabbat weekend with Ari Lesser. nity Hall, 10868 Metro Parkway, Fortopen to all ages and there is no charge HAZAK, Temple Judea’s 55+ Myers. A breakfast nosh is always to attend. group, continues to add members. Other Services: Weddings / Family Portraits / Events welcome. Temple Judea staff and volunteers HAZAK members who are still here Now in its 15th year, The Com- 239.770.6860 munity Free Synagogue continues to grow and prosper as a new and exciting everyone involved. The [email protected] model for the 21st century, contempo- TEMPLE BETH SHALOM best part of the whole ex- www.shapiro-photography.com rary Jewish congregation. It thrives on Cape Coral perience was celebrating its active volunteers, deeply committed (239) 772-4555 this holiday with loved leaders and on the great generosity of ones and friends. Just its many hundreds of participants. Ev- www.templebethshalomcc.org before our Seder began, ery C.F.S. activity and program is free two strangers, not know- and open to all. Despite a windy, rainy start to the ing we were having a Seder, showed up evening, 58 hardy souls braved the at our door and joined us for the meal, elements and a flooded parking lot to bringing home the message of Pass- celebrate the first night of Passover over. What a special mitzvah. with our temple family. The social hall While the Seder was the biggest looked elegant and all decked out for event last month, it wasn’t the only one. Shabbat and our Passover Seder. The TBS’s choir performed beautifully at tables were beautifully arranged and the Holocaust service at Temple Judea. set by a group of post-bar/bat mitzvah Our film and nosh festival screening students. Special thanks go to Jonah of Sturgeon Queens: Russ & Daugh- and Ian DiLeonardo; Zachary, Sky- ters had a nice turnout, wonderful food ler and Sydney Kashman; and Edison including lox herring and many of the Greenbaum who was joined by mem- items sold by Russ & Daughters, and bers of his BSA Troop 314 – Eli, Jas- a discussion afterwards. The next film par, Christopher and Declan, for help- will be on Sunday, June 2, and will fea- ing to set up the room. Thanks also to ture The Glorious History of Nathan’s Georgette Boethner, Marge Gallop, Famous Hot Dogs. Rheta Kanen, Wendy Blyveis, Toby Activities will be slowing down Gold, Jill and Rich Lawther, and Rabbi now that summer is here, but members Buchen, who spent many hours plan- will be busy planning new and exciting ning and carrying out all the details of activities for the next season. Services, a wonderful Seder (If I have forgotten Brown Bag Lunches, Torah Study and to name anyone, please forgive me and more will continue as usual and, of let me know who you are.) course, visitors and guests are always Planning and putting together the welcome. Seder was truly a labor of love for

speaker Rabbi James Ru- TEMPLE SHALOM bin and much more. Charlotte Harbor & the Gulf Islands The temple will give (941) 625-2116 the appearance of a Jew- ish Community Center, www.templeshalomfl.com for in effect we are inclu- sive and open. One does The month of June is quiet at Temple not need to be a member to attend our Shalom regarding activities and events. programs. However, the planning committee is Temple Shalom is a reformed con- very busy in setting the calendar for gregation affiliated with the Union of another exciting season following the Reform Judaism. fall cycle and Holy Days. Shavuot services will be held Sun- On the proposed agenda is the day, June 9 at 11:00 a.m. and a lunch return of the Bay Area Cantors Asso- will follow. ciation, a meet the author with lunch Father’s Day Shabbat services will included, lunch and learn with the For- be held Friday, June 14 with special ward, film festival, Southwest Florida gifts for all fathers who attend. Symphony Youth Orchestra, guest L'CHAYIM JUNE 2019 24 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties Explore More. Active Senior Lifestyle

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Who knew this off beat story – a young man just out of college has an aff air with one of his parents’ friends and then runs off withFamily’s her daughter – would turnSeduced out History?to be by a monsterMrs. Rob- hit Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties – is Stars of David with seven Academy Award nominations. u By Nate Bloom, ContributingBOLD Columnist CAPS are deemed by Nate Bloom*We towill be joinedNate by Bloomauthor Beverly (seeThe Graduatecolumn Gray, author ’sat the left ofinfl ) uencehas becomeon the future a family of history expert in 10 Upcoming major events Persons in Editor’s note: inson, for an in-depthyears look of doing at his celebrity column, and he has expert friends who can help fi lmmaking and when explore called how iton. rocked Most the family late-sixties history world, experts refl ecting charge and $1,000 or more to do a be Jewish for the purpose of the column. Persons identified as Jewish changing the era’sfull views family-tree of sex, work search. and However,marriage. Her Bloom insight knows into never-that most people want to start have at least one Jewish parent and were not raised in a faith other than before-revealed detailswith a will limited enlighten search and1 hr.of entertain one46 min. family you. line. Judaism – and don’t identify with a faith other than Judaism as an adult. ConvertsLanguage: English Running Time: So heres the deal: mailed to 5,000 residents in the area. Additional copies to Judaism, of course, are also identifi ed asPoppins Jewish. Returns). Hurwitz won two Oscars in 2017 for best score andSponsored best by Radiology Regional Center It’s Awards Season: ). Shaiman is best u song (La La Land Write Bloom at [email protected] and enclose a phone number. Community Directory The Golden Globes are being known for his score for the musical ver- The Golden Globe Awards Nate will then contact you about starting a limited search. If that sion of Hairspray. Brief musical refer- televised live this year on NBC, on Poppins re-make ences are made in the goes well, additional and more extensive searches are possible. Sunday, January 6 at 8:00 p.m., 40, Sandra will to theTuesday, mega-hit score of the January original The 15 rst at search 7:15 fee is nop.m. more than $100. No upfront cost. Also, are available at the Jewish Federation office. Oh and ANDY SAMBERG RICHARD SHER- 1964 Poppins fi lm. host. The Globes are an imperfect pre- several of this newspaper’s readers have asked Bloom to locate MANSunday,, 90, who wrote the January ’64 score with 27 at 3:00 p.m.* dictor of the Oscars. But the Globes cer- ROBERT, consulted on u his late brother, THE OSLOfriends and DIARIES family members from their past, and that’s worked out Synagogue news emony is often more fun than the Oscars The year is 1992, and Israeli-Palestinian relations are at an all-time low. In an BRAD the new fi lm. equivalent. Below are the confi rmed great for them. So contact him about this as well. TV Categories attempt to stop the bloodshed, a small group of Israelis and Palestinians’80s. Pose meet was co-created by Jewish nominees and a number of non- in Oslo – secretly and against the law. The unsanctioned meetings that changed, 47, who recently wed Acting: SACHA BARON COHEN, The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel. FALCHUK nominated Jews closely connected to a the Middle Eastcharacter forever arein chronicled 1only hr. 37by min.the negotiators’ diaries. 47, (Who is America? and MICHAEL GWYNETH PALTROW, 46. nominated fi lm or TV program. Unlike Language: EnglishBest Running Awards: Time: Film and TV DOUGLAS, 74, (The Kominsky Meth- The best musical or comedy series, a the Oscars, Golden Globes are given The Globes for best fi lm and the best TV The Good Place od) vie for the Globe for best actor nominees include MICHAEL for excellence in TV, as well as in fi lm. show are given to the show’s principal in a comedy. The varied characters* Special Matinee at Bat Yam Temple of the Islands,fantasy series created by u Film Categories , 22, producers, of whom there are many. Local Organization news Cohen plays frequently spoof real-life SCHUR, 43 (whose father was Jewish); , co-created TIMOTHE CHALAMET 2050 PeriwinkleMy practice Way, is Sanibel to note ifIsland a Jewish direc- politicians, like former VP Dick Cheney. The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel , pieces once with tongs halfway (Beautiful Boy) is up for the RACHELbest sup- tor or writer/creator is associated with Douglas stars as Sandy Kominsky, an by AMY SHERMAN-PALLADINO, created through cooking. porting actor Globe, and that film or TV program. Two films L.A. acting coach. ALISON 52; and The2019 Kominsky Method Life-Enriching Information  Take the chicken out of the oven WEISZ, 48, (The Favourite) is a best nominated for best drama fi lm were Two Jewish actresses, BlacKkKlansmanL'CHAYIM JANUAYby CHUCK LORRE, 66. and let it cool slightly. Use a sharp supporting fi lm actress nominee. 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Sarah’s friendship with A BAGanimated OF fi MARBLESlm nominee, Scandal Each month, readers of L’CHAYIM get news and updates the chicken into the skilletOUR and sauté FEDERATION title character’s agent and bestThis friendE heartwarming SEO adaptation of Joseph Joff o’s enduring B: memoirFREARS tells the, 77, story a Brit. , which was Queen Anne of England (1665-1714) Into the Spider Verse, was co-written by in The Kominsky Method, is up for best with Escape at Dannemora , 53, and for 3-4 minutes, until the smallest was historically important. Honorable of the Nazi occupationRODNEY through ROTHMAN the eyes of, 45ish.the two youngJOE Jewish boys. De- BEN STILLER supporting actor. 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By Brian Simon, Federation Presidentand one from the far left – on a tour In the question-and-answer ses- SE S SSE: B. 12 of Israel. He wanted to demonstrate to The exclusive way to reach the Jewish FE n late November, I attended the sion after the presentation, I asked Mr. 5 Our Community both of his imaginary guests how Israel J Library - fiPresidents rst AIPAC Day Southwest Fun Day Florida an- Stephens to speak more about the im- FEB. 18 P lives its values and how those values 10 Jewish Interest nual event at the Hyatthor Coconut- “TBD” Free and open to the community. portance of bipartisanship. He said if e Aut I ok; Skype th are also American values – respect for ePoint. Bo I attended not as a representa- he had the power to vet political candi- 16 Jewish Film Festival Read th the rule of law, care for the less fortu- FEB. 20 tive of Federation but as someone who dates, he would ask each of them two was interested to nate and technology for defense (and 20 Marketplace A light dairy dinner will be served. questions: 1) When was the last time or Event – Alyson Richman,hear theLakes featured Library he meant defense from enemy attacks, 6 Auth you changed your mind about an im- 21 Israel & theFE JewishB. 2 World speaker, Bret Ste- not merely fi repower for the sake of h - Program and SpeakerThe TBD New portant subject; and 2) When was the 23 Commentary Lion of Juda phens of military might). R. 5 Ball last time you crossed the aisle to vote MA Yorkasq Timesuerad.e He pointed out that Israel is the 24 From the Bimah ults Only) M n Esther (Ad Inside the con- on an issue? . 16 Quee only country in its region to refl ect I’ll share one last observation. At 25 CommunityM ADirectoryR ference room, I the best values of the left – respect for the start of the program, they played 26 Focus on Youth thor Event - B.A. Shapiro, noticed“ The Collector’s a slide on Apprentice”the environment, respect for women’s Community in Lee and Charlotte counties. R. 28 Au the national anthem of Israel and then MA the projector with rights and the rights of the LGBTQ 28 Organizations of the US. The attendees stood atten- The Alliance for the Arts a cartoon picture community. He also noted, for those on  ian tively for “Hatikvah.” When the “Star 30 Temple News y - Pre-Pesach Partyof an elephant and the right, that the Israeli economy im- PJ Librar ion Spangled Banner” came on, people put APR. 14 proved signifi cantly in the 1990s after a donkey with boxing gloves on, star- their hands over their hearts and sang oah Event it absorbed thousands of immigrants Yom HaSingh at each other, trunk-to-snout, ready along. The lesson I took from this was, R. 28 from the former Soviet Union. Israel, AP to fi ght. The caption said, “AIPAC is that even at an event to celebrate Israel, ting he said, prioritizes its values before its Annual Ma e bipartisane organization. Leave your the attendees demonstrated their pri- 8 interests. And the country is better for MAY gloves at the door.” mary allegiance to the United States. Later in the evening, Mark Sachs, it. Stephens said America’s interests We are all on the same team. We’re are best served by reliable allies on the 3 AIPAC’s North and Central Florida allowed our disagreements, but we far edges of the world. Area Director, gave a stirring talk about I have to tell you, bipartisanship is have to be able to distinguish between Federation’s Senior Lunch the dangers of politicization – turning a political opponent and an enemy. an issue close to my heart. I did not ex- every issue into a battle between “us” Political opponents argue over power. Bunch update LOW! pect to hear it championed so eloquent- For more information and “them.”FO HeTO trumpeted FOL AIPAC’s Enemies seek the destruction of the ORE IN ly. My concern for the U.S. is that both UNED. M overwhelming bipartisan support for other side. Israel understands the dif- STAY T the left and the right are demonizing bills to support Israel. ference. When Bret Stephens took the stage, their political opponents, treating them as enemies. This is harmful to our po- he imagined taking a pair of American politicians – one from the far right or to place an ad in L’CHAYIM: In Memoriam: Lorie Mayer and Sabine van Dam Jewish Film Festival of Southwest Florida —Sunday, January, 13th Opening Day Event

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