December 2019 “A Joyful Community That Inspires the Soul, Builds Relationships, and Engages the World”
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CHAICHAI November / December 2019 “A joyful community that inspires the soul, builds relationships, and engages the world” STEVEN W. ENGEL Rabbi JMICHAEL G. KANCHER Executive Director SHERYL R. SACHAROFF, Ed.D. Director of Education BLAINE SMITH Youth Director JULIE BEGANI Events & Marketing Director BOARD OF DIRECTORS MARK E. LEVITT President BARBARA ZASLOFSKY Secretary IAN ROBINSON VP Budget & Finance LISA LEVIN VP Education & Youth Programming BEVERLY MURPHY VP Worship & Compassion MITCH BARNETT VP Fundraising & Development CATHY LIEBLICH Co-VP Membership ALLISON LEVIE CO-VP Membership DONNA ABRAMSON VP Communications, Marketing & Social Media CAMY B. SCHWAM-WILCOX VP Leadership Development HELENE BECKER VP of Volunteerism & Congregant Engagement FRED SCHOTT VP Human Resources SUSAN MCKENNA Immediate Past President CONGREGATION OF REFORM JUDAISM Founded 1950 Affiliated with Union for Reform Judaism 928 Malone Drive, Orlando, Florida 32810 • Ph: 407-645-0444 • Fax: 407-645-2393 • www.crjorlando.org from the Rabbi: Please mark your calendars now! Steven Engel Fundraiser Throughout history Sunday evening, April 19, 2019 Hanukkah has always been considered a relatively minor Honoring Larry and Susan Halperin Jewish holiday. CRJ’s annual spring fundraiser will take But like many things in Judaism, historical place at the Orlando Hilton Hotel in realities and social situations change the ways we view Jewish observances. Given Maitland. This year’s deserving recipients the current situation we find ourselves in, it of the CRJ Lifetime Achievement Award warrants a renewed bolstering of Hanukkah who will be honored at the event are as a Jewish holiday. Its themes of standing up Larry and Susan Halperin. Both have to religious persecution and fighting against been very active in the temple in a variety religious intolerance ring true in a world of volunteer roles including Larry’s where anti-Semitism is on the rise and where service as a Board officer for many years White Supremacy and Nationalism are being and as a member of the Rabbi Search given a voice once again. The Jewish leaders Committee, and Susan’s involvement on of the Hanukkah story include the family numerous committees (such as the Youth Maccabee, often translated as “Hammer.” Education Committee and Chair of the Show of Hands fundraiser) and as The name suggests that, to those who seek a weekly office volunteer for over 11 years. to perpetuate hatred against us and seek The Halperin’s fortuitous meeting while students at Tulane University to stop us from practicing Judaism, we are was the beginning of a genuine love story that continues to this day. A to come down upon them like a hammer. It first semester freshman, Susan was on a trolley with her friends heading is one of the few instances in early Jewish to a party with Larry’s fraternity, Sigma Alpha Mu. Larry, a junior pre- history where there is no attempt to seek med student, was on the trolley too. They socialized in group settings a understanding, no compromise, no flexibility, couple of times before Larry asked Susan out on a date one month after but instead decisive and strong reaction, the trolley ride. Susan’s response: “What took you so long?” because of the nature of the adversary. When Larry was raised in Long Island where his family belonged to Temple it comes to our safety and survival there EmmanuEL in Lynbrook. Larry was a proud member of BBYO in which he can be no settlement. Make no mistake, this held leadership positions, including Regional Chairman, and attended new anti-Semitism is insipid and those who international conferences. Susan is an Orlando native whose parents, support it or stand on the sidelines and do Stanley (z”l) and Lynne Bloom (z”l) moved here from Rockford, Illinois nothing about it should feel the strength of a strong response. We need to do what we before she was born and joined CRJ (then known as CLJ, Congregation can do to not let our government officials of Liberal Judaism) in 1958. Susan was President of the local BBG chapter pull back the hammer. We must continue as well as attending national and international BBG conferences. to form coalitions with those who fight After marrying at CLJ in July 1981, the Halperins’ moved to Brooklyn against religious persecution. We have to where Larry was already enrolled at the State University of New York, take measures to ensure our security and Downstate College of Medicine. Susan completed her coursework at safety. But we must also, like our Maccabee Hunter College in New York City, but graduated from Tulane with a B.A. descendants, keep the light of hope, of in communications. They later lived in Queens, Long Island and Syracuse, courage, and of persistence burning. To where Larry completed his fellowship. The winter climate of upstate New strengthen our commitments to Judaism and York prompted Larry, at Susan’s urging, to interview in Orlando while to our Jewish community is also a necessary they were in town for a wedding. Although the initial opening at Orlando response to those who want to make us Orthopedic Center went to a good friend of Larry’s, Larry joined the afraid to be Jewish. Let the hammer go down practice when another vacancy occurred soon thereafter. The Halperins’ on them by us doing even more to declare still live in the house they first purchased when relocating to Orlando that Jews are here to stay with strength in 1990. and determination. We will continue to not As a hand specialist at OOC, Larry’s career has been a remarkably only survive, but we will continue to thrive successful one, including serving as a Florida representative to the as an important part of America’s fabric of American Medical Association, an officer of the Florida Orthopedic diversity. As the popular Hanukkah song Society, and Chief of Orthopedic Surgery at Lucerne Hospital. Susan goes “Don’t let the light go out, it’s lasted for and Larry raised their three children, Allyson, Daniel and Samantha, at so many years…” CRJ and have many wonderful memories of their involvement in temple Wishing you a bright Hanukkah! activities and CRJ sponsored trips. Rabbi Engel Please help us honor Larry and Susan on April 19! 2 from the Director of Education: Sheryl Sacharoff, Ed.D “As we work to create light for others, we naturally light our own way.” – Mary Anne Radmacher Gratitude and light are most wonderful themes of this season. With the approaching holidays of Thanksgiving and Hanukkah, I find myself thinking of the miracles all around us. A story by Barbara Rush reminds me of these miracles. The Hanukkah Menorahs that Could Not Be Lit is a short tale of a teacher who was sharing a lesson on storytelling with her students. At the time, the children were studying about the Holocaust and the teacher asked each of them to bring in something from home relating to the subject. Students brought in family photos and family treasures from their relatives who had survived and those who had not been as fortunate to escape the Nazis. One child brought in a Hanukkah menorah (hanukkiah) which we, as Jews, are obligated to light each Hanukkah. The author tells us that lighting the menorah relates to both historical facts as well as legend. In the second century B.C.E., a small group of Jews fought and obtained religious freedom over mighty tyrants who had desecrated the Temple and forbade them from practicing Jewish life. Legend tells us that after the victory, a great miracle happened in which the oil, which was supposed to last for only a day, lasted for eight days. Each hanukkiah has oil receptacles or candle holders for eight days and one more space for the shamash or helper candle which lights the rest. The hanukkiah that the student brought in had room for eight candles but did not have a shamash. As the story went on, it was revealed that this treasure was saved by the student’s grandfather whose shop was destroyed by the Nazis during Kristallnacht. Quite fortunately, the grandparents escaped, but the hanukkiah was rescued without the shamash. The teacher, realizing that she had once bought a hanukkiah on a trip to Poland, ran to get her treasure. The miracle was that her special menorah had a shamash, but it was made to hold a candle unlike the rest of her spaces which were made to hold oil! The teacher added the candle holder as a shamash on the boy’s rescued hanukkiah which fit perfectly! On the next Hanukkah, the student’s family invited the teacher over to share in the lighting of the miraculous candles. I wish you and yours the joy of the holidays and the Everyone looks through a particular color, but the brightness of God’s miracles all around us. Here are some candle is always there.” - Mohammed Naguib wonderful quotes to light your spirit. “A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.” - “There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle James Keller or the mirror that reflects it.” - Edith Wharton “A thousand candles can be lit from the flame of one “Look at how a single candle can both defy and define candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. the darkness.” - Anne Frank Happiness can be spread without diminishing that of “Nothing can dim the light that shines from within.” - yourself.” - Budhha Maya Angelou L’Shalom, “Religion is a candle inside a multicolored lantern. Sheryl 3 Understanding the December Dilemma: Celebrating the Winter Holidays at Home December 15th @ 9:45am in the Schott Family Chapel Join us for an interactive discussion led by CRJ congregant, Rabbi Rick regarding the Hanukah/Christmas dilemma.