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MIND IN THE MAKING FIRST BOOK TIP SHEETS Cover FOCUS AND SELF CONTROL Head, Shoulders, Knees Toes The Seven Essential Life Skills Every Child Needs By Annie Kubler Executive Function Life Skill: Focus and Self Control Children need this skill in order to achieve their goals, especially in a This cheerful board book world that is filled with distractions and information overload. It involves engages young children’s paying attention, remembering the rules, thinking flexibly and minds and bodies. It exercising self control. introduces them to a classic song while teaching them several parts of the body. Suggestions for Promoting Focus and Self Control Use it to get little ones up and moving! TIP: While reading the book to your child, you can point to your head and say: • “Here’s my head. Where’s your head?” Then point to the child’s head: • “There’s your head!” High-quality books and Wait for your child’s response and respond back. educational resources from First Book supporting research-based SKILL: Life Skills from Focus and Self Control includes paying attention, which calls on an Mind in the Making Executive Function skill. Also, this back and forth interaction is what by Ellen Galinsky researchers call “serve and return.” Like a game of ball, one of you Find more books says or does something (serves) and the other responds (returns). The and materials on the First importance of these everyday interactions to brain building is a key finding Book Marketplace, a resource from child development research. available exclusively to educators and programs TIP: serving children in need. For children who are beginning to remember and understand words, you www.fbmarketplace.org. can let them point first and you follow their lead. You can ask: You will notice that these tips promote two child development principles: • “Where are your toes?” and “Where are my toes?” Serve and Return and Executive Function skills. Serve and Return, like game of SKILL: ball, involves a back and forth Asking questions is a good way to be interactive and help children conversation between you and your . child where you listen, then build on pay attention and extend what your child says or does to promote learning. TIP: Executive Function skills are skills you use to manage your attention, You can encourage your child to point to the part of the body named in your feelings, your thoughts and your the book first and then do the action. behavior to reach your goals. They include being able to pay SKILL: attention, remember information, think flexibly and exercise self control. This activity requires memory. Focus and Self Control includes Find more about Families and Work remembering information so that you can use it. Institute’s Mind in the Making at www.mindinthemaking.org. Elmo Says... By Sarah Albee The Seven Essential Life Skills Every Child Needs The classic game “Simon Executive Function Life Skill: Focus and Self Control Says” meets Sesame Street Children need this skill in order to achieve their goals, especially in a in this lively board book. world that is filled with distractions and information overload. It involves Favorite characters instruct paying attention, remembering the rules, thinking flexibly and children to imitate their exercising self control. actions—but only when they hear the words “Elmo says!” Suggestions for Promoting Focus and Self Control TIP: You can play the game as you read the book with your child. Like the game of “Simon Says,” your child is not supposed to follow the directions unless the book states: “Elmo says.” SKILL: Focus and Self Control includes being able to remember rules. It also includes the High-quality books and ability to slow down your reaction and also to pause and choose a response. Playing educational resources from First games and reading books that require children to remember and not go on automatic, but to exercise self control, are what promote Executive Function skills. Book supporting research-based Life Skills from TIP: Mind in the Making by Ellen Galinsky Ask your child to try to remember what comes next in the story: • “What comes after ‘walk like a cat?’ Yes, it is ‘swing a bat.’” Find more books and materials on the First Showing the picture can give your child clues about the words in the book. Book Marketplace, a resource available exclusively to SKILL: educators and programs Developing Focus and Self Control takes practice. It is good to repeat this game and read serving children in need. the book again and again. www.fbmarketplace.org. TIP: You will notice that these tips promote In the preschool years, you can make the game more challenging by switching rules to the two child development principles: opposite. For example, if Elmo says: “Touch your nose,” ask your child instead to do the Serve and Return and Executive opposite and tap his or her toes. Function skills. Serve and Return, like game of SKILL: ball, involves a back and forth conversation between you and your Your child has to exercise self control when you change the rules, an Executive child where you listen, then build on Function skill. and extend what your child says or does to promote learning. TIP: Executive Function skills are skills you use to manage your attention, Note that this book and game all involve children in a physical activity. As you read the your feelings, your thoughts and your book, have your child do the actions called for in the story. behavior to reach your goals. They include being able to pay SKILL: attention, remember information, think Children learn Focus and Self Control by being active—not by sitting still! flexibly and exercise self control. Find more about Families and Work Institute’s Mind in the Making at www.mindinthemaking.org. Goodnight Moon By Margaret Wise Brown The Seven Essential Life Skills Every Child Needs In this classic bedtime story, a rabbit says goodnight to what’s in the room, from “Goodnight, Executive Function Life Skill: Focus and Self Control moon” to “Goodnight, nobody” Children need this skill in order to achieve their , especially in a world that goals finally to “Goodnight, noises is filled with distractions and information overload. It involves paying attention, everywhere.” The mesmerizing and exercising self control. remembering the rules, thinking flexibly cadence of the rhymes and the clever details in every picture Suggestions for Promoting Focus and Self Control form a reassuring and calming end of the day tradition Tip: for As you read each page of Goodnight Moon, point to the objects named children and in the story (the red balloon, two little kittens) and ask your child to point adults after you. alike. Skill: High-quality books and When you invite your child to find the objects, you are helping your child educational resources from First learn to pay close attention to the details in the pictures, which calls on Book supporting research-based Executive Function skills. The back and forth interaction you have with Life Skills from your child in reading this book is what researchers call “serve and return.” Mind in the Making Like a game of ball, one of you says or does something (serves) and the by Ellen Galinsky other responds (returns). The importance of these everyday interactions to Find more books brain building is a key finding from child development research. and materials on the First Tip: Book Marketplace, a resource available exclusively to After the opening of the book, there is a tiny mouse on all of the pages educators and programs with pictures in color. See if your child can find and point to the mouse. If serving children in need. not, point the mouse out to your child. www.fbmarketplace.org. Skill: You will notice that these tips promote two child development principles: Your child will not only have to pay attention to find the mouse, he or she Serve and Return and Executive will also have to use the skill of self control to select the mouse in the Function skills. midst of everything else happening in the picture. Serve and Return, like game of ball, involves a back and forth Tip: conversation between you and your child where you listen, then build on Once your child has heard Goodnight Moon a number of times, stop and extend what your child says or does to promote learning. before words that rhyme. Can your child remember that after “Goodnight, Executive Function skills are skills kittens” is “Goodnight, mittens?” You can help your child remember by you use to manage your attention, pointing to the relevant pictures. your feelings, your thoughts and your behavior to reach your goals. Skill: They include being able to pay attention, remember information, think When you play the rhyming and remembering game, you are not only flexibly and exercise self control. helping your child learn to listen carefully to the sound of words, you Find more about Families and Work are also promoting his or her working memory, an important aspect of Institute’s Mind in the Making at Focus and Self Control. www.mindinthemaking.org. Noisy Nora By Rosemary Wells The Seven Essential Life Skills Every Child Needs What’s a mouse to do when her father and mother spend all their time with her older sister Executive Function Life Skill: Focus and Self Control and baby brother? Make lots of Children need this skill in order to achieve their goals, especially in a world that noise—that’s Nora’s solution! is filled with distractions and information overload. It involves paying attention, So, “First she banged the remembering the rules, thinking flexiblyand exercising self control.