SUNDAY, JUNE 21, 2020 (PAGE 4) BOLLYWOOD-BUZZ SOCIETY "Can't work in something that is regressive" The Beautiful Bond says she cannot be a part of Anmoll Khanna to recover. Life is a wonderful thing; it does get relief without disturbing us. Whoever passes this becomes "something regressive" as an actor and that's "Chanda ne poocha taaron se, taaron ne poocha muqaddar ka sikandar. Being a father of a daughter hazaaron se, sab se pyara kaun hai, papa mere papa, it's very difficult for a father because ultimately he why web series "Aarya", which marks her papa mere papa" has to marry his princess which is really a hard thing return to mainstream acting after a decade, A man being known by different names such as for a father. Today is a very special day to thank my Dad, Daddy, Pops, Father, and even Papa is the pillar father for whatever he has done for me and even appealed to her. of strength, support, and discipline in his child's life. doing for me. Father is the one who doesn't need any kind of intro- Without him I am nothing. Because of him, I am The actor said she had offers prior to the show but duction, appreciation; he just they were not as "appetising and interesting" as her needs your love and affection. role in the Disney+ series. The show start Father is that binding glue to streaming from June 19. the family without whom life "I don't think women today in are 'bechari'. If seems impossible. He is the you want a show in the present time, you can't make something regressive and I, for one, will not work in one who makes you buy every- that scenario. I can't work in something that is regres- thing but never buys anything sive, I never will," Sen told PTI in an interview. for himself. In the growing The Bollywood star said she wants to align herself to years, each child wishes a inspirational stories. superhero in their lives. A "It doesn't always has to be mind-blowing as central superhero is one man or characters are but I can't do something that is unin- woman who's is a role model spired and give six months of my life to it unless it has for them. By superhero, I don't substance in it to inspire people," Sen, whose last mean a person who is wearing film was Anees Bazmee's 2010 film "No a cape and underwear on top of Problem", said. their dress. He/she can be a In the show, the actor plays the role of Aarya normal human being too. Sareen, a happily married woman whose world turns Father for son is his first hero, and for a daughter, he is her "Progressively, we have five seasons first love. For her, he is the man whom written and every season the character she admires all her life and just keeps getting stronger and stronger wants her husband to be just a and more exciting," she added. mirror image to him. Same way for him her daughter is his princesses. He is possessive for upside down when her husband (Chandrachur Singh) her and the same way caring is shot. She gets to know that he may have been too. Being a single and only involved in an illegal drug racket which now threatens daughter to my parents, I am a her family. The web series, which is based on the Dutch series pampered one. Being in 20's I The 44-year-old actor said 'Aarya' is "an author- "Penoza", is co-directed by , Sandeep still feel that I am a newborn backed role" where she gets to play a woman who rises Modi and Vinod Rawat. child because of my father. He when put in a tough spot. Sen said Madhvani, best known for his biopic on treats me in such a way that I INTERNATIONAL FATHER’S DAY SPECIAL "When you look at Aarya, she is not an extraordi- Pan Am flight attendant Neerja Bhanot, does not see don't want to grow up. He ful- nary woman doing extraordinary things. She has a lot fills all my wishes and all my dreams. It is true who- what I am today. I am a not brilliant kid when it comes characters in terms of their genders. "In season one of to studies but pursuing a Ph.D. degree today is just of grit and conviction but she has been put into places 'Aarya', he has invested a lot in creating characters ever says that daughter from the day she is born is where she didn't want to be." more attached to her father and I am one of those because of him. including that of Aarya, where you don't jump from He believes I can achieve anything. I don't believe Sen said often in cinematic representation, women being a housewife to a don just like that. There is a nat- daughters who are close to their father. are put in direct competition with the man to show The funniest part in my life is that my mother is that how can any child leave his parents in an old age ural progression. Season two is where she takes the home, those parents who made their child what they them stronger, which is unnecessary. "There are siege," she added. somewhere jealous about it. Whenever she scolds me strengths that women have… it makes her a hero by the my father comes in my rescue and she ends says this are today. By the way, I call my father as POPS. He is The former Miss Universe said the makers have very special to me. He is the best gift along with my virtue of just that emotional strength that she carries. chalked out plans for next few seasons of the show, to me and him that " Mujhe koi Pyaar nhi karta." But She has a brain that can be as loving and generous as it she knows that we love her and she has a special and mother that God has given me and Father's day would which also features Sikandar Kher, Ankur Bhatia and not be enough day to thank my father for all that he is can be manipulative. You don't want to mess with a Namit Das. precious space reserve in our heart. Every time spend woman if she has made up her mind." doing for me. I would like to quote one dialogue from "Progressively, we have five seasons written and with my father is a precious one. I still remember that Some of the nuances in the character come from her the movie PK, " Maine dikhti hoon maa jaisi sab kehte every season the character just keeps getting stronger tragic year when life took my exam. In 2016, my own life of being a mother to daughters Renee and hain, saach kehte hai, par hoon me aapne papa ki and stronger and more exciting," she added. father had a heart attack. His condition was worst Alisah, she said. "There is a lot of me in Aarya. As a beti." The response to the trailer of "Aarya" has led to and that was the moment when I was not with him. I mother, I am very protective about my children. I am Hence happy father's day pops. I love you and more interesting offers coming her way, Sen said. was in Delhi pursuing my bachelor's. He strictly not a fussy mother. I can be a task mom and so is Aarya asked everyone not to inform me because of my ongo- promise to make you proud always. I also take the "With 'Aarya', it has changed. Now the offers and honor to wish every father, HAPPY FATHER'S DAY. and that aspect has been brought by Sushmita into scripts that I am getting are brilliant. Moving forward ing exams. But someone has rightly said, 'God helps You are equally important to your kids as my father is Aarya. There is a lot of fight in Aarya which is again we should have content driven stuff coming more from those who help themselves'. By his grace papa was something that I have abundantly in me." important to me. me," said the actor. (PTI) out of danger. Although it took at least a year for him

HEALTHLINES Of TMJ Pain Management Genetic Counselling Dr Vanya Vasudeva * TMJ syndrome causes pain in ear, ringing in ear and Dr Richa Sharma, Dr Amit Basnotra ably resulting in their future infertility hearing loss. Sometimes people mistake it as ear infection Temporomandibular joint disorder is a pain in the jaw Couples undergoing repeated IVF, having repeated when ear is not the problem. A family is considered complete once the baby is joint caused due to many medical problems joins lower jaw implantation failures should be counseled for the risk * When joints move it produce clicking or popping born especially in conservative societies- we try to pre- i.e mandible to the skull (Temporal bone) in front of ear. of chromosomal abnormalities in the gametes causing sound. This means disc is not in position. Sometimes no tend to be modern but still many things and thinking Problem in this area can cause headache, neck pain, facial implantation failures treatment is required when sound produces no pain. persists for generations. pain, ear pain, the jaw will be locked or difficult to open the Women conceiving after IVF-ICSI, for either male * Swelling on face or mouth of affected area. A baby born is the bundle of Joy not only for the cou- mouth. There will be problem with biting or clicking or infertility or repeated implantation failures, should be *The jaw may lock in a wide-open position or may not ple but for the whole family.Not all fortunate enough to popping sound when you bite. counseled on their increased risk to produce offspring open fully at all. Some people experience painful side on conceive naturally and easily, some have to struggle This disorder is more seen in women than men. with sex chromosome aneuploidy, and it is reasonable opening the jaw and teeth may not close properly. hard and some have to seek help of Fertility specialists Causes of TMJ Disorder: It is caused by trauma, wear and to offer prenatal diagnosis as an option during their * Muscle pain associated with TMJ syndrome causes and with so many options available definitely patients tear due to aging or oral habits. pregnancies. difficulty in swallowing. get confused.What can help you is to be first aware and Trauma: Grinding the teeth called as bruxism and All gamete donors should not carry a chromosomal * TMJ syndrome causes headache, dizziness which through proper authenticated sources. clenching means teeth tightening. These affect the align- rearrangement that may result in unbalanced gametes; leads to nausea or vomiting. To have baby is definitely the end result which cou- ment of teeth. Muscle involvement causes inflammation of or a familial disease with a genetic component, howev- Medical care: Occasional pain in the jaw joint or chew- ple and treating Fertility specialist both aim for but er, obtaining a donor karyotype is not mandatory. It is the membrane surrounded joint. Grinding and clenching is ing muscles is common. Consult doctor if your pain is most important is to have a healthy baby.Success rates recommended that all couples undergoing gamete diagnosed in people with the complaint of pain in the tem- severe or if it persists. You should also consult doctor if it quaoted may not be the live births and the healthy baby donation should be offered for genetic testing if they are poromandibular joint or facial pain that includes muscle of hurts to open and close the jaw or if you have difficulty in born especially when you undertaken many IVF known to carry an associated risk of transmitting it to swallowing food. If the con- cycles.Here comes the role of Genetics to see that it the offspring. Counseling is encouraged for all parties dition is identified early, the shouldn't be the reason of repeated failure or abnor- including partners of donors and surrogates malities. doctor can explain the func- Counselor should also make the couples aware that Via this write up we will discuss basics which you tioning of the joints and how such screenings cannot provide a guarante . should know as patient and also what your doctor need to avoid any action or habit Furthermore, the counselor should also discuss with to discuss with you so that you can make an Informed (such as chewing gum) that the couple regarding the disposal of the embryos. The Decision!! might aggravate the joint or couple's permission consent regarding disposition of facial pain. What is Genetic Counselling? Some home Remedies: In Genetic counselling is a the majority of cases, TMJ process of communication syndrome is self-limiting. between patients and trained Most of the symptoms disap- professionals intended to pro- pear in two weeks once the vide patients who have a jaw is rested. There are a genetic disease - or risk of variety of options for treating such a disease - with informa- TMJ syndrome at home. tion about their condition and * Anti-inflammatory and its effect on their family. This pain medications such as allows patients and their fam- aspirin or acetaminophen or ilies to make informed repro- ibuprofen may provide relief. ductive and other medical * Eat a diet of soft foods. decisions. chewing. * Avoid chewing gum and eating hard candy or chewy The counselor will evaluate Bruxism: it is a habit of teeth grinding that is mostly foods. Do not open your mouth wide. medical problems or risks done during sleep. It leads to muscle spasm or inflamma- * Stress-reduction techniques may help you manage present in a family, analyze tion of joint which causes pain. It can further lead to stress and relax your jaw along with the rest of your body. and explain inheritance pat- malalignment of teeth. Sometimes it is so loud that can be * Apply warm compresses on the area of pain for 20min. terns of any disorders found, heard by others during sleep. Home therapy includes lower jaw movements, such as provide information about Clenching: Sometimes a person may have the habit of opening and closing the jaw from side to side. The lower management and treatment of biting things while awake like chewing gum, pen or pencil jaw movements should be repeated three to five times a these disorders, and discuss or fingernail. The constant biting leads to pain in joints. the embryos should be sought. day, five minutes continuously each time, for about two to available options with the family or individual. Stress is also related to these habits. Other options of conceiving i.e. use of donor four weeks. Which All Couples Need Genetic Counseling ? Osteoarthritis: TMJ also shows arthritic changes like gametes, their implications should also be discussed in How to prevent TMJ Syndrome other body joints. These changes are shown by breakdown Genetic diagnostic testing of infertile males should detail. This reduces the risks of many a disease known of joints like wear and tear due to aging. These joints dis- * If you tend to have occasional bouts of jaw pain, avoid be strongly recommended in following situations- to be transmitted to the offsprings by their parents. There is a significant risk of transmitting identifiable ease causes loss of cartilage and formation of new bone at chewing gum or biting on objects, such as pens or finger- Conclusions the surface of joint. Cartilage damage results from aging, nails. Avoid eating hard or chewy food. When you yawn, chromosomal abnormalities or genetic mutations to the immunologic disease or inflammatory disease. support your lower jaw with your hand. conceptus that will severely impact its future health and Preimplantation Genetic Diagnosis /PGTA offers Rheumatoid Arthritis: It is as Autoimmune disease. It * Avoid large bites while eating. well-being like in advanced maternal age couples, of advanced age or those known to carry chro- causes inflammation in joints and can affect the TMJ. Its * Regularly massage your jaw, cheeks and temple mus- Infertile male partner who is carrier of a chromoso- mosomal abnormality and those conceiving wth IVF- progression causes loss of cartilage, destruction of bone cles. mal abnormality, then the couple should be counseled ICSI, means of detecting these abnormal embryos, which lead to joint deformity. It commonly affects young * If you feel spasms, apply moist heat. by a certified genetics counselor and/or a clinical/pre- chosing the best embryo that have a good potential to children. * Maintain good sleep postures with neck support. natal geneticist on the reproductive risks of his specific implant. Therefore, all such couples should be coun- abnormality e.g.- Infertile 46,XY men considering ICSI seled for genetic testing. Indications for testing, various Symptoms of Temporomandibular joint pain: * Avoid cradling the phone between your shoulder and neck. should receive genetic counseling on their risks of hav- tests, implications of genetic testing should be dis- * Pain in the facial muscles and jaw joints radiate to * See your dentist if you grind your teeth at night or find ing a microdeletion in AZF that may be the etiology of cussed with the couples, enabling them to enjoy happi- neck and shoulder. The pain is felt while talking, chewing yourself clenching your jaw. The dentist can make a TMJ their infertility. These men should also know that the ness of a parenting a normal and healthy child. or yawning. Guard for you. microdeletion could be transmitted to their sons, prob- (The authors are Senior IVF Consultant and Senior Gastroentrologist)