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How many of us will ever again of milestone birthdays and an outline of the recommended demonstrate trust, optimism and unconditional love like these achievements that are appropriate for each age. For example, at children do every day? To be able to take the qualities that have age 5, a child should begin learning Chumash. At 10 Mishnayot been acquired at each milestone and integrate them into one’s life should be introduced to the child’s curriculum. Milestones are even in later years is a noteworthy achievement. This is what not just for the young. The Mishna tells us what the achievement made Sarah so unique. “Kulan Shavin L’Tova” means that Sarah is for a 40 year old, a 60 year old and even a 100 year old was able to take the best lessons she learned from being 7 and individual. If any of you are approaching a milestone birthday still utilized them when she was 20, and was still utilizing those you may want to check the Mishna to find out what Yehuda Ben lessons at age 100. Taima thinks you should be up to. As Rav Soloveitchik put it: The importance of age and milestones seems especially suited “The child is endowed with a capacity of an all-absorbing to the beginning of Parshat Chayei Sarah, in which we read of faith and trustfulness; youth bursts with zealousness, idealism, the death of our matriarch Sarah. The way the Torah lists her age and optimism; the adult, mellowed with years, has the benefit of can teach us three important lessons on how Sarah lived her life: accumulated knowledge and dispassionate judgment. Each age is “Sarah’s lifetime was one hundred years, twenty years, and physically and psychologically attuned to particular emphases, seven years; the years of Sarah’s life.” but the superior individual can retain and harmonize the positive strengths of all three periods during his or her lifetime.” Rashi feels that the repetition of the word “Shana”, year, between each digit of Sarah’s age is superfluous. Since there are What emerges from this verse is that although there are no extra words in the Torah, Rashi quotes the Midrash to explain: certain milestones associated with different life stages, ultimately “At one hundred, she was like a twenty-year-old in regards to age is just a number. Rebecca and I started dating in March, sin. Just as a 20 year old has not yet sinned, for until age 20 a around the time of our birthdays. On our second date, she gave person is not liable for punishment, so too Sarah was without sin me a birthday card that read “You’re only as old as you feel”. at age 100. And at 20, she had the innocent beauty of a 7 year Since then, it has become a favorite saying in our home. My old.” experiences have shown how true this statement is. I have met 90 year olds with the vigor and disposition of a 30 year old, and 30 It is common for people to disparage those of a different age year olds who act more like what you’d expect from people in bracket. I often hear older adults make comments that echo the their 90’s. If we are able to retain those positive qualities of quote from George Bernard Shaw: “youth is wasted on the youth and integrate them with the positive qualities of adulthood, young”. At the same time, younger people can’t wait until they then age is in fact just a number, and we have successfully are older: either because they will be able to do things that they emulated this admirable trait of our matriarch Sarah. can’t right now, or because they want to correct all of the mistakes that they believe the current older generation is making. Rabbi Elazar Ben Azaryah is proof that age is just a number. In the Passover Hagaddah we read his statement: “I am like a 70 The Midrash at the beginning of this week’s Parsha is year old.” teaching us that each stage of life has a unique task. To fully accomplish what we can at each phase of life, we must not We are all familiar with the explanation that at 18, R. Elazar second guess or criticize people at a different stage that are grew a long flowing white beard in order to be more accepted by working on different traits. For if we do, we will not be living up his older colleagues. What we can also learn from Rabbi Elazar to the example set by Sarah, who was able to achieve all that was is that although most people do not attain prudence, insight, and available to her at every age; from 7 through 127. judgment until much later in life, he was granted these qualities at an earlier age. The Ramban disagrees with Rashi. He does not consider the repeated word “Shana” to be extraneous; nor does he feel it Sarah Imeinu also proves that age is just a number. Whether requires any explanation beyond its literal interpretation. you’re 20 or 100 or somewhere in between- you can still exhibit However he does find the end of the pasuk to be unnecessary: those admirable qualities you exhibited at age 7. Alternatively, “The years of Sarah’s life.” you can be like Rabbi Elazar ben Azarya and jump the gun; adopting a worldview and positive traits normally associated We have already been told that Sarah lived 127 years. What is with someone much older. added to our understanding through the words “Shnei Chayei Sarah”? Ramban answers by quoting a Midrash, also found in Sarah’s legacy as it emerges from Parshat Chayei Sarah is Rashi: three-fold. We must appreciate that each stage of our lives has “All of Sarah’s years were equal in goodness.” something to offer. We must take the best of each stage and integrate it into our persona so that it sticks with us even as we There are specific qualities and characteristics that emerge reach later milestones. Lastly, the qualities that are associated from each stage of life. As we grow older, most of us move on to with each age are only paradigms; and it is possible to achieve the next stage, leaving behind our previously acquired qualities. 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