An emotional changing of the guard as Diocese enters the “new” life of Brian.

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EDITION NO. 65 WINTER 2018 26 28 36 FROM THE58 | BISHOP2018 WINTER • JOURNEY 50 CatWOLLONGONG holic OF DIOCESE CATHOLIC | Mission: 57 ISSN 1835-7024 3 First impressions The most vital delivery yet for Publisher Ugandan maternity hospital Catholic Diocese EDITORIAL YOUTH MINISTRY of Wollongong 4 Remember who(se) we are 18 Now is the time: Year of Youth Editors DIOCESAN & PARISH LIFE in full swing in the Diocese Daniel Hopper The new life of Brian: Diocese 20 Youth ministry leaders empowered Jude Hennessy 6 celebrates the ordination by formation retreat Graphic Design of the fifth bishop of Wollongong 21 The evolution of LIVE Jeremy Yuen 10 Listen to what the spirit is saying: CATHOLIC EDUCATION Getting ready for Plenary 2020 Administration 22 Launching into the deep: Helen Bennett 12 Bishop Emeritus Peter Ingham: The inspirational story of diocesan Farewelled in style Proofing school staff teaching refugees to swim 14 An unlikely message: Virtue and the Daniel Hopper 38 For all that has been ... thanks! Lorraine Tobin Jordan Peterson phenomenon 44 Helping our young people to shine: 24 There’s nothing like this Dame: Kylie Jeymour SUBMISSIONS An interview with Dame Margaret & ADVERTISING McEntee OAM 46 Do not be afraid for I am with you: 2018 Diocesan Education Mass Phone: (02) 4222 2400 26 Milton countryside sets the scene for Email: [email protected] Holy Week celebrations CATHOLICCARE Journey is a bi-annual 28 Developing a culture of safety: 36 Who is my neighbour? Pope Francis publication and welcomes How the Diocese is responding inspires an ongoing mission submissions of articles, to the Royal Commission Opening hearts and homes: photographs and 39 30 Creating a safe Church from within: How three siblings found their advertisements. Diocese to host two days with the forever home Regretfully, we cannot Vatican’s Fr Hans Zollner SJ guarantee publication or replies 32 From the why to the way: My life- DISCLAIMER to unsuccessful submissions. changing experience of parish renewal & COPYRIGHT Submission deadline for 34 Australia Day honour for humble 26,500 copies of Journey are printed and distributed through 32 parishes and the Summer 2018 edition Dapto priest is 22 October 2018. 46 schools in the Illawarra, Macarthur, 40 Humanae Vitae: Shoalhaven and Southern Highlands A feminist manifesto? of NSW. Views expressed in published articles are not necessarily those of the 42 It’s time to wake up! publisher or editor. The editors may refuse Men’s ministry in the diocese to accept copy or other material, including advertisements, for publication. Inclusion PO Box 1239 43 Mother’s Day when of an advertisement in Journey does not Wollongong NSW 2500 someone is missing reflect endorsement or responsibility from the publisher or editors. Material in Journey Phone: (02) 4222 2400 For when two or three gather in 48 is copyright and may not be reproduced Email: [email protected] my name: Bishop Brian joins 250 without the permission of the editor. Christians in bringing unity and love o much has I have been to a number of wonderful happened since schools and cannot wait to visit more My experiences and Sthe events depicted in coming weeks and months. It has encounters since having on the front cover of been so heartening to meet quality, come to this Diocese have this magazine. committed teachers, eager to nurture I love this image of their own faith and that of the young been a source of great hope the unforgettable people they teach and mentor. Speaking and excitement. personal moment to them at their wonderful Education Additionally, I have been graciously when I was embraced and encouraged Mass (see Page 46) just one week after welcomed by Catholics and non-Catholics by Bishop Emeritus Peter Ingham I was ordained bishop, I was buoyed by alike at community functions such as during my ordination. While these their energy and commitment. The same The Illawarra Connection, the wonderful events are indelibly imprinted can be said of our hundreds of catechists Wollongong Catholic Dinner Club (see in my mind and heart, it has, in many who draw young people into the reality Page 53) and a thank you luncheon for ways, been a whirlwind four-month of God’s love and mercy in over 140 government schools. supporters who helped stage my ordination journey since becoming the bishop of and Bishop Peter’s farewell. Recently, Wollongong. As such, I thought it was I have been to four vibrant gatherings I was also privileged to pray with 250 important to share with you some of my with almost all of our Catholic school people from over 30 churches at the first impressions and a little of what I have Year 12 students, encouraging them to Illawarra Prayer Breakfast (see Page 48). experienced so far in the Diocese. consider God’s purpose for their lives I came away affirmed by the stories of how In saying “yes” to becoming bishop, I and to trust that God wants to journey God and Christianity—in all of its works —makes our lives better and gives us have continued to trust in God’s plan for with them. This, and the revolutionary encounter style of youth ministry purpose and direction. my life and vocation. But, there is always happening in the Diocese, is seeing an element of loss at important points of students being presented with the Gospel I have seen the great commitment to transition in our lives. Certainly, I have and invited to respond to God’s invitation quality training processes and the evolution experienced a type of loss in the move in attractive and relevant ways. That has of new standards and expectations for away from family and trusted friends. been exciting to witness up-close. accountability that in turn points to a At the same time, my experiences and Church eager to come out of itself, to try encounters since having come to this I have also been to number of parishes new things, create a fresh culture, so that Diocese have been a source of great for Confirmation and have seen first- each member of the Church is able to hope and excitement. hand what can happen when schools and contribute to the mission of making Jesus parishes combine to prepare students known and loved. Make no mistake, it is a I have already met so many people as and their families to receive the gifts deep relationship of love that Jesus is calling I travel new roads (for me) and visit of the Holy Spirit. I’ve seen and felt the us into, as members of the Church. It is this parishes for the first time, meet parish hospitality of these places—eager to encounter of the heart that has the potential and ministry leaders, attend dinners, welcome and engage with all who come. to change everything and move us to meet key religious and political leaders, I’ve seen growing attempts at outreach embrace the sharing of our faith with others and attend openings, Masses and through initiatives such as Alpha and as a joy that brings life, rather than a duty. important events. While at times it is a small Connect groups in parishes. bit of a blur, it has been quite wonderful. In coming months, I will come to meet I have already had the opportunity to more of you as I move around the Diocese. I note the wonderful dialogue I have had witness the wonderful work done by our As we journey to Plenary 2020 (see Page with so many of our clergy—good men, social services agency, CatholicCare, 10), I trust that the pathways for dialogue committed to God, the Church and the at a recent function honouring their will be graced and fruitful. Please pray for people they pastor. For many of them, many volunteers. I have attended me as I promise to do the same for you.  it is a different Church and society than numerous meetings with people of when they first entered ministry. Yet, passion and expertise, and have read Yours in Christ they continue to give so much, and their planning documents from all of our steadfastness in a time of turmoil—a major agencies with priority given to time when it is tough to be a priest—is outreach, justice, service, renewal and Most Rev Brian G Mascord DD often inspiring. evangelisation. Bishop of Wollongong

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 3 thought it was appropriate to begin this edition of Journey by affirming Ithe incredible work done by the countless paid employees, volunteers and religious women and men in the Church, all seeking to serve broad sections of the Australian population. As you move through the pages of this magazine, you will see the dedication and service to the community demonstrated by so many in the Church. BY JUDE HENNESSY It is something that we need to always prayerfully reflect upon as we encounter the personal love and mercy of God, and, in turn, we love those who God brings into our lives.

In Australia, the Catholic Church is the largest non-government provider of health, community and aged care services, education and welfare.

Day in and day out, these people serve the faithful, the sick, the elderly, the young and the disadvantaged. Our churches, hospitals, schools and various social welfare organisations— acquired largely through the generosity of people like you and me over the past 200 years—allow so many people within our community to be cared for and nurtured. All of these dedicated people authentically live the Gospel and continue to support and nurture all-comers, utilising resources built- up and provided for by generations of people who have called themselves “the Church”.

As disciples of Jesus, we need to continue to discern what the Spirit is saying to us and embrace what it means to be authentic followers of Jesus, especially in the midst of the Royal Commission’s findings of tragedy and immense harm. We are called to be now—as much as ever before—salt and light, bearers of love, hope and justice.

4 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG Getting our hands dirty Who we are in the Diocese Each day, the Catholic Church feeds, houses and clothes more people, cares As disciples of Jesus • 32 parishes across nine local for more sick and vulnerable people, ... we are called to government areas including visits more prisoners, and educates be now—as much as some of the fastest growing more people than any other institution regions in Australia. on the face of the earth. The very ever before—salt and essence of health care and caring for light, bearers of love, • Almost 200,000 Catholics. the sick emerged through the Church hope and justice. • 46 Catholic schools educating because of the value our faith places over 25,000 students every on the dignity of every human life. year (and growing). The contribution of the Church by authentic believers on a local, national • 6 CatholicCare sites offering and global scale remains phenomenal, in youth, aged, disabled, prison, hospital, social services to nearly spite of our faults, inefficiencies and the university and non-English speaking 10,000 people every year tragedy caused by child sexual abuse. communities. Our Church boasts • 650 volunteer catechists one of the largest and most extensive teaching Catholic Special In Australia, the Catholic Church is volunteer networks and is one of the Religious Education to 9,000 the largest non-government provider region’s biggest employers, with a staff students in 140 government of health, community and aged care of nearly 2,500 people. schools each week. services, education and welfare. It is one of Australia’s largest non- A tough time to be Catholic • Masses celebrated in over 55 government employers—running churches in 20 languages for 68 hospitals, 414 nursing homes and Matthew Kelly, in his New York close to 20,000 parishioners 217 facilities dedicated to children’s Times bestselling book, Rediscover each weekend. welfare. These facilities are for Catholicism, notes that, “The past • Over 20 chaplains working all-comers, with a special focus on few years have been a tough time to alongside our youth, aged, the vulnerable. (The Archdiocese be Catholic…. we have forgotten our disabled, prison, hospital, of Sydney recently released a great story, and in doing so, we have allowed university and non-English YouTube video on this which can be the world to forget it as well…. Our speaking communities. viewed at dow.sh/churchassets.) history is not without blemish; our future will not be without blemish. But • One of the largest and most As the largest non-capital city diocese our contribution is unmatched, and it’s extensive volunteer networks in Australia, our own Diocese of needed today more than ever before.” and one of the region’s Wollongong comprises 32 parishes biggest employers, with a across nine local government areas I agree. Within Catholic communities staff of nearly 2,500 people. (including some of the fastest growing around the world you find people regions in Australia) and offers driven by a love of life, of family, of ministry to almost 200,000 Catholics, humanity, and you find these people especially at the most important making enormous contributions to Be encouraged moments in their lives—at times their communities. of great sadness and times of great It is my hope that as you read through celebration. Rebuilding the trust within the this edition of Journey, you will be community in the wake of the heartened by the many wonderful things In our Diocese, there are 46 Catholic Royal Commission requires love that are being done throughout our schools educating over 25,000 students and patience. Being advocates of Diocese. I hope you are encouraged by every year, and the demand is growing. the fullness of truth, justice and the obvious ways so many members of There are six CatholicCare sites healing is paramount and will need your Church are embracing love of God throughout the Diocese offering social to be prayerfully considered and and love of neighbour, and that it helps services to nearly 10,000 people every authentically navigated. The Plenary you to remember who you are called to year. We have 650 volunteer catechists Council 2020 will certainly provide be as a disciple, and who we are called to teaching Catholic Special Religious the opportunity for the honest be as the Church.  Education to around 9,000 students in conversations required to enable this to 140 government schools each week. unfold with the prompting of the Holy Mass is celebrated in over 55 churches, Spirit. Throughout that process, it is Jude Hennessy is the director of the in 20 languages for close to 20,000 important we do not forget the fullness Office of Renewal and Evangelisation people every weekend. There are over of our story and speak about the bad and the co-editor of Journey for the 20 chaplains working alongside our and the good, the human and divine. Diocese of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 5 Diocese celebrates the ordination of the fifth bishop of Wollongong

BY DANIEL HOPPER We look to our Bishop- In his homily for the ordination, Archbishop Anthony, quoting St n Thursday 22 February 2018— elect to be a good man Augustine, said, “If as a bishop I feel O the Feast of the Chair of St Peter and a good Christian tossed about in the open sea, as a the Apostle—the WIN Entertainment before all else, to model Christian I find myself in safe harbour. Centre in Wollongong was transformed Now Bishop Brian will have the benefit of into a cathedral as a congregation for us faith, hope, charity many safe harbours of the Illawarra and of 4,500 people witnessed one of and the other virtues. Shoalhaven! the largest episcopal ordinations in “We look to our Bishop-elect to be a good Australian history—the ordination of and 113 priests concelebrating the man and a good Christian before all else, Most Rev Brian Gregory Mascord as Mass; parishioners and families from to model for us faith, hope, charity and the fifth bishop of Wollongong. all the diocesan parishes; principals, staff and students from more than 40 the other virtues. Happily, on his own Livestreamed to a global audience, diocesan Catholic schools; staff and account, Brian has been surrounded from the principal consecrator, Archbishop families from diocesan agencies and childhood by ‘tremendous’ people such as his grandmother and beloved parents Anthony Fisher OP of Sydney and affiliated organisations; leaders of other who’ve shown him how to recognise co-consecrators, Bishop Emeritus churches and faiths; civic leaders in and respond to God in everyday life, Peter Ingham of Wollongong and government and business, along with expressing faith practically in service.” Bishop William Wright of Maitland- over 700 of Bishop Brian’s wide circle Newcastle, presided over the Mass of family, friends, parishioners and Archbishop Anthony later said, “Like of Ordination. They were joined by community members from the Diocese Francis of Assisi, we are called to rebuild the apostolic nuncio in Australia, His of Maitland-Newcastle where he had the Church. That will require a teacher’s Excellency Most Reverend Adolfo ministered since being ordained to the head, a spouse’s heart, and a shepherd’s Tito Yllana, 34 Australian bishops priesthood in 1992. soul, as your new vestments tell. But the

6 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG PHOTOS: DANIEL HOPPER, ALPHONSUS FOK AND JEREMY YUEN most important thing you will wear Life can throw up many the presence of Mum and Dad, who from tonight is the cross of Jesus Christ brought me for Baptism and have been upon your heart.” challenges—ones that my first and my best teachers in the can, at times, seem almost ways of faith.” One intensely, emotional The new bishop has taken as his motto insurmountable.... But, moment during the ordination that the words of St Paul to the Church brought many to tears was when in Thessalonica, “For all things give here I am—overwhelmed, Bishop Brian commenced his lap of the thanks” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). During nervous, yet open to what venue to bless the congregation. his address to the congregation, Bishop the Lord has in store for Brian said, “These words are among Before he began blessing others, he first the first existing words that were me and for all of us. I am removed his mitre and knelt at the feet written after the death and resurrection very conscious of the of his parents to receive their blessing. Reflecting on it all, Margaret Mascord of Jesus. They’re the words that I’ve incredible trust that Pope chosen for my motto. I chose them said, “After the ceremony last night, we feel relieved and also overwhelmed at 25 years ago when I was ordained a Francis now places in me. how beautiful it all was. It amazed me priest, and I choose them now because because you can’t believe it’s happening I believe in them. For every situation mission that we all share through our to you. This is Brian—that was very and every opportunity, we give thanks. mutual Baptism.” humbling.” Ron Mascord described the Just as they were a challenge to the event as, “Something I never expected Directing his attention to his beloved infant Church, learning to walk and but we’ll all learn to cope with it … I’m and very proud parents, Ron and navigate its way in a hostile world, so sure Brian will too.” they remain a challenge for us today as Margaret, who were present to share we try and bring life to our world—life in this experience with him, Bishop through the promise of the Gospel, a Brian said, “I give thanks for the gift and continued next page

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In preparing for the ordination, Bishop This was no triumphant Due to the huge number of people in Brian said, “Life can throw up many attendance, St Francis Xavier Cathedral challenges—ones that can, at times, Church on display. On in Wollongong was not large enough seem almost insurmountable. When the contrary, bishops, to cater for the ordination. Therefore— the apostolic nuncio rang me at the end priests, religious and all as was the case with Bishop Peter’s of November with the invitation from installation—a decision was made by the Holy Father, Pope Francis, to be the the faithful gave witness the organising committee to hold the bishop of Wollongong, it all seemed to our belief that it is ordination in the WIN Entertainment totally insurmountable. But, here I God’s Church into which Centre. am—overwhelmed, nervous, yet open to what the Lord has in store for me we are called ... Event director and former general and for all of us. I am very conscious of manager of the WIN Sports and the incredible trust that Pope Francis liturgy, and this was not lost on Bishop Entertainment Centres, Mr Stuart now places in me.” Brian, who said during his address, “As Barnes, said, “The thinking was—if we a musician, I love you guys!” In addition couldn’t take the people to the Cathedral, The joyful singing and instrumental to contributing to the music, students then we would take the Cathedral to pieces—directed by Angela Quinn from diocesan Catholic schools also the people! So, the ‘Foley’ stained glass and Annette Griffin and performed by participated in the sprinkling rite and window and the two large ‘Michael a 50-piece orchestra and 100-strong assisting the priests taking Communion Galovic’ icons that form the backdrop choir—were a standout feature of the to the congregation. of the Cathedral were recreated as giant

8 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG PHOTOS: DANIEL HOPPER, ALPHONSUS FOK AND JEREMY YUEN banners at the WIN Entertainment Wollongong, Brian Mascord. The long, the homily, the civic welcome from Centre. It was a spectacular sight, formal ceremony was woven through Wollongong’s Lord Mayor [Gordon helping to create a beautiful, sacred with a certain warmth and the belief Bradbery AM], and Bishop Brian’s environment for such a holy occasion. that, in the good news of Jesus, we closing remarks, all spoke of a faith in We were also very grateful for the share the possibility for the healing of a mystery ever so much deeper and support of St Mary Star of the Sea all our wounds. broader than the narrow bounds of our College, Wollongong, for their frail human condition. orchestra and providing us with their “This was no triumphant Church on large altar, ambo and water bowl.” display. On the contrary, bishops, “One could almost imagine that we priests, religious and all the faithful were sitting with the first disciples as Praise for the preparation and gave witness to our belief that it is they waited for the coming of the Spirit execution of the ordination was God’s Church into which we are called, who alone could call them beyond their  universal. One attendee, Fr Kevin and it is only in God’s own presence feelings of isolation and fear.” Bates SM, parish priest at Holy Name among us that trust and love can be of Mary Catholic Parish, Hunters Hill, restored. Daniel Hopper is the director of media wrote to his congregation, “This love and communications and co-editor of for the Church was ever so gently “This was a most gentle celebration of Journey for the Diocese of Wollongong. and humbly evident in Wollongong a humble Church in need of healing where 4,500 people participated in and hope. The music, the prayers, the the ordination of the new bishop of instructions given to the new bishop,

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t Masses on Pentecost Sunday I encourage all Catholics, it has the power to make changes to its 2018, parishes right around legislation and governance. Cultural AAustralia—including in our own whether devout or reform of the Church is likely to feature Diocese of Wollongong—prayerfully disillusioned, fervent or prominently. marked the official launch of Plenary frustrated, to seize this 2020 with a great deal of expectation Pope Francis has endorsed the nomination of Archbishop Timothy and hope, including an apostolic opportunity to speak Costelloe of Perth as the president blessing from Pope Francis. what is on their minds of the plenary council. Archbishop Some parishioners were taken by and in their hearts. Timothy hopes that the council will bring surprise—knowing little or perhaps ARCHBISHOP about a period of authentic renewal. “I nothing at all about the fact that in TIMOTHY COSTELLOE encourage all Catholics, whether devout Plenary Council 2020 President 2017 the bishops of Australia sought or disillusioned, fervent or frustrated, to permission to conduct a plenary council seize this opportunity to speak what is on their minds and in their hearts,” he said. and that Pope Francis had approved the women and lay people. Chair of the council in March of this year. Perhaps plenary council, Archbishop Mark Similarly, in various addresses to Church you are reading this article and thinking Coleridge of Brisbane, believes, “The leaders, Archbishop Mark has urged to yourself, huh? What plenary council? council will be a unique opportunity that the Australian Church be conscious What’s all that about? Well, read on, for people to come together and listen of the longer-term significance of the because the Australian Catholic Church to God in all the ways God speaks to plenary council. “The world is watching is in official “plenary” mode and all of us, and in particular by listening to one this process and we can’t therefore afford us are invited to reflect on the question: another as together we discern what to see the plenary council as merely What do you think God is asking of us in God is asking of us at this time—a time significant for the Australian Church,” Australia at this time? when the Church in Australia is facing he said. “This will indeed help shape the significant challenges.” direction of the universal Church as well.” What is a plenary council and why have one? Described as a three-year journey of Who attends a plenary council listening to God by listening to one and what will happen there? Plenary 2020 will be the fifth plenary another, the plenary council will be the council in Australian history—the highest possible formal gathering of the Plenary 2020 will be held in two sessions first since 1937 and the first to feature Church in Australia, and unlike a synod, to enable deep discernment, dialogue and

10 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG It is my hope that through patient dialogue and faith- filled discernment, the conciliar journey will confirm Catholics in Australia in a spirit of fraternal unity and missionary discipleship, thus enabling them to be a leaven of holiness, justice and reconciliation in today’s rapidly changing society. POPE FRANCIS All council delegates have a vote. plenarycouncil.catholic.org.au which Apostolic Blessing (18 May 2018) Some have a deliberative vote, while provides great resources that will enable others have a consultative vote. The individuals and groups to: deliberative voting is how the final • Pray for the guidance of the Holy Spirit decisions are made at the council. These as we prepare for Plenary 2020. deliberative decisions are forwarded to Rome to ensure they are consistent with • Watch the videos available to learn the universal teachings of the Catholic more about why we are having a Church and then the legislation plenary council and what we are doing becomes binding for the Catholic listening. The first session will be held to prepare. Church in Australia. in October 2020 in Adelaide and the • Read the articles available on the second session will be held in mid- Others such as advisors and consultors website to understand more about the 2021, likely on the East Coast. can also be invited to the council as significance of councils in the life of the guests. Observers may also be invited. Church. “Plenary” refers to the council being Anyone invited as a guest or observer attended by all “local [Catholic] • Talk about the future of the Church does not have voting rights at the with your friends, colleagues and churches” in Australia, that is, the council. geographical dioceses as well as other family. Ask questions about what dioceses (eg, Military Diocese), Eastern matters to you and what you hope for How can we get ready for the Church. Church eparchies and others of this Plenary 2020? nature. Altogether, Australia has 34 • Subscribe to the Plenary 2020 “local churches”. Plenary 2020 facilitator, Lana Turvey- e-newsletter (on the website) and stay Collins, has been briefing gatherings of up-to-date with the preparations and The delegates of the council sessions Church leaders about how all people— are leaders with particular roles in first steps as we all continue on the particularly those marginalised, journey toward Plenary 2020. our local churches, falling into two vulnerable or distant from the Church— categories—those who must be called, can be part of preparing for the plenary In this present time—a time that many and those who can be called. council. “The process of listening and would describe as one of great turmoil and dialogue will help form the agenda Those who must be called include uncertainty—the Holy Spirit is moving and for the plenary council. All people are bishops (diocesan, auxiliary and other doing new things in the hearts and minds invited to share their story of faith, bishops who have been given special of the faithful. Be assured that the Diocese of life and of their experience of the functions in Australia), vicars general, of Wollongong will embrace the strategies Church,” Lana said. episcopal vicars, some superiors and that are currently being developed by the Plenary 2020 organisers and then establish congregational leaders of religious As individual parishes and communities opportunities for dialogue and listening.  orders, and some rectors of seminaries. in the Diocese, there are some simple Those who can be called to the council but important things you can do include lay people, clergy and retired in this initial phase of preparation Jude Hennessy is the director of the Office of bishops living in Australia at the time for Plenary 2020. The best place to Renewal and Evangelisation and co-editor of the council. start is the plenary council website of Journey for the Diocese of Wollongong.

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t has been a year of mixed emotions so far in 2018 as the Diocese has Iwelcomed Bishop Brian Mascord to the fold whilst simultaneously enduring the sadness of farewelling our beloved Bishop Emeritus Peter Ingham. In saying this, the multiple events around the Diocese over the past months honouring Bishop Peter have been anything but sad—more a celebration and thanksgiving for the wonderful man of God that he is.

Farewell Masses There were four regional farewell Masses for Bishop Peter held around the Diocese in January and February 2018 as well as a diocesan schools farewell liturgy held on Bishop Peter’s family and friends from As guests entered The Cube—walking a 9 February at Dapto (see Page 36). Bishop throughout Australia. One of the guests red carpet flanked by large images from Peter presided and preached at each of present, Sr Maria Casey RSJ (president Bishop Peter’s life—Bishop Peter made the Masses and it provided a beautiful of the Canon Law Society of Australia sure he was there to shake the hand of, and occasion for him to thank his flock for and New Zealand), said of the evening, welcome, every single guest. a final time. It was also a wonderful way “There was an atmosphere of joy and for thousands of parishioners around the celebration despite it being a farewell. Dean of St Francis Xavier Cathedral, Diocese to say farewell to their beloved What happened there at The Cube was Wollongong, Fr Ron Peters, said grace and bishop. a wonderful example of what it is to guests were then treated to a beautiful be Church—a community, faith-filled, three course meal prepared by celebrated Thank you to all the parishes in each Australian chef, Mr Peter Sheppard— of the regions for working so closely joyous, supportive, able to work and celebrate together.” director of culinary development at the together to organise the liturgies and Campbelltown Catholic Club. provide wonderful hospitality at each Member for Camden Mr Chris Patterson of the churches: St John Vianney, Fairy MP, expressed similar sentiments in a Several amazingly talented students Meadow; All Saints, Shellharbour recent Private Members Statement given from Mount Carmel Catholic College, City; St Paul’s, Camden; and Holy to the NSW Parliament: “I am sure Bishop Varroville, provided the pre-dinner and Family, Ingleburn. Bishop Peter was Peter will agree he has made lifetime dinner music on the night, with acclaimed overwhelmed with emotion by all friends and companionship. I was very former Varroville student, Miss Chantelle the love shown to him, especially the well informed that Bishop Peter has an Santos, performing a special solo rendition beautiful words of thanks that members amazing sense of humour and is very well of Ave Maria. of the laity and clergy spoke at each known for his joke-telling—unfortunately, of the Masses and the spontaneous Former diocesan chancellor, Sr Moya standing ovation that he received—and many of them ‘dad jokes’. That side of Hanlen FDNSC, and current chair of the which lasted for over a minute Bishop Peter showed he was a man of the Diocesan Finance Council, Mr Kieran —at Fairy Meadow. people who was well loved and respected. Biddle, delivered touching tribute speeches. His caring attitude and sincerity held Dame Kathleen McCormack AM presented Farewell dinner him in good standing in the difficult Bishop Peter with a gift and farewell cake. situations he encountered over the years. On Monday 19 March 2018, Bishop The farewell dinner held to celebrate his Bishop Peter then responded with a warm Peter was honoured in style at The Cube retirement was supported by so many and humourous address of his own. During (located at the Campbelltown Catholic local businesses. It was wonderful. It was a the address, Bishop Peter said, “Tonight, Club) with over 500 guests in attendance privilege and an honour to be there to say I am here to thank you all for the terrific from around the Diocese as well as farewell to the bishop.” support and affirmation of my style of

12 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG PHOTOS: ALPHONSUS FOK, VIENNA MARIE AND DANIEL HOPPER

shortcomings, I have, by God’s grace, I have been absolutely put some fresh heart into people and The Diocese acknowledges and encouraged them to hang in there as thanks the following partners blown away at the Catholic Christians.” and donors for their enthusiastic various farewells support: In true Bishop Peter style, he finished off around the Diocese ... his speech by focusing on his successor, All Organs Australia Pty you have all given me a saying, “Let your new bishop be himself. Ltd, Australian Catholic preview of what people Each of us is different and we see much Superannuation & Retirement further into the future when we stand Fund, Campbelltown Catholic might say at my funeral! on the shoulders of those who went Club, Catholic Church Insurances, before us.” Catholic Development Fund Wollongong, Catholic Super, ministry. I have been absolutely One of Australia’s most loved CEnet, Clearsafe Environmental blown away at the various farewells comedians, Mr Vince Sorrenti, was a Solutions, H.Parsons Funeral around the Diocese. I still have a lot of brilliant master of ceremonies for the Directors, Harvest Journeys, very touching letters to answer amid evening. The night was topped off by Invocare trading as Guardian packing up and preparing to move…. a wonderful musical set performed Funerals and Hansen & Cole I tend to only look at my mistakes, by renowned Australian opera singer Funerals, JDH Architects, KPMG, at what I have done badly, and what and Sydney parishioner, Mr Mark Makinson d’Apice Lawyers, I have failed to do. But, you have all Vincent, and his band. Mark received McDonald’s Macarthur and given me a preview of what people a standing ovation for his encore Illawarra, Michelle Roffe Funerals, might say at my funeral! I think I have performance of Nessun Dorma. Primavera Flowers, Remac Fire done nothing extraordinary except to Safety, Rydges Campbelltown, keep being there…. One of the highlights of the evening Steve Watt Constructions, St was a surprise slideshow presentation Francis Xavier Cathedral Parish, “My motivation [as a bishop] came of over 100 photos from Bishop Peter’s FAL Constructions, Figtree from a phrase in the Acts of the life. You can watch the slideshow at Cleaning, Paul and Margaret Apostles: ‘They [Paul and Barnabas] dow.sh/slideshow.  Wakeling, Pro Sound and put fresh heart into the disciples Lighting, St Mary Star of the Sea encouraging them to persevere Daniel Hopper is the director of media College Wollongong and Stuart in the faith’ (Acts 14:22). It is my and communications and co-editor of Barnes Venues and Events. fervent prayer that despite my own Journey for the Diocese of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 13 Virtue and the Jordan Peterson phenomenon

BY PETER GILMORE

he lights dim on a sold-out auditorium packed with eager fans. When the tickets went on sale for Tthe Australian tour, all the venues were sold out in an astonishing five minutes. And these are not bargain- basement prices—the premium seats will set you back $150. So, who is this rockstar? What pop sensation is causing all this fuss? As he takes the stage, there’s no fanfare or flashing lights. There’s no band. He’s going to speak and answer impromptu questions for three hours. That’s it. That’s the “show”, and people can’t seem to get enough of it.

Dr Jordan B Peterson is an enigma in the modern age of short-lived attention spans and passing fads. For a solid four months, his book, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos, has been on most best-seller lists. Over the last few years, his university psychology lectures on YouTube have been getting millions of views and they’re not introductory courses—they’re dense, complex and, shockingly, life-altering. Perhaps, most surprising of all, is his 15-part biblical lecture series on the book of Genesis. Each lecture, which discusses the deep human significance of the stories contained within, clocks in at over two and a half hours, and despite not even identifying as a Christian, the average viewership is in the hundreds of thousands.

14 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG Virtue and the Jordan Peterson Why does any of this matter? phenomenon It matters because his central message is reverberating across the world like an ancient discarded drum rediscovered whilst scouring the junk heap of history—the junk heap that has swallowed up such crucial ideas as the power of forgiveness, the centrality created us to be. Our Church tells us, of the family in society, and even the Shoulder whatever “A virtue is an habitual and firm awful truth that we are all capable of disposition to do the good. It allows doing terrible things given the right burden you can and carry the person not only to perform good circumstances, the right environment it. That, Peterson says, acts, but to give the best of himself. The and the right motivation. virtuous person tends toward the good is “truly heroic”. That is with all his sensory and spiritual powers; What’s the message? What is the drum what gives life meaning. he pursues the good and chooses it in beat that is calling the young and old, concrete actions” (Catechism of the the educated and non-educated, the Catholic Church, § 1803). affluent and those who are struggling? The pursuit of virtue It’s simple. Clean up your room. Tell the Ultimately, “The goal of a virtuous life truth, or at least, don’t lie. Treat yourself But, this message isn’t unique. For two is to become like God” (St Gregory like someone you are responsible for millennia, these messages have been of Nyssa, De beatitudinibus, 1: PG helping. Be precise in your speech. the song sung by the Church over 44, 1200D). This sense of purpose is And, possibly most confronting of the Catholic faithful and the world at an echo of ancient Greek philosophy. all, life is hard. Life is very hard, but large: “Whatever is true, whatever is Aristotle said that our purpose as we need to, in his words, “Pick up honourable, whatever is just, whatever human beings is happiness or fulfilment, your damn cross and walk up the hill.” is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever and that is found in virtue. Shoulder whatever burden you can and is gracious, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, To Aristotle, virtue was realising our carry it. That, Peterson says, is “truly potential. How can we know our heroic”. That is what gives life meaning. think about these things” (Philippians 4:8). And not just think about them potential if we aim only at where we are An unpopular message to give. A hard like a car with its engine in neutral—all in our journey rather than where we message to receive. An even harder noise but no motion. We need to do could be? message to live. something. Become the people God continued on next page

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 15 in popularity of Jordan Peterson. We crave the truth, no matter how blunt or difficult it is for us to swallow or for the shepherds of our flock to teach.” He concludes his letter by saying, “Many of us feel that we’re the rightful heirs of thousands of years of rich teaching, tradition, art, architecture and music. We young Catholics increasingly recognise that these riches will be crucial for evangelising our peers and passing on a thriving Church to our children. If the Church abandons her traditions of beauty and truth, she abandons us.”

The pursuit of perfect

continued from previous page As Catholics, we have so much to offer the world. The best of which is not the idea of being perfect, but rather, the The two great lies To Aristotle, virtue was pursuit of perfect—God. It’s the pursuit We, with all our modern trappings and realising our potential. of the good, the true and the beautiful sophistications, suffer from the results How can we know our which the world is thirsting for. And, of two insidious lies. our beliefs as Catholics—hard as they potential if we aim only are to live—are the living core of this. Thefirst is that the unconditional love at where we are in our In the romantic comedy, Keeping the of God and being made in his image journey rather than Faith (2000), Edward Norton’s character, are incompatible with the need to Fr Brian, has this conversation with his pursue our best selves, or, as the Church where we could be? friend, Rabbi Jake: would call it, “sainthood”. We give out participation awards, we remove the Rabbi Jake: Jews want their rabbis to be possibility of last place by declaring C.S. Lewis said, “Christianity, if false, is the kind of Jews they don’t have the time everyone a winner, and we refuse to say of no importance, and if true, of infinite to be. the hard things for fear of hurt egos and importance. The only thing it cannot be Fr Brian: Yeah, and Catholics want their wounded pride. What is there left to do is moderately important” (C.S. Lewis, priests to be the kind of Catholics they when you are already made perfect? It Mere Christianity). would seem nothing. I just have a bad don’t have the discipline to be. temper. I just can’t help this vice or that. An unlikely audience None of us are perfect. We all fall short. I just am who I am, which sounds eerily We all get it wrong. As St Teresa of Many would think that 56-year-old like God’s proclamation to Moses—I am Kolkata said, “God doesn’t ask that we who I am. Except, we aren’t God. Peterson’s rise to fame would be fuelled by an older generation, perhaps stuck succeed in everything, but that we are Thesecond lie is that we have allowed in old ways of thinking, not adapted to faithful.” As our mother, the Church sets ourselves to become infected with the the modern-day world. On the contrary, a high bar for us in her teaching, as she moral relativism of post-modernist his largest audience is by far the typical should. Not to punish us, but, with God’s theory—“I have my truth, you have university age person—young, not grace, to draw out the best in us and to your truth, there is no the truth.” And quite stepping into the responsibility bring the kingdom of God to Earth. under this motto, we have all sorts of of adulthood and finally discovering justifications why some law, rule or for themselves what living in the world David and Goliath teaching doesn’t apply to us—my truth looks like. This goes against every Is Jordan Peterson right about obviously trumps the truth. We stay negative stereotype of the modern everything? No, he’s human just like the silent and we rationalise ourselves out young person—lazy, not willing to rest of us. So, what can we learn from of sharing our faith because, “This is shoulder personal responsibility, this phenomenon? Let us face down the good for me and what they believe absorbed in self, and constantly bathed giant, the Goliath, and like David, with is good for them.” But, didn’t Christ in the glow of some device or another. God’s strength, be victorious! However, declare himself to be “the Way, the Archbishop Charles Chaput OFM of perhaps the discovery will be, the giant Truth and the Life”? (John 14:6) This Philadelphia, recently wrote an article is me and the victor in this story is the doesn’t mean an arrogant, forceful where he highlighted a letter he received person who God created me to be.  and unloving evangelism. Quite the from a parishioner in his diocese. This contrary. The truth that we are loved, young parent wrote to the bishop, “We called, saved and given the grace to young people crave the truth and clarity Peter Gilmore is a CCD and pursue our purpose, should lead us to of good teaching. On a secular level, evangelisation coordinator for singing and dancing in the streets. As this is evidenced by the meteoric rise the Diocese of Wollongong.

16 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG CATHOLIC YOUTH MINISTRY WOLLONGONG

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 17 BY JESSICA SPARKS

he Australian bishops have put The formative three-day program It was simply incredible to a call out to young Catholics to was full of smaller workshops, group Tengage with the Church, celebrate sessions and Q&A discussions tackling see the young pilgrims from and be celebrated in a declared Year of a variety of issues and challenges in the the Diocese engage in their Youth from the beginning of Advent lives of young Catholics in Australia— faith in such a charismatic, 2017 (Sunday 3 December 2017) to the from indigenous spirituality to dating, end of Ordinary Time in 2018 (Sunday from leadership in the digital world reverent and joy-filled way ... 25 November 2018). CATHOLIC to being Catholic in a secular society. YOUTH MINISTRY There was outdoor music and activitiesWOLLONGONG thousands of pilgrims their actions to Australian Catholic Youth Festival on offer, as well as a global village, virtual the song—a dance which quickly spread across the whole festival. Ten years on from hosting World Youth reality games, and a social justice centre Day 2008, Sydney again played host to with hundreds of Catholic agencies The event culminated in a pilgrimage a national gathering of young Catholics, offering information, workshops and from Milson’s Point, over the Sydney this time to launch the Year of Youth at ways to help those in need. Harbour Bridge and to the Domain, where the Australian Catholic Youth Festival over 20,000 people gathered to take part Our Diocese led the charge with (ACYF). in the festival’s final outdoor Mass. creative elements for the Festival, From 7–9 December 2017, 351 students with Catholic Education Diocese of CEDoW Youth Ministry Education and 46 staff from Catholic secondary Wollongong (CEDoW) Education Officer Joel Duval said the great sense of schools in the Diocese gathered at Officer Tim Hart winning the community and excitement at the event Sydney Olympic Park to experience competition for official ACYF theme was palpable. “It was simply incredible to large-scale concerts and liturgies, song, Joyful Generation, and then see the young pilgrims from the Diocese keynote speakers, and the incomparable CEDoW students performing and engage in their faith in such a charismatic, “Hangin’ with Hilda” sessions. teaching the rest of the nation’s reverent and joy-filled way,” he said.

18 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG PHOTOS COURTESY OF ACBC: CYRON SOBREVINAS, GIOVANNI PORTELLI, ALPHONSUS FOK & DANIEL HOPPER

Diocesan Youth Ministry Coordinator Year of Youth—looking ahead Joel and Seth said their hope for the Seth Harsh agreed, “ACYF was an Year of Youth is that young people amazing opportunity for young people Catholic Youth Ministry Wollongong “take up the challenge to enter into all over Australia to be reminded has a fantastic rest of 2018 planned, a relationship with God” and grow that they are not alone in their faith, including: “through the practice of their faith in and that with their contribution, the • Three LIVE events (lunchtime the everyday and through participating Catholic Church can be an exciting, concert and in-school retreat) in the many initiatives run throughout fulfilling, empowering and life- at every systemic Catholic the Diocese of Wollongong”. changing thing to be a part of.” secondary school in the Diocese “I wish for our young people— (see Page 21); Youth ministry leadership retreats especially those who feel they don’t • A day-long LIVE Festival in have a place in the Catholic Church ACYF set the tone for the Year of August featuring live music, or that the Catholic faith has nothing Youth which has continued here in workshops and activities, great to offer them—that they will come to the Diocese. Retreats for our schools’ food, inspirational speakers and discover the transformative and life- youth ministry co-ordinators and youth special guests (see Page 17); giving power that can only come from ministry leaders (see Page 20) have • Feast day celebrations at each a relationship with God,” Seth said. already taken place in Term 1, as has a systemic Catholic secondary “I also hope we see a continued growth reconnector event in February that saw school in the Diocese; and excitement about youth ministry all our ACYF pilgrims gather again, this • A number of Year 6 Masses and time at Mount Carmel Catholic College in our Diocese and that all youth feel Year 12 gatherings with Bishop in Varroville. Students relived their supported to journey deeper into their Brian Mascord;  festival experience, shared memories, faith,” Joel added. heard from our Bishop Emeritus • World Youth Day 2019 formation Peter Ingham and joined in a fantastic days across the Diocese; and Jessica Sparks is a communications “Hangin’ with Hilda” session run by Sr • Winter sleepouts and spirituality officer for Catholic Education Diocese Hilda Scott OSB herself. days across the Diocese. of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 19 BY JESSICA SPARKS

n March 2018, over 70 students involved in youth ministry at each Iof our Catholic systemic high schools gathered at Stanwell Tops to participate in the Youth Ministry Leaders (YMLs) Formation Retreat.

The overnight retreat, run by the Catholic Youth Ministry Wollongong team, was a unique opportunity for the students to step away from daily life and immerse themselves in understanding and engaging with the principles of youth ministry. The retreat has greatly PHOTOS: BETHANY PARRISH assisted with the formation of this year’s YMLs, furthering their spiritual development, enhancing their capacity relationship with God in a supportive as leaders, and strengthening their It’s taking the love environment. They took away a relationships with God and each other. renewed pride and confidence in being that God has for us Catholic and what that means to them, The two days provided quality time for and trying to spread it as well as a wealth of ideas on how students to hear from key leaders in around to the people we to better express what they believe in the space and engage in youth ministry within their communities and schools. experiences that they can then recreate know, and try to make a “The retreat was amazing!” Claudia and share with others at their school. difference in the world ... from Holy Spirit College, Bellambi, They were able to absorb the kind of affirmed. “It did much more than teach knowledge, skills and practices they us to be YMLs. It taught us to not be need to offer the leadership that will diocesan youth ministry network, where afraid. It let some of us experience what help other students connect to their these students feel supported in their it feels like to be touched by the Holy faith too. work, both within their school and the Diocese. Spirit and it enabled us to feel more “Being a YML is a lot more than just connected to God. The atmosphere presenting yourself as a faithful person A special highlight was the moving was constantly filled with happiness to your community. It’s leading by evening worship session which and joy.” example,” Jordan from Mount Carmel included singing, music, prayer teams The YMLs have now taken everything Catholic College, Varroville, said. and Reconciliation on offer. Students they’ve learned at the formation overwhelmingly enjoyed the night, Aidan, also from Mount Carmel, retreat back to their schools to share describing it as “emotional, intense and added, “It’s taking the love that God has with other students, so they may keep powerful” with “such a good atmosphere” for us and trying to spread it around the enthusiasm for youth ministry that was “really enlightening and opened to the people we know—to make a alive and growing in our Catholic difference in the world.” our eyes and hearts”. communities. The event has also linked YMLs across Many students expressed gratitude for our schools and allowed them to get to the affirming and empowering occasion Jessica Sparks is a communications know and open up to each other—the of coming together, openly sharing their officer for Catholic Education beginning of solid foundations for a faith with others, and talking about their Diocese of Wollongong.

20 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG create change

find purpose

choose joy

CATHOLIC CATHOLIC JOHN THERRY Friday 3 August CATHOLIC feat. live music, delicious food, feat. live music, delicious food, feat. live music, delicious food, YOUTH MINISTRY YOUTH MINISTRY YOUTH MINISTRY special guests, games and activities special guests, games and activities CORPUS CHRISTI Wednesday 15 August special guests, games and activities WOLLONGONG WOLLONGONG ST JOHN’S Thursday 6 September WOLLONGONG MOUNT CARMEL Friday 2 November if you would like come along, in partnership with if you would like come along, in partnership with MAGDALENE Friday 16 November if you would like to come along, in partnership with see your youth ministry coordinator see your youth ministry coordinator HOLY SPIRIT Wednesday 21 November see your youth ministry coordinator ST BENEDICT’S Friday 30 November cymdow cymdow ST JOSEPH’S Friday 7 December cymdow

BY SETH HARSH & years now. In the past, secondary schools JOEL DUVAL have had one to two LIVE events per year, One of the goals for LIVE but in 2018, each school will have three o, it’s not pronounced “Liv” as LIVE events each year. is to create an environment N in Liv Tyler—it’s LIVE as in “lie”, for young people in our but with a “v”. Now that we’ve got the The aim of LIVE is to draw young people pronunciation sorted, let’s answer into responsible participation in the life, schools to encounter the the second most popular question mission and work of the Catholic Church person of Jesus Christ and regarding this cutting-edge youth and to forge a strong sense of community take up his invitation to ministry initiative in the Diocese— and spirituality amongst them. One of the Why call it LIVE? goals for LIVE is to create an environment live their lives to the full in for young people in our schools to communion with him. What’s in a name? encounter the person of Jesus Christ and take up his invitation to live their lives to When deciding on a name for your A guest speaker is then invited to the full in communion baby, it’s often the names you associate break open the theme and how it relates with him. with naughty kids that you avoid, to God and the lives of the young right? Why is this? Is it perhaps that LIVE is run by Catholic Youth Ministry people gathered. we believe a name is more than Wollongong (CYMW) which is Students then separate into small merely a label? That maybe it speaks co-led by Seth Harsh and Joel Duval groups led by their YMLs to discuss of something deeper—of character, of and also consists of Dom Cabrera, what they heard and what it means for destiny, of potential or of substance. Bethany Parrish, Chantel Santos and them in the context of their lives. It was not without much careful Michaela Swadling. consideration that the name LIVE was Following small groups, everyone enters chosen for what is possibly the most On the day of LIVE, the school has a into a time of worship where CYMW exciting thing that has happened in lunchtime concert where live music is lead the group in prayer and a number youth ministry in this Diocese … ever. performed by the CYMW team. The of powerful, modern worship songs. concert usually takes place on the CYMW When we say that something is live, mobile stage that is driven into the school LIVE finishes with dinner which is it can mean that it is full of life (a playground or it is held in the school hall. provided by the school youth ministry live human being), that it was not coordinator (usually pizza, woohoo!) recorded digitally or otherwise (a live That same afternoon, there is a LIVE music performance), that it contains retreat which runs for three hours and is At the end of each LIVE, students are latent power (live wire, live match or open to students in Years 7–12. Students informed of upcoming youth ministry live ammunition), or that a computer gather together after school for afternoon events that they can get involved in and system has become operational. LIVE is tea (it’s pretty epic) which is provided how to stay connected. The best way all of these things and more. Ultimately, by CYMW and is served by the school’s to stay connected and updated on it refers to the life that Jesus Christ youth ministry leaders (YMLs). This is what is happening in youth ministry in offers each person when he says, “I also a time for the young people to have a the Diocese is to follow us on Instagram:  have come that they may have life, and bite to eat, listen to some music and get to @cymdow have it to the full” (John 10:10). This is know one another. what it means to be truly full of life—or Seth Harsh is the youth ministry Students then play a couple of LIVE. coordinator for the Diocese of competitive “Jimmy Fallon” style games Wollongong What happens at LIVE? where they can win a variety of prizes. We then move into the theme song for Joel Duval is the education officer— LIVE has been running in our Catholic that night which is based on the theme of youth ministry for Catholic Education systemic high schools for about three that particular LIVE. Diocese of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 21 The inspirational story of diocesan school staff teaching refugees to swim

BY JOSIE COOKS

ithout a doubt, the Illawarra landscape is breathtaking. With Wits picturesque coastline and array of stunning beaches to choose from, residents in the area are indeed blessed. As an outsider who relocated here, I couldn’t believe that locals not only had take them or they faced the possibility access to some of the most beautiful 291 people drowned in beaches in the world, but they also had of being socially isolated from their an instant form of social inclusion by peers over summer. Australia during 2017. going to the beach. On any given day According to the recent Royal Life Nearly 70% of those over summer, if you head to the beach Saving National Drowning Report, 291 drownings took place in you’ll find people—old, young, families people drowned in Australia during and couples—swimming and enjoying coastal locations, with 2017. Nearly 70% of those drownings themselves. took place in coastal locations, with people born overseas making Growing up in country Victoria, I spent people born overseas making up 40% up 40% of that statistic. my youth swimming in either dams or of that statistic. For people new to the area, particularly those of non-English lakes. However, before moving to the Samaritan Catholic Primary School in Illawarra with my husband and young speaking backgrounds who haven’t Fairy Meadow, Rebecca Coll, a young family, I could count on one hand the grown up around water or have never staff member at the school, learned the number of times I had been to the had the opportunity to learn how to family had never been to the beach. When beach. I considered myself a relatively swim, living in a coastal area with a questioned why, they admitted they were good swimmer, I spoke English and was young family would be challenging. too afraid to go because they couldn’t fortunate enough to have my children In recent years, the Illawarra has swim. Persuading the family to come in private swimming lessons. But, in experienced an influx of refugees to the beach with her, Rebecca quickly those early years after we relocated, relocating to the area, many of whom discovered they had very little idea of what every time my children asked me to have come from refugee camps with to do at the beach, let alone any water take them to the beach so they could little access to water, let alone an ocean safety awareness. be with their friends, I dreaded it. I to swim in. was unfamiliar with beach culture, I Knowing refugee families would find had little understanding of rips, and After striking up a friendship with it difficult to afford private swimming I initially found the whole experience a newly arrived refugee family who lessons, along with the fact there were overwhelming. But, I knew I had to had enrolled their children at Good no specific programs aimed at teaching

22 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG adult migrants and refugees about water safety awareness, Rebecca decided to take matters into her own hands and help make the transition for refugees into our coastal community a little easier. With the help of colleagues, Rebecca started a refugee swimming program which has run over the past two summers at the Wollongong Continental Pool.

Although Wollongong Council were supportive of the initiative and gave

approval for the program, there was DEE KRAMERPHOTO: PHOTOGRAPHY a stipulation that everyone who participated had to wear swimwear to access the pool. This stipulation created a number of problems due to the fact that nobody participating in the lessons owned swimwear. Overcoming that issue, the program then faced another. Rebecca said, “The mothers were not used to wearing swimmers in public. It took six weeks for the mothers to overcome their fears and fully participate in the program. It was a huge PHOTOS (ABOVE): REBECCA COLL achievement when they could finally stand up in waist-deep water. Their fear What started as a water cold water, I couldn’t help but admire highlighted that if something happened awareness and swimming their courage. This group of mothers to one of their children at the beach, understood the importance of learning they wouldn’t be of any help to anyone program, developed into this new skill and the difference it would who needed rescuing because they were one of self-confidence make in their children’s lives. They were so frantic themselves.” able to put their fears aside and accept and social inclusion for the challenge to travel the paths of their While the mothers slowly adapted families unable to access lives with courage and strength.” to the idea of learning to swim, the out-of-school activities children took to the water straight away When asked, Rebecca was quick to say for their children. that all the hard work has been worth it: and loved it. “The children became “The older children are now on boogie so enthusiastic about learning and so boards in the ocean, and while the confident in their swimming ability, that Through word of mouth, the good news mums are still plodding along, I am now by the end of summer, every time they spread quickly and it wasn’t long before confident that if anything happened to came to the pool they arrived with extra the numbers grew, with 40 people one of their children, they would now swimming apparatus, whether it be participating in the last swimming have the ability to act, whereas before, snorkels, flippers or goggles,” lesson. The program is not just being if they tried to help or step foot in the said Rebecca. accessed by refugee families with children enrolled in diocesan Catholic water, there would have been a second The swimming program has had great schools—it has also been accessed by person drowning.” success—five children in the older families in the wider community. For the program to continue and be group can now swim a full lap of the sustainable, Rebecca needs to engage continental pool, the pre-schoolers are What started as a water awareness and the services of more volunteers. able to jump in the water and make swimming program, developed into one “When the numbers grew to 40, along their way back to the edge of the pool, of self-confidence and social inclusion for families unable to access out-of- with the range of ages, we could only do and five out of the six mums can now supervision, rather than teach people float and stay buoyant in the water. school activities for their children. The program also encourages families to use how to swim.” If anyone is interested in The program began with three community facilities, with a number assisting with this program to ensure its ongoing success, please contact swimming teachers and three of families now accessing the pool by  volunteers from Good Samaritan, themselves. Rebecca said, “I’ve had the Josie Cooks on (02) 4253 0836 Nazareth Catholic Primary School, privilege of witnessing the effect the Shellharbour City, and Holy Spirit swimming program has on the lives of Josie Cooks is the community Catholic College, Bellambi, who these displaced people. As I watched development officer for Catholic supported five mums and 10 children. the women floundering around in the Education Diocese of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 23 We continue our series of profiling the many volunteers in our Diocese who work tirelessly behind the scenes. Dame Margaret McEntee OAM (known to all as “Peg”) resides in the Illawarra region of the Diocese and is a member of St Francis Xavier Cathedral Parish (part of the Lumen Christi Catholic Parishes Wollongong pastoral region.)

BY DEBBIE GATES

eg was a dance and physical culture teacher and a catechist in PWarrawong when she met her husband, There’s Ron. With their young family, they nothing moved to The Oaks in 1966 and became involved in parish and like this community life. Now in retirement, Peg and Ron live in Wollongong.

While in The Oaks all those years back, Peg joined the parish branch of the Catholic Women’s League Australia (CWLA) (cwlawollongong.org.au), the St Vincent de Paul Society (SVdP) and the parish liturgy and social committees. AN INTERVIEW WITH Peg has also served on the Diocesan DAME MARGARET MC ENTEE OAM Committee for the Aged, Diocesan Council for Catholic Women, SVdP’s Compeer Program and the Australian Catholic Bishops Commission for Priestly Life and Ministry. Peg was also on the organising committee for the It was there that my When I met Peg, I commented on her Beatification of Mary MacKillop. impressive CV and asked her what eyes were opened to she is most passionate about now? When not busy with Church matters, what we could do as an Peg singles out the Catholic Women’s Peg involved herself in various school, organisation to advocate League, where she is currently the sporting and community organisations. international secretary for CWLA– She co-founded Meals on Wheels in The for children, women NSW. Oaks region and—drawing on her passion and families, and how I for dancing—trained debutantes and their could make a meaningful Peg, how and why did you become partners for the local community ball for involved with CWLA? 40 years. Peg was the first woman to serve contribution to this. on the boards of Carrington Aged Care I became involved with CWLA when and Southern Cross Care. we moved to The Oaks parish. Being Very recently, Peg was awarded a papal very new to the district and parish, and On the international stage, Peg has done honour—Dame of the Order of St with small children, I was missing my an amazing amount of work advocating Gregory the Great—by Bishop Brian family, feeling lonely and seeking some for women’s issues. She has represented Mascord at St Francis Xavier Cathedral company connected to my faith life. CWLA at two Pontifical Council of the in Wollongong in recognition of her Laity conferences in Rome. She was also personal service to Church and her And it appears you a delegate at the now historic Fourth excellent example to the community. have never looked back! World Conference on Women: Action On the same day, she was also installed So many opportunities have come for Equality, Development and Peace as the president of Australian Church about because of my membership of convened by the United Nations in 1995 Women NSW Unit—an organisation that CWLA. in Beijing, China. Following this, Peg seeks to unite Christian women across represented CWLA on six occasions at denominational boundaries to promote I was asked to be the parish the United Nations Commission for the peace, understanding and unity through representative at the diocesan level Status of Women (UNCSW). faith and love in God. for CWLA. It was there that my eyes

24 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG League gave me the wonderful opportunity to witness the teachings of the Catholic Church and the Gospel of Jesus in a practical and exciting way. I hope that in the future there will be a version of the CWLA for women like you Debbie! • To “let go and let God”—something a person like me needs to be reminded of every day.

Do you have a “God” moment you would like to share? The first day of building the Mary MacKillop Aged Care facility at Carrington Care in Camden. When my mother died, I initiated the formation of a community committee which joined Carrington Aged Care to establish an aged care facility in the Camden area. This came about because my mother needed 24-hour nursing care and it was extremely hard to find accommodation for her anywhere at that time. I had no idea of the obstacles we would face. Eventually, with funding from the Australian Government, other fundraising and local belief in the project, it finally happened.

From the beginning, I had decided that such a facility would be named in honour of Mary MacKillop. This decision certainly raised Mary’s profile PHOTO: DANIEL HOPPER in the local area, and through constant petitions to Mary, hard work, sweat were opened to what we could do as an Who inspires you? and many tears, we eventually found organisation to advocate for children, St Mary of the Cross MacKillop has ourselves watching the first machines women and families, and how I could been, and continues to be, my strength. begin to level the ground to build make a meaningful contribution to this. the facility. That first day was a very What is on your wish list? emotional day for me. When I mentioned to my husband, I will limit this to three wishes! Ron, that I wanted to become more How does it feel to become a Dame? involved with CWLA at a policy and • I want to see young families representative level—something that in our churches again. As a I was shocked when I was advised! Can I would require me to do some travel— mother, grandmother and great be humble and proud at the same time? he simply encouraged me, reassuring grandmother, I have so many The journey I am on would not have me that he and the family would concerns about how we, as a been possible without the support and manage when I was away. Church, are not meeting their encouragement of Ron and my family. faith needs now. I want to see our “Some travel” seems like an Church come alive for them. We The interview comes to an end. But, as understatement! What was your key are living in a changing society and we say our farewells, I have thought of “takeout” from your international dare I say I think we need to look at one more question. So I ask: experiences? changing the model of “Church”. I pray that the Plenary Council to be Peg, how would you describe faith? At the UNCSW meetings, of the 12 held in Australia in 2020 will go a critical areas of concern identified at After some silence, Peg says, long way to addressing this. the Beijing conference, there were two “Faith is a gift.” Emotion then fills Peg’s areas I couldn’t address because of • Like most community eyes. Mine too.  who I am and what I represented. My organisations, CWLA membership mantra became, “Let’s focus on the is in decline and plans are underway Debbie Gates is the director of many things we can agree and work to manage its inevitable cessation. development and community engagement on, rather than the few we can’t.” Joining the Catholic Women’s for the Diocese of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 25 SETS THE SCENE FOR HOLY WEEK CELEBRATIONS

BY JESSICA SPARKS “It’s become one of the most anticipated Boy School Captain Jack Richards ceremonies of the Easter calendar, our said he was honoured to have played n Good Friday, the entire Church Stations of the Cross led by the students Jesus: "It was a great experience. It fixes her gaze on the cross at of St Mary Star of the Sea Catholic was really special for my Mum to see OCalvary. For the St Mary Star of the Parish Primary School in Milton,” the me take on that role for the school Sea Parish in Milton, their view of school’s religious education coordinator, community. It was hot and hard the cross is complemented by rolling, Simon Kinch, said. work, but it was definitely worth it." green farmland surrounds, the sun shining down on a white church “Each year, it is a very powerful Girl School Captain Ellie Fitzpatrick standing strong atop a hill; behind it, experience to see the young people of was one of the women greeted a backdrop of blue sky and beautiful the parish take on such an important by Jesus: “It felt like I was part of southern NSW escarpment. role and to help lead the adults towards a something important because Good deeper engagement with their own faith.” Friday is such a significant part of This stunning outdoor setting was the Church year. Lots of people the scene for the most beautiful of Over a third of the school’s students come to Milton because they like Holy Week celebrations, attracting participated in the re-enactment, all watching our Stations of the Cross.” not only the communities of St Mary dressing up as people of Jesus’ time and Star of the Sea, Milton, Holy Family, involving themselves in the 14 stations. The moving outdoor re-enactment Ulladulla and St Patrick’s, Sussex Inlet, The younger children enjoyed being allowed the faithful gathered to but an abundance of visitors from members of the crowd in each scene, make a spiritual pilgrimage to the out-of-town and as far as Sydney while Years 5 and 6 students took on pivotal scenes of Christ's suffering too, who travel especially to Milton larger roles. Those playing key characters and death. Children, parents, to join together in this particularly prepared for weeks in advance to ensure teachers and parishioners alike memorable commemoration of a seamless performance for their school, walked together with deep devotion Jesus’ crucifixion. parish and wider community. and reverence.

26 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG Other graced encounters and Heightened conversations have taken place with potential at peripheral Catholics and others at the peripheries local cafés and shopping centres, a two-day conference for Aboriginal

BY FR MICHAEL DYER and non-Aboriginal school support personnel, a spirituality day for “There is a tension between the centre high school staff, ANZAC Day and the periphery.… We must get ceremonies, a local restaurant and out of ourselves and go toward the soup kitchen which provide meals for periphery” (Cardinal Jorge Bergoglio the vulnerable, plus hospitals, nursing to the pre-conclave General homes, children’s Masses, sacramental Congregation of the Cardinals, preparation programs, baptisms, March 2013). weddings and funerals.

I muse often day and night (cf Psalm All of these across-the-board 63:6) about how, as a missionary encounters were sacred moments Church, we might reach out in between this priest and his regular contemporary ways to people who and peripheral parishioners. Let us no longer participate regularly at pray for the grace to remember that Mass and/or in other parish/diocesan we are all called in distinctive ways initiatives. How do we creatively to respond to the Great Commission embrace peripheral Catholics who of Jesus to “go forth [especially to are receptive to this embrace? How our peripheral Catholics] and make do we re-engage with people on, or disciples” (cf Matthew 28:19). To do so beyond, the margins, especially at a we must courageously and creatively time when our Church is in a deep PHOTOS: DEAN DAMPNEY—CLOUDFACE PHOTOGRAPHY “put out into the deep” (Luke 5:4). We crisis. Rather than simply viewing must be willing to leave behind our this crisis as a dangerous time— comfort zones in order to reach those Parish priest, Fr Michael Dyer, which in fact, it is—how might we who, like us, need the good news of enhanced the congregation’s envisage it as a time of heightened Jesus to illuminate our respective reflections by making meaningful potential? How do we empower our lives. As we strive to respond to the connections between each station peripheral sisters and brothers in universal call to holiness proclaimed and the challenges we face in modern Christ to reclaim passionately their by Vatican II, let us, “See the entirety society. In acknowledging the Church’s Catholicity—and the One who is of our life as a mission. Try to do so Year of Youth in 2018, Fr Michael made Catholicism’s Sacred Heart? In recent by listening to God in prayer and specific mention of the struggles faced times, I have witnessed heightened recognising the signs that God gives by our young people in Australia. potential surrounding peripherals you. Always ask the Spirit what Jesus including: 200 people who gathered The annual tradition is a wonderful expects from you at every moment in Milton on Good Friday to demonstration of the close of your life and in every decision you celebrate an outdoor Stations of the relationship between the parish and must make, so as to discern its place Cross ritual. Another 200 people school and further highlights the in the mission you have received” participated in a Easter Son-rise Mass power of Holy Week ceremonies to (Pope Francis, Gaudete et Exsultate, at Mollymook Beach. Later that same remind us how blessed we are and § 23; cf Evangelii Gaudium, § 20, day (cf Luke 24:13), several hundred the gratitude we owe Jesus Christ for March 2018).  well-wishers waved enthusiastically giving his life on Good Friday so that at their Catholic priest during we may receive the greatest gift of the Blessing of the Fleet parade in Fr Michael Dyer is the resident priest all—salvation.  Ulladulla. Eight days later (cf John of the South Coast parish of Milton 20:26), 28 of the faithful—including incorporating St Mary Star of the Sea, Jessica Sparks is a communications some peripherals—gathered for a Milton, St Patrick’s, Sussex Inlet, and officer for Catholic Education Diocese home Eucharist at Bawley Point. Holy Family, Ulladulla. of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 27 BY ANNA TYDD

PSCPT membership The diocesan PSCPT meets to discuss individual cases in the Diocese as well as overall strategy and policy development. The team consists of Bishop Brian Mascord, the directors of CatholicCare and Catholic Education Diocese of Wollongong, and subject experts, including Dame Kath McCormack AM— former member of the Pontifical Commission for the Protection of Minors and current member of the national Catholic Implementation Advisory Group.

Training and Education Program A key focus of the Royal Commission’s final report and recommendations was on the importance of ongoing and regular training and education for members of organisations who work with children (see also Professional and Clinical Supervision Program). Endorsing our commitment to the Royal Commission’s Child Safe Standard 1— child safety is embedded in institutional leadership, governance and culture, the PSCPT has designed and implemented a Training and Education Program that requires each person in positions of leadership within the Diocese to undertake a minimum of 10 units of training per year. We have also extended the training program by invitation to all congregational schools and other congregational entities that operate within the Diocese.

Diocesan Child Protection and Safeguarding Manual The PSCPT is developing a diocesan Child Protection and Safeguarding Manual. It will be an interactive online educational tool not just limited to compliance, but also designed to assist in the continuing development of cultural change within the Diocese to ensure best practice. The manual will underscore the Diocese’s commitment to the Royal Commission’s Child Safe Standard 10— Policies and procedures to document how the institution is child safe.

Parish Safeguarding Program The Diocese is developing a parish Safeguarding Program which will include the appointment of two safeguarding officers in each parish cluster. The program will be piloted in several parishes in the Diocese in late 2018. Safeguarding officers will be trained to be the contact persons within the parish for complaints/concerns, and co-ordinating education and training for parishes. This program is aligned with the Royal Commission’s Child Safe Standard 3 (see above at the Annual Report) and Child Safe Standard 1—Child safety is embedded in institutional leadership, governance and culture.

28 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG The diocesan Professional The PSCPT’s key function is to improve individual and organisational capacity Standards and Child to understand risk, recognise harm and take action for effective prevention, reporting, response, support for victims and survivors, acknowledgment Protection Team (PSCPT) and just redress. Embedded in its commitment is the Royal Commission’s is driving a safe institutional recommended 10 Child Safe Standards (Download at: dow.sh/RCChildSafe).

culture across all Anna Tydd is the director of professional standards dicocesan entities. and safeguarding for the Diocese of Wollongong.

Professional and Clinical Supervision Program for clergy The PSCPT has designed a Professional and Clinical Supervision Program for clergy (and eventually other relevant Church personnel). The Royal Commission focused on the importance of confidential and focused professional supervision for those in religious ministry to ensure they are provided regular support and can engage in reflective practice. This is in accordance with the Royal Commission’s Child Safe Standard 7—staff are equipped with the knowledge, skills and awareness to keep children safe through continual training and education. The program will provide for both group and individual professional and clinical supervision sessions.

Annual Report 2018 The Royal Commission’s Child Safe Standard 3 requires that children and communities are informed and involved. Our 2018 Professional Standards and Safeguarding Annual Report will form part of our commitment to this standard. The annual report will report on data with respect to reportable conduct matters relating to children as well as profiling children displaying sexually harmful behaviour and professional misconduct or unlawful behaviour against adults. It will also report on diocesan professional standards and child protection initiatives and programs.

Professional Standards and Safeguarding website The Diocese is developing a new website which will be instrumental to the work of the PSCPT. It will ensure that both children and adults have access to professional standards and child protection online tools to ensure transparent diocesan practice. The webpage for children will be piloted with them in order to obtain relevant and honest feedback in accordance with the Royal Commission’s Child Safe Standard 2— children participate in decisions affecting them and are taken seriously. A key focus of the webpage will be educational tools to support and educate children as to how they will engage safely online, specifically responding to the Royal Commission’s Child Safe Standard 8—physical and online environments minimise the opportunity for abuse to occur.

Clergy care and support

Robert Fitzgerald AM—a commissioner on the Royal Commission for five years—will be presenting at an upcoming clergy in-service in July 2018. He will explore the current climate with respect to clergy and religious in relation to their living and ministering. Robert will talk on ways in which clergy and religious can be supported, both personally and professionally, within the current climate. Robert will also navigate the issue of structure and governance from a clergy or religious perspective.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 29 DIOCESE TO HOST TWO DAYS WITH THE VATICAN’S FR HANS ZOLLNER SJ

BY ANNA TYDD

n Friday 31 August and FRIDAY 31 AUGUST 2018 It is hoped participants will gain: Saturday 1 September 2018, (10am–5pm) • An ability to identify and understand Othe Diocese of Wollongong—along The Friday presentation is primarily how the history of child sexual abuse with various other Catholic Church and other harmful behaviour has authorities—is hosting a two-day for Church personnel including impacted, and continues to impact conference of presentations by Fr Hans child protection and safeguarding on faithful communities worldwide; Zollner SJ at The Cube, Campbelltown professionals, principals, teachers, social Catholic Club. welfare leaders, clergy, religious, and • An understanding on how victims other employees and volunteers. and survivors of harmful behaviour Fr Hans is regarded as one of the can be best supported with specific leading church experts in the field of It is hoped participants will gain: reference to work being undertaken safeguarding of minors and on areas • An understanding of the current internationally; concerning sexual abuse. Over the workings and view of child protection • An understanding of the role of two days, he will address the most internationally with specific reference the faithful in the creation and significant issues facing the Catholic to the Holy See and the relative continuation of clericalism; and Church today with respect to harmful position of the Australian Catholic behaviour, including the theological Church; • An understanding of the ways that and spiritual implications arising from faithful members of the community • Insight into the spiritual and the abuse crisis and its impact on can assist the transformation of theological impact of the child sexual members of the Church, and how the religious communities to ensure abuse crisis; Church needs to change to survive, they are child-safe. flourish and ensure the safest place for • An ability to identify the key the most vulnerable. theoretical and practical changes to Cost make a child safe organisation; and Fr Hans has been a member of the The cost for the Friday presentation • The ability to equip Catholic Church pope’s Pontifical Commission for the is $100 per person and free for the leadership with the necessary Protection of Minors since 2014 and Saturday presentation (includes tools to create and maintain a safe head of the Centre for Child Protection morning tea, lunch and afternoon tea.) at the Gregorian University in Rome. institutional culture both at an individual and collective level. He is a German theologian and For more information psychologist. Since 2003, he has taught at the Institute of Psychology at the SATURDAY 1 SEPTEMBER 2018 To book online and get more Gregorian and has been the academic (10am–3pm) information on the event (including vice rector of the Gregorian since 2010. transport and accommodation options), The Saturday presentation is primarily He has been a member of the Jesuit visit hanszollner.dow.org.au or contact for victims and survivors of abuse and Order since 1990. Anna Tydd on [email protected] their family and friends, together with or (02) 4222 2405.  The conference will be structured on their advocacy and support groups. The both days with a focus on interactive presentation will also focus on issues workshops and participant engagement that continue to face lay members of the Anna Tydd is the director of professional on the various topics which will be Church in light of the child sexual abuse standards and safeguarding for the introduced by Fr Hans. crisis, particularly parishioners. Diocese of Wollongong.

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n December 2017, the Royal Commission into Institutional IResponses to Child Sexual Abuse published its final report, following separate reports on Working with Children Checks (August 2015), Redress and Civil Litigation (September 2015), and Criminal Justice (August 2017), as well as numerous case study reports.

Two case study reports—Case Study 43 (Catholic Diocese of Maitland-Newcastle) and Case Study 44 (Dioceses of Armidale and Parramatta/Fr Farrell)—are yet to PHOTO: DANIEL HOPPER be published because of ongoing criminal proceedings. In addition, developments within the Church some material throughout the reports Their work is necessary regarding leadership and culture. of Case Study 28 (Ballarat), Case Study 35 (Archdiocese of Melbourne) and to meet the expectations Their work is necessary to meet the the final report, has been redacted for of the wider Australian expectations of the wider Australian the same reason. It will be up to the community as well as community as well as ensuring that government to publish unredacted Catholic institutions and communities versions of these reports after relevant ensuring that Catholic are a place of transparency and criminal proceedings are concluded. institutions and safety for all individuals. The IAG communities are a place will work together with Catholic The final report contains a preface and Professional Standards Ltd and the executive summary plus 17 of transparency and National Redress Reference Group to other volumes—each devoted to safety for all individuals. monitor the progress of all reforms a particular topic. Volume 16 is in the Church. They will focus on the specifically devoted to religious recommendations mentioned above, institutions, including the Catholic The Royal Commission conducted in addition to the following areas: Church, and is 2,524 pages long. 8,000 private sessions with survivors relationship with and spiritual support of institutional child sexual abuse of survivors, governance and church The final report contains 189 and, with the consent of the survivors culture, child-focused standards, the recommendations, of which 21 concerned, has published summaries of national redress scheme and handling recommendations are directed approximately 4,000 survivor narratives of abuse complaints. Dame Kathleen specifically at the Catholic Church, on its website, of which 1,316 reference McCormack AM—who is also on our nine are directed to other specific the Catholic Church. diocesan Professional Standards and religious organisations, and 27 are Child Protection Team—is a member directed to all religious institutions Implementation Advisory Group of the IAG. Kath was the founding in Australia. The Working with director of CatholicCare in the Diocese Children Checks report contains 36 An Implementation Advisory Group and a former member of the Pontifical recommendations, the Criminal Justice (IAG) has been established by the Commission for the Protection of Minors report contains 85 recommendations Australian Catholic Bishops Conference set up by Pope Francis. We take this and the Redress and Civil Litigation and Catholic Religious Australia in opportunity to congratulate Kath on her report a further 99 recommendations. response to the Commission’s final appointment—the IAG and the Diocese  There are numerous recommendations report. Their role is to play a critical part is very fortunate to have her! covering various issues that are in monitoring and implementing both directed at the Catholic Church, the Commission’s and the Truth, Justice Anna Tydd is the director of professional religious organisations and religious and Healing Council’s recommendations. standards and safeguarding for the institutions in Australia. Their intention is to advise on the Diocese of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 31 ver the past couple of months, the Diocese’s Ocoordinator of evangelisation and discipleship, Darren McDowell, has been travelling North America on a sabbatical prior to joining three diocesan clergy at the Divine Renovation Conference 2018 in Nova Scotia, Canada, on 11–12 June 2018. The conference brings together leaders from around the world to explore principles and tactics of parish renewal.

During his sabbatical, Darren has been visiting a number of parishes that are successfully embracing the principles of parish renewal to see how they do it—writing a blog along the way. As you will see from his entry relating to his visit to the Prince of Peace Catholic Church, the experience has been life- changing.

15–22 MAY 2018 Their parish vision is (capitals theirs): missionary disciples. Check out their Prince of Peace Church, Flowery website (popfb.org) which gives a flavour of their spirit and energy. Branch (Atlanta), Georgia “We invite all people to Such commitment to vision and mission his past week has been another encounter Christ and live as enables them to be intentional about engaging and thought-provoking disciples, in an intentional way. leadership, and leadership discernment, Topportunity with a large and vibrant The Way is a journey that begins because they are committed to a course parish. This parish is a little smaller of action which will bring the vision and than St Ann’s that I visited last week, with Alpha, where we encounter mission to fulfilment. All their leaders yet, still very large by our standards, Christ, Connect with him in are required to have been through with some 70 ministries and a large community, are Equipped Alpha, be participating in a Connect Hispanic community. The week by Scripture and Catholic group, and have done at least one or two was full of gatherings and meetings. Tradition, Serve him in others, Equip (adult faith formation) programs. Rather than go through each of these Of course, they also require leaders to gatherings in turn, for this post I’d like and go make disciples of Jesus.” to focus on some of the key themes that do the relevant child protection and occurred across all these gatherings. safeguarding training—akin to what the Diocese is implementing in relation to Firstly, developing a clear vision and The effect of this “all-in” attitude is accreditation and safeguarding. “game plan” for forming missionary creating energy, enthusiasm and a disciples followed by a complete and rallying point for all parishioners. Lest we think this is too “business like”, holistic commitment to its fulfilment. It was enjoyable meeting Michelle, let us consider Jesus, as that is what they The parish priest, Fr Eric Hill, and his their onboarding and engagement are doing through their “lead like Jesus” leadership team, in implementing The coordinator. Working with the reception process. Luke’s Gospel, you’ll remember, Way—their name for the game plan as volunteers and others, she personally tells how Jesus “resolutely took the outlined in Divine Renovation—have and joyfully assists new and regular road for Jerusalem” (Luke 9:51). Jesus made a concerted effort to ensure that parishioners enter into The Way and was committed in an “all-in” manner in all processes and activities in the parish begin walking the journey. The first vision and mission, he was intentional support people moving along this step is being part of Alpha, followed about the formation of his leadership pathway and fit within the framework by ongoing participation in all the group, he coached and enabled them to of the game plan and parish vision. other elements of their Way of forming serve in mission whilst he was still with

32 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG Imagine if, rather questions—the same ones that could be share life and faith. He invited the man asked of any relationship with a friend, to have coffee with him later, which he than “counting sheep”, spouse or child: did, and then invited the man to Alpha. we focused all our Michael, the man in question, came along attention on to Alpha, encountered Jesus and is now “feeding sheep”. When did I last laugh / cry living this new relationship in the life of with (Jesus / ...)? the parish. When did I last spend quality I was keenly interested in another time with (Jesus / ...)? expression of this culture of prayer and relationship with Jesus—monthly When was (Jesus / ...) “just too Encounter evenings. These evenings— cheeky for words” in that cute comprising praise and worship, sharing enjoyable sense? of stories, adoration of the Blessed When did I last experience Sacrament and sharing prayer—are graced (Jesus / ...) doing something experiences for all concerned and a source practical and tangible for me, of growth and encounter with Jesus. and me for (Jesus / ...)? Of importance here is the why of all that When, and how, did I fall they are doing—and this can be a vital in love with (Jesus / ...)? question for ourselves. Sometimes I feel that we, in Australia, are trying to “save When did (Jesus / ...) last our Church” and spend much of our time challenge me / disturb “counting sheep”, as it were. We ask, “How my comfort and when did I can we get people back to Mass?” or “How challenge (Jesus / ...)? can we halt the decline in numbers?” or “How can we be financially viable?”

Certainly, whilst I’ve been away, I’ve Imagine if, rather than “counting sheep”, really resonated with all of them. Jesus we focused all our attention on “feeding has certainly been with me through the sheep”. Rather than “saving the Church Jesus was committed in an people, the “coincidences”—seeing the from decline”, we developed a greater “all-in” manner in vision and fruit of what’s been happening. I say this heart for “enabling all people to experience simply to spark the question—how do fullness of life and healing” (saving sheep). mission, he was intentional you experience your relationship with I believe we are well on the way to doing about the formation of his Jesus? this in our own Diocese, so please don’t leadership group ... get me wrong—we’re doing great work. Born out of their experience of Alpha, Yet, my point here is simply that they are such a culture of prayer is clearly seen them, and he enabled them through the fully focused on the person as a person. where, for example, staff come together Or as one author has put it, “Don’t use Holy Spirit to go out and transform the to share prayer intentions that are on world. people to build up the Church, rather, use their hearts and minds, they spend time the Church to build up people!” I’m simply Thus, I arrive at perhaps the most as a staff in adoration of the Blessed making a point of reflection—how can Sacrament, they have a perpetual crucial element of all that I’ve seen we have this focus even more fully and adoration chapel open at all times and experienced at both St Ann’s wholeheartedly? I know that I don’t do this and attended by parishioners. People Parish and at Prince of Peace Parish—a well, but I am now resolved to improve! pray for and with one another easily wholehearted commitment to prayer and simply, and people experience the The impact that this way of thinking has and surrender to God’s will, in and transforming love and healing of Jesus had on the parish is quite impressive. through, the Holy Spirit. What I’m in their life. They are seeing a ten-fold increase experiencing is a basic, often quiet and in participation across all areas of deep (but nonetheless clear), visible I will share one story. One of their parish life—faith formation, ministry and expressed relationship with Jesus Connect groups was meeting at a local involvement, sacramental life etc. They and a desire to follow him. coffee shop. They made the sign of are also seeing lives being transformed the cross and prayed for one another. through bringing people to encounter the What could this talk of “relationship Towards the end of their gathering, a love and presence of Jesus. Basically, yes, with Jesus” look like and mean? At man who had been sitting nearby came they are seeing highly fruitful results.  one level, it’s always different, like up and asked them what they were any relationship. However, as I’ve doing. The leader of the group—rather been moving around and talking than brushing him off—explained that Darren McDowell is the coordinator of with various people, I think it can be they were members of the local Catholic evangelisation and discipleship for the characterised by asking a number of parish who came together regularly to Diocese of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 33 BY DANIEL HOPPER I am, as a priest, a commendation from members of the parish and school communities where Fr Francis n Australia Day this year, representative of Jesus in has ministered over the years, and I have Fr Francis Tran OAM, parish Opriest at St John the Evangelist Catholic the community, and seen first-hand the way Fr Francis builds up Parish, Dapto, was awarded a Medal I am called to do exactly and truly loves the people he serves.” of the Order of Australia (OAM) for what he did—to be his When asked why he was so surprised by “service to the Catholic Church in hands and feet. I am not his receipt of the Australia Day honour, Fr Australia and the community”. On Francis said, 1 May 2018, Fr Francis received his a perfect person, but I try medal at an investiture ceremony in the best I can. “Because I live a very simple life. I am Sydney accompanied by Dapto parish a normal human being. I never do big secretary, Mrs Jenny Gibson, and things. I just live a normal life amongst the tremendous impact on numerous friend, Fr Peter Tien, administrator of community as a working man.” St Anthony’s Parish, Picton. parishes and communities in the Diocese—having spent time in Nowra, Fleeing Communist Vietnam at a time of Fr Francis said his receipt of the Fairy Meadow, Wollongong, Mittagong, serious persecution for members of the Australia Day honour is something that Moss Vale, Vincentia, Milton-Ulladulla, Church, he came by boat to Australia in took him “completely by surprise”, but Helensburgh and Dapto throughout his 1987 and was welcomed to the hostel in for the various communities he has 22 years as a priest. Villawood for refugees (now Villawood served, this award is a just recognition Immigration Detention Centre.) Fr Francis for an amazing life of humble service Bishop Emeritus Peter Ingham said, said, “I worked in factories and farms for dedicated to the formation of nurturing “The Office of the Bishop received an nearly three years doing manual labour— communities. Fr Francis has had a unprecedented number of letters of two jobs a day, working and working. I felt

34 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG “In Australian culture today, it is very easy for people to become isolated and disconnected. In my role here, I’m trying to get it back to the old way of life—a community life. I want people to know each other, to be friendly with each other, to see the value of family, and so I try to create spaces and opportunities to bring people together—a cup of coffee after Mass, dinners here, sports nights, gathering for celebrations, watching footy together. I want people to know and love each other. Worshipping God in the Church will not make sense if we don’t It’s not about how I have a true sense of community and preach, but how I live of belonging.” and act. It’s about giving Fr Francis said, “My priority for the your all for others like community is to create a good, healthy, Jesus did. That’s how life happy community that people will bring God into their presence. I try to share my becomes meaningful.” faith in Jesus by being like Jesus. He loves everybody and he sees the value of every single person—good or bad alike. I am, Parishioners attest to Fr Francis as being as a priest, a representative of Jesus in the a man who rolls-up his sleeves and gets community, and I am called to do exactly what he did—to be his hands and feet. I PHOTO: DANIEL HOPPER his hands dirty, especially on projects that bring people together. Fr Francis am not a perfect person, but I try the best is dedicated to building facilities that I can. I see myself as just one member called to be a priest, but I had no English, allow people to come together. Working of the community. I am there to talk to so I stopped working and studied English alongside parishioners, he has become people as a friend and bring them into the for six months at Liverpool TAFE. It was quite a “handyman”, building pergolas, community and to help that community hard. It had been many years since I had gardens, fish ponds, barbeque areas and be a family who know God’s love.” been to school. But I learnt it, entered spaces for hospitality and welcome. “I In receiving the award, Fr Francis the seminary, and was ordained in 1995 want the parish and my house to be a at Fairy Meadow.” reflected that while his life had not always place where people of all ages can come been easy, he was full of gratitude for so Even before joining the seminary, together, and they do in big numbers,” many things. “God has given me time, Fr Francis said. Fr Francis had a strong desire to learn talent and opportunity to make my life and adapt as he tried to embrace his It is this desire to bring people together useful for people. I’m grateful to the new home. “I read a lot about Australian in genuine friendship that was central Church for my faith and the opportunity history. If you don’t know the history, to his OAM recognition. Fr Francis to serve others. I feel so grateful to be you don’t know the people. I always describes himself as “humbled by the accepted by this country which has heard Australians say, ‘You can take the award” but he accepted it as something adopted me. I know the life of the Gospel boy out of the village, but you can’t take that recognises the way he lives his life. is what I have to live. It’s not about how I the village out of the boy.’ That’s true Fr Francis said, “I love the community. preach, but how I live and act. It’s about in many ways, but it was important to giving your all for others like Jesus did. In whatever I do, I think of the  me to become very involved with the community. Even if I’m mentally and That’s how life becomes meaningful.” Australian Community—learning and physically tired, I keep on working as I growing—so I could serve people and want to offer the community something Daniel Hopper is the director of media build-up communities where people feel and make people feel they belong and and communications and co-editor of like they belong.” that they have a brighter tomorrow. Journey for the Diocese of Wollongong.

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 35 Pope Francis inspires an Dropping Off the Edge—a report ongoing mission to support published in 2015 by Jesuit Social We do know that having Services and Catholic Social Services strong family and the most disadvantaged Australia—demonstrates that social community in our Diocese. circumstances in Australia varies community connections dramatically by postcode, with a is key to wellbeing, so we hen we think about serious number of locations experiencing started there.” social disadvantage and poverty, ongoing and entrenched social Wwe don’t always think of Australia. disadvantage and poverty. The report We regard ourselves as the “lucky mapped all postcodes across Australia The acting executive manager of country”—a nation of plenty, living based on 22 social indicators, with the family services at CatholicCare in a safe and peaceful environment suburb of Claymore being among those Wollongong, Roseanne Plunkett, with a comprehensive education and ranked as “Band 1”. The band ranking expressed that Project Francis gave welfare system; far removed from the system categorises postcodes based the community a voice, and through developing countries of the world. on the level of severity of disadvantage community consultation and by experiences within a location with simply asking residents what they And yet, three million people in Band 1 being the most severe. needed, Project Francis uncovered that Australia currently live below the residents weren’t being confronted poverty line. Unbeknown to many of In light of these findings, CatholicCare with just one form of disadvantage, us, members of our own Diocese are Wollongong undertook a special place- but many complex barriers hindering living in circumstances of entrenched based project in Claymore, funded their wellbeing and community disadvantage, just 10 minutes drive from by Catholic Social Services NSW/ participation. Campbelltown’s city centre. ACT, entitled Project Francis. The name of the project was inspired by “There is no ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach With a population of just 3,000, the Pope Francis’ call for a Year of Mercy in highly disadvantaged areas like suburb of Claymore is troubled with in 2015 and Jesus’ command in Luke’s Claymore. With such high levels of high levels of criminal convictions Gospel to “be merciful just as your unemployment and overall lack of safe and juvenile offending, along with Father is merciful” (Luke 6:36). The and affordable housing, the challenge deficient education, drastically low project involved a number of practical is immense. But we do know that family income, and an overall lack of initiatives endeavouring to make a having strong family and community infrastructure, access to internet and difference in the wellbeing of residents connections is key to wellbeing, so we public transport. in Claymore. started there,” she said.

36 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG Bringing up Great Kids (promoting positive and respectful parent-child relationships) and Seeing Red (which looks at controlling feelings of anger.)

During Project Francis, CatholicCare provided 27 group work sessions in Claymore with participants reporting an overall satisfaction rating of 100% Participants—who asked to remain anonymous—stated that they benefitted most from learning new parenting strategies and building on their understanding of children and their emotions. Being able to learn basic parenting skills not only allowed them to feel more in-tune with their children’s feelings, it enabled them to feel better about themselves as parents and it instilled in them a sense of personal validation.

CatholicCare Director Michael Austin expressed that by virtue of its mission, CatholicCare will champion the primacy of human dignity and be drawn towards assisting those who are marginalised and experiencing disadvantage.

“We draw upon the rich tradition of PHOTO: DEE KRAMER PHOTOGRAPHY Catholic social teaching, and in particular the practice of accompaniment, which means to ‘journey beside’, or to accompany,” “From our conversations with the Michael said. Through walking Claymore residents and the services “Accompaniment is both a philosophy and already working in the community, together in respect a practice where we meet people in the very we felt we could make a difference by and trust, we have an circumstances in which they are living, and supporting people to make their own encounter that contains through walking together in respect and strong connections, whether this be trust, we have an encounter that contains with their children, neighbours, families the seeds of possibility the seeds of possibility and of change and or services. and of change and mutual learning. This is in contrast to an approach of ‘doing to’, where an attempt is “Project Francis was about enabling the mutual learning. being made to impose something upon a client to equip them with the knowledge community, however well-intentioned this and skills, to not only improve their may be,” Michael continued. own individual situations, but to make a For example, some residents felt contribution to their wider community. ashamed about accessing support The issues facing our neighbours in We also knew that a ‘helicopter- and being perceived as an “incapable Claymore may be stark and confronting, approach’ of flying in and out with a parent” in a tight-knit community. but practical interventions such as Project preconceived solution was not going to Francis have opened up possibilities and work,” she said. “It became clear that we needed a long-term solutions to achieve positive different approach, so we provided change within the wider community. Project Francis featured a participatory some practical support, including CatholicCare is committed to continuing (or co-design) process, actively building trust and rapport with to work within the Claymore community involving the residents in planning residents to engage them. We became alongside its residents to find new to help ensure what CatholicCare a reliable presence in the area— and innovative ways to break down offered met their needs. Claymore is immersing ourselves in community intergenerational barriers and improve familiar with being offered community events and providing not only their awareness of the importance of assistance from government and social workshops, but food, vouchers and a individual and community wellbeing.  service organisations, yet residents listening ear,” Roseanne said. weren’t taking the opportunities on offer to them. Through community CatholicCare group workers then consultation, CatholicCare generated offered courses including 123 Magic some insight into what was inhibiting and Emotion Coaching (which assists the residents from accessing support. with children’s challenging behaviours),

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ver the past 16 years, Bishop Emeritus Peter Ingham has been a Osincere and graced presence during his ministry as the bishop of Wollongong— continuously expressing an authentic care of and commitment to students and their families as well as having a deep gratitude for the work of Catholic Education Diocese of Wollongong (CEDoW) staff.

On Friday 9 February 2018, Bishop Peter was honoured through a student Liturgy of Appreciation and Farewell held at St John the Evangelist Catholic Church in Dapto. Over 500 representatives from every Catholic school in the Diocese gathered to formally thank Bishop Peter for his wise and authentic leadership.

Student leaders commenced the liturgy PHOTOS: ELIZABETH HOLDER-KEEPING with a procession of light, reminding the community of how God’s light has shone in the person of Bishop Peter. Students Every blessing for the future led in all elements of the liturgy, resulting JOY For all that has been, in a joyous celebration of the bishop. One of the strongest memories Grateful thanks. At the conclusion, Director of Schools we will have of you is your For all that will be, yes! Peter Turner gave an inspiring address smile. A smile that is authentic presenting Bishop Peter with a unique and engaging. It comes from a lamp from the Holy Land, together with joyous and grateful soul who CEDoW wishes to acknowledge the many cards of gratefulness from each school delights in the company of people involved, with particular thanks in acknowledgement of how brightly others. Your joy is infectious! to the parish priest, Fr Francis Tran OAM, Bishop Peter has lit the way for all to and Principal Andrew Heffernan at St follow. In response, Bishop Peter said, John the Evangelist Catholic Parish, Dapto, “I am quite overcome to see you all here for hosting the event. Sincere appreciation and thank you very much for this tribute. Year 1 student, Katrina Gallagher, is also extended to Suz Marden, CEDoW’s The schools have been a large part of my presented the gift of humour and did team leader of staff spiritual formation, this with an engaging “knock-knock” ministry and to have you all here—I’m who coordinated the moving liturgy. joke. Wearing a clown costume, Katrina very touched by that.” jumped from a gift box and asked Bishop Peter, we thank our God whenever One of many highlights within the Bishop Peter, "Will you remember me?" we think of you; and every time we pray for you, we pray with joy (cf Philippians liturgy was the response to the word and Bishop Peter nodded and replied, "Yes 1:3–4), remembering how you have shone prayer of the faithful that recognised, I will remember you." Katrina then delivered her disarming punch line, a light on our path and blessed us by your in a personal and humorous way, the  "Knock-knock." Bishop Peter, "Who's presence. distinctive qualities Bishop Peter has there?" Katrina smiled: "You said you shown through his ministry. These would remember me!" Undoubtedly, qualities—presented to Bishop Peter Elizabeth Holder-Keeping is the graphic he will! as decorated gift boxes in appreciation design and publications officer for Catholic Education Diocese of Wollongong. of his leadership—included the gifts of As with all special celebrations, there presence, hope, witness, joy, faithfulness, was cake, repeating the collective Leah Mireylees is a communications officer integrity, courage and humour. messages of appreciation: for Catholic Education Diocese of Wollongong.

38 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG PHOTO: LOUISE HAMPSON How three siblings found their forever home You don’t have to by creating for them a permanent family BY TONI LEA-HOWIE through adoption or guardianship,” save the world; you she said. can just change one t’s not every day that a couple adopts According to the Association of a child, let alone three brothers person’s life ... I Children’s Welfare Agencies, more than simultaneously! For Illawarra carers, 60 children enter out-of-home care across Daniel and Jenny Norris, this was a are supported. “We tell the boys, ‘It’s NSW every week because they cannot commitment they were prepared to your history and it’s your story,’ and we live safely at home. Many are suffering make so the boys would have a sense of support their connection with their neglect or abuse due to he incapacity of belonging permanently in their family. family,” Jenny said. their parents to properly care for them The couple first became carers with Both are passionate about fostering and because of mental ill-health, substance CatholicCare Wollongong seven adoption and urge others to consider abuse, poverty, domestic abuse or the years ago when their son, Darcy, was becoming carers. “You don’t have to effects of intergenerational trauma. Open aged four. They had long considered save the world; you can just change one adoptions have increased by more than 60% in NSW with 129 adoptions granted fostering or adopting after being made person’s life,” Daniel said.  aware that they would be unable to in 2016–17. have any more children naturally. Jenny and Daniel are proud to have been carers with CatholicCare and say Toni Lea-Howie is the carer recruitment Lachlan was first placed with them in they have been well-supported in their and support coordinator for CatholicCare 2011 when he was just two months old. fostering to adoption journey. “We sat Wollongong. Several months later, it became known down with a heap of literature and went to Daniel and Jenny that Lachlan’s two through all the different agencies and older brothers were also in the system we chose very well,” Jenny said. and in need of permanent carers. They didn’t hesitate to put their hands up. CatholicCare Wollongong’s executive “We had the space and the opportunity manager of children and youth services, to give them a stable life,” Daniel said. Michelle Ferrara, said, “As well as open adoption from care, there is Are you interested in becoming Whilst having four children under an urgent need for more families to a carer who can provide the age of five can be challenging at help vulnerable children by becoming emergency, short-term or respite times, Jenny said, “We got on with it emergency, respite or restoration carers. care, or potentially becoming a and did it. I wouldn’t change a thing. guardian or an adoptive parent? It’s so rewarding. We knew it was the “While every child deserves to have right thing to do; we’ve been able to the protection, warmth and stability of Carers are particularly needed keep three little ones together.” So, family, unfortunately not all parents are for these priority areas: when the opportunity to adopt the able to fulfil this most fundamental of • Children aged 8 and above boys arose two years ago, Jenny and human needs. • Sibling groups Daniel jumped at the chance. They • Children with complex needs knew by then that the brothers strongly “We are always looking for a strong pool identified with their family. of carers who are able to step in and For more information, call fill the void by either providing a place CatholicCare Wollongong on However, both understand the of healing and hope until the child— (02) 4227 1122 or visit importance of open adoption where and sometimes their siblings—can be catholiccare.dow.org.au connections with a child’s birth family reunited safely with their own family, or

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 39 BY MONICA DOUMIT • Provide a wide opening for marital infidelity; n the first five years of his papacy, • Result in a general lowering of moral I Blessed Paul VI wrote seven Pope Paul VI sought standards; encyclicals. In the final 10 years, he to protect the faithful wrote none. I’m not sure of the reason • See women reduced to mere why, but I can only imagine that it had and the world against instruments for the satisfaction of something to do with the reaction what he foresaw as men’s own desires; and to the final encyclical he did write, the consequences of a • Enable public authorities to impose the Humanae Vitae, which spoke about use of contraception on its citizens. the dignity of the human person contraceptive culture ... as well as reaffirming the Church’s Today, many believe that the pope’s prohibition against the use of artificial prophesies have been borne out over contraception. It is said that this was the last 50 years, and a brief look at our culture suggests that these predictions have the first encyclical ever that was met After studying the matter himself and been visited upon us in ways even Pope Paul with open dissent from within the praying “constantly” about it, Pope VI could not have imagined. I can’t imagine Church—including from laity, clergy, Paul VI decided that it was his duty that in his wildest dreams (or nightmares) bishops and even cardinals. to reaffirm the Church’s teaching, and Paul VI could have conceived that once again, state that there was no For those unaware of the background Tinder would be a thing! to the writing of the encyclical, a place in marriage for the use of artificial committee was established to study contraception. And if he was trying to protect our culture the question of birth control in light from such atrocities, I dare say that he was Imagine just for a moment how of the invention of the contraceptive particularly trying to protect women. Indeed, pill. The majority recommended much courage it took to do what he one of the great ironies of Humanae Vitae is to the pope that some use of believed to be right, even in the face that it has been decried as being anti-woman artificial contraception be approved of opposition from both inside and when, in reality, I believe it is incredibly for married couples and their outside the Church. Pope Paul VI pro-woman. I would go as far as to say that it recommendations were strategically sought to protect the faithful and is the most pro-woman document in recent leaked to the media in order to build the world against what he foresaw as history. If the world had listened to Paul VI an expectation that the teaching the consequences of a contraceptive instead of ridiculing him, I believe life today would change. culture, namely, that it would: would be much better for women.

40 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG Choosing between work and motherhood Firstly, women wouldn’t have to choose between work and motherhood. The widespread availability of artificial contraception has brought with it an expectation that women would (and perhaps should) use contraception and delay motherhood for the purposes of study and career. A couple of years ago, the Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Obstetrics and Gynaecology sought to host a debate titled: Membership before Maternity Leave—Should Every Registrar Have a Mirena? (A Mirena is a contraceptive device that lasts for five years.) I know women who have lost jobs after falling pregnant with their third child because there was an unwritten rule amongst female corporate lawyers that, just like on Noah’s Ark, there was a limit of two. And in line with Pope Paul VI’s prediction that governments could a child. Contraception has enabled a impose the use of contraception on its vicious cycle of hormonal treatments Indeed, one of the great citizens, former MPs have lobbied for for women that can last half their lives ironies of Humanae Vitae requiring a woman to prove that she and can have devastating effects on is that it has been decried was using medium-term contraception their health. before applying for the dole. as being anti-woman when, Health risks in reality, I believe it is The effect on marriage incredibly pro-woman. I Fourthly, there would be fewer health Secondly, I believe more people would risks to women. The oral contraceptive would go as far as to say that get—and stay—married. If sexual pill brings with it health risks as it is the most pro-woman activity still had with it the potential mild as headaches, but as extreme as document in recent history. that a child would be conceived, it depression, blood clots and strokes. would not be treated so casually. By Women are meant to—literally— separating sex and babies, we have internalise the entire responsibility relationship. Pope Paul VI was right removed any need for commitment. for avoiding pregnancy, even to the when he foresaw that contraception Since 1968, marriage rates have detriment of their short-term and long- would lead to a reduction of women to dropped, and divorce and infidelity term health. Men are let entirely off the mere instruments for the satisfaction of rates have increased. At its height, hook when it comes to responsibility male desire. AshleyMadison.com, a “dating” website for their health. specifically for married people, boasted Over the years, much ink has been one million Australian members, or Male irresponsibility spilled over Humanae Vitae, and more one in eight of Australia’s married will be this year as we celebrate the population. Breakdowns in marriage Which leads us to my final point. 50th anniversary of its publication and can have a disproportionate effect on Separating sex from babies has led to the canonisation of Pope Paul VI. I women, who often bear the greater an expectation that women can, and hope that people will be encouraged financial hardship when a marriage should, be available for sex at any time. to read and study the document for ends. It has, as Archbishop Charles Chaput the themselves and be open to the OFM of Philadelphia wrote, “Released possibility of engaging with new, and The cycle of hormone therapy males—to a historically unprecedented yet, old, ideas.  degree—from responsibility” for their Our contraceptive culture means sexual activity. Rather than freeing You can read Humanae Vitae at women are encouraged to use women, contraception has introduced dow.sh/hv hormonal contraception during their a new issue—a generation of sexually most fertile years, and then, when their entitled men, many of whom have Monica Doumit is a columnist fertility has decreased, to use a different never had to control and restrain their for The Catholic Weekly set of hormones in order to conceive passions within a committed loving catholicweekly.com.au

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 41 Men’s ministry in the Diocese

BY JUDE HENNESSY

ne of the goals of the work of the Diocese’s Office of Renewal Oand Evangelisation is to address the growing disconnect between men of PHOTOS: JUDE HENNESSY all ages and faith. Attendance figures from the National Church Life Survey I really sensed the for our Diocese clearly show that the presence of the Holy attendance of males has dropped below Four weeks later, a reconnector 40%, and if children are taken out of the Spirit. I am keen to breakfast was also held in Wollongong data, the figures are even worse. become involved in a where Bishop Brian Mascord This evidence is supported by small group. I need this. encouraged the men in their faith to numerous studies and an array of journey together—especially in staying anecdotal evidence showing that many connected with ongoing menALIVE was also a good proportion of men who small groups so as to keep the flame of men often do not feel comfortable had little or no connection to Church faith burning strong in each other. in church. If and when they do open and a faith that they self-described as themselves up to faith, they want “lukewarm” or “dwindling”. The impact What’s next? practical, relevant teaching and trusting on so many men was profound. connections with other men who are The next diocesan weekend for men will willing to both support and challenge The weekend received very positive be held in the Macarthur region and them in their faith journey. feedback, including: hosted by the Campbelltown parish on • “It was great to hear real stories 4–5 August 2018. If the impact of the It is for this reason that the Diocese is from real men. Loved the format Illawarra weekend is anything to go by, forming an ever-closer bond with the and it taught me ideas how to men should do all they can to attend. menALIVE movement which will run communicate with my wife and menALIVE founder, Rob Falzon, will at least two weekends a year in various children.” also be attending. For more information, regions with different parishes hosting • “I really sensed the presence of the visit menalive.dow.org.au or contact the events.  Holy Spirit. I am keen to become [email protected] The first of these weekends was run in involved in a small group. I need the Illawarra on 5–6 May 2018 and was this. Please reach out!” Jude Hennessy is the director of the a great success with 56 men of all ages • “Great weekend. Much greater Office of Renewal and Evangelisation attending. Some were regular members insight into who I am and who I and the co-editor of Journey for the of their parish communities but there want to be.” Diocese of Wollongong.

a camping GROWING weekend for fathers and their teenage GOOD MEN sons (12–15 years) 3-5 NOVEMBER 2018 CATARACT SCOUT CAMP APPIN A son’s relationship with his father (or father figure) can be a powerful guiding force as he wrestles with the questions of what kind of man he is becoming. The most important ingredient in this relationship is time. Take time out together to get reconnected in an environment which fosters honesty, mutual respect and a hunger for more out of life.

CONTACT Jude Hennessy on (02) 4222 2407 or [email protected]

42 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG It is a strange, and perhaps inexplicable, paradox—to enjoy and adore one’s living children, while in the same moment longing to hold my absent child in my arms.

It is a strange, and perhaps inexplicable, paradox—to enjoy and adore one’s living children, while in the same moment longing to hold my absent child in my arms.

The mother of Jesus, when she presented her son to the Temple in Jerusalem, was told by Simeon that a sword would pierce her heart (Luke 2:35). While I do not think I can compare my suffering to hers, I feel like that sword has also carved out part of my heart, because my WHEN SOMEONE IS MISSING heart does indeed feel broken.

How can we mend a broken heart? Only with the healer of all wounds—Jesus.

A mother of three shares why Milestones creep up on me and linger Any mother knows that her heart is each Mother’s Day “pierces like a cold fog. always wherever her children are, and part of mine is no longer living day-to- I recall being unable to engage in her heart like a sword.” day with me. conversation, feeling like I could BY JOVINA JAMES barely taste the food on my plate. That Instead, part of my heart resides with Christmas Day was a very difficult day. my son in the place that is my rightful here is a heart condition called home—heaven. So, instead of my broken Since then, I have learnt that other Takatsubo’s Syndrome, which is also heart being a fatal wound for me, it is milestones also creep up on me and Tknown as the “Broken Heart Syndrome”. actually my reminder of who I am. It linger like a cold fog blurring the joy of Resembling the presentation of a is the most constant method I have of severe heart attack, the main causative the sunniest days. There is Christmas, recalling Jesus to mind and asking him event for the cardiac damage is usually and then there are birthdays, and even to bring me home to him and to my son, a supremely stressful event in one’s the day my baby daughter became in his perfect time. life. Often, a sudden death of a family forever older than my Theodore. member will precipitate the symptoms of These are the days when I wonder This has been no fatal wound, but a chest pain, breathlessness and collapse. what he would be like—how he would strangely healing one, because it leads Although the Broken Heart Syndrome experience this day? To wonder what me to Jesus. This healing has also helped usually improves with time, there is would make him laugh and what me to experience the joy that is watching no known medical therapy to help the would make him throw an irrational my little girl grow and flourish. How recovery, which makes me wonder— tantrum? can we mend a broken heart? Only with how does one mend a broken heart? the Healer of all wounds—Jesus. God is Mother’s Day is another one of those good. Life is good.  My heart is a broken one. Milestones milestones. It is a beautiful day to are difficult for me. I had never really celebrate the gift of motherhood. Yet, Jovina James has three children including understood people who say they find how can I properly celebrate when Teddy, who passed away. She works part- Christmas difficult, until my first one of the fruits of my labour is starkly time as a GP on the Gold Coast, and was Christmas after my eight-month-old son, absent? My first Mother’s Day after a regular guest speaker in the Diocese Theodore, died. It was a very difficult Theodore died was the first one where of Wollongong in the lead-up to World day for me—something I never thought I received a handmade gift from my Youth Day 2008. I would say about Christmas Day. I older son, and yet, looking at it, all remember constantly wishing he were I could think was, “I will never have This article first appeared as an opinion there—laughing, enjoying the madness anything like this from my beautiful piece in “Eternity News” in May 2018 and busyness of the day. Theodore.” eternitynews.com.au

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 43 Helping vital contributions women make in our young so many different capacities in our people to community, and it’s great to be able to do just that by surprising Kylie with this award.”

Kylie said she loves making a difference and felt “very honoured” to receive the award: “Working to serve others is what I get the most out of in life. I have always loved working with children. From playing with my cousins to coaching young hockey teams, I knew I wanted to be a teacher from a very young age.

“The teaching and umpiring worlds KYLIE JEYMOUR are so different, yet so similar. When DIOCESAN TEACHER you strip the two back, they are & CAMPBELLTOWN WOMAN OF THE YEAR both about the service of people. They are worlds that are defined by relationships where, if you work hard to establish respect and rapport, you gain the trust and credibility to enter people’s lives and make a difference.

“The set of skills I develop in one area continually assists me to be a better practitioner in the other area, and vice versa. Through various experiences in both, my confidence levels and self- belief have developed over the years.”

Faith Through all her dealings with others personally, professionally and in sport, Kylie says faith has always played an important guiding role in her life: “I come from a family with strong Gospel values and I have been influenced by many amazing, religious role models throughout my Catholic schooling, my teaching career and Kylie Jeymour lives for helping our young people to shine—whether it be in the beyond. classroom as a primary school teacher and leader of learning at the new “One of the main reasons I chose to St Francis Catholic College, Edmondson Park, or guiding athletes on local, teach in a Catholic school was to be national and international hockey fields as a world-class hockey umpire. able to pass my faith onto the children Although she likes the attention on the kids, not her, being awarded and families I come into contact with Campbelltown Woman of the Year 2018 has put Kylie—a parishioner from St and try to play my part in building the John the Evangelist Catholic Parish, Campbelltown—firmly in her own spotlight. kingdom of God.”

The teaching world BY JESSICA SPARKS Greg praised her generous contribution to the region’s sporting and education As the junior school leader of learning ylie was presented the award for sectors: “Kylie is an outstanding example at St Francis Catholic College, Kylie is K her leadership and exceptional of all of the many amazing women in responsible for leading the teaching achievement and dedication to our region who work every day to make and learning in Kindergarten to Year 4 teaching and hockey by the NSW Campbelltown a better place. at the school. Her focus is on “putting Member for Campbelltown, Mr Greg in place the best structures and Warren MP, at a recent St Francis “There are not many more important creating the best learning experiences school assembly. things we must do than recognise the for the children in our care”.

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“I love going to work and breaking and playing herself from the age of Highly-respected in her field, Kylie last new ground as we develop into the nine for Raby Hockey Club. She took year also received the prestigious award Diocese’s first K–12 school. Every up umpiring as a teenager. of Official of the Year at the NSW day is a new experience. I have learnt Sports Awards. so much from the talented and “When I was about 14, I was invited committed teachers that I work with, to an umpiring clinic to get to know Where to from here? as we try to cater for the learning the rules. It was attractive at the time and development of all our students because I knew getting to know the She might have now retired from through the full continuum of their rules would make me a better player international umpiring, but Kylie can’t schooling.” and I would earn five dollars a game!” part with the game completely. She still she said. “It ended up being something plays and umpires locally. Nonetheless, True to her humility, it is not awards I was quite good at and I haven’t really her focus has shifted to the growing or recognition that give Kylie the looked back since.” demands of her K–4 leadership role greatest sense of validation in her at St Francis. So what’s next for the work: “One of the most rewarding Hard work and talent with the whistle woman who loves working with saw Kylie rise through the hockey things about teaching is seeing how children so much? “I just got married ranks to umpire at a national level, and well students are doing years after [in April] so that’s very exciting. My from 2010 as an international hockey you have taught them. It is spine- next goal is to begin my own family!”  tingling to hear from students out of umpire at events including the Hockey the blue when they reach out to tell Champions Trophy in London and Jessica Sparks is a communications you they miss you or what they’ve Argentina, the 2014 Commonwealth officer for Catholic Education Diocese achieved since. The fact they think Games in Glasgow, and the 2016 of you so many years on is such a Olympic Games in Rio de Janeiro. of Wollongong. beautiful feeling.

“I recently heard from a past student who I taught in my first year of teaching. She had been cleaning out her room and found a note I'd written her all those years ago. She wrote to me thanking me for always believing in her and to let me know the impact I’d had on her as a person. Just gorgeous!” Bringing together People, Pedagogy and Place The sporting world As a young girl, Kylie grew up around the local hockey fields—first watching her father play, then picking up a stick

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 45 ISAIAH 41:10

2018 Diocesan Education Mass

BY JESSICA SPARKS

atholic Education Director of C Schools Peter Turner has called on teachers and staff across the Diocese PHOTOS: ELLE HOLDER-KEEPING to “be not afraid” at the 2018 Diocesan Education Mass. The Mass saw dozens To mark the beginning of his ministry with of dignitaries and over 800 educators The complex world of Catholic Education Diocese of Wollongong, from all corners of the Diocese fill Bishop Brian was presented with a gift on St John Vianney Co-Cathedral in 2018 can leave many of us behalf of all the schools and staff: From the Fairy Meadow for an evening of with reasons to be clouded Mountains to the Sea, a striking painting uplifting celebration during Catholic by well-known local Aboriginal artist and Schools Week. with uncertainty and even fear. [But] the 26,000 Elder, Uncle Kevin Butler. “We come together to celebrate unity of purpose, oneness, mission, commitment children and young people The vibrant artwork recognises the richness and energy for the faith, wellbeing, and we care for are more of our local Aboriginal storytelling, culture growth of our young people,” Peter told important than our fears. and connection, depicting a colourful array the congregation. “Catholic schools of Aboriginal Dreaming stories, images do great things, but perhaps like never and landmarks relating to the four regions before, Catholic educators need to be community and for the new bishop, and four nations of the Diocese (Dharawal, known for not being afraid. who spoke of bringing light and peace Tharawal, Yuin and Gundungurra). to others. “The complex world of 2018 can leave The wonderful, positive spirit of the many of us with reasons to be clouded “As teachers, each of us has been Mass and the gathering in the school hall with uncertainty and even fear. [But] chosen, and you have consciously afterwards were both characterised by a the 26,000 children and young people chosen to teach in the name of me, the strong sense of community and joy. It was bishop of this place—to represent me we care for are more important than a beautiful experience of song, prayer and our fears. I too, like you, will seek in all as the chief teacher of the Diocese, who celebration for all present—particularly things that matter most to be not afraid.” in turn, is a representative of the Great Teacher, the Great Rabbi, Jesus,” Bishop for new principals commissioned and Peter warmly welcomed a new school Brian, a former primary teacher himself, new teachers and staff who were specially year and the next chapter for the said. “We are working together to bring welcomed and blessed. Diocese under the leadership and the mandate of Christ to life, in this guidance of newly-ordained Bishop place, our Diocese, and at this time.” The event set the tone for the year of Brian Mascord. “The education learning ahead, inspiring our Diocese’s community stands ready to support “To you, our teachers, our support staff— educators to go forward faithfully lighting you, to encourage you and to help bring can I just say thank you for offering the the way for all students within their to life your hopes and dreams for the gift of faith. Thank you for trying to live Catholic school communities.  people of our wonderful Diocese,” he that gift of faith and witnessing to it. As told the bishop. we pray tonight, we pray for the gift of the Holy Spirit to be upon us so that we Jessica Sparks is a communications The large turnout was a strong show can continue to give life, hope, light and officer for Catholic Education Diocese of of support for our Catholic education love to those we encounter.” Wollongong.

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Bishop Brian joins 250 Christians in bringing unity and love. PHOTOS: JEREMY YUEN BY JUDE HENNESSY encouragement, “Maintain your faithfulness Prayer is a wonderful act in prayer and take your concern for the n Friday 25 May 2018, more than of acknowledging our welfare of your community, state, nation, 250 people from the Wollongong vulnerability, our weakness; and indeed the world, to the next level by Oand Shellharbour Council regions came putting your knees to the ground whilst together for a morning of fellowship of acknowledging that God also putting your shoulder to the wheel.” and unity at the annual Illawarra Prayer is ultimately in control. Breakfast. Members and leaders from over A number of awards were presented in THE HON ERIC ABETZ 30 different churches were in attendance thanksgiving to individuals from the region in a vibrant morning of prayer, worship who are unsung heroes in their quiet and sharing stories of faith. Green MLC of the Christian Democratic witness of faith and service. Following the Party, Bishop Peter Hayward of the awards, the gathering was led in prayer by While around 40 Christian leaders Anglican Wollongong region, and many key Church leaders including Bishop Brian from various denominations attended pastors, church leaders and Christian who led prayers of thanks and petition for Bishop Brian Mascord’s ordination in people from across the region. the people of the region of the Illawarra. February, this occasion provided further In closing, those gathered were reminded that opportunity for the bishop to get to The guest of honour and keynote opportunities for all denominations to come know many of the Christian leaders and speaker, Senator the Hon Eric Abetz, together in prayer and fellowship are a work pastors from a variety of denominations— spoke of his own faith and the influential of the Holy Spirit—the bringer of unity and enjoying breakfast together and nature of faith in our society, noting love—which is a powerful and perhaps the considering the wonderful things that that in Australia “more people still go to most convincing witness Christians can offer church than to the football of a weekend”. Christian people and churches do in the those who do not believe.  Illawarra. “Prayer is a wonderful act of Special guests included Lord Mayor acknowledging our vulnerability, our Jude Hennessy is the director of the Office Councillor Gordon Bradbery AM of weakness; of acknowledging that God is of Renewal and Evangelisation and the Wollongong, Mayor Councillor Marianne ultimately in control,” Senator Eric said. co-editor of Journey for the Diocese of Saliba of Shellharbour, the Hon Paul He concluded his talk with words of Wollongong.

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48 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG The work of catechists supported by new report

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A national survey of Australians conducted by Spokesperson for Christian SRE in NSW, Murray McCrindle in April 2018 has validated the wonderful Norman, says the survey figures “represent what work done by almost 5,000 Catholic catechists in a majority of Australians are thinking” and they public schools throughout NSW and the ACT. “endorse the importance of spirituality and programs like SRE within education”. The NSW Department of Members of all major faiths and Christian Education framework says, “Spiritual wellbeing relates denominations are now, more than ever before, to our sense of meaning and purpose.” united in their efforts to support each other in providing best practice Special Religious Education In each of our Catholic parishes, catechists do amazing (SRE) curriculums, training and resources, so that work making Jesus known and loved each week. We parents can confidently choose formation in faith are grateful for their simple witness by teaching and values for their children. children about the Gospel proclaimed by Jesus. christianSRE.com.au

JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 49 structural improvements that are ongoing—including the expansion of the maternity ward.

All of this was possible due to Catholic Mission supporters raising nearly $2 million for the appeal, and the arrival of the ambulance is welcome news. After Sr Mary shared her story with the Diocese, everyone wanted to lend their support—either through donation or prayer. I am proud that we could offer the support we did, which has helped ensure the safety of mothers and babies in the community.

In 2018, the Catholic Mission Church Appeal focuses on Myanmar, and carries the theme: Healing a nation through education. It tells the story of an “education revolution” in the The most vital delivery yet for country—part of the Myanmar Catholic Church’s push for peace in Ugandan maternity hospital a land which has been gripped by internal conflict and political struggles BY DAVID HARRISON June when she visited the Diocese for decades. to speak with schools, parishes and For more on that appeal and for t wasn't quite the delivery they are supporters about the state of maternal used to, but for Sr Mary Goretti updates on Catholic Mission’s work I health in her home in rural Uganda. with communities around the world, and her small staff at St Luke’s Health She told the story of a local woman, Centre in Bujuni, Uganda, it is one visit catholicmission.org.au or contact Evas, who lost her baby after riding for me on (02) 4222 2482.  that will save hundreds of lives. The hours on the back of a motorbike while maternal health centre—located three in labour. “I think if we get a vehicle hours from Kampala—can finally David Harrison is Catholic Mission’s it will really help us to save the life of celebrate the arrival of its long-awaited diocesan director for Wollongong. the mother and the baby,” Sr Mary ambulance which supporters in the said at the time. After a short customs Diocese of Wollongong helped to fund delay, that vehicle has now arrived, during last year's Catholic Mission Church Appeal. much to the relief of Sr Mary and her staff. Along with the ambulance, St Locals may recall meeting Sr Mary Luke’s received an ultrasound machine Goretti—who runs the centre—last and a humidicrib, in addition to key

50 | CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF WOLLONGONG Appointments Fr Antony Brennan (3 June 2018)— Clergy news 40 years ordination to the priesthood. Bishop Brian Mascord (Nov 2017)— We take this time to thank our clergy Fifth bishop of Wollongong. Fr Peter Tien (17 April 2018)—25 for the gift that they are to our Church years ordination to the priesthood. (Feb 2018)— and lives, and we invite you to continue Fr George Condookala to pray for the clergy in our Diocese: Chaplain at Wollongong Hospital and Retirements Wollongong Private Hospital. Bishop Emeritus Peter Ingham (Nov Fr Mark De Battista (Mar 2018)— Gracious and loving God, we 2017)—Fourth bishop of Wollongong. Priest to the chaplaincy team at the thank you for the gift of our University of Wollongong. Fr David O’Brien PP (March 2018)— clergy. Through them, we Parish priest of St Therese Parish, experience your presence in the Fr Peter Tien (May 2018)— West Wollongong. sacraments. Administrator of St Anthony’s Parish, Picton. Fr Bernard Dowdell (June 2018)— Help our clergy to be strong in Assistant priest at Lumen Christi their vocation. Set their souls on Fr Patrick Vaughan PP (May 2018)— Catholic Parishes Wollongong and fire with love for your people. Administrator pro tem of Holy Cross chaplain at Wollongong Hospital. Parish, Helensburgh. Grant them the wisdom, understanding and strength they Fr Andrew Granc OFM (May In memoriam need to follow in the footsteps 2018)—Assisting Holy Cross Parish, Fr Hugh Dowdell (19 Feb 2018)— of Jesus. Inspire them with the Helensburgh, with sacramental vision of your kingdom. Ordained a priest in the Diocese of ministry in the parish. Wollongong in 1992 and served in the Give them the words they need Fr Bryan Jones PP VG (May 2018)— parishes of Campbelltown, Thirroul, to spread the Gospel. Allow Vicar General for the Diocese of Port Kembla, Rosemeadow, Bulli, them to experience joy in their Wollongong. Shellharbour City and Port Kembla. ministry. CFC (22 April Fr Ken Cafe OFM (May 2018)— Br (Cyril) Victor Bell Help them to become Episopal Vicar for Canonical Services 2018)—aged 100 years. Respected instruments of your divine grace. colleague and identity at Edmund Rice for the Diocese of Wollongong. College, West Wollongong, for 44 We ask this through Jesus Christ, years and an esteemed member of the who lives and reigns as our Anniversaries Christian Brothers for 88 years. Eternal Priest. Bishop Emeritus Peter Ingham Fr Dan Neylon OFM (11 May 2018)— Amen. (12 July 2018)—Silver Jubilee (25th Respected member of the Franciscan Anniversary) of ordination to the Friars Community and warmly episcopate (bishop). remembered by the community at There have been a number of Minto and in Campbelltown. clergy appointments, anniversaries, Fr Michael Healy (16 June 2018)— retirements and bereavements: 50 years ordination to the priesthood. May they rest in the Lord’s peace.

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JOURNEY • WINTER 2018 | 51 I join with Bishop Brian Mascord, We wish William every blessing as he Bishop Emeritus Peter Ingham and undertakes his new role as full-time many others in the Diocese in gratefully grandfather to his eight beautiful acknowledging William’s hard work and grandchildren—including the newest commitment. He is a man of faith— addition, Ella, who arrived in February attending daily Mass at the Cathedral 2018. Thank you and farewell William! before starting work each day—and has provided wonderful leadership over the Daniel Hopper is the director of media past four years, being integral in so many and communications and co-editor of areas of the life of the Church, including: Journey for the Diocese of Wollongong. • Navigating the Diocese through the difficult waters of the Royal Commission; Good Friday Collection • Grappling with future planning and improving the governance and The annual Good Friday accountability structures of the Collection which supports the Diocese; Christian people in the Holy Land and provides for the upkeep • Overseeing key restructure and of sacred places was even more Thank you and farewell employment appointments such poignant this year with the as the director of development and William Walker continued violence and unrest in community engagement and the the region. director of child protection and BY DANIEL HOPPER safeguarding; The Diocese of Wollongong is On 29 June 2018, Mr William Walker • Overseeing the review process of the a strong supporter of the Good will officially retire as chancellor Office of Renewal and Evangelisation Friday Collection with $48,000 and executive officer of the Diocese coming off the back of the diocesan donated last year. of Wollongong. William joined the pastoral plan at a time of great Diocese in February 2014 as co- urgency in the Church; In a letter to the Diocese, Fr Carl Schafer OFM, Commissary of the chancellor and diocesan executive • Clearing the path to allow the Holy Land, Australia, writes, officer—a new position created to assist Diocese to try new and innovative “I am particularly grateful to the the bishop with his administrative and initiatives in areas such as youth Catholic people of Australia who pastoral responsibilities. ministry; give so generously each year to Prior to his appointment in the • Implementing a movement towards support the mission work of the Diocese, William was the director of professional staff appraisals and Church in the Holy Land.... your financial services for Sydney Catholic continuous improvement in the support is a meaningful sign of Schools where he played a major role Office of the Bishop; and the spiritual link which unites all in strategic planning in response to • Chairing countless committees Christians to Jerusalem and to the the need for additional schools and and meetings with a “legendary” land of Jesus.” resources. commitment to staying on time.

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BY ANNE KELLY On 3 June 2018, the We congratulate member, Warrawong Fraternity of the Secular Franciscan Order Margaret (Peg) McEntee OAM, who was installed president of (OFS) hosted a Come and See Australian Church Women (NSW event for Catholics interested Unit Inc) at an ecumenical service in learning more about the led by Bishop Brian Mascord at life of St Francis of Assisi. St Francis Xavier Cathedral in Warrawong Fraternity leader, Mr Wollongong on 31 May 2018. Paul Portelli, hosted the gathering which Diocese. We also wanted to inspire included a talk on Franciscan spirituality them to think about the possibility that On the same day, Peg also by local friar, maybe one of them has a vocation. received a papal award—Dame of Fr Leonard Testa OFM Conv. the Order of St Gregory the Great “It’s important to let Catholics know (see Page 40). Peg is a member Hoping to attract more vocations that we Secular Franciscans exist and of The Oaks branch of Catholic to the Order, the Fraternity invited have done so for more than 800 years Women’s League (CWL) and a the NSW/ACT promotions officer, and we would like to see the OFS exist former national president of the Leellen Lewis, to speak with for another 800 years with the Diocese League. Our members are most parishioners. remaining an active part of our story,” Leellen said. proud of her! “I spoke with members of the parish community about what it means to be “The Franciscan perspective to living a secular member of the Franciscan the Gospels is not a ‘one-size-fits- family. all’ approach. The specific way that Franciscan spirituality is lived depends “I think it is important for people to on the situation of each individual,” understand that joining the Order is Leellen said. a response to a call from God—it is a vocation. If you would like to know more about the “The OFS is not a prayer group. We Secular Franciscan Order, please contact wanted to let local Catholics know Leellen at [email protected] or on that the OFS are present in their 0411 800 526.

Hon Tim Fischer AC: We are also delighted to announce From the Riverina that our NSW State Executive has to Rome to Wollongong chosen to hold its state conference at the Novotel Hotel (North It was a full house on 13 April 2018, Beach, Wollongong) in September as Bishop Brian Mascord attended 2018. The theme of the conference the annual Wollongong Catholic is: Do not be afraid I will help Dinner Club dinner at Centro CBD you, from Isaiah 41:10. The in Wollongong, organised by the Knights of the Southern Cross. Michael Campbell, Hon Timothy Fischer opening Mass at St Francis Xavier AC, Jim Lyon and Bishop Brian Mascord. Cathedral, Wollongong, will be The guest speaker for this year’s celebrated at 6:00pm on Tuesday 4 event was the Hon Timothy a wonderful meal in fellowship, September. Fischer AC, who spoke on his time in and listen to a top-shelf guest Rome as Australia's first residential speaker. Previous speakers include For more information on the NSW ambassador to the Holy See. The Bishop Vincent Long OFM Conv State Conference or on CWL in title of his talk was: From the DD of Parramatta in 2017 and Ron the Diocese, contact Anne Kelly on Riverina to the Hub of Rome. Delessio (father of Sophie) in 2016. 0411 260 040 or [email protected] Tim’s speech was fantastic and a If you would like to learn more Anne Kelly is the president of great night was had by all 120 guests. about the Wollongong Catholic the Catholic Women’s League, The annual event—held after Easter— Dinner Club, please contact Diocese of Wollongong is a great occasion for members of Michael Campbell on 0490 022 313 cwlawollongong.org.au the Diocese to come together, enjoy or Jim Lyon on (02) 4228 6791.

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