LESBIAN NEWS VOL. 44 ∙ NO. 02 ∙ September 2018

KEIRA KNIGHTLEY & COLETTE THE POWER OF HERSTORY

LIZ BAXTER FILM DEBUT: FEMALE CONNECTION

CLEXACON IS COMING TO LONDON

ARETHA: THE UNDISPUTED QUEEN OF SOUL LN Contributors

Anne Laure Pineau At 32, Anne Laure is a Parisian journalist working for national magazines (ELLE, Paris-Match, Liberation) on many subjects, from the far-right and conservative movements in France, to the Angola Prison Rodeo in Louisiana. She has the absolute conviction that her job is political and can enlighten the human complexity. As a feminist, as an anti-racist and as a lesbian, she is working daily to give a space to the untold stories. (Photo: Juliette Robert).

Beth Shipp is the first Executive Director of LPAC, the lesbian Super PAC that builds the political power of lesbian, queer, bisexual and transgender women by electing candidates who champion LGBTQ rights, women’s equality and social justice. She is a political strategist with more than 20 years of experience working for women’s reproductive rights, Democratic candidates and progressive causes. Prior to joining LPAC, Ms. Shipp was the political director for NARAL Pro- Choice and worked on a variety of federal and state campaigns throughout the nation.

Carl Matthes is the current president of UGLA, Uptown Gay and Lesbian Alliance, an organization providing a support system for gay men, lesbians and education for individuals and the community He is a columnist on the Lesbian News, owned and published by his sister, Ella and her wife, Gladi. He was editor of the GLAAD/newsletter, and a GLAAD/LA representative on the Board. ln July, 2008, Carl was legally married to Carl Johnson, his partner of 50 years, by Los Angeles City Councilmember Jose Huizar. It was a unique gay/lesbian double ceremony as Carl’s sister Ella and her partner Gladi were also married by Jose.

Carla Ferrer Russo, PhD is a Professor of Natural Medicine, a Registered Yoga Instructor, and a pioneering Behaviorist & Life Coach in the field of transformation and consciousness for healthy lifestyle living. For over twenty years, Dr. Carla’s work has focused on sharing both her personal and professional experience addressing the whole being, mind, body and spirit; empowering profound personal and professional break-throughs for individuals and organizations throughout the United States and United Kingdom (EU).

Christin and Ashley Kelly-Brown are owners and wife team of LunaBella Makeup and Hair in Santa Barbara, CA. Originally from Oakland, CA. they met there at 17 years of age and have been together for over 12 years. Legally married in California on October 3, 2008, their company has since taken off. They absolutely love not only what they do but also how uniquely they work together.

Dian Katz works a variety of arenas. With a background in Marriage Counseling and a history as a professional performer, she’s LN’s Entertainment Editor and Self Help columnist. Dian’s also authored a book entitled: Love Hurts· A Spiritual Journey to Wholeness. She sometimes works the motivational speaking circuit. Dian’s an award winning drummer with her own rock band. Out of all the many hats she wears, performing and writing are her biggest passions. Dina Evan, PhD is a noted speaker and veteran activist for LGBT Women’s and Human Rights. She is a professional counselor and spiritual coach working with individuals, couples and organizations from coast to coast. She has authored three books, Inspiration Cards, Calendars and Meditation CD’s. She provides tools for creating successful relationships which she believes are the path to consciousness. Dina feels the highest assignment today is simply waking up. (602) 997-1200 • www.drdinaevan.com

Gladi Adams, PhD is a native New Englander who was recruited in Boston by the Los Angeles Unified School District to teach English in L.A. She studied at Boston University, Cal State Northridge, California Western and UCLA. She retired as a secondary school principal after 35 years in the system. She is married to Ella Matthes, publisher, and they have been working on the LN together since 2005.

John Esther For nearly a dozen years, Movie Editor John Esther has been writing for Lesbian News. Over time, he has written more than 100 articles for LN on film, music, theater, ~ and culture. His monthlymovie column, Eye C, is currently the longest consecutiverunning - movie column in LN. John also contributes articles to numerous other publications, plus his own blog. John is currently a Board Member of the Gay and Lesbian Entertainment Critics Association (GALECA).

Juno Parreñas, PhD has been a regular monthly columnist at the Lesbian News since 1997, when she was seventeen years old. Since then, she has lived in three continents, five countries, ten cities, and has three degrees: a Bachelor’s from UC Santa Cruz, a Master’s from the University of Amsterdam, and a PhD from Harvard University. When she’s not writing about sexuality, politics, pleasure, culture, desire, and social relations, she works on her research involving orangutans.

Lynda Montgomery was born in Long Beach, a small town in Canada. She loves a parade, so she moved to Long Beach California, a big town, so she didn’t have to be all alone in the Gay Pride parade! She is an activist for animal rights and gay rights, giving priority to gay animals! As a stand-up comic she has survived many dive bars, festivals, and comedy clubs. She is currently trying to get booked onto the “Olivia Cruises” because she heard it’s a great place to meet women!

Mona de Crinis grew up in a world without Xbox or Netflix, when tweeting was something birds did and “Pinterest” was a bad typo. She relied on her fertile imagination for fun quickly discovering that words threaded together could create a vibrant tapestry of expression. This awareness sparked a passion and subsequent career. For more than 20 years, she wrote and edited for regional and niche publications. She has authored over 100 published articles. Mona lives in Palm Springs with partner, Lori, and four furry kids.

Mona Elyafi has been writing celebrity magazine profiles, entertainment news and lifestyle columns for two decades. She currently writes for the Huffing ton Post, and serves as the West Coast correspondent for Diva Magazine (Dubai’s leading Women’s fashion magazine) writing 1!11 pieces on Kim Kardashian, Kimora Lee Simmons and Denise Richards. Born in Beirut, Lebanon, raised in Paris, France, residing in Los Angeles, Elyafi has spent 20 years working in entertainment publicity, heading her own PR Company, ILDK Media. She holds a Master of Arts in journalism from New York University. Morag Hillsinger Reba Birmingham is our LN poet, writing until recently under the Nom de Plume Morag Hillsinger. She is also a practicing lawyer and an author with Regal Crest Publishing. Her debut novel, Floodlight, is now available on Bella Books, Amazon and Kobo. It is the first in a series about the LGBT characters that inhabit the fictional town of Merryville California. It is quirky and fun. The sequel will be released in 2018.

Nat Burns is an award-winning novelist and journalist who lives and writes in Albuquerque, New Mexico. She has authored novels in several genres for four different publishers and has just released her eleventh novel, a lesbian romance called Lights of the Heart. Her shorter works and essays have appeared in more than fifty publications and she’s been writing for LN since 2009. Burns is now writing full time after retiring from her career as editorial systems coordinator for a medical publishing company. www.natburns.com

Nikki McCauley was born in Pittsburgh, PA. She graduated from Robert Morris University and spent ten years with Warner Bros. Studios in Burbank, CA. Accomplishments: PilotGodless- 2010- 2012; CD- Spoken Word 2005; Warner Bros. Writer’s Workshop 2003/2004; Poetry Book- Inditing Poetry 1999. Scripts: Law & Order; The Practice; Cold Case; CSI Las Vegas.

Robin Tyler is a pioneer activist in the LGBT community. In the 1970’s, she became the first ‘out’ lesbian or gay comic on television, albums and in concert. In addition to 25 Women’s Music and Comedy Festivals, Robin produced the main stages for 3 OD of the LGBT Marches on Washington. Robin and her wife, Diane Olson, were the first lesbian plaintiffs to file the lawsuit that brought marriage equality to California and were the first to marry in Los Angeles County.

Sally Sheklow came out in 1973 and has been with her “wifey” for 25 years. They live in Eugene, Oregon with their two cats. Sally’s “Living Out” column first appeared in Lesbian News in 1999, and twice won both the Houston Press Club’s Lone Star Award for best magazine column and Best of Eugene’s “Best Writer” award. Sally teaches Queer Studies at Portland State University, performs with the all-lesbian improv troupe WYMPROV!, and makes art out of old buttons.

Shawn Ryan is a lot of things. He’s an Actor/Singer/Writer/Director and Camp Director but fancies himself a Dancer/Poet/Lyrical Savant/Brother/Son/and Terrific Husband. His greatest wish is that someday Barbara Walters will come out of retirement and make him cry on ABC. He lives in a state of adoring bliss with his husband, actor John Ainsworth, and their furry children, Mr. Kitty and Gazpacho the Chihuahua. It seems as though things couldn’t get much better, but day by day, they to do. Follow him on www.shawn-ryan.com

Sherron Mills, N.P. has been a lesbian health care practitioner and activist for many years. In 1980 she co-founded Lyon-Martin Women’s Health Services, the country’s first non-profit clinic to serve the lesbian community. She then went on in 1984 to launch Pacific Reproductive Services to provide sperm bank, fertility and insemination services primarily to Ill lesbians. Knowing that many of her clients would greatly value the opportunity for their children to meet their sperm donors, should they wish to do so, she was an early pioneer in recruiting men who would contractually agree to meet a child at least once after he or she reaches 18. As a result, PRS today has more ‘Willing to be known” sperm donors than any other U.S. sperm bank. Stephanie Papadakis is originally from southern California. Stephanie knew she wanted to live in San Francisco from the age of 10 (but had no clue she liked women). When she’s not working at a lesbian travel company in SF, she spends her time cooking delicious paleo meals, climbing rugged mountains, exercising daily, researching random trivia knowledge, making “dream lists” on Airbnb, and planning day-, weekend- and weeklong dates with her partner, Sara.

Sweet Baby J’ai is a writer, singer, composer, arranger, educator, and the Artistic Director ofthe Palm Springs Women’s Jazz Festival. A creative force on the music scene for over two ~ decades, she tours the world with her genre-defying work, which both embraces and expands - jazz tradition. She has worked in various capacities, including talent buyer for major music events throughout the country. She also serves as Creative Managing Director for the Educational Theatre Institute.

Toni Hart has had many careers, including her favorite- freelance writing. Early on she was a child actress and after college, became a designer of women’s & children’s fashions. After a pause to have three children, she turned to Mortgage Banking, retiring years later as VP/Administrator of the mortgage Dept. She’s become a hard working volunteer for many venues. To support her wonderful gay daughter, her attention is now zestfully supporting the LGBT cause.

Victoria Bearden has practiced astrology for over 30 years, with clients across the country and abroad. To set up a personal consultation you can call her at 760-634-1028 or visit her website at www.astrologervic.com September 2018 CONTENTS

LESBIAN NEWS

COVER STORY KEIRA KNIGHTLEY & COLETTE The power of herstory By Joseph F. Nacino

FEATURE

LIZ BAXTER FILM DEBUT: FEMALE INSIDE LN CONNECTION The first lesbian contestant on “Love Connection” is back with HOTSPOTS a brand new project. By Michel Khordoc READY FOR FALL

POETRY WORDS ON A PLATE CLEXACON IS COMING TO LONDON Queer women’s stories and voices on the big and small FEMASTROLOGY screen front and center. SEPTEMBER 2018 By Michel Khordoc

LOL QUEER WOMEN BATTLING COMING OUT TO MOM 1959 STYLE GENDER BARRIERS Dolores Maggiore’s Love and Lechery at Albert Academy By Dolores Maggiore LUCY AND GAIL 15th Anniversary Party

Travel FALL IN LOVE WITH KAUAI THIS FALL Follow Us Online! The ultimate destination in Hawaii By Wyxie Carolina LESBIANNEWS.COM

Let us know LIFESTYLES what you think. Notes From Nat ARETHA: THE UNDISPUTED QUEEN OF SOUL A talented artist worthy of much more than a little respect By Nat Burns

Book Review JESSICA KINGSLEY PUBLISHERS MAKE A DIFFERENCE On track to grow to more than forty books on gender diversity by the end of 2018 By Julia Zullo

Spirituality A MORNING MANTRA By Dina Evan, PhD COLUMNS

Words that Make Sense WELL, SUMMER’S ALMOST OVER This year has just sped by. Did I accomplish anything? By Toni Hart

Positive Reflections ABSENTMINDEDNESS CAN BE DETRIMENTAL TO HEALTH Have you ever NOT been paying attention and ended up doing something ridiculously stupid? By Dian Katz, MS

Dyke Musing I YEARN FOR ECSTASY By Sue Moore

KEIRA KNIGHTLEY & COLETTE The power of herstory By Joseph F. Nacino

n this age of #MeToo and #TimesUp, premiere at the Sundance Film Festival last Hellman’s Children’s Hour on West End to Emile as women continue to struggle to find January 20, 2018. Since then, it’s been picked Zola’s Thérèse Raquin on Broadway. the strength to tell their stories without up for release in the US this September and the being drowned out by men’s voices, the UK by next year. In an interview with Variety Magazine, Knightley life of twentieth-century French novelist said that having done a lot of period films like Sidonie-Gabrielle Colette—who went on The Duchess or Anna Karenina, she felt guilty to earn a Nobel Prize in Literature in 1948— BRINGING WOMEN’S STORIES TO LIFE about it for years, “like it was something that I should serve as an inspiration for us women. should try to shake off.” The selection of Knightley to play Colette is IFortunately for us, someone has turned the story appropriate. The actor’s repertoire of films has “Then I realized that these were the films I’ve of Colette, as she’s better known, into a period ranged from Guinevere in King Arthur to Pride always loved watching. I think some people find film starring Keira Knightley and supported and Prejudice’s Elizabeth Bennet. Of course, escapism through science fiction or fantasy, by Dominic West, Denise Gough, Eleanor she’s quite well-known as Elizabeth Swann and I suppose my escapism into another world Tomlinson, Fiona Shaw, and Aiysha Hart. in Disney Film’s the Pirates of the Caribbean has always been through period drama. It’s nice movie series, but she also recently played Anna that in my 30s I can finally admit that,” she said. Colette—directed by Wash Westmoreland Karenina in a movie with the same name. and written by Wash Westmoreland, Rebecca Asked why she wanted to do Colette, another Lenkiewicz, and the late Richard Glatzer—had She’s also done stints on stage, from Lillian period piece, she said in the same interview: “It’s wonderful to play inspiring women and to get their stories and their voices out there. Within her writing, Colette was questioning the idea of gender and the idea of what was naturally feminine as opposed to society’s take on being feminine.”

Knightley’s response isn’t surprising as she brings a lot of women’s stories to life with her roles—regardless of whether these women are inspiring or not. These include period films like Bennet, Karenina, and even Lady Georgiana (in The Duchess), to modern takes like soccer- loving Jules Paxton (in Bend It Like Beckham) and the gun-toting Domino Harvey (in Domino).

THE KISS THAT STARTED A RIOT

The French writer Colette is also known for bringing women’s stories to life, though a lot of it were semi- or quasi-autobiographical, given that these stories were based on her experience or perspective.

Born on January 28, 1873 in the village of Saint-Sauveur-en-Puisaye in Yonne, Burgundy, Colette—or her full name, Sidonie-Gabrielle Colette—was the daughter of Jules-Joseph Colette and Adèle Eugénie Sidonie, or better known as Sido.

She married critic and writer Henry Gauthier- Villars (also known as “Willy”) in 1893, a man who was fourteen years older than her. Henry was also a notorious libertine in Paris who pushed Colette to start her own sexual affairs with both men and women.

Called by some a con artist, Henry also didn’t write any of the material attributed to him though he was willing to take credit for the work. Initially, he took the recognition for Colette’s popular Claudine novels and when she wanted to take ownership of her work, Henry refused.

Colette separated from Henry in 1906, but because she had no access to her earnings of the Claudine books, she had to earn her keep. She also had a lot of relationships with women during period, the most famous being with Mathilde de Morny, Marquise de Belbeuf (known as “Missy”). One time, she shared an onstage kiss with Mathilde at the Moulin Rouge that almost caused the audience to riot. She married Henry de Jouvenel, the editor of the French newspaper Le Matin, in 1912, and they had a daughter Colette de Jouvenel in 1913. However, this marriage ended in a divorce in 1924 because of Jouvenel’s infidelities and Colette’s own affair with her sixteen-year-old stepson, Bertrand de Jouvenel. She went on to marry Maurice Goudeket, who was sixteen years younger than her.

Through this period, she wrote some of her best works like Cheri and Gigi, and she was acclaimed as Frances’ greatest woman writer. She died on August 3, 1954 and—while she was refused a religious funeral because of her divorces—she was given a state funeral.

A PERIOD FILM OF A PAINTING

The film Colette only covers that phase of the writer’s life when she had discovered herself in the fin de siècle bohemian scene in Paris.

Defiant and gorgeous, Knightley plays Colette with her usual aplomb, whether as the wide- eyed young bride to Henry (the always smirking West) or the sharp and whip-smart writer who takes the Paris salons by storm and wants the recognition due to her talents.

In this adaption of Colette’s life, the movie begins with Knightley as the “awakening” Colette. The pacing then moves quickly, shifting to the seething war between Colette wanting to break free and Henry wanting to keep his money- maker under this thumb.

The dialogue between the two certainly crackles, especially as Colette keeps catching Henry with his infidelities. While it’s hard to find any empathy for Henry, West adds the right touch of weaknesses so that the character appears human rather than outright dastardly.

To get even with Henry, she takes up with women lovers, including the androgynous aristocrat Mathilde (Gough) who dresses like a man. Moreover, this film doesn’t stint on Colette’s love for other women as well, showing her affair with Georgie Raoul-Duval (Tomlinson), the American socialite from Louisiana.

The other main character in this movie is the gorgeous Parisian settings, as the cast sweep in and out of the many scenes in the City of Lights. It’s like watching one of those Parisian Impressionist paintings come to life before you. With costumed films like these, it’s always a treat for the eyes when you watch them.

COLETTE AT THE VANGUARD

Knightley’s excellent portrayal of Colette shines a spotlight on this great French writer. But it’s really Colette’s story that makes us sit up and watch this movie intently: after all, it’s a story of how a woman had to stand up and make her voice—and talent—heard.

While it makes us depressed thinking that whether during Colette’s period or ours, we’re still struggling in a world that doesn’t believe in the excellence of women and prefers the mediocrity of men, we’re glad to know that even back then, we had women like Colette at our backs.

And if there were social media platforms back then, we’re sure that Colette would be at the forefront leading her sisters with hashtags like #MeToo and #TimesUp as well. TOP

LIZ BAXTER FILM DEBUT: FEMALE CONNECTION The first lesbian contestant on “Love Connection” is back with a brand new project. By Michel Khordoc

iz Baxter made history last year by a similar personal experience. story. being the first openly lesbian contestant on the iconic game show Liz, an out lesbian, and Kylie (played by Liz Baxter wanted to create something that LOVE CONNECTION airing on Fox. Tennile Goosic), a questioning heterosexual, showed a different angle to the typical “straight are neighbors. When they first meet, there is girl falls for a gay girl” story. “Female Connection” The show was rebooted last summer an undeniable attraction between them. Their shows that there is beauty in being vulnerable with Andy Cohen and featured Liz searching for chemistry is immediately apparent even to and putting yourself out there. love in the LA lesbian scene. Kylie’s boyfriend Matt. The two girls fall in love and Matt is soon out of the picture. But despite A fervent gay rights activist, Baxter is devoted LNow the smart, sexy and witty Indianapolis all their passion, Kylie continually pulls away, to make a difference and inspire change native is back with a brand new project, a short fighting the reality that she is in love with a promoting women empowerment, diversity, and called “Female Connection”, which is already woman. In the end, Kylie’s fear of disappointing inclusion. Her hope is that this short film is just creating quite the buzz. her family is too great and she leaves Liz. Now, one more piece of relatable LGBTQ content out she must live with the heartache of true love there that might reach someone who needs to Making the rounds at film festivals, “Female lost. feel understood. Connection” is set to screen at Moving Parts Film Festival; Cinema Diverse; The Palm Springs Directed by Adrienne Levy and written by Baxter, One of America’s favorite lesbians sat down LGBTQ Film Festival; Outflix Film Festival; “Female Connection” exposes the idea that with The Lesbian News to speak about her Florence Queer Festival; and The Barcelona when you give in to fear, all is lost. The track short film, her life post-Andy Cohen’s “Love International LGBTQ Film Festival. “Stay a Little Longer” by Lost Boy Crow carries Connection”, and the importance of continuing the entire short film adding palpable emotions to sound the alarm for the need for more LGBTQ Baxter, who solely funded the short, was inspired in showing the heartbreak on both sides of the representation in entertainment. Lesbian News: What inspired you to want to LB: I feel that most everyone can relate to the the perfect fit for this project. She made my make a short film? feeling of loving someone who might love you vision come to life and I am so grateful for her. Liz Baxter: About a year ago I was creating a back but isn’t ready or doesn’t actually want to lot of YouTube videos and I used to write out be with you. It’s different from unrequited love LN: How important was your collaboration in ideas for content in my journal. One idea was to but hurts the same... if not worst because the having your vision executed authentically? make a tell-all video about a recent experience feeling is returned but their desire to commit LB: When you are making a film that is only (that I thought was common and relatable) that isn’t there because of fear or some other factor. ~4min, every second is important and impactful. I had with a woman. Around the same time, I I hope that people can be reminded that this isn’t Adrienne and I spend hours and hours discussing saw Ruby Rose’s short film and a few of Hayley because you aren’t good enough, it just means our vision and then how we would make it Kiyoko’s music videos and I loved the stories that that the other person isn’t there. Whether they happen on camera. We had to make a lot of they were telling in wordless short film format. aren’t comfortable enough with themselves, logistics and plot changes because of filming I then thought that my story would be really fun scared, ashamed—it is not a reflection of you. restrictions - always with the goal of maintaining to make into a short film format instead of a Whether it’s related to sexuality or otherwise. the integrity of the story. That being said, the YouTube tell-all. It started from If you are being true to who you are and being details in the film aren’t the same at all as what there! vulnerable, you might feel crushed at the moment actually happened in my life but the sentiments but something better is waiting and there was a and overarching story are definitely captured. LN: In a few words, what is “Female lesson that you needed to learn. I also want Connection” about? people to remember the pain that can be stuck LN: What is your most cherished memory LB: Female connection depicts the development long term with the person who isn’t able to be from the shoot? of a connection between two women (hence the vulnerable. LB: Great question! This was my first time title). It reflects the complexity of sexuality and writing anything I’m acting in. the roller coaster of emotions that comes when LN: How did you find filmmaker Adrienne you fall for someone who isn’t ready to “show Levy? LN: Female Connection almost plays out like up”. LB: We go to the same CrossFit gym! I had a music video, can you explain the choice of known her for some time from seeing her around having music carry the entire short? LN: What do you hope your audience walks the gym but not that well. I reached out to have LB: Music elicits so much emotion! When there away feeling? coffee and chat and immediately I knew she was is music and no words the view can feel the story as they are watching. Also, with no words, viewers can have different experiences and different takeaways, which I think it totally ok. I think it gives people time to relate to the story and not get too caught up in the details. It does feel like a music video and I like that because music videos are awesome :)

LN: The short is successfully traveling the film festival circuit with a slew of festivals already secured including Barcelona and Italy. How do you think the international audience will receive the film? What is the universal message that seems to connect (pun intended) audiences around the world? LB: I think that continuously creating and sharing LGBTQ content is so important in the US AND also internationally. I have spent a lot of time in Italy and there is definitely not as much of a gay community or overall tolerance/understanding as there is in the US (Or at least most parts of the US). I was especially excited to be a part of the Florence Queer Film Fest for this reason! And also because I now have a good excuse to go back to Italy! But really, I think the more relatable LGBTQ content that is available to people, the more others in the closet or feel shame will realize that they are far from alone. I really hope all of the Euro lezzies will dig the film!

LN: Any plans to turn this into a feature film? LB: Not unless someone approaches me wanting to collaborate... any takers? Haha!

LN: You made a big splash a year ago as the first lesbian contestant on Andy Cohen’s Love Connection. What’s the biggest lesson you learned from it? LB: The biggest lesson was that I am only one person and one type of lesbian - I cannot come close to representing an entire community of LGBTQ women. But, that’s ok! I learned to be proud of being vulnerable and sharing my story because it matters. All of our stories matter.

LN: And btw, have you now found your love connection? LB: Yes! I am in a relationship now and have never been happier. Turns out, I didn’t need to go on National Television to find Love. :)

LN: What’s next for Liz? LB: Getting back into some blogging and YouTubing but mostly just living my life as a dog/cat mom, selling medical devices, lifting heavy weights, eating delicious food, spending time with my GF, and traveling the world. I am not working on a film or a big creative project at the moment! But, I love meeting new people, traveling, and trying new experiences and it always seems to lead me to the next project or experience. I am confident that the universe will deliver something into my lap at some point in the near future. Stay tuned.

Where can our readers watch “Female Connection”? LB: You will be able to view “Female Connection” exclusively on the AfterEllen website in early September. After that, I will make it available to be viewed on my YouTube channel. Follow me on IG (@LizBinLA) for exact dates.

Anything else you want to add? LB: Share! Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and share your story in any format that you want. In person, on social media, etc. You never know whose life you might impact.

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CLEXACON IS COMING TO LONDON Queer women’s stories and voices on the big and small screen front and center By Michel Khordoc

lexaCon, the largest multi-fandom event for LGBTQ women & allies, is going across the pond this Fall for the first time ever kicking off ClexaCon London.

Building from the massive success of ClexaCon, Cwhich has taken place in Las Vegas, NV for the past two years, the European edition will bring together in London the best in queer television, movies, books, blogs and more.

The highly anticipated pop-up event will take place at the Novotel London West (Hammersmith International Ctre,1 Shortlands, Hammersmith, London W6 8DR) November 3-4, 2018. The London chapter, while a smaller, more intimate version of the main event held annually in Las Vegas that hosts 4,000+ LGBTQ women and allies, represents a key geographical expansion for the iconic Con. Focusing on a more curated experience for its European attendees, ClexaCon London is committed to raising awareness about the differences in creative spaces and support for LGBTQ women in the UK in comparison to the US to inspire more LGBTQ women to create more content.

LGBTQ+ representation matters now more than ever. While there seems to be an overwhelming move towards diversity with LGBTQ-centric narratives and characters popping up in movies these past few years, still major studios are remaining behind when it comes to fully embrace a culture of inclusion.

In fact, GLAADS’s annual Studio Responsibility Index (SRI) recently noted a drop in the representation of LGBTQ people in films in the past year. ClexaCon Directors Danielle, Ashley, Heidi, and Holly

By allowing the LGBTQ+ community to tell their Much like its US counterpart, ClexaCon London stories on the small and big screen, we not only High on the agenda at the UK Con is the urgent will gather under one roof the stars behind a slew allow viewers to have a more accurate view of need to listen to LGBTQ+ voices to create more of unique and original queer-centric narratives society but as well give LGBTQ+ individuals diverse content and to put queer female stories and LGBTQ-themed programs. the chance to see themselves as integrated front and center. members of said society and showcase the Celebrating the illustrious female individuals who universality of our lived experiences. To that end, ClexaCon London will feature a make the entertainment industry’s progressive packed agenda of panels, meet and greets, and prolific LGBTQ community so powerful and Sure, many Cons claim to be different, innovative photographs, and workshops from an elite diverse, ClexaCon London’s Celebrity roster and disruptive in some ways, but ClexaCon not community of LGBTQ game-changers, industry includes Elise Bauman (Camilla, Almost Adults), only talks the talk but walks the walk, genuinely tastemakers, media influencers, and actors. Natasha Negovanlis (Camilla, Almost Adults), pushing the envelope forward for female Briana Venskus (Supergirl, The Walking LGBTQ+ representation in front of and behind Aside from fan panels (including UK Wynonna Dead), Jamie Clayton (Sense8), Mandahla the camera. Earp Fan panel), the event will also offer Rose (Forever Not Maybe, All About E), Hanan content creation panels, acting panels as well Kattan, Shamim Sarif, among many others. Ashley Arnold, Danielle Jablonski, and Holly as academic panels. Winebarger, the masterminds behind ClexaCon, “Whether you are a fangirl, a creator, an activist, are actively working to shift conventional thinking Discussing the future of diversity, inclusivity and or all of the above, ClexaCon offers something by continuing to advance the conversation about intersectionality in entertainment the panels will for everyone,” said Holly Winebarger. female representation in the film & TV world. be covering a wide range of timely and trending topics from women’s voices (“Placing ourselves Dedicated to lead the push for diversity, “We hope attendees leave ClexaCon London in the narrative: Queer Women and Fanfiction”) equality, and the inclusion of LGBTQ+ women feeling empowered. We want them to know to non-binary & gender conforming people in entertainment, ClexaCon London brings this industry, like all industries, is in desperate representation (“I have a Que(e)ry: where non- Europe’s diverse community of queer women need of more diverse voices, “said Danielle binary and gender non-conforming people fit together, providing a safe space and a valuable Jablonski. within gendered, queer spaces), among others. platform to amplify their voices and celebrate their many cultural identities. An empowering “Their voice matters. Pick up a camera, grab a In addition, the organizers have added a London experience both professionally and personally. pen, start writing, start creating because there Tour on Friday, renting a bus and filling it with are other people who care about what you have as many LGBTQ women as possible. For more information go to: to say,” added Ashley Arnold. https://clexa-con.com/london/ TOP

COMING OUT TO MOM 1959 STYLE Dolores Maggiore’s Love and Lechery at Albert Academy By Dolores Maggiore

n Dolores Maggiore’s Love and Lechery “You know, Mom, I really like Katie.” at Albert Academy, sixteen-year-olds “I’m so glad, you’ve finally found a good friend. Pina and Katie anticipate four blissful, sex-filled years of rooming together at “Listen! Katie...” Albert Academy in 1959 after solving a murder mystery and the mystery of “Yes.” “them” the previous summer in Rainbow Award “Well, we’re really close.” Winner Death and Love at the Old Summer Camp. Hot and heavy anticipation until they “Have you gone and had a fight with her? You Iencounter lecherous Headmistress Craney always have to start something.” She reached who blackmails Pina: submit to me or face your for more salt. mother and shock therapy as a lesbian. Pina “Stop! We haven’t had a fight. Nothing like that. braves the fateful discussion with her mother by Katie and I, well, it’s like I love her.” herself, foiling Craney’s master plan.

“Mmm. Pass the sugar, please.” Coming Out to Mom 1959 Style “You know, like l-o-v-e. We didn’t mean for it to happen.” I wondered how to begin: Gee Mom, I’ve got to tell you something important or…? “That’s natural, like sisters.” “We’re not sisters.” “So you’ve gone and slept with her?” “So. Now you’ve got a reputation?” “Of course. But, close, that way.” “Slept?” “Everybody likes us. Well, they liked us. Then “Well, not platonic…” “You know what I mean.” something went crazy with Dorotea. And Miss Craney—she’s sick!” “How’s that, honey?” “No, Mom, I don’t. I love Katie. She’s one of those girls, too good to be true. And so is her “And you and Katie?” “I’m saying I like her like a boy, like I’m her dad.” boyfriend.” “Please, you’ve just got to go on loving Katie the “What does he think of this?” way you always have.” I sobbed softly before “Oh, that can’t be.” asking, “Can you still love me?” “He’s fine with ‘this,’ and so is Joe. And they’re “That can be. It is.” fine together!” “Oh, honey. I do love you. I’m stunned… confused.” As she reached for my hand, she “Pina!” She stared at me, as if checking to see “Oh. Oh? Oh, Jesus, Mary, and Joseph.” sighed. “You may be right about my friend Rosa if I had breasts and girl features. She looked and maybe Daddy’s sister Athena, but...” down at her lap to brush off imaginary crumbs. “Remember, ‘too good to be true’. You agreed ‘one-in-a-million.’ Mom, you’re crying?” “Aunt Athena? Really? But you like her...and “Mom, I think I’ve fallen in love with Katie. There, she’s my...my godmother.” I’ve said it.” “I know there are people like that.” I unfurled myself out of my snail position. And A far-away look crossed her face. She looked “Like me?” slid across the table to hug my mother. We both up, tears in her eyes. cried. It was a good time to end for the evening. “But you’re supposed to get married. Those “Oh my. Some girls are like that, just too good other girls got married. Well, one did. And the Dolores Maggiore is the author of award-winner to be true. And we stay bosom buddies the rest other...” Death and Love at the Old Summer Camp and of our lives.” Love and Lechery at Albert Academy. She “That one, Rosa? Divorced immediately; her “Yeah. Kind of--” I covered my face with my husband was homosexual.” lives in Portland, OR. Visit her at: http://www. trembling hands. maggiorequeeries.com. We sat in silence. My mother whimpered a bit “Wait. You don’t mean...” in the emptied dining room. A sweet waitress-- looking homosexual with her strange, not-quite- TOP “Yes.” pixie hairdo—her eyes seemed to read my whole story and to blink approval. “Not one of them?” She held her breath. My mother’s voice gently cut the air. “Why?” “Yes.” I stopped short of saying, I am, what? A lesbian? A queer? “Why what?” I asked. “It happens. They don’t know why.” “We didn’t raise you that way.” “No,” she said, “why tell me now?” “What way?” I blew out my breath and sank even further “Don’t get smart with me, miss! You’re not sick, down onto the seat of the bench. “Mom, Katie’s like them.” roommate has a crush on her and lied to Head Mistress Craney about things....” I scrambled to “They? They are not sick. I...” latch onto a story, any story.

“Sick or not, what would people think of your “Oh, so everyone loves Katie?” That came out father and me?” of her mouth with more hurt than I expected.

“You didn’t do anything wrong.” “Mom, you admitted Katie was really your ideal daughter. “Then wipe that thought from your head. You tell Katie you made a mistake; you like boys, I “Well… and that Dorotea named you as the know you do. That boy two summers ago--” pervert?”

“Billy? God! Now you want me to sleep with I really didn’t get the depth of my mother’s hurt boys?” and anger. All I could whimper was, “What?”

“Who said anything about sleeping with boys?” “You know, I never liked that Dorotea.”

“Uh…” “What? Mom, she’s depressed and doesn’t like it when other people look better than she does.”

LUCY AND GAIL 15th Anniversary Party

ucy and Gail, long-time producers of In 2010 Dinah in Color hit the road and became women’s events, are hosting a 3-day more of a vacation than a weekend party, and as party in Las Vegas at the South much a cultural event as a social event. There Point Hotel, September 27-29, 2018 were still parties but now there were authors to celebrate 15 years of finding and poets and performance artists and lots of ways to keep lesbians entertained live music, jazz music. and engaged. It all began back in 2003 when they moved to Palm Springs and much to their By 2013 Dinah in Color became The Palm dismay found there were almost no women of Springs Women Jazz Festival. Lucy and Gail Lcolor in the desert. To remedy the situation they saw the jazz festival as a contemporary revival decided to throw a free house party during the of the women’s music festivals of the 70’s and Dinah Shore Weekend called Dinah in Color. 80’s; a new take on Michigan.

By 2006 the party had outgrown their backyard This year they are postponing the festival to and was moved to a hotel in downtown Palm celebrate their 15th Anniversary. It will include Springs. It even started to attract white women jazz but also celebrates Dinah in Color which once they realized that in spite of the name all started out as a way to meet women of color in women were welcomed. It also became a place the desert and turned into more than a decade for women over 40 who often found themselves of bringing lesbians together to share their surrounded by women half their age during the lifestyle and an appreciation of themselves. Dinah Weekend. www.LucyandGail.com TOP

Waimea Canyon State Park Napali Coast

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FALL IN LOVE WITH KAUAI THIS FALL The ultimate destination in Hawaii By Wyxie Carolina

ummer’s last breath cast vibrant of its dramatic natural beauty and plenty of lush endless ornate green vegetation with waterfalls colors on trees and turn every wilderness to be explored. Kauai is the perfect and rivers in between. But for the very best leaf into flowers. If autumn- island if you’re looking for a laid-back adventure view, make a trip to the Waimea Canyon and decorated landscapes aren’t that offers plenty of beautiful places to see and Puu Hinahina lookout points and prepare to be enough reason for you to travel various land and water activities to do. It is blown away. this fall, maybe the gorgeous also one of the best vacation spots for couples backdrops of the oldest island in Hawaii will. traveling to up the romance factor because of Surrounding the Waimea Canyon is the Kokee its secluded beaches, breathtaking views, and State Park which occupies thousands of acres Aside from to indulge in mother nature’s painted private luxury villas. of rainforest. Norfolk pines, Koa hardwoods, Strees, September is the best month to travel to native plants and wildlife are just a small fraction take advantage of great off-peak vacation deals WAIMEA CANYON of what you will see here. and fewer crowds. It is also the perfect time to The most popular attraction on the island is visit one of the most romantic getaways in the Waimea Canyon, also called the “Grand Canyon NAPALI COAST United States—Kauai. of the Pacific.” This 10-mile-long, mile-wide, The Na Pali Coast is a 15-mile stretch of steep and approximately 3,500-feet-deep canyon is and rocky cliffs along the north-west coast Kauai is the ultimate destination in Hawaii. It is brimming with magnificent scenery difficult to of Kauai. Marvel upon the pali (high cliffs), the fourth largest and northernmost island and is find elsewhere on the Hawaiian Islands. Here, sea caves, lush green valleys, and cascading sometimes called “The Garden Island” because you’ll find colorful cliffsides and ridges covered in waterfalls as you follow along Kalalau Trail that begins on Kauai’s north shore. The Nā Pali Coast State Park is assessable to hikers along the Kalalau Trail.

Travelers can experience Napali on foot, from the water or from the air. You can see Napali from Kokee State Park, which overlooks into Kalalau Valley. There are many tour companies that offer Napali sightseeing, sailing, snorkeling, and airplane/helicopter tours. Whichever you choose, you will be truly amazed by this wondrous coastline.

POLIHALE BEACH AND STATE PARK Polihale is the longest beach in the state of Hawaii with 17 miles of white sand and dunes. It is accessible by foot through a 5-mile unpaved Napali Coast old cane haul road. It is advisable to check weather conditions before going because the road can sometimes flood during heavy rain.

Polihale Beach Because of its length and access point, Polihale Beach is rarely crowded.

Polihale Beach has some facilities and camping is by permit only. Strong currents and no lifeguard make it is a notoriously dangerous beach for swimming. But if you want to enjoy gazing at the edge of Napali’s cliffs or marvel at the remarkable sunsets over the Forbidden Island of Niihau on perpetual shores that’s all to yourself, Polihale Beach is the perfect spot for you. If you like beach-combing and shelling fun, the endless stretch of Polihale sand will delight you.

KE’E BEACH Many travelers fall in love with Ke’e Beach Ke’e Beach because of its stunning north shore location. Ke’e Beach (pronounced Keh-AY) is conveniently located at the Kalalau trailhead and is the easiest beach to access for prime Napali views. Because of this, you can expect some traffic in this area, especially when it’s full of hikers setting out on the Kalalau trail.

Unlike Polihale Beach, Ke’e is protected by a reef that makes it a safe to swim and snorkel during summer. There are lifeguards posted here and available restrooms and showers. A great time to go here is at sunset. Not only are the hikers gone by then, but also the sunset here is extra spectacular. Thanks to the Napali Cliffs. WAILUA RIVER STATE PARK The only navigable river in Hawaii is situated in Wailua River State Park, making it the favorite spot of travelers who wants a majestic view of lush valley and rainforests on a boat tour.

The park includes Opaekaa Falls and Wailua Falls as two of its most notable natural attractions. The water of Opaekaa Falls glides down a jagged cliffside, and the source and end of the falls can’t be seen, veiled by jungle vegetation. Meanwhile, the rocky terrain of the river above Wailua Falls forms two separate streams that create two waterfalls in one spot.

Wailua River State Park is also known for its historical significance, considered sacred and housing several temples and royal sites. If you have time, stop at the Wailua Complex of Heiau, a National Historic Landmark that Wailua River State Park displays remnants of this era, including ruins, ancient birthing stones, and stone carvings with petroglyphs. TOP For more information, visit www.kauai.com

Notes From Nat

ARETHA: THE UNDISPUTED QUEEN OF SOUL A talented artist worthy of much more than a little respect By Nat Burns

n these divisive, often dark days we live so this was a given. Add to this the fact that In 1960, when she was just eighteen, she in, there is one bright shining voice that her mother was a gifted pianist and singer and began recording for Columbia Records but brings peace and integrated love to all Aretha’s future was sealed. Unfortunately, this only to moderate success. Seven years later, who hear it. That voice belongs to Aretha mother died when Aretha was only ten. Four after signing to Atlantic Records, Aretha finally Franklin and she is the Queen of Soul, years later, her father began managing her as won commercial success with songs such as a title often stated with awed, hushed a performer, bringing her on the road with him “Respect”, “(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural whispers. She is THE Queen of Soul, pretty during gospel caravan tours. He also helped her Woman”, “Spanish Harlem” and “Think”. much undisputed. get signed to her original recording deal where her first album, Songs of Faith, was issued in “(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman” IThis consummate musician and performer was 1956. https://youtu.be/XHsnZT7Z2yQ born in March of 1942 in Memphis, Tennessee. As did many of her peers, little Aretha began her “Respect” This version brought the packed Kennedy singing career in a church. Her father was the https://youtu.be/6FOUqQt3Kg0 Center crowd to its feet. minister at a Baptist church in Detroit, Michigan, Another angle of this performance for President Obama https://youtu.be/diwF1-xJwZM

Even by the early 1970s, she had earned her unwavering title The Queen of Soul.

“Think” https://youtu.be/aKHmos-tsU0

Aretha eventually recorded a total of one hundred and twelve Billboard charted singles, including seventy-seven Hot 100 songs, seventeen top ten pop singles, one hundred R&B releases and twenty number-one R&B singles, becoming the most charted female in the chart’s history. She also recorded many popular albums – I Never Loved a Man the Way I Love You, Lady Soul, Young, Gifted and Black and Amazing Grace– by the mid-1970s.

“I Never Loved a Man (The Way I Love You)” – The White House, 2014 https://youtu.be/ZULpxWcUZyE

In 1979, Aretha left Atlantic and signed with Arista Records, finding success with her part in the film The Blues Brothers and with the albums Jump to It and Who’s Zoomin’ Who?. She went on to win international acclaim for singing an opera aria in 1998 at the Grammys, taking the place of Luciano Pavarotti. Later that same year, she scored her final Top 40 recording with “A Rose Is Still a Rose”.

“A Rose is Still a Rose” https://youtu.be/gtMUQbnT_Lo

Aretha’s other well-known hits include “Rock Steady”, “Jump to It”, “Freeway of Love”, “Who’s Zoomin’ Who”, “Chain Of Fools”, “Something He Can Feel”, “I Knew You Were Waiting (For Me)” and a remake of The Rolling Stones song, “Jumpin’ Jack Flash”.

“Freeway of Love” https://youtu.be/Ip_pjb5_fgA

Here’s a very young Aretha (1986):

“Jimmy Lee” https://youtu.be/9tadGA5QJbU

Aretha Franklin has won a total of eighteen Grammy Awards and is one of the best-selling musical artists of all time, selling more than seventy-five million records worldwide. She has been honored throughout her career, including a 1987 induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, where she was the first female performer to be inducted.

She gave a command performance in front of Queen Elizabeth and was later inducted to the UK Music Hall of Fame in 2005. Then, in August of 2012, Aretha was inducted into the GMA Gospel Music Hall of Fame, as well. She is also listed in at least two all-time lists on Rolling Stone magazine, including the 100 Greatest Artists of All Time; and the 100 Greatest Singers of All Time.

Though Aretha may have left us too soon, her amazing talent and her incredible voice will ever ring strong and true for future generations. A few more links for the road: With Stevie Wonder: “Until You Come Back to Me” https://youtu.be/pTnCHP-9Wdo

“The Makings of You” https://youtu.be/loD2YCZLdC4

A historical compendium of her work-1956-2017 https://youtu.be/1Q6LYPdX9-8

(Many thanks to ILoveArethaFranklin)

A tribute to Whitney Houston https://youtu.be/hghd49vaJuM

And finally, a later in life interview with the Wall Street Journal https://youtu.be/cnz2d8kVFU0 www.arethafranklin.net

Always remember, if the links won’t open, copy and paste them into your browser.

‘Til next month—

Nat

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Book Review

JESSICA KINGSLEY PUBLISHERS MAKE A DIFFERENCE On track to grow to more than forty books on gender diversity by the end of 2018 By Julia Zullo

he mission-driven press 2016 statement from the Justice Department). publishing program. “We recognized a special known widely for its books on The Trump administration has since rescinded need and we sought to address that need,” autism, children’s issues, and this executive guidance. Everywhere issues says David Corey, JKP’s vice president of sales parenting will publish books for around gender are a having clear and long- and marketing. “Whether it is the transgender adults, children, parents, and lasting political and social impact on how we or gender diverse child who finds strength, professionals to address the think and feel about the world around us. Some voice, and understanding within the pages of unique needs and circumstances of transgender see gender identity as the next civil rights a favorite picture book, a loved one seeking and gender diverse people of all ages and movement. to better understand the emotional and social identities. stresses of a parent, child, friend, or partner T Jessica Kingsley Publishers, a press in transition, or a counselor looking to deepen In August, Christine Hallquist, who is running dedicated to publishing books that make a clinical interactions with gender-diverse clients, as a progressive Democrat in Vermont, made difference, recognized that gender diversity was it is JKP’s hope that their books on gender history when she became the first transgender an important issue lacking positive resources diversity find their way onto every bookshelf gubernatorial candidate nominated by a major to meet the increased demand to further public where they are needed.” political party. At the beginning of 2017, National knowledge and to help those dealing with gender Geographic launched their historic special issue identity on a day-to-day basis. They set out to Transgender youth and adults face unique titled “Gender Revolution,” which explored the change the situation. difficulties and are at a far higher risk of suicide shifting landscape of gender not only in the than the population as a whole, with some studies US but around the world. In 2014, the Obama JKP’s decision to publish books on the topic showing that roughly half of all transgender administration formally recognized trans and of gender diversity, including resources for people attempt suicide at least once by the age gender diverse youth as a protected group transgender people, stems from the same of twenty. Transgender people are also at higher under Title IX discrimination law (backed by a mission that drives the rest of the company’s risk than the general population for sexual assault, homelessness, drug abuse, depression, to gender diversity. Like the publisher’s book Parenting an Intersex Child. anxiety, unemployment, and violence. list overall, the gender diversity list includes trade books for both youths and adults, as well Resources and book for transgender and Gender is defined separately from sex (male or as professional books that look at the clinical gender-diverse adults and their supporters female sex organs assigned at birth) or sexuality aspects of gender, including gender dysphoria include The Trans Partner Handbook, To My (the sex one is attracted to). Instead, gender is and explorations of the gender spectrum. Trans Sisters, Queer Sex, Not Just a Tomboy: the personal behaviors, feelings, and affiliations A Trans Masculine Memoir, and Transitioning in that align one to a place on a spectrum of gender, Books for children include the bestselling Who the Workplace. with masculinity at one end and femininity at the Are You? The Kid’s Guide to Gender Diversity, other and a vast array of identities in between. as well as Phoenix Goes to School, penned by JKP also publishes books for professionals of Woven into this spectrum are matters relating Michelle Finch and her transgender daughter all types who work on behalf of this important to gender dysphoria, which is the distress a Phoenix; Vincent the Vixen, a picture book about yet underserved population, including books for person experiences as a result of the sex and a transgender fox; and the Trans Teen Survival counselors (Counseling Transgender and Non- gender they were assigned at birth. However, Guide, a no-nonsense manual for navigating Binary Youth, Supporting Young Transgender gender dysphoria is not applicable to all trans gender through adolescence. General guides for Men: A Guide for Professionals, and Counselling or gender diverse individuals. understanding and working with gender include Skills for Working with Gender Diversity Becoming an Ally to the Gender-Expansive and Identity), human resource professionals By the end of 2018, JKP will have published more Child, Helping Your Transgender Teen: A Guide (Transgender Employees in the Workplace and than forty titles that deal with issues relating for Parents, and Raising Rosie: Our Story of Gender Diversity and Non-Binary Inclusion in the Workplace), and educators (A Practical Guide to Gender Diversity and Sexuality in Early Years and How to Transform Your School into an LGBT+ Friendly Place).

BOUT JESSICA KINGSLEY PUBLISHERS

On the heels of winning Independent Academic, Educational, and Professional Publisher of the Year at the British Book Industry Awards in 2016, Jessica Kingsley Publishers recently celebrated its 31st anniversary as a publisher of books that make a difference in the lives of readers. In 2017, the company became a proud imprint of Hachette UK’s John Murray Press. In addition to being the largest publisher of books on autism, JKP also serves children, parents, professionals, and anyone in need of information about special needs, mental health, and unexpected life circumstances. As a mission-driven press, JKP addresses the needs of the bereaved, the sick and dying, people with special needs, and those who struggle with issues of trauma and attachment. JKP also provides books that support spiritual growth, higher learning, and a greater and more empathetic understanding of the world around us. They are headquartered in London and Philadelphia.

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A MORNING MANTRA By Dina Evan, PhD

May I be at all times, both now and forever, a protector for those who

need protection, a voice for those who have no voice, a source for those

who seek to know, and a courageous song above the crowd for what is

just and fair. And most of all, an envoy for all that is love.

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WELL, SUMMER’S ALMOST OVER This year has just sped by. Did I accomplish anything? By Toni Hart

all is about here and the leaves are time just went and before I knew, fall was here. They are our leaders of tomorrow so we need beginning to drop off the trees. It’s What else does getting old have? Surviving, I to make sure they get their lessons straight so still quite warm, but you know it guess, it’s its best attribute. they can get it all together when it’s their turn to won’t be too long before summer lead our country. is over and the boys and girls go I glance around and see piles that I need to go back to school. All the whining and thru. Clothes and shoes for the Good Will, stuff Gee… kids of today are so ahead of where we protests are further indications that summer to take to the cleaners, stuff to throw out, mail were when we were their age. They get computers is almost over. Deep down in their sweet little to answer (Yes, some people still send snail in the 2nd grade so they can easily adapt to all hearts, you know they are really bored with mail… can you believe it? Well, it gives the the new technology. Boy! I remember the first Fsummer activities and are looking forward to post office something to do… job security, you computer was a huge building. Now computers the new school term. Which teachers will they know!) I have been trying to send a card from can be inserted into your veins to check what get… what new kids will be in their classes… Hallmark that I downloaded and the darn thing problems you might be having. I even had to always has the inside pages upside down. I’ve swallow a camera one time when I was in the I try to remember that far back but it’s been wasted more paper even thou I’ve tried to put hospital to check on a problem I was having. much too long and school days are just a the paper in every which way. Do they do that I told the doctor I hope he didn’t want it back distant memory squeezed in with all the other just to frustrate us “ol’ folks”? Well, Hallmark… because I wasn’t going to look for it regardless memories that were once so fresh and vital. This it’s working! of how much it cost. was a busy summer and I can hardly think back to remember what activities I did. Cleaning, Actually, I’m looking forward to fall so I can Well, folks, keep cool! Fall is almost upon us. washing, gardening, shopping I guess, and wear some of the new sweaters I bought online. Sit in the shade, sip some icy drink, and plan for lunch with my Book Club and other ladies’ It’s been too warm to even think of sweaters the future. See you next month! Hugs. groups… some movies, cookie baking, and who (still wearing sleeveless shirts but I guess that knows what else. I’m embarrassed to say, the will change soon). I love to work with children. TOP Words that Make Sense VISIT VISIT SITE WEBSITE

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ABSENTMINDEDNESS CAN BE DETRIMENTAL TO HEALTH Have you ever NOT been paying attention and ended up doing something ridiculously stupid? By Dian Katz, MS

ave you ever been packages. Needless to say, I walked out of the seat. My mail scattered all over the back seat completely absent minded post office with my hands full. and the envelope fell on the other side of the and embarrassed yourself? floor. Absentmindedness typically My mind was completely focused on one happens when we aren’t thing… not dropping anything. I was also doing Something didn’t look right but I couldn’t put my paying attention to detail. a juggling act while acting as if I was walking on finger on it. Then I got a little panicky wondering We may be so immersed in some thought that a tight rope and trying not to fall. Then I had to if anyone broke into the car! I swallowed really we don’t realize what we’ve done until it’s too somehow get my car remote out of my pocket. hard at the thought of a break in. I looked over on late. Recently, I had one of these types of This was quite a sight, I’m sure. Here I was with the front passenger seat and sure enough, my Hexperiences. this huge pile and trying to somehow put my expensive headset was gone!!! NOOOOOOO!!! hand in my pocket superfast before everything I couldn’t believe it! How could I have been so I needed to drive over to my post office to came tumbling down. Finally, I got the darn careless to leave the door unlocked with my $200 pick up my mail. I parked the car, locked it, thing out and in my hand! I clicked my remote to headset on the front seat! What in the world was I and walked toward the building. I realized my unlock the back door of my vehicle. Hmm, that’s thinking! Then I looked a little closer at the back expensive stereo headset was on the passenger odd. The car wasn’t locked. I could have sworn seat and there was a Harley Davidson shirt. I seat but figured I wouldn’t be gone long enough I locked it! Oh well. I opened up the back door thought to myself, I don’t remember having one! for anyone to steal it. So I went inside the post and dropped all of my mail and packages on Did I have one and left it in the car? office and grabbed my mail, which included a big the backseat. Unfortunately, they went all over stack of letters, a large envelope, and several the place. The packages fell behind the driver’s All of the sudden it dawned on me.... HOLY POST OFFICE HELL! THIS IS NOT MY CAR! I My eyes gradually looked all the way up at this I was so fricken embarrassed and humiliated as freaked! Oh my gawd! Oh crap! I had to get out humongous, very mad, biker. I suddenly felt I tried to save my life! I just wanted to get the of here. This was not good. I didn’t want to look about 2 feet high. All that was running through hell out of there as quickly as possible. I had like I was robbing someone’s car! I was thinking, my head was, what he was about to do to me nothing funny or entertaining to say to Mr. Biker Hurry Dian, grab your stuff and get out of here. I in the next moment. I thought at that time: If Man. There was probably nothing I could have was so discombobulated. As I mentioned earlier, I get out of here alive, I swear I will be more said anyway to make this one large dude crack my letters and packages had spilled out all over observant next time and pay better attention to a smile. I’m sure I ruined his day in addition the seat and floor. Dang it! I couldn’t pick them detail! Please Car God. Let this little innocent to ruining my own! I’m not even sure if I got up quickly enough! I had to lean down and get drummer live! all of my mail. Who knows? And probably some the ones on the floor and the packages. Sweat letters are still sitting at the back seat of his car started to pour from my temples. I didn’t want to “Oh sir, I am soooo sorry. I just realized this or lying on the floor. Oh well. Guess I’ll never look like the town robber OR someone who had isn’t my car. It looks exactly like mine, ha ha.” know! gone postal! I finally got everything picked up… He continued to stare at me sternly, not finding anything amusing and not saying anything. He So what exactly is the moral to this story? I’m not Then IT happened. I felt someone breathing looked at me in a way that looked like my teeth sure there is one other than pay more attention, really heavily behind me. I was a dead man. were about to get knocked out. Please, not the Dian. I have now memorized every inch of my Too late to escape! Slowly, I turned... I turned teeth. I’m the only one in my family who has car and I don’t think I will ever do this again. around and this HUGE 6 foot 5, 300-pound biker straight teeth. I then scrambled and started If the door is unlocked, I am slamming it close dude is standing right behind me looking down dropping the letters again: Um, just a minute sir, and using my remote. And if that doesn’t work, at me. He looked like he was about to murder I’m frantically trying to pick them all up again. I then I will have a clue. Absentmindedness can someone. Oh yeah, that someone would be me. must have looked like one psycho woman but I really get one in trouble. It’s not cute, funny, In a very loud and extremely pissed off voice, he didn’t care at that point. I just wanted to come or adorable. It’s embarrassing, humiliating, and shouted, “CAN I HELP YOU!” At that moment, out of this with all of my fingers and toes. So I life threatening! But I can say one thing: I didn’t I saw my life pass before my eyes. This was it. started turning around and trying to move an forget to lock my car door. So that’s the moral This giant man was not happy and I had a lot of inch, which seemed like an eternity. Then I ran of the story: Lock your doors! explaining to do if I wanted to live. to my car next to his. I didn’t even shut his door.

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I YEARN FOR ECSTASE ECSTASY By Sue Moore Ich sehne mich nach Ecstase Wie die Erde jedes Jahr sehnt sich nach Fruhling I yearn for the return of ecstasy Schluckzend, grun, erleichtert. As earth yearns for the return of spring each year Die Wintersfrust hat zu lange gedauert Sobbing greenly in relief (hat sich in die Lange geschleppt) Traume und Aspirationen This discontented winter Gewurgt in gefrorene Wurzeln Seemed to drag on too long, dreams and Grau und trube Plane aspirations Verlorene Geliebte Frozen in the choked root, Uberall zerstreut Grey and dismal thwarted plans, Wie verkrumpelte Blatter. Lost loves scattered on the ground Curling up at the edges. Ich lese die Zeitungen Todesanzeige, jede in einem schwarzen Rand Reading the newspaper, Erkundigen Trauer Black bordered ads announced Fur Leute mir nicht bekannt Bereavement of those unknown to me. (mein Geliebter Mann, Onkel, Opa, usw. I welcomed the chance to grieve Ist plotzlich und unerwartet verstorben) For the lost loves of strangers, simple words Ich begrusse die Gelegenheit Of sorrow and condolence Mitzutrauern Carried more weight for me Fur diese verlorene Menschen Than the heavy wisdom of Plato, Shakespeare Einfache Worte or Sartre Haben mehr Gewicht fur mich Combined. Als die schwere Weisheiten von Plato, Shakespeare, Sarte, alle zusammen. But I yearn for the return of joy. fountains of laughter bubbling up Aber ich sehne mich nach Freude to wash creases from sullen cheeks Lachende Brunnen Turnings eyes into merry dancing crescents Sprudelnde Feuchtikeit I yearn for full moon madness Die loscht Falten von Gesteinerte Bange And unbridled sprees Die Augen umkippen in lustige Halbmonde I yearn for youthful excess Ich wunsche mir vollmondverrucktheit And exuberance. Und unverknopfte Exsessen I yearn for Ecstasy!!! Jugendliche Ubermassigkeit

Ich sehne mich nach Exstase!

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READY FOR FALL Summer is over. How did that happen? By Dian Katz, MS

ne minute I was splashing that can’t be found anywhere else. Of course, of women to LA, Sept. 16-22, 2018. Every event in the waves, but now the most popular activity during Womenfest will give back to a women-focused charity. Los I am about to go back usually involves a chaise lounge, a good book, Angeles Women’s Week (LAWW) will end with and work with kids in a sunscreen and a killer margarita. Come and join MOTHERSHIP Fest in Los Angeles. We still plan school. It’s always hard us on our little island that is close to perfect but to keep MOTHERSHIP weird in our LA location to get back in the swing far from normal for this fabulous event that gets and will even offer discounted stays throughout of things after having a summer break. But, I bigger and better every year!” says Womenfest the city for our out-of-towners. We’re bringing our always have Hotspots to look forward to! So, promoters. safe space to the city. We believe that LAWW + what’s happening this September? MOTHERSHIP ’18 = more women-focused fun. O Now, what’s not to like at an event like this? We hope you will join us for this week-long city (grabbing my suntan lotion) Key West, here I experience along with the 4th annual festival,” WOMENFEST KEY WEST come!!! says Wise.

Ladies, it’s that time again for… wait for it… For more info, lounge around the pool and visit: Hey, I’d like to take a spin in the Mothership! WOMENFEST KEY WEST on September 5 to www.womenfest.com Wait until you see my spacesuit. Ahem, sorry, 9. Oh hell yeah! That’s what I’m talking about! sorry… I was just feeling a little “spacey!” hahaha Tons of beautiful women all in the keys! Are you get it??? Spacey???? Ah, forget it!!! kidding me! That’s a paradise in itself! MOTHERSHIP For more info, fly over to the computer and visit: “Just before the school year starts in earnest, Since so much excitement is happening on the www.mothershipfest.com just as the last rays of summertime finally set, east coast, a woman named Laura Wise (known just before the holiday season begins to rev up, for putting on all women venues) decided to LESBIANS WHO TECH + ALLIES Key West welcomes women from across the bring the mothership over to the west coast. globe to an annual celebration that has become LOS ANGELES WOMEN’S WEEK is about to Now, I know not all you gals are into the party- one of the largest gatherings of lesbians and take place this month by the MOTHERSHIP on like events at hotels and beaches. You’d rather friends in North Americas’ Womenfest! Each September 16 to 22. attend something a tad more technical and year thousands of ladies come together over the maybe even gadget oriented. Hey, I know how Labor Day weekend and stay for a wide range of “I am happy to announce we are bringing the you feel. I LOOOOOOOVE my gadgets. So activities and events during four days of revelry festival to Los Angeles in conjunction with the this event might be just perfect for all of you and fun. Key West boasts restaurants that offer first ever Los Angeles Women’s Week! We’re brainy intellects. Society tends to think we are remarkable cuisine year round, watering holes working with local women-owned businesses, somewhat of nerds. Ha! If that’s the case, I that offer authentic, tropical libations and shops events and restaurants to bring an entire week like being a nerd! But pssssst… for the record, not ALL intellectuals are nerds, people! We OHIO LESBIAN FESTIVAL need to stick together!!! Amen!!! Ahem! Wow! be cool… Okay so get on with it Dian. What is I was going into serious land with that, but the happening? I will tell you what is happening. Now, I won’t forget about all of you women in Ohio Lesbian Festival means business, and I Please join thousands of fabulous women, at Ohio. On September 20 to 23, join the masses like that in a festival. LESBIANS WHO TECH + ALLIES in New York at the OHIO LESBIAN FESTIVAL. on September 12 to 14. For more information on this great event, hold “When we say ‘All Womyn Welcome, Always’, we hands with all women and go to: “Please join us in New York on September 12- are genuinely opening our hearts and our home https://ohiolba.org 14th for the first-ever Lesbians Who Tech + Allies to embrace the differences that strengthen us. Leadership Summit for mid-level and executive We believe in the power of womyn only space. Man, I am pumped up thinking about women non-binary, LGBTQ women and our allies. As womyn, we are oppressed and marginalized, in scantily clad bathing suits out in paradise, This summit will bring our most accomplished we come together to empower each other, to women stepping off the mothership, techies, leaders for an intimate conference focused on explore oppression, to unlearn racism and and humanitarians. Well, let’s just say I’m in the both technology trends and all things YOU. learn from and teach each other,” says event zone! Hell to the yes! Woooo Hooo!!! Yahooo!!!! HotSpots This will be a smaller Summit from past New planners. Weee! Okay, Dian. Stop it! The readers get your York Summits because we want to focus on a point. You’re being a little whacko tobacco. more curated experience for our mid-level and They see what’s going on in the world with Ohhh, I see how y’all are. I’m having a little fun executive members. We will be hosting satellite racism and bullying and want no part of that. here with all of these amazing events that occur events that are open to everyone during the The Ohio Lesbian Festival is pushing for a safe all over the place and the little devil on my Leadership Summit. Please apply if you are place for all women to attend. None of that shoulder is getting her panties all in a bunch. I interested in both our Leadership Summit or our crap we have been hearing about all over the will stick with the facts ma’am! Satellite events,” says Lesbians Who Tech. world where different groups are ganging up on each other. It’s time to bring all women together I wish I had more room but I have to go. See you For more information on this smart and sharp regardless of race, religion, and so on. Way to next month! This nerdy techie, rocker, whacko summit, grab your smartphone and go to: https:// go, Ohio Lesbian Festival, for standing up to the tobacco, LN Reporter is out of here... lesbianswhotech.org/newyork2018 insanity that is happening so often. We, women,

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WORDS ON A PLATE By Reba Birmingham

These words are slipped through bars We Care These words writ down on cards We Dare These words disintegrate These words upon a plate Served to children here Served to those in fear To Make A Country Great.

Medals pinned on chests But wait He Wants a But wait military parade But wait He Wants But wait Tanks and missiles all for show These words While hopes and memories fade These words Upon a plate “I don’t really care do you?” One fell from heaven Her Words In the mouth of a dove Her choice was not a chance And broke the plate Her Words That word was Love Like Asma Al-Assad They’re a perfect pair It needed no permission To paraphrase a tweet, it’s #sad To slip through cages It changed men’s hearts And where are the so-called Christians? It lifted wages Whose words manipulate It toppled an insane regime History/Bible Exegesis And put a bridge across the mote These words upon a plate It got the 46 percent A message that was hope To go to local booths and vote Has twisted to a chant God can’t hear you if you’re gay It saved the world Or “Illegal” immigrant This word of Love You know deep down That this is true So march and vote and do your thing The arms of God belong to you.

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SEPTEMBER 2018 By Astrologer and Psychic, Victoria Bearden

eptember opens a doorway feel more inspired. Saturn in Capricorn creates bottled up during the last few months. Ego to progress! a harmonious trine with Uranus in Taurus, conflicts may have been hard to revolve, as they supporting new goals and opportunities. Find quietly boiled just beneath the surface. Now, the Mars, the “energizer” planet, some new mountains to climb and get geared cat is out of the bag. In some ways, although went direct at the end of August, up! This is a great month to make business and problems may be more out in the open, they which is big news. Projects financial decisions. will be much easier to solve. Mars will re-enter that failed to launch during the past few months Aquarius on September 11, 2018, giving us a could be successful now. If your motivation and Mars Direct gives us an opportunity for some chance to fix some things that went haywire over Sget-up-and-go got up and went, you’ll start to emotional clearing. Lots of energy has gotten the Summer months, particularly where group cooperation is concerned. Aquarian natives will aspects to Neptune, Jupiter, and Pluto, opening of the eight Sabbats (a celebration based on the really feel the energy boost, as will the rest of up pathways to great insight through meditation cycles of the sun). Mabon celebrates the second us. and spiritual pursuits. harvest and the start of winter preparations. It is the time to respect the impending dark while Saturn in Capricorn goes Direct on September Autumn Equinox falls on September 22, 2017 giving thanks to the sunlight. 6, 2018. at 6:54 pm PDT. There’s a Full Moon at 02° Aries on September Review what you’ve learned during Saturn’s The day and night will be equal in length, as a 24, 2018, at 7:52 pm PDT. retrograde cycle that started last April and use new Seasonal Cycle begins. In ancient cultures, this information to make good choices for the and in modern pagan communities today, Fall wFull Moons represent the high point of the lunar months ahead. Saturn represents the principles is marked by many celebrations of Harvest. It phase, when the Moon appears fully illuminated of order, structure, and commitment. Take a is a time to give thanks for the amazing gifts from Earth’s perspective. This occurs when look at your goals and see if some of them need the Earth has bestowed upon us, and to honor Earth is located between the Sun and the Moon. to get back on track. and recognize the fruits of our own labors. The Full Moons are known to stimulate both psychic Sun goes in to Air Sign Libra on the Equinox, and emotional awareness. But sometimes, it There’s a New Moon at 17° Virgo on September and the energy shifts to that of relating and can throw people into a little over-stimulation, 9, 2018. cooperation. Libra embodies the spirit of sharing so remind yourself to remain grounded and and compromise, both good things to remember aware. When the Moon is full at this time of year The New Moon is the phase of the moon when when dealing with our fellow humans. we are given an opportunity to find the balance it is in conjunction with the sun and invisible between the Libra’s need to compromise and from earth. It is also known as “the Dark of the The Autumn Cycle is also about work and Aries’ need to be an individual. Moon” and represents a time to retreat into productivity, as we gather up our resources our Inner Self to recharge our batteries. Since before Winter. Opportunity Days: September 1, 3, 9, 12, 13, Earth Sign Virgo is linked to all aspects of 18, 23, 24, 27, and 28 health and healing, this New Moon is perfect for It is time to clear away worn out structures, and any and all activities that support our physical release what is no longer needed. On the autumnal wellbeing. The Sun and Moon will make strong equinox, many pagans celebrate Mabon as one

Femastrology Aries (March 21-April 19) Libra (September 23-October 22) It is time to take stock of your body, mind, spirit connection. You will Find your inner balance so you can restore your energy reserve. benefit greatly from any activities that promote health and healing. If You may need some “down time” for quiet reflection and healing you’ve been meaning to get a physical or have a nutritional consultation, activities. Honor your need for spiritual meaning in your life. Embrace now is a good time. Aries sometimes rebels against “routine” but that your intuition, as it will be very strong and helpful. You will receive insights is exactly what will help you right now. Get in tune with what your body and messages that will help you decide what to do in important practical really wants, and needs, and if you are unsure, find out! This will support matters. This can be a fortunate period for finances. Your September everything else you need to do. Your September Mantra: Balance Mantra: Replenish

Taurus (April 20-May 20) Scorpio (October 23-Novemeber 21) This is an absolutely splendid time to connect to others, both Friends and colleagues will rally around you and come to your romantically and in business. Earth and Water planets are in harmony assistance now, if need be. It can also be a time to meet new friends with your Sun, and your creativity and sense of wellbeing are in full who share your interests. Scorpios can be somewhat reserved, but why bloom. If you aren’t feeling the inspiration yet, do something to kick start not open up a little? This is a fortunate time for love and creativity, and the energy. Throw a party. Join a dating service. Artistic and pleasurable sharing with others. It’s also a great time for new places and experiences. pursuits will fill your soul. Traveling will energize your imagination. Your Have some fun with it! Your September Mantra: Journey September Mantra: Joy Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) Gemini (May 21-June 20) Focus on the big picture of your life. Are you doing what you really Take care of things regarding your home and property. Make sure want to do? If the answer is yes, put even more effort into work, career, things are feeling safe, secure, and comfy in your personal world. If and goals. If you aren’t sure, do some things that will help you get there are issues involving family that need to be attended to, do so. You’ll perspective about your life plan, such as career counseling or coaching. be glad you did. Your personal life is the support system for your outer This is a good time to review your finances, and solve any problems or world. You need a strong foundation. Don’t forget about that. Sometimes, issues that could use your attention. Your September Mantra: Clear Geminis keep a lot of balls in the air, and don’t like to slow things down. Goals But you’ll benefit from a slightly slower, more measured pace right now. Your September Mantra: A Strong Foundation Capricorn (December 22-January 19) Put your beliefs into action in your own life. You may be longing Cancer (June 21-July 21) for more of a sense of purpose. So, venture forth and find it! This Projects and ideas abound. Pick and choose what you’d like to is a fortunate time for learning, travel, and new experiences, so sign up focus on to get the most out of this active period. Less is more, for it! Capricorns are often busy just working and making sure others when it comes to your activities, so refine and define your intentions. are doing well. Don’t get stuck in a rut! Get out there and do something You may need to take a look at your relationships and commitments to different. Shake things up a little. Experiment. Your September Mantra: others. Align yourself with people whose goals and plans match up with New Possibilities your own. Cancers who’ve been struggling under the weight of Saturn in Capricorn will begin to feel things lightening up this month. It’s about Aquarius (January 20-February 18) time! Your September Mantra: Focus Rid yourself of things that no longer represent your energy. Do some purging and lighten up your load. Let go of clutter and possessions Leo (July 23-August 22) you no longer need. Donate, recycle, and give things away. Finish up Take a sensible approach to money matters. No need to worry, projects and tie up loose ends. Gather up your energy and find your you’ll be able to do well financially this month, if you keep things in focus. As you get more clarity in your living space, you’ll begin to find balance and don’t go to extremes. Step back and take a look at where a more powerful sense of purpose. Your September Mantra: Energy you are investing your time and energy. Are you doing things that bring Clearing you joy? Work isn’t everything, after all. Your happiness and sense of wellbeing is even more of a commodity in many ways. Make time Pisces (February 19-March 20) to connect to people that matter to you, and have a good time. Your Get in touch with your dreams so you can bring them in to reality. September Mantra: A Happy Heart Find ways to give your creative side a voice in your daily life. This is a very important time for relationships. Be open to partnering up with Virgo (August 23-September 22) others who share your beliefs and interests. Single Pisces natives could Seek out new opportunities. This is a fortunate time to expand find a Soul Match. Your September Mantra: Open to Receive your world. Earth and Water planets are in harmony with you. Take advantage of the good vibes. Take some changes and spread your wings. About relationships, both business and personal: If you are making commitments to people, make sure they are willing and able to hold up their end of the bargain. Your September Mantra: New Beginnings TOP

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QUEER WOMEN BATTLING GENDER BARRIERS Source Article by Corinne S Kennedy/ Palm Springs Desert Sun Lesbians On Location Lucy DeBardelaben and Gail Christian —worked to create space for queer women of color within the LGBTQ community in Palm Springs

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Like any good pop are urgent and convincing, and she responds to these, she puts aside the self-conscious project artist, Masterpol capitalizes on such restraint by both with insight, conviction, and unmistakable of contemporary reflection and allows herself playing off it, letting restricted modality amplify personality. Those two modes would seem to the luxury of pure painting. If the “drawn” her inventiveness. For truly liberated painting, have little to say to each other; but, like someone paintings manifest a vigorous but studied however, she turns to a tradition of liberty that brought up bi-lingually, Masterpol speaks both response to pop culture, the “painted” paintings she can only inherit from fellow painters. In this with poetic fluency and effortless translation, embody Masterpol’s equally fervent but entirely regard, Masterpol proceeds in the wake of her finding – and building – vivid connections spontaneous response to artists who have come influences with voluble confidence, studying and between them. before her. She cites Joan Mitchell, Pollock, “feeling” rather than simply imitating their imagery De Kooning, Kline, Gorky, and Motherwell as or their method. Indeed, she comprehends the Twisted Roots Vineyard

Happy New Year! Well we are officially into the and cannot be done by machine. Ross, who end up killing the old vines. While only 4 acres New Year and that means a fresh new start, with spent his entire life on the vineyard and learned remain of the original vineyard from 1918, we new goals and expectations of what is ahead from his father on how to properly prune our always struggle with wanting to maximize the of us this year. Well the vineyards of Twisted vines, so that just the right amount of grapes number of bottles each year, we always want Roots are no different, we too are eagerly would be produced and the best quality would to protect our family history and want to make awaiting a new start to our growing season. be achieved. sure that the vines are going to be around for Currently the vineyard is pretty bare, so much so the future as well. that one might not see the future as too bright, If we leave too many buds, which means lots given the almost dead look to the vines. This of grapes will be produced, then our wine will So next time you are out and about, and happen time of year, the vines are completely dormant be light and flabby, too few buds and we lose by a vineyard, remember that while it might look and bare, with all the leaves falling off and the tonnage and don’t have enough great wine to like nothing but twigs, there is a lot more going canes all over the place. That being said, this go around. on out there. Someone, somewhere is focused is a very important time of the year, a time that and concerned about how to handle this mess can determine the production and quality of the When it comes to our “1918” Old Vine Zinfandel of twigs. grapes that will ultimately become our 2015 vineyard, the entire situation of pruning changes. vintages. Even though our family has been at As you can see from the picture here, these this for three generations now and almost 100 vines are wild and twisted by their very nature, Cheers, years, it is still the time of year that causes us so pruning becomes very difficult. The key to concern. Pruning is an art of delicate balance; our rich, bold, yet soft flavors in our “1918” Old Josh Ruiz too much will cause small, uneconomical crops; Vine Zinfandel wines, is pruning these vines Co-Owner/Winemaker too little will cause over-cropping and low- so that they don’t over produce and over work quality fruit. Pruning also facilitates cultivation, these old vines. With most of thewood on these disease control and harvesting, when the vines vines being dead and hollow, if we leave the For more info: are trained to a grow in a particular shape. It is same number of buds as the rest of our vines, http://twistedrootsvineyard.orderport.net/wines/ a skill that requires experience and judgment we would end up over working the vines and Current-Releases Susan St. Thomas Gallery

“Stardust Reveries”

An exhibit of celestial abstract art by Susan St. With over 40 years as a professional astrologer, precision painting and loose free flowing washes, Thomas at the Sebastopol Gallery, 150 N Main Susan combines her fascination with the language she integrates avariety of innovative techniques St. Sebastopol, CA 95465. of the stars and her lifelong expression as an to express her imagination. www.sebastopol-gallery.com artist. This collection is inspired by the images 707 829-7200 captured by the Hubble telescope of deep space Reception for the artist plus 14 other gallery – a boundless realm of ever changing form. member artists: October 11, 4-6pm.

Susan uses layered glazes of acrylic to create Free artists talk, “Art and Astrology” at the depth and a dance of light and color, sometimes gallery: October 22, 7pm. mixing media and collage. Capable of both

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