Comparing Sex Buyers with Men Who Don't Buy Sex: "You Can Have a Good Time with the Servitude" Vs
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Comparing Sex Buyers with Men Who Don’t Buy Sex “You can have a good time with the servitude” vs. “You’re supporting a system of degradation” “John” by Christine Stark © 2000.All Rights Reserved Melissa Farley, Emily Schuckman, Jacqueline M. Golding, Kristen Houser, Laura Jarrett, Peter Qualliotine, Michele Decker Psychologists for Social Responsibility Annual Conference Boston, Massachusetts July 15, 2011 Research by Prostitution Research & Education Research Supported by Hunt Alternatives Fund Melissa Farley, Emily Schuckman, Jacqueline M. Golding, Kristen Houser, Laura Jarrett, Peter Qualliotine, Michele Decker (2011) Comparing Sex Buyers with Men Who Don't Buy Sex: "You can have a good time with the servitude" vs. "You're supporting a system of degradation" Paper presented at Psychologists for Social Responsibility Annual Meeting July 15, 2011, Boston, MA. San Francisco: Prostitution Research & Education © 2011. All Rights Reserved. For more information contact the first author at [email protected] 1 TABLE OF CONTENTS Table 1. Comments about Prostitution by Sex Buyers and Non-Sex Buyers.........................................................03 SUMMARY OF FINDINGS AND RECOMMENDATIONS...................................................04 Acknowledgements...........................................................................................................................................................05 INTRODUCTION...............................................................................................................................07 Table 2. Estimates of Population Percentages of Men Buying Sex...........................................................................08 METHODS USED IN THIS RESEARCH.....................................................................................10 Interviewers........................................................................................................................................................................11 Interview Scheduling and Matching Variables..............................................................................................................11 Interviewer Training and Support..................................................................................................................................11 RESULTS................................................................................................................................................12 Demographic Characteristics of the 200 Boston men.................................................................................................12 Table 3. Family Income....................................................................................................................................................12 Table 4. Education............................................................................................................................................................13 Table 5. Ethnic Identity....................................................................................................................................................13 Table 6. Sexual Orientation.............................................................................................................................................13 Table 7. Lifetime number of Sex Partners for Sex Buyers and Non-Sex Buyers....................................................14 Table 8. Summary of Sex Buyers' and Non-Sex Buyers' Occupations.....................................................................14 Prostitution Behaviors of Sex Buyers.............................................................................................................................14 First use of women in prostitution.................................................................................................................................14 Frequency of buying sex...................................................................................................................................................14 Where do Boston men locate women in prostitution for the purpose of buying sex?..........................................15 Table 9. Indoor Locations Where Boston Men Purchased Sex.................................................................................15 Use of strip clubs...............................................................................................................................................................16 Drug and alcohol use of Boston sex buyers..................................................................................................................16 Military background of sex buyers..................................................................................................................................16 Travel to other states and countries to buy sex............................................................................................................16 Table 10. States Where Boston Men Bought Sex.........................................................................................................17 Table 11. Countries Where Boston Men Bought Sex..................................................................................................17 Age and ethnic selection of women in prostitution.....................................................................................................18 Paying for sex with drugs, shelter, food and clothes...................................................................................................18 Changes in sex buyers' sexuality over time as a result of prostitution......................................................................18 Attitudes About Prostitution Among Sex Buyers and Non-Sex Buyers..................................................................18 Differences in whether or not prostitution was viewed as consenting sex, a choice, or sexual exploitation, and whether prostitution should be legal...................................................................................18 Awareness of harms of prostitution...............................................................................................................................20 Figure 1. Negative Effects of Prostitution on Prostituted Women According to Sex Buyers and Non-Sex Buyers............................................................................................20 Figure 2. Negative Effects of Prostitution on the Community According to Sex Buyers and Non-Sex Buyers............................................................................................20 Figure 3. Positive Effects of Prostitution on Prostituted Women According to Sex Buyers and Non-Sex Buyers............................................................................................22 Figure 4. Positive Effects of Prostitution on the Community According to Sex Buyers and Non-Sex Buyers............................................................................................22 2 Awareness of pimping, coercion and trafficking..........................................................................................................22 Beliefs about differences between women who are and are not prostituted...........................................................24 Cartoon. "You have breasts, don't you?".......................................................................................................................25 Myths about sexuality held by sex buyers and non-sex buyers..................................................................................26 Table 12. Words Used by Sex Buyers and Non-Sex Buyers to Describe Men Who Buy Sex..............................26 Why men say they buy sex...............................................................................................................................................26 Table 13. Reasons for Buying Sex..................................................................................................................................27 Belief that prostitution prevents rape............................................................................................................................27 Internal Conflicts of Sex Buyers.....................................................................................................................................27 Table 14. Sex Buyers' Feelings Before and After Buying Sex....................................................................................28 Empathy for women in prostitution..............................................................................................................................28 Table 15. Words Used by Sex Buyers, Non-Sex Buyers, and Prostituted Women to Describe Feelings of Women during Prostitution...................................................................................28 Prostitution as a 'girlfriend experience'...but not really................................................................................................29 Interest in non-relational sex...........................................................................................................................................30 Hostile masculine identity................................................................................................................................................30 Pornography Use...............................................................................................................................................................30