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IN Step World Headquarters 1661 North Water Street, Suite 411 Side Milwaukee, WI 53202 News 414.278.7840 voice 414.278.5868 fax 4 Action Wisconsin's LEAD Lobbies For LGBT Equality By Mike Fitzpatrick www.instepnews.com 4 $548K Raised by Dual AIDS Walks v ISSN# 1045-2435 By Mike Fitzpatrick A 4 New Group Grapples with PrideFest Debt Madison Lobby Day William Attewell By William Attewell [email protected] 5 Boston Herald's Sportswriter Comes Out a Success • 4 editor-in-chief 5 Massachusetts Court Ruling on Gay Marriage Still in Limbo Group Notes Mike Fitzpatrick 7 Women's Halloween Party & Carnival Oct. 31 [email protected] 7 Cream City Chorus Holds Free Concert/Reception fox valley bureau 7 Commitment to Justice Awards Oct. 23 7 LGBT Resource Directory 2004 Wayne Brasier, Dear Ruthie, 8 Community Dialogue for Lesbian and Bisexual Women Jamakaya, Michael Johnston, 8 "Building a Healthy Community" Focus of Oct. 21 Program 8 Coming Out Groups to Start at OutReach J.C. Michalek, Billy Masters, 8 Queer Saints: Rediscovering LGBT Christian Heroes Carl M. Szatmary, Rex Wockner, 8 Gay, Straight Conference Set for Oct. 25 and W.W. Wells III Opinions contributing writers 10 "Marriage Protection Week" Is About Denying Gay and Lesbians By Mubarak Dahir Armando Gallegos 10 Don't Come Out Alone Part 2 • 14 [email protected] By Candace Gingrich Film Fest Preview, photographer 11 Quips and Quotes By Carl Szatmary and Jamakaya Section Q Alison Bechdel, Paul Berge 12 American Players Tour the State with Shaw's "Pygmalion" cartoonists 12 Authors and Coming Out Stories at Outwords Oct. 15 Ad Sales 12 Chamber Theatre Presents "The Drawer Boy" 12 Wingra Woodwind Quintet and "Choral Collage" at Mills Hall [email protected] 12 "Forever Plaid" Back in Vogel Hall by Popular Demand Advertising Sales 12 "Fame: The Musical" to Rock the Weidner Center 14 Milwaukee's LGBT Film Fest: The Sequel By Jamakaya and Carl M. Szatmary Publication of the name, photograph or 21 SATURDAYS other likeness of any person or organiza- 22 INTERVIEW: On the Road with "The Producers" tion in IN Step is not to be construed as By Cart M. Szatmary any indication of the sexual, religious or 24 FILM: "Mambo Italiano" & "Km.o" political orientation, practice or beliefs of By Carl M. Szatmary such person or members of such organiza- 26 STAGE: "The Producers" & "Little Shop of Horrors" "Mambo Italinano" tions. Opinions expressed by contributors By Carl M. Szatmary do not necessarily represent those of the 28 Dear Ruthie and "K.m.o" • 24 publishers. 28 Cordially Yours We reserve the right to edit any submis- By Michael Johnston sions, advertising or editorial at our sole discretion. We assume no responsibility for typographical or others errors unless cam- era-ready copy is provided. We assume no responsibility for advertisers' claims. IN Step is a registered trademark. Entire contents including advertising, 7,2002 by IN Step, Inc. except where specifically noted oth- erwise. All rights reserved. Reproduction, either in whole or part is prohibited.

Gotcha! • 25 NEXT ISSUE DEADLINE: DEADLINE: Friday, Oct. 17 at 5 p.m. for the Wisconsin IN Step Appearing: Thurs., Oct. 23 National Advertising Rep. Rivendell Marketing (908) 232-2021 Wisconsin's Only Gay & Lesbian Newspaper. Since 1984. Page 4 Wisconsin IN Step October 9 — October 22, 2003 • www.instepnews.com New Group Action Wisconsin's Grapples with LEAD Lobbies For PrideFest Debt LGBT Equality By William Attewell By Mike Fitzpatrick Madison — In what has been described by some Capitol Milwaukee — A community "work- .0A group" has formed to explore options pundits as the most visible and dramatic display of support for • for retiring PrideFest's existing debt gay issues in the history of Wisconsin, more than 500 supporters and ensuring the future of PrideFest as of LGBT equality inundated Wisconsin lawmakers with office The Action Wisconsin Board with Governor Doyle at the a yearly festival. visits, phone calls, letters and emails September 30 as part of Governor's mansion on Lobby Day. Legal Equality Action Day (LEAD) here. PrideFest's current debt stands at Action Wisconsin's gay, anti-DOMA messages. According to the statewide LGBT civil rights group, more , at a minimum $136,483. A complete The significant mainstream media coverage of the event was than 200 activists scheduled office visits with legislators during and independent audit funded by the aided by an hour-long press conference held at the Capitol the the lobby day. IN Step's unofficial count of participants packing Cream City Foundation is expected to morning of the lobby day. In addition to prepared remarks by AW AW's lobby training session held at the Capitol tallied 233 in the Executive Director and testimony from the Blumentritt-Angle be complete by month's end. standing-room only crowd. In recent weeks, PrideFest's board family, several others offered their personal stories. Madison cou- Action Wisconsin reported, that, according to meeting the two commit- asked the Cream City Foundation to ple Karl Debus-L0pez and Tanner Wray shared reports turned in at the end of the lobbying effort, at least 25 ment ceremonies held during heir 20-year relationship - a assist in exploring ways of retiring the representatives state senators and over half the assembly Unitarian ceremony marking their 10th anniversary and a debt and ensuring production of a received visits from their constituents who discussed their oppo- Canadian marriage last June to mark their second decade together. 2004 festival. The PrideFest workgroup sition to AB475/SB233, the so-called "Defense of Marriage" Appleton's Angela Stuart spoke of growing up in the loving Although the was formed to provide diverse repre- (DOMA) bills, with legislators and their staffs. environment provided by her lesbian moms. Madison PFLAG sentation of the LGBT community in Senate was in session, several senators left the chamber to meet mom Mary Fiore exhorted her fellow Republicans to "do the these decisions. with AW's citizen lobbyists, only to be unexpectedly called back right thing on DOMA. The workgroup will be led by a core mid-conference for a floor vote. Though the Assembly was not in "I want to ask if religious dogma is dictating legislative deci- committee that will set priorities and session, a majority of the body's DOMA sponsors reportedly had sions, and if that in itself is denying civil rights to a significant delegate responsibilities to the larger "schedule conflicts" and were unable meet directly with LEAD part of our population." Fiore said. "I challenge the Republican group. According to sources, the final participants from their districts. legislators to uphold their stance as the cEcompassionate conser- composition of the core committee has LEAD volunteers also shared their support for civil marriage vatives' and to do the right thing." equality for same-sex couples and the inclusion of domestic part- not yet been determined. However, Action Wisconsin board members put in an exceptionally ners in benefit packages for state employees similar to those avail long day. In addition to involvement in lobby day logistics, the IN Step has learned that a preliminary able for married workers. Some also heeded advice provided by AW lobby training session and their personal appointments with leg- list of candidates includes forMer organizers to also bring up other, non-LGBT related issues of per- islators, the board met for 45 minutes with Governor Jim Doyle PrideFest co-director Susan Cook, sonal concern during their conferences with their elected officials. to discuss a variety of issues ranging from civil marriage equality longtime PrideFest council member AW's lobbyists ranged from 2-year old Parker, the daughter to funding for the state's HIV/AIDS programs. Board members Peter Minns, CCF board member Scott of La Crosse couple Tracie Blumentritt and Rebecca Angle. to also attended a reception for Wisconsin's LGBT community Gunkle, former PrideFest board mem- seniors from Milwaukee's SAGE group. Plucky Cambridge leaders held at the Executive Mansion that evening. ber Cindy Taylor, HRL-Pac president teenager Dale Gunderson, accompanied by AW Board vice presi- Legislative insiders report that legislators take significant Paul Williams, Milwaukee LGBT Center dent Tamara Packard, even lobbied DOMA lead cosponsor Sen. notice of any lobbying effort that brings more than 50 people to board member Brenda Coley, and CCF Scott Fitzgerald (R-Juneau). the state house. The largest LGBT issue-related lobby day prior board member Denise Wise. Additionally, hundreds of other supporters of the LEAD to LEAD was ARCW's 1999 lobby day for HIV/AIDS programs. event called, wrote and emailed legislators throughout the day The full workgroup features a wide That event brought 141 people to the Capitol. the day following supporting LGBT equality. Emails sent through Action range of activists including John AW's first-ever "Sweeten "em Up" lobby day that had involved Wisconsin's Internet action center alone tallied over 300 pro- Blaszciyk, Lil Lau, Marcus Smith, Neil about two dozen volunteer lobbyists. Albrecht, Owen Mahone, Lew Boyles, Robert Starshak, Ross Draegert, Sheri Goldberg, Si Smits, Stephanie Hume, - Karen Gotzler and Jennifer Gryniewicz among others. $548K Raised by The workgroup has met twice in recent weeks. At the first meeting of this workgroup, held September 25, it Dual AIDS Walks was announced that the entire Pride- By Mike Fitzpatrick Fest board had resigned from their positions, although several key mem- Madison, Milwaukee — Despite rainy, unseasonably cool bers of the PrideFest organization weather, Wisconsin's two AIDS walks raised close to $548.000 offered to participate in the workgroup. over the weekend of September 27-28. The officially announced $502,280 for Milwaukee's 14th Annual AIDS Walk According to sources, the work- Wisconsin, when combined with the estimated $45,000 tal- group has had preliminary "positive" lied by Madison's debut AIDS Walk, Roll & Stroll, represents discussions with Milwaukee World Fes; a 4.8% increase in total dollars raised for HIV/AIDS services tivals, Inc. about continuing PrideFest statewide over 2002. at the Summerfest grounds. PrideFest Milwaukee's 10K event actually saw an overall increase in d.k currently owes Milwaukee World Festi- the number of walkers this year. The 3400+ participants heard vals, Inc. over $27,000. Further meet- honorary co-chairs Governor Jim and First Lady Jessica Doyle, ings between workgroup representa- salute them for their efforts against HIV/AIDS during the tives and Milwaukee World Festivals, opening ceremony held at the Summerfest grounds. "You are Inc. are expected in coming weeks. all heroes," Doyle said. The workgroup also approved pay- According to walk organizers, the Sunday Milwaukee Walkers limber up before AIDS Walk wiaensin in ing off all vendors who were owed less event benefited 11 agencies statewide, including the nine Milwaukee on Sept. 28. Photo: M. Fit trick that $300. The total amount of those offices of the AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin in Appleton. io vendors totals $1,595. Additional Eau Claire, Green Bay. Kenosha. La Crosse, Madison, Association of Wisconsin. contacts are also being made with Milwaukee, Superior. and Wausau. Also receiving walk pro- A day earlier, the 7K Madison event survived both heavier remaining vendors making them aware ceeds are the 16th Street Community Health Clinic in rain and complaints that the fundraiser was being held on Milwaukee; Camp of PrideFest's financial status via a let- Heartland; Common Ground what is considered the holiest day of the Jewish year, Yom Ministry/Elena's House; the LGBT Community Center of ter from the core group on Cream City Kippur. An estimated 600 walkers enjoyed kickoff ceremonies Chippewa Valley: the Manitowoc County AIDS Task Force: the at Brittingham Park featuring the event's honorary chair, '70s Foundation letterhead. City of Milwaukee Public Health Department's "No Condom. disco diva Thelma Houston. who that evening performed a Finally, starting on October 6, Pride- No Way" Campaign; the Milwaukee LGBT Community benefit concert at Club Majestic. Fest will move its office to the Milwau- Center; Rodney Scheel House Foundation in Madison: the The Saturday walk benefited the Beloit. Janesville and kee LGBT Community Center at 315 W. Sheboygan County AIDS Task Force; and the Visiting Nurse Madison offices of AIDS Network. Court Street. www.instepnews.com • October 9 — October 22, 2003 Wisconsin IN Step Page 5 of U.S. constitutional law. As people on both sides continue to play New Study: People Massachusetts Court Ruling on the waiting game, state legislators in the Bay May Be Born Gay State are considering competing measures to legalize marriage, to institute civil unions, London — The origins of sexual ori- Gay Marriage Still in Limbo and to ban same-sex marriage under the entation may be evident in the blink of an state constitution. The constitutional ban eye. In what is the first study to show an Boston — As October rolls around, briefs followed in 1997. After that, noth- has been raised and defeated in the last year, apparent link between a non-learned trait many marriage advocates are increasingly ing. The high court simply sat on the case but this November, it will rear its ugly head and sexual orientation, British curious about the Massachusetts Supreme until after the elections of 1998, when again, when state lawmakers convene yet researchers have discovered the way Judicial Court. state voters amended the constitution to another constitutional convention.-So far, peoples' eyes respond to sudden loud In early July, the court announced that ban same-sex marriage. That December, the idea of a marriage ban has been opposed noises may signal differences between it would not be meeting its internal dead- the court ruled that the issue was moot. by a majority of the legislature, as well as by heterosexual and homosexual men and line for the release of its opinion in But the Massachusetts court is in a dif- state voters; who favor same-sex marriage women that were developed before birth. Goodrich v. Board of Health, the famous ferent position. The justices agreed to take by a 50-44 margin according to a Boston The authors, whose study appears in same-sex marriage case. The announce- the Goodrich appeal directly from the trial Globe poll last April. But even if a constitu- ment was not particularly surprising. court, without sending the case through the O:-tober issue of Behavioral Neuro- tional amendment were to squeeze out of science, say about 4 percent of men and After all, the Ontario Court of Appeals the state appellate court. Had they wanted next month's convention, it would have to had shook things up by legalizing mar- to avoid controversy or delay the matter, 3 percent of women are gay. Scientists win a second convention vote, and could have long sought to determine whether riage on June 10, and on June 26, the U.S. they could have done so by rejecting that not be placed on the ballot for ratification Supreme Court had dropped the bomb- fast track. And unlike the scene in Hawaii, sexuality is learned or biological. until 2006 at the earliest. "We have several decades of shell opinion in Lawrence v. Texas. there is no pending legislation or election Nationally, although a majority of research which suggests rather strongly Although Massachusetts state law that could influence the final outcome. Americans continue to reject same-sex that human sexual orientation is to some governs the Goodrich case, most Is the court waiting for the dust to set- marriage by a 55 to 37 percent spread, a observers thought the court was evaluat- tle? That seems unlikely, given that the recent ABC news poll says that only 20 degree biologically determined," says ing these developments. Or maybe wait- issue of same-sex marriage gains heat with percent believe that the definition of mar- study author Qazi Rahman, a lecturer in ing for the dust to settle. each passing week, and all eyes are now riage should be fixed in the U.S. the School of Psychology at the Universi- But now, three months have passed. on Boston. Republican Senators who have Constitution. The low number is encour- ty of East London. "The problem with Although no one can read the minds of yet to introduce the famous Federal aging, but may reflect the way the ques- those types of studies is that we can't the justices, the situation now evokes the Marriage Amendment in their chamber of tion was posed. The pollsters asked 1.028 disentangle the effects of learning." two-year waiting period between the trial Congress have told the press they are adults whether it's "worth" amending the "On the basis of these results and victory that legalized marriage in Hawaii waiting to see how the Massachusetts Constitution to ban same-sex marriage. in conjunction with the bulk of the lit- in late 1996, and the final ruling by the court will rule. A pro-marriage opinion leading only one in five to say "yes." That erature in the last three decades or so, state supreme court in late 1998. will trigger another wave of support for doesn't mean that 80 percent of the coun- the evidence points to some prenatal Back then, the trial court's ruling was the Amendment, which would reserve try is actively opposed to the Federal factor or factors [in determining sexual stayed pending appeal, and a fairly marriage and the legal incidents of mar- Marriage Amendment. preference)," Rahman says. prompt schedule of written and oral riage for opposite sex couples as a matter Bush Joins Campaign

decision to make." Against Gay Marriage In the column, Gray takes on the contention that Washington — Endorsing a cam- Boston Herald's openly gay people can't function in the macho sports paign by such antigay groups as the world. He writes: "In the cases of both a gay athlete Southern Baptist Convention, the and a gay sportswriter, homophobic athletes always American Family Association, and the Sportswriter Comes Out come up with the same sorry excuse to justify the Christian Coalition, President Bush on Oct. 3 proclaimed October 12-18 "Mar- Boston — For sportswriter Ed Gray, the day he perpetuation of prejudice on the basis of sexual ori- riage Protection Week." came out "was the best day of my life, by far." What entation — the locker room. As part of their coordinated effort, made Gray's day was a column he wrote that "What, exactly, does a straight athlete have to far right groups are using the week to appeared on the first page of the Boston Herald's fear from a gay teammate or sportswriter? Any man distribute antigay church bulletins to sports section. secure in his heterosexuality should not have a care over 70,000 churches. In addition, It began with two simple words ("I'm out"), yet in the world when a gay man is present in the locker Christian radio shows will schedule their simplicity belied a courageous step he had room. He is there only to earn a living, not to infiltrate programming all week on banning taken, by coming out as a gay man to his readers. His the locker room in a covert operation to 'convert' same-sex marriages. The groups hope column continued: "I didn't strike out. I wasn't straight athletes. There are infinitely more friendly to make the debate over same-sex thrown out. And above all, I wasn't forced out. and healthy environments in which a self-respecting marriage — along with the proposed "I'm out because I no longer, in good conscience, gay man would prefer to explore his sexuality than a Federal Marriage Amendment — the choose to ignore the unabashed homophobia that is locker room full of straight guys. ... number i social issue in the 2004 gen- so cavalierly tolerated within the world of sports. I'm "In an effort to justify homophobia, some would eral election. out, because the silence of a closeted gay man only claim that an openly gay player would become a dis- In his proclamation, Bush said, "Mar- serves to give his implicit approval to bigotry. I'm out, traction that would undermine his team. A media riage is a sacred institution, and its pro- I refuse to continue hiding from the truth frenzy surely would be created by a player coming because tection is essential to the continued that an openly gay man has as much right as a out of the closet, but how long would a gay player be strength of our society. Marriage Protec- straight man to play sports or report on them." such a distraction if all of his teammates rallied tion Week provides an opportunity to Gray's declaration, just days before National Com- around him for the whole world to witness? Profes- focus our efforts on preserving the sanc- ing Out Day, makes him a rarity in the sports world. sional athletes are role models, and a demonstration tity of marriage and on building strong While professing that "it shouldn't be a big deal," of team solidarity would send the profound message: and healthy marriages in America." aware that it really is. The sports world, both 'We support our teammate and you should, too."' Gray is He continued, "Marriage is a union among its participants and its observers, remains the While acknowledging that coming out for an active athlete could be difficult, Gray said that no one between a man and a woman, and my final closet in American life. administration is working to support surprise that Gray sounded a bit hoarse really knows what the reaction would be and says It's no the institution of marriage by helping after a long day of answering media questions, both there is a lot of "irrational fear." He says that every- couples build successful marriages from the Boston area and nationally. CNN called, as one, gay and straight, needs to take responsibility for and be good parents." NBC and countless others, but Gray was fostering a climate of tolerance, adding that "people did HBO, The proclamation drew strong criti- to address the issue head on. "A media are very homophobic in homophobic atmospheres. If determined cism from gay and lesbian activists. frenzy is fine," he said, "but a media circus is not." people would be held accountable, the issue would "We are shocked, appalled and Gray, 55, has been with the Herald for 20 years. disappear very quickly. I truly believe it." immensely saddened that President His main beat is thoroughbred racing, but he regular- Gray's column represents a public coming out, but Bush has sanctioned the so-called ly covers the Patriots, Red Sox and college football. he said he has been out to some people, including 'Marriage Protection Week' with an He told Outsports he wrote the column because "it his family. He was reluctant to discuss much about official proclamation," said Matt Fore- was the right time in my life. ... Everyone has their his personal life because "I don't want my message man, executive director of the National own personal journey and it was just my time." There to be lost. ... I don't want to be perceived as someone Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Contrary was no one catalyst for the decision to come out pub- trying to get attention. The more I talk about my per- to his statement, this 'week' has noth- licly, Gray said, though he felt it important to take on sonal journey, the more it dilutes that. ing to do with 'building strong and the pervasive homophobia in sports. "I'm just a sportswriter who is gay." healthy marriages in America.— "I really don't want to be silent any more," the Boston-area native said. "It was really not a hard Page 6 Wisconsin IN Step October 9 — October 22, 2003 • www.instepnews.com

The Wisconsin Cream City Chorus presents... An Evening at the Bistro With host, Michael (KV) Johnston A special event, featuring: sage • Musical highlights • Sneak Preview of our 2003-04 Season

Plus... introducing our new SAGE/Milwaukee Artistic Director, (Senior Action in a Gay Environment) Paula Foley Tillen Serving older gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals. Saturday, Oct. 18 • 7:30 p.m. P.O. Box 510492 Milwaukee, WI 53203-0091 Village Church Arts E. Juneau, Milw. (414) 224-0517 www.sagemilwaukee.com Admission is free! wIs coNsig Donations will be Persons over fifty with health, financial, housing, gratefully accepted. employment, personal problems etc can confidentially Seating is limited. To reserve contact our social worker by using voicemail box one. IS yours today, contact the chorus at: For information or to receive the monthly newsletter, 315 W. Court St., Suite 101 use voicemail box two. Milwaukee 53212 • 414/276-8787

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ARC \V- A 1) s, v 7c.c(iN , IN Jerry Seguin Member of the Bag Boyz www.instepnews.com • October 9 — October 22, 2003 Wisconsin IN Step Page 7 chorus," commented Ebbie Duggins. one place giving federation. This year's Lifelong of the WCCC's founding members and a Commitment to Justice Award will be pre- GROUP NOTES current Board Member. "Her musical sented to Mary Ann Ihm. The Business knowledge is helping to move the chorus to Humanitarian Award will be given to The where we know we can go." Sigma Group. The President's Award will Cream City Chorus Holds said chorus President, Emory Churness. Thirdly. the chorus hopes to harness be presented to Dennis Grzezinski. Free Concert/Reception "We thought a evening of free music, mer- the undeniable charms of longtime friend The event will occur within the riment, and delicious food was the way to Milwaukee — On October 18, The and supporter Michael (KV) Johnston as it Haggerty Museum which will be exhibiting say it best." rolls out plans for the chorus's upcoming interactive environmental art by the Sierra Wisconsin Cream City Chorus will open the For the event, the chorus has chosen doors at 7:30 p.m. for "A Night at the Bistro." season, its hopes for the chorus' future - Club. Wisconsin Citizen Action, Hope Village Church Arts (130 E. Juneau, and The gala will feature a variety of musi- what it's going to take to get there. House. Urban Ecology Center and MATA. Milwaukee), a location preferred by several "KV was a cal offerings, combined with previews of member of the chorus when I An exhibit by internationally known envi- of Milwaukee's finer performing groups. joined ten years ago. the upcoming season and a look at the cho- and one way or anoth- ronmental artist Agnes Denes — "Agnes "We want the evening to be something er, he's been there for us ever since. So rus's plans and hopes for the future - all when Denes: Projects for Public Spaces" — is the special. a gift from us to our friends," says Paula explained her vision with the dash of humor and flair that is the for the evening. primary exhibit. Churness. the rest of us knew who the right person for Tickets purchased before Oct. 15 hallmark of its special Master of are Another focus of the evening is to for- the job had to be. We're all thrilled he $35 per person/$65 per Ceremonies, Michael (KV) Johnston. couple. After Oct. mally introduce the chorus's new Artistic agreed to join us for the evening." 15. tickets will be $40 per A departure from past performances. person, $70 per Director, Paula Foley Tillen." Tillen, who The evening's format will also allow couple. To purchase tickets, call (414) 342- "A Night at the Bistro" is designed with sev- has worked twice with the WCCC as guest time for guests to mingle with chorus 0883. For more eral goals in mind. information, visit: Musical Director, took over as permanent members and staff sharing their own ideas www.milwaukeeshares.org. "First and foremost, we want to thank Artistic Director recently. and vision for the group. everyone who has supported the WCCC," LGBT Resource "Paula is bringing a new energy to the "We're even putting out a wish list of things that we feel will help us move for- Directory 2004 ward." added Duggins. "Hopefully, our Milwaukee — The Milwaukee LGBT friends will see something they'd like to Community Center is beginning the task of Women's Halloween help make a reality." updating and revising its Resource Admission to "A Night at the Bistro" is Directory. In order to expand listings, we free, but seating is limited at The Village look to LGBT people to recommend LGBT- Church, 130 E. Juneau Ave., in Milwaukee. sensitive providers in the following cate- Party & Carnival Oct. 31 For reservations, at (414) 276-8787. gories: mental health practitioners: physi- Milwaukee —The Lesbian Alliance of Metro Milwaukee (LAMM) is Commitment to Justice cians/health care providers: attorneys: sponsoring a Women's Halloween Party and Carnival on Friday, Oct. 31, LGBT groups/organizations and from 7:3o to ii p.m. at the LGBT Community Center, 315 W. Court St. All Awards Oct. 23 Religion/Spirituality. women are welcome to attend this fund-raising event. Milwaukee — -Milwaukee's 14th annual If you have a recommendation, please Halloween costumes are optional at the party, however a prize will be Commitment to Justice Awards, this year contact the Center's Director of Programs awarded for the Best Costume. Among the events featured will be a bake honoring the quest for Environmental at 414-271-2656. Each recommended sale, body painting, fortune telling and Tarot readings, carnival games, Justice, will be held on Thursday, Oct. 23. provider will be sent a letter describing the music and dancing. LAMM is asking for a $5-$8 donation (sliding scale from 5:30-7:30 p.m. at the Haggerty Museum Center's Resource Directory along with a based on ability to pay). of Art on the Marquette University Campus. survey. Only providers who return a com- pleted survey to the Center will be included For more information, or to volunteer for the big event, call LAMM at The annual Commitment to Justice Awards is sponsored by Community Shares in the 2004 Directory. (414) 272-9442. of Greater Milwaukee. the alternative work-

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The groups will Divinity School and is active in local organ- Women of Oct. 21 Program run for ten weeks. Two trained volunteers izations including the Cream City Milwaukee — The Milwaukee LGBT Milwaukee — Kathryn Hall, Founder will facilitate each meeting. Foundation. Andrew and his partner have Community Center's Anti-Violence Project and Director of the Center for Community Women who are interested in attend- two sons. sponsors a Community Dialogue for les- Health & Well-Being and The Birthing ing the meetings should talk to or leave a Gay, Straight Conference bian and bisexual women on Thursday. Project of Sacramento, CA, will address "A message for Berta on Wednesday nights October 23 from 6 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. This Call to Action: Building a Healthy from 6-9 p.m. Men should talk to or leave a Set for Oct. 25 facilitated discussion about domestic abuse Community" Tuesday, Oct. 21 from 7-9 message for Harry. For more information. Milwaukee — A Gay Straight and sexual assault in our communities wel- p.m. at Centennial Hall of the Milwaukee contact OutReach at (608) 255-8582 or Alliance/Allies Conference will be held on comes the participation of both survivors Public Library, 733 N. 8th St. email: [email protected]. Saturday, October 25 from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. and other interested community members. Hall is expected to share her experi- The OutReach LGBT Community at the Milwaukee LGBT Community Through both small and large group ences working toward a caring, responsive Center has served Madison's lesbian, gay. Center, 315 W. Court Street. conversations, we hope to encourage dis- community that actively supports the bisexual and transgender community since Sponsored by PFLAG-Milwaukee and cussion about general beliefs, perceptions health and well-being of its members, in 1973, providing counseling, advocacy. edu- GLSEN (Gay Lesbian Straight Education and attitudes towards domestic abuse and establishing a holistic health and social cation, youth information and referral Network) - Southeastern Wisconsin sexual assault. Participants in the Dialogue service agency, and in developing a pro- services. It also offers a lending library, free Chapter, the Conference is designed for will also help us to identify the role com- gram which has become a national model publications, and meeting space. GSA Advisors and ALL those who want to munity and individualS can play in sup- for improving birth outcomes for high-risk Rediscovering broaden their own horizons and become porting victims. women. Hall was named "Woman of the Queer Saints: more skilled and comfortable in support- For more information and to register Year" by the California State legislature, LGBT Christian Heroes ing Igbtq youth in schools and in the (preregistration is requested), please contact and a "Hero in Health Care" by the Milwaukee — The Milwaukee LGBT broader community. the Center's Director of Programs at (414) Coalition for Excellence in Health Care. Community Center's Rainbow U Lecture The schedule for the day will include 271-2656. Refreshments will be provided. This event is sponsored by the on October 16 features a fascinating, and inter-activities, workshops focusing on the Milwaukee Commission on Domestic generally ignored. aspect of the history of relationship of "isms" (sexism, racism, etc.) Violence and Sexual Assault and other Christianity. and oppression (homophobia etc.), sexual- community agencies. For more informa- Discussions of LGBT issues within ity, the concept of the Big Life (free to be tion, call (414) 286-3798. Christianity tend to focus on how to inter- true to self) in social development for our Coming Out Groups to pret a few challenging verses of scriptures. lgbt youth, building practical skills, and Yet, there is a rich and diverse history to networking opportunities. A nominal fee Counseling for: Start at OutReach Christianity that includes LGBT people. of $10 will provide luncheon, snacks and Relationship Issues Madison — Coming-out support groups "Queer Saints" is an opportunity to learn beverages during the day. for women and men are forming for this about the lives of"hidden" people such as a Pre-registration by Oct. 13 is suggested Depression/Anxiety fall at OutReach. The purpose of the 4th century transgender monk in Egypt. for luncheon purposes - however, day-of Sexual Identity Crisis groups is to offer support to women and Presenter Andrew Warner tackles ques- registration, starting at 8:30 a.m., is wel- men who are dealing with the realization tions such as "what is a saint?" and topics come. If interested in attending, or for that they are not heterosexual and how such as "how queer saints can inspire our information, please contact Elna at PFLAG Jeanie L Simpkins, M.S. that affects their everyday lives and to sup- lives." Rev. Warner's talk will include a (414) 299-9198. Wings of Healing port those people previously or currently slide presentation_ along with story telling in same sex relationships. and time for discussion and questions and Counseling Services The coming out support groups will answers. [414) 325-6616 identify and discuss the stages of coming Warner is one of the pastors at out and explore topics such as how to deal Plymouth Church UCC — a congregation

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5 include all these mixtures under the defini- . tion of 'civil union,' giving them identical . standing with the marriage of one man and qp one woman." %Llt They forgot we want to marry our 4t, horses, too. 1 ditodi 1 sheep and .9 It's no secret that there is not just a 4 •, w- • -,.. national debate about gay and lesbian mar- II "'siPee.,424,4v, --mpieillir riage, but an international one. Gays and ---... 00041...._ N., lesbians can marry now in Canada. In California, the legislature just passed a — :4Y•- , 4:- •*.z.•,:? series of laws that give gay and lesbian cou- ••• ples in that state near-equal marriage t • •4, rights (though the term "marriage" is care- fully avoided, and marriage licenses are not ifilwritt Itiort a. O. being issued.) The highest court in I DON'T Massachusetts is set to rule any day now ‘1 044, I PRESENT GAY HISTORY MONTH MATERIAL TO MY STUDENTS, BUT on a case that might well give gay and les- TEST THEM ON IT I'VE FOUND "THEM'S AN AWFUL LOT OF PRESSURE bian couples full equal marriage rights GOOD GRADE." there. And a similar case is winding its way ON t3 -YEAR-OLD BOYS NOT TO GET A through the courts in New Jersey. Association, the Traditional Values Furthermore, a new poll shows that Coalition, Focus on the Family, the Family Americans are split nearly evenly on OPINIONS Research Council. the Christian Coalition whether or not to support marriage for gay and Concerned Women for America. All of and lesbian couples. While it's hard to these right-wing groups earned their repu- rejoice at the notion that half the nation tations and national prominence at least in doesn't see anything wrong with denying "Marriage Protection Week" Is About part by crusading heavily against gay, les- gay and lesbian couples this important bian, bisexual and transgender civil rights. right, it's encouraging to note that the half- President Bush is trying to sugar coat and-half split is the highest percentage to Denying Gay and Lesbian Couples his proclamation so that he can support date of Americans who are starting to see the right-wing fanatics (an important part the light. By Mubarak. Dahir married couples to move out of poverty." of his core voting base as we near the presi- The coalition of right-wing organiza- n its face, the proclamation He even says that "we must continue our dential election year) yet not appear to the tions that have come up with "Marriage issued by President George work to create a compassionate. welcom- rest of the American public to be extremist Protection Week" are hoping to demonize Bush to recognize October 12 ing society. where all people are treated himself. After all, who can oppose giving gay and lesbian couples, in an effort to con- O with dignity and respect" through October 18 as "Marriage children a better life through strengthen- tinue denying us the rights and privileges Protection Week" seems innocuous. Sounds good. Too bad the president is ing their fainilies?. of the institution of marriage. Indeed, many of the goals and sentiments full of hogwash. But the truth is that "Marriage It's a shame the president is adding his expressed in the statement appear Despite the carefully calculated word- Protection Week" is a scheme concocted by voice to this badly off-key chorus. . admirable and even noble. ing of the statement, Bush's proclamation anti-gay. right-wing groups to rally In his declaration, President Bush says of "Marriage Protection Week" is nothing Americans to continue to deny gay and les- he wants to "help... couples be good par- but a presidential booster to an alliance of bian couples the same fundamental rights ents": "promote the well-being of children" anti-gay organizations aimed at preventing and benefits that heterosexual couples take and "a better quality of life for children": equal marriage rights for same-sex couples. for granted in our society. "ensure that every child can grow up in a Some of the famously homophobic And unlike President Bush, the hateful safe and loving home": and "do away with groups behind "Marriage Protection groups who planted the idea are not shy rules that have made it more difficult for Week" include the American Family about expressing their full intentions, even

that would outlaw discrimination based on sexual orien- So don't come out alone this Oct. 11. Come out as a Don't Come Out Alone tation in the workplace. family. - By Candace Gingrich What made her do it? The same thing that makes the Tell your family members that there are same-sex cou- parents. siblings and friends of so many gay, lesbian, ples in 99.3 of all counties nationwide and that one out of Air re you trying to tell me something?" my bisexual and transgender person stand up and support three lesbian couples and one out of five gay male couples mother asked as she held a copy of the equal rights for all GLBT people every day. Someone they are raising children. But make sure you also tell them that "Lavender Letter," a central Pennsylvania love has come out to them. none of our families can rely on the same basic protec- lesbian newsletter she had found in my room. It was the In a July 2003 poll commissioned by the HRC tions available to heterosexual families. summer of 1987. and I had only recently acknowledged to Foundation, we found that 36 percent of those who said Let them know that we are denied basic Social myself that I was a lesbian. I was on my coming out jour- they didn't know anyone gay approved of granting "civil Security survivor benefits, the ability to make decisions ney, and it was important that my mom come with me. marriage licenses to gay and lesbian couples. with the on a partner's behalf in a medical emergency, the right-to My mom passed away last month at the age of 77. As I same rights, responsibilities and protections given to petition for a partner to immigrate. access to medical look back, I remember her as someone who once told me other married couples." But 81 percent of those who had leave to care for a seriously ill partner and the right to that they "didn't have gay people" when she was growing up a close family member or friend who was gay, lesbian. bi give our children two legal parents in many states. and, for a time, insisted that my being gay was just a phase. or transgender supported civil marriage equality. Remind them that, as family, their silence hurts -- but But I also remember her as someone who grew with The lesson is clear: The single most powerful thing their support heals. me because we were family. She accepted me for who I any one of us can do to win GLBT equality is to come out Ask them to visit www.millionformarriage.org and sign am, invited my partner to family gatherings and debated to family members and friends. the petition in support of civil marriage equality for all. who was and wasn't gay in Hollywood. Not someone who That is why the HRC Foundation's National Coming And encourage them to learn more about your life. hesitated to speak her mind, she also spoke out for gay, Out Project has declared the theme of this National Send them to the Human National Coming Out Project, lesbian, bisexual and transgender equality. Coming Day. Oct. 11, "It's a Family Affair." at www.hrc.org/ncop, and the HRC Foundation's Back in 1996, she appeared with Coretta Scott King. It's time we celebrate ourselves as families - couples. FamilyNet project at www.hrc.org/familynet. Whitman in a televi- BarryGoldwater and Christine Todd parents and children, families of our own choosing - and Candace Gingrich is manager sion ad sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign that invite our parents. siblings, grandparents and friends to of the Human Rights Campaign Foundation's called for support of the Employment Non- join us in our quest for equality for all. , Discrimination Act, a bill for which we are still fighting National Coming Out Project. www.instepnews.com • October 9 — October 22, 2OO3 Wisconsin IN Step Page 11 Syphilis Rising "By year's end, local health officials esti- UIPS AND i UOTES mate there will be 750 new syphilis cases in San Francisco, compared to 494 last year Mariel the Whore? and 10 cases in 1998. Most of the new cases are among gay and bisexual men." "I have never made out with a woman —The San Francisco Chronicle, off-camera. I have to admit that I like being Sept. 26. paid for it. 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You think you're brilliant. And did take nude photos of Arnold correct than they were 10 years ago. It has you can drive. Or so you think you can Schwarzenegger. Fritscher said he its place but it also becomes another kind drive. ... I was swept off in that direction. It has sold some of them on eBay. of prison." Ellen was completely harrowing. ... It's really up Sexless —Advocate Editorial Director to the person to save themselves. I don't "Out lesbian Ellen DeGeneres is having Judy Wieder on the think there's a lot of ways to get through to fun on her new talk show, but she's coming VHi program "Totally Gay." off completely sexless (unless you count someone who's on that kind of roller coast- her saying Brad Pitt is perfect and acting a Smooch! er." bit smitten with Justin Timberlake). It's "Vanessa Redgrave.” —Openly gay singer like the early days of Rosie all over again! 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While in each city. the company performs evening shows for the general public and offers student matinees and school workshops. In Shaw's retelling of Ovid's story of transformation, the imperious Professor Henry Higgins wagers that he can transform an impoverished flower girl. Eliza Doolittle, from "Forever Plaid" Back "draggle-tailed guttersnipe" to duchess in six months. In the course of this delightful in Vogel Hall by comic romance, Shaw systematically examines the English class system and the particu- Popular Demand lar plight of women — of whatever class — within it. "Pygmalion" showcases the powerful acting ensemble that is such a feature of Milwaukee — "Forever Plaid," which long run at Vogel Hall a while American Players Theatre and seals the company's reputation as a first-rate interpreter of completed a for Shaw. Directed by James Bohnen, the play features Brian Robert Mani as Henry Higgins back, is returning to the Marcus Center and Colleen Madden as Eliza Doolittle. The cast also includes Tracy Michelle Arnold as the Performing Arts for an 11-week engage- Mrs. Higgins, Jim DeVita as Doolittle, James Ridge as Colonel Pickering and Sarah Day, ment beginning Oct. 22. Previews actually Colleen Madden as Eliza Doolittle in Irion, Matt Schwader, and Susan Shunk. begin Oct. 15. "Pygmalion." Photo: Zane Williams. Patricia Finn-Morris, Kimberly The Wisconsin State Journal's critic declared that "Watching the APT production of The sweet and funny tribute to the 'Pygmalion' is like being a guest at a glittering dinner party, with Oscar Wilde piffling away on your left and Henry James pepper- four-part harmony guy groups of the 1950s ing you with probing moral questions from the right. You laugh yourself silly one minute, and furrow your brow the next." and '60s tells the story of The Plaids, whose Performances are slated for Wausau's Grand Theater, 415 N. 4th St., Oct. 14, (715) 842-0988: Wisconsin Rapids' Performing dreams of stardom were cut short by an Arts Center, 1810 16th- St., Oct. 18, (715) 421-4552; Milwaukee's Pabst Theater, 144 E. Wells St.. Oct. 24. (414) 286-3663; unfortunate accident on the night of their Appleton's Fox Cities Performing Arts Center, 400 W. College Ave., Oct. 26, (920) 731-5000; UW-Whitewater's Young Auditorium. first big gig in 1964. Now the teen angels 800 W. Main St.. Oct. 28, (262) 472-2222; Hartford's Schauer Arts & Activities Center, 147 N. Rural St.. Oct. 30. (262) 670-0560; have returned from the other side for one and UW-Madison's Union Theater, 800 Langdon St., Nov. 1, (608) 262-2201. night to perform the show they never got For more information on student matinee tickets and workshops, call APT's Workshop Coordinator at (608) 588-7401. to do in real life. "Forever Plaid" features such classic pop hits as "Rags to Riches," "Three Coins boys uncover and express their love for one in the Fountain." "Love is a Many Authors and Coming Out Wingra Woodwind Quintet Splendored Thing" and "Heart and Soul" Stories at Outwords Oct. 15 another before it's too late? and "Choral Collage" at For further information on the Oct. 15 in addition to a hilarious send-up of the old Milwaukee — Authors Trebor Healey authors event, call (414) 963-9089 or visit: Mills Hall "Ed Sullivan Show." and Mark Kendrick will read and sign www.outwordsbooks.com. Madison — The UW School of Music's The cast will include veterans of the copies of their new books at 7 p.m. on Faculty Concert Series presents the Wingra long-running Chicago production, Ross Wednesday. Oct. 15. at Outwords Books, Chamber Theatre Presents Woodwind Quintet on Friday. Oct. 10, at 8 Wheeler as Smudge, Erik Boyd as Frankie. 2710 N. Murray Ave. in Milwaukee. The "The Drawer Boy" p.m. in Mills Hall in the Mosse Humanities David Gagnon as Jinx and Elic Bramlett as event is free and everyone is welcome. Milwaukee— Chamber Theatre continues Building on the UW-Madison campus, at Sparky. "Forever Plaid" is written, directed San Francisco-born Trebor Healey has its 2003-04 season with "The Drawer Boy." the corner of Park St. and University Ave. and choreographed by Stuart Ross. The just released his debut novel, "Through it Michael Healey's award-winning dramatic The quintet has chosen a group of five musical arrangements are by James Raitt. Came Bright Colors," published by comedy that peels back the layers of friend- works from the 20th century, written by For tickets and show times, call (414) Haworth Press. In "Through It Came ship. storytelling, and theatre, revealing hid- composers from five different countries. 273-7206. Bright Colors," Healey tells the story of den truths for three people in rural Canada in The program begins with the Quintet by Neill Cullane, a closeted, conflicted 21- "Fame: The Musical" to 1972. Performances take place in the Cabot Jacques Casterede. a French composer. and Rock the Weidner Center year-old who lives in two worlds, light Theatre of the Broadway Theatre Center, 158 continues with "Roaring Fork." a three- years apart. At home, he's the dutiful son of N. Broadway, Oct. 18 through Nov. 2. movement work depicting scenes from Green Bay — "Fame: The Musical." Frank and Grace, and devoted brother to This touching and often hilarious story Colorado by the American composer Eric based on the Oscar-winning movie and TV Peter, whose battle with a cruel, disfiguring follows three characters — Miles, a young actor Ewazen. Following intermission, the quintet series, will strut its stuff across the stage of cancer pulls the Cullane family together. from the big city who appears on the doorstep performs works by the German-horn the Weidner Center during a limited eight however reluctantly. But in the shadows of of two aging bachelor farmers, Morgan and American composer Bernhard Heiden. the performance run Oct. 21-26. the San Francisco underworld, Neill finds Angus. Miles is in search of a place to live Russian composer Alexander Tcherepnin, "Fame" chronicles the four-year odyssey release with his secret lover Vince Malone, while learning about life 'down on the farm.' and the Hungarian composer Frigyes Hidas. — from audition to graduation — of a group a beautiful junkie/philosopher/thief whose Fascinated by Angus who has suffered a Soprano Julia Faulkner and pianist Bill of talented and dedicated students at New burning desire for truth lights the path brain injury in World War II (he has no Lutes perform on Saturday, Oct. 11, at 8 York City's High School for the Performing Neill always knew he'd travel. Through short-term memory, yet can quickly manip- p.m. in Mills Hall. This free recital was Arts. Driven by the desire for fame, the Vince. Neill learns about honesty and love ulate mathematical figures), and lightly tor- postponed from the originally scheduled diverse teens experience common triumphs and finds the courage to confront his fami- mented by Morgan because of his rural date of September 21. The program and tragedies along their journey to star- ly in the face of tragedy and loss. ineptness. Miles earnestly attempts to remains the same — songs and arias by dom. The show includes many musical Mark Kendrick has recently released assimilate into farm life with hilarious Handel, Mozart. Poulenc, Cilea. and R. numbers and dance sequences highlighting "Into this World We're Thrown." a sequel results. Desperate to impress his acting Strauss. The Wind Ensemble, under the the students' development. to his popular debut novel "Desert Sons." peers. Miles includes an overheard story of direction of James Smith, performs for free "The reason 'Fame' is so popular with "Desert Sons" introduced readers to Scott, the history of Morgan and Angus's friend- on Sunday. Oct. 12, at 2 p.m. in Mills Hall. audiences is that it promotes the idea that a fun-loving 16-year-old, in a small-town ship. their adventures in the war, and their Five choirs will participate in the free success follows talent and dedication, but rock band, and out )but only to a select return home with their loves. The hidden concert "Choral Collage" on Sunday. Oct. not without its share of highs and lows. few) who falls in love with Ryan St. Charlm story becomes part of the play, unlocking 12, at 7:30 p.m. in Mills Hall. Beverly Even with talent, there are victories and a troubled 17-year -old. The sequel finds painful memories and blurring the lines Taylor directs the Concert Choir: Bruce defeats, laughter and tears," said producer that lingering tensions remain, while new between theatre and life. memory and truth. Gladstone directs the Madrigal Singers Michael McFadden of Phoenix challenges continue to confront Scott and The cast includes Gerard Neugent as and Chorale: Chris Sheppard directs the Productions. Ryan. Infidelity, jealousy, town gossip, and Miles. Dan Katula as Angus, and James Women's Chorus: and Scot Weir directs "Fame: The Musical" is written by Jose buried feelings threaten to destroy their Tasse as Morgan. All are Chamber Theatre the University Chorus. Each choir per- Fernandez, lyrics by Jacques Levy ("Oh! relationship. Worse yet, the threat of vio- vets and audience favorites. Chamber forms a portion of its fall repertoire. Calcutta!"), with a musical score by Steve lence looms constantly in their lives. While Theatre co-founder and Artistic Director Tickets for the Faculty Concert Series Margoshes ("The Who's Tommy" and Scott is dealing with the possible destruc- Montgomery Davis directs. may be purchased in advance through the "Smokey Joe's Café"). For tickets and show tion of his first relationship. he learns For tickets and show times, call (414) Wisconsin Union Theater Box Office at times, call (800) 328-TKTS. about a secret admirer at school who will 291-7800. (608) 262-2201. UW-Madison students are stop at nothing to make Scott his. Will this admitted free with valid student ID. Call secret admirer ruin Scott and Ryan's rela- the Concert Line at (608) 263-9485 for tionship? Will Ryan pull himself from the weekly updated announcements of School depths of his emotional turmoil? Can the of Music programs. www.instepnews.com • October 9 — October 22, 2003 Wisconsin IN Step Page 13

Wednesday, Oct. 22 Women's Music Radio (Milw.): WMSE-91.7FM. 10:30 p.m. to Midnight. Variety of women's music genres and Tom Bissell Talk (Milw.): Author of "Chasing the Sea." 7 announcements of'events in Milwaukee's women's com- ARTS CALENDAR p.m., Schwartz Books. 2559 N. Downer Ave. FM1: munity. Request Line: (414) 799-1917. (414) 332-1181. Wells St. FMI: (414) 224-9490. Sunday, Oct. 12 THEATRE/MUSIC: "What Matters" (Milw.): Theatre X opens its new season LGBT Film Fest (Milw,): Featuring "Shake It All About" ar with an original production featuring the talents and FILM, TV & RADIO: 5 p.m.. "Suddenly" at 7 p.m. Union Theatre. Student "The Drawer Boy" (Milw.): Chamber Theatre production issues of concern to local 20-somethings. thru Oct. 19, Union. 2200 E. Kenwood Blvd. FM1: (414) 229-4758. about a big city actor who disrupts the lives of two Studio Theatre, Broadway Theatre Center, 158 N. Thursday, Oct. 9 farmers whose lives he studies for a role, Oct. 18-Nov. Broadway. FM1: (414) 291-7800. Monday, Oct. 13 2, Cabot Theatre, Broadway Theatre Center, 158 N. LGBT Film Fest (Milw.): Featuring "Flag Wars" documen- Wynton Marsalis (Madison & Milw.): The jazz master and "The Queer Program" (Milw.): Live weekly telecast on Broadway. FM!: (414) 291-7800. tary about gentrification at 7 p.m. (Free), and "Bulgari- trumpeter in concert Oct. 18. 5 p.m. and 9 p.m., MATA public access cable channel 96 at 6:30 p.m. an LoVers" at 9 p.m.. Union Theatre, Student Union. . "Fame: The Musical" (Green Bay): Stage musical based on Alverno College's Pitman Theatre in Milwaukee. S. Hosts: Michael Lisowski and Charles Daniels. Re- 2200 E. Kenwood Blvd. FM!: (414) 229-4758. movie and TV hit, Oct. 21-26, Weidner Center on the 39th $ W. Morgan Ave.; and Oct. 20. 7:30 p.m. at the broadcast Saturdays 12 -1 a.m. and 10-11 p.m. FMI: UW-Green Bay campus. FMI: (800) 328-TKTS, or: Madison Civic Center. 211 State St. FMI: (414) 382- Friday, Oct. lo (414) 265-8500. www.weidnercenter.com. 6044. (608) 258-4141. "Flanagan's Wake" (Milw.): A new comedy about the rit- "The Animation Show" (Milw.): A selection of great car- Wed., Oct. 15 & Every Wed. uals of an Irish wake with audience participation — toon shorts, thru Oct. 16. Times Cinema. 5906 W "Queery" (Madison): WORT, 89.9 FM - Madison's come ready to be part of the fun! Miramar Theatre, Vliet St. FMI: (414) 453-2436. GLBTQ radio show. 7 p.m.,-followed by "This Way 2844 N. Oakland Ave. FMI: (414) 967-0302. BOOKS: LGBT Film Fest (Milw.): Featuring "Evening of Girls' Out." the international news magazine, from 7:30-8 "Forever Plaid" (tAllw.): Lots of corny songs and great Shorts" at 7 p.m., "Madame Sara" and "Placebdat 9 p.m. FMI: (608) 256-2001. harmonies as The Plaids, a '60s boys group. come back Sunday, Oct. 12 p.m. Union Theatre. Student Union, 2200 E. Ken- wood Blvd. FMI: (414) 229-4758. Thursday, Oct. 16 to life to perform the show they couldn't do in 1964, Paul Krugman Talk (Milw.): Author of "The Great Hall. Marcus Center, 929 N. Oct. 15-Jan. 4, Vogel Unraveling" speaks at 4 p.m., Schwartz Books. 4093 N. Saturday, Oct. is An Evening with Chris Eyre (Milw.): Native American film Water Sr. FMI: (414) 273-7206. Oakland Ave. FMI: (414) 963-3111. director of "Smoke Signals" and "Skins" talks about his "Frankenstein Smankenstein" (Madison): Broom Street The- LGBT Film Fest (Milw.): featuring "Radical Harmonies" life, career and the treatment of Indians in the movies. ater offers a new take on the lonely doctor who creates new Monday, Oct. 13 at noon, "The Gift" (free) at 4 p.m.. "The Politics of 8 p.m.. Tix: S8 general. S5 campus community, UNXIM. Fur" at 7 p.m.. "Evening of Boys' Shorts" at 9 p.m. Union Ballroom, Student Union. 2200 E. Kenwood friends, Fris.-Suns. at 8 p.m. thru Oct. 19, Broom Street Outwords Book Club (Milw.): Discussion of Mel Keegan's Union Theatre. Student Union. 2200 E. Kenwood Blvd. FMI: (414) 229-4758. Theater. 1119 Williamson St. FMI: (608) 244-8338. gay historical romance, "Fortunes of War," 7:30 p.m., Blvd. FMI: (4141 229--,-S8. "A Girl's Guide to Chaos" (Milw.): Boulevard Ensemble Outwords Books, 2710 N. Murray Ave. FM!: (414) Friday, Oct. 17 opens its season with Cynthia Hennes comedy about. 963-9089. "Rocky Horror Picture Show" (Madison & Milwaukee): Midnight screenings with all the queer fun! In Madison Reel American Indian Film Festival (Milw.): Showcasing well, sex in the city, with three (straight) gals on the Peace & justice Book Circle (Madison): Feminist group at the Majestic. 115 King St. In Milwaukee, at the Ori- winners of the first annual Indian Summer Film & make, thru Oct. 19, Boulevard Ensemble Studio The- studies, cultural criticism, politics and reads women's ental, 2230 N. Farwell Ave. Video Image Awards. 6 p.m., Union Theatre, Student atre, 2252 S. Kinnickinnic Ave. FMI: (414) 744-5757. One's Own, 307 W. John- history, 6 p.m., A Room of Union, 1200 Kenwmd Blvd. FMI:. (414) 229-4758. Koresh Dance Company (Sheboygan): This company per- son St. FMI: (608) 257-7888. Sunday, Oct. 12 & Every Sun. forms a powerful blend of ballet, modern and jazz Saturday, Oct. 18 dance. Oct. 14 at 7 p.m. and Oct. 16 at 7:30 p.m., Tuesday, Oct. 14 "Her Turn," Womyn's Radio (Madison): WORT Radio 89.9 FM. A weekly show featuring news and informa- "Rocky Horror Picture Show" (Madison & Milw.): Mid- John Michael Kohler Arts Center, 608 New York Ave. Healey Reading (Madison): Author of "Through It Trebor tion by and about women. 11 to 11:30 a.m. Followed night screenings with all the queer fun! In Madison at FMI: (920) 458-6144. Colors," 6:30 p.m., A Room of One's Came Bright by "Her Infinite Variety" — Women in music — all gen- the Majestic. 115 King St. In Milwaukee, at the Orien- Own, 307 W Johnson St. FMI: (608) 257-7888. "Little Shop of Were (Miter.): Skylight Opera produces res and styles. interviews. live guests and announce- tal. 22.30 N. Farwell Ave. featuring this zany musical based on the cult film and lesbian Reading Group (Milw.): Discussion of B. Reese ments for the women's community. 11:30 a.m. to 2 Ashman and Alan the music and lyrics of Howard Johnson's murder mystery "The Woman Who Knew p.m. FML (608) 256-2001. Menken. thru Oct. 12. Broadway Theatre Center. 158 N. Murray Too Much." 7 p.m., Outwards Books, 2710 "Better Living Through Show Tunes" (Madison): WORT N. Broadway. FMI: (414) 291-7800. - Ave. FM1: (414) 963-9089. Radio 89.9 FM. Host Bruce Wheeler, 2-3 p.m. (608) Symphony with "Mahler Mystique" (Madison): Madison Patrick McGilligan Talk (Shorewood): Author of "Alfred 256-2001 or bwheelere cti na.com. director John DeMain and Symphony Chorus perform Hitchcock" speaks at 7 p.m., Schwartz Books. 4093 N. Mahler's Symphony No. 7, Oct. 18-19, Madison Civic Oakland Ave. FMI: (414) 963-3111. Center, 211 State St. FMI: (608) 258-4141. "Mary Stuart" (Milw.): Schiller's drama about the battle Wednesday, Oct. 15 of will between Queen Elizabeth and Mary, Queen of Trebor Healey & Mark Kendrick Readings (Milw.): Healey, Scots comes alive at the Milwaukee Rep, thru Nov. 2. author of "Through It Came Bright Colors" and Quadracci Powerhouse Theatre, 108 E. Wells St. FMI: Kendrick, author of "Into This World We're Thrown." ALLOWEEN! (414) 224-9490. read and sign copies of their books. 7 p.m.. Outwards, Miami City Ballet: klanchine by George (Madison): Balin- 2710 N. Murray Ave. FMI: (414) 963-9089. chine works set to Stravinsky's music, 7:30 p.m., Madi- son Civic Center. 211 Stare St. FMI: (608) 258-4141. Friday, Oct. 17 "Packer Fans From Outer Space" (Green Bay): A new Autumn Changes Poetry Reading (Madison): Featuring musical comedy based on die Packers-Bears rivalry. • Andrea Potos, Rhonda Lee, Tisha Turk, Eve Robillard. thru Oct. 12, Meyer Theatre, 117 S. Washington St. and Marilyn Annucci, 6:30 p.m., A Room of One's FMI: (800) 328-TKTS. Own, 307 W. Johnson St. FMI: (608) 257-7888. "The Producers" (Milw.): Mel Brooks' new musical sen- Heidi Neuntark Talk (Brookfield): Author of "Breathing sation lands in Milwaukee. thru Oct.12, Marcus Cen- Space," 7 p.m., Schwartz Books. 17145 W Bluemound ter for the Performing Arts, 929 N. Water St. FMI: Rd. FMI: (262) 797-6145. Friday, Oct. 31 • 7:30 to 11pm (414) 273-7206. "Pygmalion" The American Players Theatre tours Wis- Monday, Oct. 20 Milwaukee LGBT Community Center consin with George Bernard Shaw's classic, FMI: (608) Dan Savage Talk (Milw.): Author of "Skipping Towards 588-2361 or visit wwvv.playinthewoods.org. Gomorrah.- 7 p.m.. Schwartz Books. 2559 N. Downer 315 W. Court Street • Milwaukee • $548 Donation 332-1181. "A Reflection of Motown" (Milw.): The Skylight Opera's Ave. FMI: (414) Miller Cabaret Series presents four talented performers Joshua Piven Talk (Mequon): Author of "As Luck Would in this tribute to Motown, 10 p.m., Oct. 10-11, Broad- Have It," 7 p.m., Schwartz Books. 10976 N. Port way Theatre Center, 158 N. Broadway. FMI: (414) Washington Rd. FMI: (262) 241-6220. 291-7800. Peace & Justice Book Circle (Madison): Feminist group "Richard III" (Milw.): Shakespeare's cruel and conniving reads women's studies, cultural criticism, politics and king comes chillingly to life in the Milwaukee Rep's history, 6 p.m.. A Room of One's Own, 307 W. John- season opener, thru Nov. 2. Quadracci Powerhouse son St. FMI: (608) 257-7888. Theatre, 108 E. Wells St. FMI: (414) 224-9490. "Stop the World, I Want to Get Off" (Madison): The Madi- son Theatre Guild launches its season with a produc- tions of the musical comedy, thru Oct. 18. Bartell The- Costumes Optional • Prizes for Best Costume atre, 113 E. Mifflin St. FMI: (608) 238-9322. "The Sunshine Boys" (Milw.): Milwaukee Rep performs Your Ad one of Neil Simon's comedy classics, Oct. 10-Nov. 9, Stiemke Theatre. 108 E. Wells St. FM!: (414) 224-9490. Here Lesbian Alliance Metro Milwaukee Sweet Honey in the Rock (Madison): The female African American quintet with awesome a cappella sounds, For more information Call LAMM @ (414) 272-9442 Oct. 12. 7:30 p.m., Madison Civic Center, 211 State ONLY $25! St. FMI: (608) 258-4141. "Two Pianos, Four Hands" (Milw.): Musical comedy revue Call 414.278.7840, BODY PAINTING • CARNIVAL GAMES • DANCING about two dassical pianists growing up at the keyboard. ext. 2 thru-Nov. 2. Milwaukee Rep's Stackner Cabaret. 108 E. FORTUNE TELLING • TAROT READINGS • MUSIC Page 14 Wisconsin IN Step October 9 — October 22, 2003 • www.instepnews.com Milwaukee's LGBT Film Fest: THE SEQUEL s with IN Step's coverage last festivals. In that sense, it is an excellent his- issue, our reviewers have high- tory lesson. But the film also succeeds on a lighted two films from the sec- more visceral level, conveying beautifully ond weekend of Milwaukee's the deep and transformative impact the new music and lyrics had on women them- LGBT Film Festival. They are Scene from "Suddenly" Afollowed by shorter capsules of the full selves. Tears shed by several women in this schedule. Most screenings are at UWM's film illustrate the intense, life-changing The two earliest and longest-running festi- to Cecil B. DeMille's 1930 deco extravagan- Union Theatre on the second floor of the impact of women's music. - vals, the National Women's Music Festival za "Madam Satan." Student Union, 2200 E. Kenwood Blvd. Happily, "Radical Harmonies" is infused (in Illinois, then Indiana, and now in Ohio) Director Ainouz only offers a tantaliz- with the diverse sounds of the music it dis- and the Michigan Womyn's Music Festival. ing glimpse into Joao Francisco's life, focus- cusses, so the movie is a pleasure to listen to. are virtually in our backyards. ing on the period when Joao first sought "Radical Short selections by Malvina Reynolds, Fanny, (Local angle: In Milwaukee in the 1970s. refuge in drag and before his first lengthy Maxine Feldman, Holly Near, Cris a women's music magazine named "Paid prison stay. Harmonies" Williamson, Linda Tillery, Sweet Honey in the My Dues" served as precursor to Chicagoan Growing up in the Rio slums of Lapia. Rock, Ferron, Meg Christian, Gwen Avery, Toni Armstrong Jr.'s long-running women's Joao has the double burden of being both Pays Homage to Mary Watkins, Margie Adam, Ubaka Hill, music journal "Hot Wire." In one montage, black and homosexual. By day he humbles Women's Music Ulali, Berkeley Women's Music Collective, the film briefly displays a poster of the 1975 himself as some sort of lackey for an over- Ronnie Gilbert, Toshi Reagon, Alix Dobkin, concert by Cris Williamson and Margie the-hill female cabaret artiste, but on his By Jamakaya ' Azticar y Crema, Indigo Girls, Casselberry- Adam at UWM's Fine Arts Recital Hall. own turf he rules with an iron fist. Joao 66 adical Harmonies," an outstand- Dupree, Ani DiFranco, Tribe 8, Bitch and Admission is listed at $2.50! In the 1980s. proves to be the proverbial "angry young ing documentary about the cul- Animal, and many more artists are included. Midwest Women's Music, co-owned by man." One moment Joao seems poised to tural movement launched by Some of the most endearing scenes to Milwaukeean Karen Gotzler, produced slit the throat of a handsome trick foolish "women's Music" artists in the 1970s. is by me were raw b/w footage of Williamson in some of the acts we see in the film.) enough to attempt to rob him, the next far the best of the lesbian-oriented films to the studio in 1975 recording her classic "Radical Harmonies" doesn't flinch Joao is all tenderness with the small child be screened in the second week of album "The Changer and the Changed," from some of the controversies which roiled of the prostitute he has befriended. Milwaukee's LGBT Film & Video Festival. It (still a must for anyone's music collection) the movement — racism; separatism vs. non- He might rage against Rio's social struc- will be shown at noon on Saturday. Oct. 11. or, earlier still, the group Fanny rocking separatism at events; accessibility issues — ture — as shown when he fights to enter the at the Union Theatre. out in a video clip from 1972 replete with a though given the 90-minute running time ironically named hot spot, High Life. Yet I highly recommend this movie for groovy psychedelic backdrop. they are dealt with briefly. The pioneering his biggest battle is an internal one. The women who have been influenced and Many of the musicians mentioned work done by lesbian feminists to ensure problem with "Madame Sata" is that while inspired by women's music over the past above offer smart, serious and funny com- access, in the form of ASL interpreters at we see the results of Joao battling his 30 years. But I also recommend it to those mentary about women's music and their events and sliding scale ticket prices, have demons in Lazaro Ramos's terrifying per- who haven't a clue about what women's particular roles in it. Director Dee been adopted by many (though not enough) formance, neither the film nor the per- music is, and those who (lesbians among Mosbacher has done an incredible job of institutions in the wider world. former ever allows us any real insights. them) have sometimes disparaged synthesizing dozens of interviews (many This film made me a bit nostalgic Curious for someone destined to women's music as just "a girl with a guitar" clearly recorded in the 1980s and '90s — (hearing some of the older tunes) and very become a celebrated drag personality, mas- phenomenon. I think, too, that this is a hairstyles are dead give-a-ways!) and meld- proud of what the women's music revolu- culinity seems at the crux ofJoao's conflicts. very important movie for gay men to see, ing them into a cohesive narrative. tion accomplished. It also made me want Joao clearly desires Renatinho (Felipe so that they might better understand a sig- Themes touched on are the pervasive to go out and blow a lot of money to bulk Marques). whom he dubs his "Indian nificant aspect of lesbian culture. sexism in the mainstream music industry up my women's CD collection! It's a Prince." and their sex is raw and brutal. . "Radical Harmonies" is a celebration which compelled the women to establish thoughtful and thoroughly entertaining What Joao cannot accept is the young and vindication of a profound feminist cul- separate institutions; the empowerment of music and history lesson. Don't miss it. man's obvious affection for him. Here then tural revolution. It ties the expanding women who learned to become sound GRADE: A is a quintessential portrait of "rough trade." women's music scene inextricably to the engineers, concert promoters, and festival "Madame Sata" is visually striking and new feminist and lesbian consciousness producers: the growing diversity of the "Madame Sata" - never less than mesmerizing. The slums of that emerged in the 1970s. It shows the music itself to incorporate classical, R&B, Rio are evocatively portrayed, shown with impact that a handful of pioneers had in salsa, punk and rap; the expansion of the Passionate Portrait plenty of grit and garish lighting. Karim creating the women's music industry: movement to incorporate dance. theatre, Ainouz cleverly places Joao in a variety of record companies, distribution networks. poetry and other cultural expressions: and of a Drag Performer claustrophobia-inspiring spaces, particu- concert circuits, publications and cultural the Midwest's leadership of the movement. larly those tiny rooms he always seems By Carl M. Szatmary about to burst through, and then offers ertainly the most passionate film at contrasting images of a Joao at the seaside. this year's Milwaukee LGBT seemingly, albeit fleetingly, at peace CFilm/Video Fest must be Karim Much like its protagonist, "Madame Ainouz's "Madame Sata," a cinematic por- Sata" might be thrilling and compulsively trait of infamous drag cabaret performer watch-able but remains ultimately a mys- Joao Francisco dos Santos. It screens Friday. tery. Oct. 10, at 7 p.m. and the Union Theatre. Grade: B The film begins in a prison cell in Rio de Janeiro circa 1932. Joao Francisco Thursday, October 9, 2 p.m. (Lazaro Ramos). having been beaten to a "Dangerous Living: Coming Out bloody pulp. is being berated by some sin- in the Developing World" ister, anonymous voice of authority over This documentary focuses on the serious his myriad of transgressions, ranging from challenges that LGBT people in developing murder to shaving his eyebrows. This nations face from repressive governments. proves to be a rather ingenious narrative religions and tribal cultures. Last year's show device, effectively garnering audience sym- trial of 52 Egyptian men who were appre- pathies early for a man unlikely to gain hended for the unpardonable offense of visit- them by his own devices. ing a gay disco is a stepping off point for Born in 1900. Joao Francisco dos examining the aspirations of LGBTs in Santos would spend many years in prison Egypt. the Phillippines, Namibia, Vietnam. before emerging as Carnival Queen in Rio Laos and Honduras. Global media and the Scene from "Madame Sata" dressed as "Madame Sata," paying homage internet have familiarized LGBTs abroad www.instepnews.com • October 9 — October 22, 2003 Wisconsin IN Step Page 15 with gay rights advances in the West. Kyril's side — and more about what Daniel as well-intentioned and as thought-provok- Least successful short must be Paul "Dangerous Living" shows them bravely can do for Kyril and his nefarious friends. ing as "The Gift" surely is, it sadly offers no Bartell's mock-documentary "L.T.R.," asserting their own identities and building a Although described as a romantic com- solutions of its own. whose examination of a so-called "long- movement with others against very difficult edy, "Bulgarian Lovers" is anything but, Grade: B- (Carl Szatmary) term relationship" between two irritating odds. Not available for advance screening. following de la Iglesia's usual formula of gay teens outstays its welcome long before placing his middle-aged, upper middle- Saturday, October 11, 2 p.m. its 16 minutes are up. My personal favorite Thursday, October 9, 7 p.m. class protagonist in an unrequited gay short of the program had to be Eric "The Politics of Fur" "Flag Wars" affair. Into this sordid business, de la Mueller's clever dual-frame, "This Car Up." lgelsia throws in some ludicrously melo- shown with "Contacts: Nan Goldin" Using a spinning slot machine as a visual "Flag Wars" may be the best American dramatic subplots, such as the theft of ura- Seeing "The Bitter Tears of Petra Van metaphor. Mueller explores the chance documentary since Barbara Kopple's nium, plus the standard comic relief Kant" will help viewers appreciate this sly encounter of a suited professional (Michael "Harlan. County USA," and that's saying a offered by Daniel's queeny friends. Worse, reworking of Fassbinder's over-the-top les- Booth) and cute pierced 'n' tattooed bike lot. It examines the process of gentrifica- poor, foolish Daniel at film's end seems bian melodrama. Audience members who messenger (Brent Doyle). tion in the Olde Towne-neighborhood of poised to continue making the same, dan- have not seen "Petra"-may be perplexed Grade: B (Carl Szatmary) Columbus, Ohio, but could just as easily gerous mistake. and impatient. Film buffs are apt to admire have been filmed on Brewer's Hill or Grade: C- (Cart Szatmary) its highly stylized design and execution. Sunday, October 12, 7 p.m. McKinley Ave. in Milwaukee. "The Politics of Fur" revolves around a "Suddenly (Tan de Repente)" Olde Towne is an historically black Friday, October 10, 7 p.m. wealthy anti-hero named Una. a self- neighborhood whose longtime residents, absorbed, trendy to the "nth".degree music "Suddenly" is a slow moving road pic- many elderly or low income, are being dis- "Come Out and Play: An Evening of Girl's Shorts" exec, who lives a hermetic existence with ture in which two punky hipsters named placed by an influx of white gay and lesbian her pet tiger cub and faithful manservant Mao and Lenin (who are not necessarily les- yuppies. The gay folks are heard repeatedly, The "Evening of Girl's Shorts" is always Dick. Her uber-control freak ways are chal- bians — you decide) stalk a plump store expressing their "compassion" and "care" a mixed bag with a few delightful surprises lenged when a new lover is delivered to her clerk named Marcia, whom Mao insists on for the century old houses they hope to ren- mixed in with some real clunkers. Ah, but as a birthday gift. "B" as she is called, is an having sex with. Marcia understandably ovate. Too bad they can't seem to dredge up who cares — they're short, so they swiftly ambitious and tres independent wannabe objects but is kidnapped at knife point. the same concern for their neighbors. move along! punk rock star. Una and B's relationship Mao and Lenin then steal a taxi and flee whose poverty they view with contempt. Clunker would definitely describe the sparks and dissolves disastVously in seem- Buenos Aires with Marcia, traveling around On the other hand, some older residents German "Binge Babes at the Truck Stop," ingly record time (given the film's 76- Argentina, finally settling in at the humble are openly homophobic about the newcom- one of the worst shorts I've ever seen. minute running time), leaving the unsym- boarding house of Lenin's elderly aunt. ers; many are defensive or suspicious. "Butch in the City," a send-up of "Sex in the pathetic Una groveling in the slough of Along the way. the punk duo drive Some of the huge homes are in serious City" with butch 'Terry Bradshaw' cruising despair and destroying her relationships Marcia to the coast where she can see the disrepair, and there's no doubt the gays mov- for sex with a man, was kinda funny but with Dick and her mother. ocean for the first time. (Only a male direc- ing in have the money and commitment to should have been a lot funnier. "D.E.B.S." All of this is accomplished in scenes tor — in this case. Diego Lerman — would restore them. Most cities encourage revital- is a hilarious spoof about a crime-fighting that are both dramatically and cornedically suggest that this makes up for the fact that ization of such properties and welcome the team of schoolgirl uniformed, super hero way over the top. There are several hilari- she's been threatened, beaten, blindfolded increased tax revenues that result. Real estate debs with a lesbian twist. "We Got Next" is ous scenes in which Una's esoteric tastes and kidnapped against her will.) Out of agents (like a particularly parasitic lesbian the tale of two appealing teen hoopsters are assaulted, once by the presence of a bag gas. they bum rides with an aquarium realtor here) lick their chops at the prospects. whose solid friendship is tested one sum- of potato chips, another by Dick's gay bud- director and a boorish truck driver, who The film deftly shows how stricter enforce- mer. "Esme Seeking" is a delightful portrait dies jacking up disco music at an inoppor- kills a pedestrian. At Aunt Blanca's. they ment of housing codes and zoning laws pave of a young woman shedding an identity tune moment. meet a nice teacher and a young man. the way for gentrification. Meanwhile, very imposed on her for a more comfortable "The Politics of Fur" is a pretty good Felipe. Mao finally has sex with Marcia. little real communication or neighborliness one of her own choosing. send-up of pretentious lifestyles and values then leaves her. Lenin bonds with Aunt seems to occur between the longtime resi- One intriguing short, "Cherries in the in modern day L.A. But a part of me found Blanca and her old friends. Mao hits Felipe dents and the. newcomers. African, German Snow," an ode to lesbian writer Joan the film itself a little too self-aware and pre- for sex. Someone dies. (Hey. when some- and gay rainbow flags flutter from homes, Nestle, was unavailable for review. My fave tentious. one says they don't like water, DON'T take marking separate territories. short was "Sing, Sing, Sing," an odd but GRADE: B- (Jamakaya) them near the water, sabe?) The film tries to strike a balance, but charming musical love story between a We only, get the sketchiest information the poor — news flash! — are almost always seamstress and her mermaid-like creation. Saturday, October 11, 9 p.m. about the characters to begin with, so each overwhelmed by the alliance of money and And it's done in Claymation! I've always scene provides a little more info. the law. I love how this movie shows that hated Claymation, but this weird little gem "Some Pretty Neat Tricks: Relationships develop slowly and shift. and power imbalance. I may be queer but I was won me over. An Evening of Boy's Shorts" some insight is learned about each person. born poor, and I've suffered far more class GRADE: B (Jamakaya) The "boy shorts" program is always For me. it wasn't quite enough to salvage oppression than homophobia in my life. I one of the most popular programs at the this well-meaning picture. Perhaps because find the lack of class consciousness among Saturday, October 11, 2 p.m. Milwaukee LGBT Film/Video Festival and I couldn't really bond with any of the char- many gays and lesbians disgraceful, and it's "The Gift" with a pre-show this year's collection is sure to be no excep- acters myself. I left wondering, like Miss displayed here for all to see. presentation by ARCW's Bag Boyz tion. Peggy Lee, "Is that all there is?" Others may come away with a com- topic within The eight films included in this pro- pletely different take on what they see in There is perhaps no hotter GRADE: C (Jamakaya) the LGBT community than "barebacking," gram range from the beguilingly titled "Flag Wars." It's broad and deep enough "Masturbation: Putting the Fun into Self for many interpretations. That's why it is a surely making Louise Holgarth's documen- tary "The Gift" must-see viewing at this Loving." in which Dr. Sigmund Winston. truly great film. along with the help of his trusty sidekick Filmmakers Linda Goode Bryant and year's festival. Not content to merely focus on the Billy, teaches the students of the '50s how Laura Poitras will 'be on hand at this free to put more excitement into self-loving to screening. A second screening will take increasing popularity of the unsafe sex practice of anal sex without condoms, Neil Goldberg's two-minute homage to gay place Friday, Oct. 10, at 7 p.m. at America's cat owners in "She's a Talker." Black Holocaust Museum, 2233 N. 4th St. . Holgarth turns her camera onto the GRADE: A (Jamakaya) absurdly incomprehensible practice of "bug-chasing," where uninfected gay men out "the Gift" of HIV p.m. deliberately seek Thursday, October 9, 9 infection from partners known in internet 'A PERFECT DATE MOVIE! "Bulgarian Lovers (Los Novios Bulgarios)" slang as "gift-givers." and entertaining all the way to its satisfying climax." THE ADVOCATE shown with "Wash Dark Colors Separately" Still, Holgarth never elaborates as to Stays bright After an absence of nearly 15 years. just how wide-spread is this practice. "EXUBERANT! acclaimed Spanish filmmaker Eloy de la Instead, the hour-long film focuses on two rather extreme cases. On one hand. Prepare to get hot and bothered!" Iglesia is back with "Bulgarian Lovers." De tsEMAE la Iglesia was responsible for some of the there is 21-year-old Doug Hitzel. an inno- most intriguing gay films of the 1970s and cent gay boy-next-door type who out of "A SUNNY KIIIIMETtli ZENO 80s, including such LGBT Festival favorites loneliness sought the sense of inclusion he as "Hidden Pleasures" ("Los Placeres believed becoming HIV-positive would IBERIAN Ocultos," 1977) and "The Deputy" ("El bring. At the other extreme is "Kenboy" who left Illinois to become a resident at the ROMP!" Diputado," 1979). -THE Nal, YORK TiMES L.A. Sex House, where "bareback" sex par- At the center of "Bulgarian Lovers" is WINNER, Audience Awards at (Fernando Cuervo), a 40- ties happen several times a month. Hitzel, Daniel Guillen OUTFEST sIArd something gay man with an eye for rough now HIV-positive and regretting every minute of it, is shown in suitable victim 0 LOS ANGELES GAY & ) (GAY 4 LESBIAN trade. He couldn't be happier when he con- LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL FHA FESTIVAL www.knOthrmavicrom FLut' nects with Kyril (Dritan Biba), a hunky 23 colors while "Kenboy" is full of clueless year-old Bulgarian, one night at a Madrid bravado. EXCLUSIVE ENGAGEMENT STARTS FRIDAY disco. After a torrid coupling, Daniel and Clearly passionate about her beliefs, ORIENTAL For showiirnp,, vIcr N'ANY: LiOlirleIrkTheatreS.COITI Kyril enter into-a relationship that is Holgarth suggests that AIDS-prevention increasingly less about love — at least on isn't working, and she's probably right. Yet Page 16 Wisconsin IN Step October 9 — October 22, 2003 • www.instepnews.com LESBIAN-ONLY EVENT • • LOSES EXEMPTION The Civil and Administrative Appeals Tribunal in the Australian state of Victoria has revoked an exemption it granted to Lesfest 2004 that would have allowed the Month week-long January event to ban attendees and service providers who are not female- born lesbians. Day, The exemption from state human-rights National Corn Out laws was withdrawn because Lesfest organ- izers failed to inform the tribunal that a transsexual organization had objected to the waiver, the Australian Associated Press reported Sept. 30. The Australian WOMAN Network had • complained that the exemption was offen- • mow Cold Men• sive because male-to-female transsexuals are legally and medically women. Lesfest spokeswoman Anna Holland- Moore expressed disappointment at the new ruling. "We just wanted a week together to con- solidate our culture and discuss relevant issues," she told AAP. The rural festival will feature political forums; art performances, healing space, workshops and talking circles. Boys over age eight and heterosexual girls over age 15 also were to he banned. SEX CLAMPDOWN PROPOSED IN INDONESIA itiment Indonesia's Justice Ministry has drafted laws to ban premarital sex, extramarital sex, living together without being married, reneging on a promise to marry, visiting a Where Our Balls Are On the Table prostitute, performing as a stripper, witch- craft, and promotion of communism, local Nriti Trivia latif# /Awl ts affett. media reported Sept. 30. Although the proposed legislation reportedly would allow gay sex between 1579 S 2nd, Milwaukee / (414) 672-0806 / www.weedys-mke.com adults, it was unclear why gay sex would not be considered to be premarital or extramar- ital sex. The proposed new crimes would draw penalties of two to 20 years in prison. The Indonesian Bar Association and the Indonesian Lawyers Association oppose the proposals. IBA Chairman Gayus Lumbuun told a local newspaper, "Not all ethical and Improve the quality of moral offenses are crimes." Some Muslim groups and political par- life for LGBT people in ties have been pushing for the incorporation of Islamic law into legal codes. Indonesia is your community through the world's most populous Muslim nation. The 600 pages of proposals face at least a payroll deduction. year of discussion in parliament before they could become law, according to a report in the Sydney Morning Herald. KOREAN GAY ACTOR IS Support these organizations through DE-BLACKLISTED Well-known South Korean actor Hong Community Shares of Greater Milwaukee. Suk-chon, who was blacklisted from the tel- evision industry three years ago after com- Lesbian Alliance of Cream City Milwaukee LGBT ing out as gay, is appearing in a new pro- Metro Milwaukee Foundation (CCF) Community Center gram. Working for social justice, 20 years of charitable giving to Improving the quality of life for He plays a gay designer on the SBC net- community education, and the LGBT Community. LGBT people through support, work's twice-weekly miniseries Perfect Love. better health care for Lesbians. education and advocacy. "The night before [we started tapingl, I www mkelgbt org didn't sleep, I was too nervous," Hong told Wisconsin Community Fund The New York Times. "I was terrible. ... I Funding LBGT organizations throughout made a lot of bloopers. But the other actors, Wisconsin for 21 years. they understood. wwwwisconsincommunityfund.org "Before I came out, no one talked about homosexuality in Korea," Hong added. "But then everybody was talking about it. I think Koreans are starting to accept homosexuali- JV ty,.11 Shares Community Formerly known as of Greater Milwaukee he Workplace-giving programs at 414-342-0883 ACHOICE www.instepnews.com • October 9 — October 22, 2003 Wisconsin IN Step Page 17 _AL! He's Back! BIGGER BOLDER! 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At Club 119 Photo by A Gallegos At Club 219. Photo try A. Gallegos • At Club 219. Photo by A. Gailegos Sundays: Ball Game (Milw.): Juice drinks only $3. a.m. to 6 p.m. Top beer $ 1 .40. Boot Camp Saloon (Milw.): Open at 3 p.m. with $1.50 bottle and top beer and soda. tr4. Cest La Vie (Milw.): Ives & Beer with Alvin!. Friday, Oct. 10 Boom (Milw.): Open et I lam. Packer Game Specials: 50 cent tops of MGD 8 Miller lite. S2 Bloody Mary Myrna's.FMI: Shamrock Bar (Madison): Frontiers Gay/Bi Men,s Group www.boommke.com dio Happy Hour. The group meets at 6 p.m. for cocktails every Friday. Decides where to dine at 7 p.m. 117 W Club 5/Barracks (Madison): Beer Bash, 4-8 p.m. $6.2-4.1 drinks Main St. FM!: (608) 274-5959. up to $3.75, 51 off all others. Additional 50( off when you ore shirtless. HIV Testing BESTD Clinic conducts anony- Club 5/Planet Q (Madison): Beer Bash 3 to 8 p.m. $6.2-4.1 drunks mous HIV resting at M.ATC, 5-8 p.m., FMI: (414) up to $3.75; SI off ail other until 8 p.m. Live shows of 10:30 p.m. in 272-2144. Club 219 (Milw.): SI tappers, $2 rail drinks, 52 honied beer. Two At Club 219. Photo by A Gallegos At Club 219. Photo by A Gallegos Café El Sol (Milw.): Great food and Latin music, 6:30.8:30 shows: 8:30 prn. - no cover - and 11:30 p.m. p.m., 1028 S. 9th St. FMI: (414) 384.3100, ext. 237. M&M Club (Milw.): Cocktail hour with Trixie ot the Piano! FMI: Harbor Room (Milw.): Happy Hour 8 orn..6 p.m. Pints of Bloody www.mandm-club.com. ss Morys, Suowdrivers 8 Greyhounds • $2.50! Shirtless men half price any- Fri & Sat, Oct. so & time. WI! www.harbor•room.com. The Nut Hut (Milos.): 4 to 6 p.m. Crabby Hour Pull tabs! Chip and Py's (Mequon): Live Jam. Fridays and Saturdays, LaCage (Milw.): Sunday Bloody Sunday - Bloody Mary bar 12 p.m-9 Pulse (Mb): Import night. 52.50 imports. FMI: mra.pulsemil- 7-II p.m. Reservations suggested. 1340 W. Towne waukee.com. Square Rd. (1-43 at Mequon Rd.) Call (414) 241- p m Queer As Folk at 9 p.m. loCage Presents at 11:30 p.m. FMI: 9589. www.lacage.gaymke.com Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): 2•4•1 Happy Hour 4 to 7 p.m. $3.50 M&M Club (Milw.): Brunch from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. Joyce or Ginni at and under drinks over S3.50 get $1 off. Saturday, Oct. is the Piano on Monday nights. FMI: www.mandm-dub.com. Switch (Milw.): Happy Hour, 5-9 p.m., with Si off drinks. Margarita Three (Milw.): INFERNO! Join the gay-friendly staff Midtowne Spa (Milw.): Bar-B•0, 1.4 p.m. Madness - $2.50 Margaritas and Shots of Tequila. FMl: and patrons of Three for an evening that's guaranteed www.switch.gaymke.com to hear up your weekend! Featuring the hot, sweaty The Nut Hut (Mb.): Coronas, 51.75, Domestic Beer, $1.25, Mini- pitcriors, $1.75. Triangle (Milw.): Happy Hour • 5 to 8 p.m. 2.4.1 drinks! 9 p.m. • beats of DJ John Murgcs and DJ Rob Winter. Doors Absolut and anything, $2. rn open at 8 PM. No cover. 722 N. Milwaukee St.'FMI: Switch (Milw.): Service Industry Night. Plus. (414) 225.0003 or e-mail PumpMilwaukereaol.com. Walker's Pint (Milw.): Closed. Walker's Pint (Milw.): 58 pitcher of Cite & pizza, $4 roil Bloody Marys, both born Noon to 6 p.m. Open from Noon to midrate. Woody's (Milw,): Happy Hour, 4.8 p.m., $1.25 taps, $1.75 roils. At Club 2l9 Photo try A. Go:logos Sunday, Oct. 12 FMI: www.weodys-mke.com. yours, 2nd drink free! Shirtless men half price anytime. FMI. www.har• Woody's (Milw.): Open at 2 p.m., Beer Bust from 2•6 p.m. FMI: Cest La Vie (Milw.): Female Impersonators with Britney! bor-room.com. LI:30 p.m. No cover. 231 S. Second St. FMI: (414) www.woodys•mke.com. Tuesdays: 291-9600. LaCage (Milw.). Open for cocktail hour of 5 p.m. "Prize Nite." Win Mondays: Ball Game (Milw.): Cocktail Hour: 2 p.m to 9 p.m., Pull tabs, drinks $100 cash — no cover. FMI: www.lacage.gaymke.com PUMP! (Milw): Regression: DJ John Murges turns hack as low as 25-cents. Ball Game (Milw.): Cocktail Hour 2 p.m. to close. M&M Club (Milw.): Double Bubble with complimentary Hors D'oeu- the clock and searches the vaults for favorites and little Boom (Milw.): Happy Hour 5-8pm. Tini Tuesdays: Specials on Fea- vres 5 to 7 p.m, FMI: www.mandm-club.com. known dance tracks front the 70s-90's. 2-4-1 Rail and Boot Camp Saloon (Milw.): Cocktail Hour 4 to 8 p.m. 2-4-1 drink tured Martini of the week. Plus Free Pizza. FMI: Bottles of Corona until 11 p.m. 86 specialty martinis. special. Bud Nite! All Budweiser products, $1. www.boommke.com. Midtowne Spa (Milw.): loll price locker. No cover. Every Sunday 9 p.m. to close. 722 N. Mil- Cest La Vie (Milw.): Pizza 8 Beer Bust, only 54, 8 p.m. to 1 a.m.! waukee St. FM!: (414) 225-0003. Boot Camp Saloon (Milw.): Cocktail Ho0r • 4 to 8 p.m. 2-4-1 drink The Nut Hut (Milw.): 7-9 p.m. Pull Tabs. Boom (Milw.): Happy Hour 5.8pm. FMl: www.boommke.com speciol. Vodka Nite 1 All vodka drinks, $1.50 and Coll Brands only 52.50 The Office (Rockford, IL): Bud Products S1.50.The Trading Compa• with free, hot Klement's pizza! Monday, Oct. 13 Club 5/Barracks (Madison): 2.4.1 drinks up to $3.15, Si off all ny (Eau Claire): 2 for $2. Domestic bottles and rail mixes all night. M&M Club (Milw.): Trixie at the Piano during Cocktail others. 3-4.1 drinks for those rnen in Kt- underwear. Additional 50( off C'est La Vie (Milw.): Shirts Off! Show us what you've got! Take it OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): All coffee drinks - 52. I Hour, plus 2-4-1 drinks, 5-7 pin. 124 N. Wan' St. when you ore shirtless. off for half price roil, 8 p.m. to 1 a.m. Pulse (Milw.): Two for Tuesday. Two American beers for $2 horn 9pm FMI: (414) 347-1962. Club 5/Barracks (Madison): 50c off all drinks. Additional 50( off Club 5/Planet Q (Madison): Happy Hour, 4-8 p.m.. 2-4-1 drinks up to 1 a.m. FMI: www.pulsemilwaukee.com. to 53.75, SI off all others ALL NIGHT LONG, 52 shot specials. when you ore shirtless. Saturday, Oct. 18 Rainbow Room (Madison): $1 off roil and domestic. Fluid (Milw.): 2-4-1 drinks from 5 p.m. til 8 p.m. FMI: Club 5/Planet Q (Madison): Happy Hour, 4.8 p.m. 2.4.1 drinks up Boom (Milw.): He's Back! BIGGER & BOLDER! CLAY www.fluid.gaymke.com. to 53.75, 51 off all others. Underage night begins at 9 p.m., 50( off Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): Grill open! 2-41 Happy Hour runs MAVERICK. Dar miss it. all drinks, S2 shot specials. from 4 to 7 p.m. Free pool with drink purchase from 9 p.m. to close. The Harbor Room (Milw.): Happy Hour 8 Cest La Vie (MN.): Female Impersonators with Brimey! a.m.-Noon, Bloody Marys. 8 3.6 p.m. 2.4.1 drinks and free Shirtless rnen half price Club 219 (Milw.): Amateur Snip Nite! No cover. $1 tap beer, 52 roils Switch (Milw;): Happy Hour, 5-9 p.m., Shake-A-Drink - Ace - Dollar 11:30 p.m. No cover. 231 S. Second St. FM1: (414) pizza. anytime. Bartenders, waiters, owners $1 off p.m. to 1 a.m. FMI: and bottled beer. Off and • Six Half Price. EMI: www.switch.gaymke.com. 291-9600. drinks 6 www.harbor-room.com. Fluid (Milw.): 2.4.1 drinks from 5 p.m. td 8 p.m. , 52 mixers 8pm to Triangle (Milw.): Happy Hour 5 to 8 p.m. 2-4-1 drinks! close. FMI: wmv.fluid.gaymke.com. Sunday, Oct. 19 LaCage (Milw.): Open for cocktail how at 5 p.m. "Shake a Drink" all Walker's Pint (Milw.): $2 Tuesdays $2 Roil Mixers, Pints, Cold Shots M&M Club (Milw): Anniversary Party! 25+2 Food. Fun nice. Aces's Free — sixes 1/2 price. FMI: The Harbor Room (Milw.): Happy Hour, B a.m.-Noon, Bloody Morys, & .Prizes! "POLKA You Puke- with the Famous www.lacage.gaymke.com 8 3-6 p.m., 2-4.1 drinks and free pizza! Nipple ring ride gentle tug on Dombroski Orchestra • Sign up for our 2nd Annual *Queen for a Day" Drawing! a s h •t* Monday, Oct. 20 M&M Club (Maw.): Trixie at the Piano during Cocktail Hour, plus 2-4-1 drinks, 5-7 p.m. 124 N. Water St. FN11: (414) 347-1962. Trocadero Mojim Mondays, Trocadero's weekly a evening of Latin Beats and Libations, featuring John Murgea on the decks and special prices on Mojitos and Cuba Libres. Food available. Perfect way to begin your week, 9 p.m. to midnight. no rover. 1758 N. Water St. FMI: (414) 272-0252.

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COMMUNITY CALENDAR October 9 — October 22, 2003 Parade, 6 p.m.: All-Alumni Reception, Tripp Com- Grief Support Group for Lesbians (Madison): Drop-in Night (Milw.): The group meets Fridays front 5 to 10 ACTIVITIES mons, 7 p.m.; Fireworks, Tripp Commons balcony, group for lesbians grieving the death of a life partner, p.m and Tuesdays Irons 4:30 to 9:30 p.m. Drop-In 8:30 p.m. FMI: (608) 265-9074. family member or friend. Meets first Thursday of every nights provide a variety of youth activities in a space month, 6-7:30 p.m., Anderson HospiceCare Center, that is welcoming, safe and accessible to LGBTQ Thursday, Oct. 9 Saturday, Oct. 18 5395 E. Cheryl Parkway. B41: (608) 276-4660. (questioning) youth. FMi: (414) 271-2656. Briarpatch (Madison): Group for middle school LGBT Frontrunners/Fmntwalkers (Madison): 3K to 10K run HIV/AIDS Support Group & Hotline (Upper Peninsu- LG BT Youth Group Meeting (Kenosha): This group kids, middle school kids of [kin families, and friends, or walk, 9 a.m., Lake Wingra Park, Knickerbocker and la, MI): These projects serve Dickinson, iron, & meets the first & third Fridays of the month from 7 to 6 p.m., 512 E. Washington Ave. FMI: (608) 251-6211. Arbor Dr. FMI: (608) 663.6463. Menomonee Counties. For information on the support 10 p.m. at the ARCW Offices, 1212 - 57th St. FM1: LGBT Film Fest (Milw.): See detailed schedule and Red Ribbon Variety Show (La Crosse): Theme: "A group in Iron Mountain, Michigan on the first Thurs- call (800) 924-6601. reviews in this issue. Salute to the '70s and '80s," annual benefit for AIDS day of each month, call the HiV/AIDS Hotline at Madison Transgender Group (Madison): A support and services in the Coulee region, hosted by Z93's Sam (906) 779-2904. advocacy group for Transsexuals (M-T-F and F-T-M), Friday, Oct. so Strong, 7:30 p.m., $10 advance. $12 at the door, la HIV Self-Help Group Monthly Meeting (Baraboo): Cross-dressers and their friends, families and significant Transgender Assn. Meeting (Madison): Featuring guests Crosse Center, South Hall A. FMI: (608) 784-2353. . This group sponsored by persons living with HIV Sauk others. Confidentiality assured. Meets second & fourth Ald. Mike Verveer and County Sup. Kyle Richmond, Prairie Memorial Hospital & the AIDS Network meets Fridays of the month from 7-9 p.m. at Outreach, 600 6:30 p.m. at OutReach. Inc.. 600 Williamson St. FMI: Sunday, Oct. 19 every 3rd Thursday from 1 to 3 p.m. in Baraboo. Williamson St. FMI: (608) 235-0512 or emailwists- (608) 259-9225. Cream City Squares (Milw.): LGBT square dance club Refreshments are served, transportation assistance is group@charternet. MGLO & MGLPO - Red Light LGBT Film Fest (Milw.): Sec detailed schedule and holds bi-weekly summertime dance, 1-4:30 p.m., Lake available. FM1: (608) 643-7241 or (608) 643-7583. Night (Marshfield): Every Friday night from 10:30 reviews in this issue. Park Lutheran Church. 2647 N. Stowell Ave. FMI: HIV Testing (Milw.): ARCW provides free and confi- p.m. to 3:30 a.m., 130 S. Central Ave.. above the Thimbleberry Bookstore. Meer local LGBT people, Coming Out Dance (Madison): Annual Ten Percent (414) 445-8080. dential HiV/AIDS testing every Thursday from 11 a.m.-1 p.m. at Village Church, 130 E. Juneau Ave. enjoy Videos and Dancing. Everyone is welcome. FMI: Society event, ripen to UW students, faculty, staff, PFLAG Meeting (Madison): Topic: "The High School Jim (7. 15) 384-6731 or Vic (715) 387-2068. guests, $3 door, cash bar. live DJs, 9 p.m., Great Hall, Environment Outside of Madison," youths will discuss Walk-ins welcome. FM I: (414) 225-1535 or 271- Memorial Union, 800 Langdon St. FM1: the climate of a suburban high school without a Gay- HOMO. Northland Gay Men's Center - Weekly HIV/AIDS danceOtps.studentorg.wisc.cdtt. Straight Alliance, 2 p.m., Friends Society Meeting Lavender Salon (Fox Valley): Reading and discussion Social Group (Duluth, MN): The group meets from 5 House, 1704 Roberts Court. F:Mi: (608) 848-2333, group for gays and lesbians in the Fox Valley area. to 8 p.m. at the Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave. East, Temple Saturday, Oct. 11 www.pflag-madison.org. meets 3rd Thursday of each month, locations vary opera Block. Suite 309. An opportunity for men with between Appleton, Greets Bay and Oshkosh. Call for HIV/AIDS to socialize and find support. HMI: (218) Coming Our Day Bash (Richland Center): Pioneers of Bette Davis Bowling League (Madison): Bowling for 722-8585. . rural SW Wisconsin present live music, silent auction gays and lesbians. 5-person team format. 3 p.m.. Bowl- details. FMI: (920) 738-0497. (bidding will closes at 10 p.m.), door prizes, beverages. a-Vard Lanes, 2121 E. Springs Dr. FMI: (608) 273- LGBT Community Center Lesbian Singles Discussion OUTCARE Sexual Health Clinic (Milw.): A satellite food, 8 p.m. to midnight, at the Blue Highways Bldg., 8275 or 837-8889. Group (Milw.): Meets the 3rd Thursday of each month clinic of Planned Parenthood inside the LGBT Com- 165 N. Central Ave., Richland Center. from 7 to 8:30 p.m. Ongoing discussion about unique munity Center, 315 W. Court St. Walk-ins Monday, nights Monday, Oct. 20 challenges and rewards of being single, open to all les- Tuesday and Friday from 5:30 p.m.-9:30 p.m. LGBT Film Fest (Milw.): See detailed schedule and FREE services for teens. (414) 277-9370. reviews in this issue. Monday Night Irregulars (West Allis): Milwaukee area bians. The group picks a different topic each month. FMI: call (414) 271-2656. SAGE. Senior Action in a Gay Environment (Milw.): Coming Out Party (Eau Claire): LGBT Center of the bowling league starts its fall season, newcomers wel- LGBT- Community Center Rainbow U Lecture Series For older gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals. Chippewa Valley celebrates Coming Out Day with come, $10 each week, 7 p.m. at AMF West Allis Lanes (Milw.): Every 3rd Thursday of the month. 7 p.m. Offers alternating game nights, movie nights, guest food, music, special guests, and more, 5:30 p.m., 510 off of 10901 W. Lapham St. FMI: (414) 527-0132, or Series encourages awareness, discussion of issues impor- speakers and discussions every Friday, 6:30 p.m., LGBT S. Farwell St. FMl: (715) 552-1.,GBT or: info@thecen- (262) 253-0610. tant to the LGBT Community. FMI: (414) 271-2656. Community Center, 315 W Court St. FMi: (414) terocorg. Living As a Gay Man (Madison): Drop-in discussion 224-0517. LGBT Campus Center - Boy-Oh-Boy Gay/Bi Men's Big Night Out (Milw.): Gala dinner, auction and enter- group for gay men, 5:30 p.m., OutReach. 600 (Madison): This weekly group provides outlet Transgender Support (UW',Madison): Providing sup- tainment to benefit the Milwaukee LGBT Community Williamson St. FMi: (608) 255-8582. Group for gay/bi students at UWM. Social outings. great dis- port for transgendered students at the University of Center, 5:30 p.m. silent auction and cash bar, 7:30 Hosted by University Health Services and Sex Wisconsin-Madison, meets the third Friday of the p.m., dinner, 8:30 p.m. program and entertainment, Tuesday, Oct. 21 cussion. Out Loud. Thursday nights at 6:30 p.m., LGBT Cam- month, 6:30 to 8:30 p.m., UW Memorial Union, 800 Northern tights Theatre, Poawatomi 1721 W. LGBT Business Alliance Social (Madison): Monthly pus Center, second floor, UW-Madison Memorial Landon St. (check "Today in the Union" for room). Canal St. $35-$100 per person. FM1: (414) 271-2656, social for fun and networking, free to current members. Union, 80() Langdon St. FMI: (608) 235-0512, or e-mail: ext. 122. $10 non-members, 5:30-7:30 p.m., Club 5, 5 Apple- [email protected]. gate Ct. FM1: (608) 287-0441. Sauk Prairie Memorial Hospital (Barbaboo): HIV/AIDS support group meets third Thursdays in True Colors LGBT Youth Coffee Chats (Milw.): 1st Sunday, Oct. 12 Womonsong (Madison): Madison's feminist communi- Baraboo area. FM1: toll-free (877) 744-0677. and 3rd Fridays, 7-9 p.m. Open discussion and free LGBT Film Feat (Milw.): See derailed schedule and ty choir rehearses, 7-9 p.m., women of all ages and beverages. Call for location. ME (414) 225-1573. reviews in this issue. backgrounds welcome, Beth Israel Center, 1406 Sexual Compulsives Anonymous (Milw.): Closed meet- ing every Thursday at 7 p.m.. Galan Club, 315 W Perfect Harmony Men's Chorus (Madison): Weekly Mound St. FMI: (608) 643-0673. SATURDAYS Court St., Suite 201. FMI: (414) 299-0755. South rehearsal, new members welcome! 7-9 p.m., Grace Madison Health & Family Center (Madison): Free, AIDS Network - HIV/AIDS Support Group (Madi- Episcopal Church, 116 W. Washington Ave. FM1: anonymous walk-in HIV testing from 5 to 745 p.m. at son): Meets from 10 a.m. to noon at UW Hospital, [email protected]. floor. FMI: COMMUNITY 2202 South Park St. FMI: call (608) 261.9270. 600 Highland Ave. in K6/Rnt. 280, 2nd Latin Music! (Milw.): Latin American folk music fea- (608) 252-6540 or (800) 486-6276. Triangle Coalition - LGB Support Group (Rockford, turing Tony Baez. Dino Arestegui and Felipe Pozitivelv (Milw.): Drop-in MEETINGS & EVENTS IL): Meet to establish and explore friendships & rela- sEsTD Social Rodriguez, benefit for the Milw. Coalition to Normal- structure! No preaching! tionships. Discuss a variety of topics every Thursdays at HIV+ men's gathering • no ize Relations with Cuba, 7 p.m., The Coffeehouse, 631 refreshments hut no alcohol please. 8 p.m. FMI: call (319) 583-1834. Videos and music, N. 19th St. FMI: (414) 273-1040. 8 p.I11. to midnite. last Saturdays of the month, 1240 (READ CAREFULLY. Some meetings occur the same Wisconsin Gender Organization (statewide): A sup- E. Brady St. FMi: (414) 272-2144. day weekly, others the same day bi-weekly or monthly. port, education, and activism network whose primary Monday, Oct. 13 Men Together (Milw.): Meetings arc Groups: please send us updated info.) function is to help Transsexual individuals to succeed Black & White & Cowboys (Madison): All wel- Saturday of the month, 7-9 p.m., at the - Dairyland Cowgirls and grow before, during, and after their gender transi- the third advanced dance lessons for at the LGBT ....ommunity Center. 315 W Court St. FMI: come, beginning and THURSDAYS tion. Meets the fourth Saturday of each month. For hop line and dances. 7: 30 p.m., open dance to II p.m. Milw4BWMT@aolcom. AIDS Network (Madison): Meditation and Wellness. location and more information: www.wisgen.org 5 Applegate Cr. FMI: (608) 255-9131, email: rrk- (Milw.): Group 1094, topic meeting. Meets 6-7:30 p.m., 300 Williamson St. FMI: (608) 252- Women's Consciousness Raising Group (Madison): Gay AA [email protected]. Saturday at 8 p.m., Galano Club, 315 W. Court 6540, ext. 26. Meets weekly at 5:30 p.m. at 122 State St. Suite 403. every St., Suite 201. FMI: (414) 276-6936. Tuesday, Oct. 14 Disabilities Support Group (Milw): Support group for. FMI: call (608) 250-6775. LGBTs with disabilities meets final 'Thursday of the GLB AA - Open Meeting (Madison): Every Saturday at Project Q (Milw.): Drop-in for LGBTQ youth ages 14- Unitarian Universalist Church - Lesbian Support/Dis- month, 6:30-8 p.m. in Room 201, Independence First, 6 p.m. at OurReach, 14 W Mifflin, Suite 103. FMi: 24, 4:30-9 p.m., LGBT Center, 315 W Court St. FMI: cussion Group (Rockford, IL): The group meets weekly 600 W Virginia St. Contact is Leslie Myers. FM I: call (608) 255-8582. (414) 223-3220, or visit: www.projcctq.org. from?-8 p.m. ar 4848 Turner Rd. FMI: call (815) vrr['Y - (414) 291-7520, ext. 325. 636-7298. Northland Gay Men's Center - Social Night (Duluth, Wednesday, Oct. 15 Diversity G/1. Resource Center (Rockford, IL): Located MN): Meets every Saturday. Activities include games, at 610 E State St. Open front 4 to 9 p.m. Teen Drop-in FRIDAYS videos and other social events from 6 -9 p.m. at the Honeymooners Bowling League (Madison): Bowling N. 2nd Ave. East, Temple Opera Block, Suite Hours. FMI: call (815) 964-2639. Frontiers Dining Out (Madison): Madison-area Gay/Bi Center, 8 for Gays and lesbians with 3-person team format, 9:15 309. FMI: (218) 722-8585. p.m., Village Lanes, 208 Owen Road. Gay AA' "Living Sober" (Milw.): Meets every Thurs- men meet at the Shamrock Bar around 6 p.m. Decide day at 7 p.m., Galano Club, 315 W. Court St., Suite where to go to eat. FMI: (608) 274-5821. Potluck/Social Gathering (Sheboygan): For gays and Cream City Chorus (Milw.): Milwaukee's LGBT cho- lesbians in the Sheboygan area, second Saturday of the 201. FMI: (414) 276-6936. Gay AA ' (Milw.): Sixty Minutes Group, topic meet- nu rehearses at 7 p.m. Newcomers welcome. FMI: month. Call for location and more information (920) (414) 276-8787. Gay AAOpen Meetings (Appleton & Green Bay): ing. Meets every Friday at 5:30 p.m., Galano Club, 315 There are five open AA Meetings for the gay and les- W Court St., Suite 201. FMI: (414) 276-6936. 208-8695. sup- Thursday, Oct. 16 bian community each week in Appleton and Green Gay AA (Milw): Group 794, select A topic/as Bill Sees Transsexual SupPort Group (Madison): Offering Bay. FM1: & Locations call (920) 336-2868 or (920) port, direction, and social assistance to Transsexuals LGBT Saints? (Milo.): Monthly Rainbow U. features it. Meets every Friday at 7 p.m.. Galano Club, 315 W 954-9169. Court St., Suite 201. FMI: (414) 276-6936. who are pre-op. post-op, M-F, F-M, 18 or older. Seeks Rev. Andrew Warner, openly gay minister of Plymouth us help transsexuals in every aspect of their transiti-: .1 Gay AA/Gay Al-Anon, 12-Step Meetings (Kenosha): Church, who will talk about unknown or unheralded High Tea & Talk - Men's Group (Madison): High Tea and journey. Confidentiality assured. Group meetings These recovery groups meet every Thursday at St. Christian saints who were gay, 7 p.m., LGBT Center, & 'Falk is an opportunity for men of all ages, who free. Meets third Saturday of the month at Outreach, Mary's Lutheran Church, 2001 80th Ave., at 7:30 p.m. 315 W Court St. FMI: (414) 271-2656. enjoy the company of other men, to chat and graze at 600 Williamson St., FMI: (608) 235-0512. or email- FM1: call Bill or Art at (414) 694-0115. Monty's Blue Plate Diner, 3 p.m., 2089 Atwood Ave. wistsgroupgcharternet. Friday, Oct. 17 Gay/Lesbian AA Closed Meeting (Madison): Meets FMi: (608) 257-9751. GLBT Alumni Council (Madison): Homecoming weekly at 8 p.m. at the First Congregational Church, LGBT Community Center - Project Q Youth Drop-1n 1609 University Ave. FMi: call (608) 222-8989. Page 22 Wisconsin IN Step October 9 — October 22, 2003 • www.instepnews.com and then on to Milwaukee. Unlike many Broadway touring shows, On the Road with "The Producers" what theatergoers will see in Milwaukee By Carl M. Szatmary ing the show in New York on Broadway as will. compare favorably with those lucky Franz Then my only other responsibility enough to see "The Producers" in New urely one of the theatrical events of York. "Almost exact," insists Oscar. "That's 2003 is the arrival of Mel Brook's was I was still going to cover Max." Oscar continued to find himself in the what's so exciting. The entire set, the entire Saward-winning production of "The production physically is, I believe, 10% Producers," currently playing at the right place at the right time when the actor signed to take over for Lane, British stage smaller so that it will fit into all of the vari- Marcus Center. ous theatres we are playing." Anyone who has had begged, borrowed veteran Henry Goodman, was sacked prior to the new company's press night. Having Some eyebrow-raising facts about "The or stole a ticket to see "The Producers" Producers" to watch out for include 404 knows what a fun night at the theatre it is. gone on for Lane over 70 times, Oscar, a Tony nominee for Franz, seemed to direc- costume, an amazing 17 costume changes But what is it like to be in the hottest show by one chorus member, 27, actors, 16 horny in the country, not to mention taking it on tor Susan Stroman the perfect replace- ment, "I was at Tavern of the Green at an old ladies, 22 Hitler moustaches, one pet the road? IN Step had the opportunity to pigeon caned Dolphy, 40 tap shoes, 6 bro- talk to two of the show's stars this past Opening Night party for the revival of "The Elephant Man." My cell phone rang and it ken leg cast and one trick sausage. week: Brad Oscar who plays the incorrigible Even more jaw-dropping, says Nolte, is Max Bialystock and Bill Nolte who plays the was Susan Stroman on the other end telling me that this was the choice that they the musical climax of the whole show, wacky playwright, Franz Liebkind. "Springtime for Hitler." "It's the '11 Brad Oscar is certainly not a stranger to had made." Although Bill Nolte wasn't a part of the Bill Nolte as the wacky playwright, o'clock" number in act two, it's very bold "The Producers," having been a part of the and over done and people really find them- original cast. Oscar was playing Santa in a original New York cast of "The Producers" Franz Liebkind in "The Producers." he had previously worked with director selves wondering how they could possibly production of the Radio City Christmas just absurd. He raises pigeons, training Susan Stroman before being cast in the be laughing at the Holocaust and WWII Show when a call came for him to audition pigeons on his roof. He writes Broadway role of Franz. Nolte admits that Franz is a and Hitler. But Mel Brooks and Susan as standby for Nathan Lane in the part of musicals, that's really how he enters into very fun character to play. "Franz is pretty Stroman and Tom Meehan have really cre- Max. When rehearsals started, he found the story. He wrote a horrific Broadway wacky, pretty out there. He's German. He's ated something that is truly audacious." himself covering 7 roles._ As fate would have musical called "Springtime for Hitler."" the idea that Hitler got a bad rap. From Milwaukee, "The Producers" it, the actor cast as Franz needed knee sur- holding In one of Mel Brooks' inspired plot Hitler was really, deep down, a nice guy. It's wind its way across the country over the gery, "So, I took over the role of Franz, open- twists, Franz eventually gets cast as Hitler next ten months with stops in Chicago.. by Bialystock and Bloom. "At the audition, Detroit, Philadelphia, Baltimore, Norfolk, Located on 70 JME SERVICES I am pretty astounded that they can't find Louisville, Kansas' City, Tulsa and private acres in someone butch enough to play Hitler and Sacramento. Door County! Home Repair iS? 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Topics include coming out issues, Ave., every Wednesday at 6 p.m. FMI: (608) 256-4107 in the AA program Meets every Monday at 7:30 p.m., support & resources. No age limits. FMI: (218) 722- or (608) 846-2860. AA Rainbow Group (Kenosha): Meets at 7 p.m. every Galan Club, 315 W. Court St., Suite 201. FMI: (414) 8585. HIV/AIDS Support Group (Milw.): Every Wednesday Sunday at St. Mary's Lutheran Church; 2001 80th St. 276-6936. (west entrance). FM1:- (262) 694-8951.. OUTCARE Sexual Health Clinic (Milw.): A satellite evening at the LGBT Community Center, 315 W. Gay AA/Gay Al-Anon - 12-Step Meetings (Racine): clinic of Planned Parenthood inside the LGBT Com- Court Si Call Bill at ARCW for more information: AA for GL$Ts (Fond du Lac): 6:30 p.m., Fond du Lac These recovery groups meet every Monday at 625 Col- munity Center, 315 W. Court St. Walk-ins Monday, (414) 225-1551. County Health Care Center, 459 E. 1st St. FM1: Gay lege Ave. at 8 p.m. FMI: Art at (414) 694-0115. Tuesday and Friday nights from 5:30 p.m.-9:30 p.m. .AA Hotline at (888) 492-3439. HIV/AIDS Support Group (Green Bay): Free, confi- LGBT Youth Pride Support Group - New Meeting FREE services for teens. (414) 277-9370. dential and open to any person living with or affected Angels of Hope MCC - Religious Services (Allouez and (Green Bay): This group will be available to youth PFLAG Milw. Open Office (Milv,-.): A representative of by HIV/AIDS on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the Appleton): Services are held every Sunday at Il a.m. at every Monday from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. at the Renais- Milwaukee PFLAG.will be available to speak to par; month. Meetings take place at Renaissance Healing 3607 Lihal St. in Allouez, and 5 p.m. at 815 N. Rich- sance Counseling Center. 311 Jefferson St. FMI: (920) • ents, youth or anyone who wants to stop and say hello Arts Ctr., 311 S. Jefferson from 7:30 to 9 p.m. FMI: mond St. in Appleton. FMI: (920) 991-0128. 437-4325. each Tuesday evening from 6 to 9 p.m. at the LGBT (920) 437-4325 or Sylvia at (800) 675-9400. Cream City Squares (Milw.): LGBT square dance club OUTCARE Sexual Health Clinic (Milw.): A satellite Community Center. FM1: (414) 271-2656. HIV Testing (Milw.): ARCW provides free and confi- holds weekly dance alternate Sundays through Sept. clink of Planned Parenthood inside the LGBT Com- Radical Faerie Heart Circle (Madison): 9 p.m:, dential HINT/AIDS testing every Wednesday from 4-7 (then every Sunday thru May), 1-4:30 p.m., Lake Park munity Center, 315 W Court St. Walk-ins Monday, Martha's Co-op, 225 E. Lakelawn, near McTaggart's. p.m., Milwaukee LGBT Center, 315.W. Court St. Lutheran Church, 2647 N. Stowell Ave. FMI: (414) Tuesday and Friday nights from 5:30 p.m.-9:30 p.m. FM1: (608) 442-1695. FM1: ;414) 225-1535 or 271-HOMO. 445-8080. FREE services for teens. (414) 277-9370. Sexual Compulsives Anonymous (Milw.): Closed meet- KENTE Discussion Group (Mihv.):Discussion group Gay AA (Milw.): Group 394, step/topic meeting. Meets True Colors LGBT Youth Activity Nights (Milw.): 2nd ing. "The Blue Group" meets every Tuesday at 7 p.m., for the African American LGBT/SGL community, every Sunday at 10:30 a.m., Galano Club, 315 W. and 4th Mondays, 6:30-8:30 p.m. at ARCW, $20 N. Galano Club, 315 W Court St., Suite 201. FM1: (414) third Wednesday of each month, 6.8 p.m.., LGBT Court St., Suite 201. FMI: (414) 276-6936. Plankinton Ave., 1st Floor Conference room. FMI: 276-6936. Community Center, 315 W. Court St. FM!: (414) Gay AA (Milw.): Group 1394, Big Book meeting. (414) 225-1573. Sober Seniors AA Meeting (Milw.): This meeting is 933.9508. Meets every Sunday at 7 p.m., Galano Club, 315 W Two Spirit Society (Milw.): Cultural and social support focused on the unique recovery needs of elders, and LGBT Campus Center Les/Bi Curious Women's Group Court St., Suite 201. FMI: (414) 276-6936. group for indigenous LGBT people. with tribal origins • meets every Tuesday morning from 10 to 11:30' a.m. at (Madison): This weekly group, open specifically to les- Gay AA (Milw): Group 94, step/topic meeting. Meets from North, Central and South America. Monthly 3200 W. Highland Blvd. FM1: ElderLink (414) 289- bian, bisexual and curious women who are UWM stu- every Sunday at 6 p.m., All Saints Cathedral, 816 E. events, LGBT Community Center, 315 W. Court St. 6874. dents, meets every Wednesday night, 8 p.m. at the Juneau Ave. FMI: (262) 790-0197. FMI: (414) 985-5151. UHS Counseling & Consultation Services Sex Out LG BT Campus Center on the second floor of the UWM Memorial Union, 800 Langdon Sr. Gay Al-Anon (Milw.): Papillion group, topic meeting. WISH - Generic AA 12...Step Meeting (Madison): Loud (Madison): This discussion group for Gay/Bi stu- Meets every 1st, 3rd and 5th Sunday at 10:30 a.m., Meets weekly at 6 p.m. at the Atwood Community dents meets in the Memorial Union at 12 Noon every Madison Vet Center GLB Veterans Meeting (Madison): Galan Club, 315 W. Court St., Suite 201. FM1: (414) Ctr.,.2425 Atwood Ave. FM!: (608) 249-5096. Tuesday. FMI: (608) 265-4901. The group meets every Wednesday at 147 S. Butler at 276-6936. UWM Rainbow Alliance (Milw.): University LGBT Womonsong Rehearsal (Madison): This women's 5 p.m. FMI: (608) 262-7084 or (608) 264-5342. Gay AlAnon (Milw): Group 9411, step/topidslogan group meets at 7:30 p.m. in Student Union Room chorale meets at the Beth Israel Center at 7 p.m. FMI: Queer Chicks Social Group (Madison): Meets every meeting. Meets every Sunday at 6 p.m., All Saints E307. FMI: (414) 229-6555. (608) 222-2987. Wednesday at 7 p.m. at 219 N. Hamilton St. FMI: Cathedral, 816 E. Juneau Ave. FMI: (262) 790-0197. Yoga Spirit Free Classes (Milw.): Every Tuesday there - (608) 265-3344. Gay Men's Discussion Group - Monthly Meeting TUESDAYS are free classes for all people living with HIV. Among True Colors LGBT Youth. (Milw.): ARCW's youth (Milw.): The group meets at the Counseling Center of Gay AA (Milw.): The Over and Under 40 group. Topic other things you can reduce stress and ease neuropathy group holds drop-in activity nights every second and Milw., 2038 N. Bartlett Ave.. every second Sunday of meeting, everyone is welcome. Meets every 'Tuesday, & joint pain. Classes are held at .301 N. Water St., fourth Wednesday at 820 N. Plankinton Ave. FMI: the month from 6-8 p.m. Topics range from relation- 5:30 p.m.. Galano Club, 315 W. Court St.. Suite 201. Suite 410 at 3:30 p.m. FM1: (414) 289-9660. (414) 225-1573. ships, dating and HIV/AIDS to spirituality and mental FMI: (414) 276-6936. heath. FMI: Bill Hand at (414) 271-2565. Gay AA (Milw.): Meeting every Tuesday at 10 a.m. at WEDNESDAYS James Reeb Unitarian Univeralist Chord, - Worship the Galano Club, 315 W. Court St., Suite #201. FM1 Diversity CA, Resource Ctr. Coming Out Support Service (Madison): Services at 9 and 11 a.m. ar 2146 E. cal (414) 276-6936. Group (Rockford, II.): Meets every Wednesday at 610 Johnson St. FM1: (608) 242-8887. Gay Narcotics Anonymous (Milw.): Closed meeting. E. State St. front 7 to 8 p.m. FM1: (815) 964-2639. LGBT Catholics (MU.): Monthly discussion group for Basic Text. Meets every Tuesday at 8 p.m., Galano Gay AA (Miles.): Group 494, 12 Steps/12 Traditions. LGBT Catholics meets from 10:30 a.m. to Noon at Club, 315 W. Court SL, Suite 201. FMI: (414) 276- Meets every Wednesday at 7 p.m. at the Galano Club, Holy Trinity/Guadalupe School. 613 S. 4th Sc. FMI: 6936. 315 W. Court St., Suite 201. FMI: (414) 276-6936. (414) 481-8543. HIV/AIDS Support Group - Fox Cities (Menasha): Gay/Bi Men's Al Anon Group (Madison): Meets-at the Perfect Harmony Men's Chorus (Madison): Perfect Free, confidential and open to any person living with University United Methodist Church, 1127 University Harmony is Madison's all-inclusive chorus for gay, or affected by HIV/AIDS, the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of bisexual, transgendered and gay-friendly/allied men.We the month from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Family Resource are a non-audition chorus. We rehearse Sunday Assn. of Fox Valley; Midway Rd., 1488 Kenwood evenings from 7-9 p.m., Grace Episcopal Church, 116 Drive. FM1: (920) 739-4226 or Sylvia at (00) 675- A Reputation of Integrity & Honesty W. Washington St. FMI: (608) 221-9599. 9400. Seeking Sobriety - Non-Religious Recovery Group LGBT Community Center - Project Q Youth Drop-In (Milw.): This recovery group meets at 6 p.m. every Night (Milw.): The group meets Tuesdays from 4:30 to Sunday at BESTD Clinic, 1240 E. Brady St. (use side 9:30 p.m. and Fridays from 5 to 10 p.m. Drop-In door). FM1: Danny at (414) 540-0961 or Richard at nights provide a variety of youth activities in a space (414) 442-1132. that is welcoming, safe and accessible to LGBTQ (questioning) youth. FMI: (414) 271.-2656. Sexual Compulsives Anonymous (Milw.)i Closed meet- ing every Sunday at 6 p.m., Galano Club, 315 W. Madison Community Health Ctr. - HIV Testing Court St., Suite 201. FM1: (414) 299-0755. (Madison): Free, anonymous, walk-in HIV testing PATTI WYSOCKI DENISE DOEGE from 3 to 545 p.m. at 1133 Williamson St. FM1: (608) SilVer Space - Older Lesbian Discussion Group (Milw.): (414) 476-9070, x332 (414) 476-9070, x340 255-0704. Meets on the third Sunday of the month at the Coun- [email protected] [email protected] seling Center, 2038 N. Bartlett Ave.. from 6 to 8 p.m. Northland Gay Men's Center - Open Discussion $3 donation. FMI: (414) 271-2565. Group (Duluth, MN): Meets weekly from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave. East, Temple Opera Shorevy, University Congregational Church - Worship Service (Madison): Weekly services arc at 10 a.m. at 1127 Uni- versity Ave. FMI: (608) 256-2353. Your First Gay Leather Retail 11622 W. North Ave. Y Wauwatosa, WI 53226 MONDAYS BGLASS - Weekly Meeting (Appleton): The Bisexual. Gay. Lesbian and Straight Society meets every Monday at 7:30 p.m. in Room 109 of Coleman Hall at 4 Lawrence University Memorial Union, 615 E. College Follow The Yello Ave. FMI: Irene (920) 722-7572 or Bernie (920) 982- 0220. Brick Road... To Russ Darrow Honda, Nissan Suzuki! Your Ad (W) HONDA.. look AT I'm Su Gregg, Salesperson at Russ Darrow Honda. THAT In the market for a new car? Come see me... we have a "A Biker Leather Shop" Here ti large selection of new and used cars at low, low sale prices. 438 N. Frances St. • Madison • 53703 Call me for an appointment at: ONLY $25! 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Mambo dozen films over the span of two weekends. his wacky Aunt to understand him, Angelo Filmmakers Juan Luis Iborra and Now, positively nipping the heels of the does eventually find the courage to strike- Yolanda Garcia Serrano take a hot summer Milwaukee LGBT Film/Video Fest, come out on his own. While proudly showing his day in Madrid and liberally mix in a variety Italiano" two new comedies to the Landmark's new apartment to his stodgy, oh-so Italian of disparate but amiable characters ail Oriental and Downer Theatres: "Mambo parents (Paul Sorvino and Claudia Ferri). searching, a few for money, some for sex ltaliano" and "Km.0 (Kilometer Zero)." Angelo finds that his apartment has been but all ultimately for love. "Km 0" Although "Mambo Italiano" will surely broken into. The expected chaos ensues. A shy young accountant, Sergio be compared to "My Big Fat Greek But fate also brings Angelo's former (Alberto San Juan), desperate to lose his By Carl M. Szatmary Wedding," a comparison to "Norman, Is best friend — and now studly policeman — virginity prior to his wedding day, has That You?" might perhaps be more apt. f the glossy magazines like "Instinct" Nico (Peter Miller). So determined is Nico hired a prostitute but arrives too late. Steve Galluccio's screenplay, based and "Advocate" are to be believed, to do a thorough job of investigating, he Pedro (Carlos Fuentes), a cute fledgling upon his own autobiographical play, offers there are literally dozens of wonderful decides to move in. Angelo and Nico seem filmmaker mistakes the prostitute Tatiana I nice Italian boy Angelo Barberini (Luke LGBT films that crisscross the country the happy couple. Sure. Angelo is a bit con- (Elisa Matilla) for the friend of his sister's Kirby) trying to come out. Turning to a never bothering to stop in Milwaukee. gay cerned that Nico is still so closeted but all it he's planning on staying with over the sum- helpline, Angelo gives his phone Fortunately the always intriguing counselor takes is one of Nico's dazzling smiles and mer, and she her would-be client. The gay all of Angelo's doubts and frustrations melt subplot has a nerdy Benjamin (Miguel away. And who can blame him? Finally, Garcia) pretending to be the Internet sex here is the film where the two boys are cer- date a hot flamenco dancer is expecting. tain to live happily ever after. Or will they? while Benjamin's straight male-prostitute Angelo and Nico's relationship is roommate Miguel (Jesus Cabrero) beds a played against broad comedy of the two rich bored wife of a boring corporate exec sets of homophobic parents. Galluccio's who mistakenly believes him to be her screenplay might offer broad swatches of long-lost son . . . stereotypical humor but with plenty of With a cast of fourteen to juggle, expect heart mixed in for good measure. to be challenged at least initially in keeping Fortunately, director Emile Gaudreault's straight who's who. Possessing a light and talented cast manage to break through the breezy tone. plenty of humorous and unex- Italian stereotypes into eminently likeable pected predicaments plus an attractive cast characters. Luke Kirby's Angelo manages to playing characters all of whom will surely be both naive and winning. Ferri's Anna is live happily-ever-after. "Km.0" is a pleasant just the sort of cuddly Italian Mom who cinematic diversion. rules with an iron oven mitt. Pete Miller "Mambo Italiano" doesn't bring any hidden depths to his clos- Grade: B+ eted policeman but he's just so gosh darn "Km.o" cute, you probably won't care. 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I mean it — explored. I want my BBC! someone along the lines of a Christopher Ellen's got a good set of tits. See? And you Could it be that Halle Berry wants to Atkins, Rob Lowe, or even one of those thought Rosie going on about Tom look like a whore? Maybe. I'm told that Estevez boys. Clearly, I wasn't aiming Cruise was implausible. Here I am going part of her deal for starring in "Catwoman" very high. So, here I am, on the brink of my on and on about Ellen's rack! was that she had costume.approval. ten year reunion (play along with me), and You know where else you're gonna get Apparently Halle was excited about taking I've got nothing. Oh, sure, I could bring some good tits? At Divas: Simply Singing - on the role, but not getting into the cos- Cloris Leachman with me, but who the hell Sheryl Lee Ralph's annual AIDS benefit tume. We hear that she felt Michelle is that gonna impress? Half of my class- that takes place on October 25 at the Pfeiffer's cat suit wasn't sexy enough. mates will think I'm dating one of the cafe- Wilshire Ebell Theatre in Los Angeles. For Well, there's a fine line between sexy and teria workers (no offense, Cloris). So if thirteen years, our favorite Dreamgirl has slutty, and Halle's definitely leap-frogged rounded up a veritable cavalcade over it. We'll post the photo of her in cos- of stars for this fabulous concert tume on www.Filth2Go.com so you can Adam Killian — and this year's lineup is quite judge for yourself. been actor out there should feel free to something. People like Geri Could it be that a certain Broadway apply. and then we'll have the fans decide Ginger Spice Halliwell, understudy is trying to get in some extra Loretta Devine, Jenifer who I should go with. But if any of you peo- rehearsal time? So say my sources in the ple pick Willie Aames, I'll hunt each and Lewis, Trenyce (from Big Apple who tell me that the boy with a every one of you down personally. You can "American Idol"), and disco diva song in his heart is going above and check out the progress of this little contest Linda Clifford. Now that's beyond the call of duty for someone in his on our website of www.filth2go.com. And, what I call a party! But I do have position (and this is a guy who's been in of course, if you're interested — or if you'd one request — would it kill quite a number of positions). While he says just like to ask a question — go ahead and Loretta, Jenifer, and Sheryl to do that he wants to do the best that he can do. send an e-mail to me at [email protected] something from Dreamgirls? the bigger reason is that he's got the teensi- and I promise to get back to you before After all, Jenifer did play Effie est little crush on his character's love inter- Cloris and I double date with James and alongside Loretta and Sheryl in est. And how better to inch his way in (so !tires (Cloris has a better chance of getting one of the first workshops of the to speak) than to rehearse those kissing lucky than James does). Until next time. musical. Just picture them doing scenes. After all. he was taught by experts. remember, one man's filth is another man's "Move" or "Dreamgirls" — with But don't expect to see his name in lights bible. original choreography, of course any time soon — the real leading man is (the idea of them doing the hugely famous for never missing a show. entire "Heavy" sequence is too Sorry, Charlie. titillating to even imagine). When we have a blind item that reads Anyway, I'm just throwing the like a gay version of "All About Eve," then suggestion out 'there. For more we've definitely come to the end of yet details, check out another column. So, back to my reunion — www.DivasSimplySinging.com. maybe we should have a contest. Every has- Adam Rickitt I've been sitting on this too long, so let's move on to Adam you're out there Rob, Chris, or Emilio (not Rickitt. OK, I'm not sitting on Adam liter- Charlie — there's gonna be an open bar), let ally — although he'd make a good date for The me know if you can be in Boston on my reunion. Forget about the reunion, let's November 29. I'll make it worth your while. just get a room at the hotel! Where was I? NEW Maybe I should bring Wes from "Boy Oh yeah. Adam Rickitt — he's been caught Meets Boy." After all, it's not like he's busy kissing a guy! The sometime singer, some- with James or anything (oh, grow up). And time actor will be involved in a gay kiss on here's a little scoop for you guys — didya the venerable UK soap "Coronation Street" 0014 know that while James and Wes did win — and I should point out that the show has the trip to New Zealand, they do NOT have never before had a gay character in its 43 to go together? It only makes sense — even years on the tube. The character of Todd if they were dating, what are the chances Grimshaw (played by Bruno Langley) is they'd still be dating in March of 2004, let coming to terms with his sexuality, and he Tonight: Desiree and Male Dancers: Magnum, Tyson alone wanna be on a trip together? A little kisses his girlfriend's brother Nick Tilsey birdie told me that the boys each got a (Rickitt) while he's sleeping (I used that & Romeo number of points from Alyson Sat. Oct 11th: Benefit Show for Cancer Research Adventures to use any way they please — so, actually, Wes and l'could take a trip to Try our outdoor Foundation of America Costa Rica with his points and not spend a Sponsored by: thing. Hmmm, maybe I WILL bring him to garden for your intimate my reunion. dining pleasure! Produced by: Connie Lingus Oh, not to burst yet another of your and Shelby Ann Baker Emcee'd bubbles, but the dog that Wes poses with in the photo accompanying syndicated by Felicia Melton Smith columnist Rex Wockner's interview actu- Presenting- Desiree Mathews, Destiny Mathews and many ally belongs to Rex, not Wes. Billy Masters special Guests — Shatterer of Illusions! I cannot tell you how many e-mails I've Thu. Oct loth: Desiree and Male Dancers Don Juan & Antonio received from fans of daytime television. Fri. Oct 17"1: Photo Exhibition opening 8-10 pm & Drag Show So, let's get this out of the way quickly — I produced by Antonio am NOT the same Bill Masters who is sending out invitations on "All My Fri. Oct. 31"; Halloween Drag Show by Cass Marie Children." But I am told that the scribe Weekly Events: who came up with the idea is a Fan of Filth. Never a cover Tore: Queer Cable & AO % off specials for Tomboys Didya happen to see our very own at the front Wed 40 % off students Adam Killian as Ellen's personal go-go specials for and those in pajamas bar boy when Sharon Stone dropped by? If Thu: Strippers '& Ty in the DJ Booth - 53.00 cover you're coming to Los Angeles, you too may Fth Marcus Di's and Drag Show every other Friday for shows LUNCH: Tues. thu Sat. • 11:30am-2pm want to think about attending a taping of Sat Dance Party with Ty 0-midnight Ellen. 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II spreads (both the Rose Bowl and Elizabeth "The Producers" possible, Roger DeBris (Stuart Marland), Taylor come a calling), business begins to who is determined to "Keep It Gay." boom and Mr. Mushnik is thrilled. Seymour's By Carl M. Szatmary Could there be any formula for a prospects look endless. If only the plant didn't t is difficult to imagine a Broadway tour- Broadway musical more fraught with mis- Skylight's "Little keep demanding fresh human blood! ing show arriving in Milwaukee with any adventure? Shop of Horrors" "Little Shop of Horrors," with a mar- I more hype than Mel Brooks' "The Of course, the impossible takes place. velously clever and hum-able score by Alan Producers," playing at the Marcus Center "Springtime for Hitler" becomes an imme- By Carl M. Szatmary Menken and Howard Ashman, is pure until October 12. Still one of the hottest tick- diate sensation and before you can say magine for a moment that you are the vaudeville with a wonderfully improbable ets on Broadway — particularly when original "Bialystock and Bloom," Max and Leo look Skylight Opera Theatre's Artistic love story and just a touch of Faust tossed stars Nathan Lane and Matthew Broderick headed for the hoosegow. What will hap- IDirector and you must schedule a show in for good measure. return in January — "The Producers" nabbed pen to our producing dynamic duo? opposite the eagerly awaited arrival of Mel Director Pam Kriger somehow man- every Tony Award it could grab back in While it is difficult to imagine a more Brooks' phenomenally successful, 12 Tony ages to keep the comedy broad but keep 2001, winning a record 12. fun evening at the theatre, "The Producers" award-winning production of "The the wacky cast of characters real. Can any show live up to such expecta- perhaps falls a bit short of the mark. Producers." Playing against such an inanimate tions? Well, "The Producers" does just Mel Brooks and Thomas Meehan have Now there's a dilemma. Richard Carsey scene-stealer as Audrey II can't be an easy about as well as one can realistically hope. made sure that the laughs come fast and turned to "Little Shop of Horrors," a record- task but Krieger's wonderful cast more than Briefly. Brooks' wacky musical comedy. furious, although even the least politically breaking Off-Broadway sensation from the holds its own. Benjamin Howes' Seymour based upon his 1968 cult classic film, fol- correct are likely to find some of the humor early 1980s and later a very successful film. manages to remain sweet and guileless lows two loveable losers, Max Bialystock cringe-worthy. Director Susan Stroman "Little Shop of Horrors" germinated regardless of the dastardly deeds he finds (Brad Oscar) and Leo Bloom (Andy keeps the action at breakneck speed and from a 1960s cult film, directed by the leg- himself doing. Michelle Smith creates a Taylor). Max is a down-on-his-luck produc- throws in some nifty choreography. endary low-budget horror director, Roger loveable if clueless Audrey underneath her er still reeling from the failure of "Funny Brad Oscar is no stranger to the role of Corman. Today most notable for an early enormous wig. Even William Theisen's Mr. Boy," his musical version of "Hamlet." Leo. Max Bialystock, eventually succeeding screen appearance by Jack Nicholson. Mushnik is just a big old teddy bear. who has long dreamt of becoming a Nathan Lane after the celebrated sacking of Corman's black comedy cost a mere Still. the plant, Audrey II, cannot help Broadway producer, is a milquetoast Henry Goodman. Oscar, who does bear an $30,000 — what it cost the Skylight's fabu- but steal the show. Initially Audrey II is accountant trying to balance Max's cre- uncanny resemblance to Lane, creates an lous properties department to create seemingly just an innocuous window-box ative accounting. immediate rapport with the audience in his Audrey II, the loveable carnivorous plant — sized potted plant. But under Seymour's As is often the case with ideas of such opening number, "The King of Broadway." and was filmed in a mind-boggling two and tender loving care, she continues to grow magnitude. Max takes a chance remark by Less successful is Taylor's Leo Bloom. one-half days. in size before finally uttering her first, chill- Leo and transforms it into the inspired Although possessing a better voice than The time is vaguely the 1960s: the place ing words, "Feed Me." Eventually, Audrey notion of making heaps of money by produc- Broderick, Taylor seems to lack sufficient is Mushnik's Skid-Row Florist. Business is II takes over the small premises of ing a huge Broadway flop. That's right. a flop. charm to bring Leo Bloom to life. bad, beleaguered Mr. Mushnik (William Mushnik's Skid-Row Florist. In their search for the worst script in The rest of the talented ensemble alter- Theisen) is ready to throw in the flower. Kudos must be given to Lisa Schlenker, town, Max and Leo end up on Franz nates their time between playing wacky err, the towel. But Mr. Mushnik's even for her wacky and wonderful designs, and Liebkind's East Village rooftop. Liebkind has characters and participating in wacky more beleaguered assistant, Seymour to puppeteer Peter Bruce and singer/actor penned a musical love letter to the one and musical numbers. Bill Notle offers a hilari- (Benjamin Howes). has been hard at work Bill Jackson for creating such a delightful only Fuhrer, calling it "Springtime for Hitler." ous "In Old Bavaria" backed up by a terrific nursing along a very strange plant that. creature.

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Napalese Lounge (MW, DJ, F) Alcoholics Anonymous Rainbow Families Wisconsin (LGBT-Family Support) 600 Williamson St, 53703.. 274-5959 515 S. Broadway 54303 432-9646 (Request gay meetings) 771-9119 Gay/Bi Father's Group Bi Definition (Bisexual community events) 600 Williamson St., Suite IP, Madison 53703-3588 SASS (Wm, DJ) 437-7727 600 Williamson St, 53703 255-8582 315 W. Court St., Suite 101 299-9612 ...... (608) 270-1024 840 S. Broadway, 54304 Gay/Lesbian Information Recording E-mail: bideffzhotmail.com Website: www.geocities.com/rainbowfamilieswisconsin/ Sorry, We're Closed (MW) 884-2835 for tape Brew City Bears 299-0401 USofA Wisconsin Pageants 715 S. Broadawy, 54304 (ask #3333) 263-3100 Gay Mens Video P.O. Box 1035, 53201 405 West Walnut St., Green Bay, WI 54303 Za's Historic West Theatre (Mw, G/S, DJ, V, F) Club P.O. Box 8234, 53708 244-8675 E-mail: [email protected], www.brewcitybears.org (920) 655-0611 405 W. Walnut St., 54303 435-1057 BWMT-Milwaukee (414) 540-9437, ext 3 GLBT Phone Line (Outreach) .255-4297 (800) 578-3785 MEDICAL P.O. Box 091475, Milwaukee, 53209 Jewish Lesbians 256-8883 [email protected] Wisconsin AIDS Library (414) 225-1539 AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin E-mail: [email protected] Castaways M.C. (Levi/Leather club), P.O. Box 1697, 53202 [email protected] (800) 359-9272 824 S. Broadway, 54304 920-437-7400 Kissing Girls Productions (Lesbian Events) 266-9997 Counseling Center (LOB support Et discussion groups) Wisconsin AIDSline (free/anonymous) 800-675-9400 2038 N. Bartlett, 53202 271-2565 (414) 273-AIDS Web: www.arcw.org E-Mail: [email protected] Cream City Chorus (800) 334-AIDS Eastport Chiropractic (Mory Werner D. C ) Lavender (Lesbian Domestic Violence Support Group) 255-7447 315 W. Court, 53212 276-8787 WI Conference of Churches Eastport Center, Suite 242, 54301 362-5057 Cream City Foundation (CCF) LesBiGay Issues Committee (UW Advisory Comm.) 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Box 1786, 53701 (Waukesah County Technical College) GSA Student Life C121, 800 Main 1478 Midway Road, Menasha 832-2671 AngelS of Hope (MCC Church) OutReach, Inc. clo St Peawaukee, WI 53072 )691-5388 [email protected] 3607 Libal Street, 54301 983-7453 600 Williamson St, 53703 255-8582 email: outreachinc.com, web: www.outreachinc.com Gemini Gender Group (TV/TS/TG support/so1c2ia6l2) GLBT Et Q Youth Partnership (Youth support group) Green Bay Area Unitarian Universalist Fellowship P.O. Box 44211, 53214 Meets Tuesdays 6-8 pm 731-4847 Parents Et Friends of Gays Et Lesbians 297-9328 2201 S. Oneida, Green Bay 54304 499-2344 Girth Et Mirth/Milwaukee HIV+ Support Groups Northeast 733-2068 P.O. Box 1722, 53701 Web: www.greenbayuu.org P.O. Box 862, 53201-0862 Lavender Reading Salon (Book Club) 832-6184 Union Congregational Church-UCC Perfect Harmony Chorus 831-3609 P.O. Box 14706, 53714-4706 GLEAM/SPECTRUM (GLBT Employees of Ameritech) 2611 N. Summit St., 54914-2120 716 S. 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Hill Outreach Center (HIV testing, condoms) Woody's (Mw, D) www.dayeant.com/woodys Two Spirit Society (Indigenous LGBT People of America) Absolute Furniture 4311 W Vliet, 53208 342-4333 1579 S. 2nd St., 53204 672-0806 315 W. Court St., 53212 985-5151 Ave Positive Health Clinic Bar Map: #15 5520 W. North 875-8326 Wisconsin Haverim (GLBT Jewish Group) Body Ritual (Body Piercing, Jewelry, Gifts) Medical Center Specialties Clinic Walker's Pint (Wm) http://groups.yahoo.comIgroup/VVisconsinHaverim 2010 N. Farwell Ave., 53202 • 273-3777 945 N 12, 53233 219-7908 818 S. 2nd St.., 53204 643-7468 Zohar Harari: [email protected] (414) 202-8074 (Body Piercing) STD Specialties Clinic Bar Map: #16 Avante Garde Mark Behar: [email protected], (414) 277-7671 7219 W. Greenfield Ave., West Allis, 607-4068 3251 N Holton, 53212 264-8800 Restuarants 53214 Wisconsin Outdoor Women (outdoor sporting events) Azteca Clinton Street Antiques 816 South 5th St., 53202 383-8816 1110 South First Street 647-1773 Bella's Caffe (Coffee House) Constant Reader Bookshop 189 N. Milwaukee St., 53204 273-5620 1627 E Irving Pl., 53202 291-0452 Milwaukee Bar Map Cafe Knickerbocker Eyez Unique (optical) 1030 East Juneau, 53202 272-0011 2238 S. Kinnickinnic Ave, 481-0868 Cempazuchi Forever Yours (flowers, fresh cut, dried) 1205 E. Brady St., 53202 291-5233 2201 E Capitol Dr., 53211 9611006 St. Paul Ave Chip and Pys Genesis (custom jeweler, goldsmith) 1340 W. Towne Square Rd., Mequon, 241-9589 6011 W. Layton Ave. 281.1022 Cielito Lindo Great Frame Up 507 E. Silver Spring Dr 962.4889 733 South 2nd St., 53204 649-0401 Frank Gentile (Auto Dealer) Harry's Bar and Grill Hwy 20, Racine 886-5111 3539 N. Oakland Ave, 53211 e 694-6800 Grave Gallery (framing) en 10 MEW/Glass Menagerie (lunch, dinner, Sunday brunch) 1209 E. Brady St., 53202 277.8228 124 N. Water 53202 347-1962 Mega Discount Nursery North Shore Bistro 272-0111 1901 E. Rawson Ave., Oak (reek 53154 571.6565 Riverpoint Village, 1-43 a Brown Deer 351-6100 Miss Groove (gifts) <,c) Out 'N About (lunch, dinner, Sat. R Sun. brunch) 1225 E. Brady St., 53202 298-9185 Pittsburgh AV6 www.milwaukee-out-n-about.corn Out of Solitude Jewelry 1407 S. Water St., 53204 643-0377 918 E. Brady St., 53202 2213101 \\. Silver Dollar Cafe Outpost Natural Foods 0 831 South 16th Street, 53204 645-8860 100 E. Capitol Dr., 53212 964-7789 Oregon St Help Lines exchange@execpccom Gay People's Union 645-0585 Outwards (LGBT Books and espresso bar) Gay Youth 4iiscreoiiii'Rotline- (Fri/Sat Eves 7pm-11pm) . . 2710 N. Murray Ave., 53211 9619089 (866) GAY-YOUTH [email protected] Vir nia St Milwaukee Metro (414) 272-TEEN Popular News (adult books, videos) 225 N. Water St., 53202 Milwaukee &IT tialli010111'er 278-0636 Rosebud Cinema and Drafthouse Information and referral 271-2656 tdf—) 6833 W. North Ave. 607-9672 Pathfinders (24-hour youth counseling) 271-1560 Rubin's Wisconsin AIDSline (fredanonymous) . . .(414) 273-AIDS 224 E. Chicago St. 53202 278-8100 dl (800) 334-AIDS Sportland 2 (motorcycles) Services 7221 S. 13th St 7642800 National Ave Affiliated Mortgage 453-6700 Video Adventures (video/dvd sales/rentals) 1233 N. Mayfair Rd., Wauwatosa, 53218 1418 E. Brady St, 53202 272-6768 AEU Promotions (Promotional Products) Wishful Things (Antiques) (DO [email protected] 207 [ Buffalo, 53202 964-9799 Bay Tax Service, Paul Rathjen 332-9584213-5842 Health Clubs Frank J. Berger, (Real Estate) (414) 35 Midtowne Spa (Gay Health and Recreational Facility) 43 Mineral St BE8G Construction 405-7843 315 5. Water St., 53204 278-8989 Port Sean Buckley (Individual Psychotherapy) 562-2403 of Bill Buresh (Real Estate) 529-0500 Central (715) Q Calyx Counseling Center (Kate Weishaar, Ph.D) AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin Milwaukee 1840 N. Farwell Ave. Ave 27766- 43636848 1105 Grand Ave., #3, Schofield, 54476 (800) 551-3311 Carnival Travel, 611 E. Wells St. Central Wisconsin Rainbow Alliance Clarity (Writing and Research) 276-6935 -0 P.O. Boy 390, Stevens Point, 54481 C Creative Home Concepts (Home/Remodel) .. 766-1066 C•1 V Downtown Autobody (Car Repair) (715) 592-6245, 3425 N. Holton Ave. 964-7170 ext. 5920200 Lapham Ave. co Roland E. Daneau, CPA (Accountant) 962-1400 Joseph T. Chojnacki, PH.D. (Psychologist) Discovery Et Recovery Clinic (Counseling) Marshfield Clinic, Marshfield, 54449 387-5442 6510 W Layton Ave, 53215 282-6160 Greenfield Ave. O The Edgewater - Inn Et Resort Diva Plumbing Co. 324-6698 Eagle River, 54521 1-888-334-3987 Residential Et Commercial, divaplumbers@ao com http://www.edgeinn.com www.instepnews.com • October 9 — October 22, 2003 Wisconsin IN Step Page 31 GEtL Society/Wausau 848-0608 By Michael 4 UWSP 100/0 Society Johnston Campus Activities Complex, Box 68 UWSP, Stevens, Point, 54481 346-4366 'm back, and CORDIALLY YOURS LDS Brotherhood (Gay Mormons) happy to report P.O. Box 152, Wausau, 54402 848-0343 since our last visit I Sandy Folaron were on the dais as well as tickets. get 1 free! Call (414) 225-1577 or Oz (MW, DJ, V) that Hurricane 320 Washington, Wausau 54401 842-3225 Bill Bauers of the Kenosha/Racine area. (800)-359-9272 . ext. 1577. Rona of Milwaukee HIV/AIDS Spiritual Support Et Education sharing the personal enrichment ARCW Saturday. Oct. 18, he's baaack — bigger went off to our 2108 4th Ave, Stevens Point 54481 345-6500 has provided for him. Most moving. and bolder - Clay Maverick at Boom. nation's capital and headed off Hurricane Marshfield Gay Lesbian Organ. (MGLO) The weather obviously could have been Hopefully, he'll be as satisfying as Jason c/o 130 S. Central Ave., k3 Marshfield, 54449 Isabel. Talk about a secret arsenal... better. Yet, even the rain couldn't dampen Branch was. Although we did 'meat' him Vic: (715) 387-2068 Jim: (715) 384-6731 I'm suffering today from the day- the hearts and/or spirits of our stride. This last year. Jason brought out some hot men: Prince Edward BEtB afters. Last night I had the thrill of doing year I had the pleasure once again to walk Steve and Rand, Craig and Bobby. 203 W 5th, Shawano 54166 526-2805 "Girl-Face" for Miss Rita's 40-ish-ish-ish the walk with WCTC's Tim Greene and Roger, David Sagura. Col. Abs, Wausau Narcotics Anonymous Birthday Show. The M&M Club's lush (ask for Gay meetings) 536-LIFE partner Michael Karl. other WCTC offi- Bobby from the Pasta Tree, Steve, patio was transported into a Women's Resource Center UWSP cozy cabaret. cials Debbie and Ted. Donna and Miller's Chad, Scott & Michael, Mark & What fun! But, I 336 Nelson Hall, Stevens Pt. 54481 346-4851 must confess my feet are Doug Hippenbecker and his dog Todd. Jeff B. and Jeff G., Jeff & Eric. feeling it — thank God I type with my fin- Harley, rivaling the popularity of poster and Rocky at the door. North Cent. (715) gers! I got to hostess, but without a doubt dog Al. Kudos to the All-Star team of HIT This year. it's Key West for my fall get- Gay/Lesbian Support Group it was Rita's night. Appearing in a beauti- stars working the "buffet of Refueling." away. FantasyFest 25 - by invitation of Box 247A, 1411 Ellis Ave. Ashland 54806 ful Vera Wang wedding creation, taking Cindy 0.. Debi Vance, Michael Jonas neighbor lady Rosalind Hoffmann. Northern WI Lambda Society the endless ribbon from her endless hair. & Max Barnett of The Triangle. Jerry Skals, and Lee Truddel. Last P.O. Box 802, Rhinelander 54501 362-4242 Maraschino Cheri made an impressive Dame Edna Ross. Ginger, David year I was in Europe almost — Ireland. MN' SHEM (Support, Heal, Educate) for Parents,Family, Friends debut — our lady of of Gays/Lesbians/Bi's 359-7432 multiple hair(s) — well Todryk. Princess Debbie. Tippy dear friend and traveling companion/host it was Officer Lee Out Up North (GIL Social/Info/Network) "Wigstock." was more Tobias and a crew of dedicated localities. Michael Karl will have his photo work than happy to assist, and then P.O. Box 695, Washburn, 54891 682-2890 there was Afterwards. Craig and Scotty of Ireland on display at The Mad Mug Jeff, the grocer... Oh. to be the ingenue! opened the doors of Switch for a post- Coffee House. 7934 W. Burleigh. It's Sheboygan (92o) HIT five Suzy Wong, the toast of the Walk Party. All walkers, volunteers. "Moments of Being," photos of Ireland by Blue Lite (Mw) 1029 N. 8th, 53081 457-1636 Pacific Rim, wowed them as always. The Parents a Friends of Gays Et Lesbians ARCW personnel and the public were wel- Michael Karl. This exhibit is up and ready intoxicating Joan Bennett of the M's comed. Food, fluids, raffles and fun! Loved for you to drink in through the month. Shirley: 458-2506Carolyn• 467-0422 staff was "Down With Love" a la Streisand, those Bloodys Lotta! A marvelous chance The end of this month brings the Wesley United Methodist Church earning an encore. The supreme Diana 823 Union Avenue, Sheboygan 458-4889 to sit back, sip and celebrate! launch of the holiday season. HAL- Ross and the Supremes made quite a From there, in the name of tradition. it LOWEEN. This year it's a weekend, Friday Racine/Kenosha "Happening" with "The Happening." was dinner at the Pasta Tree. Steven Oct. 31. The Walker's Point AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin Dame Edna Ross, "Cheap Talkin" Chi and Robert rolled out the "lavender car- Halloween Pub Crawl continues. 1212 57th 657-6644 St., Kenosha, 53140 Chi of M's, and Michael Jonas - sorry pet" and the antipasto platter with flair, as Starting at the Triangle from 8:30-10 p.m.. (800) 924-6601 dear, you need a stage name! Motown always, for us. Unfortunately, Bobby was then onto Switch from 10-11:30 p.m.. then Club 94 (MW, DJ) 857-9958 Royalty at its very tasteful best! follow us to 9001 120th Ave (Hwy Cal-94) Kenosha 53140 off, but Tracy took care of us regally. It's Fluid from 11:30-1 a.m., and Yet another virgin — stage that is - like if Cher isn't available — Chastity last call at La Cage from 1 a.m. to close. Frank Gentile (Auto Dealer) Margo LaCourt — there is no way, you Hwy 20 Racine 53403 886-5111 would fill in according to Bobby. Three winners at each bar, then the final couldn't tell by those smoldering eyes that it JoDee's (MW, DJ) 634-9804 The weekend provided an excellent winner. The total prize is $1,500 with the was Peter, another M's fixture. Beware 2139 Racine St (Hwy 32) Racine 53403 opportunity to commemorate, remember grand prize being a $500 travel voucher. when making wagers on sporting events! My What About Me? (WM) and appreciate where we've been and how A great place to dine: Bjonda, 7754 Fluid 600 6th St. Racine 53403 632-0171 favorite femme Fatale Wilma far we've come and how far we have to go in Harwood Ave. in Tosa. (414) 431-1444. Part Finger Gay AA (Group 294 Meeting) 554-6611 Do, looking stunning a la "That Girl" the continuous battle of HIV/AIDS. Over of Gracious Catering, a totally gracious Marto Thomas-Donahue. Gay/Lesbian Union of Racine The divine 50+ Bag Boyz from all over Wisconsin experience. A most beautiful environment. Nova 625 College, Racine 54303 634-0659 D'Vine, LaCage's leading lady of were in Brewtown for the Walk weekend. A black and putty. draped arches, and tuffets UW-Parkside G/L Organization 595-2244 lounge. brought the crowd to their collective retreat, photo shoot and training sessions for purses — next time I'm bringing a pock- 900 Wood Rd., Box 200, Kenosha 53141 feet — naturally! That bombastic blonde with boss/mentor Daniel Klingler — Gay et book! Quite an experience. • PFLAG KenoshalRacine (262) 649-2729 bombshell is always a treat! And again The Outreach Manager of ARCW. Jason Congratulations to one of Milwaukee's P.O. Box 580058, Pleasant Prairie, 53158 Journal-Sentinel in their profile of LaCage e-mail: [email protected] Wedesky, ACTAEA Works, shot The Bag leading couples. Terry and Ken on 23 was savvy enough to include a shot of the Boyz Calendar 2004. It will be more daring years of love. Lotsa luck in Vegas! After all. UW-Whitewater G/L Student Union 472-5738 siren with a shot. Keep your eyes on this col- 309 McCutchen Hall, Whitewater 53190 and edgy this time around... A bountiful life/love is just a shake of the dice. umn for the next fun, festive, HIT party. Wychwolde (Jewelry Et Gifts) 843-4209 barbeque at Birch Lodge was hosted by the Happy to report Holly. Rona's gal pal, 8321 Antioch Rd (Hwy 83), Salem 53168 Congratulations on yet another success- delightfully dedicated Dr. Robert has a fab new doll house. Quite the cottage — ful "AIDS Walk Wisconsin." Over $502.000 South Cent. (715) Starshak and Ross Draegert. Bravo to to manv happy years there. Rona, Charlotte. was raised! $13,000 of that "pot ofgold" was Daniel and his Boyz for garnering national Chi Chi. Laura, Peter, and moi had a boda- AIDS Network Satellite Office (AIDS Info) accumulated by none other than the "King cions bird and all the trimmings, making P.O. Box 8486., Janesville 53545 756-2550 attention and appreciation! it of the Walk," Robert Parrish. He continu- Looking ahead, this Saturday night. Thanksgiving in October. What fun! High Northwest (715) ously outdoes himself every year! My Oct. 11, have the fever to win as I try point of conversation: Charlotte Lorraine AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin 836-7710 favorite part - besides the goodwill and for- my best at HIT's annual "Trivia Contest." I sharing with us her huge crack... 505 Dewey Street S., Suite 107 Eau Claire 54701 tune earned is the people! Greeted at the love my fun & games with those bowlers... Dr. David Stowe and Gene Webb (800) 750-2437 gate with a goody bag. Seeing HIT's Mark The following Saturday night. Oct. 18. are hosting a reception/fundraiser for AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin 394-4009 Groth, State Senator Tim Carpenter, Bill I'll be in church! Relax, no steeples will Congresswoman Tammy Baldwin on 1507 Tower Ave., Suite 230, Superior 54880 Wardlow and his Fluid team, the men of tumble I assure you! It's The Wisconsin Sunday. Oct. 19, at their wonderful Wahl (877) 242-0282 The Harbor Room after an in-bar break- Cream City Chorus's "A Night At The Ave. abode. Backwoods Bears (For Bear Men) fast, The M&M Club's members headed Bistro." The Village Church of the Arts. Norma and Santo of Botanas PO Box 264, Superior 54880 by: Tom & Sandy, The Walker's Pint 130 E. Juneau Ave.. at 7:30 p.m. The best fame. open their own casa of Mexican Do-Ri-Chi (Bed Et Breakfast) platoon, Craig and his Switch-hitters, Todd part folks — it's free! Come on down! tare. Santo's Restaurante. 828 S. 1st. 33 E. Spruce St, Chippewa Falls 723-0943 Sefert, Andy Cicero of the Walk commit- (414) 383-6300. Authentic Mexican cui- Eagle Cove BEtB ([email protected]) 448-4302 The same evening (Oct. 18) HIT tee. ARCW's headliners: Doug Nelson, launches "American Drag Idol" at Club sine. They're launching their dream on W4387 120th Avenue, Maiden Rock, 54750 Mike Gifford. Paul Milakovich, Molly GLOBE (Campus LesBiGay group) 219 with dear Dear Ruthie on micro- First St. one block south of National Ave. Herrington. Chris Allen. David phone. The following Saturday. Oct. 25. Drop by and enjoy. 105 Garfield, 132 Davies Ctr, Eau Claire 54701 Sagura, Cris Ross Dukler. Peter Nys LGBT Community Center of Chippewa Valley LaCage will be the scene for the scene. and Rona and Cordially Yours had the ([email protected]) of ICU Productions, Robert Parrish & finally, the finale night will be Saturday, palate pleasing pleasure of joining Rick www.geocities.comigIbtcommunitycenter/ Richard Steele, Nita Soref. IN Step's Nov. 1 at Woody's, where I'll be freshly Forest for a lovely luncheon at Coast. It P.O. Box 383, Eau Claire, 54702 (715) 559-5751 Mike Fitzpatrick Beau — all gathered to returned from a Florida "FantasyFest-25" was the second visit and even more satisfy- 838-9494 The Trading Company (MW, DJ) hear Gov. Jim Doyle and First Lady sojourn in Key West! Each show will rim ing! The lobster Cobb salad is to die for! 304 Eau Claire Street, Eau Claire 54701 Jessica Doyle. Wisconsin first couple had from 7:30 - 10 p.m. There's a $5 cover. Steph Zilli and his family have so much The Main Club (MW, DJ) the honor of co-chairing the Walk this time. 1217 Tower Ave,Superior 54880 392-1756 Noveinber brings not only' HIT 25 over to be proud of. Curtis, the man I men- Fox 6 News reporter Katrina Northland Gay Men's Center (218) 722-8585 the Turkey Day Weekend, but ARCW's tioned as the host-with-the-most, truly is. Cravy and WKTI's Kidd O'Shea hosted 8 N. 2nd Ave. E., Ste. 309 Duluth, MN 55802 "Jolly. Holly. Folly" on Tuesday, Nov. 18. He even remembered me from my last Gerald Parents, Families, Et Friends of Lesbians Et Gays (PFLAG) the Kick-Off. US Rep. Kleczka The Milwaukee Rep's Quadracci visit. Thank you! Kristin. our server. was Greater Chippewa Valley gave a stirring speech, Mayor John 0. Powerhouse Theater, 108 E. Wells St., 5:30 sensational. And it was four million, not Norquist made a rare, P.O. Box 11, Eau Claire, WI 54702-0011 yet welcome p.m. Twenty of Milwaukee's finest restau- four hundred thousand. I guess too many Q2 (social/support for LGBT youth) appearance. We were reminded that he rants will be represented. with spirits pro- zeros. And the lake view, an envy to all, is P.O. Box 11, Eau Claire, WI 54702 836-7710 and his beloved wife Susan Mudd were vided by the Miler Brewing Co.. Larry truly a multimillion dollar surrounding. Scooter's (MW) the first, first couple of the Walk going back Shue's "The Foreigner," the best-selling Remember, it's the glamour, not the 411 Galloway St., Eau Claire, 54703 835-9959 14 years. State Sen. Tim Carpenter, show in The Rep's 50 year history', is grammar. Start getting those costumes Trio (Wm) Mayoral candidates Tom Barrett and included. Tickets are $50 or $75; buy 9 ready as I remain, Cordially Yours. There's no rest for e wicked! 11011't MiffIN ito$ friffieft *LIE Of th9 yPtin OneBIGissue featuring your complete nindown on Wisconsins gayestHalloween events! CHEADline. friday,OCIL e spm caw 4114/278-7840,ext. 2 Issue on the streets: 10.2,3.99

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