Newsletter Winter — Christmas 2020
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Dear Fund Family and Friends s I reflect on my one-year with The Fund, I’ve had the current and future heroes. A anniversary with Semper Fi & privilege of meeting many of our America’s Fund, I do so with great talented case managers, visiting May each and every one of you and humility and gratitude. This year, nurses, and staff who selflessly your families have a peaceful, safe The Fund has had to navigate the dedicate themselves every day to and enjoyable holiday season. unknowns of an unprecedented meeting the needs of our members. health crisis. Through it all, I have They assist those we serve in Happy New Year and Semper Fidelis. been reminded every day as to why adapting to and overcoming I chose to be a small part of this extraordinary challenges. In the Sincerely, special family. end, they enable those we serve to achieve the highest possible quality Our work is incredible because it of life and independence. It is is unique. Semper Fi because of the unwavering financial & America’s Fund is support of our donors that their in every sense of the work is possible. word a family — close knit and rooted in a As 2021 approaches, The culture of forming Fund is laser-focused deep personal on building on our relationships that accomplishments and result in lasting bonds targeting areas for future General Joseph F. Dunford, Jr. with those we serve. improvement. I am Chairman of the Board That is our mission. confident that together Semper Fi & America’s Fund we will continue to grow In my short time to meet the needs of our 1 Double Your Impact! The Bob & Renee Parsons and independence. As you Foundation is launching their know, many of these conditions Double Down for Veterans annual have been exacerbated by the match campaign for the 9th straight COVID-19 pandemic. Through year! Due to their generosity and your generosity, you are sending a passion for our military families, every powerful message to each wounded, donation made to Semper Fi & America’s ill, and injured service member, Fund through December 31, 2020 will veteran, and their family, that they be matched, dollar-for-dollar, up to are always honored, appreciated, $10 million. With the help of donors and remembered. They will never like you, we can raise $20 million to be alone and their impact on our continue our vital mission — Serving nation will never be forgotten. We Those who Preserve our Freedom. Since invite you to please Double Down 2012, the campaign has raised more for these heroes and their families than $122 Million! We know our this giving season! work is critically important for decades to come for the service members and families we have assisted, in addition to the many more in need of our help. Semper Fi & America’s Fund’s goal is to embrace those who are catastrophically injured and ill, those struggling with traumatic brain injury, PTSD, multiple amputations, burns, and the injuries and illnesses impacting their quality of life 2 Semper Fi & America’s Fund Programs — How We Stay Connected! Lifetime Solutions – How We Help Service Member & Transition Integrative Family Support Wellness Assisting the family unit from Integrating Service Members Providing wellness tools to injury through recovery back into their communities improve body, mind, and spirit • Bedside Financial • Veteran to Veteran • PTSD & TBI Support Support Support • NeuroFitness • Housing Assistance • Apprenticeship • High-Tech Wellness • Transportation Program Devices Assistance • Education & Career • Post-Traumatic • Specialized & Adaptive Assistance Growth Video Resources Equipment • Veteran & Unit • Counseling • Visiting Nurse Reunions • Peter Murphy Sports Program • Semper Fi & America’s Program • Caregiver Support & Fund Odyssey Retreat • Arts & Music Program Retreats • Jinx McCain • Skip’s Kids Program Horsemanship Program • LCpl Parsons Welcome • Tim & Sandy Day Home Program Canine Companions • Disaster Relief Program Program 3 Semper Fi & America’s Fund Fiscal Year 2020 at a Glance $17,467,000 Service Member & Fam- ily Support Program $3,448,000 Integrative Wellness $23,621,000 Program Grant Assistance $2,707,000 Transition Program Semper Fi & America’s Fund is dedicated to providing immediate financial assistance and lifetime support to combat wounded, critically ill and catastrophically injured members of all branches of the U.S. Armed Forces and their families. We deliver the resources they need during recovery and transition back to their communities, working to ensure no one is left behind. 4 Sam Floyd — Operation Coffee Approximately 17 veterans When I returned from Afghanistan Shortly after I started getting commit suicide every day. It in 2004, I expected life to be treatment at the Veterans is a sobering statistic and one “normal.” However, two weeks Administration, a former colleague that almost included me. While after returning home, my world of mine, also a Marine veteran, I was fortunate to get help, far crumbled. Sleepless nights turned introduced me to Semper Fi & too many veterans do not. They into days and soon suicidal America’s Fund. This exceptional suffer in silence, oftentimes with thoughts crept in. This condition organization, which helps to loved ones by their side who are haunted me daily for more than 10 serve combat wounded, critically helpless and unsure what to do. years until one night, lying helpless ill and catastrophically injured and broken on my apartment service members of the U.S. As someone who has been in floor, I turned to my wife and Armed Forces and their families, a very dark place and is now asked her to call the Veterans literally saved my life. One day committed to preventing Crisis Hotline. That moment early in my treatment while I was veteran suicide, I’m proof my road to recovery began. unemployed and depressed, I that there is hope. called my case manager at The Fund. She asked me what I like to do and I said “drink coffee.” With a cup of coffee in my hand and at my case manager’s urging, I entered the Semper Fi & America’s Fund Apprenticeship Program which helps veterans start businesses. One year later, in 2017, I received a grant for a coffee roaster and my coffee roasting business was born. I share this story to give help and hope to both veterans and their loved ones. For veterans suffering with post- traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and other mental illnesses, the biggest piece of advice I can offer is to pick up the phone and start a conversation with someone you trust and who will listen. Conversation is a powerful thing. The next step is to commit to taking back your life. I took what I learned from the Marine Corps and challenged myself, as hard as it was, to give back to my country in a different way. 5 For loved ones and friends, I would say don’t worry about trying to focus on pinpointing the problem — because it is impossible. I would encourage them to just keep the focus on being there for that person, show empathy often and remind those in need that together, you will both get through this. PTSD is a lifelong struggle and one that I have accepted. And, while dealing with these issues are at times complex, I Remember, want to urge all struggling those in need veterans and their families to don’t always never give up or underestimate need answers. All the power of conversation. it sometimes takes is for someone to tell them If it wasn’t for that talk with that, “It’s ok not to be ok.” my case manager, I might not be sharing this story today. Sam Floyd is the founder and owner of Operation Now, I’m using my love of coffee Coffee Roasters located in to help start conversations and Campbellsport, Wisconsin. He save lives. In fact, a portion of is a Marine Corp veteran who each proceed from my sales goes served with the 3rd Battalion, 3rd to suicide prevention efforts. Marine Regiment in Afghanistan. 6 “You’re too far for my hands to hold you, but not too far for my heart to care” e frequently don’t always absence of that hug or embrace was always care. Stay strong, keep the faith, Wfully appreciate the healing the absence of caring. But, nothing and know that, one day, that hug and power of touch, of a hug or an could be further from the truth. In that embrace will be back! embrace. Yet, it is part of what these times, let’s have a different belief makes us who we are. To touch is to see us through: that inability to Forrest Faison, M.D., FAAP, to feel and to feel is to care. To care hug and embrace is that expression of Vice Admiral, Medical Corps, is to love and to love is the joy and love and caring because it signifies our United States Navy (Ret), strength of family. We are a family commitment to each other’s health and 38th Surgeon General of the Navy, caring for and about each other, well-being, our affirmation of our love Board of Directors, SF&AF in so many ways. We are a family and caring for all of us, the members of united together in service to our our family. While the physical touch may country and to each other. But, in not be there or be possible in these times… these challenging COVID times, the heart will always be there…and will that touch, that embrace which affirms our love and commitment to each other isn’t always possible. In truth however, our inability to hug and embrace each other in person is really the true affirmation in itself of our caring for each other and our concern that all of us stay safe and healthy until we get through this.