December 18, 2009 | Volume VII, Issue 22 | LGBT Life in Maryland

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Message to Where Were You? the ‘Burbs Activists question city lead- ers’ absence from World For the first time, the Mall in Columbia (Mary- AIDS Day events land) is prominently displaying an advertise- ment with a gay-related message. The ad / By Steve Charing / was designed and paid for by the Columbia- Rankled by the fact Mayor Sheila Dix- Howard County chapter of PFLAG-Parents, on and members of the City Council Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. and staff failed to personally appear at (Several of the chapter’s steering committee World AIDS Day events on December members are pictured.) 1 and the lack of copy the Baltimore The ad offers season’s greetings to Sun devoted to the commemoration, holiday shoppers as they enter the mall several AIDS activists wrote an open through the food court. It also carries a dis- are here,” explained Heath Goisovich, the advertising. This particular eye-level ad is a letter to complain. tinct and unmistakable message: “Someone chapter’s Events Chair and the originator directory style display that is seen in many of Dozens of organizations spon- you LOVE is GAY.” Included is the chapter’s of the idea to create and purchase the ad. the nation’s mall entrances and aisles. sored Baltimore’s citywide World AIDS website, pflagmd.org. “When I thought about putting up an ad in The PFLAG chapter’s acclaimed “Some- Day events, which included several The ad with its message was aimed at the Columbia Mall, it seemed like the perfect one you LOVE is GAY” campaign began others around the city. bringing awareness to suburban shoppers place to get the attention of so many that can over two years ago when a sign was placed “A Deputy was sent to speak in as to the existence of PFLAG. benefit from an organization such as ours.” on the back of county buses for a several the Mayor’s place,” the letter indicated. “I have always been surprised about Randee Wilding, a chapter member, month period. Using the same theme, a TV “While members of the Mayor’s staff the amount of people, even within the lgbt was the principal designer of the ad. commercial aired on the local Comcast Bra- provided a great amount of GREATLY population, that do not know what PFLAG Goisovich (shown second from the vo channel that explained the likelihood that appreciated support for the event, the is and have always felt that we need to do right) worked with Clear Channel Malls, a a family member, a co-worker, a friend or a Mayor’s personal priorities clearly lay whatever we can to get the word out that we national company that specializes in mall -- continued on page 27 elsewhere.” The letter made no reference to the fact that Mayor Dixon had been D.C. City Council Passes Marriage Equality on trial, and the guilty verdict for steal- ing gift cards was handed down a few On December 15 the Washington D.C. City According to the most recent figures hours before her scheduled appear- Council passed a bill for a second time, as from the U.S. Census, there are more than ance at the ceremony, which took required by council rules, that provides equal 750,000 same-sex couples living in the place outside Mount Vernon United marriage rights for lgbt couples living in the United States. Between 1 million and 9 mil- Methodist Church facing the Wash- District of Columbia. lion children are being raised by lesbian, gay ington Monument. A candlelight vigil “The fight for marriage equality is about and bisexual parents in the United States to- followed. providing couples with basic legal rights like day. In fact, at least one same-sex couple is The letter—signed by Kevin Clem- health insurance and the critical right to visit raising children in 96 percent of all counties ons, William Palmer, John Redmond, one another in the hospital. It is about ensur- nationwide. Greg Satorie and Carlton Smith—cited ing the children who are being raised by lov- Introduced by Council Member David an article in the December 2 edition ing, committed same-sex parents have the Catania (I-At Large), the bill was considered of the Baltimore Sun indicating “Dixon same safeguards as children being raised by the full Council on December 1st. They worked at City Hall for much of the af- by opposite sex parents,” said Morgan Men- voted to approve 11-2. The Council was ternoon, her spokesman said, and in eses-Sheets, Executive Director of Equality required to take a second vote, which was -- continued on page 27 D.C. Mayor Adrian Fenty is expected to sing the bill into law. Maryland in a statement. -- continued on page 25 but of harassment as well.” any real need that has such a terrible im- news // local While Equality Maryland has expressed pact on a community does not seem like a NY Defeat on Marriage Offers Another Lesson concerns regarding the overall impact of this very logical decision or a fair course of ac- detrimental shift, they are especially worried tion by a government agency,” added Ms. Co-Publishers As we lose at the bal- to legalize same-sex marriage—proved that through the Senate Judicial Proceedings Jim Becker, Jim Williams New MVA Policy Detrimental about the impact on low-income Maryland- Meneses-Sheets. lot box and in state the predicted destruction of civilization failed Committee. This, despite the fact we have [email protected] ers. In a survey done by the National Center Equality Maryland has been working legislatures, we pick to materialize. a Democratic governor, Democratic leaders Executive Editor for Transgender Equality (NCTE) and the hard in coalition with several of our part- up some valuable In New York, it seemed that we were on in both the House and Senate and an over- Jim Becker to Transgender Marylanders National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, they ners to resolve this matter, but at this point [email protected] lessons in our quest the precipice of adding another state to the whelming majority of Democrats in each found that 27% of transgender individuals the MVA is prepared to move forward with for marriage equal- five whom have seen the light. The state’s chamber. That committee has also been Managing Editor The Maryland Ve- make less than $20,000 a year; 15% make this very backward and potentially danger- Steve Charing outspoken ity in Maryland. Assembly voted several times in favor of le- responsible for applying a stranglehold on [email protected] hicle Administration less than $10, 000. Much of this is due to the ous policy change in the New Year. They L e g i s l a t o r s galizing marriage for same-sex couples. But transgender protection legislation. Production Director (MVA) is currently fact that transgender people are so often the are calling on their members to contact Steve Charing in Maine earlier in a handful of Democrats in the state Senate By keeping the marriage bill as well Hannah-Love Shibley considering an up- victims of discrimination in the workplace. Governor O’Malley, Attorney General Doug the year approved changed their minds and voted against the as the transgender measure bottled up in [email protected] date to their policy By requiring additional legal fees to obtain Gansler, MVA Counsel Jonathan Acton and same-sex marriage bill. By a vote of 24-38, the Senate killed the committee, we are deprived of an up-and- Sales Director regarding changing a license with the correct gender marker, an Motor Vehicle Administrator John Kuo. Mary Taylor and the governor signed it into down vote to determine who our [email protected] the gender marker added financial burden is being placed on “We are very concerned about the law, only to have it undone by friends—and our enemies—re- Leather Columnist on a driver’s license. a community that is already struggling. Ap- impact that this will have on transgen- referendum. That vote in No- ally are. Those close to the Rodney Burger The new policy proximately 1/3 of transgender individuals der Marylanders. We are still hoping that vember stripped marriage equal- legislative process believe that Gossip Columnist would go into effect are black, and it should be especially noted the implementation of this harmful policy ity from the state’s lgbt couples. Senate President Thomas V. Sam Kunz on January 1, 2010. that 35% of transgender African Americans change will be halted,” Ms. Meneses-Sheets From this we learned that win- “Mike” Miller wants to keep it Contributing Writers The current make less then $10k. This places an added concluded. Josh Aterovis, Jeffrey Clagett, Chuck Duncan, Rickie Green, ning marriage equality at the that way because he is loathe to Jonathan Hernandez, Eva Hersh MD, Doug Ireland, Jay Loane, PS policy allows for a financial burden to people who are already Equality Maryland (equalitymaryland. ballot box is a long way off, if it see such a potentially conten- Lorio, Meredith Moise, Sandy Rawls, Bob Roehr, Ben Ryland, Gregg change to the gen- financially destitute. org) is Maryland’s largest lgbt civil rights or- ever happens, and it should be tious and divisive bill make it to Shapiro, Nate Sweeney, Larry Walker der marker, so long A similar change was considered in ganization, focused on making life better for avoided at all costs. the floor. Writing Intern as an applicant is the past. Due to the fact that the MVA was gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender citi- Even with fewer resourc- But we need to help Marty Hoegg able to provide a unable to demonstrate sufficient reasoning zens of Maryland. Equality Maryland works es (as was the case in Maine) shake it loose during the 2010 Graphics physician’s or psy- behind the alternation it was halted. There to secure and protect the rights of gay, les- Carol Baker, Bruce Garrett our opponents seem to effec- General Assembly, which will chologist’s report to is still no evidence of the need for a policy bian, bisexual and transgender Marylanders Photographers tively launch smear campaigns begin next month. As a commu- Skip Koritzer, Harry Lowinger confirm that the applicant is in active treat- reassignment. change. The policy that we have in place is by promoting legislative initiatives on the against lgbt couples. Through nity, we must support Equality ment. The MVA requires annual re-evalua- The MVA has authority under the Mary- similar to the requirements in several other state, county and municipal levels and edu- Graphics / Photography Intern the use of advertisements, letter Maryland’s efforts to free the Michelle Alpert tions until the applicant meets requirements land Transportation Code to issue corrected states. cating the public about the issues faced by writing and e-mail blasts, they lie bill from being held hostage Web Editor for permanent gender change. The primary driver’s licenses and to establish the rules “A policy update that is made without our diverse community. with impunity concerning our re- by the Judicial Proceedings Aleksandra Saine criterion for a permanent change is for the and regulations for such issuances; how- lationships. They rally religious Committee. [email protected] person to have undergone SRS or sex reas- ever, there have not been any problems with institutions to preach against “By keeping the marriage bill as well We will be told that it is Web Services signment surgery. the current process, nor have there been any Just Girl! us. They scare neighbors. They as the transgender measure bottled up an election year and little will 800-774-0953, www.just-girl.com Under the new policy, the MVA would changes in state or federal law that would re- scare educators. Ultimately they happen on the marriage front Distribution/Circulation require an amended birth certificate. This quire such a change. scare the voters who buy into in committee, we are deprived of an up- because of it. That song is get- Jay Loane requires going through the court system. “The current policy is working. It balanc- this hooey. And since there are ting old. Because it IS an elec- [email protected] Maryland code states that it will issue a birth es the need of the state to provide appropri- and-down vote to determine who our Michael Serio far more straight people than tion year, there is all the more certificate reflecting the proper gender only ate protocols with respect for the individual,” friends—and our enemies—really are.” National Advertising Rep lgbt folks and allies, we would reason to put pressure on the Rivendell Media upon receipt of a certified copy of an order said Morgan Meneses-Sheets, the Execu- be well served to avoid allowing lawmakers, especially Demo- 908-232-2021 from a court indicating that the sex of an tive Director of Equality Maryland. “These minority rights to be put to a popular vote. measure that Gov. Paterson was eager to crats, as they will be trolling for contribu- Founders individual born has been changed by sur- changes would create additional hoops and The numbers aren’t there yet for us. sign into law. tions and ultimately votes later in the year. Jim Becker, Joe Berg, Mike Chase, Lee Mooney (1959-2007), gical procedure and whether such individ- legal fees for transgender Marylanders who Jim Williams Where do we go? Ballot initiatives are Of course, no Republican voted for mar- Check out equalitymaryland.org to ob- ual’s name has been changed. You cannot are looking to update their driver’s license. out of the question. The judiciary, sensitive riage equality and proponents of same-sex tain contact information on the committees’ Baltimore OUTloud change the sex on a birth certificate simply Having a legal identity document that does to the fictitious label of “activist judges,” is marriage had counted on the eight Dems chairmen and members. We must barrage P.O. Box 3640, Baltimore, MD 21214 by providing proof that you are undergoing not match a person’s gender exposes them resistant to accepting individual lawsuits who bailed. This defeat occurred despite a these people with phone calls and e-mails 410-244-6780 medical treatment or procedures for gender to potential risk not just of embarrassment, www.baltimoreoutloud.com plus the legal machinations of these can recent Marist College poll showed that 51 to make things happen. take eons. percent of New York voters support legal- Don’t depend on Equality Maryland to Additional Information We move on to state legislatures, which, izing same-sex marriage while 42 percent do all the heavy lifting.Grass roots orga- Baltimore OUTloud is published every other Friday by Pride in theory, reflect the attitudes and positions opposed it. nizing will be essential to accomplish our Media, Ltd. in Baltimore, Maryland. Readers’ comments and unsolicited materials are welcomed and may be sent to: Publisher@ The staff of Baltimore of the electorate. Lawmakers are political Following the vote on December 2, Alan mission. At the very least, we must push baltimoreoutloud.com. All materials appearing in this newspaper are animals and are sensitive to the movement Van Capelle, executive director of the Em- for these bills to leave the shadows of the the property of Pride Media, Ltd. and may not be reproduced without OUTloud extends best the written permission of the editor. of the political winds. pire Pride Agenda who pushed for the bill committee and make its way on the floors of wishes to our readers, When we were losing the image war said they now have a road map for 2010. the Senate and House so that the spotlight in 2004 over gay marriage, politicians—in- “We certainly know who are our friends. We can shine on the legislators who must go on advertisers and supporters cluding most Democrats—jumped out of the certainly go to bed tonight knowing where record with a vote. way as if a wayward bus was driving on the our support is, and that’s a victory,” he said. That should be our immediate strategy for a safe and joyous sidewalk. We lost every ballot measure that And that’s our lesson. and a lesson well learned from N.Y. holiday season and a happy election and gave politicians the cover to In Maryland we have been complete- ©2009 - All Rights Reserved avoid the subject. ly stymied by the fact that the Religious Steve Charing’s OUTspoken blog is at www. Chair of the Board of Trustees Jim Becker and prosperous New Year. President Jim Williams Things started to improve slightly as the Freedom and Civil Marriage Protection Act SteveCharing.blogspot.com. Secretary and Treasurer Mike Chase experience in Massachusetts—the first state and its predecessor bill has yet to make it

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  news // local available to anyone anywhere at a time news // national when such items were very hard to find. To- Houston Elects Openly Gay Mayor day, people almost anywhere can access GLBT information on the Internet.” Lambda Rising Bookstore to Close Maccubbin told D.C. Agenda that he In a contentious battle that featured anti- help achieve this historic victory. plans to retire soon and that he and co-own- gay rhetoric, Annise Danette Parker, a les- “Another milestone in the quest for lgbt er Jim Bennett, his domestic partner of 32 bian, was elected mayor of Houston on De- equality was reached last night with the his- / By Steve Charing / years, decided they would rather close the cember 12. With Houston being the fourth toric election of Annise Parker as Mayor of In another blow to the Washington lgbt stores than sell them to a new owner who largest city in the nation (pop. 2.2 million) Houston,” said Joe Solmonese, President of community, Lambda Rising, the venerable might change their focus and mission. it becomes the largest U.S. city to have an the Human Rights Campaign, the nation’s D.C. lgbt bookstore will be closing its doors In February 2003, Lambda Rising openly gay mayor. Several smaller cities, largest lgbt civil rights organization in a as well as its remaining outlet in Rehoboth bought the Oscar Wilde Bookshop, the such as Portland, OR, Providence, RI., and statement. Beach, DE in January. The D.C. store, lo- country’s first gay and lesbian bookstore, Cambridge, MA have openly gay mayors. “Annise is an incredibly qualified and cated in Dupont Circle, has been serving and saved it from closing. The Oscar Wilde Parker, Houston’s controller, received gifted public servant, who focused her cam- the lgbt community for 35 years. The an- Bookshop, founded by Craig Rodwell in 53 percent of the vote out of over 152,000 paign on public safety, the economy and the nouncement follows the shutting down of 1967, was located at the corner of Christo- cast. She defeated Gene Locke, 61, a for- future of Houston. She stood up to last minute the long-time lgbt publication, Washington pher and Gay Streets in Manhattan. After mer city attorney in a runoff election. Both anti-gay attacks with grace, courage and de- Blade last month after 40 years. working with the New York staff for three are Democrats. Locke was seeking to be termination, which carried the day. Houston, Lambda Rising also operated stores in years and getting the store on solid finan- the city’s second black mayor and was the America’s fourth largest city, sent a positive New York, Norfolk and Baltimore. In Balti- cial footing, Lambda Rising sold the store hand picked candidate of Houston’s busi- message to the nation, that it chose the best more the store was located on the ground to the long-time manager in order to return ness establishment. This was Parker’s sev- person for the job based on her experience floor of the GLCCB on Chase Street. It had the store to local control. Earlier this year, enth consecutive city election victory. and qualifications, while at the same time opened in 1984 and closed in early 2008. the new owner closed the store because of Gay Man Selected as Following a concession from Locke, breaking another glass ceiling. We congratu- Deacon Maccbbin, 66, Lambda the economic downturn. Parker, 53, told supporters, “This election late Annise on her stunning victory, and we Rising’s founder and owner, issued a According to DC Agenda, “In its three California Speaker of has changed the world for the gay, lesbian, congratulate the Victory Fund for their tireless statement: decades of operation, Lambda Rising be- bisexual and transgendered community. and successful work on her behalf.” sen by people who voted for her because of “The phrase ‘mission accomplished’ came one of the nation’s first gay busi- the House Just as it is about transforming the lives Chuck Wolfe, president and CEO of the her experience and competence. Houston re- has gotten a bad rap in recent years, but nesses to advertise in mainstream publi- John A. Pérez (D-Los Angeles) was se- of all Houstonians for the better, and that’s Victory Fund, said the win was significant not jected the politics of division and the extrem- in this case, it certainly applies. When we “When we set out to establish Lambda Rising in 1974, it cations and the first to advertise on TV in lected as the next Speaker of the House in what my administration will be about.” just for Houston, but for all lgbt Americans. ists failed,” Wolfe said. set out to establish Lambda Rising in 1974, was intended as a demonstration of the demand for gay the 1970s. It has brought in hundreds of the California State Assembly. Pérez, who Parker introduced her family, including “This is a watershed moment in Ameri- “After a bittersweet political year for the it was intended as a demonstration of the authors to its various store branches, in- served this year as the Democratic Cau- her partner Kathy Hubbard and their three can politics. One of the largest cities in the lgbt community, it’s nice to be able to smile demand for gay and lesbian literature. We and lesbian literature.”--Deacon Maccubbin cluding Andy Warhol, Sandra Bernhardt, cus Chairman, is the first openly gay man children as well as her mother Kay Parker. country will be headed by an out lesbian, cho- this wide.” thought if we could show that there was a Armistead Maupin and Rita Mae Brown.” to hold the state assembly’s top leadership Annise Parker’s sexual orientation demand for our literature, that bookstores would put those books on their own shelves general bookstore carries GLBT books, of- “A “huge liquidation sale,” said Mac- position. The selection makes Pérez the first became the focus of anti-gay activists could be profitable selling it, we could en- and there would no be less need for a spe- ten featuring them in special sections. cubbin, will begin immediately after Christ- openly gay state Speaker of the House in and religious conservative organizations courage the writing and publishing of GLBT cifically gay and lesbian bookstore. “The other part of our mission was to mas, with the store expected to close in the country. less than two weeks into the campaign. books, and sooner or later other bookstores “Today 35 years later, nearly every make good GLBT books and information early January. “We congratulate the selection of As- Although Locke tried to distance himself semblyman Pérez as the new Speaker of from the nastiness, he coveted support the House for the great state of California,” from conservative voters nonetheless. news // NATIONAL said Human Rights Campaign President Two of his key supporters, accord- READER Lesbian Elected Bishop in LA Joe Solmonese. “John’s selection is a testa- ing to an AP report, contributed money to ment to his strong leadership after just join- a conservative that sent out an anti-gay / By Coralie Hughes Jensen / meeting the required majority of ballots. ing the Assembly in the 2008 election. He mailer earlier this month that condemned Poll In order to fill two suffragan bishop openings, The consideration of homosexual ori- is a role model for young people in his Los her “homosexual behavior” and urged vot- the Episcopal Archdiocese of Los Angeles entation began in the Lambeth Conferences Angeles district and now for his state and ers not to choose Parker because she was elected the first female Bishop, the Rev. Di- in 1978. The Episcopal Church, after careful country as the first openly gay man to hold endorsed by the “gay and lesbian political Heading into 2010, which ane M. Jardine Bruce of San Clemente, of its study and input from clergy as well as lay- the Assembly’s top spot. We look forward to caucus.” of the following actions 114-year history on Friday. people, has decided that 30 years consider- working with him as California continues to For her part, Parker needed to con- would you want to see On Saturday, it also elected its first ation is enough. be an important state in our national fight for vince voters that she would not use her po- accomplished first? openly gay bishop. Reverend Canon Mary As is the procedure, consent to the equality.” sition to expand lgbt rights in Houston. The • Marriage equality in Maryland Glasspool of Baltimore has had an openly elections by the bishops and standing com- Pérez was elected in 2008 to represent race focused mostly on fiscal issues. ngeles

• Transgender protections in MD A gay relationship since 1988. The develop- mittees of the Episcopal Church’s other 108 the 46th District in Los Angeles. He received The five-week long campaign had os

• Repeal of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ L ment that gay priests would run for bishop dioceses has been requested. the endorsement of the Gay & Lesbian Vic- Parker on the offensive going after Locke’s • Repeal of the Defense of Marriage is not a surprise. In the LA diocese, the Rev. While Archbishop of Canterbury Rowan tory Fund. Pérez serves as an elected mem- record of being a lawyer who defended un- Act (DOMA) Glasspool and the Rev. John Kirkley of San Williams may want to hold up the final pro- ber of the Democratic National Committee popular local government agencies with • Passage of an all-inclusive Francisco both ran. cedure because of fear the Anglican Com- and received a presidential appointment to financial difficulties. Employment Non-Discrimination Act The moratorium created during the Lam- munity might break apart, he has even big- serve on the President’s Advisory Council In congratulating Parker, Locke plead- beth Conference became moot during July’s ger problems to face on the horizon from the on HIV and AIDS. He has also served as a ed for unity. “Don’t let past disappoint- VOTE AT www.baltimoreoutloud.com Episcopal Convention in Anaheim when both Anglican dioceses of Uganda—in a country board member for the California League of ments, past anger, past frustrations guide houses voted to accept consecration of lgbt that is trying to make homosexuality a capi- Conservation Voters, AIDS Project Los An- us into the future. Let’s unite and work to- Any opinions on these or any other people as bishops. Glasspool, who holds tal crime. geles, the Latino Coalition against AIDS, the gether,” he said

related subject, please send to ourtesy of the Episcopal Diocese of a master of divinity degree from Episcopal California Center for Regional Leadership, LGBT organizations around the nation C [email protected] Divinity School in Cambridge MA, received Ed. Gene Robinson became the first gay An- and the Los Angeles Economic Develop- provided Parker with monetary support as

Photo: 153 votes from the clergy and 203 lay votes glican bishop in 2003. ment Corporation. well as assistance in getting the vote out to

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homegrown Maryland guy. He will have DEC 18-20 (F-Su) his books available, including his latest release, All Lost Things, which would • Theatre Project2009 presents danceRINK’s make the perfect Christmas gift. 7:00 p.m. Alice in Wonderland. Towson Unitarian Universalist Church, 1710 Dec. 18 - Noon; Dec. 19, & 20 – 3 p.m.; Dulaney Valley Road, Lutherville 21093. Dec. 18, 19 – 7 p.m. For more information, call 443-255-1484 or e-mail [email protected]. Adapted from a vintage 1950 radio-play Meetings are free, confidential and open to starring Dinah Shore as the voice of Alice everybody. and with additional music by the composer Raymond Scott. Director/Choreographer Scott Rink (profiled in the October 23 issue of OUTloud) creates a singular JAN 8, 9, 15, 16 dance/theatre experience: re-telling • Solo performer Susan Mele’s “Rock, the familiar Alice in Wonderland tale Paper, Love...Knife” staged in a swirl of dance, movement and Theatre Project’s first show of the new unique images which will thrill and excite year. An original work by local actress/ audiences of all ages. Theatre Project, 45 comedienne, Susan Mele’s “Rock, Paper, W. Preston St., Baltimore 21201. Tickets: Scissors...Knife” is a show that takes $20 general admission, $15 for seniors and you on a journey through good, bad artists and $10 for students. Info. 410-752- and ugly relationships. Theatre Project, 8558. www.theateproject.org. 45 W. Preston St., Baltimore 21201. Performances 8:00 p.m. Tickets are $20 • GenOUT Gay Men’s Chorus of for general admission, $15 for seniors and Washington D.C. Presents Snow White artists and $10 for students. Call 410-752- and 175 Faeiries—the Musical 8558; visit thetheatreproject.org. Bishop V. Gene Robinson will conduct a holiday concert selection on Dec. 18. 8:00 p.m. Dec. 20 performance 3:00 p.m. George Washington University, Lisner 12 (T) Auditorium. Toy Drive. Tickets are $50, • Morgan Meneses-Sheets at PFLAG- $35 and $20 and can be purchased online Columbia/Howard County at www.gmcw.org/tickets or by calling Meet Equality Maryland’s Executive (202)293-1548. Director, Morgan-Maneses Sheets. She OUTloud in NYC will discuss her vision and objectives for Equality Maryland, discuss the 2010 From left: Victor Skolnik, president of Excelsior M.C., Jim Williams, Baltimore Outloud co- 19 (Sa) General Assembly strategy and plans for Lobby Day. 7:30 p.m., Owen Brown publisher, and Gabriel Rivas, Vice-President Excelsior M.C. at fundraiser for Excelsior M.C. • Helicon’s 24th Annual Winter Solstice Interfaith Center, 7246 Cradlerock Way, at the Saloon on Ninth Ave., New York City. Concerts Columbia, MD. For info. www.pglagmd.org. Performing a blend of seasonal and Meetings are free, confidential and open to traditional music from around the world. everybody. 3:30 p.m. and 8:00 p.m. Goucher College, 1021 Dulaney Valley Road, Towson, Maryland 21204. Tickets $25 advance; $28 at the door; group discounts available. 16 (Sa) For ticket ordering info, please go to www. • Italian Photographer Simona Monnati kenkolodner.com or call 410-243-7254. Presents “Eyes Wide Shut • Drag Bingo at PW’s Sports Bar to Photographic exhibition of people and Benefit Equality Maryland moments captured in black and white. 8:00 p.m. PW’s Sports Bar. 9855 Simona drew inspiration for “Eyes Washington Blvd N. Laurel, MD 20723 Wide Shut” from the innate nature of photography, the magic of capturing an image through the widening and shutting of the lens. 6:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. at 22 (T) s.c.lord design located in the Mill Centre in • Josh Aterovis to speak at PFLAG- Hamden. 3000 Chestnut Avenue, Ste. #341 Baltimore Baltimore, 21211. Free to public. Visit www. Mystery Writer and Baltimore OUTloud simonamonnatiphotography.com or call columnist Josh Aterovis will enchant 410-790-1574. everyone with his prose and reading from and talking about his work. Josh will be happy to answer any questions. Meet this

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 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  not to stage a physical counter-protest and the nation’s leading lgbt advocacy organiza- to ones already recommended by the Law Wimberley’s attorney argued that Wimberly Iranians face beyond the beltway launched a Facebook group that asked us- tions, Harbaugh said: “It did not come out Department, weakening the ordinance fur- was insane when she shot her friend with a ers to donate $1 to the Matthew Shepard of my mouth. It would not come out of my ther. Sweeney’s amendments were opposed .22 caliber chrome pistol. Years of physical, execution for / Compiled by Jim Becker / Foundation for every minute that WBC pro- mouth. It’s not in my heart to ever say that.” by LGBT interest groups, but opposition was emotional and sexual abuse took its toll on tested outside of Cherry Hill East —— a Harbaugh told GLAAD that he did curse, but dropped by some groups who feared the or- the teen, who already felt isolated for coming homosexuality total of $30 for the half-hour the group was denies using an anti-Gay slur. Harbaugh dinance would not pass without them. The out as a lesbian, Davis told jurors earlier in present. More than 1,400 people joined is the older brother of Ravens head coach new amendments added “bathrooms” to the trial. (365Gay.com & The Miami Herald) Toronto, Canada - On November 15, the the group, and Kramer said the founda- John Harbaugh. a section that exempted locker rooms and Iranian Railroad for Queer Refugees (IRQR) tion confirmed the effort has so far netted Allegedly, Harbaugh yelled some choice showers from certain parts of the measure. Charleston, SC issued a press release asking people to con- $6,200, a figure she anticipates could grow words at game officials during the college A coalition of the lgbt Center, Equality Ohio, tact the Iranian authorities over the death to $20,000. Kramer said, “I believe when football game - a contest that Harbaugh’s TransFamily Cleveland and TransOhio, were adopts new anti- sentences for four men who were convicted the WBC comes to any area, people want team, the Cardinals, won 45 to 38. After a not pleased with the amendments, buy did of homosexuality. All four were under the to show that they disagree with everything quarterback scramble gave the Cardinals not protest, fearing that the measure would bias ordinance age of 18 at the time of their alleged offens- they think. The first inclination most people a first down, the referees called a hold- not pass. (Gay People’s Chronicle - Eric es and IRQR is asking that people contact have is to show up and protest in person, but ing penalty, negating the play. That call set Resnick at gaypeopleschronicle.com) Charleston, SC - Without opposition from the Supreme Leader and the Head of the that’s exactly what the WBC wants people Harbaugh off on the following rant: “That’s any council member, Judiciary. The Supreme Leader, Ayatollah to do. Instead, we collectively raised money bullshit! Asshole! F*****g asshole faggot!” new non-discrimi- Sayed ‘Ali Khamenei, may be e-mailed at for the Matthew Shepard Foundation, an The controversy started when Chris nation ordinances [email protected] the Head of the organization that actually goes into public Finley made and then e-mailed a YouTube extended protec- Judiciary, Ayatollah Sadegh Larijani How- schools and educates young students about link alleging that Harbaugh yelled the homo- tions to citizens in zeh Riyasat-e Qoveh Qazaiyeh at info@ hate crimes.” (Philadelphia Gay News Jen phobic slur at an official following the hold- housing and public dadiran.ir Colletta at epgn.com) ing call. The problem, though, is that the au- a c c o m m o d at i o n s nemat Safavi from the city of Ardebil, dio is muted and Finley laid over some text were passed by Mehdi P. from Tabriz, and Mohsen Gh. from of what he guesses Harbaugh is saying. In the Charleston City Shiraz were all arrested, tried and sentenced other words, there is no audible proof that Council on Tuesday, to death in different courts in Iran, based on Harbaugh said such words. (Seattle Gay Nov. 24. The council accusations of homosexual acts (known as News - Shaun Knittel at sgn.org) adopted a new pub- “Lavat”). Human rights activists working on lic accommodations Nemat’s behalf have determined that the au- Hate-monger Three Ohio locales ordinance prohibit- thorities in Ardebil are claiming Nemat dons ing discrimination not even exist. Having observed many simi- Kansas church pass anti-bias on the basis of race, lar cases before, IRQR considers this state- Teah Wimberly color, religion, sex, ment to be reason for even greater worry. members in Philly protections national origin, fa- Mehdi and Mohsen are awaiting their ex- milial status, disabil- ecution despite the fact that they have both Philadelphia, PA - Six members of the Cleveland, OH - By a unanimous vote, the Lesbian teen found ity, age or sexual orientation, and extended pleaded innocent and have denied the alle- Westboro Baptist Church, a virulently anti- Cleveland City Council passed an ordi- an already existing housing ordinance to gations. There is not one single witness in gay and anti-Semitic organization based in nance protecting transgender citizens from guilty of murder prohibit discrimination on the basis of age, either of the cases, and even the judge him- Kansas, visited Philadelphia and New Jer- employment and housing discrimination by sexual orientation and gender identity. self has no evidence whatsoever to prove sey this week, but were met with strong re- gender identity or expression. The measure Miami, FL - A 16-year-old girl from Flor- “The passing of these ordinances is that the plaintiffs are guilty. sistance from the lgbt and ally communities. updated the city’s existing equal rights code, ida was found guilty of the second-degree consistent with Charleston’s historic repu- IRQR is requesting the Iranian govern- WBC toured the region Sunday and Monday, which already includes sexual orientation. murder of a classmate, after the classmate tation as one of America’s friendliest cities ment to do the followings: stop the execu- targeting Jewish centers, a punk-rock con- The same evening, councils in Akron and had rejected her advances. Teah Wimberly and a place that is welcoming to all people,” tions immediately; give unrestricted access cert and local schools, carrying signs pro- Summit County passed human made romantic advances toward Victoria Middleton, executive director of the of Human Rights committees and organiza- claiming “God Hates Fags,” “You’re Going to rights ordinances that include Amanda Collette at the Miami American Civil Liberties Union of South Car- tions to these cases; allow the defendants to Hell” and “Thank God for Dead Soldiers.” both sexual orientation and gen- High School. Wimberly sent text olina, said in a press release. “And they also be tried in courts of law following the interna- At their first stop Monday morning, they der identity. messages to Collette, 15, declar- affirm the constitutional principles shared tional standards, which clearly indicate that faced more than 100 students and parents With the new measures, all ing her feelings, but Collette re- by all Americans of non-discrimination and no one should be executed for the crimes outside Cherry Hill East High School, who of Ohio’s six largest cities now jected Wimberly. Wimberly then equality under the law.” they have committed when they were below were armed with signs pledging support have such ordinances. Eleven shot and killed Collette, who was The new ordinances were presented age 18 in Iran. (Gay Middleeast.com) for the lgbt and Jewish communities. Next, more in smaller towns mean that a star dancer on the schools hip to the council in August by a coalition of WBC briefly protested outside Etz Chaim Former Ravens’ a fifth of the state’s population is covered by hop dance squad. several lgbt and progressive organizations, These news notes have been compiled, Center for Jewish Studies, 1420 Walnut St. an lgbt anti-bias measure. No state equal- United Press International reported: including Charleston’’s Alliance For Full with permission, from the on line version of The demonstrators —— five adults and a 9- Q-back Harbaugh ity law provides any protection, although a “After the on-campus November 2008 shoot- Acceptance, the South Carolina chapter of various newspapers and other web sites. We year-old boy —— then traveled to the Uni- measure passed by the Ohio House now ing, Wimberly called 911 and was arrested at Stonewall Democrats, the South Carolina thank these publications for allowing us to versity of Pennsylvania, where they picketed denies saying awaits Senate action. a nearby restaurant.” During the week-long Log Cabin Republicans, the American Civil bring you their news stories. Usually the re- outside a Jewish student organization, Hillel. The final version of the Cleveland Ordi- trial, jurors heard a replay of the 911 call Liberties Union and SC Equality. Charleston ports have been significantly edited and you Across the street, several-hundred students, ‘faggot’ nance offers less protection than originally Wimberly made after the shooting. Wimberly joins several other Southern cities with com- can read the full story by going to the web site faculty and staff members from Penn hosted Stanford, CA - Former Baltimore Ravens intended, especially in the realm of public cried to the operator: ``I didn’t want to kill her prehensive human rights ordinances, includ- mentioned following the item. Comments are their own demonstration. Throughout the quarterback and Stanford Cardinal Football accommodations, but proponents believe so I shot her in the back . . . I just wanted to ing Charleston W.Va., New Orleans, Atlanta, strictly the opinions of Jim Becker and not of event, organizers collected money for the Coach Jim Harbaugh denies he used the it can be improved in the spring as part of give her the pain she gave me.’’ Covington, ken., and Columbia, S.C. Colum- Baltimore Outloud or Pride Media. Matthew Shepard Foundation and Anti-Def- word ‘faggot’ while yelling at officials dur- a package of lgbt-affirming ordinances in Wimberly’’s attorney plans to ask at bia and Charleston also have lgbt-inclusive amation League. ing the November 28 Notre Dame-Stanford advance of the 2014 Gay Games. Earlier sentencing that she be sent to a psychiatric protections for city employees in place. (Q- University of Pennsylvania gradu- game. In a statement to Gay and Lesbian Al- that day, council president Martin Sweeney facility. The youth could face life in prison. Notes Online at q-notes.com) OUTloud’s queer TV guide: ate Melody Kramer, 25, said she preferred liance Against Defamation (GLAAD), one of proposed a set of amendments in addition The Miami Herald reports that Larry Davis, www.baltimoreoutloud.com

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  religious directory drinks makes it dangerous for them to drive, open wide: especially in the dark or on wet or icy roads. You can get every bit as drunk on beer, ask dr. eva wine, or eggnog as you can on rum or vodka. Beloved Disciple dr. eva hersh A drink of alcohol is defined medically as 12 oz of beer or wine cooler, 5 oz of wine (less 1900 St. Paul Street would be welcome and ordained for heavy wines like sherry), or 1 ½ oz of li- 410-752-5804 like anyone else. Today, the Church quor (rum, whiskey, vodka). Two drinks with- stmarkscelebrates.org of Antioch has remarkable balance in two hours, especially without food, will in gender and sexual orientation Try Fun and impair judgment and coordination and raise The Catholic Apostolic Church of among its clergy and laity. The new blood alcohol levels above the legal limit. Antioch (CoA) is celebrating its head of the church, Bishop Mark It takes just one drink to impair judgment 50th anniversary. It was founded by Newman of Arizona, elected by his Sober for the and coordination for older people, for many Herman Adrian Spruit, whose jour- peers, is an openly gay man. women, for men who weigh 140 pounds or ney took him through the Methodist Our local parish, Beloved Dis- less, and for anyone who rarely drinks. church, the metaphysical movement Holidays You cannot tell how intoxicated a ciple, has been in existence for two in California, and then Independent years. While each CoA parish is a lit- person is by whether or not they appear Catholicism, where he was ordained Was the first resolution you made last New drunk. The best guide to whether a person tle different, our mass reflects many The Baltimore a priest, then a bishop. Years Day prompted by the headache and is impaired is not how they feel or how they Ethical Society characteristics of the larger Church sick feeling you woke up with January 1st? look, but how much they have had to drink Spruit created a church where of Antioch: richness in sacramental Maybe you had to deal with the consequenc- and over what period of time they drank it. Diversity Humanism the traditional richness of Catho- ritual, freedom of thought, respect es of a holiday car accident. Or was it the It takes about an hour for the liver to Community Equality lic sacramental life was respected for healthy spirituality. The mass is fallout from something you did at a party that process one drink of alcohol. That means but where freedom of thought, easily recognizable to any Catholic, everyone else remembers all too well, but that after 4 drinks, which many people Sunday Meetings - 10:30 a.m. openness and inclusiveness were but with thoughtful changes. you don’t? wouldn’t consider excessive at a party, paramount. He was one of the first Many people, whether or not they have a person needs to wait 4 hours after the Beloved Disciple meets at All COMMITMENT CEREMONIES bishops to ordain women. One of Saints Chapel of St. Mark’s Lu- problems with alcohol the rest of the year, last drink to be able to drive safely. Do his successors, Archbishop Rich- drink too much over the Thanksgiving, you know anyone who waits that long? So- theran Church, 1900 St. Paul Street & WEDDINGS ard Gundrey, proclaimed a policy of Christmas and New Years holidays. The bering-up methods like cold showers, hot Sunday at 5:00 p.m. same happens on birthdays, graduations, coffee, and fresh air can make a person 306 W. 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10 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 11 tax planning strategy, here are a few ideas Ensure your bond portfolio is work- finance we may want to discuss. ing hard. If you own fixed income bonds, loud Xmas Party. Whew, this tired old queen Holiday gift ideas. You and your part- now is a great time to take a closer look at sam Merry Christmunikahkwannza!!! was just that. Tired. Showtime was 10 p.m., ner can each give up to $12,000 to the same your bond holdings to ensure you are posi- so you know it started at 11. I want to start Year- End Tax person. Thus, you could give a child up to tioned to take full advantage of the current unfiltered Sexy Steven who was serving up drinks for column what it means like I did. I am such a charity to buy Drag queens watches. But $24,000 a year without incurring a tax liabil- market environment and aren’t overlooking sam kunz happy hour! No one light a match! Oh the a tease. By the way, Steve, loved your hat it was a good show. Ran just a little over ity. And if you are a grandparent, what bet- opportunities to maximize your income or HUMANITY! babe. He knows what I’m talking about! 3 hours and had 17 performers. Ooooooh Ideas ter way is there to show your affection for reduce taxes. Speaking of which, and this has noth- Oh yes, before I forget. Let’s all take girl...Lemme tell you, that backstage area grandchildren than to give the gift of a good These are just a few of the tax saving ing to do with that. I signed my latest auto- a moment and mourn the loss of a little was ripe after 17 sweating drag queens had / By Woody Derricks, President / education. Contributions to 529 college sav- strategies worth considering in order to help Oh, Darlings, first and foremost I need to graph. YES! People want me to sign things nightclub right next to The Belvedere, you their way with it. 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Consult with your tax advisor be- after chewing the gum. Well, EJ, took that chest. I did. Just to get a feel, you know we see any of you there? Mmmhmm. Anyways 3 hours long. I could have watched Gone With coming holiday season. But far too often, we Make the most of capital gains and fore taking action. Put yourself on track to insult as a challenge and Eva was born. Not old queens gotta get it where we find it! Uh a bunch of my fellow queens went Norma The Wind in that time. I can never get past the overlook and even neglect making critical losses. If you have realized gains in your make the most of tax savings! only did this bitch WORK it, she worked it oh, Is that my fiancée` I see sitting in the Rae on this bar next to the Belvedere’s ass part of that boring assed dry movie. That was decisions during this last quarter that can portfolio from investments that you have HARD. I know when I am wrong and boy shadows with a machete` ready to go? and had it shut down. 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12 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 13 thinking outloud we were singled out by an individual who As well, I believe that you should build unboxed chose to entertain himself and friends at campus relationships with your coworkers and man- our expense. Glad to oblige this clearly in- scene agement. Maybe these people will not be w/ ajar secure individual, we both acted as if he as close as your college buddies but in my Same-sex Marriage Defeat Marty Hoegg larry walker were invisible and eventually he got the experience they’re just as fantastic and de- Outloud Intern point and left. serving of friendship. Again, no one should in New York and Elsewhere: The experience, though, left me won- be denied conversation or love and at the dering what could be so wrong in his life end of a long work day you should be able that he would resort to such childish be- to go out with some coworkers and let loose. It’s All About HATE Good Times havior. Mean spiritedness is not a new How to Survive Though if you have work the next phenomenon amongst gay men; actually day or a manager / By Rev. Dr. Jerry Maneker / Writing about the black gay experience is the opposite is true, many people expect Retail: The is going with you The New York State Senate voted down a a labor of love for me. I relish the day that I for gay men to be overly critical and judg- don’t make a marriage equality bill by a wide margin fol- chose to love myself fully; thus leaving me mental. But I cannot say that it does not jack ass out of lowing months of delay and protracted politi- with no other option, but to embrace my- bother me when I encounter the worst of a Conclusion yourself. cal drama. self as a black gay man. My world began to people that I want so much for. For the con- In a special legislative session, the drastically expand with every experience. I When I was younger I would chastise ’ve been going back and forth on how sumer, it helps senate voted 38-to-24 against the bill, eight became proud, full of confidence, and hap- and make fun of others; see, I was left with to end this article series. On one hand tremendously if votes short of a majority, with no support piness. I would think of how appropriate a slight limp after being hit by a car at age I realize that just because the holidays you come into from Republican senators. A State Assem- it was to be labeled “gay” because that is five. So, to deflect attention from it, I would will be over soon doesn’t mean that my a store knowing what you’re bly marriage bill had passed for a third time exactly what I was, happy, joyous. I had de- tell jokes. It would take years for me to un- adventures in retail will as well. With a looking for or at least having enough infor- late last night. livered myself from the obligation of being derstand the greater implications of my ac- week left before Christmas I’m sure my retail mation with you so that a person in customer Governor David Paterson, who made the guarded and angry. I was free. Nightly tions. I was insecure and unhappy. It was escapades will become increasingly more service can better aid you in finding what you marriage equality a centerpiece of his agen- I pray for the same as if making fun of interesting. However, I also realize that the need. That means don’t come into a book da, issued a statement a few hours after love to envelop the “For a man in his other kids made advice and insight I’ve shared in this series store and only offer, “I’m looking for a book.” the vote that acknowledged the widespread hearts of my broth- me feel more can be applied year round and doesn’t have No shit Sherlock. sense of disappointment among advocates ers, and I often find thirties to be so normal, superior to only pertain to your job. Furthermore, when an employee asks for the bill. myself in a place of even. So let’s create a little list; something that for more information on the product try not to new York City is my old stomping secular, society, taking upon themselves the disappointment and unhappy that all he At such a will recount all the dos and don’ts of work- be vague, we’re not mind readers and can’t grounds! It was progressive forty years ago undeserved mantel of being the arbiters of anguish. young age I did ing for the general consumer. This list is for just make random objects appear. Again, when I left, and I assume that it’s progres- “morality,” and thereby sadly convince most “Why are gay men sees fit to do at a bar not know how to everyone—both the consumer and the re- the name tag does not bestow us with super sive now! of the electorate that being Gay is “immor- so damn unhappy?” is to criticize and properly deal with tailer—so let’s not assume that those behind powers. I remember thinking after I left NYC that al,” and that same-sex marriage is similarly is what I left The the discomfort I the counter are the only ones who should For the retail worker, be friendly and I didn’t leave another state, but I left another “immoral.” Gallery thinking last belittle those around felt for being dif- present themselves with some decorum. hospitable. In my experience I find that nine country! I didn’t appreciate the cosmopolitan Hence, the ignorant and/or hatefully Tuesday night. My ferent. I think of First, remember that as a retail con- times out of ten if I’m happy to be there then nature of NYC when I lived there for 28 years based hyperbole that same-sex marriage best friend had in- him, that’s just sad.” scared, young, sultant you have asked for this job. I’m sure the consumer is also happy to be there. Of- until I left it! will destroy the family, hurt children, force vited me out for a vulnerable Larry no one held a gun to your head and made fer a smile and approach customers with an However, other parts of New York State schools to teach homosexuality, hurt clergy drink, which was cool, except that the last when I see my brothers “reading” one an- you take up this career. So stop complain- easy going open attitude. You never know are not that progressive and, although I don’t and churches, etc. few times I had gone to a gay bar in Balti- other; accentuating each other’s shortcom- ing! Everyone has that coworker who always who you’re going to meet and how they may know what political motivations and machi- Let’s make no mistake! This defeat in more the experience was less than stellar. ings to make themselves feel better. I can doesn’t want to be there or whines constant- help you later in life. nations ensued to make possible this defeat New York and other defeats for same-sex Lately, it seems that Baltimore’s gay feel the lack of confidence and security ly about the workload. So let’s just tell them Finally, and this is the big one, have fun. for equal rights, I do know that “hate” was marriage that have been suffered is not night life has been infected with an ugli- radiating from them as they throw shade to zip it and get to work. Everyone in this in- Shopping is supposed to be enjoyable. I re- and is the major motivator when religious about the well being of the family, children, ness that is painful to even be around. I can like paper planes at the heads of their un- dustry has their own drama to worry about; member thinking when I was younger that leaders and politicians seek to deny equal or the larger society. not recap all the times that I have caught knowing peers. This fills me with an indel- they don’t need yours as well. shopping was a pastime and that there was rights to any minority group! Whenever any politicians or clergy seek wind of men gossiping and tearing one an- ible sadness. For, it is understandable for Second, for the consumer remember an art to making the most out of a day of The distortions and down right lies per- to deny equal rights to Gay people, it is about other down, and frankly I’ve grown so sick a child, ten years-old, to “act out,” but for a that a retail assistant can only do so much. buying things. Honestly, there is; if you’re petrated about Gay people, not the least of “hate,” and about nothing else! And they can of it that I have withdrawn from the scene. man in his thirties to be so unhappy that all So don’t give them a hard time when they going out for the day make an event of it. which is that Gay merely equals Sex, has a couch their hateful animus in unctuous, san- We initially, chose The Gallery because he sees fit to do at a bar is to criticize and tell you they have to consult someone else in Call your friends, grab lunch and spend the lot to do with such defeats that occurred in itized, sanctimonious rhetoric all they want of the warm response that we generally belittle those around him, that’s just sad. order to provide you with more efficient help. day doing what Americans do best. If you’re New York. to, but the bottom line is that they are igno- receive when we go there. Thus, my lack Usually I write about notable causes, They’re just doing their job. working; try talking to as many people as People are not told that same-sex cou- rant haters, and they must be exposed and of enjoyment had little to do with the bar events, or issues pertinent to the gay black next, this is a fast-paced industry and possible. Approach that hottie in the men’s ples love each other every bit as much as confronted for that fact! itself, and more to do with the, all too famil- experience, and today is no different. This retail workers can quickly become down- section and ask him if he needs any help; heterosexual couples love each other, and And the gullible lemmings who follow iar, negativity I felt from certain pockets of rudeness is killing any chance of progres- trodden by the constant hubbub and intensi- who knows he may be looking for a tailor or that to deny the same dignity and rights their lead are no better; only more pathetic, gay men. sion that we may have as a community. We ty of the job. So I highly recommend making your number. that accrue to heterosexuals to same-sex for they don’t get any of the rewards of the Adult men, who chose to come to the need to deal with our issues and demons, an immediate distinction between your work If you apply all that I’ve given you here couples is to deny their love the dignity it de- hateful clergy and politicians, save for sa- bar, not to enjoy an after work drink, but to so that we may capture the beauty that is life and your everyday life. When it’s time to to your everyday life I assure you that you’ll serves, and deny Gay people equality that tiating their hateful animus that is primarily make all in attendance feel as uncomfort- our birth rite. Nothing good can come from clock out at the end of the night go home find your experience in retail much more en- the Constitution assures us belongs to every fueled and fostered by ignorant and/or men- able as they do about themselves. Usually anger and misdirected pain. and do something that makes you happy. durable. You’ll create a better experience for citizen in the U.S. dacious clergy. I’m just the person noticing this “tired” be- And, maybe if you felt better about Get your head out of work when you’re not the consumer and you’ll find confidence in I can’t but believe that politicians who havior; I do not generally give off negativity yourself, we could all have a good time. there so you can focus on being a better yourself through your career. want to get re-elected are as much influ- Read Rev. Maneker’s blog, A Christian Voice so it does not usually befall me. Yet, Tues- you. I promise that if you separate your work enced by homophobic clergy who have un- for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender day night was different. Though we were Larry L. Walker can be reached at ThePo- life from your social life you’ll find yourself Marty Hoegg is a senior at Stevenson Uni- deserved but great influence in the larger, Rights,” located at www.christinalgbtrights.org not giving off any particularly bad vibes, [email protected]. enjoying the two even more. versity in Baltimore County.

14 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 15 lively arts // on the stage DREAMGIRLS Arrives for a Holiday Visit

/ By Ben Ryland / Dreamettes’ who are discovered by an ambitious agent If you think a musical, which opened on Broadway in 1981 who sets the trio up as background singers on a tour with can’t still be hot, guess again. Even with a smash movie headliner- James’Thunder’Early. version just a couple of years ago, countless tours, re- The beautiful Deena Jones emerges as the star of the gional, dinner theatre, and community theatre productions, show over-shadowing the full-voiced Effie White causing DREAMGIRLS is still cooking. the girls friendship to experience personal and professional Look at just the recent movie CAMP, which featured crossroads as their own popularity grows worldwide. the summer kids performing a number from the show full- Directed by award-winning Robert Longbottom along out, plus just last week a show stopping presentation of the with sets and costumes by Robin Wagner and William Ivey power-ballad of all power-ballads (“And I am Telling You”) on Long, respectively, the show promises to be a spectacular GLEE. And even an unbelievable version of that same song production that will be criss-crossing the country to dozens at a Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS Fundraiser in New of theatres over the next year. York by a ‘tween boy from the cast of Disney’s Little Mermaid First reviews from the engagement at the Apollo The- for proof. Not bad for a 30 year-old show. atre had the Village Voice declaring, ‘Dreamgirls is sensa- (By the way, all of these versions plus the iconic 1982 tional. Slick staging, stunning quick-change costumes and a Tony Award show clip are shown regularly at SHOWTUNES stellar cast” and Entertainment Weekly magazine stated that VIDEO MADNESS Tuesday Nights at the Club Hippo spon- the show has, “crackling electricity.” sored by Baltimore OUTloud) newcomer, “Moy Angela [as Effie White] is the mega- As part of this years Hippodrome Theatre season, and talent at the center of this electric production. A STAR IS directly from the premiere engagement at the Apollo Theatre BORN,” according to NY1. in Harlem, comes a new highly anticipated touring produc- The original production was awarded six Tony Awards tion which is currently playing downtown until December 27. including Jennifer Holiday as Effie, and director Michael Ben- All seasoned theatergoers and show queens know nett (A Chorus Line). It ran for over 1,500 performances. the plot and its parallels to a certain real superstar group Tickets are available for most performances and there of the same type and time. DREAMGIRLS tells the story is an additional Monday performance on December 21 to of onstage joy and backstage drama of an up-and-coming make up for no show on Christmas Day. 1960’s girl group including the problems that come with

fame and fortune. Three neighborhood friends form ‘The Ben Ryland’s website is at stagesbaltimore.wordpress.com. Photo: Joan Marcus

Friday night. ‘The Addams Family’ That is about all the plot you are going to get from me but rest assured all the creepy and kookie things are present in Chicago: Working including Lurch, strange creatures (effectively portrayed by puppets) and another major character in the show which is the house its self. Out the Bugs The scenic designer has created one of the coolest sets ever for a Broadway stage. The exterior but mostly the / By Ben Ryland / interior of the mansion moves, it turns, it literally dances. The Addams Family Musical has begun performances in its Add in the wonderful lighting and you will see where much two-month try-out in Chicago before heading to Broadway. of the rumored $17 million budget was spent: on talent and So we left on a jet plane and headed west to see the show production values. The set received applause several times last weekend. The famous Oriental Theatre (where WICKED during the show; it is that outstanding. played a 4-year run) is almost sold out for the creepy, kooky The unmemorable music by Andrew Lippa has ups and family musical. In fact we were in row X of the orchestra downs and the first act closer, a number called ‘Full Dis- for the third preview performance and I had purchased the formers, Nathan Lane (THE PRODUCERS) as Gomez and closure’ involving a truth game that goes on for more than tickets six months ago! The show is hot, hot, hot with ticket Bebe Neuwirth (CHICAGO) as Morticia, plus stars Kevin 15 minutes is way too long and needs to be replaced. The buyers. But does it deliver? Chamberlin (SEUSSICAL, THE RITZ) as Uncle Fester, book is by Woody Allen scripter Marshall Brickman and Rick The house light fluttered and crackled even before the Jackie Hoffman (HAIRSPRAY) as Grandma along with Ter- Elice who co-wrote “Jersey Boys.” The first act has tons of overture began getting the audience ready. Strains of the TV rence Mann (Javert in Les Miz) and Carolee Carmello (PA- comic setups for the well-known idiosyncrasies of the Ad- show theme song and tango style music rose from the pit as RADE) as pivotal plot characters, the show has outstanding dams Family and the second half is more sentimental. the curtain opened by a bodyless hand which revealed the pedigrees. All of the actors with one exception are still finding their graveyard in the rear of the familiar looking Addams house In that first scene we come to find out that daughter character. But Chamberlin has hit the ground running as he located somewhere in Central Park. Wednesday (Krysta Rodriguez) no longer a kid, has a boy- skillfully navigates our way through the story with his com- nOTE: the show is brand-new and still being worked friend. She has outgrown her childish games of torture with mentary. He also has a wonderful scene in Act 2 where as on. and we attended only the third performance ever in front brother Pugsley (Adam Riegler AKA Cubby Berstein). So, he sings of his love- the moon – so he rockets off the set of an audience, Nov. 15th. what is the reaction of this disclosure? The strangest family and into to the heavens to be with her. It is one of the many With this cast consisting of 2-time Tony winning per- in New York wants to invite the lad and his parents to dinner -- continued on page 27

16 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 17 lively arts // on the screen GS: I’m glad that you men- lively arts // on the screen Some have complained that the story is weak or tioned timing. Your film is too simple or too derivative of so many other movies like Alicia Keys – being released a couple of Cameron’s own Aliens and Titanic as well as Dances With years after Guido Santi & Wolves. Sure, there are familiar elements to the story (and The Element of A Singular Man: Tina Mascara’s doc Chris if Cameron did write it fifteen years ago as he claims then & Don about Isherwood those ideas were a little more fresh at the time), but Cam- Freedom and Don Bachardy. eron tells it so well through his visual style that you can’t An Interview with TF: I love that documentary! help but be drawn in. Grammy-winning song siren Alicia The story is also helped greatly by an outstanding Keys has been a hit or miss artist GS: Me, too! Do you think cast with Worthington, Weaver and Moore playing both for me. Her first 3 albums weren’t Tom Ford this constitutes an Isher- human and Na’Vi. Worthington burst onto the scene with tune in or straight-through listens for me, of- wood revival? this summer’s Terminator Salvation and set many hearts ten becoming too boring and mun- A Single Man, the film version of the Christopher Isherwood TF: Well, I would certainly a flutter with his rugged good looks, and he’s sure to be- tune out dane at the half way point, a streak novel of the same, marks Tom Ford’s directorial debut. The hope so! I was already work- come a superstar after this film. He handles both of his Jonathan she unexpectedly demolished with fashion designer turned filmmaker joins the ranks of direc- ing on my project when that roles very well, playing the brooding, paraplegic Ma- Hernandez her fourth album As I Am. It was a tors such as Julian Schnabel and Sofia Coppola who broke film was finished. It touched rine who wants nothing more than to finish this mis- strong, experimental album, filled to new ground, personally and professionally, with their fea- me in many ways, just be- sion so he can have an operation to restore his legs, the brim with lush anthems like the ture-length motion picture presentations. cause of the personal con- and the avatar Na’Vi who can walk and jump and fall international explosion “No One,” and heartbreaking ballads Set in the early 1960s, stunningly recreated with a care- nection to Don. I would love Avatar in love. like “Thing About Love,” which not only showed a different ful and reverent eye, A Single Man takes place in a single to see an Isherwood revival. I was totally charmed by his childlike discovery of not side to Keys, but a different side to her voice. It was rougher, day. College professor George (Colin Firth, who has never To me, he was a great writer. / By Chuck Duncan / only his ability to walk again but of his surroundings, lush darker, more emotional. been sexier), distraught over the sudden death of his long- He predicted, in the book, Colin Firth (l.) and Tom Ford and beautiful and full of amazing flora and fauna (described Three years later, Keys has returned with The Element time companion Jim (the always charming Matthew Goode), the dumbing down of culture. I think a lot of young people Cast: Sam Worthington, Sigourney Weaver, Zoe Saldana, to the new grunts as a living hell to make them more willing of Freedom, and while in some ways it is similar to her last is planning to go out with a bang. Literally. He has a gun and don’t know his work. him and so I moved on to another actor because Colin was Joel David Moore, Michelle Rodriguez, Giovanni Ribisi, to destroy the place). The relationship between his charac- album, Element finds Keys at an even more emotional, he is getting his affairs in order, which includes an intimate, Also, his depictions of gay life were so matter of fact, going to be working. I was at the Mamma Mia! premiere chat- Stephen Lang ter and Saldana’s comes off as very real and organic in the darker place. Don’t worry though, she’s not jumping off any yet distant, evening with best gal pal Charlotte (a stunning so straightforward, that they were revolutionary at the time. ting with Colin. I had another actor who had been attached way it develops and you can empathize with him when he bridges, just tackling love and other disasters from different Julianne Moore), before getting on with the task at hand. But In today’s world, because we’ve come a long way and we’ve for about six months. I was looking Colin up and down and I Director: James Cameron has to decide which way to go when his bosses begin to viewpoints to make for a coherent ballad heavy album that life has other plans for him, including the unexpected inter- had a lot of people put themselves on the front lines to get us was so upset. It was so clear to me that he had to be George. launch an attack on the Na’Vi. hits its mark more than it est of student Kenny (Nicholas Hoult), who is more than a where we are today, we have the benefit of living in a world About a month later, the actor that had been attached had to Jake Sully (Worthington) is a former Marine confined to a While the story is an important part of the film, most misses. little hot for teacher. where these things are not particularly shocking. pull out because he had to take a movie where he was going wheelchair. Bitter and disillusioned, he’s still a warrior at people will be going to see the giant blue creatures and After an explanatory Diplomatic, with a great sense of humor, Ford was very to make some money, which I totally understood. heart. All Jake ever wanted was something worth fighting their world. If you’ve seen any of Robert Zemeckis’ mo- 13-second intro that false- enthusiastic about talking with me about his first film. We GS: Right, because he was writing in a pre-Stonewall for, and he finds it in the place he least expected: on a dis- tion-capture films like The Polar Express, Beowulf and A ly attempts to make the spoke earlier this month. era. GS: Playing Charlotte is Julianne Moore, a longtime fa- tant world. Jake has been recruited to join an expedition to Christmas Carol, you should know that Cameron has em- album something deeper “I still have friends to this day who TF: Absolutely! The way vorite of gay filmmaker Todd Haynes’… the moon Pandora, which corporate interests are strip-min- ployed the same technique in creating the Na’Vi. Actors than it is (the intro is sup- Gregg Shapiro: I’d like he depicts the relationship TF: (Laughs) ing for a mineral worth $20 million per kilogram on Earth. were filmed and recorded performing their parts and then posed to be meaningful, to begin by asking you occasionally say to me something is very much the way…I’ve To facilitate their work, the humans use a link system replaced with the digital creatures. but doesn’t really tie into, to please say something about my ‘lifestyle.’ And I’m like, lived with the same guy GS: …who is truly remarkable, too. that projects a person’s consciousness into a hybrid of Critics of the Zemeckis films point out the stilted move- or have anything to do about what it was about ‘What lifestyle?’ The scene where (Richard Buckley) for 23 TF: I like to think she’s a longtime favorite of everybody’s. I humans and Pandora’s indigenous humanoids, the Na’vi. ment and dead eyes that make the films more creepy than with any of the songs), Christopher Isherwood’s years and it’s very much love her! I love her as a person and as a friend. I love her as This human-Na’vi hybrid is a fully living, breathing body charming. Cameron and his FX team (the same folks that “Love Is Blind” kicks in. book “A Single Man” that George and Jim are lying on the my relationship. It’s about an actress. I wrote that part, which is very different than the that resembles the Na’vi but possesses the individual brought Gollum in The Lord of the Rings films and King Arguably the best song on made you want to make it sofa with the dogs is a scene right love. It’s about two people character in the book, hoping that she would respond to it. human’s thoughts, feelings and personality, but the native Kong to life) have created the most amazingly lifelike CGI the album, the haunting, dark production and subject matter, into a film? who are together. I still have She was the very first actor to say yes. Na’Vi believe them to be demons in false bodies. characters ever put up on the silver screen. The move- with a memorable buildup in the bridge, makes for intensely Tom Ford: I first read this out of my life. That’s my lifestyle. friends to this day who oc- In his new “avatar” form, Jake can once again walk. ments are fluid, the eyes are moist, the skin has texture, epic listen. Next up is the 90’s inspired mid-tempo ballad, book when I was about 20 casionally say to me some- GS: Matthew Goode will also be familiar to gay audi- His mission is to interact with and infiltrate the Na’vi with you can see each strand of hair, and the teeth look solid. first single “Doesn’t Mean Anything”. It’s a great little song years old and I was living in West Hollywood in the early ‘80s thing about my “lifestyle.” And I’m like, “What lifestyle?” The ences from lgbt theme films such as Brideshead Revis- the hope of enlisting their help – or at least their acquies- There is absolutely nothing about these creatures that will that didn’t gather the success it should’ve. The resemblance and I was an actor. What spoke to me about the book then scene where George and Jim are lying on the sofa with the ited and Imagine Me and You. How did you know he was cence – in mining the ore. A beautiful Na’vi female, Neytiri make you doubt that they are real. to “No One” might’ve played a hand in that though. was the character of George, which is so beautifully written dogs is a scene right out of my life. That’s my lifestyle. right for Jim? (Saldana), saves Jake’s life, albeit reluctantly, because In close-ups, I swore they were actors in makeup, but Her second single, “Try Sleeping with a Broken Heart,” by Mr. Isherwood that he really seems real. TF: I just felt it. Every time I saw Matthew on screen in any- even in his avatar body, Jake represents to her the human I know they aren’t. The entire world of Pandora is CGI, and is a boring 80’s inspired ballad. Overall, this song sums up Fast forward to five years ago when I became serious GS: Sure, I’ve been with my partner for 17 years, so, thing I loved him as an actor. What George loved about Jim encroachment on the Na’vi’s unspoiled world. As Jake’s re- again, you never for a moment disbelieve in the reality of the issues I have with Keys in general. It’s not usually that her about really making a movie. I was going through a bit of yes, it’s very much like that. is Jim’s, and I don’t use the word simple in a derogatory lationship with Neytiri deepens, along with his respect for what you see. And on top of all of this, Cameron employs songs are bad, they’re just boring, with clunky verses, and what could be called a midlife crisis after having left Gu- TF: Aw, congratulations! way, simple quality. He’s straightforward, he’s honest. That’s the Na’vi, he faces the ultimate test – fulfill his mission or 3D to envelop you in this world instead of throwing things slow brooding choruses. Thankfully, she steps up with “Wait cci and one career and actually thinking, at that time, that I what attracts George to America and that’s what attracted follow his heart. at the audience. The story may seem old-fashioned, but Til You See My Smile,” an impressive track with expertly han- wouldn’t be going back to fashion. I was having a very hard GS: Who are some of the directors whose work you George to Jim. I thought Matthew would be the perfect actor I’ll say right from the start that I was interested in see- Cameron, his actors, and his crew of technicians make dled production values and a masterfully-done chorus. time seeing my future. I knew I wanted to make movies and I admire or would consider to be influences on you as a to play that. Matthew also has a lot of sensitivity. In the bar ing Avatar but I wasn’t chomping at the bit after the clips I’d sure that everything works to draw you into the story, to “That’s How Strong My Love Is” and “Un-thinkable” fea- thought, “Well, this is the perfect time.” This book has stayed filmmaker? scene where he meets Colin for the first time, the look in his seen on TV. I wasn’t really sure what the story was, but the make you feel almost as if you are a part of the movie. turing Drake, lean more towards the boring, sleepy side of with me for 25 years, I should pick it up and read it again. TF: Hitchcock, number one, probably. The usual suspects— eyes conveys so much love instantly in such a short amount only thing that looked interesting to me was the technology Words really can’t do justice to the film. This really has to things, making for some the weakest songs on the album. Kubrick, Antonioni. One of my favorite films is called Um- of time. that went into making the movie. But as I sat there becom- be seen to be believed, and it has to be seen on a BIG Keys also sounds a little unpleasant on the chorus of the GS: What was it like to read it again? berto D. by Vittorio De Sica. ing fully immersed in James Cameron’s world through his screen. This is the first movie I’ve seen in a long time that later track. “Like the Sea” is an interesting little gem that TF: Reading it from midlife was an entirely different thing for GS: It’s getting to that time of year when people are as- stunning use of 3D, I found myself totally invested in the I actually want to see again at the movies and if audiences gives you the impression that it’s just another ballad, but as me. It spoke to me in a completely different way. George is a GS: Playing George in A Single Man is not the first time sembling “best of” lists and there is lots of buzz about story and completely overwhelmed by the sheer beauty embrace it as they did Cameron’s last studio feature film, the song progresses, a grungy, garage feel is injected into character who cannot see his future. He is struggling to live that Colin Firth is portraying a gay character. He did so the Oscars and other awards. Are you gearing up for and realness of the CGI effects. There are times when the this very well could be his next Titanic. the beat, and that makes the track a memorable standout on in the present. Christopher Isherwood was a very spiritual most recently in Mamma Mia! Was he always your first what’s to come? film nearly brought me to tears due to the artistry on dis- the album. guy. And the book (“A Single Man”) is very, very spiritual. choice for George? TF: I’m very proud of the movie. For me, it was a great ac- play. To say it was breathtaking and mind-blowing is really Rated PG-13 for intense epic battle sequences and war- Sadly, the collaboration with Beyonce, “Put It in a Love TF: He was my first choice. I wasn’t going to be able to get -- continued on page 27 inadequate. fare, sensuality, language and some smoking. -- continued on page 27

18 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 19 nami hit Indonesia. I had a lot of friends and family members blend honey! lively arts // drag nation I lost in that tragedy, and I took that name in remembrance, so I can always keep them in my heart. SK: Is there a secret to “The Tuck”? Get your tickets now! / By Sam Kunz / SN: (Laughs) No, not really. I always try to pull everything to Sue Nami SK: How long have you been performing for? back. I use something like a paper towel and clear duct tape. For the 2nd edition of SN: Four and a half years. (I do believe Ms. Nami was blushing, hehe.) Drag Nation, I spoke Winter 2009 istings to a true legend in our SK: Is this something you would like to take all the way SK: Where do you see the Drag Queen, Sue Nami in 5 heatre community—the love- and make a career out of it? years? ly, the vivacious, the SN: For me it’s an art. It’s something I am passionate about. 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20 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 21 the addams family ciation, reported that in Maryland roughly 10 who will consider issuing them. -- continued from page 16 real estate percent of homeowners deemed good credit Certainly the situation in residential risks were in trouble with their mortgage. real estate is worry some as we head into major special effects and along with the today We’re not talking subprime mortgages here, the new year. But it might not be the most song-- ‘The Moon and Me’—it has plenty wayne curtis the widely known source of the financial dangerous. Many experts are warning that of emotion and heart attached. troubles, but prime borrowers. Again, blame the biggest problem looming on the hori- Lane is hysterical and his Gomez is rising unemployment, which has destabi- zon is in the commercial real estate market, as horny as ever (stating “F*** dancing” lized the family budgets of people who have as last week’s potential meltdown at Dubai it’s bedtime) but incredibly touching when had a history of prudent financial manage- World illustrated. While that particular sov- dealing with his daughter’s adulthood in Stocking ment. In round numbers, this adds 77,000 ereign wealth fund made European markets the song, ‘Happy/Sad.’ He was born to homeowners to the list of those at least one tremble, and we were told that the U.S. mar- play this role on stage and will be difficult month behind on their payments. ket has little exposure to it, there are enough to replace at the end of his N.Y. contract. Stuffers Recent widely reported gains in region- potential problems here at home to make us newirth looks great but sings a bit al home sales and a decrease in the hous- weak in the knees. raspy (but they are rehearsing constantly As we move through the last month of the ing inventory seems to be coming from short Moody’s Investor Services reported last and tired). Her dancing is astonishing year, I wanted to review where we stand in sales and foreclosures going under contract week that it expects the value of U.S. com- considering that she recently had two the real estate world, both nationally and (and not necessarily going to settlement). mercial real estate to continue to fall well hip replacements. And that dress! Wow, in Maryland. 2010 will be a critical year for From my anecdotal sources, traffic on regu- into 2011. This is on top of losses in this sec- she is busting out all over as they say many of us, not only for those involved with lar owner-occupied listings -- where a bank tor which have already totaled 42.9% since and Bebe is perfect for Morticia. Her big property, but for the economy in general. is not involved – is practically non-existent. the peak in 2007.The total devaluation from number, ‘Second Banana’ is a revelation We’re certainly better off in this holiday This means that unless you’re in distress and the peak may well reach 55% before things about getting older, and her tango song season than we were a year ago. At the end buyers smell blood, they aren’t interested in begin to turn around. with Gomez complete with scary sword of 2008 the country felt like a roller coaster seeing your listing. And, as we saw in the The determining factor in these losses? play are wonderful. car speeding down the tallest slope with no last item, there could be 77,000 more prop- Yep, you guessed it...unemployment. With Love and family (if dysfunctional) is brake and nobody at the switch. Right now, erties on that distressed list that we have to fewer people working, office spaces and the overall theme; it’s not corny but in- 2009 looks like the turning point, with the work through next spring. commercial spaces don’t need to be as big. stead comes organically from the charac- economy beginning its long climb up the Most of our buyers, especially first time Demand for office buildings drops, and few- ters and is heartfelt. Directors/Designers next hill, real estate stabilizing and just in homebuyers, in the last year have used FHA er companies are growing and demanding Phelim McDermott and Julian Crouch need of a little push to get back on the track. loans because they had the least stringent more space from their landlords. Also, with come from the world of opera and under- But there are several issues looming for next requirements for credit score and money more people encouraged to buy homes and stand full grand productions. Being grand year, which will really determine how things down, and allowed more generous assis- get their tax credit, demand for multifamily is something which always concerns this go for the foreseeable future. Here are a few tance from Sellers. So while the extension of rental units has also dropped, hurting land- weird family, and it works incredibly well lumps of coal for your stocking: the tax credits until the end of June, 2010 is a lords’ cash flow and making it more difficult in this live staging. A recent Washington Post article quot- wonderful thing, it seems to be coming with for them to keep up on their mortgages. The Addams Family musical needs ed a national survey by the Mortgage Bank- a simultaneous tightening of credit from the now, with all this coal in your stocking, to lose at least 20 minutes of running ers Association, which found that more than FHA. The Washington Post reports that new remember you can’t really burn it anymore time and some dialog tightened but that 14 percent of borrowers were in trouble on FHA guidelines currently under development to lower your heating bills. Global warming, is what out-of-town tryouts are for. Tick- their mortgage. That translates into 7.4 mil- will raise the amount of money required from you know. Ho, ho, ho. ets are already on sale in New York for lion households either currently delinquent buyers -- from 3.5% of the purchase price the spring opening and smart theatre-go- or in the foreclosure process, the highest to 5% of purchase price -- while cutting the Wayne Curtis has been a licensed real es- ers should grab theirs fast. I believe this level this particular survey has ever record- allowed Seller contribution in half (from 6% tate agent since 1998. His website, www. show when finished will be a highlight of ed. That means we have not seen the peak to 3%). Not only will this shrink the pool of charmcityrealestate.com, is a resource for the 2010 Broadway season and look for of foreclosures – and with unemployment qualified buyers considerably, the FHA will further real estate research, including FAQs, Chamberlin to finally get that richly de- continuing to rise the numbers will only get also raise the capitalization required from podcasts, blog entries and much more. If you served Tony Award. worse. lenders who issue FHA insured loans – a have questions you’d like to see answered in The Baltimore Sun, again using infor- move that will most likely cut the number of this column, please write him at charmcityre- Check out Ben Ryland’s website at www. mation from the Mortgage Bankers Asso- loans available, if not the number of lenders [email protected] stagesbaltimore.wordpress.com.

22 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 23 dc city council out and about // dining sisters that point, everyone will be so drunk you can take at family functions. One glass of wine -- continued from front page single just pick someone at random and have at. might relax you a bit. Several will result in an That said, if the idea of showing up embarrassing story that might be funny one done on December 15th. It passed by a black sheep alone really scares the baby Jebus out of day, but definitely not this year. vote of 11-2. Mayor Fenty has pledged to Josh Aterovis you, take your favorite gal pal. Just don’t sign it. blame me when she ends up drunk and I Will Always Love You The bill must then undergo a review dancing on a table with her skirt hiked up So you’ve been together so long you’ve for- period of 30 legislative days of Congress around her hips. gotten what it’s like to be single. That doesn’t before it can become law. Once it be- mean all the holiday-related stress is gone. comes laws, DC will join Massachusetts, Holiday Dating Brand New Love Now you have to decide things like with Vermont, Connecticut, and Iowa. The Holidays can put a strain on any relationship, which family you’re going to spend which New Hampshire marriage bill will take ef- but they can be especially treacherous for holiday, assuming your family accepts your fect Jan. 1, 2010. Survival Guide new couples. First, there’s the whole ques- relationship that is. If not, going separate “Equality Maryland is celebrating tion of what to get each other. It’s like that ways at holidays can be stressful in and of it- this historic vote along with the residents Happy ChristmaHanuKwanzaakah! The commercial airing right now where the guy self, especially when the idea that we should of Washington, DC and lgbt couples and holidays are upon us, and with them, all the gets his girlfriend a diamond necklace and be together with our loved ones on holidays allies throughout the country,” said Ms. associated relationship expectations. The she’s all like, “I didn’t think we were there has been so ingrained in us. Now you’re be- Meneses-Sheets. “This is proof that de- whole chestnuts roasting by the open fire yet.” Which, first of all, you didn’t think we ing forced to choose between your family spite any recent setbacks, there is a and hanging shining stars upon the high- were where, you ungrateful idiot? At the gift and your partner. strong momentum behind the efforts to Michelle and Jessie Benson at The Hill est boughs crap is a lovely fantasy, but the giving stage? Just say thank you! But yeah, If that’s the case, decide together what’s advance equal marriage protections for reality is that the holidays can be extremely there is always the pressure of giving appro- more important for you as a couple. Do you all couples.” The Hill more like a roll and it wasn’t the freshest. stressful times for couples — new or well- priate gifts. How much is too much? What if want to be with each other or is it more im- The win in DC may have important The cheese, avocado and bacon blended established — and even for us singletons. it’s not enough? There’s a fine line between portant to be with your extended family? If implications as Attorney General Doug together and didn’t really work. The Buffalo So here’s my handy guide to surviving the going overboard and not even getting on you decide you want to be together, you can Gansler is crafting an opinion as to 1017 S. Charles Street chicken quesadilla was good; lots of chicken holiday season broken into convenient the same boat. It might be a good idea to always spend time with your family after the whether Maryland must recognize mar- Baltimore, MD with a good balance of flavors. sub-categories. sit down beforehand and discuss how much actual day. Set boundaries and ask your riages legalized in jurisdictions that cur- The special for the night was blackened you want to spend family to respect them. If they can’t, then rently provide same-sex marriage rights. chicken pasta, which was very good: a gen- “There’s a fine line between on each other. That maybe it’s time to cut some ties, as painful “Now that lgbt couples can obtain a mar- / By Michelle and Jessie Benson / erous portion that was spicy but not overly so, way, there’s no as that can be. Often, when families realize riage license by simply traveling to the The Hill, one of the most recent additions to a good size meal with plenty of chicken. This going overboard and not even confusion, no last- how important your significant other really district, Maryland must move forward in the Federal Hill restaurant scene seems like dish was part of the nightly entree special minute surprises, is, they’ll become more understanding and not only recognizing out-of-state marriag- the perfect spot for a nice dinner and a few that came with soup. We tried the beef and getting on the same boat.” and, hopefully, no accepting. es, but we must also pass the Religious drinks, nestled just outside the bustling bar potato soup, which actually ended up being disappointment. If you’re fortunate enough to have two Freedom and Civil Marriage Protection and club scene that the area is known for. It’s one of the worst menu items. The meat was All My Single Ladies Then there’s the question, do you know accepting families already, then you can al- Act,” said Ms. Meneses-Sheets. a convenient location not only for those who fatty and overall the soup was very salty. Put your hands up! It can be especially rough them well enough to get them something ways split the day if you’re close enough to “It is hard to imagine that these cou- live in Federal Hill, but also for fans on their The martini menu is what makes a trip to be single around major holidays. Our cul- they’ll actually like? You could try to covertly both of them, or alternate years. ples will be entitled to the same legal rights way to catch an Orioles or Ravens game. to The Hill well worth it. At least a dozen ture seems to be built around the concept fish for ideas while carefully watching their Of course, there’s still the added pres- in protections in the District of Columbia, However, if you’re looking for more than a specialty martinis, ranging from chocolate that only couples can truly enjoy things like face for signs of approval or utter disgust: sure of getting the right gifts. Again, decid- but when their car or Metro passes over good drink, but for great food and perfect covered cherry to cosmopolitans all for $5. Christmas, New Years, etc. Poppycock! For “Man, you know what would look really good ing on a prearranged spending limit can help the border into Maryland they lose those ambiance for a night out on the town, you Another special on Thursdays is $5 glasses starters, just think of the money you’re sav- on you? A wat—...tie....manpur—....respira- alleviate much of that stress, but most im- crucial protections for their families. At may want to choose another destination. of wine. In addition they had a decent selec- ing when you don’t have to buy presents tor?” Or you could just ask for a list of things portantly, remember that it’s the thought that the same time, Maryland also loses large The restaurant’s interior is a bit tight with tion of beer at reasonable prices. If you are for a significant other! Plus, you don’t have they want. really counts, not the price tag. sums of new tax revenue from Maryland some tables placed rather awkwardly – table looking for a weekday deal, the prices are the added stress of having to match and/or As if, that isn’t enough, you have the residents who travel to Washington or the situations that would make it a bad choice right on Thursdays with 1/2 price appetizers. surpass whatever they got you. “Oh. Gee, families to deal with. If it’s new enough that Through the Years We All Will Be five other states with marriage equality for date night. There were a few large televi- There were also two entree specials for $14 thanks for the socks. I hope you enjoy your you don’t have to spend it together with your Together provisions,” Meneses-Sheets said. sions that could be seen from several tables that included soup. A variety of sandwiches new laptop.” respective clans, then you dodge the bullet... To sum up, don’t allow the stress of the that didn’t take over the restaurant or make were also available for around $10. Of course, for many, the real stress for this year anyway. However, if you’ve been holidays to hinder your enjoyment, whether it feel like a sports bar in case you want to Overall, the Hill is a good pre-game stop comes from having to attend all those damn together long enough that you’re expected to single, a new couple, or in a long-term rela- sue nami see a game without it being the focus of the when you don’t want a chain restaurant. It holiday parties solo. Here’s the key. Don’t let attend the family gathering, the stress meter tionship. Take steps to make them as spe- -- continued from page 21 night. The service was good and the wait is also a good place to go for a martini and it get to you. Own it. Just go and have a great can easily go off the chart. It can be espe- cial and fun-filled as possible. And above all, staff was friendly and attentive. an appetizer but it is not the place for a nice time with your friends or family or coworkers. cially difficult if you don’t know the potential have a safe and happy holiday season with need, they can come to me for help. Some of the food was mediocre and dinner out. Okay, so that last one is really far-fetched, future in-laws that well. Every family has dif- those you love. some was bad, but some dishes were pretty but it could happen. And who knows, you ferent traditions as well, which can add to Until next time...Happy Dating! I want to thank Ms. Sue Nami for sitting with good. The gourmet grilled cheese sounded Check out more of the Dining Sisters food just might meet another single person at the the sense of “other” and alienation. * * * * me for a spell and really letting me see into like a good concept but the “foccacia” was adventures at www.penseyeview.com. festive event of the moment and hit it off. Again, the key is to just relax and en- Have a question about dating or relation- what drag queens have to go through for a Chances are they’ll be more interested in joy yourself. Look at it as a way of getting ships? Or maybe you have a crazy dating show. I also want to thank my husband for someone who is genuinely enjoying them- to know your significant other better. There’s story to share. If you have a question or sto- putting up with my interrupting many times selves than someone sulking quietly in the nothing like seeing someone interact with ry, email me at singleblacksheep@joshat- during her makeup session. corner. Let’s face it, you definitely won’t meet his or her family to really get to know the erovis.com. Thanks to all our advertisers and anyone at home alone with your boxed wine real him or her. Or just think of yourself as readers who help support our paper and and your cat, so RSVP with confidence. And an intrepid explorer studying the bizarre ritu- keep us going strong. Any emails? Ques- don’t worry about having someone to kiss als of a primitive culture. Whichever gets you OUTloud’s queer TV guide: tions? Comments? Please send them to at midnight at the New Year’s Eve party. By through. Oh, and avoid excessive alcohol in- www.baltimoreoutloud.com [email protected]. Toodles!

24 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD december 18, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 25 MESSAGE TO BURBS all on status and next steps. Such a com- a singular man GS: Oh, no! -- continued from the front page ing-together would certainly serve as a good -- continued from page 18 TF: That’s all right. That’s life. leather neighbor is gay, and that PFLAG is available New Year’s Resolution for our informed in- complishment. I’m very happy with it and it for support. It also included testimonials volvement in future efforts and events to ad- has so far received really terrific response GS: Do you have an idea of what your line from parents of a gay child, a gay couple and dress this issue,” Clark wrote. from most people that have seen it. That’s next project will be? rodney burger a member of the chapter’s Rainbow Youth Councilman Young also apologized for made me enormously happy. I don’t like to TF: I don’t know. I need some space. I’ve Alliance. not attending saying it was unintentional count my chickens (laughs) before my eggs written an original screenplay, which I may Since then the chapter has produced and that he and his colleagues have also hatch. I’m going to just be very happy with or may not make. We finished this A( Single bumper stickers, T-shirts and refrigerator been personally affected by the disease. where we are. Man) in August. We had Venice (Film Fes- I must admit that I have a love/hate relation- magnets as well as featuring the design on He reiterated his past support for AIDS tival) in September, then we had the Lon- ship. As much as I enjoy the holiday season, the chapter’s Facebook and MySpace pages service providers, such as H.E.R.O. and GS: Earlier you were singing the prais- don Film Festival, the Tokyo Film Festival, I also stress out over the many fundraisers, to reinforce the campaign’s message. Moveable Feast. es of Harvey Weinstein, but there was a the Toronto Film Festival, and we open (in parties, and family gatherings. I hate to see The holiday display in the Columbia In an e-mail response, the letter writ- recent controversy regarding Weinstein theaters) soon. I’m going to need some dis- it come each year! I spend weeks dreading Mall will run through December. And yes, ers expressed appreciation for his support Company’s decision to “de-gay” the pre- tance. I would like to hope that I’m only going an approaching event and when it happens, another similar ad has been mounted on the for the organizations but pointed out the views of A Single Man in terms of its mar- to make films that I really love and that really I end up having a great time. I begin to think county’s buses to run concurrently with the significance. “The citywide World AIDS Day keting in some places. What was your means something to me. And that I will re- of each event as an obligation, as a hurdle mall ad. events were not about any one organiza- response to that? sist the temptation to make (laughs) studio in that big race towards the New Year. As I Chapter members as well as allies and tion – they were about bringing our city to- TF: I don’t think the movie’s been de-gayed. films. I need a little space to figure out what learned the first time I saw a back room, you friends are being encouraged to thank the gether to remember those friends, family, I have to say that we live in a society that’s I want to say and do next as a filmmaker. can’t please everybody! mall’s management—General Growth Prop- loved ones and leaders we have lost to HIV/ pretty weird. For example, you can have full- But I absolutely intend to make more films. If As President of the Shipmates the big erties—either verbally or by letter for agree- AIDS, to offer healing as a community, and frontal male nudity on HBO, yet in cinema, I’m lucky I will make one every two or three hurdle for me was the annual ShipMates’ ing to display this breakthrough ad. to recommit to a future free from HIV/AIDS. you can’t have naked male buttocks. You years, I hope, for the rest of my life. Daddy Christmas Benefit at the Baltimore The ultimate message in the campaign, While community leaders and representa- can’t have men kissing each other without it Eagle on Saturday, December 5. This year’s says Heath Goisovich, is “whether you are tives from so many groups were present, our being considered adult content. So in order Read the complete interview at charity was the Johns Hopkins Pediatric gay or straight, a mother or a father, a friend cities ELECTED leaders were unfortunately to cut a trailer that can go into broad distribu- baltimoreoutloud.com. AIDS Unit. Oh how I dreaded that night and or ally, PFLAG is here.” and conspicuously absent. tion in theaters and on-line in order to attract you know what? I had a wonderful time! “In light of the State of Emergency in our people to the film, certain things had to be tune in or tune out I cannot thank everyone enough for all of WHERE WERE YOU? city, and the impact that, as you point out, edited out. -- continued from page 19 the help and support. In fact there was even -- continued from the front page the pandemic has had on the lives of each of But it wasn’t an intentional attempt to a little early Christmas magic on November also receive a part of the proceeds from Bal- C.O.M.M.A.N.D. once again showed that the evening attended a happy hour for young the Council members, we believe it reason- remove the gayness of the movie. And then Song,” is only successful because of Be- 14 doing a ShipMates Bar Night at the Balti- timore’s other big holiday event, The Twelve they have a lot of balls. The ladies from professionals in Canton and a holiday shop- able to expect that our cities elected officials I think a quote that I said was blown up in yonce, who is a vocal force to be reckoned more Eagle. I received a telephone call at the Days of Christmas Show that was held on F.I.S.T. including International Ms. Leather ping event in Fells Point.” participate in events to commemorate World The Advocate, where I said I didn’t think of with. Beyonce has all the attitude the song bar from an OUTloud reader who had read December 12 at the Club Hippo. 2005 Jessi HolmanAhart did a little two- While Mayor Dixon did not appear at AIDS Day EACH and EVERY year, so long myself as gay. What I meant by that was, requires, and Keys just can’t keep up, mak- in my column that the ShipMates were tak- Every day we are bombarded by bad stepping around the Christmas tree and the the ceremony, she commemorated World as people continue to be infected and die. It of course I’m gay. I’ve always been openly ing the song a clunkier track than it should’ve ing donations of leather-related items for the news about the economy, but the lgbt com- ShipMates performed a lovely little holiday AIDS Day on her website, sheiladixon.com, is all the more reasonable to expect partici- gay. I’ve lived with the same man…every- been. Daddy Christmas silent auction. He wanted munity continues to give. I could barely number called “I Farted on Santa’s Lap Now with a post that day from Caroline Cook. pation in a citywide event in which so many thing about my life has been openly gay. “How It Feels to Fly,” and a stripped to make sure I was in the bar so that he could squeeze in the door of the Hippo when I ar- Christmas is Going to Stink For Me!” “Today, far too many people think that this community and city agencies participated.” (Laughs) I’m perfectly proud of the fact that down solo version of “Empire State of Mind” drop some stuff off. A short time later a very rived for the 11th annual 12 Days of Christ- northeast LeatherSIR 2009 Marco Ro- epidemic cannot impact their lives – but they On December 1 of each of the past 22 I’m gay. I don’t define myself by my sexuality. provide a somber, reflective close to the al- handsome, preppy looking man stopped by mas Show! sato brought down the house when he sang are wrong,” said Mayor Dixon. “I lost my years, World AIDS Day has been celebrated For me, this is not a gay movie, this is not a bum. The former being a gorgeous ballad with a trash bag full of items. Rik Newton-Treadway and Hooker and live as a drill sergeant, and Mr. Maryland brother and sister-in-law to AIDS. Since that internationally to memorialize those lost to straight movie. This is a movie about love. that has Keys hitting all the right notes and I was working the club bar, so I thanked boys Productions pulled off yet another in- Leather 1996 Greg Satorie performed acap- time, I have been committed to educating the disease, to increase awareness and to It’s universal. showing what a capable singer she really is. Lake Falls Adult him and ran and put the bag in my car. Lat- credible event. As always it was full of sur- pella. Mid-Atlantic LeatherSIR 2008 Andy young people about how they can protect recognize the contributions of individuals, Plus I’m a huge fan of a choir, which pleas- Medicine Specialists er that night when I got home and opened prises. At the beginning, the packed house Liu and International Ms. Leather 2009 La- themselves.” government, service providers and organi- GS: What about the criticism that it’s just antly kicks in at the end. The latter track, the bag I discovered a real treasure trove was saddened to learn that popular en- malani put their own spin on White Christ- Scott Peterson, a spokesman for the zations. The World Health Organization es- Colin and Julianne in the poster? a superior version of the JayZ track, finds of restraints, paddles, floggers, etc. It was tertainer Shawnna Alexander was not go- mas. There were also many great drag num- Mayor, told OUTloud that Mayor Dixon takes tablished the date. TF: That’s marketing 101. You take the two Keys stretching her vocal abilities a little bit, Samuel Westrick, M.D. like something from a Frank Capra movie! ing to be able to appear because she was bers. This event really brings they Leather AIDS very personally and that “she has been There are 5,500 AIDS-related deaths biggest stars of the film who give a great but the overall track is deeper, more heart- Thank you Sir; those items brought the high- home under the weather; however, halfway Community and Drag Community together- working on AIDS advocacy and outreach her worldwide each day and an estimated 33.4 performance and you have to feature them felt, giving the album an appropriate end. New location: est price at the silent auction! through the show she arrived! Shawnna may or as Shawwna says this show is all about entire public life.” He added that even in the million people are living with HIV. In Maryland in the poster (laughs). Alicia Keys is getting there. Her albums, Lake Falls I also need to thank my five handsome not have been feeling 100%, but as always “Dungeons and Dragons.” courtroom where the mayor’s political and 30,000 are living with HIV and over 15,000 in my humble opinion, have progressively Village Center leather daddies who played Santa. I thought she gave 100%! You can’t have Christmas If you missed it, there is one more big legal future hung in the balance, she and have died since the onset of the disease. GS: The book “A Single Man” is dedicat- gotten better as they go. My hopes are that 6080 Falls Road it would be fun to have more then one per- without Santa and you can’t have the Twelve holiday show on the schedule. On Saturday, her staff wore red ribbons to commemorate As stated in the open letter, “residents ed to Gore Vidal, gay author of another she’ll keep this up, maybe even venturing Suite 204 son play Santa, so I asked five leather title- Days of Christmas Show without Shawnna! December 19 at 9 p.m. Club XS up in York, World AIDS Day. of Baltimore City make up only 15% of MD’s landmark book in gay lit “The City and out to a broader variety of subject matters Baltimore, MD 21209 holders. They all said the same thing: “What I was also greatly touched and sur- Pa. will present “Christmas on the Rocks.” It Councilwoman Mary Pat Clark re- population, and account for over 50% of the the Pillar.” Is that a book or is Vidal an and musical styles. Maybe she could even time do you want me there?” They all arrived prised when at the start of the show Rik is a benefit for the Silent Witnesses. If you sponded to the letter stating that she and state’s HIV/AIDS cases.” Every 8 hours an- author that you would consider for a fu- cut back on the ballads, or just remove the Serving Baltimore’s LGBT community with early and they all looked hot! Thank you Mr. announced that this year’s production was have ever been to Harrisburg Pride you have her colleagues do care, and she thanked the other Baltimorean is infected with HIV, the ture film project? ones that are less relevant. As a whole, The pride, since 1984. Michigan Leather 2004 Bob Rose, Mid-At- dedicated to the hard work in the Leather met the Silent Witnesses. They are those authors of the letter for reminding the mem- letter states. TF: I love Gore Vidal. I’ve only met Mr. Vidal Element of Freedom is a welcome addition Now accepting most insurances. lantic LeatherSIR 2008 Andy Liu, Mr. Mary- Community on the part of my other half, Mr. wonderful folks with the large rainbow col- bers of the council how to show it. The Baltimore-Towson metropolitan once. I sat next to him at something and he to my music collection, and gives fans more land Leather 2009 Rik Newton-Treadway, Maryland Leather 2007 Steve Buettner who ored umbrellas that block out the protesters “I am asking President Stephanie Rawl- area had the fourth highest AIDS case re- was so mean (laughs). or less what they have come to expect from Call 410.323.2757 for an Mr. Maryland Leather 2008 Kris DeBlase, is currently away at sea and also to yours at Gay Pride. You may be thinking that you ings-Blake and Councilman Bernard Young, port rate of any major metropolitan area, her. With only a few tracks keeping it from appointment. and Mr. D.C. Eagle 2009 John Harris. truly. Thank you Rik! I am rarely speechless, would hate to drive all the way from Balti- chair of the Public Safety and Health Com- 29.6 cases per 100,000 population during GS: Uh-oh. being truly memorable, and too much of an Who says you can’t get everything you but you got me again! more up to York, Pa. Hey, it is not that far. mittee, if they would please schedule a Com- 2007, according to the Maryland Department TF: (Laughs) He was really mean and nasty. emphasis on ballads, it just misses being want for Christmas? We raised lots of money I could write a book on this wonderful Plus, you are going to love the show and mittee meeting and hearing in early 2010 of Health and Mental Hygiene. The disease I thought, “Well, okay, I’m obviously not go- something great. unionmemorial.org/ lakefalls this year, and the ShipMates’ Daddy Christ- show. It had more highlights then my hair! have a great time! with representatives of the 70 organizations continues to disproportionately affect men ing to be friends with Gore Vidal” (laughs). But still, with enough “good” tracks to mas/Johns Hopkins Pediatrics AIDS Unit will Our local leather clubs all did numbers. Enjoy the holiday season! involved with World AIDS Day, to update us (63%) and African Americans (87%). make this worth a listen, TUNE IN.

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