THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS • NOVEMBER 2012

General Conference Addresses

Age Requirements Lowered for Full-Time Missionaries Two New Temples Announced New Youth Curriculum Introduced © WALTER RANE, MAY NOT BE COPIED RANE, MAY © WALTER They Were All Filled, by Walter Rane “And when [ Jesus] had taken the five loaves and the two fishes, he looked up to heaven, and blessed, and brake the loaves, and gave them to his disciples to set before them; and the two fishes divided he among them all. “And they did all eat, and were filled” (Mark 6:41–42). “And they that had eaten were about five thousand men, beside women and children” (Matthew 14:21). Contents November 2012 Volume 36 • Number 11

SATURDAY MORNING SESSION SUNDAY MORNING SESSION GENERAL MEETING 4 Welcome to Conference 72 Where Is the Pavilion? 111 Is Faith in the Atonement of Jesus u President Thomas S. Monson u President Henry B. Eyring Christ Written in Our Hearts? 6 Can Ye Feel So Now? 75 The Atonement Linda K. Burton Elder Quentin L. Cook President Boyd K. Packer 115 Wide Awake to Our Duties 10 I Know It. I Live It. I Love It. 78 First Observe, Then Serve Carole M. Stephens Ann M. Dibb Linda K. Burton 118 The Lord Has Not Forgotten You 12 An Unspeakable Gift from God 81 Learning with Our Hearts Linda S. Reeves Elder Craig C. Christensen Elder Walter F. González 121 The Caregiver 15 “Because I Live, Ye Shall Live Also” 83 The First Great Commandment u President Henry B. Eyring Elder Shayne M. Bowen Elder Jeffrey R. Holland 64 General Authorities of The Church 18 Ask the Missionaries! They Can 86 Consider the Blessings of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Help You! u President Thomas S. Monson Elder Russell M. Nelson 125 Conference Story Index 21 Of Regrets and Resolutions SUNDAY AFTERNOON SESSION 126 News of the Church u President Dieter F. Uchtdorf 90 Being a More Christian Christian 128 General Auxiliary Presidencies Elder Robert D. Hales SATURDAY AFTERNOON SESSION 93 The Joy of Redeeming the Dead 25 The Sustaining of Church Officers Elder Richard G. Scott President Henry B. Eyring 96 One Step Closer to the Savior 26 Becoming Goodly Parents Russell T. Osguthorpe Elder L. Tom Perry 99 By Faith All Things Are Fulfilled 29 Be Anxiously Engaged Elder Marcus B. Nash Elder M. Russell Ballard 101 Becoming a True Disciple 32 “Come unto Me, O Ye House Elder Daniel L. Johnson of Israel” 104 Blessings of the Sacrament Elder Elder Don R. Clarke 34 What Shall a Man Give in Exchange 106 Converted unto the Lord for His Soul? Elder David A. Bednar Elder Robert C. Gay 110 God Be with You Till We 37 Temple Standard Meet Again Elder Scott D. Whiting u President Thomas S. 39 Trial of Your Faith Monson Elder Neil L. Andersen 43 Protect the Children Elder Dallin H. Oaks

PRIESTHOOD SESSION 47 Brethren, We Have Work to Do Elder D. Todd Christofferson 51 Be Valiant in Courage, Strength, and Activity Bishop Gary E. Stevenson 54 Beware Concerning Yourselves Elder Anthony D. Perkins u You will find quick-response 57 The Joy of the Priesthood (QR) codes for the speakers u President Dieter F. Uchtdorf indicated. Using a camera-enabled 60 Help Them Aim High smart phone or tablet with a u President Henry B. Eyring QR-code-reader app, you can scan these codes and link to a short 68 See Others as They May Become video clip (1–2 minutes) from the u President Thomas S. Monson talk. To view the full talk, go to conference.lds.org.

November 2012 1 Hymns, no. 193; “I Need Thee Every Hour,” Summary for the 182nd Semiannual Hymns, no. 98, arr. Beebe, pub. Larice. CONFERENCE TALKS AVAILABLE General Conference To access general conference talks in many languages, visit conference​.lds​.org. Select a conference; then select a language. SATURDAY MORNING, OCTOBER 6, 2012, SUNDAY MORNING, OCTOBER 7, 2012, GENERAL SESSION GENERAL SESSION HOME AND VISITING TEACHING MESSAGES Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. For home and visiting teaching messages, Conducting: President Henry B. Eyring. Conducting: President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. please select an address that best meets the Invocation: Elder Kevin R. Duncan. Invocation: Elder Marlin K. Jensen. needs of those you visit. Benediction: Elder Juan A. Uceda. Benediction: Elder Keith R. Edwards. Music by the ; Mack Music by the Tabernacle Choir; Mack ON THE COVER Wilberg and Ryan Murphy, directors; Clay Wilberg, director; Richard Elliott and Andrew Front: Photograph by Derek Israelsen. Christiansen and Richard Elliott, organists: Unsworth, organists: “Oh Say, What Is Truth?” Back: Photograph by Leslie Nilsson. “Glory to God on High,” Hymns, no. 67; Hymns, no. 272; “The Morning Breaks,” “How Firm a Foundation,” Hymns, no. 85, Hymns, no. 1, arr. Wilberg, unpublished; CONFERENCE PHOTOGRAPHY arr. Wilberg, pub. Oxford; “Lord, I Would “Does the Journey Seem Long?” Hymns, Scenes of general conference in Salt Lake Follow Thee,” Hymns, no. 220; “We Thank no. 127, arr. Wilberg, unpublished (Shane City were taken by Craig Dimond, Welden C. Thee, O God, for a Prophet,” Hymns, no. Warby, soloist); “Called to Serve,” Hymns, Andersen, John Luke, Matthew Reier, Cody 19; “I Will Follow God’s Plan,” Children’s no. 249; “If the Savior Stood Beside Me,” Bell, Leslie Nilsson, Weston Colton, Sarah Songbook, 164, arr. Hofheins, unpublished; CSMP by Sally DeFord, arr. Cardon, unpub- Jenson, Derek Israelsen, Scott Davis, Kristy “Now Let Us Rejoice,” Hymns, no. 3, arr. lished; “If the Way Be Full of Trial, Weary Jordan, Randy Collier, Lloyd Eldredge, and Wilberg, unpublished. Not,” Songs of Zion (1912), no. 158, arr. Cara Call; in Botswana by John Huntsman; Wilberg, unpublished. in Brazil by Francisco Flávio Dias Carneiro; SATURDAY AFTERNOON, OCTOBER 6, 2012, in Estonia by Amanda Robinson; in Greece GENERAL SESSION SUNDAY AFTERNOON, OCTOBER 7, 2012, by David L. Mower; in Italy by Christopher Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. GENERAL SESSION Dean; in Mexico by Carlos Israel Gutierrez Conducting: President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Robles; in Mozambique by Daniel Osborn; Invocation: Elder Gerrit W. Gong. Conducting: President Henry B. Eyring. in Poland by Lois Jensen; in Scotland by Benediction: Elder Jose L. Alonso. Invocation: Elder Octaviano Tenorio. John J. Graham; in Spain by Antoni García Music by a combined youth choir from Benediction: Elder Larry W. Gibbons. Corrius; and in Taiwan by Danny Chan La. Bennion and Taylorsville, Utah; Leah Music by the Tabernacle Choir; Mack Wilberg Tarrant, director; Linda Margetts and Bonnie and Ryan Murphy, directors; Bonnie Goodliffe Goodliffe, organists: “Arise, O Glorious Zion,” and Linda Margetts, organists: “The Day Dawn Hymns, no. 407; “I Am a Child of God,” Is Breaking,” Hymns, no. 52, arr. Murphy, Hymns, no. 301, arr. Perry, unpublished; “Let unpublished; “Did You Think to Pray?” Us All Press On,” Hymns, no. 243; “On This Hymns, no. 140, arr. Wilberg, pub. Jackman; Day of Joy and Gladness,” Hymns, no. 64, “Rejoice, the Lord Is King,” Hymns, no. 66; arr. Huff, unpublished. “God Be with You Till We Meet Again,” Hymns, no. 152, arr. Wilberg, unpublished. SATURDAY EVENING, OCTOBER 6, 2012, PRIESTHOOD SESSION SATURDAY EVENING, SEPTEMBER 29, 2012, Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. GENERAL RELIEF SOCIETY MEETING Conducting: President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Invocation: Elder Jay E. Jensen. Conducting: Linda K. Burton. Benediction: Elder Patrick Kearon. Invocation: Maria Torres. Music by a Melchizedek Priesthood choir Benediction: Melinda Barrow. from Ogden, Utah; Stephen P. Schank and Music by a choir of young single adult Derek Furch, directors; Andrew Unsworth, sisters from the Salt Lake Bonneville, Salt organist: “Praise to the Lord, the Almighty,” Lake Holladay, and Murray Utah YSA Stakes; Hymns, no. 72; “Love One Another,” Emily Wadley, director; Linda Margetts, Hymns, no. 308, arr. Furch, unpublished; organist: “Let Us All Press On,” Hymns, no. “Guide Us, O Thou Great Jehovah,” Hymns, 243; medley of “He Sent His Son,” Children’s no. 83; “Hope of Israel,” Hymns, no. 259, Songbook, 34, and “I’m Trying to Be like arr. Schank, unpublished. Jesus,” Children’s Songbook, 78, arr. Sally DeFord, unpublished; “I Stand All Amazed,”

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November 2012 3 SATURDAY MORNING SESSION | October 6, 2012

This morning I am pleased to announce two additional temples, which in coming months and years By President Thomas S. Monson will be built in the following locations: Tucson, Arizona, and Arequipa, Peru. Details concerning these temples will be provided in the future as necessary permits and approvals are obtained. Welcome to Conference Brothers and sisters, I now turn to another matter—namely, missionary May we listen attentively to the messages . . . , that we may service. For some time the First Presidency feel the Spirit of the Lord and gain the knowledge He would and the Quorum of the Twelve desire for us. Apostles have allowed from certain countries to serve at the age of 18 when they are worthy, able, have graduated from high school, and s far as I can see, every seat is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- have expressed a sincere desire to filled—except for a few right day Saints. serve. This has been a country-specific A there in the back. There is Since we met six months ago, three policy and has allowed thousands room for improvement. This is a cour- new temples have been dedicated, of young men to serve honorable tesy to those who might be just a bit and one temple has been rededicated. missions and also fulfill required tardy, because of the traffic, to find a In May, it was my privilege to dedicate military obligations and educational seat when they come. the beautiful Kansas City Missouri opportunities. This is a great day—conference Temple and to attend the cultural cel- Our experience with these 18-year- day. We have heard a beautiful choir ebration associated with it. I will men- old missionaries has been positive. sing magnificent music. Every time I tion that celebration in greater detail Their presidents report that hear the choir or hear the organ or in my remarks tomorrow morning. they are obedient, faithful, mature, hear the piano, I think of my mother, In June, President Dieter F. and serve just as competently as do who said, “I love all the acclaim that Uchtdorf dedicated the long-awaited the older missionaries who serve in has been given you, all the degrees temple in Manaus, Brazil, and in early the same missions. Their faithfulness, you have obtained, and all the work September, President Henry B. Eyring obedience, and maturity have caused you have done. My only regret is rededicated the newly refurbished us to desire the same option of earlier that you did not stay with the piano.” temple in Buenos Aires, Argentina, a missionary service for all young men, Thanks, Mother. I wish I had. temple which I had the privilege to regardless of the country from which How good it is, my brothers and dedicate nearly 27 years ago. Just two they come. sisters, to welcome you to the 182nd weeks ago, President Boyd K. Packer I am pleased to announce that Semiannual General Conference of dedicated the lovely Brigham City effective immediately all worthy and Temple in the hometown where he able young men who have graduated was born and raised. from high school or its equivalent, As I have indicated previously, no regardless of where they live, will Church-built facility is more important have the option of being recom- than a temple, and we are pleased to mended for missionary service begin- have 139 temples in operation through- ning at the age of 18, instead of age out the world, with 27 more announced 19. I am not suggesting that all young or under construction. We are grateful men will—or should—serve at this for these sacred edifices and the bless- earlier age. Rather, based on individ- ings they bring into our lives. ual circumstances as well as upon a determination by leaders, who are physically able and mentally have a greater joy as they together this option is now available. capable to respond to the call to serve. serve our Father’s children. As we have prayerfully pondered Many young women also serve, but Now, my brothers and sisters, may the age at which young men may they are not under the same mandate we listen attentively to the messages begin their missionary service, we to serve as are the young men. We which will be presented during the have also given consideration to assure the young sisters of the Church, next two days, that we may feel the the age at which a young woman however, that they make a valuable Spirit of the Lord and gain the knowl- might serve. Today I am pleased to contribution as missionaries, and we edge He would desire for us. That this announce that able, worthy young welcome their service. may be our experience I pray in the women who have the desire to serve We continue to need many more name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ may be recommended for missionary senior couples. As your circumstances service beginning at age 19, instead of allow, as you are eligible for retire- age 21. ment, and as your health permits, I Short Video Highlight We affirm that missionary work is a encourage you to make yourselves Scan this QR code to watch or share a short video clip priesthood duty—and we encourage available for full-time missionary (1–2 minutes) of this message. all young men who are worthy and service. Both husband and wife will

November 2012 5 By Elder Quentin L. Cook Local leaders across the world Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles report that when viewed as a whole, Church members, especially our youth, have never been stronger. But they almost always raise two con- cerns: first, the challenge of increased Can Ye Feel So Now? unrighteousness in the world and, second, the apathy and lack of com- Some in the Church believe they can’t answer Alma’s question mitment of some members. They seek counsel about how to help members with a resounding yes. They do not “feel so now.” to follow the Savior and achieve a deep and lasting conversion. This question, “Can ye feel so now?” rings across the centuries. With all that resident Monson, we love, honor, Alma the Younger was so concerned we have received in this dispensation and sustain you! This historically about unrighteousness and lack of —including the Restoration of the Psignificant announcement with commitment that he resigned as chief fulness of the gospel of Jesus Christ, respect to missionary service is inspir- judge, the leader of the people of the outpouring of spiritual gifts, and ing. I can remember the excitement Nephi, and concentrated all his efforts the indisputable blessings of heaven— in 1960 when the age for young men on his prophetic calling.1 Alma’s challenge has never been more serving was reduced from 20 years of In one of the most profound verses important. age to 19. I arrived in the British Mission in all of scripture, Alma proclaims, Soon after Ezra Taft Benson was as a newly called 20-year-old. The first “If ye have experienced a change of called as an Apostle in 1943, President 19-year-old in our mission was Elder heart, and if ye have felt to sing the George Albert Smith 3 counseled, Jeffrey R. Holland, an incredible addi- song of redeeming love, I would ask, “Your mission . . . is to . . . warn tion. He was a few months shy of being can ye feel so now?” 2 the people . . . in as kind a way as 20. Then over the course of a year, many more 19-year-olds arrived. They were obedient and faithful missionaries, and the work progressed. I am confi- dent that an even greater harvest will be achieved now as righteous, committed missionaries fulfill the Savior’s com- mandment to preach His gospel. In my view, those of you in the rising generation are better prepared than any previous generation. Your knowledge of the scriptures is particu- larly impressive. However, the chal- lenges your generation faces as you prepare for service are similar to those faced by all members of the Church. We are all aware the culture in most of the world is not conducive to righteousness or spiritual commitment. Throughout history, Church leaders have warned the people and taught repentance. In the Book of Mormon, 6 possible that repentance will be The word of God inspires commitment the only panacea for the ills of this and acts as a healing balm for hurt feel- world.” 4 When this statement was ings, anger, or disillusionment.9 When made, we were in the midst of the our commitment is diminished for any conflagration of World War II. reason, part of the solution is repen- Today moral deterioration has esca- tance.10 Commitment and repentance lated. One prominent writer recently are closely intertwined. said, “Everyone knows the culture is C. S. Lewis, the striving, pragmatic poisonous, and nobody expects that to Christian writer, poignantly framed change.” 5 The constant portrayal of vio- the issue. He asserted that Christianity lence and immorality in music, enter- tells people to repent and promises How we treat those closest to us is tainment, art, and other media in our them forgiveness; but until people of fundamental importance. Violence, day-to-day culture is unprecedented. know and feel they need forgiveness, abuse, lack of civility, and disrespect This was dramatically described by a Christianity does not speak to them. in the home are not acceptable—not highly respected Baptist theologian He stated, “When you know you are acceptable for adults and not accept- when he stated, “The spiritual immune sick, you will listen to the doctor.” 11 able for the rising generation. My system of an entire civilization has The Prophet Joseph pointed out father was not active in the Church been wounded.” 6 that before your baptism, you could but was a remarkably good exam- It is not surprising that some in be on neutral ground between good ple, especially in his treatment of the Church believe they can’t answer and evil. But “when you joined this my mother. He used to say, “God Alma’s question with a resounding Church you enlisted to serve God. will hold men responsible for every yes. They do not “feel so now.” They When you did that you left the neutral tear they cause their wives to shed.” feel they are in a spiritual drought. ground, and you never can [go] back.” This same concept is emphasized in Others are angry, hurt, or disillu- His counsel was that we must never “The Family: A Proclamation to the sioned. If these descriptions apply to forsake the Master.12 World.” It reads, “[Those] who abuse you,7 it is important to evaluate why Alma emphasizes that through the spouse or offspring . . . will one day you cannot “feel so now.” Atonement of Jesus Christ, “the arms stand accountable before God.” 14 Many who are in a spiritual drought of mercy are extended” to those who Regardless of the culture in which we and lack commitment have not nec- repent.13 He then asks penetrating and are raised, and whether our parents essarily been involved in major sins ultimate questions, such as: Are we did or did not abuse us, we must not or transgressions, but they have made prepared to meet God? Are we keep- physically, emotionally, or verbally unwise choices. Some are casual in ing ourselves blameless? We should all abuse anyone else.15 their observance of sacred covenants. contemplate these questions. Alma’s The need for civility in society has Others spend most of their time giving own experience in failing to follow his never been more important. The foun- first-class devotion to lesser causes. faithful father and then coming to a dation of kindness and civility begins Some allow intense cultural or polit- dramatic understanding of how much in our homes. It is not surprising that ical views to weaken their allegiance he needed forgiveness and what it our public discourse has declined in to the gospel of Jesus Christ. Some meant to sing the song of redeeming equal measure with the breakdown have immersed themselves in Internet love is powerful and compelling. of the family. The family is the foun- materials that magnify, exaggerate, While anything that lessens dation for love and for maintaining and, in some cases, invent shortcom- commitment is of consequence, two spirituality. The family promotes an ings of early Church leaders. Then relevant challenges are both prevalent atmosphere where religious obser- they draw incorrect conclusions that and significant. The first is unkind- vance can flourish. There is indeed can affect testimony. Any who have ness, violence, and domestic abuse. “beauty all around when there’s love made these choices can repent and be The second is sexual immorality and at home.” 16 spiritually renewed. impure thoughts. These often precede Sexual immorality and impure Immersion in the scriptures is and are at the root of the choice to be thoughts violate the standard estab- essential for spiritual nourishment.8 less committed. lished by the Savior.17 We were

November 2012 7 this morning, it is essential that this be faithfully accomplished in homes which are places of refuge where kindness, forgiveness, truth, and righ- teousness prevail. Parents must have the courage to filter or monitor Internet access, television, movies, and music. Parents must have the courage to say no, defend truth, and bear powerful testimony. Your children need to know that you have faith in the Savior, love your Heavenly Father, and sustain the leaders of the Church. Spiritual maturity must flourish in our homes. My hope is that no one will leave this conference without understanding that the moral issues of our day must be addressed in the family. Bishops and priesthood and auxiliary leaders need to support families and make sure that spiritual principles are taught. Home and visit- ing teachers can assist, especially with warned at the beginning of this to impure and even pornographic children of single parents. dispensation that sexual immorality images. He pointed out that for most The young man I mentioned would be perhaps the greatest chal- principles the Church teaches, there earnestly asked if the Apostles knew lenge.18 Such conduct will, without is at least some recognition in society how early in life teaching and protect- repentance, cause a spiritual drought at large that violating these principles ing against pornography and impure and loss of commitment. Movies, TV, can have devastating effects on health thoughts should start. With emphasis, and the Internet often convey degrad- and well-being. He mentioned ciga- he stated that in some areas even ing messages and images. President rette smoking, drug use, and alcohol before youth graduate from Primary Dieter F. Uchtdorf and I were recently consumption by young people. But he is not too early. in an Amazon jungle village and noted that there is no corresponding Youth who have been exposed to observed satellite dishes even on outcry or even a significant warning immoral images at a very early age are some of the small, simply built huts. from society at large about pornogra- terrified that they may have already We rejoiced at the wonderful infor- phy or immorality. disqualified themselves for mission- mation available in this remote . My dear brothers and sisters, this ary service and sacred covenants. As We also recognized there is virtually young man’s analysis is correct. What a result, their faith can be severely no place on earth that cannot be is the answer? For years, prophets and impaired. I want to assure you young impacted by salacious, immoral, and apostles have taught the importance of people, as Alma taught, that through titillating images. This is one reason religious observance in the home.19 repentance you can qualify for all the why pornography has become such Parents, the days are long past blessings of heaven.20 That is what the a plague in our day. when regular, active participation Savior’s Atonement is all about. Please I recently had an insightful con- in Church meetings and programs, talk with your parents or a trusted versation with a 15-year-old Aaronic though essential, can fulfill your sacred adviser, and counsel with your bishop. Priesthood holder. He helped me responsibility to teach your children When it comes to morality, some understand how easy it is in this to live moral, righteous lives and adults believe that adherence to a sin- Internet age for young people to walk uprightly before the Lord. With gle, overriding humanitarian project or almost inadvertently be exposed President Monson’s announcement principle nullifies the need to comply 8 with the Savior’s teachings. They say from Isaiah for his yearbook contribu- Church: Joseph Smith (2007), 324; see also to themselves that sexual miscon- tion. Eric Liddell left a powerful exam- Revelation 3:15–16. 13. Alma 5:33. duct is “a small thing . . . [if I am] a ple of determination and commitment 14. “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” kind and charitable person.” 21 Such to principle. Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 129. thinking is a gross self-deception. As our youth follow President 15. See Richard G. Scott, “Removing Barriers to Happiness,” Ensign, May 1998, 85–87. Some young people inform me that Monson’s counsel by preparing to Some cultural imperatives are contrary in our current culture it is not “cool” serve missions, and as we all live the to the Savior’s teachings and can lead us to try too hard in many areas, includ- principles the Savior taught and pre- astray. When I was in the South Pacific, 25 I met a man who had investigated the ing living strictly in accordance with pare to meet God, we win a much Church for years. He reported he was righteous principles.22 Please do not more important race.26 We will have deeply touched when a Church leader fall into this trap. the Holy Ghost as our guide for spiri- taught at a priesthood conference, “Hands which you have previously used to hit At baptism we promise to take tual direction. For any whose lives are your children are to be used to bless your upon us “the name of [ Jesus] Christ, not in order, remember, it is never too children.” He received the missionary having [the] determination to serve late to make the Savior’s Atonement lessons, was baptized, and has been a 23 27 great leader. him to the end.” Such a covenant the foundation of our faith and lives. 16. “Love at Home,” Hymns, no. 294. requires courageous effort, commit- In the words of Isaiah, “Though 17. See Alma 39. ment, and integrity if we are to con- your sins be as scarlet, they shall be 18. See Ezra Taft Benson, “Cleansing the Inner tinue to sing the song of redeeming as white as snow; though they be red Vessel,” Ensign, May 1986, 4. 28 19. President Gordon B. Hinckley introduced love and stay truly converted. like crimson, they shall be as wool.” “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” A historic example of commit- My sincere prayer is that each of in the general Relief Society meeting in ment to be strong and immovable for us will take any necessary action to September 1995. President Thomas S. Monson presided over changing the first all ages was portrayed by a British feel the Spirit now so we can sing the chapter of Handbook 2: Administering the Olympian who competed in the 1924 song of redeeming love with all our Church (2010), “Families and the Church in Olympics in Paris, France. hearts. I testify of the power of the God’s Plan.” 20. See Alma 13:27–30; 41:11–15. Eric Liddell was the son of a Scottish Savior’s Atonement, in the name of 21. Ross Douthat, Bad Religion: How We missionary to China and a devoutly Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ Became a Nation of Heretics (2012), 238; religious man. He infuriated the British see also Alma 39:5. NOTES 22. Do not allow a culture that is filled with leadership of the Olympics by refusing, 1. See Alma 4:15–19. violence and immorality and is critical of even under enormous pressure, to run 2. Alma 5:26. those who live the principles the Savior in a preliminary 100-meter race held on 3. George Albert Smith was then President taught to disturb your faith. As the poet of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. He Wordsworth gently penned, “Feed [your Sunday. Ultimately he was victorious in would become President of the Church mind] with lofty thoughts, that neither evil the 400-meter race. Liddell’s example of on May 21, 1945. (See Deseret News 2012 tongues, rash judgements, nor the sneers refusing to run on Sunday was particu- Church Almanac [2012], 98.) of selfish men . . . shall e’er prevail . . . 4. George Albert Smith, in Sheri L. Dew, Ezra or disturb [your] cheerful faith” (“Lines larly inspiring. Taft Benson: A Biography (1987), 184. Composed a Few Miles above Tintern Depictions and memorials in his 5. Peggy Noonan, “The Dark Night Rises,” Abbey,” in The Oxford Book of English honor have referred to the inspira- Wall Street Journal, July 28–29, 2012, A17. Verse, ed. Christopher Ricks [1999], 346). 6. Dr. R. Albert Mohler Jr., president, The 23. Moroni 6:3; emphasis added; see also tional words from Isaiah, “But they Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, Mosiah 18:13. that wait upon the Lord shall renew presentation to religious leaders, New York 24. Isaiah 40:31; see Robert L. Backman, “Day their strength; they shall mount up City, Sept. 5, 2012. of Delight,” New Era, June 1993, 48–49. with wings as eagles; they shall run, 7. See 2 Nephi 2:27. 25. See Alma 34:32. 8. See John 5:39; Amos 8:11; see also James E. 26. See 1 Corinthians 9:24–27. and not be weary; and they shall walk, Faust, “A Personal Relationship with the 27. See Helaman 5:12. Oliver Wendell Holmes and not faint.” 24 Savior,” Ensign, Nov. 1976, 58–59. Sr. counseled, “I find the great thing in Liddell’s admirable conduct was 9. See Alma 31:5. this world is not so much where we stand, 10. See Alma 36:23–26. as in what direction we are moving: To very influential in our youngest son’s 11. C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (1952), 31– reach the port of heaven, we must sail decision to not participate in Sunday 32. Lewis was a Fellow in English literature sometimes with the wind and sometimes sports and, more importantly, to at Oxford University and was subsequently against it,—but we must sail, and not drift, chair of Medieval and Renaissance English nor lie at anchor” (The Autocrat of the separate himself from unrighteous and at Cambridge University. Breakfast-Table [1858], 105). worldly conduct. He used the quote 12. See Teachings of Presidents of the 28. Isaiah 1:18.

November 2012 9 By Ann M. Dibb or reluctant to acknowledge, “I’m a Second Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency Mormon.” We should be confident, as was the Apostle Paul when he proclaimed, “For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one I Know It. I Live It. that believeth.” 1 As members, we are followers of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Such conversion and confidence is the I Love It. result of diligent and deliberate effort. It is individual. It is the process of a lifetime. We are followers of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Such conversion The next part of the statement and confidence is the result of diligent and deliberate effort. affirms, “I know it.” In today’s world, It is individual. It is the process of a lifetime. there are a multitude of activities, subjects, and interests vying for every minute of our attention. With so many distractions, do we have the strength, am inspired by the examples being member of the Church could have discipline, and commitment to remain set by the righteous members of the your same conviction and confidence.” focused on what matters most? Are we I Church, including the noble youth. Our purchases completed, we said as well versed in gospel truths as we You courageously look to the Savior. good-bye and parted. are in our studies, careers, hobbies, You are faithful, obedient, and pure. Yet for days and weeks after this sports, or our texts and tweets? Do we The blessings you receive because of random everyday moment, I found actively seek to find answers to our your goodness affect not only your myself seriously reflecting upon this questions by feasting on the scriptures lives but also my life and the lives of encounter. I wondered how this young and the teachings of the prophets? Do countless others in profound but often girl from Colorado came to possess we seek the confirmation of the Spirit? unknown ways. such confidence in her identity as a The importance of gaining knowl- A few years ago, I was in line to member of The Church of Jesus Christ edge is an eternal principle. The Prophet make a purchase at my local grocery of Latter-day Saints. I couldn’t help Joseph Smith “loved knowledge for its store. Ahead of me stood a young but wonder what meaningful phrase righteous power.” 2 He said: “Knowledge woman, about 15 years old. She I would figuratively choose to have is necessary to life and godliness. . . . appeared confident and happy. I printed on my T-shirt reflecting my Hear, all ye brethren, this grand key: noticed her T-shirt and couldn’t resist belief and testimony. In my mind, I knowledge is the power of God unto talking to her. I began, “You’re from considered many possible sayings. salvation.” 3 out of state, aren’t you?” Eventually, I came upon an ideal All truth and knowledge is impor- She was surprised by my ques- statement I would proudly wear: “I’m a tant, but amidst the constant dis- tion and replied, “Yes, I am. I’m from Mormon. I know it. I live it. I love it.” tractions of our daily lives, we must Colorado. How did you know?” Today I’d like to focus my remarks especially pay attention to increasing I explained, “Because of your around this bold, hopeful statement. our gospel knowledge so we can T-shirt.” I made my accurate suppo- The first part of the statement is understand how to apply gospel sition after reading the words on her a self-assured, unapologetic decla- principles to our lives.4 As our gospel shirt, “I’m a Mormon. Are you?” ration: “I’m a Mormon.” Just as the knowledge increases, we will begin I continued, “I must tell you that young woman I met in the grocery to feel confident in our testimonies I’m impressed by your confidence to store was not afraid to let the world and be able to state, “I know it.” stand out and wear such a bold dec- know she was a member of The Next is the statement, “I live it.” The laration. I see a difference in you, and Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day scriptures teach that we must be “doers I wish every young woman and every Saints, I hope we will never be afraid of the word, and not hearers only.” 5 10 We live the gospel and become “doers modesty and standards. I’ve seen with has faded. Sometimes this happens of the word” by exercising faith, being my own eyes what happens to people when times are challenging and we obedient, lovingly serving others, and when they disregard commandments must practice patience. Sometimes it following our Savior’s example. We act and choose the wrong path. I made happens at the peak of our prosper- with integrity and do what we know is up my mind, long ago, to live high ity and abundance. Whenever I have right “at all times and in all things, and moral standards. . . . I feel so blessed this feeling, I know I need to refocus in all places” 6 no matter who may or to have found the truth and to have my efforts on increasing my gospel may not be watching. been baptized. I am so happy.” 7 knowledge and living gospel princi- In our mortal condition, no one The final phrase in my declara- ples more fully in my life. is perfect. Even in our most diligent tive statement is “I love it.” Gaining One of the most effective but efforts to live the gospel, all of us a knowledge of the gospel of Jesus sometimes difficult gospel principles will make mistakes, and all of us Christ and diligently living gospel to apply is humility and submission will sin. What a comforting assur- principles in our everyday lives leads to the will of God. In Christ’s prayer ance it is to know that through our many members of the Church to in the Garden of Gethsemane, He Savior’s redeeming sacrifice, we can exclaim enthusiastically, “I love the expressed to the Father, “Not my will, be forgiven and made clean again. gospel!” but thine, be done.” 8 This should be This process of true repentance and This feeling comes as we feel the our prayer as well. Oftentimes, it is in forgiveness strengthens our testimony Holy Ghost witnessing to us that we these quiet, prayerful moments that and our resolve to obey the Lord’s are children of our Heavenly Father, we feel encircled in Heavenly Father’s commandments and live our life He is mindful of us, and we are on love and those joyful, loving feelings according to gospel standards. the right path. Our love for the gospel are restored. When I think of the phrase, “I live grows as we experience the love of our At a Young Women leadership it,” I am reminded of a young woman Father in Heaven and the peace prom- meeting in Eugene, Oregon, I had the I met named Karigan. She wrote: “I’ve ised by the Savior as we show Him we privilege of meeting and talking with been a member of the Church for a are willing to obey and follow Him. Sister Cammy Wilberger. The story little over a year. . . . For me, when At different times in our lives, Sister Wilberger shared with me was investigating, one sign that this was whether we are new converts to a witness of the power and blessing the true Church came because I felt the Church or lifelong members, we of one young woman’s knowing, I’d finally found a church that taught may find that this vibrant enthusiasm living, and loving the gospel.

November 2012 11 Sister Wilberger’s 19-year-old By Elder Craig C. Christensen daughter, Brooke, was tragically killed Of the Presidency of the Seventy several years ago while on summer break after her first year at university. Sister Wilberger recalled, “It was a difficult and dark time for our family. However, Brooke had given us a great An Unspeakable Gift gift. We didn’t recognize this as she was growing up, but every single year and moment of her brief life, Brooke from God had given us the greatest gift a daugh- ter could give her parents. Brooke was a righteous daughter of God. . . . The Holy Ghost works in perfect unity with Heavenly Father Because of this gift and especially and Jesus Christ, fulfilling many important roles and distinct because of the enabling power of the responsibilities. Atonement, I have had strength, com- fort, and the Savior’s promised peace. I have no question where Brooke is now and look forward to our loving n 1994, President Howard W. Hunter Recognizing that this was likely the reunion.” 9 invited all members of the Church first time our young son had felt the I have a testimony of our Heavenly to “establish the temple . . . as the influence of the Holy Ghost in such I 1 Father’s great plan of eternal happi- great symbol of [our] membership.” a powerful way, I knelt down on the ness. I know that He knows us and Later that same year, construction on floor next to him. While other visitors loves us. I know that He has pre- the Bountiful Utah Temple was com- stepped around us, Ben and I spent pared a prophet, President Thomas S. pleted. Like many, we were anxious several minutes, side by side, learning Monson, to encourage us and help to take our young family to the open about the Holy Ghost together. I was guide us back to Him. I pray that house prior to the dedication. We amazed at the ease with which we each of us will put forth the effort to labored diligently to prepare our chil- were able to discuss his sacred feelings. be able to confidently declare, “I’m a dren to enter the temple, praying ear- As we talked, it became clear that what Mormon. I know it. I live it. I love it.” nestly that they would have a spiritual was most inspiring to Ben was not I say these things humbly in the name experience so that the temple would what he saw but what he felt —not the of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ become a focal point in their lives. physical beauty around us but the still, Note: For further study, I recommend reading As we reverently walked through small voice of the Spirit of God within Alma 32 and Elder Dallin H. Oaks’s talk “The the temple, I found myself admiring the his heart. I shared with him what I had Challenge to Become” (Liahona, Jan. 2001, 40–43; magnificent architecture, the elegant learned from my own experiences, Ensign, Nov. 2000, 32–34). finishes, the light shining through even as his childlike wonder reawak- NOTES towering windows, and many of the ened in me a deep sense of gratitude 1. Romans 1:16. 2. George Q. Cannon, in Teachings of inspiring paintings. Every aspect of this for this unspeakable gift from God— Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith sacred building was truly exquisite. the gift of the Holy Ghost.2 (2007), 261. Stepping into the celestial room, I 3. Teachings: Joseph Smith, 265; see also Martha Jane Knowlton Coray, notebook, suddenly realized that our youngest Who Is the Holy Ghost? Church History Library, Salt Lake City. son, six-year-old Ben, was clinging The Holy Ghost is the third mem- 4. See knowledge value experience number to my leg. He appeared anxious— ber of the Godhead, and, as such, like 1, Young Women Personal Progress (booklet, 2009), 38. perhaps even a little troubled. God the Father and Jesus Christ, He 5. James 1:22. “What’s wrong, Son?” I whispered. knows our thoughts and the intents of 6. Mosiah 18:9. “Daddy,” he replied, “what’s hap- our hearts.3 The Holy Ghost loves us 7. Personal correspondence. 8. Luke 22:42. pening here? I’ve never felt this and wants us to be happy. Since He 9. Personal correspondence. way before.” knows the challenges we will face, He 12 can guide us and teach us all things we must do to return and live with our Heavenly Father once again.4 Unlike Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ, who have glorified bodies of flesh and bones, the Holy Ghost is a personage of spirit who communicates to our spirits through feelings and impressions.5 As a spirit being, He has the unique responsibility of being an agent through which personal revelation is received. In scripture, the Holy Ghost is often referred to as the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of the Lord, the Holy Spirit of Promise, or simply the Spirit.6

What Is the Mission of the Holy Ghost? The Holy Ghost works in perfect unity with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ, fulfilling many important roles and distinct responsibilities. The purpose of the Holy Ghost is to bear witness of God the Father and of His Son, Jesus Christ,7 and to teach us the truth of all things.8 A sure witness from the Holy Ghost carries far more certainty than a witness from any other source. President Joseph Fielding Smith taught that “the Spirit of God speaking to the spirit of man has power to impart truth with greater and quickly passed away. This unex- and pray about gospel truths, the effect and understanding than the pected event could have been devas- Holy Ghost enlightens our minds and truth can be imparted by personal tating, especially for his grandchildren, quickens our understanding.14 He contact even with heavenly beings.” 9 raising questions that are difficult to causes the truth to be indelibly written The Holy Ghost is also known answer. However, as we gathered our in our souls and can cause a mighty as the Comforter.10 During times of children around us, as we prayed and change to occur in our hearts. As we trouble or despair or simply when we read the words of Book of Mormon share these truths with our families, need to know that God is near, the prophets about the purpose of life, with fellow members of the Church, Holy Ghost can lift our spirits, give the Holy Ghost comforted each of us and with friends and neighbors in our us hope, and teach us “the peaceable personally. In ways that are difficult to community, the Holy Ghost becomes things of the kingdom,” 11 helping us describe with words, the answers we their teacher as well, for He carries the feel “the peace of God, which passeth sought came clearly into our hearts. message of the gospel “unto the hearts all understanding.” 12 We felt a peace that day that truly of the children of men.” 15 Several years ago as our extended surpassed our understanding, yet the The Holy Ghost inspires us to family gathered for a holiday dinner, witness from the Holy Ghost was cer- reach out to others in service. For me, my father began playing games with tain, undeniable, and true. the most vivid examples of heeding many of his grandchildren. Suddenly The Holy Ghost is a teacher and the promptings of the Holy Ghost and without warning, he collapsed a revelator.13 As we study, ponder, in the service of others come from

November 2012 13 whisperings of the Spirit, most often one describes a spiritual prompting by saying, ‘I had a feeling . . .’” 18 It is through these sacred feelings from the Holy Ghost that we come to know what God would have us do, for this, as stated in scripture, “is the spirit of revelation.” 19

What Does It Mean to Receive the Gift of the Holy Ghost? the life and ministry of President face when you came in.’ I did so. . . . In teaching our six-year-old son, Thomas S. Monson, who said: “In the “I approached the bedside of Ben, I thought it important to differ- performance of our responsibilities, the other patient, gently tapped her entiate between what he was feeling, I have learned that when we heed shoulder and carefully pulled back the which was the influence of the Holy a silent prompting and act upon it sheet which had covered her face. Lo Ghost, and the gift of the Holy Ghost, without delay, our Heavenly Father and behold! She, too, was a member which he would receive after baptism. will guide our footsteps and bless our of my ward. I had not known she was Before baptism, all honest and sincere lives and the lives of others. I know of a patient in the hospital. Her name seekers of truth can feel the influence no experience more sweet or feeling was Kathleen McKee. When her eyes of the Holy Ghost from time to time. more precious than to heed a prompt- met mine, she exclaimed through her However, the opportunity to receive ing only to discover that the Lord has tears, ‘Oh, Bishop, when you entered the constant companionship of the answered another person’s prayer that door, I felt you had come to see Holy Ghost and the fulness of all the through you.” 16 me and bless me in response to my associated blessings is available only to I share just one tender experience. prayers. I was rejoicing inside to think worthy, baptized members who receive While President Monson was serving that you would know I was here, but the gift of the Holy Ghost by the laying as a bishop, he learned that a mem- when you stopped at the other bed, on of hands through those holding the ber of his ward, Mary Watson, was in my heart sank, and I knew that you priesthood authority of God. the hospital. As he went to visit her, had not come to see me.’ Through the gift of the Holy he learned that she was staying in a “I said to [Sister] McKee: ‘It does not Ghost, we receive added capacity and large room with several other patients. matter that I didn’t know you were spiritual gifts, increased revelation When he approached Sister Watson, here. It is important, however, that our and protection, steady guidance and he noticed that the patient in a neigh- Heavenly Father knew and that you direction, and the promised blessings boring bed quickly covered her head. had prayed silently for a priesthood of sanctification and exaltation in the After President Monson had visited blessing. It was He who prompted me celestial kingdom. All of these bless- with Sister Watson and given her a to intrude on your privacy.’” 17 ings are given as a result of our per- priesthood blessing, he shook her sonal desire to receive them and come hand, said good-bye, and prepared How Does the Holy Ghost Speak to Us? as we align our lives with the will of to leave. Then a simple but amazing We all have experiences with the God and seek His constant direction. thing happened. I quote now from Holy Ghost, even though we may not As I reflect back on my experi- President Monson’s own recollection always recognize them. As inspired ence with Ben in the Bountiful Utah of this experience: thoughts come into our minds, we Temple, I have many sweet feelings “I could not leave her side. It was know them to be true by the spiritual and impressions. One clear recollec- as though an unseen hand [was] feelings that enter into our hearts. tion is that while I was absorbed in resting on my shoulder, and I felt President Boyd K. Packer has taught: the grandeur of what I could see, a within my soul that I was hearing “The Holy Ghost speaks with a voice small child near my side was recog- these words: ‘Go over to the next that you feel more than you hear. . . . nizing the powerful feelings in his bed where the little lady covered her While we speak of ‘listening’ to the heart. With a gentle reminder, I was 14 invited not only to pause and kneel By Elder Shayne M. Bowen down but also to heed the Savior’s call Of the Seventy to become as a little child—humble, meek, and ready to hear the still, small voice of His Spirit. I bear witness of the living reality and divine mission of the Holy Ghost “Because I Live, and that by the power of the Holy Ghost, we may know the truth of all things. I testify that the gift of the Holy Ye Shall Live Also” Ghost is Heavenly Father’s precious and unspeakable gift to all who will come unto His Son, be baptized in Because of Him, even our Savior, Jesus Christ, those feelings His name, and receive the Holy Ghost of sorrow, loneliness, and despair will one day be swallowed through confirmation in His Church. up in a fulness of joy. Of these sacred truths I bear personal witness in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ hile serving as young and they shall all be saved with their NOTES 1. Howard W. Hunter, in Jay M. Todd, missionaries in Chile, my little children. “President Howard W. Hunter: Fourteenth companion and I met a “And their little children need no President of the Church,” Ensign, July 1994, W family of seven in the branch. The repentance, neither baptism. Behold, 5; see also Howard W. Hunter, “The Great Symbol of Our Membership,” Tambuli, mother attended every week with her baptism is unto repentance to the Nov. 1994, 3; Ensign, Oct. 1994, 2. children. We assumed that they were fulfilling the commandments unto the 2. See 121:26. longtime members of the Church. remission of sins. 3. See Alma 12:7; 18:16–18; Doctrine and Covenants 6:15–16. After several weeks we learned that “But little children are alive in Christ, 4. See 2 Nephi 32:5. they had not been baptized. even from the foundation of the world; 5. See Doctrine and Covenants 130:22. We immediately contacted the if not so, God is a partial God, and also 6. See Luke 4:1, 18; 11:13; John 1:33; Ephesians 1:13; Doctrine and Covenants family and asked if we could come to a changeable God, and a respecter to 88:3. their home and teach them. The father persons; for how many little children 7. See 2 Nephi 31:18; 3 Nephi 28:11; Doctrine was not interested in learning about have died without baptism!” 1 and Covenants 20:27. 8. See Moroni 10:5. the gospel but had no objection to our After reading this scripture, Sister 9. Joseph Fielding Smith, Doctrines of teaching his family. Ramirez began sobbing. My com- Salvation, comp. Bruce R. McConkie, 3 Sister Ramirez advanced rapidly panion and I were confused. I asked, vols. (1954–56), 1:47–48. 10. See John 14:26; Doctrine and Covenants through the lessons. She was anxious “Sister Ramirez, have we said or done 35:19. to learn all the doctrine that we taught. something that has offended you?” 11. Doctrine and Covenants 36:2. One evening as we were discussing She said, “Oh, no, Elder, you 12. Philippians 4:7. 13. See Luke 12:12; 1 Corinthians 2:13; infant baptism, we taught that little haven’t done anything wrong. Six Doctrine and Covenants 50:13–22; children are innocent and have no years ago I had a baby boy. He died Teachings of Presidents of the Church: need for baptism. We invited her to before we could have him baptized. Joseph Smith (2007), 132–33. 14. See Doctrine and Covenants 11:13. read in the book of Moroni: Our priest told us that because he had 15. 2 Nephi 33:1. “Behold I say unto you that this not been baptized, he would be in 16. Thomas S. Monson, “Peace, Be Still,” thing shall ye teach—repentance and limbo for all eternity. For six years I Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2002, 55. 17. See Thomas S. Monson, “Christ at baptism unto those who are account- have carried that pain and guilt. After Bethesda’s Pool,” Ensign, Nov. 1996, 18–19. able and capable of committing sin; reading this scripture, I know by the 18. Boyd K. Packer, “Personal Revelation: The yea, teach parents that they must power of the Holy Ghost that it is true. Gift, the Test, and the Promise,” Liahona, June 1997, 10; Ensign, Nov. 1994, 60. repent and be baptized, and humble I have felt a great weight taken off of 19. Doctrine and Covenants 8:3; see also verse 2. themselves as their little children, me, and these are tears of joy.”

November 2012 15 I was reminded of the teachings of by the power of the Holy Ghost, I angel wife and I experienced this the Prophet Joseph Smith, who taught may bring some measure of hope, of trial together, but I am inadequate in this comforting doctrine: “The Lord peace, and of understanding. It is my expressing the feelings of a mother takes many away, even in infancy, that desire to be an instrument in bringing and would not even try to do so. they may escape the envy of man, and about a restoration of your faith in our It is impossible to describe the mix- the sorrows and evils of this present loving Father in Heaven, who knows ture of feelings that I had at that point world; they were too pure, too lovely, all things and allows us to experience in my life. Most of the time I felt as if I to live on earth; therefore, if rightly trials so that we can come to know were in a bad dream and that I would considered, instead of mourning we and love Him and understand that soon wake up and this terrible night- have reason to rejoice as they are without Him we have nothing. mare would be over. For many nights delivered from evil, and we shall soon On February 4 of 1990, our third son I didn’t sleep. I often wandered in have them again.” 2 and sixth child was born. We named the night from one room to the other, After she suffered almost unbearable him Tyson. He was a beautiful little making sure that our other children grief and pain for six years, the true boy, and the family greeted him with were all safe. doctrine, revealed by a loving Father open hearts and open arms. His broth- Feelings of guilt racked my soul. in Heaven through a living prophet, ers and sisters were so proud of him. I felt so guilty. I felt dirty. I was his brought sweet peace to this tormented We all thought he was the most perfect father; I should have done more to woman. Needless to say, Sister Ramirez little boy who had ever been born. protect him. If only I would have done and her children who were eight years When Tyson was eight months old, this or that. Sometimes even today, and older were baptized. he aspirated a piece of chalk that he 22 years later, those feelings begin to I remember writing to my family, had found on the carpet. The chalk creep into my heart, and I need to get expressing the gratitude that I felt in lodged in Tyson’s throat, and he quit rid of them quickly because they can my heart for the knowledge of this breathing. His older brother brought be destructive. and so many other plain and precious Tyson upstairs, frantically calling, “The About a month after Tyson died, I truths of the restored gospel of Jesus baby won’t breathe. The baby won’t had an interview with Elder Dean L. Christ. I never dreamed how this won- breathe.” We began to administer CPR Larsen. He took the time to listen derful true principle would come back and called 911. to me, and I will always be grateful to me in future years and prove to be The paramedics arrived and rushed for his counsel and love. He said, “I my balm of Gilead. Tyson to the hospital. In the waiting don’t think the Lord would want you I would like to speak to those who room we continued in fervent prayer to punish yourself for the death of have lost a child and have asked the as we pled to God for a miracle. After your little boy.” I felt the love of my question, “Why me?” or maybe even what seemed a lifetime, the doctor Heavenly Father through one of his questioned your own faith in a loving came into the room and said, “I am so chosen vessels. Father in Heaven. It is my prayer that sorry. There is nothing more we can However, tormenting thoughts do. Take all the time you need.” She continued to plague me, and I soon then left. began to feel anger. “This isn’t fair! As we entered the room where How could God do this to me? Why Tyson lay, we saw our lifeless little me? What did I do to deserve this?” I bundle of joy. It seemed as though he even felt myself get angry with people had a celestial glow around his little who were just trying to comfort us. body. He was so radiant and pure. I remember friends saying, “I know At that moment it felt as if our how you feel.” I would think to world had come to an end. How myself, “You have no idea how I feel. could we return to the other children Just leave me alone.” I soon found that and somehow try to explain that self-pity can also be very debilitating. Tyson wasn’t coming home? I was ashamed of myself for having I will speak in the singular as I unkind thoughts about dear friends relate the rest of this experience. My who were only trying to help. 16 As I felt the guilt, anger, and self-pity I will never have a fulness of joy until I testify that because of Him, even trying to consume me, I prayed that my we are reunited in the morning of the our Savior, Jesus Christ, those feelings heart could change. Through very per- First Resurrection. of sorrow, loneliness, and despair will sonal sacred experiences, the Lord gave “For man is spirit. The elements are one day be swallowed up in a fulness me a new heart, and even though it eternal, and spirit and element, insep- of joy. I testify that we can depend on was still lonely and painful, my whole arably connected, receive a fulness Him and when He said: outlook changed. I was given to know of joy; “I will not leave you comfortless: I that I had not been robbed but rather “And when separated, man cannot will come to you. that there was a great blessing awaiting receive a fulness of joy.” 3 “Yet a little while, and the world me if I would prove faithful. But in the meantime, as the Savior seeth me no more; but ye see me: My life started to change, and I was taught, we can continue with good because I live, ye shall live also.” 5 able to look forward with hope, rather cheer.4 I testify that, as stated in Preach My than look backward with despair. I I have learned that the bitter, almost Gospel, “as we rely on the Atonement testify that this life is not the end. The unbearable pain can become sweet of Jesus Christ, He can help us endure spirit world is real. The teachings of as you turn to your Father in Heaven our trials, sicknesses, and pain. We can the prophets regarding life after death and plead for His comfort that comes be filled with joy, peace, and consola- are true. This life is but a transitory through His plan; His Son, Jesus tion. All that is unfair about life can be step forward on our journey back to Christ; and His Comforter, who is the made right through the Atonement of our Heavenly Father. Holy Ghost. Jesus Christ.” 6 Tyson has remained a very integral What a glorious blessing this is I testify that on that bright, glori- part of our family. Through the years it in our lives. Wouldn’t it be tragic if ous morning of the First Resurrection, has been wonderful to see the mercy we didn’t feel great sorrow when we your loved ones and mine will come and kindness of a loving Father in lose a child? How grateful I am to my forth from the grave as promised by Heaven, who has allowed our family Father in Heaven that He allows us to the Lord Himself and we will have a to feel in very tangible ways the influ- love deeply and love eternally. How fulness of joy. Because He lives, they ence of Tyson. I testify that the veil grateful I am for eternal families. How and we shall live also. In the name of is thin. The same feelings of loyalty, grateful I am that He has revealed Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ love, and family unity don’t end as once again through His living proph- our loved ones pass to the other side; ets the glorious plan of redemption. NOTES instead, those feelings are intensified. Remember as you attended the 1. Moroni 8:10–12. 2. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Sometimes people will ask, “How funeral of your loved one the feelings Joseph Smith (2007), 176. long did it take you to get over it?” in your heart as you drove away from 3. Doctrine and Covenants 93:33–34. The truth is, you will never completely the cemetery and looked back to see 4. See John 16:33. 5. John 14:18–19. get over it until you are together once that solitary casket—wondering if your 6. Preach My Gospel: A Guide to Missionary again with your departed loved ones. heart would break. Service (2004), 52.

November 2012 17 By Elder Russell M. Nelson the Lord.2 And some of our missionar- Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles ies serve in their more mature years of life. I know their families are blessed. In our own family, eight are currently serving as full-time missionaries—three daughters, their husbands, one grand- Ask the Missionaries! daughter, and one grandson. Some of you may wonder about the name Mormon. It is a nickname They Can Help You! for us. It is not our real name, though we are widely known as . The term is derived from a book of All missionaries, younger and older, serve with the sole hope sacred scripture known as the Book of making life better for other people. of Mormon. The true name of the Church is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It is the reestablished original y beloved brothers, sisters, older, serve with the sole hope of Church of Jesus Christ. When He and friends, we extend our making life better for other people. walked upon the earth, He orga- Mlove and greetings to each The decision to serve a mission nized His Church. He called Apostles, of you. We are thrilled with President will shape the spiritual destiny of the Seventies, and other leaders to whom Thomas S. Monson’s announcement missionary, his or her spouse, and He gave priesthood authority to act this morning, which adjusts the min- their posterity for generations to come. in His name.3 After Christ and His imum age for missionary service to A desire to serve is a natural outcome Apostles passed away, men changed 18 for young men and 19 for young of one’s conversion, worthiness, and the ordinances and doctrine. The orig- women. Through this option, more of preparation. inal Church and the priesthood were our youth may enjoy the blessings of In this great worldwide audience, lost. After the Dark Ages, and under a mission. many of you are not affiliated with The the direction of Heavenly Father, Jesus Two years ago and powerfully reaf- Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Christ brought back His Church. Now firmed again this morning, President Saints and know very little about us it lives again, restored and functioning Monson declared “that every worthy, and our missionaries. You are here or under His divine direction.4 able young man should prepare to tuned in because you want to know We follow the Lord Jesus Christ and serve a mission. Missionary service more about the Mormons and what our teach of Him. We know that after His is a priesthood duty—an obligation missionaries teach. As you learn more glorious triumph over death, the resur- the Lord expects of us who have about us, you will find that we share rected Lord appeared to His disciples been given so very much.” 1 Again many of the same values. We encour- on numerous occasions. He ate with he explained that for young sisters, a age you to keep all that is good and them. He walked with them. Before mission is a welcome option but not true and then see if we can add more. His final Ascension, He commissioned a responsibility. And again he invited In this world filled with challenges, them to “go . . . and teach all nations, many more mature couples to serve. we do need help from time to time. baptizing them in the name of the Preparation for a mission is Religion, eternal truth, and our mission- Father, and of the Son, and of the important. A mission is a voluntary aries are vital parts of that help. Holy Ghost.” 5 The Apostles heeded act of service to God and humankind. Our young missionaries set aside that instruction. They also called upon Missionaries support that privilege their education, occupation, dating, and others to help them fulfill the Lord’s with their personal savings. Parents, whatever else young adults would typ- command. families, friends, and donors to the ically be doing at this stage of life. For Today, under the direction of General Missionary Fund may also 18 to 24 months they put it all on hold modern apostles and prophets, that assist. All missionaries, younger and because of their deep desire to serve same charge has been extended to 18 Milan, Italy missionaries of The Church of Jesus Restoration of Christ’s ancient Church but Pricilla explained that she had Christ of Latter-day Saints. These through the Lord’s first latter-day given up on God. missionaries serve in more than 150 prophet, Joseph Smith. Jerry did not know what to do. nations. As representatives of the Lord You may have previously encoun- Later, while watering trees in his yard, Jesus Christ, they strive to fulfill that tered, or even ignored, our missionar- this man of faith prayed to God for divine command—renewed in our ies. My hope is that you will not fear guidance. As he prayed, he heard a day by the Lord Himself—to take the them but learn from them. They can voice in his mind saying, “Stop the fulness of the gospel abroad and bless be a heaven-sent resource to you. boys on the bikes.” Jerry, a little bewil- the lives of people everywhere.6 That happened to Jerry, a Protestant dered, wondered what this meant. Missionaries in their late teens or gentleman in his mid-60s who lives As he reflected on this impression, early 20s are young in ways of the in Mesa, Arizona. Jerry’s father was he gazed up the street and saw two world. But they are blessed with a Baptist minister; his mother, a young men in white shirts and ties rid- gifts—such as the power of the Holy Methodist minister. One day Jerry’s ing bicycles toward his home. Stunned Spirit, the love of God, and testimo- close friend Pricilla shared with him by this “coincidence,” he watched nies of the truth—that make them the pain she felt from the death of her them ride by. Then, realizing that powerful ambassadors of the Lord. child during childbirth and a bitter the situation required him to act, he They share the good news of the divorce that occurred shortly there- shouted out, “Hey, you, please stop! I gospel that will bring true joy and after. Struggling as a single mother, need to talk to you!” everlasting happiness to all who heed Pricilla has four children—three With a puzzled but excited look, their message. And in many instances daughters and a son. As she opened the young men stopped. As they they do so in a country and a lan- her heart to Jerry, she confessed that approached, Jerry noticed that they guage foreign to them. she was thinking of taking her own wore name tags identifying them as Missionaries strive to follow Jesus life. With all the strength and love missionaries in The Church of Jesus Christ in both word and deed. They Jerry could muster, he tried to help Christ of Latter-day Saints. Jerry looked preach of Jesus Christ and of His her understand that her life had value. at them and said, “This may sound a Atonement.7 They teach of the literal He invited her to attend his church, little weird, but I was praying and was

November 2012 19 told to ‘stop the boys on the bikes.’ their names? Would you like to know Some of you may feel that life is I looked up the street, and here you more about them? Ask the mission- busy and frenetic, yet down deep in are. Can you help me?” aries! They can help you! 9 They have your heart you feel a gnawing emp- The missionaries smiled, and one ready access to the vast family history tiness, without direction or purpose. said, “Yes, I am sure we can.” records of The Church of Jesus Christ Ask the missionaries! They can help Jerry explained the worrisome of Latter-day Saints. you! They can help you to learn more plight of Pricilla. Soon the mission- Some of you are members but not about the true purpose of life—why aries were meeting with Pricilla, her presently participating. You love the you are here on earth and where you children, and Jerry. They discussed Lord and often think of returning to His are going after death. You can learn the purpose of life and God’s eternal fold. But you don’t know how to start. I how the restored gospel of Jesus plan for them. Jerry, Pricilla, and her suggest that you ask the missionaries! 10 Christ will bless your life beyond any- children grew in faith through sincere They can help you! They can also help thing you can presently even imagine. prayer, their study of the Book of by teaching your loved ones. We and If you have concerns about your fam- Mormon, and the loving fellowship the missionaries love you and desire ily, ask the missionaries! They can help with members of the Church. Jerry’s to bring joy and the light of the gospel you! Strengthening marriages and fami- already strong faith in Jesus Christ back into your lives. lies is of utmost importance to Latter-day grew even stronger. Pricilla’s doubts Some of you may want to know Saints. Families can be together forever. and thoughts of suicide turned to how to conquer an addiction or live Ask the missionaries to teach you how hope and happiness. They were bap- longer and enjoy better health. Ask this is possible for your family. tized and became members of Christ’s the missionaries! They can help you! Missionaries can also help you with restored Church.8 Independent studies have shown that, your desire for greater knowledge. Yes, missionaries can help in many as a group, members of The Church of The human spirit yearns for enlight- ways. For example, some of you Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are a enment. Whether truth comes from a might want to know more about your healthy lot. Their death rates are among scientific laboratory or by revelation ancestors. You may know the names the lowest and their longevity greater from God, we seek it! The glory of of your parents and your four grand- than any yet reported in any well- God indeed is intelligence.12 parents, but what about your eight defined group studied over a lengthy Increase in learning includes great-grandparents? Do you know period of time in the United States.11 spiritual as well as temporal knowl- edge. We stress the importance of understanding sacred scriptures. An independent study recently found that Latter-day Saints were the most knowl- edgeable about Christianity and the Bible.13 If you want to understand the Bible better, to understand the Book of Mormon better, and gain a broader comprehension of the brotherhood of man and the fatherhood of God, ask the missionaries! They can help you! Many of you have a deep desire to help people in need. Because we follow Jesus Christ, Latter-day Saints are also compelled by that insatiable urge.14 Anyone may join with us to help the needy and provide relief to victims of disaster anywhere in the world. If you want to participate, ask the missionaries! They can help you! 20 And if you want to know more By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf about life after death, about heaven, Second Counselor in the First Presidency about God’s plan for you; if you want to know more about the Lord Jesus Christ, His Atonement, and the Restoration of His Church as it was originally established, ask the mission- Of Regrets aries! They can help you! I know that God lives. Jesus is the Christ. His Church has been restored. and Resolutions Fervently I pray that God may bless each of you and each of our precious missionaries. In the name of Jesus The more we devote ourselves to the pursuit of holiness and Christ, amen. ◼ happiness, the less likely we will be on a path to regrets.

NOTES 1. Thomas S. Monson, “As We Meet Together Again,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 5–6. 2. See Doctrine and Covenants 4:3. Of Regrets so quickly. And we begin to think 3. See Matthew 10:1; Luke 6:13; 10:1; President Monson, we love you. about the choices we made and the Ephesians 4:11–12. 4. See Doctrine and Covenants 1:30. Thank you for the inspired and his- things we have done. In the process, 5. Matthew 28:19. toric announcement on the building of we remember many sweet moments 6. See Doctrine and Covenants 68:8; 84:62; new temples and missionary service. that give warmth to our souls and joy 112:28. 7. See 1 Corinthians 2:2; 2 Nephi 25:26. Because of them, I’m sure great bless­ to our hearts. But we also remember 8. Personal communication from W. Tracy ings will come to us and to many the regrets—the things we wish we Watson, former president of the Arizona future generations. could go back and change. Mesa Mission. 9. Where I have phrased the invitation to My dear brothers and sisters, my dear A nurse who cares for the termi- “ask the missionaries,” you could also ask a friends! We are all mortal. I hope this nally ill says that she has often asked a friend who is a member of the Church for does not come as a surprise to anyone. simple question of her patients as they assistance. 10. Actively participating relatives, friends, and None of us will be on earth very prepared to depart this life. Church leaders would also be pleased to long. We have a number of precious “Do you have any regrets?” she assist. years which, in the eternal perspective, would ask.2 11. See James E. Enstrom and Lester Breslow, “Lifestyle and Reduced Mortality among barely amount to the blink of an eye. Being so close to that final day of Active California Mormons, 1980–2004,” And then we depart. Our spirits mortality often gives clarity to thought Preventive Medicine, vol. 46 (2008), 135. “are taken home to that God who and provides insight and perspective. 12. See Doctrine and Covenants 93:36. 1 13. See U.S. Religious Knowledge Survey gave [us] life.” We lay our bodies So when these people were asked (Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life, down and leave behind the things about their regrets, they opened their Sept. 28, 2010), 7. of this world as we move to the next hearts. They reflected about what they 14. See Ram Cnaan, Van Evans, and Daniel W. Curtis, Called to Serve: The Prosocial realm of our existence. would change if only they could turn Behavior of Active Latter-day Saints When we are young, it seems that back the clock. (University of Pennsylvania School we will live forever. We think there is a As I considered what they had said, of Social Policy and Practice, 2012); “Mormon Volunteerism Highlighted limitless supply of sunrises waiting just it struck me how the foundational in New Study” (Mar. 16, 2012), http:// beyond the horizon, and the future principles of the gospel of Jesus Christ www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/ looks to us like an unbroken road can affect our life’s direction for good, mormon-volunteerism-report; Mormons in America: Certain in Their Beliefs, stretching endlessly before us. if only we will apply them. Uncertain of Their Place in Society (Pew However, the older we get, the more There is nothing mysterious about Forum on Religion and Public Life, Jan. 12, we tend to look back and marvel at the principles of the gospel. We have 2012), 43; Robert D. Putnam and David E. Campbell, American Grace: How Religion how short that road really is. We won- studied them in the scriptures, we have Divides and Unites Us (2010), 444–54. der how the years could have passed discussed them in Sunday School, and

November 2012 21 we have heard them from the pulpit I can’t see it. love by spending meaningful time many times. These divine principles Instead I see the compassionate and with them, doing things together, and and values are straightforward and caring Son of God purposefully living cultivating treasured memories. clear; they are beautiful, profound, and each day. When He interacted with powerful; and they can definitely help those around Him, they felt important I Wish I Had Lived Up to My Potential us to avoid future regrets. and loved. He knew the infinite value Another regret people expressed of the people He met. He blessed was that they failed to become the I Wish I Had Spent More Time them, ministered to them. He lifted person they felt they could and should with the People I Love them up, healed them. He gave them have been. When they looked back Perhaps the most universal regret the precious gift of His time. on their lives, they realized that they dying patients expressed was that they In our day it is easy to merely pre- never lived up to their potential, that wished they had spent more time with tend to spend time with others. With too many songs remained unsung. the people they love. the click of a mouse, we can “connect” I am not speaking here of climbing Men in particular sang this uni- with thousands of “friends” without the ladder of success in our various versal lament: they “deeply regretted ever having to face a single one of professions. That ladder, no matter spending so much of their lives on the them. Technology can be a wonderful how lofty it may appear on this earth, [daily] treadmill of . . . work.” 3 Many thing, and it is very useful when we barely amounts to a single step in the had lost out on choice memories that cannot be near our loved ones. My great eternal journey awaiting us. come from spending time with family wife and I live far away from precious Rather, I am speaking of becoming and friends. They missed developing family members; we know how that the person God, our Heavenly Father, a deep connection with those who is. However, I believe that we are not intended us to be. meant the most to them. headed in the right direction, indi- We arrive in this world, as the poet Isn’t it true that we often get so busy? vidually and as a society, when we said, “trailing clouds of glory” 4 from And, sad to say, we even wear our busy- connect with family or friends mostly the premortal sphere. ness as a badge of honor, as though by reposting humorous pictures, Our Heavenly Father sees our real being busy, by itself, was an accomplish- forwarding trivial things, or linking our potential. He knows things about us ment or sign of a superior life. loved ones to sites on the Internet. I that we do not know ourselves. He Is it? suppose there is a place for this kind prompts us during our lifetime to I think of our Lord and Exemplar, of activity, but how much time are we fulfill the measure of our creation, Jesus Christ, and His short life among willing to spend on it? If we fail to give to live a good life, and to return to the people of Galilee and Jerusalem. our best personal self and undivided His presence. I have tried to imagine Him bustling time to those who are truly important Why, then, do we devote so much between meetings or multitasking to to us, one day we will regret it. of our time and energy to things that get a list of urgent things accomplished. Let us resolve to cherish those we are so fleeting, so inconsequential, 22 and so superficial? Do we refuse to Let us listen to and obey the prompt- My wife, Harriet, and I love riding see the folly in the pursuit of the trivial ings of the Holy Spirit. As we do so, our bicycles. It is wonderful to get and transient? Heavenly Father will reveal to us things out and enjoy the beauties of nature. Would it not be wiser for us to “lay we never knew about ourselves. He We have certain routes we like to up for [ourselves] treasures in heaven, will illuminate the path ahead and bike, but we don’t pay too much where neither moth nor rust doth cor- open our eyes to see our unknown and attention to how far we go or how rupt, and where thieves do not break perhaps unimagined talents. fast we travel in comparison with through nor steal”? 5 The more we devote ourselves to other riders. How do we do this? By following the pursuit of holiness and happiness, However, occasionally I think we the example of the Savior, by incor- the less likely we will be on a path should be a bit more competitive. I porating His teachings in our daily to regrets. The more we rely on the even think we could get a better time lives, by truly loving God and our Savior’s grace, the more we will feel or ride at a higher speed if only we fellowman. that we are on the track our Father in pushed ourselves a little more. And We certainly cannot do this with Heaven has intended for us. then sometimes I even make the big a dragging-our-feet, staring-at- mistake of mentioning this idea to my our-watch, complaining-as-we-go I Wish I Had Let Myself Be Happier wonderful wife. approach to discipleship. Another regret of those who knew Her typical reaction to my sug- When it comes to living the gospel, they were dying may be somewhat gestions of this nature is always very we should not be like the boy who surprising. They wished they had let kind, very clear, and very direct. She dipped his toe in the water and then themselves be happier. smiles and says, “Dieter, it’s not a race; claimed he went swimming. As sons So often we get caught up in the it’s a journey. Enjoy the moment.” and daughters of our Heavenly Father, illusion that there is something just How right she is! we are capable of so much more. For beyond our reach that would bring us Sometimes in life we become so that, good intentions are not enough. happiness: a better family situation, a focused on the finish line that we We must do. Even more important, we better financial situation, or the end of fail to find joy in the journey. I don’t must become what Heavenly Father a challenging trial. go cycling with my wife because I’m wants us to be. The older we get, the more we excited about finishing. I go because Declaring our testimony of the gos- look back and realize that external the experience of being with her is pel is good, but being a living example circumstances don’t really matter or sweet and enjoyable. of the restored gospel is better. Wishing determine our happiness. Doesn’t it seem foolish to spoil to be more faithful to our covenants is We do matter.We determine our sweet and joyful experiences because good; actually being faithful to sacred happiness. we are constantly anticipating the covenants—including living a virtuous You and I are ultimately in charge moment when they will end? life, paying our tithes and offerings, of our own happiness. Do we listen to beautiful music keeping the , and waiting for the final note to fade serving those in need—is much better. before we allow ourselves to truly Announcing that we will dedicate enjoy it? No. We listen and connect more time for family prayer, scripture to the variations of melody, rhythm, study, and wholesome family activities and harmony throughout the is good; but actually doing all these composition. things steadily will bring heavenly Do we say our prayers with only blessings to our lives. the “amen” or the end in mind? Of Discipleship is the pursuit of holi- course not. We pray to be close to our ness and happiness. It is the path to Heavenly Father, to receive His Spirit our best and happiest self. and feel His love. Let us resolve to follow the Savior We shouldn’t wait to be happy until and work with diligence to become the we reach some future point, only to person we were designed to become. discover that happiness was already

November 2012 23 Yes, this life is passing swiftly; our days seem to fade quickly; and death appears frightening at times. Nevertheless, our spirit will continue to live and will one day be united with our resurrected body to receive immortal glory. I bear solemn witness that because of the merciful Christ, we will all live again and forever. Because of our Savior and Redeemer, one day we will truly understand and rejoice in available—all the time! Life is not Of Resolutions the meaning of the words “the sting of meant to be appreciated only in retro- One day we will take that unavoid- death is swallowed up in Christ.” 14 spect. “This is the day which the Lord able step and cross from this mortal The path toward fulfilling our hath made . . . ,” the Psalmist wrote. sphere into the next estate. One day divine destiny as sons and daughters “Rejoice and be glad in it.” 6 we will look back at our lives and of God is an eternal one. My dear Brothers and sisters, no matter our wonder if we could have been better, brothers and sisters, dear friends, we circumstances, no matter our chal- made better decisions, or used our must begin to walk that eternal path lenges or trials, there is something time more wisely. today; we cannot take for granted one in each day to embrace and cherish. To avoid some of the deepest single day. I pray that we will not wait There is something in each day that regrets of life, it would be wise until we are ready to die before we can bring gratitude and joy if only we to make some resolutions today. truly learn to live. In the sacred name will see and appreciate it. Therefore, let us: of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ Perhaps we should be looking less with our eyes and more with our • Resolve to spend more time with NOTES 1. Alma 40:11. hearts. I love the quote: “One sees those we love. 2. See Susie Steiner, “Top Five Regrets of clearly only with the heart. Anything • Resolve to strive more earnestly the Dying,” Guardian, Feb. 1, 2012, essential is invisible to the eyes.” 7 to become the person God wants www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2012/ feb/01/top-five-regrets-of-the-dying. We are commanded “to give thanks us to be. 3. Bronnie Ware, in Steiner, “Top Five Regrets in all things.” 8 So isn’t it better to see • Resolve to find happiness, regard- of the Dying.” with our eyes and hearts even the less of our circumstances. 4. “Ode: Intimations of Immortality from Recollections of Early Childhood,” The small things we can be thankful for, Complete Poetical Works of William rather than magnifying the negative in It is my testimony that many of Wordsworth (1924), 359. our current condition? the deepest regrets of tomorrow can 5. Matthew 6:20. 6. Psalm 118:24. The Lord has promised, “He who be prevented by following the Savior 7. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince, receiveth all things with thankfulness today. If we have sinned or made trans. Richard Howard (2000), 63. shall be made glorious; and the things mistakes—if we have made choices that 8. Mosiah 26:39; see also Doctrine and Covenants 59:7. of this earth shall be added unto him, we now regret—there is the precious 9. Doctrine and Covenants 78:19. even an hundred fold.” 9 gift of Christ’s Atonement, through 10. Alma 26:35. Brothers and sisters, with the which we can be forgiven. We cannot 11. See Revelation 7:17. 12. See Matthew 11:28–30. bountiful blessings of our Heavenly go back in time and change the past, 13. See Psalm 24:4. Father, His generous plan of salvation, but we can repent. The Savior can wipe 14. Mosiah 16:8; see also 1 Corinthians 15:54. the supernal truths of the restored away our tears of regret 11 and remove gospel, and the many beauties of this the burden of our sins.12 His Atonement mortal journey, “have we not reason to allows us to leave the past behind and Short Video Highlight rejoice?” 10 move forward with clean hands, a pure Scan this QR code to watch 13 or share a short video clip Let us resolve to be happy, regard- heart, and a determination to do better (1–2 minutes) of this message. less of our circumstances. and especially to become better. 24 SATURDAY AFTERNOON SESSION | October 6, 2012

All in favor, please manifest it. It is proposed that we sustain Elder Presented by President Henry B. Eyring Steven E. Snow as Church Historian First Counselor in the First Presidency and Recorder. All in favor, please manifest it. Any opposed. It is proposed that we release Elders Keith K. Hilbig, Jay E. Jensen, The Sustaining Marlin K. Jensen, and Octaviano Tenorio as members of the First Quorum of the Seventy and designate of Church Officers them as emeritus General Authorities. It is proposed that we release Elders Keith R. Edwards and Larry W. Gibbons as members of the Second t is proposed that we sustain Thomas Presidency of the Quorums of the Quorum of the Seventy. Spencer Monson as prophet, seer, Seventy. Those who wish to join in express- Iand revelator and President of The Those who can join with us in a ing gratitude to these Brethren Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day vote of appreciation, please manifest it. for their excellent service, please Saints; Henry Bennion Eyring as First It is proposed that we sustain Elder manifest it. Counselor in the First Presidency; and Craig C. Christensen as a member of It is proposed that we sustain Dieter Friedrich Uchtdorf as Second the Presidency of the Quorums of the other General Authorities, Area Counselor in the First Presidency. the Seventy. Seventies, and general auxiliary presi- Those in favor may manifest it. All in favor, please manifest it. dencies as presently constituted. Those opposed, if any, may Those opposed, if any. Those in favor, please manifest it. manifest it. It is proposed that we release with Any opposed may manifest it. It is proposed that we sustain Boyd a vote of appreciation for his excel- Thank you, brothers and sisters, for Kenneth Packer as President of the lent service Elder Marlin K. Jensen as your sustaining vote, your faith, devo- Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and Church Historian and Recorder. tion, and prayers. ◼ the following as members of that quorum: Boyd K. Packer, L. Tom Perry, Russell M. Nelson, Dallin H. Oaks, M. Russell Ballard, Richard G. Scott, Robert D. Hales, Jeffrey R. Holland, David A. Bednar, Quentin L. Cook, D. Todd Christofferson, and Neil L. Andersen. Those in favor, please manifest it. Any opposed may so indicate. It is proposed that we sustain the counselors in the First Presidency and the Twelve Apostles as prophets, seers, and revelators. All in favor, please manifest it. Contrary, if there be any, by the same sign. Elder Jay E. Jensen has been released as a member of the

November 2012 25 By Elder L. Tom Perry retain of goodly parents who placed Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles their marriage and the proper rearing of children as their highest priority. My Mother’s Day 1945 letter began: “Dear Mom, “For the last four years I have had Becoming the great misfortune of spending Mother’s Day away from you. Each year I have wanted to be with you Goodly Parents and tell you just how I love you and how much I think of you, but since it is once again impossible, I will have There are many ways that goodly parents can access to do the next best thing and send my the help and support they need to teach the gospel thoughts through the mail. of Jesus Christ to their children. “This year more than any of the others I can see just what having a wonderful mother has done for me. First of all, I miss the little things you reached a special milestone this endure. Already some of them are in used to do for me. Whenever I got out summer—I observed my 90th birth- jeopardy of being lost. At the top of of bed in the morning, I never had to I day. As you reach certain milestones the list of these values and, therefore, worry about whether I’d find a clean in your life, it is helpful and instructive prime targets of the adversary, are the shirt and clean socks. All that I had to to reflect on the events and experi- sanctity of marriage and the central do is open a drawer, and I would find ences of the past. You young people importance of families. They provide them. At mealtime I always knew that listening to or reading this talk may an anchor and the safe harbor of a I would find something I liked, pre- not be too impressed with 90 years home where each child of a loving pared the best way possible. At night of life, but at the time I was born, Heavenly Father can be influenced for I always knew that I would find clean living this long was considered a great good and acquire eternal values. sheets on my bed and just the right achievement. Every day I am grateful My own family, anticipating the amount of covers to keep me very to Heavenly Father for blessing me celebration of this 90-year milestone comfortable. Living at home was really with a long life. in my life, started helping me remem- a great pleasure.” So much has changed during my ber and appreciate the experiences of When I read these first two para- lifetime. I have seen the development my long life. For example, my niece graphs of the letter, I was shocked of the industrial age and the informa- gathered and shared with me several by how sentimental they sounded. tion age. Mass-produced automobiles letters that I had written to my parents Perhaps living in a tent and sleeping and telephones and airplanes were nearly 70 years ago from my marine under a mosquito net on a camp cot great innovations of my early days. outpost on the island of Saipan in the had my thoughts returning to my very Today the way we find, share, and use Pacific during World War II. special home. information changes almost daily. At One of these letters particularly My letter to my mother continued: my age I marvel at the rapidly chang- caught my eye. It was a letter I wrote “But deeper is the feeling for you ing world in which we all live. So to my mother for her to open and because of the example you set for many of today’s breakthroughs excite read on Mother’s Day 1945. I would me. Life was made so enjoyable for the imagination with their potential to like to share some excerpts with you us as a family that we wanted to fol- better our lives. in the hope you will see why I will low in your footsteps, to continue on Through all the fast-paced changes ever be grateful to my loving father through experiencing the same joy occurring around us, we earnestly and mother for the lessons I learned that had been ours in our younger pray and work to ensure that the from their teaching in the home. My days. You always found time to take values of the gospel of Jesus Christ parents are the defining example I the family into the canyon, and we 26 could count on you to do anything Culture is defined as the way of for all eternity. Children born to such from climbing mountains to playing life of a people. There is a unique marriages have a security that is found ball with us. You and Dad were never gospel culture, a set of values and nowhere else. going on vacations alone. The family expectations and practices common Lessons taught in the home by was always with you. Now that I am to all members of The Church of Jesus goodly parents are becoming increas- away from home, I always like to talk Christ of Latter-day Saints. This gospel ingly important in today’s world, about my home life because it was so culture, or way of life, comes from the where the influence of the adversary enjoyable. I couldn’t turn from your plan of salvation, the commandments is so widespread. As we know, he is teachings now because my actions of God, and the teachings of living attempting to erode and destroy the would reflect on your character. prophets. It is given expression in the very foundation of our society—the Life is a great challenge to me to be way we raise our families and live our family. In clever and carefully cam- worthy to be called the son of Nora individual lives. ouflaged ways, he is attacking com- Sonne Perry. I am very proud of this The first instruction to Adam for mitment to family life throughout the title, and I hope that I will always be his mortal responsibility is found in world and undermining the culture worthy of it. Genesis 2:24: “Therefore shall a man and covenants of faithful Latter-day “I hope that next year finds me leave his father and his mother, and Saints. Parents must resolve that with you to show you the good time shall cleave unto his wife: and they teaching in the home is a most sacred I have been planning to show you on shall be one flesh.” and important responsibility. While Mother’s Day for the past four years. The joining together of a man and other institutions such as church and “May the Lord bless you for all the a woman to be legally and lawfully school can assist parents to “train up a wonderful things you have done for wed not only is preparation for future child in the way he [or she] should go” this troubled world. generations to inherit the earth, but it (Proverbs 22:6), this responsibility ulti- “All my love, Tom” 1 also brings the greatest joy and satis- mately rests on the parents. According As I reread my letter, I also faction that can be found in this mor- to the great plan of happiness, it is reflected on the culture of the family, tal experience. This is especially true goodly parents who are entrusted with the ward, the stake, and the commu- when the powers of the priesthood the care and development of Heavenly nity in which I was raised. proclaim a marriage to be for time and Father’s children.

November 2012 27 In our remarkable parental stew- righteousness, to provide for their ardship, there are many ways that physical and spiritual needs, and to goodly parents can access the help teach them to love and serve one and support they need to teach the another, observe the commandments gospel of Jesus Christ to their children. of God, and be law-abiding citizens Let me suggest five things parents can wherever they live. . . . do to create stronger family cultures: “. . . By divine design, fathers are First, parents can pray in earnest, to preside over their families in love asking our Eternal Father to help them and righteousness and are responsible love, understand, and guide the chil- to provide the necessities of life and dren He has sent to them. protection for their families. Mothers Second, they can hold family are primarily responsible for the nur- prayer, scripture study, and family ture of their children. In these sacred home evenings and eat together as responsibilities, fathers and mothers often as possible, making dinner a are obligated to help one another as time of communication and the teach- (1 Nephi 15:24) embedded in their equal partners.” 3 ing of values. peer culture, the entertainment and ​I believe it is by divine design that Third, parents can fully avail celebrity cultures, the credit and the role of motherhood emphasizes themselves of the Church’s support entitlement cultures, and the Internet the nurturing and teaching of the next network, communicating with their and media cultures to which they are generation. But it is wonderful to see children’s Primary teachers, youth constantly exposed. Strong family cul- husbands and wives who have worked leaders, and class and quorum pres- tures will help our children live in the out real partnerships where they blend idencies. By communicating with world and not become “of the world” together their influence and com- those who are called and set apart to ( John 15:19). municate effectively both about their work with their children, parents can President Joseph Fielding Smith children and to their children. provide essential understanding of a taught: ​“It is the duty of parents to The onslaught of wickedness child’s special and specific needs. teach their children these saving against our children is more subtle Fourth, parents can share their testi- principles of the gospel of Jesus Christ, and brazen than it has ever been. monies often with their children, com- so that they will know why they are Building a strong family culture adds mit them to keep the commandments to be baptized and that they may be another layer of protection for our of God, and promise the blessings impressed in their hearts with a desire children, insulating them from worldly that our Heavenly Father promises His to continue to keep the command- influences. faithful children. ments of God after they are baptized, God bless you goodly mothers Fifth, we can organize our families that they may come back into his and fathers in Zion. He has entrusted based on clear, simple family rules presence. Do you, my good brethren to your care His eternal children. As and expectations, wholesome fam- and sisters, want your families, your parents we partner, even join, with ily traditions and rituals, and “family children; do you want to be sealed to God in bringing to pass His work economics,” where children have your fathers and your mothers before and glory among His children. It is household responsibilities and can you . . . ? If so, then you must begin by our sacred duty to do our very best. earn allowances so that they can learn teaching at the cradle-side. You are to Of this I testify in the name of Jesus to budget, save, and pay tithing on the teach by example as well as precept.” 2 Christ, amen. ◼ money they earn. The proclamation on the family says: These suggestions for creating “Husband and wife have a sol- NOTES 1. Mother’s Day letter from L. Tom Perry to stronger family cultures work in tan- emn responsibility to love and care his mother, sent from Saipan, dated May 3, dem with the culture of the Church. for each other and for their children. 1945. Our strengthened family cultures ‘Children are an heritage of the Lord’ 2. Joseph Fielding Smith, in Conference Report, Oct. 1948, 153. will be a protection for our children (Psalm 127:3). Parents have a sacred 3. “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” from “the fiery darts of the adversary” duty to rear their children in love and Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 129. 28 By Elder M. Russell Ballard bee’s one-twelfth of a teaspoon of Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles honey is vital to the life of the hive. The bees depend on each other. Work that would be overwhelming for a few bees to do becomes lighter because all of the bees faithfully do their part. Be Anxiously Engaged The beehive has always been an important symbol in our Church his- Great things are brought about and burdens are lightened tory. We learn in the Book of Mormon that the Jaredites carried honeybees through the efforts of many hands “anxiously engaged with them (see Ether 2:3) when they in a good cause.” journeyed to the Americas thousands of years ago. chose the beehive as a symbol to encourage and inspire the cooperative energy lder Perry, I think you must be the nectar into honey. It is their necessary among the pioneers to the youngest 90-year-old in the magnificent obsession imprinted into transform the barren desert wasteland Ewhole Church. You noticed how their genetic makeup by our Creator. surrounding the Great Salt Lake into he jumped out of his chair. It is estimated that to produce just the fertile valleys we have today. We My beloved brothers and sisters, one pound (0.45 kg) of honey, the are the beneficiaries of their collective each time I enjoy a fresh, vine-ripened average hive of 20,000 to 60,000 vision and industry. tomato or eat a juicy peach right off the bees must collectively visit millions The beehive symbol is found in tree, my thoughts go back 60 years to of flowers and travel the equivalent both the interiors and exteriors of when my father owned a small peach of two times around the world. Over many of our temples. This podium orchard in Holladay, Utah. He kept its short lifetime of just a few weeks where I stand is made from the wood beehives there to pollinate the peach to four months, a single honeybee’s of a walnut tree grown in President blossoms that would eventually grow contribution of honey to its hive is a Gordon B. Hinckley’s backyard and is into very large, delicious peaches. mere one-twelfth of one teaspoon. adorned with carved beehive images. Father loved his gentle honeybees Though seemingly insignificant All of this symbolism attests to one and marveled at the way thousands when compared to the total, each fact: great things are brought about of them working together trans- formed the nectar gathered from his peach blossoms into sweet, golden honey—one of nature’s most benefi- cial foods. In fact, nutritionists tell us it is one of the foods that includes all the substances—enzymes, vitamins, minerals, and water—necessary to sustain life. My father always tried to involve me in his work with his hives, but I was very happy to let him tend to his bees. However, since those days, I have learned more about the highly organized beehive—a colony of about 60,000 bees. Honeybees are driven to polli- nate, gather nectar, and condense

November 2012 29 minds and plant it deep in the fertile soil of our souls? How do we make the mighty change of heart that Alma says is essential for our eternal happiness and peace? (see Alma 5:12–21). Remember, honey contains all of the substances necessary to sustain mortal life. And the doctrine and gos- and burdens are lightened through of bearing one another’s burdens. pel of Christ is the only way to obtain the efforts of many hands “anxiously But what about our everyday lives? eternal life. Only when our testimony engaged in a good cause” (D&C 58:27). What would be the cumulative effect transcends what is in our mind and Imagine what the millions of Latter-day of millions of small, compassionate burrows deep into our heart will Saints could accomplish in the world acts performed daily by us because of our motivation to love and to serve if we functioned like a beehive in our our heartfelt Christian love for others? become like unto the Savior’s. It is focused, concentrated commitment to Over time this would have a transfor- then, and only then, that we become the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. mative effect upon all of our Heavenly deeply converted disciples of Christ The Savior taught that the first and Father’s children through the exten- empowered by the Spirit to reach the great commandment is: sion of His love to them through us. hearts of our fellowmen. “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God Our troubled world needs this love of When our hearts are no longer with all thy heart, and with all thy Christ today more than ever, and it will set upon the things of this world, we soul, and with all thy mind. . . . need it even more in the years ahead. will no longer aspire to the honors of “And the second is like unto it, Thou These simple, daily acts of service men or seek only to gratify our pride shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. may not seem like much in and of (see D&C 121:35–37). Rather, we take “On these two commandments themselves, but when considered on the Christlike qualities that Jesus hang all the law and the prophets” collectively they become just like the taught: (Matthew 22:37, 39–40). one-twelfth teaspoon of honey con- The Savior’s words are simple, yet tributed by a single bee to the hive. • We are gentle and meek and long- their meaning is profound and deeply There is power in our love for God suffering (see D&C 121:41). significant. We are to love God and and for His children, and when that • We are kind, without hypocrisy or to love and care for our neighbors as love is tangibly manifest in millions guile (see D&C 121:42). ourselves. Imagine what good we can of acts of Christian kindness, it will • We feel charity toward all men do in the world if we all join together, sweeten and nourish the world with (see D&C 121:45). united as followers of Christ, anxiously the life-sustaining nectar of faith, • Our thoughts are always virtuous and busily responding to the needs of hope, and charity. (see D&C 121:45). others and serving those around us— What do we need to do to become • We no longer desire to do evil our families, our friends, our neigh- like the dedicated honeybees and (see Mosiah 5:2). bors, our fellow citizens. have that dedication become part of • The Holy Ghost is our constant As the Epistle of James notes, our nature? Many of us are dutiful in companion, and the doctrines of service is the very definition of pure attending our Church meetings. We the priesthood distill upon our religion (see James 1:27). work hard in our callings and espe- souls as the dews from heaven We read of the service Church cially on Sundays. That is surely to be (see D&C 121:45–46). members provide around the world commended. But are our minds and and especially the humanitarian ser- our hearts just as anxiously engaged in Now, brothers and sisters, I’m not vice given in times of crisis—fires good things during the rest of the week? encouraging religious zealotry or and floods and hurricanes and torna- Do we just go through the motions, or fanaticism. Quite the contrary! I’m does. These much-needed and much- are we truly converted to the gospel of simply suggesting that we take the appreciated emergency responses Jesus Christ? How do we take the seed next logical step in our complete should certainly continue as a way of faith that has been nurtured in our conversion to the gospel of Christ by 30 assimilating its doctrines deep within Heavenly Father to guide you to rec- watches over us. But it is usually our hearts and our souls so we will ognize an opportunity to serve one through another person that he meets act and live consistently—and with of His precious children. Then go our needs. Therefore, it is vital that integrity—what we profess to believe. throughout the day with your heart we serve each other” (Teachings of This integrity simplifies our lives full of faith and love, looking for Presidents of the Church: Spencer W. and amplifies our sensitivities to the someone to help. Stay focused, just Kimball [2006], 82). Spirit and to the needs of others. It like the honeybees focus on the I know that if you do this—at brings joy into our lives and peace to flowers from which to gather nectar home, at school, at work, and at our souls—the kind of joy and peace and pollen. If you do this, your spiri- church—the Spirit will guide you, and that comes to us as we repent of our tual sensitivities will be enlarged and you will be able to discern those in sins and follow the Savior by keeping you will discover opportunities to need of a particular service that only His commandments. serve that you never before realized you may be able to give. You will be How do we make this change? How were possible. prompted by the Spirit and magnifi- do we ingrain this love of Christ into President Thomas S. Monson cently motivated to help pollinate the our hearts? There is one simple daily has taught that in many instances world with the pure love of Christ and practice that can make a difference for Heavenly Father answers another His gospel. every member of the Church, including person’s prayers through us—through And remember, like the little you boys and girls, you young men you and me—through our kind words honeybee’s one-twelfth teaspoon and you young women, you single and deeds, through our simple acts of of honey provided to the hive, if adults, and you fathers and mothers. service and love. we multiply our efforts by tens of That simple practice is: In your And President Spencer W. Kimball thousands, even millions of prayerful morning prayer each new day, ask said: “God does notice us, and he efforts to share God’s love for His children through Christian service, there will be a compounding effect of good that will bring the Light of Christ to this ever-darkening world. Bound together, we will bring love and compassion to our own family and to the lonely, the poor, the broken, and to those of our Heavenly Father’s children who are searching for truth and peace. It is my humble prayer, brothers and sisters, that we will ask in our daily prayers for the inspiration to find someone for whom we can provide some meaningful service, including the service of sharing the gospel truths and our testimonies. At the end of each day, may we be able to say yes to the questions: “Have I done any good in the world today? Have I helped any- one in need?” (Hymns, no. 223). This is God’s work. May we be about it as faithfully as the dedicated little honeybees go about theirs, I humbly pray in the name of Jesus Mexico City, Mexico Christ, amen. ◼

November 2012 31 By Elder Larry Echo Hawk Christ of Latter-day Saints” and “Yes, Of the Seventy I know the Book of Mormon is true.” This testimony is a precious gift given to me through the Holy Ghost with the help of two missionaries and a priests quorum adviser. “Come unto Me, When I was 14 years old, two missionaries, Lee Pearson and Boyd Camphuysen, taught my family the O Ye House of Israel” restored gospel of Jesus Christ, and I was baptized. Two years later my priests quorum adviser, Richard Boren, As we come unto our Savior, Jesus Christ, and purify challenged me to read the Book of our hearts, we will all be instruments in fulfilling Mormon. I accepted that challenge, the mighty promises of the Book of Mormon. and I read at least 10 pages every night until I finished. On the title page I read that it is “written to the Lamanites, who are volunteered for service in the walked back to face me. I braced a remnant of the house of Israel; United States Marine Corps during myself for his attack. In his hand was and also to Jew and Gentile.” In the I the Vietnam War. Soon after my my Book of Mormon. I expected introduction to the Book of Mormon: arrival in Quantico, Virginia, for basic that he would yell at me; instead, he Another Testament of Jesus Christ, it training, I found myself standing at moved close to me and whispered, says that the Lamanites “are among the attention in front of my barrack’s bunk “Are you a Mormon?” ancestors of the American Indians.” As along with 54 other Marine Corps As commanded, I yelled, “Yes, I read the Book of Mormon, it seemed recruits. I met my drill instructor, a Sergeant Instructor.” to me that it was about my American battle-hardened veteran, when he Again I expected the worst. Instead, Indian ancestors. It tells the story of kicked open the door to the barracks he paused and raised his hand that a people, a part of which were later and entered while screaming words held my Book of Mormon and in a described as “Lamanites,” who migrated laced with profanity. very quiet voice said, “Do you believe from Jerusalem to a “land of promise” After this terrifying introduction, in this book?” (1 Nephi 2:20) about 600 b.c. It is an he started at one end of the barracks Again I shouted, “Yes, Sergeant account of God’s dealings with these and confronted each recruit with Instructor.” ancient inhabitants located some- questions. Without exception, the drill At this point I was sure he would where on the American continents. instructor methodically found some- scream disparaging words about It includes an account of the ministry thing about each recruit to ridicule Mormons and the Book of Mormon, of Jesus Christ among them following with loud, vulgar language. Down the but he just stood there in silence. After His Resurrection. Passages in the Book row he came, with each marine shout- a moment he walked back to my bunk of Mormon suggest that over time ing back his answer as commanded: and carefully laid down my Book of they were dispersed throughout the “Yes” or “No, Sergeant Instructor.” I Mormon. He then proceeded to walk American continents and islands of the could not see exactly what he was by me without stopping and went on nearby seas (see Alma 63:9–10). Their doing, because we had been ordered to ridicule and disparage with profane prophets foretold that many multitudes to stand at attention with our eyes language all remaining recruits. of Gentiles would eventually come to looking straight ahead. When it was I have often wondered why that this land of promise and the wrath of my turn, I could tell he grabbed my tough Marine Corps sergeant spared God would be upon the Lamanites duffel bag and emptied the contents me that day. But I am grateful I was and they would be scattered, smitten, onto my mattress behind me. He able to say without hesitation, “Yes, I and nearly destroyed (see 1 Nephi looked through my belongings, then am a member of The Church of Jesus 13:10–14). 32 focused on Moroni’s promise: “And when ye shall receive these things, I would exhort you that ye would ask God, the Eternal Father, in the name of Christ, if these things are not true; and if ye shall ask with a sincere heart, with real intent, having faith in Christ, he will manifest the truth of it unto you, by the power of the Holy Ghost” (Moroni 10:4). As I knelt in prayer, I received a powerful spiritual witness that the Book of Mormon is true. That wit- ness has helped me chart my course through life. I exhort all people to read the Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ. I especially ask the remnant of the house of Israel, the descendants of the people of the Book of Mormon, wherever you may be, to read and reread the Book of Mormon. Learn of My great-grandfather Echo Hawk, and that they are the covenant people the promises contained in the Book a Pawnee Indian, was born in the mid- of the Lord; and then shall they know of Mormon. Follow the teachings and 1800s in what is now called Nebraska. and come to the knowledge of their example of Jesus Christ. Make and When he was 19 years of age, the forefathers, and also to the knowledge keep covenants with the Lord. Seek Pawnee people were forced to give up of the gospel of their Redeemer, which for and follow the guidance of the their 23-million-acre (9.3 million ha) was ministered unto their fathers by Holy Spirit. homeland to make room for settlers. him; wherefore, they shall come to the I close with the words spoken by In 1874 the Pawnee people were knowledge of their Redeemer and the Amaleki, another Book of Mormon marched several hundred miles south very points of his doctrine, that they prophet: “And now, my beloved to a small reservation located in may know how to come unto him and brethren, I would that ye should the Oklahoma Indian Territory. The be saved” (1 Nephi 15:14). come unto Christ, who is the Holy population of Pawnee people had The Book of Mormon is sacred One of Israel, and partake of his declined from over 12,000 to less than scripture. It contains the fulness of salvation, and the power of his 700 upon their arrival in Oklahoma. the everlasting gospel. The Prophet redemption. Yea, come unto him, and The Pawnee, like other tribes, had Joseph Smith wrote that “the Book offer your whole souls as an offering been scattered, smitten, and nearly of Mormon [is] the most correct of unto him, and continue in fasting and destroyed. any book on earth, and the keystone praying, and endure to the end; and The Book of Mormon has a spe- of our religion, and a man would as the Lord liveth ye will be saved” cial message for descendants of the get nearer to God by abiding by its (Omni 1:26). Lamanites, a remnant of the house of precepts, than by any other book” As we come unto our Savior, Jesus Israel. Nephi expressed this message (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Christ, and purify our hearts, we while interpreting his father’s vision Joseph Smith [2007], 64). Thus, it has a will all be instruments in fulfilling of these latter days: “And at that day message for all people of the world. the mighty promises of the Book of shall the remnant of our seed know As a 17-year-old boy reading the Mormon. Of this I testify in the sacred that they are of the house of Israel, Book of Mormon for the first time, I name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼

November 2012 33 By Elder Robert C. Gay worth more than all the Father has?” Of the Seventy He gently said, “I see your point” and made an appointment to visit with his bishop. Today it is so easy to get caught up in the noise of the world—despite What Shall a Man our good intentions. The world presses us to “[look] beyond the mark.” 3 Someone recently asked me, Give in Exchange “Does one drink really matter?” Can you see that is the adversary’s ques- tion? Cain asked, “Who is the Lord that I should know him?” 4 and then for His Soul? lost his soul. With self-justification of petty sins, Satan triumphs. For a We are to give up all our sins, big or small, for the Father’s bottle of milk,5 a misspelled name,6 reward of eternal life. a mess of pottage,7 birthrights and inheritances have been traded. As we consider the nickel or national-championship exchanges in our lives, we can either self-justify our he Savior once asked His disciples my regular five candy bars instead actions, like Cain, or look to submit to the following question: “What of three. the will of God. The question before shall a man give in exchange for Elated by my accomplishment, us is not whether we are doing things T 1 his soul?” I later rushed home to tell my dad which need correcting, because we This is a question that my father about my big coup. As I poured out always are. Rather, the question is, will taught me to carefully consider years the details, he said nothing. When I we “shrink” or “finish” the call upon ago. As I was growing up, my parents finished, he simply looked at me and our soul to do the will of the Father? 8 assigned me chores around the house said, “Son, would you sell your soul The Lord loves our righteousness and paid me an allowance for that for a nickel?” His words pierced my but asks of us continued repentance work. I often used that money, a little 12-year-old heart. It is a lesson I have and submission. In the Bible we read over 50 cents a week, to go to the never forgotten. that it was a commandment-keeping, movies. Back then a movie ticket cost Years later I found myself asking wealthy young man who knelt before 25 cents for an 11-year-old. This left this same question to a less-active the Savior and asked what he needed me with 25 cents to spend on candy Melchizedek Priesthood holder. He to do to have eternal life. He turned bars, which cost 5 cents apiece. A was a wonderful man who loved his away grieved when the Savior said, movie with five candy bars! It couldn’t family. He, however, had not been “One thing thou lackest: . . . sell what- get much better than that. to church for many years. He had a soever thou hast.” 9 All was well until I turned 12. talented son who played on an elite Yet, it was another wealthy but Standing in line one afternoon, I real- travel sports team that practiced and worldly man, the chief Lamanite king, ized that the ticket price for a 12-year- played games on Sunday. That team the father of Lamoni, who also asked old was 35 cents, and that meant two had won multiple major champion- the same question about eternal life, less candy bars. Not quite prepared ships. As we met, I reminded him saying: “What shall I do that I may to make that sacrifice, I reasoned to that, as a priesthood holder, he was be born of God, having this wicked myself, “You look the same as you promised that if he magnified his oath spirit rooted out of my breast, and did a week ago.” I then stepped up and covenant, he would receive “all receive his Spirit[?] . . . I will forsake and asked for the 25-cent ticket. The that [our] Father hath.” 2 I then asked my kingdom, that I may receive this cashier did not blink, and I bought him, “Is a national championship great joy.” 10 34 Do you remember the response Brothers and sisters, remember the boy to me. About 20 minutes later, the Lord gave the king through His that this charge is more than just not I felt a tap on my shoulder. The young servant Aaron? “If thou wilt repent of doing bad things. With an engaged boy was outside. all thy sins, and will bow down before enemy we must also act and not He was about 10 years of age. We God, and call on his name in faith, sit in “thoughtless stupor.” 14 Taking found out his father was dead and believing that ye shall receive, then upon the countenance of God means his mother was in jail. He lived in the shalt thou receive the hope which serving each other. There are sins of slums of Accra with a caretaker, who thou desirest.” 11 commission and sins of omission, and gave him food and a place to sleep. To When the king understood the we are to rise above both. earn his board, he sold dried fish on sacrifice required, he humbled and While serving as a mission pres- the streets. But after this day of hawk- prostrated himself and then prayed, ident in Africa, I was forever taught ing, when he reached in his pocket, “O God, . . . I will give away all my this great truth. I was on my way to he found a hole in it. He had lost all sins to know thee.” 12 a meeting when I saw a young boy his earnings. Afasi and I knew imme- This is the exchange the Savior alone, crying hysterically on the side diately that if he returned without the is asking of us: we are to give up all of the road. A voice within me said, money, he would be called a liar, most our sins, big or small, for the Father’s “Stop and help that boy.” As quick as likely beaten, and then cast out onto reward of eternal life. We are to forget I heard this voice, in a split second, I the street. It was in that moment of self-justifying stories, excuses, rational- rationalized: “You can’t stop. You will alarm when I first saw him. We calmed izations, defense mechanisms, pro- be late. You’re the presiding officer his fears, replaced his loss, and took crastinations, appearances, personal and can’t walk in late.” him back home to his caretaker. pride, judgmental thoughts, and doing When I arrived at the meeting- As I went home that evening, I things our way. We are to separate house, I heard the same voice say realized two great truths. First, I knew ourselves from all worldliness and again: “Go help that boy.” I then gave as never before that God is mindful take upon us the image of God in our my car keys to a Church member of each of us and will never forsake countenances.13 named Afasi and asked him to bring us; and second, I knew that we must

November 2012 35 directs it through His chosen prophet. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ NOTES 1. Matthew 16:26. 2. Doctrine and Covenants 84:38. 3. Jacob 4:14. 4. Moses 5:16. 5. A bottle of milk and its strippings (rich in cream) was at the center of a dispute between Thomas B. Marsh’s wife and Mrs. Harris, who had agreed to combine resources and make cheese. When Mrs. Harris found that Mrs. Marsh didn’t include the strippings with the milk but kept them for herself, Mrs. Harris complained, and the women quarreled. Thomas Marsh took the matter to the bishop, who sided with Mrs. Harris. It went from the bishop to the high council to the First Presidency, all of whom agreed that Mrs. Marsh was in the wrong. This drove a wedge between Thomas Marsh and the Brethren. Soon after that, Thomas Marsh testified before a Missourian magistrate that the Mormons were hostile toward the state of Missouri. (See George A. Smith, “Discourse,” Deseret News, Apr. 16, 1856, 44.) 6. When the Prophet Joseph Smith issued a call to Simonds Ryder to serve as a always hearken to the voice of the After a recent stake conference, missionary, Ryder discovered that his Spirit within us and go “straightway” 15 a teenage boy approached me and name was spelled “Rider” in the printed wherever it takes us, regardless of our asked, “Does God love me?” May our revelation. He became offended, and this led to his apostasy and eventual fears or any inconvenience. lives of service always affirm that God participation in tarring and feathering the One day the disciples asked the forsakes no one. Prophet. Ryder didn’t know that Joseph Savior who was the greatest in the To the question, “What will a man Smith usually dictated revelations to his scribes and had no part in the spelling. kingdom of heaven. He told them to give in exchange for his soul?” Satan (See Milton V. Backman Jr., The Heavens be converted, humble, and submissive would have us sell our lives for the Resound: A History of the Latter-day as little children. He then said, “The candy bars and championships of this Saints in Ohio, 1830–1838 [1983], 93–94; Donald Q. Cannon and Lyndon W. Cook, Son of man is come to save that which world. The Savior, however, calls us, eds., Far West Record: Minutes of The [is] lost.” 16 With that one sentence, He without price, to exchange our sins, to Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, defined our mission. We are to go to take upon us His countenance, and to 1830–1844 [1983], 286.) 7. In Genesis 25 we learn that Esau sells his the rescue—to the lost, the last, and take that into the hearts of those within birthright to Jacob for “bread and pottage the least. It is not enough to avoid evil; our reach. For this we may receive of lentiles” (verse 34). we must “suffer his cross” 17 and “be all that God has, which we are told is 8. See Doctrine and Covenants 19:18–19. 18 9. See Mark 10:21–22. anxiously engaged,” helping oth- greater than all the combined treasures 10. Alma 22:15. ers to conversion. With compassion of this earth.22 Can you even imagine? 11. Alma 22:16. and love we embrace the prodigal,19 On a recent trip to Nicaragua, I 12. Alma 22:18. 13. See Alma 5:14–19. answer the cries of orphans in hyste- noticed a plaque in the modest home 14. Alma 60:7. ria, the pleas of those in darkness and of a family we visited. It read, “My 15. Mark 1:18. despair,20 and the distress calls of fam- testimony is my most precious posses- 16. Matthew 18:11. 17. Jacob 1:8. ily in need. “Satan need not get every- sion.” So it is with me. My testimony is 18. Doctrine and Covenants 58:27. one to be like Cain or Judas . . . ,” said my soul’s treasure, and in the integrity 19. See Luke 15:11–32. Elder Neal A. Maxwell. “He needs only of my heart, I leave you my witness 20. See Joseph Smith—History 1:15–16. 21. Neal A. Maxwell, Deposition of a Disciple to get able men . . . to see themselves that this church is God’s true Church, (1976), 88. as sophisticated neutrals.” 21 that our Savior stands at its head and 22. See Doctrine and Covenants 19:38. 36 By Elder Scott D. Whiting As I drove home from the temple Of the Seventy that day, I reflected on what I learned from this experience—or, rather, what I thought I learned. It wasn’t until several weeks later when I was invited to tour the now completed temple that Temple Standard my understanding of the prior tour experience became clearer. The high standards of temple building employed As I entered the completely ren- ovated Laie Hawaii Temple, I was by this Church are a type and even a symbol of how overwhelmed by its beauty and quality we should be living our own lives. of finish. You can appreciate my anticipation as I approached the “gritty” walls and the “flawed” window. Did the contractor re-sand and buff the walls? hile recently touring the need to re-sand and buff this wall.” Was the window really replaced? As I beautiful Brigham City Utah The contractor dutifully took notes of approached the gritty walls, I was sur- WTemple, I was reminded each observation. prised to see that beautiful wall­paper of an experience that I had while As we approached an area in the now hung on all the walls. My first serving as the coordinator of the temple that few eyes would ever see, thought was, “So this is how the con- open house, rededication, and cul- the same man stopped us and directed tractor addressed the grit—he covered tural celebration of the historic Laie our attention to a newly installed, it.” But, no, I learned that it had always Hawaii Temple. beautiful leaded-glass window. This been the plan to hang wallpaper on A few months prior to the comple- window measured about two feet these walls. I wondered why a little tion of the extensive renovation work, (0.6 m) wide by six feet (1.8 m) tall hardly detectable grit mattered if wall- I was invited to tour the temple with and contained an embedded, small paper was to cover it. I then eagerly the Executive Director of the Temple stained-glass geometric pattern. He approached the area where the flawed Department, Elder William R. Walker, pointed to a small two-inch (5 cm) window was located and was sur- and his Temple Department associ- colored-glass square that was part prised to see a beautiful floor-to-ceiling ates. In addition, various members of of the simple pattern and said, “That potted plant sitting directly in front of the general contracting firm were in square is crooked.” I looked at the the window. Again I thought, “So this attendance. The purpose of the tour, square, and to my eyes it looked is how the contractor addressed the in part, was to review the progress evenly placed. However, upon closer crooked little square—he hid it.” As and quality of the work performed. inspection with a measuring device I moved closer, I pushed the plant’s At the time of this tour, the work was in hand, I could see there was a leaves aside and smiled as I saw that about 85 percent completed. flaw and that this little square was the window had indeed been replaced. As we moved through the temple, I indeed one-eighth of an inch (3 mm) The formerly crooked little square now watched and listened to Elder Walker crooked. Direction was then given to stood neatly and evenly in the pattern. and his associates as they inspected the contractor that this window would I learned that it had always been part the work and conversed with the need to be replaced because it was of the interior design to have a plant in general contractor. On occasion I not temple standard. front of this window. observed one man running his hand I admit that I was surprised that Why would walls with a little grit along the walls as we moved from an entire window would need to be and a window with a little asym- room to room. A few times after doing replaced because of such a small, metry require additional work and this, he would rub his fingers together barely noticeable defect. Surely, it was even replacement when few human and then approach the general con- unlikely that anyone would ever know hands or eyes would ever know? Why tractor and say, “I feel grit on this wall. or even notice this window given its was a contractor held to such high Grit is not temple standard. You will remote location in the temple. standards?

November 2012 37 As I exited the temple deep in and with all your antiquities; and with “And inasmuch as my people build thought, I found my answer as I all who have knowledge of antiquities, a house unto me in the name of the looked up at the refinished exterior . . . and bring . . . the precious trees of Lord, and do not suffer any unclean and saw these words: “Holiness to the the earth; thing to come into it, that it be not Lord, the House of the Lord.” “. . . And build a house to my defiled, my glory shall rest upon it; The temples of this Church are name, for the Most High to dwell “Yea, and my presence shall be precisely as proclaimed. These sacred therein.” 1 there, for I will come into it, and all buildings are built for our use, and This follows a pattern estab- the pure in heart that shall come into within their walls sacred and saving lished by King Solomon in the Old it shall see God. ordinances are performed. But there Testament when he built a temple “But if it be defiled I will not come should be no doubt as to whose unto the Lord using only the finest into it, and my glory shall not be house it really is. By requiring exact- materials and workmanship.2 Today there; for I will not come into unholy ing standards of construction down we continue to follow this pattern, temples.” 3 to the smallest of details, we not only with appropriate moderation, as we Like the contractor, when we show our love and respect for the build the temples of the Church. become aware of elements in our Lord Jesus Christ, but we also hold I learned that even though mortal own lives that are inconsistent with out to all observers that we honor and eyes and hands may never see or feel the teachings of the Lord, when our worship Him whose house it is. a defect, the Lord knows the level of efforts have been less than our very In the revelation given to the our efforts and whether we have done best, we should move quickly to cor- Prophet Joseph Smith to build a our very best. The same is true of our rect anything that is amiss, recognizing temple in Nauvoo, the Lord instructed: own personal efforts to live a life wor- that we cannot hide our sins from “Come ye, with all your gold, and thy of the blessings of the temple. The the Lord. We need to remember that your silver, and your precious stones, Lord has counseled: “when we undertake to cover our sins, 38 . . . behold, the heavens withdraw By Elder Neil L. Andersen themselves; [and] the Spirit of the Lord Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles is grieved.” 4 I also learned that the high stan- dards of temple building employed by this Church are a type and even a symbol of how we should be living our Trial of Your Faith own lives. We can apply, individually, the teachings of the Apostle Paul given Like the intense fire that transforms iron into steel, as we to the early Church when he said: “Know ye not that ye are the remain faithful during the fiery trial of our faith, we are temple of God, and that the Spirit of spiritually refined and strengthened. God dwelleth in you? “If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple en years ago as my wife, Kathy, In this morning’s session, we heard of ye are.” 5 and I were living in São Paulo, similar faith in the beautiful lives of We are each made of the finest TBrazil, President David Marriott the Bowen and Wilberger families.1 materials, and we are the miracu- was presiding over the Brazil São The gift of faith is a priceless spiri- lous result of divine craftsmanship. Paulo Interlagos Mission. He and his tual . “This is life eternal,” However, as we move past the age wife, Neill, and their sons Will, Wesley, Jesus prayed, “that they might know of accountability and step onto the and Trace lived near us. They had left thee the only true God, and Jesus battlefield of sin and temptation, our their home, their business, and many Christ, whom thou hast sent.” 2 own temple can become in need of in their family to respond to a call Our faith is centered in God, our renovation and repair work. Perhaps from the prophet to serve a mission. Father, and in His Son, Jesus Christ, there are walls within us that are President Marriott called me one our Savior and Redeemer. It is bol- gritty and need buffing or windows afternoon. Their precious, righ- stered by our knowledge that the ful- of our souls that need replacement teous 21-year-old daughter, Georgia, ness of the gospel has been restored in order that we can stand in holy a senior in violin performance at to the earth, that the Book of Mormon places. Gratefully, the temple stan- Indiana University, had been hit by a is the word of God, and that prophets dard that we are asked to meet is truck while riding her bicycle home and apostles today hold the keys of not that of perfection, although we after a Church meeting. On first report, the priesthood. We treasure our faith, are striving for it, but rather that we Georgia was doing well. Hours later work to strengthen our faith, pray for are keeping the commandments and her condition dramatically worsened. increased faith, and do all within our doing our best to live as disciples of Family and friends began fasting power to protect and defend our faith. Jesus Christ. It is my prayer that we and praying for a miracle for Georgia. The Apostle Peter identified some- will all endeavor to live a life wor- Her mother flew through the night thing he called a “trial of your faith.” 3 thy of the blessings of the temple by from Brazil. Arriving in Indiana the He had experienced it. Remember doing our best, by making the neces- next day, she was met by her older Jesus’s words: sary improvements and eliminating children, who tearfully explained that “Simon, . . . Satan hath desired to flaws and imperfections so that the they had been with Georgia as she have you, that he may sift you as wheat: Spirit of God may always dwell in us. passed away. “But I have prayed for thee, that thy In the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ I watched the Marriott family at faith fail not.” 4 NOTES the time of this experience and in Peter later encouraged others: 1. Doctrine and Covenants 124:26–27. the months and years that followed. “Think it not strange,” he said, “con- 2. See 1 Kings 6–7. They wept, they prayed, they spoke of cerning the fiery trial which is to try 3. Doctrine and Covenants 97:15–17. 4. Doctrine and Covenants 121:37. Georgia, they felt immense pain and you, as though some strange thing 5. 1 Corinthians 3:16–17; see also verse 19. sadness, but their faith did not falter. happened unto you.” 5

November 2012 39 These fiery trials are designed to , receive the blessings of Our family has a friend. You make you stronger, but they have the the priesthood, and attend the temple. probably know someone like her, potential to diminish or even destroy The Lord declared, “In the ordinances or perhaps you are like her. Always your trust in the Son of God and to . . . , the power of godliness is man- faithful, serves nobly in the Church, weaken your resolve to keep your ifest.” 8 When you are faced with a admired professionally, adored by promises to Him. These trials are often test of faith, stay within the safety and her family, and while she anticipated camouflaged, making them difficult to security of the household of God. marriage and children, she is single. “I identify. They take root in our weak- There is always a place for you here. made the decision,” she said, “to put nesses, our vulnerabilities, our sensi- No trial is so large we can’t overcome my . . . trust in Jesus Christ. Going to tivities, or in those things that matter it together.9 the temple frequently helps me keep most to us. A real but manageable test President Thomas S. Monson a more eternal focus. It reminds me I for one can be a fiery trial for another. said: “The moral compass of soci- am never alone. I have faith . . . that How do you remain “steadfast and ety [has been evolving at a rapid no . . . blessing will be withheld . . . as immovable” 6 during a trial of faith? rate]. Behaviors . . . once . . . con- I . . . remain faithful to my covenants, You immerse yourself in the very sidered inappropriate and immoral including the .” 15 things that helped build your core of are now . . . viewed by . . . many as Another friend served an outstand- faith: you exercise faith in Christ, you acceptable.” 10 ing mission, followed by rigorous pray, you ponder the scriptures, you There are many single adults in the academic training. He hoped to have repent, you keep the commandments, Church well beyond their early adult a family. His trial of faith: feelings and you serve others. years. While finding their present life of same-sex attraction. He wrote When faced with a trial of faith— different than they had anticipated, me recently: “I am promised in my whatever you do, you don’t step away they keep the law of chastity.11 It can patriarchal blessing that I will have from the Church! Distancing yourself be a trial of their faith. I express my my own family someday. Whether from the kingdom of God during a deep respect and admiration for these that will occur in this life or the next, trial of faith is like leaving the safety disciples of Christ. I do not know. But what I do know is of a secure storm cellar just as the “God has commanded that the that I don’t want to do anything that tornado comes into view. sacred powers of procreation are to will jeopardize the blessings God has The Apostle Paul said, “Ye are no be employed only between man and promised both me and my future pos- more strangers and foreigners, but fel- woman, lawfully wedded as husband terity. . . . Living [the law of chastity] lowcitizens with the saints, and of the and wife.” 12 In the New Testament is a challenge, but did we not come household of God.” 7 It is within the the Savior lifted the moral standard to earth to confront challenges and sanctuary of the Church that we pro- for His followers when He declared, to show God our love and respect for tect our faith. Meeting together with “Whosoever looketh on a woman to Him by keeping His commandments? I others who believe, we pray and find lust after her hath committed adultery am blessed with good health, the gos- answers to our prayers; we worship with her already in his heart.” 13 He pel, a loving family, and loyal friends. I through music, share testimony of the taught us not to condemn others, but am grateful for my many blessings.” 16 Savior, serve one another, and feel the He was unafraid to speak directly: The world protests, how can you Spirit of the Lord. We partake of the “Go,” He said, “and sin no more.” 14 ask so much? The Lord responds: 40 “My thoughts are not your thoughts, First Presidency and Quorum of the eventually is backed up to the wall neither are your ways my ways. . . . Twelve. It is not hidden in an obscure of faith, and there . . . must make his “For as the heavens are higher than paragraph of one talk. True principles stand.” 23 Don’t be surprised when it the earth, so are my ways higher than are taught frequently and by many. Our happens to you! your ways, and my thoughts than your doctrine is not difficult to find. By definition, trials will be trying. thoughts.” 17 The leaders of the Church are hon- There may be anguish, confusion, These two followers of Christ and est but imperfect men. Remember the sleepless nights, and pillows wet tens of thousands like them have felt words of Moroni: “Condemn me not with tears. But our trials need not be the Savior’s promise: “Peace I leave because of mine imperfection, neither spiritually fatal. They need not take with you, my peace I give unto you: my father . . . ; but rather give thanks us from our covenants or from the not as the world giveth, give I unto unto God that he hath made manifest household of God. you. Let not your heart be troubled, unto you our imperfections, that ye “Remember, . . . it is upon the rock neither let it be afraid.” 18 may learn to be more wise than we of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son Here is another trial. There have have been.” 21 of God, that ye must build your foun- always been a few who want to dis- Joseph Smith said, “I never told you dation; that when the devil shall send credit the Church and to destroy faith. I was perfect; but there is no error forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts Today they use the Internet. in the revelations.” 22 The miracle of in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail Some of the information about the God’s hand in the history and destiny and his mighty storm shall beat upon Church, no matter how convincing, of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- you, it shall have no power over you is just not true. In 1985, I remember day Saints is understood only through to drag you down to the gulf of misery a colleague walking into my busi- the lens of spiritual inquiry. President and endless wo, because of the rock ness office in Florida. He had a Time Ezra Taft Benson said, “Every [person] upon which ye are built, which is a magazine article entitled “Challenging ’s Roots.” It spoke of a recently discovered letter, supposedly written by Martin Harris, that con- flicted with Joseph Smith’s account of finding the Book of Mormon plates.19 My colleague asked if this new information would destroy the Mormon Church. The article quoted a man who said he was leaving the Church over the document. Later, others reportedly left the Church.20 I’m sure it was a trial of their faith. A few months later, experts discov- ered (and the forger confessed) that the letter was a complete fraud. I remem- ber really hoping that those who had left the Church because of this decep- tion would find their way back. A few question their faith when they find a statement made by a Church leader decades ago that seems incon- gruent with our doctrine. There is an important principle that governs the doctrine of the Church. The doctrine is taught by all 15 members of the

November 2012 41 2. John 17:3. 3. 1 Peter 1:7. 4. Luke 22:31–32. 5. 1 Peter 4:12; emphasis added. 6. Alma 1:25. 7. Ephesians 2:19. 8. Doctrine and Covenants 84:20. 9. See Mosiah 18:8–10. 10. Thomas S. Monson, “Stand in Holy Places,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2011, 82. 11. See Ezra Taft Benson, “The Law of Chastity,” New Era, Jan. 1988, 4–7; “The Law of Chastity” in 1987–88 Speeches (1988), 1–5, speeches.byu.edu; see also Gospel Principles (2009), 224–32. 12. “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 129. 13. Matthew 5:28. 14. John 8:11. 15. Personal correspondence, 2012. 16. Personal correspondence, 2012. 17. Isaiah 55:8–9. 18. John 14:27. 19. See Richard N. Ostling, “Challenging Mormonism’s Roots,” Time, May 20, 1985, 44. 26 sure foundation, a foundation whereon gold.” Moroni added that a witness 20. See Gordon B. Hinckley, “Lord, Increase if men build they cannot fall.” 24 follows “the trial of your faith.” 27 Our Faith,” Ensign, Nov. 1987, 52. 21. Mormon 9:31. Like the intense fire that trans- I began with the story of the Marriott 22. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: forms iron into steel, as we remain family. Last week Kathy and I joined Joseph Smith (2007), 522. faithful during the fiery trial of our them at Georgia’s grave. Ten years have 23. Ezra Taft Benson, “The Book of Mormon Is the Word of God,” Tambuli, May 1988, 6; faith, we are spiritually refined and passed. Family and friends spoke of Ensign, May 1975, 65. strengthened. the love and memories they have of 24. Helaman 5:12. Elder D. Todd Christofferson Georgia. There were white helium bal- 25. D. Todd Christofferson, “Give Us This Day Our Daily Bread” (Church Educational explained what he learned from a loons to celebrate her life. Amid tears, System fireside, Jan. 9, 2011), lds.org/ personal trial: “Though I suffered Georgia’s mother tenderly spoke of broadcasts. then, as I look back now, I am grate- the increased faith and understanding 26. 1 Peter 1:7; see also 1 Peter 4:13. 27. Ether 12:6. ful that there was not a quick solution she has received, and Georgia’s father 28. Doctrine and Covenants 122:9; President to my problem. The fact that I was quietly told me of the promised witness George Q. Cannon said: “No matter how forced to turn to God for help almost that has come to him. serious the trial, how deep the distress, how great the affliction, [God] will never daily over an extended period of With faith come trials of faith, desert us. He never has, and He never will. years taught me truly how to pray and bringing increased faith. The Lord’s He cannot do it. It is not His character. get answers to prayer and taught me comforting assurance to the Prophet He is an unchangeable being; the same yesterday, the same today, and He will in a very practical way to have faith in Joseph Smith is the very same promise be the same throughout the eternal ages God. I came to know my Savior and He makes to you in your trial of faith: to come. We have found that God. We my Heavenly Father in a way and to “Hold on . . . , fear not . . . , for God have made Him our friend, by obeying 28 His Gospel; and He will stand by us. We a degree that might not have hap- shall be with you forever and ever.” may pass through the fiery furnace; we pened otherwise or that might have Of this I bear my sacred witness in the may pass through deep waters; but we taken me much longer to achieve. . . . name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ shall not be consumed nor overwhelmed. We shall emerge from all these trials and I learned to trust in the Lord with all NOTES difficulties the better and purer for them, my heart. I learned to walk with Him 1. See Shayne M. Bowen, “Because I Live, if we only trust in our God and keep His day by day.” 25 Ye Shall Live Also,” and Ann M. Dibb, “I commandments” (“Remarks,” Deseret Know It. I Live It. I Love It,” in the Saturday Evening News, Mar. 7, 1891, 4); see also Peter described these experiences morning session of the October 2012 Jeffrey R. Holland, “Come unto Me,” as “much more precious than . . . general conference. Ensign, Apr. 1998, 16–23. 42 By Elder Dallin H. Oaks promote abortion, but to us this is a Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles great evil. Other abuses of children that occur during pregnancy are the fetal impairments that result from the moth- er’s inadequate nutrition or drug use. There is a tragic irony in the multi- Protect the Children tude of children eliminated or injured before birth while throngs of infertile None should resist the plea that we unite to increase couples long for and seek babies to adopt. our concern for the welfare and future of our children— Childhood abuses or neglect of the rising generation. children that occur after birth are more publicly visible. Worldwide, almost eight million children die before their fifth birthday, mostly from diseases e can all remember our to speak for them, and they need deci- both treatable and preventable.4 And feelings when a little child sion makers who put their well-being the World Health Organization reports Wcried out and reached up to ahead of selfish adult interests. that one in four children have stunted us for help. A loving Heavenly Father growth, mentally and physically, gives us those feelings to impel us to I. because of inadequate nutrition.5 help His children. Please recall those Worldwide, we are shocked at the Living and traveling internationally, feelings as I speak about our respon- millions of children victimized by evil we Church leaders see much of this. sibility to protect and act for the well- adult crimes and selfishness. The general presidency of the Primary being of children. In some war-torn countries, chil- report children living in conditions I speak from the perspective of the dren are abducted to serve as soldiers “beyond our imaginations.” A mother gospel of Jesus Christ, including His in contending armies. in the Philippines said: “Sometimes we plan of salvation. That is my calling. A United Nations report estimates do not have enough money for food, Local Church leaders have responsibil- that over two million children are vic- but that is all right because it gives me ity for a single jurisdiction, like a ward timized each year through prostitution the opportunity to teach my children or stake, but an Apostle is responsible and pornography.1 about faith. We gather and pray for to witness to the entire world. In every From the perspective of the plan relief, and the children see the Lord nation, of every race and creed, all of salvation, one of the most serious bless us.” 6 In South Africa, a Primary children are children of God. abuses of children is to deny them worker met a little girl, lonely and sad. Although I do not speak in terms birth. This is a worldwide trend. The In faint responses to loving questions, of politics or public policy, like other national birthrate in the United States she said she had no mother, no father, Church leaders, I cannot speak for the is the lowest in 25 years,2 and the and no grandmother—only a grand- welfare of children without implica- birthrates in most European and Asian father to care for her.7 Such tragedies tions for the choices being made by countries have been below replace- are common on a continent where citizens, public officials, and workers ment levels for many years. This is not many caregivers have died of AIDS. in private organizations. We are all just a religious issue. As rising gener- Even in rich nations little children under the Savior’s command to love ations diminish in numbers, cultures and youth are impaired by neglect. and care for each other and especially and even nations are hollowed out Children growing up in poverty for the weak and defenseless. and eventually disappear. have inferior health care and inad- Children are highly vulnerable. One cause of the diminishing equate educational opportunities. They have little or no power to protect birthrate is the practice of abortion. They are also exposed to dangerous or provide for themselves and little Worldwide, there are estimated to environments in their physical and influence on so much that is vital to be more than 40 million abortions cultural surroundings and even from their well-being. Children need others per year.3 Many laws permit or even the neglect of their parents. Elder

November 2012 43 Jeffrey R. Holland recently shared the II. literature, goes something like this: experience of an LDS police officer. There are few examples of phys- marriage is a relationship that exists In an investigation he found five ical or emotional threats to children primarily for the fulfillment of the young children huddled together and as important as those arising out of individual spouses. If it ceases to per- trying to sleep without bedding on a their relationships with their parents form this function, no one is to blame filthy floor in a dwelling where their or guardians. President Thomas S. and either spouse may terminate it at mother and others were drinking and Monson has spoken of what he called will. . . . Children hardly appear in the partying. The apartment had no food the “vile deeds” of child abuse, where story; at most they are rather shadowy to relieve their hunger. After tucking a parent has broken or disfigured a characters in the background.” 13 the children into a makeshift bed, child, physically or emotionally.11 I Our Church leaders have taught the officer knelt and prayed for their grieved as I had to study the shocking that looking “upon marriage as a mere protection. As he walked toward the evidence of such cases during my ser- contract that may be entered into at door, one of them, about six, pursued vice on the Utah Supreme Court. pleasure . . . and severed at the first him, grabbed him by the hand, and Of utmost importance to the well- difficulty . . . is an evil meriting severe pleaded, “Will you please adopt me?” 8 being of children is whether their condemnation,” especially where We remember our Savior’s teaching parents were married, the nature and “children are made to suffer.” 14 And as He placed a little child before His duration of the marriage, and, more children are impacted by divorces. followers and declared: broadly, the culture and expectations Over half of the divorces in a recent “And whoso shall receive one such of marriage and child care where year involved couples with minor little child in my name receiveth me. they live. Two scholars of the family children.15 “But whoso shall offend one of explain: “Throughout history, mar- Many children would have had these little ones which believe in me, riage has first and foremost been an the blessing of being raised by both it were better for him that a millstone institution for procreation and raising of their parents if only their parents were hanged about his neck, and that children. It has provided the cultural had followed this inspired teaching he were drowned in the depth of the tie that seeks to connect the father in the family proclamation: “Husband sea” (Matthew 18:5–6). to his children by binding him to the and wife have a solemn responsibility When we consider the dangers mother of his children. Yet in recent to love and care for each other and from which children should be times, children have increasingly been for their children. . . . Parents have a protected, we should also include pushed from center stage.” 12 sacred duty to rear their children in psychological abuse. Parents or A Harvard law professor describes love and righteousness, to provide other caregivers or teachers or peers the current law and attitude toward for their physical and spiritual needs, who demean, bully, or humiliate marriage and divorce: “The [current] and to teach them to love and serve children or youth can inflict harm American story about marriage, as one another.” 16 The most powerful more permanent than physical injury. told in the law and in much popular teaching of children is by the example Making a child or youth feel worth- less, unloved, or unwanted can inflict serious and long-lasting injury on his or her emotional well-being and development.9 Young people strug- gling with any exceptional condition, including same-gender attraction, are particularly vulnerable and need loving understanding—not bullying or ostracism.10 With the help of the Lord, we can repent and change and be more lov- ing and helpful to children—our own and those around us. 44 of their parents. Divorcing parents the United States . . . the evidence has suffer significant comparative disad- inevitably teach a negative lesson. mounted for the institution’s impor- vantages.23 For children, the relative There are surely cases when a tance to the well-being of children.” 19 stability of marriage matters. divorce is necessary for the good of That reality should give important We should assume the same the children, but those circumstances guidance to parents and parents-to-be disadvantages for children raised are exceptional.17 In most marital con- in their decisions involving marriage by couples of the same gender. The tests the contending parents should and divorce. We also need politicians, social science literature is controversial give much greater weight to the policy makers, and officials to increase and politically charged on the long- interests of the children. With the help their attention to what is best for chil- term effect of this on children, prin- of the Lord, they can do so. Children dren in contrast to the selfish interests cipally because, as a New York Times need the emotional and personal of voters and vocal advocates of adult writer observed, “same-sex marriage strength that come from being raised interests. is a social experiment, and like most by two parents who are united in their Children are also victimized by experiments it will take time to under- marriage and their goals. As one who marriages that do not occur. Few stand its consequences.” 24 was raised by a widowed mother, I measures of the welfare of our rising know firsthand that this cannot always generation are more disturbing than III. be achieved, but it is the ideal to be the recent report that 41 percent of I have spoken for children—children sought whenever possible. all births in the United States were everywhere. Some may reject some Children are the first victims of cur- to women who were not married.20 of these examples, but none should rent laws permitting so-called “no-fault Unmarried mothers have massive resist the plea that we unite to in­ divorce.” From the standpoint of chil- challenges, and the evidence is clear crease our concern for the welfare dren, divorce is too easy. Summarizing that their children are at a significant and future of our children—the rising decades of social science research, a disadvantage when compared with generation. careful scholar concluded that “the children raised by married parents.21 We are speaking of the children of family structure that produces the best Most of the children born to God, and with His powerful help, we outcomes for children, on average, are unmarried mothers—58 percent— can do more to help them. In this plea two biological parents who remain were born to couples who were I address not only Latter-day Saints but married.” 18 A New York Times writer cohabitating.22 Whatever we may say also all persons of religious faith and noted “the striking fact that even as about these couples’ forgoing mar- others who have a value system that traditional marriage has declined in riage, studies show that their children causes them to subordinate their own

November 2012 45 as Injurious as Other Forms of Child Abuse, Study Shows,” Deseret News, Aug. 5, 2012, A3. 10. See “End the Abuses,” Deseret News, June 12, 2012, A10. 11. Thomas S. Monson, “A Little Child Shall Lead Them,” Liahona, June 2002, 2; Ensign, May 1990, 53. 12. W. Bradford Wilcox and Elizabeth Marquardt, eds., The State of Our Unions: Marriage in America (2011), 82. 13. Mary Ann Glendon, Abortion and Divorce in Western Law: American Failures, European Challenges (1987), 108. 14. David O. McKay, “Structure of the Home Threatened by Irresponsibility and Divorce,” Improvement Era, June 1969, 5. 15. See Diana B. Elliott and Tavia Simmons, “Marital Events of Americans: 2009,” American Community Survey Reports, Aug. 2011. 16. “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 129. 17. See Dallin H. Oaks, “Divorce,” Liahona and Ensign, May 2007, 71. 18. Charles Murray, Coming Apart: The State of White America, 1960–2010 (2012), 158. 19. Ross Douthat, “Gay Parents and the Marriage Debate,” New York Times, June 11, 2012, http://douthat.blogs.nytimes needs to those of others, especially to and for our nations. In the name of .com/2012/06/11/gay-parents-and-the 25 -marriage-debate. the welfare of children. Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ 20. See Joyce A. Martin and others, “Births: Religious persons are also con- Final Data for 2010,” National Vital scious of the Savior’s New Testament NOTES Statistics Reports, vol. 61, no. 1 (Aug. 1. See UNICEF, The State of the World’s 2012), 10. teaching that pure little children Children 2005: Childhood under Threat 21. See William J. Doherty and others, Why are our role models of humility and (2004), 26. Marriage Matters: Twenty-One Conclusions teachableness: 2. See Haya El Nasser, “National Birthrate from the Social Sciences (2002); Lowest in 25 Years,” USA Today, July 26, W. Bradford Wilcox and others, Why “Verily I say unto you, Except ye 2012, A1. Marriage Matters: Thirty Conclusions from be converted, and become as little 3. See Gilda Sedgh and others, “Induced the Social Sciences, 3rd ed. (2011). children, ye shall not enter into the Abortion: Incidence and Trends Worldwide 22. See Martin, “Births: Final Data for 2010,” from 1995 to 2008,” The Lancet, vol. 379, 10–11. kingdom of heaven. no. 9816 (Feb. 18, 2012), 625–32. 23. See Wilcox, Why Marriage Matters. “Whosoever therefore shall humble 4. See UNICEF, “Young Child Survival and 24. Douthat, “Gay Parents and the Marriage himself as this little child, the same is Development,” http://www.unicef.org/ Debate.” The latest and most thorough childsurvival/index.html. study finds significant disadvantages greatest in the kingdom of heaven” 5. See World Health Organization, World reported by young adults with a parent (Matthew 18:3–4). Health Statistics 2012 (2012), 109, 118. who had same-sex relationships prior In the Book of Mormon we read of 6. Report of Primary general presidency, to the child’s turning age 18 (see Mark the risen Lord teaching the Nephites Sept. 13, 2012. Regnerus, “How Different Are the Adult 7. Report of Primary general presidency. Children of Parents Who Have Same-Sex that they must repent and be baptized 8. See Jeffrey R. Holland, “Israel, Israel, God Relationships? Findings from the New “and become as a little child” or they Is Calling” (Church Educational System Family Structures Study,” Social Science could not inherit the kingdom of God devotional for young adults, Sept. 9, 2012), Research, vol. 41 [2012], 752–70). lds.org/broadcasts; see also R. Scott Lloyd, 25. Latter-day Saints are especially committed (3 Nephi 11:38; see also Moroni 8:10). “Zion Not Only Where, but How We Live, to parenthood as one of the most important I pray that we will humble our- Says Elder Holland,” Deseret News, Sept. 10, goals in life (see Pew Research Center’s selves as little children and reach out 2012, B2. Forum on Religion and Public Life, Mormons 9. See Kim Painter, “Parents Can Inflict Deep in America: Certain in Their Beliefs, to protect our little children, for they Emotional Harm,” USA Today, July 30, Uncertain of Their Place in Society, are the future for us, for our Church, 2012, B8; Rachel Lowry, “Mental Abuse Jan. 12, 2012, 10, 16, 51). 46 PRIESTHOOD SESSION | October 6, 2012

in 2011 were the worst they’ve been in 40 years. According to the National By Elder D. Todd Christofferson Center for Education Statistics (NCES), Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles boys are 30 percent more likely than girls to drop out of both high school and college. . . . It is predicted that women will earn 60 percent of bach- elor’s, 63 percent of master’s and 54 Brethren, We Have percent of doctorate degrees by 2016. Two-thirds of students in special edu- cation remedial programs are guys.” 3 Work to Do Some men and young men have taken the negative signals as an excuse to avoid responsibility and As men of the priesthood, we have an essential role to play never really grow up. In an observa- in society, at home, and in the Church. tion that is too often accurate, one university professor remarked, “The men come into class with their back- ward baseball caps and [their lame] rethren, much has been said and character qualities men had needed the ‘word processor ate my home- written in recent years about the to play their role—fortitude, stoicism, work’ excuses. Meanwhile, the women challenges of men and boys. A courage, fidelity—are obsolete and are checking their day planners and B 1 sampling of book titles, for example, even a little embarrassing.” asking for recommendations for law includes Why There Are No Good Men In their zeal to promote oppor- school.” 4 One female movie reviewer Left,The Demise of Guys,The End of tunity for women, something we expressed the rather cynical view that Men, Why Boys Fail, and Manning applaud, there are those who den- “what we can count on men for, if Up. Interestingly, most of these seem igrate men and their contributions. we’re lucky and we choose to have to have been written by women. In They seem to think of life as a compe- a partner, is to be just that—a part- any case, a common thread running tition between male and female—that ner. Someone who stands in his own through these analyses is that in many one must dominate the other, and space even as he respects our stand- societies today men and boys get con- now it’s the women’s turn. Some argue ing in our own.” 5 flicting and demeaning signals about that a career is everything and mar- Brethren, it cannot be this way with their roles and value in society. riage and children should be entirely us. As men of the priesthood, we have The author of Manning Up char- optional—therefore, why do we need an essential role to play in society, acterized it this way: “It’s been an men? 2 In too many Hollywood films, at home, and in the Church. But we almost universal rule of civilization TV and cable shows, and even com- must be men that women can trust, that whereas girls became women mercials, men are portrayed as incom- that children can trust, and that God simply by reaching physical maturity, petent, immature, or self-absorbed. can trust. In the Church and king- boys had to pass a test. They needed This cultural emasculation of males is dom of God in these latter days, we to demonstrate courage, physical having a damaging effect. cannot afford to have boys and men prowess, or mastery of the necessary In the United States, for example, who are drifting. We cannot afford skills. The goal was to prove their it is reported: “Girls outperform boys young men who lack self-discipline competence as protectors of women now at every level, from elementary and live only to be entertained. We and children; this was always their pri- school through graduate school. By cannot afford young adult men who mary social role. Today, however, with eighth grade, for instance, only 20 per- are going nowhere in life, who are women moving ahead in an advanced cent of boys are proficient in writing not serious about forming families economy, provider husbands and and 24 percent proficient in reading. and making a real contribution in this fathers are now optional, and the Young men’s SAT scores, meanwhile, world. We cannot afford husbands and

November 2012 47 fathers who fail to provide spiritual I recently saw a video showing a active and enjoy recreation, how to leadership in the home. We cannot day in the life of a 14-year-old young pursue hobbies without becoming afford to have those who exercise the man in India named Amar. He gets up addicted, how to correct mistakes and Holy Priesthood, after the Order of early and works two jobs, before and make better choices. the Son of God, waste their strength after school, six and a half days a week. And so to all who are listening, in pornography or spend their lives His income provides a substantial part wherever this message may reach you, in cyberspace (ironically being of the of his family’s livelihood. He hurries I say as Jehovah said to Joshua, “Be world while not being in the world). home on his worn bicycle from his strong and of a good courage” ( Joshua Brethren, we have work to do. second job after dark and somehow 1:6). Take heart and prepare the best Young men, you need to do well in squeezes in a few hours of homework you can, whatever your circumstances. school and then continue your educa- before dropping onto his bed on the Prepare to be a good husband and tion beyond high school. Some of you floor between sleeping siblings around father; prepare to be a good and will want to pursue university studies eleven o’clock at night. Although I’ve productive citizen; prepare to serve and careers in business, agriculture, never met him, I feel proud of him for the Lord, whose priesthood you hold. government, or other professions. his diligence and courage. He is doing Wherever you are, your Heavenly Some will excel in the arts, music, or the very best he can with his limited Father is mindful of you. You are not teaching. Others will choose a military resources and opportunities, and he is alone, and you have the priesthood career or learn a trade. Over the years, a blessing to his family. and the gift of the Holy Ghost. I have had a number of craftsmen You adult men—fathers, single Of the many places you are work on projects and repairs at my adults, leaders, home teachers—be needed, one of the very most impor- home, and I have admired the hard worthy models and help the rising tant is your priesthood quorum. We work and skill of these men. In what- generation of boys become men. need quorums that provide spiritual ever you choose, it is essential that Teach them social and other skills: nourishment to members on Sunday you become proficient so that you can how to participate in a conversation, and that also serve. We need leaders support a family and make a contribu- how to get acquainted and interact of quorums who focus on doing the tion for good in your community and with others, how to relate to women Lord’s work and on supporting quo- your country. and girls, how to serve, how to be rum members and their families. 48 Consider missionary work. Young history and the temple. Watch for a leadership and a quorum can accom- men, you have no time to waste. First Presidency letter arriving shortly plish. Phil was a member of an elders You can’t wait to get serious about that will offer a renewed call and a quorum and worked as a mechanic preparing until you are 17 or 18. higher vision of this vital part of the at a local automobile repair shop. Aaronic Priesthood quorums can help work we have to do. Unfortunately, the repair shop where their members understand the oath Our quorums also form a broth- Phil worked experienced economic and covenant of the priesthood and erhood of mutual support. President trouble and had to let Phil go from get ready for ordination as elders, Gordon B. Hinckley once said: “It will his job. He was devastated by this turn they can help them understand and be a marvelous day, my brethren—it of events. prepare for the ordinances of the will be a day of fulfillment of the pur- “On hearing about Phil’s job loss, temple, and they can help them poses of the Lord—when our priest- his bishop, Leon Olson, and his get ready for successful missions. hood quorums become an anchor elders quorum presidency prayerfully Melchizedek Priesthood quorums and of strength to every man belonging considered ways they could help Phil the Relief Society can help parents thereto, when each such man may get back on his feet. After all, he was prepare missionaries who know the appropriately be able to say, ‘I am a a fellow quorum member, a brother, Book of Mormon and who will go member of a priesthood quorum of and he needed help. They concluded into the field fully committed. And in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- that Phil had the skills to run his own each ward and branch, these same day Saints. I stand ready to assist my business. One of the quorum mem- quorums can lead out in an effective brethren in all of their needs, as I am bers offered that he had an old barn collaboration with the full-time mis- confident they stand ready to assist that perhaps could be used as a repair sionaries who are serving there. me in mine. . . . Working together, we shop. Other quorum members could A related work that rests primarily can stand, without embarrassment and help gather needed tools and supplies on priesthood shoulders is the Savior’s without fear, against every wind of to equip the new shop. Almost every- call, echoed by President Thomas S. adversity that might blow, be it eco- one in the quorum could at least help Monson, to rescue those who have nomic, social, or spiritual.’” 6 clean the old barn. drifted from the gospel or who have Despite our best efforts, things “They shared their ideas with Phil; become disaffected for any reason. don’t always work out as we have then they shared their plan with the We have had wonderful success in planned, and a particular “wind of members of their quorum. The barn this effort, including excellent work adversity” that can come into a man’s was cleaned and renovated, the tools by young men. An Aaronic Priesthood life is unemployment. An early Church gathered, and all was put in order. quorum in the Rio Grande (Spanish) welfare pamphlet stated: “A man Phil’s Auto was a success and even- Ward in Albuquerque, New Mexico, out of work is of special moment to tually moved to better and more counseled together about whom they the Church because, deprived of his permanent quarters—all because his could bring back and then as a group inheritance, he is on trial as Job was quorum brothers offered help in a went to visit each of them. One said, on trial—for his integrity. As days time of crisis.” 8 “When they came to my door, I felt lengthen into weeks and months and Of course, as has been repeated important,” and another confided, “I even years of adversity, the hurt grows by prophets over the years, “The feel happy inside that someone actually deeper. . . . The Church cannot hope most important of the Lord’s work wants me to go to church; it makes me to save a man on Sunday if during the you will ever do will be within the want to go to church now.” When the week it is a complacent witness to the walls of your own homes.” 9 We have quorum members invited one young crucifixion of his soul.” 7 much to do to strengthen marriage man to come back, they asked him to In April 2009 former Presiding in societies that increasingly trivialize come with them on the next visit, and Bishopric counselor Richard C. Edgley its importance and purpose. We have he did. They were not just inviting him told the story of an exemplary quorum much to do to teach our children “to to attend church; they were immedi- that mobilized to assist a fellow mem- pray, and to walk uprightly before ately making him a part of the quorum. ber who had lost his job: the Lord” (D&C 68:28). Our task is Another challenging but stimulat- “Phil’s Auto of Centerville, Utah, nothing less than to help our chil- ing priesthood work is that of family is a testament of what priesthood dren experience the mighty change

November 2012 49 of heart or conversion to the Lord endowed with power from on high modern path that the historic ambitions spoken of so eloquently in the Book (see D&C 43:16). of generations of women—to get married and raise a family—were intentionally of Mormon (see Mosiah 5:1–12; Alma The Church and the world and airbrushed from their vision of our future” 26). Together with the Relief Society, women are crying for men, men who (Eleanor Mills, “Learning to Be Left on the priesthood quorums can build up are developing their capacity and Shelf,” Sunday Times, Apr. 18, 2010, www .thetimes.co.uk; in Hymowitz, Manning parents and marriages, and quorums talents, who are willing to work and Up, 72). Another writer in her 40s quoted can provide the blessings of the priest- make sacrifices, who will help others some responses to an article she wrote hood to single-parent families. achieve happiness and salvation. They about her regrets over not marrying: “I am Yes, brethren, we have work to do. are crying, “Rise up, O men of God!” 10 totally appalled by your need for a man,” “Get some self-esteem!” “You have taken Thank you for the sacrifices you make God help us to do it. In the name of codependency to a whole new low,” and and the good you do. Keep going, Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ “If my daughter grows up to want a man and the Lord will help you. At times half as much as you do, I will know that NOTES I’ve done something wrong in raising her” you may not know quite what to do 1. Kay S. Hymowitz, Manning Up: How the (Lori Gottlieb, Marry Him: The Case for or what to say—just move forward. Rise of Women Has Turned Men into Boys Settling for Mr. Good Enough [2010], 55). Begin to act, and the Lord assures that (2011), 16. The good news is that most people, “an effectual door shall be opened for 2. “When you ask young people today including educated young adults, aren’t what will make them adults, almost buying the antimarriage, antifamily message. [you]” (D&C 118:3). Begin to speak, no one mentions marriage. They are “According to a study by a University of and He promises, “You shall not be far more likely to see issues around Pennsylvania economist, in the United States confounded before men; for it shall be work—completing education, financial in 2008, 86 percent of college-educated independence, a full-time job—as the white women were married by age 40, given you in the very hour, yea, in the signs that they have arrived. Work, career, compared with 88 percent of those with very moment, what ye shall say” (D&C independence: these are the primary less than a four-year degree. The numbers 100:5–6). It is true that we are in many sources of identity today” (Hymowitz, for white, college-educated men are similar: Manning Up, 45). The pressure on 84 percent of them were married by 40 in ways ordinary and imperfect, but we women to adopt this antimarriage ethic 2008. The conventional wisdom, not borne have a perfect Master who wrought a is especially intense. A Times of London out by research, by the way, may have it perfect Atonement, and we have call contributor wrote: “No one, not my family that marriage is a raw deal for women. But upon His grace and His priesthood. As or my teachers, ever said, ‘Oh yes, and by college-educated white women don’t seem the way you might want to be a wife and to believe it. They are the most likely of we repent and purge our souls, we are mother too.’ They were so determined any group to think that ‘married people are promised that we will be taught and we would follow a new, egalitarian, generally happier than unmarried people.’ . . . The large majority—70 percent—of first-year college students think raising a family is ‘essential’ or ‘very important’ to their futures” (Hymowitz, Manning Up, 173–74). 3. Philip G. Zimbardo and Nikita Duncan, The Demise of Guys: Why Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do about It (2012), e-book; see the chapter “Behind the Headlines.” 4. Barbara Dafoe Whitehead, Why There Are No Good Men Left: The Romantic Plight of the New Single Woman (2003), 67. 5. Amanda Dickson, “‘Hunger Games’ Main Character a Heroine for Our Day,” Deseret News, Apr. 2, 2012, www.deseretnews.com. 6. Gordon B. Hinckley, “Welfare Responsibil- ities of the Priesthood Quorums,” Ensign, Nov. 1977, 86. 7. Helping Others to Help Themselves: The Story of the Mormon Church Welfare Program (1945), 4. 8. Richard C. Edgley, “This Is Your Phone Call,” Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 54. 9. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Harold B. Lee (2000), 134. 10. “Rise Up, O Men of God,” Hymns, no. 323.

50 By Bishop Gary E. Stevenson and quickly informed his two friends Presiding Bishop that it was time to leave. Almost in ridicule, one of them replied, “John, this is easy—we’ll just stand in the circle, and when it is our turn, we’ll just pass it along rather than smoke Be Valiant in Courage, it. That way we won’t have to embar- rass ourselves in front of everyone by leaving.” This sounded easy to John, Strength, and Activity but it did not sound right. He knew he had to announce his intention and act. In a moment he mustered his courage Qualify yourselves as did the 2,000 stripling soldiers by being and told them that they could do as valiant in courage as worthy priesthood holders. they wished, but he was leaving. One friend decided to stay and joined the circle; the other reluctantly followed John down the stairs to board the onight I feel especially blessed to shared with me one of those moments elevator. Much to their surprise, when speak as a bishop to the young in his life. the elevator doors opened, Japanese Tmen, holders of the Aaronic Some years ago, John was accepted police officers poured out and hurried Priesthood, gathered from around at a prestigious Japanese university. to ascend the stairs to the rooftop. the world for this general priesthood He would be part of the international John and his friend boarded the eleva- meeting. I share with you narrative student program with many other top tor and departed. from the Book of Mormon describing students from around the world. Some When the police appeared at the Helaman and his 2,000 stripling sol- enrolled with a hope to deepen their top of the stairs, the students quickly diers. This scripture will provide insight understanding of the culture and lan- threw the illegal drugs off the roof into the character of those ancient guage, others viewed it as a stepping- so they wouldn’t be caught. After young men—and inspiration for you, stone to an eventual profession and securing the stairway, however, the latter-day young men. I quote a favorite employment in Japan, but all had left officers lined up everyone on the roof scripture: “And they were all young home to study in a foreign country. and asked each student to extend men, and they were exceedingly val- Soon after John’s arrival, word of both hands. The officers then walked iant for courage, and also for strength a party to be held on the rooftop of a down the line, carefully smelling and activity; but behold, this was not private residence spread among the each student’s thumbs and index all—they were men who were true at foreign student population. That eve- fingers. All who had held the mari- all times.” 1 Courage, strength, activity, ning, John and two friends made their juana, whether they had smoked it or and truth—what admirable traits! way to the advertised address. not, were presumed guilty, and there I would like to focus on the first Following an elevator ride to the were huge consequences. Almost trait that describes them: “valiant for top floor of the building, John and his without exception, the students courage.” To me, this describes the friends navigated the single narrow who had remained on the rooftop conviction of these young men to cou- stairway leading to the rooftop and were expelled from their respective rageously do what is right, or as Alma began mingling with the others. As universities, and those convicted of describes, “to stand as witnesses of the night wore on, the atmosphere a crime were likely deported from God at all times . . . and in all places.” 2 changed. The noise, music volume, Japan. Dreams of an education, years The 2,000 stripling soldiers had count- and alcohol amplified, as did John’s of preparation, and the possibility less moments to demonstrate their uneasiness. Then suddenly someone of future employment in Japan were courage. Each of you will also have began organizing the students into a dashed in a moment. defining moments in your life requir- large circle with the intent of sharing Now let me tell you what happened ing courage. A friend of mine, John, marijuana cigarettes. John grimaced to these three friends. The friend who

November 2012 51 stayed on the roof was expelled from Young men, there will be times secretary stated: “This year’s survey the university in Japan to which he had when you, like John, will have to reveals a new kind of potent peer worked so hard to be accepted and was demonstrate your righteous courage pressure—digital peer pressure. required to return home. The friend in plain view of your peers, the con- Digital peer pressure moves beyond a who left the party that night with John sequence of which may be ridicule child’s friends and the kids they hang finished school in Japan and went on to and embarrassment. Additionally, out with. It invades the home and a earn degrees from two top-tier universi- in your world, skirmishes with the child’s bedroom via the Internet.” 4 ties in the United States. His career took adversary will also be fought on a The demonstration of righteous him back to Asia, where he has enjoyed silent, solitary battlefield in front of a courage will often be as subtle as to immense professional success. He screen. Technology with its substan- click or not to click. Missionaries are remains grateful to this day for John’s tial benefits also brings challenges taught from Preach My Gospel, “What courageous example. As for John, the not faced by generations before you. you choose to think and do when consequences in his life have been A recent national survey found that you are alone and you believe no immeasurable. His time in Japan that today’s teens are tempted at alarming one is watching is a strong measure year led him to a happy marriage and levels each day not only in schools of your virtue.” 5 Be courageous! Be the subsequent birth of two sons. He but also in cyberspace. It revealed strong! “Stand ye in holy places, and has been a very successful businessman that teens who were exposed to be not moved.” 6 and recently became a professor at a images of drinking or drug use on Young men, I promise the Lord Japanese university. Imagine how differ- social networking sites were three will empower you. “For God hath ent his life would have been had he not to four times more likely to use not given us the spirit of fear; but of had the courage to leave the party on alcohol or drugs. Commenting on power.” 7 He will reward you for your that important evening in Japan.3 the survey, a former U.S. cabinet courage and righteous behavior— with happiness and joy. Such cour- age will be a byproduct of your faith in Jesus Christ and His Atonement, your prayers, and your obedience to commandments. President N. Eldon Tanner stated: “One young boy on the school ground can wield a mighty influ- ence for good. One young man on the football team, or the campus, or among his fellow workers can, by living the gospel, honoring his priest- hood, and taking a stand for the right, do untold good. Often you will expe- rience much criticism and ridicule even by those who believe as you do, even though they may respect you for doing right. But remember that the Savior himself was tormented, ridi- culed, spat upon, and finally crucified because he would not waver in his conviction. Have you ever stopped to think what would have happened had he weakened and said, ‘Oh, what’s the use?’ and abandoned his mission? Do we want to be quitters, 52 or do we want to be valiant servants Parents, priesthood leaders, and testimony of God the Father and in spite of all the opposition and evil prophetic priorities found in your Jesus Christ and the words of Joseph in the world? Let us have the courage Duty to God and For the Strength of Smith: “Brethren, shall we not go on to stand up and be counted as true, Youth pamphlets will guide you along in so great a cause? Go forward and devoted followers of Christ.” 8 the way. not backward. Courage, brethren; I invite you to qualify yourselves President Thomas S. Monson and on, on to the victory!” 11 In the as did the 2,000 stripling soldiers by recently counseled: name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ being valiant in courage as worthy “To make [decisions] wisely, cour- priesthood holders. Remember, what age is needed—the courage to say no, NOTES 1. Alma 53:20. you do, where you go, and what you the courage to say yes. . . . 2. Mosiah 18:9. see will shape who you become. Who “I plead with you to make a deter- 3. Personal story told to author. do you want to be­come? Become a mination . . . right now, not to deviate 4. Joseph A. Califano Jr., founder and chairman emeritus of the National Center worthy deacon, a worthy teacher, a from the path which will lead to our on Addiction and Substance Abuse at worthy priest. Set a goal to be worthy goal: eternal life with our Father in Columbia University, in a press release to enter the temple now and to be Heaven.” 10 regarding the research, casacolumbia.org. 5. Preach My Gospel: A Guide to Missionary worthy to receive your next ordinance Just as the 2,000 soldiers responded Service (2004), 118. at the proper age and ultimately to to the battle cry of their leader, 6. Doctrine and Covenants 87:8. receive the Melchizedek Priesthood. Helaman, and marshaled their valiant 7. 2 Timothy 1:7. 8. N. Eldon Tanner, “For They Loved the This is a pathway of righteousness courage, you too can do the same Praise of Men More Than the Praise of which invites divine assistance. The by following your prophet-leader, God,” Ensign, Nov. 1975, 74–75. Lord stated, “In the ordinances President Thomas S. Monson. 9. Doctrine and Covenants 84:20. 10. Thomas S. Monson, “The Three Rs of there­­of, the power of godliness is My young Aaronic Priesthood Choice,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 68. manifest.” 9 holders, in closing I offer my 11. Doctrine and Covenants 128:22.

November 2012 53 By Elder Anthony D. Perkins missionary, respected priesthood Of the Seventy leader, or beloved family member? The Old Testament story of David is a tragic example of squandered priesthood power. Although he defeated Goliath while young and Beware Concerning lived righteously for decades,10 this prophet-king was still spiritually vul- nerable. In that crucial moment when Yourselves from his rooftop he saw beautiful Bathsheba bathing, no moral life- guard stood near to shout, “Beware, Stay on the priesthood path by deepening your conversion and David, you fool!” His failure to beware strengthening your family. . . . Avoid tragedy by heeding spiritual concerning himself 11 and to act on “Beware” signs placed along our way by God and prophets. promptings of the Spirit 12 led to the loss of his eternal family.13 Brethren, if even mighty David can be swept off the road to exaltation, hen I was a young man, and higher priesthoods, progresses how can we avoid a similar fate? our family would drive over through magnifying our callings, and The twin guardrails of deep per- WAmerica’s Rocky Mountains climbs ever upward to God’s grandest sonal conversion and strong family to visit grandparents. The road began vistas, until we receive “all that [the] relations help keep us on the heavenly in sagebrush flatlands, ascended Father hath.” 2 highway. through steep, pine-covered slopes, The wise designer of that celestial Knowing this, Satan dislodges and ultimately emerged into aspen road has erected caution signs for our conversion-crushing and family- groves and mountaintop meadows, journey. The oath and covenant of the fracturing boulders to cross our where we could see almost forever. priesthood contains this soul-searching priesthood path. Thankfully, Jesus But this beautiful road was not per- warning: “I now give unto you a Christ and His prophets have placed fectly safe. Much of the highway was commandment to beware concerning “Beware” signs along the way. They carved into the steep mountainside. yourselves.” 3 consistently warn us of conversion- To protect travelers, road builders con- Why would God command us to crushing pride 14 and family-fracturing structed guardrails and placed signs beware? He knows that Satan is an sins such as anger, greed, and lust. that read, “Beware: Falling Rocks.” actual being 4 who seeks to drag down Long ago, Moses counseled, We observed ample reason for these our souls into the gulf of misery.5 God “Beware lest thou forget the Lord.” 15 warnings. Rocks and boulders were also knows that lurking within priest- In our fast-paced and entertainment- strewn along the riverbed far below hood holders is a “natural man” 6 “prone saturated world, men are still quick the road. Occasionally we could see to wander.” 7 Thus, prophets invite us to “forget the Lord, . . . to do iniquity, crumpled cars on the canyon bottom, to “put off the old man” 8 and “put on and to be led away by the evil one.” 16 a tragic record of drivers who failed to Christ” 9 through faith, repentance, sav- beware. ing ordinances, and daily gospel living. Deepen Conversion and Strengthen Family To stay safely on the priesthood Oath and Covenant of the Priesthood Avoiding Tragedy path amid rock slides of temptation, I Brethren, each of you has entered, While ascending the priesthood remind us of six fundamental prin- or will soon enter, into the oath path, any boy or man can be dragged ciples that deepen conversion and and covenant of the Melchizedek down if he fails to beware. Have strengthen family. Priesthood.1 In that covenant is you been stunned and heartbroken First, praying always opens the door embedded a glorious journey that by the unexpected fall of an out- for divine help to “conquer Satan.” 17 begins with receiving both the lesser standing young man, newly returned Each time Jesus alerts priesthood 54 family, or bully any person, then we lose priesthood power.29 Choose to control anger. Family members should hear blessings from our mouths, not cursings. We are to influence others only by persuasion, long-suffering, gentleness, meekness, love unfeigned, kindness, and charity.30 Fifth, obeying the law of tithing is an essential element of faith and family unity. Because Satan uses greed and the pursuit of possessions to sweep families off the celestial highway, Jesus advised, “Beware of covetousness.” 31 Covetousness is restrained as we project our income, pay an honest tithe and generous fast offering, budget needed expenses, avoid unnecessary debt, save for future needs, and become temporally self-reliant. God’s promise to us is, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” 32 Sixth, fully living the law of chastity yields confidence to stand “in the holders to “beware, for Satan desireth Third, worthily participating in presence of God” with the Holy Ghost to sift [you],” He prescribes prayer as ordinances prepares us to take “the as our “constant companion.” 33 Satan the temptation-countering action.18 Holy Spirit for [our] guide.” 22 When is assaulting virtue and marriage with President Thomas S. Monson has the Savior warned, “Beware lest ye are an avalanche of obscenity. When the taught: “If any of us has been slow to deceived,” He promised we will not Lord warned adulterers to “beware hearken to the counsel to pray always, be if we “seek . . . earnestly the best and repent speedily,” His definition there is no finer hour to begin than gifts” of the Spirit.23 Worthily partaking extended beyond the physical act of now. . . . A man never stands taller than of the sacrament each week qualifies adultery to the lustful thoughts that when he is upon his knees.” 19 members to “always have his Spirit to precede it.34 Modern prophets and Second, studying ancient and mod- be with them.” 24 In temple worship apostles have spoken often and clearly ern scripture connects us to God. The we may “receive a fulness of the about the plague of pornography. Lord cautioned Church members to Holy Ghost.” 25 President Gordon B. Hinckley taught: “beware how they hold [the prophets] Fourth, showing genuine love is “[Pornography] is like a raging storm, lest they are accounted as a light thing, at the heart of personal conversion destroying individuals and families, and are brought under condemnation and family relations. King Benjamin utterly ruining what was once whole- thereby, and stumble and fall.” 20 To directed, “Beware lest there shall arise some and beautiful. . . . The time has avoid this sobering condemnation, we contentions among you.” 26 Never for- come for any one of us who is so should diligently read the scriptures as get that Satan is the “father of conten- involved to pull himself out of the well as Church magazines and web- tion” 27 and seeks that family members mire.” 35 If you are tempted to violate sites that enable us to “be counseled “fight and quarrel.” 28 Brethren, if we the law of chastity in any form, follow in an intimate and personal way by are emotionally, verbally, or physi- Joseph of Egypt’s example, who “fled, [the Lord’s] chosen prophet.” 21 cally abusive to any member of our and got him out.” 36

November 2012 55 These six fundamental principles 13. See Doctrine and Covenants 132:39; see help priesthood holders continue up also Bible Dictionary, “David.” 14. See Doctrine and Covenants 23:1; 25:14; the heavenly highway safely between 38:39; see also Ezra Taft Benson, “Beware the spiritual guardrails of personal of Pride,” Ensign, May 1989, 4–7. 15. Deuteronomy 6:12; see also Deuteronomy conversion and family relationships. 8:11–19. Young men, obeying these principles 16. Alma 46:8. will prepare you for temple covenants, 17. Doctrine and Covenants 10:5. 18. See Doctrine and Covenants 52:12–15; full-time missionary service, and eter- see also Luke 22:31–32; Alma 37:15–17; nal marriage. Husbands and fathers, 3 Nephi 18:18–19. living these principles will qualify you 19. Thomas S. Monson, “Come unto Him in Prayer and Faith,” Liahona, Mar. 2009, 4; to preside over the home in righteous- the Savior affirms, “Beware . . . , and Ensign, Mar. 2009, 6. ness, serving as your family’s spiritual refrain from sin,” 42 He also promises: 20. Doctrine and Covenants 90:5; see also leader, with your wife as an equal “I, the Lord, forgive you. . . . Go your Doctrine and Covenants 41:1, 12. 37 43 21. Gordon B. Hinckley, “Faith: The Essence of partner. The priesthood path is a ways and sin no more.” True Religion,” Ensign, Nov. 1981, 5. journey filled with joy. I invite every boy and man to stay 22. Doctrine and Covenants 45:57. 23. Doctrine and Covenants 46:8; see also on the priesthood path by deepening Ephesians 4:14; Doctrine and Covenants Staying on the Priesthood Path your conversion and strengthening 52:14–16; Colossians 2:8. Returning to my experiences as a your family. Prayers, scriptures, and 24. Moroni 4:3; Doctrine and Covenants 20:77; see also 3 Nephi 18:1–11. young man, I remember one crossing ordinances deepen conversion. Love, 25. Doctrine and Covenants 109:15. of the Rocky Mountains. After passing tithing, and chastity strengthen family. 26. Mosiah 2:32. a “Beware: Falling Rocks” sign, my Avoid tragedy by heeding spiritual 27. See 3 Nephi 11:29–30. 28. Mosiah 4:14. father noticed pebbles and small stones “Beware” signs placed along our way 29. See Doctrine and Covenants 121:36–37; landing on the pavement in front of by God and prophets. Strive to follow see also Doctrine and Covenants 63:61–63. us. He quickly slowed the car to a near the perfect example of Jesus Christ, 30. See Doctrine and Covenants 121:41–45. 31. Luke 12:15; see also Doctrine and stop just as a basketball-sized boulder who “suffered temptations but gave no Covenants 38:39. whizzed by us. Dad waited for the rock heed unto them.” 44 32. Matthew 6:33; see also 3 Nephi 13:33. slide to cease before continuing. My I promise that if men keep the priest- 33. Doctrine and Covenants 121:45–46; see also Doctrine and Covenants 67:11; father’s constant attention and imme- hood covenant to “beware concerning Moses 1:11. diate action ensured that our family yourselves,” 45 we and our families can 34. See Doctrine and Covenants 63:14–16; see also Matthew 5:27–28; 3 Nephi safely reached our final destination. be assured of safely and joyfully reach- 12:27–30. Brethren, Satan seeks “to destroy ing our exalted destination in the celes- 35. Gordon B. Hinckley, “A Tragic Evil among the souls of men.” 38 If your soul is tial kingdom. I so testify in the sacred Us,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2004, 59, 62; see also Dallin H. Oaks, “Pornography,” drifting to the edge of a spiritual cliff, name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ Liahona and Ensign, May 2005, 87–90; stop now before you fall and steer NOTES Jeffrey R. Holland, “Place No More for the back on course.39 If you feel your 1. See Doctrine and Covenants 84:33–44. Enemy of My Soul,” Liahona and Ensign, 2. Doctrine and Covenants 84:38. May 2010, 44–46. soul lies wrecked at the bottom of a 3. Doctrine and Covenants 84:43. 36. Genesis 39:12. canyon rather than high on the priest- 4. See Joseph Smith—History 1:16; see also 37. See Handbook 2: Administering the hood path because you neglected Moses 1:12–22. Church (2010), 2.3. 5. See Helaman 5:12; see also 2 Nephi 1:13; 38. Doctrine and Covenants 10:27; see also “Beware” signs and sinned, I testify Helaman 7:16. 1 Peter 5:8. that through sincere repentance and 6. Mosiah 3:19; see also 1 Corinthians 2:14. 39. See Doctrine and Covenants 3:9–10; the power of Jesus Christ’s atoning 7. “Come, Thou Fount of Every Blessing,” 1 Corinthians 10:12–13; 2 Peter 3:17. Hymns (1948), no. 70. 40. See Alma 13:27–29; Doctrine and sacrifice, you can be lifted up and 8. See Colossians 3:8–10; see also Ephesians Covenants 109:21. restored to God’s heavenly highway.40 4:22–24. 41. Luke 12:1; see also Doctrine and 9. Galatians 3:27; see also Romans 13:14. Covenants 50:6–9. Jesus taught, “Beware ye of . . . 10. See 1 Samuel 13:14; 17:45–47. 42. Doctrine and Covenants 82:2. hypocrisy.” 41 If you are unworthy to 11. See 2 Samuel 11:1–17. 43. Doctrine and Covenants 82:1, 7. exercise the priesthood, please meet 12. “You will not make a major mistake without 44. Doctrine and Covenants 20:22; see also first being warned by the promptings of the Hebrews 2:17–18; 4:14–16. with your bishop, who can help you Spirit” (Boyd K. Packer, “Counsel to Youth,” 45. Doctrine and Covenants 84:43; see also repent. Take courage that although Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2011, 18). Deuteronomy 4:9; Mosiah 4:29–30. 56 By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf To quote the Wright brothers again, Second Counselor in the First Presidency “More than anything else the sensa- tion [of flying] is one of perfect peace, mingled with an excitement that strains every nerve to the utmost.” 2 In addition, flying with the Blue Angels suggested a The Joy totally different way of having “angels” round about you and bearing you up. If you were to ask me which of of the Priesthood these two flying experiences I enjoyed more, I’m not sure I could tell you. In some obvious ways, they were very dif- Let us embrace and understand the wonder and privilege ferent, to say the least. And yet in other of the priesthood. Let us accept and love the responsibilities ways, they were very much the same. we are asked to fulfill. In both the Piper Cub and the F-18, I felt the excitement, beauty, and joy of flight. In both I could feel the call of the poet to “[slip] the surly bonds of The Joy of Flying the autobahn in Germany, and sure Earth and [dance] the skies on laughter- Many years ago a couple of fellow enough, the cars below passed us silvered wings.” 3 airline captains and I decided to fulfill a comfortably! boyhood dream of restoring an antique But, oh, how I loved this little plane! The Same Priesthood Everywhere airplane. Together we purchased a It was the perfect way to experience Now, you might ask, what do these worn-down 1938 Piper Cub and started the wonder and beauty of flight. You two totally different flying experiences the work of returning it to its original could hear, feel, smell, taste, and see have to do with our meeting today or form. The project was a labor of love. It what flying was all about. The Wright with the priesthood we are privileged had special meaning for me because I brothers expressed it this way: “There to bear or with the priesthood service had learned to fly in a similar airplane is [nothing] equal to that which aviators we all love so much? when I was a young man. enjoy while being carried through the Brethren, isn’t it true that our indi- This airplane was first built only 35 air on great white wings.” 1 vidual experiences of service in the years after the Wright brothers made In contrast, earlier this year I had the priesthood may all be quite different? their famous first flight. Just thinking privilege to fly in a sophisticated F-18 We could say some of you are flying in of that makes me feel very old. fighter jet with the world-famous Blue F-18 jets, while others are flying in Piper The engine did not have an elec- Angels, the United States Navy’s flight Cubs. Some of you live in wards and tric starter; as you were priming the demonstration team. It was like taking stakes where every position, from assis- engine from the cockpit, someone a flight above and along memory lane tant to the high priests group leader to else on the ground would grab hold because exactly 50 years before, almost the deacons quorum secretary, is filled of the propeller and hurl it with might to the day, I had completed my training with an active priesthood holder. Yours until the engine would run on its own. as an air force fighter pilot. is the privilege to participate in a ward Each engine start was a moment of The F-18 flight experience, of organization that is well staffed. excitement and bravery. course, was totally different from the Others of you live in areas of the Once the plane was airborne, it one in the Piper Cub. It showed me world where there is only a small became clear the Piper Cub was not a more dynamic beauty of flying. It handful of Church members and built for speed. As a matter of fact, was like applying the existing laws of priesthood holders. You may feel when there was a strong headwind, it aerodynamics­ in a more perfect way. alone and burdened with the weight seemed as though we were not mov- However, flying with the Blue Angels of all that needs to be done. For you ing at all. I remember flying together also quickly reminded me that being a it may take a lot of personal hands-on with my teenage son, Guido, above jet fighter pilot is a young man’s game. involvement to get the engine of

November 2012 57 priesthood service started. Sometimes Let us understand, appreciate, and We know and understand that the it may even seem that your branch or feel the joy of service in the priesthood. priesthood is the eternal power and ward is not moving forward at all. authority of God. We can easily recite However, no matter what your The Joy of the Priesthood this definition from memory. However, responsibilities or circumstances may My love for flying influenced the do we truly comprehend the signif- be, you and I know there is always a direction of my entire life. But as icance of what we’re saying? Let me special joy that comes from dedicated invigorating and blissful as my experi- repeat: the priesthood is the eternal priesthood service. ences as a pilot were, my experiences power and authority of God. I always loved flying, whether it as a member of this Church have been Think of it. Through the priest- was in a Piper Cub, an F-18, or any much deeper, more joyful, and far hood, God created and governs the other plane. While in the Piper Cub, more profound. As I have immersed heavens and the earth. I did not complain about the lack of myself in Church service, I have felt Through this power, He redeems speed; while in the F-18, I did not God’s almighty power as well as His and exalts His children, bringing “to grumble when the strain of the aero- tender mercies. pass the immortality and eternal life batic maneuvers mercilessly revealed As a pilot, I have touched the of man.” 4 the realities of my advancing age. skies. As a Church member, I have felt The priesthood, as the Prophet Yes, there is always something heaven’s embrace. Joseph Smith explained, is “the imperfect in any situation. Yes, it is Every now and then, I miss sitting channel through which the Almighty easy to find things to complain about. in a cockpit. But serving alongside my commenced revealing His glory at the But brethren, we are bearers of the brothers and sisters in the Church eas- . . . creation of this earth, and through Holy Priesthood, after the Order of ily makes up for it. Being able to feel which He has continued to reveal the Son of God! Each of us had hands the sublime peace and joy that grow Himself to the children of men to the laid upon our head, and we received from being a small part of this great present time, and through which He the priesthood of God. We have been cause and work, I would not want to will make known His purposes to the given authority and responsibility to miss for anything in the world. end of time.” 5 act in His name as His servants on Today we are assembled as a Our all-powerful Father in Heaven earth. Whether in a large ward or a vast body of the priesthood. It is our has entrusted priesthood authority to small branch, we are called upon to sacred joy and privilege to serve the us—mortal beings who, by definition, serve, to bless, and to act in all things Lord and our fellowmen, to commit are flawed and imperfect. He grants for the good of everyone and every- the best that is within us to the noble to us the authority to act in His name thing entrusted to our care. Could cause of lifting others and building for the salvation of His children. By there be anything more exhilarating? the kingdom of God. this great power we are authorized 58 to preach the gospel, administer the long-suffering, . . . gentleness and wonder and privilege of the priest- ordinances of salvation, help build meekness, and by love unfeigned.” 9 hood. They are like passengers on the kingdom of God on the earth, and The priesthood of Almighty God an airplane who spend their time bless and serve our families and our is available to worthy men wherever grumbling about the size of the packet fellowmen. they may be—no matter their ancestry, of peanuts while they are soaring no matter how humble their circum- through the air, far above the clouds— Available to All stances, in the nearest or farthest something ancient kings would have This is the sacred priesthood reaches of the globe. It is available given all they possessed to try and we bear. without money or any worldly price. experience just once! The priesthood, or any responsibil- To paraphrase the ancient prophet Brethren, we are blessed to be ity within it, cannot be purchased or Isaiah, everyone who is thirsty can humble partakers of this great priest- commanded. The use of priesthood come to the waters, and no money hood authority and power. Let us lift power cannot be influenced, swayed, is required to come and eat! 10 up our eyes and see, recognize, and or compelled by position, by wealth, or And because of the eternal and accept this opportunity for what it by influence. It is a spiritual power that unfathomable Atonement of our really is. operates on heavenly law. It originates Savior, Jesus Christ, the priesthood Through righteous, loving, and in the great Heavenly Father of us all. Its of God can be available even if you dedicated priesthood service, we will power can be controlled and directed have stumbled or have been unwor- be able to experience the true mean- only through principles of righteous- thy in the past. Through the spiritu- ing of the revelation: “I will go before ness,6 not self-righteousness. ally refining and cleansing process your face. I will be on your right hand Christ is the source of all true of repentance, you can “arise and and on your left, and my Spirit shall priesthood authority and power on shine forth”! 11 Because of the bound- be in your hearts, and mine angels earth.7 It is His work, in which we are less, forgiving love of our Savior round about you, to bear you up.” 12 privileged to assist. “And no one can and Redeemer, you can lift up your Let us embrace and understand the assist in this work except he shall be eyes, become clean and worthy, and wonder and privilege of the priest- humble and full of love, having faith, develop into righteous and noble sons hood. Let us accept and love the hope, and charity, being temperate of God—worthy bearers of the most responsibilities we are asked to fulfill— in all things, whatsoever shall be sacred priesthood of Almighty God. responsibilities in our homes and in entrusted to his care.” 8 our Church units, no matter how large We do not act for personal gain, The Wonder and Privilege or small they may be. Let us constantly but rather we seek to serve and of the Priesthood increase in righteousness, dedication, to lift up others. We lead not by I feel a certain sadness for those and priesthood service. Let us find the force but through “persuasion, . . . who do not grasp and appreciate the joy of serving in the priesthood! We can do this best by applying the Sobral, Brazil principles of knowledge, obedience, and faith. That means, first, we need to know and internalize the doctrine of the priest- hood found in the revealed word of God. It is important for us to understand the covenants and commandments upon which the priesthood operates.13 Next, let us be wise and act upon this gained knowledge constantly and honorably. As we obey God’s laws, discipline our minds and bodies, and attune our actions to the patterns of righteousness taught by the prophets,

November 2012 59 we will experience the joy of priest- By President Henry B. Eyring hood service. First Counselor in the First Presidency And finally, let us deepen our faith in our Lord, Jesus Christ. Let us take upon ourselves His name and commit each single day to walk anew in the path of discipleship. Let Help Them Aim High our works make our faith perfect.14 Through discipleship we may be With your guidance, those you lead will be able to see, perfected one step at a time by serving our family, our fellowmen, and God. want, and believe they can achieve their full potential When we serve in the priesthood for service in God’s kingdom. with all our heart, might, mind, and strength, we have a promise of sublime knowledge, peace, and spiritual gifts. As we honor the holy priesthood, God will ’m so grateful for this opportunity to With your guidance, those you lead honor us, and we will “stand blameless be in this great priesthood meeting, will be able to see, want, and believe before [Him] at the last day.” 15 Ito have heard such wonderful teach- they can achieve their full potential for That we may always have eyes to ing and testimony. It made me think of service in God’s kingdom. see and a heart to feel the wonder and my own experience. Almost every- With my own children, I prayed joy of the priesthood of our great and thing that I’ve been able to accomplish for revelation to know how I could mighty God is my prayer in the name as a priesthood bearer is because help each of them individually of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ individuals who knew me saw things prepare for specific opportunities to in me that I couldn’t see. serve God. And then I tried to help NOTES As a young father I prayed to know them visualize, hope, and work for 1. Wilbur Wright, in James Tobin, To Conquer the Air: The Wright Brothers and the Great what contributions my children might this future. I carved a board for each Race for Flight (2003), 238. make in the Lord’s kingdom. For the son with a quotation from scripture 2. Wright brothers, in Tobin, To Conquer the boys, I knew they could have priest- that described his special gifts and Air, 397. 3. John Gillespie Magee Jr., “High Flight,” in hood opportunities. For the girls, I an image that represented this gift. Diane Ravitch, ed., The American Reader: knew they would give service repre- Beneath the picture and the legend, I Words That Moved a Nation (1990), 486. senting the Lord. All would be doing carved the dates of each boy’s baptism 4. Moses 1:39. 5. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: His work. I knew each was an indi- and ordination into priesthood offices, Joseph Smith (2007), 108–9. vidual, and therefore the Lord would with his height marked at the date of 6. See Doctrine and Covenants 121:36. have given them specific gifts for each each milestone. 7. See Hebrews 5:4–10; Doctrine and Covenants 107:3. to use in His service. I will describe the boards I carved 8. Doctrine and Covenants 12:8. Now, I cannot tell every father and for each son to help him see his spir- 9. Doctrine and Covenants 121:41. every leader of youth the details of itual gifts and what he might contrib- 10. See Isaiah 55:1. 11. Doctrine and Covenants 115:5. what is best for you to do. But I can ute in the Lord’s work. You can be 12. Doctrine and Covenants 84:88. promise you that you will bless them inspired to recognize, as I did, specific 13. See Doctrine and Covenants 84:33–44; to help them recognize the spiritual gifts and unique opportunities for 121:34–46. 14. See James 2:22. gifts with which they were born. Every each of the youth you love and lead. 15. Doctrine and Covenants 4:2. person is different and has a differ- When my oldest son became a ent contribution to make. No one is deacon and an Eagle Scout, a pic- destined to fail. As you seek revelation ture of an eagle came to my mind as Short Video Highlight to see gifts God sees in those you lead I thought of him and his future. We Scan this QR code to watch in the priesthood—particularly the were living in Idaho near the base of or share a short video clip (1–2 minutes) of this message. young—you will be blessed to lift their the South Teton mountain, where we sights to the service they can perform. hiked together and watched the eagles 60 it may be, as it was for my son, that the Lord lifted him higher in preach- ing the gospel in a difficult language than I had thought possible. If you will try with any young man to sense his priesthood possibilities, I promise you the Lord will tell you as much as you need. The boy may have potential even beyond what the Lord will reveal to you. Help him aim high. The boy you are encouraging may seem too timid to be a powerful priesthood servant. Another one of my sons was so shy as a little boy that he wouldn’t walk into a store and talk to a clerk. He was too afraid. I worried as I prayed over his priesthood future. I thought of him in the mission field— that didn’t sound promising. I was led to a scripture in Proverbs: “The wicked flee when no man pursueth: but the righteous are bold as a lion.” 2 I carved “Bold as a Lion” on his board, beneath an image of a large lion’s head roaring. On his mission and in the years that followed, he fulfilled the hope in my carving. My once-shy son preached the gospel with great conviction and faced dangers with bravery. He was magnified in his responsibilities to represent the Lord. That can happen for the young soar. That picture in my mind gave me weary. He wanted to stop. He said, man you are leading. You need to the feeling of Isaiah’s words: “Will I always be sorry that we didn’t build his faith that the Lord can trans- “He giveth power to the faint; and make it to the top? Dad, you go on—I form him into a servant braver than to them that have no might he increas- don’t want you to be disappointed.” the timid boy you now see. eth strength. I replied, “I’ll never be disappointed, We know the Lord makes His ser- “Even the youths shall faint and and you’ll never be sorry. We’ll always vants bold. The young boy Joseph who be weary, and the young men shall remember that we climbed here saw God the Father and His Son, Jesus utterly fall: together.” At the top of his height Christ, in a grove of trees was trans- “But they that wait upon the Lord board, I carved an eagle and the formed into a spiritual giant. Parley P. shall renew their strength; they shall inscription “On Eagles’ Wings.” Pratt saw that when the Prophet Joseph mount up with wings as eagles; they Over the years, my son soared Smith rebuked the vile guards who held shall run, and not be weary; and they higher as a missionary than I had them captive. Elder Pratt recorded: shall walk, and not faint.” 1 imagined in my fondest hopes. In “On a sudden he arose to his feet, In fact, with that oldest son, we had the challenges of the mission field, and spoke in a voice of thunder, or as stopped hiking below the peak of the some of what he faced seemed to be the roaring lion, uttering, as near as I South Teton because my son grew above his reach. For the boy you lift, can recollect, the following words:

November 2012 61 and me. They care for our yard as though it were their own. This son is living not only to qualify for eter- nal life but also to live surrounded eternally by grateful family members whom he is gathering around him. Life eternal is to live in unity, in fam- “‘SILENCE, ye fiends of the infernal priesthood holders, he organized stake ilies, with the Father, the Son, and the pit. In the name of Jesus Christ I rebuke activities that gave the youth in his Holy Ghost. Eternal life is only possible you, and command you to be still; I area faith to endure and even triumph through the keys of the priesthood will not live another minute and hear in difficult situations. As he built faith of God, which were restored through such language. Cease such talk, or you in these young men and women, he the Prophet Joseph Smith. Holding or I die THIS INSTANT!’” helped build outposts of Zion in the that eternal goal before the youth you Of that experience, Elder Pratt urban centers of America. In the carv- lead is as great a gift as you could give wrote, “Dignity and majesty have I ing, I had the angels blowing trum- them. You will do it primarily by exam- seen but once, as it stood in chains, at pets, which may not be exactly how ple in your own family. Those you lead midnight, in a dungeon in an obscure they do it, but it was easier to carve a may not have a family in the Church, village of Missouri.” 3 trumpet than a shout. but I challenge you to help them feel The Lord will give His righteous Angels rejoice as priesthood leaders and want the love of family on both servants opportunities to be bold as across the world build Zion in their sides of the veil. lions when they speak in His name wards, stakes, and missions. And they The height boards I have described and as witnesses in His priesthood. will rejoice over the young men and are only one way to help young people Another son, even as a boy, had women you help to build Zion wher- glimpse the grandeur God sees in them a large circle of friends who often ever they are and in whatever circum- and their futures and the unique service sought his company. He forged bonds stances they may be. Zion is the result He has prepared them to give. He will easily among people. As I prayed and of people bound by covenant and love. help you see how to do it for your chil- tried to foresee his contribution in I invite you to help your youth to join. dren or for other youth you lead. But God’s kingdom, I felt that he would For one of my sons, I was as you prayerfully seek to glimpse this have the power to draw people prompted to carve a sun—that is, the future for yourself and to communicate together in love and unity. sun in the sky—and the words from it to the young person one on one, you That led me to the account in the Savior’s Intercessory Prayer: “This will come to know that God loves each the Doctrine and Covenants that Is Life Eternal.” Near the end of His of His children as individuals and sees describes the efforts of priesthood mortal ministry, the Savior prayed to great and unique gifts in each of them. elders to build Zion in Missouri to His Father: As a father I was blessed to see great the acclaim of angels who saw their “And this is life eternal, that they futures in God’s kingdom for my daugh- efforts and their contributions. That might know thee the only true God, ters as well as my sons. When I prayer- required great sacrifice. The revelation and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent. fully sought guidance, I was shown a in the Doctrine and Covenants says, “I have glorified thee on the earth: way to help my daughters recognize “Nevertheless, ye are blessed, for the I have finished the work which thou the trust God had placed in them as testimony which ye have borne is gavest me to do.” 5 servants who could build His kingdom. recorded in heaven for the angels to My son has given priesthood ser- When my daughters were young, look upon; and they rejoice over you, vice across three continents but most I saw that we could help others feel and your sins are forgiven you.” 4 importantly in his home and within the love of those beyond the veil, On my son’s height board, I carved his family. He has built his life around throughout the generations. I knew “Angels Rejoice over You.” them. He works close to home, and that love comes from service and This son’s great ability to gather he often returns to join his wife and inspires hope of life eternal. and influence people extended well younger children at the lunch hour. So we carved breadboards on beyond his school years. With fellow His family lives very near Sister Eyring which we placed a loaf of homemade 62

General Authorities of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

THE FIRST PRESIDENCY October 2012

Henry B. Eyring Thomas S. Monson Dieter F. Uchtdorf First Counselor President Second Counselor THE QUORUM OF THE TWELVE APOSTLES

Boyd K. Packer L. Tom Perry Russell M. Nelson Dallin H. Oaks M. Russell Ballard Richard G. Scott

Robert D. Hales Jeffrey R. Holland David A. Bednar Quentin L. Cook D. Todd Christofferson Neil L. Andersen

THE PRESIDENCY OF THE SEVENTY

Ronald A. Rasband Walter F. González L. Whitney Clayton Donald L. Hallstrom Tad R. Callister Richard J. Maynes Craig C. Christensen THE FIRST QUORUM OF THE SEVENTY THE SECOND QUORUM OF THE SEVENTY (in alphabetical order) (in alphabetical order)

Marcos A. Aidukaitis Jose L. Alonso Carlos H. Amado Ian S. Ardern Mervyn B. Arnold David S. Baxter Shayne M. Bowen Craig A. Cardon Yoon Hwan Choi Don R. Clarke Wilford W. Andersen Koichi Aoyagi Randall K. Bennett Bruce A. Carlson

Carl B. Cook Lawrence E. Corbridge Claudio R. M. Costa LeGrand R. Curtis Jr. Benjamín De Hoyos John B. Dickson Kevin R. Duncan Larry Echo Hawk Stanley G. Ellis David F. Evans J. Devn Cornish Bradley D. Foster O. Vincent Haleck Larry R. Lawrence

Enrique R. Falabella Eduardo Gavarret Robert C. Gay Carlos A. Godoy Christoffel Golden Jr. Gerrit W. Gong C. Scott Grow James J. Hamula Daniel L. Johnson Paul V. Johnson Per G. Malm James B. Martino Jairo Mazzagardi Kent F. Richards

Patrick Kearon Paul E. Koelliker Erich W. Kopischke Marcus B. Nash Brent H. Nielson Allan F. Packer Kevin W. Pearson Anthony D. Perkins Paul B. Pieper Rafael E. Pino Gregory A. Schwitzer Kent D. Watson Larry Y. Wilson

Bruce D. Porter Dale G. Renlund Michael T. Ringwood Lynn G. Robbins Joseph W. Sitati Steven E. Snow Ulisses Soares Michael John U. Teh José A. Teixeira Juan A. Uceda

THE PRESIDING BISHOPRIC

Francisco J. Viñas W. Christopher Waddell William R. Walker F. Michael Watson Scott D. Whiting Kazuhiko Yamashita Jorge F. Zeballos Claudio D. Zivic W. Craig Zwick

Gérald Caussé Gary E. Stevenson Dean M. Davies First Counselor Presiding Bishop Second Counselor Thanks to what President Thomas S. Monson called “unprecedented cover- age,” Latter-day Saints throughout the world enjoy the blessings of general conference. Pictured clockwise from top left are members and missionaries in Quelimane, Mozambique; Tallinn, Estonia; Warsaw, Poland; Mexico City, Mexico; Edinburgh, Scotland; Taipei, Taiwan; and Gaborone, Botswana. bread and went together to deliver our the passages of scripture and the brief the peacemakers.” 6 I was so surprised offering to widows, widowers, and messages of testimony we write. And that a perfect stranger could know my families. The legend I carved on each we see evidence in their lives of their heart that I opened my eyes to see the of those breadboards read, “J’aime hearts being turned toward us and to room where such a miracle was hap- et J’espere,” French for “I love and I the Savior and upward. pening. That blessing of my possibili- hope.” The evidence of their unique There are other ways to reach out; ties has shaped my life, my marriage, spiritual gifts appeared not just on the you are already engaged in many of and my priesthood service. boards I carved but more clearly as we them. Your habits of family prayer and From that experience and what has distributed them to those who needed, scripture reading will create more last- followed it, I can testify, “For all have in the midst of pain or loss, reassur- ing memories and greater changes of not every gift given unto them; for ance that the love of the Savior and His heart than you may realize now. Even there are many gifts, and to every man Atonement could produce a perfect apparently temporal activities, such as is given a gift by the Spirit of God.” 7 brightness of hope. This is life eternal attending an athletic event or watch- By the Lord revealing to me a gift, I for my daughters and for each of us. ing a movie, can shape a child’s heart. have been able to recognize and pre- Now, you may be thinking, “Brother What matters is not the activity but the pare for opportunities to exercise it to Eyring, are you saying that I have to feelings that come as you do it. I have the blessing of those I love and serve. learn how to carve?” The answer is no. discovered a good test for identifying God knows our gifts. My challenge I learned to carve only with the help activities with the potential to make a to you and to me is to pray to know of a kind and gifted mentor, then- great difference in a young person’s the gifts we have been given, to know Elder Boyd K. Packer. What little skill I life. It is that they suggest the activity how to develop them, and to recog- achieved can be attributed to his great out of an interest they feel has come to nize the opportunities to serve others gift as a carver and his patience as a them as a gift from God. I know that is that God provides us. But most of all, teacher. Only heaven can provide such possible from my own experience. I pray that you will be inspired to help a mentor as President Packer. But there When I became a deacon at the age others discover their special gifts from are many ways you can shape chil- of 12, I lived in New Jersey, 50 miles God to serve. dren’s hearts without carving wooden (80 km) from New York City. I dreamed I promise you that if you ask, you boards or height boards for them. of being a great baseball player. My will be blessed to help and lift others For example, new communication father agreed to take me to see a game to their full potential in the service of technologies allow sharing messages played in the old and storied Yankee those they lead and love. I testify to of faith and hope across the miles that Stadium, in the Bronx. I can still see you that God lives, Jesus is the Christ, separate us, instantaneously and at the swing of the bat as Joe DiMaggio this is the priesthood of God, which little or no cost. My wife helps me do hit a home run into the center field we hold, and God has prepared us this. We begin by talking by telephone stands with my father sitting beside me, with special gifts to serve Him beyond with grandchildren or children we can the only time we ever went to a major our fondest hopes. In the name of reach. We ask them to share stories league baseball game together. Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ of their personal successes and their But another day with my father NOTES service rendered. We also invite them shaped my life forever. He took me 1. Isaiah 40:29–31. 2. Proverbs 28:1. to send photos of those activities. We from New Jersey to the home of an 3. Autobiography of Parley P. Pratt, ed. use those photos to illustrate a few ordained patriarch in Salt Lake City. I Parley P. Pratt Jr. (1938), 211. paragraphs of text. We add one or had never seen the man before. My 4. Doctrine and Covenants 62:3. 5. John 17:3–4. two verses from the Book of Mormon. father left me at the doorstep. The 6. Matthew 5:9. Perhaps Nephi and Mormon wouldn’t patriarch led me to a chair, placed his 7. Doctrine and Covenants 46:11. be very impressed by the spiritual hands on my head, and pronounced quality of our content or the limited a blessing as a gift from God that effort required to create what we call included a declaration of the great Short Video Highlight “The Family Journal: The Small Plates.” desire of my heart. Scan this QR code to watch or share a short video clip But Sister Eyring and I are blessed by He said that I was one of those of (1–2 minutes) of this message. the effort. We feel inspired in selecting whom it had been said, “Blessed are

November 2012 67 to be told she is valued. She needs to By President Thomas S. Monson be told she is worthwhile. Brethren, I know that men are very much like women in this regard. We need to be told that we amount to something, that we are capable and See Others as worthwhile. We need to be given a chance to serve. For those members who have slipped from activity or who They May Become hold back and remain noncommittal, we can prayerfully seek for some way to reach them. Asking them to serve in We must develop the capacity to see men not as they are some capacity may just be the incen- at present but as they may become. tive they need to return to full activity. But those leaders who could help in this regard are sometimes reluctant to do so. We need to bear in mind y dear brethren, twice truth. Although to varying degrees, that people can change. They can put each year this magnificent I believe every man or young man behind them bad habits. They can MConference Center is filled to here tonight has a testimony. If you repent from transgressions. They can capacity with the priesthood of God as feel that you do not yet have the bear the priesthood worthily. And they we gather to hear messages of inspira- depth of testimony you would wish, can serve the Lord diligently. May I tion. There is a marvelous spirit which I admonish you to work to achieve provide a few illustrations. permeates the general priesthood such a testimony. If it is strong and When I first became a member of meeting of the Church. This spirit deep, labor to keep it that way. How the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, emanates from the Conference Center blessed we are to have a knowledge I had the opportunity to accompany and enters every building where the of the truth. President N. Eldon Tanner, a counselor sons of God assemble. We have surely My message tonight, brethren, is that to President David O. McKay, to a stake felt that spirit tonight. there are countless individuals who conference in Alberta, Canada. During Some years ago, before this beau- have little or no testimony right now, the meeting, the stake president read tiful Conference Center was built, a those who could and would receive the names of four brethren who had visitor to Temple Square in Salt Lake such a testimony if we would be willing qualified to be ordained elders. These City attended a general conference to make the effort to share ours and to were men whom President Tanner session in the Tabernacle. He listened help them change. In some instances knew, for at one time he had lived in to the messages of the Brethren. He we can provide the incentive for that area. But President Tanner knew paid attention to the prayers. He heard change. I mention first those who are and remembered them as they once the beautiful music by the Tabernacle members but who are not at present were and did not know that they had Choir. He marveled at the grandeur fully committed to the gospel. turned their lives around and had fully of the magnificent Tabernacle organ. Many years ago, at an area confer- qualified to become elders. When the meeting had ended he was ence held in Helsinki, Finland, I heard The stake president read the name heard to say, “I would give everything a powerful, memorable, and moti- of the first man and asked him to stand. I possess if I knew that what those vating message given in a mothers President Tanner whispered to me, speakers said today was true.” In and daughters’ session. I have not “Look at him. I never thought he would essence he was saying, “I wish that I forgotten that message, though nearly make it.” The stake president read the had a testimony of the gospel.” 40 years have passed since I heard it. name of the second man, and he stood. There is absolutely nothing in this Among many truths the speaker dis- President Tanner nudged me again and world that will provide more comfort cussed, she said that a woman needs reported his astonishment. And so it and happiness than a testimony of the to be told she is beautiful. She needs was with all four of the brethren. 68 After the meeting, President Tanner president. I shall always remember the as they are at present but as they may and I had the opportunity to congrat- day that I had an interview with him. I become when they receive testimo- ulate these four brethren. They had told him that the Lord had inspired me nies of the gospel of Christ. demonstrated that men can change. to call him to be the president of the I once attended a meeting in During the 1940s and 1950s, an branch. After much protest on his part, Leadville, Colorado. Leadville is situated American prison warden, Clinton and much encouragement on the part at an altitude of over 10,000 feet (3,000 Duffy, was well known for his efforts of his wife, he indicated that he would m). I remember that particular meet- to rehabilitate the men in his prison. serve. I ordained him a priest. ing because of the high altitude, but I Said one critic, “You should know that It was the beginning of a new day also remember it for what took place leopards don’t change their spots!” for that man. His life was quickly put that evening. There were just a small Replied Warden Duffy, “You should in order, and he assured me that he number of priesthood holders present. know I don’t work with leopards. would live the commandments as he As with the branch in the Canadian I work with men, and men change was expected to live them. In a few Mission, that branch was presided over every day.” 1 months he was ordained an elder. He by a missionary and always had been. Many years ago it was my oppor- and his wife and family eventually That night we had a lovely meeting, tunity to serve as president of the went to the temple and were sealed. but as we were singing the closing Canadian Mission. There we had a Their children served missions and song, the inspiration came to me that branch with very limited priesthood. married in the house of the Lord. there ought to be a local branch presi- We always had a missionary presiding Sometimes letting our brethren dent presiding. I turned to the mis- over the branch. I received a strong know they are needed and valued sion president and asked, “Isn’t there impression that we needed to have a can help them take that step into someone here who could preside—a member of the branch preside there. commitment and full activity. This can local man?” We had one adult member in the be true of priesthood holders regard- He replied, “I don’t know of one.” branch who was a deacon in the less of age. It is our responsibility to During the singing of that song, Aaronic Priesthood but who didn’t give them opportunities to live as they I looked carefully at the men who attend or participate enough to be should. We can help them to over- were seated on the first three rows. advanced in the priesthood. I felt come their shortcomings. We must My attention seemed to be focused inspired to call him as the branch develop the capacity to see men not on one of the brethren. I said to the

November 2012 69 , “Could he serve as had such phenomenal success when at our friends, our associates, our the ?” others didn’t. The young man said that neighbors this way. Again, we have He replied, “I don’t know. Perhaps he attempted to baptize every per- the responsibility to see individuals he could.” son whom he met. He said that if he not as they are but rather as they can I said, “President, I’ll take him into knocked on the door and saw a man become. I would plead with you to the other room and interview him. smoking a cigar and dressed in old think of them in this way. You speak after the closing song until clothes and seemingly uninterested in Brethren, the Lord told us something we return.” anything—particularly religion—the about the importance of this priesthood When the two of us walked back missionary would picture in his own that we hold. He told us that we receive in the room, the mission president mind what that man would look like it with an oath and a covenant. He gave concluded his testimony. I presented under a different set of circumstances. unto us the instruction that we must be the name of the brother to be the new In his mind he would look at him as faithful and true in all that we receive, branch president. From that day for- clean-shaven and wearing a white and that we have the responsibility to ward, Leadville, Colorado, had a local shirt and white trousers. And the keep this covenant even unto the end. member leading the unit there. missionary could see himself leading And then all that the Father has shall be The same principle, brethren, that man into the waters of baptism. given unto us.2 applies to those who are not yet mem- He said, “When I look at someone Courage is the word we need bers. We should develop the capacity that way, I have the capacity to bear to hear and hold near our hearts— to see men not as they are but as they my testimony to him in a way that can courage to turn our backs on temp- can become when they are members touch his heart.” tation, courage to lift up our voices of the Church, when they have a tes- We have the responsibility to look in testimony to all whom we meet, timony of the gospel, and when their lives are in harmony with its teachings. Back in the year 1961, a worldwide conference was held for mission pres- idents, and every mission president in the Church was brought to Salt Lake City for those meetings. I came to Salt Lake City from my mission in Toronto, Canada. In one particular meeting, N. Eldon Tanner, who was then an Assistant to the Quorum of the Twelve, had just returned from his initial experience of presiding over the missions in Great Britain and western Europe. He told of a missionary who had been the most successful missionary whom he had met in all of the interviews he had conducted. He said that as he interviewed that missionary, he said to him, “I suppose that all of the people whom you baptized came into the Church by way of referrals.” The young man answered, “No, we found them all by tracting.” Brother Tanner asked him what was different about his approach—why he 70 remembering that everyone must have The holy scriptures contain no proc- Christ. When our lives comply with an opportunity to hear the message. lamation more relevant, no responsibil- God’s own standard, those within It is not an easy thing for most to do ity more binding, no instruction more our sphere of influence will never this. But we can come to believe in direct than the injunction given by the speak the lament, “The harvest is the words of Paul to Timothy: resurrected Lord as He appeared in past, the summer is ended, and we “For God hath not given us the Galilee to the eleven disciples. Said He: are not saved.” 9 spirit of fear; but of power, and of “All power is given unto me in The perfect Shepherd of souls, the love, and of a sound mind. heaven and in earth. missionary who redeemed mankind, “Be not thou therefore ashamed of “Go ye therefore, and teach all gave us His divine assurance: the testimony of our Lord.” 3 nations, baptizing them in the name of “If it so be that you should labor In May of 1974, I was with Brother the Father, and of the Son, and of the all your days in crying repentance John H. Groberg in the Tongan islands. Holy Ghost: unto this people, and bring, save it be We had an appointment to visit the “Teaching them to observe all one soul unto me, how great shall be king of Tonga, and we met with him things whatsoever I have commanded your joy with him in the kingdom of in a formal session. We exchanged you: and, lo, I am with you alway, my Father! the normal pleasantries. However, even unto the end of the world.” 6 “And now, if your joy will be great before we left, John Groberg said This divine command, coupled with with one soul that you have brought something that was out of the ordi- its glorious promise, is our watchword unto me into the kingdom of my Father, nary. He said, “Your Majesty, you today, as it was in the meridian of how great will be your joy if you should should really become a Mormon and time. Missionary work is an identifying bring many souls unto me!” 10 your subjects as well, for then your feature of The Church of Jesus Christ Of Him who spoke these words, problems and their problems would of Latter-day Saints. Always has it been; I declare my personal witness. He is largely be solved.” ever shall it be. As the Prophet Joseph the Son of God, our Redeemer, and The king smiled broadly and Smith declared, “After all that has been our Savior. answered, “John Groberg, perhaps said, the greatest and most important I pray that we will have the cour- you’re right.” duty is to preach the Gospel.” 7 age to extend the hand of fellowship, I thought of the Apostle Paul Within two short years, all of the the tenacity to try and try again, and before Agrippa. I thought of Agrippa’s full-time missionaries currently serving the humility needed to seek guidance response to Paul’s testimony: “Almost in this royal army of God will have from our Father as we fulfill our man- thou persuadest me to be a Christian.” 4 concluded their full-time labors and date to share the gospel. The respon- Brother Groberg had the courage to will have returned to their homes sibility is upon us, brethren. In the bear his testimony to a king. and loved ones. Their replacements name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ Tonight there are many thousands are found tonight in the ranks of the NOTES of our number who are serving the Aaronic Priesthood of the Church. 1. In Bill Sands, The Seventh Step (1967), 9. 2. See Doctrine and Covenants 84:33–39. Lord full-time as His missionaries. In Young men, are you ready to respond? 3. 2 Timothy 1:7–8. response to a call, they have left behind Are you willing to work? Are you pre- 4. Acts 26:28. home, family, friends, and school and pared to serve? 5. 1 Corinthians 9:16. 6. Matthew 28:18–20. have gone forward to serve. Those President John Taylor summed up 7. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: who don’t understand ask the question, the requirements: “The kind of men Joseph Smith (2007), 330. “Why do they respond so readily and we want as bearers of this gospel mes- 8. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: John Taylor (2001), 73. willingly give so much?” sage are men who have faith in God; 9. Jeremiah 8:20. Our missionaries could well answer men who have faith in their religion; 10. Doctrine and Covenants 18:15–16. in the words of Paul, that peerless mis- men who honor their priesthood; . . . sionary of an earlier day: “For though men full of the Holy Ghost and the I preach the gospel, I have nothing to power of God[;] . . . men of honor, Short Video Highlight glory of: for necessity is laid upon me; integrity, virtue and purity.” 8 Scan this QR code to watch or share a short video clip yea, woe is unto me, if I preach not Brethren, to each of us comes (1–2 minutes) of this message. the gospel!” 5 the mandate to share the gospel of

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childlike mind and heart the comfort all of us need and want. Jesus Christ By President Henry B. Eyring lives, knows us, watches over us, and First Counselor in the First Presidency cares for us. In moments of pain, lone- liness, or confusion, we do not need to see Jesus Christ to know that He is aware of our circumstances and that His mission is to bless. Where Is the Pavilion? I know from my own life that Eliza’s experience can be our own The pavilion that seems to intercept divine aid does not cover long after we leave childhood. In the early years of my career, I worked God but occasionally covers us. God is never hidden, hard to secure a tenured professorship yet sometimes we are. at Stanford University. I thought I had made a good life for myself and for my family. We lived close to my wife’s parents in very comfortable surround- n the depths of his anguish in Liberty humility to connect us with God. She ings. By the world’s standards, I had Jail, the Prophet Joseph Smith cried went with her family to the open house achieved success. But I was given Iout: “O God, where art thou? And of the Brigham City Temple in Utah. by the Church the chance to leave where is the pavilion that covereth In one of the rooms of that beautiful California and go to Ricks College in thy hiding place?” 1 Many of us, in building, she looked around and asked, Rexburg, Idaho. My lifetime profes- moments of personal anguish, feel “Mommy, where is Jesus?” Her mother sional objectives might have been a that God is far from us. The pavilion explained that she would not see pavilion dividing me from a loving that seems to intercept divine aid does Jesus in the temple, but she would be Father who knew better than I did not cover God but occasionally covers able to feel His influence in her heart. what my future could hold. But I was us. God is never hidden, yet some- Eliza carefully considered her mother’s blessed to know that whatever success times we are, covered by a pavilion of response and then seemed satisfied and I had in my career and family life to motivations that draw us away from said, “Oh, Jesus is gone helping some- that point was a gift from God. And God and make Him seem distant and one,” she concluded. so, like a child, I knelt in prayer to ask inaccessible. Our own desires, rather No pavilion obscured Eliza’s what I should do. I was able to hear a than a feeling of “Thy will be done,” 2 understanding or obstructed her view quiet voice in my mind that said, “It’s create the feeling of a pavilion block- of reality. God is close to her, and she my school.” There was no pavilion ing God. God is not unable to see us feels close to Him. She knew that the shielding me from God. In faith and or communicate with us, but we may temple is the house of the Lord but humility, I submitted my will to His be unwilling to listen or submit to His also understood that the resurrected and felt His care and closeness. will and His time. and glorified Jesus Christ has a body My years at Ricks College, during Our feelings of separation from and can only be in one place at a which I tried to seek God’s will and do God will diminish as we become time.3 If He was not at His house, she it, kept the pavilion from covering me more childlike before Him. That is not recognized that He must be in another or obscuring God’s active role in my easy in a world where the opinions of place. And from what she knows of life. As I sought to do His work, I felt other human beings can have such an the Savior, she knew that He would close to Him and felt assurance that He effect on our motives. But it will help be somewhere doing good for His knew of my affairs and cared deeply us recognize this truth: God is close Father’s children. It was clear that she for my happiness. But as they had at to us and aware of us and never hides had hoped to see Jesus, not for a con- Stanford, worldly motivations began from His faithful children. firming miracle of His existence but to present themselves to me. One My three-year-old granddaughter simply because she loved Him. was an attractive job offer, extended illustrated the power of innocence and The Spirit could reveal to her just as I was finishing my fifth year as 72 in Rexburg and was in a hurry to move on. Sometimes our insistence on acting according to our own timetable can obscure His will for us. In Liberty Jail, the Prophet Joseph asked the Lord to punish those who persecuted the members of the Church in Missouri. His prayer was for sure and swift retribution. But the Lord responded that in “not many years hence,” 4 He would deal with those enemies of the Church. In the 24th and 25th verses of the 121st section of the Doctrine and Covenants, He says: “Behold, mine eyes see and know all their works, and I have in reserve a swift judgment in the season thereof, for them all; “For there is a time appointed for every man, according as his works shall be.” 5 president of Ricks College. I considered clouded my view of reality and made We remove the pavilion when we the offer and prayed about it and even it hard for me to receive revelation. feel and pray, “Thy will be done” and discussed it with the First Presidency. Thirty days after I was blessed with “in Thine own time.” His time should They responded with warmth and a the inspired decision to turn down be soon enough for us since we know little humor but certainly not with any the job offer and stay at Ricks College, that He wants only what is best. direction. President Spencer W. Kimball the Teton Dam burst nearby. God One of my daughters-in-law spent listened to me describe the offer I had knew that dam would burst and that many years feeling that God had placed received from a large corporation and hundreds of people would need help. a pavilion over her. She was a young said: “Well, Hal, that sounds like a He let me seek counsel and gain His mother of three who longed for more wonderful opportunity! And if we ever permission to stay at Ricks College. He children. After two miscarriages, her needed you, we’d know where to find knew all the reasons that my service prayers of pleading grew anguished. you.” They would have known where might still be valuable at the college As more barren years passed, she felt to find me, but my desires for profes- and in Rexburg. So I was there to ask tempted to anger. When her youngest sional success might have created a Heavenly Father frequently in prayer went off to school, the emptiness of her pavilion that would make it hard for me that He would have me do those things house seemed to mock her focus on to find God and harder for me to listen that would help the people whose motherhood—so did the unplanned to and follow His invitations. property and lives had been damaged. I and even unwanted pregnancies of My wife, sensing this, had a strong spent hours working with other people acquaintances. She felt as committed impression that we were not to leave to clear mud and water from homes. and consecrated as Mary, who declared, Ricks College. I said, “That’s good My desire to know and do His will gave “Behold the handmaid of the Lord.” 6 But enough for me.” But she insisted, me a soul-stretching opportunity. although she spoke these words in her wisely, that I must get my own revela- That incident illustrates another heart, she could hear nothing in reply. tion. And so I prayed again. This time way we can create a barrier to know- Hoping to lift her spirits, her I did receive direction, in the form of a ing God’s will or feeling His love for husband invited her to join him on a voice in my mind that said, “I’ll let you us: we can’t insist on our timetable business trip to California. While he stay at Ricks College a little longer.” when the Lord has His own. I thought attended meetings, she walked along My personal ambitions might have I had spent enough time in my service the beautiful, empty beach. Her heart

November 2012 73 ready to burst, she prayed aloud. For all will see Him face to face. Just as “When saw we thee a stranger, the first time, she asked not for another there is nothing now to obscure His and took thee in? or naked, and child but for a divine errand. “Heavenly view of us, there will be nothing to clothed thee? Father,” she cried, “I will give you all obscure our view of Him. We will all “Or when saw we thee sick, or in of my time; please show me how to stand before Him, in person. Like my prison, and came unto thee? fill it.” She expressed her willingness to granddaughter, we want to see Jesus “And the King shall answer and take her family wherever they might be Christ now, but our certain reunion say unto them, Verily I say unto you, required to go. That prayer produced with Him at the judgment bar will be Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one an unexpected feeling of peace. It more pleasing if we first do the things of the least of these my brethren, ye did not satisfy her mind’s craving for that make Him as familiar to us as have done it unto me.” 8 certainty, but for the first time in years, we are to Him. As we serve Him, we As we do what He would have us it calmed her heart. become like Him, and we feel closer do for His Father’s children, the Lord The prayer removed the pavilion to Him as we approach that day when considers it kindness to Him, and we and opened the windows of heaven. nothing will hide our view. will feel closer to Him as we feel His Within two weeks she learned that she The movement toward God can love and His approval. In time we will was expecting a child. The new baby be ongoing. “Come, ye blessed of my become like Him and will think of the was just one year old when a mission Father, inherit the kingdom prepared Judgment Day with happy anticipation. call came to my son and my daughter- for you from the foundation of the The pavilion that seems to be hid- in-law. Having promised to go and do world,” 7 the Savior teaches. And then ing you from God may be fear of man anything, anywhere, she put fear aside He tells us how: rather than this desire to serve others. and took her children overseas. In the “For I was an hungred, and ye gave The Savior’s only motivation was to mission field she had another child— me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me help people. Many of you, as I have, on a missionary transfer day. drink: I was a stranger, and ye took have felt fear in approaching someone Submitting fully to heaven’s will, me in: you have offended or who has hurt as this young mother did, is essential “Naked, and ye clothed me: I you. And yet I have seen the Lord melt to removing the spiritual pavilions was sick, and ye visited me: I was in hearts time after time, including my we sometimes put over our heads. prison, and ye came unto me. own. And so I challenge you to go But it does not guarantee immediate “Then shall the righteous answer for the Lord to someone, despite any answers to our prayers. him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee fear you may have, to extend love and Abraham’s heart seems to have been an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, forgiveness. I promise you that as you right long before Sarah conceived Isaac and gave thee drink? do, you will feel the love of the Savior and before they received their prom- ised land. Heaven had other purposes to fulfill first. Those purposes included not only building Abraham and Sarah’s faith but also teaching them eternal truths that they shared with others on their long, circuitous route to the land prepared for them. The Lord’s delays often seem long; some last a lifetime. But they are always calculated to bless. They need never be times of loneliness or sorrow or impatience. Although His time is not always our time, we can be sure that the Lord keeps His promises. For any of you who now feel that He is hard to reach, I testify that the day will come that we 74 for that person and His love for you, By President Boyd K. Packer and it will not seem to come from a President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles great distance. For you, that challenge may be in a family, it may be in a com- munity, or it may be across a nation. But if you go for the Lord to bless others, He will see and reward it. The Atonement If you do this often enough and long enough, you will feel a change Wherever our members and missionaries may go, our message in your very nature through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Not only is one of faith and hope in the Savior Jesus Christ. will you feel closer to Him, but you will also feel more and more that you are becoming like Him. Then, when you do see Him, as we all will, it will y message is directed to those None of us realized that a ferocious be for you as it was for Moroni when among us who are suffering, tropical storm had hit the island, and he said: “And now I bid unto all, fare- Mburdened down with guilt we were heading straight into it. well. I soon go to rest in the paradise and weakness and failure, sorrow, We arrived in the harbor at of God, until my spirit and body shall and despair. Mulifanua. There was one narrow again reunite, and I am brought forth In 1971, I was assigned to stake passage we were to go through along triumphant through the air, to meet conferences in Western Samoa, the reef. A light on the hill above you before the pleasing bar of the including the organization of a new the beach and a second lower light great Jehovah, the Eternal Judge of stake on Upolu island. After interviews marked the narrow passage. When a both quick and dead. Amen.” 9 we chartered a small plane to Savai’i boat was maneuvered so that the two If we serve with faith, humility, and island to hold a stake conference lights were one above the other, the a desire to do God’s will, I testify that there. The plane landed on a grassy boat would be lined up properly to the judgment bar of the great Jehovah field at Faala and was to return the pass through the dangerous rocks that will be pleasing. We will see our next afternoon to take us back to lined the passage. loving Father and His Son as They see Upolu island. But that night there was only one us now—with perfect clarity and with The day we were to return from light. Two elders were waiting on the perfect love. In the sacred name of Savai’i, it was raining. Knowing the landing to meet us, but the crossing Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ plane could not land on the wet took much longer than usual. After field, we drove to the west end of the watching for hours for signs of our NOTES island, where there was a runway of boat, the elders tired and fell asleep, 1. Doctrine and Covenants 121:1. 2. See Matthew 6:10; Luke 11:2; 3 Nephi sorts atop a coral break. We waited neglecting to turn on the second light, 13:10; Ether 12:29; Doctrine and Covenants until dark, but no plane arrived. the lower light. As a result, the passage 109:44; Moses 4:2. Finally, we learned by radio that there through the reef was not clear. 3. See Doctrine and Covenants 130:22. 4. Doctrine and Covenants 121:15. was a storm, and the plane could not The captain maneuvered the boat 5. Doctrine and Covenants 121:24–25. take off. We radioed back that we as best he could toward the one upper 6. Luke 1:38. would come by boat. Someone was to light on shore while a crewman held 7. Matthew 25:34. 8. Matthew 25:35–40. meet us at Mulifanua. the borrowed flashlight over the bow, 9. Moroni 10:34. As we pulled out of port on Savai’i, searching for rocks ahead. We could the captain of the 40-foot (12 m) boat hear the breakers crashing over the asked the mission president if he had reef. When we were close enough Short Video Highlight a flashlight. Fortunately, he did and to see them with the flashlight, the Scan this QR code to watch made a present of it to the captain. captain frantically shouted reverse and or share a short video clip (1–2 minutes) of this message. We made the 13-mile (21 km) crossing backed away to try again to locate the to Upolu island on very rough seas. passage.

November 2012 75 After many attempts, he knew several deep at the pier. We crawled Trying now to make the harbor, it would be impossible to find the across them, trying not to disturb In the darkness may be lost.1 passage. All we could do was try to those sleeping on deck. We made our reach the harbor at Apia 40 miles way to Pesega, dried our clothing, and I speak today to those who may be (64 km) away. We were helpless headed for Vailuutai to organize the lost and are searching for that lower against the ferocious power of the new stake. light to help guide them back. elements. I do not remember ever I do not know who had been wait- It was understood from the begin- being where it was so dark. ing for us at the beach at Mulifanua. ning that in mortality we would fall We made no progress for the first I refused to let them tell me. But it is short of being perfect. It was not hour, even though the engine was at true that without that lower light, we expected that we would live without full throttle. The boat would struggle all might have been lost. transgressing one law or another. up a mountainous wave and then There is in our hymnbook a very “For the natural man is an enemy pause in exhaustion at the top of old and seldom-sung hymn that has to God, and has been from the fall of the crest with the propellers out of very special meaning to me. Adam, and will be, forever and ever, the water. The vibration of the pro- unless he yields to the enticings of the pellers would shake the boat almost Brightly beams our Father’s mercy Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural to pieces before it slid down the From his lighthouse evermore, man and becometh a saint through the other side. But to us he gives the keeping atonement of Christ the Lord.” 2 We were lying spread-eagled on Of the lights along the shore. From the Pearl of Great Price, we the cover of the cargo hold, holding Let the lower lights be burning; understand that “no unclean thing can on with our hands on one side and Send a gleam across the wave. dwell [in the kingdom of God],” 3 and with our toes locked on the other to Some poor fainting, struggling seaman so a way was provided for all who keep from being washed overboard. You may rescue, you may save. sin to repent and become worthy of Brother Mark Littleford lost hold and the presence of our Father in Heaven was thrown against the low iron rail. Dark the night of sin has settled; once more. His head was cut, but the rail kept him Loud the angry billows roar. A Mediator, a Redeemer, was from being washed away. Eager eyes are watching, longing, chosen, one who would live His life Eventually, we moved ahead and For the lights along the shore. perfectly, commit no sin, and offer near daylight finally pulled into the “himself a sacrifice for sin, to answer harbor at Apia. Boats were lashed Trim your feeble lamp, my brother; the ends of the law, unto all those to one another for safety. They were Some poor sailor, tempest-tossed, who have a broken heart and a 76 contrite spirit; and unto none else can the ends of the law be answered.” 4 Concerning the importance of the Atonement, in Alma we learn, “For it is expedient that an atonement should be made; . . . or else all mankind must unavoidably perish.” 5 If you have made no mistakes, then you do not need the Atonement. If you have made mistakes, and all of us have, whether minor or serious, then you have an enormous need to find out how they can be erased so that you are no longer in darkness. “[ Jesus Christ] is the light and the life of the world.” 6 As we fix our gaze on His teachings, we will be guided to the harbor of spiritual safety. Luke records: you will turn away from sin, you will The third article of faith states, “We “He was withdrawn from them be able one day to know the peace believe that through the Atonement of about a stone’s cast, and kneeled that comes from following the path- Christ, all mankind may be saved, by down, and prayed, way of complete repentance. obedience to the laws and ordinances “Saying, Father, if thou be willing, No matter what our transgressions of the Gospel.” 7 remove this cup from me: nevertheless have been, no matter how much our President Joseph F. Smith taught: not my will, but thine, be done. actions may have hurt others, that guilt “Men cannot forgive their own sins; “And there appeared an angel unto can all be wiped out. To me, perhaps they cannot cleanse themselves from him from heaven, strengthening him. the most beautiful phrase in all scrip- the consequences of their sins. Men “And being in an agony he prayed ture is when the Lord said, “Behold, can stop sinning and can do right more earnestly: and his sweat was as he who has repented of his sins, the in the future, and so far [as] their it were great drops of blood falling same is forgiven, and I, the Lord, acts are acceptable before the Lord down to the ground.” 9 remember them no more.” 11 [become] worthy of consideration. So far as I have been able to tell, That is the promise of the gospel of But who shall repair the wrongs there is only one account in the Jesus Christ and the Atonement: to take they have done to themselves and Savior’s own words that describes anyone who comes, anyone who will to others, which it seems impossible what He endured in the Garden of join, and put them through an experi- for them to repair themselves? By Gethsemane. The revelation records: ence so that at the end of their life, they the atonement of Jesus Christ the “For behold, I, God, have suffered can go through the veil having repented sins of the repentant shall be washed these things for all, that they might not of their sins and having been washed away; though they be crimson they suffer if they would repent; clean through the blood of Christ.12 shall be made white as wool [see “But if they would not repent they That is what Latter-day Saints do Isaiah 1:18]. This is the promise given must suffer even as I; around the world. That is the Light to you.” 8 “Which suffering caused myself, we offer to those who are in darkness We do not know exactly how the even God, the greatest of all, to trem- and have lost their way. Wherever our Lord accomplished the Atonement. But ble because of pain, and to bleed at members and missionaries may go, we do know that the cruel torture of every pore.” 10 our message is one of faith and hope crucifixion was only part of the horrific Throughout your life there may be in the Savior Jesus Christ. pain which began in Gethsemane—that times when you have gone places you President Joseph Fielding Smith sacred site of suffering—and was com- never should have gone and done wrote the lyrics to the hymn “Does the pleted on Golgotha. things you never should have done. If Journey Seem Long?” He was a dear

November 2012 77 friend of mine. It contains encourage- By Linda K. Burton ment and a promise to those who seek Relief Society General President to follow the teachings of the Savior:

Does the journey seem long, The path rugged and steep? Are there briars and thorns on the way? First Observe, Do sharp stones cut your feet As you struggle to rise To the heights thru the heat of the day? Then Serve Is your heart faint and sad, Your soul weary within, With practice, each of us can become more like As you toil ’neath your burden of care? the Savior as we serve God’s children. Does the load heavy seem You are forced now to lift? Is there no one your burden to share? ne of the greatest evidences better love one another, I would like Let your heart be not faint we have that our beloved to suggest four words to remember: Now the journey’s begun; Oprophet, President Thomas S. “First observe, then serve.” There is One who still beckons to you. Monson, is the Lord’s chosen servant Almost 40 years ago my hus- So look upward in joy is that he has learned to follow the band and I went to the temple for And take hold of his hand; Savior’s example—serving individ- our Friday night date. We had been He will lead you to heights that are ually, one by one. Those of us who married only a short time, and I was new— have entered the waters of baptism nervous because this was only my have covenanted to do the same. We second time as a newlywed. A sister A land holy and pure, have covenanted to “always remember sitting next to me must have noticed. Where all trouble doth end, [the Savior] and keep his command- She leaned over and whispered rev- And your life shall be free from all sin, ments,” 1 and He has said, “This is erently, “Don’t worry. I’ll help you.” Where no tears shall be shed, my commandment, That ye love one My fears were calmed, and I was For no sorrows remain. another, as I have loved you.” 2 able to enjoy the rest of the temple Take his hand and with him enter in.13 Notice how the following words session. She first observed, then from President Monson include the served. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ same invitation: “We are surrounded We are all invited to follow Jesus’s by those in need of our attention, teachings and to minister to others. NOTES our encouragement, our support, our This invitation is not limited to angelic 1. “Brightly Beams Our Father’s Mercy,” comfort, our kindness. . . . We are sisters. As I share a few everyday Hymns, no. 335. 2. Mosiah 3:19. the Lord’s hands here upon the earth, examples of members who have 3. Moses 6:57. with the mandate to serve and to lift learned to first observe and then 4. 2 Nephi 2:7. His children. He is dependent upon serve, listen for the teachings of Jesus 5. Alma 34:9. 3 6. Mosiah 16:9. each of us.” they illustrate. 7. Articles of Faith 1:3. Did you hear it—the invitation to A six-year-old Primary child said: 8. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: love one another? For some, serving “When I was chosen to be a class Joseph F. Smith (1998), 99–100. 9. Luke 22:41–44. or one by one, following helper, I could choose a friend to 10. Doctrine and Covenants 19:16–18. the Savior’s example, doesn’t come work with me. I picked [a boy in my 11. Doctrine and Covenants 58:42. easily. But with practice, each of us class who bullied me] because he 12. See Revelation 1:5. 13. “Does the Journey Seem Long?” Hymns, can become more like the Savior as never gets chosen by others. I wanted no. 127. we serve God’s children. To help us to make him feel good.” 4 78 What did this child observe? He Observing and serving sometimes us.’” 9 The golden rule is applicable noticed that the class bully never got requires great effort. An inspired here: “Whatsoever ye would that men chosen. What did he do to serve? He young woman named Alexandria [or women] should do to you, do ye simply chose him to be his friend as a noticed that her cousin Madison was even so to them.” 10 class helper. Jesus taught, “Love your unable to complete her own Personal An observant husband served in enemies, bless them that curse you, do Progress requirements because two important ways. He relates: good to them that hate you.” 5 she suffered from severe autism. “I was assisting my wife one In one ward, Aaronic Priesthood Alexandria rallied the young women Sunday with her Primary class full of holders first observed and now serve in her ward, counseled with her energetic seven-year-olds. As Primary in a meaningful way. Every week the leaders, and determined to do some- sharing time started, I noticed one of young men arrive early and stand thing for Maddy that she could not the class members huddled on her outside the meetinghouse in rain, do herself. Each of the young women chair and obviously not feeling well. snow, or blistering heat, awaiting the completed a portion of the Personal The Spirit whispered to me that she arrival of the many elderly members in Progress activities and projects vicari- needed comfort, so I sat by her and their ward. They lift wheelchairs and ously to enable Maddy to receive her quietly asked what was wrong. She walkers out of cars, provide sturdy own medallion.7 didn’t answer . . . , so I began to sing arms to grasp, and patiently escort the These young women will progress softly to her. silver-haired seniors into the building. well into roles of motherhood and “The Primary was learning a new They are truly doing their duty to God. Relief Society sisterhood because they song, and when we sang, ‘If I listen As they observe and then serve, they are learning to first observe, then serve with my heart I hear the Savior’s are living examples of the Savior’s in charitable ways. voice,’ I began to feel the most incred- teaching: “Inasmuch as ye have done President Monson has reminded ible light and warmth fill my soul. . . . it unto one of the least of these my us that charity, “the pure love of I received a personal testimony of our brethren, ye have done it unto me.” 6 Christ” 8—or in other words, observ- Savior’s love for her . . . and for me. As the new youth curriculum is ing and serving—“is evident when . . . I learned that we are [the Savior’s] implemented, the eyes of these young an elderly widow is remembered and hands when we serve the one.” 11 men will undoubtedly be opened to taken to ward functions” and “when Not only did this Christlike brother even more opportunities to serve in a the sister sitting alone in Relief Society notice the need to help his wife with a Christlike way. receives the invitation, ‘Come—sit by class full of energetic seven-year-olds;

November 2012 79 he also gave individual service to a I needed to hear? She didn’t know, child in need. He followed the Savior, but Heavenly Father knew. He had who taught, “The works which ye observed my greatest need. I needed have seen me do that shall ye also to serve. He prompted this humble do.” 12 young sister to serve me by inviting Recently a flood opened many me to serve her. I assure you that I opportunities for disciples of Jesus was the one who benefited most. Christ to first observe and then serve. I acknowledge with deep gratitude Men, women, teenagers, and children the many Christlike people who have saw businesses and homes destroyed served our family throughout the years. and dropped everything to help clean I express heartfelt appreciation to my and repair damaged structures. Some beloved husband and family, who observed the need to help with the serve selflessly and with great love. overwhelming task of doing laundry. May we all seek to first observe, Others painstakingly wiped down then serve. As we do so, we are keep- photographs, legal documents, letters, necessarily in the way that is needed ing covenants, and our service, like and other important papers and then at the moment. When Elder Robert D. President Monson’s, will be evidence carefully hung them out to dry to pre- Hales taught the principle of provident of our discipleship. I know the Savior serve whatever they could. Observing living, he shared the example of buy- lives. His Atonement enables us to and then serving is not always conve- ing a gift for his wife. She asked, “Are live His teachings. I know President nient and doesn’t always fit our own you buying this for me or for you?” 15 If Monson is our prophet today. In the timetable. we adapt that question to ourselves as name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ What better place to first observe we serve and ask, “Am I doing this for and then serve than in the home? the Savior, or am I doing this for me?” NOTES An example from the life of Elder our service will more likely resemble 1. Doctrine and Covenants 20:77. 2. John 15:12. Richard G. Scott illustrates: the ministry of the Savior. The Savior 3. Thomas S. Monson, “What Have I Done “One night our little son Richard, asked, and so should we, “What will for Someone Today?” Liahona and Ensign, who had a heart problem, awoke cry- ye that I shall do unto you?” 16 Nov. 2009, 86. 4. Canyon H., “A Good Choice,” Friend, Jan. ing. . . . Normally my wife always got A few weeks ago, I was hurried and 2012, 31. up to take care of a crying baby, but frazzled, with too many to-dos on my 5. Matthew 5:44. this time I said, ‘I’ll take care of him.’ list. I had hoped to go to the temple 6. Matthew 25:40. 7. See “For Madison,” lds.org/youth/video/ “Because of his problem, when that day but felt I was just too busy. for-madison. he began to cry, his little heart would As soon as that thought of being too 8. Moroni 7:47. pound very rapidly. He would throw busy for temple service crossed my 9. Thomas S. Monson, “Charity Never Faileth,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 125; up and soil the bed clothing. That night mind, it awakened me to what I most see also Daughters in My Kingdom: I held him very close to try to calm his needed to do. I left my office to walk The History and Work of Relief Society racing heart and stop his crying as I over to the Salt Lake Temple, wonder- (2011), 101. 10. 3 Nephi 14:12. changed his clothes and put on new ing when I was going to recapture the 11. Al VanLeeuwen, “Serving the One,” bedsheets. I held him until he went to time I was losing. Thankfully, the Lord Liahona, Aug. 2012, 19; Ensign, Aug. sleep. I didn’t know then that just a few is patient and merciful and taught me 2012, 15; see also Sally DeFord, “If I Listen with My Heart,” 2011 Outline for Sharing months later he would pass away. I will a beautiful lesson that day. Time, 28. always remember holding him in my As I sat down in the session room, 12. 3 Nephi 27:21. arms in the middle of that night.” 13 a young sister leaned over and rever- 13. Richard G. Scott, “The Eternal Blessings of Marriage,” Liahona and Ensign, May Jesus said, “Whosoever will be ently whispered, “I’m really nervous. 2011, 96. great among you, let him be your This is only my second time in the 14. Matthew 20:26. minister.” 14 temple. Could you please help me?” 15. Robert D. Hales, “Becoming Provident Providers Temporally and Spiritually,” Sometimes we are tempted to serve How could she ever have known Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 9. in a way that we want to serve and not that those words were exactly what 16. Matthew 20:32. 80 By Elder Walter F. González motorcycle up and down the streets Of the Presidency of the Seventy of our city, even in the cold and rainy winters, to bring others to church so they could feel, see, and know of a surety as he did. Today, surrounded by so much Learning with information, we might think that navigating millions of web pages will give us all that we need to know. We Our Hearts can find good and bad information on the web, but information alone is not enough. God has given us another One way to come unto Christ is by seeking to learn source for greater knowledge,6 even essential truths with our hearts. knowledge sent from heaven. Our Heavenly Father can give us such knowledge when we navigate the celestial web in our hearts and minds. ome unto me, that ye might This truth was well stated in a The Prophet Joseph Smith said that “ feel and see.” 1 This was a children’s book, The Little Prince he had “the oldest book in [his] heart, Ccommandment that the Savior by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. In the even the gift of the Holy Ghost.” 7 extended to the inhabitants of ancient story, the little prince became friends We access this celestial source America. They felt with their hands with a fox. Upon parting, the fox when we do things such as read- and saw with their eyes that Jesus was shared a secret with the little prince. ing the scriptures, hearkening to the Christ. This commandment is just He said, “Here is my secret . . . : It is the living prophet, and praying. It as important for us today as it was for only with the heart that one can see is also important to take time to be them in their day. As we come unto rightly; what is essential is invisible still 8 and feel and follow the celestial Christ, we can feel and “know of a to the eye.” 5 promptings. When we do this, we surety” 2—not with our hands and eyes Eighty-eight-year-old Brother will “feel and see” things that cannot but with all our heart and mind—that Thomas Coelho is a good example of be learned with modern technology. Jesus is the Christ. one who saw with his heart essential Once we have some experience in One way to come unto Christ is things. He was a faithful member navigating this celestial web, we will by seeking to learn essential truths of our high council in Paysandú, discern the truth, even when reading with our hearts. As we do so, impres- Uruguay. Prior to joining the Church, secular history or other topics. The sions that come from God will give he had an accident while riding his honest seekers of truth will know the us knowledge that we cannot get by motorcycle. While he was lying on truth of all things by the power of the any other means. The Apostle Peter the ground unable to stand, two of Holy Ghost.9 knew of a surety that Jesus was the our missionaries helped him stand Now, a word of caution: access to Christ, the Son of the living God. The up and return to his home. He said this celestial web is marred by iniq- Savior explained that the source for that he felt something special when uity and forgetting the Lord. Nephi Peter’s knowledge was not “flesh and the missionaries came to his rescue. told his brothers that they “could not blood . . . but [the] Father which is in Later he experienced strong feelings feel [the Lord’s] words” because they heaven.” 3 again when the missionaries taught were “swift to do iniquity [and] slow The prophet Abinadi explained the him. The impact of those feelings to remember the Lord.” 10 Iniquity role of the feelings that come from was such that he read the Book hampers our ability to see, feel, and God to our hearts. He taught that of Mormon from cover to cover in love others. Being quick to remem- we cannot understand the scriptures just a few days. He was baptized ber the Lord by praying “with all completely unless we apply our heart and served tirelessly from that day the energy of heart” 11 and bringing to understanding.4 forward. I remember him riding his to mind our spiritual experiences

November 2012 81 He rose from the dead “with healing in his wings,” 18 that because of Him, we will meet and embrace again those beloved ones who have passed away. Verily our conversion unto Him is rewarded with our healing.19 I know of a surety that all of this is true. For this reason I join my voice with that of the early inhabitants of ancient America, exclaiming: “Hosanna! Barcelona, Spain Blessed be the name of the Most High God!” 20 He gives us salvation. I bear expands our ability to see and feel in any other way. Such a memory is witness that Jesus is the Christ, the holy the things of Christ. Now I ask you: reason for everlasting gratitude and Messiah. He is the Lord of Hosts, our strengthens me in hard times. Savior and Redeemer. In the name of • Do you remember the peace you Those who receive knowledge not Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ felt when, after much tribulation, from flesh and blood but from our NOTES you cried out unto the Father in Heavenly Father do know of a surety 1. 3 Nephi 18:25. mighty prayer? that Jesus is the Christ and this is His 2. 3 Nephi 11:15. • Do you remember changing your Church. That very knowledge provides 3. See Matthew 16:16–17. 4. See Mosiah 12:27. to-do list to follow a prompting in strength to make necessary changes to 5. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince, your heart? come unto Christ. For this reason, we trans. Katherine Woods (1971), 87. invite every soul to be baptized, repent, 6. See Ether 4:13. 15 7. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: The great men in the Book of and turn unto Him now. Joseph Smith (2007), 132. Mormon fostered access to a greater By coming unto Christ, every soul 8. See Doctrine and Covenants 101:16. knowledge by bringing to mind their can see, feel, and know of a surety 9. See Moroni 10:3–5. 10. 1 Nephi 17:45. key spiritual experiences. Alma forti- that Christ suffered and atoned for 11. Moroni 7:48. fied and strengthened his children by our sins that we may have eternal 12. See Alma 36:5–24; 38:6–9. reminding them about his conversion life. If we repent, we will not suf- 13. See Helaman 5:12. 12 16 14. Mosiah 4:30. experience. Helaman taught Nephi fer needlessly. Thanks to Him, 15. See 3 Nephi 9:13. and Lehi to remember—to remember wounded souls may be healed and 16. See Doctrine and Covenants 19:16. that it was upon the rock of Christ broken hearts may be mended. There 17. Alma 7:12. 18. 2 Nephi 25:13; see also 3 Nephi 25:2. that they had to build their foundation is no burden that He cannot ease or 19. See 2 Nephi 16:10; 3 Nephi 9:13. so the devil would have no power remove. He knows about our infir- 20. See 3 Nephi 11:15–17. over them.13 We must do the same. mities and sicknesses. I promise and Remembering God helps us to feel testify to you that when all doors and live. This gives deeper meaning seem to be closed, when everything to the words of King Benjamin, who else seems to fail, He will not fail said, “And now, O man, remember, you. Christ will help and is the way and perish not.” 14 out, whether the struggle is with an One of the most sacred memories addiction, depression, or something I cherish is the feeling I had when I else. He knows “how to succor his came to know the Book of Mormon people.” 17 Marriages and families that was the word of God. I learned that are struggling for whatever reason— we can experience a joy that words fall economic challenges, bad media short to express. That very day, on my influences, or family dynamics—will knees, I felt and knew of a surety the feel a calming influence from heaven. things that I could not have learned It is comforting to “feel and see” that 82 By Elder Jeffrey R. Holland and wept with Him, and on the night Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of that horrible ending, no one wept more bitterly than I. But that is over. He has finished His work, and He has risen from the tomb. He has worked out His salvation and ours. So you ask, ‘What The First Great do we do now?’ I don’t know more to tell you than to return to your former life, rejoicing. I intend to ‘go a fishing.’” Commandment And at least six of the ten other remain- ing Apostles said in agreement, “We also go with thee.” John, who was one We have a life of devoted discipleship to give in of them, writes, “They went forth, and demonstrating our love of the Lord. entered into a ship immediately.” 3 But, alas, the fishing wasn’t very good. Their first night back on the lake, they caught nothing—not a single here is almost no group in history delivered into the hands of men, and fish. With the first rays of dawn, they for whom I have more sympathy they shall kill him; and after that he is disappointedly turned toward the shore, Tthan I have for the eleven remain- killed, he shall rise the third day. where they saw in the distance a figure ing Apostles immediately following the “But they understood not that say- who called out to them, “Children, have death of the Savior of the world. I think ing, and were afraid to ask him.” 2 you caught anything?” Glumly these we sometimes forget just how inexpe- Then, after such a short time to Apostles-turned-again-fishermen gave rienced they still were and how totally learn and even less time to prepare, the answer no fisherman wants to give. dependent upon Jesus they had of the unthinkable happened, the “We have caught nothing,” they mut- necessity been. To them He had said, unbelievable was true. Their Lord tered, and to add insult to injury, they “Have I been so long time with you, and Master, their Counselor and King, were being called “children.” 4 and yet hast thou not known me . . . ?” 1 was crucified. His mortal ministry was “Cast the net on the right side But, of course, to them He hadn’t over, and the struggling little Church of the ship, and ye shall find,” 5 the been with them nearly long enough. He had established seemed doomed stranger calls out—and with those Three years isn’t long to call an entire to scorn and destined for extinction. simple words, recognition begins to Quorum of Twelve Apostles from a His Apostles did witness Him in His flood over them. Just three years ear- handful of new converts, purge from resurrected state, but that only added lier these very men had been fishing them the error of old ways, teach to their bewilderment. As they surely on this very sea. On that occasion too them the wonders of the gospel of must have wondered, “What do we they had “toiled all the night, and [had] Jesus Christ, and then leave them to do now?” they turned for an answer taken nothing,” 6 the scripture says. But carry on the work until they too were to Peter, the senior Apostle. a fellow Galilean on the shore had killed. Quite a staggering prospect for Here I ask your indulgence as I called out to them to let down their a group of newly ordained elders. take some nonscriptural liberty in my nets, and they drew “a great multitude Especially the part about being left portrayal of this exchange. In effect, of fishes,” 7 enough that their nets alone. Repeatedly Jesus had tried to Peter said to his associates: “Brethren, it broke, the catch filling two boats so tell them He was not going to remain has been a glorious three years. None heavily they had begun to sink. physically present with them, but they of us could have imagined such a few Now it was happening again. either could not or would not com- short months ago the miracles we have These “children,” as they were rightly prehend such a wrenching thought. seen and the divinity we have enjoyed. called, eagerly lowered their net, and Mark writes: We have talked with, prayed with, “they were not able to draw it for the “He taught his disciples, and and labored with the very Son of God multitude of fishes.” 8 John said the said unto them, The Son of man is Himself. We have walked with Him obvious: “It is the Lord.” 9 And over

November 2012 83 the edge of the boat, the irrepressible by these same nets, having this same the cross and the nails and the tomb Peter leaped. conversation? Wasn’t it obvious then were the end of it all and each could After a joyful reunion with the res- and isn’t it obvious now that if I want blissfully go back to being whatever urrected Jesus, Peter had an exchange fish, I can get fish? What I need, Peter, you were before? Children, did not with the Savior that I consider the cru- are disciples—and I need them forever. my life and my love touch your hearts cial turning point of the apostolic min- I need someone to feed my sheep more deeply than this?” istry generally and certainly for Peter and save my lambs. I need someone My beloved brothers and sisters, I personally, moving this great rock of to preach my gospel and defend my am not certain just what our experi- a man to a majestic life of devoted faith. I need someone who loves me, ence will be on Judgment Day, but I service and leadership. Looking at truly, truly loves me, and loves what our will be very surprised if at some point their battered little boats, their frayed Father in Heaven has commissioned me in that conversation, God does not ask nets, and a stunning pile of 153 fish, to do. Ours is not a feeble message. It is us exactly what Christ asked Peter: “Did Jesus said to His senior Apostle, “Peter, not a fleeting task. It is not hapless; it is you love me?” I think He will want to do you love me more than you love not hopeless; it is not to be consigned know if in our very mortal, very inade- all this?” Peter said, “Yea, Lord; thou to the ash heap of history. It is the work quate, and sometimes childish grasp of knowest that I love thee.” 10 of Almighty God, and it is to change things, did we at least understand one The Savior responds to that reply the world. So, Peter, for the second and commandment, the first and greatest but continues to look into the eyes of presumably the last time, I am asking commandment of them all—“Thou His disciple and says again, “Peter, do you to leave all this and to go teach and shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy you love me?” Undoubtedly confused testify, labor and serve loyally until the heart, and with all thy soul, and with all a bit by the repetition of the question, day in which they will do to you exactly thy strength, and with all thy mind.” 13 the great fisherman answers a second what they did to me.” And if at such a moment we can stam- time, “Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I Then, turning to all the Apostles, mer out, “Yea, Lord, thou knowest that love thee.” 11 He might well have said something I love thee,” then He may remind us The Savior again gives a brief like: “Were you as foolhardy as the that the crowning characteristic of love response, but with relentless scrutiny scribes and Pharisees? As Herod and is always loyalty. He asks for the third time, “Peter, do Pilate? Did you, like they, think that “If ye love me, keep my command- you love me?” By now surely Peter is this work could be killed simply by ments,” 14 Jesus said. So we have neigh- feeling truly uncomfortable. Perhaps killing me? Did you, like they, think bors to bless, children to protect, the there is in his heart the memory of only a few days earlier when he had been asked another question three times and he had answered equally emphatically—but in the negative. Or perhaps he began to wonder if he misunderstood the Master Teacher’s question. Or perhaps he was search- ing his heart, seeking honest confir- mation of the answer he had given so readily, almost automatically. Whatever his feelings, Peter said for the third time, “Lord, . . . thou knowest that I love thee.” 12 To which Jesus responded (and here again I acknowledge my nonscriptural elaboration), perhaps saying something like: “Then Peter, why are you here? Why are we back on this same shore, 84 faithfulness every returned mission- ary who ever stood in a baptismal font and with arm to the square said, “Having been commissioned of Jesus Christ.” 16 That commission was to have changed your convert forever, but it was surely supposed to have changed you forever as well. To the youth of the Church rising up to missions and temples and marriage, we say: “Love God and remain clean from the blood and sins of this gener- ation. You have a monumental work to do, underscored by that marvelous announcement President Thomas S. Monson made yesterday morning. Your Father in Heaven expects your loyalty and your love at every stage of your life.” To all within the sound of my voice, the voice of Christ comes ringing down through the halls of time, asking each one of us while there is time, “Do you love me?” And for every one of us, I answer with my honor and my soul, “Yea, Lord, we do love thee.” And having set our “hand to the plough,” 17 we will never look back until this work is finished and love of God and neighbor rules the poor to lift up, and the truth to defend. I testify from the bottom of my world. In the name of Jesus Christ, We have wrongs to make right, truths to heart, with the intensity of my soul, to amen. ◼ share, and good to do. In short, we have all who can hear my voice that those a life of devoted discipleship to give in apostolic keys have been restored to NOTES 1. John 14:9. demonstrating our love of the Lord. We the earth, and they are found in The 2. Mark 9:31–32. can’t quit and we can’t go back. After an Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day 3. John 21:3. encounter with the living Son of the liv- Saints. To those who have not yet 4. See John 21:5. 5. John 21:6. ing God, nothing is ever again to be as it joined with us in this great final cause 6. Luke 5:5. was before. The Crucifixion, Atonement, of Christ, we say, “Please come.” To 7. Luke 5:6. and Resurrection of Jesus Christ mark those who were once with us but have 8. John 21:6. 9. John 21:7. the beginning of a Christian life, not the retreated, preferring to pick and choose 10. John 21:15. end of it. It was this truth, this reality, a few cultural hors d’oeuvres from the 11. John 21:16. that allowed a handful of Galilean smorgasbord of the Restoration and 12. John 21:17. 13. Luke 10:27; see also Matthew 22:37–38. fishermen-turned-again-Apostles with- leave the rest of the feast, I say that I 14. John 14:15. out “a single synagogue or sword” 15 to fear you face a lot of long nights and 15. Frederic W. Farrar, The Life of Christ leave those nets a second time and go empty nets. The call is to come back, (1994), 656; see chapter 62 for more on the plight of this newly founded Church. on to shape the history of the world in to stay true, to love God, and to lend 16. Doctrine and Covenants 20:73. which we now live. a hand. I include in that call to fixed 17. Luke 9:62.

November 2012 85 In early 1965, I was assigned to By President Thomas S. Monson attend stake conferences and to hold other meetings throughout the South Pacific area. This was my first visit to that part of the world, and it was a time never to be forgotten. Much that Consider the Blessings was spiritual in nature occurred during this assignment as I met with leaders, Our Heavenly Father is aware of our needs and will help us members, and missionaries. On the weekend of Saturday and as we call upon Him for assistance. Sunday, February 20 and 21, we were in Brisbane, Australia, to hold regular conference sessions of the Brisbane Stake. During meetings on Saturday, y beloved brothers and sisters, you take an inventory of your life and I was introduced to the district this conference marks 49 look specifically for the blessings, large president from an adjoining area. Myears since I was sustained, and small, you have received. As I shook his hand, I had a strong on October 4, 1963, as a member of Reinforced constantly during my impression that I needed to speak the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. own review of the years has been my with him and to provide counsel, and Forty-nine years is a long time. In knowledge that our prayers are heard so I asked him if he would accompany many ways, however, the time seems and answered. We are familiar with me to the Sunday morning session the very short since I stood at the pulpit in the truth found in 2 Nephi in the Book following day so that this could be the Tabernacle and gave my very first of Mormon: “Men are, that they might accomplished. general conference address. have joy.” 1 I testify that much of that Following the Sunday session, we Much has changed since October 4, joy comes as we recognize that we had an opportunity to visit together. 1963. We live in a unique time in the can communicate with our Heavenly We talked of his many responsi- world’s history. We are blessed with Father through prayer and that those bilities as district president. As we so very much. And yet it is sometimes prayers will be heard and answered— did so, I felt impressed to offer him difficult to view the problems and perhaps not how and when we specific suggestions concerning permissiveness around us and not expected they would be answered, missionary work and how he and become discouraged. I have found but they will be answered and by his members could help the full-time that, rather than dwelling on the a Heavenly Father who knows and missionaries in their labors in his area. negative, if we will take a step back loves us perfectly and who desires our I later learned that this man had been and consider the blessings in our lives, happiness. Hasn’t He promised us, “Be praying for guidance in this regard. To including seemingly small, sometimes thou humble; and the Lord thy God him our visit was a special witness that overlooked blessings, we can find shall lead thee by the hand, and give his prayers were heard and answered. greater happiness. thee answer to thy prayers”? 2 This was a seemingly unremarkable As I have reviewed the past 49 years, For the next few minutes allotted to meeting but one which I am con- I have made some discoveries. One is me, I would like to share with you just vinced was guided by the Spirit and that countless experiences I have had a tiny sampling of the experiences I which made a difference in that dis- were not necessarily those one would have had wherein prayers were heard trict president’s life and administration, consider extraordinary. In fact, at the and answered and which, in retro- in the lives of his members, and in the time they transpired, they often seemed spect, brought blessings into my life success of the missionaries there. unremarkable and even ordinary. And as well as the lives of others. My daily My brothers and sisters, the Lord’s yet, in retrospect, they enriched and journal, kept over all these years, has purposes are often accomplished as blessed lives—not the least of which helped provide some specifics which we pay heed to the guidance of the was my own. I would recommend this I most likely would not otherwise be Spirit. I believe that the more we act same exercise to you—namely, that able to recount. upon the inspiration and impressions 86 wheelchair over to greet me. We had an enjoyable visit, and I accompanied him back to his hospital room, where I gave him a blessing. I learned later from my friend that he had been utterly despondent that day and had been contemplating taking his own life. He had prayed for relief but began to feel that his prayers had gone unanswered. He went to the pool with the thought that this would be a way to end his misery—by guid- ing his wheelchair into the deep end of the pool. I had arrived at a critical moment, in response to what I know was inspiration from on high. My friend was able to live many more years—years filled with hap- piness and gratitude. How pleased I am to have been an instrument in the Lord’s hands on that critical day at the swimming pool. On another occasion, as Sister Monson and I were driving home after visiting friends, I felt impressed that we should go into town—a drive of many miles—to pay a visit to an elderly widow who had once lived in our ward. Her name was Zella Thomas. At the time, she was a resi- dent in a care center. That early after- noon we found her to be extremely frail but lying peacefully on her bed. Zella had long been blind, but she recognized our voices immediately. which come to us, the more the Lord dressed, and was soon on my way to She asked if I might give her a bless- will entrust to us His errands. see this good man. ing, adding that she was prepared to I have learned, as I have mentioned When I arrived at his room, I found die if the Lord wanted her to return in previous messages, never to post- that it was empty. Upon inquiry I home. There was a sweet, peaceful pone a prompting. On one occasion learned I would probably find him in spirit in the room, and all of us knew many years ago, I was swimming laps the swimming pool area of the hospi- that her remaining time in mortality at the old Deseret Gym in Salt Lake tal, an area which was used for physi- would be brief. Zella took me by the City when I felt the inspiration to go cal therapy. Such turned out to be the hand and said that she had prayed to the University Hospital to visit a case. He had guided himself there in fervently that I would come to see her good friend of mine who had lost the his wheelchair and was the only occu- and provide her a blessing. I told her use of his lower limbs because of a pant of the room. He was on the far that we had come because of direct malignancy and the surgery which side of the pool, near the deep end. I inspiration from our Heavenly Father. followed. I immediately left the pool, called to him, and he maneuvered his I kissed her on the forehead, knowing

November 2012 87 that I perhaps would not again see one of my books and underscored the the circumstances associated with the her in mortality. Such proved to be the chapters on missionary service. cultural celebration the evening before case, for she passed away the follow- About a week later the young man’s the temple was dedicated, I realized ing day. To have been able to provide mother telephoned and advised that her that the performance that night was some comfort and peace to our sweet son was an outstanding young man but not ordinary. Rather, it was quite Zella was a blessing to her and to me. that because of certain influences in his remarkable. The opportunity to be a blessing life, his long-held desire to serve a mis- As with all cultural events held in in the life of another often comes sion had diminished. She indicated she conjunction with temple dedications, unexpectedly. On one extremely cold and his father had fasted and prayed the youth in the Kansas City Missouri Saturday night during the winter of that his heart would be changed. They Temple District had rehearsed the 1983–84, Sister Monson and I drove had placed his name on the prayer performance in separate groups in several miles to the mountain valley of roll of the Provo Utah Temple. They their own areas. The plan was that they Midway, Utah, where we have a home. hoped that somehow, in some way, his would meet all together in the large The temperature that night was minus heart would be touched for good and rented municipal center on the Saturday 24 degrees Fahrenheit (–31°C), and we he would return to his desire to fill a morning of the performance so that wanted to make certain all was well at mission and to serve the Lord faithfully. they could learn when and where to our home there. We checked and found The mother wanted me to know that enter, where they were to stand, how that it was fine, so we left to return to she looked upon the events of that cold much space should be between them Salt Lake City. We barely made it the evening as an answer to their prayers in and the person next to them, how to few miles to the highway before our car his behalf. I said, “I agree with you.” exit the main floor, and so forth—many stopped working. We were completely After several months and more details which they would have to grasp stranded. I have seldom, if ever, been as communication with this young man, during the day as those in charge put cold as we were that night. Sister Monson and I were overjoyed the various scenes together so that the Reluctantly we began walking to attend his missionary farewell final performance would be polished toward the nearest town, the cars prior to his departure for the Canada and professional. whizzing past us. Finally one car Vancouver Mission. There was just one major problem stopped, and a young man offered Was it chance that our paths crossed that day. The entire production was to help. We eventually found that on that cold December night? I do not dependent on prerecorded segments the diesel fuel in our gas tank had for one moment believe so. Rather, I that would be shown on the large thickened because of the cold, making believe our meeting was an answer to screen known as a Jumbotron. These it impossible for us to drive the car. a mother’s and father’s heartfelt prayers recorded segments were critical to This kind young man drove us back for the son they cherished. the entire production. They not only to our Midway home. I attempted to Again, my brothers and sisters, tied it all together, but each televised reimburse him for his services, but he our Heavenly Father is aware of our segment would introduce the next graciously declined. He indicated that needs and will help us as we call performance. The video segments he was a Boy Scout and wanted to do upon Him for assistance. I believe provided the framework on which the a good turn. I identified myself to him, that no concern of ours is too small or entire production depended. And the and he expressed his appreciation for insignificant. The Lord is in the details Jumbotron was not working. the privilege to be of help. Assuming of our lives. Technicians worked frantically to that he was about missionary age, I I should like to conclude by relat- solve the problem while the youth asked him if he had plans to serve a ing one recent experience which had waited, hundreds of them, losing mission. He indicated he was not cer- an impact on hundreds. It occurred at precious rehearsal time. The situation tain just what he wanted to do. the cultural celebration for the Kansas began to look impossible. On the following Monday morn- City Temple, just five months ago. As The writer and director of the cele- ing, I wrote a letter to this young man with so much that happens in our bration, Susan Cooper, later explained: and thanked him for his kindness. In lives, at the time it seemed to be just “As we moved from plan A to B to Z, the letter I encouraged him to serve a another experience where everything we knew that it wasn’t working. . . . As full-time mission. I enclosed a copy of worked out. However, as I learned of we were looking at the schedule, we 88 center that evening, we had no idea of the difficulties of the day. Only later did we learn of them. What we witnessed, however, was a beautiful, polished performance—one of the best I have seen. The youth radiated a glorious, powerful spirit which was felt by all who were present. They seemed to know just where to enter, where to stand, and how to interact with all the other performers around them. When I learned that their rehearsals had been cut short and that many of the numbers had not been rehearsed by the entire group, I was astonished. No one would have known. The Lord had indeed made up the difference. I never cease to be amazed by how the Lord can motivate and direct the length and breadth of His kingdom and yet have time to provide inspi- ration concerning one individual— or one cultural celebration or one Jumbotron. The fact that He can, that He does, is a testimony to me. My brothers and sisters, the Lord is in all of our lives. He loves us. He wants to bless us. He wants us to seek His help. As He guides us and directs us and as He hears and answers our prayers, we will find the happiness here and now that He desires for us. May we be aware of His blessings in our lives, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ, our Savior, amen. ◼ knew that it was going to be beyond for what they themselves could not do us, but we knew that we had one of because of the shortage of time. NOTES 1. 2 Nephi 2:25. the greatest strengths on the floor Said one who wrote about it 2. Doctrine and Covenants 112:10. below—3,000 youth. We needed to go afterward, “It was a prayer the youth 3. Susan Cooper, in Maurine Proctor, down and tell [them] what was hap- will never forget, not because the “Nothing’s Too Hard for the Lord: The 3 Kansas City Cultural Celebration,” Meridian pening and draw upon their faith.” floor was hard, but because the Spirit Magazine, May 9, 2012, ldsmag.com. Just an hour before the audience melted their bones.” 4 4. Proctor, Meridian Magazine, May 9, 2012. would begin to enter the center, 3,000 It was not long before one of the youth knelt on the floor and prayed technicians came to tell them that the together. They prayed that those work- problem had been discovered and Short Video Highlight ing on the Jumbotron would be inspired corrected. He attributed the solution to Scan this QR code to watch or share a short video clip to know what to do to repair it; they luck, but all those youth knew better. (1–2 minutes) of this message. asked their Heavenly Father to make up When we entered the municipal

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immediately, and decisively, just as Peter and Andrew did: “they forsook By Elder Robert D. Hales their nets, and followed him.” 2 We too Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles are called upon to leave our nets, to reject worldly habits, customs, and tra- ditions. We are also called to forsake our sins. “When [ Jesus] had called the people unto him . . . , he said unto Being a More Christian them, Whosoever will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.” 3 Denying Christian ourselves of ungodly behavior is the beginning of repentance, which brings a mighty change of heart until “we This is the call of Christ to every Christian today: “Feed my have no more disposition to do evil.” 4 lambs. . . . Feed my sheep.” This change, called conversion, is possible only through the Savior. Jesus promised: “If men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. . . . hat does it mean to be a glorified and perfected body of flesh And my grace is sufficient for all men Christian? and bone. Jesus Christ is His Only that humble themselves before me; for W A Christian has faith in Begotten Son in the flesh. The Holy if they humble themselves before me, the Lord Jesus Christ, that He is the lit- Ghost is a personage of spirit whose and have faith in me, then will I make eral Son of God, sent by His Father to work is to testify of the Father and the weak things become strong unto them.” 5 suffer for our sins in the supreme act Son. The Godhead is three separate As we are made new in Christ, our very of love we know as the Atonement. and distinct beings, unified in purpose. natures change and we no longer want A Christian believes that through With these doctrines as the foun- to go back to our old ways. the grace of God the Father and His dation of our faith, can there be any Even so, faithful Christians will Son, Jesus Christ, we can repent, for- doubt or disputation that we, as mem- always be blessed to experience dif- give others, keep the commandments, bers of The Church of Jesus Christ of ficulties and disappointments. When and inherit eternal life. Latter-day Saints, are Christian? Yet these refining challenges come, we The word Christian denotes taking for every Christian, a simple question may be tempted to return to our old upon us the name of Christ. We do remains: what kind of Christians are ways. After the Savior’s Crucifixion, this by being baptized and receiving we? In other words, how are we doing He appeared to the women and told the gift of the Holy Ghost by the lay- in our quest to follow Christ? them that the brethren would find ing on of hands by those holding His Consider with me the experience of Him in Galilee. When Peter, the senior priesthood authority. two Christian disciples: Apostle, returned to Galilee, he also A Christian knows that throughout “Jesus, walking by the sea of went back to what he knew—to what the ages, God’s prophets have always Galilee, saw two brethren, Simon he felt comfortable doing. “I go a fish- testified of Jesus Christ. This same called Peter, and Andrew his brother, ing,” 6 he explained, and took several Jesus, accompanied by Heavenly casting a net into the sea: for they disciples with him. Father, appeared to the Prophet were fishers. Indeed, Peter and the others fished Joseph Smith in the year 1820 and “And he saith unto them, Follow me, all night without catching any fish. restored the gospel and the organiza- and I will make you fishers of men. The next morning Jesus appeared on tion of His original Church. “And they straightway left their the shore and called to them across Through the scriptures and the nets, and followed him.” 1 the water, “Cast [your] net on the witness of Joseph Smith, we know As Christians today, we have right side.” The disciples in the boat that God, our Heavenly Father, has a the opportunity to act straightway, followed the Savior’s instructions and 90 quickly discovered their nets were We feed His lambs in our homes by a child with special needs, loving the miraculously filled to overflowing. how we live the gospel: keeping the prodigal, serving an ailing compan- John recognized the Savior’s voice, commandments, praying, studying ion, enduring misunderstandings, or and Peter instantly cast himself into the scriptures, and emulating His love. suffering affliction. It means preparing the water and swam to the shore.7 We feed His sheep in the Church as ourselves to answer His call by saying, To Christians who have returned to we serve in priesthood quorums and “I’ll go where you want me to go; I’ll their old, less faithful ways, consider auxiliary organizations. And we feed say what you want me to say; I’ll do the faithful example of Peter. Do not His sheep throughout the world by what you want me to do; I’ll be what delay. Come hear and recognize the being good Christian neighbors, prac- you want me to be.” 11 Master’s voice calling. Then straight- ticing the pure religion of visiting and To be who Heavenly Father wants way return to Him and receive His serving the widows, the fatherless, the us to be, we follow Jesus Christ. I abundant blessings once again. poor, and all who are in need. testify that He is continually calling us As the brethren returned to the For many, the call to be a Christian to follow Him. If you are just learning shore, they discovered a feast of can seem demanding, even over- about the Christian commitment of fish and bread. “Come and dine,” 8 whelming. But we need not be afraid Latter-day Saints or if you have not the Savior invited. As He fed them, or feel inadequate. The Savior has been fully participating in the Church He asked Peter three times, “Simon, promised that He will make us equal and want to follow Him again—fear son of Jonas, lovest thou me?” When to His work. “Follow me,” He said, not! The Lord’s first disciples were Peter expressed his love, the Savior “and I will make you fishers of men.” 10 all new members of the Church, implored him, “Feed my lambs. . . . As we follow Him, He blesses us with newly converted to His gospel. Jesus Feed my sheep.” 9 gifts, talents, and the strength to do patiently taught each one. He helped This is the call of Christ to every His will, allowing us to go beyond them fulfill their responsibilities. He Christian today: “Feed my lambs. . . . our comfort zones and do things called them His friends and laid down Feed my sheep”—share my gospel we’ve never before thought possible. His life for them. And He has already with young and old, lifting, blessing, This may mean sharing the gospel done the same for you and for me. comforting, encouraging, and build- with neighbors, rescuing those who I testify that through His infinite ing them, especially those who think are spiritually lost, serving a full-time love and grace, we can become more and believe differently than we do. mission, working in the temple, raising Christian Christians. Consider the

November 2012 91 showed us the way by praying that those who crucified Him would be forgiven. Christian conversion. Like Peter and Andrew, many recognize the truth of the gospel as soon as they hear it. They are instantly converted. For others it may take longer. In a revelation given through Joseph Smith, the Savior taught, “That which is of God is light; and he that receiv- eth light, and continueth in God, receiveth more light; and that light groweth brighter and brighter until the perfect day,” 14 the perfect day of our conversion. Jesus Christ is “the light and the Redeemer of the world; the Spirit of truth.” 15 Christian endurance to the end. In all His days, the Savior never gave up doing His Father’s will but continued in righteousness, goodness, mercy, and truth to the end of His mortal life. These are some of the characteris- tics of those who hear and heed the Savior’s voice. As one of His special following Christlike qualities. How reaching out to rescue, love, and nur- witnesses on the earth, I give my are we doing in strengthening them ture people around Him, regardless of Christian testimony that He is calling within ourselves? their culture, creed, or circumstances. to you today, “Come, follow me.” 16 Christian love. The Savior valued Christian service. Whether drawing Come walk the path that leads to everyone. Kind and compassionate to water from a well, cooking a meal of eternal happiness, joy, and everlasting all, He left the ninety and nine to find fish, or washing dusty feet, the Savior life in the kingdom of our Heavenly the one,12 for “even the very hairs of spent His days serving others—lifting Father. In the name of Jesus Christ, [our] head are . . . numbered” 13 to Him. up the weary and strengthening the our Savior and Redeemer, amen. ◼ Christian faith. Despite tempta- weak. NOTES tions, trials, and persecutions, the Christian patience. In His own sor- 1. Matthew 4:18–20. Savior trusted our Heavenly Father row and suffering, the Savior waited 2. Mark 1:18. 3. Mark 8:34. and chose to be faithful and obedient upon His Father. With patience for us, 4. Mosiah 5:2. to His commandments. He waits upon us to come to our- 5. Ether 12:27; emphasis added. Christian sacrifice. Throughout His selves and come home to Him. 6. John 21:3. 7. See John 21:3–8. life the Savior gave of His time, His Christian peace. Throughout His 8. John 21:12. energy, and ultimately, through the ministry He urged understanding and 9. See John 21:15–17. Atonement, gave Himself so that all of promoted peace. Especially among 10. Matthew 4:19; emphasis added. 11. See “I’ll Go Where You Want Me to Go,” God’s children could be resurrected His disciples, He taught that Christians Hymns, no. 270. and have the opportunity to inherit cannot contend with other Christians, 12. See Matthew 18:12–14. eternal life. notwithstanding their differences. 13. Luke 12:7. 14. Doctrine and Covenants 50:24. Christian caring. Like the good Christian forgiveness. He taught 15. Doctrine and Covenants 93:9. Samaritan, the Savior was continually us to bless those who curse us. He 16. Luke 18:22. 92 By Elder Richard G. Scott ordinances of baptism and the gift of Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles the Holy Ghost. Some members may not be able to do both works because of health or distances to temples. President Howard W. Hunter taught: “We must accomplish the priest- The Joy of Redeeming hood temple ordinance work neces- sary for our own exaltation; then we must do the necessary work for those the Dead who did not have the opportunity to accept the gospel in life. Doing work for others is accomplished in two “He shall plant in the hearts of the children the promises steps: first, by family history research made to the fathers, and the hearts of the children to ascertain our progenitors; and shall turn to their fathers.” second, by performing the temple ordinances to give them the same opportunities afforded to the living. “Yet there are many members of he Lord revealed to the Prophet In an epistle written over 150 years the Church who have only limited Joseph Smith sublime doctrine ago, Joseph Smith stated: “The Saints access to the temples. They do the Tconcerning the sacred ordinance have the privilege of being baptized best they can. They pursue family of baptism. That light came when for . . . their relatives who are dead history research and have the temple other Christian churches taught that . . . who have received the Gospel ordinance work done by others. death irrevocably, eternally, deter- in the spirit, through . . . those who Conversely, there are some members mined the destiny of the soul. They have been commissioned to preach who engage in temple work but fail to taught the baptized were rewarded to them.” 2 Later he added, “Those do family history research on their own with endless joy while all others faced Saints who neglect it in behalf of their family lines. Although they perform a eternal torment without hope of deceased relatives, do it at the peril of divine service in assisting others, they redemption. their own salvation.” 3 lose a blessing by not seeking their The Lord’s revelation that through The prophet Elijah committed the own kindred dead as divinely directed proper priesthood authority, baptism keys for vicarious work to Joseph Smith by latter-day prophets. . . . could be performed vicariously for in the Kirtland Temple 4 to fulfill the “I have learned that those who the dead preserved the justice of His Lord’s promise that “he shall plant in engage in family history research and statement: “Except a man be born the hearts of the children the promises then perform the temple ordinance of water and of the Spirit, he cannot made to the fathers, and the hearts of work for those whose names they have enter into the kingdom of God.” 1 the children shall turn to their fathers.” 5 found will know the additional joy of Vicarious baptism can mercifully pro- Through further revelation to receiving both halves of the blessing.” 6 vide this essential ordinance for all Joseph Smith and subsequent proph- Father in Heaven wants each of us worthy deceased who did not receive ets, there has come an understanding to receive both parts of the blessing it in mortality. of and the provision for temple work of this vital vicarious work. He has This glorious doctrine is another and the family history effort that sup- led others to show us how to qualify. witness of the all-encompassing ports it. Every prophet since Joseph It is up to you and me to claim those nature of the Atonement of Jesus Smith has emphasized the imperative blessings. Christ. He made salvation available to need to provide all ordinances for our- Any work you do in the temple is every repentant soul. His Atonement selves and our deceased ancestors. time well spent, but receiving ordi- conquered death, and He permits the Temple and family history work nances vicariously for one of your worthy deceased to receive all ordi- is one work divided into two parts. own ancestors will make the time in nances of salvation vicariously. They are connected together like the the temple more sacred, and even

November 2012 93 greater blessings will be received. The reserved for years. Ancestors who have She has completed a vast amount of First Presidency has declared, “Our been found are no doubt anxious and genealogical work. But there are far too preeminent obligation is to seek out thrilled when their names are cleared many names for her and her immedi- and identify our own ancestors.” 7 for ordinances. They, however, may ate family to complete. Consequently, Do you young people want a sure not be very happy when they have to Sister Blevins has submitted the names way to eliminate the influence of the continue to wait for their ordinances to to the temple, which, she reports, are adversary in your life? Immerse your- be performed. often completed in a matter of weeks, self in searching for your ancestors, We encourage those of you who usually at one of the two temples clos- prepare their names for the sacred have a large reservation of names to est to her home. She says she likes to vicarious ordinances available in the share them so that members of your think that friends and neighbors in her temple, and then go to the temple extended family or ward and stake can own ward and stake may be among to stand as proxy for them to receive help you in completing that work. You those helping to complete the work the ordinances of baptism and the can do this by distributing temple cards for her ancestors. She appreciates their gift of the Holy Ghost. As you grow to ward and stake members willing doing so. older, you will be able to participate in to help or by using the FamilySearch My beloved wife, Jeanene, loved receiving the other ordinances as well. computer system to submit the names doing family history research. When I can think of no greater protection directly to the temple. This latter option our children were young, she would from the influence of the adversary is something Cindy Blevins of Casper, trade babysitting time with friends in your life. Wyoming, has been doing for years. so she could have a few hours every In the Russia Rostov-na-Donu Sister Blevins was baptized as a few weeks to work on researching Mission the youth were invited to each teenager and has been the only mem- our family lines. After our youngest index 2,000 names and then qualify at ber of her family to join the Church. child left home, she recorded in her least one name from their own families for temple ordinances. Those who accomplished this goal were invited to go on a long journey to the new Kyiv Ukraine Temple. One young man shared his experience: “I was spending a lot of time playing computer games. When I started indexing, I didn’t have time to play games. At first I thought, ‘Oh no! How can that be!’ When this project was over, I even lost interest in gaming. . . . Genealogical work is something that we can do here on earth, and it will remain in heaven.” Many faithful Saints have done the work of researching their family lines and are using the reserve feature of FamilySearch to hold the ordinances for their own family members to serve as proxy. The intent of reserving names is to allow a reasonable period of time for individuals to perform ordinances for ancestors and collateral lines. There are currently 12 million names and mil- lions of corresponding ordinances that are reserved. Many names have been 94 personal journal: “I have just made a decision and I want to stand up and shout about it. Mike’s old bedroom has become my genealogy workroom. It is well equipped to organize the records and work in. My life will now focus on vital family research and temple name submissions. I am so excited and anxious to get going.” 8 Another journal entry reads: “The . . . miracle for me occurred in the Family History office of Mel Olsen who presented me with a printout of all my known ancestral pedigrees taken from the update of the Ancestral File computerized records sent into the genealogical society. They came mostly from the records of the four generation’s program the Church called for many years ago. I had been holy temples here on earth using the who can’t help themselves. Check overwhelmed with the thought of the authority delegated by the Savior, around. There will be someone in huge task ahead of me to gather all our progenitors receive the saving your area who can help you have my ancestors’ research records from ordinances that allow them to enjoy success. family organizations to get them all in eternal happiness. This work is a spiritual work, a the computer for the first computer- In the past, motivated by a deep monumental effort of cooperation on ized distribution of the Ancestral File. conviction of the sanctity of the work, both sides of the veil, where help is And there they all were, beautiful, individuals have valiantly faced a chal- given in both directions. Anywhere organized and laser printed and sitting lenge that seemed like single-handedly you are in the world, with prayer, there on the desk before me. I was so endeavoring to harvest all the grain in faith, determination, diligence, and thrilled and so overwhelmed I just sat Nebraska. Now, many mighty com- some sacrifice, you can make a there stunned and then began to cry bines are at work. Together we can and powerful contribution. Begin now. I I was so happy. . . . For one who has will accomplish the required work. promise you that the Lord will help doggedly, painstakingly researched I testify that the Spirit of Elijah is you find a way. And it will make you for thirty years, the computerization of touching the hearts of many of Father’s feel wonderful. In the name of Jesus all these records is truly exciting. And children throughout the world, causing Christ, amen. ◼ when I think of the hundreds of thou- the work for the dead to accelerate at NOTES sands of people who are now or soon an unprecedented pace. 1. John 3:5. 2. History of the Church, 4:231. will be computerizing huge blocks of But what about you? Have you 3. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: censuses and private research disks prayed about your own ancestors’ Joseph Smith (2007), 471–72. . . . I am so excited. It is truly the work? Set aside those things in your 4. See Doctrine and Covenants 110:13–16. 9 5. Doctrine and Covenants 2:2; emphasis Lord’s work and He is directing it.” life that don’t really matter. Decide to added. I have tasted enough of the fruits do something that will have eternal 6. Howard W. Hunter, “A Temple-Motivated of this sublime work to know that consequences. Perhaps you have been People,” Liahona, May 1995, 5–6; Ensign, Feb. 1995, 4–5. the keys Elijah restored to Joseph prompted to look for ancestors but feel 7. First Presidency letter, Feb. 29, 2012; Smith permit our hearts to be bound you are not a genealogist. Can you see emphasis added. and each of us linked to those of that you don’t have to be anymore? 8. Jeanene Watkins Scott, personal journal, Apr. 1988. our ancestors who are waiting for It all begins with love and a sincere 9. Jeanene Watkins Scott, personal journal, our help. Through our efforts in desire to help those beyond the veil Sept. 23, 1989.

November 2012 95 By Russell T. Osguthorpe When the first began to struggle, his Sunday School General President classmate stayed with him and whis- pered in his ear so that he could feel successful. They were both teaching that day. They were teaching what the Savior taught, but they were also One Step Closer teaching how the Savior taught. When the Savior taught, He acted out of love for the one He was teaching, just as to the Savior this classmate did for his friend.5 When we learn and teach His word in His way, we accept His invitation Conversion is the goal of all gospel learning and teaching. to “come, follow me.” We follow Him Conversion is not a onetime event. It is a lifelong quest to one step at a time. With each step, we become more like the Savior. draw closer to the Savior. We change. The Lord knew that spiritual growth did not happen all at once. It comes gradually. Each time we accept His his past summer a brief article I had learner. He helped individuals dis- invitation and choose to follow Him, written appeared in the Liahona cover truth for themselves.1 He always we progress along the pathway to full Tand Ensign. My son emailed me listened to their questions.2 conversion. saying, “Dad, maybe you could tell us These new learning resources Conversion is the goal of all gospel when you have an article coming out.” will help us all learn and teach in learning and teaching. Conversion is I responded, “I just wanted to see if the Savior’s way in our homes and not a onetime event. It is a lifelong you were reading the Church maga- in our classrooms.3 As we do, we quest to become more like the Savior. zines.” He wrote back explaining that will be responding to His invitation Elder Dallin H. Oaks has reminded us his 10-year-old daughter had “passed to “come, follow me,” 4 just as Elder that “to know ” is not enough. “To be the test. She got the Ensign from the Robert D. Hales so beautifully taught. ‘converted’ . . . requires us to do and mailbox, came into the house, and read While these new resources were being to become.” 6 So learning for conver- it. Then she came up to our room and developed, I saw leaders and teachers sion is a continual process of know- showed us your article.” in the auxiliaries and seminary coun- ing, doing, and becoming. Likewise, My granddaughter read the Ensign sel together with parents so that they teaching for conversion requires key because she wanted to learn. She could meet the needs of their learn- doctrine, invitations to action, and acted on her own by exercising her ers. I’ve seen young women in their promised blessings.7 When we teach agency. The First Presidency recently classes, young men in their Aaronic true doctrine, we help the learner approved new learning resources Priesthood quorums, and youth in to know. When we invite others to for youth that will support the innate Sunday School learn to exercise their action, we help them to do or live desire of young people to learn, live, agency and act for themselves. the doctrine. And when the blessings and share the gospel. These new One youth Sunday School teacher come that the Lord has promised, resources are now available for review wondered how to help two young we are changed. Like Alma, we can online. In January we will begin using men with autism act for themselves. become new creatures.8 them in classrooms. (Learn more When she invited class members to The new learning resources for about the new learning resources for share what they were learning, she youth have one central goal: to help youth at lds.org/youth/learn.) worried that these two young men youth become converted to the gospel When the Savior taught, the learner’s might refuse her invitation. But they of Jesus Christ. I recently saw a young agency was paramount. He showed us didn’t. One stood to teach what he man in a youth Sunday School class not only what to teach but also how to had learned and then invited his discover truth for himself. When I teach. He focused on the needs of the classmate with autism to help him. noticed that he was having difficulty 96 relating the Atonement to his own life, I asked him if he had ever felt forgiveness. He responded: “Yeah, like that time I broke a guy’s nose when we were playing soccer. I felt bad about it. I wondered what I needed to do to feel better. So I went to his home and asked him to forgive me, but I knew I needed to do more, so I prayed, and then I felt that Heavenly Father forgave me too. This is what the Atonement means to me.” When he shared this experience in class that day, he read from John 3:16—“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son”— and then testified of the power of the Atonement. This doctrine was no lon- ger an abstract concept to this young man. It became part of his life because he asked his own question and then exercised his agency to act.9 This young man was becoming more converted, and so were his classmates. They focused on a key doctrine by studying the scriptures. They related those sacred words to their own life and then testified of the blessings that had come to them as a result of living the doctrine. When we was reading it every day. I asked her Sometimes the pathway to conver- teach the gospel of Jesus Christ, we to come to the podium and explain. sion can be long and hard. My brother- focus on the scriptures and the words She responded, “I read the Book of in-law was less active in the Church of modern prophets. We draw upon Mormon every morning. Then I read for 50 years. Not until he was in his sacred text to help strengthen faith, something in Teaching, No Greater 60s did he begin to accept the Savior’s build testimonies, and help everyone Call so I can teach my children in the invitation to come back. Many helped become fully converted. The new very best way what I’ve just learned.” him along the way. One home teacher learning resources for youth will help She wanted to learn and teach sent him a postcard every month for 22 all who use them to understand and His word in His way, so she studied years. But he had to decide he wanted live the word of God. His word in the scriptures and then to come back. He had to exercise his While teaching the Saints in Costa studied how to teach His word so that agency. He had to take that first step— Rica, I held up a copy of Teaching, her children could be fully converted. and then another and another. Now he No Greater Call and asked, “So how Her pattern of gospel learning and and his wife have been sealed together, many of you have a copy of this teaching did not happen, I believe, and he is serving in a bishopric. manual?” Nearly everyone raised a all at once. She made a decision to Recently we showed him the vid- hand. With a smile, I said, “And I bet do something. And the more she did eos that have been developed to help you’re reading it every single day.” To what she knew she should do, the leaders and teachers implement the my surprise, a sister on the front row more the Lord strengthened her to new learning resources. After watch- raised her hand, indicating that she walk in His way. ing the videos, my brother-in-law

November 2012 97 obstacles appear, we will keep going. When doubt comes, we will keep going. We will never turn back. We will never fall away. I testify that God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, live. I testify that the Savior continues to beckon us just as He did in former times to come unto Him. We can all accept His invitation. We can all learn, teach, and live His word in His way by taking one step closer to the Savior. As we do, we will become truly converted. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ NOTES 1. See John 3:1–7. In this passage the Savior answered the question that Nicodemus himself raised. He taught to the needs of Nicodemus. He permitted Nicodemus to exercise his agency to learn. He helped Nicodemus discover the answer for himself. 2. See John 3:4; Joseph Smith—History 1:18. 3. See Teaching the Gospel in the Savior’s Way, lds.org/youth/learn/guidebook/ teaching. 4. See Luke 18:18–22. 5. See 1 John 4:19. 6. Dallin H. Oaks, “The Challenge to Become,” Liahona, Jan. 2001, 41; Ensign, Athens, Greece Nov. 2000, 33: “To testify is to know and to declare. The gospel challenges us to be leaned back in his chair and said, seers, and revelators, we learn in the ‘converted,’ which requires us to do and to 10 become. If any of us relies solely upon our somewhat emotionally, “Maybe if I Savior’s way. We take one step closer knowledge and testimony of the gospel, had had that when I was young, I to Him. As this conference draws to a we are in the same position as the blessed wouldn’t have fallen away.” close, I invite everyone in the sound but still unfinished Apostles whom Jesus challenged to be ‘converted.’ We all know Several weeks ago I met a young of my voice to take that step. Like the someone who has a strong testimony but man who was struggling. I asked if he Nephites of old, we can return to our does not act upon it so as to be converted.” was a member of the Church. He told “homes, and ponder upon the things 7. See Abraham 2:11. 8. See Mosiah 27:24–26; 2 Corinthians 5:17. me that he was agnostic but that ear- which . . . have [been] said, and ask of 9. See David A. Bednar, “Watching with lier in his life he had been acquainted the Father, in [Christ’s] name, that [we] All Perseverance,” Liahona and Ensign, with the Church. When I told him may understand.” 11 May 2010, 43: “Are you and I helping our children become agents who act about my calling in the Sunday We want every young person to and seek learning by study and by faith, School and that I would be speaking understand. We want them to learn, or have we trained our children to wait in general conference, he said, “Hey, teach, and live the gospel of Jesus to be taught and acted upon? Are we as parents primarily giving our children the if you’re speaking, I’ll watch that Christ every day. This is what the equivalent of spiritual fish to eat, or are we session.” I hope he’s watching today. Lord wants for all of His children. consistently helping them to act, to learn I know that if he’s watching, he has Whether you are a child, a youth, or for themselves, and to stand steadfast and immovable? Are we helping our children learned something. This Conference an adult, I invite you to come and become anxiously engaged in asking, Center is a unique place of learning follow in His footsteps. With each seeking, and knocking?” and teaching for conversion. step we take, I testify that the Lord 10. See Dennis B. Neuenschwander, “Living Prophets, Seers, and Revelators,” Liahona, When we live the principles taught will strengthen us. He will help us Jan. 2001, 49–51; Ensign, Nov. 2000, 40–42. by those we sustain as prophets, come the rest of the way. Then when 11. 3 Nephi 17:3. 98 By Elder Marcus B. Nash trek where her seven children were Of the Seventy literally starving. She wrote: “It hurt me to see my children go hungry. . . . Night was coming and there was no food for the evening meal. I asked God’s help as I always did. I got on By Faith All Things my knees, remembering two hard sea biscuits that . . . had been left over from the sea voyage. They were not Are Fulfilled large, and were so hard they couldn’t be broken. Surely, that was not enough to feed 8 people, but 5 loaves Faith will help us to safely climb the gospel path, overcome and 2 fishes were not enough to feed every challenge of mortality, and return to the majestic 5,000 people either, but through a mir- presence of our Heavenly Father. acle, Jesus had done it. So, with God’s help, nothing is impossible. I found the biscuits and put them in a dutch oven and covered them with water ot long ago several of us in mortality,4 and return to the majestic and asked for God’s blessing. Then I the Nash family hiked to the presence of our Heavenly Father. All put the lid on the pan and set it on the Ntop of Huayna Picchu, a tall things are fulfilled by faith.5 coals. When I took off the lid a little peak adjoining the ancient Incan ruins Faith is both a principle of action later, I found the pan filled with food. of Machu Picchu in the mountains and of power.6 It “is not to have a I kneeled with my family and thanked of Peru. It is a very steep climb with perfect knowledge of things; therefore God for his goodness. That night my breathtaking views and precipitous if [we] have faith [we] hope for things family had sufficient food.” 14 drop-offs. Sadly, some hikers have lost which are not seen, which are true.” 7 Ann Rowley was living the gos- their lives by falling off that narrow, It is an assurance 8 of the Spirit gained pel at great personal sacrifice. She steep trail. To avoid such tragedies, through our learning that moves us to needed help and asked for it in prayer. strong cables have since been secured act 9 to follow the example of the Savior Because of her faith, she was filled to the solid rock along the mountain- and prayerfully keep His command- with hope and miraculously provided side of Huayna Picchu. We held to ments, even through times of sacrifice with food for her family. The Lord also those cables as we climbed, and they and trial.10 Faith brings us the power blessed her with the eternally signif- enabled us to safely reach the summit, of the Lord, which—among other icant ability to “endure in faith to the where the view was majestic! things—is manifested by a hope of end.” 15 Despite an uncertain future, Like the path on Huayna Picchu, good things to come,11 miracles that she did not demand to know how our mortal journey is a steep and confirm our faith,12 and divine protec- she was going to feed her children difficult climb, one that requires our tion in spiritual and temporal matters.13 the next day; instead, she patiently Heavenly Father’s help to successfully The life of Ann Rowley, a pio- “wait[ed] upon the Lord” 16 and pressed complete. For this reason, He estab- neer woman in the early days of the forward with hope—just as the beauti- lished the principles and ordinances of Church, demonstrates how exercising ful hymn expresses: the gospel to bring us unto the Savior faith impacts our lives for good. A and His saving power.1 The first of widow from England, Sister Rowley Lead, kindly Light, amid th’ encircling those principles, faith in the Lord Jesus exercised her faith to answer the gloom; Lead thou me on! Christ,2 is like the cables on Huayna prophet’s call to gather to Zion. She The night is dark, and I am far from Picchu: if strong and securely attached was a member of the Willie handcart home; Lead thou me on! to “the rock of our Redeemer,” 3 faith company, which encountered deep Keep thou my feet; I do not ask to see will help us to safely climb the gospel snowdrifts along the trail in the fall of The distant scene—one step enough path, overcome every challenge of 1856. They had reached a point in the for me.17

November 2012 99 Second, fear distracts from and undermines faith in the Savior. The Apostle Peter looked to the Lord one stormy night and walked on water— until he averted his gaze and “saw the wind boisterous [and] was afraid” and then sank into the stormy sea.28 He could have continued walking if he had not feared! Rather than our focusing upon and fearing the boisterous wind and waves in our lives, the Lord invites us to “look unto me in every thought; doubt not, fear not.” 29 Third, sin diminishes the presence of the Spirit in our lives, and with- out the Holy Ghost, we will lack the spiritual stamina to hold onto and exercise faith. It is best to exercise our faith to “touch not the evil gift, nor the We too can exercise such faith in If, because of unbelief or doubt, unclean thing” 30 and to “be diligent the Lord, believing and trusting that you find your faith wavering, remem- in keeping all [the] commandments, our kind and constant God 18 will bless ber that even the ancient Apostles lest . . . your faith fail you, and your us with His miraculous power suited implored the Lord to “increase our enemies triumph over you.” 31 If sin to our circumstance, according to His faith.” 23 Bearing in mind that faith has stained your life, I invite you to timing. As we do so, we too will see and reason are necessary compan- exercise “faith unto repentance,” 32 and the hand of God manifest in our lives. ions, consider the following analogy: the Savior, through the Atonement, The Lord commands us to take faith and reason are like the two will purify and heal your life. “the shield of faith wherewith ye shall wings of an aircraft. Both are essen- Brothers and sisters, the Lord be able to quench all the fiery darts tial to maintain flight. If, from your will, according to our faith, fulfill His of the wicked.” 19 Satan will use such perspective, reason seems to contra- promises and work with us to over- things as doubt, fear, or sin to tempt dict faith, pause and remember that come every challenge.33 He did so us to let go of faith and lose the pro- our perspective is extremely limited for Ann Rowley and has done so for tection it offers. Let us briefly examine compared with the Lord’s.24 Do not His people in all nations and in every each of these challenges to faith in discard faith any more than you age and generation. Because He is a turn so that we can recognize and would detach a wing from an aircraft “God of miracles” and “changeth not,” heed not the adversary’s temptations.20 in flight. Instead, nurture a particle of He will likewise bless each of us with First, unbelief in the Lord or His faith and permit the hope it produces hope, protection, and power accord- gospel will cause us to resist the Spirit to be an anchor to your soul—and ing to our faith in Him.34 Steadfast of God.21 The Lord’s antidote for doubt to your reason.25 That is why we are faith in the Lord Jesus Christ will— is simple. As King Benjamin declared, commanded to “seek learning . . . by like the cables on the path of Huayna “Believe in God; believe that he is, study and also by faith.” 26 Remember, Picchu—anchor you and your loved and that he created all things, both in faith precedes and produces miracles ones to “the rock of our Redeemer” 35 heaven and in earth; believe that he for which we have no immediate and His matchless power to save. has all wisdom, and all power, both in explanation within our experience, President Thomas S. Monson has heaven and in earth; believe that man such as a Dutch oven full of food stated, “The future is as bright as doth not comprehend all the things from two small biscuits or simply your faith.” 36 I testify of that sublime, which the Lord can comprehend.” 22 enduring in faith against all odds.27 hopeful truth and invite each of us to 100 steadfastly press forward with faith in By Elder Daniel L. Johnson the Lord, “nothing wavering.” 37 I know Of the Seventy that the Savior lives, is “the author and the finisher of [our] faith,” 38 and the “rewarder of them that diligently seek him.” 39 I so testify in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ Becoming NOTES 1. See Doctrine and Covenants 84:19–21. 2. See Articles of Faith 1:4. 3. Helaman 5:12. a True Disciple 4. See Doctrine and Covenants 76:53. 5. See Ether 12:3. 6. See Lectures on Faith (1985), 3; see also As we obey His commandments and serve our fellowmen, Jacob 4:6; Ether 12:7–22; Hebrews 11:4–40. 7. Alma 32:21. we become better disciples of Jesus Christ. 8. See Joseph Smith Translation, Hebrews 11:1 (in Hebrews 11:1, footnote b). 9. See 2 Nephi 25:23; Alma 34:15–17; Ether 12:6; James 2:17–26. 10. See Ether 12:4–6; Lectures on Faith, 69. hose of us who have entered and early morning, every effort was 11. See Moroni 7:40–42. into the waters of baptism and made to save at least a part of the fruit 12. See Bible Dictionary, “Faith”; see also Mormon 9:8–21; Moroni 7:33–37. Treceived the gift of the Holy Ghost crop. It was all to no avail. It simply 13. See Doctrine and Covenants 27:17; Alma have covenanted that we are willing to got too cold, and the crop was totally 57:19–27; 58:10–13. take upon ourselves the name of Jesus frozen. There would be no fruit to be 14. Ann Rowley, in Andrew D. Olsen, The Price We Paid: The Extraordinary Story of Christ, or in other words, we declare harvested and sold this year. Tuesday the Willie and Martin Handcart Pioneers ourselves to be disciples of the Lord. dawned with the sickening and dis- (2006), 113. We renew that covenant each week heartening loss of all those wonderful 15. Doctrine and Covenants 20:25. 16. Isaiah 40:31. as we partake of the sacrament, and plans, expectations, and dreams of just 17. “Lead, Kindly Light,” Hymns, no. 97. we demonstrate that discipleship by the day before. 18. See Jacob 4:10; Mormon 9:9. the way that we live. Such discipleship I received an email regarding that 19. Doctrine and Covenants 27:17; emphasis added. was beautifully demonstrated in recent terrible Tuesday morning from Sandra 20. See 1 Nephi 8:33–34; Alma 37:33; Doctrine events in Mexico. Hatch, the wife of John Hatch, then- and Covenants 20:22. It had been a beautiful spring for first counselor in the presidency of the 21. See Alma 32:28. 22. Mosiah 4:9. the fruit-growing communities in Colonia Juárez Chihuahua Temple. I 23. Luke 17:5. northern Mexico. The fruit trees were quote portions of that email: “John got 24. See Mosiah 4:9–10; Proverbs 3:5–7; Isaiah in full bloom, and expectations were up early—about 6:30—to run up to 55:8–9. 25. See Ether 12:4. high for a bounteous harvest. Plans the temple to see if we should cancel 26. Doctrine and Covenants 88:118; emphasis were already being made to pay off the session this morning. He came added. loans, replace needed equipment and back saying that the parking lot and 27. See Moroni 7:33–38; Ether 12:19. 28. See Matthew 14:25–31. aging orchards, and meet personal road were clear, so we decided to go 29. Doctrine and Covenants 6:36. commitments such as school tuition ahead. We figured that maybe some of 30. Moroni 10:30. for family members. Plans were even the workers who didn’t have orchards 31. Doctrine and Covenants 136:42. 32. See Alma 34:15–17; see also Ether 12:3. being made for family vacations. would come, and we could put all the 33. See Ether 12:29; Alma 7:27. There was a general air of optimism. workers into the session. . . . It was 34. See Mormon 9:18–21; see also Moroni Then, on a Monday afternoon in late so inspiring to see the men come in, 7:33–38; Alma 37:16–17. 35. Helaman 5:12. March, a winter storm moved in, and it one after another. There they were, 36. Thomas S. Monson, “Be of Good Cheer,” began to snow. It snowed until about after no sleep at all, and figuring their Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 92. three o’clock in the morning. Then, as crops were lost. . . . I was watching 37. See James 1:6–8. 38. Moroni 6:4; see also Hebrews 12:2. the clouds moved out, the tempera- them during our preparation meeting, 39. Hebrews 11:6; see also Ether 12:41. ture plummeted. Throughout the night and they were having a hard time

November 2012 101 staying awake. But instead of figuring to prepare the land, and provided the become more like Him. Becoming they had a good excuse to not come, chili plants for him to plant. like Him and being one with Him is they were there. And there were 38 I know the men about whom I the ultimate goal and objective—and people in the session (a full session)! have just spoken. Knowing them, I essentially the very definition of true It was an uplifting morning for us, was not surprised at what they did. discipleship. and we thanked Heavenly Father for But those who do not know them will As the Savior asked His disciples good people who do their duty, no probably be asking two questions, when He visited the American conti- matter what happens. I felt a special both beginning with the word why. nent, “Therefore, what manner of spirit there this morning. I am sure He Why would they come to the temple men ought ye to be?” And then, was pleased to know that we love His to perform their duties and to serve answering His own question, He said, house and felt that it was a good place after having been up all night long, “Verily I say unto you, even as I am” to be on such a difficult morning.” only to realize that they had lost the (3 Nephi 27:27). The story does not end there and greater part of their revenue for the Becoming as the Savior is not an in fact is still ongoing. whole year? Why would they use what easy task, especially in the world in Most of those who lost their fruit were now scarce and very precious which we live. We face obstacles and crop had some land available on resources to help another in desperate adversity virtually every day of our which to plant alternative crops for the need when they themselves were now lives. There is a reason for this, and season, such as chili peppers or beans. in such dire financial straits? it is one of the primary purposes of These crops could provide at least If you understand what it means to mortality. As we read in Abraham some cash flow sufficient to survive on be a disciple of Jesus Christ, then you 3:25, “And we will prove them here- until next year’s fruit crop. However, will know the answer to these two with, to see if they will do all things there was one good brother with a questions. whatsoever the Lord their God shall young family who did not have addi- Making the covenant to be a dis- command them.” tional land and was facing a year with ciple of Christ is the beginning of a These tests or trials vary in nature no revenue at all. Others in the com- lifelong process, and the path is not and intensity. But no one will leave munity, seeing the dire situation of this always easy. As we repent of our sins this mortal existence without passing brother and acting on their own initia- and strive to do what He would have through them. Mostly, we picture tive and expense, arranged for a piece us do and serve our fellowmen as He trials as the loss of a crop or a job; of property, used their own equipment would serve them, we will inevitably the death of a loved one; illness; physical, mental, or emotional inca- pacitation; poverty; or loss of friends. However, even the attainment of seemingly worthwhile objectives can bring their own dangers of unhelpful pride, where we aspire more to the honors of men than the approba- tion of heaven. These may include worldly popularity, public recog- nition, physical prowess, artistic or athletic talent, prosperity, and riches. Regarding these latter trials, some of us may have feelings similar to those expressed by Tevye in Fiddler on the Roof: If riches are a curse, “may [God] smite me with it. And may I never recover!” 1 But these latter types of trials may be even more daunting and dangerous 102 and more difficult to overcome than the former. Our discipleship will be developed and proven not by the type of trials that we are faced with but how we endure them. As we have been taught by President Henry B. Eyring: “So, the great test of life is to see whether we will hearken to and obey God’s commands in the midst of the storms of life. It is not to endure storms, but to choose the right while they rage. And the tragedy of life is to fail in that test and so fail to qualify to return in glory to our heavenly home” (“Spiritual Preparedness: Start Early and Be Steady,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2005, 38). I am the proud grandfather of 23 grandchildren. They never cease to amaze me with their grasp of eternal truths, even in their very early and tender years. As I was preparing for this talk, I asked each of them to send me a very brief definition of what it meant to them to be a disciple or a follower of Jesus Christ. I received wonderful answers from all of them. But I would like to share with you this response from eight-year-old Benjamin: “Being a disciple of Jesus Christ means being an example. It means being a missionary and pre- paring to be a missionary. It means to serve others. It means you read the scriptures and say your prayers. It means you keep the Sabbath day holy. It means you listen to the and security that always accompany and in its nearby fields as brothers promptings of the Holy Ghost. It this third member of the Godhead. and sisters in the faith reaffirmed their means going to church and going to And they can come in no other way. commitments to God and to each the temple.” Ultimately, it is total submission to other despite heartrending adversity. I agree with Benjamin. Discipleship His will that helps us become as I testify that as we obey His com- is all about doing and becoming. As our Savior is. Again, becoming like mandments, serve others, and submit we obey His commandments and serve Him and being one with Him is the our will to His will, we will, indeed, our fellowmen, we become better dis- ultimate goal and objective—and become His true disciples. I so testify ciples of Jesus Christ. Obedience and essentially the very definition of true in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ submission to His will bring the com- discipleship. NOTE panionship of the Holy Ghost, along Discipleship is what I saw being 1. See Joseph Stein, Jerry Bock, Sheldon with those blessings of peace, joy, practiced in the Colonia Juárez Temple Harnick, Fiddler on the Roof (1964), 61.

November 2012 103 By Elder Don R. Clarke I. Have a Feeling of Gratitude Of the Seventy for the Atonement of Jesus Christ The first principle is to have a feel- ing of gratitude to Heavenly Father dur- ing the sacrament for the Atonement of His Son. The following story is told Blessings about passing the sacrament: “The sacrament never really meant much to me until the Sunday I was of the Sacrament ordained a deacon. That afternoon I passed the sacrament for the first time. Prior to the meeting, one of the We will be blessed as we feel gratitude for the Atonement of deacons warned me, ‘Look out for Jesus Christ, renew our baptismal covenants, feel forgiveness, Brother Schmidt. You may have to and receive inspiration from the Holy Ghost. wake him up!’ Finally the time came for me to participate in the passing of the sacrament. I handled the first six rows quite well. Children and adults par- grew up in Rexburg, Idaho, where Atonement was changing me. Every took of the bread with no noticeable I was influenced and taught by a Sunday to this day, as I partake of thought or problem. Then I got to row I wonderful family, friends, teach- the sacrament, I can see my card and seven, the row where Brother Schmidt ers, and leaders. There are special review my list. Always on my list now, always sat. But I was surprised. Instead experiences in the lives of all of us first of all, is the Savior of mankind. of being asleep he was wide awake. that touch our souls and make things In the New Testament we read Unlike many of the others I had served, different forever. One such experience of the time that the Savior and His he took the bread with what seemed to happened in my youth. This experi- Apostles met in an upper room for the be great thought and reverence. ence transformed my life. Feast of the Passover. “A few minutes later I found myself I was always active in the Church “And he took bread, and gave thanks, again approaching row seven with and progressed through the Aaronic and brake it, and gave unto them, say- the water. This time my friend was Priesthood. When I was a teenager, ing, This is my body which is given for right. Brother Schmidt sat with his Brother Jacob, my teacher, asked that you: this do in remembrance of me. head bowed and his big German eyes I write down on a card what I had “Likewise also the cup after supper, shut. He was evidently sound asleep. thought about during the sacrament. I saying, This cup is the new testament What could I do or say? I looked for took my card and began to write. First in my blood, which is shed for you.” 1 a moment at his brow, wrinkled and on the list was a basketball game we Jesus also instituted the ordinance worn from years of toil and hard- had won the night before. And then of the sacrament during His visit to the ship. He had joined the Church as a came a date after the game, and so Nephites.2 I have come to know the teenager and had experienced much went the list. Far removed and cer- importance of these two events. persecution in his small German town. tainly not in bold letters was the name President David O. McKay said, I had heard the story many times in of Jesus Christ. “I feel impressed to emphasize what testimony meeting. I decided finally to Each Sunday the card was filled the Lord has designated as the most gently nudge his shoulder in hopes of out. For a young Aaronic Priesthood important meeting in the Church, and waking him. As I reached to do so, his holder, the sacrament and sacrament that is the sacrament meeting.” 3 If we head slowly lifted. There were tears meeting took on a new, expanded, properly prepare for the sacrament, streaming down his cheeks and as I and spiritual meaning. I anxiously we can transform our lives. I would looked into his eyes I saw love and joy. looked forward to Sundays and to the like to suggest five principles that can He quietly reached up and took the opportunity to partake of the sacra- bless our lives as we partake of the water. Even though I was only twelve ment, as understanding the Savior’s sacrament worthily. then, I can still remember vividly the 104 feeling I had as I watched this rugged covenants. I believe it would be appro- to our problems during sacrament old man partake of the sacrament. I priate to memorize the sacramental meeting. When I was a mission pres- knew without a doubt that he was feel- prayers in our minds and in our hearts. ident in Bolivia, my wife, Mary Anne, ing something about the sacrament that This will help us focus on renewing and I had the blessing of attending I had never felt. I determined then that our baptismal covenants. Whether we a mission presidents’ seminar with I wanted to feel those same feelings.” 4 were 8 or 80 years old when we were President Henry B. Eyring. In that Brother Schmidt had communi- baptized, I hope we will never forget meeting he taught that there are three cated with heaven, and heaven had that day and the covenants we made. important ways to prepare to benefit communicated with him. from a meeting. We should come with III. During the Sacrament our problems, humble as children II. Remember That We Are Renewing We Can Feel Forgiven of Our Sins ready to learn, and with the desire to Baptismal Covenants Thirdly, during the sacrament we help God’s children. The second principle is to remem- can feel forgiven of our sins. If we have As we humbly come to sacrament ber that we are renewing our baptis- spent time before sacrament meeting meeting, we can be blessed to feel mal covenants as we partake of the repenting of our sins, we can leave sac- impressions for solutions to our daily sacrament. Some of the promises that rament meeting feeling clean and pure. problems. We must come prepared, be we make, as recorded in the scrip- President Boyd K. Packer said: “The sac- willing to listen, and not be distracted. tures, include: rament renews the process of forgive- In the scriptures we read, “But, behold, “Come into the fold of God, and to ness. Every Sunday when the sacrament I say unto you, that you must study be called his people, . . . to bear one is served, that is a ceremony to renew it out in your mind; then you must another’s burdens, . . . to mourn with the process of forgiveness. . . . Every ask me if it be right, and if it is right I those that mourn . . . , and to stand as Sunday you cleanse yourself so that, in will cause that your bosom shall burn witnesses of God.” 5 due time, when you die your spirit will within you; therefore, you shall feel that “Come forth with broken hearts be clean.” 8 Partaking of the sacrament it is right.” 10 We can know what we and contrite spirits, . . . willing to take worthily can help us feel like the people should do to solve our problems. upon them the name of Jesus Christ, of King Benjamin, who “were filled with having a determination to serve him to joy, having received a remission of their V. Partaking of the Sacrament Worthily the end,” 6 and to keep His command- sins, and having peace of conscience.” 9 Will Help Us Be Filled with the Holy Ghost ments and always remember Him.7 The fifth principle, partaking of the The sacramental prayers are a IV. We Can Receive Inspiration sacrament worthily, will help us be reminder of these covenants. When we for Solutions to Our Problems filled with the Holy Ghost. Upon insti- partake of the sacrament, we renew The fourth principle is that we tuting the sacrament during His visit our commitment to live up to these can receive inspiration for solutions to the Nephites, Jesus stated, “He that

November 2012 105 eateth this bread eateth of my body to By Elder David A. Bednar his soul; and he that drinketh of this Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles wine drinketh of my blood to his soul; and his soul shall never hunger nor thirst, but shall be filled.” 11 They had been promised that if they hungered and thirsted after righteousness, they Converted unto the Lord would be filled with the Holy Ghost. The sacramental prayer also promises Knowing that the gospel is true is the essence of a testimony. that if we live up to our covenants, we will always have His Spirit to be Consistently being true to the gospel is the essence of conversion. with us.12 Elder Melvin J. Ballard said: “I am a witness that there is a spirit attending the administration of the sacrament y message focuses upon the of His children. Any honest seeker of that warms the soul from head to foot; relationship between receiving truth can obtain a testimony by exer- you feel the wounds of the spirit being Ma testimony that Jesus is the cising the necessary “particle of faith” healed, and the load being lifted. Christ and becoming converted to Him in Jesus Christ to “experiment upon” Comfort and happiness come to the and His gospel. Typically, we treat the (Alma 32:27) and “try the virtue of the soul that is worthy and truly desirous topics of testimony and conversion sep- word” (Alma 31:5), to yield “to the of partaking of this spiritual food.” 13 arately and independently. However, we enticings of the Holy Spirit” (Mosiah We will be blessed as we feel grati- gain precious perspective and greater 3:19), and to awaken unto God (see tude for the Atonement of Jesus Christ, spiritual conviction as we consider these Alma 5:7). Testimony brings increased renew our baptismal covenants, feel two important subjects together. personal accountability and is a source forgiveness, and receive inspiration I pray the Holy Ghost will instruct of purpose, assurance, and joy. from the Holy Ghost as we partake of and edify each of us. Seeking for and obtaining a testi- the sacrament each week. It will always mony of spiritual truth requires asking, be a great sacrament meeting if the sac- Whom Say Ye That I Am? seeking, and knocking (see Matthew rament is the center of our worship. I We can learn much about testi- 7:7; 3 Nephi 14:7) with a sincere heart, express my gratitude for the Atonement mony and conversion from the minis- real intent, and faith in the Savior (see of Jesus Christ. I know He lives. In the try of the Apostle Peter. Moroni 10:4). Fundamental compo- name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ As Jesus came into the coasts of nents of a testimony are knowing that Caesarea Philippi, He posed this Heavenly Father lives and loves us, that NOTES penetrating question to His disciples: Jesus Christ is our Savior, and that the 1. Luke 22:19–20; emphasis added. 2. See 3 Nephi 18. “Whom say ye that I am?” fulness of the gospel has been restored 3. David O. McKay, in Conference Report, Peter responded forthrightly: to the earth in these latter days. Oct. 1929, 11. “Thou art the Christ, the Son of the 4. Book of Mormon Student Manual (Church Educational System manual, 1979), 417. living God. When Thou Art Converted 5. Mosiah 18:8–9. “And Jesus answered and said unto As the Savior taught His disciples at 6. Doctrine and Covenants 20:37. him, Blessed art thou, Simon Bar-jona: the Last Supper, He said to Peter: 7. See Doctrine and Covenants 20:77. 8. Boyd K. Packer, Mine Errand from the Lord for flesh and blood hath not revealed “Simon, Simon, behold, Satan hath (2008), 196. it unto thee, but my Father which is in desired to . . . sift you as wheat: 9. Mosiah 4:3; emphasis added. heaven” (Matthew 16:15–17). “But I have prayed for thee, that 10. Doctrine and Covenants 9:8; emphasis added. As is evidenced in Peter’s reply and thy faith fail not: and when thou art 11. 3 Nephi 20:8. the Savior’s instruction, a testimony is converted, strengthen thy brethren” 12. See Doctrine and Covenants 20:77. personal knowledge of spiritual truth (Luke 22:31–32). 13. Melvin J. Ballard, in Bryant S. Hinckley, Sermons and Missionary Services of Melvin obtained by revelation. A testimony is Interestingly, this mighty Apostle Joseph Ballard (1949), 149. a gift from God and is available to all had talked and walked with the 106 Master, had witnessed many miracles, offering of self, of love, and of loyalty (Mosiah 5:2). Accepting the words and had a strong testimony of the we give to God in gratitude for the gift spoken, gaining a testimony of their Savior’s divinity. Yet even Peter needed of testimony. truthfulness, and exercising faith in additional instruction from Jesus about Christ produced a mighty change the converting and sanctifying power Book of Mormon Examples of Conversion of heart and a firm determination to of the Holy Ghost and his obligation The Book of Mormon is filled improve and become better. to serve faithfully. with inspiring accounts of conver- Converted Lamanites in the book The essence of the gospel of Jesus sion. Amaleki, a descendant of Jacob, of Helaman are described as being Christ entails a fundamental and declared: “I would that ye should “in the path of their duty, and they do permanent change in our very nature come unto Christ, who is the Holy walk circumspectly before God, and made possible through the Savior’s One of Israel, and partake of his salva- they do observe to keep his com- Atonement. True conversion brings a tion, and the power of his redemption. mandments and his statutes and his change in one’s beliefs, heart, and life Yea, come unto him, and offer your judgments. . . . to accept and conform to the will of whole souls as an offering unto him” “. . . And they are striving with God (see Acts 3:19; 3 Nephi 9:20) and (Omni 1:26). unwearied diligence that they may includes a conscious commitment to Knowing by the power of the bring the remainder of their breth- become a disciple of Christ. Holy Ghost that Jesus is the Christ is ren to the knowledge of the truth” Conversion is an enlarging, a deep- important and necessary. But earnestly (Helaman 15:5–6). ening, and a broadening of the under- coming unto Him and giving our As these examples highlight, the girding base of testimony. It is the whole souls as an offering requires key characteristics associated with result of revelation from God, accom- much more than merely knowing. conversion are experiencing a mighty panied by individual repentance, Conversion requires all of our heart, change in our hearts, having a dispo- obedience, and diligence. Any honest all of our might, and all of our mind sition to do good continually, going seeker of truth can become converted and strength (see D&C 4:2). forward in the path of duty, walking by experiencing the mighty change King Benjamin’s people responded circumspectly before God, keeping of heart and being spiritually born of to his teaching by exclaiming, “Yea, the commandments, and serving God (see Alma 5:12–14). As we honor we believe all the words which with unwearied diligence. Clearly, the ordinances and covenants of sal- thou hast spoken unto us; and also, these faithful souls had become vation and exaltation (see D&C 20:25), we know of their surety and truth, deeply devoted to the Lord and His “press forward with a steadfastness in because of the Spirit of the Lord teachings. Christ” (2 Nephi 31:20), and endure Omnipotent, which has wrought a in faith to the end (see D&C 14:7), we mighty change in us, or in our hearts, Becoming Converted become new creatures in Christ (see that we have no more disposition to For many of us, conversion is an 2 Corinthians 5:17). Conversion is an do evil, but to do good continually” ongoing process and not a onetime

November 2012 107 event that results from a powerful or testimony is the foundation upon unto the Lord, never did fall away. dramatic experience. Line upon line which conversion is established. “For they became a righteous peo- and precept upon precept, gradu- Testimony alone is not and will ple; they did lay down the weapons of ally and almost imperceptibly, our not be enough to protect us in the their rebellion, that they did not fight motives, our thoughts, our words, latter-day storm of darkness and evil against God any more. . . . and our deeds become aligned with in which we are living. Testimony is “Now, these are they who were con- the will of God. Conversion unto the important and necessary but not suffi- verted unto the Lord” (Alma 23:6–8). Lord requires both persistence and cient to provide the spiritual strength Two major elements are described patience. and protection we need. Some mem- in these verses: (1) the knowledge of Samuel the Lamanite identified five bers of the Church with testimonies the truth, which may be interpreted basic elements in becoming con- have wavered and fallen away. Their as a testimony, and (2) converted verted unto the Lord: (1) believing in spiritual knowledge and commitment unto the Lord, which I understand to the teachings and prophecies of the did not measure up to the challenges be conversion to the Savior and His holy prophets as they are recorded in they faced. gospel. Thus, the powerful combina- the scriptures, (2) exercising faith in An important lesson about the tion of both testimony and conver- the Lord Jesus Christ, (3) repenting, connection between testimony and sion unto the Lord produced firmness (4) experiencing a mighty change of conversion is evident in the mission- and steadfastness and provided heart, and (5) becoming “firm and ary labors of the sons of Mosiah. spiritual protection. steadfast in the faith” (see Helaman “As many as were brought to the They never did fall away and 15:7–8). This is the pattern that leads knowledge of the truth, through surrendered “the weapons of their to conversion. the preaching of Ammon and his rebellion, that they did not fight brethren, according to the spirit of against God any more.” To set aside Testimony and Conversion revelation and of prophecy, and the cherished “weapons of rebellion” such Testimony is the beginning of and a power of God working miracles in as selfishness, pride, and disobedience prerequisite to continuing conversion. them—yea, . . . as the Lord liveth, as requires more than merely believing Testimony is a point of departure; it many of the Lamanites as believed in and knowing. Conviction, humil- is not an ultimate destination. Strong their preaching, and were converted ity, repentance, and submissiveness 108 precede the abandonment of our of the ten virgins to highlight the conversion cannot be borrowed? Can weapons of rebellion. Do you and I relationship between testimony and the spiritual strength that results from still possess weapons of rebellion that conversion. Ten virgins, five who consistent obedience to the command- keep us from becoming converted were wise and five who were foolish, ments be given to another person? unto the Lord? If so, then we need to took their lamps and went to meet Can the knowledge obtained through repent now. the bridegroom. Please think of the diligent study and pondering of the Note that the Lamanites were lamps used by the virgins as the lamps scriptures be conveyed to one who not converted to the missionaries of testimony. The foolish virgins took is in need? Can the peace the gospel who taught them or to the excellent their lamps of testimony but took no brings to a faithful Latter-day Saint programs of the Church. They were oil with them. Consider the oil to be be transferred to an individual expe- not converted to the personalities of the oil of conversion. riencing adversity or great challenge? their leaders or to preserving a cultural “But the wise took oil [of conver- The clear answer to each of these heritage or the traditions of their sion] in their vessels with their lamps questions is no. fathers. They were converted unto the [of testimony]. As the wise virgins emphasized Lord—to Him as the Savior and to His “While the bridegroom tarried, they properly, each of us must “buy for our- divinity and doctrine—and they never all slumbered and slept. selves.” These inspired women were did fall away. “And at midnight there was a not describing a business transaction; A testimony is spiritual knowledge cry made, Behold, the bridegroom rather, they were emphasizing our indi- of truth obtained by the power of the cometh; go ye out to meet him. vidual responsibility to keep our lamp Holy Ghost. Continuing conversion is “Then all those virgins arose, and of testimony burning and to obtain constant devotion to the revealed truth trimmed their lamps [of testimony]. an ample supply of the oil of conver- we have received—with a heart that “And the foolish said unto the wise, sion. This precious oil is acquired one is willing and for righteous reasons. Give us of your oil [even the oil of drop at a time—“line upon line [and] Knowing that the gospel is true is the conversion]; for our lamps [of testi- precept upon precept” (2 Nephi 28:30), essence of a testimony. Consistently mony are weak and] are gone out. patiently and persistently. No shortcut being true to the gospel is the essence “But the wise answered, saying, is available; no last-minute flurry of of conversion. We should know the Not so; lest there be not enough for preparation is possible. gospel is true and be true to the gospel. us and you: but go ye rather to them “Wherefore, be faithful, praying that sell, and buy for yourselves” always, having your lamps trimmed Testimony, Conversion, (Matthew 25:4–9). and burning, and oil with you, that and the Parable of the Ten Virgins Were the five wise virgins selfish you may be ready at the coming of the I now want to use one of many and unwilling to share, or were they Bridegroom” (D&C 33:17). possible interpretations of the parable indicating correctly that the oil of Testimony I promise that as we come to a knowledge of the truth and are con- verted unto the Lord, we will remain firm and steadfast and never fall away. Eagerly we will set aside our weap- ons of rebellion. We will be blessed with bright light from our lamps of testimony and an ample supply of the oil of conversion. And as each of us becomes more fully converted, we will strengthen our families, our friends, and our associates. Of these truths I testify in the sacred name of the Lord Jesus Christ, amen. ◼

November 2012 109 I wish also to commend you, my By President Thomas S. Monson brothers and sisters, wherever you are throughout the world, for all that you do in your wards and branches, your stakes and districts. As you willingly fulfill callings when you are asked, God Be with You you are helping to build the kingdom of God on earth. May we ever watch over one Till We Meet Again another, assisting in times of need. Let us not be critical and judgmental but let us be tolerant, ever emulating the As we take the messages of the past two days into our Savior’s example of loving-kindness. hearts and into our lives, we will be blessed. In that vein, may we willingly serve one another. May we pray for the inspiration to know of the needs of those around us, and then may we go y dear brothers and sisters, To our Brethren who have been forward and provide assistance. we have come to the close released at this conference, may I Let us be of good cheer as we go Mof another inspiring general express the heartfelt gratitude of all about our lives. Although we live in conference. I personally have been of us for your many years of devoted spiritually fed and uplifted and know service. Countless are those who have that you too have felt the special spirit been blessed by your contributions to of this conference. the work of the Lord. We offer our heartfelt gratitude to Brothers and sisters, I have just all who have participated in any way. recently celebrated my 85th birthday, The truths of the gospel have been and I am grateful for each year the beautifully taught and reemphasized. Lord has granted me. As I reflect upon As we take the messages of the past my life’s experiences, I thank Him for two days into our hearts and into our His many blessings to me. As I men- lives, we will be blessed. tioned in my message this morning, I As always, the proceedings of have felt His hand directing my efforts this conference will be available in as I have tried earnestly to serve Him the coming issues of the Ensign and and to serve all of you. the Liahona magazines. I encourage The office of the President of the you to read the talks once again and Church is a demanding one. How to ponder the messages contained grateful I am for my two faithful coun- therein. I have found in my own life selors, who serve by my side and who that I gain even more from these are always willing and exceptionally inspired sermons when I study them able to assist in the work which comes in greater depth. to the First Presidency. I express my We have had unprecedented gratitude as well for the noble men coverage of the conference, reaching who comprise the Quorum of the across the continents and the oceans Twelve Apostles. They work tire- to people everywhere. Though we are lessly in the cause of the Master, with far removed from many of you, we the members of the Quorums of the feel of your spirit and send our love Seventy providing inspired assistance and appreciation to you. to them. 110 GENERAL RELIEF SOCIETY MEETING | September 29, 2012

increasingly perilous times, the Lord loves us and is mindful of us. He is always on our side as we do what By Linda K. Burton is right. He will help us in time of Relief Society General President need. Difficulties come into our lives, problems we do not anticipate and which we would never choose. None of us is immune. The purpose of mortality is to learn and to grow Is Faith in to be more like our Father, and it is often during the difficult times that we learn the most, as painful the Atonement as the lessons may be. Our lives can also be filled with joy as we follow the teachings of the gospel of Jesus Christ. of Jesus Christ Written The Lord admonished, “Be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.” 1 What great happiness this knowl- in Our Hearts? edge should bring to us. He lived for us and He died for us. He paid the Making, keeping, and rejoicing in our covenants will be price for our sins. May we emulate His example. May we show our great the evidence that the Atonement of Jesus Christ is truly written gratitude to Him by accepting His in our hearts. sacrifice and living lives that will qualify us to return and one day live with Him. As I have mentioned at previous y beloved sisters, you have foresee “a time of hope during the lat- conferences, I thank you for your been on my mind and in my ter-day gathering of Israel” 2—our day. prayers in my behalf. I need them; I Mheart for months as I have Jeremiah prophesied: feel them. We as General Authorities pondered this challenging responsi- “After those days, saith the Lord, I also remember all of you and pray for bility. Though I don’t feel equal to the will put my law in their inward parts, our Heavenly Father’s choicest bless- responsibility placed upon me, I know and write it in their hearts; and will ings to be with you. that the call has come from the Lord be their God, and they shall be my Now, my beloved brothers and through His chosen prophet, and for people. . . . sisters, we adjourn for six months. May now, that is enough. The scriptures “. . . They shall all know me, from God be with you until we meet again teach that “whether by [the Lord’s] the least of them unto the greatest of at that time. In the name of our Savior voice or by the voice of [His] servants, them, saith the Lord: for I will forgive and Redeemer, even Jesus Christ the it is the same.” 1 their iniquity, and I will remember Lord, amen. ◼ One of the precious gifts associated their sin no more.” 3

NOTE with this calling is the assurance that We are the people Jeremiah saw. 1. John 16:33. Heavenly Father loves all of His daugh- Have we invited the Lord to write the ters. I have felt His love for each of us! law, or doctrine, in our hearts? Do we Like you, I love the scriptures! believe that the forgiveness available Short Video Highlight In the book of Jeremiah we find a through the Atonement that Jeremiah Scan this QR code to watch scripture that is very dear to my heart. refers to applies to us personally? or share a short video clip (1–2 minutes) of this message. Jeremiah lived in a difficult time and A few years ago, Elder Jeffrey R. place, but the Lord allowed him to Holland shared his feelings about the

November 2012 111 Our testimonies, like yours, have been written in our hearts as we have faced assorted soul-stretching challenges and adversities. Without an under- standing of Heavenly Father’s perfect plan of happiness and the Savior’s Atonement as the central feature of that plan, these challenges could seem unfair. We all share in the trials of life deep-rooted faith of pioneers who Father would first have us help His together. But in faithful hearts is writ- pushed toward the Salt Lake Valley beloved daughters understand the ten, “All that is unfair about life can be even after the deaths of their children. doctrine of the Atonement of Jesus made right through the Atonement of He said, “They didn’t do that for a pro- Christ. As we do so, we know our faith Jesus Christ.” gram, they didn’t do it for a social activ- will increase, as will our desire to live Why does the Lord allow suffer- ity, they did it because the faith of the righteously. Second, as we have con- ing and adversity to come to us in gospel of Jesus Christ was in their soul, sidered the critical need to strengthen this life? Simply put, it is part of the it was in the marrow of their bones.” families and homes, we have felt that plan for our growth and progress! We He expressed, with tender emotion: the Lord would have us encourage His “shouted for joy” 6 when we knew we “That’s the only way those mothers beloved daughters to cheerfully cleave would have the opportunity to come could bury [their babies] in a breadbox to their covenants. When covenants to earth to experience mortality. Elder and move on, saying, ‘The promised are kept, families are strengthened. Dallin H. Oaks taught, “Our needed land is out there somewhere. We’re Finally, we feel He would have us conversions are often achieved more going to make it to the valley.’ work in unity with the other auxilia- readily by suffering and adversity than “They could say that because of ries and with our priesthood leaders, by comfort and tranquillity.” 7 covenants and doctrine and faith and striving to seek out and help those The example of a faithful pioneer revelation and spirit.” in need to progress along the path. It sister illustrates this truth. Mary Lois He concluded with these thought- is our fervent prayer that each of us Walker was married at age 17 to provoking words: “If we can keep will open our hearts and let the Lord John T. Morris in St. Louis, Missouri. that in our families and in the Church, engrave in them the doctrines of the They crossed the plains with the Saints maybe a lot of other things start to Atonement, covenants, and unity. in 1853, entering the Salt Lake Valley take care of themselves. Maybe a lot How can we expect to strengthen shortly after their first anniversary. of other less-needed things sort of fall families or help others unless we On their journey they had suffered out of the wagon. I’m told those hand- first have written in our own hearts a the privations typical of other Saints. carts could only hold so much. Just deep and abiding faith in Jesus Christ But their sufferings and adversity did as our ancestors had to choose what and His infinite Atonement? Tonight I not end when they reached the Salt they took, maybe the 21st century will would like to share three principles of Lake Valley. The following year Mary, drive us to decide, ‘What can we put the Atonement that, if written in our then 19, wrote: “A son was born to us. on this handcart?’ It’s the substance of hearts, will increase our faith in Jesus . . . One evening when he was two our soul; it’s the stuff right down in Christ. It is my hope that understand- or three months old . . . something the marrow of our bones.” 4 Or, to put ing these principles will bless each of whispered to me, ‘You will lose that it another way, it is what is written in us, whether we are new to the Church little one.’” our hearts! or lifelong members. During the winter the baby’s health As a new Relief Society presidency, declined. “We did all we could, . . . we have sought the Lord earnestly to Principle 1: “All that is unfair about but the baby grew steadily worse. know what essential things He would life can be made right through the . . . On the second of February he have us put in our Relief Society Atonement of Jesus Christ.” 5 passed away . . . and so I drank the handcart to continue moving His work We, with you, bear witness of the bitter cup of parting from my own forward. We have felt that Heavenly Atonement of our Savior, Jesus Christ. flesh and blood.” But her trials were 112 still not over. Mary’s husband was also stricken, and three weeks after losing her baby, he died. Mary wrote: “So was I, while yet in my teens, bereft in the short period of 20 days, of my husband and my only child, in a strange land hundreds of miles from my blood kin and with a mountain of difficulty before me . . . and I wished that I too, might die and join my loved one[s].” Mary continues: “One Sunday evening I was taking a walk with my friend. . . . I was reminded of [my hus- band’s] absence and my intense loneli- ness, and as I wept bitterly I could see, as it were in mental vision, the steep hill of life I should have to climb and felt the reality of it with great force. A deep depression settled upon me, for the enemy knows when to attack us, but our [Savior, Jesus Christ,] is mighty to save. Through . . . the help given of the Father, I was able to battle with all the force which seemed to be arrayed against me at this time.” 8 Mary learned at the tender age of 19 that the Atonement gives us the assurance that all things that are unfair in this life can and will be made right—even the deepest sorrows.

Principle 2: There is power in the “A [woman] walking along a road Christ’s atonement could be compared Atonement to enable us to overcome fell into a pit so deep [she] could not to lowering a ladder into the pit; it the natural man or woman and become climb out. No matter what [she] did, gives us the means to climb out.” 10 true disciples of Jesus Christ.9 [she] could not get out by [herself]. But the Savior does more than lower There is a way to know when we The [woman] called for help and the ladder, He “comes down into the have learned a doctrine or principle rejoiced when a kind passerby heard pit and makes it possible for us to of the gospel. It is when we are able [her] and lowered a ladder down into use the ladder to escape.” 11 “Just as to teach the doctrine or principle in a the pit. This allowed [her] to climb out the [woman] in the pit had to climb way that a child can understand it. A of the pit and regain [her] freedom. up the ladder, we must repent of our valuable resource to teach children to “We are like the [woman] in the sins and obey the gospel principles understand the Atonement is an anal- pit. Sinning is like falling into the pit, and ordinances to climb out of our ogy that is found in a Primary lesson. and we can’t get out by ourselves. pit and make the Atonement work in Perhaps this can help us as we teach Just as the kind passerby heard the our lives. Thus, after all we can do, the our own children, grandchildren, or [woman’s] cry for help, Heavenly Atonement makes it possible for us to friends of other faiths who desire to Father sent his Only Begotten Son to become worthy to return to Heavenly understand this essential doctrine. provide the means of escape. Jesus Father’s presence.” 12

November 2012 113 even though I have been battered and used, I am still worth the full 20 dollars.’” 15 This woman knows that she is a beloved daughter of her Heavenly Father and that she was worth enough to Him to send His Son to atone for her, individually. Every sister in the Church should know what this woman knows—that she is a beloved daughter of God. How does know- ing our worth to Him change how we keep our covenants? How does knowing our worth to Him affect our desire to minister to others? How does Recently I was privileged to meet climb out of the pit but also gives us knowing our worth to Him increase a modern-day pioneer, a beloved power to continue on the strait and our desire to help those who need to daughter of God and recent convert narrow path leading back to the pres- understand the Atonement as we do— to the Church in Chile. She is a single ence of our Heavenly Father. way down deep? When each of us has mother with two young sons. Through the doctrine of the Atonement written the power of the Atonement, she has Principle 3: The Atonement is the greatest deep in our hearts, then we will begin been enabled to put her past behind evidence we have of the Father’s love to become the kind of people the her and is now earnestly striving to for His children. Lord wants us to be when He comes become a true disciple of Jesus Christ. We would do well to ponder this again. He will recognize us as His true As I think of her, a principle taught stirring thought from Elder Oaks: disciples. by Elder David A. Bednar comes to “Think how it must have grieved our May the Atonement of Jesus mind: “It is one thing to know that Heavenly Father to send His Son to Christ cause a “mighty change” to Jesus Christ came to earth to die for endure incomprehensible suffering for be wrought in our hearts.16 As we us—that is fundamental and founda- our sins. That is the greatest evidence awaken to this doctrine, declared by tional to the doctrine of Christ. But we of His love for each of us!” 14 an angel of God to be “glad tidings also need to appreciate that the Lord That supreme act of love ought of great joy,” 17 I promise that we will desires, through His Atonement and to send each of us to our knees in feel as King Benjamin’s people felt. by the power of the Holy Ghost, to humble prayer to thank our Heavenly After they had prayed mightily that the live in us—not only to direct us but Father for loving us enough that He Atonement would be applied in their also to empower us.” 13 sent His Only Begotten and perfect lives, “they were filled with joy” 18 and As this Chilean sister and I dis- Son to suffer for our sins, our heart- were “willing to enter into a covenant cussed how to stay on the path lead- aches, and all that seems unfair in our with . . . God to do his will, and to ing to eternal life, she enthusiastically own individual lives. be obedient to his commandments assured me that she was determined Remember the woman President in all things.” 19 Making, keeping, and to continue on the path. She had been Dieter F. Uchtdorf spoke of recently? rejoicing in our covenants will be the off the path most of her life, and she He said: “One woman who had been evidence that the Atonement of Jesus declared that there was nothing “out through years of trial and sorrow said Christ is truly written in our hearts. there” off the path that she wanted through her tears, ‘I have come to Please remember these three princi- to have back in her life again. The realize that I am like an old 20-dollar ples, sisters: enabling power of the Atonement is bill—crumpled, torn, dirty, abused, living inside of her. It is being written and scarred. But I am still a 20-dollar 1. “All that is unfair about life can be in her heart. bill. I am worth something. Even made right through the Atonement That power not only enables us to though I may not look like much and of Jesus Christ.” 20 114 2. There is power in the Atonement to By Carole M. Stephens enable us to overcome the natural First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency man or woman and become true disciples of Jesus Christ.21 3. The Atonement is the greatest evi- dence we have of the Father’s love for His children.22 Wide Awake “After those days, saith the Lord, I will put my law in their inward to Our Duties parts, and write it in their hearts; and will be their God, and they shall be my people.” 23 I invite us to ask the We must be awake to our duty and continue with faith Lord to write these principles of the as we draw upon the comforting, strengthening, Atonement in our hearts. I testify that enabling, and healing power of the Atonement. they are true. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ◼

NOTES fter my call to the Relief Society those that stand in need of comfort, 1. Doctrine and Covenants 1:38. 2. Old Testament: Gospel Doctrine Teacher’s general presidency, I felt a and to stand as witnesses of God Manual (2001), 198. desire to know more about the at all times and in all things, and in 3. Jeremiah 31:33–34; emphasis added. A women who had served before me. all places. . . . 4. Jeffrey R. Holland, “Roundtable Discussion,” Worldwide Leadership I was impressed by the teachings of “Now I say unto you, if this be the Training Meeting, Feb. 9, 2008, 28. Sister Zina D. Young, first counselor desire of your hearts, what have you 5. Preach My Gospel: A Guide to Missionary in the second Relief Society general against being baptized in the name Service (2004), 52. 6. Job 38:7. presidency. She said, “Sisters, it is for of the Lord, as a witness before him 7. Dallin H. Oaks, “The Challenge to us to be wide awake to our duties.” 1 that ye have entered into a covenant Become,” Liahona, Jan. 2001, 42; Ensign, I pondered on the words awake and with him, that ye will serve him and Nov. 2000, 33. 8. Autobiography of Mary Lois Walker Morris duty and did some additional search- keep his commandments, that he may (copy in possession of Linda Kjar Burton). ing in the scriptures. pour out his Spirit more abundantly 9. See David A. Bednar, “The Atonement and In the New Testament, Paul taught upon you? the Journey of Mortality,” Liahona, Apr. 2012, 12–19; Ensign, Apr. 2012, 40–47. the Saints of his day: “And now when the people had 10. Primary 7: New Testament (1997), 104. “It is high time to awake out of sleep: heard these words, they clapped their 11. Joseph Fielding Smith, Doctrines of for now is our salvation nearer. . . . hands for joy, and exclaimed: This is Salvation, comp. Bruce R. McConkie, 3 3 vols. (1954–56), 1:123. “The night is far spent, the day is the desire of our hearts.” 12. Primary 7, 104. at hand: . . . let us put on the armour Sister Young’s statement and these 13. David A. Bednar, Liahona, Apr. 2012, 14; of light.” 2 scriptures caused me to consider the Ensign, Apr. 2012, 42. 14. Dallin H. Oaks, “Love and Law,” Liahona In the Book of Mormon, Alma “duties” we must awaken to in our day. and Ensign, Nov. 2009, 26. taught his people the sacred duties When we are baptized, we enter 15. Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “You Are My Hands,” of those who enter into a covenant into a covenant. Elder Robert D. Liahona and Ensign, May 2010, 69. 16. See Alma 5:12–14. with God: Hales taught, “When we make and 17. Mosiah 3:3. “And now, as ye are desirous to keep covenants, we are coming out 18. See Mosiah 4:1–3. come into the fold of God, and to be of the world and into the kingdom 19. See Mosiah 5:2–5. 4 20. Preach My Gospel, 52. called his people, and are willing to of God.” 21. See David A. Bednar, Liahona, Apr. 2012, bear one another’s burdens, that they We are changed. We look different, 12–19; Ensign, Apr. 2012, 40–47. may be light; and we act different. The things we lis- 22. See Dallin H. Oaks, Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2009, 26. “Yea, and are willing to mourn with ten to and read and say are different, 23. Jeremiah 31:33; emphasis added. those that mourn; yea, and comfort and what we wear is different because

November 2012 115 we become daughters of God bound While on our mortal journey, we need their hearts that there was one—the to Him by covenant. to regularly ask ourselves, “If [I] have Savior—who understood their per- When we are confirmed, we experienced a change of heart, . . . sonal adversity because He suffered it receive the gift of the Holy Ghost, the can [I] feel so now?” 6 And if not, then for them in the Garden of Gethsemane right to have the constant influence of why not? and on the cross. He felt their fear, a member of the Godhead to guide Many of the early Saints “experi- their doubt, their pain, and their us, to comfort us, and to protect us. enced this mighty change in [their] loneliness. He suffered their sorrows, He warns us when we are tempted to hearts.” 7 It awakened them to receive their persecution, their hunger, their walk away from our covenants and temple blessings that strengthened fatigue, and their loss. And because back into the world. President Boyd K. them in their duties. Early Saints in He suffered all these things, He could Packer teaches that none of us “will Nauvoo went “to the temple all day say to them, “Come unto me, all ye ever make a serious mistake without and long into the night” 8 to receive that labour and are heavy laden, and I first being warned by the promptings ordinances and make covenants before will give you rest.” 10 of the Holy Ghost.” 5 they began their journey westward. And they came. They trusted in and To receive this gift and always have Sarah Rich, a Relief Society sister followed the prophet. They knew the the Spirit with us, we must be worthy in Nauvoo, said this: “Many were journey would be long, their duty dif- and vigilant about checking the condi- the blessings we had received in the ficult. They knew that sacrifice would tion of our hearts. Is our heart soft? Do house of the Lord, which has caused be required, but sustained by their we have a humble heart, a teachable us joy and comfort in the midst of all faith and cleaving to their covenants, heart, a gentle heart? Or have our our sorrows and enabled us to have they were spiritually prepared. hearts become gradually hardened faith in God, knowing He would guide Before leaving Nauvoo, a group of as we have allowed too much of the us and sustain us in the unknown Saints wrote a message in the assem- noise of the world to distract us from journey that lay before us.” 9 bly hall in the temple they were forced the gentle promptings that have surely With hearts changed through to abandon. It read, “The Lord has come from the Spirit? faith in the Savior, they relied on the beheld our sacrifice: come after us.” 11 When we were baptized, our hearts power of His Atonement. They were Recently I participated in a pio- were changed and awakened to God. awakened to act. They knew deep in neer trek with young men and young women in our ward. Each morning I asked myself, “What is my sacrifice? How do I come after them?” On the second day of the trek we had pulled our handcarts eight miles (13 km) when we came to a place on the trail called “the women’s pull.” Men and women were separated, and the men were sent ahead up a hill. As we started to pull our handcarts, I looked up to see our priesthood brethren, young and old, lining both sides of the trail, hats off in respect for the women. The path was easy at first, but soon we were in deep sand, and the hill grew steep. I had my head down and was pushing with all my might when I felt a tug on the cart and looked up to see Lexi, one of our young women and my neighbor. She had pulled her handcart to the top and, seeing our 116 need for help, ran back. When we mothers.12 They all pulled together— Some men were absent by choice, hav- reached the top, I wanted so much covenant daughters, young and old, ing chosen not to keep their covenants. to run back to help those following in different life circumstances, on the Like those who went before, many me, but I was breathing heavily and same path, with the same goal. today live in circumstances that are my heart was pounding so hard, the Those who ran to help their sisters not ideal. We continue to teach and words heart attack entered my mind in need reminded me of rescuers, strive for the ideal because we know more than once! I watched with grati- both seen and unseen, who are quick that continually striving will keep us tude as other young women dropped to observe, see a need, and act. progressing along the path and pre- their handcarts and ran to help. I thought of the Lord’s words: “I pare us for opportunities to receive all When everyone reached the top, will go before your face. I will be on promised blessings as we “wait upon we took some time to record feelings your right hand and on your left, and the Lord.” 14 in our journals. I wrote: “I didn’t pre- my Spirit shall be in your hearts, and Each of us has had and will con- pare well enough physically so didn’t mine angels round about you, to bear tinue to have adversity in our lives. have the strength to help those fol- you up.” 13 This mortal life is a time of testing, and lowing me. I may never need to pull a Lining both sides of the trail were we will continue to have opportunities handcart again, but I never want to let faithful, obedient, covenant-keeping to use our agency to choose what we my sisters down spiritually, never!” men. Their priesthood power—the will learn from the adversity that will It was a sacred experience that power God uses to bless all His surely come. awakened me spiritually to my duties children—lifted, strengthened, and As daughters of God, we continue to my family and others. Throughout supported us. They were a reminder on the path in faith because we recog- our journey I reflected on what I had that we are never alone. We can have nize, as President Thomas S. Monson learned. this power with us always as we keep taught, “The saving ordinances First I thought about my sisters, our covenants. received in the temple that permit us those who had pulled and those I thought of the men who were to someday return to our Heavenly who continue today to pull their separated on the journey from fami- Father in an eternal family relationship handcarts alone. Nearly 20 percent of lies, leaving them to pull the handcart and to be endowed with blessings and the women in those early handcart alone. Many men died on the journey. power from on high are worth every companies were alone for at least Some sons stayed behind to serve mis- sacrifice and every effort.” 15 part of the way. These were women sions in their native lands. Others had It isn’t enough to just be on the who had not married, were divorced, emigrated earlier to prepare for their journey; we must be awake to our or were widowed. Many were single families’ arrival in the Salt Lake Valley. duty and continue with faith as we

November 2012 117 draw upon the comforting, strength- By Linda S. Reeves ening, enabling, and healing power Second Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency of the Atonement. Sisters, I love you. I don’t know many of you personally, but I do know who you are! We are covenant- keeping daughters in His kingdom, The Lord Has Not and endowed with power through our covenants, we are prepared to do our duty. Forgotten You Relief Society prepares women for the blessings of eternal life by awakening us spiritually to Our Heavenly Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ, increase in faith and personal righ- know us and love us. . . . We can feel of Their love and teousness. Let us begin with our- compassion in our suffering. selves. Let us begin where we are. Let us begin today. When we are spiritually awake, we will be bet- ter able to strengthen families and s we meet sisters around the The scriptures tell us that “Jesus loved homes and help others. world, we are amazed at the Martha, . . . her sister [Mary], and [their This is a work of salvation, and the A strength of your testimonies. brother] Lazarus.” 1 Word was sent to strengthening and enabling power So many of you are first- or second- Jesus that Lazarus was very ill, but of the Atonement makes it possible. generation members of the Church. Jesus did not come immediately; He Awaken to who we are. Awaken to We see many sisters serving in multi- stayed away two more days, stating our duty. We are daughters of our ple callings, traveling long distances to that “this sickness is . . . for the glory Heavenly Father, who loves us. Of this attend church, and sacrificing to make of God, that the Son of God might be I testify in the name of Jesus Christ, and keep sacred temple covenants. glorified thereby.” 2 amen. ◼ We honor you. You are the Lord’s Hearing that Jesus was coming, 3 NOTES modern-day pioneers! Martha “went and met him,” telling 1. Zina D. Young, in Woman’s Exponent, Recently my husband, Mel, and Him what had happened. Lazarus had Oct. 15, 1877, 74. I met a volunteer tour guide named “lain in the grave four days already.” 4 2. Romans 13:11–12. 3. Mosiah 18:8–11. Mollie Lenthal as we visited a museum Grieving, Martha ran back to her 4. Robert D. Hales, “Modesty: Reverence for in Australia. We found out that Mollie, home to tell Mary that the Lord had the Lord,” Liahona, Aug. 2008, 21; Ensign, a lovely woman in her 70s, has no come.5 Mary, weighed down with Aug. 2008, 36. 5. Boyd K. Packer, “How to Survive in Enemy children and has never married. She sorrow, ran to Jesus, fell down at His Territory,” Liahona, Oct. 2012, 35; New Era, is an only child, and her parents have feet, and wept.6 Apr. 2012, 3. been deceased for many years. Her We are told that “when Jesus 6. Alma 5:26. 7. Alma 5:14. closest relatives are two cousins who therefore saw [Mary] weeping, . . . 8. Daughters in My Kingdom: The History live on another continent. Suddenly, he groaned in the spirit, and was and Work of Relief Society (2011), 29. I was overwhelmed with the Spirit troubled,” and asked where they had 9. Sarah Rich, in Daughters in My Kingdom, 30. 10. Matthew 11:28. testifying to me, almost as if Heavenly laid him. 11. In Daughters in My Kingdom, 30. Father were speaking: “Mollie is not “They said unto him, Lord, come 12. Research conducted by Jolene S. Allphin alone! Mollie is my daughter! I am and see.” 7 from stories and company rosters; see Tell My Story, Too, 8th ed. (2012). her Father! She is a very important Then we read some of the most 13. Doctrine and Covenants 84:88. daughter in my family, and she is compassionate, loving words in scrip- 14. Isaiah 40:31. never alone! ” ture: “Jesus wept.” 8 15. Thomas S. Monson, “The Holy Temple—a Beacon to the World,” Liahona and Ensign, One of my favorite stories from Apostle James E. Talmage wrote, May 2011, 92. the Savior’s life is the story of Lazarus. “The sight of the two women so 118 overcome by grief . . . caused Jesus “And he will take upon him . . . fears. We had a large, young family to sorrow [with them] so that He their infirmities, that his bowels may and a loving, eternal marriage, and groaned in spirit and was deeply trou- be filled with mercy, . . . that he may the thought of losing my husband and bled.” 9 This experience testifies of the know . . . how to succor his people raising my children by myself filled compassion, empathy, and love that according to their infirmities.” 10 me with loneliness, despair, and even our Savior and our Heavenly Father When we wonder if we are known anger. I am ashamed to say that I feel for each of us every time we are by our Savior and our Father in Heaven pulled away from my Heavenly Father. weighed down by the anguish, sin, or how well They know us person- For days I quit praying; I quit plan- adversity, and pains of life. ally, we might remember the Savior’s ning; I cried. I finally came to the reali- Dear sisters, our Heavenly Father words to Oliver Cowdery: zation that I could not do this alone. and our Savior, Jesus Christ, know us “If you desire a further witness, cast For the first time in many days, I and love us. They know when we are your mind upon the night that you knelt down and poured out my heart in pain or suffering in any way. They cried unto me in your heart, that you to my Father in Heaven, pleading for do not say, “It’s OK that you’re in pain might know concerning the truth of forgiveness for turning away from right now because soon everything these things.” 11 Him, telling Him all of my deepest is going to be all right. You will be Earlier the Savior stated to him, feelings, and finally crying out that if healed, or your husband will find “There is none else save God that this was what He really wanted me a job, or your wandering child will knowest thy thoughts and the intents to do, I would do it. I knew He must come back.” They feel the depth of of thy heart.” 12 have a plan for our lives. our suffering, and we can feel of Their The Savior reminded Oliver that As I continued on my knees to love and compassion in our suffering. He knew every detail of that pleading pour out my heart, the sweetest, most Alma testified: prayer—and remembered the exact peaceful, loving feeling came over “And he shall go forth, suffering time, the very night. me. It was as if a blanket of love was pains and afflictions and temptations Many years ago my husband flowing over me. It was as if I could of every kind; and this that the word became very ill with a rare disease. As feel Heavenly Father saying, “That was might be fulfilled which saith he will the weeks went by and the sicker he all I needed to know.” I determined take upon him the pains and the sick- became, the more I became convinced never to turn away from Him again. nesses of his people. that he was dying. I told no one of my Gradually and amazingly, my husband

November 2012 119 and understands those very moments. He loves you! And He will carry you through those moments, just as He did Mary and Martha. He has paid the price that He might know how to succor you. Cast your burdens upon Him. Tell your Heavenly Father how you feel. Tell Him about your pain and afflictions and then give them to Him. Search the scriptures daily. There you will also find great solace and help. Our Savior asked: “For can a woman forget her suck- ing child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? Yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee. . . . “. . . I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands.” 14 “I have commanded that none of you should go away, but rather have commanded that ye should come unto me, that ye might feel and see; even so shall ye do unto the world.” 15 began to get better until he made a all his sins for three days and nights, That is our charge. We must feel full recovery. he repented and pleaded with the and see for ourselves and then help Years later my husband and I Savior to have mercy on him. He all of Heavenly Father’s children to knelt by the side of our 17-year-old described to Helaman the “exquisite feel and see and know that our Savior daughter and pleaded for her life. and sweet” joy of remembering his has taken upon Himself not only all This time the answer was no, but that pains “no more.” Instead of feeling our sins but also our pains and our same feeling of love and peace that “inexpressible horror” at the thought suffering and afflictions so that He can our Savior has promised was just as of coming before the throne of God, know what we feel and how to com- powerful, and we knew that even Alma saw a vision of “God sitting fort us. I testify of Him in the name of though Heavenly Father was calling upon his throne” and declared, “My Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ her back home, everything would be soul did long to be there.” 13 all right. We have come to know what Is that not how we feel, my dear NOTES it means to cast our burdens upon the sisters, as we repent and contemplate 1. John 11:5. 2. John 11:4. Lord, to know that He loves us and the love, the mercy, and the gratitude 3. John 11:20. feels compassion for us in our sorrows we feel for our Heavenly Father and 4. John 11:17. and pain. our Savior—that we too “long to be 5. See John 11:28. 6. See John 11:32. One of the sweetest father-to-son there,” to be embraced by Their loving 7. John 11:33–34. moments in the Book of Mormon is arms once again? 8. John 11:35. Alma the Younger’s testimony to his Just as the Lord has testified to me 9. James E. Talmage, Jesus the Christ, 3rd ed. (1916), 493. son Helaman. Alma described the that He has not forgotten His precious 10. Alma 7:11–12. “inexpressible horror” he felt as he daughter Mollie Lenthal, I testify that 11. Doctrine and Covenants 6:22. imagined coming into the presence of He has not forgotten you! Whatever 12. Doctrine and Covenants 6:16. 13. See Alma 36:14–22; emphasis added. God to be judged of his many trans- sin or weakness or pain or struggle or 14. 1 Nephi 21:15–16. gressions. After feeling the weight of trial you are going through, He knows 15. 3 Nephi 18:25; emphasis added. 120 By President Henry B. Eyring and her challenges. But all of you are First Counselor in the First Presidency sisters and beloved daughters of our Heavenly Father, who knows and watches over each of you. What you have done remarkably well together is to cherish, watch The Caregiver over, and comfort each other. I was a witness of that threefold miracle just You will be strengthened and yet inspired to know one month ago in your service to one sister. As her father, I thank you and the limits and extent of your ability to serve. I want to extend my thanks to God, who guided one visiting teacher. Our daughter Elizabeth, who lives in another state and time zone from am grateful to be in your company of religion, will never save one soul us, was at home with her three-year- tonight. The women of the Church of you in the celestial kingdom of our old daughter. Her other child was I of Jesus Christ have been mov- God, unless you carry out just such in her first week of kindergarten. ing toward becoming the society of principles as I am now teaching you. Elizabeth was six months pregnant sisters that the Prophet Joseph Smith’s Go and bring in those people now on and looking forward to the birth of mother, Lucy Mack Smith, described the plains, and attend strictly to those her third child, which the doctors said in these words: “We must cherish one things which we call temporal, . . . would be another girl. Her husband, another, watch over one another, com- otherwise your faith will be in vain.” 2 Joshua, was away at his work. fort one another and gain instruction, Women in Utah responded by the When she saw that she was passing that we may all sit down in heaven hundreds. In their poverty they filled blood and that the flow was increas- together.” 1 wagons with all they could spare and ing, she called her husband on the There are three parts to that all they could gather from others to phone. He told her to call for an remarkable description of the qual- comfort those in distress. One of those ambulance and that he would meet ifications to associate in a state of valiant sisters recorded, “I never took her at the hospital, which was 20 min- happiness with God. One is to care for more satisfaction and, I might say, utes from her home. Before she could each other. Another is to teach each pleasure in any labor I ever performed place the call, she heard a knock at other and be taught. And the third is in my life, such a unanimity of feeling the front door. to sit down together with God. prevailed.” 3 At the door she was surprised to My purpose tonight is to help you When the rescue was complete see her Relief Society visiting teaching feel the commendation and appre- and the snows melted, that same sister companion. They had no appointment ciation of God for what you have recorded the question of her faithful for that morning. Her companion had already done to help each other reach heart: “What comes next for willing simply felt she ought to come by to that lofty goal. And, second, it is to hands to do?” 4 see Elizabeth. describe some of what is yet to come In our time, bands of valiant sisters She helped her into the car. They in your unified service. across the earth have turned their faith arrived at the hospital minutes before Like the sisters of an earlier time, into action in hundreds of places. And Joshua arrived from his work. The you have responded to the Lord’s call they ask in their hearts and prayers doctors decided in less than 20 min- to go to the relief of others. In 1856 the same question about the future of utes to take the baby by surgery to the prophet Brigham Young asked their lives of service. save Elizabeth and her baby. So a tiny the Saints to go to the aid of handcart Each of you is in a unique place girl came into the world, crying loudly, pioneers stranded in the mountain in your journey to eternal life. Some 15 weeks ahead of schedule. She snows. He said in that time of need to have years of experience, and others weighed one pound, eleven ounces the members in general conference: are early in their mortal discipleship. (765 g). But she was alive, and so was “Your faith, religion, and profession Each is unique in her personal history Elizabeth.

November 2012 121 the beaten man and then put in place a specific plan for others to do more. He did that because he understood that helping may require more than what one person can do. Lessons in that story can guide you in whatever your future holds. Those same lessons were available in your own childhood and recent experiences. At least once, and perhaps often, The words of Lucy Mack Smith come to the hospital and sat with kids you have been surprised when you were in part fulfilled that day. A in the playroom when moms didn’t encountered someone in need of care. faithful member of the Relief Society, want to leave them somewhere else.” It may have been a parent, a grand­ prompted by the Holy Ghost, watched And then: “We won’t execute our parent, a sister, or a child struck by over, cherished, and comforted her plan without coordination and concur- illness or disability. Your feelings of sister in God’s kingdom. She and the rence from you, of course. Just wanted compassion prevailed over your human tens of thousands of others who have to let you know not to worry about desires. So you began to offer help. given such inspired service over the the things we can [and will] do.” Like the traveler in the scripture generations have not only the thanks What they did for my daughter story of the good Samaritan, it is of those they helped and their loved made it possible for her to have a pre- likely that the help needed turned ones but also of the Lord. cious moment when she held, for the into longer-term care than you could You remember His words of appre- first time, her tiny daughter. give alone. The Samaritan needed to ciation to those who receive little rec- And then the bishop closed his pass the traveler to the care of the ognition for their benevolence: “And message to Joshua and Elizabeth innkeeper. The Lord’s plan for serving the King shall answer and say unto with one that sisters send out of their others in need provides teams. them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch commitment across the earth to serve Bishops and Relief Society presi- as ye have done it unto one of the others for the Master: “Keep the faith.” dents always invite family members to least of these my brethren, ye have With all your differences in per- help each other when there is a need. done it unto me.” 5 sonal circumstances and past expe- There are many reasons for that prin- But the miracle of one Relief riences, I can tell you something of ciple. Foremost is to provide to more Society sister arriving to help just in what lies ahead for you. As you keep people the blessing of increased love time is multiplied through the power the faith, you will find yourself invited that comes from serving each other. of a unified society of sisters. Here is by the Lord often to serve someone You have observed and felt that just a part of the message Elizabeth’s in need when it will not seem conve- blessing. Whenever you have cared bishop sent to Elizabeth and to Joshua nient. It may appear to be an unpleas- for someone for even a short time, at the hospital hours after the baby ant and perhaps even impossible task. you have felt love for the person you was born: “The Relief Society pres- When the call comes, it may seem you served. As the time to provide needed ident has everything under control. are not needed or that someone else care grew longer, the feelings of love We are already building a future plan could easily give the succor. increased. to assist with your girls at home so Remember that when the Lord lets Since we are mortal, that increase Elizabeth can travel back and forth us encounter someone in distress, we in love may be interrupted by feel- to the hospital while the unnamed honor the good Samaritan for what he ings of frustration and fatigue. That cute baby remains there. We’ve done did not do as much as for what he did. is another reason why the Lord lets it before, long term, and [our] people He did not pass by on the other side us have the help of others in our jump at the chance.” even though the beaten traveler on service to those in need. That is why The bishop went on to say, speaking the road was a stranger and perhaps the Lord has created societies of for himself and the ward: “We’ve even an enemy. He did what he could for caregivers. 122 A few weeks ago I was present as hungry, clothing the naked, visiting your power to serve. You may have a young woman rose to be sustained the sick and administering to their seen others struggle with such hard in a sacrament meeting as the assis- relief, both spiritually and temporally, choices. One example is the choice tant coordinator of visiting teaching, according to their wants.” 6 to care for a person approaching the a position I did not know existed. I But then He goes on to warn those end of life at home or in a care facility wondered if she knew what a tribute of you who might fail to respond to when you may be close to exhaustion. the Lord had paid her. Because of a the evidence that you are pushing on What you know of the plan of restless child, she had to leave the too far and too long in your loving salvation can be your guide in such meeting before I could tell her how service: “And see that all these things heartrending choices. That is one of much the Lord would love and appre- are done in wisdom and order; for the reasons why Lucy Mack Smith ciate her for her help coordinating the it is not requisite that a man [or any wisely said that the sisters were to efforts of His disciples. caregiver] should run faster than he “gain instruction.” Caring for those in need takes a has strength. And again, it is expedient It helps to have a sure conviction team, a loving and unified society. that he should be diligent, that thereby of the purpose of the Lord for every That is what the Lord is building he might win the prize; therefore, all child of God in the crucible of mortal among you. He loves you for any things must be done in order.” 7 life. He taught the essence of the plan part you play. That counsel can be hard to apply of salvation to the Prophet Joseph this One evidence of His appreciation when the choice seems to be balanc- way as he struggled to understand his is that God allows you to feel increas- ing a desire to do all you can to help seemingly endless trials: “And then, if ing love for those you serve. That is a others with the wisdom to be prudent thou endure it well, God shall exalt reason why you weep at the death of in meeting your own needs to retain thee on high.” 8 someone you have served for a long time. Losing the chance to care for them can feel like an even greater loss than does the temporary separation. I heard a woman—whom I have known a long time—recently, the week her husband died, bear a testimony of gratitude for the chance to serve him to the very end of his life. No tears were visible, but her happy smile was. Even though extended and loving service to people is richly rewarded, you have learned that there are phys- ical, emotional, and financial limits to what is possible. The person giving care long enough can become the one who needs care. The Lord, who is the Master Nurturer of people in need, gave inspired counsel to weary caregivers in these words delivered by King Benjamin and recorded in the Book of Mormon: “For the sake of retaining a remission of your sins . . . I would that ye should impart of your substance to the poor, every man according to that which he hath, such as feeding the

November 2012 123 We will hear those words in that future day Lucy Mack Smith foresaw when the sisters will “sit down in heaven together.” We do not prepare for that day in a moment. It will come from days and years of caring for each other and taking the words of eternal life down deep into our hearts. My prayer is that many of us will be together in the glorious future that lies before us. I bear you my testi- mony that your hope for those days will be justified. The Lord Jesus Christ, through His infinite Atonement, made it possible for each of you. Heavenly Father hears and answers your prayers of faith for guidance and for help to endure in your service for Him. Our choice to best help someone Society presidents find ways to let The Holy Ghost is sent to you through hard trials then becomes, those who need care help in the care and to those you care for. You will “What course should I follow that will of others. They create opportunities be strengthened and yet inspired to best help the person I love to ‘endure for sisters to endure trials well as they know the limits and extent of your well’?” It is for us to make it more care for each other in the pure love of ability to serve. The Spirit will comfort likely that he or she can exercise Christ. That may include gentle urging you when you may wonder, “Did I do faith in Christ, keep a bright hope of of the tired giver of care to rest and enough?” eternal life, and practice charity, the accept the help of others. I testify that the Lord will be with pure love of Christ, to the end of his The sisters make that possible you and that your way will be pre- or her life. by being slow to judge those going pared and marked for you by Him in I have seen sisters in the kingdom through trials. Most people carrying your service to those He loves in their put that focus on the Savior and His heavy loads begin to doubt them- needs and trials. In the sacred name of purpose. Think of the times you have selves and their own worth. We Jesus Christ, amen. ◼ gone into the room where the Relief lighten their loads as we are patient NOTES Society or the Primary or the Young with their weaknesses and celebrate 1. Lucy Mack Smith, in Daughters in My Women have met. whatever goodness we can see in Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society (2011), 25. A picture of the Savior or His them. The Lord does that. And we 2. Brigham Young, in Daughters in My words may not be evident, but you could follow His example—He the Kingdom, 36. know a testimony of the reality and greatest nurturer of all. 3. Lucy Meserve Smith, in Daughters in My Kingdom, 37. value of His Atonement has been felt We speak often of the strength of 4. Lucy Meserve Smith, in Daughters in My in that hour as it has been this eve- the circle of sisters in the Church of Kingdom, 37. ning. There may not be a picture of Jesus Christ. We must learn to recog- 5. Matthew 25:40. 6. Mosiah 4:26. a holy temple or the words “Families nize that the Savior is always in the 7. Mosiah 4:27. Can Be Forever,” but you can see circle as we invite Him. 8. Doctrine and Covenants 121:8. hope in their smiles. More and more, we will see daugh- And you have seen, as I have, a wise ters of God invite sisters into the circle visiting teacher build the confidence with them. As sisters come into a Short Video Highlight in a struggling sister that her service to meeting and look for a seat, they will Scan this QR code to watch or share a short video clip someone else, even as she is failing, is hear the softly spoken words, “Please, (1–2 minutes) of this message. still needed and valuable. Great Relief come sit here with me.” 124 Conference Story Index The following list of selected experiences from general conference addresses can be used in personal study, , and other teaching. The speakers are listed in alphabetical order, and the number refers to the first page of the talk.

SPEAKER STORY

Neil L. Andersen (39) A family’s faith does not falter following the death of their daughter.

Shayne M. Bowen (15) Shayne M. Bowen and his missionary companion teach a family that little children need no baptism.

Linda K. Burton (78) A woman assists Linda K. Burton during her second visit to the temple as a newlywed. (111) Pioneer Mary Lois Walker loses her husband and a child while crossing the plains.

Craig C. Christensen (12) Six-year-old Ben Christensen feels the Holy Ghost as he visits a temple open house.

D. Todd Christofferson (47) A young man in India works hard to help his family and to get an education.

Quentin L. Cook (6) British Olympian Eric Liddell refuses to run a race on Sunday.

Ann M. Dibb (10) A young woman confidently wears a T-shirt proclaiming her membership in the Church.

Larry Echo Hawk (32) Larry Echo Hawk’s drill instructor discovers his copy of the Book of Mormon.

Henry B. Eyring (60) Henry B. Eyring carves a board for each of his sons to represent their special gifts. (72) Henry B. Eyring’s granddaughter looks for Jesus at a temple open house. (72) Henry B. Eyring leaves Stanford University for employment at Ricks College. (72) Henry B. Eyring’s daughter-in-law prays on the beach and dedicates her time to the Lord.

Robert C. Gay (34) Robert C. Gay’s father asks him if he would sell his soul for a nickel. (34) Robert C. Gay follows a prompting to help a boy sobbing by the side of the road.

Daniel L. Johnson (101) Latter-day Saints attend the temple after a storm destroys their fruit crop.

Thomas S. Monson (68) N. Eldon Tanner is surprised to see four men advance in the priesthood. (68) Thomas S. Monson receives inspiration to call branch presidents. (68) John H. Groberg bears his testimony to the king of Tonga. (86) Thomas S. Monson follows a prompting to offer suggestions about missionary work. (86) Thomas S. Monson follows a prompting to visit a friend in the hospital. (86) Thomas S. Monson encourages a young man to serve a mission. (86) A prayer by youth at a temple cultural celebration is answered.

Russell M. Nelson (18) A man responds to a prompting to “stop the boys on the bikes.”

Russell T. Osguthorpe (96) Youth attending Sunday School help two class members with autism share what they learned.

Boyd K. Packer (75) Boyd K. Packer’s boat is hit by a severe ocean storm in Western Samoa.

Linda S. Reeves (118) Linda S. Reeves turns to God after her husband becomes ill.

Richard G. Scott (93) Youth in Russia index 2,000 names each and submit an ancestor’s name for temple work.

Carole M. Stephens (115) Young women come to each other’s aid during a pioneer trek reenactment.

Gary E. Stevenson (51) A college student leaves a party in Japan after refusing marijuana cigarettes.

Scott D. Whiting (37) Temple contractors fix two small flaws in the Laie Hawaii Temple.

November 2012 125 NEWS OF THE CHURCH

Prospective missionaries are being Age Requirement for asked to enhance their pre-mission preparation prior to their time at Missionary Service Lowered the MTC. “God is hastening His work,” Elder Holland said. “And He needs more By Heather Whittle Wrigley and more willing and worthy mission- and Events aries to spread the light and the truth t the opening of the 182nd circumstances, and health still remain and the hope and the salvation of the Semiannual General important considerations for the tim- gospel of Jesus Christ to an often dark A Conference, President ing of missionary service. and fearful world.” Thomas S. Monson announced Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Elder Holland said it is likely that that, effective immediately, men Quorum of the Twelve Apostles additional missions will be created. may begin serving missions at age explained that prospective mission- To help accommodate the antic- 18 and women at age 19. aries may be recommended by their ipated increase in missionaries in Later, at a press conference, Elder bishop and stake president for full-time missions around the world, time Russell M. Nelson of the Quorum service 120 days prior to their 18th spent at the MTCs will be reduced of the Twelve Apostles emphasized birthday or to their availability date. by one-third for all missionaries. A that the change is an option: “Young Young men may enter the missionary recently implemented 12-week train- men and young women should not training center (MTC) after graduating ing course being administered in the begin their service before they are from high school or its equivalent and mission field will help further prepare ready spiritually and temporally,” he reaching 18 years of age. Women may missionaries. ◼ said. Such things as schooling, family enter after their 19th birthday. Read more by searching “missionary Young men and women may now begin serving missions at ages 18 and 19, age requirement” on news.lds​ ​.org. respectively, depending on individual circumstances and a determination by local priesthood leaders.

Teachings for Our Time From October 2012 through March 2013, fourth-Sunday Melchizedek Priesthood and Relief Society lessons should be prepared from one or more talks given in the October 2012 general conference. In April 2013, talks may be selected from either the October 2012 or the April 2013 con- ference. Stake and district presidents should choose which talks will be used in their areas. Learn more by reviewing the “Teachings for Our Time” section of the May 2012 Liahona or Ensign. ◼ © 2004 IRI

126 New Tools Help Members Prepare Family Names

PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY CHRISTINA SMITH © IRI PHOTO ILLUSTRATION n a letter dated October 8, 2012, the Come, Follow Me is a new curriculum that will help teachers teach in the First Presidency invited members— Savior’s way and help youth become more fully converted to the gospel. Iyouth and young single adults in particular—to receive the full bless- ings of the temple by preparing their Church Announces New own family names to take to the temple. Youth Curriculum for 2013 Furthermore, those with “large numbers of family names reserved [are he Church has announced a new A new guidebook, Teaching the encouraged] to release these names curriculum—Come, Follow Me: Gospel in the Savior’s Way, will help in a timely manner so the necessary TLearning Resources for Youth— leaders and teachers better understand ordinances can be performed.” for Aaronic Priesthood quorums, how to adapt lessons to the unique To help members respond to the Young Women, and youth Sunday needs of their youth and how to help First Presidency’s call, the Church School classes for 2013. youth learn the gospel. is developing new resources and One of the main goals of Come, All the lessons are printable from experiences, which can be found in Follow Me is to help teachers—in the Internet. Printed versions of Come, 10 languages at ​.org. church and in the home—teach as the Follow Me will be available at a later A recent upgrade to new​.family Savior did, making lessons more like date. By the end of 2012, all of the search​.org called Family Tree, for gospel-centered conversations. Youth lesson outlines will be available online instance, provides an enhanced will be invited to play a greater role in in 23 languages. approach to family history work by teaching and learning. Members, leaders, and teachers can letting users (1) connect and collab- “The focus is on strengthening and explore the new curriculum online at orate on shared family lines, (2) edit building faith, conversion, and testi- lds.org/​ ​youth/learn.​ and delete incorrect data, and (3) easily mony, using the most current teach- Area and local leaders will pro- submit names of ancestors for temple ings of the General Authorities and vide training for leaders and teachers ordinances. Users can also find videos general auxiliary presidencies,” reads before the end of 2012. ◼ on “Assigning Names to the Temple” a September 12, 2012, letter from the and other training at familysearch​.org/​ First Presidency. Learn more at news.lds​ ​.org. Also see treetraining. ◼ Come, Follow Me is organized into page 96 in this issue. To go directly units that focus on one doctrinal topic to the website containing the new each month and are shared across learning resources for youth, scan Sunday School, Young Women, and this QR code with a mobile device Aaronic Priesthood classes. or visit lds.org/youth/learn. In each unit are more lessons than can be taught in one month, so teachers and leaders are asked to seek inspiration and coordinate to deter- mine which lesson outlines to use.

November 2012 127 Elder Craig C. General Auxiliary Presidencies

Christensen RELIEF SOCIETY Of the Presidency of the Seventy

lder Craig C. Christensen began serving as a member of the Presidency of the Seventy on Carole M. Stephens Linda K. Burton Linda S. Reeves EAugust 1, 2012, following his call to that position First Counselor President Second Counselor in April 2012. YOUNG WOMEN Born to Sheron and Colleen Christensen in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA, in March 1956, Elder Christensen grew up in northern California in “an active, nurturing LDS family.” He emphasized that he has always believed the gospel to be true, yet his testimony was strengthened during his missionary service in Chile. “As a missionary, my desire to feel the Holy Ghost became constant, and my testimony of the gospel Mary N. Cook Elaine S. Dalton Ann M. Dibb deepened and became much more palpable to me,” First Counselor President Second Counselor he said. On his mission he gained a love for the Book of Mormon, which continues in his teachings today. PRIMARY Elder Christensen has been a member of the First and Second Quorums of the Seventy since 2002. Most recently, he served as Executive Director of the Priesthood Department. Past callings include president of the Mexico South Area, Mexico City East Mission president, bishop, high councilor, and stake mission president. Elder Christensen has a bachelor’s degree in Jean A. Stevens Rosemary M. Wixom Cheryl A. Esplin accounting from Brigham Young University and a First Counselor President Second Counselor master of business administration degree from the University of Washington. He has owned and oper- YOUNG MEN ated businesses in the retail automotive and real estate development industries and has been a visiting instruc- tor at several universities. Elder Christensen married Debora Jones on March 28, 1978. They reside in Holladay, Utah, and have four chil- dren and five grandchildren. ◼

Larry M. Gibson David L. Beck Adrián Ochoa First Counselor President Second Counselor

SUNDAY SCHOOL

David M. McConkie Russell T. Osguthorpe Matthew O. Richardson First Counselor President Second Counselor

128 A Step of Faith, by Michael T. Malm “And when the disciples saw [ Jesus] walking on the sea, they were troubled. . . . “But straightway Jesus spake unto them, saying, Be of good cheer; it is I; be not afraid. “And Peter answered him and said, Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water. “And he said, Come. And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus” (Matthew 14:26–29). © MICHAEL T. MALM, MAY NOT BE COPIED MALM, MAY © MICHAEL T. “I am pleased to announce that effective immediately all worthy and able young men who have graduated from high school or its equivalent, regardless of where they live, will have the option of being recommended for missionary service beginning at the age of 18, instead of age 19,” announced President Thomas S. Monson during the opening session of the 182nd Semiannual General Conference of the Church. He also said, “Today I am pleased to announce that able, worthy young women who have the desire to serve may be recommended for missionary service begin- ning at age 19, instead of age 21.”