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The Jewish Journal Non-Profit Org. Monthly Magazine U.S. Postage PAID Youngstown, OH MM Permit #607 JJ Youngstown Area Jewish Federation November 2019 ON THE COVER: INSIDE: Oct. 27 Marked One Year Since Family Member Works to Replace Christian Grave Marker for Jewish Bombadier the Shooting at the Pittsburgh see page 3 Tree of Life Building Dallas Jewish Federation and see pages 11–13 JCC Buildings Damaged by Tornadoes see page 22 YOUNGSTOWN AREA Volume 16, Number 11 • November 2019 • Heshvan/Kislev 5780 JEWISH FEDERATION Commentary Musings with Mary Lou: The High Holidays By Mary Lou Finesilver Temple and at home. We had 13 people The services were a delight. A very ability: “‘to those I may have wronged, for dinner after services on the first day benevolent family sponsored a cantor I ask forgiveness. To those I may have Well, it’s that of Rosh Hashanah, and 13 was a very and his so talented accompanist to helped, I wish I had done more. To time again. As I good number. The week before, we come from Israel. They brought not those I neglected to help, I ask for sit here staring had family over to learn how to make only beautiful sound, but such Ruach understanding. To those who helped at the computer, kreplach (the Jewish ravioli), so that (spirit) to the service, and the time me, I sincerely thank you. May you be many thoughts was perfect and enjoyed by all. Add went so quickly it was amazing. We sealed in the Book of Life for another are running to that Diane’s brisket, Beth’s carrot hope they will be able to come again good year.” through my ring, my nephew’s mouthwatering next year. Yom Kippur is also a fast day, for head. I am very fried turkey, homemade cole slaw, It sounds funny to say this because those who are able. It is actually from concerned fabulous Brussel sprout dish, beautiful Yom Kippur, Day of Atonement, has sundown to sundown, about 25 or about the way vegetable tray, fabulous kishke (look been a very solemn and sad holiday. 26 hours for those who follow the the world is going right now. So much it up, I don’t know how to translate), Not this year! It was a delight Orthodox or Conservative traditions. strife, so many sad turns of events refreshing orange jello with whipped and actually made praying easier. So one thing we wish family and friends with anti-anything anymore. It can cream, desserts enough to make Nero Somehow confessing our sins made is to have an “easy fast.” I suppose that be so depressing just to read the happy, and delicious chocolate candy. more sense and, I think, gave us more is why we are in Temple most of the newspaper or watch TV news, but I Forgive me, but I know I left out quite hope for a better year. Our prayer book day: so we aren’t tempted to break the don’t want to talk about all that here. a few delicacies. actually incorporates a list that we all fast. Unfortunately at my age and with We have had enough news telling By the time all the food hit the table, say in unison. Some things may apply some existing health problems, I was us how bad things are and enough there was not an inch of space left— and some may not, but it covers all that unable to fast, but I do remember it speakers talking about the state of the and not only good food, but wonderful might pertain to each of us. well. Getting through it gives you some union and all that. So I am determined family and friends. It has reached the I feel that the big thing we all should kind of inner peace. to find something happy to talk about. place that the friends are more family have come away with this year is to It has certainly been a beautiful At least I will try. than anything else. be kind to all. The Rabbi is the first holiday filled with spirit and love and As you know, I am Jewish. Big The second day was smaller but to say, and you may have seen this on hope for all for a good year. And I wish surprise there, right? We just finished no less joyful, and the food was great. Facebook posted by a few people, and the same for you and yours, with good celebrating the new year of 5780 at No wonder I can’t lose weight—oy! I will try and quote to the best of my health, love, and peace. Liptalk: One Year Later A Message from Andy Lipkin Less than a year later, we were such data in the 1970s. ADL’s audit held trainings for staff and community Federation Executive Vice-President threatened when a New Middletown members, as well as at the local man posted a video on Instagram of anti-Semitic assaults in 2018, up synagogues. We’re also applying for It seems hard of a man shooting what appeared fromidentified 21 in 59 2017. people who were victims grants that will hopefully help fund our to believe it’s So security continues to be a efforts to be secure, both on our campus been a year since of discharging multiple rounds in a priority for us. The Federation board and at area synagogues. 11 innocent shortto be timea firearm span and with tagged the thecapability Jewish and I take very seriously the need to This violence has to stop. We all people lost Community Center of Youngstown. ensure the safety of all members of the have a responsibility to educate our their lives in the I am grateful it didn’t become a local Jewish community, participants neighbors, our family, and our elected tragedy, but with anti-Semitism on the in any of our programs, and visitors to at the Tree of rise, we need to be vigilant. our agencies. We need to do everything we can to Lifehorrific building shooting in The U.S. Jewish community We need to be deliberate and preventofficials thatthis thisfrom ishappening not acceptable. again Pittsburgh. It’s experienced near-historic levels of intentional as far as our security and to prosecute those people who are even harder to believe we’re still facing anti-Semitism in 2018, according to the needs today and in the future. We need responsible for these acts. Otherwise, threats of violence against Jews. Anti-Defamation League, including a to continue to seek partners in our it’s going to continue. Following the tragedy in Pittsburgh, doubling of anti-Semitic assaults. ADL’s community who share our need to live Anyone with questions or I wrote in Liptalk, “I hope that I am annual audit of anti-Semitic incidents in a civil society where differences are suggestions about security, please feel wrong, but I fear that one day something recorded a total of 1,879 attacks against embraced and respected as opposed to free to contact me. like this could happen in the Mahoning Jews and Jewish institutions across the dividing us. May the memory of the 11 people and Shenago Valleys. It is not a question country in 2018, the third-highest year Rob Elston, our security coordinator, who lost their lives in Pittsburgh be for of if but when.” on record since ADL started tracking is leading the security efforts. We’ve a blessing. 2 The Jewish Journal Monthly Magazine November 2019 Candle Lighting Times Jewish World War II Bombardier Finally Gets November 1 6:00 p.m. Star of David Grave Marker November 8 4:52 p.m. By Elise Skolnick to free him, they were unable to, and “but I decided I had to tell her. She November 15 4:46 p.m. Kenny Robinson died before he went down with had to know.” November 22 4:41 p.m. Mariellen Miller, Catherine Phillips the plane. He was “When I saw that cross, I Many Jewish boys November 29 4:37 p.m. Chelin, and Claudia Moss were even 22 years old. The listed themselves born. But they knew about him. What Germans buried thought, ‘How am I going as Catholic on their About the Journal they didn’t know until 2015 was that him in a nearby to tell Mariellen this,’ but dog tags in case they 505 Gypsy Lane he was buried under a cross rather cemetery. Later, I decided I had to tell her. were captured by Youngstown, OH 44504-1314 than a Star of David, even though he he was reinterred She had to know.” the Germans, Miller Phone: 330.746.3250 was Jewish. in the Ardennes explained. Fax: 330.746.7926 Robinson, Miller’s stepbrother, American Cemetery - Catherine Phillips Chelin “That started my Email: died Aug. 17, 1943, in a bombing raid in Nuepre, Belgium. mission,” Miller said. [email protected] over Germany during World War II. Robinson’s father, Edward I. She started a time-consuming Publisher When his plane was hit, his chute Robinson, married Miller’s mother, and frustrating quest to have Andrew L. Lipkin deployed early and became tangled. Belle. Edward adopted Miller and her Kenny’s marker changed to a Star Though fellow crew members tried brother Eric. They, and their cousins of David. Though she gathered a lot General Manager Bonnie Deutsch Burdman Phillips Chelin and of information, including proof that Moss, grew up seeing he was bar mitzvahed and that he Editor a picture of Kenny.