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Printed in the United States of America 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 / VP-FO / 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Copyrighted material In-Unison-INT-v7.indd 4 1/22/20 1:44 PM Contents why we wrote this book ...................... 9 1. not my type ............................... 17 2. culture shock .......................... 41 3. the back burner ....................... 63 4. good grief ................................ 81 . 5 stress and strain .................... 95 . 6 material matters ...................... 115 7. us over me ................................ 133 8. he’s strong, she’s strong ........ 147 9. this is us ................................... 169 10. i can’t do this anymore ............ 189 . 11 envisioning the future ............207 about the authors ..............................229 notes .................................................... 231 Copyrighted material In-Unison-INT-v7.indd 7 1/22/20 1:44 PM 1 not my type Jeremy and I met in September 2002 while we were both on a tour called Festival Con Dios with about ten other bands. Before the tour started, I chatted with one of my friends who worked at our record label, expressing my disappointment in how few godly men I thought there were—or at least who hadn’t yet been taken. I had toured with many great guys over the years who all became my friends, and I expected this was going to be no different. She mentioned I was about to meet a special one on this upcoming tour. not my type 17 Copyrighted material In-Unison-INT-v7.indd 17 1/22/20 1:44 PM This guy, Jeremy Camp, had withstood the devastating trial of watching his young wife pass away from cancer, and he was one of the sweetest, godliest guys she had ever met. I was vaguely familiar with Jeremy through the music industry, but since I was into a completely different style of music than his, I adamantly responded, “Oh no, I’ve heard his music. And he’s definitely not my type.” I was convinced I would marry a visual artist—a painter, sculptor, or photographer—perhaps tall, skinny, and oozing creativity. I also had the youthful notion that in order to marry someone, I had to enjoy pretty much all the same things as him. Oh, and since I am from South Africa, I had vowed never to marry an American. (I had a misconception about our cul- tural differences and wanted to stay as connected to South Africa as possi- ble.) So post-grunge, athletic, American Jeremy did not fit my description of the guy I thought I wanted. I had only ever dated one person, and although it was a silly, brief rela- tionship, it had a bit of a messy ending from which I was still feeling emo- tional effects and insecurities. All I wanted was to throw myself fully into Jesus. I certainly didn’t want a new distraction in my life after all the restorative work the Lord had been doing in my heart. Early into the outdoor tour through 40-plus cities, I sprained my ankle quite badly trying to 18 in unison Copyrighted material In-Unison-INT-v7.indd 18 1/22/20 1:44 PM escape a torrential downpour. I ended up having to play my shows while wearing a huge ankle brace for a couple weeks, much to my dismay. As the front woman of a passionate rock band, The Benjamin Gate, it wasn’t my style to be hindered. I believed you had to leave your heart bleeding on the stage when you walked off, and if I couldn’t do that, then I didn’t feel as if I had done my job properly. Shortly after my fall, Jeremy introduced himself to me and told me that he and his band had prayed for me the day before. I was surprised but encouraged, and I mentioned to him that we had a mutual friend at the record label. not my type 19 Copyrighted material In-Unison-INT-v7.indd 19 1/22/20 1:44 PM That was it. No sparks. No flame. No further thought. But I realized Jeremy was very kind and more tender than most people I had met, and it was evident he had a deep relationship with the Lord. The Hotel Stranger Our merchandise tables were providentially set up near each other’s, so over the course of the next three months we saw each other and had some form of interaction every day. Typically while touring, especially during festival season, I’d head to the hotel for a shower after the show was finished before hitting the road and traveling to the next venue. On one occasion I was hobbling toward my hotel room, still wearing my gigantic ankle brace, when a guy standing in the hallway greeted me. Thinking he was one of the crew guys on tour, I smiled back and said hi. He proceeded to invite me into his room and told me he had some beers, if I liked that kind of thing. I was shocked and instantly afraid. He was obviously not with our tour. I didn’t know what to do and definitely didn’t want him seeing which room I was staying in. If he tried anything, then my escape would be limited—I wouldn’t be able to run very fast in my ankle boot. At that moment, one of Jeremy’s band members came around the corner. I was relieved and quickly signaled to him to stand with me until the creepy guy went away. But it was Jeremy who caught wind that something was wrong. Immediately, the most intimidating looked crossed Jeremy’s face, and I saw him puff up in a Hulk-ish way as he asked, “What happened?” 20 in unison Copyrighted material In-Unison-INT-v7.indd 20 1/22/20 1:44 PM God creates out of nothing. Wonderful, you say. Yes, to be sure, but he does what is still more wonderful: he makes saints out of sinners. soren kierkegaard1 not my type 21 Copyrighted material In-Unison-INT-v7.indd 21 1/22/20 1:44 PM I was convinced he was going to punch this guy in the face, and I would embarrassingly be the cause of a ruckus. I called his name to slow him down. “Jeremy!” He didn’t flinch. He strode directly toward the man and very firmly but calmly said, “Hey man, you leave our girl alone.” I think the fear of the Lord entered that guy, as it did me, and he sheep- ishly backed into his room. I was entirely relieved that Jeremy had come to my defense and still ner- vous about being alone, so his band helped me switch rooms for the night. The next day Jeremy came and apologized for possibly scaring me. He had, but we had a good laugh about it. I was honestly thankful to have been protected.