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1) How to Build Habits • Inspiration 1) How to build habits • Inspiration: o What motivates you to do this change? What inspires you to change or build a new habit? Think about how your life could be if you make this change. • Intention: o Set some clear intentions: you need a plan. This is a critical link between inspiration and action. When do you plan to do what? • Action o Shift things to action – just start it! • Experience o Repeat the process until it is experienced, and becomes a new habit. Research says that you need 20 repetitions to start building a new habit… so 5 minutes each morning for three weeks could do the trick to kick this off! 2) Meditation Apps • Headspace (www.headspace.com) • Calm (www.calm.com) • And many more are out there … and they are a great start to build a habit! 3) My recommended reads • General reads: o Search Inside Yourself by Chade-Meng Tan o 10% Happier by Dan Harris o Real Happiness by Sharon Salzberg • Mindfulness/Meditation o Happiness by Matthieu Ricard (probably THE book that changed my life…) o Why Meditate by Matthieu Ricard o Mindfulness for Beginners by Jon Kabat-Zinn o Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn • Compassion o A Fearless Heart by Thupten Jinpa o Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff • Research/Mindfulness today o The Emotional Life of Your Brain by Richard Davidson o Altered Traits by Richard Davidson and Daniel Goleman o Your Brain At Work by David Rock • Emotional Intelligence o Emotional Intelligence: And Why it Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman o Focus: The Hidden Driver of Excellence by Daniel Goleman • Spiritual (but practical) o The Miracle of Mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh o A Force For Good: The Dalai Lama’s Vision for Our World by Daniel Goleman .
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