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July 11, 2021 FIFTEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME 

Immaculate Heart of Mary  4701 Weldin Road  Liftwood Wilmington, DE 19803 www.ihm.org

STAFF AND DIRECTORY Rectory Office  Pastor  Mrs. Lisa Bell M Parish Secretary Rev. Robert A. Wozniak   (302) 7640357  email: [email protected] Weekend Assistant  Website, www.ihm.org  Fax (302) 7644381 Rev. William D. Melnick  Mrs. Lorrie Timanus M Parish Bookkeeper,  Permanent Deacon   (302) 7640357  email: [email protected] Mr. Frank Conway M email: [email protected] Parish Outreach Parish Manager  (302) 7641430 M Office Mr. Andrew Conway M email: [email protected]  (302) 7644896 M Casseroles/Meals Pastoral Associate for Evangelization  Monday, Wednesday & Friday, 9:30 AM M 11:30 AM and Adult Faith Formation School Mrs. Rita McDowell M (302) 7644693  Mrs. Tina Morroni M Principal M email: [email protected] email: [email protected]  Mrs. Mary Bullen & Mrs. Michelle Iacono N Assistants Director for Children’s Catechesis  (302) 7640977 M Website, www.ihm.org/IHM_School Ms. Claire D. Dasalla M (302) 7625550  Fax (302) 7640375 email: [email protected] Perpetual in Chapel Music / Liturgy Office  Information: (302) 3733405  Mr. Leo Schloss  Music Director  Adoration Hotline: (302) 7644326  email: [email protected] M (302) 7641143 Convent Mrs. Grace Donahue  Liturgy Secretary  Sisters of St. M (302) 7621229  email: [email protected] M (302) 7641143  Immaculate Heart of Mary Page 2

SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM MASSES  Baptisms are normally scheduled on the 2nd and 4th Sundays  Saturday: 5:00pm (Live Stream) of the month at 12:00pm. Parent(s) who wish their child to be  Sunday: 7:00am, 9:00am, 11:00am baptized are expected to be registered in the parish and   Monday N Saturday: 6:30am and 9:00am practicing the faith. The dates for the PreBaptismal Class for Holy Day: as scheduled in bulletin the 1st child, as well as the Class for the 2nd are listed inside the bulletin. Classes for 1st child are held in the Church and  classes for 2nd child are held in the Rectory Meeting Room. SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION Please call the rectory 7640357 to register. (Confessions)   Saturday: 4:00pm to 4:45pm in the Chapel or by appointment SACRAMENT OF MARRIAGE   Couples need to meet with a priest one year before the  SACRAMENT OF THE SICK  wedding date to begin marriage preparation.   Call the Rectory for an appointment.  Emergency  Call the Rectory, 7640357   Communion Call  Upon request Eucharistic Ministers will NEW PARISHIONERS bring to the homebound & sick of the parish.  IHM welcomes you!  Visitation  Please notify the Rectory of any serious illness in  Please call the Rectory Office for a visit and a copy of your your family or admission to a hospital. welcome packet. LITURGY  ZOOM Video PreBaptism Classes   Date for 1st Child M August 2nd at 7:30pm   nd Date for 2 or additional Children M July 19th at 7pm These classes are held via  ZOOM video conference. Please call the Rectory 7640357 to register

Mass Intentions for the  6:30am daily Mass are Available  Mass Intentions for 6:30am Mass are available as soon as August. Please call the Parish office for scheduling your Mass intention. (302)7640357

IHM Summer Parish Office Hours  Monday through Thursday from 9:00amN 6:00pm  and on Friday from 9:00amN3:00pm Readings for the week of July 11, 2021 Sunday:  Am 7:1215/Ps 85:910, 1112, 1314 [8]/   Eph 1:314 or 1:310/Mk 6:713 Monday:  Ex 1:814, 22/Ps 124:1b3, 46, 78 [8a]/Mt   10:34N11:1 Please join us in prayers as we ask for God’s  Tuesday:  Ex 2:115a/Ps 69:3, 14, 3031, 3334 [cf. guidance and protection of our troops serving around   33]/Mt 11:2024 the world. Our prayer “Lord, hold our troops in Wednesday:  Ex 3:16, 912/Ps 103:1b2, 34, 67 [8a]/Mt Your loving hands,” especially those associated with our Parish:   11:2527  Gregory Collins  Stephen Hassink Thursday:  Ex 3:1320/Ps 105:1 and 5, 89, 2425, 26  Timothy McAteer  Andrew McElravy   27 [8a]/Mt 11:2830  Jonathan Meier   Joseph Orlando Friday:  Ex 11:10N12:14/Ps 116:1213, 15 and   Christopher Morris  John Udall, III   16bc, 1718 [13]/Mt 12:18  Coulombe  John B. Devine  Monica BrayAbongan  Bailey Bray Saturday:  Ex 12:3742/Ps 136:1 and 2324, 1012, 13    15/Mt 12:1421 Blessed are the Peacemakers who serve our Country. If you Next Sunday:  Jer 23:16/Ps 23:13, 34, 5, 6 [1]/Eph 2:13 wish to add the name of a parishioner who is serving in the   18/Mk 6:3034 Military, please contact the Parish Office 7640357. FIFTEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Page 3

PERPETUAL EUCHARISTIC ADORATION 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time Reflection  Maybe the work is best left to the professionals. That’s how many people view the preaching of the Gospel. That’s the stuff priests, religious, deacons, lay ministers, and other professional Church people do. It has little to do with me. Well, that’s not really true. The fact of the matter is that preaching the Gospel has everything to do with you, with all of us who are bap- tized members of the Body of Christ. Nobody gets off the hook from that . The question is, however, how do we do it? Well, there’s a safe way, which many choose, to preach the Gospel N and the risky way.  The safe way pretty much keeps the Gospel in church  and around likeminded people. I say my prayers, go “When shall we see Our Lord honored day and to Mass, contribute to the food pantry, tithe, and at- night in every parish through the Catholic world? tend Bible Study. That pretty much covers the bases, I love to cherish the hope!” right? Wrong. (Ven. Leo DuPont) The risky way is the more challenging way and for  Adorers are needed for the following Open Hours: many, the “road less traveled.” Imagine those first   disciples going out and into people’s homes. They Sunday: 1am, 4am, (No Adoration from 7am to 2pm) must have had some amazing conversations with Monday: 1am,3am folks about God’s kingdom, changing their hearts,  Tuesday: 11pm wks 1,3,5 forgiving sins, and looking at the world differently. Wednesday: 1am  They must have met people who were hurting, exiled Thursday: 2am, 11pm from their communities, neglected, lost, or living  Friday: 9pm wks 1,3,5 selfinsulated lives in a society that served the rich Saturday: 12am wks 2 and 5, 1am, 4am, 5am, 6am and neglected the poor. While there were many who (No Adoration from 7am to 6pm), 6pm, 7pm wks 2, 4,5, welcomed what they had to say and the conversations 8pm, 9pm wks 3,5 We are especially in need of Adorers on Saturday. If you they had, there were others who no doubt rejected can commit to two weeks a month, that would be helpful. them and literally tossed them out on their ears! The Contact Kathy Dunworth to schedule a at Gospel, while being a message of joy and hope, is  3023836452 or [email protected] not always received well by those who are very   comfortable keeping things as they are.  The risky way involves example and conversation. We  have to take the Gospel from church and carry it with  us wherever we go. What kinds of conversations do  we have with others? We interact with those closest to  us, in our work, social circles, institutions, corpora-   tions, in politics, and beyond. Our conversations with  others reveal a great deal about how we see things  and what we consider important. If we are really   interested in seeing God’s vision for the world  succeed, then we will talk about it. It will become a part of our everyday conversation and find its way into our interactions with others. How will we preserve the Please welcome the statue of Our Lady of  dignity of human life and encourage others to have a Fatima into your homes. Say the rosary with Our relationship with God? We must be the example, live Lady and great blessings and graces  value centered, virtuous lives, stand against injustice, are received. Everything you need is in the combating racism, and learn ways to resolve conflicts suitcase that can be found in the Chapel.  without violence. You can sign up for any time that is  If we are going to succeed going forward, we have to convenient to you just leave your info in the find a way to bring our prayer centered lives into the folder. Be sure to return the statue before  marketplace. Our conversations have to change. Not Sunday so it will be ready for the next person. everyone wants to hear what the Gospel has to say.  That’s a risk God asks us to take. For any questions call Pat Dargis (302)4787909. Our Lady of Fatima pray for us, our families and our  country. July 11, 2021   Page 4 OUTREACH RELIGIOUS EDUCATION

 The Bread Pick up Ministry has immediate AM and PM openings for Bread pick up Volunteerson various days. Time commitment is typically 1 hour once per month.  If you would like additional information, please contact Charlotte or Denis Canty 302 475 4459.

EVANGELIZATION A single sunbeam is enough to drive away many shadows.” ~ St. 

Is your teen on the parish sacramental list?  Our parish prep program will begin in October for all teens planning to be confirmed in March of 2022. Program registration will open later this month. All rising seventh grade CRE students and IHM School students will be emailed the registration materials automatically.   If your teen is: Attending a local Catholic Academy in the fall. Entering eighth grade this fall and were not registered for CRE in 2021. A newly registered parishioner.  Contact Grace Donahue, at [email protected] or  call 3027641143 to be included in our sacramental list.

RETROUVAILLE SOJOURNERS’ PLACE

RETROUVAILLE:  In continuation of our efforts to  REDISCOVER THE LOVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE  assist in providing for everyday  needs, a bin has been placed in the  Tens of thousands of couples have healed their marriages multipurpose room to receive  through Retrouvaille (pronounced Retrovy). If you know donation of items for the residents.  anyone who could benefit from this program, please pass Suggestions include: this on. Couples learn to build communication skills. It  spaghetti, spaghetti sauce, pancake mix, syrup, mashed provides help for marriage problems, difficulties or cri- potatoes, canned fruit and vegetables, vegetable oil, salad ses. The next program begins the weekend of August 13  dressing, cereal, baked beans and rice laundry detergent, 15, 2021 at the Family Life Center in Malvern, PA. For more bleach, paper products, extralarge garbage bags (50 gal). information, or to register, visitwww.HelpOurMarriage.orgor  call 2157663944 or 8004702230. All inquiries are strictly Thank you, faithful and  confidential. generous IHM parishioners! Immaculate Heart of Mary Page 5

PleasePlease remember remember all sick, all allsick,  all 

thosethose homebound, homebound, in the in hospital the hospital   ANNOUNCED MASSES or nursingor nursing homes homes and especially and especially    thosethose who care who forcare them. for them.   Monday, July 12 6:30 AM Raymond Morgan III    9:00 AM Judy Kee & Cathy Williams Tuesday, July 13 6:30 AM Ronald Lee Williams  Judy Armstrong Sierra Neidlinger  9:00 AM Sharon Lupinski  Jamie Anderson Jean Nettleton Wed., July 14 6:30 AM Rosemary & Jack Jenkins Austin Family Tom Obenchain  9:00 AM Charles Miller Jay Bedell Patty O’Donnell Thurs., July 15 6:30 AM Dan & Eileen Maher Bucci Christopher Olsen  9:00 AM The Wyrough Family Rich Blankeney Kathy Olsen Friday, July 16 6:30 AM Nancy McFadden John Pellegrino  Bonnie Blankeney  9:00 AM Scott Karcher Andrew Brundage Claudia Peters Sandy Calderhead Lex Petrillo Saturday, July 176:30 AM Dennis Swyt MaryBeth Capik Matt Peters  9:00 AM Ruben Hopkins Nancy Carney Donald Pietlock  5:00 PM Robert J. Bourdon Christine Cavaliere Eric Phillips Sunday, July 18 7:00 AM Arthur E. Watson, Jr. Jack Conmy Alensia Nicole Quigly  9:00 AM Alex Marra Joanne Cunningham  Jose Riera 11:00 AM Mary Ann & Leonard  Jeanne Czech Carmen Riera  Kelleher Curran Kellianne Robinson Theresa Cassidy Gregg Rooney Sr. Arlene Dalesio Maria Rosas “Marriage and Family Life Corner” Janice Dawson Evelyn V. Santos  Peggy Dragone  Josephine Sarti Edward Felps Rosemary Sausen MARRIAGE MOMENTS : Perhaps for those who stay home Marie Finch Veronica Scerca this summer, the lesson to learn is hospitality. How can we Linda Finney Louise Schumock as a couple provide needs and comfort for those who have Rick Finney Lenna & Andy Schott nothing or who are traveling?  Shawn Foard Brandon Shain PARENTING POINTERS: Our kids don’t always recognize Danny Forte Gloria Shea Jackie FioreWarfield Sue Sheehan that when we ask them to do hard things it is for their own Katherine Glazier Bill Sherwin good. You may not always be appreciated, but don’t give Gail P. Glynn Theresa Sherwin up. Don A. Grace Connie Silpath Hildegard Greway  Albert Silpath Robert Griffin JoAnne Shain CHILDRENS CORNER John Heaney  David Smith Caroline Henry Denise Smith Sharing the Gospel Brian Jones Lou Tiberi In today's Gospel reading, Jesus prepared his disciples for Elsie Kenine Julie Van Beek a mission trip, where they would help the people in area Brigitta Klug Virgil Van Beek towns and teach them about God. Before they left, Jesus Elaine Vadden Robert Lehrer asked his disciples to travel lightthey were to bring no food Wendy Lovet Estelle Vanover Michelle Malloy Maureen A. Viehman or clothes or money. They could not survive without God's Terry Mance Patricia Westerberg help. Jesus also asked them to heal people. They could not Thomas Manlove Vickie Weatherby heal without God's power, either. God provided everything Matthew McCormick  Lucy Winsor they needed for their mission trip. Gracie McLaughlin Claire Wright  Rusty McLaughlin Joseph Yandoli Prayer Chris Mighton Carol Znacko  Dear God, help me always to remember that it is your  power that turns people's lives around. Amen.   Please contact the Parish office 7640357 to place or  Something to Draw remove names on the sick list. Draw a picture of two disciples walking together toward a town. ALL ARE WELCOME  We are always pleased to welcome new  members to our Parish Community.  Please take a moment to stop by the parish office and  introduce yourself to the staff.   We look forward to getting to know you as we grow together in the knowledge and love of god. July 11, 2021 Page 6 ONLINE GIVING RESPECT LIFE This time last year the world was turned upside The Respect Life Committee wishes to down due to COVID19, but our parish  thank everyone who purchased the “ProLife ministries continued because so many people Kids” book after Masses on 5/2223. needed our help. Recurring gifts helped sustain our parish Additional copies can still be purchased at the in unprecedented times, and continue to be a vital source $10 price, while supplies last, by sending an of support for ministries that are a lifeline to those in need email to: [email protected]. Let’s teach in our community. our children to celebrate life from conception  to natural death. Life is returning to normal, but so many continue to depend on Immaculate Heart of Mary. The more people use  eGiving, the stronger foundation we will have for ministries ADULT FAITH FORMATION that bring hope in times of uncertainty.   The depth and breadth of the wisdom of Matthew Kelly is We prayerfully request that you consider signing up for now at your fingertips. Join Matthew Kelly on YouTube and eGiving from your computer, smartphone or tablet. 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