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Changing the Universe through women’s Stories ROSEMARy GUTTORMSSON ROSEMARy Privilege, power Born Gender and the Talk, talk, talk ... and gym clothes powerful digital divide and listen NOVEMBER 2009 Volume 25, Issue 10 www.womenspress.com FOR WOMEN ON THE GO. WANT CONVENIENCE? Seven metro locations and Express Care clinics are open seven days a week. HEALTH COVERAGE? We accept all types of insurance plans. TOO BUSY FOR MULTIPLE APPOINTMENTS? Check out our one-visit Pills Now, Pay LaterTM program. PREFER A WOMAN HEALTH PROVIDER? We’re here for you with personalized, confi dential care. WANT BIRTH CONTROL CHOICES? We offer all types and brand names, plus emergency contraception. HOW ABOUT GREAT SERVICE? Make an appointment, request a refi ll, pay your bill or ask a nurse online. Call 1.800.230.PLAN or visit ppmns.org WOMEN’S HEALTH MATTERS Minnesota Women’s Press, November 2009 3 Changing the Universe through Women’s Stories 24 contactus 651-646-3968 • Fax: 651-646-2186 email: [email protected] www.womenspress.com send a letter to the editor [email protected] subscribe [email protected] advertise [email protected] suggest a story idea [email protected] send a calendar listing [email protected] 10 Join book activities [email protected] mWPstaFF 8 goseedo Publishers/editors coveRARTIST .................................... 20 Kathy Magnuson, Norma Smith Olson Go with the [watercolor] flow contributors Jeanne Bain, Ginny Belden- Charles, Tami Mohamed Brown, eventsCALENDAR .......................... 24 Delma Francis, Bernice Koehler Johnson, Michele St. Martin, Anne Noonan, FeatuRes “Women at War” and more Kathryn O’Connell, Verna Cornelia Price, thinKABOUTit ....................................6 Rebecca Surmont, Sun Yung Shin, Dear David Letterman: ReadeRs’WRite Mary Warpeha cover artist Rosemary Guttormsson youSAID .................................................5 educationFEATURE ........................ 8 design Norma Smith Olson Got an opinion? advertising sales Susan Feehan, Michele Talk, talk, talk ... and listen Holzwarth,Jenny Offt, Kathy Magnuson youRTHOUGHTS ..................................5 PRoFILE ................................................10 accounting Kathy Malchow Rituals of Thanksgiving operations Faye Kommedahl, Kari Larson Privilege, power and gym clothes Founding Publishers Mollie Hoben, BooKSHELF .........................................13 Glenda Martin BooKTALK ........................................... 12 Compassionate adventurer Our mission is to tell women’s stories in Heated “Twilight” discussion ways that create community and encourage laughingMATTERS ........................ 23 change. educationFEATURE ....................... 14 Seamless bras are underrated Advertising is accepted at the discretion Gender and the digital divide of the publisher. 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PAUL, MN 55114 Listen up classiFiedADS.. 35 4 Minnesota Women’s Press, November 2009 WelcomeWoRds youRthoughts noRmasmitholson Rituals of thanksgiving Kathymagnuson Each month in the Women’s Press we ask for your thoughts on a topic. For November we asked the question: What have getting to know you you learned from Thanksgiving rituals? Here are thoughts The circle of women on the cover are getting to know each other, embark- from two MWP readers: ing on a shared journey to Iceland. Women sharing their stories in a circle. anjali’s turn Talking and listening. Over the last months, as we’ve listened to the national conversation about health care, we’ve been thinking about how we talk with each other, as indi- viduals, as a nation, as a world. Power and talk. We’ve been asking ques- tions about what effective communication is. How do you talk so people will listen? How do you listen to really be able to hear what others are saying? Many of the stories in this November issue of Minnesota Women’s Press get at answering these questions about communication. Ginny Belden- Charles writes about the practice of dialogue and why it matters. Kari Xiong coming up: asks tough questions about power and privilege and speaks to how we In December it’s our annual communicate through the layers of cultural differences. Mary Kirk writes Changemakers issue! about the gender divide in the world of information technology, illuminating What do you dream of changing elements of power and communication. In her ActNow for women or girls? Thanks to our readers column, Kathy explores the power in listening. Tell us. Send us a paragraph for giving us input Earlier this fall was our time to listen to you. Every or two. Deadline: Nov. 10. two years we conduct an extensive readers’ survey to Send to [email protected]. this fall in our readers’ learn about who YOU are and what you are thinking. December targeted guide: survey. Julie Weaver Thank you to everyone who participated in our survey! Holiday Guide. is the winner of the Your answers help shape our directions. Advertising deadline: Nov. 10. go with the flow gift certificate to Some of the things we saw in the survey: You are a group of smart and active women. You are involved in In January we’ll be writing the advertiser of her many causes and contribute your time and dollars to about women and humor. choice—the Animal issues you believe in. You’re politically active—96 per- Tell us something funny. Humane Society. cent of you voted in the last election. You are lifelong What makes you laugh? learners. Two-thirds of you are enrolled in a class of Send us a paragraph or two. She’s looking some kind at any given time. Over 3/4 of you have col- Deadline: Dec. 10. Send to forward to a new cat lege degrees, 1/3 have advanced degrees. In your spare [email protected]. companion in her life. time you love to read (big surprise!), be creative with January targeted guides: art or craft, travel, cook and work out. Your family and Education Guide and friends are important to you. You live all over the metro area. You are just as Camp and Activity Guide. likely to live in the suburbs as in St. Paul or Minneapolis. You are a range of Advertising deadline: Dec. 10. ages—from high school age to senior citizens. Over half of you have been reading MWP for over 10 years, and 64 percent refer our advertisers to others. (It’s advertising that makes this publication possible.) Thanks for your loyalty and support! Many of you think of MWP as YOUR publication. And you’re opinionated about it! You told us things like, “Your publication affirms and empowers women of all ages.” And, “the Women’s Press has always been my friend.” You also encouraged us to push more buttons and to make more noise. We hear you. We are practicing those listening skills. and Co-Publishers Minnesota Women’s Press, November 2009 5 WelcomeWoRds youRthoughts yousaid noRmasmitholson Rituals of thanksgiving great column! Kathymagnuson Each month in the Women’s Press we ask for your thoughts I’d add a book to the shelf [BookShelf, Get to Work!, 9/09 on a topic. For November we asked the question: What have MWP] that’s just out this October: “This is Not How I Thought you learned from Thanksgiving rituals? Here are thoughts It Would Be: Remodeling Motherhood, To Get The Lives We from two MWP readers: Want Today,” by Kristin Maschka. It’s well researched, well written, and very timely. anjali’s turn Monica Gallagher, Lauderdale, Minn. My biggest lesson has been the power of sharing my grati- gotanoPinion? tude publicly with loved ones. Write to editor@womens press.com or send to 771 Raymond For the past few years, I have had the pleasure and honor Ave., St. Paul, MN 55114. Include your name, address and of celebrating Thanksgiving with both my husband’s and phone number for verification. Letters are assumed to be for my sides of the family. Before the feast begins, we share publication and may be edited for length and clarity. with one another our prayers of gratitude. In 2007, after my husband shared his prayers of thankgsiving, I thought it was my chance to respond. What I didn’t know was that our Coaching Makes a Mastel’s 10-month-old daughter, who was between us, actually was