Sooner Catholic www.soonercatholic.org May 1, 2016 www.archokc.org Go Make Disciples Refl ections for Mom Celebrating the joy, faith and dedication of mothers on Mother’s Day Mothers are their children’s fi rst was not to be on this earth very knit family. instead I was going to go to heav- cheerleaders, their fi rst experi- long. To her, my father was the In my decision to study for the en with God? She told me “that’s ences with love and the guiding one God picked for her and she priesthood, my mother was a great right,” so I said, “OK, I want to be hand that steers men and women held on to that till her infl uence who always a priest!” on their faith journey in service to death 53 years later. encouraged and Through my mother’s love and others. Here are refl ections from The last two supported me. care, I have come to know the love spiritual leaders in the Archdio- years of her When I was of God more fully. On this Moth- cese of Oklahoma City. life, I had the young, my er’s Day, I will offer Mass for my Happy Mother’s Day! privilege to mother mother and for all the mothers of help take used to the world. Sister Barbara Joseph and care of my take my mom Laverne Alice Mungo mother. She brothers Father Don Wolf and mom My mother was a woman of faith, had devel- and sisters A poem: The Picture hope and courage. She became a oped dementia, to Mass every The picture says it all, four kids widow at the young age of 36 and and through it all week. She also en- on a couch – stair-steps; They had dedicated her life to raising six still carried those vir- CNS photo/Nancy Wiechec. couraged me and my had four kids in fi ve years – that children. She never let her own tues of faith, hope and brothers to attend was – us. We were 8 – 7 – 6 and 5. courage. personal feelings get in the way of religious education I don’t remember the day they took She might have forgotten what family values, teaching of our faith classes, and encouraged me to be it – it was a hasty portrait, a snap- she ate for breakfast, but she nev- and showing love. an altar server at my home parish. shot at the end of a Christmas We continued our Catholic edu- er forgot my father, and raising my We also prayed the rosary daily afternoon a little remembrance of cation, our family summers with siblings. as a family. I was 4 years old when the family. my grandparents, and shopping Happy Mother’s Day in Heaven I told my mother that I wanted It’s the faces – my mother looked in the city, as my mother tried to mom. I have always admired the to become a priest. The reason – happy – really happy; and Dad keep our lives as normal as possi- person you were, independent and why, I told her, was because my – he was the moon to her sun – ble. It was then that she took on capable, and a woman who in- friends told me that the “boogie” refl ecting her glow; This was 50 the role of mother and father for spired many. man was going to get me at night. years ago and there wasn’t much us. So, I ran to my mother and asked – a rented house, two bedrooms; As I became older, I realized Father Cristobal De Loera and the big prize was the dining room just how much of a sacrifi ce she mom Yolanda Velasco her if I became a priest, would the stove where we could roast one made for us and how she val- Yolanda De Loera Velasco is the “boogie” man not get me, and that side at a time when we came in ued marriage even though hers daughter of the late Anastacio and Maria Concepcion. She is one of from the cold – Not poverty – it 18 children. She married my fa- was … simplicity. And there would ther Gumaro De Loera Esparza on be more – More life – 2 more kids; April 20. Just recently, my parents More happiness – you should see celebrated their 38th year wedding the picture of him looking at her anniversary, and I had the priv- they took 10 years after the shot ilege of renewing their marriage on the couch; More pain – they vows that day during Mass. both died early. Coming from a large Catholic But – the picture – you should family, my mother learned the see the picture; It froze us and an importance of always putting God eye blink of our world – a moment fi rst in everything. She used to re- when we could forget – the rest of peat over and over that we cannot the world; So now we can remem- buy “dignity” at the store. That our ber – there was another world dignity was a gift from God that once. When a man and a woman needed to be protected and appre- could be happy with what they ciated. had brought to the world. And I am blessed to have both of my could be happiest – that they had parents here in Oklahoma City. given such a gift by giving the hid- They have provided my brothers den promise you could see – in the and sisters and me with a close- picture. – Jan. 16, 2013 Catholic Charities helps answer family’s prayer After applying to be adoptive par- Then one night, Isaiah told his The birth parents were young and ents through Catholic Charities in Oc- mother, “Momma, I not have a baby unprepared to nurture a baby. They tober 2014, Daniel and Brooke were sister. I have a baby brother.” Aston- chose to place the child for adoption hopeful the call would come soon. The ished, Brooke replied, “OK. But we through Catholic Charities and were couple, who had been unable to have will take whatever God gives us.” The looking for a family who would raise a second child, were ready to share conversation continued the next two their son with values similar to their their love with a new family member. nights, as Isaiah again insisted he own. Catholic Charities helped match Every night they would join their would have a baby brother. them with Brooke and Daniel, and son, Isaiah, in praying for God to Brooke, wishing she too could have a meeting was set between the two bless their family with a new baby. the faith of a child, was still unsure families. As Isaiah grew, he began leading the what to think of this recent develop- “We both had an overwhelming feel prayer, each time asking for a baby ment. Then, on a Wednesday evening ing of love and gratitude for the birth sister. “We will take whatever God in March, they received a call inform- parents who chose to gift our son, gives us,” replied his parents, patient- ing them a baby boy soon would be Connor, to us,” Brooke said. “We ly. available for adoption. continued on page 3 2 May 1, 2016 Sooner Catholic Sooner Catholic Local May 1, 2016 3

Put Out Into the Deep Luke 5:4 Find more 2016 Priest Assignments “The priesthood is the love of the heart of Jesus” news on the Effective June 28 As we look forward to ordinations in the weeks themselves as Chris- website ahead, I have been refl ecting on the gift and mys- tians. Christians, tery of the priesthood. I am grateful for each of our including priests, are By Sooner Catholic Staff Pastor Special Assignment priests. They are as varied in their gifts, talents and being maligned and backgrounds as one could possibly imagine! The even martyred for their Additional coverage of common denominator in such a diverse group of men witness to Christ. Church and archdiocesan is simply that we are priests of Jesus Christ. I invite you to pray news and events, only on Saint John Vianney (1786-1859), known as the for your priests each www.soonercatholic.org: Curé of Ars, is the patron saint of priests. At fi rst day and to show them glance he would have seemed an unlikely candidate your appreciation and to have had that distinction bestowed on him. He support for their lifelong Archbishop Paul S. Coakley  The fi fth annual St. Greg- came from an obscure village in France. He was not commitment of service to ory’s Abbey golf tournament will be Monday, June 20, at Fr. Timothy Ruckel Fr. Brian E. Buettner distinguished by great learning. His poor performance Christ and to his Church. St. Ann, Elgin Director of Vocations in seminary almost prevented his ordination. He was We priests are ordinary men with an extraordinary Lincoln Park Golf Course, (Mother of Sorrow, (Full-Time); In resi- not particularly dynamic, nor evidently much of an mission. We hold this treasure in “earthen vessels.” West Course, 4001 N.E. Apache, and Our dence at The Cathe- administrator. But what distinguished him was his We may disappoint you at times. We may frustrate Grand Blvd., OKC. Proceeds Lady of Perpetual dral of Our Lady of goodness. you at times. But, rather than tear us down by gossip support ongoing education Help, Sterling) Perpetual Help, OKC Through his humility, holiness and apostolic zeal, and criticism, pray for us, encourage us. Like you, we and health care of monks. he transformed his parish and drew tens of thou- are disciples on a journey. Register by May 15 online sands of people to Christ. He was a kind pastor and Even we ourselves often fail to adequately appreci- at www.monksok.org or Associate Pastor patient teacher who cared for the poor. He loved ate the gift we have contact Danielle Roberts at the Mass and celebrated it faithfully and reverently. been given as priests (405) 878-5656. But, it was especially through the confessional that of Jesus Christ. In Download the archdiocese’s he touched hearts and became a channel of divine spite of our weakness cell phone app Join Michael Zink June mercy and healing. People fl ocked to him from all and unworthiness, 14-16 on trip to Bran- over France to confess and be absolved from their however, the truest Access daily readings, dig- son, Mo., to see the play sins. He spent upwards of 15 hours each day in the description of the ital rosary, parish map and “Moses.” Included in the confessional! His extraordinary endurance was itself priesthood comes more with the Archdiocese of trip will be a performance evidence of the grace and power of Christ at work in from the lips of Saint Oklahoma City’s new app. by the Blackwoods and his life. Saint John Paul II referred to the Curé of Ars John Vianney, who Download the app in the as “the prisoner of the confessional.” exclaimed: “The App Store or Google Play. evening dinner cruise on Fr. John Paul Lewis Fr. Christopher T. Fr. John J. Mejía Munoz Fr. Cristobal De Loera Saint John Vianney, in his catechism lessons on priesthood is the love the Branson Belle. Three St. Charles Borromeo, Brashears St. Eugene, OKC St. James the Greater, the priesthood, taught his parishioners, “The priest of the heart of days, two nights, $389. OKC St. Eugene, OKC (with assistance at OKC (while remain- is not a priest for himself; he does not give himself Jesus.” Contact (405) 314-4120, St. Monica, Edmond) ing chaplain of Mt. St. Mary High School) absolution; he does not administer the sacraments to [email protected]. himself. He is not for himself, he is for you!” Every priest is ordained for service, to build up the Body of Christ. Without priests there can be no Eu- charist, without the Eucharist there is no Church or mission. The priest is a man for others. Such is our high calling. Admittedly, we don’t always live up to that high calling. We would be the fi rst to admit it. None of us is without sin. Without minimizing the failings and harm that has been done by some priests, we ought to recognize that Christ’s Enemy, the Evil One, wish- Catholic Charities adoption es nothing more than to bring discredit and dishonor @archokc to the priesthood. continued from page 1 often about their emotional well-being and coor- The Curé of Ars, who lived in an age that was very truly had so much in common and wanted the dinating services to help expedite the adoption Archdiocese of hostile to religion and the Church, wrote: “When same things for him. We knew this was part of proceedings. When Connor was born, he was Oklahoma City people wish to destroy religion, they begin by attack- God’s plan.” quickly moved to the Neo-natal Intensive Care Jewel McCorkle, Catholic Char- Unit (NICU). Catholic Charities ing the priests because where there is no longer any Arquidiócesis de ities’ Adoption and Pregnancy was there for both families. priest there is no sacrifi ce, and where there is no Oklahoma City longer any sacrifi ce there is no religion.” Services director, agreed. Catholic Charities Adoption Now that Connor is home with The Church in our age is undergoing similar trials. “The entire process happened and Pregnancy Services his adoptive family, Catholic Christians around the world are being persecuted far more quickly than is typical. Catholic Charities’ Adoption Charities continues to follow up simply because they believe in Jesus and identify In fact, all the pieces fell together and Pregnancy Services pro- with both couples to ensure they so seamlessly, which is unique,” vides ethical, pressure-free have the support they need. For McCorkle said. “This was truly and licensed infant adop- the birth parents, Catholic Char- Archbishop Coakley’s Calendar tions. The program provides a reminder God is present and ities provides updates about the support and counseling to The following events are part of Archbishop Coakley’s offi cial calendar. active in everything we invite Him birth and adoptive parents child’s well-being and facilitates May 1 – Confi rmation, 11 a.m., Corpus Christi, Oklahoma City into. The family and the agency throughout the pregnan- a letter exchange between the May 3 – Mass, 11:30 a.m., Saint Francis de Sales Chapel, Catholic Pastoral Center staff surrendered to God’s perfect cy and adoption process. families. Catholic Charities serves all, regardless of race, May 4 – Dinner and discussion with students, 7 p.m., Saint Thomas More, Norman will allowing as perfect of an expe- Women in crisis pregnancy McCorkle looks forward to the religion or national origin through its mission May 5 – Mount St. Mary Corporation meeting, 9 a.m., Mount St. Mary High School rience for both families’ involved, also can access counseling next opportunity to join families to provide help and hope through the Catholic May 5 – Groundbreaking for new building, 1:30 p.m., Mount St. Mary High School as one might imagine.” and other case management in adoption. “We are always in tradition of service. Headquartered in Oklahoma May 6 – Continuing Education Committee meeting, 1 p.m., CPC Catholic Charities helps services. (405) 523-3012 need of more families who have a City, with regional service locations in Ardmore, www.ccaokc.org/Adoption- May 6 – Confi rmation, 7 p.m., Sacred Heart, Oklahoma City Clinton, Enid, Guymon and Lawton and programs  guide and support both families Pregnancy. call for adoption on their hearts. May 7 – Pastoral Ministry graduation, 10 a.m., Saint Francis de Sales Chapel, CPC throughout the process, arrang- Basic requirements can be found in Norman and Midwest City, Catholic Charities May 7 – Confi rmation, 5 p.m., Saint Monica, Edmond O almighty and eternal God, Lord ing for prenatal care, inquiring on our website.” serves more than 13,000 Oklahomans annually. May 8 – 50th Anniversary Mass and celebration for Bishop Edward J. Slattery, 2:30 p.m., Holy Family of both the living and the dead, Your tender mercy embraces all men Cathedral, Tulsa foreknown to be Yours by faith and May 10 – Department directors meeting, 10 a.m., CPC a good life. Through the intercession St. Gregory’s to host Hands of Mercy photo exhibit May 10 – Finance Council meeting, 2 p.m., CPC of the Most Blessed Virgin Mary our SHAWNEE – The Hands of Mercy photogra- the Sooner Catholic, tasked students in her mercy photographically,” Bragg said. “They are May 10 – Confi rmation, 7 p.m., Our Lady of Victory, Purcell Mother, and of all the saints, grant phy exhibit is on display in Benedictine Hall at documentary and commercial photography excited to reveal their images to the Saint Greg- May 11 – Confi rmation, 6:30 p.m., Sacred Heart, Alva Your merciful pardon to all mothers for whom we pray, whether they still Saint Gregory’s University. classes to refl ect upon the Corporal Works of ory’s community.” May 12 - Mass, 11:30 a.m., Saint Francis de Sales Chapel, CPC are living in this world or have de- The Hands of Mercy exhibit is part of the Mercy, and to learn more about the Year of The photographs are on display on the third May 12 – CRS Governance & Nominations Committee teleconference, 1 p.m. parted from this fl esh into the world Year of Mercy Symposium Series, which was Mercy. Through their photographs, students fl oor of Benedictine Hall. The exhibit is free and May 13 – Confi rmation, 7 p.m., Little Flower, Oklahoma City to come. Especially, dear Lord, grant created in observance of Pope Francis’ Extraor- were asked to answer the question, “How do open to the public. May 14 – Confi rmation, 5 p.m., Saint Charles Borromeo, Oklahoma City the requests I now make of You for dinary Jubilee Year of Mercy. hands show mercy?” Contact Theresa Bragg at tabragg@stgrego- May 15 – Confi rmation, 10 a.m., The Cathedral of Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Oklahoma City my own beloved mother. Amen. Theresa Bragg, a freelance photographer for “The students did a beautiful job illustrating rys.edu. 4 May 1, 2016 Commentary Sooner Catholic Sooner Catholic Commentary May 1, 2016 5 Recovering our “muchness” The Catholic Difference A few years ago, I delighted in battle to win! But, you’ve lost your The best Nuncio we’ve had thus far the movie “Alice in Wonderland,” confi dence, your courage, your The announcement that Arch- where the vitality was in American starring Johnny Depp as the Mad ‘muchness.’ Something is miss- bishop Christoph Pierre will Catholicism, and he knew that this Carole Brown Hatter and Helena Bonham Carter ing.” Something in the heart. succeed Archbishop Carlo Maria vitality had to do with the strength Director of New as the Red Queen. I was struck by An aggressively secular culture Viganò as Apostolic Nuncio to the of faith in those living parts of the George Weigel Evangelization a number of poignant lines in the is, in a sense, the rabbit hole in United States is an opportunity Church. Ethics and Public movie that occasionally revisit my which each of us has landed by to pay tribute to a courageous He knew that Catholic Lite Policy Center memory. After Alice fell down the being born in this time, and bap- churchman who has served Ca- wasn’t going to advance the New Most Reverend rabbit hole, it slowly became ap- tized Catholic. The culture sends tholicism, Pope Benedict XVI and Evangelization, and he quickly Paul S. Coakley parent that she was entrusted with puzzling signals that are diffi cult ing extended in time by means of Pope Francis in an exemplary way grasped that the great project of a mission – a mission that appar- to decipher, and there is a sense of Archbishop of Oklahoma City the Church through the power of during his tenure in Washington. converting a wounded culture in Rome between Pope Francis and ently had been aborted in previous something evil in the atmosphere Publisher the Holy Spirit. “Remain in me, I’ve had the pleasure of knowing America was being threatened by President Obama, where POTUS versions of her nightmare. that can intimidate us into silence, and I in you,” he once said. “With- and working with each of the Nun- an unprecedented assault on the got the message that the Bishop of Upon arriving in Wonderland, and tempt us to try to just “blend out me, you can do nothing.” cios in Washington, since full dip- Church’s capacity to be itself. And, Rome was deeply concerned about Diane Clay she learned that she was expect- in.” “Greater is he who is in us, than lomatic relations were established he knew that the threat came, not the pressures being put on his Editor ed to be the champion who would But, we too have a destiny to he who is in the world,” Saint Paul between this country and the Holy from old-fashioned nativist bigots fl ock in the United States. slay the Jabberwocky dragon fulfi ll, a mission to accomplish, a See under President Reagan and of Protestant persuasion, but from once wrote. There is no need to be The wonderful reception that with the enchanted sword and sword to wield. We can’t conquer Pope John Paul II. And, at the risk militant secularists allied with the Brianna Osborne intimidated by our culture. But, Pope Francis received in the break the power of the wicked Red a culture of death without a deep of embarrassing him, I have to say federal government. Managing Editor if Jesus Christ is not really in us, United States last September was Queen. However, the reluctant sense of our “muchness” as Cath- that I consider Archbishop Viganò Thus, there was complete agree- olics. That muchness consists of not really at the center, then we due to many factors; Archbishop champion loses her nerve, not to have been the best of them all ment between the papal repre- the true love of Jesus Christ in lack the muchness required to Viganò was surely one of them. only refusing, but declaring that thus far. sentative in Washington and the the heart, as the very center of our conquer. We are, for all intents As for the idiotic caterwauling in Volume 38, Number 9 she could not slay the dragon, not He came to Washington under leadership of the U.S. Conference lives, directing all that we do; it and purposes, rendered ineffective, some quarters about the Pope’s even if she wanted to. At one point, what some in the Vatican thought Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano, ap- of Catholic Bishops on the imper- consists in being nourished by his fruitless, inconsequential. spending a few minutes with for- Sooner Catholic Newspaper the Mad Hatter becomes disgusted was a cloud. The truth of the mat- ostolic nuncio to the United States, is ative of defending religious free- words and his sacraments, and Do you know where your much- mer Kentucky offi cial Kim Davis, 7501 Northwest Expressway with Alice’s paralysis. ter is that this scrupulously hon- seen addressing the congregation at St. dom in full, and on challenging an entrusting ourselves to his teach- ness is? Agnes Cathedral in Rockville Centre, let’s be clear that Kim Davis’s She who once believed impos- est man had seen fi nancial corrup- administration that seemed deter- Oklahoma City, OK 73132 N.Y., in 2012. Pope Francis April 12 presence in the Nunciature was sible things, was now beset by tion in the Holy See and tried to do mine to reduce that fi rst freedom (405) 721-1810 appointed Archbishop Christophe Pierre, cleared by Archbishop Viganò’s self-doubt, and disinclined to en- something about it – a task now to a lifestyle choice about weekend Fax: (405) 721-5210 papal nuncio to Mexico since 2007, to be superiors, Archbishop Giovanni gage in the battle. “You’re not the being pursued with vigor by Pope the new apostolic nuncio to the United leisure activities. Becciu and Archbishop Paul Gal- E-mail: [email protected] same as you were before,” he said. Francis and Cardinal George Pell. States. He succeeds Archbishop Vigano, The archbishop understood that lagher. The obsession in certain Mailing Address: “You were much more ... muchi- But, in the last years of Benedict 75, who is retiring. CNS photo/Gregory there was no honorable retreat quarters with this episode, which P.O. Box 32180 er. ... you’ve lost your muchness. XVI, things were not in good shape A. Shemitz, Long Island Catholic. from what some deplored as was front-loaded in far too many Oklahoma City, OK 73123 In there,” he said, pointing to her managerially in the Vatican; Vi- “culture wars.” He knew who had stories about Archbishop Pierre’s heart, “something’s missing.” That ganò’s honesty was resented and, declared war on whom; that the Viganò understood this moment in appointment, says far more about little pep talk was a turning point I expect, feared by lesser men; and Church had not been the aggres- Visit us online at U.S. Catholic history as perhaps the passions of the obsessed than for Alice, drawing her out of her the Washington appointment was sor in this struggle; and that the www.soonercatholic.org few other career Vatican diplomats it does about Archbishop Viganò. inertia to fulfi ll her mission. arranged to give what amounted battle had to be engaged, with the could have. Carlo Maria Viganò may I was refl ecting on this scene re- to a sacking the appearance of a tools of reason and persuasion, for He appreciated the many be 75, but a man of his faith and Visit the archdiocesan website cently for no special reason when promotion. the sake of all religious commu- strengths of the Church in the integrity still has much to give the at www.archokc.org it occurred to me that this scene It was a completely one-sided nities and indeed for the sake of United States, including the evan- Church. The further reform of the is somewhat analogous to what trade: those who exiled Viganò American democracy. from the Vatican lost, badly, and gelically-centered reconstruction His support for the bishops was Roman Curia would be well-served the last several popes have been The Sooner Catholic the Church in the United States of the hierarchy by John Paul II crucial and effective as was his if he were drawn into it, offi cially saying when calling the Church (USPS 066-910) is published won, handsomely. For Carlo Maria and Benedict XVI. He understood work in preparing the meeting in or unoffi cially. to a new evangelization. “Church, Mia Wasikowska stars in a scene from the movie “Alice in Wonderland.” biweekly except for once in July you have a mission to fulfi ll, a CNS photo/Disney. and twice in December by the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City. Encounter with God’s Call at Conception Seminary A Morning of Mercy: By Rev. Stephen V. Hamilton This year The newspaper is not responsible Vocations Director the retreat for unsolicited material. Women Living in the Heart of the Lord coincided with The Vocations Offi ce of the Archdiocese of Okla- the World Day Copyright © 2016 Sooner Catholic homa City attended the Encounter with God’s Call A retreat for women of all ages with Sister Mary Diana Dreger, OP of Prayer for retreat at Conception Seminary in Missouri from Vocations. To Subscription rate: $20 per year Sister Mary Diana Dreger, OP, MD is a member of the Dominican Sisters April 16-18. The weekend retreat is for young men of the CongregaƟon of Saint Cecilia of Nashville, Tenn. for over 25 years. observe this She is a physician who prac ces internal medicine with the Holy Family considering their vocation and the possibility of for all who are not members of the Ɵ event, the sem- Health Center. Sister Mary Diana has become proĮcient in Spanish in the priesthood. The retreat is directed by the semi- Archdiocese of Oklahoma City. order to serve the largely Hispanic populaƟon of the clinic, where the inary organized narians at the Periodical postage paid at staī, providers and students are all bilingual. She was a high school edu- a Eucharistic cator before entering her religious community. She has a Master of Arts seminary, where Oklahoma City, OK 73125. Procession in mathemaƟcs and is compleƟng a Master of Arts in moral theology. our own college Encounter with God’s Call Sister Mary Diana is naƟonally known for her work with the Catholic Weekend around the Medical AssociaƟon and frequently gives retreats and conferences relat- seminarians abbey property POSTMASTER: Send address ed to faith, educaƟon, medicine and ethics. study. Fall 2016 www.archokc.org/voca- for all retreat changes to the Sooner Catholic, The seminary tions/home attendees and CNS photo/Michael Alexander, Georgia offers this retreat P.O. Box 32180, Oklahoma City, Bulletin. Saturday, May 14 at the Cathedral of Our Lady of (405) 721-9351 guests. Many OK 73123. Perpetual Help, Oklahoma City twice each year, active Catho- The annual Pentecost Novena in the spring lics have never begins on May 6. All parishes Retreat begins following the 8:30 a.m. Mass: and in the fall. seen a seminary. Photo Diane Clay. encouraged to pray earnestly We had eight young men from around the archdi- Thus, for many for renewal of the Holy Spirit! ocese in attendance. Thanks to the generosity of people a semi- Over the years that I have led this trip, I can say Revised booklets available online 9 a.m. -- Encountering Mercy in the Heart of the Lord Saint Charles Borromeo we were able to use their nary is shrouded in mystery. that every young man has had a very rewarding at www.archokc.org/new-evan- parish bus for transportation. Certainly that is true for most all of the young experience. gelization/odds-and-ends. (presentaƟon) The retreat is designed around witness talks giv- men who attend the trip. The main benefi t of the The group we took to the seminary is a good en by a handful of seminarians and small group retreat is the supernatural grace it offers. But, in sign that Catholics around the archdiocese are 10 a.m. -- Listening to the Lord's Heart refl ection time. There are very moving experiences addition, the retreat fosters a more realistic notion helping to foster a culture where our young people of prayer with the seminarians and the monas- of the seminary and it helps retreatants see that believe that giving time to consider God’s call is (adoraƟon, confession) tic community, which exposes retreatants to the they are not that different from the seminarians. one of the most important tasks of their life. We Liturgy of the Hours. 11 a.m. -- Living in the Heart of the Lord The result is it makes the possibility of seminary call this fostering a “culture of vocations.” There are tours of the seminary and free time seem more real for the young men. It is always in- We all must continue to work to foster this for recreation and sports. Individual prayer time, The Sooner Catholic (fellowship and Įnal discussion) teresting to watch the preconceived notions about culture in all levels of life in the archdiocese. Make is supported through the confession and Holy Mass are all part of the many seminary and seminarians tumble as the young sure that prayer for our seminarians and discus- Archdiocesan Development Fund. For more informaƟon, contact: srmariaoŌ[email protected] ways this retreat fosters an encounter with God’s men on the retreat experience a place of great sion about vocations is a frequent topic with your call. joy, satisfaction, fun, prayer, grace and peace. children! 6 May 1, 2016 Local Sooner Catholic Sooner Catholic Local May 1, 2016 7 Sharing the saving grace of Jesus Christ “We remember, we celebrate, we continue” Oklahoma Catholic Women’s Conference held April 16 Church administrators converge in OKC for national conference By J.E. Helm At the conclu- By Judy Hilovsky the risen Christ gives us the courage and the For the Sooner Catholic sion of Mass, the For the Sooner Catholic strength to recognize that what we have is not for our own good but the good of others.” On a bright and sunny Saturday, some 350 Blessed Sacra- The theme for the 45th anniversary of the Monday morning prayer was led by Father Catholic women came together at the Reed ment was taken National Association of Church Personnel Richard Stansberry, accompanied by the Christ Center in Midwest City for the annual Oklaho- in procession to Administrators, held April 17-19 in down- the King School choir. Morning prayer on Tues- ma Catholic Women’s Conference. a room reserved town Oklahoma City, was “We Remember. We day was supplemented by Saint John Nepomuk The day began with Mass at 8 a.m. celebrated as a chapel for Celebrate. We Continue.” The Archdiocese of School choir. There were three plenary sessions by Archbishop Paul Coakley and concelebrated Eucharistic ado- Oklahoma City played a signifi cant role in the and 20 breakout sessions, providing topics for by Father Andrew Apostoli, one of the confer- ration through- conference both prior to and during the event. out the day. everyone. ence’s featured speakers. Well known favorite Sunday night’s Mass was offi ciated by Father Saturday’s Sister Mary Angela Shaughnessy, S.C.N., Sister Veronica and cantor Jill Stroman provid- William Novak, vicar general for the archdio- fi rst speaker was spoke on “Employing a Gospel-Based Model to ed the music. Knights of Columbus led the en- cese, and was complemented by Rosary School Father Andrew Address Hot Button Topics,” which included trance processional as all stood to sing “Christ choir. Choirs from the Catholic schools of the archdiocese Apostoli, C.F.R., performed at the conference. Pictured is the Christ the adherence to church doctrine, same-sex mar- Be My Light.” With more than 150 members attending, a founding mem- King choir. Photo Cara Koenig. riage, substance abuse, pornography, contracts Archbishop Coakley’s homily focused on the Father Novak, using Good Shepherd Sunday’s ber of the Fran- in church employment and more. Gospel reading for the day, John 6: 60-69, in Gospel, spoke about how the struggles the schedule of meetings and appointments. But, ciscan Friars “Impact of HR: Promoting Success in an In- which Christ proclaims that he is “the living apostles faced in their day is not that much we do know from scared scripture that they of the Renewal, creasingly Challenging Work Environment” was bread come down from heaven.” different than the struggles we as Christians had their own diffi culties. They were not always an author, and addressed by Theresa Ridderhoff, executive Archbishop Coakley noted that some who face today. welcomed, they were persecuted and had dis- a featured host director of human resources at the U.S. Con- heard Christ say this found it “hard” to accept, “Faith without works is dead. If we don’t putes and disagreement among themselves. on Eternal Word ference of Catholic Bishops. She talked about and many left following Christ and returned to live our faith, we will lose our faith,” Father “Though the contexts of our work has Television Net- learning to speak the lingo of leadership, how their former way of life. He said “it is not easy Novak said. “As Church administrators we all changed since then and the tools we use are work (EWTN). to recognize how HR decisions impact the bot- to follow the Lord,” as the Gospel reminds us. can relate to the apostles, who struggled and very different, the source of their inspiration Father’s talk Archbishop Coakley celebrates Mass with Fr. Andrew Apostoli, C.F.R., at the Women’s Con- tom line and demonstrate HR’s strategic value. Continuing with John’s narrative, Archbishop met opposition. Of course, they never had to and ours are exactly the same. The Lord re- focused on ference. Photo Joanne Cromer. The fi nal plenary, given by Dina Dwyer-Ow- Coakley said “Christ truly means to give him- worry about performance reviews or plans of mains the same. What motivated them through Bishop Fulton ens, co-chairwoman of the Dwyer Group and self to us, on the cross and every time he gives improvement. They didn’t have pastoral plans; every obstacle and diffi culty is what motivates J. Sheen. Fa- The 2 p.m. speaker was Marie Bellet, a sing- featured on CBS’ hit reality series “Undercov- himself to us” strategist plans or evacuation plans. And, I us as we continue to proclaim that Jesus ther Apostoli was ordained by Bishop Sheen er-songwriter and mother of nine. Bellet has re- er Boss,” spoke on “Living Your Faith in the in the Eucha- am almost positive they didn’t have an endless Christ has risen from the dead. Our faith in and was the vice-postulator for the cause for corded six albums. Her talk was titled “Trans- Marketplace,” and had the attendees laughing, rist. canonization for Bishop Sheen, who during formation through Irritation,” and she spoke nodding and lining up for book signing at the He urged the 1950s drew a TV audience of 25-30 mil- about women giving of themselves through conclusion. Dwyer-Owens spoke about her all to “pray marriage as transformation. lion viewers each Tuesday evening. In addition family principles and how they have translated to accept all The fi nal address for the day was delivered by to his TV and radio ministry, Sheen wrote 65 into success. She said she wakes up, counts the teach- Father Apostoli, who this time spoke about Our books and, Father said, “he communicated the her blessing, spends breakfast with her family ings of the Lady of Fatima. Father is considered a leading word [of God] in a very powerful way.” and goes to morning Mass. She said, “I need to Church,” not authority on Fatima, and he offered Our Lady’s Bishop Sheen practiced one hour of Eu- be fed, it’s the best thing for me.” to be cafeteria Fatima message as a means of personal sancti- charistic adoration every day, beginning as a She encourages faith in the workplace by Catholics. He fi cation and world redemption. young man. using a code of values, which include listening pointed to the Dianne Klimo of Saint John in Edmond The second speaker was Lisa Hendey, author with the intent to understand what is be- example of summed up the sentiment of most of those and founder of CatholicMom.com, who has ap- ing said, responding in a timely fashion, and Lisa Hendey spoke on the New those Chris- peared on EWTN and Catholic radio. She spoke attending the conference, saying it was “a won- speaking calmly and respectfully without pro- Evangelization. Photo J.E. Helm. tians in the on the “Women’s Role in the New Evangeliza- derful opportunity to learn more and to share fanity and sarcasm. Additionally, acknowledg- Middle East tion.” She reminded the audience that all are with other Catholic women.” ing everyone is right from their own perspective and Africa today “who are tortured and mar- “saints in the making,” and that “our Church Conference participants donated items for and always communicating honestly and with tyred for their belief in Christ.” needs us.” the Sanctuary Women’s Development Center purpose are fundamental principles, she told The archbishop concluded by saying that we During the mid-day break, nine priests heard including travel sized soaps and shampoos, the group. all “should pray for the grace to be faithful” and confessions in the main ballroom. The after- baby supplies, and gift cards for food and gas. The weekend concluded with the NACPA that through us, others “will come to believe in noon session opened with the recitation of the The next Oklahoma Catholic Women’s Con- banquet where three awards were given and the saving truth of the grace of Jesus Christ.” rosary and the Chaplet of Divine Mercy. ference is March 25, 2017. attendees listened to the Bishop McGuinness Catholic High School string ensemble in a room The principals of the Oklahoma City Catholic schools with Diane Floyd, associate superintendent (left) and Cris decorated by the Saint Charles Borromeo con- Women of Achievement honored at Mass Carter, superintendent (right). Photo Cara Koenig. fi rmation class. The Central Region of the Archdiocesan Council of Catholic Women honored the 2016 Women of Achievement on May 9 with Mass and a luncheon, hosted at St. Eugene in Oklahoma City. Archbishop Coakley celebrated the Mass. Fr. Oswalt provides blessing for bombing anniversary ceremony The following women were nominated: Almighty and ever-living God, and all is made right and just. Patricia Foster, The Cathedral of Our Lady of Perpetual Help; Mary Menden- we come to you this day, with In this hour, eternal Father, hall-Heinen, Catholic Women’s Activity Club; Carolyn Chessmore, Court Lady hearts full of emotion as we recall come and abide with us, be pres- of Fatima #1831; Judy Larzalere, Epiphany of the Lord; Tita Little, Our Lady of the events of 21 years ago, which ent to us, and make our hearts, Sorrows, Chandler; Anne King, St. Charles Borromeo; Madalene Corsoro, St. Eugene; Ann Fent, St. Francis of Assisi; Barbara Blattler, St. James the Greater; not only changed our city, but the which still ache with the loss of Caterina DeNegri, St. John Nepomuk; Jennifer Cox, St. John the Baptist; Ann nation and world as well. life, still have the pain of sorrow, Hale, St. Joseph, Norman; Jenny Schieber, St. Joseph, Union City; Melinda Her- We remember with heart-felt love and still have the challenges of man, St. Philip Neri; Tracy Hartley, St. Teresa of Avila, Harrah. and devotion, the victims who lost this tragic event be made whole. Photos Cara Koenig. their lives on this sacred ground May our remembrance this day, and the lives that were changed be a means of honoring those who forever. went before, acknowledging those We remember with fondness all who bravely served, and help us those who helped to restore and who remain, to comfort one an- rebuild after that fateful morning, other with the assurances of hope, which was fi lled with hope and until we are united with our loved beauty that tragically turned dark. ones and with you, the eternal Today, with resolute hearts and God, who reigns supreme, as the minds, we come before you asking God of peace abiding in your glory. for your blessing. We ask these things, in the Send forth the power of your terrorism in all forms – be they divine son, the world may truly name of Him who is peace, Jesus Holy Spirit to lead and to guide homegrown or international – may know the peace He came to bring, Christ, who lives and reigns with this great city and state, that with be laid to rest; that mankind may and in doing so, may love one an- you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, resolve in our hearts, we may work truly work for peace and harmony other as brothers and sisters and one God, forever and ever. Amen. to end all violence in our society, amongst all peoples; that moti- work to establish your kingdom on Rev. M. Price Oswalt, pastor, in our lives and in our world, that vated by the blessedness of your earth, until the day of days dawns Saint Joseph’s Old Cathedral 8 May 1, 2016 Across the Archdiocese Sooner Catholic Sooner Catholic Across the Archdiocese May 1, 2016 9 Archbishop celebrates Mass at The Mount Archdiocesan Spelling Bee

First and second grade winners: Third and fourth grade winners: 4 way tie for fi rst place 1st place – Kim Doan – All Saints 1st place – Ana Carmina – All Saints 2nd place – Lucas Leeds – Bishop John Carroll 1st place – Jocelyn Hoang – All Saints 3rd place – Kayla Ketelsleger – St. Elizabeth Ann Seton 1st place – Erin Elpedes – St. Philip Neri 4th place – Adrienne Hill – St. Eugene 1st place – Zachary Lambertz – St. Elizabeth Ann Seton 5th place – Henry McIlvain – Holy Trinity 2nd place – Thansi Garikipati – St. Elizabeth Ann Seton

Photos Fr. Cristobal De Loera.

Fifth and sixth grade winners: 2 way tie for fi rst place Seventh and eighth grade winners: 1st place – Rory Sebastian – Christ the King 1st place – Sam Kolar – All Saints. Sam has won 7 years in a row! 1st place – Thomas Doan – All Saints 2nd place – Izzy Farley – Rosary Scouts honored at awards Mass 2nd place – Jenna Chan – Bishop John Carroll 3rd place – Caitlin Le – Rosary 3rd place – Nithin Reddy – Saint Mary, Lawton 4th place – Rafael Zapata – St. Elizabeth Ann Seton 4th place – Taryn Ward – St. Mary, Guthrie 5th place – Deborah Agorua – Christ the King Good Shepherd Sprint The inaugural Good Shepherd School Sprint took place at the Catholic Grade School Athletic Association’s annual track meet April 9, held at Bishop McGuinness Catholic High School. At right, Elijah Robles of St. Mary Catholic School in Guthrie is pictured in the wheelchair. Far right, Rob Medley holds up his blue ribbon for completing the sprint with helper Brook Tarman, BMHS varsity track member. Good Shepherd Catholic School at Mercy was established to create a school for children with special needs that was based in the most effective practic- es available to build communication, social skills, and academ- ic success. Photos Robert Medley.

86 Scout and Campfi re youth earned religious awards this year. Archbishop Coakley celebrated a Mass with the youth on April 10. Photos Cara Koenig.

Formation course for youth leaders The archdiocesan Youth & Young Former Rosary School sister returns after 58 years Sr. Mary Ellen, O.P. Adult offi ce, in collaboration with the Institute of FE y VIDA, graduated the (left), returned to Rosary School on April 6. While in Oklahoma, Sister met fi rst class of Oklahoma Hispanic Youth Leaders. The course encourages Archbishop Coakley, visited her former classroom and her former residence leadership in the Church and in society. at the Meerschaert House, attended Mass with the children at St. Francis, met with as many as 40 former students, and toured OKC. 10 May 1, 2016 International Sooner Catholic Sooner Catholic Camp OLOG May 1, 2016 11 Words and deeds can’t be separated, pope tells new priests OLOG camp scholarship recipients named By Carol Glatz “Without the cross you will never fi nd the true Summer Camp Scholarships began attending camp while in ju- Catholic News Service Jesus. And, a cross without Christ has no to attend Our Lady of Guadalupe nior high school. The next summer VATICAN CITY – What you say and how you meaning.” Catholic Youth Camp were award- when he was age 15, he applied for live always go hand in hand, building up the In administering the sacraments, especially ed to seven Catholic youth in the the camp staff and was hired as a Church and the people of God, Pope Francis the sacrament of penance, show mercy, he told archdiocese. kitchen assistant. Although his life told new priests. them. “Please, in the name of Jesus Christ, the Receiving the scholarship ended too soon, the scholarship “Therefore, may your doctrine be nourish- Lord, and in the name of the church, I asked awards are: in Jake Meier’s memory serves as you to be merciful, very merciful.” ment to the people of God, joy and supporting  Esmeralda Anguiano, Holy a reminder of a talented, loving He reminded the men that they were called those faithful to Christ (be) the fragrance of Cross, Madill; and caring young man whose faith by Jesus to continue his mission as teacher, your life, because the word and example go  Leonardo Espinosa, Saint guided him in the right direction. priest and shepherd, and to serve the Church together,” he said. James the Greater, OKC; This is the fi rst year the fund was and the people of God. “Word and example edify the house of God,  Adrian Hernandez, Saint Peter able to award two and a half schol- “Always have in front of your eyes the exam- the Apostle, Guymon; arships. which is the Church,” he said in his homily on ple of the Good Shepherd, who didn’t come to  Michael Martinez, Saint Peter The Robert A. Streets Family the World Day of Prayer for Vocations. be served, but to serve and to look for and save Pope Francis greets a new priest during the ordination the Apostle, Guymon; Endowment for Our Lady of Gua- Celebrating Mass in Saint Peter’s Basilica, those who were lost,” he said. Mass of 11 priests in St. Peter’s Basilica at the Vatican  Carlos Pacheco, Our Lady of dalupe Youth Camp was estab- Pope Francis ordained 11 new priests; nine Later in the day, the pope told those gathered April 17. Nine were ordained for the Diocese of Rome Victory, Purcell; lished in 2000. This is the fi fth were ordained for the Diocese of Rome and in Saint Peter’s Square for the “Regina Coeli” and two for the Rogationist religious order. CNS photo/  Zachary Penner, Saint Charles year that the fund has awarded a two of the new priests – including one born in prayer that the image of a shepherd with his Paul Haring. Borromeo, OKC; scholarship to a camper. Streets Baghdad – belong to the Rogationist religious fl ock “shows the close relationship that Jesus  Angel Velasco, Our Lady of was enthusiastic about helping to order. wants to establish with each one of us.” power his love,” he said. “Jesus’ love is invinci- Victory, Purcell. make sure all Catholic youth in In his homily, the pope urged the men to “He is our guide, our teacher, our friend, our ble.” Anguiano and Velasco will each the archdiocese had the camping read, refl ect on and teach the word of God and role model, but above all, he is our Savior,” the While the devil and his minions try all sorts receive a Jacob Meier Memorial experience. to be a living example of what they preach. pope said. of ways to tear this promise of eternal life away Endowment Fund Scholarship. The Catholic Foundation Direc- He asked that they imitate Jesus in their Christ has saved humanity and “nothing and from people, “the evil one cannot do anything Penner will receive a jointly funded tor’s Fund provided three and a lives, including “carrying Christ’s death” in- nobody will be able to wrench us from Jesus’ unless we open the doors of our soul to him, scholarship from the Jacob Meier half scholarships. side of them and walking with him in new life. hands because nothing and no one can over- and follow his deceptive enticements,” he said. Fund and the Catholic Foundation “The foundation believes that it









Director’s Fund. Espinosa will re- is vital for as many Catholic youth
ceive the Robert A. Streets Family in the archdiocese as possible Saint John the Baptist Endowment Fund Scholarship. to be able to attend our Catholic Catholic Church, Edmond Hernandez, Martinez and Pache- summer camp,” said Jerry Kelley, co each will receive the Catholic president of the foundation. “We Invites ALL Men & Women Foundation Director’s Fund schol- would like to offer more scholar- of the Archdiocese to: arships. ships and seek generous donors The Jacob Meier Memorial En- who would build the endowment 33 Days to Morning Glory dowment Fund was established by fund, so that camp scholarships 6-week Retreat family and friends in memory of can be awarded each year.” Jake Meier, a former camper and To establish a scholarship fund arships, send a tax deductible gift or submit online at www.cfook. Summer I - St John’s Great Hall on Thurs counselor at the summer camp at the Catholic foundation or to to the Catholic Foundation, P.O. org. Call (405) 721-4115 for more 7-8:30pm; June 9, June 16, June 23, June who passed away in 2009. Meier contribute funds for camp schol- Box 32180, Oklahoma City 73123 information. 30, July 7, & July 14. Consecrate: July 16 - OR - Summer II - St John’s Great Hall on Mon 7-8:30pm; July 18, July 25, Aug 1, Aug 8, Aug 15, & Aug 22. Consecrate: Aug 22

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Sister Marcella Connolly, O.P. SINSINAWA, Wis. – Sister Marcella Sister Marcella lived Christ’s peace, 1952. Sister Marcel- Connolly, O.P., died April 13 at Saint teaching for 20 years and serving as la served in Illinois, Dominic Villa. Her religious name was principal for 11 years as well as campus Oklahoma, Wisconsin Sister Baptista. The funeral Mass was and pastoral minister for 12 years. She and Minnesota and held in Queen of the Rosary Chapel at spent nine years as a youth minister in Bolivia. Sinsinawa April 19 followed by burial in Cochabamba, Bolivia, and founded the In the Archdio- the Motherhouse Cemetery. Apostolic Volunteer program in 1973, cese of Oklahoma Sister Marcella was born June 18, which is now Dominican Volunteers USA. City, Sister Marcella 1927, in Des Moines, Iowa, the daughter She made her first religious profes- taught at Blessed of John and Marcella (O’Malley) Connol- sion as a Sinsinawa Dominican Aug. 5, Martin, Oklahoma ly. 1949, and her final profession Aug. 5, City, 1951-1955. 12 May 1, 2016 Español Sooner Catholic Sooner Catholic Español May 1, 2016 13 Lánzate a lo más Profundo Luke 5:4 La Misericordia de Dios en “Amoris Laetitia” El bálsamo sanador que no se le puede negar a nadie “El sacerdocio es el amor del corazón de Jesús” Por Pedro A. Moreno, O.P. Evangelio y la invitación a la con- Al mirar hacia las próximas ordenaciones en poder de Cristo que actuaba en su vida. El Papa como cristianos. Director del Ministerio Hispano versión. Pero aun para él puede pocas semanas he estado refl exionando sobre el San Juan Pablo II se refi rió al Cura de Ars como Cristianos, inclu- Continuando con las refl exiones haber alguna manera de participar don y el misterio del sacerdocio. Estoy agrade- “prisionero del confesionario.” yendo sacerdotes, sobre el nuevo documento del en la vida de la comunidad, sea en tareas sociales, en reuniones de cido por cada uno de nuestros sacerdotes. ¡No San Juan María Vianney, en sus catequesis están siendo di- Papa Francisco les quiero ofrecer se pueden imaginar cuan variados son estos sobre el sacerdocio, enseñó a sus feligreses, oración o de la manera que sugiera famados e incluso citas del documento que tratan hombres en sus dones, talentos y trasfondos! El “El sacerdote no es sacerdote para sí mismo; él de la misericordia. Misericordia su propia iniciativa, junto con el martirizados por denominador común en este grupo tan diverso mismo no da la absolución; no administra los es amor inmerecido y ya que el discernimiento del pastor. Acerca su testimonio de de hombres es simplemente que somos sacer- sacramentos para sí mismo. Él no es para sí documento habla sobre el amor del modo de tratar las diversas dotes de Jesucristo. mismo, ¡es para ustedes!” Cristo. más de quinientas veces no era de situaciones llamadas “irregulares”, San Juan María Vianney (1786-1859), cono- Todo sacerdote es ordenado para servicio, Los invito a Arzobispo Pablo S. Coakley extrañar que se hablara mucho de los Padres sinodales alcanzaron cido como el Cura de Ars, es el santo patrón de para edifi car el Cuerpo de Cristo. Sin sacerdotes rezar por sus sa- la misericordia. un consenso general, que sosten- los sacerdotes. A primera vista, habría parecido no puede haber Eucaristía, sin Eucaristía no cerdotes cada día y para mostrarles su aprecio He aquí siete ejemplos de miseri- go: “Respecto a un enfoque pasto- un candidato poco probable para haber recibi- hay Iglesia o misión. El sacerdote es un hombre y apoyo a su compromiso vitalicio y servicial por cordia en este hermoso documen- ral dirigido a las personas que han do esa distinción. Vino de un oscuro pueblo en para los demás. Tal es nuestra alta vocación. Cristo y su Iglesia. to: contraído matrimonio civil, que son divorciados y vueltos a casar, Francia. No se distinguió por un gran apren- Es cierto que no siempre se vive a la altura Nosotros los sacerdotes somos hombres or- 27. Cristo ha introducido como dizaje. Su pobre desempeño en el seminario casi de esa vocación. Nos gustaría ser los primeros o que simplemente conviven, com- dinarios con una misión extraordinaria. Lleva- emblema de sus discípulos sobre impidió su ordenación. No era particularmente en admitirlo. Ninguno de nosotros está libre de todo la ley del amor y del don de pete a la Iglesia revelarles la divina mos este tesoro en vasos de barro. Es posible dinámico, ni, evidentemente, gran administra- pecado. Sin minimizar los defectos y daño que sí a los demás, y lo hizo a través Papa Francisco escucha la confesión el 23 de abril en la Plaza de San Pedro. pedagogía de la gracia en sus vidas defraudar a veces. Es posible frustrar a veces. dor. Pero lo que lo distinguía era su bondad. se han hecho por algunos sacerdotes, debemos de un principio que un padre o Foto CNS/L’Osservatore Romano via Reuters. y ayudarles a alcanzar la plenitud A través de su humildad, santidad y celo reconocer que el enemigo de Cristo, el Maligno, Pero en lugar de que nos derribe por el chisme del designio que Dios tiene para el- una madre suelen testimoniar en mediante el anuncio explícito del de la integración [...] El camino de apostólico, transformó su parroquia y atrajo a desea nada más que traer descredito y deshonra y la crítica, rueguen por nosotros, anímenos. Al su propia existencia: “Nadie tiene Evangelio y el legado de múlti- la Iglesia es el de no condenar a los”, siempre posible con la fuerza decenas de miles de personas a Cristo. Fue pas- al sacerdocio. igual que ustedes somos discípulos en peregri- amor más grande que el que da ples formas de testimonio, entre nadie para siempre y difundir la del Espíritu Santo. tor amable y paciente maestro que se preocupa- El Cura de Ars, que vivía en una época muy nación. la vida por sus amigos”. Fruto del las cuales: la solidaridad con los misericordia de Dios a todas las 311. La enseñanza de la teología ba por los pobres. Amaba la Misa y la celebraba hostil a la religión y la Iglesia, escribió: “Cuan- Incluso nosotros mismos a menudo no apre- amor son también la misericordia pobres, la apertura a la diversidad personas que la piden con cora- moral no debería dejar de incorpo- con fi delidad y con respeto. Pero fue sobre todo do las personas desean destruir la religión, ciamos adecuadamente el don que se nos ha y el perdón. de las personas, la custodia de la zón sincero [...] Porque la caridad rar estas consideraciones, porque, a través del confesionario que tocó los corazones comienzan atacando a los sacerdotes, porque dado como sacerdotes de Jesucristo. A pesar de 49. Si todos tienen difi cultades, creación, la solidaridad moral y verdadera siempre es inmerecida, si bien es verdad que hay que y se convirtió en un canal de la misericordia y la donde ya no hay cura no hay sacrifi cio y, cuan- cuidar la integridad de la enseñan- nuestra debilidad y falta de mérito, sin embar- en un hogar muy pobre se vuelven material hacia las otras familias, incondicional y gratuita”. sanación divina. Las personas acudían a él de do ya no hay sacrifi cio no hay religión”. más duras. Por ejemplo, si una za moral de la Iglesia, siempre se go, la descripción más fi el del sacerdocio viene sobre todo hacia las más necesit- 297. Se trata de integrar a todos, toda Francia a confesar y ser absueltos de sus La Iglesia en nuestra época está siendo mujer debe criar sola a su hijo y debe poner especial cuidado en de los labios de San Juan María Vianney, que adas, el compromiso con la pro- se debe ayudar a cada uno a en- pecados. ¡Pasaba más de quince horas cada día sometida a pruebas similares. Los cristianos de debe trabajar sin la posibilidad moción del bien común, incluso contrar su propia manera de par- destacar y alentar los valores más exclamó: “El sacerdocio es el amor del corazón en el confesionario! Su extraordinaria resisten- todo el mundo están siendo perseguidos sim- de dejarlo con otra persona, el mediante la transformación de ticipar en la comunidad eclesial, altos y centrales del Evangelio, cia era en sí misma evidencia de la gracia y el plemente porque creen en Jesús y se identifi can de Jesús”. niño crece en un abandono que las estructuras sociales injustas, para que se sienta objeto de una particularmente el primado de la lo expone a todo tipo de riesgos, a partir del territorio en el cual la misericordia “inmerecida, incondi- caridad como respuesta a la inicia- y su maduración personal queda familia vive, practicando las obras cional y gratuita”. Nadie puede ser tiva gratuita del amor de Dios. A comprometida. En las difíciles de misericordia corporal y espiri- condenado para siempre, porque veces nos cuesta mucho dar lugar situaciones que viven las personas tual”. esa no es la lógica del Evangelio. en la pastoral al amor incondi- más necesitadas, la Iglesia debe 296. El Sínodo se ha referido a No me refi ero sólo a los divorciados cional de Dios. Ponemos tantas tener un especial cuidado para distintas situaciones de fragilidad en nueva unión sino a todos, en condiciones a la misericordia que comprender, consolar, integrar, o imperfección. Al respecto, quiero cualquier situación en que se en- la vaciamos de sentido concreto evitando imponerles una serie de recordar aquí algo que he querido cuentren. Obviamente, si alguien y de signifi cación real, y esa es la normas como si fueran una roca, plantear con claridad a toda la Ig- ostenta un pecado objetivo como peor manera de licuar el Evange- con lo cual se consigue el efecto lesia para que no equivoquemos el si fuese parte del ideal cristiano, lio. Es verdad, por ejemplo, que la de hacer que se sientan juzgadas camino: “Dos lógicas recorren toda o quiere imponer algo diferente a misericordia no excluye la justicia y abandonadas precisamente por la historia de la Iglesia: marginar y lo que enseña la Iglesia, no puede y la verdad, pero ante todo tene- esa Madre que está llamada a reintegrar [...] El camino de la Igle- pretender dar catequesis o predi- mos que decir que la misericordia acercarles la misericordia de Dios. sia, desde el concilio de Jerusalén car, y en ese sentido hay algo que es la plenitud de la justicia y la 290. “La familia se convierte en adelante, es siempre el camino lo separa de la comunidad. Necesi- manifestación más luminosa de la en sujeto de la acción pastoral de Jesús, el de la misericordia y ta volver a escuchar el anuncio del verdad de Dios.

El papa Francisco se unió a la sede de fotos compartidas Instagram el 19 de mazo usando la cuenta “Franciscus”. Al Un encuentro con Papa Francisco 1 de abril el papa tenía más de 2 millones de seguidores. Por Padre Cristobal De Loera Esta es una imagen de su página. Foto CNS. tías y de sus parroquias, dejando todo en las manos de Dios y hacerse uno con su pueblo, “Dime como rezas y te diré como vives…el y estar con ellos en espera del mensajero de pecado más grande es caer en la resignación”. Dios. Vi religiosas y religiosos de diferentes — Papa Francisco. congregaciones que dejaron sus conventos y Valió la pena estar esperando desde las 9 de casa de formación para unirse a la multitud la noche afuera del estadio. A las 5:30 de la que oraba y cantaba. También vi a seminaris- mañana pudimos ingresar al lugar donde se tas que cambiaron sus horarios a los que están llevó a cabo la Eucaristía dando inicio hasta sujetos para ir y vivir una experiencia que los las 10 de la mañana. Muchas horas de espe- marcaría para toda su vida vocacional. En gen- ra, muchas horas sin dormir, cansancio, y frío eral vi al pueblo de Dios estar de pie y en vela para poder verlo, pero fue una experiencia muy en las calles largas y frías pero llenas de júbi- enriquecedora para mi ministerio sacerdotal. lo, cantos, oraciones, y plegarias que fueron El haber participado con todos mis hermanos elevada a cada momento. Vi una misma fe, en el sacerdocio de Jesucristo en mi querida una sola Iglesia, un mismo amor, y un mismo tierra natal México como concelebrantes con- Padre. Era lo que nos unía... vi la fe del pueblo fi rmó en mí el amor a nuestra Iglesia, la unidad de Dios. fraterna entre nosotros y el amor al pueblo de Les comparto estas palabras que textual- Dios que él nos ha encomendado. En especial mente dijo el Papa en su homilía y que hicieron nuestra arquidiócesis de Oklahoma la cual eco en mi corazón: Curso de Formación en Pastoral Juvenil tuve presente en mis oraciones. Esa alegría que “Padre, papá, abba. Esa es la oración, esa es La oficina del Ministerio de Pastoral Juvenil de la Ar- viví en cada momento con sacerdotes, religio- la expresión a la que Jesús nos invitó. Padre, quidiócesis de Oklahoma City en colaboración con el Insti- sas, religiosos y seminaristas, es la alegría que papá, abba, no nos dejes caer en la tentación Padre Cristobal De Loera con seminaristas en Méxi- tuto de FE y VIDA, ofreció un curso de capa- citación a los el papa nos pide a todos los consagrados y de la resignación, no nos dejes caer en la ten- co durante la visita del Papa Francisco. líderes de juventud hispana de Oklahoma para animarlos que pude percibir en cada uno de ellos a cada tación de la pérdida de la memoria, no nos a un liderazgo en la Iglesia y en la sociedad. Llame (405) 721-9220 para más información. momento, a cada paso que había felicidad por dejes caer en la tentación de olvidarnos de doquier. nuestros mayores que nos enseñaron con su Vi a sacerdotes que salieron de las sacris- vida a decir: Padre Nuestro”. 14 May 1, 2016 Local Sooner Catholic Sooner Catholic Local May 1, 2016 15 Calendar This calendar only covers the two weeks between issue dates and may not refl ect all of the calendar items. To see a full calendar, go to www.soonercatholic.org.

The Catholic Foundation May als about First Friday Devo- 10 Celebrating Nurses with a at 7 p.m. in the Sunnylane tion, and consecrating fam- 5:30 p.m. Mass, dinner to Family Reception Center, 1 Sixth Sunday of Easter. ily and home to the Sacred follow. St. John Nepomuk, 3900 S.E. 29, Del City. Con- cornerstone Heart of Jesus available after 600 Garth Brooks Blvd, tact Ken at (405) 739-0036. 3 Feast of Sts. Philip and Mass. Contact the Offi ce of Yukon. RSVP by May 6 to Trusts James. Family Life, (405) 721-8944. Glenda Bronson, R.N., Glen- 13 Feast of Our Lady of Fatima. [email protected], (405) Planning for taxes is just one of many im- 3 The Dominican Lay (Third Or- 7 The Lay Missionaries of Char- 936-5226. 13 Bingo at St. Joseph, Norman. portant considerations when reviewing long- der) group meets from 7 p.m. ity, the Secular (Lay) Order of Dinner served 6:15 p.m. range financial plans. The ease and speed to 8:30 p.m. at the Rother Blessed Teresa of Calcutta, at 10 Catholic War Veterans will Games begin 7 p.m. with sec- with which you wish your property to be House, 1229 S.W. 41 in OKC. St. Ann Nursing Home, OKC, meet in the community room ond session at 8:30 p.m. distributed to others upon your death is a pri- Contact John or Mary Mc- on the fi rst and third Sat- of St. Ann Retirement Center mary concern. Another could be the inability Clernon at (405) 330-6334. urdays. Mass at 9:30 a.m.; at 7 p.m. Contact Fr. M. Price 14 The Benedictine Oblates of of one or more heirs to manage property left meetings following. Fr. Tara- Oswalt at (405) 235-4565. Mt. St. Scholastica meet from to them because of age, incapacity or other 5 Charismatic Catholic prayer sisio Tumuhereze is the spir- Noon to 2:30 p.m. in the factors. Or, another concern might be privacy 11 of the terms of your financial plan. There are meeting, 7 p.m., Catholic itual director. Contact Karen Prayer Day for the Retired at school building, Rm. A/B, at Students from St. Philip Neri visited the OCBN station during the Spring many reasons to consider forming a revoca- Pastoral Center, C-1 and C-2. Banks at (405) 396-9086. the Catholic Pastoral Center, St. Charles Borromeo. Con- Radiothon to present them with a $250 check from their stewardship money Contact Toni Calvey at (405) 7501 Northwest Express- tact Judith Martin at (405) collected last month. ble “living” trust during your lifetime. 630-0539 or visit www.Spiri- 8 Solemnity of the Ascension of way. To register, call (405) 635-5665. “In my ten years of conducting this radiothon, St. Philip Neri is the fi rst school Trusts are one of the oldest and most wide- to present us with a donation,” Deacon Larry Sousa said. ly used estate planning tools. A living or re- tOKC.org. the Lord. 721-5651, Ext. 158. If video- Another $250 donation was matched by a St. Philip Neri parishioner after vocable trust avoids the cost of probate, is an conferencing, register at the 14 Catholic Singles and Friends hearing the students’ presentation on-air. easy way to distribute assets at your death, 6 First Friday Sacred Heart 8 Mother’s Day. parish or call (405) 721-5651, will have a prom-themed Left to right, Deacon Larry Sousa, Josef Homola, McKaena Abernathy, Trevor and is private in that the distribution of assets Mass at CPC. Exposition of Ext. 131. dance at St. Charles Bor- Skinner and Fred Pope. Photo provided. under the terms of the trust is not subject to the Blessed Sacrament at 8 Charismatic Healing Mass, romeo, 5024 N. Grove, at 7 the publicity given to wills in probate pro- 5:30 p.m.; Sacrament of Rec- 5:30 p.m., Immaculate Con- 11 Catholic War Veterans USA p.m. Dance ends at 11 p.m. ceedings. onciliation available prior to ception, 3901 S.W. 29, OKC. Oklahoma Memorial Post 168 In the footsteps of Bishop Meerschaert Since a living trust is revocable, it has no Mass. Mass at 7 p.m. Materi- Call (405) 685-4806. will hold monthly meeting 15 Pentecost Sunday. Pilgrimage to the religious and historical sites of the New Orleans income tax consequences during your life- area, August 25-29. Sponsored by the Offi ce of Worship and Spiritual time; no separate tax return is even filed and Jobs Box Life, Archdiocese of Oklahoma City. Theophile Meerschaert, Oklaho- all trust income is reported under your social ma’s fi rst bishop, travelled to New Orleans many times during his 32 security number. You also can use trusts and Offi ce manager Teachers certifi cate to Nancy Post at nancy. lic and must have working knowl- years as bishop. Trip includes stops at Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis, other estate planning tools to arrange for Holy Angels Church is seeking St. Mary Catholic School in [email protected] or by mail to edge of Microsoft Offi ce and proven King of France; Old St. Patrick’s Church and other historic churches; special gifts that will benefit your charitable a well-qualifi ed offi ce manager. Lawton is seeking teachers for St. Mary Catholic School, 611 S.W. leadership skills managing other Old Ursuline Convent and St. Mary’s Church; Immaculate Concep- interests only after your needs and the needs Applicants should be practicing the 2016-2017 school year. Ap- ‘A’ Ave., Lawton 73501. Call (580) offi ce staff. Full-time with medical tion Parish; The National World War II Museum; Oak Alley Plantation; of your loved ones have been met. Catholics and must have working plicants should hold a bachelor’s 355-5288. benefi ts. Send resume to Fr. Long dinner cruise on the Mississippi River. Cost: Dbl occ. $1,300/person, knowledge of Microsoft Offi ce and degree in education with Oklaho- at P.O. Box 488, Prague 74864 or single occ. $1,600/person; Deposit $400 at time of reservation, in- For more information, contact the foundation office at: be fl uent in English and Spanish. ma certifi cation. Download teach- Offi ce manager e-mail [email protected]. cludes round-trip air from Oklahoma City, hotel accommodations at The Catholic Foundation of Oklahoma Inc. This is a full-time position with er application packet at www. St. Wenceslaus and The Nation- Write “Resume for Offi ce Manager” the Sheraton New Orleans Hotel (French Quarter), daily breakfast, one P.O. Box 32180, Oklahoma City, OK 73123 medical benefi ts. Send resumes archokc.org/multimedia/fi les/ al Shrine of the Infant Jesus of in subject line. lunch, three dinners, admission to all scheduled activities, tips (except (405) 721-4115  www.cfook.org [email protected] to [email protected] with doc_download/294-teacher-ap- Prague seeking offi ce manager to hotel room). Space is limited. Call (405) 721-5651, Ext. 158. “Resume for Offi ce Manager” in the plication-packet. Send resume, serve the parish and shrine. Appli- See full jobs box at www.archokc. Please remember the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City in your estate plans. subject line. cover letter and copy of teaching cant should be a practicing Catho- org/jobs-box.

Briefs Ranked the #1 Knights of Columbus Essay winners announced Expressway, May 5 and 6 from Offi ce of Worship and Spiritual Life Making a Difference conference Keeping The Central Region Council of 7 p.m. to 9:30 p.m., and May 7 will host a prayer day for the re- A conference for faithful re- Agency Worldwide in 2015 Catholic Women is pleased to an- from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Talks given tired at the Catholic Pastoral Cen- sponse of faith leadership to nounce the winners of the annual on God’s love, salvation, baptism ter, 7501 Northwest Expressway. domestic violence and sexual Kevin Pierce in the Spirit and transformation essay contest for 2016: J.R. Gray, Day concludes with a presentation assault organized by the Interfaith General Agent Full time agent positions 8th Grade, Bishop John Carroll in Christ. More information at by Fr. Paul Gallatin. To register, Alliance Foundation to be May Our Promise available. To learn more, School, $100; Ketaya Sparks, 7th www.Spiritokc.org or contact Toni call (405) 721-5651, Ext. 158. If 17 from 8:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. at (877) 707-0752 call Kevin Pierce at Grade, St. Philip Neri School, $75; Calvey at (405) 254-7264. videoconferencing, register at the Oklahoma City Community Col- [email protected] 405-514-7660. Nicholas Howard, 8th Grade, St. SEAS Golf Scramble parish or call (405) 721-5651, Ext. lege, Visual and Performing Arts Philip Neri School, $50. The essays Join St. Elizabeth Ann Seton 131. Center Theater, 7777 S. May Ave. were entitled, “How am I being The one-day education and train- in Edmond for the annual Golf Rescheduled Catholic Day with called to live this Year of Mercy?” ing program is for pastors and key Scramble at Kickingbird Golf Dodgers leadership of all faiths to address Pilgrimage to New Mexico Course on Friday, May 6. Funds The event has been re-scheduled domestic and sexual violence. Join Father Joseph Arledge, raised support the school’s safe- for May 15. If those who already CEUs offered. Archbishop Coakley St. Peter, Woodward, on a Year ty and security. Sponsorships purchased tickets cannot attend, to offer morning prayer at 8:30. Chris O’Lague Bobby Stevens Chad McAuliff of Mercy pilgrimage visiting the available. Register at https:// please contact Adam at (405) Rob Blakely Richard Moore stjohn-catholic.ejoinme.org/ Register online at www.makinga- (405) 343-9661 (405) 243-8324 (405) 534-0397 (405) 641-9582 Court of the Table Catholic Missions of New Mexico, 218-2155. The ticket offi ce has [email protected] [email protected] MDRT, SKC SEASgolfscramble. differenceconference.com. [email protected] [email protected] Sept. 11-16. Includes Santuario requested for all the tickets to be Councils: 1018, 3556, 5160, 949, 1053, 1903, 2974, 3309, Councils: 965, 1287, 2604, Councils: 916, 6477, (918) 284-0685 de Chimayo, Taos Pueblo, Capilla Nurses Day returned so new tickets can be Golf tournament 5354, 9901, 11648, 12108, 3336, 4042, 5266, 5396, 8523, 4026, 4598, 4889, 5168, 9737, 11237 [email protected] de Nuestra Senora de Guadalupe, issued. Please mail your tickets Knights of Columbus 6478, 12382, 16048 9583, 11135, 12819, 13366, 5759, 9900, 11909, 16214 Councils: 962, 3167, Nurses in the archdiocese are 4721, 6606, 9668, 14448, Santuario de Guadalupe, Loretto invited to a Mass and dinner on to Catholic Youth Offi ce, P.O. Box Yukon, will host their third annual 7395, 15785, 4519, 4804, Chapel and Miracle Staircase; San Tuesday, May 10, at St. John 32180 Oklahoma City 73123. Call golf tournament at Crimson Creek 8433, 11633, 13828, Francisco de Asis with its mysteri- Nepomuk in Yukon. Mass at 5:30 (405) 721-9220. Golf Club in El Reno on May 21. 15834, 11194, 14220 ous picture of Christ; San Miguel Contact Danny Parks, (405) 620- p.m., dinner to follow. Fr. Rex Ar- Ada stockholders dinner To watch an Mission, Cathedral Basilica of 1985. nold will speak about experiences The youth group of St. Joseph, St. Francis, and many more. Six agent in action, with Fr. Kirk Larkin in days before Ada, is hosting the annual Stock- Knights of Columbus pool days, most meals, all admissions his death. In addition, the Catholic holder’s Dinner on Sunday, May season starts May 30 scan here... and roundtrip transportation from Foundation of Oklahoma will pres- 15, at 5 p.m. Must purchase The Santa Fe Family Life Cen- Edmond and Woodward. Call (405) ent the Nurse of the Year award. Trey Welker Jody Snowder Troy Snow John Rice tickets in advance. Contact (580) ter’s pool season begins Memorial 293-2003. Please RSVP to Glenda Bronson by MDRT, SKC (405) 474-6192 MDRT, SKC (405) 706-2155 332-4811 or a member of the St. Day weekend (May 30) and runs [email protected] [email protected] May 6 at Glenda.Bronson@mercy. (405) 850-4092 (918) 798-0012 Seminar on the Holy Spirit Joseph Youth Group. Ten percent through Labor Day. Call (405) 840- [email protected] Councils: 767, 3101, 5440, [email protected] Councils: 1044, 1533, net, (405) 936-5226. The Life in the Spirit Seminar of proceeds will be donated to 1817 or visit 6300 N. Santa Fe Councils: 1038, 4601, 8204, 6478, 8633, 12669, 14744 775, 1104, 1302, 1677, 1537, 3113, 3220, 9334 will take place at the Catholic Prayer day for the retired Catholic World Relief in conjunc- Ave. Go to www.sffl c.com for more 10822, 12518, 12605 7392, 9333, 10388 11734, 11959, 13313, Pastoral Center, 7501 Northwest On Wednesday, May 11, the tion with the Year of Mercy. information. LIFE INSURANCE DISABILITY INSURANCE LONG-TERM CARE INSURANCE14106, 14248 RETIREMENT ANNUITIES 16 May 1, 2016 Family Life Sooner Catholic Guthrie couple celebrates 68-year marriage By Karen Berland Marriage Worldwide Marriage Encounter recently hon- Encounter ored Lloyd and Velma Cox for being the lon- Weekend gest married couple in Oklahoma. Worldwide Catholic Pastoral Marriage Encounter is a faith-based marriage Center enrichment program that is nationwide and 7501 Northwest accepts couples from all faiths. Expressway, OKC Couples from every state were honored along with a national winner. The longest nominat- www.meoklahoma. ed couple in the nation was Maury and Helen org Goosenberg of Carlsbad, Calif., who have been Sept. 9-11 together for 80 years. Lloyd and Velma Cox were nominated by Bryan and Karen Berland, an Oklahoma/Amarillo Ecclesial Team Couple. ories and have had a lot of good times togeth- Lloyd and Velma Cox met in January 1947 in er.” Guthrie. Due to a recent illness, the award was giv- “My girlfriend, Dorothy Hannah, and I were en to the Coxs privately in their home at their driving around town and stopped at a drug request. The couple attend the First Christian store for a Coke. Inside the drug store were Church in Guthrie where they have been mem- two handsome guys that looked exactly alike. bers for many years. They have three children We found out they were the Cox twins who – Marilyn, John and Ken. had just returned home from serving in the “I think the reason we’ve been married for Merchant Marines in the South Pacifi c during 68 years is because we had fun together and World War II,” Velma Cox said. loved doing the same things. We loved camp- Lloyd Cox and his brother followed the girls ing, going to the lake, learning to water ski and from the store. The girls intentionally lost all kinds of water sports. We have camped all The picture of Lloyd and Velma was taken during their them, but experienced car trouble. our married years and in all kinds of RVs. Our 66th year of marriage. “Lloyd and Louis caught up with us and camping trips came to an end in 2014 when we tried to get our car running again. When they sold our last motorhome,” Velma Cox said. “It couples every February. To nominate a couple, couldn’t get it to run, they offered to take us to has been an exciting life. After 28 years away, contact Bryan and Karen Berland at bkber- the movies and home. Lloyd and I have been we came back to Guthrie to retire and be with [email protected]. For more information about together ever since. I married Lloyd and Doro- family and friends.” Marriage Encounter in Oklahoma, go online to thy married Louis. We have a lot of good mem- Worldwide Marriage Encounter honors www.meoklahoma.org. The Mercy of God in “Amoris Laetitia” The healing balm that cannot be denied to anyone By Pedro A. Moreno, O.P. of community, whether in social ser- Director of Hispanic Ministry vice, prayer meetings or another way Continuing the refl ections on Pope that his or her own initiative, togeth- Francis’s new document I want er with the discernment of the parish to offer some quotes dealing with priest, may suggest. As for the way of mercy. Mercy is undeserved love and dealing with different “irregular” sit- since the document speaks about uations, the Synod fathers reached a love more than 500 times it was not general consensus, which I support: surprising that mercy would be men- “In considering a pastoral approach tioned quite a bit. toward people who have contracted a Here are seven examples of mercy civil marriage, who are divorced and in this beautiful document: remarried, or simply living together, 27. Christ proposed as the dis- the Church has the responsibility of tinctive sign of his disciples the law helping them understand the divine pedagogy of grace in their lives and of love and the gift of self for others. Pope Francis hears confession of a youth April 23 in St. Peter’s Square at the Vati- offering them assistance so they can He did so in stating a principle that can. CNS photo/L’Osservatore Romano via Reuters. fathers and mothers tend to embody reach the fullness of God’s plan for in their own lives: “No one has great- the protection of creation, moral and unmerited, unconditional and gratu- them,” something that is always pos- er love than this, to lay down one’s material solidarity with other fami- itous.” sible by the power of the Holy Spirit. life for one’s friends.” Love also bears lies, including those most in need, 297. It is a matter of reaching out 311. The teaching of moral the- fruit in mercy and forgiveness. commitment to the promotion of to everyone, of needing to help each ology should not fail to incorporate 49. The problems faced by poor the common good and the transfor- person fi nd his or her proper way of these considerations, for although households often are all the more mation of unjust social structures, participating in the ecclesial com- it is quite true that concern must trying. For example, if a single beginning in the territory in which munity and thus to experience being be shown for the integrity of the mother has to raise a child by herself the family lives, through the practice touched by an “unmerited, uncon- Church’s moral teaching, special and needs to leave the child alone of the corporal and spiritual works of ditional and gratuitous” mercy. No care should always be shown to at home while she goes to work, the mercy.” one can be condemned for ever, emphasize and encourage the high- child can grow up exposed to all kind 296. The Synod addressed various because that is not the logic of the est and most central values of the of risks and obstacles to personal situations of weakness or imperfec- Gospel! Here I am not speaking only Gospel, particularly the primacy of growth. In such diffi cult situations of tion. Here, I would like to reiterate of the divorced and remarried, but charity as a response to the com- need, the Church must be particu- something I sought to make clear to of everyone, in whatever situation pletely gratuitous offer of God’s love. larly concerned to offer understand- the whole Church, lest we take the they fi nd themselves. Naturally, if At times we fi nd it hard to make ing, comfort and acceptance, rather wrong path: “There are two ways of someone fl aunts an objective sin as room for God’s unconditional love in than imposing straightaway a set thinking that recur throughout the if it were part of the Christian ideal, our pastoral activity. of rules that only lead people to feel Church’s history: casting off and or wants to impose something other We put so many conditions on judged and abandoned by the very reinstating. The Church’s way, from than what the Church teaches, he or mercy that we empty it of its con- mother called to show them God’s the time of the Council of Jerusalem, she can in no way presume to teach crete meaning and real signifi cance. mercy. has always been the way of Jesus, or preach to others; this is a case of That is the worst way of watering 290. “The family is thus an agent the way of mercy and reinstatement. something which separates from the down the Gospel. It is true, for ex- of pastoral activity through its ex- … The way of the Church is not to community. Such a person needs ample, that mercy does not exclude plicit proclamation of the Gospel and condemn anyone forever; it is to to listen once more to the Gospel justice and truth, but fi rst and fore- its legacy of varied forms of witness, pour out the balm of God’s mercy on message and its call to conversion. most we have to say that mercy is namely solidarity with the poor, all those who ask for it with a sincere Yet, even for that person, there can the fullness of justice and the most openness to a diversity of people, heart. … For true charity is always be some way of taking part in the life radiant manifestation of God’s truth.