Mr Draper, Deputy Head, Chasetown High School 1985
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Queen Street, Chasetown, 1974 ‘Hag-bag’ The swear-word Richard invented and used until he was seven THE PROCESSION Little Wing JimiHenDrix We brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the LorD. (1 Tim 6:7; Job 1:21) An Angel at Lichfield Cathedral Photographed by Richard WHY WE ARE HERE Welcome by the RevD RicharD WestwooD, Vicar of St Anne’s, Chasetown We are here because, in one way or another, this death affects us all. We are here because, confronteD with the Death of someone we know, we are confronteD with our own mortality, confronted with the cruel, harsh, reality that human life is brief anD vulnerable, anD unfair. We are here to lament, to face our grief, anD to weep. But we are also here to celebrate. We are here to recognise that, however brief, the days given to us are not a GoD-given right, but an unspeakable gift. We are here to marvel at the unfathomable complexity of life, the fruit of 13.7 billion years of evolutionary struggle, converging on the brilliance of this one man whom we have known anD loveD. We are here in gratituDe, to encounter joy, anD to laugh. Today, laughter anD tears belong together, the positive anD the negative poles that electrify the monstrous improbability of the life that has been granted to each of us. We are here to remember RicharD, who has died. To consiDer our own death. To reflect upon the years that have passed, AnD to consiDer the sheer wealth of opportunity in the years that remain for you anD for me. To be human is to be in relationship with others, to live in solidarity with others. AnD so it is together that we lament, and together that we celebrate. Borth 1984 ‘I hear your little brother is one of the biggest trouble-makers at RiDgeway [MiDDle School]. Tell him I’ve got my eye on him before he even walks through the Door of my school.’ Mr Draper, Deputy Head, Chasetown High School 1985 … ‘Oh that’s just great, that is’ Richard 1985 PRAYERS OF CONFESSION AND REMEMBRANCE LorD, as we are confronteD toDay with our humanity anD our vulnerability, we are forced to think about how we use and how we squanDer the time that is given to us. We think of those we love, anD lament that we are sometimes less than DepenDable, less than communicative, less than we coulD be. We think of those with whom our lives interweave, anD recognise that we might have a greater anD more positive effect upon their lives than we have bothered to foster. We think of ourselves in relation to others and to you, and confess that the triviality of the moment has DistracteD us from reflecting upon our origins, our enDs, anD all that lies between. Forgive us for our triviality, our selfishness, our sin. AnD help us to wake up to who we are to others, and to you. May we know your grace in the depths of our being, anD may that grace raDiate from us to others. Especially toDay we think about RicharD. We recall times when we let him Down. But we remember also how he sometimes let us Down. We feel all too deeply, that when he let go of life, he let go of us. AnD we are here to let go of Richard, To entrust him to your care, AnD as we have consiDereD what we woulD say to him, we pause now to hear what he might say to us in this moment. Silence is kept By your grace, make us a people who can hear. Amen Chasetown High School ‘He’s calleD “Dr” Perrot because he is one!’ Mr Whitely ‘What’s a Perrot?’ RicharD READING The Life That I Have The life that I have, is all that I have AnD the life that I have, is yours. The love that I have, of the life that I have Is yours anD yours anD yours. A sleep I shall have, a rest I shall have Yet death will be but a pause. For the peace of my years, in the long green grass Will be yours and yours and yours. LEO MARKS MBE (1920-2001) Lichfield Cathedral Photographed by Richard HYMN OF CELEBRATION I DanceD in the morning When the world was begun, AnD I DanceD in the moon AnD the stars anD the sun, AnD I came Down from heaven AnD I danced on the earth, At Bethlehem I haD my birth. Dance, then, wherever you may be, I am the Lord of the Dance, said he, And I’ll lead you all, wherever you may be, And I’ll lead you all in the Dance, said he. 2. I danced for the scribe 4. I DanceD on a FriDay AnD the pharisee, When the sky turned black – But they woulD not dance It’s hard to dance AnD they woulDn’t follow me. With the devil on your back. I DanceD for the fishermen, They burieD my boDy For James anD John – AnD they thought I’D gone, They came with me But I am the dance, AnD the Dance went on. AnD I still go on. Dance then… Dance then … 3. I danced on the Sabbath 5. They cut me Down AnD I cureD the lame; AnD I leapt up high; The holy people I am the life SaiD it was a shame. That’ll never, never die; They whipped anD they stripped I’ll live in you AnD they hung me on high, If you’ll live in me – AnD they left me there I am the Lord On a Cross to die. Of the Dance, saiD he. Dance then… Dance then… SYDNEY BERTRAM CARTER (1915-2004) Copyright 1963 Stainer & Bell Ltd. London, England STORIES Close frienDs anD family have been inviteD to offer stories, memories and tributes. (There will also be opportunity to speak at the Football Club after the Crematorium Service, or to leave comments or letters in a book of remembrance) PRAYERS OF THANKSGIVING Loving GoD, We thank you because you maDe us in your own image and gave us gifts that reflect something of who you are. We thank you now for Richard, anD what he meant to each of us. We think especially of his loving, caring but humorous nature – and of his phenomenal gifts as an artist. AnD we thank you for what we meant to RicharD, for all that he valued in us. As we honour his memory, allowing it to impact upon who we are today, anD who we might become tomorrow, make us more aware that you are the one from whom comes every perfect gift, including the gift of resurrection, Through Jesus Christ. Amen. TRIBUTE Mark Bagley I knew Richard for more than 40 years. He was my best frienD for over 25 of them. I have many great memories with Rich starting from the time we workeD together at Ginos Pizza and On The Slate. We were regularly cautioned for our rally driving of two huge yellow telephones through the streets of BurntwooD, trying to see who coulD Deliver the most Pizza's (most of which went on hoax calls to our friends, Stocky)! Or, to the first lads’ holiday we had abroad, when I had to hold Rich's hand because he had never flown before and how he came screaming through a group of frienDs as we all stooD DeciDing how far it was from the cliff eDge to the sea. It was Rich who was the first one to jump off "THE ROCK". Although we sometimes haD long perioDs apart, he was always there when I neeDeD him to be. He helpeD me through many Difficult times in my life especially early on when I first came back from HollanD when he got me a job, without his support anD frienDship then I Doubt I woulD be here now. Rich spent many months living with myself, Catherine anD Molly anD we remember he always bought humour, extra love anD a clean kitchen to the house. He was always welcome in our home. We haD a frienDship anD a love that seameD unconDitional anD I will always be a better man for it. I will miss him anD he will forever leave a hole in my life. Pez My friend, My brother SONG OF REFLECTION My light shines on (Primal Scream) ‘There was never a Day with RicharD that he Didn’t make me laugh.’ (Theresa) ‘On Storey’s way in Cambridge, Richard always useD to Drive us through very narrow, high-siDed road barriers, at full speed, anD never ever hit them once. He also used to say ‘Magpie Salute’ every single time we saw a magpie so we woulD all salute it together.’ (Alice May) ‘After school there’d always be the excitement because there would be a ten- minute Drive home in the company of RicharD which unDoubteDly createD some of the funniest memories of my chilDhood.’ (Lewis EDward) ‘When driving us home from school, Richard used to beep and wave at complete strangers. They woulD smile, anD we (the chilDren) woulD laugh. He made everyone happy. ‘ (Stefan Thomas) ‘Went golfing toDay with RicharD Perry. When he tolD me to “catch this” (I Didn’t realise he was joking). Then he “spooned” the ball anD caught me on the ankle insteaD!! Got a spraineD ankle now!’ (Willem James, in 2011) ‘Wishing you eternal peace, rest easy.