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2 How Love Beat Cancer My name is Seth Luker. I am a simple man from a tiny, unknown place called Voss, Texas. As you will read, my life got very complicated in ways that a simple man from the desert of West Texas couldn’t comprehend. Refecting back at the many chance encounters that later saved my life, I was driven to something that was far beyond my dreams of playing football at the college level. I was destined to impact the lives of people I would never meet in person. I want to share my story because of the profound lessons it has taught me about life, death, love and one thing we all take for granted – our body. Medical statistics or accepted odds would have told you that there is no way I could be around to share my story. Te fact is, that by all indications, I should not be alive today. But, as you stay with me on this wild adventure, you will understand why I consider myself a very lucky guy – and as you will learn quickly, in more ways than just beating the odds. I had been saved by modern medicine, or so it seemed at frst. Surgery and chemo improved the odds of survival and I am eternally grateful to the doctors who helped me. But the real reason I am alive today has little to do with medicine and a lot to do with family, friendship and one aspect of the human spirit that knows no bounds. When it is all said and done, I am here today because of the power of love. Te kind of love that is pure, uninhibited and unconditional. Te kind of love that gives and never takes. Mine is a love story that began with a chance encounter at a honky-tonk bar in Nashville, Tennessee; one look, followed by an avalanche of emotions and an amazing journey. A love that was tested time and time again yet remained pure and powerful. A love that help me beat the odds. Seth Luker 3 How Love Beat Cancer Chapter One It’s only Rock & Roll and I love it. I grew up in Voss, West Texas - home to about twenty families. Each day started and ended with all things sports. My football career started at age three, the frst time I held a ball. Growing up in rural West Texas also meant spending all day playing sports and looking for something to do when the sun went down. Around the age of 12, and every night around 9pm, I would head out to the car to listen to music. I tuned into the only pop/rock station we could get and listened to the “Top 9 at 9”, a blend of different genres and styles.I was exposed to a wide variety of top artists. During 9th and 10th grade I played for Panther Creek High School and won the state championship each year. My father, who was a renowned coach, wanted a bigger stage for my brother Kelan and I. We moved to Stephenville, Texas and my team won the Class 4A State Title in my 11th grade season. In 12th grade, I was chosen as an All-Star to represent Texas to With my brother Kelan in1998 play against California’s elite high school football talent. I was the frst brother to head to college on a full scholarship. I played for the University of North Texas. I quit after a year and a half. I had no regrets leaving football. Truthfully, my heart just wasn’t in it. One thing that consistently got my spirit to soar was music. One of my childhood friends introduced me to a Metallica album entitled, “And Justice for All”. Te track “One” was the catalyst that ignited my passion for music. I wasn’t paying attention to lyrics, there was something about the ‘beat’ and the energy behind the instruments. I was drawn into music and started to develop immense admiration for the performers and how it all came together. I discovered that I had a natural ear and spotted talent very quickly. It was surprising because I didn’t play an instrument. Dallas had a great rock scene so the three All Star Football- 1996 hour drive was well worth it; I grabbed every opportunity to hear and see amazing bands that played there - whether in huge arenas or local dive bars. I loved the music, craved the energy, but most of all I was drawn to the musicians themselves. I wanted to be a part of that rock & roll lifestyle. Te closer I was getting to them, the more I realized that managing a touring band was what I wanted to do with my life. Metallica Seth Luker 4 How Love Beat Cancer I dreamt of becoming a record label executive. Te more time I spent with my musician friends, the more apparent it became that I had business intuition and the organizational skills that meshed well with what musicians needed in their harried lives. In 2001, I started managing an indie rock band named Submersed. Managing a rock band required wearing many hats with alternating roles of den mother, business manager, operations manager, psychiatrist and a close friend. I loved everything about what I was doing and my life was going great. Some people believe in luck, some believe in divine intervention. I don’t know what it was, but my brother Kelan, who also played college football at SMU, was about to rejoin my journey. In 2001, he suffered a back injury that derailed his football career. Tat same year, Submersed lost their bass player. Kelan, who was a bass player, wound up joining the band. Life got even better with my brother and best friend back by my side. Te next few years were an amazing ride. My good friend and business partner, Jimi Mayer and I managed two bands; Submersed and Edgewater. Submersed Submersed got their record deal with Wind-Up Records a few months after they were formed when I was just 23. Ten, our second band, Edgewater got one as well. In 2003, our band Goneblind and in 2005 Faktion also secured recording contracts with the same label, Roadrunner Records. By that time I was 25, we had four bands under major recording contracts. I was touring Jimi Mayer heavily to promote the records; it was a non-stop adrenaline rush; the Rock & Roll music scene, Edgewater managing the bands, and Kelan by my side. We worked hard and partied even harder. In rare moments of solitude I would refect on my upbringing; I was a small town boy with a fast paced heart and big dreams; wired to always try something new powered by an unstoppable drive to succeed. Once I made up my mind about what, and why I wanted to accomplish, I was totally focused on achieving my goal. Te ‘how’ in life never stopped me - I always fgured it out aided by by a strong ‘why’ conviction that I was meant to succeed. Unbeknownst to me at the time, my “why” reasoning would eventually save my life. But, below the surface of my exciting rock and roll life, something I chose to ignore was about to rear its ugly head and put my newfound happiness on a collision course with disaster. Seth Luker 5 How Love Beat Cancer Chapter Two Kid, you have cancer. Starting in my senior year of high school I had bouts of rectal bleeding. Te very frst time it happened, I came home from a track meet and noticed traces of blood on the toilet paper. I had no clue what that could mean, but as it continued, I told my mother and she realized that I needed to see a doctor. We went to see a local family practitioner. He pretty much dismissed it, “Most likely it’s nothing, you’re an athlete, a big guy, you’re lifting weights, you must have strained yourself and caused a tear.” Te doc did a physical exam, found nothing suspicious and I went on with my life. Te bleeding persisted. It was embarrassing and nerve-wracking for me to get the courage to talk to my mother. We were simple people from a tiny town in West Texas; we did what was typical for a young athletic boy – we ignored it. Interestingly, the word cancer had been on my mind since I was 10 years old. I used to ask my big sister, Scarlett if I had cancer because I could pull my hair out. I also chewed tobacco since I was 13. I don’t know why cancer was on my mind, but from a very early age I had very strong premonitions about my future. I saw myself being successful and overcoming challenges, but none of my visions had anything to do with what was about to happen. I stopped playing football when I was around 20. Tis was also the time when I stopped working out. I wasn’t exercising and my diet pretty much consisted of McDonald’s and…more McDonald’s. Life on the road wasn’t conducive to making Me @ 290 Pounds healthy choices, I was having way too much fun and the 290 pounds I was carrying around showed it. I was 23 and still attending school. Just before I moved to Orlando, Florida with Submersed and dove heavily into the band scene, I decided to see the doctor on campus and I remember telling him “Doc, I think I have colon cancer.” He sort of smirked and said “Let’s do a blood test.