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August-September 2020 Volume 31 Issue 4 www.TransCentralPA.org [email protected] c/o MCC of the Spirit 2973 Jefferson Street Serving the Transgender Community of Central Pennsylvania since 1989 Harrisburg, PA 17110 September Announcements The Harrisburg Meeting will be in- person on Saturday, Sep 12th at 8:00 pm at the MCC of the Spirit, our nor- mal meeting location. A maximum of 25 people will be permitted. Ad- vanced registration is required! No drop-ins will be permitted. No ex- ceptions. Please email us at in- [email protected] to reserve your spot. We will reply to you via an email with your confirmation to at- tend. The deadline to register is noon on Saturday, September 12th. There will not be a hosted dinner pre- ceding the meeting. All attendees must comply with the following proto- The 4th Circuit Court of Appeals ruled 2-1 on last month that Gavin Grimm, a biological cols: female who identifies as transgender and has been at the center of a lengthy legal battle 1. Face masks must be worn while starting several years ago, had been discriminated against and that maintaining sex- in the MCC. specific bathrooms was a violation of Title IX, the civil rights statute pertaining to the educational arena. See page 3. 2. Maintain 6-feet of spacing be- tween individuals. information, please email us Testing for COVID-19, this interac- 3. You may not attend if you have at [email protected]. tive map provides locations of testing sites near you. Most sites requires any of symptoms listed on Penn- Parents of Transgender Individuals, you to call ahead and schedule an sylvania Coronavirus Symptoms please email us at fami- & Testing website. [email protected] for information appointment for testing. Click here for CDC guidance on managing your and support. 4. Out-of-state visitors must comply symptoms at home, and click here for with the Pennsylvania COVID-19 York Virtual Support Group Meeting PA Department of Health guidance on Information for Travelers re- on Saturday, Sep 26th. Join the Rain- self-isolation while awaiting results. strictions. bow Rose Center and TransCentralPA Individuals not following these proto- as we hold the York Transgender Sup- The LGBT Center of Central PA in- cols will be directed to leave. We port Group Online. Join us from 8:30- vites you to join them in focusing on thank you for complying with these 10:00 pm on Saturday, September 26th our vision for collective liberation at directives for the safety of all. Please on Zoom! Zoom is a free, online video FAB 2020: On Saturday, October email us with questions at conferencing program that is easy to 17th we will gather virtually from 6:30 [email protected]. use. If you would like to take part in this PM - 8:30 PM to highlight the LGBT virtual meeting, please send us an Center's work towards collective liber- Family Virtual Support Group email and we can provide additional ation, honor leaders in our communi- Meeting on Monday, Sep 21st at information on how to join the meeting. ties who are fighting for our freedom, 7:00 pm. This group brings together TCPA Annual Membership Dues are and invite you to be engaged in this parents and other adult family mem- critical work at a critical time. bers seeking to better understand $20. Dues are used to pay for meeting and support their children of all ages space, program literature, our website Send Us Your Input! Got a Question dealing with issues of gender identity. and our affiliation with and support of or Announcements? Maybe you’ve The group operates under a policy of community groups and activities such seen a great article or have an event confidentiality in order to create a as Common Roads, the Community to share? Photo’s are always appre- safe atmosphere for open discussion. Center, Central Pennsylvania Pride, ciated and if you would like them pub- Please come and join us for informal etc. Please continue to support our or- lished in the next TCPA Newsletter. E sharing and mutual support! The ganization and efforts by joining or re- -mail us at [email protected]. newing your membership—we are group meets online via Zoom on the third Monday of the month. For more making a difference! From the President those whose acceptance and trust friends is just as personal for them. we have spent our entire lives culti- They too need time to understand vating knowing that their acceptance and comprehend what we have spent may now be lost coupled with the years dealing with. Affording those question of how those around us, closest to us the time they need is so society in whole, will accept us. important to maintaining their love and support. This love and support I have been fortunate, those most are so very important as we begin to important to me, in my life, have let me know that they love me and ac- express ourselves more openly. If your family is not so supportive or cept me for who I am. However, for accepting, it is important to then find many transgender individuals this is not the case. This lack of ac- a few close friends or that support group to be there with you and help ceptance by family, friends, cowork- you along your way. ers and society in general coupled with the internal struggles with gen- Acceptance by society is more about Holly Evans der identity fosters feelings of depres- education and exposure. The simple sion, loneliness, and failure. The loss act of being visible and active within Acceptance is something that every of this love and acceptance of those the community will in time lead to individual seeks. Whether from your closest to us at a time of need can acceptance. family, friends, coworkers or society lead to a feeling of loneliness and Coming to accept yourself is such a in general. As children we seek ac- can be devastating. freeing and powerful feeling. No ceptance by our parents or class- If you are reading this and experienc- longer worrying about what others mates in school. As adults we seek ing these very emotions, if you are say or think. Learning how not to acceptance from coworkers, family, struggling with how best to discuss waste emotional energy on the nega- friends, and society as a whole. For your very personal battle, don’t be tive energy of those whose ac- most people this is stressful enough. afraid to seek help. Start with finding ceptance is unimportant allows us to For Transgender individuals this is a support group and speak with focus on the more important and pos- even more difficult. We deal with the someone who has experienced the itive aspects of our lives. For once added layer of accepting ourselves. very emotions you are struggling we come to accept ourselves, it is so Figuring out why we feel different with, who has navigated the journey much easier to express our self- from that which society expects. At for which you are about to embark confidence and focus on positive pro- first, we address this in silence, alone upon. I know, this was so very help- ductive aspects of our lives. This self thinking that we are the only person ful to me. What is important is that -confidence in turn projects ones per- experiencing such feelings, and for you speak to someone who has suc- sonal acceptance and the positive most we experience this as a young cessfully navigated their individual snowball effect builds upon itself. child or teen. While outwardly we journey. Speak with as many such seek acceptance by society as the individuals as possible as there is no - Holly individual for which we have been one way to best navigate this process labeled, or identified as at birth, or as and everyone’s journey is different. the person we are expected to be, we You will need to tailor your journey to are silently dealing with acceptance your personal circumstances. Seek with ourselves, with the fact that we the support of a qualified therapist, are not the person that we project. one who specializes in gender identi- For most, this struggle is done with ty disorders. Please understand that the added fear that those whose ac- speaking to a therapist who is not ceptance we have garnished through familiar with this field of practice can life will now reject us should they ev- be more harmful. It is so important er learn of what we are dealing with that we understand that there is noth- inside. ing wrong with us and that we, as As we get older, we continue this transgender individuals, are part of struggle. For all, this is a very per- society adding a little color to what sonal battle on how best to address would otherwise be an oh so boring this inner conflict. Many simply black and white world. www.AlderHealth.org choose to live their lives dealing with We as transgender individuals must this alone, in silence. Others like my- Improving the Health also understand that part of ac- self come to a point in our lives ceptance is allowing those closest to where we can no longer live in si- of All us, the time they require to process lence. We come to a point where we the news once they learn. Ac- must share our internal struggles with ceptance by family members or close Page 2 Court Rules in Favor of Transgender Student Barred from Using Boys’ Bathroom By Emily Davis, Washington Post A federal appeals court Wednesday be called by his new name and to use handed a victory to a transgender male pronouns.