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Episcopal Church of the Saviour HOUSEHOLDER APRIL 2013 519 N. Douty Street, Hanford, CA 93230 559-584-7706 [email protected] saviourweb.com ime is the most precious gift in our possession, for it is the most irrevocable. This is what makes it disturbing to look back upon the Ttime which we have lost. Time lost is time when we have not lived a full human life, time unenriched by experience, creative endeavor, enjoyment, and suffering. Time lost is time not filled, time left empty. -Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Letters and Papers from Prison , 1967. 2 TABLE OF CONTENTS Rector’s Ramblings Page 4 A Word from the Warden Page 6 Notes from the Organ Bench Page 8 Through the East Window Page 9 Bronies: A Beginner’s Guide Page 10 April Saint of the Month Page 12 April Calendar Page 14 April Prayer Diary Page 16 Remember in Prayer Page 18 April Birthdays Page 18 Ask the Rector Page 20 Giclées Available Page 21 Soup Kitchen News Page 22 Out of the Box Page 23 ECW Update Page 24 Recipe: Lavender Bread Page 25 Ministry at Church of the Saviour Page 26 3 THE RECTOR ’S RAMBLINGS by the Rev’d Luis Rodriguez Last month, I was fortunate enough to attend a diocesan day on leadership alongside some members of our Vestry. The keynote speaker was the Rev’d Laurel Johnston, Stewardship Officer for the Episcopal Church. She spoke about understanding stewardship in its widest and most fundamental sense as simply “about being grateful, responsible stewards of the gifts we receive from God.” This perspective was not new to me; nor—I hazard to say—to the other members of our parish who were there. It is the way we have been thinking about stewardship for some time at the Church of the Saviour. Stewardship is our gracious, generous response to God’s extraordinary goodness. However, Rev’d Johnston also described stewardship as “reaching out to build relationships from a perspective of abundance instead of scarcity.” This really made me think, especially as I began to contemplate our celebration and observance of Easter. In so many ways Easter is the story and season of abundance as we celebrate God’s lavish unleashing of the divine re-creative energies in the resurrection of Jesus, and thus signaling that all things are being made new. Those who miss out on its message in the Easter stories are usually those who are living fearful lives of scarcity: the two disciples fleeing from Jerusalem on the road to Emmaus, Thomas unwilling to trust his fellows, Judas unable to imagine the truly gracious God’s love and forgiveness, the women in the Gospel of Mark who on finding the tomb empty “went out and fle d from the tomb [terrified]…and they said nothing to anyone for they were afraid.” Yet, in all but one of these stories, grace, abundance and joy ultimately win over fear and scarcity. Those disciples on the road to Emmaus see Jesus in the sharing of food; Thomas is able to recognize him when Jesus opens to him the reality of his wounds; the women all ultimately discover the truth of what they saw and lavishly share that truth with the other disciples. Only Judas seems cut-off from the the abundant life symbolized in the resurrection, because he is unwilling or unable to contemplate that God’s extravagant grace is more powerful than the poverty of his own sin and betryal. In all but this latter case, “relationships are built from a perspective of abundance instead of scarcity.” Thinking about stewardship in this light we find the many ways in which a perspective of abundance triumphs over one of scarcity, and how 4 such a perspective may enable us to ask some questions about our own relationships with and attitudes towards abundance and scarcity. One thing about abundance in its many forms is that it always surprises us. We find it in unexpected places: on dusty roads, empty tombs, in places not usually considered fruitful. It is the fact that we tend to work from a default position of scarcity that often prevents us from seeing abundance. The Good News of the resurrection challenges our categories of both abundance and scarcity: the scarcity of the cross is ultimately revealed to be the source of abundant life. The resurrection challenges our ideas of stewardship, by widening our viewpoint as we consider its meaning and nature. Stewardship becomes more than an exercise in meeting the budget, but foundational to living the resurrection life entered into at our baptism. It becomes foundation to our living in right relationship with God, each other, and all of creation. Abundance is Abundance is everywhere when we choose to see it as such, and Easter everywhere when calls us to interpret the world along we choose to see it the lines of abundance rather than as such, and Easter scarcity. calls us to interpret If we think about our own the world along the church community and look around with resurrection eyes, we can see so lines of abundance much abundance: our beautiful rather than campus, the many new people who scarcity. are finding their way to our doors and into our buildings, the exciting hustle and bustle brought about by the sometimes difficult challenges we encounter and overcome. Moreover, no matter what the apparent difficulties, we always seem to make it. And we always find ourselves marvelously surprised—maybe we shouldn’t—that we do make it. Without a doubt, we are a community who struggles with finances, but at the same time we usually look beyond our “scarcity” to discern how we can live out of our abundance to enable fellowship and service. This sort of perspective is what makes for year round stewardship, and we will all be hearing more about this in the coming weeks and months. So, keep your eyes open, your ears honed, and perhaps be disposed to being a little surprised. The great blessing of Easter is the unleashing of God’s abundant life in the world. An attitude of scarcity never serves anyone well, particularly those who seek to follow him who came that we might have life, and have it abundantly. ( cf . John 10:10) 5 A W ORD FROM THE WARDEN by Jere Harper My last two articles have been on group dynamics. The first of four stages in this group dynamics model is “forming” which I discussed last month. I'll continue this month with the second stage, "storming". Once a group has formed, "storming", or challenging the existing norms of the group, usually happens. The recent diocesan leadership training in Fresno that Father Luis, Jeff March, Terry Poindexter and I attended related in part to "storming". Cannon Kate shared with us good rules for group interaction called Listening Hearts Guidelines . I'll describe some of these guidelines and my experiences concerning them. "Take time to become settled in God's presence." Father Luis leads us in doing this several times during our monthly vestry meetings through planned silences. This is a great investment before and during group discussions. I do this sometimes when substitute teaching before my class enters. It helps me set the emotional tone for the students. Of course, with high school students, much more than this is needed, but it is a good start. "Speak for yourself only, expressing your own thoughts and feelings, referring to your own experiences." During my career at AT&T, I attended an executive seminar with a client of mine. The seminar leader spoke to this concept when he said: "Let others do their own talking." When criticisms or disagreements arise, the other should go directly to the person being challenged and give his/her input. This practice reduces gossip and provides clear, direct feedback from the sender to the receiver of the message. Triangulation occurs when the other does not have their “storming” time with the intended recipient, but asks you to deliver the message. Do your own talking. Let others do theirs. "Listen to others with your entire self (senses, feelings, intuition, imagination, and rational faculties." In other words, always try to be "in the moment" when engaged in discussion with others. It lets them know that you value 6 what they have to say and who they are. This is a concept that I have particular difficulty with, but it's amazing how rewarding conversations are when I follow this guideline. "Pause between speakers to absorb what has been said." When practiced, this allows me to process first and reduces my impulse to say something not so brilliant—a problem I often have, as those who know me will attest to. "Do not formulate what you want to say while someone else is speaking." As I occasionally say when teaching high school math: "Give me your undivided attention." Of course, this means that whoever is speaking is owed the group's complete focus. This guideline is another part of being "in the moment" and allows me to convey the respect I have for the person that is talking. "Storming" is an important step in the group development process, and should never be avoided, but should be done appropriately. By using these Listening Hearts Guidelines at Church of the Saviour , "storming" can create a positive, open atmosphere that allows new members and old to communicate openly as they get to know and understand each other, or in other words, as they “norm”. 7 NOTES FROM THE ORGAN BENCH by Dennis Flynn Many of us are familiar with the hymn tune “Darwall” which we will be singing as a closing hymn on April 7th.