B'nai Mitzvah Student Liturgy Practice Book 2016
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Volume 34, Number 8 the May 2015 Iyyar/SivanVolume 31, Number 5775 7 March 2012 TEMPLE BETH ABRAHAM Adar / Nisan 5772 JEWISH R STORYTELLINGi Pu M DIRECTORY SERVICES SCHEDULE GENERAL INFORMATION: All phone numbers use (510) prefix unless otherwise noted. Services, Location, Time Monday & Thursday Mailing Address 336 Euclid Ave. Oakland, CA 94610 Morning Minyan, Chapel, 8:00 a.m. Hours M-Th: 9 a.m.-4 p.m., Fr: 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Friday Evening Office Phone 832-0936 (Kabbalat Shabbat), Chapel, 6:15 p.m. Office Fax 832-4930 Shabbat Morning, Sanctuary, 9:30 a.m. E-Mail [email protected] Candle Lighting (Friday) Gan Avraham 763-7528 May 1, 7:41 p.m. Bet Sefer 663-1683 May 8, 7:48 p.m. STAFF May 15, 7:54 p.m. May 22, 8:00 p.m. Rabbi (x 213) Mark Bloom Richard Kaplan, May 29, 8:05 p.m. Cantor [email protected] Torah Portions (Saturday) Gabbai Marshall Langfeld May 2, Acharei-Kedoshim Executive Director (x 214) Rayna Arnold May 9, Emor Office Manager (x 210) Virginia Tiger May 16, Behar-Bechukotai Bet Sefer Director Susan Simon 663-1683 May 23, Bamidbar Gan Avraham Director Barbara Kanter 763-7528 May 30, Naso Bookkeeper (x 215) Kevin Blattel Facilities Manager (x 211) Joe Lewis Kindergym/ Dawn Margolin 547-7726 Toddler Program TEMPLE BETH ABRAHAM Volunteers (x 229) Herman & Agnes Pencovic OFFICERS OF THE BOARD is proud to support the Conservative Movement by affiliating with The United President Mark Fickes 652-8545 Synagogue of Conservative Judaism. Vice President Eric Friedman 984-2575 Vice President Alice Hale 336-3044 Vice President Flo Raskin 653-7947 Vice President Laura Wildmann 601-9571 Advertising Policy: Anyone may sponsor an issue Secretary JB Leibovitch 653-7133 of The Omer and receive a dedication for their Treasurer Susan Shub 852-2500 business or loved one. -
St John's Wood Synagogue Kiddushim
ST JOHN’S WOOD SYNAGOGUE KIDDUSHIM STANDARD KIDDUSH £650-£750* – (SERVED ON DISPOSABLES) Smaller amounts of cholent & kugel, bridge rolls, mixed herring platters with crackers, chocolate rogalach, sliced cake, gherkins and olives, crisps and pretzels, fruit juices, children’s individual drinks, kiddush wine and whisky. *ADDITIONAL OPTION OF STANDARD KIDDUSH WITH FRUIT PLATTERS £750 *ADDITIONAL OPTION OF STANDARD KIDDUSH WITH SALT BEEF SANDWICHES & DELI MEAT FILLED MINI CHALLAH ROLLS & FRUIT PLATTERS £1,350 SINGLE MALT WHISKY – AVAILABLE FROM £30 PER BOTTLE All the following kiddushim are prepared by waitresses and are served on round tables with linen tablecloths, china and glassware and include a served bar with kiddush wine, iced vodka, scotch whisky, soft drinks and juices. SAVOURY KIDDUSH £2050 Schmaltz herrings, mixed crackers, egg & onion, tuna & sweetcorn, chopped herring, bridge rolls, gherkins, stuffed olives, crisps and pretzels, chocolate rogelach and assorted fresh cream patisserie. SMOKED SALMON KIDDUSH £ 2850 Best quality smoked salmon, schmaltz herrings, mixed crackers, egg & onion, tuna & sweetcorn, chopped herring, bridge rolls, crudité platters, gherkins, stuffed olives, crisps and pretzels, chocolate rogelach, assorted fresh cream patisserie and exotic fresh fruit platters. The following kiddushim can also include round tables and chairs for guests in the David Weisz Hall FRESH SALMON & FRIED FISH KIDDUSH-LUNCH £ 4750 Fresh poached salmon, fried plaice and haddock fillets, fish goujons, assorted fresh salads (wide selection available), best quality smoked salmon, schmaltz herrings, mixed crackers, egg & onion, tuna & sweetcorn, chopped herring, challah rolls and fresh bridge rolls, crudité platters, gherkins, stuffed olives, crisps, pretzels, fresh (milky) cream patisserie and desserts, exotic fresh fruit platters. -
The Bar and Bat Mitzvah Services 12
TEMPLE BETH EMETH Table of Contents Contact Us 2 Welcome Letter 3 Bar and Bat Mitzvah Brit (Covenant) 4 What is a Bat or Bar Mitzvah? 6 The Brit (Covenant) Explained: TBE Commitment 7 The Brit (Covenant) Explained: Bat or Bar Mitzvah Commitment 10 The Bar and Bat Mitzvah Services 12 After Your Bat or Bar Mitzvah 14 Shabbat Weekend Honors, Opportunities, and Obligations 16 Bar or Bat Mitzvah Logistics 17 Glossary 21 Service- and Celebration-related Checklists 26 Appendix A: Hosting the Saturday Congregational Kiddush 30 Appendix B: Hosting a Private Celebration at TBE 31 Appendix C: Resources for Hosting a Bat or Bar Mitzvah Celebration at TBE 32 Appendix D: Mitzvah Project Opportunities for TBE Bat and Bar Mitzvah Students 34 Appendix E: Usher Instructions 36 Appendix F: Additional Resources 38 For any questions or concerns not addressed within this guide, please contact Cantor Hayut. 1 Contact Us Call the Temple’s phone number: (734) 665-4744 Fax: 734-665-9237 Website: http://www.templebethemeth.org Hours: Mon-Thurs: 9am - 5pm Fri: 9am - 3pm Staff Josh Whinston, Rabbi Ext: 212 [email protected] Regina S. Lambert-Hayut, Cantor Ext: 227 [email protected] Rabbi Daniel Alter, Director of Education Ext: 207 [email protected] Clergy Assistant Ext: 210 Melissa Sigmond, Executive Director Ext: 206 [email protected] Mike Wolf, Genesis Administrator Ext: 200 [email protected] www.genesisa2.org For any questions or concerns not addressed within this guide, please contact Cantor Hayut. 2 Dear Bar and/or Bat Mitzvah Family, Mazel tov as you begin this exciting journey! The celebration of a child becoming Bat or Bar Mitzvah is one of the highlights in the life cycle of a Jewish family. -
Shalom Aleichem
Rosh Hashonah ראש־השנה 2013 / 5774 This High Holiday program was created by Boston Workmen’s Circle/Arbeter Ring 1762 Beacon Street Brookline, MA 02445-2124 617-566-6281 http://www.circleboston.org We gratefully thank countless sources and the many individuals who provided inspiring and thoughtful text, poems, art and music, contributing to this richly moving annual community event. 1 Sholom Aleykhem (Instrumental, followed by singing) Leshone Toyve. Welcome to the New Year, 5774. For thousands of years the Jewish people have celebrated the New Year with joy, hope, and thoughtful reflection. Today we are here to continue that tradition. The holidays of Rosh Hashonah and Yom Kippur provide time and space for self-examination and personal reflection. We are here to reflect on the year that has passed and open our hearts to the possibilities of the year to come. Today is a day of introspection and growth, of assessment and healing, of receptiveness and renewal. We evaluate and measure ourselves and our choices. We strive to take responsibility and to write our own destiny for the New Year. We ask: What has transpired this past year and what adjustments can we make to the next year individually, in our communities, and in the world? What do Rosh Hashonah and Yom Kippur mean to our community and to our families and ourselves? Today, we will consider these questions together, as a community. At this time, please turn and introduce yourself to someone sitting near you. If you are comfortable, join hands as we sing. Hiney Ma Tov (How Good and Pleasant It Is for People to Live Together in Unity) Hiney ma tov umanayim Shevet akhim gam yakhad Hiney ma tov umanayim Shevet akhim gam yakhad Hiney ma tov Shevet akhim gam yakhad Hiney ma tov Shevet akhim gam yakhad Oy vi gut un vi voyl es is Brider un shvester tsuzamen Oy vi gut un vi voyl es is Brider un shvester tsuzamen Oy vi voyl es iz Brider un shvester tsuzamen Oy vi voyl es iz Brider un shvester tsuzamen 2 The Names of the Holiday There are different names for the holiday we are celebrating today. -
Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 2
LET’S START PLANNING A—BAR/T MITZVAH BAT & BAR MITZVAH THE ULTIMATE MJC GUIDE FOR BAR/BAT MITZVAH Perry Raphael Rank Rabbi Joel Levenson Associate Rabbi Lisa Stein Director of Education Sandi Bettan Preschool Director Genea Moore Synagogue Administrator Michael Kohler President Howard Rosen Ritual Committee Chair Office Phone (516) 938-8390 Office Fax (516) 938-3906 E-Mail [email protected] Revised December, 2016 / Kislev, 5777 Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 2 TABLE OF CONTENTS INTRODUCTION 3 WHAT IS BAR/T MITZVAH? 3 HOW MUCH OF THE SERVICE OUR CHILDREN WILL KNOW 4 WHY WE TEACH WHAT WE TEACH 4 RABBIS' ROLES 5 THE TUTORS' ROLES 5 TIMETABLE FOR THE BAR/T MITZVAH EXPERIENCE 7 HELPING OUR CHILDREN BECOME RESPONSIBLE JEWS 7 EDUCATIONAL AND RELIGIOUS REQUIREMENTS 8 THE DIRECTIONS / DECORUM CARD 9 BAR/T MITZVAH INVITATION DISPLAY POLICY 9 HONORS 10 KIDDUSH 10 SE'UDAH SHEL MITZVAH—A MEAL EMANATING FROM A MITZVAH 10 SYNAGOGUE DECORUM 10 A TZEDAKKAH OPPORTUNITY 11 SOME TERMS YOU OUGHT TO KNOW 12 AN ALIYAH: IT’S AN HONOR -- BUT WHAT DO I DO? 18 Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 3 INTRODUCTION Is it hard to believe that your child will soon become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah? You might as well brace yourself now. That little boy or girl that just yesterday was strapped into a car seat is today getting all set for adolescence. Our children begin to go through some dramatic changes, physically and emotionally, at the age of thirteen. The rabbis were wise in choosing this age as the proper time for becoming Bar/t Mitzvah. -
HAFTARAH – Rosh Hashana Day 2 – 2017/5778 for Kolot Chayeinu/Voices of Our Lives Cynthia Greenberg / Page 1 of 6
HAFTARAH – Rosh Hashana Day 2 – 2017/5778 For Kolot Chayeinu/Voices of our Lives Cynthia Greenberg / Page 1 of 6 At this serious moment of crisis in our country, at the start of our new Jewish year, what does a middle aged, queer woman, who once had an abortion (thank you Planned Parenthood), and is a tante, an aunt, a tia, g-dmum, and stepmom, but who has no kids of her own, have to say about Hannah, and a haftarah from the books of the Prophets full of pleading with and praying to G-d to be granted a child? Hannah, who prays so sincerely and with her full heart that she becomes the paradigm for true prayer with kavannah. Hannah, who when her prayers are finally realized, and indeed she bears a child at the ripe old age of 130, then gives the child, her son Samuel, back to G-d, in gratitude and humbleness, or as some Torah interpreters tell us, with an appreciation that there is “enough for all” and perhaps she never really needed that son anyway. My first response to this harftarah – which, I confess, has not really made a huge impression on me over all these years of Rosh Hashanah observance, so much so that if you had asked me, before I began to prepare for today, who Hannah was, I would not really have been able to recall – my first response was “yuck” and “why me?” Why this tale? Why this agonizing about fertility and childbearing and the worth of women? Why yet another story about a fellow who has two wives and one of them has kids but the other doesn’t, and there are jealousies and mistreatments and resentments between them? Those stories never end well. -
The Religious Meaning of Israel Rosh Hashanah 5775 Day 1, September 25, 2014 R
The Religious Meaning of Israel Rosh Hashanah 5775 Day 1, September 25, 2014 R. Steven A. Lewis As many of you know, I went to Israel this summer for a very brief visit. At the core of it, I wanted to be there in solidarity with friends and the whole country during a difficult period. I found the article I sent out to the membership written by my friend Bonna Haberman very compelling. In this article she encouraged people who cared about Israel to express their concerns in person. She wrote that she understood it was inconvenient, but she hadn't planned to spend the summer in a bomb shelter worrying about her three sons in active duty in the army. I am so grateful that I was able to go. Another reason for the trip was to visit a friend who is battling a very serious illness. So I was also fulfilling the mitzvah of Bikor Holim, "visiting the sick." In discussing this mitzvah, the Talmud says One who visits the sick must not sit upon the bed, or on a stool or a chair, but must be respectfully dressed and sit upon the ground, because the Divine Presence rests above an invalid's bed. (Bavli Nedarim 40a) מפני שהשכינה שרויה למעלה ממטתו של חולה So those images raise the interesting question of God's location. The liturgy is inconsistent on this point, most specifically it identifies God as Shochain Yerushalyim "The One who dwells in Jerusalem," but also, in the very same passage as "the One whose presence fills all of creation." I'd like to talk about Israel today. -
Calendar of Torah and Haftarah Readings 5776 – 5778 2015 – 2018
Calendar of Torah and Haftarah Readings 5776 – 5778 2015 – 2018 Calendar of Torah and Haftarah Readings 5776-5778 CONTENTS NOTES ....................................................................................................1 DATES OF FESTIVALS .............................................................................2 CALENDAR OF TORAH AND HAFTARAH READINGS 5776-5778 ............3 GLOSSARY ........................................................................................... 29 PERSONAL NOTES ............................................................................... 31 Published by: The Movement for Reform Judaism Sternberg Centre for Judaism 80 East End Road London N3 2SY [email protected] www.reformjudaism.org.uk Copyright © 2015 Movement for Reform Judaism (Version 2) Calendar of Torah and Haftarah Readings 5776-5778 Notes: The Calendar of Torah readings follows a triennial cycle whereby in the first year of the cycle the reading is selected from the first part of the parashah, in the second year from the middle, and in the third year from the last part. Alternative selections are offered each shabbat: a shorter reading (around twenty verses) and a longer one (around thirty verses). The readings are a guide and congregations may choose to read more or less from within that part of the parashah. On certain special shabbatot, a special second (or exceptionally, third) scroll reading is read in addition to the week’s portion. Haftarah readings are chosen to parallel key elements in the section of the Torah being read and therefore vary from one year in the triennial cycle to the next. Some of the suggested haftarot are from taken from k’tuvim (Writings) rather than n’vi’ivm (Prophets). When this is the case the appropriate, adapted blessings can be found on page 245 of the MRJ siddur, Seder Ha-t’fillot. This calendar follows the Biblical definition of the length of festivals. -
Shabbat Celebrations
1495 FORD STREET · REDLANDS · CALIFORNIA · 92373 · (909) 307-0400 DECEMBER 2014 KISLEV-TEVET 5775 VOLUME XLIII - NUMBER 4 SHABBAT CELEBRATIONS Friday - December 5, 2014 SHABBAT ALIVE! Catered Shabbat Dinner at 6:00 pm - “Shabbat Alive” Service-in-the-Round at 7:00 pm Led by Rabbi Jay Sherwood and Charlie Kramer Saturday - December 6, 2014 Torah Study - 9:15 to 9:45 am - Shabbat Morning Service - 10:00 am Parashat Vayishlach - glyie zyxt - Genesis 32:4-36:43 - Haftarah - Obadiah 1:1-21 Kiddush Following the Service Friday - December 12, 2014 - 7:30 pm Naming of Juliet Emma Aceves, daughter of Jessica and James David Aceves Rabbi Cohn will speak on “The Universal Message of Chanukah” Oneg Shabbat Following the Service hosted by Cherrie Lubey, Ellen Weiss and Geraldine Schwartz in honor of the naming of Juliet Emma Aceves Saturday - December 13, 2014 Torah Study - 9:15 to 9:45 am - Shabbat Morning Service - 10:00 am Parashat Vayeshev - ayie zyxt- Genesis 37:1-40:23 - Haftarah - Amos 2:6-3:8 Kiddush Following the Service Friday - December 19, 2014 Sisterhood Chanukah Dinner including a Brief Erev Shabbat and Chanukah Service Bring Your Own Chanukah Menorah to join in the Candle-Lighting Saturday - December 20, 2014 Torah Study - 9:15 to 9:45 am - Shabbat Morning Service - 10:00 am Parashat Miketz - uwn zyxt -Genesis 41:1-44:17 - Haftarah - Zechariah 2:14-4:7 Kiddush Following the Service Friday - December 26, 2014 Cantor Bern-Vogel will speak on “Reunions” Oneg Shabbat Hostess - Cherrie Lubey Saturday - December 27, 2014 Torah Study - 9:15 to 9:45 am - Shabbat Morning Service - 10:00 am Parashat Miketz - ybie zyxt - Genesis 44:18-47:27 - Haftarah - Ezekiel 37:15-28 Kiddush Following the Service = Rabbi Cohn officiates = Cantor Bern-Vogel officiates DECEMBER 2014 PAGE 1 Cantorial Comments Rabbinic Reflections The Season of Miracles, As Chanukah approaches it is Blessings and Dedication good for us to extract from that As children we are taught holiday its important teachings. -
Kiddush for Passover Blessing Over the Wine
Kiddush for Passover Blessing over the wine Weekday Version (Sunday through Thursday nights) Blessing over the wine for the festival of Passover when the seder falls on a weekday night. The Shehecheyanu (see last page) is recited after the kiddush, immediately before drinking the wine. Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, borei p’ri hagafen. Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, asher bachar banu mikol am, v’rom’manu mikol lashon, v’kid’shanu b’mitzvotav. Vatiten lanu, Adonai Eloheinu, b’ahavah mo-adim l’simchah, chagim uz’manim l’sason, et yom Chag HaMatzot hazeh, z’man cheiruteinu, mikra kodesh, zeicher litziat Mitzrayim. Ki vanu vacharta v’otanu kidashta mikol haamim umo-adei kodsh’cha b’simchah uv’sason hinchaltanu. Baruch atah, Adonai m’kadeish Yisrael v’hazmanim. From Mishkan T’fi lah: A Reform Siddur. © 2007 by CCAR Press. All rights reserved. See more at ccarpress.org. Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Ruler of the world, Creator of the fruit of the vine. Blessed are You, Our God, Sovereign of the universe, who has chosen us from among the peoples, exalting us by hallowing us with mitzvot. In Your love, Adonai our God, You have given us feasts of gladness, and seasons of joy; this Festival of Pesach, season of our freedom, a sacred occasion, a remembrance of the Exodus from Egypt. For You have chosen us from all peoples and consecrated us to Your service, and given us the Festivals, a time of gladness and joy. Blessed are You, Adonai, who sanctifi es Israel and the Festivals. -
Young Israel of Hollywood-Ft. Lauderdale Guide to Tefillah and Halachic Times
Young Israel of Hollywood-Ft. Lauderdale Guide to Tefillah and Halachic Times Thursday, May 28th; 5th of Sivan Erev Shavuot Candle lighting 7:49p Mincha 7:55p Sunset 8:07p Nightfall: 8:46p Eruv Tavshilin should be prepared. This year, Shavuot occurs on Friday and Shabbat. We are not generally allowed to prepare on one day of a holiday for another day. However, the Rabbis permitted preparing food for Shabbat on Erev Shabbat, provided an Eruv Tavshilin is made in advance. Through the process of Eruv Tavshilin, one actually begins Shabbat preparations on Erev Yom Tov, i.e. Thursday. An Eruv Tavshilin is made on Thursday in order to permit cooking on Friday for Shabbat. An Eruv Tavshilin consists of bread (or matzah) and a cooked food such as fish, meat or a hardboiled egg. The head of the house or any other member of the household takes the plate with the cooked food and the bread or matzah (preferably in the right hand) and says: ברוך אתה ה' אלקינו מלך העולם אשר קדשנו במצותיו וצונו על מצות ערוב We then recite the Eruv Tavshilin text (in Aramaic or English) בהדין עירובא יהא שרא לנא לאפויי ולבשולי ולאטמוני ולאדלוקי שרגא ולאפוקי ולמעבד כל צרכנא מיומא טבא לשבתא “By virtue of this Eruv, we (the members of the household) shall be permitted to cook, bake, keep food warm, carry, light candles and do all preparations on Yom Tov (i.e. Friday) for Shabbat.” Even though the Eruv is made, the food for Shabbat must be fully cooked before Shabbat begins and should preferably be prepared early on Friday, while there is still much of the day left, rather than leaving the preparations for the last minute. -
Havdalah Blessings
Havdalah Blessings The Blessing over Wine or Grape Juice בָּרוְּך אַתָּ ה יְיָ, אֱֹלהֵֵֽינוּ מֵֶֽ לְֶך הָ עוֹלָם, אבּוֹרֵ יפְּרִ הַגֵָּֽפֶן. Baruch atah, Ado-nai, Elo-hay-nu melech ha'olam, boray pri hagafen. Blessed are You, G-d, our L-rd, King of the universe, Creator of the fruit of the vine. The Blessing over Spices בָּרוְּך אַתָּ ה יְיָ,אֱֹלהֵֵֽינוּ מֵֶֽ לְֶך הָ עוֹלָם, בּוֹרֵא מִ ינֵי בְשָׂמִ ים. Baruch atah, Ado-nai, Elo-hay-nu melech ha'olam, boray minay besamim. Blessed are You, G-d, our L-rd, King of the universe, Creator of the different spices. The Blessing over the Candle בָּרוְּך אַתָּ ה יְיָ,אֱֹלהֵֵֽינוּ מֵֶֽ לְֶך הָ עוֹלָם, בּוֹרֵא מְ אוֹרֵ י הָאֵ שׁ. Baruch atah, Ado-nai, Elo-hay-nu melech ha'olam, boray me'oray ha'aysh. Blessed are You, G-d, our L-rd, King of the universe, Creator of the fire's lights. The Blessing over Havdalah בָּרוְּך אַתָּ ה יְיָ,אֱֹלהֵֵֽ ינוּ מֵֶֽ לְֶך הָ עוֹלָם,הַמַּבְדִ יל בֵּיןק דֶ ֵֽ שׁלְחוֹל, בֵּין אוֹר לְחֵֽ שֶׁ ְך, בֵּין יִשְׂרָאֵ ללָעַמִּ ים, בֵּין יוֹם הַשְּׁבִ יעִ י תלְשֵֵֽׁשֶׁ ייְמֵ הַמַּ עֲשֶׂ ה. בָּרוְּך אַתָּ ה יְיָ, הַמַּבְדִ יל בֵּין ק ֵֽ דֶ שׁ לְחוֹל. Baruch atah, Ado-nai, Elo-hay-nu melech ha'olam, hamavdil bayn kodesh lechol bayn or lechoshech bayn Yisrael la'amim bayn yom hashevi'i leshayshet yemay hama'aseh. Baruch atah, Ado-nai, hamavdil bayn kodesh lechol. Blessed are You, G-d, our L-rd, King of the universe, who separates between the holy and the profane; between the light and dark; between Israel and the other nations; between the seventh day and the six days of the week.