Queer Inclusion in the United Methodist Church New Approaches in Sociology Studies in Social Inequality, Social Change, and Social Justice
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Queer Inclusion in the United Methodist Church New Approaches in Sociology Studies in Social Inequality, Social Change, and Social Justice NANCY A. NAPLES, General Editor The Social Organization of Policy Striving and Surviving An Institutional Ethnography of UN A Daily Life Analysis of Honduran Forest Deliberations Transnational Families Lauren E. Eastwood Leah Schmalzbauer The Struggle over Gay, Lesbian, Unequal Partnerships and Bisexual Rights Beyond the Rhetoric of Philanthropic Facing Off in Cincinnati Collaboration Kimberly B. Dugan Ira Silver Parenting for the State Domestic Democracy An Ethnographic Analysis of At Home in South Africa Non-Profi t Foster Care Jennifer Natalie Fish Teresa Toguchi Swartz Praxis and Politics Talking Back to Psychiatry Knowledge Production in Social The Psychiatric Consumer/ Survivor/ Movements Ex-Patient Movement Janet M. Conway Linda J. 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No part of this book may be reprinted or reproduced or utilised in any form or by any electronic, mechanical, or other means, now known or hereaf- ter invented, including photocopying and recording, or in any information storage or retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publishers. Trademark Notice: Product or corporate names may be trademarks or registered trade- marks, and are used only for identification and explanation without intent to infringe. Library of Congress Cataloging in Publication Data Udis-Kessler, Amanda, 1965– Queer inclusion in the United Methodist Church / by Amanda Udis-Kessler. p. cm. — (New approaches in sociology) Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN-13: 978-0-415-96249-0 (hbk) ISBN-10: 0-415-96249-8 (hbk) 1. Homosexuality—Religious aspects—United Methodist Church (U.S.) 2. United Methodist Church (U.S.)—Doctrines. I. Title. BX8385.H6U35 2008 287'.608664—dc22 2007052761 ISBN 0-203-89463-4 Master e-book ISBN ISBN10: 0–415–96249–8 (hbk) ISBN10: 0–203–89463–4 (ebk) ISBN13: 978–0–415–96249–0 (hbk) ISBN13: 978–0–203–89463–7 (ebk) Contents List of Tables ix Preface xi Acknowledgments xiii 1 Introduction 1 2 History and Participants 14 3 Research Methodology 42 4 General Conference 2000: Selected Field Notes 58 5 Analytic Perspectives: Culture Wars 88 6 Analytic Perspectives: Homophobia and Heterosexism 103 7 Analytic Perspectives: Social Closure 120 8 Analytic Perspectives: Contradictory Institutional Logics 139 9 Implications and Possibilities 175 Appendix 1 193 Appendix 2 195 Appendix 3 197 Notes 201 Bibliography 221 Index 239 Index of Biblical Passages 253 List of Tables 2.1 Selected Homosexuality-Related Actions in Four Denominations 38 3.1 Selected Aspects of Qualitative Research from Different Perspectives 54 5.1 Orthodoxy, Progressivism, and Positions on Homosexuality Issues Among 1996 General Conference Delegates 90 6.1 Moral Alchemy and Homosexuality: Selected Examples 111 6.2 Homosexuality and Symbolism: Selected Examples 116 9.1 U.S. Poll Data on Homosexuality 180 Preface As social institutions go, religion may be the one that contributes both the greatest good and the greatest harm to the world. At its best, religion pro- vides community, meaning and support to people in times of celebration and trouble, and it offers people a means of ordering their lives. Religious values and beliefs can enable people to take risks on behalf of healing the world, and can even provide the impetus for wanting to heal the world in the fi rst place. In short, religion can be a source of great abundance, both for individuals and society. At its worst, however, religion can create insu- lar communities that shut people out. Religion can be built on meaning systems that devalue some people, whether heathens or homosexuals, lead- ing to dehumanization and violence. The support that religion offers can require problematic levels of commitment that force practitioners to choose between the religious organization and the “outside world.” In enabling people to order their lives, religion can mandate that believers set aside reason and refl ection on their own experiences in making value judgments and choosing courses of action. Religious values and beliefs can lead people to hate and kill each other, and to be willing to destroy the world. In short, religion can be a source of great injury, both for individuals and society. The struggle of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered (“LGBT”) United Methodists for full inclusion in the United Methodist Church par- takes of both the gifts and the damages of religion, and in a book that focuses substantially on the damages I want to make sure to acknowledge my recognition of the gifts. The religious beliefs and spiritual practices of the LGBT United Methodists and their supporters clearly nourished them and enriched their lives, just as these beliefs and practices did for the other United Methodists I studied. To ignore the value of the church for United Methodists across the homosexuality struggle would be to deny the empiri- cal evidence on which sociologists must depend. Nonetheless, given the topic of this book my stance must of necessity be critical, and my focus must remain on where the church (in my estimation) has fallen short of the best that it could do. The experiences and work of John Wesley, the founder of Methodism, were centered in the idea that God’s grace is suffi cient, even given the fallen xii Preface nature of humanity. In encountering the graciousness of United Methodists over the course of my research, I have had to think hard about how ungra- cious it is to write a book criticizing a denomination for fostering social inequality. At the same time, one writes a book such as this at least in part to help the denomination and others like it think about the sexuality strug- gle in new ways. What a researcher develops as an offering to academia may simultaneously be for the religious progressive a human manifesta- tion of the “yet more light” the Holy continues to share with the world, audacious as such a claim may be. As a researcher, I offer this book to sociologists interested in how inequality can work in religious institutions. As a religious progressive, I hope this book can serve the United Methodist Church productively in some way. I remain convinced that, however pow- erful social patterns may be, there are possibilities for a different future that are yet unseen. May we fi nd our way to them soon. CLARIFYING NOTES About the title: The term “queer” in the title of this book is intended to serve as shorthand for “LGBT,” or “lesbian/gay/bisexual/transgendered.” It should be noted that the LGBT United Methodists I studied do not call themselves queer, and they eschew “queer politics.” Neither they nor I are engaged in the development of queer theory. Because it is important to describe people using language with which they feel comfortable, the remainder of the book uses “LGBT,” “lesbian,” “gay,” or “bisexual” as appropriate. I apologize to any LGBT Christians and their allies who fi nd the term “queer” offensive. About biblical references: I have used the New Revised Standard Version of the Bible for all biblical quotes. About terminology: This book focuses entirely on the United Method- ist sexuality inclusion struggle as it is occurring in the United States of America, and some of the book’s language refl ects this limitation. I abbre- viate “United States of America” to “United States,” and frequently use the terms “America,” “American,” and “Americans” to refer to the United States of America, its citizens, and its culture. Where necessary, I refer to North America, South America, or Latin America. Acknowledgments All books are joint efforts, and while I cannot individually thank everyone who played a role in bringing this one to fruition, I want to make sure the following people know how much I appreciate them. Terri Akse, Dr. Wendy Cadge, Marla Gerein, Kris Jones, Krystyna Mrozek, Dr. Carol Neel, Rev. Dr. Karen Oliveto, and Julie Stockenberg provided encouragement along the way. Dr. David Brown, Dr.