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THE ART AND SCIENCE OF SOMATIC PRAXIS INCORPORATING US ASSOCIATION FOR BODY PSYCHOTHERAPY JOURNAL volume thirteen ● number two ● fall 2014 E UROPEAN EABP A SSOCIATION FOR B ODY- P SYCHOTHERAPY International Body Psychotherapy Journal Australia; Linda Marks, USA; Elizabeth Marshall, Germany; The Art and Science of Somatic Praxis Susan McConnell, USA; Mark Rackelman, Germany; Marjorie Rand, PhD, USA; Professor Frank Röhricht, UK; (formerly US Association for Body Psychotherapy Journal) Bernhard Schlage, Germany; Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar, PhD, Israel/UK; Talia Shafir, USA; Homayoun Shahri, PhD, USA; The International Body Psychotherapy Journal (IBPJ) is Kathrin Stauffer, PhD, UK; Laura Steckler, PhD, UK; Sharon a peer-reviewed, online journal, published twice a year in Stopforth, Canada; Maurizio Stupiggia, Italy; Jennifer Tantia, spring and fall. It is a collaborative publication of the United USA; Nick Totton, UK; Courtenay Young, UK. 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USA; Regina Hochmair, Austria; Inge Joachim, Germany; Publishers: USABP [email protected] www.usabp.org Rubens Kignel, Brazil; Serbia; René Kostka, Switzerland; EABP [email protected] www.eabp.org Rae Johnson, PhD, USA; Edmund Knighton, PhD, USA; IBPJ www.ibpj.org 2 Daniel Lewis, USA; Mark Ludwig, USA; Narelle McKenzie, 3 ASAF ROLEF BEN-SHAHAR, PHD SOMATIC COLLOQUIUM: EMBODIED RELATING Somatic Colloquium: Embodied Relating BIOGRAPHY Introduction Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar is the Director of the Body Psychotherapy Programme at the Israeli Centre for Body-Mind Medicine, Ramat-Hasharon and The Israeli Centre for Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar, PhD* Group Coaching, Shoham. Asaf is a father of two lovely girls, a husband, and a relational psychotherapist, integrating body psychotherapy and trancework in his clinical work. He has International Body Psychotherapy Journal The Art and Science of Somatic Praxis published papers on body psychotherapy, hypnosis, trauma and relational psychotherapy. Volume 13, Number 2 autumn 2014 I pp 86-87. SSN 2169-4745 Printing, ISSN 2168-1279 Online © Author and USABP/EABP. Reprints and permissions [email protected] He practices in Israel and teaches in a variety of clinical and academic settings in Israel and Europe. Aside from his professional career, he enjoys music, watching wildlife and getting new tattoos. Contact: Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar, Ph.D., Email: [email protected] Website: www.imt.co.il. Big bodies interest me — by which I don’t mean heavy-built people, but big bodies – families, organisations, communities. The body of our community as body psychotherapists THE ART AND SCIENCE OF SOMATIC PRAXIS THE ART AND SCIENCE OF SOMATIC PRAXIS has a painful history of ostracising and marginalising. It often had to fight for its right to exist alongside the more mainstream therapeutic modalities. Reich and the first generation of his students had to struggle to be acknowledged as legitimate theoreticians and clinicians, and we are fortunate to be living in a different era. Most psychoanalytic journals are not only addressing the body in psychotherapy, but also relating to somatic methodologies of working with the body in therapy. Looking at the body psychotherapeutic community I am left wondering about the body that we are; what kind of body do we have? Sadly, it feels that we are oftentimes fragmented and isolated — that even within body-psychotherapy there exists a lot of segregation, dissociation, and primarily, lack of rigorous interdisciplinary dialogue. We at the IBPJ wanted to help us embody our communal body by facilitating interdisciplinary discussions through a platform for clinicians from different modalities to share their thoughts and feelings about themes that concern us all. This colloquium is the first dialogue in what we hope to be many. We have asked Nick Totton to write about embodied relating, the connection between being bodies and being in relationships, from his own theoretical and clinical stance, Embodied Relational Therapy (ERT). Following Totton’s lucid foundation of his ideas and understanding, we have asked four leading figures in the field of body psychotherapy to each write a responding paper, INTERNATIONAL BODY PSYCHOTHERAPY JOURNAL PSYCHOTHERAPY BODY INTERNATIONAL dialoguing with Totton’s. Finally, Totton has shortly commented about those responses. JOURNAL PSYCHOTHERAPY BODY INTERNATIONAL The four respondents are David Boadella, founder of Biosynthesis; Stanley Keleman, pioneer of Formative Psychology; Will Davis, who created Functional Analysis; and Akira Ikemi, one of the most senior clinicians in Focusing Oriented